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So as I was saying, the family that's over there in this other city, someone passes on,

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they knew about it a week prior, and never said anything to the other family that's scattered

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around the world.

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Until a week later, can you imagine knowing, being part of a family, I could never, if

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someone passed on this end, oh my god, like after the shock of it all, you know, a day,

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a two, two days maximum, or even right away, we're the type of people, right away.

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Nobody passes, I'm notifying the entire damn family immediately, like this is insanity,

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right?

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We found out a week later.

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So talking about forgiveness, at first, I went off and thought, you blah, blah, blah,

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blah, blah, blah, blah, right?

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I've got to have my quick rant, get it out of my system.

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But that's just me, and if that ends up working good for you, go for it, because you got to

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get it out.

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So I was, you know, how dare that person, and of course I use different words that were

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more colourful.

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So I went off on a rant, and it must have been a good, I don't know, two, three hours

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or what have you.

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Finally, thankfully, I snapped out of it, I grabbed a glass of vino, I had a bubble bath,

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and I'm sitting in the tub with my wine, thinking, you know, you feel so relaxed in the tub,

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right?

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It just kind of melts all that negativity and heaviness away, right?

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So I thought to myself, oh my God, I could sit here and waste all my great energy on

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being pissed off at why this, why that, why didn't, why didn't, you know what I mean?

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Who didn't, why didn't they, blah, blah, blah, blah.

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Why?

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What are they going to get?

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The person's deceased.

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What's the difference?

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They're gone.

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So just let it go, forgive, which I had, and now we're all going to be going over there,

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and this is going to be like, it's sad to say it like this, but it's going to be like

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a reunion at the same time.

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We haven't been under one roof together for so many years.

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You know, that's not cool.

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When you're family, you're family, period.

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Do you know what I mean?

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When you're family, you're family.

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You're there for each other.

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So anyway, long story short, I let that shit go as fast as I possibly could, and I knew

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a tub would make me happy and a glass of vino this afternoon, I thought, why not?

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That would make me happy, and as soon as I got in, it all melted away and thought, I'm

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not wasting another moment on this negativity.

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It's not changing anything, right?

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The person's gone.

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It's why?

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Why is this even part of the equation?

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So I let it go, I forgave immediately, and I'm fine, and we're all talking now, and we're

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all going to be under one roof soon, and that's going to be such a beautiful moment.

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Yes, it's very unfortunate that, you know, due to undue circumstances that we're actually

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getting together, it's not, right?

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It's not over the best of times, let's just say that.

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That's how important forgiveness is.

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You just don't waste another moment.

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You can go back enjoying life and being happy instead of getting stuck in that.

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So easy to get in there.

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It's very hard to get out sometimes, right?

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Good friends, good family, people you trust can help you with that, or you just give it

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your 100%, all in.

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You got this.

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You're strong.

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You're powerful.

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You're protected and you're loved.

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Anyway, that's all I wanted to say, but forgiveness, so important.

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There's way too many people right now around the world that just dislike each other, and

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most don't even know why.

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They're just following the news trend and, oh God.

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How many of you heard my first episode titled forgiveness who have actually gone out and

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forgave someone?

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And if you did, let me know.

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Let me know how, when.

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I'm curious.

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Excuse me.

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I'm really curious.

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But you have to always forgive yourself first.

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You know that.

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You got to go through that dark night of the soul, right?

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You got to heal.

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Then you forgive.

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When you forgive, you never mention it again.

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Okay, I have to go because it's bedtime.

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Have a great evening, everyone.

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Please forgive one person, and if it went really well and there's more, keep spreading

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that love, keep spreading that love around the world because we need that right now.

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We need it so desperately.

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There's too much hate.

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There's no more trust amongst people, amongst each other, right?

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I only go on what I hear.

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I don't watch the news.

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People tell me things that's going on in the news.

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Did you hear this?

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Did you hear that?

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No, I didn't.

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What's going on?

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I hear it and go, oh, that's shitty, and then move on.

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Do something that makes me feel good.

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Keep me on the right path.

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Keep me positive.

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Keep me happy.

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And keep your life private.

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But forgive.

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Forgive.

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It'll set you free.

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Talk about freedom in a different form.

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It'll set you free.

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You're going to feel so light, so beautiful, so happy, so content, so rested.

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Who doesn't want to feel that?

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That's crazy, and it will.

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It'll give you a huge sense of freedom because when you hang on to negativity and don't forgive

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somebody, believe it or not, you're holding on to that, whether you know it or not.

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Your body becomes more tense.

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Sicknesses can happen.

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It's fucking insane.

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So do yourself a favour.

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Heal from any pain.

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Love yourself.

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Get your boundaries up and forgive.

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After you've forgiven yourself, you can move to forgive someone else.

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It's up to them whether they want to accept it or not.

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And if they don't, that's not your monkey.

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That's not your circus.

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You just walk away and say, I wish you well, and keep sending them love and light and healing,

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man, and strength and courage.

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We need more love around the world.

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We know that.

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Forgive.

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Everybody just fucking forgive each other.

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Let's go back and let's take control over this world again.

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Right?

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The news is dictating us.

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We are fucking become puppets and shit like that.

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Those people will get their karma for fucking with people's lives.

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Believe you me.

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Believe you me.

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I'm just going to sit back and keep reaping my rewards.

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Because I've forgiven everybody I needed to.

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It wasn't easy.

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It took me three years.

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Three years.

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That's a long time.

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That's insanity.

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Yeah.

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And once you do it, you're going to feel so beautiful.

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You're going to feel free.

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Anyway, continue to remember to forgive, please.

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I love you.