1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:06,400 Hey guys, it's me again. 2 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:11,360 Out of all the things that I've been chatting about, which seems almost repetitive, but 3 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:13,400 I throw different things in there at the same time. 4 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:24,100 If you've heard any of my recordings, I talk a lot about knowing your worth. 5 00:00:24,100 --> 00:00:25,720 So I went out today for lunch. 6 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:26,720 I went to work. 7 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:34,440 I went out for lunch and I heard this woman beside me, not that I was trying to eavesdrop, 8 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:35,960 but she was right beside me. 9 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:40,320 I mean, how can you not hear it, right? 10 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:48,120 So she's talking to her girlfriend saying how badly her boyfriend treats her and how 11 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:53,080 she hates her job and she can't afford to get out now and to be on her own because they 12 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:57,400 live together, etc., etc., etc. 13 00:00:57,400 --> 00:00:58,880 I couldn't help myself. 14 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:07,600 I introduced myself to her and said, excuse me, I didn't mean to overhear your conversation 15 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:08,600 or listen to it. 16 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:13,760 I'm just sitting here by myself and you're sitting right next to me so it's pretty difficult 17 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:14,760 not to hear it. 18 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:17,800 And she chuckled and said, yeah, I get it. 19 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:26,400 I said, you know, I'd like to give you words of wisdom, some advice if you'll take it. 20 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:29,040 I'm well over 50. 21 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:33,600 I've lived numerous lives. 22 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:41,640 The lessons I have learned in my life have been intense, like hard as fuck. 23 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:42,840 Okay? 24 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:45,960 And when you do learn lessons, you'll understand. 25 00:01:45,960 --> 00:01:50,160 And you know, like if you've gone through that process, you'll get it. 26 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:51,280 You'll understand what I'm saying. 27 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:53,920 For those that haven't, it's tough. 28 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:56,720 You got to be strong as fuck to go through this. 29 00:01:56,720 --> 00:02:01,640 But in the end, wow, your life is going to be so blessed, man. 30 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:11,040 I'm telling you, I couldn't be happier and I live in absolute utter peace. 31 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:14,120 Peace. 32 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:20,160 The shit that's going around in the world right now and I live in full on fucking peace. 33 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:22,160 I love my life. 34 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:25,800 I am so grateful for my life. 35 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:29,360 So back to this girl. 36 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:39,920 I said to her, you know, I hear your other is, you know, your significant other is mistreating 37 00:02:39,920 --> 00:02:40,920 you. 38 00:02:40,920 --> 00:02:45,400 I don't need to ask you any details and stuff because it doesn't matter what it is. 39 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:47,760 If he's mistreating you, he's mistreating you. 40 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:52,000 There's no better or worse mistreatment. 41 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,400 Mistreatment is mistreatment. 42 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:56,560 Disrespect is disrespect. 43 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:58,020 Right? 44 00:02:58,020 --> 00:03:01,920 So I said to her, get out. 45 00:03:01,920 --> 00:03:03,160 Leave him. 46 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:07,360 If you're scared to leave him, like if he's physically abusive or whatever, again, I don't 47 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:08,440 want to know your story. 48 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:12,920 I'm just here to guide you. 49 00:03:12,920 --> 00:03:17,640 You can go ahead and expand and tell me everything if you want. 50 00:03:17,640 --> 00:03:21,640 But it boils down to one thing. 51 00:03:21,640 --> 00:03:23,320 Respect. 52 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:26,320 So back to that word. 53 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:34,840 If somebody respected you, I mean thoroughly respected who you authentically are, you will 54 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:39,640 never encounter a bad relationship in your life. 55 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:48,960 You will find the right one and won't have to go through how many dates, how many relationships, 56 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:55,920 how many breakups, how many divorces, how many separations, how much heartache are we 57 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:57,200 going to endure? 58 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:59,720 Why do we do this to our fucking selves? 59 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:03,400 So OK, I tell her he doesn't respect you. 60 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:06,280 Clearly, he doesn't respect you. 61 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:07,360 OK? 62 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:10,480 If he respected you, he wouldn't raise his hand at you. 63 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:12,320 He wouldn't raise his voice at you. 64 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:14,240 He wouldn't call you names. 65 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:16,880 He wouldn't yell at you for whatever reason. 66 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:19,360 And when I say he, it could be a she. 67 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:22,120 I'm getting really tired of having to fucking do this. 68 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:24,480 You guys know what I'm talking about. 69 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:30,640 Maybe I'm saying he because her significant other half happens to be a him. 70 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:34,480 And I had a him in the past. 71 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:37,840 So I'm totally understanding where she's coming from. 72 00:04:37,840 --> 00:04:39,200 I've been there. 73 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:40,840 I've done it. 74 00:04:40,840 --> 00:04:42,520 I've had and this is what I was telling her. 75 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:47,960 I've had the physical abuse, the mental abuse, the fucking verbal abuse. 76 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:49,120 OK? 77 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:51,800 I can tell you stories that will make your fucking head spin. 78 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:56,400 And I'm sure there's other people out there, many, that have stories that can make our 79 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:57,920 head spin. 80 00:04:57,920 --> 00:04:59,840 I'm not special. 81 00:04:59,840 --> 00:05:01,160 This girl isn't special. 82 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:05,400 But if she was, she's you know what I mean? 83 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:06,680 I don't have to go. 84 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:07,800 Well, she's special. 85 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:11,800 But you guys get what I'm talking about. 86 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:14,160 I said to her, he doesn't respect you. 87 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:15,160 He wouldn't. 88 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:19,660 He wouldn't mistreat you in any way if he respected you. 89 00:05:19,660 --> 00:05:21,720 Think of that word. 90 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:23,080 Right? 91 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:24,080 Respect. 92 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:25,820 It's fucking powerful. 93 00:05:25,820 --> 00:05:26,820 Like ego. 94 00:05:26,820 --> 00:05:29,240 Ego is. 95 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:30,400 That's the wrong. 96 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:31,520 That's not powerful. 97 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:35,720 But it's powerful because it can ruin people's lives. 98 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:36,720 I know. 99 00:05:36,720 --> 00:05:37,720 There I go again. 100 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:39,580 I'm always getting off subject. 101 00:05:39,580 --> 00:05:41,880 But always revert back. 102 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:44,040 So I said to her, he doesn't respect you. 103 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:46,240 Therefore he doesn't truly love you. 104 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:48,500 Why would you want to be with somebody like that? 105 00:05:48,500 --> 00:05:50,840 Know your worth. 106 00:05:50,840 --> 00:05:52,400 Find out who you are. 107 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:56,600 Because there's a lot of people out there that I know that are fake as fuck. 108 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:57,600 OK? 109 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:01,000 I'm not talking fake as fuck. 110 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:02,360 They don't know who they are. 111 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:04,160 They're just puppets. 112 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:05,160 They're followers. 113 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:09,840 They're not leaders. 114 00:06:09,840 --> 00:06:13,800 It took me years. 115 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:17,920 The last one did me right in. 116 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:19,720 And this is what I was telling her. 117 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:23,560 I'm still talking to her saying, he didn't respect you. 118 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:24,560 I've been there. 119 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:25,560 I've done it. 120 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:27,520 My last one did me right in. 121 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:32,880 I went through such a fucking transformation so fast. 122 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:38,120 It seemed fast, but it felt like it was taking forever, if that makes sense. 123 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:40,360 Think about those. 124 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:42,600 It was tough. 125 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:45,840 It was painful. 126 00:06:45,840 --> 00:06:48,400 But I went right to fucking God. 127 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:51,440 You know, I wasn't really a God believer or anything like that. 128 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:52,440 And I'm like, that's it. 129 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:53,440 Fuck it. 130 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:56,980 This is my last time, man, that this shit's going to happen. 131 00:06:56,980 --> 00:07:00,720 I just started praying my fucking ass off, man. 132 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:07,060 And to each their own, whoever you believe in, pray to them, right? 133 00:07:07,060 --> 00:07:10,840 So I said to her, leave him. 134 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:20,000 I promise you, not only are you going to be okay, your life is going to get better tenfold. 135 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:26,800 You're going to start seeing blessings come into your life that you prayed for forever. 136 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:32,960 Things like that, things you were manifesting will start happening. 137 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:34,720 She said, I'm too afraid. 138 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:36,560 It's expensive out there, rent. 139 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:40,360 I said, okay, so what you do is you stay at your job. 140 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:43,040 If you stayed at your job, can you afford it on your own? 141 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:46,780 Or are you thinking that you're going to get rid of him and your job at the same time? 142 00:07:46,780 --> 00:07:49,160 That wouldn't be wise. 143 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:53,560 Keep your job so you have an income coming in, right? 144 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:58,000 Wake up in the morning and say, wow, thanks, universe, for waking me up today because they 145 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:04,520 got a choice to take your life whenever the fuck they want. 146 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:10,520 We live in the universe. 147 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:18,160 So I just went off to her and I and I said at the end, forgive me for my bluntness and 148 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:26,320 for sticking my nose in your business, but I guarantee you 100% that if you get out of 149 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:34,880 a toxic situation like that, any toxic situation, when you walk away from that and don't turn 150 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:42,600 back, the universe is going to look at you with a whole lot more respect and is going 151 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:51,480 to bless you for making that difficult decision and change in your life. 152 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:55,240 I had to keep pushing and pushing and pushing. 153 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:59,600 The universe kept throwing me test after test after test. 154 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:02,160 It was hard. 155 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:05,880 It was very hard. 156 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:09,540 I mean, I'm a very strong individual. 157 00:09:09,540 --> 00:09:17,040 I truly am, but to go through tests from the universe, it was maybe difficult because I 158 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:19,440 never put myself first. 159 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:22,400 I always put the man that I dated first. 160 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:23,880 I over gave. 161 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:29,160 I cut the grass, shoveled the sidewalks, shoveled the driveway, did the cooking, the grocery 162 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:32,640 shopping, worked, paid the mortgage like fuck. 163 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:38,160 The only thing I didn't do was wipe his ass. 164 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:43,840 And the universe went right to this split in this relationship that I thought this one's 165 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:44,840 the one. 166 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:45,840 That's it. 167 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:50,800 This one is the one. 168 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:52,800 Excuse me. 169 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:55,200 Yep. 170 00:09:55,200 --> 00:10:01,560 Well what the universe did was come and just break up that fucking relationship in an instant. 171 00:10:01,560 --> 00:10:04,760 You couldn't blink that fast. 172 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:11,760 First thing, I'm, man listen, I'm going to tell you guys stories, but I, so long as I'll 173 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:14,200 keep going on, so I'm going to stop right there. 174 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:19,520 But I said to her, I guarantee you 100%, you're going to be so much happier. 175 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:22,240 Your good things are going to start happening in your life. 176 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:25,120 You're going to gain that respect of yourself. 177 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:26,620 Right? 178 00:10:26,620 --> 00:10:31,960 You're going to become strong, confident, independent. 179 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:33,760 Right? 180 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:37,320 A woman that is single is very strong. 181 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:40,520 A man that is single is very strong. 182 00:10:40,520 --> 00:10:43,720 They know their worth. 183 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:45,640 First know who you are. 184 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:49,400 You truly authentically are. 185 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:53,900 You could be a bookworm or it doesn't fucking matter. 186 00:10:53,900 --> 00:10:58,620 You will attract, be your true self and you, the universe is going to bring in like-minded 187 00:10:58,620 --> 00:11:00,840 friends that there's no judgment. 188 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:02,500 There's no bullshit. 189 00:11:02,500 --> 00:11:03,500 It's just shit. 190 00:11:03,500 --> 00:11:04,500 It's a drama. 191 00:11:04,500 --> 00:11:07,800 It's a great, it's great fucking nine. 192 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:09,800 Okay? 193 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:14,440 Again, I'm well over my 50s. 194 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:16,000 Learned that one the hard way. 195 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:20,800 So the universe came in, separated us and fuck there was so many tests. 196 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:25,240 If I would go back, if I would go back, if I would go back, I will tell you that story 197 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:29,180 one day. 198 00:11:29,180 --> 00:11:30,840 So that was all I said to her. 199 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:36,680 I apologized for sticking my nose where it didn't belong. 200 00:11:36,680 --> 00:11:39,020 But I said, I think you need to hear that. 201 00:11:39,020 --> 00:11:42,440 You needed to hear that. 202 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:44,560 Figure out who you truly are. 203 00:11:44,560 --> 00:11:49,480 Not what, like, of course you're going to focus on what you want too. 204 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:52,160 You're manifesting hopefully good things. 205 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:55,360 Because if you're manifesting bad, you're a fucking idiot. 206 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:56,360 Okay? 207 00:11:56,360 --> 00:11:57,860 And you're going to get fucking karma. 208 00:11:57,860 --> 00:12:04,240 So that's all there is to say about that. 209 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:05,240 Find out who you are. 210 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:08,640 Dig deep, deep, deep, deep, deep, man, because the universe is going to change you. 211 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:11,300 I changed so much. 212 00:12:11,300 --> 00:12:18,640 My appearance, my taste, the way I speak, habits are gone. 213 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:23,200 I'm telling you, I live in such fucking peace. 214 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:25,680 Because I took my power back. 215 00:12:25,680 --> 00:12:31,760 I didn't do the fuck you asshole, fuck you and go around and blab to everybody. 216 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:33,620 I kept my mouth shut. 217 00:12:33,620 --> 00:12:39,840 And whatever happened from that from that moment on of being back on my own. 218 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:45,260 Nobody knows anything about my life. 219 00:12:45,260 --> 00:12:47,120 Why should they? 220 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:49,360 It's your life. 221 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:52,120 Why does everybody go on? 222 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:55,000 I don't know all of them, man, because I'm not on social media. 223 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:57,160 I don't fucking. 224 00:12:57,160 --> 00:13:00,760 I'm starting this now because my insides are about to explode. 225 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:03,000 I really want to help people out there. 226 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:05,840 I want to help people that are very unhappy in their jobs. 227 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:10,840 I want to help people that are going through bad relationships to help them teach them 228 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:18,020 guide them how to know your worth. 229 00:13:18,020 --> 00:13:21,080 I didn't go for three fucking years you guys. 230 00:13:21,080 --> 00:13:22,080 Okay? 231 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:28,840 I was a fucking hermit for three years going through the heartache, the heart pain, the 232 00:13:28,840 --> 00:13:33,840 why why me, why this, why that, the da da da da. 233 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:42,240 And I just started praying and everything I've prayed for has come true. 234 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:48,240 I would have never thought. 235 00:13:48,240 --> 00:13:51,040 Seriously. 236 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:57,080 So anyway, I just left her with that and said, run, keep your job so you've got an income 237 00:13:57,080 --> 00:14:00,240 coming. 238 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:01,240 But run. 239 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:05,280 And if he's physically abusive to you, don't tell him. 240 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:09,840 You just leave. 241 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:10,840 You know what I mean? 242 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:11,840 Just leave. 243 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:15,320 Leave when he's not there. 244 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:17,520 And don't look back. 245 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:20,680 Change your fucking cell number. 246 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:24,520 Do whatever you got to do, but leave. 247 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:29,960 Don't be scared. 248 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:31,660 Don't fear fear. 249 00:14:31,660 --> 00:14:33,160 There's no fear. 250 00:14:33,160 --> 00:14:38,240 If you've done good, you got your angels, you got the fucking universe, you got God 251 00:14:38,240 --> 00:14:42,120 all battling for you. 252 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:45,880 All they want you to do is just enjoy life. 253 00:14:45,880 --> 00:14:48,000 Leave this rest of the shit to them. 254 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:49,440 Follow your intuition. 255 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:51,440 Know who you are. 256 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:56,280 Be your real self and love yourself. 257 00:14:56,280 --> 00:15:02,760 And when you've got that confidence and that strength, fuck me, man. 258 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:05,080 You got it all. 259 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:06,360 You're gonna have your boundaries up. 260 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:12,080 You're not going to take shit from nobody. 261 00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:15,960 You know, she said to me, she said, you're right. 262 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:17,320 I know I would be happier. 263 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:19,920 I'm just scared to leave. 264 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:23,160 And I said, what are you afraid of? 265 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:27,880 And she said, first, I don't think he can be on his own and survive. 266 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:29,360 I said, well, that's not your problem. 267 00:15:29,360 --> 00:15:30,920 That's his problem. 268 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:36,220 He's got to go through his shit to grow, to become better. 269 00:15:36,220 --> 00:15:38,040 He's clearly not happy. 270 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:40,040 Do you want to be with somebody who's not happy? 271 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:41,960 Your life's not going to go anywhere. 272 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:43,940 Just in the gutter. 273 00:15:43,940 --> 00:15:48,460 Or do you want to be happy? 274 00:15:48,460 --> 00:15:54,200 If you want to be happy, do things that make you happy and be around the people that make 275 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:56,360 you feel good. 276 00:15:56,360 --> 00:15:58,640 Okay? 277 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:01,800 Don't try to fake to get into some group or whatever. 278 00:16:01,800 --> 00:16:02,800 Fuck that. 279 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:03,800 They got shit to work on. 280 00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:07,960 They're in grade nine, remember? 281 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:16,000 Anyway, I think she's going to do it. 282 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:18,120 I gave her my cell number. 283 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:19,720 I don't even know this woman. 284 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:23,880 I gave her my cell number, and I'm not going to do this all the time. 285 00:16:23,880 --> 00:16:28,120 You don't want to get involved in people's shit, but I want to help her. 286 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:31,960 I want to help her. 287 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:33,380 That's why I'm doing this. 288 00:16:33,380 --> 00:16:36,680 I want to help people. 289 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:41,240 I want to help people love themselves and be their real selves again. 290 00:16:41,240 --> 00:16:45,080 There's a lot of fake shit that's been going on in the world for so long now. 291 00:16:45,080 --> 00:16:49,440 It's like, hey everybody, let's get back to ourselves now. 292 00:16:49,440 --> 00:16:53,020 Let's really know who we are, what we like, what we don't like. 293 00:16:53,020 --> 00:16:54,020 Get your boundaries up. 294 00:16:54,020 --> 00:16:55,160 Know your worth. 295 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:56,200 Love yourself. 296 00:16:56,200 --> 00:17:01,440 When you love yourself, you don't let idiots approach you. 297 00:17:01,440 --> 00:17:02,440 You know what I mean? 298 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:05,400 You just don't have the time for shit like that anymore. 299 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:10,760 You've surpassed that level. 300 00:17:10,760 --> 00:17:12,880 So anyway, maybe she'll be hearing this. 301 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:13,880 I don't know. 302 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:17,360 I didn't tell her that I have this. 303 00:17:17,360 --> 00:17:21,240 Maybe this is a way I could communicate with her. 304 00:17:21,240 --> 00:17:25,160 I don't know, but I just know that she's going to be fine. 305 00:17:25,160 --> 00:17:26,360 I know it. 306 00:17:26,360 --> 00:17:32,580 She's going to be just fine. 307 00:17:32,580 --> 00:17:36,420 So anyway, that's all I have to say about that for now. 308 00:17:36,420 --> 00:17:41,080 You guys, if you have any questions, I'm not a doctor. 309 00:17:41,080 --> 00:17:42,680 I want everybody to know that. 310 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:43,680 I'm not a doctor. 311 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:47,880 I'm not a therapist of any sort, of any kind. 312 00:17:47,880 --> 00:17:49,520 I'm not a marriage counselor. 313 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:57,480 I'm just an older woman who has endured a lot of bullshit in my life. 314 00:17:57,480 --> 00:18:01,340 And to go from that and finally say, that's it. 315 00:18:01,340 --> 00:18:02,560 Now I know my worth. 316 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:03,560 Now it's about me. 317 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:05,800 Fuck these fools. 318 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:08,000 I'm not pouring into them anymore. 319 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:09,960 It's my turn. 320 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:12,480 Okay? 321 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:15,200 But it's a give and take. 322 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:19,920 And when you have the it's my turn, don't have an ego. 323 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:22,880 That's a dangerous combination right there. 324 00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:24,720 That's not going to get you anywhere. 325 00:18:24,720 --> 00:18:26,400 Trust me. 326 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:33,080 Stay grounded and stay happy. 327 00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:39,920 Stay with, you know, stay, keep, keep love in your heart. 328 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:40,920 Open your heart. 329 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:45,160 You don't have to blob going that fucking asshole, that fucking bitch. 330 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:46,420 You don't have to do that. 331 00:18:46,420 --> 00:18:48,000 It's not going to get you anywhere. 332 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:52,600 Get off that mindset now because you've gotten off that negative path. 333 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:56,320 Now it's, oh yeah, I'm getting this place and I don't care. 334 00:18:56,320 --> 00:19:00,840 What it looks like at first, as long as I got a roof over my head, I got heat, I got 335 00:19:00,840 --> 00:19:04,420 clothes and I got food. 336 00:19:04,420 --> 00:19:07,280 That's all you need. 337 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:10,000 Fuck the friends, fuck the whatever, because you're going to start changing. 338 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:14,960 You're going to start elevating, being on your own, knowing your worth, loving yourself, 339 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:21,240 knowing what you're capable of and you know what you deserve. 340 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:24,120 You just start manifesting that fucking shit, man. 341 00:19:24,120 --> 00:19:25,120 Praying, whatever. 342 00:19:25,120 --> 00:19:34,400 I guarantee you, 100%, you will get what you want if you're a good person. 343 00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:38,200 Anyway, that's it. 344 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:41,600 I will check in with you guys later. 345 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:46,460 I send you all so much love. 346 00:19:46,460 --> 00:19:48,260 Try it. 347 00:19:48,260 --> 00:19:49,260 Try it. 348 00:19:49,260 --> 00:19:53,800 If something's not working for you, just do something different. 349 00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:56,720 Get out and get a new place, whatever it is. 350 00:19:56,720 --> 00:19:58,760 Trust me, you're going to be just fine. 351 00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:24,960 I love you.