Hey guys, it's me again.
Out of all the things that I've been chatting about, which seems almost repetitive, but
I throw different things in there at the same time.
If you've heard any of my recordings, I talk a lot about knowing your worth.
So I went out today for lunch.
I went to work.
I went out for lunch and I heard this woman beside me, not that I was trying to eavesdrop,
but she was right beside me.
I mean, how can you not hear it, right?
So she's talking to her girlfriend saying how badly her boyfriend treats her and how
she hates her job and she can't afford to get out now and to be on her own because they
live together, etc., etc., etc.
I couldn't help myself.
I introduced myself to her and said, excuse me, I didn't mean to overhear your conversation
or listen to it.
I'm just sitting here by myself and you're sitting right next to me so it's pretty difficult
not to hear it.
And she chuckled and said, yeah, I get it.
I said, you know, I'd like to give you words of wisdom, some advice if you'll take it.
I'm well over 50.
I've lived numerous lives.
The lessons I have learned in my life have been intense, like hard as fuck.
Okay?
And when you do learn lessons, you'll understand.
And you know, like if you've gone through that process, you'll get it.
You'll understand what I'm saying.
For those that haven't, it's tough.
You got to be strong as fuck to go through this.
But in the end, wow, your life is going to be so blessed, man.
I'm telling you, I couldn't be happier and I live in absolute utter peace.
Peace.
The shit that's going around in the world right now and I live in full on fucking peace.
I love my life.
I am so grateful for my life.
So back to this girl.
I said to her, you know, I hear your other is, you know, your significant other is mistreating
you.
I don't need to ask you any details and stuff because it doesn't matter what it is.
If he's mistreating you, he's mistreating you.
There's no better or worse mistreatment.
Mistreatment is mistreatment.
Disrespect is disrespect.
Right?
So I said to her, get out.
Leave him.
If you're scared to leave him, like if he's physically abusive or whatever, again, I don't
want to know your story.
I'm just here to guide you.
You can go ahead and expand and tell me everything if you want.
But it boils down to one thing.
Respect.
So back to that word.
If somebody respected you, I mean thoroughly respected who you authentically are, you will
never encounter a bad relationship in your life.
You will find the right one and won't have to go through how many dates, how many relationships,
how many breakups, how many divorces, how many separations, how much heartache are we
going to endure?
Why do we do this to our fucking selves?
So OK, I tell her he doesn't respect you.
Clearly, he doesn't respect you.
OK?
If he respected you, he wouldn't raise his hand at you.
He wouldn't raise his voice at you.
He wouldn't call you names.
He wouldn't yell at you for whatever reason.
And when I say he, it could be a she.
I'm getting really tired of having to fucking do this.
You guys know what I'm talking about.
Maybe I'm saying he because her significant other half happens to be a him.
And I had a him in the past.
So I'm totally understanding where she's coming from.
I've been there.
I've done it.
I've had and this is what I was telling her.
I've had the physical abuse, the mental abuse, the fucking verbal abuse.
OK?
I can tell you stories that will make your fucking head spin.
And I'm sure there's other people out there, many, that have stories that can make our
head spin.
I'm not special.
This girl isn't special.
But if she was, she's you know what I mean?
I don't have to go.
Well, she's special.
But you guys get what I'm talking about.
I said to her, he doesn't respect you.
He wouldn't.
He wouldn't mistreat you in any way if he respected you.
Think of that word.
Right?
Respect.
It's fucking powerful.
Like ego.
Ego is.
That's the wrong.
That's not powerful.
But it's powerful because it can ruin people's lives.
I know.
There I go again.
I'm always getting off subject.
But always revert back.
So I said to her, he doesn't respect you.
Therefore he doesn't truly love you.
Why would you want to be with somebody like that?
Know your worth.
Find out who you are.
Because there's a lot of people out there that I know that are fake as fuck.
OK?
I'm not talking fake as fuck.
They don't know who they are.
They're just puppets.
They're followers.
They're not leaders.
It took me years.
The last one did me right in.
And this is what I was telling her.
I'm still talking to her saying, he didn't respect you.
I've been there.
I've done it.
My last one did me right in.
I went through such a fucking transformation so fast.
It seemed fast, but it felt like it was taking forever, if that makes sense.
Think about those.
It was tough.
It was painful.
But I went right to fucking God.
You know, I wasn't really a God believer or anything like that.
And I'm like, that's it.
Fuck it.
This is my last time, man, that this shit's going to happen.
I just started praying my fucking ass off, man.
And to each their own, whoever you believe in, pray to them, right?
So I said to her, leave him.
I promise you, not only are you going to be okay, your life is going to get better tenfold.
You're going to start seeing blessings come into your life that you prayed for forever.
Things like that, things you were manifesting will start happening.
She said, I'm too afraid.
It's expensive out there, rent.
I said, okay, so what you do is you stay at your job.
If you stayed at your job, can you afford it on your own?
Or are you thinking that you're going to get rid of him and your job at the same time?
That wouldn't be wise.
Keep your job so you have an income coming in, right?
Wake up in the morning and say, wow, thanks, universe, for waking me up today because they
got a choice to take your life whenever the fuck they want.
We live in the universe.
So I just went off to her and I and I said at the end, forgive me for my bluntness and
for sticking my nose in your business, but I guarantee you 100% that if you get out of
a toxic situation like that, any toxic situation, when you walk away from that and don't turn
back, the universe is going to look at you with a whole lot more respect and is going
to bless you for making that difficult decision and change in your life.
I had to keep pushing and pushing and pushing.
The universe kept throwing me test after test after test.
It was hard.
It was very hard.
I mean, I'm a very strong individual.
I truly am, but to go through tests from the universe, it was maybe difficult because I
never put myself first.
I always put the man that I dated first.
I over gave.
I cut the grass, shoveled the sidewalks, shoveled the driveway, did the cooking, the grocery
shopping, worked, paid the mortgage like fuck.
The only thing I didn't do was wipe his ass.
And the universe went right to this split in this relationship that I thought this one's
the one.
That's it.
This one is the one.
Excuse me.
Yep.
Well what the universe did was come and just break up that fucking relationship in an instant.
You couldn't blink that fast.
First thing, I'm, man listen, I'm going to tell you guys stories, but I, so long as I'll
keep going on, so I'm going to stop right there.
But I said to her, I guarantee you 100%, you're going to be so much happier.
Your good things are going to start happening in your life.
You're going to gain that respect of yourself.
Right?
You're going to become strong, confident, independent.
Right?
A woman that is single is very strong.
A man that is single is very strong.
They know their worth.
First know who you are.
You truly authentically are.
You could be a bookworm or it doesn't fucking matter.
You will attract, be your true self and you, the universe is going to bring in like-minded
friends that there's no judgment.
There's no bullshit.
It's just shit.
It's a drama.
It's a great, it's great fucking nine.
Okay?
Again, I'm well over my 50s.
Learned that one the hard way.
So the universe came in, separated us and fuck there was so many tests.
If I would go back, if I would go back, if I would go back, I will tell you that story
one day.
So that was all I said to her.
I apologized for sticking my nose where it didn't belong.
But I said, I think you need to hear that.
You needed to hear that.
Figure out who you truly are.
Not what, like, of course you're going to focus on what you want too.
You're manifesting hopefully good things.
Because if you're manifesting bad, you're a fucking idiot.
Okay?
And you're going to get fucking karma.
So that's all there is to say about that.
Find out who you are.
Dig deep, deep, deep, deep, deep, man, because the universe is going to change you.
I changed so much.
My appearance, my taste, the way I speak, habits are gone.
I'm telling you, I live in such fucking peace.
Because I took my power back.
I didn't do the fuck you asshole, fuck you and go around and blab to everybody.
I kept my mouth shut.
And whatever happened from that from that moment on of being back on my own.
Nobody knows anything about my life.
Why should they?
It's your life.
Why does everybody go on?
I don't know all of them, man, because I'm not on social media.
I don't fucking.
I'm starting this now because my insides are about to explode.
I really want to help people out there.
I want to help people that are very unhappy in their jobs.
I want to help people that are going through bad relationships to help them teach them
guide them how to know your worth.
I didn't go for three fucking years you guys.
Okay?
I was a fucking hermit for three years going through the heartache, the heart pain, the
why why me, why this, why that, the da da da da.
And I just started praying and everything I've prayed for has come true.
I would have never thought.
Seriously.
So anyway, I just left her with that and said, run, keep your job so you've got an income
coming.
But run.
And if he's physically abusive to you, don't tell him.
You just leave.
You know what I mean?
Just leave.
Leave when he's not there.
And don't look back.
Change your fucking cell number.
Do whatever you got to do, but leave.
Don't be scared.
Don't fear fear.
There's no fear.
If you've done good, you got your angels, you got the fucking universe, you got God
all battling for you.
All they want you to do is just enjoy life.
Leave this rest of the shit to them.
Follow your intuition.
Know who you are.
Be your real self and love yourself.
And when you've got that confidence and that strength, fuck me, man.
You got it all.
You're gonna have your boundaries up.
You're not going to take shit from nobody.
You know, she said to me, she said, you're right.
I know I would be happier.
I'm just scared to leave.
And I said, what are you afraid of?
And she said, first, I don't think he can be on his own and survive.
I said, well, that's not your problem.
That's his problem.
He's got to go through his shit to grow, to become better.
He's clearly not happy.
Do you want to be with somebody who's not happy?
Your life's not going to go anywhere.
Just in the gutter.
Or do you want to be happy?
If you want to be happy, do things that make you happy and be around the people that make
you feel good.
Okay?
Don't try to fake to get into some group or whatever.
Fuck that.
They got shit to work on.
They're in grade nine, remember?
Anyway, I think she's going to do it.
I gave her my cell number.
I don't even know this woman.
I gave her my cell number, and I'm not going to do this all the time.
You don't want to get involved in people's shit, but I want to help her.
I want to help her.
That's why I'm doing this.
I want to help people.
I want to help people love themselves and be their real selves again.
There's a lot of fake shit that's been going on in the world for so long now.
It's like, hey everybody, let's get back to ourselves now.
Let's really know who we are, what we like, what we don't like.
Get your boundaries up.
Know your worth.
Love yourself.
When you love yourself, you don't let idiots approach you.
You know what I mean?
You just don't have the time for shit like that anymore.
You've surpassed that level.
So anyway, maybe she'll be hearing this.
I don't know.
I didn't tell her that I have this.
Maybe this is a way I could communicate with her.
I don't know, but I just know that she's going to be fine.
I know it.
She's going to be just fine.
So anyway, that's all I have to say about that for now.
You guys, if you have any questions, I'm not a doctor.
I want everybody to know that.
I'm not a doctor.
I'm not a therapist of any sort, of any kind.
I'm not a marriage counselor.
I'm just an older woman who has endured a lot of bullshit in my life.
And to go from that and finally say, that's it.
Now I know my worth.
Now it's about me.
Fuck these fools.
I'm not pouring into them anymore.
It's my turn.
Okay?
But it's a give and take.
And when you have the it's my turn, don't have an ego.
That's a dangerous combination right there.
That's not going to get you anywhere.
Trust me.
Stay grounded and stay happy.
Stay with, you know, stay, keep, keep love in your heart.
Open your heart.
You don't have to blob going that fucking asshole, that fucking bitch.
You don't have to do that.
It's not going to get you anywhere.
Get off that mindset now because you've gotten off that negative path.
Now it's, oh yeah, I'm getting this place and I don't care.
What it looks like at first, as long as I got a roof over my head, I got heat, I got
clothes and I got food.
That's all you need.
Fuck the friends, fuck the whatever, because you're going to start changing.
You're going to start elevating, being on your own, knowing your worth, loving yourself,
knowing what you're capable of and you know what you deserve.
You just start manifesting that fucking shit, man.
Praying, whatever.
I guarantee you, 100%, you will get what you want if you're a good person.
Anyway, that's it.
I will check in with you guys later.
I send you all so much love.
Try it.
If something's not working for you, just do something different.
Get out and get a new place, whatever it is.
Trust me, you're going to be just fine.
I love you.