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Okay, so here we are. What fucking day is it? Okay, it is Sunday, January 26th, and

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it's like 7.35 p.m. So my man and I, we just had some great company, unexpected company.

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It was a fucking great time. I hate things that are planned. Think about it, people.

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When you go, okay, do you want to be here at this time and there in that time? It's

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fine when you're young, but save yourself some fucking years and just sit back, enjoy

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yourselves, put the love into yourself. When you learn who you are, when you like who you

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are, doesn't matter. Doesn't matter. You can make this excuse, that excuse, that excuse,

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baby you're going to kick in in two seconds. He's such a patient man and thank you. I'm

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so grateful to the universe for that. Thank you, baby. I'm sorry. Don't lose your thought

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though. But when it all began, okay, I'm going to go back to the company that we had tonight

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and the subject we just had. Okay, I haven't forgotten about that. But this just took me

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to a level before that. So bear with me, everybody. But we're over our 50s, you know, well over

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our 50s and man, we have lived fucking lifetimes. Okay. And what I mean by that in case some

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people just haven't yet and that's okay. It doesn't mean you're bad. Doesn't mean you're

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good. Doesn't mean you're better. Doesn't mean you're less. I'm just saying people get

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on this on the right path in their lives when they're ready. When you first start with yourself,

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love yourself, man. I'm over my 50s. And you know how fucking long it took me to love myself

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to really accept my quirkiness and because I'm quirky. Okay, I'm fucking quirky as fuck.

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But and I know it. But when you find the right person who okay, so that's a different fucking

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subject. See how I digress. Okay, you're going to understand this about me. Every fucking

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episode you listen to. Okay. When you love yourself and you know yourself and when you

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know yourself, you're going to go back to loving yourself more. You think you love yourself,

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then you learn to know yourself. And when you know yourself, you're going to love yourself

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more. And when that happens, that's like an ah moment, then what happens, you're going

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to find the right fucking perfect mate for you without going through the heartbreak and

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the breakups and the arguments and the fuck you bitch and fuck you asshole bullshit back

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and forth that gets nobody nowhere. What comes down is you're going to attract yourself.

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Think about that. It's deep. And that's basically what I said in layman terms. Like I'm more

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so my man is a lot more he's better spoken and softer spoken and he's explains things

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in very deep depth. I'm the type of person is I'm going to give it to you whether you

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like it or not. You can either accept it or not. And guess what? It doesn't matter if

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you don't. I'm still going to love you to fucking shit. Why? Because I accept you for

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who you are. And guess what? I accept you because you have different thoughts. Nobody

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should be the same. We are our own human being. Okay? Just think of that. You are yourself

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and don't try to be anybody else. Don't follow anything. You're going to attract yourself.

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So be who you want to be. You will find the right soul tribe. Right. And soul tribe meaning

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your friends where nobody judges, nobody, there's no expectations. You just fucking

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love each other because you're on the same wave playing. Same path. Yeah. Vibrating the

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same. Yeah. Absolutely baby. It just works right. Absolutely baby. I mean there's going

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to be little discrepancies here and there if you want to break it down super crazy.

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But for the most part where you're at is like if you really want to get an indication of

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where you're at like look around at your friends and look around at your job and look around

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at the establishments you go to and that's a direct reflection of where you think you

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are at. And what he's trying to say in layman terms is if your life is going down and your

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fucking relationships is going for the shit and your friendships are going down to shit

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and you're not happy in your life and you hate your fucking job. So see how we explain

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things differently but it's the same fucking thing. Then guess what you need to reanalyze

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your life. Yeah. You need to figure your shit out, understand you, love you for who you

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are and go after your passion. It doesn't matter what the fuck it is. You can make fucking

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cupcakes. You can make a cookie that's going to go fucking huge. You don't know like George's

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cookie if anyone's from Canada or the states. George's cookies fucking back in the oil and

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gas days I'm telling you man he hit it off and made a fucking killing out of cookies.

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So it doesn't matter how big or small. Whatever you enjoy just do it. Just do it. Find a way.

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You could like Nike always said just do it. There's a lot of power behind that but you

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gotta be ready for that. There is a lot of power behind that. And guess when you get

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ready when you had enough of your life of going guess what I fucking hate my job I hate

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my friends I'm not happy I don't like this I don't like that and you start picking at

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everything that's when you know you're down the wrong path. But guess what you can do.

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Try something different. Guess what you can do. What can you do? This is what you can

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do. When you're in that place where this sucks and that sucks and your job sucks and your

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boyfriend sucks and this sucks and everything fucking sucks. It's like okay everything is

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sucking so now you know exactly what you don't like. So you can go okay now I need to obviously

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focus pivot my attention to something other than that. I don't know what it is for you

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and I don't know how you get there but what I do know is you have to pivot away from what's

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not working for you what doesn't feel right what's making you mentally not well physically

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not well spiritually not well whatever not well. There's obviously something going on

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that you're doing actually so you gotta kinda go okay I'm doing something not right so find

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something else to do and learn from that pretty quickly and you'll be in good shape. May I

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kick in? Fuck yeah. Cause I'm so bad for interrupting you honey. No? They'll learn that in time.

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They'll go fuck shut that bitch up. No no no. Anyway what I what I always love how you

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freeze things baby it's so gentle and it's logical it's beautifully freezed I do. I'm

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a little more point blank I'm just because some people who may be listening I don't know

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may resonate more with your delivery and some may resonate with my delivery. I think it's

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a win win. 100%. So totally agree with what my man just said you guys know okay if things

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aren't working out you may want to consider taking a different path correct babe? Yes.

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So how I perceive that is if you're not happy do what makes you happy because when you do

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things that make you happy you're gonna feel good and when you feel good good shit's gonna

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happen in your life and your life's gonna expand to fucking levels you won't even believe.

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You start attracting that. So that's that's the point in two different forms and I think

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people are gonna resonate with both. Yeah. Totally. You literally attract that cause

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imagine you walk into a bar and there is you look at one side of the bar and everyone's

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sitting like this. Face down looking miserable unhappy. And they don't they don't look well

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and in yes in many different situations. True. Or you look down the bar and you look the

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other way and there's a bunch of people and they're fucking laughing and they're having

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a fight. Where do you go? Which area do you go and sit down at? Well if you go to the

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one that's down and you can feel it's down and it's negative no one's really very happy

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in there. Run and don't look bad. Don't go there. Just don't go there. Maybe the first

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time you didn't get that and the second time you didn't get that and the third fourth but

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come on man by the seventh time you should be able to go okay what I'm seeing here what

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I'm feeling here is familiar and it was never good. Go the opposite fucking way. Yeah. If

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it doesn't make you happy do what makes you happy. Please go the opposite way. Then you'll

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be fine. Let's just say you're an artist. I don't know who the fuck is an artist. My

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man's actually an artist. Why did I say that? I don't know. I swear to God didn't even

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come to me. Let's just say you're an artist and you're very artistic so artists have different

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minds they have different flavors tastes you know like they're different people right.

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Some some can be great some could be like way out there who gives a fuck they're artists

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or creators. So you want to create something in your life. Everybody does. Everybody does.

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And anybody that sits there and goes no I'm happy in my job and stuff you know what if

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you are well awesome keep going you'll become president CEO chairman whatever you fucking

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sit on the board whatever you want. Okay. That's great. I mean it. Keep going if you

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love your job. But I can truly say I don't know the percentage to be honest but I can

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truly say that there's a lot more people out there that don't like their jobs and they're

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just having it's just a job. It's not a career. It's there's no goal. There's just survival.

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It's not a job. It's a blob. A big heavy sticky weight. Yeah. Just like on your shoulders

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every fucking day. Just make a change you guys. That's what I'm going to title this.

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Make a change. What a great title. You do not have to carry that weight. Just love yourself

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and when you understand and truly know yourself boundaries what will you accept in your life.

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What will you won't. Friendships family fucking bosses. That defines who you are. Relationships.

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That defines who you are. Know yourself and when you do I promise you I promise you I

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promise you you're going to attract the right people in your life where your passion lies

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and you're going to find the right people where that's going to attract yourself. You're

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going to attract yourself. I know how you were going to attract yourself. So what do

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you want? Be what you want. Do you want to be happy or not? Be what you want. Just be

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that and you'll attract that just by being that. If you're sitting in a bar and you're

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laughing people that like laughing and like to feel good and the endorphins from that

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and the familial part of that and the positive. It's repetitive. It's a repetitive life.

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Will naturally gravitate to those people doing that and if you're sitting there in a bar

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and you're gravitating like fuck you fucking guy. If you want to gravitate toward that

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you can but you're going to be where they are. You're going to become what you are.

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You're going to get more of that. He's very right. He's 100% right and by the way if you're

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going to act like that in any public establishment of any sort. Just remember you're bringing

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people down. People go out to talk to people and feel good and be around the norms like

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being in a cheers kind of thing. If anybody knows cheers from back in the day Google it.

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It's a little sitcom and it's simple and it's funny as fuck and everybody knows their name

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and they just hang out every day. There's a place where we live that's the same fucking

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way. So when you go out into an establishment and you want to be fucking miserable remember

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that everybody goes out to a public establishment necessarily does not want to be miserable.

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So you don't want to just be down. Don't take somebody else down with you. Right. Be ready

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to go out. In other words work on your shit. We all have shit. Fuck man have I gone through

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shit. I went through daddy issues that I didn't fucking know I had daddy issues. Like I'm

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telling you everybody's got shit and anybody that says they don't. Well okay. They don't

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know shit. Well they'll learn. Everybody learns. There's lessons. But everybody anybody that

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says they don't have shit don't know shit because we all got shit. Yeah we're normal.

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We all got shit. On that note you guys. Some of that shit has been dragging around you

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for fucking three lifetimes and you don't even fucking know it. This is true baby. Okay

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he's gonna keep going on. We're stopping this right now. So you guys have a great night

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and we love you to death. Okay God bless all. Ciao. Good night.