Okay, so here we are. What fucking day is it? Okay, it is Sunday, January 26th, and
it's like 7.35 p.m. So my man and I, we just had some great company, unexpected company.
It was a fucking great time. I hate things that are planned. Think about it, people.
When you go, okay, do you want to be here at this time and there in that time? It's
fine when you're young, but save yourself some fucking years and just sit back, enjoy
yourselves, put the love into yourself. When you learn who you are, when you like who you
are, doesn't matter. Doesn't matter. You can make this excuse, that excuse, that excuse,
baby you're going to kick in in two seconds. He's such a patient man and thank you. I'm
so grateful to the universe for that. Thank you, baby. I'm sorry. Don't lose your thought
though. But when it all began, okay, I'm going to go back to the company that we had tonight
and the subject we just had. Okay, I haven't forgotten about that. But this just took me
to a level before that. So bear with me, everybody. But we're over our 50s, you know, well over
our 50s and man, we have lived fucking lifetimes. Okay. And what I mean by that in case some
people just haven't yet and that's okay. It doesn't mean you're bad. Doesn't mean you're
good. Doesn't mean you're better. Doesn't mean you're less. I'm just saying people get
on this on the right path in their lives when they're ready. When you first start with yourself,
love yourself, man. I'm over my 50s. And you know how fucking long it took me to love myself
to really accept my quirkiness and because I'm quirky. Okay, I'm fucking quirky as fuck.
But and I know it. But when you find the right person who okay, so that's a different fucking
subject. See how I digress. Okay, you're going to understand this about me. Every fucking
episode you listen to. Okay. When you love yourself and you know yourself and when you
know yourself, you're going to go back to loving yourself more. You think you love yourself,
then you learn to know yourself. And when you know yourself, you're going to love yourself
more. And when that happens, that's like an ah moment, then what happens, you're going
to find the right fucking perfect mate for you without going through the heartbreak and
the breakups and the arguments and the fuck you bitch and fuck you asshole bullshit back
and forth that gets nobody nowhere. What comes down is you're going to attract yourself.
Think about that. It's deep. And that's basically what I said in layman terms. Like I'm more
so my man is a lot more he's better spoken and softer spoken and he's explains things
in very deep depth. I'm the type of person is I'm going to give it to you whether you
like it or not. You can either accept it or not. And guess what? It doesn't matter if
you don't. I'm still going to love you to fucking shit. Why? Because I accept you for
who you are. And guess what? I accept you because you have different thoughts. Nobody
should be the same. We are our own human being. Okay? Just think of that. You are yourself
and don't try to be anybody else. Don't follow anything. You're going to attract yourself.
So be who you want to be. You will find the right soul tribe. Right. And soul tribe meaning
your friends where nobody judges, nobody, there's no expectations. You just fucking
love each other because you're on the same wave playing. Same path. Yeah. Vibrating the
same. Yeah. Absolutely baby. It just works right. Absolutely baby. I mean there's going
to be little discrepancies here and there if you want to break it down super crazy.
But for the most part where you're at is like if you really want to get an indication of
where you're at like look around at your friends and look around at your job and look around
at the establishments you go to and that's a direct reflection of where you think you
are at. And what he's trying to say in layman terms is if your life is going down and your
fucking relationships is going for the shit and your friendships are going down to shit
and you're not happy in your life and you hate your fucking job. So see how we explain
things differently but it's the same fucking thing. Then guess what you need to reanalyze
your life. Yeah. You need to figure your shit out, understand you, love you for who you
are and go after your passion. It doesn't matter what the fuck it is. You can make fucking
cupcakes. You can make a cookie that's going to go fucking huge. You don't know like George's
cookie if anyone's from Canada or the states. George's cookies fucking back in the oil and
gas days I'm telling you man he hit it off and made a fucking killing out of cookies.
So it doesn't matter how big or small. Whatever you enjoy just do it. Just do it. Find a way.
You could like Nike always said just do it. There's a lot of power behind that but you
gotta be ready for that. There is a lot of power behind that. And guess when you get
ready when you had enough of your life of going guess what I fucking hate my job I hate
my friends I'm not happy I don't like this I don't like that and you start picking at
everything that's when you know you're down the wrong path. But guess what you can do.
Try something different. Guess what you can do. What can you do? This is what you can
do. When you're in that place where this sucks and that sucks and your job sucks and your
boyfriend sucks and this sucks and everything fucking sucks. It's like okay everything is
sucking so now you know exactly what you don't like. So you can go okay now I need to obviously
focus pivot my attention to something other than that. I don't know what it is for you
and I don't know how you get there but what I do know is you have to pivot away from what's
not working for you what doesn't feel right what's making you mentally not well physically
not well spiritually not well whatever not well. There's obviously something going on
that you're doing actually so you gotta kinda go okay I'm doing something not right so find
something else to do and learn from that pretty quickly and you'll be in good shape. May I
kick in? Fuck yeah. Cause I'm so bad for interrupting you honey. No? They'll learn that in time.
They'll go fuck shut that bitch up. No no no. Anyway what I what I always love how you
freeze things baby it's so gentle and it's logical it's beautifully freezed I do. I'm
a little more point blank I'm just because some people who may be listening I don't know
may resonate more with your delivery and some may resonate with my delivery. I think it's
a win win. 100%. So totally agree with what my man just said you guys know okay if things
aren't working out you may want to consider taking a different path correct babe? Yes.
So how I perceive that is if you're not happy do what makes you happy because when you do
things that make you happy you're gonna feel good and when you feel good good shit's gonna
happen in your life and your life's gonna expand to fucking levels you won't even believe.
You start attracting that. So that's that's the point in two different forms and I think
people are gonna resonate with both. Yeah. Totally. You literally attract that cause
imagine you walk into a bar and there is you look at one side of the bar and everyone's
sitting like this. Face down looking miserable unhappy. And they don't they don't look well
and in yes in many different situations. True. Or you look down the bar and you look the
other way and there's a bunch of people and they're fucking laughing and they're having
a fight. Where do you go? Which area do you go and sit down at? Well if you go to the
one that's down and you can feel it's down and it's negative no one's really very happy
in there. Run and don't look bad. Don't go there. Just don't go there. Maybe the first
time you didn't get that and the second time you didn't get that and the third fourth but
come on man by the seventh time you should be able to go okay what I'm seeing here what
I'm feeling here is familiar and it was never good. Go the opposite fucking way. Yeah. If
it doesn't make you happy do what makes you happy. Please go the opposite way. Then you'll
be fine. Let's just say you're an artist. I don't know who the fuck is an artist. My
man's actually an artist. Why did I say that? I don't know. I swear to God didn't even
come to me. Let's just say you're an artist and you're very artistic so artists have different
minds they have different flavors tastes you know like they're different people right.
Some some can be great some could be like way out there who gives a fuck they're artists
or creators. So you want to create something in your life. Everybody does. Everybody does.
And anybody that sits there and goes no I'm happy in my job and stuff you know what if
you are well awesome keep going you'll become president CEO chairman whatever you fucking
sit on the board whatever you want. Okay. That's great. I mean it. Keep going if you
love your job. But I can truly say I don't know the percentage to be honest but I can
truly say that there's a lot more people out there that don't like their jobs and they're
just having it's just a job. It's not a career. It's there's no goal. There's just survival.
It's not a job. It's a blob. A big heavy sticky weight. Yeah. Just like on your shoulders
every fucking day. Just make a change you guys. That's what I'm going to title this.
Make a change. What a great title. You do not have to carry that weight. Just love yourself
and when you understand and truly know yourself boundaries what will you accept in your life.
What will you won't. Friendships family fucking bosses. That defines who you are. Relationships.
That defines who you are. Know yourself and when you do I promise you I promise you I
promise you you're going to attract the right people in your life where your passion lies
and you're going to find the right people where that's going to attract yourself. You're
going to attract yourself. I know how you were going to attract yourself. So what do
you want? Be what you want. Do you want to be happy or not? Be what you want. Just be
that and you'll attract that just by being that. If you're sitting in a bar and you're
laughing people that like laughing and like to feel good and the endorphins from that
and the familial part of that and the positive. It's repetitive. It's a repetitive life.
Will naturally gravitate to those people doing that and if you're sitting there in a bar
and you're gravitating like fuck you fucking guy. If you want to gravitate toward that
you can but you're going to be where they are. You're going to become what you are.
You're going to get more of that. He's very right. He's 100% right and by the way if you're
going to act like that in any public establishment of any sort. Just remember you're bringing
people down. People go out to talk to people and feel good and be around the norms like
being in a cheers kind of thing. If anybody knows cheers from back in the day Google it.
It's a little sitcom and it's simple and it's funny as fuck and everybody knows their name
and they just hang out every day. There's a place where we live that's the same fucking
way. So when you go out into an establishment and you want to be fucking miserable remember
that everybody goes out to a public establishment necessarily does not want to be miserable.
So you don't want to just be down. Don't take somebody else down with you. Right. Be ready
to go out. In other words work on your shit. We all have shit. Fuck man have I gone through
shit. I went through daddy issues that I didn't fucking know I had daddy issues. Like I'm
telling you everybody's got shit and anybody that says they don't. Well okay. They don't
know shit. Well they'll learn. Everybody learns. There's lessons. But everybody anybody that
says they don't have shit don't know shit because we all got shit. Yeah we're normal.
We all got shit. On that note you guys. Some of that shit has been dragging around you
for fucking three lifetimes and you don't even fucking know it. This is true baby. Okay
he's gonna keep going on. We're stopping this right now. So you guys have a great night
and we love you to death. Okay God bless all. Ciao. Good night.