1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:10,000 Hey guys, it's me again. I have a question for everyone. How do you know when you've found the right one? 2 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:16,000 I mean honestly think about that question. 3 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:22,000 When that person will do absolutely anything for you. 4 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:30,000 And in return you do absolutely anything for them. That's what a relationship needs and is all about. 5 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:40,000 You're partners. You came together for a reason. Well, sometimes there's karmic people which bring lessons for us to grow and live a more fulfilling life. We'll talk about that another day. 6 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:48,000 I've got the greatest man. Finally! Karmic, after karmic, after karmic. 7 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:56,000 But it's a two-way street. I can't just point the finger at my karmic(s). They gave me lessons to learn about myself. That's a story for another day. 8 00:00:56,000 --> 00:01:00,000 Really, that's a story for another day. 9 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:08,000 So you gained something from it. You could take that pain and instead of going down a rabbit hole, 10 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:13,000 you take that pain and make something powerful out of it. 11 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:21,000 Still love and don't close your heart and don't, you know what I mean, all that shit. 12 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:27,000 I have a man that will do anything for me at any given time. I'm telling you. 13 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:36,000 And in return I do the same because we both feel important and that's what being a team is all about. 14 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:45,000 However, if you have someone toxic or narcissistic, run like fucking hell and don't look back. PERIOD! 15 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:53,000 Don't hate. Send love, light, and healing for them. 16 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:58,000 What you give out to the Universe, you get back! 17 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:03,000 Life is so simple. I think I say this in every freaking episode. 18 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:11,000 We make it so hard. Be with someone who really loves you because they will really be there for you. 19 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:18,000 And it's going to really make you feel good. So how can you get mad? 20 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:26,000 There's someone out there for you. Whoever is meant for you will never pass you by. 21 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:33,000 I'm just specifically talking about relationships, people that are in relationships right now. 22 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:39,000 Just be there for one another. Be honest. Don't get pissed off and don't yell. 23 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:43,000 It doesn't get you anywhere, just a headache and stress. 24 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:48,000 Which is not good for our bodies or our minds. We know that too. 25 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:53,000 Why do we do this to ourselves? You know what I mean? 26 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:57,000 If you're with somebody and you're trying to communicate and they're yelling at you, 27 00:02:57,000 --> 00:03:00,000 okay, just move on. You don't want to deal with that. 28 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:08,000 He or she hasn't transformed. They haven't grown yet. They're just not ready. That's all. 29 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:12,000 So not the right one. Then you move on. 30 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:19,000 Life is so simple. You go to bed happy. Always say I love you because you never know. 31 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:25,000 You just never know when the good Lord's going to come down and just swoop you in your sleep, man. 32 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:31,000 And that shit happens. 33 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:42,000 So you want to go to bed happy. And when you're happy is when you feel safe with someone, thoroughly safe. 34 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:47,000 Because they really love you....unconditionally 35 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:56,000 That's how you know when you're in the right relationship. You're totally in as a team. 36 00:03:56,000 --> 00:04:00,000 You can sit there and go, oh yeah, well not every relationship is perfect. 37 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:09,000 It could be. Anything is possible. Expand your mind. 38 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:18,000 This is another subject for another day, but love yourself. 39 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:26,000 When you love yourself first, you will attract like minded people and you're going to find your true soul mate. 40 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:35,000 When you attract karmics and you're wondering why your life is going down the toilet, going for shit and nothing's going right. 41 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:42,000 Well, you might want to think about being on the wrong path and try something different. 42 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:48,000 Right? It's probably going to feel better. And that's how you know when you're on the right path. 43 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:52,000 Shit starts coming from the Universe and just blessing you left, right and fucking center, man. 44 00:04:52,000 --> 00:05:02,000 Whatever you've been praying for, for the longest time, it happens. It really fucking happens. 45 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:10,000 Trust, believe, respect one another. That's another subject. Respect. 46 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:21,000 I said to my man, I don't know, a month ago or something like that. I'm not good with days and timings, but I said to him 47 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:35,000 and said, hey, babe, what's the only word that's so powerful that every human being could give or want to receive? 48 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:45,000 RESPECT, right? We all want it. We should all want to give it. We're human. We want respect. 49 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:54,000 And to be respected, you be respectful. It's a give and take back to the relationship. Right? 50 00:05:54,000 --> 00:06:04,000 When you really love each other, you're there for each other and you're honest. There will be times I'll be like, baby, you know, you just hurt my feelings just like that. 51 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:13,000 And he'll say, oh, God, what did I say? We just say things that, you know, we don't mean or it comes across wrong. 52 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:18,000 Anyway, I can go on about this shit all day long. Listen, everyone. 53 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:25,000 The only thing everybody wants is respect. So be respectful. 54 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:29,000 Okay, to be respected is to be respectful 55 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:33,000 You get what you give. 56 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:37,000 Again, life is simple. We make it difficult. 57 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:44,000 We have to ask ourselves why. Why are we torturing ourselves like this when we know we deserve better? 58 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:50,000 Anyway, I've mumbled on too long. So have a great night. 59 00:06:50,000 --> 00:07:08,000 Bless you all. And I love you all so very much.