Hey guys, it's me again. I have a question for everyone. How do you know when you've found the right one?
I mean honestly think about that question.
When that person will do absolutely anything for you.
And in return you do absolutely anything for them. That's what a relationship needs and is all about.
You're partners. You came together for a reason. Well, sometimes there's karmic people which bring lessons for us to grow and live a more fulfilling life. We'll talk about that another day.
I've got the greatest man. Finally! Karmic, after karmic, after karmic.
But it's a two-way street. I can't just point the finger at my karmic(s). They gave me lessons to learn about myself. That's a story for another day.
Really, that's a story for another day.
So you gained something from it. You could take that pain and instead of going down a rabbit hole,
you take that pain and make something powerful out of it.
Still love and don't close your heart and don't, you know what I mean, all that shit.
I have a man that will do anything for me at any given time. I'm telling you.
And in return I do the same because we both feel important and that's what being a team is all about.
However, if you have someone toxic or narcissistic, run like fucking hell and don't look back. PERIOD!
Don't hate. Send love, light, and healing for them.
What you give out to the Universe, you get back!
Life is so simple. I think I say this in every freaking episode.
We make it so hard. Be with someone who really loves you because they will really be there for you.
And it's going to really make you feel good. So how can you get mad?
There's someone out there for you. Whoever is meant for you will never pass you by.
I'm just specifically talking about relationships, people that are in relationships right now.
Just be there for one another. Be honest. Don't get pissed off and don't yell.
It doesn't get you anywhere, just a headache and stress.
Which is not good for our bodies or our minds. We know that too.
Why do we do this to ourselves? You know what I mean?
If you're with somebody and you're trying to communicate and they're yelling at you,
okay, just move on. You don't want to deal with that.
He or she hasn't transformed. They haven't grown yet. They're just not ready. That's all.
So not the right one. Then you move on.
Life is so simple. You go to bed happy. Always say I love you because you never know.
You just never know when the good Lord's going to come down and just swoop you in your sleep, man.
And that shit happens.
So you want to go to bed happy. And when you're happy is when you feel safe with someone, thoroughly safe.
Because they really love you....unconditionally
That's how you know when you're in the right relationship. You're totally in as a team.
You can sit there and go, oh yeah, well not every relationship is perfect.
It could be. Anything is possible. Expand your mind.
This is another subject for another day, but love yourself.
When you love yourself first, you will attract like minded people and you're going to find your true soul mate.
When you attract karmics and you're wondering why your life is going down the toilet, going for shit and nothing's going right.
Well, you might want to think about being on the wrong path and try something different.
Right? It's probably going to feel better. And that's how you know when you're on the right path.
Shit starts coming from the Universe and just blessing you left, right and fucking center, man.
Whatever you've been praying for, for the longest time, it happens. It really fucking happens.
Trust, believe, respect one another. That's another subject. Respect.
I said to my man, I don't know, a month ago or something like that. I'm not good with days and timings, but I said to him
and said, hey, babe, what's the only word that's so powerful that every human being could give or want to receive?
RESPECT, right? We all want it. We should all want to give it. We're human. We want respect.
And to be respected, you be respectful. It's a give and take back to the relationship. Right?
When you really love each other, you're there for each other and you're honest. There will be times I'll be like, baby, you know, you just hurt my feelings just like that.
And he'll say, oh, God, what did I say? We just say things that, you know, we don't mean or it comes across wrong.
Anyway, I can go on about this shit all day long. Listen, everyone.
The only thing everybody wants is respect. So be respectful.
Okay, to be respected is to be respectful
You get what you give.
Again, life is simple. We make it difficult.
We have to ask ourselves why. Why are we torturing ourselves like this when we know we deserve better?
Anyway, I've mumbled on too long. So have a great night.
Bless you all. And I love you all so very much.