1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,040 Okay, so you're ready to jump into the world 2 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:05,840 of wedding dress shopping, but this time as a guest. 3 00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:07,040 It's an exciting time. 4 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:08,280 It is super exciting. 5 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:09,480 We're gonna make sure you're not just there 6 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:10,320 at the appointment. 7 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:12,640 You're gonna be the best guest possible. 8 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:13,680 Yes, that's the goal. 9 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:15,680 For this huge moment. 10 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:17,400 And we have the inside scoop. 11 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:19,680 Oh, tell me more. 12 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:22,280 Darianna Bridal & Tuxedo spilled all the tea. 13 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:23,920 Ooh, I love that. 14 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:27,880 In their blog post, guest attire what to wear 15 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:29,880 to a wedding dress appointment. 16 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:31,000 I was reading through it and. 17 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:32,000 I saw that one too. 18 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,640 They said some brides bring like 20 plus people. 19 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:35,880 That's a lot of people. 20 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:36,960 There's a lot of opinions. 21 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:37,800 Yeah. 22 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:39,880 Other brides show up in custom t-shirts. 23 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:41,200 Oh, that's so fun. 24 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:42,440 Bridal salons have seen it all. 25 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:43,280 Yeah. 26 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:44,100 But let's start with the basics 27 00:00:44,100 --> 00:00:45,320 so you can really help the bride shine. 28 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:46,160 Definitely. 29 00:00:46,160 --> 00:00:47,520 While those stories are fun, 30 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:49,600 the basics are really about respect. 31 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:50,440 Okay. 32 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:52,160 For the bride and for the environment where you're at. 33 00:00:52,160 --> 00:00:54,480 And one rule just trumps all. 34 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:55,320 What's that? 35 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:56,320 Don't wear white. 36 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:57,640 Yeah, that makes sense. 37 00:00:57,640 --> 00:00:59,960 But why is that such a big deal in the bridal world? 38 00:00:59,960 --> 00:01:02,720 I mean, it's not just like a fashion faux pas. 39 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:04,080 No, it feels bigger. 40 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:05,800 It's so symbolic. 41 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:07,780 The white dress is kind of like the culmination 42 00:01:07,780 --> 00:01:09,080 of so many dreams. 43 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:10,200 It's about tradition. 44 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:14,000 It's about standing out on that special day. 45 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,400 And even a hint of white from a guest 46 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:18,920 can feel like you're stepping on the bride's toes. 47 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:20,200 Oh, like emotionally. 48 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:21,040 Yeah, I'm emotional. 49 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:22,400 Okay, point taken. 50 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:23,240 So no white. 51 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:24,060 Yeah. 52 00:01:24,060 --> 00:01:27,320 But the blog also says keep your outfit less formal. 53 00:01:27,320 --> 00:01:28,160 Uh-huh. 54 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:29,120 Than the brides. 55 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:30,720 Isn't that kind of subjective though? 56 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:32,320 It is. 57 00:01:32,320 --> 00:01:34,120 But think about the goal here. 58 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:36,680 The goal is you're there to support her. 59 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:37,520 Right. 60 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:39,360 Not to compete with her for attention. 61 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:42,000 Imagine if you showed up in like a super tight 62 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:45,280 bodycon dress and like the highest heels. 63 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:46,120 Oh yeah. 64 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:48,960 While she's trying to picture herself walking down the aisle. 65 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:50,920 It just shifts the focus to you. 66 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:52,800 Yeah, that's a total mood killer. 67 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:53,640 Yeah. 68 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:54,520 So comfy shoes it is. 69 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:55,360 Yes. 70 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:59,000 The blog even said quick walking is a must have shoe skill. 71 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:01,040 Please tell me they're not talking about running 72 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:02,400 between stores and stilettos. 73 00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:03,240 That happens. 74 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:04,060 Oh no. 75 00:02:04,060 --> 00:02:05,800 But seriously, appointments can be long. 76 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:06,640 Okay. 77 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:07,880 You might be on your feet for a long time. 78 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:10,200 You might be helping her get in and out of dresses. 79 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:12,400 So you don't want your feet to be killing you. 80 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:13,680 Makes sense. 81 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:15,340 Aching feet are not gonna help anyone. 82 00:02:15,340 --> 00:02:18,900 No, and you won't be as present and as supportive. 83 00:02:18,900 --> 00:02:20,860 Okay, that's true. 84 00:02:20,860 --> 00:02:22,700 Speaking of comfort, 85 00:02:22,700 --> 00:02:25,720 the blog was really into layers. 86 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:27,520 Yes. 87 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:29,880 Are bridal salons really that unpredictable 88 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:31,280 when it comes to temperature? 89 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:33,760 You have to think about it. 90 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:36,720 You've got these showrooms that are kind of chilly. 91 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:39,040 Then maybe you go into a cramped little dressing room 92 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:40,920 with all this excitement and it heats up. 93 00:02:40,920 --> 00:02:41,760 Oh yeah. 94 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:43,080 And then plus every bride's different. 95 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:43,920 Oh, that's true. 96 00:02:43,920 --> 00:02:45,480 Some brides get really hot. 97 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:46,920 Right, some brides get really cold. 98 00:02:46,920 --> 00:02:47,760 Exactly. 99 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:48,760 So layers are the way to go. 100 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:51,320 You can adjust without making a fuss. 101 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:52,160 Okay. 102 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:53,200 So that's what it's all about. 103 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:54,880 Yeah, keep the focus on the bride. 104 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:55,840 That's the goal. 105 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:58,800 Okay, so I'm comfy not wearing white. 106 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:00,320 What about the length of the dress though? 107 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:01,680 Does that even matter? 108 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:03,160 Oh, it matters more than you think. 109 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:04,080 Really? 110 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:05,040 You've got to remember, 111 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:07,680 bridal salons have mirrors everywhere. 112 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:08,580 That is true. 113 00:03:08,580 --> 00:03:10,480 So you're gonna be bending over. 114 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:11,960 You might be helping her with the dress. 115 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:13,560 You'll definitely be taking pictures. 116 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:14,400 Right. 117 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:16,400 You don't want to have a wardrobe malfunction 118 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:18,880 on someone else's big day. 119 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:19,720 Not a good look. 120 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:20,640 Just be mindful of that. 121 00:03:20,640 --> 00:03:21,820 Okay, got it. 122 00:03:21,820 --> 00:03:23,320 Long enough to be graceful, 123 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:25,280 even when I'm fluffing the dress and stuff. 124 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:26,120 Exactly. 125 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:28,400 Okay, but let's be real for a sec. 126 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,880 What about all this social media stuff 127 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:33,200 that the blog was talking about? 128 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:34,760 Yeah, what about it? 129 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:37,760 Bride tribes, custom outfits. 130 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:39,140 Is this really a thing? 131 00:03:39,140 --> 00:03:40,680 It's totally a thing. 132 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:42,880 Social media has turned weddings 133 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:47,320 and even the dress shopping into productions. 134 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:49,520 Some brides love that. 135 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:52,120 They bring their whole squad for moral support 136 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:54,000 matching outfits a whole nine yards. 137 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:54,840 That's a lot. 138 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:57,000 It is, but not every bride is like that. 139 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:58,320 Right, that's true. 140 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:00,880 So why does the blog say that two to four guests 141 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:02,920 is like the sweet spot? 142 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:04,280 Is that just their rule? 143 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:05,120 Yeah. 144 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:06,360 It's more nuanced than that. 145 00:04:06,360 --> 00:04:08,000 Think about the psychology of it. 146 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:09,080 If there are too many people, 147 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:10,440 there are too many opinions. 148 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:11,280 It's overwhelming. 149 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:13,440 It can be super overwhelming for the bride. 150 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:14,280 Yeah. 151 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:16,920 And she needs space to connect with her own feelings. 152 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:17,760 Right. 153 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:19,760 And just please everybody else. 154 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:20,600 Okay. 155 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:22,840 Plus it just makes things easier logistically. 156 00:04:22,840 --> 00:04:23,800 Oh yeah, that's true. 157 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:24,780 If there are fewer people, 158 00:04:24,780 --> 00:04:26,240 there's more space in the fitting room. 159 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:27,080 That makes sense. 160 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:29,600 It's easier to keep the appointment on track. 161 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:32,120 Okay, so it's all about finding that balance 162 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:35,800 between being supportive and not hijacking the experience. 163 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:36,920 Exactly. 164 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:38,200 Now, speaking of support, 165 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:40,440 have you ever thought about how much like 166 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:44,720 our own online habits affect how we experience these events? 167 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:46,040 Oh, you're going there. 168 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:47,000 I am. 169 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:48,360 I'm all about that rabbit hole. 170 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:51,800 I mean, think about those picture perfect Instagram feeds. 171 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:53,000 Tell me more. 172 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:54,240 Let's be honest. 173 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:56,640 Those perfectly curated moments 174 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:58,320 create so much pressure. 175 00:04:58,320 --> 00:04:59,160 Oh, for sure. 176 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:00,640 You start comparing yourself. 177 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:01,480 Absolutely. 178 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:04,020 Thinking your experience has to be just as glamorous. 179 00:05:04,020 --> 00:05:05,120 I do that all the time. 180 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:06,660 It's easy to fall into that trap. 181 00:05:06,660 --> 00:05:07,500 Totally. 182 00:05:07,500 --> 00:05:08,320 Yeah. 183 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:09,680 So how do we stay grounded? 184 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:10,840 That's a great question. 185 00:05:10,840 --> 00:05:14,080 In reality, amidst all this social media frenzy. 186 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:16,700 I think that's a question for our next deep dive. 187 00:05:16,700 --> 00:05:18,720 Oh, I like where this is going. 188 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:20,160 Let's unpack that, shall we? 189 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:21,000 Let's get into it. 190 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:22,080 I think it really comes down 191 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:24,760 to setting realistic expectations. 192 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:25,600 Yeah. 193 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:27,560 And remembering that social media 194 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:29,080 is like the highlight reel. 195 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:29,920 Yeah. 196 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:32,040 Don't compare your behind the scenes 197 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:33,640 to someone else's highlight reel. 198 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:35,160 Okay, that makes sense. 199 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:38,600 But how do we actually do that? 200 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:39,420 Right. 201 00:05:39,420 --> 00:05:42,520 It's easy to say, don't compare, 202 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:44,200 but it's so hard. 203 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:45,040 It is. 204 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:46,560 When you're constantly bombarded 205 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:48,720 with these picture perfect moments. 206 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:50,880 You're right, it's tough. 207 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:52,480 But there are a few things you can do. 208 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:53,320 Okay, tell me. 209 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:56,400 First of all, be mindful of the accounts you follow. 210 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:57,220 Okay. 211 00:05:57,220 --> 00:05:58,400 If you're following certain accounts 212 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:00,100 that make you feel insecure 213 00:06:00,100 --> 00:06:01,800 or pressured to be a certain way. 214 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:03,320 I'm guilty of that. 215 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:04,160 Unfollow them. 216 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:05,000 Just get rid of them. 217 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:06,720 Yeah, curate your feed. 218 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:07,560 I like that. 219 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:09,600 To include accounts that actually inspire you 220 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:10,800 and make you feel good. 221 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:12,960 Like a social media positivity makeover. 222 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:13,960 Exactly. 223 00:06:13,960 --> 00:06:14,800 Love it. 224 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:15,620 Yeah. 225 00:06:15,620 --> 00:06:18,440 What about when you're actually AT the appointment 226 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:20,800 and everyone's snapping pics for the gram? 227 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:21,760 I know what you mean. 228 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:23,300 How do you stay present 229 00:06:23,300 --> 00:06:26,520 and not get swept up in that whole documentation frenzy? 230 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:28,120 Boundaries are key. 231 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:30,960 You don't have to document every single moment. 232 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:32,280 Put the phone away. 233 00:06:32,280 --> 00:06:34,520 Focus on being there with the bride. 234 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:36,880 Be present in those conversations. 235 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:39,040 Offer genuine compliments. 236 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:41,360 Really savor the emotions of the day. 237 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:42,900 Okay, so it's shifting the focus 238 00:06:42,900 --> 00:06:44,280 from capturing it for others 239 00:06:44,280 --> 00:06:46,040 to actually experiencing it. 240 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:46,880 Exactly. 241 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:47,720 For yourself. 242 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:48,540 Yeah. 243 00:06:48,540 --> 00:06:51,480 What about giving the bride advice though? 244 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:53,840 How do we find that sweet spot 245 00:06:53,840 --> 00:06:57,200 between offering our opinion and respecting boundaries? 246 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:00,200 I think it's all about reading the bride's cues. 247 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:02,320 Some brides are very open to feedback. 248 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:04,040 They wanna hear everyone's thoughts. 249 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:05,080 They want all the opinions. 250 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:08,040 But others might prefer a more low key approach. 251 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:11,000 Okay, so how can we decipher those cues? 252 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:13,200 You know, are there signs we should be looking for? 253 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:14,840 Yeah, are there any telltale signs? 254 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:17,840 Pay attention to her body language and her verbal cues. 255 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:20,280 Is she actively asking for opinions? 256 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:21,120 Okay. 257 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:23,320 Is she making decisions confidently on her own? 258 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:25,560 Or does she seem hesitant or overwhelmed? 259 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:27,480 Okay, yeah, those would be good indicators. 260 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:30,480 But what if you're not sure? 261 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:32,820 Is it ever okay to just ask her? 262 00:07:32,820 --> 00:07:33,660 Yeah. 263 00:07:33,660 --> 00:07:35,640 Flat out, like how much input she wants? 264 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:36,460 Absolutely. 265 00:07:36,460 --> 00:07:39,400 I think it's always better to be upfront and respectful 266 00:07:39,400 --> 00:07:41,360 than to assume or overstep. 267 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:42,200 Yeah. 268 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:44,400 Or just something like, hey, I'm happy to chime in 269 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:46,320 with my thoughts if you'd like. 270 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,360 But I totally understand if you'd prefer 271 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:50,920 to keep this decision between you and the stylist. 272 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:51,760 Yeah, I love that. 273 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:52,600 That's a good one. 274 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:54,320 It's direct, it's respectful. 275 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:55,720 It takes the guesswork out of it. 276 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:56,560 It does. 277 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:58,240 Let's talk about a specific role here. 278 00:07:58,240 --> 00:07:59,080 Okay. 279 00:07:59,080 --> 00:07:59,900 The mother of the bride. 280 00:07:59,900 --> 00:08:00,740 Yes. 281 00:08:00,740 --> 00:08:02,960 There's so much emotion tied into that relationship. 282 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:03,840 Oh, absolutely. 283 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:05,280 Especially when it comes to weddings. 284 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:06,560 It's a big one. 285 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:10,960 How can moms offer support without becoming that mom? 286 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:13,360 Ooh, that's a good question. 287 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:14,200 You know what I mean? 288 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:15,200 I do, I do. 289 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:17,160 It's essential for moms to remember 290 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:19,960 this is their daughter's wedding, not theirs. 291 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:20,920 It's not about them. 292 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:24,880 It's about letting go of any preconceived notions, 293 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:28,120 personal preferences, and really embracing 294 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:29,340 the bride's vision. 295 00:08:29,340 --> 00:08:31,480 That's so much easier said than done. 296 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:32,320 It is. 297 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:34,800 I mean, some moms have been dreaming of this day for years. 298 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:35,720 Oh, I know. 299 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:38,360 Planning every detail in their heads. 300 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:41,920 How do they make that shift from my dream wedding 301 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:44,640 to my daughter's dream wedding? 302 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:47,280 I think it requires a conscious effort 303 00:08:47,280 --> 00:08:50,440 to really put the bride's needs and desires first. 304 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:51,280 Okay. 305 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:52,760 So instead of saying, 306 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:54,960 I've always envisioned you in a ball gown, 307 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:56,480 try saying something like, 308 00:08:56,480 --> 00:08:58,480 what kind of style are you hoping to find? 309 00:08:58,480 --> 00:08:59,320 I like that. 310 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:02,000 Really let the bride lead the conversation 311 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:03,840 and express her own vision. 312 00:09:03,840 --> 00:09:05,600 Okay, that's a great tip for moms, 313 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:07,000 and really for any guest. 314 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:08,160 Yeah, it applies to everyone. 315 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:10,880 It's about asking those open-ended questions 316 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:12,880 and genuinely listening to her answer. 317 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:13,720 Are you sure? 318 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:15,720 What about giving feedback though? 319 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:18,960 How can moms or anyone really offer advice 320 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:21,920 without sounding critical or judgmental? 321 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:24,960 It's all about framing your feedback constructively. 322 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:25,780 Okay. 323 00:09:25,780 --> 00:09:26,900 So instead of saying, 324 00:09:26,900 --> 00:09:28,400 that dress washes you out. 325 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:30,000 Right, which is so harsh. 326 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:30,880 It is a little harsh. 327 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:31,720 Yeah. 328 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:33,360 You could try saying something like, 329 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:35,480 I think that shade of ivory might not be 330 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:37,760 the most flattering against your skin tone. 331 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:38,600 Okay. 332 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:41,800 Have you considered a warmer ivory or a champagne color? 333 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:43,160 Ooh, that's good. 334 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:44,280 It's much softer. 335 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:47,320 It's specific, it's solution oriented. 336 00:09:47,320 --> 00:09:50,000 And it avoids making her feel bad about herself. 337 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:50,820 Oh, exact. 338 00:09:50,820 --> 00:09:51,660 Which is key. 339 00:09:51,660 --> 00:09:52,480 Whoa. 340 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:53,440 Let's be real for a second though. 341 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:54,400 Okay. 342 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:55,920 Dress shopping can be emotional. 343 00:09:55,920 --> 00:09:56,760 Oh yeah. 344 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:57,580 Tears happen. 345 00:09:57,580 --> 00:09:58,420 For sure. 346 00:09:58,420 --> 00:09:59,260 Doubts can creep in. 347 00:09:59,260 --> 00:10:00,100 Absolutely. 348 00:10:00,100 --> 00:10:03,640 How do we navigate those choppy emotional waters 349 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:05,240 as supportive guests? 350 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:07,460 Sometimes the best thing you can do is just listen 351 00:10:07,460 --> 00:10:08,800 without judgment. 352 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:09,620 Yeah. 353 00:10:09,620 --> 00:10:12,840 Offer a hug or maybe even shed a tear alongside the bride. 354 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:13,680 No. 355 00:10:13,680 --> 00:10:14,520 It's a shared experience. 356 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:15,340 Yeah. 357 00:10:15,340 --> 00:10:16,180 You know? 358 00:10:16,180 --> 00:10:17,000 It is. 359 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:19,880 And acknowledging those emotions can be really validating. 360 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:22,200 Okay, so it's about creating that safe space. 361 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:23,040 Yes. 362 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:24,520 Where the bride feels comfortable 363 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:26,200 expressing her true feelings. 364 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:27,800 Exactly. 365 00:10:27,800 --> 00:10:29,880 What about those moments when things get a little tense 366 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:30,720 though? 367 00:10:30,720 --> 00:10:31,540 Mm-hmm. 368 00:10:31,540 --> 00:10:33,640 Like maybe someone in the group really disagrees 369 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:34,840 with the bride's taste. 370 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:36,840 Or there's just like a clash of opinions. 371 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:37,880 I've seen it happen. 372 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:41,120 How do we handle those potentially awkward situations? 373 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:43,120 That's where those diplomacy skills come into play. 374 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:44,120 All right, let's hear it. 375 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:46,240 If you sense tension brewing, 376 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:49,360 try to gently redirect the conversation. 377 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:50,200 Right. 378 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:51,360 Back to the bride's preferences. 379 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:52,200 Okay. 380 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:54,240 Remind everyone that this is her decision. 381 00:10:54,240 --> 00:10:55,080 Yeah. 382 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:56,560 And the goal is to support her 383 00:10:56,560 --> 00:10:58,900 in finding a dress that makes her feel confident 384 00:10:58,900 --> 00:11:00,080 and beautiful. 385 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:01,160 That's a good strategy. 386 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:02,240 It usually works. 387 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:04,480 But what if the tension escalates? 388 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:05,320 Uh-huh. 389 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:08,240 Is it ever okay to step in and mediate? 390 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:09,480 I think so. 391 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:12,480 If things get heated, 392 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:14,680 it might be helpful to take a break. 393 00:11:14,680 --> 00:11:17,380 Or suggest that maybe the dissenting party 394 00:11:17,380 --> 00:11:19,520 step aside for a moment to cool off. 395 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:20,360 Okay. 396 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:22,760 Sometimes a little space and perspective can work wonders. 397 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:24,100 That's a great point. 398 00:11:24,100 --> 00:11:26,440 It's not about avoiding conflict altogether. 399 00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:27,280 Right. 400 00:11:27,280 --> 00:11:28,240 It's about managing it. 401 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:29,080 Yes. 402 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:31,320 In a way that preserves that positive energy of the day. 403 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:33,040 Absolutely. 404 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:35,020 Now we've talked a lot about the dynamics 405 00:11:35,020 --> 00:11:37,400 between the bride and her guests. 406 00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:38,240 Yeah. 407 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:39,920 But what about the bridal stylists? 408 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:41,560 Ah, they're so important. 409 00:11:41,560 --> 00:11:42,560 They are. 410 00:11:42,560 --> 00:11:44,720 They're kind of like the unsung heroes 411 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:45,880 of this whole experience. 412 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:46,880 They really are. 413 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:51,480 How can we as guests work effectively with the stylist 414 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:54,800 to ensure that it's a positive experience for everyone? 415 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:56,160 First and foremost, 416 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:59,380 remember that the stylist is there to help the bride. 417 00:11:59,380 --> 00:12:00,220 Right. 418 00:12:00,220 --> 00:12:01,600 It's not about the guests. 419 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:03,640 Not to please the entire entourage. 420 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:04,480 Okay. 421 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:06,280 It's not a fashion show for the guests. 422 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:07,720 No, it's about the bride. 423 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:10,120 It's about finding the perfect dress for the bride. 424 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:10,960 Exactly. 425 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:12,840 So trust the stylist's judgment. 426 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:13,680 Yes. 427 00:12:13,680 --> 00:12:14,800 And be open to their suggestions. 428 00:12:14,800 --> 00:12:15,800 Absolutely. 429 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:17,380 They might pull dresses 430 00:12:17,380 --> 00:12:19,680 that the bride wouldn't have considered on her own. 431 00:12:19,680 --> 00:12:20,520 Oh yeah, that's true. 432 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:22,000 Or they might offer styling tips 433 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:24,080 that elevate the entire look. 434 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:25,280 Okay, that makes sense. 435 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:30,040 But what happens when the stylist presents a dress 436 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:34,280 and the bride seems hesitant about it? 437 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:38,800 How can guests encourage her to try it on 438 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:40,680 without being pushy? 439 00:12:40,680 --> 00:12:42,720 That's a good question. 440 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:44,880 I think it's all about framing it 441 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:47,480 as an opportunity for exploration 442 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:49,240 rather than an obligation. 443 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:52,280 So instead of saying, you have to try this on, 444 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:53,640 try saying something like, 445 00:12:53,640 --> 00:12:55,920 I'm so curious to see how this looks on you. 446 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:57,680 Or the stylist has a great eye, 447 00:12:57,680 --> 00:12:58,920 I bet this will be amazing. 448 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:00,000 Oh, I like those. 449 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:01,320 Just to kind of pique her interest. 450 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:02,760 Yeah, pique her curiosity 451 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:05,800 and encourage her to step outside of her comfort zone. 452 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:06,640 Right. 453 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:08,040 But what if she still says no? 454 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:09,600 Then you respect her decision. 455 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:10,440 Okay. 456 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:12,320 It's her body, her wedding, her choice. 457 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:13,400 That's so important. 458 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:14,960 It's about supporting her autonomy. 459 00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:15,800 Yes. 460 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:16,720 Not making her feel pressured 461 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:18,320 to do anything she's not comfortable with. 462 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:19,160 For sure. 463 00:13:19,960 --> 00:13:21,240 Speaking of comfort though. 464 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:22,080 Okay. 465 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:23,880 What about those post-appointment celebrations? 466 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:25,160 Ooh, yeah. 467 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:28,000 Brunch, lunch, cocktails. 468 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:30,640 How do we strike that balance between celebratory 469 00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:31,640 Right. 470 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:33,840 and still looking presentable 471 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:35,520 after a day of trying on dresses? 472 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:38,040 That's where those outfit planning skills come in handy. 473 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:39,120 All right, give me some tips. 474 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:41,560 If you know you're gonna be continuing the celebration 475 00:13:41,560 --> 00:13:43,360 after the appointment, 476 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:45,800 factor that into your outfit choice. 477 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:46,640 Okay. 478 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:48,360 Choose something that's comfortable, 479 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:51,440 stylish and appropriate for the occasion. 480 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:52,680 A cute sundress. 481 00:13:52,680 --> 00:13:53,520 Okay. 482 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:55,680 A pair of jeans and a flowy top. 483 00:13:55,680 --> 00:13:56,520 Cute. 484 00:13:56,520 --> 00:13:58,400 Even a dressier skirt and blouse 485 00:13:58,400 --> 00:14:00,400 if you're headed to a more upscale venue. 486 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:02,280 Okay, those are great suggestions. 487 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:03,120 Yeah. 488 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:04,240 It's all about finding that sweet spot. 489 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:05,080 It is. 490 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:07,160 Between looking put together and feeling good. 491 00:14:07,160 --> 00:14:08,000 Yes. 492 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:10,320 Comfortable enough to enjoy those festivities. 493 00:14:10,320 --> 00:14:11,160 Exactly. 494 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:12,080 But let's be honest here. 495 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:12,920 Okay. 496 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:15,400 Wedding dress shopping can be exhausting. 497 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:16,320 Oh, it can be. 498 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:18,920 As guests, how do we ensure 499 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:21,600 that we're not adding to the bride's stress 500 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:23,040 or draining her energy? 501 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:25,680 It's all about being mindful of her time and energy levels. 502 00:14:25,680 --> 00:14:26,520 Okay. 503 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:29,160 Don't bombard her with a million questions or opinions. 504 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:30,000 Right. 505 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:31,400 And if she seems overwhelmed, 506 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:32,600 give her space to breathe. 507 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:33,800 Space to breathe. 508 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:35,560 Offer to help with tasks. 509 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:36,400 Okay. 510 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:37,640 Like carrying her belongings 511 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:39,920 or keeping track of the dresses she's tried on. 512 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:41,320 Those are great practical tips. 513 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:43,040 It's about being a helpful presence. 514 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:43,880 Yes. 515 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:46,880 Without being overbearing or demanding. 516 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:47,720 Exactly. 517 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:50,240 Okay, so we've talked a lot about the do's and don'ts 518 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:53,880 of being a great wedding dress shopping guest. 519 00:14:53,880 --> 00:14:56,440 But I wanna talk about the bigger picture stuff. 520 00:14:56,440 --> 00:14:57,480 Okay, what about it? 521 00:14:57,480 --> 00:15:01,040 How is social media really shaping 522 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:03,960 the way brides approach this whole tradition? 523 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:04,800 That's a good question. 524 00:15:04,800 --> 00:15:07,720 And what can we do to make sure this experience 525 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:10,160 stays meaningful and authentic 526 00:15:10,160 --> 00:15:11,600 amidst all the digital noise? 527 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:13,560 That's where things get really interesting. 528 00:15:13,560 --> 00:15:14,680 Ooh, I'm ready. 529 00:15:14,680 --> 00:15:17,480 We've touched on the influence of social media, 530 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:19,240 but I think we should dive a little deeper 531 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:20,640 into those implications. 532 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:21,480 Okay. 533 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:25,480 And explore some strategies for navigating those complexities. 534 00:15:25,480 --> 00:15:26,720 I like it, let's do it. 535 00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:29,920 All right, so we talked about how to be a supportive guest, 536 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:32,200 respecting the bride's boundaries 537 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:33,960 and navigating all the emotions 538 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:35,560 that come with wedding dress shopping. 539 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:37,720 Yeah, it can be an emotional roller coaster. 540 00:15:37,720 --> 00:15:38,560 Oh, for sure. 541 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:42,240 But I'm really curious how social media is 542 00:15:42,240 --> 00:15:43,680 really changing things up. 543 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:44,880 Yeah, how is it impacting 544 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:47,080 the whole wedding dress shopping scene? 545 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:47,920 Exactly. 546 00:15:47,920 --> 00:15:49,840 Like, is it a good thing or a bad thing? 547 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:51,680 It's kind of a double-edged sword. 548 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:52,680 How so? 549 00:15:52,680 --> 00:15:55,240 On the one hand, it gives you endless inspiration, you know? 550 00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:56,480 Yeah, so many ideas. 551 00:15:56,480 --> 00:15:57,760 You can connect with designers, 552 00:15:57,760 --> 00:15:59,800 discover trends you never even knew about. 553 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:01,000 Okay, so that's good. 554 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:03,400 It is, but all that information can also lead 555 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:05,480 to unrealistic expectations. 556 00:16:05,480 --> 00:16:07,040 Oh yeah, I can see that. 557 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:09,800 And pressure to conform to what you see online. 558 00:16:09,800 --> 00:16:11,960 Mm-hmm, and then it becomes less about the bride 559 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:14,880 and more about creating that perfect Instagram moment. 560 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:16,000 Exactly. 561 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:19,080 You're so focused on getting that picture perfect shot 562 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:21,920 that you kind of forget to enjoy the actual experience. 563 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:23,280 That's so true. 564 00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:24,840 I mean, I've definitely been there. 565 00:16:24,840 --> 00:16:27,000 Like, you scroll through those picture perfect feeds 566 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:28,960 and you start comparing yourself and thinking, 567 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:30,680 oh, my life doesn't look like that. 568 00:16:30,680 --> 00:16:32,160 Yeah, it's easy to fall into that trap. 569 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:34,200 But weddings just feel different. 570 00:16:34,200 --> 00:16:37,560 It's supposed to be this magical once-in-a-lifetime event. 571 00:16:37,560 --> 00:16:39,000 Yeah, it's a big deal. 572 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:41,200 And you don't want it to be a Pinterest fail. 573 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:42,240 I hear you. 574 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:44,000 And that's where those boundaries we talked about 575 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:44,840 come in handy. 576 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:47,160 Right, like setting those boundaries with social media. 577 00:16:47,160 --> 00:16:50,240 Exactly, you have to make a conscious choice 578 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:52,680 to step away from the screen. 579 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:53,480 OK. 580 00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:55,720 Limit your social media time and focus 581 00:16:55,720 --> 00:17:00,280 on creating an experience that feels real and authentic to you. 582 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:01,520 I like that. 583 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:03,760 It's about making it your own, not just copying 584 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:04,680 someone else's wedding. 585 00:17:04,680 --> 00:17:05,800 Precisely. 586 00:17:05,800 --> 00:17:07,960 But it's hard, especially when you're at the appointment 587 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:10,160 and everyone's snapping pics and posting stories. 588 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:11,520 Oh, my gosh, yes. 589 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:12,640 The pressure is real. 590 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:13,440 It is. 591 00:17:13,440 --> 00:17:16,080 But again, it's all about making a conscious choice. 592 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:18,080 OK, but how do you actually do that? 593 00:17:18,080 --> 00:17:21,200 Like, how do you resist the urge to join in and just 594 00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:22,880 stay present in the moment? 595 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:24,920 It takes practice, for sure. 596 00:17:24,920 --> 00:17:26,880 But remind yourself that you don't have 597 00:17:26,880 --> 00:17:28,800 to document every single thing. 598 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:29,320 OK. 599 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:31,040 Put your phone away. 600 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:32,880 Truly connect with the bride. 601 00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:35,280 Offer her genuine compliments. 602 00:17:35,280 --> 00:17:37,120 Soak in all those raw emotions. 603 00:17:37,120 --> 00:17:39,040 Those are the memories that will stick with you. 604 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:40,680 Not the filtered Instagram post. 605 00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:42,000 Exactly. 606 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:44,800 Now, I think it's important to talk about inclusivity 607 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:45,360 for a minute. 608 00:17:45,360 --> 00:17:46,280 Oh, yeah, for sure. 609 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:48,760 Weddings are becoming more diverse, less traditional. 610 00:17:48,760 --> 00:17:49,560 Which is amazing. 611 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:50,040 It is. 612 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:51,760 It's a beautiful thing. 613 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:54,920 But how do we make sure the wedding dress shopping 614 00:17:54,920 --> 00:17:57,480 experience is inclusive and respectful 615 00:17:57,480 --> 00:17:59,040 to everyone involved? 616 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:00,440 That's such a great question. 617 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:02,240 Like, where do we even begin? 618 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:03,960 I think it starts with awareness. 619 00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:04,440 OK. 620 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:06,120 Be mindful of the language we use. 621 00:18:06,120 --> 00:18:07,600 Right, like avoiding terms that are 622 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:09,040 gendered or heteronormative. 623 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:09,720 Exactly. 624 00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:11,680 And we need to celebrate body diversity. 625 00:18:11,680 --> 00:18:13,040 Yes, absolutely. 626 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:15,560 No comments about anyone's size or appearance. 627 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:16,280 Exactly. 628 00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:17,920 And when we talk about sizes, let's 629 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:19,600 focus on the garment itself. 630 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:21,200 Right, like the fit of the dress. 631 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:22,400 Not on labeling bodies. 632 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:26,120 It's about creating a positive and supportive environment. 633 00:18:26,120 --> 00:18:28,400 Where everyone feels comfortable, respected, 634 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:30,000 and valued for who they are. 635 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:31,240 I love that. 636 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:34,560 OK, so we've covered so much today, from wardrobe tips 637 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:39,320 to social media boundaries to the importance of inclusivity. 638 00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:40,440 It's been a lot. 639 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:41,360 It has. 640 00:18:41,360 --> 00:18:43,040 As we wrap up this deep dive, do you 641 00:18:43,040 --> 00:18:44,960 have any final words of wisdom for anyone 642 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:48,120 who's about to go wedding dress shopping as a guest? 643 00:18:48,120 --> 00:18:49,560 Just remember, it's an honor to be 644 00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:51,400 a part of this special moment. 645 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:52,240 Yeah, it is. 646 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:53,240 Be present. 647 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:54,600 Be supportive. 648 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:56,960 Let your love for the bride guide your every action 649 00:18:56,960 --> 00:18:57,880 and word. 650 00:18:57,880 --> 00:18:59,280 Beautiful. 651 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:01,480 And most importantly, have fun. 652 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:02,400 Yes. 653 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:04,240 Weddings are about celebrating love. 654 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:04,880 Exactly. 655 00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:07,040 And that joy should be a part of the whole experience. 656 00:19:07,040 --> 00:19:09,960 From finding the perfect dress to the big day itself. 657 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:12,240 I think we've officially equipped our listeners 658 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:14,760 to be the best wedding dress shopping guests ever. 659 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:15,560 I think so too. 660 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:17,800 They're going to be respectful, supportive, and ready 661 00:19:17,800 --> 00:19:19,560 to celebrate this exciting milestone. 662 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:20,720 They're going to be amazing. 663 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:22,440 Thanks for joining us on this deep dive. 664 00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:24,600 It's been so fun exploring this topic with you. 665 00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:25,760 It's been a pleasure. 666 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:28,520 And to our listeners, until next time, 667 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:30,480 keep exploring and keep diving deep 668 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:41,080 into those fascinating topics that spark your curiosity.