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All right, so today we're gonna dive into something

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that you might not expect.

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Okay.

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The world of plus-sized tuxedo and suit rentals.

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Ooh, ooh.

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And I'm not gonna lie, when I first saw this blog post

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from Darianna Bridal & Tuxedo,

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I kinda thought, okay, bigger sizes, got it.

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But there's actually a whole lot more to it.

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So whether you are someone prepping for a wedding,

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maybe helping a friend or just curious like me,

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get ready for some serious style intel.

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Yeah, you're absolutely right.

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It's way more nuanced than just grabbing a larger size.

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What's interesting is that many people,

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even those working in the industry,

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have misconceptions about what plus size even means

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and what options are actually out there.

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Okay, so let's bust some myths right off the bat.

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The blog author talks about this really big guy myth.

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The assumption that guys needing larger sizes

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are really big.

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It's almost comical.

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The shop actually carries jackets up to an 80R,

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but the largest size they've ever needed was a 72R.

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People tend to overestimate,

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and I think it ties into this idea

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that larger sizes are somehow unusual.

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So then where do we even draw the line?

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Right.

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What is considered plus size in this context?

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For Darianna Bridal & Tuxedo, it's a 60R and up.

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Okay.

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But here's the key takeaway.

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Even in those sizes, modern styles are totally accessible.

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Okay.

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And gone are the days of limited outdated options

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for larger guys.

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That's a relief.

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Yeah.

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But then we get into the whole fit thing.

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Slim fit, portly fit jacket lengths.

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It's a lot to wrap your head around.

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It can definitely feel overwhelming.

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Yes.

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So let's start with slim fit.

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Which might surprise some people.

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Yeah.

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It's not just for thinner guys anymore.

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In fact, a well tailored slim thought

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can be incredibly flattering on a larger build.

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I used to think slim fit meant

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feeling like you're squeezed into a sausage casing.

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But you're saying that's not the case.

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Not at all.

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It's all about creating a sleek silhouette.

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Mm-hmm.

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Slim fit can actually elongate the body

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and give a really sharp, modern look.

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Yeah.

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Regardless of your size.

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Dariana Bridal in tuxedo even encourages guys

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to try it on and just see how they feel.

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Might be surprised.

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That's changing my perspective already.

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Good.

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Now what about portly fit?

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Portly fit is designed with a bit more room

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in the waist and stomach.

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While still maintaining a tailored look in the shoulders.

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Mm-hmm.

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This could be a great option for someone

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who carries weight in their midsection.

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But doesn't wanna feel constricted.

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It provides a balance between comfort and style.

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So if you're self-conscious about your midsection,

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a portly fit might be the way to go.

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It's about understanding your body type.

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And choosing a fit that highlights your best features.

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Now we can't forget about jacket lengths.

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There's a whole spectrum there.

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Short, regular, long, extra long.

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It all comes down to proportion.

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A shorter jacket can actually create

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a more modern, youthful look.

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Even for taller guys.

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The shop owner, for example, is about five foot eight.

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And always goes for a shorter jacket length.

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It's about finding what works best

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for your height and build.

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It's like each element from the fit to the length.

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Adds another layer of customization.

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Precisely.

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It's not a one size fits all situation.

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And that brings us to another intriguing point

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the blog author raises.

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Double breasted suits might be making a comeback.

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I have to admit, I'm picturing

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those 80s power suits right now.

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But I'm guessing it's a bit more nuanced than that.

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You're right.

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The modern take on double breasted is much more refined.

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Mm-hmm.

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And here's where it gets interesting for our deep dive.

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Double breasted styles can be especially flattering

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for larger men.

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I am all yours, tell me more.

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The way the fabric drapes across the chest

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provides extra coverage.

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And creates a very streamlined silhouette.

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Mm-hmm.

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It can actually minimize the appearance

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of a larger midsection.

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And create a really elegant, powerful look.

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That makes a lot of sense.

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It's not about hiding anything.

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It's about working with the lines and proportions.

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To create the most flattering look.

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Exactly.

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It's all about finding what makes you feel

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confident and comfortable.

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Speaking of comfort, the blog really stresses

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the importance of choosing the right fabrics.

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Yes.

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Especially for plus size guys.

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Nobody wants to be sweating and itching all night.

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In a stiff, uncomfortable suit.

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Like, come on.

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Luckily, we're not stuck with those old

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scratchy fabrics anymore.

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Okay, good.

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Modern suit fabrics are all about breathability and comfort.

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Mm-hmm.

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You've got lightweight blends, moisture wicking materials.

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Even merino wool, which is amazing

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for temperature regulation.

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So it sounds like even if you're prone

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to getting a bit warm,

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you can still find a suit that'll keep you feeling

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cool and confident.

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Absolutely, it's a game changer.

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Especially if you're attending an event

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where you'll be moving around or dancing.

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Okay, I'm already feeling more optimistic

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about this whole suit rental thing.

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Good.

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But I have to admit, the idea of actually going

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to a shop and getting fitted.

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Can be a bit intimidating.

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Any advice on how to overcome that hurdle?

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The blog has a really practical tip for that.

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Call ahead.

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And not just to make an appointment,

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but to actually inquire about their

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fitting garment selection.

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Make sure they have a range of sizes that covers you.

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There's nothing worse than getting to a shop

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and realizing they can't properly fit you.

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Yay, that's such a simple yet brilliant piece of advice.

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Right.

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It takes the guesswork out of it

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and ensures you're not wasting your time.

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Exactly.

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And here's another pro tip.

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Before you even set foot in a shop.

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Grab a measuring tape.

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Got it.

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And wrap it around your chest just under your arm.

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This will give you a rough estimate of your jacket size.

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Wait, that's it?

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Just a simple chest measurement.

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It might sound too good to be true,

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but it actually gives you a pretty accurate starting point.

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Let's say you measure 53 inches around.

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You're probably looking at a size 52 or 54 jacket.

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Gotcha.

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Of course, this is just an estimate.

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But it gives you a ballpark figure

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and can help you feel more prepared

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when you walk into the shop.

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Oh, I'm already feeling more empowered and less intimidated,

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but we've covered a lot of ground already.

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And I'm sure there's still more to uncover.

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Yeah.

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We'll be back after a quick break to dive even deeper

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into this fascinating world of plus size suit

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and tuxedo rentals.

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Stay tuned.

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That chest measurement trick is a great way

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to gain a bit of confidence

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before you even walk into a shop.

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And speaking of shops.

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This blog post really emphasizes finding one

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that's truly experienced with plus size fittings.

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It's not just about carrying larger sizes.

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It's about understanding the nuances of fit and style

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for different body types.

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That makes total sense.

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But how can you tell if a shop is really up to the task?

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Right.

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Are there any red flags to watch out for?

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One key indicator is whether they invest

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in a wide range of fitting garments.

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The author actually included a picture

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of their shop's fitting jacket selection.

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And it's impressive.

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Sizes from 3B all the way up to 70XL.

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Wow.

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That shows a real commitment

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to serving a diverse clientele.

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It's like they're saying,

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come on in, we've got you covered, literally.

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Right, exactly.

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But beyond the size range, what about the staff?

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How can you gauge their expertise?

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That's where a little bit of pre-appointment research

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can come in handy.

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Look at online reviews.

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See if anyone mentions their experience

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with plus size fittings.

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Don't be afraid to call ahead.

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And have a chat with the staff.

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Ask about their experience, their approach to fitting.

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And if they have any stylists

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who specialize in larger sizes,

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a good shop will be happy to answer your questions

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and put you at ease.

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It's almost like interviewing them to be your style guide.

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Exactly, it's a partnership.

294
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Right.

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You wanna find someone who understands your needs

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and can guide you through the process

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with confidence and expertise.

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It sounds like communication is key here.

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Yes.

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Being upfront about your concerns and preferences

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can make all the difference.

302
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Absolutely, don't hold back.

303
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Yeah.

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Let them know if you have any specific areas

305
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you're self-conscious about,

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styles you're drawn to, or even events you've seen

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where someone's outfit really caught your eye.

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The more information you give them,

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the better equipped they'll be

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to help you find the perfect look.

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Okay, I'm taking notes.

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Good.

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Communication is key, research, your shop.

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And don't be afraid to ask questions.

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What other gems does this blog post offer?

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This next one might seem obvious,

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but it's worth emphasizing.

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Try on multiple sizes.

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Okay.

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Don't get fixated on a number.

321
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Right.

322
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Sizes can vary between brands.

323
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Yeah.

324
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And even styles within the same brand.

325
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I've definitely fallen into that trap before.

326
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Yeah.

327
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Getting stuck on a certain size

328
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and feeling defeated when it doesn't fit quite right.

329
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It's a common mistake.

330
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Yeah.

331
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Remember, it's about how the garment feels on your body.

332
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Right.

333
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Not what the label says.

334
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Right.

335
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Focus on the fit.

336
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Yeah, okay.

337
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The comfort and how it makes you feel.

338
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Does it allow you to move freely?

339
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Yeah.

340
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Does it accentuate your best features?

341
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Yeah.

342
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Those are the questions that matter.

343
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That's a good reminder to let go

344
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of any size-related insecurities

345
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and prioritize finding something that truly flatters.

346
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Exactly.

347
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And if something feels almost right,

348
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but not quite there,

349
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don't underestimate the power of alterations.

350
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Okay.

351
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A skilled tailor can work wonders.

352
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Right.

353
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Adjusting the fit to your exact measurements and preferences.

354
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It's like having a custom-made suit

355
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without the custom-made price tag.

356
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Right.

357
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Okay, so we've talked about finding the right shop,

358
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understanding different fits,

359
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and the importance of communication,

360
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and trying on multiple sizes.

361
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What else should we keep in mind?

362
00:10:08,140 --> 00:10:10,820
Well, there's one aspect we haven't touched on yet.

363
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Okay.

364
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That can be a bit sensitive.

365
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Okay.

366
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But it's important to address

367
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the financial side of things.

368
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Right.

369
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Weddings and formal events can get expensive.

370
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Yeah.

371
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And sometimes larger sizes come with a price premium.

372
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That's a valid concern.

373
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Yeah.

374
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It's not fair, but I've heard that some shops

375
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might charge extra for larger sizes.

376
00:10:31,500 --> 00:10:32,340
Right.

377
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Exciting higher manufacturing costs or limited inventory.

378
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The blog author actually tackles this head on.

379
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Okay.

380
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They explain that some shops might be hesitant

381
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to carry a wide range of larger sizes

382
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because of the added expense.

383
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Right.

384
00:10:44,980 --> 00:10:45,800
It's a business decision.

385
00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:46,640
Yeah.

386
00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:48,820
But it can be frustrating for customers

387
00:10:48,820 --> 00:10:53,400
who are simply looking for stylish and well-fitting options.

388
00:10:53,400 --> 00:10:55,980
It's definitely a barrier that needs to be broken down.

389
00:10:55,980 --> 00:10:56,820
Yeah.

390
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So how can we navigate this tricky financial terrain?

391
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Transparency is key.

392
00:11:00,900 --> 00:11:01,740
Okay.

393
00:11:01,740 --> 00:11:05,040
Don't be afraid to ask about pricing upfront

394
00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:09,180
and inquire about any potential surcharges for larger sizes

395
00:11:09,180 --> 00:11:10,180
and shop around.

396
00:11:10,180 --> 00:11:11,020
Okay.

397
00:11:11,020 --> 00:11:13,600
Compare prices from different shops,

398
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both online and brick and mortar.

399
00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:16,200
Yeah.

400
00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:18,100
You might be surprised by the variation you find.

401
00:11:18,100 --> 00:11:19,640
It's like anything else.

402
00:11:19,640 --> 00:11:21,740
A little bit of research and comparison shopping

403
00:11:21,740 --> 00:11:23,540
can save you money in the long run.

404
00:11:23,540 --> 00:11:24,380
Exactly.

405
00:11:24,380 --> 00:11:26,200
And it's also a way of supporting shops

406
00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:29,960
that are committed to offering inclusive sizing

407
00:11:29,960 --> 00:11:31,740
without the added financial burden.

408
00:11:31,740 --> 00:11:33,460
Absolutely, by voting with your wallet.

409
00:11:33,460 --> 00:11:34,300
Right.

410
00:11:34,300 --> 00:11:36,780
It will help shift the industry towards greater inclusivity

411
00:11:36,780 --> 00:11:38,440
and affordability for all.

412
00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:40,500
Okay, that's a powerful message.

413
00:11:40,500 --> 00:11:41,340
Yeah.

414
00:11:41,340 --> 00:11:43,940
We've covered a lot of ground in this deep dive.

415
00:11:43,940 --> 00:11:47,340
From debunking myths to practical tips

416
00:11:47,340 --> 00:11:49,140
for finding the perfect fit.

417
00:11:49,140 --> 00:11:49,980
Right.

418
00:11:49,980 --> 00:11:51,020
But we're not quite done yet.

419
00:11:51,020 --> 00:11:54,080
There's still one crucial stage in this journey

420
00:11:54,080 --> 00:11:55,220
that we need to explore.

421
00:11:55,220 --> 00:11:56,060
Okay.

422
00:11:56,060 --> 00:11:57,020
The fitting process itself.

423
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All right.

424
00:11:57,940 --> 00:11:59,580
We'll be back after a quick break

425
00:11:59,580 --> 00:12:01,500
to delve into the do's and don'ts

426
00:12:01,500 --> 00:12:04,340
of getting fitted for a plus size suit or tuxedo.

427
00:12:04,340 --> 00:12:05,180
Okay.

428
00:12:05,180 --> 00:12:07,540
Ensuring a smooth and successful experience.

429
00:12:07,540 --> 00:12:08,720
Stay tuned.

430
00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:09,880
All right, we're back.

431
00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:11,780
And ready to tackle the final stage

432
00:12:11,780 --> 00:12:14,660
of our plus size suit or tuxedo quest.

433
00:12:14,660 --> 00:12:15,500
Yep.

434
00:12:15,500 --> 00:12:16,460
The fitting itself.

435
00:12:16,460 --> 00:12:17,280
Yeah.

436
00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:19,340
I have to admit, even armed with all this knowledge,

437
00:12:19,340 --> 00:12:21,120
the thought of actually standing there,

438
00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:23,500
getting measured and poked and prodded.

439
00:12:23,500 --> 00:12:24,340
Yeah.

440
00:12:24,340 --> 00:12:25,540
Can be a little nerve wracking.

441
00:12:25,540 --> 00:12:26,380
I get it.

442
00:12:26,380 --> 00:12:28,060
It can feel like a vulnerable experience.

443
00:12:28,060 --> 00:12:28,900
Yeah.

444
00:12:28,900 --> 00:12:30,300
But the good news is,

445
00:12:30,300 --> 00:12:33,820
the blog author offers some fantastic advice

446
00:12:33,820 --> 00:12:36,380
for making the fitting process

447
00:12:36,380 --> 00:12:38,700
as smooth and comfortable as possible.

448
00:12:38,700 --> 00:12:39,540
Okay.

449
00:12:39,540 --> 00:12:41,260
Think of it less like a test.

450
00:12:41,260 --> 00:12:42,100
Yeah.

451
00:12:42,100 --> 00:12:43,400
And more like a collaboration.

452
00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:44,240
Okay.

453
00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:46,940
A chance to work with a knowledgeable professional

454
00:12:46,940 --> 00:12:49,420
to create a look that makes you feel amazing.

455
00:12:49,420 --> 00:12:51,900
Okay, I like that reframing collaboration

456
00:12:51,900 --> 00:12:52,940
over interrogation.

457
00:12:52,940 --> 00:12:53,760
Exactly.

458
00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:56,020
So what are some key things to keep in mind

459
00:12:56,020 --> 00:12:58,060
when we walk into that fitting room?

460
00:12:58,060 --> 00:12:59,180
First and foremost.

461
00:12:59,180 --> 00:13:00,020
Okay.

462
00:13:00,020 --> 00:13:01,780
Remember that communication is your best friend.

463
00:13:01,780 --> 00:13:02,700
Okay.

464
00:13:02,700 --> 00:13:05,380
Be upfront with the stylist about your needs,

465
00:13:05,380 --> 00:13:08,540
your concerns, any areas you're self-conscious about

466
00:13:08,540 --> 00:13:10,540
or styles you're particularly drawn to.

467
00:13:10,540 --> 00:13:12,540
It's almost like setting the ground rules

468
00:13:12,540 --> 00:13:14,260
for a good partnership.

469
00:13:14,260 --> 00:13:15,100
Right.

470
00:13:15,100 --> 00:13:17,220
Honesty and open communication from the start.

471
00:13:17,220 --> 00:13:19,660
Exactly, and don't be afraid to ask questions.

472
00:13:19,660 --> 00:13:20,480
Okay.

473
00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:22,280
A good stylist will be happy to explain

474
00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:23,120
the different options.

475
00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:23,960
Yeah.

476
00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:25,660
The nuances of each fit

477
00:13:25,660 --> 00:13:28,940
and even offer suggestions based on your body type.

478
00:13:28,940 --> 00:13:29,780
Okay.

479
00:13:29,780 --> 00:13:31,460
What's the overall vibe you're going for?

480
00:13:31,460 --> 00:13:34,540
So it's not about passively accepting

481
00:13:34,540 --> 00:13:35,580
whatever they hand you.

482
00:13:35,580 --> 00:13:38,300
It's about actively participating in the process.

483
00:13:38,300 --> 00:13:39,140
Yeah.

484
00:13:39,140 --> 00:13:39,900
And making sure your voice is heard.

485
00:13:39,900 --> 00:13:42,020
Absolutely, you're not just a body being dressed.

486
00:13:42,020 --> 00:13:43,340
You're a person.

487
00:13:43,340 --> 00:13:44,160
Right.

488
00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:45,980
With preferences and a vision

489
00:13:45,980 --> 00:13:47,580
for how you wanna look and feel.

490
00:13:47,580 --> 00:13:48,580
That's empowering.

491
00:13:48,580 --> 00:13:50,300
Now the blog also mentioned something

492
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about trying on multiple sizes.

493
00:13:52,180 --> 00:13:53,020
Yes.

494
00:13:53,020 --> 00:13:54,540
Even if you think you know your size,

495
00:13:54,540 --> 00:13:55,880
why is that so important?

496
00:13:55,880 --> 00:13:58,060
It's all about finding the best fit

497
00:13:58,060 --> 00:14:00,220
for your unique body.

498
00:14:00,220 --> 00:14:01,060
Okay.

499
00:14:01,060 --> 00:14:03,180
Not relying on a number, on a tag.

500
00:14:03,180 --> 00:14:04,060
Right.

501
00:14:04,060 --> 00:14:06,700
Sizes can vary wildly between brands

502
00:14:06,700 --> 00:14:09,100
and even different styles within the same brand

503
00:14:09,100 --> 00:14:09,920
can fit differently.

504
00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:12,020
So even if you've always been a certain size,

505
00:14:12,020 --> 00:14:14,300
be open to trying on a range of options.

506
00:14:15,520 --> 00:14:17,580
You might be surprised by what feels best.

507
00:14:17,580 --> 00:14:19,100
That makes a lot of sense.

508
00:14:19,100 --> 00:14:20,820
It's like dating sometimes you have to try on

509
00:14:20,820 --> 00:14:22,900
a few different styles before you find the one

510
00:14:22,900 --> 00:14:23,940
that truly fits.

511
00:14:23,940 --> 00:14:26,220
Exactly, and don't be afraid to go up or down in size.

512
00:14:26,220 --> 00:14:27,040
Yeah.

513
00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:28,740
That's what feels most comfortable and flattering.

514
00:14:28,740 --> 00:14:29,580
Okay.

515
00:14:29,580 --> 00:14:31,780
Remember the goal is to find a suit

516
00:14:31,780 --> 00:14:34,460
that makes you feel confident and at ease.

517
00:14:34,460 --> 00:14:36,740
Not to squeeze into something just because of a number.

518
00:14:36,740 --> 00:14:39,340
It's about feeling good in your own skin, literally.

519
00:14:39,340 --> 00:14:40,180
Yeah.

520
00:14:40,180 --> 00:14:42,140
And speaking of feeling good.

521
00:14:42,140 --> 00:14:42,980
Yeah.

522
00:14:42,980 --> 00:14:46,020
What if something feels almost right but not quite there?

523
00:14:46,020 --> 00:14:48,060
Can a good tailor work magic?

524
00:14:48,060 --> 00:14:48,900
Absolutely.

525
00:14:48,900 --> 00:14:50,620
Alterations are your secret weapon

526
00:14:50,620 --> 00:14:53,280
for achieving a truly customized fit.

527
00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:54,360
Okay.

528
00:14:54,360 --> 00:14:55,940
Don't hesitate to point out any areas

529
00:14:55,940 --> 00:14:58,100
that feel too tight or too loose.

530
00:14:58,100 --> 00:14:58,940
Yeah.

531
00:14:58,940 --> 00:14:59,940
Or if you'd like to adjust the length

532
00:14:59,940 --> 00:15:01,620
of the jacket or pants.

533
00:15:01,620 --> 00:15:05,020
So even if you don't find something perfect off the rack.

534
00:15:05,020 --> 00:15:05,860
Right.

535
00:15:05,860 --> 00:15:07,340
You can still get that tailored bespoke look

536
00:15:07,340 --> 00:15:08,740
without breaking the bank.

537
00:15:08,740 --> 00:15:09,740
Precisely.

538
00:15:09,740 --> 00:15:12,500
And most shops that specialize in formal wear

539
00:15:12,500 --> 00:15:15,060
will have in-house tailors who are experienced

540
00:15:15,060 --> 00:15:17,260
in working with different body types and fabrics.

541
00:15:17,260 --> 00:15:18,100
Yeah.

542
00:15:18,100 --> 00:15:19,460
They can make those subtle adjustments

543
00:15:19,460 --> 00:15:20,580
that make all the difference.

544
00:15:20,580 --> 00:15:23,320
This whole process is starting to feel a lot less daunting

545
00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:24,740
and a lot more exciting.

546
00:15:24,740 --> 00:15:25,580
Do it.

547
00:15:25,580 --> 00:15:28,300
What if we're uncovering a hidden world of possibilities

548
00:15:28,300 --> 00:15:30,500
for plus size formal wear?

549
00:15:30,500 --> 00:15:31,820
That's what we love to hear.

550
00:15:31,820 --> 00:15:32,640
Yeah.

551
00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:34,860
And that brings us to our final thought provoking question.

552
00:15:34,860 --> 00:15:35,700
Okay.

553
00:15:35,700 --> 00:15:37,260
Something for our listeners to ponder

554
00:15:37,260 --> 00:15:40,220
as they embark on their own suit or tuxedo journey.

555
00:15:40,220 --> 00:15:41,060
Okay.

556
00:15:41,060 --> 00:15:43,540
Given all these advancements in fit fabric and style.

557
00:15:43,540 --> 00:15:44,420
Yeah.

558
00:15:44,420 --> 00:15:46,240
What do you think the future holds

559
00:15:46,240 --> 00:15:48,060
for plus size formal wear?

560
00:15:48,060 --> 00:15:49,740
That's a great question.

561
00:15:49,740 --> 00:15:51,560
It's exciting to imagine a future

562
00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:54,020
where formal wear truly reflects

563
00:15:54,020 --> 00:15:57,340
the diversity of body types and personal styles.

564
00:15:57,340 --> 00:15:59,340
A world where everyone feels confident

565
00:15:59,340 --> 00:16:01,680
and empowered to rock a suit or tuxedo

566
00:16:01,680 --> 00:16:03,180
that celebrates who they are.

567
00:16:03,180 --> 00:16:05,060
Couldn't have said it better myself.

568
00:16:05,060 --> 00:16:06,980
Thanks for joining us on this Deep Dive.

569
00:16:06,980 --> 00:16:07,820
Yeah.

570
00:16:07,820 --> 00:16:10,300
And remember finding the perfect suit or tuxedo

571
00:16:10,300 --> 00:16:12,580
is a journey, not a destination.

572
00:16:12,580 --> 00:16:13,420
Right.

573
00:16:13,420 --> 00:16:15,020
Enjoy the process.

574
00:16:15,020 --> 00:16:17,060
Embrace your individuality.

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And most importantly, have fun.

