1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,040 All right, so get ready because today we are going like deep, deep into wedding dress shopping. 2 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:06,040 Ooh, fun! 3 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:10,520 Yeah, but like not just the fun part, like the myths that people believe. 4 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:11,520 Okay, myths. 5 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:16,240 Yeah, those tricky things that can like mess up even brides who are super prepared, you 6 00:00:16,240 --> 00:00:17,240 know? 7 00:00:17,240 --> 00:00:18,240 Oh yeah, I gotcha. 8 00:00:18,240 --> 00:00:20,480 So we're using this article as like our guide. 9 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:21,760 Okay, what's it called? 10 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:26,840 It's called like 16 wedding dress shopping myths exposed and debunked. 11 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:27,840 Catchy. 12 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:28,840 Right. 13 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:32,320 It's a bridal shop in Pennsylvania, Darianna Bridal & Tuxedo. 14 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:33,320 And it's really interesting. 15 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:34,320 Pennsylvania, huh? 16 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:37,520 I always think of those big New York City bridal salons. 17 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:41,200 Well, this article is all about, you know, what really matters when you're looking for 18 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:43,320 the perfect gown no matter where you are. 19 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:45,920 So like what kind of myths are we talking about? 20 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:48,840 Is it like the whole you have to cry when you find the dress thing? 21 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:49,840 You rid my mind. 22 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:51,520 That's like myth number one they debunked. 23 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:52,520 Really? 24 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:56,020 Because I feel like everyone expects that, like it's this big emotional moment. 25 00:00:56,020 --> 00:00:59,440 It is a big moment, but they're saying it doesn't have to look the same for everyone. 26 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:00,720 Okay, that makes sense. 27 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,160 Like some brides might feel super excited. 28 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:07,080 Others might just have this like quiet feeling of this is it. 29 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:09,400 So tears aren't like mandatory. 30 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:10,400 Not at all. 31 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:14,880 It's more about finding a dress that like speaks to you, not like performing for other 32 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:15,880 people. 33 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:16,880 Yeah, that's a good point. 34 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:19,080 Like it's your wedding, your dress, your feelings. 35 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:20,080 Totally. 36 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:23,560 It's like all those expectations can get so intense even for something as personal as 37 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:24,560 this. 38 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:25,560 Exactly. 39 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:27,480 And it's not just the reaction to the dress. 40 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:32,040 They also debunk the whole like love at first sight idea. 41 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:33,040 What no way. 42 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:35,360 Isn't that like every bride's dream? 43 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:39,600 It's a nice idea, but this article is all about being practical too. 44 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:41,720 Practical when it comes to wedding dresses. 45 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:42,880 I know, right? 46 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:43,880 But they make some good points. 47 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:44,880 Okay, I'm listening. 48 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:49,640 Like they say things like your venue, your overall vision for the wedding and even your 49 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:50,640 budget. 50 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:52,000 They all play a huge role. 51 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:53,000 Hmm. 52 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:54,000 I guess that makes sense. 53 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,360 Like a giant ball gown for like a beach wedding. 54 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:57,360 Exactly. 55 00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:01,800 They even talk about brides leaving appointments with like two favorite dresses and having 56 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:04,300 to really think about the pros and cons of each. 57 00:02:04,300 --> 00:02:06,400 So it's not always like this instant spark. 58 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:07,400 Not necessarily. 59 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:10,280 Sometimes it takes some, you know, thoughtful consideration. 60 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:13,400 I bet that helps you avoid some of that decision fatigue too, right? 61 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:14,400 Oh, totally. 62 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:18,240 They actually share this funny story about brides trying on so many dresses they can't 63 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:20,480 even remember which ones they liked. 64 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:21,480 Like too many dresses. 65 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:22,480 Yeah. 66 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:25,280 It's like the point where they're like, didn't we all hate this dress? 67 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:27,480 Oh, I can totally see that happening. 68 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:29,720 It's like classic decision overload, you know? 69 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:30,720 Yeah. 70 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:32,840 Even when it's something exciting like wedding dresses. 71 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:34,920 Too many choices can be paralyzing. 72 00:02:34,920 --> 00:02:35,920 Right. 73 00:02:35,920 --> 00:02:40,160 And speaking of too many choices, they talk about how you shouldn't go crazy visiting 74 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:41,880 a million different stores. 75 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:42,880 How many is too many? 76 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:44,600 Like where do you draw the line? 77 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:48,240 They recommend like one to three max. 78 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:49,800 Really? 79 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:50,800 Only three. 80 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:52,680 Not like good ones, you know? 81 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:54,520 Ones that fit your style and budget. 82 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:56,680 So it's more about quality over quantity. 83 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:57,680 Exactly. 84 00:02:57,680 --> 00:02:59,160 And they say you should do your research beforehand. 85 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:01,520 Oh, like look at their websites, read reviews. 86 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:02,520 Exactly. 87 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:04,680 Get a feel for their vibe before you even walk in. 88 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:06,720 It's like being prepared. 89 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:07,720 It is. 90 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,520 It's way better than just wandering around, you know, aimlessly. 91 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:11,520 Totally. 92 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:12,520 Otherwise you'll just get overwhelmed. 93 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:13,520 Right. 94 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:18,120 And while we're talking about things to watch out for, they also debunk this big myth about 95 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:22,120 expensive or designer dresses always being better. 96 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:26,840 That's a tough one because I think a lot of people just assume if it costs more, it must 97 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:27,840 be better. 98 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:28,840 Right. 99 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:29,840 But they break it down. 100 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:31,520 Like it's not always about the price tag. 101 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:32,520 OK. 102 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:34,180 So what is it about then? 103 00:03:34,180 --> 00:03:38,120 They talk about how it's a bunch of things together, like the fabric, the embellishments. 104 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:39,120 Oh yeah. 105 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:40,120 All those details. 106 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:42,280 And sometimes, yeah, just the designer's name. 107 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:45,400 So it's not always about the actual quality. 108 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:46,400 Sometimes it is, but not always. 109 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:49,760 They say it's about, you know, knowing what you're paying for, what matters to you. 110 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:51,080 And what you can afford, right? 111 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:52,080 Right. 112 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:53,920 You don't have to break the bank to get a gorgeous gown. 113 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:54,920 Yeah. 114 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:56,560 Weddings are already expensive enough as it is. 115 00:03:56,560 --> 00:04:02,200 And speaking of paying, they get really real about like the financial side of dress shopping. 116 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:04,600 Oh, like the stuff nobody really talks about. 117 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:05,600 Exactly. 118 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:08,520 Like they actually confirm that some salons work on commission. 119 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:09,800 Wait, really? 120 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:13,280 So they get paid more if you buy a pricier dress. 121 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:16,360 It's not every salon, but it is something to keep in mind. 122 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:19,440 It's like they have an incentive to push you towards a certain price point. 123 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:20,440 Right. 124 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:23,400 And they also talk about how alterations can get really expensive too. 125 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:24,400 Yeah. 126 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:28,520 I've heard horror stories about alterations costing almost as much as the dress itself. 127 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:31,440 And they recommend maybe looking for an independent seamstress. 128 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:32,760 Oh, that's a good idea. 129 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:34,560 It could save you a lot of money. 130 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:35,560 Right. 131 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:36,560 And you know what? 132 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:38,440 Dariana Bridell actually does things differently. 133 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:41,480 They're really open about their non-commission model. 134 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:42,480 That's cool. 135 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:44,360 So they're not trying to push you towards the most expensive option. 136 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:45,360 Nope. 137 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:50,200 They don't prioritize the client relationship over just making a sale. 138 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:51,200 I love that. 139 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:54,120 It makes the whole experience feel less salesy. 140 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:55,560 Exactly. 141 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:59,280 And speaking of sales, they also talk about all those tempting online deals. 142 00:04:59,280 --> 00:05:00,280 Oh yeah. 143 00:05:00,280 --> 00:05:02,680 You can find some crazy cheap wedding dresses online. 144 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:03,680 Right. 145 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:05,800 But they're super cautious about those knockoffs. 146 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:06,800 Like quality issues. 147 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:07,800 Yeah. 148 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:10,160 And customer service nightmares, all that. 149 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:13,600 It's like for a purchase this important, you don't want to risk it. 150 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:14,600 Right. 151 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:18,200 You're investing in something that will last, not just grabbing a bargain. 152 00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:21,640 It's that whole fast fashion versus conscious purchasing thing, you know? 153 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:22,640 Yeah. 154 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:25,000 Sometimes cheap ends up costing you more in the long run. 155 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:26,000 Totally. 156 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:27,960 So what other myths do they debunk? 157 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:32,240 Oh, they get into the whole entourage situation, which I know is a big one. 158 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:33,240 The entourage. 159 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:36,040 You mean like all your friends and family who come dress shopping with you? 160 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:37,040 Exactly. 161 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:38,320 The whole say yes to the dress squad. 162 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:39,320 Oh yeah. 163 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:40,540 The more the merrier, right? 164 00:05:40,540 --> 00:05:41,640 Not so fast. 165 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:45,560 They actually say that a huge entourage can make things harder. 166 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:46,560 Really? 167 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:47,560 How so? 168 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:50,720 I always thought it was fun to have everyone's opinions. 169 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:56,480 It can be, but they say it can also shift the focus away from like the bride's needs. 170 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:58,060 Oh, that makes sense. 171 00:05:58,060 --> 00:06:00,400 With too many voices, it's hard to hear your own. 172 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:01,400 Exactly. 173 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:05,360 And they emphasize that dress shopping should be like a personal experience where the bride 174 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:07,000 feels comfortable and confident. 175 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:08,000 Yeah. 176 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:09,760 You don't want to feel pressured by everyone else's opinions. 177 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:10,760 Right. 178 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:12,560 So whose wedding is it anyway? 179 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:16,640 It's your day and you should feel good about the choices you're making. 180 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:17,640 Exactly. 181 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:21,500 So they encourage brides to create like a more intimate experience where they can really 182 00:06:21,500 --> 00:06:25,300 connect with the dresses and you know, themselves. 183 00:06:25,300 --> 00:06:26,600 That sounds much less stressful. 184 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:27,600 Right. 185 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:30,720 And it helps you avoid getting swayed by all those outside opinions. 186 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:32,920 So what about that sleep on it pressure? 187 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:34,240 Do they talk about that? 188 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:35,240 They do. 189 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:36,240 They're all about trusting your gut. 190 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:39,000 So like if you feel good about a dress, go for it. 191 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:40,000 Exactly. 192 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:42,160 They don't even pressure you into second guessing yourself. 193 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:46,000 That's so important, especially when you're bombarded with so many opinions. 194 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:49,440 It's about owning that decision and trusting your own judgment. 195 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:50,440 Yeah. 196 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:52,920 That's a good life lesson in general, not just for wedding dress shopping. 197 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:53,920 You got it. 198 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:55,840 And you know what else they debunk? 199 00:06:55,840 --> 00:07:00,000 That whole idea that if you can't find the perfect dress, you have to get one custom 200 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:01,000 made. 201 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:02,000 Really? 202 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:05,260 I always thought that was like the fallback option if you're super picky. 203 00:07:05,260 --> 00:07:09,080 It's definitely an option, but they say it can be really complicated and stressful. 204 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:13,720 Yeah, I imagine it would be a lot of back and forth fittings, adjustments. 205 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:19,320 And they emphasize there was so many amazing dresses already out there, finding the one 206 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:20,760 is totally possible. 207 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:23,200 If you shop smart and stay open minded. 208 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:24,200 Exactly. 209 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:27,520 No need to reinvent the wheel unless you really want to, of course. 210 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:29,400 I feel like that's reassuring to hear. 211 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:31,120 It takes some of the pressure off. 212 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:32,120 Totally. 213 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:36,640 And speaking of pressure, they also tackled that whole white dress mandate. 214 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:39,000 Wait, you don't have to wear white. 215 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:40,000 Nope. 216 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:43,720 They make it clear that wedding dresses come in all sorts of colors and patterns these 217 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:44,720 days. 218 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:45,720 That's awesome. 219 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:47,480 It's like breaking free from tradition. 220 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:48,480 Right. 221 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:49,480 It's your wedding. 222 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:51,080 You can wear whatever makes you feel beautiful. 223 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:54,440 It's about expressing your personal style, not just following the rules. 224 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:55,440 Exactly. 225 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:56,640 And what other rules are they breaking? 226 00:07:56,640 --> 00:08:00,560 Well, they say you don't have to stick with that traditional ball gown silhouette either. 227 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:02,200 Oh, I like where this is going. 228 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:03,200 Right. 229 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:07,480 They talk about how different silhouettes can be bridal, like mermaid styles, sheath 230 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:09,400 styles, all kinds of things. 231 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:13,720 So it's about finding what flatters your body and matches your wedding's vibe. 232 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:14,720 Exactly. 233 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:16,400 It's not just about what looks bridal. 234 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:18,400 It's about what looks good on you. 235 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:19,400 I love that. 236 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:21,720 And what about all those super simple dresses? 237 00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:23,680 Are those considered bridal enough? 238 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:25,400 They debunk that myth too. 239 00:08:25,400 --> 00:08:28,440 They actually highlight how those simpler gowns can be really elegant. 240 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:32,760 I've always thought there's something really chic about a minimalist wedding dress. 241 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:33,760 Right. 242 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:36,400 They talk about how sometimes less is definitely more. 243 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:37,400 Yeah. 244 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:39,280 They even put bells and whistles to make a statement. 245 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:40,280 Totally. 246 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:42,880 And especially when you pair those simpler gowns with the right accessories. 247 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:44,240 Oh, that's key. 248 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:46,480 The right accessories can really elevate a look. 249 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:47,700 It's all about balance. 250 00:08:47,700 --> 00:08:50,560 And making it your own, adding those personal touches. 251 00:08:50,560 --> 00:08:51,560 Yes. 252 00:08:51,560 --> 00:08:54,000 So are there any other myths they bust? 253 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:55,000 Hmm. 254 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:57,880 I'm curious about timelines. 255 00:08:57,880 --> 00:09:01,840 I feel like there's a lot of pressure to order your dress way in advance. 256 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:02,840 They totally address that. 257 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:06,440 They call out that whole eight to 12 months thing as a pressure tactic. 258 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:07,440 Really? 259 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:09,200 So you don't need a whole year to get your dress? 260 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:10,200 Not necessarily. 261 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:13,720 They say dresses usually arrive much sooner, like five months or less. 262 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:14,720 That's good to know. 263 00:09:14,720 --> 00:09:15,720 It takes some of the pressure off. 264 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:16,720 Right. 265 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:20,680 It's important for brides to understand realistic timelines so they don't feel rushed into making 266 00:09:20,680 --> 00:09:22,000 a decision. 267 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:26,400 And speaking of decisions, how do they say you should handle all those different opinions 268 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:27,520 you're bound to get? 269 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:33,400 They wrap up by saying that the bride's personal preference should be the ultimate guide. 270 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:35,580 It all comes back to the bride. 271 00:09:35,580 --> 00:09:40,520 But how do you navigate all those opinions from family and friends? 272 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:41,600 That's the tricky part. 273 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:47,320 They say it's about finding a balance, like value their feedback, but ultimately stay true 274 00:09:47,320 --> 00:09:48,960 to your own vision. 275 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:52,520 It's like honoring your own intuition, even when everyone else has an opinion. 276 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:53,520 Exactly. 277 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:55,360 It's your dress, your day, your choice. 278 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:59,040 It's a good reminder that it's okay to set boundaries and stand up for what you want. 279 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:00,040 Totally. 280 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:02,520 And it goes back to that whole theme of self-trust that we were talking about earlier. 281 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:07,000 Yeah, it's about knowing yourself and what you want, even amidst all the chaos of wedding 282 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:08,000 planning. 283 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:09,640 So, there you have it. 284 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:13,520 We've busted some major wedding dress myths, hopefully giving you some things to think 285 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:16,040 about as you start your own dress journey. 286 00:10:16,040 --> 00:10:18,480 I feel like we've barely scratched the surface. 287 00:10:18,480 --> 00:10:20,040 There's so much to unpack here. 288 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:21,040 You're right. 289 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:23,960 There's so much more to discuss, but we'll have to save that for next time. 290 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:26,280 Okay, I'm intrigued. 291 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:28,840 What else is on the agenda for our deep dive? 292 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:32,800 Well, Darianna Bridal & Tuxedo touched on something in their article that I think is really important 293 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:34,240 for brides to consider. 294 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:37,160 And it might not be the first thing that comes to mind when you're thinking about wedding 295 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:38,160 dresses. 296 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:39,160 What's that? 297 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:43,720 It's the ethics and sustainability of where your dress comes from. 298 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:45,520 Oh, that's a good one. 299 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:49,240 It's easy to forget about that stuff when you're focused on finding the perfect dress. 300 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:50,240 Right. 301 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:52,120 But it matters, even with wedding dresses. 302 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:53,120 Totally. 303 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:54,320 So, what do they say about it? 304 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:58,800 They basically encourage brides to think about those things, like where the dress is made, 305 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:00,400 what kind of fabrics they use. 306 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:02,560 Oh, so it's not just about finding a pretty dress. 307 00:11:02,560 --> 00:11:05,200 It's about making a conscious choice. 308 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:06,200 Exactly. 309 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:12,240 And the good news is there are a ton of amazing designers who are really committed to ethical 310 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:13,960 and sustainable practices. 311 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:18,080 So, you don't have to sacrifice style for doing the right thing. 312 00:11:18,080 --> 00:11:19,080 Not at all. 313 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:23,320 There are so many gorgeous eco-friendly gowns out there. 314 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:24,320 That's great to hear. 315 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:26,640 Where do you even begin to research that stuff? 316 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:30,960 It starts with asking questions like, when you're at the salon, ask about the fabrics, 317 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:32,920 where it's made, you know, stuff like that. 318 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:34,520 So like being an informed consumer. 319 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:35,640 Yeah, exactly. 320 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:38,000 And there are certifications and labels you can look for, too. 321 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:39,000 Oh, that's helpful. 322 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:42,520 It's like you're voting with your dollar, supporting businesses that align with your 323 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:43,520 values. 324 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:44,520 Right. 325 00:11:44,520 --> 00:11:45,520 It's like putting your money where your mouth is. 326 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:50,500 And honestly, knowing your dress was made like ethically and sustainably, it adds a 327 00:11:50,500 --> 00:11:52,560 whole other level of meaning to it. 328 00:11:52,560 --> 00:11:53,560 I bet. 329 00:11:53,560 --> 00:11:55,560 It's like you're not just wearing a beautiful dress. 330 00:11:55,560 --> 00:11:57,000 You're wearing your values. 331 00:11:57,000 --> 00:11:58,000 That's a great way to put it. 332 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:02,480 It's like showing that you care about, you know, the planet, the people who made your 333 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:03,480 dress. 334 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:04,480 It's a win-win. 335 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:06,680 You get a stunning gown and you feel good about how it was made. 336 00:12:06,680 --> 00:12:07,680 I love that. 337 00:12:07,680 --> 00:12:10,960 And it makes me think about something else they talked about, finding a salon that shares 338 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:11,960 your values. 339 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:14,000 Yeah, that's huge. 340 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:15,600 It's not just about the dress itself. 341 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:17,760 It's about the whole experience. 342 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:21,760 You want to feel good about like where you're spending your money, who you're supporting. 343 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:22,760 Exactly. 344 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:26,000 It's about finding a place where you feel comfortable and understood. 345 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:27,000 Where they get you. 346 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:28,000 Yeah. 347 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:31,100 And where they're also committed to those ethical and sustainable practices. 348 00:12:31,100 --> 00:12:36,360 It's about finding a place that feels aligned with like who you are and what you believe 349 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:37,360 in. 350 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:41,040 And if you're not feeling that, don't be afraid to walk away and find a salon that's 351 00:12:41,040 --> 00:12:42,040 a better fit. 352 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:43,040 Exactly. 353 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:44,720 There are so many options out there. 354 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:48,520 And you deserve to work with people who, you know, share your values. 355 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:49,520 Totally. 356 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:53,160 It's about finding your tribe, even in the world of wedding dress shopping. 357 00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:54,160 I like that. 358 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:58,120 And it all goes back to that idea of like making conscious choices, being an informed 359 00:12:58,120 --> 00:12:59,120 consumer. 360 00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:00,120 Right. 361 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:02,980 It's about using your power as a consumer to make a difference. 362 00:13:02,980 --> 00:13:05,720 And to support businesses that are doing things right. 363 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:09,680 And to create a wedding that's not just beautiful, but also meaningful. 364 00:13:09,680 --> 00:13:13,160 I think Darianna Bridal & Tuxedo has given us a lot to think about today. 365 00:13:13,160 --> 00:13:15,360 Like it's not just about finding a dress. 366 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:18,000 It's about making choices that reflect who you are. 367 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:22,600 It's about creating an experience that feels authentic and aligned with your values. 368 00:13:22,600 --> 00:13:25,360 And remember, this is your celebration. 369 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:26,360 Make it reflect you. 370 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:27,360 Yeah. 371 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:28,360 It's your day. 372 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:30,940 You get to decide what matters and what you want to prioritize. 373 00:13:30,940 --> 00:13:35,480 So before we wrap up this deep dive, there's one more thing I want to highlight from Darianne's 374 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:36,480 article. 375 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:37,480 What's that? 376 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:38,480 It's all about self-care. 377 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:39,480 Oh, self-care. 378 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:40,480 Yeah. 379 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:43,220 Like during the whole wedding planning process, but especially when you're dress shopping. 380 00:13:43,220 --> 00:13:44,220 That's so important. 381 00:13:44,220 --> 00:13:46,960 It's easy to get like totally stressed out with all the decisions and stuff. 382 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:47,960 Right. 383 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:51,240 They're like reminding brides to take care of themselves, you know, eat well, stay hydrated, 384 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:52,240 all that basic stuff. 385 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:53,240 Yeah. 386 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:56,720 But it's easy to forget the basics when you're like caught up in the whirlwind. 387 00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:57,720 Totally. 388 00:13:57,720 --> 00:13:59,840 And they say getting enough sleep is super important too. 389 00:13:59,840 --> 00:14:00,960 Oh, for sure. 390 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:02,360 Sleep makes such a difference. 391 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:03,360 It really does. 392 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:04,880 It affects your mood, your energy, everything. 393 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:08,240 Like if you're sleep deprived, you're not going to be able to good decisions, you know. 394 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:09,240 Exactly. 395 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:12,720 And they emphasize that dress shopping should be like fun and enjoyable. 396 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:13,720 Yeah. 397 00:14:13,720 --> 00:14:14,720 It shouldn't feel like a chore. 398 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:15,720 Right. 399 00:14:15,720 --> 00:14:16,840 It's a special time, you know. 400 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:18,680 It should feel exciting. 401 00:14:18,680 --> 00:14:22,320 And they also talk about surrounding yourself with like positive people. 402 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:23,920 Oh, that's so important. 403 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:26,280 Like people who will support you and lift you up. 404 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:27,280 Yeah. 405 00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:28,280 Your hype squad. 406 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:29,560 People who will make you feel good. 407 00:14:29,560 --> 00:14:30,560 Exactly. 408 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:34,800 Because sometimes even with the best intentions, people can like add to the stress. 409 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:36,400 Oh yeah, for sure. 410 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:40,560 Sometimes you just need people who will like listen and validate your feelings. 411 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:44,960 And if it starts to feel like too much, they even suggest maybe talking to a therapist 412 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:45,960 or counselor. 413 00:14:45,960 --> 00:14:46,960 Oh wow, really? 414 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:51,760 Yeah, they say there's no shame in like getting professional help if you need it. 415 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:53,160 That's a good reminder. 416 00:14:53,160 --> 00:14:55,560 Wedding planning can be really emotionally intense. 417 00:14:55,560 --> 00:14:56,560 Totally. 418 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:57,920 It's okay to not be okay, you know. 419 00:14:57,920 --> 00:14:59,560 And it's okay to ask for help. 420 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:00,560 Exactly. 421 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:04,080 It's about prioritizing your mental and emotional well-being just like you would your physical 422 00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:05,080 health. 423 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:06,360 It's all connected. 424 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:10,640 So I feel like Darianna Bridal has given us a lot to think about today. 425 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:13,880 Like a whole new way to approach dress shopping. 426 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:14,880 Right. 427 00:15:14,880 --> 00:15:18,240 They've busted so many myths and given us such practical advice. 428 00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:24,160 And they've reminded us that it's okay to like break the mold, do things your own way. 429 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:25,160 Exactly. 430 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:27,520 It's your wedding, your dress, your choice. 431 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:31,760 And it should be an experience that reflects who you are, like authentically you. 432 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:33,600 I think that's the perfect takeaway. 433 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:38,560 So as you start your own dress shopping journey, remember to be kind to yourself, take care 434 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:40,280 of yourself, and have fun. 435 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:41,440 Yes, have fun. 436 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:42,840 It's supposed to be a celebration. 437 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:43,840 It is. 438 00:15:43,840 --> 00:15:50,240 And we'd love to hear about your dress shopping adventures, your favorite eco-friendly designers, 439 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:51,240 all that good stuff. 440 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:55,560 Yeah, hit us up on social media using the hashtag, hashtag deepdivebridell. 441 00:15:55,560 --> 00:16:15,920 And until next time, happy wedding planning.