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All right, so are you ready to tackle a question

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that I know a lot of people out there are wondering about?

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Absolutely.

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What should the fathers of the bride and groom

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wear to the wedding?

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Oh, it's such a big question.

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It is a big question.

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And luckily for all of us,

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we have this blog post by a really experienced

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bridal store owner.

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Someone who's seen it all.

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Yeah, she's probably seen it all

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and she's giving us some really good advice here.

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For sure.

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To help kind of make this process a little bit easier.

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So one of the stats that really stood out to me

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from this blog post was that 80% of fathers

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actually prefer to wear something different

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than the groomsmen.

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That's fascinating, isn't it?

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It is fascinating.

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I wouldn't have guessed that.

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Yeah, me neither.

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I would have thought that most dads wanna kind of blend in

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and just look uniform with everyone else.

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But apparently that's not the case.

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Maybe they wanna stand out a little.

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Yeah, maybe it's a little bit of a power move,

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a little bit of, you know.

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Like, hey, I'm the dad.

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And it appears.

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That's important.

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Exactly.

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I'm not just blending into the background.

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Exactly, and I thought it was interesting

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what you were saying before we started recording

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about how this kind of reflects

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like a broader societal trend.

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Oh yeah, I think so.

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With how fathers are viewed at weddings.

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Absolutely.

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So do you wanna elaborate on that a little bit?

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Well, you know, for a long time,

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the father of the bride or groom,

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their role was mostly seen as the check writer.

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Right, yeah.

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But now it's so much more than that.

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Fathers are so much more involved

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in the wedding planning process.

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And they're really emotional support system for the couple

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that they're involved in all the pre-wedding festivities.

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So I think maybe their attire

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is like a way of expressing this evolution.

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Like a subtle way of saying, hey, I'm not just the bank.

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I'm a vital part of this celebration.

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Right, I'm here and I'm a person too.

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Exactly.

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Okay, so that's really interesting

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and it makes a lot of sense.

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But here's where I got a little bit tripped up

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in the blog post.

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Okay.

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Because they talk about how dads wanna stand out.

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But then they recommend that the couple

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actually choose the father's attire.

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Oh, that's interesting.

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I know.

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It seems counterintuitive.

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It does seem a little bit contradictory, right?

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Like shouldn't the dads have a say

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in how they look on such an important day?

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Well, I think it's all about finding a compromise.

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Okay.

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So you have to think about the couple's vision

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for the wedding aesthetic.

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Yeah.

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And then you have the dads who

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might be feeling a little bit anxious

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about making the wrong fashion choices.

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Right, they don't wanna stand out in a bad way.

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Exactly, they don't wanna be the one

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that clashes with everyone else.

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So I think by having the couple

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kind of gently steer the ship,

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you take some of that pressure off the dads,

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but you still allow for some individual expression.

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So it's more of a collaboration than like a dictatorship.

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Exactly, it's not like the couple handing down a decree.

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It should feel like a conversation,

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a dialogue where everyone feels heard and respected.

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I like that.

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It's a collaborative process.

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It's exactly.

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All right, so let's dive into some of the specifics

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because the blog post does give

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some really helpful recommendations

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about what dads can actually wear.

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Right.

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So what are they suggesting?

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Well, they start with the classic black tuxedo.

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You know, the safe bet.

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Yeah, the tried and true.

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The tried and true, it's timeless.

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You know, it makes most men feel confident.

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Yeah, you can't go wrong with a classic tux.

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Exactly, but you know,

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it might not be right for every wedding.

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Like if the couple's going for a more,

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you know, laid back beachy vibe.

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A black tux might feel a little out of place.

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Yeah, that's a good point.

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So the blog post suggests for those less formal settings,

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maybe explore options like gray or navy suits.

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Okay, so still polished, but a little bit more versatile.

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Okay, now here's my question.

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Gray and navy have been really trendy colors

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for groomsmen lately.

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Yeah, for sure.

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So how can dads embrace these colors

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without looking like they're trying to blend in

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with the groomsmen?

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You know?

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Yeah, that's a good question.

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They don't want to be mistaken for one of the guys.

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So I think the key is to play with different shades

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within those color families.

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So for example, if the groomsmen are wearing a light gray,

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the dads could opt for a charcoal or a slate gray.

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Oh, I see.

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Something a little bit darker.

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So it's still coordinated, but not matching the tinge.

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It's about finding those subtle distinctions.

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And the same principle applies to navy.

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You know, you have all spectrum to work with

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from a deep indigo to a brighter royal blue.

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It's about finding that shade

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that compliments the overall wedding palette,

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but still allows the dads to stand out as distinct figures.

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Yeah, so they're not just another groomsmen.

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Okay, I like that.

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And the blog post also mentions dads coordinating

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with their partners.

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Oh yeah, like matching ties or bow ties

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to their partner's dress.

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Is that a cute touch or is it a bit too cheesy?

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I think it can be really charming if it's done tastefully.

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But it really depends on the vibe of the wedding

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and the personalities involved, you know?

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You wouldn't want it to be too over the top.

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You don't want to force it.

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Maybe a more subtle nod to their partner's outfit

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through a pocket square or a boutonniere

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would be more elegant.

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Right, like a little touch.

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Okay, now here's a question

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that I know a lot of couples grapple with.

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Should both fathers match?

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Oh, good question.

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The blog's stance is that they don't have to.

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Which makes sense, right?

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Like we're moving away

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from those really rigid wedding rules.

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Right.

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And embracing more individuality.

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Absolutely.

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But how much difference is too much difference?

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Yeah, that's a great question.

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Could mismatched dads create like a visual imbalance

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or, you know, take away from the overall aesthetic?

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That's something we should definitely delve into further.

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Yeah, what are the potential pitfalls?

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Yeah, and how can we avoid those fashion faux pas?

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Okay, so let's shift gears

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and tackle that tricky question of mismatched dads.

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Let's do it.

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Okay, so mismatched dads.

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Mismatched dads, yeah.

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We want to encourage individuality.

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But we don't want to create like a visual clash.

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A fashion faux pas.

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Yes, we don't want that.

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So how do we strike that balance?

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Well, I think it goes back

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to what we were talking about before.

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Communication is key.

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So the couple should talk to the dads.

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Yeah, exactly.

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About what they're thinking about wearing.

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Yeah, and I think the first thing

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is to kind of gauge each dad's comfort level with fashion.

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Some dads might be like, you know,

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I'm ready to make a statement.

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And others might be more like, you know,

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just tell me what to wear.

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I don't want to think about it.

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So the couple can kind of use that information

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to, you know, gently guide them.

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Okay, so if one dad wants to be really bold.

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The other dad maybe can tone it down a little bit.

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Or maybe they can find a way to tie their looks together.

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Like even if they're wearing different colors.

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Maybe one dad has a pocket square

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that picks up a color from the other dad's tie.

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Oh, that's a good idea.

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Something subtle like that.

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Little touches.

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Yeah, little details.

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And I'm thinking a good tailor

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could be really helpful in this process.

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Oh, absolutely.

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A professional can make a world of difference.

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They can help with the fit.

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They can suggest accessories.

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Make sure everything looks polished.

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And appropriate.

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Okay, so we've talked about the aesthetics.

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And personal preferences, communication.

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But there's another factor that I think is super important

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and it's not something that the blog post

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really addresses.

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Comfort.

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Comfort, yes.

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Because what good is a stylish outfit

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if you're miserable wearing it?

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You want the dads to be able to enjoy the day.

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Yeah, they're gonna be standing for a long time.

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Yeah, they'll be dancing.

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Yeah, they don't wanna be tugging at their clothes

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the whole time.

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So I think comfort should be a top priority.

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So let's talk about specifics.

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Fabrics.

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What are some good options for dads who wanna look sharp?

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But also be comfortable?

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Well, I think lightweight, breathable fabrics are key.

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Especially for outdoor weddings.

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Yeah.

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Or if it's a hot day.

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So things like linen.

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Yeah, linen's great.

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Cotton blends.

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Uh-huh.

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Maybe even some of those performance fabrics.

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Oh yeah, those are fantastic.

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And that wick away moisture.

291
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Exactly, you don't want the dads

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to be sweating through their suits.

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No, nobody wants that.

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And then shoes.

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Shoes.

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Comfort is so important.

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Yeah, they're gonna be on their feet all day.

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All day long.

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So ditch the stiff, uncomfortable dress shoes.

300
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Yes, please.

301
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What do you recommend instead?

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A stylish loafer.

303
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Okay.

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Maybe a dress shoe with a cushioned insole.

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Yeah, something that looks good, but also feels good.

306
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Exactly.

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You don't have to sacrifice style for comfort.

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And don't forget about the accessories.

309
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Oh yeah, accessories can make a big difference.

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Like a good belt.

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Yeah, a belt can provide support.

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And a pocket square.

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Add a little personality.

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Without being too bulky.

315
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Exactly.

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And one thing that people often overlook.

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Yeah.

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Undergarments.

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Oh, the undergarments, very important.

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Because if you're not comfortable underneath.

321
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Right.

322
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You're not gonna be comfortable on the outside.

323
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It all starts with the base layer.

324
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Okay, so moisture wicking undershirts.

325
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Yes.

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Breathable socks.

327
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Absolutely.

328
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These are all important.

329
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They are.

330
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So to sew it all up.

331
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Yes.

332
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We want the dads to be stylish.

333
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We want them to feel like individuals.

334
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Yeah.

335
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We also want them to be comfortable.

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Comfort is key.

337
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Because a well-dressed dad is a happy dad.

338
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Absolutely.

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And a happy dad is a dad who can really enjoy

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his child's wedding day.

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Couldn't have said it better myself.

342
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Okay, so before we wrap up this deep dive.

343
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Okay.

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I wanna leave you with one final

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thought-provoking question.

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I love a good thought-provoking question.

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So we've talked about how dads can look good.

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Right.

349
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But how can we ensure that they feel fantastic too?

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We've talked about how dads can look good.

351
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Right.

352
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And ensure that they feel fantastic too.

353
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Oh, that's such a good point.

354
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You know. Yeah.

355
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We can't forget about the emotional side of things.

356
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Right, it's their kid getting married.

357
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Exactly, it's a huge day for them.

358
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Yeah.

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So we wanna make sure that they feel confident and proud.

360
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Yeah, and comfortable in their own skin.

361
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Exactly.

362
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So I think for some dads,

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feeling their best might mean incorporating

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like a personal touch into their outfit.

365
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Oh, I love that idea.

366
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Like maybe a vintage tie that belonged to their own father.

367
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Oh.

368
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Or a pocket watch that's been passed down

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through generations.

370
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That's so special.

371
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Yeah, it's like a little nod to family history.

372
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Yeah, it's a beautiful way to honor the past

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while celebrating the future.

374
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Exactly.

375
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And for other dads,

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it might be about showcasing their personality.

377
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Okay.

378
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Like maybe they have a favorite color.

379
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Yeah.

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Or they wanna wear a fun tie.

381
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Right.

382
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You know, something that reflects their unique style.

383
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So it's about creating a space

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where dads feel free to express themselves.

385
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Absolutely.

386
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And not just conform to like,

387
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you know, these rigid expectations

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of what a father of the bride or groom should wear.

389
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Exactly.

390
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And when dads feel good about themselves, it shows.

391
00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:04,920
Oh yeah, absolutely.

392
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They're more relaxed, they're more engaged.

393
00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:07,240
Yeah.

394
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And that positive energy

395
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really just enhances the whole celebration.

396
00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:11,680
Totally.

397
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It's contagious.

398
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Okay, so to our listeners out there

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who are planning a wedding,

400
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whether you're the couple,

401
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or a family member, or a friend,

402
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just remember that the dads deserve

403
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just as much attention and care

404
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when it comes to their attire.

405
00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:26,120
Absolutely.

406
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As anyone else in the wedding party.

407
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They're a vital part of the day.

408
00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:31,120
Yeah, their role is so important.

409
00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:31,960
It really is.

410
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And we wanna make sure

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that they feel comfortable and confident.

412
00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:36,160
Exactly.

413
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It's all about finding that sweet spot

414
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where everyone's happy.

415
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Right.

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The couple's vision is honored,

417
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the dads feel good.

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Everyone wins.

419
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Everyone wins.

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And the day is perfect.

421
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Okay, and on that note,

422
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we're gonna leave you with one final thought to ponder.

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Okay, hit me.

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We talked about how dads can honor family history

425
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through their attire.

426
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Right.

427
00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:01,040
But what about starting new traditions?

428
00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:02,000
Oh, I like that.

429
00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:05,360
What if you chose a specific accessory

430
00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:08,080
or a detail that could be passed down

431
00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:10,920
to future generations of fathers in your family?

432
00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:11,760
I love that.

433
00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:13,840
So maybe it's a special tie clip,

434
00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:15,440
or a certain type of shoe,

435
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something that becomes a symbol of

436
00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:21,400
the father of the bride or groom in your family.

437
00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:22,240
That's like a legacy.

438
00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:23,080
Yeah.

439
00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:24,280
Something to think about.

440
00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:25,120
Definitely.

441
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As you embark on this exciting journey of wedding planning.

442
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It's a beautiful thing.

443
00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:31,760
Okay, well thanks for joining us for this deep dive.

444
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It's been a pleasure.

445
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Until next time.