1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,400 Okay, so you're ready to find the perfect wedding dress. 2 00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:03,700 Yeah. 3 00:00:03,700 --> 00:00:06,960 But have you thought about like 4 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:08,880 where you're actually going to find it? 5 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:10,280 Like the bridal shop itself. 6 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:11,120 Oh, totally. 7 00:00:11,120 --> 00:00:13,040 Because you want the whole experience to feel special. 8 00:00:13,040 --> 00:00:14,520 You do, you do. 9 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:16,520 So we're doing a deep dive into this article. 10 00:00:16,520 --> 00:00:18,520 Okay. Brides guide. 11 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:22,760 Five things to consider when choosing a bridal shop. 12 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:26,360 It's from Darianna Bridal & Tuxedo. 13 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:28,240 Sounds good. 14 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:29,560 And they should know what they're talking about, right? 15 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:30,720 Yeah, the experts, yeah. 16 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:32,760 They have all these insider tips 17 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:35,800 that can help you find the perfect bridal shop for you. 18 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:37,500 I think what people don't realize is that 19 00:00:37,500 --> 00:00:39,840 the shop really sets the stage 20 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:42,720 for your whole dress journey. 21 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:44,920 It's more than just like buying a dress. 22 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:45,760 It's the whole. 23 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:48,320 You want to feel comfortable, understood. 24 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:50,720 You want to feel excited about the whole process. 25 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:51,660 Like you're at home. 26 00:00:51,660 --> 00:00:52,880 Yeah, exactly. 27 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:54,560 So the article starts off with a great point 28 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:56,280 about online reviews. 29 00:00:57,320 --> 00:00:58,160 Yeah. 30 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:00,160 It's like a gold mine of information. 31 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:03,840 They are, if you know what to look for, 32 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:05,480 you get to peek behind the curtain. 33 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:06,320 Exactly. 34 00:01:06,320 --> 00:01:08,000 Don't just look for generic comments like, 35 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:09,600 oh, this staff is so nice. 36 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:10,440 Oh yeah, yeah. 37 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:12,680 But instead, try to find those reviews 38 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:14,720 where they mention the consultants. 39 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:18,140 And if they really understood what the bride was looking for, 40 00:01:18,140 --> 00:01:20,880 that shows that they're really invested 41 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:23,400 in helping you find the perfect dress. 42 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:24,600 Okay, so they get your vision? 43 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:25,920 Yeah, your style, your vision. 44 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:27,880 Now what about like red flags? 45 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:28,720 Oh yeah. 46 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:30,600 Is there anything in those reviews to watch out for? 47 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:31,440 Definitely. 48 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:33,120 If you see a lot of people complaining 49 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:35,480 about pushy sales tactics. 50 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:36,320 Okay. 51 00:01:36,320 --> 00:01:38,040 Or feeling pressured to buy. 52 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:38,880 Yeah. 53 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:41,840 That's not good because this is your experience, right? 54 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:42,680 Right. 55 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:44,520 You should feel empowered to make your own decision 56 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:47,720 without feeling rushed or manipulated. 57 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:50,760 So it's all about like trusting your gut. 58 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:51,600 Yeah. 59 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:54,840 Like if something feels a little off in the reviews, 60 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:56,160 you should just stay away. 61 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:57,820 All right, so reviews checked. 62 00:01:57,820 --> 00:02:01,040 Now we're moving on to like the star of the show. 63 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:01,880 All right. 64 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:02,700 The dress selection. 65 00:02:02,700 --> 00:02:03,540 Yes. 66 00:02:03,540 --> 00:02:05,080 And Darianna, they mentioned this 67 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:06,280 that I thought was really interesting. 68 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:07,120 Okay. 69 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:11,600 Which is that a bigger store doesn't necessarily mean 70 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:12,720 a better selection. 71 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:15,800 Yeah, it doesn't always equate to a better selection. 72 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:18,360 I've seen some really small boutiques 73 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:22,260 with these incredible collections 74 00:02:22,260 --> 00:02:26,600 that are so much better than these huge warehouse stores. 75 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:29,520 So don't just focus on quantity, you know. 76 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:30,360 Okay. 77 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:33,440 Look at the quality and does it have what you want? 78 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:34,280 Yeah. 79 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:36,120 So do they have the designers you like? 80 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:36,960 Okay. 81 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:38,720 Do they have that aesthetic, that special look 82 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:39,560 that you're going for? 83 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:43,000 And especially do they have a good range of sizes 84 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:44,720 that actually fit real brides? 85 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:46,360 That's so important, yeah. 86 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:47,780 And speaking of sizes, 87 00:02:47,780 --> 00:02:51,640 they specifically talk about inclusivity 88 00:02:51,640 --> 00:02:53,960 and especially for plus size brides. 89 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:56,440 It shouldn't be hard to find beautiful gowns. 90 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:57,280 Right. 91 00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:58,960 To try on in your size. 92 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:01,720 Everyone deserves to feel amazing and confident. 93 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:02,560 Absolutely. 94 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:04,440 And like it's not just about having 95 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:06,880 a few plus size samples, you know. 96 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:10,520 It's about having a whole range of sizes and styles. 97 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:12,800 So everyone can envision themselves 98 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:13,640 on their wedding day. 99 00:03:13,640 --> 00:03:14,460 Exactly. 100 00:03:14,460 --> 00:03:16,060 It's like those moments we see on TV. 101 00:03:16,060 --> 00:03:17,040 Oh, I know what you're talking about. 102 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:19,280 Where they finally find a dress that fits. 103 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:20,560 And it's like magic. 104 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:22,380 It is, absolutely. 105 00:03:22,380 --> 00:03:25,720 So Darianna also talks about trying on gowns 106 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:27,400 and how you can get really overwhelmed. 107 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:28,440 You can, yeah. 108 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:29,440 If you try on too many. 109 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:30,580 Oh, totally. 110 00:03:30,580 --> 00:03:34,240 I've seen brides after trying on like 20 gowns. 111 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:35,200 Oh, wow. 112 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:37,520 They just get tired of making decisions. 113 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:39,800 And that's where a really good bridal consultant 114 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:41,240 can come in. 115 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:43,640 Think of them like a stylist, 116 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:44,680 but for your wedding dress. 117 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:45,820 They can like guide you. 118 00:03:45,820 --> 00:03:48,360 They can help you narrow down your choices 119 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:51,120 and like keep you focused on what you actually want. 120 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:52,720 What you really want, yes. 121 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:54,980 So beyond just the dress, 122 00:03:54,980 --> 00:03:57,880 the article really stresses 123 00:03:57,880 --> 00:04:00,600 how important responsiveness is. 124 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:01,760 Oh, that's a big one. 125 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:03,320 It sounds really basic. 126 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:04,440 It does, yeah. 127 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:06,120 But why is it so crucial? 128 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:07,680 So imagine this. 129 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:09,440 You've found your dream dress. 130 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:10,280 Okay. 131 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:13,760 But then you have a question about like alterations 132 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:15,240 or when it's gonna be delivered. 133 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:16,080 Right. 134 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:17,040 And you email the shop. 135 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:17,880 Okay. 136 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:20,080 Nothing, days go by, a whole week. 137 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:23,440 And you're just sitting there feeling ignored. 138 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:24,280 Yeah. 139 00:04:24,280 --> 00:04:25,640 You're like the total nightmare. 140 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:26,480 It is. 141 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:27,320 So responsiveness? 142 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:28,140 Yeah. 143 00:04:28,140 --> 00:04:28,980 That equals peace of mind. 144 00:04:28,980 --> 00:04:29,820 It does. 145 00:04:29,820 --> 00:04:30,640 Right. Absolutely. 146 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:31,480 Okay. 147 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:35,080 And speaking of being prepared. 148 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:35,920 Okay. 149 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:36,740 Let's talk about budget. 150 00:04:36,740 --> 00:04:38,120 Yes, the big B. 151 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:39,920 Because that's where it can get a little scary. 152 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:40,760 It is. 153 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:43,280 Especially if you don't know what to expect. 154 00:04:43,280 --> 00:04:44,120 Right. 155 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:45,960 So Dariana says it's super important 156 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:47,640 to have a really clear budget 157 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:49,120 before you even go to the shop. 158 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:51,920 It really helps narrow down those options. 159 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:54,120 And then you won't fall in love with something 160 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:55,280 that you just can't afford. 161 00:04:55,280 --> 00:04:56,160 And break the bank. 162 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:57,000 Exactly. 163 00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:58,240 So what can we do? 164 00:04:58,240 --> 00:04:59,080 Well. 165 00:04:59,080 --> 00:04:59,900 Because I know a lot of people 166 00:04:59,900 --> 00:05:00,820 don't even know where to start. 167 00:05:00,820 --> 00:05:01,660 I know. 168 00:05:01,660 --> 00:05:02,720 With a budget. 169 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:04,760 Well, Dariana has some really good advice for that. 170 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:05,640 Okay. 171 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:07,480 Check out the shop's website. 172 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:08,320 Okay. 173 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:09,520 Or even just call them up. 174 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:10,360 Right. 175 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:12,960 And ask about their starting prices for new gowns. 176 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:14,160 Oh, that's a good idea. 177 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:15,000 Yeah. 178 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:16,720 And you can also ask if they sell off 179 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:18,160 the rack dresses at a discount. 180 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:19,000 Okay. 181 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:20,680 Or if they have any sample sales coming up. 182 00:05:20,680 --> 00:05:21,760 Oh yeah, those are great. 183 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:22,600 Those are great. 184 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:24,800 And then you can like score a designer gown. 185 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:26,160 Yeah, for way less. 186 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:27,000 For less. 187 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:29,800 Yeah, it's like finding buried treasure. 188 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:32,080 And while we're on the topic of insider tips. 189 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:32,920 Okay. 190 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:35,040 What about these things called trunk shows? 191 00:05:35,040 --> 00:05:36,080 Oh yeah. 192 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:37,320 Because I've heard about them. 193 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:38,320 They're really cool. 194 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:39,160 But I don't really know. 195 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:41,600 Okay, well think of it like a pop-up shop. 196 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:42,480 Okay. 197 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:44,280 But for wedding dresses. 198 00:05:44,280 --> 00:05:45,100 Okay. 199 00:05:45,100 --> 00:05:47,960 So a designer brings their latest collection. 200 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:48,800 Oh. 201 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:51,560 To a shop for like a short amount of time. 202 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:52,880 So it's not there all the time. 203 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:53,720 No. 204 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:55,520 And it's a chance to try on dresses 205 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:57,240 that they might not usually have. 206 00:05:57,240 --> 00:05:58,080 Oh, that. 207 00:05:58,080 --> 00:06:00,080 And sometimes they even have like special discounts. 208 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:00,920 Oh wow. 209 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:03,840 Or extra things that come with buying a dress. 210 00:06:03,840 --> 00:06:07,560 So that's like a must do for finding a really unique gown. 211 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:09,000 Yeah, it's like a VIP experience. 212 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:09,840 Okay, cool. 213 00:06:09,840 --> 00:06:10,660 Yeah. 214 00:06:10,660 --> 00:06:12,360 So we've talked about reviews. 215 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:13,200 Right. 216 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:14,040 Dress selection. 217 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:14,880 Responsiveness. 218 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:15,720 Yep. 219 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:16,440 And budget. 220 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:18,160 Okay. 221 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:20,560 What other things should we be considering? 222 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:22,040 Well, what about convenience? 223 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:22,880 Okay. 224 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:24,560 Does the shop do alterations? 225 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:25,400 Right. 226 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:26,920 Do they have a lot of accessories to choose from? 227 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:27,740 Yeah. 228 00:06:27,740 --> 00:06:28,580 And what about your partner? 229 00:06:28,580 --> 00:06:29,420 Okay. 230 00:06:29,420 --> 00:06:31,480 Do they need a suit or a tux? 231 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:33,360 It could be really easy if they have everything 232 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:34,200 in one place. 233 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:35,960 So it's like a one-stop shop. 234 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:36,920 It is, it is. 235 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:39,240 And also, how many people are you bringing? 236 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:40,880 Oh yeah, the guest policy. 237 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:43,720 Because some people wanna bring a whole entourage. 238 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:44,560 Yeah. 239 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:46,280 But other people wanna keep it low-key. 240 00:06:46,280 --> 00:06:47,120 Right. 241 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:49,080 So some shops might have a limit 242 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:50,880 on how many people you can bring. 243 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:51,720 Especially. 244 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:52,760 Especially the smaller ones. 245 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:53,600 Right. 246 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:54,420 Yeah. 247 00:06:54,420 --> 00:06:56,620 Okay, so make sure you check their policy. 248 00:06:56,620 --> 00:06:57,460 Yes. 249 00:06:57,460 --> 00:06:58,280 So you're not disappointed. 250 00:06:58,280 --> 00:06:59,120 Yeah. 251 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:01,720 It's all about setting the right expectations. 252 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:02,560 Exactly. 253 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:03,680 So it's comfortable for everybody. 254 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:04,680 Absolutely. 255 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:08,200 So Dariana also mentions that some shops 256 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:10,720 offer on-site alterations. 257 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:12,080 But you should be careful with that. 258 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:12,980 You should. 259 00:07:12,980 --> 00:07:15,360 Because sometimes you might get a better deal. 260 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:16,200 Right. 261 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:18,080 And even more personalized service. 262 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:18,920 Yeah. 263 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:20,600 And independent seamstress. 264 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:22,960 So it's worth doing your research. 265 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:23,800 Yeah. 266 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:24,620 And comparing prices. 267 00:07:24,620 --> 00:07:25,460 Definitely. 268 00:07:25,460 --> 00:07:26,920 So you don't have a headache later on. 269 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:27,760 Absolutely. 270 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:30,480 Because remember, this is your wedding dress. 271 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:31,320 Yeah. 272 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:32,140 So you deserve the best. 273 00:07:32,140 --> 00:07:33,160 Yes you do. 274 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:36,160 So we've talked about a lot of practical things. 275 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:38,680 Like the reviews, the dress selection. 276 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:39,680 The responsiveness budget. 277 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:40,840 Responsiveness budget. 278 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:41,680 Yeah. 279 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:44,800 But what really makes a shop stand out from the crowd? 280 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:46,600 Okay, so this is where it gets really interesting. 281 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:47,960 Okay, so spill the tea. 282 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:51,080 All right, so Dariana highlights a few things. 283 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:51,920 Okay. 284 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:53,400 That every bride should think about. 285 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:57,040 First, you have to pay attention to their commission policy. 286 00:07:57,040 --> 00:07:57,880 Okay, commission policy. 287 00:07:57,880 --> 00:07:58,880 Yeah, some shops. 288 00:07:58,880 --> 00:07:59,720 Okay. 289 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:01,600 Their consultants work on commission. 290 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:03,720 Which means they might try to sell you 291 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:05,480 the most expensive gown. 292 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:06,320 Oh wow. 293 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:08,280 Even if it's not the best one for you. 294 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:10,400 Because they want to make more money. 295 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:11,240 Oh I see. 296 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:13,880 So that can feel a little bit pressurey. 297 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:14,720 Right. 298 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:15,640 You know, like a conflict of interest. 299 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:16,480 Okay. 300 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:17,840 And so Dariana, they're really proud 301 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:19,280 to have a no commission policy. 302 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:20,120 Okay. 303 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:24,120 So their consultants are just focused on helping you 304 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:26,000 find the best dress for you. 305 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:26,840 No matter? 306 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:27,800 No matter the price. 307 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:30,840 Okay, so it's really all about your vision. 308 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:31,680 It is. 309 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:33,240 So what else should we look for? 310 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:34,600 What about personalization? 311 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:35,440 Okay. 312 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:37,680 Does the shop take the time to get to know you? 313 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:39,920 Before your appointment? 314 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:40,760 Right. 315 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:41,800 Like what kind of style you like? 316 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:43,080 Your wedding theme? 317 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:43,920 Right. 318 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:44,840 What kind of dress you're dreaming of? 319 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:45,680 Yep. 320 00:08:45,680 --> 00:08:47,320 Or they can even have you do a little quiz. 321 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:48,640 Oh yeah, I've seen those. 322 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:49,480 Yeah. 323 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:51,400 Or ask for your Pinterest board. 324 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:53,080 So it makes you feel like they're actually trying 325 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:53,920 to help you. 326 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:54,760 Yeah. 327 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:56,680 You're not just another bride walking through the door. 328 00:08:56,680 --> 00:08:58,160 It's like they're invested in you. 329 00:08:58,160 --> 00:08:59,000 Exactly. 330 00:08:59,000 --> 00:08:59,840 Okay. 331 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:03,000 And of course, a good online presence is a plus. 332 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:04,520 Oh yeah, definitely. 333 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:07,880 Like a good website, active social media. 334 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:09,080 Yeah, a nice website. 335 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:10,920 Being active on social media. 336 00:09:10,920 --> 00:09:11,920 That's good reviews. 337 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:13,400 Those glowing reviews. 338 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:14,240 Exactly. 339 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:16,320 Also, I think this is important. 340 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:18,960 How do they handle the bad feedback? 341 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:21,960 Yeah, that's a really good question. 342 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:24,080 Like if someone leaves a negative review, 343 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:25,640 do they respond professionally? 344 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:26,640 Yeah, do they own up to it? 345 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:27,480 Yeah. 346 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:28,360 Or do they just ignore it? 347 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:29,200 Right. 348 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:30,020 Do they get defensive? 349 00:09:30,020 --> 00:09:30,860 Yeah. 350 00:09:30,860 --> 00:09:32,280 You can really tell a lot about them from that. 351 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:34,600 Yeah, it shows how committed they are 352 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:36,360 to good customer service. 353 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:39,800 Yeah, it's all about transparency and accountability. 354 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:42,280 Okay, so we've covered so much. 355 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:43,120 We have. 356 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:48,120 Like the reviews, dress selection, responsiveness, budget. 357 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:49,680 Commission policies. 358 00:09:49,680 --> 00:09:50,520 Commission policies. 359 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:51,340 Sub-innovation. 360 00:09:51,340 --> 00:09:53,880 So much, it's a lot to take in. 361 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:54,720 It is. 362 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:58,280 So what can we do to not feel so overwhelmed? 363 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:02,960 Dariana says to stick to no more than three bridal shops. 364 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:03,800 Okay. 365 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:04,920 That's a good number. 366 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:05,760 That's a good number. 367 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:06,600 Yeah. 368 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:07,720 Because any more than that. 369 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:09,820 Yeah, you'll just get tired of making decisions. 370 00:10:09,820 --> 00:10:11,720 Yeah, you get that decision fatigue. 371 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:12,560 Yeah. 372 00:10:12,560 --> 00:10:15,040 Like I can't even tell what I like anymore. 373 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:17,000 Yeah, it's like trying to pick a paint color. 374 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:17,840 Right. 375 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:18,660 They all start to look the same. 376 00:10:18,660 --> 00:10:20,080 Oh my gosh, yes. 377 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:21,960 So how do you pick your three shops? 378 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:22,800 Okay. 379 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:23,860 Do your research. 380 00:10:23,860 --> 00:10:25,520 Check out their websites. 381 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:26,800 Read the reviews. 382 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:27,640 Yeah. 383 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:28,880 Look at their social media. 384 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:30,800 And then pick the ones you really like. 385 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:31,640 Okay. 386 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:32,920 And schedule your appointments. 387 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:35,940 And it's always good to have some inspiration ready. 388 00:10:35,940 --> 00:10:37,080 Oh yeah, definitely. 389 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:38,160 Like from Pinterest. 390 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:39,000 Yeah. 391 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:39,840 Or magazines. 392 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:42,920 You can give the consultant an idea of your style. 393 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:46,200 Yeah, so you're organized, focused, and inspired. 394 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:47,040 Yes. 395 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:47,860 I like that. 396 00:10:47,860 --> 00:10:48,700 That's good. 397 00:10:48,700 --> 00:10:49,540 So now I'm curious. 398 00:10:49,540 --> 00:10:50,380 Okay. 399 00:10:50,380 --> 00:10:51,320 From your perspective, 400 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:55,360 what's like the number one thing a bride should look for 401 00:10:55,360 --> 00:10:56,680 in a bridal shop? 402 00:10:56,680 --> 00:10:59,160 Well, you know, sometimes it's not even about 403 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,760 the dress selection or the price range. 404 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:05,200 It's more about how you feel when you're there. 405 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:06,040 Okay. 406 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:07,560 Do you connect with the staff? 407 00:11:07,560 --> 00:11:10,280 Do they make you feel comfortable? 408 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:12,640 Like they really understand you? 409 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:13,480 Right. 410 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:14,320 Does it feel welcoming? 411 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:15,160 Right. 412 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:17,200 Does it feel like a place where you want to celebrate? 413 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:19,040 Those are the things that really make it special. 414 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:20,600 So it's like finding a friend. 415 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:21,440 Exactly. 416 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:22,520 Who just gets you. 417 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:23,360 And is excited for you. 418 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:24,200 And is excited for you. 419 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:25,040 Yeah. 420 00:11:25,040 --> 00:11:26,600 And wants to help you find your dream dress. 421 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:29,040 Right, and Dariana mentions this too, 422 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:31,240 about how finding the one, 423 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:33,280 it's an intuitive feeling. 424 00:11:33,280 --> 00:11:34,120 It is. 425 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:35,480 So if you find a dress, 426 00:11:35,480 --> 00:11:39,120 that makes you feel amazing at the very first appointment. 427 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:39,960 Right. 428 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:41,520 Don't be afraid to say yes. 429 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:43,280 You don't have to keep looking. 430 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:45,160 Yeah, just trust your instincts. 431 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:46,000 Yeah. 432 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:46,840 You know? 433 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:47,680 Yeah. 434 00:11:47,680 --> 00:11:48,520 And go with your heart. 435 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:49,360 Absolutely. 436 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:50,200 I love that. 437 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:51,040 It is. 438 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:53,000 Because you want to stay true to yourself 439 00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:56,800 and just embrace the joy and the excitement 440 00:11:56,800 --> 00:11:58,120 of finding your dress. 441 00:11:58,120 --> 00:11:59,200 That's what it's all about. 442 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:00,040 Yeah. 443 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:00,880 Yeah. 444 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:02,440 You know, it's so easy to get caught up 445 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:04,200 in finding the one, 446 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:05,680 the perfect dress. 447 00:12:05,680 --> 00:12:06,520 Right. 448 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:07,760 That we forget to enjoy. 449 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:08,600 Oh yeah. 450 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:09,440 The whole process. 451 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:10,280 Absolutely. 452 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:11,280 It's about celebrating, right? 453 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:12,120 Yeah. 454 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:13,240 This exciting time. 455 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:16,920 And finding a dress that makes you feel confident. 456 00:12:16,920 --> 00:12:17,760 Beautiful. 457 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:18,600 Yeah. 458 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:20,040 And most importantly, like you. 459 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:20,880 Your true self. 460 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:22,040 Yes, exactly. 461 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:23,320 So let's do a little recap. 462 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:24,160 Okay. 463 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:26,840 What are the main things our listeners need to remember? 464 00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:30,080 Okay, well first, remember those online reviews. 465 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:31,560 Right, the gold mine. 466 00:12:31,560 --> 00:12:33,360 Yeah, they're full of information. 467 00:12:33,360 --> 00:12:34,200 Yeah. 468 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:35,640 But you gotta go deeper. 469 00:12:35,640 --> 00:12:36,480 Okay. 470 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:38,280 Than just like the surface level stuff. 471 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:41,240 So like, not just like, oh they're so friendly. 472 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:42,080 Yeah. 473 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:45,120 Find the reviews that talk about how the consultants listened. 474 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:45,960 Okay. 475 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:47,720 And understood the bride's vision. 476 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:48,960 So they really get you. 477 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:51,880 Yeah, and they can translate that into the perfect dress. 478 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:53,040 Okay, that makes sense. 479 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:55,320 And also responsiveness. 480 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:56,160 Oh yeah. 481 00:12:56,160 --> 00:12:57,000 That's huge. 482 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:58,640 Yeah, because you want to feel like a priority. 483 00:12:58,640 --> 00:12:59,480 Exactly. 484 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:01,280 Do they get back to you quickly? 485 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:02,120 Mm-hmm. 486 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:03,680 They answer all your questions. 487 00:13:03,680 --> 00:13:04,520 Right. 488 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:06,160 That shows they care. 489 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:07,080 Yeah. 490 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:08,400 About their brides. 491 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:11,160 And we can't forget about the budget. 492 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:12,480 Oh yes, the budget. 493 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:15,440 Because you want to feel good about the whole process. 494 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:17,080 You don't want any surprises. 495 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:17,920 Exactly. 496 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:18,880 So do your research. 497 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:19,720 Right. 498 00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:23,680 Know what you can spend before you even step foot in a shop. 499 00:13:23,680 --> 00:13:26,880 And don't be afraid to ask about those sample sales. 500 00:13:26,880 --> 00:13:27,720 Yeah, yeah. 501 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:28,680 Or trunk shows. 502 00:13:28,680 --> 00:13:31,480 Those can save you so much money. 503 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:33,920 Right, and you might find the dress of your dreams. 504 00:13:33,920 --> 00:13:34,760 Exactly. 505 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:35,600 For way less. 506 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:36,680 It happens all the time. 507 00:13:36,680 --> 00:13:38,880 Okay, and beyond all the practical stuff, 508 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:40,320 you also want to make sure. 509 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:41,160 Right. 510 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:43,760 That the shop aligns with your values. 511 00:13:43,760 --> 00:13:45,080 Yes, your priorities. 512 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:47,240 Like if you really want a no commission policy. 513 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:48,080 Right. 514 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:49,440 Find a shop that has that, absolutely. 515 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:53,280 And if you want to feel like they really get you, 516 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:55,320 you know, your style. 517 00:13:55,320 --> 00:13:56,160 Your vision. 518 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:56,980 Your vision. 519 00:13:56,980 --> 00:13:59,400 Yeah, find a shop that takes the time. 520 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:00,240 Okay. 521 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:01,080 To get to know you. 522 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:01,920 Mm-hmm. 523 00:14:01,920 --> 00:14:03,160 Those little details matter. 524 00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:04,360 They do, they really do. 525 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:07,800 Yeah, you want to feel like more than just a transaction. 526 00:14:07,800 --> 00:14:08,640 Like you're special. 527 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:09,460 Exactly. 528 00:14:09,460 --> 00:14:12,680 Okay, so what if you walk into a shop 529 00:14:12,680 --> 00:14:14,720 and it just doesn't feel right? 530 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:15,880 Oh, you know what? 531 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:16,720 Yeah. 532 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:17,560 Trust your gut. 533 00:14:17,560 --> 00:14:18,380 Yeah. 534 00:14:18,380 --> 00:14:19,220 It's okay to walk away. 535 00:14:19,220 --> 00:14:20,060 It's okay to say no. 536 00:14:20,060 --> 00:14:20,880 You don't have to stay. 537 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:21,720 Yeah. 538 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:22,560 Maybe the vibe's off. 539 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:23,380 Yeah. 540 00:14:23,380 --> 00:14:24,280 Maybe the music's too loud. 541 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:25,880 Or the decor is weird. 542 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:28,760 Yeah, or maybe the consultant's just not listening. 543 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:29,600 Right. 544 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:30,760 You deserve to feel good. 545 00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:31,600 Yeah. 546 00:14:31,600 --> 00:14:32,420 Throughout this whole process. 547 00:14:32,420 --> 00:14:33,260 You should feel confident. 548 00:14:33,260 --> 00:14:34,100 Mm-hmm. 549 00:14:34,100 --> 00:14:34,920 And excited and happy. 550 00:14:34,920 --> 00:14:36,320 This is your moment. 551 00:14:36,320 --> 00:14:37,160 Yeah. 552 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:38,960 You deserve to feel amazing. 553 00:14:38,960 --> 00:14:40,360 So I want to leave our listeners. 554 00:14:40,360 --> 00:14:41,200 Okay. 555 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:42,020 You have the question. 556 00:14:42,020 --> 00:14:45,080 What's one thing you wish you knew 557 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:46,960 before you started your dress search? 558 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:48,320 That's a good question. 559 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:49,160 Yeah. 560 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:52,120 Like what advice would you give to your past self? 561 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:55,080 Exactly, because sometimes those lessons 562 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:56,800 are the most valuable. 563 00:14:56,800 --> 00:14:57,720 They are. 564 00:14:57,720 --> 00:14:58,560 Yeah. 565 00:14:58,560 --> 00:14:59,840 So share your wisdom with us. 566 00:14:59,840 --> 00:15:01,400 Yes, tell us your story. 567 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:02,400 We'd love to hear from you. 568 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:03,240 We would. 569 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:05,320 And we can't wait to hear all your advice. 570 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:07,120 Yeah, those are always the best tips. 571 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:09,080 The ones you learn along the way. 572 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:10,600 You know, I have to admit something. 573 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:11,420 Mm-hmm. 574 00:15:11,420 --> 00:15:13,320 I'm not even planning a wedding right now. 575 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:14,160 Okay. 576 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:17,280 But I've learned so much from this deep dive. 577 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:18,120 Oh, I get that. 578 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:18,940 Yeah. 579 00:15:18,940 --> 00:15:19,780 It happens all the time. 580 00:15:19,780 --> 00:15:20,620 Really? 581 00:15:20,620 --> 00:15:21,960 Yeah, these conversations can really 582 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:23,400 open your eyes to new things. 583 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:24,240 Yeah. 584 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:26,640 Even if it's not something you're dealing with right now. 585 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:28,240 Yeah, I'm already thinking, like, 586 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:29,760 how can I use these tips? 587 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:30,600 Yeah. 588 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:31,420 In other parts of my life. 589 00:15:31,420 --> 00:15:32,260 Like what? 590 00:15:32,260 --> 00:15:33,480 Like finding a good tailor. 591 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:34,400 Oh, yeah. 592 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:37,500 Or even, like, choosing a therapist. 593 00:15:37,500 --> 00:15:38,640 Oh, that's a good one. 594 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:40,960 Yeah, it's all about finding the right people. 595 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:42,480 Yeah, the experts. 596 00:15:42,480 --> 00:15:43,640 Yeah, who really get you. 597 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:44,920 Who understand you. 598 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:45,760 Yeah. 599 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:46,580 And make you feel confident. 600 00:15:46,580 --> 00:15:47,420 Exactly. 601 00:15:47,420 --> 00:15:48,260 That's a great point. 602 00:15:48,260 --> 00:15:50,200 It's all about finding those people and places 603 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:51,400 where you feel comfortable. 604 00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:52,240 Yeah. 605 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:53,060 Like you can be yourself. 606 00:15:53,060 --> 00:15:53,900 You feel supported. 607 00:15:53,900 --> 00:15:54,720 Yeah. 608 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:55,560 I like that. 609 00:15:55,560 --> 00:15:58,840 So for everyone out there who's about to start 610 00:15:58,840 --> 00:16:00,000 their wedding dress journey. 611 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:00,920 Yeah. 612 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:02,240 I wanna leave you with this. 613 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:03,280 Okay, what's that? 614 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:05,720 Remember, this is your experience. 615 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:06,640 Yes, it is. 616 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:10,240 Don't let anyone pressure you to say yes. 617 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:11,080 Right. 618 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:11,900 To a dress. 619 00:16:11,900 --> 00:16:12,740 Right. 620 00:16:12,740 --> 00:16:15,240 Or a shop that just doesn't feel right. 621 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:16,440 Trust your gut. 622 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:18,240 Yeah, embrace the journey. 623 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:19,480 Yeah, have fun. 624 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:20,300 Have fun. 625 00:16:20,300 --> 00:16:21,320 That's the most important part. 626 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:22,160 It is. 627 00:16:22,160 --> 00:16:23,560 Yeah, finding your dream dress. 628 00:16:23,560 --> 00:16:24,720 It's a celebration. 629 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:26,480 Yay, absolutely. 630 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:28,280 So go explore those options. 631 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:29,120 Yeah. 632 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:31,880 And say yes to the experience that makes you happy. 633 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:33,140 That makes your heart sing. 634 00:16:33,140 --> 00:16:34,160 Exactly. 635 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:36,320 We're so glad you joined us for this deep dive. 636 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:37,160 We are. 637 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:38,680 Into the world of bridal shops. 638 00:16:38,680 --> 00:16:39,940 Hope you learned a lot. 639 00:16:39,940 --> 00:16:40,780 Yeah. 640 00:16:40,780 --> 00:16:44,320 We hope you feel ready to find the perfect place. 641 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:45,160 Yeah. 642 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:46,200 To say yes to the dress. 643 00:16:46,200 --> 00:16:47,960 Happy shopping. 644 00:16:47,960 --> 00:16:50,120 Best wishes on finding that dream dress. 645 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:51,800 And we'll be here to cheer you on. 646 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:58,800 Every step of the way.