All right, so we're diving into wedding dresses today.
You guys sent in some amazing sources
on finding the perfect gown for apple shapes,
and congrats on getting married.
Oh, such an exciting time.
Yeah, and I love that you're really thinking
about how to flatter your shape.
You know, when we're talking apple shapes,
we're often talking a fuller bust,
maybe a less defined waist,
and then of course those amazing slender legs.
It's all about working with those features.
Totally.
And speaking of working with your shape,
one of the things that really jumped out at me
from these sources was the importance of a good bra.
Like even before you start hitting the bridal salons.
Absolutely, it's like, you know, you're building a house.
You gotta have that solid foundation.
Yeah. Right.
And for apple shapes specifically,
something that lifts and separates,
you know, like a full coverage
or maybe a balcony-it style bra,
that's really gonna do wonders
because it starts creating that definition at the waistline
even before you, you know, slip on the dress.
Okay, so that's a game changer.
I am definitely gonna keep that in mind.
Now I'm curious about silhouettes because I don't know,
I always thought certain styles were like
off limits for apple shapes,
but these sources are saying not so fast.
Yeah, there are definitely, you know,
certain styles that are more universally flattering,
but it's not about hard and fast rules.
Let's start with like some of the classics,
you know, A-line, ball gowns.
I can see why those are always recommended.
They've got that princessy vibe,
but are they actually the most flattering?
So if you think about it this way,
imagine like an A-line dress,
and it's cinching in right at your natural waist,
creating that lovely hourglass silhouette,
and then that full skirt is just flowing out,
adding volume below the waist,
and it just beautifully balances your, you know,
your fuller bust.
Plus, you know, you can really play up those gorgeous legs
with a slit.
Okay, that makes total sense.
Now what about sheath or column dresses?
Those seem like they would just like emphasize everything,
you know?
Mm-hmm, they could be a little bit tricky,
but if you love that, you know, that sleek
and sophisticated look, it's definitely not impossible.
The key is to find a sheath dress that incorporates details
that create that visual balance.
So imagine like a wide neckline,
something that's gonna open up the chest,
draw the eye upwards,
or maybe a bodice with like some vertical embellishments
to elongate the torso.
So it's all about the details,
even with a simple silhouette.
Now fit and flare, sometimes called trumpet style,
that seems like it would be a pretty safe bet, right?
Yes, yeah.
That structured bodice is great
for creating a defined waistline,
and that gentle flare from, you know, the hips downwards
just helps balance out, you know, a fuller bust.
It's a really beautiful and romantic style for apple shapes.
And, you know, reading through these sources,
there's a lot of talk about necklines.
It sounds like there are some clear winners
and some surprising losers for apple shapes.
Oh yeah, necklines, they can make such a huge difference.
Let's start with like the superstar, the V-neck.
It's incredibly flattering
because it elongates the torso,
and it draws the eye upwards,
which creates, you know, that more balanced look overall.
See, I always thought V-necks
were just for like showing cleavage,
but it's really about the proportion they create.
Exactly, and similar to the V-neck, you know,
scoop necks, square necklines, sweetheart necklines,
they all share that open elongating effect.
But there's one neckline that, you know,
is often recommended for other body types,
but it can be tricky for apple shapes.
The halter.
Ooh, interesting.
I never would have thought of that as like a problem area.
So if you think about it this way,
a halter neckline tends to emphasize
the width of the shoulders,
which for an apple shape,
can throw off that visual balance
that we're trying to achieve.
It might end up making the waist seem wider in comparison.
Okay, yeah, that makes total sense
when you put it like that.
It all comes back to creating that harmony and proportion.
What about sleeves?
I mean, there are so many options,
from strapless to long sleeves,
and I'm getting a little overwhelmed just thinking about it.
Okay, okay, don't worry, we'll break it down.
So let's start with strapless.
You know, it can be a gorgeous option for apple shapes,
especially if you love to show off your shoulders
and your arms.
Okay, but I'm imagining like everything
just kind of spilling out if there's nothing
to like hold it in.
Yeah, I hear you.
That's where the right undergarments come in again,
like supportive strapless bra,
or even, you know, a well-structured bodice
can make all the difference.
And remember, you can always add,
like those delicate spaghetti straps,
or play with off-the-shoulder details,
just for a little extra support and visual interest.
Right, sometimes those little details
can make a huge difference.
What about cap sleeves?
Or those like wider illusion straps,
those seem to be everywhere these days.
Yeah, they're having a moment for a reason.
So think about how they add a bit of volume
to the shoulder area,
which can help to balance out the hips
and draw the eye upwards.
It's just a subtle way to create that hourglass effect
we were talking about.
So even with sleeves,
we're still thinking about that overall balance.
Now long sleeves, can those ever work on an apple shape?
I feel like they can easily make you look like boxy.
Yeah, you're right.
You want to avoid anything, you know, too heavy or bulky.
But imagine this, a long sleeve gown
made of the delicate illusion fabric
with like intricate beading or lace appliqués.
It creates this sense of elegance and drama
without, you know, overwhelming your frame.
Ooh, I'm getting chills just picturing that.
Okay, let's talk accessories.
Because that's where things can get really fun.
Veils first.
Any tips on choosing the right length for an apple shape?
Remember how we talked about the importance of,
you know, defining the waistline?
Well, a shorter veil, like let's say elbow length,
it can actually cut you off at the waist
and, you know, undo all that beautiful work
we've done with the dress.
Oh wow, I never thought about it that way.
So longer is better.
Exactly, think fingertip length or even longer.
It just creates that lovely elongated line
and lets the dress really shine.
Okay, noted, no belts.
I feel like those can be tricky
because they draw attention to the waist,
which can be kind of a sensitive area for apple shapes.
Yeah, you're right.
You don't want anything too thick or bulky,
but a narrow belt, maybe in like a satin
or embellished fabric,
it can subtly highlight that natural waistline
without, you know, adding any unnecessary volume.
So it's all about finding that like sweet spot
and it makes me think jewelry plays into this too, right?
Like how do we choose necklaces and earrings
that compliment the dress and the body type?
You know, it's all about harmony.
So if you're rocking a lower neckline,
like a V-neck or a sweetheart,
a drop necklace can be stunning.
It draws the eye downwards,
creating that elongated line we love.
Ooh, like a sparkly pendant or something.
Exactly, now if you've gone for a higher neckline,
like maybe a bateau or a jewel neck,
a statement choker can be super chic.
It draws attention upwards and adds a touch of drama.
Okay, last but not least, shoes.
We can't forget about the shoes.
And you know, apple shapes often have amazing legs,
so this is a chance to really show them off, right?
Absolutely, but comfort is key,
especially your wedding day.
You'll be on your feet for hours.
So choose something you can actually dance in.
Okay, so no stilettos that I can barely walk in,
even on a good day.
What about wedges?
Wedges are a fantastic option.
They give you that extra height,
that leg lengthening effect.
Yeah.
They're about, you know, sacrificing comfort.
And they look especially amazing
with a dress that has a slit.
Talk about showing off those legs.
I'm loving this.
So just to recap, for apple shapes,
it's all about creating that balanced hourglass-esque
silhouette, even if it's not your natural shape.
You got it, and it's not about hiding anything.
It's about, you know, celebrating your unique beauty
and finding a dress that makes you feel
absolutely radiant and confident.
It's like you're reading my mind.
So if someone's listening to this,
and they're, you know, maybe feeling a little overwhelmed
by all the options, what's the one piece of advice
you would give them?
Hmm, I would say, you know, go into it with an open mind
and an open heart.
Don't be afraid to try on different styles.
Step outside of your comfort zone.
And most importantly, trust your instincts.
The right dress will find you.
I love that.
Speaking of experimenting and trying new things,
there's actually a growing movement
that's like challenging this whole idea
of dressing for your body type.
Yeah, it's a different way of thinking about things.
The idea is that, you know, maybe these traditional
body shape categories can be kind of limiting.
And that, ultimately, you know, the most important thing
is to wear what makes you feel good,
regardless of what any rules say.
Right, yeah, so it's more about finding a dress
that speaks to your personal style
and makes you feel confident and beautiful
rather than trying to, you know, fit into a certain mold.
Exactly, you know, it's about celebrating,
like your individuality and embracing what makes you unique.
And, you know, sometimes the dress you end up
falling in love with is the one you least expected.
Oh, that's such a great point.
So if you could leave our listener with, like,
one final thought as they, you know,
embark on their wedding dress journey, what would it be?
Hmm, I would say, you know, go into it with an open mind
and an open heart.
Don't be afraid to try on different styles.
Step outside of your comfort zone.
And most importantly, trust your instincts.
The right dress will find you.
That's beautiful, and it really applies to, you know,
so much more than just wedding dresses, doesn't it?
Absolutely, you know, it's about embracing who you are
and expressing yourself authentically
in every aspect of your life.
This has been such an insightful deep dive.
I feel like I've learned so much,
not just about, you know, apple shapes and wedding dresses,
but also about, like, the importance
of self-love and confidence.
Oh, so glad to hear that.
And remember, no matter what shape you are,
you are beautiful just the way you are.
That's the perfect note to end on.
Thanks for joining us on this wedding dress deep dive.
We'll catch you next time
for another fascinating exploration.
Really, that's so interesting.
I feel like, you know, we've always been told to, like,
dress for your body type.
So it's kind of mind-blowing to think that, like,
maybe it doesn't matter as much as we thought.
Right, it's definitely a different way
of thinking about things, yeah.
The idea is that, you know,
these traditional body shape categories can be limiting,
you know, and that, ultimately.
The most important thing is to wear
what makes you feel good, regardless of what any rules say.
Right, so it's more about, like,
finding a dress that speaks to, like, your personal style.
Yeah.
And makes you feel confident and beautiful,
rather than, like, trying to fit into a certain mold.
Exactly, it's about celebrating your individuality
and embracing what makes you unique.
And then, you know, sometimes the dress
you end up falling in love with is the one you least expected.
Yeah, that's such a great point.
So if you could leave our listener with, like,
one final thought, you know, as they kind of embark
on their wedding dress journey, what would it be?
Hmm, I would say, you know,
go into it with an open mind, an open heart.
Don't be afraid to try on different styles, you know.
Step outside your comfort zone a little bit.
And most importantly, trust your instincts.
The right dress will find you.
That's beautiful, and it really applies to, you know,
so much more than just wedding dresses, doesn't it?
Absolutely, it's about, you know, embracing who you are.
And expressing yourself authentically.
Yeah.
In every aspect of your life.
I love that.
This has been such an insightful deep dive.
I feel like I've learned so much, not just about, you know,
apple shapes and wedding dresses, but also about, like,
the importance of self-love and confidence.
Oh, I'm so glad to hear that.
And remember, no matter what shape you are,
you are beautiful just the way you are.
That's a perfect note to end on.
Thanks for joining us on this wedding dress deep dive.
We'll catch you next time for another fascinating exploration.