Welcome guys to the full armor of game dating
podcast episode 75 Maintaining frame flaky women
red flags and real talk. Let's be honest Most
dudes are out here playing checkers while women
are playing 4d chess You're getting ghosted flaked
on friend zoned and still wondering if being
a nice guy will fix it It won't. In today's episode,
we went live and let the viewers take the wheel.
Raw, unscripted, straight from the trenches.
If you've ever wondered what to text her, when
to walk away, or how to stop being the guy she
forgets. Press play. It's time to armor up. You
bring the crowns and heads of conquered kings
to my city steps. You insult my queen. You threaten
my people with slavery and death. This is Sparta!
Sparta! Put on the whole armor of the game. This
is where we fight! At the end! So we have, what
are the best ways to keep a long -term relationship
successful? By not getting too comfortable, by
always being in your masculine frame. Adam talks
about this by being in your frame at all times,
never giving your power away, making demands
for a woman, having her invest, not making her
a priority, right? Yeah, I was going to say a
big thing too is what got her attracted to you.
So a lot of guys play it pretty cool in like
the... the dating stage and then all of a sudden
they get in a relationship and then they kind
of stopped doing what was what was making them
attractive to the woman so if you were like working
grinding on the side or always like spending
time in the gym and then now that you got in
a relationship you're taking days off the gym
or you're not as focused on your other side business
that type of stuff is going to lose attraction
you got to stay on your grind you got to tell
her sometimes like hey i can't hang out with
you i really enjoy spending time with you you
know that but I've got to get to the gym or I've
got to focus on this. I've got to, you know,
finish this project. Guys, join the Players University.
It really is the best place in the world if you
want to learn game. What if you want to build
yourself first and then get the girls? I don't
think there's anything wrong with that, Adam.
No, no, absolutely. I would say that's the right,
yeah, that's probably the right game plan. Grab
my workout program. And listen to the podcast,
Full Armor of Game. That's just all free stuff
you can listen to while you're working out at
the gym, while you're doing all this other stuff.
So while you're building up your life, you can
still get good game ideas and have it in your
mind. And then later, you can focus on putting
it into practice. And me and Adam, we chased
girls our entire lives. So we don't want you
guys doing the same thing. Learn from our mistakes,
our failures, and our successes. You don't have
to do what we did. because we're making the game
easier for you. Ro said, Zar, in your opinion,
how often should your game get a refresh? I want
to know what you mean more by that, Ro. Yeah,
explain that. I feel like your game should always
get a refresh. It's always constantly evolving.
You can always learn new ways to do things. And
by refresh, I get refreshed when I go through
a rejection or I do something wrong texting a
girl. It doesn't seem to work out. Or if a girl,
let's say flakes, I know I got to refresh my
game, go back to the drawing board because sometimes
we get too comfortable. Matt asked, does the
players university touch on inner confidence?
100%. Matt, you get my attraction ebook, which
is all about inner game, inner confidence. It's
not teaching you that surface level bullshit
that all these other red pill guys are teaching
you guys. Yeah, and that's also what the community
is for. We have like 600 posts in there right
now of all sorts of guys asking different questions,
asking those mindset questions, asking the inner
game type of stuff. And we have all different
guys giving their perspectives on it. Because
it all starts with inner game. You can't have
any type of success with women if you're not
confident within yourself. Everything starts
from the inward and you work your way outward.
And that's the only way I've been able to live
my life. So someone had a good question. How
would you guys handle a situation like girls
who are Russian Slavic, girls who expect flowers,
love letters, etc. Also, is it better to get
with a European than a Western girl? Adam, you
want to answer that? Yeah. Yeah, no, the best
way to stand out with girls that expect flowers
and love letters is to not do that. That's you
give them the mindset. If a girl says that to
you, too, which I don't think should be that
blunt, but you just have the frame. You just
go, no, where's mine? Like, I'm a gentleman.
Ladies first. Where's my love letter? Where's
my whatever? And you just flip it on her. You
expect her. And then that just little playful,
cocky, funny thing will make that girl go, OK,
this guy's different. Then you don't need the.
The love letters in the flowers. She should show
up with flowers and love letters for you. I love
Adam's line where anytime he's in a situation
like that, he'll always say ladies first. So
you just put the ball in her court and have her
give you flowers first, have her write you the
love letter, and then maybe you can reciprocate
that. Especially with sending pics, guys. I never
send girls pics. And I get girls to send me pics
all the time. And it usually starts with me saying
like, hey, send a cute pic. And then whatever,
she sends a pic. Or sometimes she'll be like,
no, you send one. And I'll just say, I'm a gentleman,
ladies first. And then she'll send one. And then
I'll just say, oh, send me another. And I'll
just keep getting like that, distracting her.
And then she'll be like, oh, now your turn. And
I just will never, I'll just distract her. Girls
don't actually care. They want validation. They
want attention and validation. They like sending
pictures. They don't like receiving pictures
from guys. Let them send them and then just use
that line. I'm a gentleman. Ladies first. I'll
tell you guys how repulsive it is to send a girl
a shirtless pic or a picture of yourself without
her having investment towards you or without
sleeping with her first. It's very cringy and
it's a turn off because I once had this girl
that was on me like fly on shit. She wouldn't
leave me alone. I just met this girl hanging
on by a thread. I tried leaving. Finally, I just
gave her my number so I could just walk away.
And the first text that she sends me are half
naked pictures of her trying to seek my validation.
So when you guys do the same thing, you got to
put yourself in the mindset of a woman. You're
seeking her validation and her approval. It's
very try hard. adam where do you find a decent
female we always get this question always pickleball
pickleball pickleball no volley guys i've found
i've met so many girls over the years just playing
volleyball like getting a local game together
of like casual players or joining leagues pickleball
now i meet all sorts of women playing pickleball
obviously there's bars and stuff like that but
You know where I started meeting a lot of women?
At garden centers. Home Depot, these garden centers,
because I have a passion for flowers and shit
like that. And let me tell you something. Women
also have a passion for that. And I've met a
lot of beautiful women at those garden centers.
So do a hobby that you like doing, and there
will be women there. Ah, Yasmin, the beautiful
Egyptian goddess. Oh, he said, I saw the movie
Crazy Stupid Love, the one you talked about in
your podcast. It was good. Yeah, I enjoyed that
one. That's a fun one to watch again. Okay, so
someone said, obviously, game is game. But sometimes
we may need to reinvent ourselves to tighten
things up a bit. So I was curious on how often
that should happen. Every single day. Every day
you should be working on yourself. In one way
or another, working out, reading psychology books,
enhancing your vocabulary, meeting new people,
working on your mouthpiece. Adam, this is a good
one from Cameron. Do you guys recommend that
a guy should be the one installing drama in a
relationship with a girl than her causing the
drama? 100%. 100%. Because what happens, Adam,
if... You don't create that healthy chaos, that
healthy drama. The woman is going to do it for
you. And that's the last thing you want. You
don't want to play their game. Because you will
never win. And we teach you how to do that, obviously,
in our courses, the relationship e -book you
get in the Players University. So there's a lot
to unravel. Well, and I guess there's definitely
a fine line and I don't like to deal with unnecessary
drama, but girls bring drama, of course, no matter
what. So I wouldn't go as far as like, if you're
thinking of installing drama, like implanting
a random pair of panties in your room for her
to find so that she gets competition, anxiety
and all that. That is, well, I mean, you're just
flirting with a girl actually setting your house
on fire. I wouldn't. take it that far but the
good type of drama is when you just don't you
don't need to check in with her all the time
uh you wait hours to text her back when you're
going out with your buddies you just put your
phone away you're not sitting there texting a
little time so she gets these hours at a time
where she doesn't know what you're doing you're
not texting her all night long like there's a
lot of times where it's like you know 8 30 p
.m or something and if i'm texting girl i can
just be like hey i gotta get some work done it's
fun chatting with you have a good night And I
say that and that ends the conversation. So now
for the entire rest of the night, she has no
idea what I'm doing. But that type of stuff is
where it creates this emotions in her head because
she gets to wonder. She's like, what is he up
to? Why isn't he texting me back? What is he
doing right now? That is the type of drama that
will keep her engaged so she doesn't need to
do all sorts of other crazy stuff. And also just
being on your purpose, being on your grind, never
making her your number one priority, canceling
on her once in a while, rescheduling dates once
in a while, not always answering your phone,
being unpredictable. You cannot be predictable
with a woman. Once she figures you out, it's
game over. So let's say if she texts you good
morning, you respond right away. One day when
she texts you that good morning text, you don't
answer her until the afternoon. Be unpredictable
with your behavior. Yeah, Patrick said, so I've
explained I just want to have fun and she's with
it, but she's not as communicative as I thought.
So I asked her out, but she's just not responsive.
So I just stopped. So I would ask, Patrick, I
would ask what? When you explained you just want
to have fun, which is good about being honest,
but I don't I don't like give that information
outright. It's like if a girl asks what I'm looking
for, I'm like, I'm, you know, really busy with
work. I'm really interested in meeting new people
and seeing where it goes. So I will leave it
more open ended like that to where then the girl's
like, OK, well, maybe if the right person comes
along, he'll settle down. Then later down the
road, if she keeps asking, I can be like, I'm
not really looking for a relationship. but I'm
really enjoying spending time with you. But if
you say it right away, sometimes that will scare
women off. So I give that kind of precursor at
the beginning, and that usually gets women to
be like, oh, okay, let's see if anything happens
here. It sounds like you told a girl flat out
that you just want to have fun. What do you expect
her to do, bro? You think she's going to keep
reaching out to you? Girls don't want to feel
cheap. They don't want to feel like a sex object,
bro. You tell a girl you just want to chill,
you want to have fun when she's pushing for a
relationship, bro. You just, there's nothing
you could do about this. It's game over, bro.
You might as well just move on, Patrick. Yeah,
yeah, that's a good point because, yeah, if a
girl says, if a guy comes up to a girl and he
just says, like at the bar, he's like, hey, I'm
just looking for fun. In her mind, she's like,
oh, this guy just wants to hook up. Which, of
course, some women are down for, but a lot of
women want to be more discreet about it. They
want to feel like, oh, we just hung out and it
happened, so they don't feel like they're just
a booty call. Yeah, they want to be seduced.
They don't want you to just tell them directly,
I want to sleep with you. That's not how it works,
bro. Join the Players University, Patrick. You've
got a lot to learn. Donya, is it okay if I want
to provide for a woman, but I won't ask her to
cook and clean for me either? Is this a fair
deal? I don't know what deal you're getting out
of that, bro, because I see no deal whatsoever.
If you're going to be the provider, and your
woman is going to be a stay -at -home wife, woman,
girlfriend, whatever, why wouldn't she wash the
dishes? Why wouldn't she cook for you? I'd be
damned. And I know, Adam, you feel the same way.
If you're going to be the provider, you're going
to be the one working. And your girl is just
going to be sitting on her ass, twiddling her
thumbs on her phone the entire day, not doing
anything. What kind of a relationship is that,
bro? Why would you want that? Aziz, I'll put
it this way. I, if you're willing to provide
everything for me, man, I will. take some cooking
classes right now and cook for you and do your
dishes. It's like it's that easy for a woman.
So if a woman's not willing to do that and you're
the provider, there's plenty of women that are
willing to do that. So if you don't think that's
true or don't know that's true, just level up
your game and you'll see. But like absolutely,
women, that's such a good. deal for women even
though on the mainstream media they're going
to complain about it that's such a good deal
man you provide everything for me i will cook
every meal and clean all your dishes no problem
it's like women you know if she likes you she'll
learn how to cook shit i'll wipe your ass at
that point if i just have to stay home cooking
clean i'll wipe your ass too but aziz it sounds
like you're a beta male to me and i'm going to
tell you why you're a beta male because you said
You don't want to ask her to cook and clean for
you. That's why you're a beta male because beta
males are people pleasers. They are too scared
to make demands for a woman. You know what alphas
do? Alphas make demands for a woman. You know
what the women do? They comply to those demands
because they find you attractive. That's what
a real man does is he puts his woman to work.
He makes her a part of his team. Yeah, absolutely.
Minda, our man Minda says, if you were friends
with a girl back in the beta days, but now you
have game, would a relationship with that girl
work or would she have that beta image of you?
Let's say it's been four years since you talked.
I have an opinion on this. Do you have anything?
Yeah. So there have been times where women of
the past. They hit me up once they see my social
media. Maybe they find me more attractive. Maybe
they saw that shirtless pic of me at the gym
or working out. There's nothing wrong with that,
bro. As long as she never disrespected you, she
never treated you wrongly, she wasn't toxic with
you, I don't see anything wrong with circling
back and meeting up with a woman that didn't
find you attractive once and now she does. I
see no issue with that. Yeah. And I know what
you're saying too, Minda. It's like, is that
a problem? Like, oh, is she going to have that
beta imprinted or image of you imprinted in her?
And no, it's like what she will do. And this
has happened to me too, because I went from the
nice guy syndrome and then I went to college,
came back and I was able to start gaming some
of the girls that I was like friend zoned with
in high school. But all it is, is she'll test
you a little bit more early on. to see if you're
you know different because she'll she'll sense
a little difference on you you'll walk around
with more confidence she'll be like oh this guy
seems different but she's gonna poke and prod
a little bit early on maybe not texting you back
for 24 hours whoever to see how you handle yourself
and that's when you just play it cool calm and
collected you don't over chase and all that so
you'll get some more tests early on but no like
That it's totally fine like that, especially
after four years. She'll just be like, this guy
is different and I don't know what. And then
she'll get curious about it and she'll be like,
I want to find out, is he different? Did I remember
him wrong? Do I did I have the wrong impression?
I wonder why I used to think of him as this other
guy. So, yeah, go for it. Adam, I always thought
about this. I think if me and you went back to
high school, back in our beta days with what
we know now, all those girls that rejected us.
I know 100 % I could definitely game them and
get them attracted to me. 100 % if I can go back
to what you know now and be that new person.
I always thought about that. So there's no issue
with a girl coming back and testing the waters
a little bit, but she will test you more. So
let's see what else we have. great job oh cute
stud women what does that mean i don't know what
the fuck that means adam i just skipped over
that but the next one is that the next one is
great you mean lady boys i'm not interested yeah
we're not we're not going to thailand we're not
going to thailand anytime soon so Someone brought
up this fact. Great job bringing up Jeff Bezos
on the recent podcast episode and the statue
on his yacht. Guys, go check out that podcast
episode where we talk about the rich and famous
beta males that have money because you guys all
think that you need money to get women. Go check
out that recent podcast. Do you guys think using
manipulation and gaslighting a bad thing to use
in a relationship in situations? Example, like
getting caught. I don't like gaslighting women,
Adam. I don't like manipulating women. They see
me for who I am. I'm just brutally honest. If
they catch me with another woman, you just admit
it. If you got caught cheating with another girl,
the worst thing you can do. is lie about it that
is the worst thing you can do bro because women
are like inspector gadget they will find out
they will find out and now you just look like
a coward if if you do get if he is talking about
cheating okay and your woman catches you i don't
condone cheating obviously the best thing you
guys can do is admit it and break up with your
girlfriend break up with her because I'm telling
you, you're going to give her all the power.
She might break up with you. The best move is
just to end it with her. And that will be a mindfuck
for her. You can just be like, obviously, I must
not be ready for a relationship. I think we should
break up. That's the best situation, honestly,
out of a bad one, if you ever get in that position.
having money is one thing that's a different
problem yeah if you're married obviously just
don't cheat guys okay let's see when a woman
is combative that is a red flag 100 if a woman
is acting combative and argumentative you will
never change that woman you will never change
that woman this is big guys actually because
i used to think like if a girl is combative or
whatever and even if it's kind of playful early
on and she's combative i used to kind of be like
ah you're cute it's cute that you're like fiery
and i absolutely don't say stuff like that anymore
i'm very careful with the words i like will praise
women women with i don't want to praise a woman
about her being fiery i don't want to praise
her about spicy cute yes spicy because that is
just her going i'm getting rewarded for being
combative in a sense so if a girl is combative
with me now i just pull back i don't text her
back i will wait multiple hours to text her back
if i do text her back i will back up back off
until she comes back in with sweeter energy or
even at least neutral energy so that she doesn't
get rewarded with attention every time she's
combative and then what i will do is i will wait
until i see her do something that's not combative
she's going along she's being supportive she
does something she goes out her way to do something
for me and i will make sure to now actually praise
her for that i'll be like ah that's really cute
i like when you're sweet like that's really cute
like being sweet looks good on you and i'll say
stuff like that so i'm not ever trying to reward
a woman for being combative or fiery i want her
to be sweet helpful supportive yeah and i think
i mentioned this story on another podcast where
This girl I was dating, she sent me paragraph
text trying to argue with me. I didn't even respond.
I didn't send her one message back. The next
time I saw her when we're on the way to the gym
to work out, she brought that up. She said, hey,
you didn't respond to my text message. And like
Adam said, I said, yeah, you know, I just don't
deal with drama. I'm not going to go back and
forth arguing because that's teaching a woman
if she wants our attention. She better be sweet.
We're not responding to negativity because anything
that you feed begins to grow. That includes negativity
and positivity. Yeah, good point. And Aziz says,
guys, you misread my comment. That's our bad,
Aziz. He said, is it okay if I don't want to
provide for a woman, but I won't ask her to cook
and clean for me either? Yeah, that's... To me,
that's totally fine because that's just like
I'm a single guy. I'm a normal guy with a bachelor.
I always cook and clean for myself anyway. So
when girls do it, it's a bonus. But if I'm not
going to provide for women, which I don't, I
don't just shell out money or spend very much
money on women, then that's not an expectation
I'm going to place on them. But the women that
want more of my time and want to see me more,
they know that. By doing those things, it's a
lot better chance that they're going to get to
see me more often. Yeah, if a woman and me are
going 50 -50, where we're both providing for
each other, I'm not going to expect her to do
all the cooking, all the cleaning when she's
going to come home tired as well. That's going
to be a team effort. We were saying that if she's
sitting home not working and you are, she better
be cooking and she better be cleaning. Question
for the both of you. Does practicing semen retention
help decrease nervousness when approaching a
woman? This is what it does help. It helps you
not look at women as sex objects, which takes
away that nervousness. And now you can be yourself
talking to her. You don't look at her as a sex
object. You talk to her like a human being. You're
not antsy. You're not thinking about getting
in her pants. So there's a difference. There's
a big difference. And I've been through that.
Yeah, that's a good point. And it helps for a
lot of things. Like I still will do that to this
day. Like I'll take weeks off when I want to
focus on something and just like, I want to get
a new thing done. I want to get a new website
page built and just to channel all my focus into
that. But yeah, that you won't give off as much
of that. That needy, that needy energy. It's
like this anxious energy because it's almost
like a bunny rabbit just wanting to hump something.
It's like that type of energy. If you watch a
bunch of porn, that's going to be an energy that
can ooze off on you. I mean, there's definitely
guys that can watch a bunch of porn and they're
good with women and that's fine. But if you have
trouble with women and you're watching a lot
of porn, then that can come off as. I have a
book coming out called From Porn to Power and
it talks about my experience with semen retention.
during my college years. And I've never attracted
more women in my life than when I was on semen
retention. There is this magnetism, this aura
that they feel, especially when you already have
game and you have confidence. It's good for your
hair. It actually thickens your hair growth.
It's good for your skin. And you have that glow
in your eyes as well. You have that glow in your
skin. So I definitely noticed the change and
the women that were around me. could feel that
change that I've never felt before it was difficult
the first week was hard second week was hard
but then by the third week it becomes easier
but what happens is you start having wet dreams
from semen retention which I don't think counts
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do you guys think frame is very important like
standing your ground 100 cameron frame is everything
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We talk about frame a lot. Yeah. And standing
your ground. Frame is absolutely everything because
Cameron, the best way I could maybe put it is
that every interaction, somebody's joining someone
else's frame. And in most interactions, guys
join the women's frame. It's like the girl says,
no, I don't do this. Oh, no, you're going to
have to try harder. And that guy joins her frame
and starts trying harder. So now he's playing
into her frame. So it's like every interaction
with a girl, it's frame. And you got to know
how to control the frame and always play it off
to where you're not stepping into her frame.
If I see a girl is trying to get me to buy under
a frame, I will try to switch it up and give
her an opportunity to come into my frame. I'll
give you guys an example. Go ahead, Adam. I know
you were going to give an example. I was just
going to say, it's just like the girl asks you
to buy her a drink. It's like if you buy her
a drink, you're now entering her frame. Oh, I
bought you a drink. Here you go. It's like if
a girl says, buy me a drink, I say, no, you buy
me a drink. Or I'm a gentleman. Ladies first.
Go ahead and buy me a drink. That gives her an
opportunity to now enter my frame and buy me
a drink so that she can come talk to me, but
I don't want to get in her frame. I talk about
this in my relationship e -book you guys get
in the Players University for free. So a great
example. You and your girlfriend have an event
to go to. She's already there. You show up 10,
20 minutes late. Your girlfriend says, why are
you always late? I told you to be here at 8 o
'clock at night. You know what frame is? You
tell her, I'm sorry, I was busy picking up beautiful
women. That's frame. Okay, you're still in your
frame. You're not jumping through her hoops,
but you're being cocky and funny. You're not
apologizing, babe, I'm so sorry. I know it won't
happen again. No, you just tell her, oh, I was
busy picking up beautiful women. Thomas says,
I noticed girls from my high school have been
dating the same guy for years now, and I can
see their pics. She looks all dry already. Is
that possible? Does he mean, like, it looks like
she hit the wall? Like, she looks like she...
I think he means she's dry, as in he doesn't
turn her on anymore. And the reason why she's
dry, it's because she hasn't met me yet in person.
So I could change that real quick. But this is
what happens, Adam. This is what happens in relationships
when you don't have game and you're a beta male.
Women dry up. Yeah. You'll see it happen all
the time. Yeah, that's it's a good point. Just
look at all your high school, all the couples
or the people who are in long relationships and
you just see like living corpses. It's like their
eyes are not there anymore because the attraction
is gone. And that happens from guys just losing
frame over and over and over again. And just
going, oh, I'm going to say yes to honey this
time to make her happy. And then that one time
turns into two times to four times to every day.
And then that, you know, lady is walking around
like Bridezilla, an angry beast. And women don't
want to feel like angry beasts. They want to
be feminine princesses. Yeah, the blue haired
women on social media these days screaming will
tell you they want to be beasts. But no, women
want to be princesses. If they get an effeminate
man in their life, in a relationship, they turn
into hardened masculine wildebeest because polarity.
If the guy's feminine, the girl turns masculine.
If the guy's masculine, the girl can stay feminine.
100%. But it's always best to start with a feminine
woman because with a masculine woman, it's a
headache to keep her in her masculine. It's a
constant headache. Your game has to be on point.
Your frame, 100%. You can't even relax. So I
love this because you could tell he listens to
our podcast. I remember a perfect line from Jay.
Shout out to you, Justin. For when a woman catches
you flirting, just say, sharing is caring. That's
why we love Justin. That's a good one. And he's
also one of the coaches in the Players University.
Oh, yeah. What's up, Antonio? Mikey said, I don't
think I've ever been turned off more than seeing
a combative woman, even a masculine woman. I
get turned off by being around masculine women.
It's like oil and water. It just doesn't mix.
Get me the fuck away from them. As quickly as
possible. What do we do with dishonest women?
Yeah, what are we going to do? Yeah, I was going
to say, what do you mean? You don't get in a
relationship with them. And it depends. Is it
a white lie or is it a big lie? It all depends
the type of lie that it is. But this is what
I want you guys to do. Anytime you meet a girl
before you go out on a date. Or when you're out
on a date with her. I want you guys to say this
one line. And I always say this. Listen, all
I ask from you is that you're real and authentic
with me. And I'll be real and authentic with
you back. Say that one line to a woman. And see
how wet she gets. Because women are always looking
for authenticity. And you let her know, I'll
never lie to you. You never lie to me. I want
your real self. That's all I ask of you. Austin
says top red flags in a woman. Go to episode
two of our podcast. We did a whole podcast on
red flags. But for me personally, just one off
the top of my head, just like a girl's the tone
of voice with a girl. I can tell when a girl's
combative and, you know, just a headache from
that like argument of tone of voice. That one
for me, if I hear that Karen tone of voice or
that like scolding or that like. you know, like
aggressive tone of voice from a woman, that to
me, I'm just like, nah, I'm good. Someone else
can deal with that. Yeah, I agree, Adam. The
way a woman communicates, if she's speaking in
a ratchet tone or speaking like a dude, saying
bro, talking like a guy, I'm out. But my biggest
red flag, and I hope no one watching the women
have a butterfly tattoo, but my biggest red flag
is a butterfly tattoo. That's the mark of the
beast. That is the mark of the beast. But go
to the Red Flags podcast and we talk about that.
I get into further depth and I explain why certain
tattoos are the biggest red flags. Art with Love
said, if a woman says she needs space and you
remove her from social media and disappear, but
a month later she texts asking, how are you?
What should you do? Ignore her or text back?
Oh, I definitely have an opinion on this. Yeah,
go ahead. Go ahead, Adam. I want to hear you
because you're the text. OK, so, yeah, I was
going to say, first off, if a girl says she needs,
that means you're not following mirror texting.
So for any guy that doesn't know, mirror texting
means take exactly as long as she takes to text
you back. or longer to reply because you're giving
the girl the perfect amount of space. If a girl
replies in six hours, I take at least six hours
to reply. I'm giving her space. And then if she
replies within 20 minutes, I'm going to reply
probably at least 25 minutes or later. I'm still
giving her space. So women will start to text
you way quicker when they want to hear from you
if you're following that. that is how you don't
get into this situation but now if this happened
i would play it cool like i i don't i don't need
to say like you know oh you know never talk to
her again it's like i just go oh if i didn't
give her enough space that was probably on me
i was being you know coming on too strong so
now she texts me i just it's an etched sketch
i erase everything from the previous history
but now i'm cool calm and collected very much
so I'm not asking her out. I'm not trying to
ask her to hang out. I'm really pumping the brakes
with her and not overextending. So I'm not going
to ask her four questions in a text. I'm going
to reply with something short. I've been really
busy, but good. How about you? And I'll send
that, but I'm going to wait like multiple, multiple
hours so that she doesn't get this like. Eager
energy from me again, because if she said she
needs space, she needs a lot of space. So reply
eight hours later than that text. Be very cool,
calm and collected and keep following your texting
from here on out with that girl. Now, if he met
Adam, a woman said she needs space, which was
his girlfriend or someone he was in a relationship
with. Good. I would never talk to her ever again
because. If you've been following us, you should
know what that means by now. You should know
what that means by now. She had another guy she
was messing with. So you don't respond to her
on social media, delete her social media, delete
her number, never talk to her ever again. Yeah,
that's a good point. If you're in a relationship
and she says she needs space, like she needs
more eggplants in her little Venus fly trapper
down there. that's when I'm like, all right,
good riddance. I'm just like, good. In my mind,
I go, ah, freedom. I'm free again. Yes. You got
to enjoy the single life. Enjoy time with yourself.
See it as a blessing. If that girl is in a relationship
with you, send her off and then don't worry about
her. Move on to bigger and better things. So
Mahmoud says, checking girls on disrespect. I
was joking with this girl. Then she told me to
go F myself. I checked her right away and she
apologized. I'm happy you checked her because
I would have said, don't talk to me that way.
I was only teasing you or relax. It was just
a joke. But if you're going too far with the
teasing, the cocky, funny, joking with the girl,
there's a certain balance you have to find with
it. and your tonality as well so i don't know
the context of what you said or how you said
it but if a girl tells you to go f yourself i've
had many girls tell me that but in a playful
way there wasn't a girl that was ever serious
about saying that to me so yeah yeah good point
yeah it depends how she said it but i would i
would always just play it off as like it didn't
phase me i'm not gonna let any girl's words phase
me So if I was laughing when I said it and she
says that, even if she's angry, I'm just going
to be like, oh, all right, then maybe I will
or something like that. And I'm just going to
walk off, but I'm just not going to give her
my time and attention. And that's how I'll get
back at her. But I'm not going to let her look
like she phased me to where she ruined my night
or she got me all upset. Yeah, whatever you do,
don't say, oh, my God, I'm so sorry. Oh, please,
please forgive me. It was just a joke. No, don't
ever do that. Now, Cameron said, I don't understand
what you said, Cameron. If someone is in a relationship
with a girl, do you think it's good to attack
her friend frame to get her fully on your frame?
I don't know what you mean, bro. I have no idea
what that means. So make sure you reword that.
Explain that a little bit and we can answer that.
Matt said, do you shut down sometimes as little
as a girl calling you dude before sleeping with
her or do you do it after? I call her out on
that, bro. Anytime a girl texts me or calls me
dude or she says bro, I check her on that. I
tell her, don't ever call me bro or dude. That's
so unattractive. Why would I want to deal with
that girl anyways? Those women are usually ratchet.
Those are ratchet women. that say bro or dude
don't ask me how i know bro he doesn't say i've
had yeah i've had that happen before like if
it's early on a date or something like that i
will just kind of uh yeah kind of slowly back
up my attention from her again so she doesn't
get rewarded for that by i'll just kind of like
look at her and be like bro I'll be like, and
I'll just kind of like shake my head like that.
And then I'll even pull my body back and I'll
just kind of even turn my body a little bit.
Like if I'm on a first date with her and I'll
just give her, it's just a subtle freeze out
in that kind of look on the face and me saying
like, bro, or like, dude, like that, just questioning
her like that and looking, you know, shaking
my head and then just turning my body. I'm not
going to let it ruin my night, but I'm going
to do that a mini freeze out. And then she's
going to go, Oh, I probably shouldn't have done
that. And I'm going to give her that. hopefully
that she can learn that way if she does it again
you know i'm gonna kind of be like i'm not i'm
not a bro and i'm gonna do the same thing and
freeze her out a little bit longer but and then
if she keeps doing at that point i don't want
to teach an old dog new tricks i'm gonna try
a couple times and then you know after that even
let's say even even if i were black right if
i were black and a girl would use she would use
the n word on me i would shut that shit down
bro Because I think, number one, that's disrespectful.
Just like a girl calling you bro or dude. Like
Adam said, I would just say, ugh, bro, did you
just call me dude? And give him that ugh, that
look. So that way they don't do it again. But
I personally don't like women that use that type
of language. I can't stand that shit. I hate
being called dude by a woman. every guy does
hbi bud yeah you're right john czar thanks for
your answer about dominant women that was the
answer i was looking for 100 man there's certain
women that are dominant so you really have to
amp up your masculine energy when me and adam
look at a woman we could tell how masculine or
how feminine this woman is So if she is slightly
masculine, say she's covered in tattoos or the
way she walks, I'm going to have to be more masculine
than her for her to be put in her feminine. But
it's a constant headache. It's a constant tug
of war. Cameron said, why do most people who
get in relationships lose their edge and get
far too comfortable? It's like anything, human
nature. Man, the easier something is, you just
get a little more comfortable. You don't appreciate
it as much. You don't stay on your game as much.
You go, oh, maybe I don't need to go to the gym
now because I got a girlfriend. And now you go,
oh, well, instead of going to the gym for a couple
hours, let's stay in and watch, like, what are
those, like, reality shows all the girls watch?
Friends? No, like, I'm thinking, like, all the
ones that my buddies who are married, their wives
make them watch, like, the Love Island type stuff.
Sex in the City? It's like the, yeah, like, you
know, the love a bachelor type stuff, but like
the, you know, all that, all that type of stuff.
Love Island. Yeah. Yeah. People just get way
too comfortable. And the thing is, when you get
in a relationship with a woman, she gets more
comfortable. Ask demanding things out of you.
She will play the card of like, well, we're in
a relationship now. So you're supposed to check
in. We're in a relationship now. So you can't
just. go do that with your friends anymore without
asking me. She'll be more comfortable making
demands, so you have to have a backbone to be
like, no, this is how I'm going to do it. I won't
see you. You can go have fun, go hang out with
your friends, whatever, but I'm going to go do
this. You have to know your boundaries and be
willing to actually enforce your boundaries in
a relationship or else women, if you give them
an inch, they'll take a mile. It's just how they're
programmed. It's fun. It keeps men motivated.
It keeps, you know, men accomplishing great things.
But it's annoying if you don't know how to nip
it in the bud. And this is the biggest issue
with men in relationships, Adam. And I want all
you guys paying attention. Men will give away
their power to the woman slowly over time without
them even realizing they're doing it. The woman
will play dress up with them. They'll tell them,
oh. I want you to wear this type of clothing.
I bought you these shirts, these pants. I wanted
to change your style up. Now she's playing dress
up with you like you're a Ken doll. You're giving
your power away. You're starting to be more compliant.
You're starting to be more submissive. You're
not being a leader. When she asks, what do you
want to eat? You say, I don't know, babe. What
do you want to eat? You're not making decisive
decisions. You're losing your leadership abilities.
And you give it away to the woman. Because you
become lazy. And this happens to nearly every
single fucking guy in a relationship or in a
marriage. Every single one you can count on it.
Except me and Adam. Because we know better. Now,
someone said spider web and snake tattoo. Is
that a red flag, Adam? We talked about the demonic
tattoos. Yeah, anything that's kind of freaky
in nature, you know that girl gets down. So if
she's got those skulls or skeleton tattoos, she's
got dark, like black widows or spiders or the
darker sides of life, that means she's played
with the darker sides of the adult life as well.
I'll tell you guys a quick story. I dated this
Brazilian girl once who was tattooed. from her
neck down on her fingers her hands everywhere
her legs she had these demonic tattoos she had
snake tattoos upside down crosses these demonic
faces i didn't put two and two together at that
time i just thought she was a cool girl whatever
i'm in a relationship with this girl i was ready
to end it i didn't want to be with her we're
in the back seat of my car in some shop right
parking lot by her She's on top of me. She's
riding me. And all of a sudden, her eyes changed
from brown to pitch black. When I saw that, I
immediately stopped. Stopped everything. I said,
listen, we can do this another time. She had
no idea what was going on. I got the fuck out
of there. There's a reason why certain women
get these demonic tattoos. Because they carry
that demonic energy. And that's a true fucking
story. I'll never forget the look in her eyes.
Her eyes changing color. It was the creepiest
shit I've ever seen in my life. I never want
to experience that ever again. But now I look
at the tattoos that women have. Because those
are telltale signs. Even a snake tattoo, Adam.
What do we know about Adam and Eve? And the snake?
Yeah, she's Team Serpent over Team God, man.
That's what I'm saying. That's the biggest red
flag in the book. I've never met a feminine,
good quality woman who even has a snake tattoo
or anything demonic like spider webs. Yeah, I
can maybe give the one. one one millionth of
a percent of actual zookeeper women out there
that live and breathe animals and for whatever
reason snakes are favorite animal i will give
her maybe the benefit of the doubt but every
other case i'm i'm a little concerned with the
snake tattoo what are your thoughts on blocking
girls from social media after getting disrespected
i'm all for it bro there's nothing weak about
blocking a girl in my opinion You might have
a different opinion, Adam, but I've had girls
that disrespected me on social media, girls I
personally knew or random women. I just blocked
them. I have no patience for that. I'm not even
going back and forth. Don't care. Yeah, I don't
think there's anything wrong with that. I always
wonder what is the amount of disrespect. Yeah,
there's certain things that a girl says something.
It's like, I don't want any part of you in my
life. Just get rid of her. if like a guy came
on too strong and the girl's like hey i'm not
interested i'm just like i mean again i guess
there's no reason not to block her in that case
i just never feel like i want to even put the
energy into like oh i blocked you because you
got to rise out of me but there's definitely
cases if people are you know just adding drama
to your life just get rid of them no once i block
them i don't even think about them like they're
just blocked out of my fucking life i don't care
if we tell the girl to be honest and authentic
with that advice i gave earlier will she try
to ask questions to disqualify us no that's not
the point of playing truth or dare bro you're
telling a woman you want her to be her authentic
and honest self because you don't want her trying
to be anyone else around you and same thing with
you she will respect that if you tell her and
you will get the same out of me you will get
my authentic and real self That's very powerful
when you tell a girl that, and you mean it. But
that doesn't mean she's going to ask you questions
to disqualify you now. Yeah, and I think that's
such a part of the pressure, too, that when guys
pedestalize women, and so many guys do, we see
it all the times, or we make fun of it all the
time when guys are outright simping. When guys
put all this pressure on a girl, like she's so
great. And it's literally because she looks good
or whatever. She's in shape and she's pretty.
And guys build this up in their head. And if
that energy comes across to a girl, that girl
can never feel like she can actually be her authentic
self. Because she's like, this guy thinks I'm
something that I'm not. She knows that she doesn't
look this good when she doesn't get all done
up in her makeup. She knows she doesn't look
this good when she has a couple cheat days in
a row and eats a couple tubs of ice cream. So
when guys pedestalize women based on their looks
and they think that that girl is like something
special, women are like, I can't even just relax.
I feel like I have to be this like goddess superhero
in front of this guy. And then she can't just
enjoy herself. They could be relaxed. They could
lay back. They don't have to pretend to be anyone
they're not. And authenticity is so rare in today's
world. It's refreshing for a woman to hear that.
And also. for her to meet a man who's being his
real authentic self. And he's not trying to be
anyone he's not. So Sue Blucks had a great question.
When girl asks, what did you have in mind for
the date? What do you say if you have no idea?
Bro, you better say something, dude. This is
what we're talking about with competency and
having leadership abilities. I mean, what are
you going to say? I don't know. What did you
have in mind? Something you never want to say
to a woman. Grab drinks, bro. Tell her you have
this amazing tavern within your area you're going
to take her out to. Whatever, bro. You're going
to take her bowling. Oh, you guys are going to
play arcades. Who gives a fuck? Just say something.
If she's attracted to you, it doesn't matter
where you take her. Yeah, and he's in Players
U. So this is because in texting school in Players
U. uh, levels like seven through 12 is where
I talk about setting the date up over texting.
So if a girl says, you know, what do you have
in mind for, or what do you have in mind for
a date? I, this is when I will always do the,
when I give her one or two rules, I'll say, uh,
I've got an idea in mind, but only if you can
handle two things. And then again, the, she'll
be like, what are those? And I'll just give her
one at a time. The first one I could just say,
cute, you know, wear a cute little dress or skirt.
You don't have to do that, but that's just what
I do. I like that. I actually like that. yeah
because i want a girl to look you know good anyway
like that too and then she's like done whatever
no problem and then the second one again it can
be uh it can be as little as like bring four
quarters can't not a dollar bill gotta be four
quarters it doesn't matter what what it is we've
talked about that another podcast but and in
the course you can go through and watch that
but then she's like okay great so now she had
to kind of go oh i yes i can do this yes i can
do that then i say all right, meet me at Joe's
bar at 7 .30 PM or whatever. And she's like,
okay, sounds good or whatever. And it's like,
boom, there you go. That's how easy it is. You
say, meet me here at eight. You could do Adam's
advice as well. You could take his advice because
you're making her compliant. She's saying yes,
and it's fun for her. She doesn't know what to
expect. What do I need these four quarters for?
I'll tell a girl, Two things, like Adam said,
number one, you got to wear something tight and
sexy. You got to look your best. I'll look my
best. Number two, you got to bring a Twix bar
with you or a Kit Kat. It just it's something
so stupid. But the whole point is you're making
her invest into this date where she has to go
out of her way. She has to grab four quarters
or she has to go to the store, buy a candy for
your chocolate. And you guys can share it together
at the end of the night. There you go. Every
time she sees a Kit Kat, Adam, it's going to
remind her of you. Yeah. And then if it's the
four quarters, again, all it has to do is you
go to a bar that has a pool table or you go to
a bar that has an arcade game there or a claw
machine to win a stuffed animal. So it doesn't
really matter. But just by adding those little
things, that girl's like, this is way more fun
than her just going, I'm going to drinks. like
the other 30 tender dates I went on. It's like,
oh, I'm going to drinks at this bar, but what
are we going to do with these quarters? Or what
are we going to do with that Twix bar? That's
going to make that girl a lot more excited. And
then that's why you don't have to set up some
fancy date. I always just do a couple of drinks
at a bar. And then sometimes I will take that
girl to the pet store that we can walk to. And
we'll just look at animals and pet free. So I
don't have to spend any more money. Sometimes
I'll walk her to the bookstore next door from
that bar and we'll show each other our favorite
book sections and just free just like that. Or
I'll drive her to the toy store and then we'll
do something like that where I only spend $10.
So there's a lot of ways to do it. But, you know,
I usually start with just a bar with a drink
or two. And thank you guys so much. Make sure
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of our courses, all of our products we have for
you. And we will see you on the next episode.
Amazing questions, guys. We'll start doing this
maybe every so often. We had fun answering all
your questions. And we appreciate all the support
from me and Adam, two of the best in the game
right now, fellas. And the next episode is going
to be on women mentally leaving you. What are
the signs that your girlfriend might be leaving
you or a woman might be leaving you? So make
sure you guys tune in into the next week's podcast
as well. Yeah, we will see you guys next week.
Take care.