WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.279 Welcome guys to the full armor of game dating 00:00:03.279 --> 00:00:09.400 podcast episode 75 Maintaining frame flaky women 00:00:09.400 --> 00:00:14.500 red flags and real talk. Let's be honest Most 00:00:14.500 --> 00:00:17.039 dudes are out here playing checkers while women 00:00:17.039 --> 00:00:20.780 are playing 4d chess You're getting ghosted flaked 00:00:20.780 --> 00:00:23.800 on friend zoned and still wondering if being 00:00:23.800 --> 00:00:27.710 a nice guy will fix it It won't. In today's episode, 00:00:28.050 --> 00:00:31.230 we went live and let the viewers take the wheel. 00:00:31.449 --> 00:00:34.789 Raw, unscripted, straight from the trenches. 00:00:35.070 --> 00:00:38.090 If you've ever wondered what to text her, when 00:00:38.090 --> 00:00:41.450 to walk away, or how to stop being the guy she 00:00:41.450 --> 00:00:45.729 forgets. Press play. It's time to armor up. You 00:00:45.729 --> 00:00:48.329 bring the crowns and heads of conquered kings 00:00:48.329 --> 00:00:53.189 to my city steps. You insult my queen. You threaten 00:00:53.189 --> 00:00:57.960 my people with slavery and death. This is Sparta! 00:01:03.780 --> 00:01:10.340 Sparta! Put on the whole armor of the game. This 00:01:10.340 --> 00:01:20.629 is where we fight! At the end! So we have, what 00:01:20.629 --> 00:01:22.790 are the best ways to keep a long -term relationship 00:01:22.790 --> 00:01:26.909 successful? By not getting too comfortable, by 00:01:26.909 --> 00:01:29.909 always being in your masculine frame. Adam talks 00:01:29.909 --> 00:01:32.590 about this by being in your frame at all times, 00:01:32.629 --> 00:01:35.590 never giving your power away, making demands 00:01:35.590 --> 00:01:39.849 for a woman, having her invest, not making her 00:01:39.849 --> 00:01:42.290 a priority, right? Yeah, I was going to say a 00:01:42.290 --> 00:01:45.390 big thing too is what got her attracted to you. 00:01:45.409 --> 00:01:48.370 So a lot of guys play it pretty cool in like 00:01:48.370 --> 00:01:51.040 the... the dating stage and then all of a sudden 00:01:51.040 --> 00:01:53.620 they get in a relationship and then they kind 00:01:53.620 --> 00:01:56.500 of stopped doing what was what was making them 00:01:56.500 --> 00:01:58.439 attractive to the woman so if you were like working 00:01:58.439 --> 00:02:00.659 grinding on the side or always like spending 00:02:00.659 --> 00:02:02.200 time in the gym and then now that you got in 00:02:02.200 --> 00:02:04.480 a relationship you're taking days off the gym 00:02:04.480 --> 00:02:07.040 or you're not as focused on your other side business 00:02:07.040 --> 00:02:09.759 that type of stuff is going to lose attraction 00:02:09.759 --> 00:02:11.879 you got to stay on your grind you got to tell 00:02:11.879 --> 00:02:13.879 her sometimes like hey i can't hang out with 00:02:13.879 --> 00:02:15.539 you i really enjoy spending time with you you 00:02:15.539 --> 00:02:18.360 know that but I've got to get to the gym or I've 00:02:18.360 --> 00:02:20.699 got to focus on this. I've got to, you know, 00:02:20.699 --> 00:02:24.360 finish this project. Guys, join the Players University. 00:02:24.960 --> 00:02:27.840 It really is the best place in the world if you 00:02:27.840 --> 00:02:30.400 want to learn game. What if you want to build 00:02:30.400 --> 00:02:32.780 yourself first and then get the girls? I don't 00:02:32.780 --> 00:02:34.340 think there's anything wrong with that, Adam. 00:02:34.780 --> 00:02:38.280 No, no, absolutely. I would say that's the right, 00:02:38.360 --> 00:02:41.379 yeah, that's probably the right game plan. Grab 00:02:41.379 --> 00:02:44.900 my workout program. And listen to the podcast, 00:02:45.060 --> 00:02:48.639 Full Armor of Game. That's just all free stuff 00:02:48.639 --> 00:02:50.919 you can listen to while you're working out at 00:02:50.919 --> 00:02:52.500 the gym, while you're doing all this other stuff. 00:02:52.580 --> 00:02:54.039 So while you're building up your life, you can 00:02:54.039 --> 00:02:58.960 still get good game ideas and have it in your 00:02:58.960 --> 00:03:01.219 mind. And then later, you can focus on putting 00:03:01.219 --> 00:03:04.639 it into practice. And me and Adam, we chased 00:03:04.639 --> 00:03:08.219 girls our entire lives. So we don't want you 00:03:08.219 --> 00:03:11.340 guys doing the same thing. Learn from our mistakes, 00:03:11.659 --> 00:03:14.400 our failures, and our successes. You don't have 00:03:14.400 --> 00:03:16.810 to do what we did. because we're making the game 00:03:16.810 --> 00:03:20.349 easier for you. Ro said, Zar, in your opinion, 00:03:20.370 --> 00:03:23.949 how often should your game get a refresh? I want 00:03:23.949 --> 00:03:27.729 to know what you mean more by that, Ro. Yeah, 00:03:27.810 --> 00:03:31.250 explain that. I feel like your game should always 00:03:31.250 --> 00:03:34.289 get a refresh. It's always constantly evolving. 00:03:34.349 --> 00:03:38.009 You can always learn new ways to do things. And 00:03:38.009 --> 00:03:40.949 by refresh, I get refreshed when I go through 00:03:40.949 --> 00:03:44.310 a rejection or I do something wrong texting a 00:03:44.310 --> 00:03:48.639 girl. It doesn't seem to work out. Or if a girl, 00:03:48.639 --> 00:03:51.360 let's say flakes, I know I got to refresh my 00:03:51.360 --> 00:03:54.139 game, go back to the drawing board because sometimes 00:03:54.139 --> 00:03:57.039 we get too comfortable. Matt asked, does the 00:03:57.039 --> 00:03:59.900 players university touch on inner confidence? 00:04:00.340 --> 00:04:03.740 100%. Matt, you get my attraction ebook, which 00:04:03.740 --> 00:04:06.879 is all about inner game, inner confidence. It's 00:04:06.879 --> 00:04:09.479 not teaching you that surface level bullshit 00:04:09.479 --> 00:04:12.300 that all these other red pill guys are teaching 00:04:12.300 --> 00:04:16.839 you guys. Yeah, and that's also what the community 00:04:16.839 --> 00:04:21.019 is for. We have like 600 posts in there right 00:04:21.019 --> 00:04:23.120 now of all sorts of guys asking different questions, 00:04:23.220 --> 00:04:25.800 asking those mindset questions, asking the inner 00:04:25.800 --> 00:04:27.439 game type of stuff. And we have all different 00:04:27.439 --> 00:04:30.420 guys giving their perspectives on it. Because 00:04:30.420 --> 00:04:33.040 it all starts with inner game. You can't have 00:04:33.040 --> 00:04:35.100 any type of success with women if you're not 00:04:35.100 --> 00:04:38.240 confident within yourself. Everything starts 00:04:38.240 --> 00:04:40.779 from the inward and you work your way outward. 00:04:41.079 --> 00:04:43.060 And that's the only way I've been able to live 00:04:43.060 --> 00:04:47.899 my life. So someone had a good question. How 00:04:47.899 --> 00:04:50.439 would you guys handle a situation like girls 00:04:50.439 --> 00:04:54.079 who are Russian Slavic, girls who expect flowers, 00:04:54.279 --> 00:04:57.600 love letters, etc. Also, is it better to get 00:04:57.600 --> 00:05:00.759 with a European than a Western girl? Adam, you 00:05:00.759 --> 00:05:08.029 want to answer that? Yeah. Yeah, no, the best 00:05:08.029 --> 00:05:10.629 way to stand out with girls that expect flowers 00:05:10.629 --> 00:05:14.009 and love letters is to not do that. That's you 00:05:14.009 --> 00:05:16.550 give them the mindset. If a girl says that to 00:05:16.550 --> 00:05:19.129 you, too, which I don't think should be that 00:05:19.129 --> 00:05:20.829 blunt, but you just have the frame. You just 00:05:20.829 --> 00:05:23.269 go, no, where's mine? Like, I'm a gentleman. 00:05:23.490 --> 00:05:25.870 Ladies first. Where's my love letter? Where's 00:05:25.870 --> 00:05:27.870 my whatever? And you just flip it on her. You 00:05:27.870 --> 00:05:29.850 expect her. And then that just little playful, 00:05:30.069 --> 00:05:32.449 cocky, funny thing will make that girl go, OK, 00:05:32.610 --> 00:05:34.550 this guy's different. Then you don't need the. 00:05:35.259 --> 00:05:38.379 The love letters in the flowers. She should show 00:05:38.379 --> 00:05:41.180 up with flowers and love letters for you. I love 00:05:41.180 --> 00:05:43.779 Adam's line where anytime he's in a situation 00:05:43.779 --> 00:05:47.000 like that, he'll always say ladies first. So 00:05:47.000 --> 00:05:50.720 you just put the ball in her court and have her 00:05:50.720 --> 00:05:52.939 give you flowers first, have her write you the 00:05:52.939 --> 00:05:55.899 love letter, and then maybe you can reciprocate 00:05:55.899 --> 00:05:58.949 that. Especially with sending pics, guys. I never 00:05:58.949 --> 00:06:01.329 send girls pics. And I get girls to send me pics 00:06:01.329 --> 00:06:03.750 all the time. And it usually starts with me saying 00:06:03.750 --> 00:06:06.029 like, hey, send a cute pic. And then whatever, 00:06:06.189 --> 00:06:08.149 she sends a pic. Or sometimes she'll be like, 00:06:08.269 --> 00:06:11.069 no, you send one. And I'll just say, I'm a gentleman, 00:06:11.230 --> 00:06:13.490 ladies first. And then she'll send one. And then 00:06:13.490 --> 00:06:15.550 I'll just say, oh, send me another. And I'll 00:06:15.550 --> 00:06:17.230 just keep getting like that, distracting her. 00:06:17.290 --> 00:06:19.110 And then she'll be like, oh, now your turn. And 00:06:19.110 --> 00:06:21.769 I just will never, I'll just distract her. Girls 00:06:21.769 --> 00:06:23.870 don't actually care. They want validation. They 00:06:23.870 --> 00:06:26.069 want attention and validation. They like sending 00:06:26.069 --> 00:06:28.329 pictures. They don't like receiving pictures 00:06:28.329 --> 00:06:31.089 from guys. Let them send them and then just use 00:06:31.089 --> 00:06:34.350 that line. I'm a gentleman. Ladies first. I'll 00:06:34.350 --> 00:06:37.170 tell you guys how repulsive it is to send a girl 00:06:37.170 --> 00:06:41.329 a shirtless pic or a picture of yourself without 00:06:41.329 --> 00:06:44.350 her having investment towards you or without 00:06:44.350 --> 00:06:47.269 sleeping with her first. It's very cringy and 00:06:47.269 --> 00:06:50.730 it's a turn off because I once had this girl 00:06:50.730 --> 00:06:53.889 that was on me like fly on shit. She wouldn't 00:06:53.889 --> 00:06:56.790 leave me alone. I just met this girl hanging 00:06:56.790 --> 00:07:00.250 on by a thread. I tried leaving. Finally, I just 00:07:00.250 --> 00:07:02.170 gave her my number so I could just walk away. 00:07:02.350 --> 00:07:06.170 And the first text that she sends me are half 00:07:06.170 --> 00:07:09.110 naked pictures of her trying to seek my validation. 00:07:09.550 --> 00:07:12.370 So when you guys do the same thing, you got to 00:07:12.370 --> 00:07:15.370 put yourself in the mindset of a woman. You're 00:07:15.370 --> 00:07:18.129 seeking her validation and her approval. It's 00:07:18.129 --> 00:07:23.230 very try hard. adam where do you find a decent 00:07:23.230 --> 00:07:27.829 female we always get this question always pickleball 00:07:27.829 --> 00:07:31.670 pickleball pickleball no volley guys i've found 00:07:31.670 --> 00:07:33.910 i've met so many girls over the years just playing 00:07:33.910 --> 00:07:36.430 volleyball like getting a local game together 00:07:36.430 --> 00:07:39.370 of like casual players or joining leagues pickleball 00:07:39.370 --> 00:07:41.750 now i meet all sorts of women playing pickleball 00:07:41.750 --> 00:07:45.769 obviously there's bars and stuff like that but 00:07:46.540 --> 00:07:48.279 You know where I started meeting a lot of women? 00:07:48.379 --> 00:07:51.459 At garden centers. Home Depot, these garden centers, 00:07:51.540 --> 00:07:54.839 because I have a passion for flowers and shit 00:07:54.839 --> 00:07:57.220 like that. And let me tell you something. Women 00:07:57.220 --> 00:08:00.100 also have a passion for that. And I've met a 00:08:00.100 --> 00:08:03.079 lot of beautiful women at those garden centers. 00:08:03.160 --> 00:08:05.699 So do a hobby that you like doing, and there 00:08:05.699 --> 00:08:11.259 will be women there. Ah, Yasmin, the beautiful 00:08:11.259 --> 00:08:15.860 Egyptian goddess. Oh, he said, I saw the movie 00:08:15.860 --> 00:08:17.740 Crazy Stupid Love, the one you talked about in 00:08:17.740 --> 00:08:20.220 your podcast. It was good. Yeah, I enjoyed that 00:08:20.220 --> 00:08:25.139 one. That's a fun one to watch again. Okay, so 00:08:25.139 --> 00:08:28.180 someone said, obviously, game is game. But sometimes 00:08:28.180 --> 00:08:31.199 we may need to reinvent ourselves to tighten 00:08:31.199 --> 00:08:33.879 things up a bit. So I was curious on how often 00:08:33.879 --> 00:08:38.580 that should happen. Every single day. Every day 00:08:38.580 --> 00:08:41.570 you should be working on yourself. In one way 00:08:41.570 --> 00:08:43.990 or another, working out, reading psychology books, 00:08:44.169 --> 00:08:46.830 enhancing your vocabulary, meeting new people, 00:08:46.909 --> 00:08:51.149 working on your mouthpiece. Adam, this is a good 00:08:51.149 --> 00:08:54.429 one from Cameron. Do you guys recommend that 00:08:54.429 --> 00:08:57.730 a guy should be the one installing drama in a 00:08:57.730 --> 00:09:00.970 relationship with a girl than her causing the 00:09:00.970 --> 00:09:08.090 drama? 100%. 100%. Because what happens, Adam, 00:09:08.190 --> 00:09:11.389 if... You don't create that healthy chaos, that 00:09:11.389 --> 00:09:14.809 healthy drama. The woman is going to do it for 00:09:14.809 --> 00:09:17.830 you. And that's the last thing you want. You 00:09:17.830 --> 00:09:21.690 don't want to play their game. Because you will 00:09:21.690 --> 00:09:24.269 never win. And we teach you how to do that, obviously, 00:09:24.269 --> 00:09:26.970 in our courses, the relationship e -book you 00:09:26.970 --> 00:09:29.750 get in the Players University. So there's a lot 00:09:29.750 --> 00:09:33.240 to unravel. Well, and I guess there's definitely 00:09:33.240 --> 00:09:35.559 a fine line and I don't like to deal with unnecessary 00:09:35.559 --> 00:09:39.460 drama, but girls bring drama, of course, no matter 00:09:39.460 --> 00:09:42.899 what. So I wouldn't go as far as like, if you're 00:09:42.899 --> 00:09:45.960 thinking of installing drama, like implanting 00:09:45.960 --> 00:09:48.539 a random pair of panties in your room for her 00:09:48.539 --> 00:09:51.679 to find so that she gets competition, anxiety 00:09:51.679 --> 00:09:55.559 and all that. That is, well, I mean, you're just 00:09:55.559 --> 00:09:57.679 flirting with a girl actually setting your house 00:09:57.679 --> 00:10:00.879 on fire. I wouldn't. take it that far but the 00:10:00.879 --> 00:10:03.139 good type of drama is when you just don't you 00:10:03.139 --> 00:10:04.700 don't need to check in with her all the time 00:10:04.700 --> 00:10:08.460 uh you wait hours to text her back when you're 00:10:08.460 --> 00:10:10.080 going out with your buddies you just put your 00:10:10.080 --> 00:10:11.860 phone away you're not sitting there texting a 00:10:11.860 --> 00:10:14.379 little time so she gets these hours at a time 00:10:14.379 --> 00:10:16.299 where she doesn't know what you're doing you're 00:10:16.299 --> 00:10:19.340 not texting her all night long like there's a 00:10:19.340 --> 00:10:21.179 lot of times where it's like you know 8 30 p 00:10:21.179 --> 00:10:22.860 .m or something and if i'm texting girl i can 00:10:22.860 --> 00:10:24.799 just be like hey i gotta get some work done it's 00:10:24.799 --> 00:10:26.799 fun chatting with you have a good night And I 00:10:26.799 --> 00:10:29.519 say that and that ends the conversation. So now 00:10:29.519 --> 00:10:31.779 for the entire rest of the night, she has no 00:10:31.779 --> 00:10:34.659 idea what I'm doing. But that type of stuff is 00:10:34.659 --> 00:10:37.659 where it creates this emotions in her head because 00:10:37.659 --> 00:10:39.500 she gets to wonder. She's like, what is he up 00:10:39.500 --> 00:10:42.240 to? Why isn't he texting me back? What is he 00:10:42.240 --> 00:10:44.759 doing right now? That is the type of drama that 00:10:44.759 --> 00:10:47.460 will keep her engaged so she doesn't need to 00:10:47.460 --> 00:10:50.500 do all sorts of other crazy stuff. And also just 00:10:50.500 --> 00:10:52.980 being on your purpose, being on your grind, never 00:10:52.980 --> 00:10:56.879 making her your number one priority, canceling 00:10:56.879 --> 00:10:59.620 on her once in a while, rescheduling dates once 00:10:59.620 --> 00:11:02.340 in a while, not always answering your phone, 00:11:02.500 --> 00:11:06.679 being unpredictable. You cannot be predictable 00:11:06.679 --> 00:11:10.200 with a woman. Once she figures you out, it's 00:11:10.200 --> 00:11:12.919 game over. So let's say if she texts you good 00:11:12.919 --> 00:11:16.730 morning, you respond right away. One day when 00:11:16.730 --> 00:11:19.570 she texts you that good morning text, you don't 00:11:19.570 --> 00:11:23.029 answer her until the afternoon. Be unpredictable 00:11:23.029 --> 00:11:29.889 with your behavior. Yeah, Patrick said, so I've 00:11:29.889 --> 00:11:32.870 explained I just want to have fun and she's with 00:11:32.870 --> 00:11:36.330 it, but she's not as communicative as I thought. 00:11:36.450 --> 00:11:38.769 So I asked her out, but she's just not responsive. 00:11:38.830 --> 00:11:42.970 So I just stopped. So I would ask, Patrick, I 00:11:42.970 --> 00:11:45.809 would ask what? When you explained you just want 00:11:45.809 --> 00:11:47.889 to have fun, which is good about being honest, 00:11:48.049 --> 00:11:51.889 but I don't I don't like give that information 00:11:51.889 --> 00:11:54.169 outright. It's like if a girl asks what I'm looking 00:11:54.169 --> 00:11:57.009 for, I'm like, I'm, you know, really busy with 00:11:57.009 --> 00:12:00.169 work. I'm really interested in meeting new people 00:12:00.169 --> 00:12:02.950 and seeing where it goes. So I will leave it 00:12:02.950 --> 00:12:05.549 more open ended like that to where then the girl's 00:12:05.549 --> 00:12:07.549 like, OK, well, maybe if the right person comes 00:12:07.549 --> 00:12:10.129 along, he'll settle down. Then later down the 00:12:10.129 --> 00:12:12.090 road, if she keeps asking, I can be like, I'm 00:12:12.090 --> 00:12:15.000 not really looking for a relationship. but I'm 00:12:15.000 --> 00:12:16.960 really enjoying spending time with you. But if 00:12:16.960 --> 00:12:18.720 you say it right away, sometimes that will scare 00:12:18.720 --> 00:12:24.200 women off. So I give that kind of precursor at 00:12:24.200 --> 00:12:27.360 the beginning, and that usually gets women to 00:12:27.360 --> 00:12:29.860 be like, oh, okay, let's see if anything happens 00:12:29.860 --> 00:12:34.059 here. It sounds like you told a girl flat out 00:12:34.059 --> 00:12:37.500 that you just want to have fun. What do you expect 00:12:37.500 --> 00:12:39.960 her to do, bro? You think she's going to keep 00:12:39.960 --> 00:12:42.879 reaching out to you? Girls don't want to feel 00:12:42.879 --> 00:12:46.100 cheap. They don't want to feel like a sex object, 00:12:46.279 --> 00:12:49.080 bro. You tell a girl you just want to chill, 00:12:49.179 --> 00:12:51.639 you want to have fun when she's pushing for a 00:12:51.639 --> 00:12:55.379 relationship, bro. You just, there's nothing 00:12:55.379 --> 00:12:57.419 you could do about this. It's game over, bro. 00:12:57.580 --> 00:13:01.580 You might as well just move on, Patrick. Yeah, 00:13:01.620 --> 00:13:05.139 yeah, that's a good point because, yeah, if a 00:13:05.139 --> 00:13:07.460 girl says, if a guy comes up to a girl and he 00:13:07.460 --> 00:13:09.580 just says, like at the bar, he's like, hey, I'm 00:13:09.580 --> 00:13:11.279 just looking for fun. In her mind, she's like, 00:13:11.379 --> 00:13:14.009 oh, this guy just wants to hook up. Which, of 00:13:14.009 --> 00:13:17.070 course, some women are down for, but a lot of 00:13:17.070 --> 00:13:18.870 women want to be more discreet about it. They 00:13:18.870 --> 00:13:21.970 want to feel like, oh, we just hung out and it 00:13:21.970 --> 00:13:25.110 happened, so they don't feel like they're just 00:13:25.110 --> 00:13:27.929 a booty call. Yeah, they want to be seduced. 00:13:27.990 --> 00:13:30.450 They don't want you to just tell them directly, 00:13:30.750 --> 00:13:33.470 I want to sleep with you. That's not how it works, 00:13:33.490 --> 00:13:37.940 bro. Join the Players University, Patrick. You've 00:13:37.940 --> 00:13:40.500 got a lot to learn. Donya, is it okay if I want 00:13:40.500 --> 00:13:43.039 to provide for a woman, but I won't ask her to 00:13:43.039 --> 00:13:45.360 cook and clean for me either? Is this a fair 00:13:45.360 --> 00:13:47.600 deal? I don't know what deal you're getting out 00:13:47.600 --> 00:13:49.940 of that, bro, because I see no deal whatsoever. 00:13:50.679 --> 00:13:53.299 If you're going to be the provider, and your 00:13:53.299 --> 00:13:56.679 woman is going to be a stay -at -home wife, woman, 00:13:56.799 --> 00:14:00.580 girlfriend, whatever, why wouldn't she wash the 00:14:00.580 --> 00:14:04.059 dishes? Why wouldn't she cook for you? I'd be 00:14:04.059 --> 00:14:06.419 damned. And I know, Adam, you feel the same way. 00:14:06.460 --> 00:14:08.919 If you're going to be the provider, you're going 00:14:08.919 --> 00:14:11.639 to be the one working. And your girl is just 00:14:11.639 --> 00:14:14.259 going to be sitting on her ass, twiddling her 00:14:14.259 --> 00:14:17.240 thumbs on her phone the entire day, not doing 00:14:17.240 --> 00:14:20.080 anything. What kind of a relationship is that, 00:14:20.139 --> 00:14:24.559 bro? Why would you want that? Aziz, I'll put 00:14:24.559 --> 00:14:27.299 it this way. I, if you're willing to provide 00:14:27.299 --> 00:14:29.879 everything for me, man, I will. take some cooking 00:14:29.879 --> 00:14:32.379 classes right now and cook for you and do your 00:14:32.379 --> 00:14:34.820 dishes. It's like it's that easy for a woman. 00:14:34.899 --> 00:14:38.059 So if a woman's not willing to do that and you're 00:14:38.059 --> 00:14:41.679 the provider, there's plenty of women that are 00:14:41.679 --> 00:14:44.419 willing to do that. So if you don't think that's 00:14:44.419 --> 00:14:46.500 true or don't know that's true, just level up 00:14:46.500 --> 00:14:49.399 your game and you'll see. But like absolutely, 00:14:49.679 --> 00:14:53.480 women, that's such a good. deal for women even 00:14:53.480 --> 00:14:55.179 though on the mainstream media they're going 00:14:55.179 --> 00:14:57.080 to complain about it that's such a good deal 00:14:57.080 --> 00:14:59.460 man you provide everything for me i will cook 00:14:59.460 --> 00:15:01.720 every meal and clean all your dishes no problem 00:15:01.720 --> 00:15:05.679 it's like women you know if she likes you she'll 00:15:05.679 --> 00:15:08.879 learn how to cook shit i'll wipe your ass at 00:15:08.879 --> 00:15:11.700 that point if i just have to stay home cooking 00:15:11.700 --> 00:15:14.860 clean i'll wipe your ass too but aziz it sounds 00:15:14.860 --> 00:15:16.820 like you're a beta male to me and i'm going to 00:15:16.820 --> 00:15:20.080 tell you why you're a beta male because you said 00:15:20.809 --> 00:15:23.970 You don't want to ask her to cook and clean for 00:15:23.970 --> 00:15:26.830 you. That's why you're a beta male because beta 00:15:26.830 --> 00:15:30.470 males are people pleasers. They are too scared 00:15:30.470 --> 00:15:34.149 to make demands for a woman. You know what alphas 00:15:34.149 --> 00:15:37.590 do? Alphas make demands for a woman. You know 00:15:37.590 --> 00:15:40.690 what the women do? They comply to those demands 00:15:40.690 --> 00:15:43.730 because they find you attractive. That's what 00:15:43.730 --> 00:15:46.669 a real man does is he puts his woman to work. 00:15:46.809 --> 00:15:51.980 He makes her a part of his team. Yeah, absolutely. 00:15:53.919 --> 00:15:56.480 Minda, our man Minda says, if you were friends 00:15:56.480 --> 00:15:59.279 with a girl back in the beta days, but now you 00:15:59.279 --> 00:16:01.360 have game, would a relationship with that girl 00:16:01.360 --> 00:16:04.059 work or would she have that beta image of you? 00:16:04.120 --> 00:16:06.519 Let's say it's been four years since you talked. 00:16:07.679 --> 00:16:09.620 I have an opinion on this. Do you have anything? 00:16:10.080 --> 00:16:12.740 Yeah. So there have been times where women of 00:16:12.740 --> 00:16:15.860 the past. They hit me up once they see my social 00:16:15.860 --> 00:16:18.679 media. Maybe they find me more attractive. Maybe 00:16:18.679 --> 00:16:21.100 they saw that shirtless pic of me at the gym 00:16:21.100 --> 00:16:23.500 or working out. There's nothing wrong with that, 00:16:23.519 --> 00:16:27.159 bro. As long as she never disrespected you, she 00:16:27.159 --> 00:16:30.379 never treated you wrongly, she wasn't toxic with 00:16:30.379 --> 00:16:33.539 you, I don't see anything wrong with circling 00:16:33.539 --> 00:16:37.279 back and meeting up with a woman that didn't 00:16:37.279 --> 00:16:40.899 find you attractive once and now she does. I 00:16:40.899 --> 00:16:43.529 see no issue with that. Yeah. And I know what 00:16:43.529 --> 00:16:45.669 you're saying too, Minda. It's like, is that 00:16:45.669 --> 00:16:48.009 a problem? Like, oh, is she going to have that 00:16:48.009 --> 00:16:51.950 beta imprinted or image of you imprinted in her? 00:16:52.210 --> 00:16:55.389 And no, it's like what she will do. And this 00:16:55.389 --> 00:16:57.230 has happened to me too, because I went from the 00:16:57.230 --> 00:16:59.429 nice guy syndrome and then I went to college, 00:16:59.450 --> 00:17:01.769 came back and I was able to start gaming some 00:17:01.769 --> 00:17:04.289 of the girls that I was like friend zoned with 00:17:04.289 --> 00:17:08.089 in high school. But all it is, is she'll test 00:17:08.089 --> 00:17:11.259 you a little bit more early on. to see if you're 00:17:11.259 --> 00:17:13.680 you know different because she'll she'll sense 00:17:13.680 --> 00:17:15.579 a little difference on you you'll walk around 00:17:15.579 --> 00:17:17.019 with more confidence she'll be like oh this guy 00:17:17.019 --> 00:17:19.380 seems different but she's gonna poke and prod 00:17:19.380 --> 00:17:22.339 a little bit early on maybe not texting you back 00:17:22.339 --> 00:17:24.960 for 24 hours whoever to see how you handle yourself 00:17:24.960 --> 00:17:26.900 and that's when you just play it cool calm and 00:17:26.900 --> 00:17:29.220 collected you don't over chase and all that so 00:17:29.220 --> 00:17:32.559 you'll get some more tests early on but no like 00:17:33.470 --> 00:17:35.349 That it's totally fine like that, especially 00:17:35.349 --> 00:17:38.190 after four years. She'll just be like, this guy 00:17:38.190 --> 00:17:40.210 is different and I don't know what. And then 00:17:40.210 --> 00:17:41.930 she'll get curious about it and she'll be like, 00:17:42.009 --> 00:17:44.849 I want to find out, is he different? Did I remember 00:17:44.849 --> 00:17:47.009 him wrong? Do I did I have the wrong impression? 00:17:47.170 --> 00:17:49.390 I wonder why I used to think of him as this other 00:17:49.390 --> 00:17:53.369 guy. So, yeah, go for it. Adam, I always thought 00:17:53.369 --> 00:17:55.390 about this. I think if me and you went back to 00:17:55.390 --> 00:17:58.130 high school, back in our beta days with what 00:17:58.130 --> 00:18:01.410 we know now, all those girls that rejected us. 00:18:01.950 --> 00:18:06.250 I know 100 % I could definitely game them and 00:18:06.250 --> 00:18:09.569 get them attracted to me. 100 % if I can go back 00:18:09.569 --> 00:18:13.210 to what you know now and be that new person. 00:18:13.609 --> 00:18:16.869 I always thought about that. So there's no issue 00:18:16.869 --> 00:18:19.910 with a girl coming back and testing the waters 00:18:19.910 --> 00:18:25.829 a little bit, but she will test you more. So 00:18:25.829 --> 00:18:32.740 let's see what else we have. great job oh cute 00:18:32.740 --> 00:18:35.400 stud women what does that mean i don't know what 00:18:35.400 --> 00:18:37.079 the fuck that means adam i just skipped over 00:18:37.079 --> 00:18:41.019 that but the next one is that the next one is 00:18:41.019 --> 00:18:43.700 great you mean lady boys i'm not interested yeah 00:18:43.700 --> 00:18:46.000 we're not we're not going to thailand we're not 00:18:46.000 --> 00:18:49.670 going to thailand anytime soon so Someone brought 00:18:49.670 --> 00:18:52.529 up this fact. Great job bringing up Jeff Bezos 00:18:52.529 --> 00:18:55.529 on the recent podcast episode and the statue 00:18:55.529 --> 00:18:58.349 on his yacht. Guys, go check out that podcast 00:18:58.349 --> 00:19:01.670 episode where we talk about the rich and famous 00:19:01.670 --> 00:19:04.710 beta males that have money because you guys all 00:19:04.710 --> 00:19:07.950 think that you need money to get women. Go check 00:19:07.950 --> 00:19:13.430 out that recent podcast. Do you guys think using 00:19:13.430 --> 00:19:17.329 manipulation and gaslighting a bad thing to use 00:19:17.329 --> 00:19:20.289 in a relationship in situations? Example, like 00:19:20.289 --> 00:19:23.670 getting caught. I don't like gaslighting women, 00:19:23.849 --> 00:19:26.529 Adam. I don't like manipulating women. They see 00:19:26.529 --> 00:19:30.109 me for who I am. I'm just brutally honest. If 00:19:30.109 --> 00:19:33.930 they catch me with another woman, you just admit 00:19:33.930 --> 00:19:37.049 it. If you got caught cheating with another girl, 00:19:37.170 --> 00:19:40.880 the worst thing you can do. is lie about it that 00:19:40.880 --> 00:19:43.339 is the worst thing you can do bro because women 00:19:43.339 --> 00:19:45.779 are like inspector gadget they will find out 00:19:45.779 --> 00:19:49.819 they will find out and now you just look like 00:19:49.819 --> 00:19:53.039 a coward if if you do get if he is talking about 00:19:53.039 --> 00:19:55.980 cheating okay and your woman catches you i don't 00:19:55.980 --> 00:19:58.920 condone cheating obviously the best thing you 00:19:58.920 --> 00:20:02.640 guys can do is admit it and break up with your 00:20:02.640 --> 00:20:07.569 girlfriend break up with her because I'm telling 00:20:07.569 --> 00:20:09.289 you, you're going to give her all the power. 00:20:09.710 --> 00:20:12.829 She might break up with you. The best move is 00:20:12.829 --> 00:20:16.970 just to end it with her. And that will be a mindfuck 00:20:16.970 --> 00:20:23.329 for her. You can just be like, obviously, I must 00:20:23.329 --> 00:20:26.630 not be ready for a relationship. I think we should 00:20:26.630 --> 00:20:30.089 break up. That's the best situation, honestly, 00:20:30.369 --> 00:20:33.609 out of a bad one, if you ever get in that position. 00:20:34.960 --> 00:20:37.279 having money is one thing that's a different 00:20:37.279 --> 00:20:39.420 problem yeah if you're married obviously just 00:20:39.420 --> 00:20:45.140 don't cheat guys okay let's see when a woman 00:20:45.140 --> 00:20:50.500 is combative that is a red flag 100 if a woman 00:20:50.500 --> 00:20:55.119 is acting combative and argumentative you will 00:20:55.119 --> 00:20:59.319 never change that woman you will never change 00:20:59.319 --> 00:21:02.319 that woman this is big guys actually because 00:21:02.319 --> 00:21:06.809 i used to think like if a girl is combative or 00:21:06.809 --> 00:21:08.869 whatever and even if it's kind of playful early 00:21:08.869 --> 00:21:12.210 on and she's combative i used to kind of be like 00:21:12.210 --> 00:21:14.750 ah you're cute it's cute that you're like fiery 00:21:14.750 --> 00:21:18.470 and i absolutely don't say stuff like that anymore 00:21:18.470 --> 00:21:21.109 i'm very careful with the words i like will praise 00:21:21.109 --> 00:21:24.430 women women with i don't want to praise a woman 00:21:24.430 --> 00:21:27.269 about her being fiery i don't want to praise 00:21:27.269 --> 00:21:31.049 her about spicy cute yes spicy because that is 00:21:31.049 --> 00:21:33.509 just her going i'm getting rewarded for being 00:21:34.069 --> 00:21:37.470 combative in a sense so if a girl is combative 00:21:37.470 --> 00:21:40.589 with me now i just pull back i don't text her 00:21:40.589 --> 00:21:43.329 back i will wait multiple hours to text her back 00:21:43.329 --> 00:21:46.369 if i do text her back i will back up back off 00:21:46.369 --> 00:21:49.390 until she comes back in with sweeter energy or 00:21:49.390 --> 00:21:52.470 even at least neutral energy so that she doesn't 00:21:52.470 --> 00:21:54.829 get rewarded with attention every time she's 00:21:54.829 --> 00:21:57.609 combative and then what i will do is i will wait 00:21:57.609 --> 00:22:01.299 until i see her do something that's not combative 00:22:01.299 --> 00:22:03.900 she's going along she's being supportive she 00:22:03.900 --> 00:22:06.299 does something she goes out her way to do something 00:22:06.299 --> 00:22:08.720 for me and i will make sure to now actually praise 00:22:08.720 --> 00:22:11.299 her for that i'll be like ah that's really cute 00:22:11.299 --> 00:22:13.819 i like when you're sweet like that's really cute 00:22:13.819 --> 00:22:16.359 like being sweet looks good on you and i'll say 00:22:16.359 --> 00:22:19.440 stuff like that so i'm not ever trying to reward 00:22:19.440 --> 00:22:22.299 a woman for being combative or fiery i want her 00:22:22.299 --> 00:22:26.759 to be sweet helpful supportive yeah and i think 00:22:26.759 --> 00:22:29.380 i mentioned this story on another podcast where 00:22:30.029 --> 00:22:33.089 This girl I was dating, she sent me paragraph 00:22:33.089 --> 00:22:36.670 text trying to argue with me. I didn't even respond. 00:22:37.390 --> 00:22:39.990 I didn't send her one message back. The next 00:22:39.990 --> 00:22:42.269 time I saw her when we're on the way to the gym 00:22:42.269 --> 00:22:44.950 to work out, she brought that up. She said, hey, 00:22:45.089 --> 00:22:47.869 you didn't respond to my text message. And like 00:22:47.869 --> 00:22:49.950 Adam said, I said, yeah, you know, I just don't 00:22:49.950 --> 00:22:52.470 deal with drama. I'm not going to go back and 00:22:52.470 --> 00:22:55.390 forth arguing because that's teaching a woman 00:22:55.390 --> 00:22:59.339 if she wants our attention. She better be sweet. 00:22:59.940 --> 00:23:03.700 We're not responding to negativity because anything 00:23:03.700 --> 00:23:07.859 that you feed begins to grow. That includes negativity 00:23:07.859 --> 00:23:14.359 and positivity. Yeah, good point. And Aziz says, 00:23:14.640 --> 00:23:17.440 guys, you misread my comment. That's our bad, 00:23:17.619 --> 00:23:21.160 Aziz. He said, is it okay if I don't want to 00:23:21.160 --> 00:23:24.160 provide for a woman, but I won't ask her to cook 00:23:24.160 --> 00:23:26.940 and clean for me either? Yeah, that's... To me, 00:23:26.980 --> 00:23:29.400 that's totally fine because that's just like 00:23:29.400 --> 00:23:32.579 I'm a single guy. I'm a normal guy with a bachelor. 00:23:32.599 --> 00:23:35.460 I always cook and clean for myself anyway. So 00:23:35.460 --> 00:23:38.599 when girls do it, it's a bonus. But if I'm not 00:23:38.599 --> 00:23:40.599 going to provide for women, which I don't, I 00:23:40.599 --> 00:23:44.779 don't just shell out money or spend very much 00:23:44.779 --> 00:23:47.519 money on women, then that's not an expectation 00:23:47.519 --> 00:23:49.539 I'm going to place on them. But the women that 00:23:49.539 --> 00:23:51.339 want more of my time and want to see me more, 00:23:51.400 --> 00:23:53.930 they know that. By doing those things, it's a 00:23:53.930 --> 00:23:55.609 lot better chance that they're going to get to 00:23:55.609 --> 00:23:59.049 see me more often. Yeah, if a woman and me are 00:23:59.049 --> 00:24:02.009 going 50 -50, where we're both providing for 00:24:02.009 --> 00:24:05.329 each other, I'm not going to expect her to do 00:24:05.329 --> 00:24:08.150 all the cooking, all the cleaning when she's 00:24:08.150 --> 00:24:10.349 going to come home tired as well. That's going 00:24:10.349 --> 00:24:13.529 to be a team effort. We were saying that if she's 00:24:13.529 --> 00:24:16.869 sitting home not working and you are, she better 00:24:16.869 --> 00:24:20.190 be cooking and she better be cleaning. Question 00:24:20.190 --> 00:24:23.900 for the both of you. Does practicing semen retention 00:24:23.900 --> 00:24:27.180 help decrease nervousness when approaching a 00:24:27.180 --> 00:24:31.059 woman? This is what it does help. It helps you 00:24:31.059 --> 00:24:35.160 not look at women as sex objects, which takes 00:24:35.160 --> 00:24:38.339 away that nervousness. And now you can be yourself 00:24:38.339 --> 00:24:41.880 talking to her. You don't look at her as a sex 00:24:41.880 --> 00:24:44.819 object. You talk to her like a human being. You're 00:24:44.819 --> 00:24:46.539 not antsy. You're not thinking about getting 00:24:46.539 --> 00:24:49.440 in her pants. So there's a difference. There's 00:24:49.440 --> 00:24:51.519 a big difference. And I've been through that. 00:24:52.619 --> 00:24:54.019 Yeah, that's a good point. And it helps for a 00:24:54.019 --> 00:24:56.079 lot of things. Like I still will do that to this 00:24:56.079 --> 00:24:57.680 day. Like I'll take weeks off when I want to 00:24:57.680 --> 00:25:00.480 focus on something and just like, I want to get 00:25:00.480 --> 00:25:02.519 a new thing done. I want to get a new website 00:25:02.519 --> 00:25:06.319 page built and just to channel all my focus into 00:25:06.319 --> 00:25:09.599 that. But yeah, that you won't give off as much 00:25:09.599 --> 00:25:13.880 of that. That needy, that needy energy. It's 00:25:13.880 --> 00:25:16.759 like this anxious energy because it's almost 00:25:16.759 --> 00:25:19.279 like a bunny rabbit just wanting to hump something. 00:25:19.440 --> 00:25:21.960 It's like that type of energy. If you watch a 00:25:21.960 --> 00:25:24.880 bunch of porn, that's going to be an energy that 00:25:24.880 --> 00:25:26.839 can ooze off on you. I mean, there's definitely 00:25:26.839 --> 00:25:28.279 guys that can watch a bunch of porn and they're 00:25:28.279 --> 00:25:30.599 good with women and that's fine. But if you have 00:25:30.599 --> 00:25:32.359 trouble with women and you're watching a lot 00:25:32.359 --> 00:25:35.660 of porn, then that can come off as. I have a 00:25:35.660 --> 00:25:38.160 book coming out called From Porn to Power and 00:25:38.160 --> 00:25:40.279 it talks about my experience with semen retention. 00:25:40.910 --> 00:25:44.869 during my college years. And I've never attracted 00:25:44.869 --> 00:25:48.349 more women in my life than when I was on semen 00:25:48.349 --> 00:25:51.190 retention. There is this magnetism, this aura 00:25:51.190 --> 00:25:53.849 that they feel, especially when you already have 00:25:53.849 --> 00:25:57.049 game and you have confidence. It's good for your 00:25:57.049 --> 00:25:59.150 hair. It actually thickens your hair growth. 00:25:59.490 --> 00:26:02.670 It's good for your skin. And you have that glow 00:26:02.670 --> 00:26:05.210 in your eyes as well. You have that glow in your 00:26:05.210 --> 00:26:08.589 skin. So I definitely noticed the change and 00:26:08.589 --> 00:26:12.539 the women that were around me. could feel that 00:26:12.539 --> 00:26:16.039 change that I've never felt before it was difficult 00:26:16.039 --> 00:26:19.559 the first week was hard second week was hard 00:26:19.559 --> 00:26:21.859 but then by the third week it becomes easier 00:26:21.859 --> 00:26:24.500 but what happens is you start having wet dreams 00:26:24.500 --> 00:26:29.619 from semen retention which I don't think counts 00:26:29.619 --> 00:26:37.900 but you will have them me and the texting Prince 00:26:37.900 --> 00:26:41.809 have some great news for you guys a brand new 00:26:41.809 --> 00:26:45.670 players university we have an app that you guys 00:26:45.670 --> 00:26:48.190 can download so when you join the new players 00:26:48.190 --> 00:26:52.109 university not only do you get all of our content 00:26:52.109 --> 00:26:55.529 included not only do you get all of our courses 00:26:55.529 --> 00:26:58.329 included not only do you get all of our ebooks 00:26:58.329 --> 00:27:01.390 included We have one -on -one coaching you guys 00:27:01.390 --> 00:27:04.309 get discounts on. 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Frame is absolutely everything because 00:29:29.059 --> 00:29:31.579 Cameron, the best way I could maybe put it is 00:29:31.579 --> 00:29:35.660 that every interaction, somebody's joining someone 00:29:35.660 --> 00:29:38.640 else's frame. And in most interactions, guys 00:29:38.640 --> 00:29:42.039 join the women's frame. It's like the girl says, 00:29:42.220 --> 00:29:44.019 no, I don't do this. Oh, no, you're going to 00:29:44.019 --> 00:29:46.359 have to try harder. And that guy joins her frame 00:29:46.359 --> 00:29:48.779 and starts trying harder. So now he's playing 00:29:48.779 --> 00:29:51.579 into her frame. So it's like every interaction 00:29:51.579 --> 00:29:53.960 with a girl, it's frame. And you got to know 00:29:53.960 --> 00:29:57.359 how to control the frame and always play it off 00:29:57.359 --> 00:30:00.059 to where you're not stepping into her frame. 00:30:00.119 --> 00:30:01.839 If I see a girl is trying to get me to buy under 00:30:01.839 --> 00:30:04.960 a frame, I will try to switch it up and give 00:30:04.960 --> 00:30:08.140 her an opportunity to come into my frame. I'll 00:30:08.140 --> 00:30:10.220 give you guys an example. Go ahead, Adam. I know 00:30:10.220 --> 00:30:11.019 you were going to give an example. I was just 00:30:11.019 --> 00:30:14.099 going to say, it's just like the girl asks you 00:30:14.099 --> 00:30:15.880 to buy her a drink. It's like if you buy her 00:30:15.880 --> 00:30:17.700 a drink, you're now entering her frame. Oh, I 00:30:17.700 --> 00:30:20.539 bought you a drink. Here you go. It's like if 00:30:20.539 --> 00:30:23.460 a girl says, buy me a drink, I say, no, you buy 00:30:23.460 --> 00:30:26.079 me a drink. Or I'm a gentleman. Ladies first. 00:30:26.420 --> 00:30:29.619 Go ahead and buy me a drink. That gives her an 00:30:29.619 --> 00:30:31.880 opportunity to now enter my frame and buy me 00:30:31.880 --> 00:30:34.339 a drink so that she can come talk to me, but 00:30:34.339 --> 00:30:36.950 I don't want to get in her frame. I talk about 00:30:36.950 --> 00:30:39.250 this in my relationship e -book you guys get 00:30:39.250 --> 00:30:42.150 in the Players University for free. So a great 00:30:42.150 --> 00:30:45.190 example. You and your girlfriend have an event 00:30:45.190 --> 00:30:48.890 to go to. She's already there. You show up 10, 00:30:49.049 --> 00:30:52.789 20 minutes late. Your girlfriend says, why are 00:30:52.789 --> 00:30:55.710 you always late? I told you to be here at 8 o 00:30:55.710 --> 00:30:58.910 'clock at night. You know what frame is? You 00:30:58.910 --> 00:31:02.049 tell her, I'm sorry, I was busy picking up beautiful 00:31:02.049 --> 00:31:09.000 women. That's frame. Okay, you're still in your 00:31:09.000 --> 00:31:10.880 frame. You're not jumping through her hoops, 00:31:10.880 --> 00:31:13.740 but you're being cocky and funny. You're not 00:31:13.740 --> 00:31:17.240 apologizing, babe, I'm so sorry. I know it won't 00:31:17.240 --> 00:31:19.359 happen again. No, you just tell her, oh, I was 00:31:19.359 --> 00:31:24.140 busy picking up beautiful women. Thomas says, 00:31:24.240 --> 00:31:27.019 I noticed girls from my high school have been 00:31:27.019 --> 00:31:29.700 dating the same guy for years now, and I can 00:31:29.700 --> 00:31:32.980 see their pics. She looks all dry already. Is 00:31:32.980 --> 00:31:37.039 that possible? Does he mean, like, it looks like 00:31:37.039 --> 00:31:39.240 she hit the wall? Like, she looks like she... 00:31:39.240 --> 00:31:43.059 I think he means she's dry, as in he doesn't 00:31:43.059 --> 00:31:46.940 turn her on anymore. And the reason why she's 00:31:46.940 --> 00:31:50.140 dry, it's because she hasn't met me yet in person. 00:31:50.299 --> 00:31:52.920 So I could change that real quick. But this is 00:31:52.920 --> 00:31:55.539 what happens, Adam. This is what happens in relationships 00:31:55.539 --> 00:31:58.500 when you don't have game and you're a beta male. 00:31:59.000 --> 00:32:03.349 Women dry up. Yeah. You'll see it happen all 00:32:03.349 --> 00:32:05.230 the time. Yeah, that's it's a good point. Just 00:32:05.230 --> 00:32:07.789 look at all your high school, all the couples 00:32:07.789 --> 00:32:10.589 or the people who are in long relationships and 00:32:10.589 --> 00:32:14.009 you just see like living corpses. It's like their 00:32:14.009 --> 00:32:18.390 eyes are not there anymore because the attraction 00:32:18.390 --> 00:32:21.430 is gone. And that happens from guys just losing 00:32:21.430 --> 00:32:24.480 frame over and over and over again. And just 00:32:24.480 --> 00:32:26.420 going, oh, I'm going to say yes to honey this 00:32:26.420 --> 00:32:28.920 time to make her happy. And then that one time 00:32:28.920 --> 00:32:31.759 turns into two times to four times to every day. 00:32:32.039 --> 00:32:35.480 And then that, you know, lady is walking around 00:32:35.480 --> 00:32:39.039 like Bridezilla, an angry beast. And women don't 00:32:39.039 --> 00:32:41.660 want to feel like angry beasts. They want to 00:32:41.660 --> 00:32:45.859 be feminine princesses. Yeah, the blue haired 00:32:45.859 --> 00:32:48.359 women on social media these days screaming will 00:32:48.359 --> 00:32:49.960 tell you they want to be beasts. But no, women 00:32:49.960 --> 00:32:54.220 want to be princesses. If they get an effeminate 00:32:54.220 --> 00:32:57.500 man in their life, in a relationship, they turn 00:32:57.500 --> 00:33:01.119 into hardened masculine wildebeest because polarity. 00:33:01.119 --> 00:33:04.140 If the guy's feminine, the girl turns masculine. 00:33:04.259 --> 00:33:06.740 If the guy's masculine, the girl can stay feminine. 00:33:07.860 --> 00:33:11.119 100%. But it's always best to start with a feminine 00:33:11.119 --> 00:33:13.720 woman because with a masculine woman, it's a 00:33:13.720 --> 00:33:17.099 headache to keep her in her masculine. It's a 00:33:17.099 --> 00:33:20.099 constant headache. Your game has to be on point. 00:33:20.200 --> 00:33:25.119 Your frame, 100%. You can't even relax. So I 00:33:25.119 --> 00:33:27.420 love this because you could tell he listens to 00:33:27.420 --> 00:33:30.799 our podcast. I remember a perfect line from Jay. 00:33:31.000 --> 00:33:33.799 Shout out to you, Justin. For when a woman catches 00:33:33.799 --> 00:33:37.880 you flirting, just say, sharing is caring. That's 00:33:37.880 --> 00:33:41.140 why we love Justin. That's a good one. And he's 00:33:41.140 --> 00:33:43.380 also one of the coaches in the Players University. 00:33:45.940 --> 00:33:48.940 Oh, yeah. What's up, Antonio? Mikey said, I don't 00:33:48.940 --> 00:33:51.019 think I've ever been turned off more than seeing 00:33:51.019 --> 00:33:54.059 a combative woman, even a masculine woman. I 00:33:54.059 --> 00:33:57.140 get turned off by being around masculine women. 00:33:57.400 --> 00:34:00.519 It's like oil and water. It just doesn't mix. 00:34:00.700 --> 00:34:03.259 Get me the fuck away from them. As quickly as 00:34:03.259 --> 00:34:08.599 possible. What do we do with dishonest women? 00:34:09.320 --> 00:34:11.860 Yeah, what are we going to do? Yeah, I was going 00:34:11.860 --> 00:34:13.820 to say, what do you mean? You don't get in a 00:34:13.820 --> 00:34:17.460 relationship with them. And it depends. Is it 00:34:17.460 --> 00:34:20.960 a white lie or is it a big lie? It all depends 00:34:20.960 --> 00:34:24.780 the type of lie that it is. But this is what 00:34:24.780 --> 00:34:27.380 I want you guys to do. Anytime you meet a girl 00:34:27.380 --> 00:34:30.630 before you go out on a date. Or when you're out 00:34:30.630 --> 00:34:33.030 on a date with her. I want you guys to say this 00:34:33.030 --> 00:34:36.269 one line. And I always say this. Listen, all 00:34:36.269 --> 00:34:39.369 I ask from you is that you're real and authentic 00:34:39.369 --> 00:34:42.429 with me. And I'll be real and authentic with 00:34:42.429 --> 00:34:46.989 you back. Say that one line to a woman. And see 00:34:46.989 --> 00:34:49.929 how wet she gets. Because women are always looking 00:34:49.929 --> 00:34:52.809 for authenticity. And you let her know, I'll 00:34:52.809 --> 00:34:55.190 never lie to you. You never lie to me. I want 00:34:55.190 --> 00:35:00.449 your real self. That's all I ask of you. Austin 00:35:00.449 --> 00:35:04.130 says top red flags in a woman. Go to episode 00:35:04.130 --> 00:35:06.909 two of our podcast. We did a whole podcast on 00:35:06.909 --> 00:35:10.750 red flags. But for me personally, just one off 00:35:10.750 --> 00:35:13.070 the top of my head, just like a girl's the tone 00:35:13.070 --> 00:35:16.630 of voice with a girl. I can tell when a girl's 00:35:16.630 --> 00:35:20.550 combative and, you know, just a headache from 00:35:20.550 --> 00:35:23.349 that like argument of tone of voice. That one 00:35:23.349 --> 00:35:26.769 for me, if I hear that Karen tone of voice or 00:35:26.769 --> 00:35:29.590 that like scolding or that like. you know, like 00:35:29.590 --> 00:35:31.710 aggressive tone of voice from a woman, that to 00:35:31.710 --> 00:35:33.389 me, I'm just like, nah, I'm good. Someone else 00:35:33.389 --> 00:35:35.429 can deal with that. Yeah, I agree, Adam. The 00:35:35.429 --> 00:35:37.929 way a woman communicates, if she's speaking in 00:35:37.929 --> 00:35:41.389 a ratchet tone or speaking like a dude, saying 00:35:41.389 --> 00:35:46.050 bro, talking like a guy, I'm out. But my biggest 00:35:46.050 --> 00:35:49.690 red flag, and I hope no one watching the women 00:35:49.690 --> 00:35:53.789 have a butterfly tattoo, but my biggest red flag 00:35:53.789 --> 00:35:57.469 is a butterfly tattoo. That's the mark of the 00:35:57.469 --> 00:36:01.820 beast. That is the mark of the beast. But go 00:36:01.820 --> 00:36:04.519 to the Red Flags podcast and we talk about that. 00:36:04.579 --> 00:36:09.059 I get into further depth and I explain why certain 00:36:09.059 --> 00:36:15.920 tattoos are the biggest red flags. Art with Love 00:36:15.920 --> 00:36:19.539 said, if a woman says she needs space and you 00:36:19.539 --> 00:36:21.699 remove her from social media and disappear, but 00:36:21.699 --> 00:36:24.179 a month later she texts asking, how are you? 00:36:24.920 --> 00:36:27.639 What should you do? Ignore her or text back? 00:36:28.500 --> 00:36:30.579 Oh, I definitely have an opinion on this. Yeah, 00:36:31.039 --> 00:36:33.159 go ahead. Go ahead, Adam. I want to hear you 00:36:33.159 --> 00:36:35.900 because you're the text. OK, so, yeah, I was 00:36:35.900 --> 00:36:38.679 going to say, first off, if a girl says she needs, 00:36:38.800 --> 00:36:41.500 that means you're not following mirror texting. 00:36:41.599 --> 00:36:43.760 So for any guy that doesn't know, mirror texting 00:36:43.760 --> 00:36:46.599 means take exactly as long as she takes to text 00:36:46.599 --> 00:36:51.440 you back. or longer to reply because you're giving 00:36:51.440 --> 00:36:53.320 the girl the perfect amount of space. If a girl 00:36:53.320 --> 00:36:56.260 replies in six hours, I take at least six hours 00:36:56.260 --> 00:36:59.119 to reply. I'm giving her space. And then if she 00:36:59.119 --> 00:37:02.219 replies within 20 minutes, I'm going to reply 00:37:02.219 --> 00:37:06.099 probably at least 25 minutes or later. I'm still 00:37:06.099 --> 00:37:08.360 giving her space. So women will start to text 00:37:08.360 --> 00:37:11.059 you way quicker when they want to hear from you 00:37:11.059 --> 00:37:14.289 if you're following that. that is how you don't 00:37:14.289 --> 00:37:17.289 get into this situation but now if this happened 00:37:17.289 --> 00:37:20.269 i would play it cool like i i don't i don't need 00:37:20.269 --> 00:37:23.130 to say like you know oh you know never talk to 00:37:23.130 --> 00:37:25.389 her again it's like i just go oh if i didn't 00:37:25.389 --> 00:37:26.869 give her enough space that was probably on me 00:37:26.869 --> 00:37:28.829 i was being you know coming on too strong so 00:37:28.829 --> 00:37:31.170 now she texts me i just it's an etched sketch 00:37:31.170 --> 00:37:32.989 i erase everything from the previous history 00:37:32.989 --> 00:37:35.449 but now i'm cool calm and collected very much 00:37:35.449 --> 00:37:38.469 so I'm not asking her out. I'm not trying to 00:37:38.469 --> 00:37:40.989 ask her to hang out. I'm really pumping the brakes 00:37:40.989 --> 00:37:43.989 with her and not overextending. So I'm not going 00:37:43.989 --> 00:37:46.670 to ask her four questions in a text. I'm going 00:37:46.670 --> 00:37:50.070 to reply with something short. I've been really 00:37:50.070 --> 00:37:54.510 busy, but good. How about you? And I'll send 00:37:54.510 --> 00:37:56.849 that, but I'm going to wait like multiple, multiple 00:37:56.849 --> 00:38:01.179 hours so that she doesn't get this like. Eager 00:38:01.179 --> 00:38:03.199 energy from me again, because if she said she 00:38:03.199 --> 00:38:05.800 needs space, she needs a lot of space. So reply 00:38:05.800 --> 00:38:09.380 eight hours later than that text. Be very cool, 00:38:09.400 --> 00:38:13.000 calm and collected and keep following your texting 00:38:13.000 --> 00:38:16.880 from here on out with that girl. Now, if he met 00:38:16.880 --> 00:38:20.659 Adam, a woman said she needs space, which was 00:38:20.659 --> 00:38:23.260 his girlfriend or someone he was in a relationship 00:38:23.260 --> 00:38:27.300 with. Good. I would never talk to her ever again 00:38:27.300 --> 00:38:30.340 because. If you've been following us, you should 00:38:30.340 --> 00:38:34.019 know what that means by now. You should know 00:38:34.019 --> 00:38:36.400 what that means by now. She had another guy she 00:38:36.400 --> 00:38:39.820 was messing with. So you don't respond to her 00:38:39.820 --> 00:38:42.119 on social media, delete her social media, delete 00:38:42.119 --> 00:38:46.199 her number, never talk to her ever again. Yeah, 00:38:46.239 --> 00:38:47.619 that's a good point. If you're in a relationship 00:38:47.619 --> 00:38:50.219 and she says she needs space, like she needs 00:38:50.219 --> 00:38:55.360 more eggplants in her little Venus fly trapper 00:38:55.360 --> 00:38:59.179 down there. that's when I'm like, all right, 00:38:59.179 --> 00:39:01.440 good riddance. I'm just like, good. In my mind, 00:39:01.440 --> 00:39:05.119 I go, ah, freedom. I'm free again. Yes. You got 00:39:05.119 --> 00:39:07.400 to enjoy the single life. Enjoy time with yourself. 00:39:07.860 --> 00:39:11.380 See it as a blessing. If that girl is in a relationship 00:39:11.380 --> 00:39:14.420 with you, send her off and then don't worry about 00:39:14.420 --> 00:39:18.150 her. Move on to bigger and better things. So 00:39:18.150 --> 00:39:21.170 Mahmoud says, checking girls on disrespect. I 00:39:21.170 --> 00:39:23.309 was joking with this girl. Then she told me to 00:39:23.309 --> 00:39:26.670 go F myself. I checked her right away and she 00:39:26.670 --> 00:39:29.909 apologized. I'm happy you checked her because 00:39:29.909 --> 00:39:31.889 I would have said, don't talk to me that way. 00:39:31.989 --> 00:39:35.829 I was only teasing you or relax. It was just 00:39:35.829 --> 00:39:39.829 a joke. But if you're going too far with the 00:39:39.829 --> 00:39:43.250 teasing, the cocky, funny, joking with the girl, 00:39:43.289 --> 00:39:45.750 there's a certain balance you have to find with 00:39:45.750 --> 00:39:48.699 it. and your tonality as well so i don't know 00:39:48.699 --> 00:39:50.880 the context of what you said or how you said 00:39:50.880 --> 00:39:54.000 it but if a girl tells you to go f yourself i've 00:39:54.000 --> 00:39:56.500 had many girls tell me that but in a playful 00:39:56.500 --> 00:39:59.860 way there wasn't a girl that was ever serious 00:39:59.860 --> 00:40:06.239 about saying that to me so yeah yeah good point 00:40:06.239 --> 00:40:08.300 yeah it depends how she said it but i would i 00:40:08.300 --> 00:40:10.579 would always just play it off as like it didn't 00:40:10.579 --> 00:40:13.340 phase me i'm not gonna let any girl's words phase 00:40:13.340 --> 00:40:15.960 me So if I was laughing when I said it and she 00:40:15.960 --> 00:40:18.079 says that, even if she's angry, I'm just going 00:40:18.079 --> 00:40:20.639 to be like, oh, all right, then maybe I will 00:40:20.639 --> 00:40:21.920 or something like that. And I'm just going to 00:40:21.920 --> 00:40:24.179 walk off, but I'm just not going to give her 00:40:24.179 --> 00:40:27.880 my time and attention. And that's how I'll get 00:40:27.880 --> 00:40:31.119 back at her. But I'm not going to let her look 00:40:31.119 --> 00:40:33.079 like she phased me to where she ruined my night 00:40:33.079 --> 00:40:35.440 or she got me all upset. Yeah, whatever you do, 00:40:35.460 --> 00:40:38.219 don't say, oh, my God, I'm so sorry. Oh, please, 00:40:38.380 --> 00:40:41.239 please forgive me. It was just a joke. No, don't 00:40:41.239 --> 00:40:44.340 ever do that. Now, Cameron said, I don't understand 00:40:44.340 --> 00:40:46.900 what you said, Cameron. If someone is in a relationship 00:40:46.900 --> 00:40:50.159 with a girl, do you think it's good to attack 00:40:50.159 --> 00:40:54.159 her friend frame to get her fully on your frame? 00:40:54.360 --> 00:40:57.119 I don't know what you mean, bro. I have no idea 00:40:57.119 --> 00:41:01.719 what that means. So make sure you reword that. 00:41:01.840 --> 00:41:04.500 Explain that a little bit and we can answer that. 00:41:05.530 --> 00:41:08.190 Matt said, do you shut down sometimes as little 00:41:08.190 --> 00:41:10.750 as a girl calling you dude before sleeping with 00:41:10.750 --> 00:41:13.510 her or do you do it after? I call her out on 00:41:13.510 --> 00:41:16.989 that, bro. Anytime a girl texts me or calls me 00:41:16.989 --> 00:41:20.510 dude or she says bro, I check her on that. I 00:41:20.510 --> 00:41:23.250 tell her, don't ever call me bro or dude. That's 00:41:23.250 --> 00:41:25.969 so unattractive. Why would I want to deal with 00:41:25.969 --> 00:41:29.349 that girl anyways? Those women are usually ratchet. 00:41:30.349 --> 00:41:34.860 Those are ratchet women. that say bro or dude 00:41:34.860 --> 00:41:39.360 don't ask me how i know bro he doesn't say i've 00:41:39.360 --> 00:41:41.380 had yeah i've had that happen before like if 00:41:41.380 --> 00:41:43.380 it's early on a date or something like that i 00:41:43.380 --> 00:41:47.820 will just kind of uh yeah kind of slowly back 00:41:47.820 --> 00:41:49.980 up my attention from her again so she doesn't 00:41:49.980 --> 00:41:52.280 get rewarded for that by i'll just kind of like 00:41:52.280 --> 00:41:55.369 look at her and be like bro I'll be like, and 00:41:55.369 --> 00:41:57.550 I'll just kind of like shake my head like that. 00:41:57.610 --> 00:41:59.849 And then I'll even pull my body back and I'll 00:41:59.849 --> 00:42:01.789 just kind of even turn my body a little bit. 00:42:01.809 --> 00:42:03.170 Like if I'm on a first date with her and I'll 00:42:03.170 --> 00:42:05.489 just give her, it's just a subtle freeze out 00:42:05.489 --> 00:42:07.929 in that kind of look on the face and me saying 00:42:07.929 --> 00:42:10.869 like, bro, or like, dude, like that, just questioning 00:42:10.869 --> 00:42:12.210 her like that and looking, you know, shaking 00:42:12.210 --> 00:42:14.909 my head and then just turning my body. I'm not 00:42:14.909 --> 00:42:16.869 going to let it ruin my night, but I'm going 00:42:16.869 --> 00:42:19.329 to do that a mini freeze out. And then she's 00:42:19.329 --> 00:42:21.190 going to go, Oh, I probably shouldn't have done 00:42:21.190 --> 00:42:23.309 that. And I'm going to give her that. hopefully 00:42:23.309 --> 00:42:25.349 that she can learn that way if she does it again 00:42:25.349 --> 00:42:27.889 you know i'm gonna kind of be like i'm not i'm 00:42:27.889 --> 00:42:29.630 not a bro and i'm gonna do the same thing and 00:42:29.630 --> 00:42:32.230 freeze her out a little bit longer but and then 00:42:32.230 --> 00:42:33.829 if she keeps doing at that point i don't want 00:42:33.829 --> 00:42:36.050 to teach an old dog new tricks i'm gonna try 00:42:36.050 --> 00:42:39.969 a couple times and then you know after that even 00:42:39.969 --> 00:42:43.489 let's say even even if i were black right if 00:42:43.489 --> 00:42:47.289 i were black and a girl would use she would use 00:42:47.289 --> 00:42:51.090 the n word on me i would shut that shit down 00:42:51.090 --> 00:42:54.619 bro Because I think, number one, that's disrespectful. 00:42:55.260 --> 00:42:59.199 Just like a girl calling you bro or dude. Like 00:42:59.199 --> 00:43:01.760 Adam said, I would just say, ugh, bro, did you 00:43:01.760 --> 00:43:04.139 just call me dude? And give him that ugh, that 00:43:04.139 --> 00:43:07.920 look. So that way they don't do it again. But 00:43:07.920 --> 00:43:11.679 I personally don't like women that use that type 00:43:11.679 --> 00:43:16.500 of language. I can't stand that shit. I hate 00:43:16.500 --> 00:43:19.730 being called dude by a woman. every guy does 00:43:19.730 --> 00:43:25.630 hbi bud yeah you're right john czar thanks for 00:43:25.630 --> 00:43:27.789 your answer about dominant women that was the 00:43:27.789 --> 00:43:30.789 answer i was looking for 100 man there's certain 00:43:30.789 --> 00:43:34.789 women that are dominant so you really have to 00:43:34.789 --> 00:43:37.489 amp up your masculine energy when me and adam 00:43:37.489 --> 00:43:40.710 look at a woman we could tell how masculine or 00:43:40.710 --> 00:43:44.000 how feminine this woman is So if she is slightly 00:43:44.000 --> 00:43:46.840 masculine, say she's covered in tattoos or the 00:43:46.840 --> 00:43:50.619 way she walks, I'm going to have to be more masculine 00:43:50.619 --> 00:43:55.880 than her for her to be put in her feminine. But 00:43:55.880 --> 00:43:58.480 it's a constant headache. It's a constant tug 00:43:58.480 --> 00:44:03.239 of war. Cameron said, why do most people who 00:44:03.239 --> 00:44:05.860 get in relationships lose their edge and get 00:44:05.860 --> 00:44:09.860 far too comfortable? It's like anything, human 00:44:09.860 --> 00:44:12.360 nature. Man, the easier something is, you just 00:44:12.360 --> 00:44:13.860 get a little more comfortable. You don't appreciate 00:44:13.860 --> 00:44:15.940 it as much. You don't stay on your game as much. 00:44:15.940 --> 00:44:18.820 You go, oh, maybe I don't need to go to the gym 00:44:18.820 --> 00:44:21.400 now because I got a girlfriend. And now you go, 00:44:21.539 --> 00:44:23.920 oh, well, instead of going to the gym for a couple 00:44:23.920 --> 00:44:27.260 hours, let's stay in and watch, like, what are 00:44:27.260 --> 00:44:29.400 those, like, reality shows all the girls watch? 00:44:29.980 --> 00:44:32.980 Friends? No, like, I'm thinking, like, all the 00:44:32.980 --> 00:44:35.380 ones that my buddies who are married, their wives 00:44:35.380 --> 00:44:37.460 make them watch, like, the Love Island type stuff. 00:44:37.480 --> 00:44:40.739 Sex in the City? It's like the, yeah, like, you 00:44:40.739 --> 00:44:43.119 know, the love a bachelor type stuff, but like 00:44:43.119 --> 00:44:45.099 the, you know, all that, all that type of stuff. 00:44:45.239 --> 00:44:48.599 Love Island. Yeah. Yeah. People just get way 00:44:48.599 --> 00:44:50.980 too comfortable. And the thing is, when you get 00:44:50.980 --> 00:44:53.340 in a relationship with a woman, she gets more 00:44:53.340 --> 00:44:56.500 comfortable. Ask demanding things out of you. 00:44:56.659 --> 00:44:59.559 She will play the card of like, well, we're in 00:44:59.559 --> 00:45:02.760 a relationship now. So you're supposed to check 00:45:02.760 --> 00:45:05.420 in. We're in a relationship now. So you can't 00:45:05.420 --> 00:45:08.079 just. go do that with your friends anymore without 00:45:08.079 --> 00:45:11.119 asking me. She'll be more comfortable making 00:45:11.119 --> 00:45:13.659 demands, so you have to have a backbone to be 00:45:13.659 --> 00:45:17.099 like, no, this is how I'm going to do it. I won't 00:45:17.099 --> 00:45:19.400 see you. You can go have fun, go hang out with 00:45:19.400 --> 00:45:21.119 your friends, whatever, but I'm going to go do 00:45:21.119 --> 00:45:25.260 this. You have to know your boundaries and be 00:45:25.260 --> 00:45:29.039 willing to actually enforce your boundaries in 00:45:29.039 --> 00:45:31.280 a relationship or else women, if you give them 00:45:31.280 --> 00:45:33.199 an inch, they'll take a mile. It's just how they're 00:45:33.199 --> 00:45:36.340 programmed. It's fun. It keeps men motivated. 00:45:36.400 --> 00:45:39.079 It keeps, you know, men accomplishing great things. 00:45:39.360 --> 00:45:42.739 But it's annoying if you don't know how to nip 00:45:42.739 --> 00:45:45.559 it in the bud. And this is the biggest issue 00:45:45.559 --> 00:45:48.320 with men in relationships, Adam. And I want all 00:45:48.320 --> 00:45:52.079 you guys paying attention. Men will give away 00:45:52.079 --> 00:45:56.360 their power to the woman slowly over time without 00:45:56.360 --> 00:45:59.219 them even realizing they're doing it. The woman 00:45:59.219 --> 00:46:02.519 will play dress up with them. They'll tell them, 00:46:02.519 --> 00:46:05.579 oh. I want you to wear this type of clothing. 00:46:05.659 --> 00:46:08.340 I bought you these shirts, these pants. I wanted 00:46:08.340 --> 00:46:11.280 to change your style up. Now she's playing dress 00:46:11.280 --> 00:46:14.019 up with you like you're a Ken doll. You're giving 00:46:14.019 --> 00:46:17.099 your power away. You're starting to be more compliant. 00:46:17.820 --> 00:46:20.699 You're starting to be more submissive. You're 00:46:20.699 --> 00:46:23.619 not being a leader. When she asks, what do you 00:46:23.619 --> 00:46:25.840 want to eat? You say, I don't know, babe. What 00:46:25.840 --> 00:46:28.420 do you want to eat? You're not making decisive 00:46:28.420 --> 00:46:31.360 decisions. You're losing your leadership abilities. 00:46:32.030 --> 00:46:34.530 And you give it away to the woman. Because you 00:46:34.530 --> 00:46:38.090 become lazy. And this happens to nearly every 00:46:38.090 --> 00:46:42.369 single fucking guy in a relationship or in a 00:46:42.369 --> 00:46:46.010 marriage. Every single one you can count on it. 00:46:47.230 --> 00:46:51.630 Except me and Adam. Because we know better. Now, 00:46:51.630 --> 00:46:54.949 someone said spider web and snake tattoo. Is 00:46:54.949 --> 00:46:59.219 that a red flag, Adam? We talked about the demonic 00:46:59.219 --> 00:47:02.400 tattoos. Yeah, anything that's kind of freaky 00:47:02.400 --> 00:47:05.380 in nature, you know that girl gets down. So if 00:47:05.380 --> 00:47:08.420 she's got those skulls or skeleton tattoos, she's 00:47:08.420 --> 00:47:12.460 got dark, like black widows or spiders or the 00:47:12.460 --> 00:47:14.900 darker sides of life, that means she's played 00:47:14.900 --> 00:47:20.579 with the darker sides of the adult life as well. 00:47:20.800 --> 00:47:24.199 I'll tell you guys a quick story. I dated this 00:47:24.199 --> 00:47:27.019 Brazilian girl once who was tattooed. from her 00:47:27.019 --> 00:47:29.699 neck down on her fingers her hands everywhere 00:47:29.699 --> 00:47:34.019 her legs she had these demonic tattoos she had 00:47:34.019 --> 00:47:36.480 snake tattoos upside down crosses these demonic 00:47:36.480 --> 00:47:40.119 faces i didn't put two and two together at that 00:47:40.119 --> 00:47:42.699 time i just thought she was a cool girl whatever 00:47:42.699 --> 00:47:46.699 i'm in a relationship with this girl i was ready 00:47:46.699 --> 00:47:49.559 to end it i didn't want to be with her we're 00:47:49.559 --> 00:47:52.840 in the back seat of my car in some shop right 00:47:52.840 --> 00:47:56.110 parking lot by her She's on top of me. She's 00:47:56.110 --> 00:48:00.829 riding me. And all of a sudden, her eyes changed 00:48:00.829 --> 00:48:07.889 from brown to pitch black. When I saw that, I 00:48:07.889 --> 00:48:12.130 immediately stopped. Stopped everything. I said, 00:48:12.150 --> 00:48:13.869 listen, we can do this another time. She had 00:48:13.869 --> 00:48:16.369 no idea what was going on. I got the fuck out 00:48:16.369 --> 00:48:20.150 of there. There's a reason why certain women 00:48:20.150 --> 00:48:24.539 get these demonic tattoos. Because they carry 00:48:24.539 --> 00:48:27.739 that demonic energy. And that's a true fucking 00:48:27.739 --> 00:48:31.360 story. I'll never forget the look in her eyes. 00:48:31.400 --> 00:48:34.000 Her eyes changing color. It was the creepiest 00:48:34.000 --> 00:48:36.360 shit I've ever seen in my life. I never want 00:48:36.360 --> 00:48:40.760 to experience that ever again. But now I look 00:48:40.760 --> 00:48:44.139 at the tattoos that women have. Because those 00:48:44.139 --> 00:48:47.659 are telltale signs. Even a snake tattoo, Adam. 00:48:47.780 --> 00:48:50.940 What do we know about Adam and Eve? And the snake? 00:48:51.639 --> 00:48:55.539 Yeah, she's Team Serpent over Team God, man. 00:48:55.699 --> 00:48:58.300 That's what I'm saying. That's the biggest red 00:48:58.300 --> 00:49:01.159 flag in the book. I've never met a feminine, 00:49:01.239 --> 00:49:04.739 good quality woman who even has a snake tattoo 00:49:04.739 --> 00:49:09.460 or anything demonic like spider webs. Yeah, I 00:49:09.460 --> 00:49:13.960 can maybe give the one. one one millionth of 00:49:13.960 --> 00:49:16.800 a percent of actual zookeeper women out there 00:49:16.800 --> 00:49:20.019 that live and breathe animals and for whatever 00:49:20.019 --> 00:49:22.300 reason snakes are favorite animal i will give 00:49:22.300 --> 00:49:25.699 her maybe the benefit of the doubt but every 00:49:25.699 --> 00:49:29.400 other case i'm i'm a little concerned with the 00:49:29.400 --> 00:49:32.440 snake tattoo what are your thoughts on blocking 00:49:32.440 --> 00:49:35.039 girls from social media after getting disrespected 00:49:35.039 --> 00:49:38.179 i'm all for it bro there's nothing weak about 00:49:38.179 --> 00:49:40.969 blocking a girl in my opinion You might have 00:49:40.969 --> 00:49:43.929 a different opinion, Adam, but I've had girls 00:49:43.929 --> 00:49:47.070 that disrespected me on social media, girls I 00:49:47.070 --> 00:49:50.250 personally knew or random women. I just blocked 00:49:50.250 --> 00:49:52.949 them. I have no patience for that. I'm not even 00:49:52.949 --> 00:49:56.630 going back and forth. Don't care. Yeah, I don't 00:49:56.630 --> 00:49:58.489 think there's anything wrong with that. I always 00:49:58.489 --> 00:50:02.489 wonder what is the amount of disrespect. Yeah, 00:50:02.610 --> 00:50:04.070 there's certain things that a girl says something. 00:50:04.130 --> 00:50:06.150 It's like, I don't want any part of you in my 00:50:06.150 --> 00:50:10.389 life. Just get rid of her. if like a guy came 00:50:10.389 --> 00:50:12.449 on too strong and the girl's like hey i'm not 00:50:12.449 --> 00:50:16.150 interested i'm just like i mean again i guess 00:50:16.150 --> 00:50:17.949 there's no reason not to block her in that case 00:50:17.949 --> 00:50:20.809 i just never feel like i want to even put the 00:50:20.809 --> 00:50:22.909 energy into like oh i blocked you because you 00:50:22.909 --> 00:50:25.269 got to rise out of me but there's definitely 00:50:25.269 --> 00:50:27.750 cases if people are you know just adding drama 00:50:27.750 --> 00:50:30.070 to your life just get rid of them no once i block 00:50:30.070 --> 00:50:32.050 them i don't even think about them like they're 00:50:32.050 --> 00:50:34.449 just blocked out of my fucking life i don't care 00:50:35.260 --> 00:50:37.800 if we tell the girl to be honest and authentic 00:50:37.800 --> 00:50:40.840 with that advice i gave earlier will she try 00:50:40.840 --> 00:50:44.500 to ask questions to disqualify us no that's not 00:50:44.500 --> 00:50:47.340 the point of playing truth or dare bro you're 00:50:47.340 --> 00:50:50.000 telling a woman you want her to be her authentic 00:50:50.000 --> 00:50:53.920 and honest self because you don't want her trying 00:50:53.920 --> 00:50:57.280 to be anyone else around you and same thing with 00:50:57.280 --> 00:50:59.760 you she will respect that if you tell her and 00:50:59.760 --> 00:51:01.900 you will get the same out of me you will get 00:51:01.900 --> 00:51:05.380 my authentic and real self That's very powerful 00:51:05.380 --> 00:51:07.940 when you tell a girl that, and you mean it. But 00:51:07.940 --> 00:51:09.699 that doesn't mean she's going to ask you questions 00:51:09.699 --> 00:51:14.860 to disqualify you now. Yeah, and I think that's 00:51:14.860 --> 00:51:18.760 such a part of the pressure, too, that when guys 00:51:18.760 --> 00:51:21.739 pedestalize women, and so many guys do, we see 00:51:21.739 --> 00:51:23.659 it all the times, or we make fun of it all the 00:51:23.659 --> 00:51:27.659 time when guys are outright simping. When guys 00:51:27.659 --> 00:51:29.760 put all this pressure on a girl, like she's so 00:51:29.760 --> 00:51:32.400 great. And it's literally because she looks good 00:51:32.400 --> 00:51:34.340 or whatever. She's in shape and she's pretty. 00:51:34.719 --> 00:51:36.500 And guys build this up in their head. And if 00:51:36.500 --> 00:51:39.139 that energy comes across to a girl, that girl 00:51:39.139 --> 00:51:41.239 can never feel like she can actually be her authentic 00:51:41.239 --> 00:51:44.400 self. Because she's like, this guy thinks I'm 00:51:44.400 --> 00:51:47.699 something that I'm not. She knows that she doesn't 00:51:47.699 --> 00:51:49.179 look this good when she doesn't get all done 00:51:49.179 --> 00:51:51.199 up in her makeup. She knows she doesn't look 00:51:51.199 --> 00:51:53.820 this good when she has a couple cheat days in 00:51:53.820 --> 00:51:56.780 a row and eats a couple tubs of ice cream. So 00:51:56.780 --> 00:51:58.860 when guys pedestalize women based on their looks 00:51:58.860 --> 00:52:00.460 and they think that that girl is like something 00:52:00.460 --> 00:52:04.579 special, women are like, I can't even just relax. 00:52:04.719 --> 00:52:08.380 I feel like I have to be this like goddess superhero 00:52:08.380 --> 00:52:11.079 in front of this guy. And then she can't just 00:52:11.079 --> 00:52:14.039 enjoy herself. They could be relaxed. They could 00:52:14.039 --> 00:52:16.239 lay back. They don't have to pretend to be anyone 00:52:16.239 --> 00:52:19.780 they're not. And authenticity is so rare in today's 00:52:19.780 --> 00:52:22.980 world. It's refreshing for a woman to hear that. 00:52:23.119 --> 00:52:26.409 And also. for her to meet a man who's being his 00:52:26.409 --> 00:52:29.590 real authentic self. And he's not trying to be 00:52:29.590 --> 00:52:33.110 anyone he's not. So Sue Blucks had a great question. 00:52:33.289 --> 00:52:36.469 When girl asks, what did you have in mind for 00:52:36.469 --> 00:52:38.750 the date? What do you say if you have no idea? 00:52:38.849 --> 00:52:41.429 Bro, you better say something, dude. This is 00:52:41.429 --> 00:52:44.309 what we're talking about with competency and 00:52:44.309 --> 00:52:47.429 having leadership abilities. I mean, what are 00:52:47.429 --> 00:52:48.889 you going to say? I don't know. What did you 00:52:48.889 --> 00:52:51.750 have in mind? Something you never want to say 00:52:51.750 --> 00:52:54.889 to a woman. Grab drinks, bro. Tell her you have 00:52:54.889 --> 00:52:58.010 this amazing tavern within your area you're going 00:52:58.010 --> 00:53:00.309 to take her out to. Whatever, bro. You're going 00:53:00.309 --> 00:53:02.269 to take her bowling. Oh, you guys are going to 00:53:02.269 --> 00:53:05.550 play arcades. Who gives a fuck? Just say something. 00:53:05.809 --> 00:53:08.849 If she's attracted to you, it doesn't matter 00:53:08.849 --> 00:53:13.570 where you take her. Yeah, and he's in Players 00:53:13.570 --> 00:53:19.269 U. So this is because in texting school in Players 00:53:19.269 --> 00:53:22.519 U. uh, levels like seven through 12 is where 00:53:22.519 --> 00:53:24.599 I talk about setting the date up over texting. 00:53:24.980 --> 00:53:27.659 So if a girl says, you know, what do you have 00:53:27.659 --> 00:53:29.260 in mind for, or what do you have in mind for 00:53:29.260 --> 00:53:32.380 a date? I, this is when I will always do the, 00:53:32.500 --> 00:53:35.460 when I give her one or two rules, I'll say, uh, 00:53:35.619 --> 00:53:37.980 I've got an idea in mind, but only if you can 00:53:37.980 --> 00:53:40.460 handle two things. And then again, the, she'll 00:53:40.460 --> 00:53:41.639 be like, what are those? And I'll just give her 00:53:41.639 --> 00:53:43.199 one at a time. The first one I could just say, 00:53:43.239 --> 00:53:45.320 cute, you know, wear a cute little dress or skirt. 00:53:45.579 --> 00:53:47.380 You don't have to do that, but that's just what 00:53:47.380 --> 00:53:50.099 I do. I like that. I actually like that. yeah 00:53:50.099 --> 00:53:51.840 because i want a girl to look you know good anyway 00:53:51.840 --> 00:53:54.000 like that too and then she's like done whatever 00:53:54.000 --> 00:53:56.019 no problem and then the second one again it can 00:53:56.019 --> 00:53:59.920 be uh it can be as little as like bring four 00:53:59.920 --> 00:54:02.400 quarters can't not a dollar bill gotta be four 00:54:02.400 --> 00:54:04.960 quarters it doesn't matter what what it is we've 00:54:04.960 --> 00:54:07.659 talked about that another podcast but and in 00:54:07.659 --> 00:54:09.340 the course you can go through and watch that 00:54:09.340 --> 00:54:13.599 but then she's like okay great so now she had 00:54:13.599 --> 00:54:16.940 to kind of go oh i yes i can do this yes i can 00:54:16.940 --> 00:54:22.460 do that then i say all right, meet me at Joe's 00:54:22.460 --> 00:54:28.159 bar at 7 .30 PM or whatever. And she's like, 00:54:28.239 --> 00:54:30.380 okay, sounds good or whatever. And it's like, 00:54:30.480 --> 00:54:33.800 boom, there you go. That's how easy it is. You 00:54:33.800 --> 00:54:36.480 say, meet me here at eight. You could do Adam's 00:54:36.480 --> 00:54:38.480 advice as well. You could take his advice because 00:54:38.480 --> 00:54:41.239 you're making her compliant. She's saying yes, 00:54:41.420 --> 00:54:44.000 and it's fun for her. She doesn't know what to 00:54:44.000 --> 00:54:46.139 expect. What do I need these four quarters for? 00:54:46.400 --> 00:54:49.849 I'll tell a girl, Two things, like Adam said, 00:54:49.909 --> 00:54:51.650 number one, you got to wear something tight and 00:54:51.650 --> 00:54:54.170 sexy. You got to look your best. I'll look my 00:54:54.170 --> 00:54:57.670 best. Number two, you got to bring a Twix bar 00:54:57.670 --> 00:55:02.150 with you or a Kit Kat. It just it's something 00:55:02.150 --> 00:55:05.449 so stupid. But the whole point is you're making 00:55:05.449 --> 00:55:09.690 her invest into this date where she has to go 00:55:09.690 --> 00:55:12.150 out of her way. She has to grab four quarters 00:55:12.150 --> 00:55:14.190 or she has to go to the store, buy a candy for 00:55:14.190 --> 00:55:17.130 your chocolate. And you guys can share it together 00:55:17.130 --> 00:55:19.929 at the end of the night. There you go. Every 00:55:19.929 --> 00:55:23.010 time she sees a Kit Kat, Adam, it's going to 00:55:23.010 --> 00:55:26.530 remind her of you. Yeah. And then if it's the 00:55:26.530 --> 00:55:28.730 four quarters, again, all it has to do is you 00:55:28.730 --> 00:55:32.010 go to a bar that has a pool table or you go to 00:55:32.010 --> 00:55:35.829 a bar that has an arcade game there or a claw 00:55:35.829 --> 00:55:38.130 machine to win a stuffed animal. So it doesn't 00:55:38.130 --> 00:55:40.369 really matter. But just by adding those little 00:55:40.369 --> 00:55:42.369 things, that girl's like, this is way more fun 00:55:42.369 --> 00:55:45.079 than her just going, I'm going to drinks. like 00:55:45.079 --> 00:55:47.980 the other 30 tender dates I went on. It's like, 00:55:48.039 --> 00:55:51.360 oh, I'm going to drinks at this bar, but what 00:55:51.360 --> 00:55:53.840 are we going to do with these quarters? Or what 00:55:53.840 --> 00:55:55.519 are we going to do with that Twix bar? That's 00:55:55.519 --> 00:55:57.460 going to make that girl a lot more excited. And 00:55:57.460 --> 00:55:58.940 then that's why you don't have to set up some 00:55:58.940 --> 00:56:02.719 fancy date. I always just do a couple of drinks 00:56:02.719 --> 00:56:05.159 at a bar. And then sometimes I will take that 00:56:05.159 --> 00:56:08.019 girl to the pet store that we can walk to. And 00:56:08.019 --> 00:56:10.239 we'll just look at animals and pet free. So I 00:56:10.239 --> 00:56:11.639 don't have to spend any more money. Sometimes 00:56:11.639 --> 00:56:13.619 I'll walk her to the bookstore next door from 00:56:13.619 --> 00:56:15.719 that bar and we'll show each other our favorite 00:56:15.719 --> 00:56:19.260 book sections and just free just like that. Or 00:56:19.260 --> 00:56:21.400 I'll drive her to the toy store and then we'll 00:56:21.400 --> 00:56:23.400 do something like that where I only spend $10. 00:56:23.699 --> 00:56:26.400 So there's a lot of ways to do it. But, you know, 00:56:26.420 --> 00:56:28.280 I usually start with just a bar with a drink 00:56:28.280 --> 00:56:30.800 or two. And thank you guys so much. Make sure 00:56:30.800 --> 00:56:33.539 you join the Players University. Check out all 00:56:33.539 --> 00:56:35.880 of our courses, all of our products we have for 00:56:35.880 --> 00:56:39.139 you. And we will see you on the next episode. 00:56:39.179 --> 00:56:42.119 Amazing questions, guys. We'll start doing this 00:56:42.119 --> 00:56:46.139 maybe every so often. We had fun answering all 00:56:46.139 --> 00:56:49.300 your questions. And we appreciate all the support 00:56:49.300 --> 00:56:52.840 from me and Adam, two of the best in the game 00:56:52.840 --> 00:56:56.940 right now, fellas. And the next episode is going 00:56:56.940 --> 00:57:02.199 to be on women mentally leaving you. What are 00:57:02.199 --> 00:57:04.800 the signs that your girlfriend might be leaving 00:57:04.800 --> 00:57:07.840 you or a woman might be leaving you? So make 00:57:07.840 --> 00:57:10.559 sure you guys tune in into the next week's podcast 00:57:10.559 --> 00:57:14.780 as well. Yeah, we will see you guys next week. 00:57:15.159 --> 00:57:15.960 Take care.