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Welcome. How are you guys to the Full Armor of

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Game podcast episode numero tres. That is three

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in Espanol. I know my Spanglish is muy bueno.

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Podcast episode number three. Why woman pull

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back? Me and our host as well, the texting prince.

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I'm Zardanya. We're going to give you every reason

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of why a woman pulls back. These are the common

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questions we get. On social media, this girl

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pulled back. I did this. Why did she pull back?

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Don't worry. We got you guys. So let's hope you

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don't make these same mistakes again. And we're

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going to teach you how to handle the pullback,

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okay? The way you go about handling a woman pulling

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back, that will be the ultimate decision of whether

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or not you give all your power away, especially

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if you begin chasing her. And now you begin carrying

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her purse and tying her shoes. congratulations

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fellas but me and the texting prince we're gonna

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make sure that does not happen to you we have

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you covered you bring the crimes and heads of

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conquered kings to my city steps you insult my

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queen you threaten my people with slavery and

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death This is where we fight! Hand me shields

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boys! So one of the biggest signs, you know,

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that this girl is starting to pull back. I could

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feel this empty space that's there. And you're

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right. She begins to create distance and you

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feel that bubble between between the two of you.

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So initially she went from being all yours. She

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was saying yes to each and every time you've

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asked her to hang out or to meet up with you.

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Even if she has kids, fellas, okay? It doesn't

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matter if she has kids. She will still meet up

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with you. She has still said yes, right? She's

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into you. She found you highly attractive in

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the beginning. You were number one on their roster.

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Now she's flaking or she's not as interested

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in seeing you. She's starting to come up with

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these excuses. And the second I notice, she isn't

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fully invested into seeing me. I know, Houston,

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we have a problem now. This is a girl. pulling

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back fellas now some girls know how to play the

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game we understand that but this is where mean

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texting prints come in now my one of my reasons

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of why a woman pulls back you're not busy enough

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okay the players the certified gangsters the

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ladies men they are busy You're not responding

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to her messages right away and sending her long

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ass paragraphs like you're like you're the nutty

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fucking professor. OK, you're not giving her

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enough space. Right. Women need space to think

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about all those emotions she is going through.

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This is how a woman ultimately falls in love

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with you by missing you. Her thoughts of you

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begin invading her mind like a parasite and any

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parasite that takes over its host. has full control.

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So you have to create that space and mystery

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or else the woman will fellas. I'm not worried

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about the girl thinking about me when I'm around

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her presence. What I care about is her thinking

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about me when I'm not around her fellas. Okay.

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That's what attraction is. It's what you do to

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her mind when you're not. with her. It's not

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necessarily what you do to her mind when you

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are with her. I'd rather be in the position of

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her thinking about me when I'm not with her at

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all. That's how a woman falls in love with you.

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So you have to make sure you give them that space,

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fellas. Don't always be responding to their messages.

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Have some time in between when you text her back.

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Show her that you live a busy life. And it shouldn't

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be an act, right? Texting Prince. I want men

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to actually start living a busy life. Don't act

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like You're busy. Then you text her back three

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hours later when you're sitting doing nothing

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with a dry thumb up your ass. That's not what

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we're talking about. OK, the ladies, men, the

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players, men of high status, they are always

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busy. Yeah, that's actually the first one I had

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on the list here was coming across is too available.

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And part of all this is women won't value your

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time. If she doesn't see that your time is valuable

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and you have to create that, you can't just tell

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her your time is valuable. You have to show that.

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So for instance, one rule I have with texting

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women, mirror texting her time. I will never

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text a woman back quicker than she texts me.

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If she takes 10 minutes, I'm taking at least

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10 minutes to respond. If she takes three hours,

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I'm taking at least. three hours to respond because

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a woman won't see that your time is available

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until it's shown to her you can't tell women

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that you have to show them that and one of the

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things is texting these days is huge and so that's

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a good rule of thumb is do not text your back

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quicker than you do another way that you uh that

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women will pull back because you're coming across

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is too available is if you're the guy that It's

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constantly asking her to hang out. Hey, can you

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hang out Thursday? Can you hang out Friday? You're

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not showing her that you have a life going on

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outside of her. So a rule of thumb now for when

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you're setting a date, I never pick a day like,

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are you free Thursday? I will say, when are you

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free next week to get together? Or I'll say,

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what's your schedule look like next week? I always

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say next week. And then I let her answer. revealed

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to me how interested she is. If she says, oh,

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I'm swamped at work. I got a lot of things going

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on. Next week's really tough. That tells me to

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back off. And that tells me she's not interested

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in me yet. She doesn't have that attachment to

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me yet. So I back off and I just say, hey, sounds

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like you're busy. Great. Hey, have a fun week.

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Let me know. You text me when you're free or

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something like that. So that would be one thing

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right there is I want to go, when are you free

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next week to get together? If she gives you one

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day, hey, I'm free Wednesday at seven, right?

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You have to check in your own schedule if that

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works, then you could set a date. But if she

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gives you one day, to me, that shows low interest.

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She's giving you a shot, but she's only giving

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you one shot. versus what I love to see is when

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I say, when are you free next week? And the girl

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says, hey, I work till 5 p .m. Monday through

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Friday, but I'm available anytime after that,

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right? She's giving you so many opportunities

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because her interest is high and she wants to

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make her schedule available to you. So again,

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rule of thumb, guys, don't ask for that day.

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Don't constantly say, hey, can you hang out tonight?

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Can you hang out tomorrow? Ask next week and

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let her answer reveal to you whether you need

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to back off or whether you can go, all right,

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great. Thursday at 8 .30 works for me. How does

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that work for you? Something like that. So coming

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across as too available, that will always make

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a woman pull back. I love that. This is why I

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love the texting Prince because he has some of

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the best texting game you guys will ever see.

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And I still take notes. I'm learning from him.

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So if a girl agrees and says, Oh, yeah, I'm free

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7 o 'clock p .m. this weekend. A great way to

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be playful with her is to reply back. I can't

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do seven. How about 702 with a wink face? Right.

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I remember you had a screenshot of a text message

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like that. And I love that. I never thought about

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that because it's playful. It's funny. The girl

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knows you're teasing her. At least you're being

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different than most of the men out there. But

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I love the texting princess advice. Are you free

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next week? right? That's what you said. Yeah.

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Are you free next week? Okay. When are you free

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next week? When are you free next week? What's

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your schedule look like next week and leave it

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open in her answer. Cause if a girl's interested,

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she will make it known. She'll say something

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like I'm free Wednesday, Thursday, blah, blah,

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blah. She might even say, do you want to get

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together? But when you leave it open, now you're

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also not coming across. There's like these subtle

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power games in every interaction with women.

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Even if it's subconscious, if I say, Hey, do

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you want to hang out Thursday? And she says,

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no, I can't. I'm busy. Subtly, I just got rejected.

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Subtly, she gains power in our little power dynamics.

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I know it sounds crazy, but with women and dating

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today, those are all things you got to take into

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account. So when you leave it open for her, you're

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basically just seeing how interested in you she

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is. And then you can decide to proceed forward

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or to back off based on how high of a. interest

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response she gives you. Yeah. So the texting

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princes game is when are you free next week?

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Right. I'll do things a little bit differently.

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You guys have to see what works for you. Okay.

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I've tried his technique. It works. My go -to

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is, are you available this weekend? I'm not saying

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Friday, Saturday, or Sunday. I'm saying this

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weekend. Because what does that count for, fellas?

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Women instinctively know this weekend can count

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as Friday, Saturday, or Sunday. So if she's free

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one of those days and she says, oh, I'm free

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Saturday night. Now I can tell her, hmm, let

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me check my schedule. Yeah, you know what? I'm

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also free Saturday night. Let's grab drinks together.

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But if I said, are you available Friday night?

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And if she says no. but I'm available Saturday

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night. Now that makes me look like a loser. If

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I had nothing going on Friday night and Saturday

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night, does that sound like a high value due

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to you that has any, anything going on with his

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life? No. So be careful with how you word it

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because the weekend can count for three days.

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And I let her pick and act as if, Oh, voila.

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Wow. I wasn't doing anything that night either,

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but I'm busy the other nights. Yeah. yeah it's

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all about how you frame it how you how you question

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it as well uh so i have uh one of one i have

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here for why women pull back is if you're being

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too needy or coming across is too needy and so

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this can come off as one constantly trying to

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hang out with her like hey can you hang out tomorrow

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can you hang out the next day what we we already

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kind of went over that one But another one is

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constantly checking in, sending those what I

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call fluff texts where you're just saying hi

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and just trying to start conversations with her

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all throughout the day just because you're bored

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or you're hoping to get some flirty response

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from her or something. Because the problem is

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when you're constantly checking in, it starts

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to feel like a chore for the woman on the other

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side to have to constantly respond to your texts.

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She's like, oh, we've already been through this.

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Hey, what's up? How's your day? All that. And

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she's bored. She's bored. So that becomes a chore

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door. It's like when you're playing fetch with

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a dog and you throw the ball and the dog runs

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and grabs it and brings it back to your feet.

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And after 15 or 20 throws, you're like, okay,

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this is super boring, right? But that dog will

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keep bringing it back all day long. And so then

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you're like, gosh, this is a chore now to keep

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throwing this. I'm just entertaining the dog.

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And that is how women feel on the other side.

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Because remember, women are inundated with a

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lot of betas or simps that will just flood her

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inbox, always, you know, try to hang out with

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her. And that becomes a chore for her to respond.

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So you want to make your responses count, not

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constantly checking in. Oh, hey, how are you?

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How's your day going? Yeah, that's cool every

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once in a while if you're the guy that's not

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texting her very much because she likes to hear

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from you. But if you're that guy every day checking

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in on her, you want the flip of that. You want

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the girl to be texting you, checking in. Hey,

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how was your day? How was your day today? You

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want that type of energy coming from her rather

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than you. So when you're becoming too needy,

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she will start to back off, back away and pull

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back from you. Correct. Anytime I text a girl,

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fellas, my messages have a purpose behind them.

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I'm not just going to text a girl. Hey, how you

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doing? How's it going? I don't send fluff messages

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like that. Women send them to me and I appreciate

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that. I love when women send me messages like

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that because it shows me she has high interest

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in me. If you're the one that's constantly sending

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her those messages, you have no idea whether

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this girl has high interest in you or not. If

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she's just going with the flow. When a girl is

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chasing me, I know she has high interest in me.

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But you never want to give off needy and thirsty

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vibes. If you start becoming a needy beta male

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barnacle. she will automatically lose attraction

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for you. Why is that? Because neediness is one

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of the biggest turnoffs when it comes to women.

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She will test your neediness as well, fellas.

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So you might call her one day and she doesn't

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answer you or call back until the next day. If

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your beta ass gets emotional and you start questioning

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why she didn't answer you, why didn't you pick

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up? I called you yesterday. It took you a day

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to call me back. Now she knows you are a beta

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male needy barnacle, okay? You just revealed

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your hands to her that you are needy, you are

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thirsty, and you are very emotional. You're not

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stoic. You're not ironclad. You don't have anything

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else going on with your life. This girl will

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begin to pull back. I promise you it's happened

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to me before, fellas. Learn from our mistakes.

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This hasn't happened to me in years because like

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texting Prince said, I don't send out fluff texts.

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I don't do that. If I send a girl any type of

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text messages, it will be flirty. I'll tease

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her. I'll make bold statements. And I set up

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the date, whether she's coming over or whether

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we're going out for the night. Yeah. And part

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of this, especially to guys that are newer at

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this newer. interacting with women that you're

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feeling like this is manipulation or whatnot.

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Women like to chase that keeps them engaged.

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And what I like to tell guys that are kind of

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new to this is like, think back to hunter and

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gatherer days, right? Czar and I are out trying

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to score some meat so that we can survive. So

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we're on these hunting trips. We're going to

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be gone two, three, four, five, six weeks at

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a time. And our ladies are back. Keeping the

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social connections in the community going, because

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that's important. If you get exiled as a group

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back then, you're screwed. You're not going to

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survive on your own. So they have an important

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role back at the social gathering, whether picking

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berries and all that. So you want the girl, the

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berry picker. She's the one that's going. When

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are Zara and Adam going to be back? They're checking

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in. Hey, how are you doing? How's the trip going?

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Right. Obviously, they didn't have cell phones

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back then, but that would be the energy. They're

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going. When are they going to be back? I hope

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they make it back safe. That's them checking

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in versus we're out there hunting. We're on a

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mission. We're on our purpose, trying to survive.

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So we don't have time to pull out our cell phone

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and check in with the berry pickers back home

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going, Hey, how are you? How was your day today?

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All that, right? That energy it's from that feminine

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place. And I know people don't like traditional

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gender roles these days, but that is natural.

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Women want to chase men because that gets them

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excited. She misses you. And then she's excited

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when you're back. But if you're the guy checking

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in, you're that berry picker. She now flips on

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the role and she becomes the hunter. Very masculine.

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And now the gender roles are all reversed. And

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then there's no attraction there because she's

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not going to be looking up to you or respecting

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you as a man. I know it sounds kind of silly

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to relate it like that. But this is stuff that

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has worked since the beginning of the time. We

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just are in a lot. We're more connected now than

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ever with cell phones. So a lot of guys feel

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like they have to check in. That is not the case.

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Yeah, and we always think of these things we're

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telling you in the perspective of since the dawn

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of time, the alphas, the betas, how women chase

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the alphas. We're not thinking in terms of women

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being re -hardwired, right? They're being reprogrammed,

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correct? And I'll give you an example. You have

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female dating coaches. telling women and once

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again i don't agree with female dating coaches

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you don't ask the fish on how to catch fish you

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ask the fishermen but they're spewing this bullshit

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now how oh a man has to has to chase it's a man's

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job to chase a woman if he wants you he'll chase

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you right they are spewing this bullshit because

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women have an innate fear of rejection. So if

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they can manipulate the men to do all the chasing,

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guess what? Now the women don't have to have

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to do the chasing and now they don't have to

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have the fear of rejection. That's why they say

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that to you fellas. But secretly women love the

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chase. That is something the female dating coaches

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will not tell you that women secretly love the

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chase. It goes back. To the dawn of time when

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the alphas were out conquering land, fighting

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battles, conquering new women and whatnot. The

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women back at home were chasing them. All the

00:18:21.180 --> 00:18:24.019
other women were chasing the alphas because they

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were seen as high status. They had preselection.

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All the other women wanted them. You're telling

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me that a girl is not going to chase her celebrity

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crush. Chris Brown, Tom Hardy, Brad Pitt. You're

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telling me that these guys are going to end up

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chasing the girls. They don't care. The girls

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see them as high value. They see them as alpha.

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So you tell me who's the one going to do the

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chasing the girls. Okay. And this brings me to

00:18:51.799 --> 00:18:55.599
the next point. You over pursued her, which translates

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down to you chased her away. This is one of the

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reasons why women pull back fellas. And it has

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everything to do with biology. Evolution. Anything

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that is physically bigger, stronger, faster than

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you, a human's automatic response is to flee

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or run the other way. Unless if it's a honey

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badger. I don't fuck with honey badgers. If it's

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a honey badger, I'm running the other fucking

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way, fellas, okay? But if it's anything bigger,

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stronger, faster than me, it's a human's automatic

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reaction to flee the other way. Men pursue. But

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we never chase a woman. Because the second you

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start chasing a woman, what did I just tell you?

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Men are physically bigger, stronger, and faster

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than women. Well, they should be, okay? Unless

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if you have some issues, go to the gym. But the

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second a man starts chasing a woman, it is their

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automatic reaction to flee the other way. That

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is evolution. But now you tell me, are you ever

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going to flee? from a beautiful feminine woman

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chasing you. Does that make any sense? Is she

00:20:07.720 --> 00:20:10.359
bigger than you? Is she stronger than you? Is

00:20:10.359 --> 00:20:14.960
she more dangerous than you? No. So why would

00:20:14.960 --> 00:20:18.019
you run the other way? This is why you guys are

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being programmed to believe that you have to

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chase a woman. But we just broke this down to

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you in evolutionary terms, biology. This is why

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you never chase a woman. And by chasing, we mean

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you constantly keep asking her to see you. You're

00:20:33.559 --> 00:20:35.980
double texting her, triple texting her. You're

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sending her long ass paragraphs like you're the

00:20:38.519 --> 00:20:41.920
nutty professor again, and you're over complimenting

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her. You're giving her fluff talk as well. Got

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it? Yeah, and I know we talk about this a lot,

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but it's a good example. Let's keep it simple.

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men are more like dogs women are more like cats

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right when i see a dog at the park anywhere i

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love dogs i will walk up to that dog and that

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dog will walk right up to me and it'll chase

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right back at me if i'm interacting with a dog

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it's excited it wags its tail right that's that

00:21:07.740 --> 00:21:11.119
guy versus if you chase after a cat just watch

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what happens try it try on your friend's cat

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try it on your own cat you try to come and cuddle

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the cat what's its natural reaction to jump away

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to leave until it feels safe and comfortable

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around you. And you're sitting there in your,

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you know, chair, just hanging back, doing your

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own thing. And then the cat will slowly walks

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around. It circles you. And then it goes, okay,

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this is safe. And then it jumps up in your lap

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and starts purring. So again, simple men are

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dogs. Women are cats in this scenario. Do you

00:21:42.339 --> 00:21:45.799
have any cats? I don't have any cats, but I love

00:21:45.799 --> 00:21:49.750
cats. I'm the guy that will. cat sit for anyone

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that needs, you know, they, they need someone

00:21:51.769 --> 00:21:53.029
to watch your cats. I'm like, bring them over

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to my place. I love it. Likewise. I have Adam

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here. I have, I have two cats and what happens

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every time I leave for quite some time. And the

00:22:03.009 --> 00:22:05.289
second my cats hear the door closed, what do

00:22:05.289 --> 00:22:07.549
they do? They run up to you. They can't wait

00:22:07.549 --> 00:22:10.109
to see you. I gave him that space to miss me.

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I gave him time to miss me. That mystery. When

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is he going to be back? Right? They can't wait.

00:22:16.049 --> 00:22:17.650
They're thinking about you when you're not with

00:22:17.650 --> 00:22:20.769
them. OK, women are very similar to cats, not

00:22:20.769 --> 00:22:23.250
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right. So one I have here for why women pull

00:25:07.480 --> 00:25:13.559
back is. you're revealing too much to her too

00:25:13.559 --> 00:25:18.579
fast, too quickly. So a woman wants to discover

00:25:18.579 --> 00:25:22.440
more about you over time. It's like a book, right?

00:25:22.539 --> 00:25:25.220
She doesn't want to open up a chapter book and

00:25:25.220 --> 00:25:27.319
all of a sudden the first page is the ending

00:25:27.319 --> 00:25:30.059
and she gets all of the plot and everything going

00:25:30.059 --> 00:25:33.180
on. She wants the characters to develop chapter

00:25:33.180 --> 00:25:36.799
after chapter. So she wants to discover things

00:25:36.799 --> 00:25:39.700
about you over time. And this is where a lot

00:25:39.700 --> 00:25:42.980
of guys get it wrong on texting and online dating.

00:25:43.019 --> 00:25:45.779
And I will be the first to admit, I used to play

00:25:45.779 --> 00:25:48.599
the 20 questions game with girls on dating apps

00:25:48.599 --> 00:25:51.019
and texting. And I'd say, let's learn everything

00:25:51.019 --> 00:25:53.059
we can about each other. I'm going to ask you

00:25:53.059 --> 00:25:55.299
a question. You ask me one back and we would

00:25:55.299 --> 00:25:57.900
learn everything we could about each other. But

00:25:57.900 --> 00:26:00.829
then. it became boring. There's nothing left

00:26:00.829 --> 00:26:03.710
to discover. She has no urgency to meet up with

00:26:03.710 --> 00:26:06.069
you in person because she can get it all from

00:26:06.069 --> 00:26:09.130
you over text message when she's sitting lazily

00:26:09.130 --> 00:26:11.890
on her couch eating Cheetos and she can get everything

00:26:11.890 --> 00:26:13.869
she wants. She can get her validation and attention

00:26:13.869 --> 00:26:16.349
without ever needing to meet up and discover

00:26:16.349 --> 00:26:19.789
more about you in person. So if you ever see

00:26:19.789 --> 00:26:22.529
my text, right, I'm revealing very, very, very

00:26:22.529 --> 00:26:25.170
little about myself. And it gets to the point

00:26:25.170 --> 00:26:27.200
where women are always like. hey i feel like

00:26:27.200 --> 00:26:28.960
i don't know anything about you when can we hang

00:26:28.960 --> 00:26:31.579
out when can we meet up i want to go on a date

00:26:31.579 --> 00:26:33.700
with you i want to see you that type of stuff

00:26:33.700 --> 00:26:36.319
because they want they know that with me they're

00:26:36.319 --> 00:26:39.359
only going to discover more about me when we're

00:26:39.359 --> 00:26:41.700
together in person because i'm not going to reveal

00:26:41.700 --> 00:26:44.259
much over the cell phone so if you're revealing

00:26:44.259 --> 00:26:47.059
too much too fast especially if you're revealing

00:26:47.059 --> 00:26:50.240
heavy subjects telling her about how you know

00:26:50.240 --> 00:26:52.240
your dad died and all this and it was such an

00:26:52.240 --> 00:26:54.380
emotional time like all of that on the first

00:26:54.380 --> 00:26:56.599
date or something like that that's way too much

00:26:56.599 --> 00:26:59.539
you want to keep it light and casual and whenever

00:26:59.539 --> 00:27:02.079
i want to when i'm on a date with a girl or i'm

00:27:02.079 --> 00:27:05.339
getting to know her it's like i'm trying to learn

00:27:05.339 --> 00:27:09.390
95 about her and only reveal about 5 % about

00:27:09.390 --> 00:27:12.569
myself. And women love that too. Cause women

00:27:12.569 --> 00:27:14.670
like to talk. Everyone likes to talk about themselves,

00:27:14.789 --> 00:27:17.609
but when you can learn about her and just get

00:27:17.609 --> 00:27:19.369
curious, Ooh, what am I going to find out about

00:27:19.369 --> 00:27:22.410
her? And when she tries to ask you about yourself,

00:27:22.490 --> 00:27:25.990
instead of blabbing on and on and on, I go really

00:27:25.990 --> 00:27:28.569
short. She, you know, if I ask about her siblings,

00:27:28.690 --> 00:27:30.329
she tells me all about her siblings. She goes,

00:27:30.410 --> 00:27:32.349
what about you? And I go, oh yeah, I got, I got

00:27:32.349 --> 00:27:34.029
two brothers are really close. And then right

00:27:34.029 --> 00:27:36.230
away, I'm already putting it back. Wait a second.

00:27:36.269 --> 00:27:38.170
You told me your brother likes to play golf.

00:27:38.289 --> 00:27:40.769
What is it? Like I'm putting it right back on

00:27:40.769 --> 00:27:43.509
her right away. And all of a sudden she's revealing

00:27:43.509 --> 00:27:47.069
all this information to me. She's feeling understood.

00:27:47.369 --> 00:27:50.430
She's feeling heard. She's feeling seen yet.

00:27:50.880 --> 00:27:53.920
The mystery of Adam is still lingering in the

00:27:53.920 --> 00:27:56.660
background. So she always wants to hang out and

00:27:56.660 --> 00:27:59.220
get to know me more. And that's part of this.

00:27:59.279 --> 00:28:04.039
So guys, reveal way, way less than you think,

00:28:04.180 --> 00:28:07.660
especially over texting and online dating. I

00:28:07.660 --> 00:28:10.119
love that. We have such a similar game, Adam.

00:28:10.240 --> 00:28:12.660
It's insane. Like you said, when you're out on

00:28:12.660 --> 00:28:15.740
a date, the girl will start talking, telling

00:28:15.740 --> 00:28:17.920
you all this information about herself. Then

00:28:17.920 --> 00:28:20.750
they'll try reversing it on you. I keep it very

00:28:20.750 --> 00:28:23.769
short. You have to be a master at this. Play

00:28:23.769 --> 00:28:26.829
it off very short. Give them just enough and

00:28:26.829 --> 00:28:30.670
then right back to them. OK, engage with them

00:28:30.670 --> 00:28:34.950
again. Right. And most of the times on the date,

00:28:34.990 --> 00:28:37.829
what will the girl always say? Well, enough about

00:28:37.829 --> 00:28:40.089
me. Let's talk about you. I feel as if I don't

00:28:40.089 --> 00:28:43.069
know anything about you. And we play that game

00:28:43.069 --> 00:28:45.279
again. Right, Adam? We tell them a little bit

00:28:45.279 --> 00:28:47.720
and they don't even realize you're doing this.

00:28:47.940 --> 00:28:51.000
They know. They don't know at all. People love

00:28:51.000 --> 00:28:54.279
talking about themselves, especially women. Majority

00:28:54.279 --> 00:28:55.839
of men, they don't know how to keep their fucking

00:28:55.839 --> 00:28:59.940
mouth shut. They're very good looking. They might

00:28:59.940 --> 00:29:02.779
be tall, might be rich, but the second they open

00:29:02.779 --> 00:29:05.500
their big fucking mouth and they start blabbing,

00:29:05.539 --> 00:29:09.880
that's it. The woman's panties dry up. If they

00:29:09.880 --> 00:29:12.940
just keep their mouth shut. learn to listen,

00:29:13.059 --> 00:29:15.359
but they're so worried about thinking how they're

00:29:15.359 --> 00:29:17.400
going to get in this woman's pants. They're not

00:29:17.400 --> 00:29:19.279
enjoying the moment. I don't even think like

00:29:19.279 --> 00:29:20.859
that because the second I start thinking about

00:29:20.859 --> 00:29:22.799
sleeping with her, how am I going to get in her

00:29:22.799 --> 00:29:25.700
pants? It's game over for me, right? It's always

00:29:25.700 --> 00:29:27.579
game over. Tell me how many times you guys have

00:29:27.579 --> 00:29:29.279
been out on a date and all you're thinking about

00:29:29.279 --> 00:29:31.960
is having sex with this girl, bringing her back,

00:29:32.000 --> 00:29:34.319
and you guys get flustered. She could feel that

00:29:34.319 --> 00:29:36.519
energy. But if you're just cool, calm, smooth,

00:29:36.619 --> 00:29:40.079
let her do the talking. And here's a little secret

00:29:40.079 --> 00:29:43.059
I'm going to teach all you guys. And this works

00:29:43.059 --> 00:29:47.500
wonders. What does every girl always ask you

00:29:47.500 --> 00:29:51.200
for when you're out on a date with her? When

00:29:51.200 --> 00:29:55.299
is your birthday? They always ask you this question.

00:29:55.420 --> 00:29:58.640
What is your sign? When is your birthday? Many

00:29:58.640 --> 00:30:01.859
men will fail because they reveal their birthday

00:30:01.859 --> 00:30:04.839
very soon. They're no longer a mystery. And now

00:30:04.839 --> 00:30:07.789
what the girl does is she knows your signs. She

00:30:07.789 --> 00:30:11.109
can easily Google what your sign is. She'll look

00:30:11.109 --> 00:30:13.609
at the compatibility of your sign with hers.

00:30:13.809 --> 00:30:15.950
They'll look at whether or not you guys are going

00:30:15.950 --> 00:30:17.869
to work out. She'll also look at the traits,

00:30:17.950 --> 00:30:20.630
personalities, who you are as a person. And they

00:30:20.630 --> 00:30:24.109
assume there's validity to that. There's truth

00:30:24.109 --> 00:30:27.410
to that. So now they assume you are that person,

00:30:27.529 --> 00:30:30.829
right? Mystery gone. What I do is I don't tell

00:30:30.829 --> 00:30:33.720
them. It drives them crazy. Adam, I'm telling

00:30:33.720 --> 00:30:35.480
you, I don't know if you've tried this. They

00:30:35.480 --> 00:30:37.880
will bring this up during texting conversations

00:30:37.880 --> 00:30:40.740
randomly. Like, oh, when I see you, are you finally

00:30:40.740 --> 00:30:42.900
going to tell me your birthday? If I come over,

00:30:43.039 --> 00:30:45.740
will you finally tell me? They go. I don't know

00:30:45.740 --> 00:30:48.140
why women go crazy about this shit. But when

00:30:48.140 --> 00:30:50.579
I realized this pattern, I started doing it with

00:30:50.579 --> 00:30:54.440
every single girl. And it's all universal. They

00:30:54.440 --> 00:30:56.559
can't handle it. They have to know what your

00:30:56.559 --> 00:30:59.339
sign is. But if they really believe in the horoscopes.

00:30:59.789 --> 00:31:02.490
and they think they know you, don't you think

00:31:02.490 --> 00:31:07.329
they would guess your sign? So with this too,

00:31:07.410 --> 00:31:09.789
this is fun because - They never do. They never

00:31:09.789 --> 00:31:11.809
guess the sign correctly. So how much validity

00:31:11.809 --> 00:31:14.390
is there behind horoscopes if they believe in

00:31:14.390 --> 00:31:17.210
that? Well, and this is what I like because I

00:31:17.210 --> 00:31:20.910
like, and yeah, women will a lot ask about your

00:31:20.910 --> 00:31:23.430
horoscope and all that. But I started looking

00:31:23.430 --> 00:31:25.410
into horoscopes. I look into personality types

00:31:25.410 --> 00:31:28.359
and stuff. So if a woman tries that on me - I'll

00:31:28.359 --> 00:31:31.380
go, wait a second. What's your sign? Because

00:31:31.380 --> 00:31:33.160
I already know where she's getting to. And she'll

00:31:33.160 --> 00:31:36.119
tell me she's an Aquarius or a Cancer or whatever

00:31:36.119 --> 00:31:39.200
she is, a Gemini. And do I know much about that

00:31:39.200 --> 00:31:43.279
horoscopes? Not really. But I'll go, ooh, this

00:31:43.279 --> 00:31:46.740
might not work out. And I'll say something like

00:31:46.740 --> 00:31:48.619
that and I'll make her I'll make her think that

00:31:48.619 --> 00:31:50.619
I actually know more about science than she does

00:31:50.619 --> 00:31:52.099
and something like that. And either way, I'll

00:31:52.099 --> 00:31:53.859
keep I'll be like, all right, what do you. Well,

00:31:53.940 --> 00:31:56.339
tell me about what's our relationship going to

00:31:56.339 --> 00:31:58.619
be like. I'm going to test you now. And so even

00:31:58.619 --> 00:32:01.039
if it gets to that point, you can play Inception

00:32:01.039 --> 00:32:03.700
with them. And then still, though, I'll go, oh.

00:32:04.980 --> 00:32:07.039
that's your sign. This is going to be tough.

00:32:07.140 --> 00:32:09.059
I go, what do you think this means about us?

00:32:09.119 --> 00:32:10.980
And I'll again, put it back on her and I'll let

00:32:10.980 --> 00:32:13.039
her reveal everything. And maybe she does know

00:32:13.039 --> 00:32:15.000
about horoscopes and maybe she thinks our horoscopes

00:32:15.000 --> 00:32:17.359
aren't compatible. But when I say it like that,

00:32:17.440 --> 00:32:20.900
now she's going to in her mind, go, wait a second.

00:32:21.079 --> 00:32:22.920
He doesn't think we're compatible. Now she's

00:32:22.920 --> 00:32:24.759
going to mix up the signs and go, actually, I

00:32:24.759 --> 00:32:26.579
think we are compatible. I think these are really

00:32:26.579 --> 00:32:29.559
good signs. So there are definitely ways around

00:32:29.559 --> 00:32:32.559
it. But again, the center focus is always. You're

00:32:32.559 --> 00:32:35.339
revealing less. You're letting her reveal more.

00:32:35.480 --> 00:32:37.400
You're letting her tell you what's on her mind.

00:32:37.579 --> 00:32:40.140
She's showing you her poker cards. So, you know,

00:32:40.140 --> 00:32:42.559
where she stands rather than you just giving

00:32:42.559 --> 00:32:43.940
them away and just going, what does that mean?

00:32:43.980 --> 00:32:45.640
I don't know. Now she's going to find everything

00:32:45.640 --> 00:32:47.740
out about me. I don't know what I'm doing. So

00:32:47.740 --> 00:32:52.160
always keep that little mystery alive and make

00:32:52.160 --> 00:32:55.160
her guess, make her make her reveal. And then

00:32:55.160 --> 00:32:57.240
you'll have a lot more information to work with.

00:32:57.690 --> 00:32:59.650
yeah you could you could go that with so many

00:32:59.650 --> 00:33:01.029
ways we're gonna have to save that for another

00:33:01.029 --> 00:33:03.950
podcast conversation topics or how to remain

00:33:03.950 --> 00:33:06.190
a mystery that would be a great that's a good

00:33:06.190 --> 00:33:08.809
one podcast topic we come up with these as we

00:33:08.809 --> 00:33:10.970
do it right i'm gonna write that down write that

00:33:10.970 --> 00:33:13.890
down adam and i'll say this right with the whole

00:33:13.890 --> 00:33:16.549
horoscope i love the way you play it because

00:33:16.549 --> 00:33:21.200
when you say oh you're a gemini she looks at

00:33:21.200 --> 00:33:23.039
you what what what happened i don't know the

00:33:23.039 --> 00:33:24.900
last girl was a gemini and it just didn't work

00:33:24.900 --> 00:33:29.079
out between me and her you break rapport okay

00:33:29.079 --> 00:33:32.059
sexual tension now she's gonna try to validate

00:33:32.059 --> 00:33:35.559
herself fellas okay you have to learn i'm not

00:33:35.559 --> 00:33:37.799
like all the other gemini's though i promise

00:33:37.799 --> 00:33:40.859
yeah i love that i'm not like all the other women

00:33:40.859 --> 00:33:43.000
what do you have a penis then i love when they

00:33:43.000 --> 00:33:47.019
say that you know okay so the next one right

00:33:47.019 --> 00:33:51.140
um She heard some gossip about you fellas, whether

00:33:51.140 --> 00:33:55.019
she Googled you or whether other women have told

00:33:55.019 --> 00:33:57.920
them about you. Women have this gossiping channel

00:33:57.920 --> 00:34:00.680
on Facebook, right? Are we dating the same guy?

00:34:01.000 --> 00:34:04.000
So if they match with a specific guy on a dating

00:34:04.000 --> 00:34:06.859
app, they'll post your picture on that Facebook

00:34:06.859 --> 00:34:09.679
group and ask the girls, are we dating the same

00:34:09.679 --> 00:34:12.219
guy? Let me get some tea on him. And they start

00:34:12.219 --> 00:34:14.659
gossiping about you, right? This happened to

00:34:14.659 --> 00:34:17.219
me. Some girl posted a picture of me and asked.

00:34:17.550 --> 00:34:20.429
Is is Daniel OK? Is he cool? And then some girl

00:34:20.429 --> 00:34:23.489
said, no, he's a total douchebag. Whatever. Right.

00:34:23.550 --> 00:34:25.789
I still ended up hanging out with this girl because

00:34:25.789 --> 00:34:28.349
indifference, fellas. I told her, yeah, you know

00:34:28.349 --> 00:34:30.469
what? She's right. I'm a total douchebag. It

00:34:30.469 --> 00:34:32.570
would be in your best interest to stay away from

00:34:32.570 --> 00:34:35.710
me. I'm narcissistic, egotistical. I'm schizophrenic.

00:34:35.769 --> 00:34:38.510
I just kept going with it. I didn't defend myself.

00:34:38.650 --> 00:34:41.909
And you'd be surprised how well that works, fellas.

00:34:42.650 --> 00:34:45.289
Right. So they gossip about you. And I'll give

00:34:45.289 --> 00:34:48.570
you another example. If you lie about your age,

00:34:48.690 --> 00:34:51.570
and this happened to a girl at the gym. I went

00:34:51.570 --> 00:34:55.389
up to her. She was talking to this older gentleman

00:34:55.389 --> 00:34:57.809
prior to me. He was a good -looking dude. I could

00:34:57.809 --> 00:35:00.349
tell she was attracted to him at first. But listen

00:35:00.349 --> 00:35:04.909
to this. This girl is 18 years old. And she told

00:35:04.909 --> 00:35:07.630
me, why do men lie about their age? And I said,

00:35:07.690 --> 00:35:08.829
what? What do you mean? She said, you see that

00:35:08.829 --> 00:35:11.090
guy over there, the one she was talking to, the

00:35:11.090 --> 00:35:13.050
good -looking one? I said, yeah, what about him?

00:35:13.570 --> 00:35:18.130
She said that he told her. He was 28. She Googled

00:35:18.130 --> 00:35:20.710
him and he was a cop as well. And she found out

00:35:20.710 --> 00:35:24.769
he was really 25. She lost all attraction for

00:35:24.769 --> 00:35:28.170
him, I guess, because she was 18. And a lot of

00:35:28.170 --> 00:35:30.510
guys will do this to lie about their age, to

00:35:30.510 --> 00:35:33.449
make themselves appear younger or older. I have

00:35:33.449 --> 00:35:36.110
never done this shit in my life, fellas. OK,

00:35:36.250 --> 00:35:38.650
and I'll tell you why. If you lie about your

00:35:38.650 --> 00:35:41.360
age and a girl finds out. They will find out

00:35:41.360 --> 00:35:43.239
everything about you because they're like fucking

00:35:43.239 --> 00:35:47.159
Inspector Gadget. They're like the FBI. So what

00:35:47.159 --> 00:35:49.539
happens is if you lie about your age, that is

00:35:49.539 --> 00:35:53.940
feminine energy. Women only lie about their age.

00:35:54.119 --> 00:35:56.300
And we're not hating on them. They usually do

00:35:56.300 --> 00:35:59.619
it on social media, on dating apps. They've never

00:35:59.619 --> 00:36:02.599
lied about their age to me in person. So I understand.

00:36:03.070 --> 00:36:05.550
But instinctively, they know if a man lies about

00:36:05.550 --> 00:36:08.090
his age, he has just stripped himself of any

00:36:08.090 --> 00:36:10.969
masculinity because that is feminine energy.

00:36:11.269 --> 00:36:15.070
So remember, have a good reputation, fellas,

00:36:15.269 --> 00:36:18.170
right? They might Google you to see if you've

00:36:18.170 --> 00:36:20.090
been to jail before, if you've been to prison,

00:36:20.230 --> 00:36:22.789
if you have any charges, if you were this, if

00:36:22.789 --> 00:36:25.349
you were that. Women do their research. They

00:36:25.349 --> 00:36:28.389
love to talk, fellas. I want women to say good

00:36:28.389 --> 00:36:32.239
things about me, okay? That is preselection.

00:36:32.300 --> 00:36:34.420
When they hear some women, other women say good

00:36:34.420 --> 00:36:37.159
things about you automatically, they're all fighting

00:36:37.159 --> 00:36:40.199
for you now. She wants you even more. OK, so

00:36:40.199 --> 00:36:42.900
women gossip. It might not even have anything

00:36:42.900 --> 00:36:45.219
to do with what you did. Right. But they just

00:36:45.219 --> 00:36:50.460
find things out. Yeah, and that's why I hear

00:36:50.460 --> 00:36:54.610
some advice the guys will give about. like if

00:36:54.610 --> 00:36:56.510
a girl's not texting you back, well, what's just

00:36:56.510 --> 00:36:59.070
keep texting her, be persistent. What's the worst

00:36:59.070 --> 00:37:02.650
that can happen? And it's what's the worst that

00:37:02.650 --> 00:37:05.369
can happen is your pride and dignity. And that

00:37:05.369 --> 00:37:08.090
gets around town. When you become the guy that

00:37:08.090 --> 00:37:10.190
goes, well, I already blew it with her. I may

00:37:10.190 --> 00:37:12.110
as well send her this mean text and get this

00:37:12.110 --> 00:37:15.909
out off my chest, or I'll just keep trying. Word

00:37:15.909 --> 00:37:19.630
spreads around just like czar said. And so I'm

00:37:19.630 --> 00:37:23.739
always. leaving. Even if, if I don't, if I meet

00:37:23.739 --> 00:37:25.159
up with a girl, I don't meet up with a girl.

00:37:25.199 --> 00:37:27.400
We're online dating, whatever. I'm never over

00:37:27.400 --> 00:37:30.360
pursuing. I'm never overstepping. I'm never too

00:37:30.360 --> 00:37:34.119
aggressive or too needy or clingy. Well, for

00:37:34.119 --> 00:37:37.019
one reason is later down the road, I match with

00:37:37.019 --> 00:37:38.800
her again on dating apps or whatever. She's like,

00:37:38.880 --> 00:37:40.780
Oh, okay. This guy seemed cool. I don't know

00:37:40.780 --> 00:37:42.599
what happened to our conversation. And now we

00:37:42.599 --> 00:37:45.739
can go back out at, but also because if you're

00:37:45.739 --> 00:37:47.980
that needy guy or that clingy guy, or you're

00:37:47.980 --> 00:37:50.679
aggressive or emotional, all that stuff. That

00:37:50.679 --> 00:37:54.079
word spreads and girls will know they will share

00:37:54.079 --> 00:37:56.079
their dating apps. They'll tell each other, oh,

00:37:56.159 --> 00:37:59.000
you're talking to this guy, too. And so all of

00:37:59.000 --> 00:38:01.500
that stuff will happen in girls gossip and gossip.

00:38:01.579 --> 00:38:04.300
Just watch an episode of Sex and the City and

00:38:04.300 --> 00:38:07.559
get a feeling for how much women talk. But that's

00:38:07.559 --> 00:38:10.440
why when guys tell you, well, if you already

00:38:10.440 --> 00:38:12.880
blew your chance, that's fine. There's no harm

00:38:12.880 --> 00:38:14.820
done. Just keep pursuing. It's like that's such

00:38:14.820 --> 00:38:17.780
it's setting such a bad habit. You're practicing

00:38:17.780 --> 00:38:22.280
terrible habits. and your reputation goes down

00:38:22.280 --> 00:38:25.800
is that simp beta or that emotionally aggressive

00:38:25.800 --> 00:38:29.000
or that guy that the girl had to block in that

00:38:29.000 --> 00:38:32.880
reputation will come back to bite you right back

00:38:32.880 --> 00:38:36.239
in the gonads so always try to be cool calm and

00:38:36.239 --> 00:38:39.619
collected if it doesn't work out oh well if a

00:38:39.619 --> 00:38:42.239
girl i'm talking to all of a sudden was talking

00:38:42.239 --> 00:38:44.440
to other guys and she gets a boyfriend i don't

00:38:44.440 --> 00:38:47.380
care i'm not butthurt about it i'm just like

00:38:47.380 --> 00:38:49.460
oh hey Good luck. I hope it works out well for

00:38:49.460 --> 00:38:51.300
you. You have my number for anything. You know,

00:38:51.300 --> 00:38:53.719
if you ever want to text me again, I always leave

00:38:53.719 --> 00:38:56.679
stuff like that. I'm never over pursuing or trying

00:38:56.679 --> 00:38:59.280
to shoot my shot when that shot is not there.

00:39:00.500 --> 00:39:02.820
Quick story. And Adam, you're absolutely right

00:39:02.820 --> 00:39:05.420
about the reputation, never getting emotional,

00:39:05.800 --> 00:39:10.440
going with the flow, acting indifferent. So this

00:39:10.440 --> 00:39:12.800
one girl, I got her number at the gym, beautiful

00:39:12.800 --> 00:39:15.860
blonde bombshell. We were supposed to hang out.

00:39:16.539 --> 00:39:19.530
Okay. She hits me up out of the blue and says,

00:39:19.730 --> 00:39:22.050
listen, we're not going to be able to hang out.

00:39:22.789 --> 00:39:25.269
Me and my ex -fiancee are getting back together.

00:39:25.849 --> 00:39:28.269
We're going to try it again. I said, okay, cool.

00:39:28.349 --> 00:39:30.050
I don't even know what the fuck that means, Adam.

00:39:30.210 --> 00:39:33.150
I said, cool. No problem. Whatever that means,

00:39:33.289 --> 00:39:36.190
you do you. Within two months, three months,

00:39:36.329 --> 00:39:38.690
she came back, fellas. Guess who was the first

00:39:38.690 --> 00:39:42.530
guy she reached out to? Me. Because I played

00:39:42.530 --> 00:39:45.400
it cool. I wasn't emotional. She said, wow. this

00:39:45.400 --> 00:39:49.619
is a very solid self -possessed man who probably

00:39:49.619 --> 00:39:52.340
has a ton of other women he didn't even care

00:39:52.340 --> 00:39:55.420
that's the kind of reputation you want fellas

00:39:55.420 --> 00:39:57.980
sometimes they do come back if you play your

00:39:57.980 --> 00:40:02.780
cards right yeah it's like passive income right

00:40:02.780 --> 00:40:04.699
you just got something coming on the side when

00:40:04.699 --> 00:40:07.019
you're never overstepping your boundary and you're

00:40:07.019 --> 00:40:09.659
meeting women you're the social guy and you're

00:40:09.659 --> 00:40:13.210
not overstepping it's passive income They go

00:40:13.210 --> 00:40:16.690
and they come back. They get in that little relationship

00:40:16.690 --> 00:40:19.550
or situationship. It doesn't work out. The guy's

00:40:19.550 --> 00:40:22.010
too needy or whatever, blah, blah, blah. And

00:40:22.010 --> 00:40:24.889
she comes back. But when you overstep, you over

00:40:24.889 --> 00:40:27.829
pursue, you never get that passive income. You

00:40:27.829 --> 00:40:30.409
never get that return customer. They move on

00:40:30.409 --> 00:40:32.570
to the next guy and she's always swiping left

00:40:32.570 --> 00:40:35.090
on you again. Or when she sees you at the bar,

00:40:35.150 --> 00:40:37.710
she's avoiding you. Yeah. You guys can judge

00:40:37.710 --> 00:40:40.510
me all you want. I love sloppy seconds. I don't

00:40:40.510 --> 00:40:42.699
care. If she wants to go handle what she has

00:40:42.699 --> 00:40:45.280
and then come back to me, I don't care, fellas.

00:40:45.500 --> 00:40:47.300
It makes no difference to me. A lot of you guys

00:40:47.300 --> 00:40:49.780
get butt hurt. No, if she did that to me, I'm

00:40:49.780 --> 00:40:53.800
blocking her. Sometimes with women, it's all

00:40:53.800 --> 00:40:57.380
about timing, fellas. You have to get that through

00:40:57.380 --> 00:41:02.300
your fucking head. It's about timing, okay? Some

00:41:02.300 --> 00:41:04.820
women will pull back. Some women just broke up

00:41:04.820 --> 00:41:06.440
with their boyfriend. They might get back together

00:41:06.440 --> 00:41:08.860
with him. Why would you ever block or delete

00:41:08.860 --> 00:41:13.519
her number? Why? That shows me you have a scarcity

00:41:13.519 --> 00:41:17.019
mindset, you're too emotional, you get too butthurt,

00:41:17.039 --> 00:41:20.599
and you do not understand women at all. Because

00:41:20.599 --> 00:41:23.980
if you did, you would play it cool and know that

00:41:23.980 --> 00:41:27.019
one day they'll come back into the arms of a

00:41:27.019 --> 00:41:29.059
masculine man that they want to have a good time

00:41:29.059 --> 00:41:31.760
with to make them forget about what they just

00:41:31.760 --> 00:41:34.059
went through. But you guys are so quick to want

00:41:34.059 --> 00:41:36.619
to wife up every girl. that you want to block

00:41:36.619 --> 00:41:38.440
her and you get but her you don't even know her

00:41:38.440 --> 00:41:41.239
fellas she wasn't your girlfriend why are you

00:41:41.239 --> 00:41:44.860
getting emotional that's all i had to say yeah

00:41:44.860 --> 00:41:49.179
yeah yeah and and obviously the exception to

00:41:49.179 --> 00:41:51.380
that rule is if she cheated on you and she was

00:41:51.380 --> 00:41:53.599
your girlfriend don't take her back at that point

00:41:53.599 --> 00:41:56.599
100 but like legs are saying like when i'm when

00:41:56.599 --> 00:41:59.000
i'm not looking for commitment like i'm not i

00:41:59.000 --> 00:42:01.860
am i'm the least controlling least possessive

00:42:01.860 --> 00:42:04.619
man on the planet I look at her hanging out with

00:42:04.619 --> 00:42:07.739
other guys is like, good. They can entertain

00:42:07.739 --> 00:42:09.579
you for a while. That's my mindset. I don't necessarily

00:42:09.579 --> 00:42:11.840
say that to women, but that's my mindset. They

00:42:11.840 --> 00:42:14.420
can entertain her. That's fine. And I trust my

00:42:14.420 --> 00:42:16.659
own game, my own presence enough that I just

00:42:16.659 --> 00:42:19.400
go, the longer she's with that guy, the more

00:42:19.400 --> 00:42:21.400
she will miss me. And I truly feel that way.

00:42:21.460 --> 00:42:24.699
That can, you know, sound egotistical or not.

00:42:24.880 --> 00:42:27.059
But if it works out with her and that guy, I'm

00:42:27.059 --> 00:42:29.039
happy for both of them. Great. Awesome. Good.

00:42:29.119 --> 00:42:31.789
But I truly believe that when a girl. goes away

00:42:31.789 --> 00:42:34.090
or or i've had girls threaten me right because

00:42:34.090 --> 00:42:35.650
i don't want commitment they threaten me with

00:42:35.650 --> 00:42:37.650
well you know how many guys are pursuing you

00:42:37.650 --> 00:42:39.449
know how many guys would would love if i was

00:42:39.449 --> 00:42:41.849
their girlfriend and i'm like hey i want what's

00:42:41.849 --> 00:42:43.710
best for you if you need to explore those options

00:42:43.710 --> 00:42:45.909
that's fine but you know where i'm at right now

00:42:45.909 --> 00:42:48.110
in my life and if you ever want to hang out just

00:42:48.110 --> 00:42:50.489
give me a text or phone call or whatever but

00:42:50.489 --> 00:42:52.710
i'm never that controlling guy and girls will

00:42:52.710 --> 00:42:55.349
use that is like that they're trying to make

00:42:55.349 --> 00:42:58.070
me back down go okay okay let's date and stuff

00:42:58.070 --> 00:43:00.400
like that but it's like no i truly believe The

00:43:00.400 --> 00:43:02.239
reason she's threatened me with these other guys

00:43:02.239 --> 00:43:04.440
is because I'm her number one option and she's

00:43:04.440 --> 00:43:07.280
trying to pressure me. So go hang out with those

00:43:07.280 --> 00:43:09.420
other guys. And in my back of my mind, I'm like,

00:43:09.460 --> 00:43:11.139
all right, what is it going to be? One week,

00:43:11.139 --> 00:43:13.559
one date until she's bored of this guy and text

00:43:13.559 --> 00:43:15.820
me again. Oh, she has two drinks with that guy

00:43:15.820 --> 00:43:18.059
on the date. And now she's texting me because

00:43:18.059 --> 00:43:19.699
she's already bored on the date and wants to

00:43:19.699 --> 00:43:22.480
leave the date and come over to my place. That's

00:43:22.480 --> 00:43:25.219
the type of inner confidence. Now I get it. It

00:43:25.219 --> 00:43:28.130
doesn't always come right away. But just so you

00:43:28.130 --> 00:43:30.889
have a landmark, a finish line of the type of

00:43:30.889 --> 00:43:34.150
mindset you want to have and develop. And then

00:43:34.150 --> 00:43:37.030
you have a kind of a pathway forward. Yeah. Don't

00:43:37.030 --> 00:43:38.730
ever fall for that, guys. Oh, do you know how

00:43:38.730 --> 00:43:41.510
many guys are in my DMs dying to get with me

00:43:41.510 --> 00:43:44.130
or how many guys want to be my boyfriend? You

00:43:44.130 --> 00:43:45.610
know what I tell them, Adam? You know, I'm more

00:43:45.610 --> 00:43:48.929
ruthless, right? OK, go fuck with them then.

00:43:49.570 --> 00:43:53.320
That's it. With that attitude. They can't win

00:43:53.320 --> 00:43:55.440
over you guys, fellas. They're like, damn, I

00:43:55.440 --> 00:43:57.679
just can't win with this guy. I literally told

00:43:57.679 --> 00:44:00.139
her, OK, go fuck with them then. I don't care.

00:44:00.599 --> 00:44:02.699
Right. Similar to your approach, but mine is

00:44:02.699 --> 00:44:04.179
a little bit more ruthless. So you guys have

00:44:04.179 --> 00:44:06.900
to use what works for you. OK, it really it is.

00:44:06.980 --> 00:44:09.699
It's a lot of the same principles behind our

00:44:09.699 --> 00:44:11.679
approaches. But again, like I'm more of that

00:44:11.679 --> 00:44:14.500
stigma and you're more of that direct like. all

00:44:14.500 --> 00:44:16.059
right well go for it and you're you're gonna

00:44:16.059 --> 00:44:18.300
like you're gonna be more like push against her

00:44:18.300 --> 00:44:20.260
where i'm just gonna be like hey do your own

00:44:20.260 --> 00:44:22.280
thing i think you'll come back i know you'll

00:44:22.280 --> 00:44:24.360
come back eventually and you're more like right

00:44:24.360 --> 00:44:26.820
up front like boom challenging them because i

00:44:26.820 --> 00:44:29.380
think it works if you use that right oh okay

00:44:29.380 --> 00:44:31.159
go fuck with them then i don't think it would

00:44:31.159 --> 00:44:34.480
work with your personality right real talk and

00:44:34.480 --> 00:44:36.400
a lot of guys don't get that they try to be like

00:44:36.400 --> 00:44:39.139
like me or andrew tate or this person and if

00:44:39.139 --> 00:44:41.059
you don't have the attitude to back that up this

00:44:41.059 --> 00:44:42.699
girl's not gonna take you seriously she's gonna

00:44:42.699 --> 00:44:46.400
be like okay Right. So you need to you need to

00:44:46.400 --> 00:44:48.900
know what works for you guys, your personality

00:44:48.900 --> 00:44:51.920
like Adam, that works for him because that's

00:44:51.920 --> 00:44:54.420
more of his attitude, more of his personality.

00:44:54.500 --> 00:44:57.199
But it's a different approach, just like I'm

00:44:57.199 --> 00:44:59.820
giving you guys a different approach. OK, you

00:44:59.820 --> 00:45:02.340
have two different personalities here. So pick

00:45:02.340 --> 00:45:07.860
one, whichever one you guys are. OK. So another

00:45:07.860 --> 00:45:13.179
reason I have of why women pull back is. You're

00:45:13.179 --> 00:45:18.079
being too emotional. And this can be in a couple

00:45:18.079 --> 00:45:21.139
different instances, but one would be you're

00:45:21.139 --> 00:45:24.199
getting too butthurt. That's like you're trying

00:45:24.199 --> 00:45:26.840
to if you're the guy that's going, why aren't

00:45:26.840 --> 00:45:30.500
you texting me back? You're a slow texter, man.

00:45:30.679 --> 00:45:32.519
You're really hard to get a hold of. And you

00:45:32.519 --> 00:45:34.800
have that energy, that pushy energy like that.

00:45:34.860 --> 00:45:37.519
That looks emotional. That comes off as you're

00:45:37.519 --> 00:45:39.900
not you don't have that emotional endurance that.

00:45:40.239 --> 00:45:42.900
that cool calm and collected and you're the one

00:45:42.900 --> 00:45:45.739
that's the the river crashing like right is a

00:45:45.739 --> 00:45:48.340
man you want to be the rock that just stays steady

00:45:48.340 --> 00:45:51.599
she is the wave the chaotic wave crashing into

00:45:51.599 --> 00:45:53.960
you getting emotional having her highs and her

00:45:53.960 --> 00:45:55.719
lows and all that but you're steady the whole

00:45:55.719 --> 00:45:59.039
time so when you're coming across is wow i can't

00:45:59.039 --> 00:46:00.219
believe you didn't text me back why didn't you

00:46:00.219 --> 00:46:02.539
text me back i saw you talking to another guy

00:46:02.539 --> 00:46:06.139
at the bar That is that emotional wave coming

00:46:06.139 --> 00:46:08.199
at her. And then she has to harden up like a

00:46:08.199 --> 00:46:10.460
rock and get very masculine, very short with

00:46:10.460 --> 00:46:13.099
you. And she gets very turned off. So that's

00:46:13.099 --> 00:46:15.960
one aspect of being too emotional. The other

00:46:15.960 --> 00:46:20.659
aspect is being way too sappy or romantic. And

00:46:20.659 --> 00:46:24.099
I know that this one is we're so programmed and

00:46:24.099 --> 00:46:26.780
brainwashed by the Disney movies, the love movies.

00:46:26.860 --> 00:46:29.099
The is a man you're supposed to confess your

00:46:29.099 --> 00:46:32.730
feelings. Tell her how you feel. I mean. Guys,

00:46:32.750 --> 00:46:35.349
and I do feel bad for the guys, but I have so

00:46:35.349 --> 00:46:37.489
many women that will come up to me and show me

00:46:37.489 --> 00:46:39.250
their texts or their online dating apps and go,

00:46:39.329 --> 00:46:43.949
this guy, I texted, we've been sending four messages

00:46:43.949 --> 00:46:46.130
back on online dating and look what he just wrote

00:46:46.130 --> 00:46:49.570
me. He wrote me this romantic poem about how

00:46:49.570 --> 00:46:52.150
beautiful my eyes are and my hair and how much,

00:46:52.170 --> 00:46:55.090
you know, he can, like all this really overly

00:46:55.090 --> 00:46:59.030
emotional, sappy, romantic stuff. And that's

00:46:59.030 --> 00:47:01.349
such a turnoff, right? Women have to earn it.

00:47:01.369 --> 00:47:04.369
They want to earn it. If you give them the red

00:47:04.369 --> 00:47:06.769
carpet treatment at the beginning, they're like,

00:47:06.769 --> 00:47:09.210
it's fake to them. They're like, what does this

00:47:09.210 --> 00:47:11.309
guy want from me? This is weird. I have done

00:47:11.309 --> 00:47:14.170
nothing to deserve this. Even though she walks

00:47:14.170 --> 00:47:17.230
around with that, I'm a queen. I bring everything

00:47:17.230 --> 00:47:20.369
to the table mindset. It feels fake. It feels

00:47:20.369 --> 00:47:23.230
inauthentic to her. If you're getting so emotional,

00:47:23.389 --> 00:47:25.849
so romantic with her, she's the most beautiful

00:47:25.849 --> 00:47:27.909
girl you've ever seen and all that type of stuff.

00:47:28.380 --> 00:47:32.480
When you do that too early, too often, it comes

00:47:32.480 --> 00:47:36.119
across as way too feminine, too emotional, too

00:47:36.119 --> 00:47:39.139
needy, that energy. And she wants to pull back.

00:47:39.320 --> 00:47:43.119
She wants the guy, right? So an example is in

00:47:43.119 --> 00:47:47.760
my, if I give a girl a compliment, it's so rare,

00:47:48.179 --> 00:47:50.239
right? And I'm not addicted to women at all.

00:47:50.300 --> 00:47:51.980
I'm very playful with them, but I don't ever

00:47:51.980 --> 00:47:54.539
just give a compliment out of the blue to the

00:47:54.539 --> 00:47:58.340
point where if a girl. says something to me or

00:47:58.340 --> 00:48:00.559
she sends me these selfies or whatever i go hey

00:48:00.559 --> 00:48:03.179
you look cute if i say literally something like

00:48:03.179 --> 00:48:05.940
that through text hey you look cute the girl

00:48:05.940 --> 00:48:09.119
like hearts my image goes oh my gosh that's like

00:48:09.119 --> 00:48:10.940
the nicest compliment you've ever given me adam

00:48:10.940 --> 00:48:14.019
and she loves she was working for that she worked

00:48:14.019 --> 00:48:17.940
so long to get that tiny little so little tiny

00:48:17.940 --> 00:48:21.480
compliment from me but then she's all excited

00:48:21.480 --> 00:48:24.739
because when your compliments are shot out all

00:48:24.739 --> 00:48:27.949
the time your compliments are meaningless. It's

00:48:27.949 --> 00:48:30.690
like if everyone was a millionaire, it wouldn't

00:48:30.690 --> 00:48:32.710
be cool to be a millionaire because everyone's

00:48:32.710 --> 00:48:35.690
a millionaire. There's no value in that. So when

00:48:35.690 --> 00:48:38.289
you're sending less compliments, every compliment

00:48:38.289 --> 00:48:41.590
you do send means more. The other thing is, if

00:48:41.590 --> 00:48:43.889
you're the guy that's trying to be all smooth,

00:48:44.090 --> 00:48:47.050
Casanova, always trying to give her the perfect

00:48:47.050 --> 00:48:52.570
romantic words and all that stuff, when you're

00:48:52.570 --> 00:48:56.789
blasting her with that, In her mind, she's like,

00:48:56.869 --> 00:48:59.550
this guy is a player. He tells every woman that,

00:48:59.590 --> 00:49:02.570
right? When I give a girl a compliment, she never

00:49:02.570 --> 00:49:05.889
says, you tell all girls that, right? Adam, don't

00:49:05.889 --> 00:49:07.829
you? And it's like, I go, no. How often do I

00:49:07.829 --> 00:49:10.210
compliment you? It's like, and she goes, oh,

00:49:10.269 --> 00:49:12.230
wow, you're right. And so she knows it's meaningful

00:49:12.230 --> 00:49:14.590
because she knows that I'm not blasting her with

00:49:14.590 --> 00:49:16.769
compliments. That means when I give her a compliment,

00:49:16.909 --> 00:49:19.869
it's legit. It's authentic. It's genuine. And

00:49:19.869 --> 00:49:22.190
she can actually take that and appreciate the

00:49:22.190 --> 00:49:24.980
compliment for what it's worth because They're

00:49:24.980 --> 00:49:29.780
rare, so they have value. 100%, Adam. I couldn't

00:49:29.780 --> 00:49:32.840
agree with you anymore. If you express your feelings

00:49:32.840 --> 00:49:37.519
too early with a girl, she will pull back. She

00:49:37.519 --> 00:49:40.760
has now conquered you. You are easily won over.

00:49:40.880 --> 00:49:43.280
That is very unattractive, fellas. You think

00:49:43.280 --> 00:49:47.000
the alphas back in the time were expressing their

00:49:47.000 --> 00:49:50.820
feelings early to the women they had? Fuck no,

00:49:50.840 --> 00:49:52.760
they weren't, fellas. That was for the beta male

00:49:52.760 --> 00:49:55.489
berry pickers. Those were the ones expressing

00:49:55.489 --> 00:49:58.130
their feelings to the girls, hoping that maybe

00:49:58.130 --> 00:50:00.369
they'll win them over with their charm and their

00:50:00.369 --> 00:50:03.730
fake charisma and get in their pants. Alphas

00:50:03.730 --> 00:50:07.150
were hard to conquer. That's what makes them

00:50:07.150 --> 00:50:10.989
so valuable, okay? Expressing your feelings too

00:50:10.989 --> 00:50:15.110
early to a girl is exactly the same as revealing

00:50:15.110 --> 00:50:18.789
your hand in a high -stakes poker game. You're

00:50:18.789 --> 00:50:21.329
letting everyone in the table know, look, I have

00:50:21.329 --> 00:50:25.300
a royal flush. Game over, fellas. Now, there

00:50:25.300 --> 00:50:28.699
are other ways to let a girl know how you feel

00:50:28.699 --> 00:50:31.800
about her, a more masculine, charming way. One

00:50:31.800 --> 00:50:34.420
of the examples is, babe, I love your feminine

00:50:34.420 --> 00:50:37.619
energy. Oh, I can just get lost in it, right?

00:50:37.800 --> 00:50:40.000
Or I love the way you talk to me. I love the

00:50:40.000 --> 00:50:42.480
way you tell a story, babe. I want to get lost

00:50:42.480 --> 00:50:45.480
in those words, right? Or I love how rhapsodic

00:50:45.480 --> 00:50:47.760
your body feels when I lie naked next to you,

00:50:47.840 --> 00:50:51.139
right? That is a more romantic, more creative

00:50:51.139 --> 00:50:53.610
way. of telling a girl how you feel about her

00:50:53.610 --> 00:50:55.650
without telling her, baby, I really love you.

00:50:55.710 --> 00:50:58.170
I can't live without you. I think about you every

00:50:58.170 --> 00:51:00.530
day. Oh my God, I want you to be my girlfriend.

00:51:00.690 --> 00:51:04.210
I want to marry you. No, guys, even I would get

00:51:04.210 --> 00:51:07.130
repulsed as a woman. And girls have come up to

00:51:07.130 --> 00:51:10.650
me and told me, Zart, why do guys say I love

00:51:10.650 --> 00:51:13.809
you too quickly in a relationship? This girl

00:51:13.809 --> 00:51:15.710
that I just got done sleeping with, I didn't

00:51:15.710 --> 00:51:17.489
want a relationship with her because I wasn't

00:51:17.489 --> 00:51:20.590
ready at that time. She found another beta cuck.

00:51:21.079 --> 00:51:22.820
that she was dating she got in a relationship

00:51:22.820 --> 00:51:25.159
with him within a month or two months he already

00:51:25.159 --> 00:51:28.480
told her that he loves her this girl lost all

00:51:28.480 --> 00:51:32.440
attraction for him okay men fall in love much

00:51:32.440 --> 00:51:35.380
quicker and women fall out of love much quicker

00:51:35.380 --> 00:51:39.559
right so if you express your feelings too early

00:51:39.559 --> 00:51:42.840
to a girl this is why it's so repulsive and this

00:51:42.840 --> 00:51:47.849
is as repulsive as men view a slut a promiscuous

00:51:47.849 --> 00:51:50.730
woman this is how repulsive this is fellas so

00:51:50.730 --> 00:51:54.769
listen up when you express your feelings to a

00:51:54.769 --> 00:51:58.710
girl too early they can't trust you anymore because

00:51:58.710 --> 00:52:03.329
what is stopping you from falling in love with

00:52:03.329 --> 00:52:06.769
the next beautiful woman that you meet that's

00:52:06.769 --> 00:52:09.429
why they can't trust you that's why that's repulsive

00:52:09.429 --> 00:52:12.659
there is no value in that She knows the second

00:52:12.659 --> 00:52:14.440
you meet another cute girl, oh, you're going

00:52:14.440 --> 00:52:17.159
to catch feelings for her too now. A woman that

00:52:17.159 --> 00:52:19.840
is about to bear your children, your offspring,

00:52:20.039 --> 00:52:23.219
it's evolutionarily hardwired. They can't trust

00:52:23.219 --> 00:52:26.579
you now, okay? What did I tell you? I think it

00:52:26.579 --> 00:52:29.179
was in podcast one or two. We went over the email,

00:52:29.380 --> 00:52:32.579
the response we had. When you get caught cheating,

00:52:32.679 --> 00:52:35.820
fellas, what is the first thing women will ask

00:52:35.820 --> 00:52:41.300
you? Do you have any feelings for her? Why? Because

00:52:41.300 --> 00:52:46.420
that's when they can't trust you anymore. You

00:52:46.420 --> 00:52:49.360
cannot express your feelings too early with a

00:52:49.360 --> 00:52:51.920
girl, fellas. Be more creative. Be original.

00:52:52.639 --> 00:52:56.139
I can get lost in your feminine grace. I can

00:52:56.139 --> 00:52:58.559
get lost in that feminine energy of yours. Babe,

00:52:58.579 --> 00:53:01.039
I appreciate everything you do for me. I love

00:53:01.039 --> 00:53:04.199
when you're caring. I love when you tell me sweet

00:53:04.199 --> 00:53:06.500
things. I love when you call me daddy. If you

00:53:06.500 --> 00:53:09.019
can throw in that word, I love when you do this,

00:53:09.059 --> 00:53:11.019
you do that, your feminine energy, that's much

00:53:11.019 --> 00:53:13.780
more powerful because you're giving them positive

00:53:13.780 --> 00:53:16.119
reinforcement. You're giving them positive affirmation.

00:53:16.179 --> 00:53:18.980
They're going to keep doing that behavior that

00:53:18.980 --> 00:53:21.480
you're appreciating. That's a little secret and

00:53:21.480 --> 00:53:23.860
a little trick for you guys. If you want a woman

00:53:23.860 --> 00:53:26.300
to behave the way you want them to. Oh, baby,

00:53:26.460 --> 00:53:29.139
I love when you cook for me. I love the way the

00:53:29.139 --> 00:53:30.940
oatmeal tastes. I want you to make it for me

00:53:30.940 --> 00:53:33.880
next week again. They love when you show appreciation,

00:53:34.099 --> 00:53:37.150
but not. Oh, baby, I love you so much. I don't

00:53:37.150 --> 00:53:38.969
know what I do. If you ever leave me, if you

00:53:38.969 --> 00:53:41.610
ever cheated on me, I'll love you no matter what.

00:53:42.210 --> 00:53:45.550
That is the most beta shit a man can ever say

00:53:45.550 --> 00:53:47.809
to a woman because you're giving her the incentive

00:53:47.809 --> 00:53:51.010
that you'll love her no matter if she cheats

00:53:51.010 --> 00:53:53.909
on you, if she disrespects you, if she does this,

00:53:53.989 --> 00:53:56.429
if she does that, whatever it is, you'll still

00:53:56.429 --> 00:53:59.269
love her no matter what. I'm only going to love

00:53:59.269 --> 00:54:02.429
a woman, Adam, on the condition that she respects

00:54:02.429 --> 00:54:06.769
me. that's it my love is earned and you guys

00:54:06.769 --> 00:54:09.690
have to start having that same attitude everything

00:54:09.690 --> 00:54:12.690
you do for a woman is earned even the way you

00:54:12.690 --> 00:54:17.369
smile at her a compliment your feelings for her

00:54:17.369 --> 00:54:21.050
that is earned you buying her dinner you buying

00:54:21.050 --> 00:54:23.670
her perfume everything has to be earned because

00:54:23.670 --> 00:54:27.329
that which is not earned humans do not value

00:54:27.329 --> 00:54:31.489
it's human nature if you win the lottery you're

00:54:31.489 --> 00:54:34.670
not gonna value that money because you did not

00:54:34.670 --> 00:54:37.329
earn it that's why majority of lottery winners

00:54:37.329 --> 00:54:41.449
they go broke easy come easy go fellas that's

00:54:41.449 --> 00:54:45.469
exactly what will happen to you yeah i mean there's

00:54:45.469 --> 00:54:47.650
just so many good points to go off of there it's

00:54:47.650 --> 00:54:51.750
just like it and so many guys do fall in love

00:54:51.750 --> 00:54:54.530
so quickly or they think they're in love or whatever

00:54:54.530 --> 00:54:57.710
so quickly but again three months six months

00:54:57.710 --> 00:55:00.329
in and if she's the most amazing girl in the

00:55:00.329 --> 00:55:03.679
world right If that girl knows that she hasn't

00:55:03.679 --> 00:55:06.300
been on her absolute top game, every time she

00:55:06.300 --> 00:55:08.139
hung out, she was looking her best. She's saying

00:55:08.139 --> 00:55:10.500
all the charming, all that things, right? Women

00:55:10.500 --> 00:55:13.019
have different levels of game. They work harder

00:55:13.019 --> 00:55:16.059
for certain men than they work for other men.

00:55:16.280 --> 00:55:18.340
So if you're one of those guys that she knows

00:55:18.340 --> 00:55:20.739
she's not even putting her a game in and you're

00:55:20.739 --> 00:55:23.300
already all into her, she's the greatest thing.

00:55:23.980 --> 00:55:26.940
Again, she's going to be like, this is, I'm not

00:55:26.940 --> 00:55:29.039
even on my a game. So if this guy's already in

00:55:29.039 --> 00:55:32.070
love with me. imagine what my a game could do

00:55:32.070 --> 00:55:35.989
with a better guy. So then that's when your admiration,

00:55:36.110 --> 00:55:38.769
your affection, your, your love for her doesn't

00:55:38.769 --> 00:55:40.389
matter that much. Cause she's like, well, I can

00:55:40.389 --> 00:55:42.489
do better than cause I wasn't even on my a game

00:55:42.489 --> 00:55:44.710
here. He didn't even see me at my best. He didn't

00:55:44.710 --> 00:55:46.449
see how nurturing I could be. He didn't even

00:55:46.449 --> 00:55:48.409
see all the things I could do. He didn't even

00:55:48.409 --> 00:55:50.309
see me cook for him. He didn't even see me do

00:55:50.309 --> 00:55:52.969
all these other things that she knows that she

00:55:52.969 --> 00:55:56.449
has other tools in her belt to get the guy that

00:55:56.449 --> 00:55:59.659
she wants. So again, if you're confessing, you're

00:55:59.659 --> 00:56:03.159
giving your love to her way too easy, it feels

00:56:03.159 --> 00:56:08.880
disingenuine to her because she knows that you

00:56:08.880 --> 00:56:11.659
shouldn't be. She's just a human being like you

00:56:11.659 --> 00:56:15.000
are. She poops and farts like you do. And it's

00:56:15.000 --> 00:56:18.119
like, why is this guy so enamored with me? Something's

00:56:18.119 --> 00:56:20.340
wrong with them. Or this guy gets no other women

00:56:20.340 --> 00:56:23.639
because I'm not even doing what I know I should

00:56:23.639 --> 00:56:27.039
be doing to get this guy's love. So she's like,

00:56:27.079 --> 00:56:29.079
this guy either has no women in his life, which

00:56:29.079 --> 00:56:30.619
is unattractive. She's like, well, what's wrong

00:56:30.619 --> 00:56:32.460
with him? Maybe I should look for other guys.

00:56:32.719 --> 00:56:35.260
Or she's like, this is way too easy. Another

00:56:35.260 --> 00:56:38.559
guy, a higher status guy will appreciate me when

00:56:38.559 --> 00:56:40.860
I'm on my A game because this guy was way too

00:56:40.860 --> 00:56:43.960
easy. I gave him my C plus game and he's in love

00:56:43.960 --> 00:56:46.920
with me right now. And Adam preaches that in

00:56:46.920 --> 00:56:50.320
his courses and his videos. You do not want to

00:56:50.320 --> 00:56:53.280
be too easy for a girl. You want her to work

00:56:53.280 --> 00:56:56.619
for it, whether that's sex. whether that's seduction,

00:56:56.719 --> 00:56:59.519
whether that's dating her, whatever it is, fellas,

00:56:59.659 --> 00:57:04.380
easy come, easy go, okay? Now, the next one.

00:57:04.719 --> 00:57:07.579
Now, this is very important, fellas, because

00:57:07.579 --> 00:57:11.900
this happens to the players, to the playboys,

00:57:12.139 --> 00:57:15.820
to the ladies' men, and this has happened to

00:57:15.820 --> 00:57:19.079
me several times. It has also happened to Adam,

00:57:19.119 --> 00:57:21.960
the texting prince. This has happened to Andrew

00:57:21.960 --> 00:57:24.699
Tate as well. All the players out there, women,

00:57:24.820 --> 00:57:29.699
will do this, okay? If they see you as that player,

00:57:29.820 --> 00:57:33.599
as that playboy, they will pull back purposely

00:57:33.599 --> 00:57:37.940
in order to have the power in the dating dynamics.

00:57:38.340 --> 00:57:41.619
They never want to feel powerless, and they know

00:57:41.619 --> 00:57:44.780
this every time they do the chasing. So what

00:57:44.780 --> 00:57:48.559
do they do? They try to manipulate you in order

00:57:48.559 --> 00:57:53.079
for you to chase them instead now. Right. So

00:57:53.079 --> 00:57:56.820
they might give you a text like, oh, I don't

00:57:56.820 --> 00:57:58.780
know. You just seem like a player. I don't know

00:57:58.780 --> 00:58:02.179
if I want to hang out with you anymore. OK, no

00:58:02.179 --> 00:58:05.199
problem. They want you to chase. I've had other

00:58:05.199 --> 00:58:08.420
girls do this to me. I knew they loved me. I

00:58:08.420 --> 00:58:10.940
know they wanted to be with me, but they were

00:58:10.940 --> 00:58:13.199
tired of doing all the chasing. So what did she

00:58:13.199 --> 00:58:16.730
text me? I'll never forget this. Listen, I don't

00:58:16.730 --> 00:58:19.429
think it's going to work out between me and you.

00:58:19.550 --> 00:58:21.949
I hope you have a good life and good luck to

00:58:21.949 --> 00:58:24.809
you. I knew what she was doing, right, Adam?

00:58:24.869 --> 00:58:27.090
She wanted me to go chase her now. Like, no,

00:58:27.210 --> 00:58:29.469
no, don't go. I'm sorry. I'll do whatever you

00:58:29.469 --> 00:58:31.630
ask me to because she knows I was dating other

00:58:31.630 --> 00:58:35.050
women. But this was her power move. And guess

00:58:35.050 --> 00:58:37.769
what? Within a week, week and a half, she came

00:58:37.769 --> 00:58:40.389
right back. If you don't chase them, fellas,

00:58:40.570 --> 00:58:45.320
just let them go. I promise you. They do this

00:58:45.320 --> 00:58:48.900
to the players if they see you as that high -value

00:58:48.900 --> 00:58:51.860
man. And Andrew Tate shared a story as well with

00:58:51.860 --> 00:58:54.300
this really famous Indian girl, this beautiful

00:58:54.300 --> 00:58:56.860
Indian girl that tried pulling the same move

00:58:56.860 --> 00:58:59.019
on him. And he just laughed it off with his brother.

00:58:59.139 --> 00:59:01.219
He showed his brother the text and they both

00:59:01.219 --> 00:59:03.639
were laughing because they understand the game,

00:59:03.739 --> 00:59:06.380
Adam. Right. They knew exactly what this girl

00:59:06.380 --> 00:59:08.559
was trying to do. And then she ended up coming

00:59:08.559 --> 00:59:11.320
back. So this will happen to you guys. It might

00:59:11.320 --> 00:59:14.239
not happen anytime soon unless you really start

00:59:14.239 --> 00:59:17.139
developing yourself to become that high value

00:59:17.139 --> 00:59:19.980
man. That ladies, man, that they know all the

00:59:19.980 --> 00:59:22.599
other women want you. You have high status. Maybe

00:59:22.599 --> 00:59:24.320
you're successful, whatever it is, your attitude.

00:59:24.679 --> 00:59:28.380
So what will they do? OK, it's a power move on

00:59:28.380 --> 00:59:31.480
their part. So if you chase them and you fall

00:59:31.480 --> 00:59:34.900
for it, that's it. You lost. You lost. They know

00:59:34.900 --> 00:59:38.179
they have you now, fellas. They know it. But

00:59:38.179 --> 00:59:41.099
I'd rather be the man who has the power in the

00:59:41.099 --> 00:59:43.780
relationship. And another instance as well. This

00:59:43.780 --> 00:59:47.019
always happens, Adam. This one chick. Kept texting

00:59:47.019 --> 00:59:48.860
me good morning every morning. She was being

00:59:48.860 --> 00:59:53.019
compliant. She was chasing me. One day she texted

00:59:53.019 --> 00:59:56.059
me, I want you to start texting me good morning

00:59:56.059 --> 00:59:59.800
every morning now. Did I do it, Adam? What do

00:59:59.800 --> 01:00:03.340
you think? I hope not. I didn't. And guys fall

01:00:03.340 --> 01:00:05.300
for this all the time. They think that's what

01:00:05.300 --> 01:00:07.679
the girl wants because she said that's what she

01:00:07.679 --> 01:00:10.820
wants. Okay. But women say one thing and mean

01:00:10.820 --> 01:00:13.699
another. She said that so I can be the one chasing

01:00:13.699 --> 01:00:16.599
her now. And the second I give her what she wants,

01:00:16.679 --> 01:00:19.440
boom, she starts losing interest. She starts

01:00:19.440 --> 01:00:22.519
pulling away. I'd rather her pull away by me

01:00:22.519 --> 01:00:25.300
not complying and then her coming back and me

01:00:25.300 --> 01:00:27.579
still having the power. And that's exactly what

01:00:27.579 --> 01:00:29.800
happened. The next morning, I still didn't text

01:00:29.800 --> 01:00:32.440
her good morning. She texted me. I thought I

01:00:32.440 --> 01:00:34.739
told you to text me good morning. If you don't

01:00:34.739 --> 01:00:36.400
text me good morning the next morning, I'm not

01:00:36.400 --> 01:00:39.980
talking to you. I said, okay, cool. I still didn't

01:00:39.980 --> 01:00:42.480
text her good morning the next morning. So she

01:00:42.480 --> 01:00:45.119
gave me this spiel how I'm the one that steers

01:00:45.119 --> 01:00:48.699
the ship. I have to be the one in control. Yada,

01:00:48.699 --> 01:00:51.519
yada, yada. All this masculine bullshit that

01:00:51.519 --> 01:00:54.719
men do not want to hear. I played it cool. I

01:00:54.719 --> 01:00:56.559
said, OK, this is just not going to work out

01:00:56.559 --> 01:00:59.880
between us. And guess what? Within a week and

01:00:59.880 --> 01:01:02.280
a half, two weeks, she ended up coming back.

01:01:02.619 --> 01:01:04.980
She said, hey, listen, I want to come over. We

01:01:04.980 --> 01:01:08.130
need to talk. I said, OK, cool. No problem. She

01:01:08.130 --> 01:01:11.230
comes inside, Adam. She starts giving me this

01:01:11.230 --> 01:01:14.730
whole explanation how I wasn't cooperating. Do

01:01:14.730 --> 01:01:17.429
I understand what I was doing wrong and how this

01:01:17.429 --> 01:01:20.130
isn't fair to her? She went on for five, 10 minutes.

01:01:20.309 --> 01:01:23.769
I looked at her, Adam, serious face. And I said,

01:01:23.869 --> 01:01:26.429
you know what? I get it. I know exactly what

01:01:26.429 --> 01:01:28.949
you're trying to say. And she said, oh, you do.

01:01:29.469 --> 01:01:32.829
And I said, yes, you want me to do you in the

01:01:32.829 --> 01:01:35.929
shower. With a smile on my face. That's good.

01:01:36.030 --> 01:01:38.949
Very good. Broke the sexual tension. She punched

01:01:38.949 --> 01:01:41.170
me in the arm that like, you know, I hate you,

01:01:41.210 --> 01:01:43.429
but I want to fuck you right now. And we did.

01:01:43.489 --> 01:01:45.329
We, you know, we had sex in the shower after.

01:01:45.489 --> 01:01:48.389
But once again, guys, build that sexual tension

01:01:48.389 --> 01:01:51.269
and then break it. I didn't take it too seriously

01:01:51.269 --> 01:01:53.630
because I know the game, but she still didn't

01:01:53.630 --> 01:01:56.130
go anywhere. Right. I was that lovable asshole

01:01:56.130 --> 01:01:59.050
that she adored. That's what we want you guys

01:01:59.050 --> 01:02:03.750
to do. Yeah, that's funny on this. I only had

01:02:03.750 --> 01:02:07.010
one of like why she'll actually pull back because

01:02:07.010 --> 01:02:09.449
most of the time for most men, women will pull

01:02:09.449 --> 01:02:11.789
back because of some guy, something a guy's doing

01:02:11.789 --> 01:02:14.110
wrong in a sense and she's getting turned off.

01:02:14.210 --> 01:02:16.889
But this is one I had on here. Just like you

01:02:16.889 --> 01:02:19.989
said, why women pull back in rare cases, it's

01:02:19.989 --> 01:02:22.730
going to be to test your strength and she wants

01:02:22.730 --> 01:02:24.869
you to start chasing. But again, if you start

01:02:24.869 --> 01:02:27.780
chasing. than the game has evaporated for that

01:02:27.780 --> 01:02:30.059
game why she was so engaged and wanted you to

01:02:30.059 --> 01:02:32.179
chase in the first place once you give that to

01:02:32.179 --> 01:02:35.519
her oh maybe that wasn't what i wanted for some

01:02:35.519 --> 01:02:37.820
reason i'm just not feeling the same butterflies

01:02:37.820 --> 01:02:43.079
i was with this guy before so part of this guys

01:02:43.079 --> 01:02:44.380
that you got to understand women are going out

01:02:44.380 --> 01:02:47.280
with an army of women around especially when

01:02:47.280 --> 01:02:48.719
there's a guy they can't figure out there's a

01:02:48.719 --> 01:02:50.780
guy that they can't get to comply there's a guy

01:02:50.780 --> 01:02:53.599
that won't send her the good morning text and

01:02:53.599 --> 01:02:55.739
won't Take her out to all the restaurants she

01:02:55.739 --> 01:02:58.440
wants to go to. That's when the girls get around

01:02:58.440 --> 01:03:00.860
at the girls' nights, drinking wine. And they

01:03:00.860 --> 01:03:03.860
go, this guy, this guy, Adam, this guy, Czar,

01:03:03.980 --> 01:03:06.260
he won't do blah, blah, blah. And then all of

01:03:06.260 --> 01:03:08.940
the other cocky girls around her that have simps

01:03:08.940 --> 01:03:11.500
and betas in their DM or they married a beta,

01:03:11.639 --> 01:03:14.440
they go, oh, I know what will get them. Tell

01:03:14.440 --> 01:03:17.119
him blah, blah, blah. And you're not going to,

01:03:17.119 --> 01:03:19.820
and they'll give their advice to this girl. And

01:03:19.820 --> 01:03:21.179
she'll be like, yeah, that's what I'm going to

01:03:21.179 --> 01:03:23.920
do. Or they'll go. don't text him back for 24

01:03:23.920 --> 01:03:26.400
hours. They'll give this rule to go. Don't text

01:03:26.400 --> 01:03:29.000
him back for 24 hours. He'll, he'll feel like

01:03:29.000 --> 01:03:31.619
he lost you and then he'll come scrambling back.

01:03:31.619 --> 01:03:34.199
And then the powers in your court, right? That's

01:03:34.199 --> 01:03:37.119
what girls will give that advice. So when a girl

01:03:37.119 --> 01:03:38.940
does that to me, and I always know, I always

01:03:38.940 --> 01:03:41.239
know when I have the power game one with a woman,

01:03:41.300 --> 01:03:43.340
I already know I can look at a text message,

01:03:43.480 --> 01:03:45.719
anything I go, she wants me, I'm in control.

01:03:45.860 --> 01:03:49.000
So when she pulls back, I laugh and I go, oh,

01:03:49.039 --> 01:03:51.380
this will be fun. And I just wait. I play the

01:03:51.380 --> 01:03:53.960
waiting game because when she's not with her

01:03:53.960 --> 01:03:56.320
girlfriends anymore, she's leaving for the night

01:03:56.320 --> 01:03:59.340
and she has a couple glasses of wine at home

01:03:59.340 --> 01:04:02.440
or she's at the bar. And now she's got a little

01:04:02.440 --> 01:04:05.500
drunk and she goes, oh, my friends say I shouldn't

01:04:05.500 --> 01:04:08.579
text him. But whatever. Just like every guy knows

01:04:08.579 --> 01:04:10.280
that feeling when you like a girl and you let

01:04:10.280 --> 01:04:12.079
a drunk text slip. You're like, I shouldn't do

01:04:12.079 --> 01:04:14.880
it, but I do it anyway. girls are human beings

01:04:14.880 --> 01:04:17.860
they'll do the same thing so when she puts on

01:04:17.860 --> 01:04:20.300
that oh i'm i'm gonna test him all that and you

01:04:20.300 --> 01:04:22.760
don't play along all of a sudden a few days later

01:04:22.760 --> 01:04:25.980
next week when she gets some drinks in her or

01:04:25.980 --> 01:04:28.380
when she's just feeling a little lonely she'll

01:04:28.380 --> 01:04:31.199
come back hey what are you up to or she'll come

01:04:31.199 --> 01:04:33.480
back and apologize hey i'm sorry i didn't text

01:04:33.480 --> 01:04:36.280
you back blah blah blah she'll come back and

01:04:36.280 --> 01:04:38.659
she'll try to get back in your good graces if

01:04:38.659 --> 01:04:41.039
you have that strength right this is all the

01:04:41.039 --> 01:04:43.320
test of your strength your emotional endurance

01:04:43.320 --> 01:04:47.159
and if you can wait it out that's a big factor

01:04:47.159 --> 01:04:49.639
that will weed out right the needy guys the fake

01:04:49.639 --> 01:04:52.400
alphas the fake guys with game from the real

01:04:52.400 --> 01:04:55.659
ones is most guys will cave to that test because

01:04:55.659 --> 01:04:58.840
you know how i know this too all guys around

01:04:58.840 --> 01:05:01.510
me If they look at my text messages, buddies

01:05:01.510 --> 01:05:04.210
of mine, and they'll see some girl send me three

01:05:04.210 --> 01:05:06.070
texts and they're looking at the go. Why aren't

01:05:06.070 --> 01:05:07.889
you responding? You're going to lose her. You

01:05:07.889 --> 01:05:09.610
better do this. And they get all frantic and

01:05:09.610 --> 01:05:11.809
they give each other advice. Yeah, it's time

01:05:11.809 --> 01:05:14.150
to check in. She just feels like you've got to

01:05:14.150 --> 01:05:15.769
show you're committed. And guys will give other

01:05:15.769 --> 01:05:18.940
guys this terrible advice all day long. That's

01:05:18.940 --> 01:05:21.579
how I got my wife. I just kept pursuing. That's

01:05:21.579 --> 01:05:23.059
what you need to do. And the guys will look around

01:05:23.059 --> 01:05:25.219
because they don't really know. Us guys aren't

01:05:25.219 --> 01:05:27.199
taught game. And they'll go, well, I don't know.

01:05:27.239 --> 01:05:29.260
This guy sounds confident. I'll try that. And

01:05:29.260 --> 01:05:32.480
then they start chasing and the girl runs away

01:05:32.480 --> 01:05:35.780
or she starts to slowly pull back more and more

01:05:35.780 --> 01:05:37.940
and more. And most guys go, what happened? I

01:05:37.940 --> 01:05:40.260
don't know. Again, it was a test of strength.

01:05:40.400 --> 01:05:43.940
So it's always you got to be careful who you

01:05:43.940 --> 01:05:46.659
get your advice from. If you're getting your

01:05:46.659 --> 01:05:49.079
advice from some guy that's married, is his wife

01:05:49.079 --> 01:05:52.059
looking at him every time they're in every time

01:05:52.059 --> 01:05:54.820
she's around him? Is she looking at him with

01:05:54.820 --> 01:05:58.219
adoring eyes? Is she following his lead? Is she

01:05:58.219 --> 01:06:00.960
always talking positively about him? Is she always

01:06:00.960 --> 01:06:04.579
submitting to him? If she's not, then who cares

01:06:04.579 --> 01:06:07.340
what that guy's? He might think I got the marriage,

01:06:07.360 --> 01:06:09.659
but behind closed doors is a dead bedroom or

01:06:09.659 --> 01:06:11.320
she's sleeping with some other guy behind his

01:06:11.320 --> 01:06:14.000
back, whatever it is. So you got to look at.

01:06:14.349 --> 01:06:18.469
Does this guy get women adoring him? Does this

01:06:18.469 --> 01:06:21.269
guy get women chasing him? Does this guy seem

01:06:21.269 --> 01:06:23.070
like he actually knows what he's talking about?

01:06:23.210 --> 01:06:26.230
Because you will get bad advice from all normal

01:06:26.230 --> 01:06:28.869
people around you that I would say in the blue

01:06:28.869 --> 01:06:30.849
pill matrix, and they'll give you the advice

01:06:30.849 --> 01:06:33.789
that they've heard. But that advice is not advice

01:06:33.789 --> 01:06:35.829
that works with women. And any guy that's had

01:06:35.829 --> 01:06:38.610
struggled with women understands that we've tried

01:06:38.610 --> 01:06:41.469
the generic mainstream advice and it doesn't

01:06:41.469 --> 01:06:45.010
work. So on that strength test, you got to hold

01:06:45.010 --> 01:06:50.190
your ground and you will pass the test. I hope

01:06:50.190 --> 01:06:53.869
you guys rewind that part and really listen to

01:06:53.869 --> 01:06:57.510
what texting Prince was just telling you. He

01:06:57.510 --> 01:07:00.949
made some stellar points right there. I even

01:07:00.949 --> 01:07:03.989
had an aha moment how that girl that wanted me

01:07:03.989 --> 01:07:06.449
to text her good morning every morning. How do

01:07:06.449 --> 01:07:09.230
I not know her girlfriends told her to do that?

01:07:09.750 --> 01:07:13.070
How do I not know that? Maybe a girl said, wait,

01:07:13.150 --> 01:07:15.170
he doesn't text you good morning. Oh, my man

01:07:15.170 --> 01:07:18.170
texts me good morning every morning and then

01:07:18.170 --> 01:07:20.829
telling her what to do. Girls would get well,

01:07:20.869 --> 01:07:23.070
they will get advice from their girlfriends.

01:07:23.409 --> 01:07:26.469
They have these books as well. These bullshit

01:07:26.469 --> 01:07:29.130
books written by female dating coaches, the rules

01:07:29.130 --> 01:07:31.730
or whatever they're called. Right. Steve Harvey,

01:07:31.769 --> 01:07:34.630
Steve Harvey or Steve Harvey. Yeah. Imp is giving

01:07:34.630 --> 01:07:37.650
them advice. Yeah. Think think like a man or

01:07:37.650 --> 01:07:39.730
act like a woman. Some bullshit I never read.

01:07:39.769 --> 01:07:43.420
Whatever. But. The only advice I will ever take

01:07:43.420 --> 01:07:46.760
from someone is Adam because I know he has game.

01:07:46.860 --> 01:07:50.179
He knows I have game. I'm not asking anyone else

01:07:50.179 --> 01:07:52.760
for advice. None of my friends because they don't

01:07:52.760 --> 01:07:55.599
have the game I have. No married men. And I always

01:07:55.599 --> 01:07:58.920
have married family members or cousins that are

01:07:58.920 --> 01:08:01.840
married. Some bullshit person trying to give

01:08:01.840 --> 01:08:05.059
me advice on women or they want me to do an interview

01:08:05.059 --> 01:08:07.280
with them because, oh, they're married and they

01:08:07.280 --> 01:08:09.840
understand relationships. I look at them and

01:08:09.840 --> 01:08:12.429
I'm like, bro. You've never been with a girl

01:08:12.429 --> 01:08:15.349
before you're white. What do you know about women?

01:08:15.429 --> 01:08:18.329
And she has you by the balls. She gives you one

01:08:18.329 --> 01:08:20.489
look and you're leaving. You're following her.

01:08:20.550 --> 01:08:22.909
You already know the code. She keeps you away

01:08:22.909 --> 01:08:26.189
from guys like me because they don't like me

01:08:26.189 --> 01:08:28.489
because they know I see them for what they're

01:08:28.489 --> 01:08:31.510
worth, okay? That's easier for them to manipulate

01:08:31.510 --> 01:08:33.569
you if they can keep you away from guys like

01:08:33.569 --> 01:08:36.489
myself, from listening to podcasts or advice

01:08:36.489 --> 01:08:38.819
from Adam, the texting prince. They don't want

01:08:38.819 --> 01:08:41.119
you guys listening to our stuff because they

01:08:41.119 --> 01:08:44.699
know they can no longer manipulate you. Okay?

01:08:44.760 --> 01:08:47.880
He made some very killer points. Go back, rewind

01:08:47.880 --> 01:08:50.500
10 minutes right now, and listen to that, fellas.

01:08:50.699 --> 01:08:53.279
Okay? Now, we're going to go over actually a

01:08:53.279 --> 01:08:56.739
related email, Prince. This goes back to the

01:08:56.739 --> 01:08:59.060
good morning text. This is what we're here for,

01:08:59.159 --> 01:09:01.800
fellas. We're teaching you the real game. None

01:09:01.800 --> 01:09:04.760
of that red pill incel bullshit. We're not teaching

01:09:04.760 --> 01:09:07.239
you to hate women. We're teaching you to become

01:09:07.239 --> 01:09:09.800
better with women. We're teaching you real game,

01:09:10.020 --> 01:09:12.739
how to handle certain situations. No one's doing

01:09:12.739 --> 01:09:15.960
it like we are. So support, spread our podcast,

01:09:16.239 --> 01:09:19.100
spread the loves, fellas. Give us a thumbs up

01:09:19.100 --> 01:09:22.220
and follow us on YouTube and Instagram as well.

01:09:22.399 --> 01:09:26.500
So I'm going to go over the email. Donya, question.

01:09:27.300 --> 01:09:31.699
When, if ever, is it a good idea to text her

01:09:31.699 --> 01:09:35.060
good morning? She is my girlfriend of six months

01:09:35.060 --> 01:09:38.989
now. I text her good morning every once in a

01:09:38.989 --> 01:09:41.250
while when I feel like it. Good for you, bro.

01:09:41.350 --> 01:09:43.850
That's what I want you to keep doing. However,

01:09:44.130 --> 01:09:46.670
she has been asking me to text her good morning

01:09:46.670 --> 01:09:50.350
often lately. Does this sound familiar, Adam?

01:09:50.710 --> 01:09:53.050
Oh, it sure does. Does this sound familiar? And

01:09:53.050 --> 01:09:55.989
guys still won't listen to us. They still won't

01:09:55.989 --> 01:10:00.130
fucking believe us. Okay. Normally, I would tell

01:10:00.130 --> 01:10:03.390
her no or simply say sure and do whatever I fucking

01:10:03.390 --> 01:10:06.689
want in response to requests like this. Good.

01:10:07.329 --> 01:10:09.989
Here's where I see a problem. Before we dated,

01:10:10.090 --> 01:10:13.350
she saw another guy once or twice. I found out

01:10:13.350 --> 01:10:15.909
that they used to text a lot and he would text

01:10:15.909 --> 01:10:18.850
her good morning every morning to which she got

01:10:18.850 --> 01:10:22.909
very excited. Parentheses. This guy was fucking

01:10:22.909 --> 01:10:25.989
attractive. Not going to lie. I guess he models

01:10:25.989 --> 01:10:29.850
in NYC. Obviously, she doesn't text anyone since

01:10:29.850 --> 01:10:32.250
being with me. She's been my good little girl

01:10:32.250 --> 01:10:35.229
and would be long gone if this ever wasn't the

01:10:35.229 --> 01:10:38.689
case. For context, I'm a stud. I'm an athlete,

01:10:38.789 --> 01:10:41.529
intelligent, and also attractive. Although it

01:10:41.529 --> 01:10:44.069
sounds so gay for me to say this other guy I

01:10:44.069 --> 01:10:46.649
mentioned was fucking hot. That's not as gay,

01:10:46.729 --> 01:10:48.949
man. Other guys can look at a guy and tell whether

01:10:48.949 --> 01:10:51.489
he's attractive or not. So it doesn't mean you're

01:10:51.489 --> 01:10:54.510
gay. My only concern is that by me not texting

01:10:54.510 --> 01:10:57.060
her good morning, she will think. Oh, well, this

01:10:57.060 --> 01:10:59.840
other guy texted me every morning and I loved

01:10:59.840 --> 01:11:03.199
it. My new guy doesn't do that at all. I don't

01:11:03.199 --> 01:11:05.899
want to immediately submit to her request, but

01:11:05.899 --> 01:11:09.279
I obviously don't want her to start resenting

01:11:09.279 --> 01:11:11.899
me of this. I might start sending a good morning

01:11:11.899 --> 01:11:14.880
text when she's been extra good. That seems like

01:11:14.880 --> 01:11:18.420
a reasonable solution. What would you do? Also,

01:11:18.579 --> 01:11:21.180
this girl is very submissive and devoted to me.

01:11:21.380 --> 01:11:24.619
Thanks for your advice in advance. I love how

01:11:24.619 --> 01:11:27.770
he said. he's only gonna text her good morning

01:11:27.770 --> 01:11:31.229
when she's been extra good i like that right

01:11:31.229 --> 01:11:33.090
when it's earned that's what we've been teaching

01:11:33.090 --> 01:11:37.810
you guys okay but like i just said if you give

01:11:37.810 --> 01:11:40.770
her what she wants now you're the one chasing

01:11:40.770 --> 01:11:43.609
her she wants the power in the relationship my

01:11:43.609 --> 01:11:46.550
dude that's why she's telling you that we've

01:11:46.550 --> 01:11:49.510
been in these situations she ain't going nowhere

01:11:49.510 --> 01:11:53.140
if she fell in love with you and you're the man

01:11:53.140 --> 01:11:55.779
she finds attractive and found attractive especially

01:11:55.779 --> 01:11:58.859
since the beginning why would you change anything

01:11:58.859 --> 01:12:02.159
about yourself this is how they conquer you guys

01:12:02.159 --> 01:12:04.939
they get the bad boy and they make him change

01:12:04.939 --> 01:12:08.739
his bad boy ways they start taming him and that's

01:12:08.739 --> 01:12:13.539
when they lose attraction okay but your opinion

01:12:13.539 --> 01:12:18.800
yeah yeah yeah exactly i mean She's into you.

01:12:18.819 --> 01:12:20.659
She's submissive, right? So what you're doing

01:12:20.659 --> 01:12:23.399
is working. I love what he said about he only

01:12:23.399 --> 01:12:25.560
does it when he feels like it. I'm the same way.

01:12:25.600 --> 01:12:28.100
I will almost never send a fluff text, right?

01:12:28.199 --> 01:12:31.119
But because I'm so unavailable and I text so

01:12:31.119 --> 01:12:34.180
little, when I do every once in a while and I'm

01:12:34.180 --> 01:12:36.340
inspired, I'll tell guys, if you're inspired

01:12:36.340 --> 01:12:39.079
to be like, hey, and you send that text, that

01:12:39.079 --> 01:12:42.060
is fine every once in a while. But when the girls

01:12:42.060 --> 01:12:45.739
try to give you that demand. This is why it's

01:12:45.739 --> 01:12:47.479
always so important to have how you're setting

01:12:47.479 --> 01:12:49.899
it up in the dating process and all that of always

01:12:49.899 --> 01:12:53.779
being slow to respond. Girls know that I'm not

01:12:53.779 --> 01:12:56.060
around my phone. They know that I don't like

01:12:56.060 --> 01:13:00.060
to text. So when girls say stuff like that to

01:13:00.060 --> 01:13:03.899
me, I will say something like, hey. I just always

01:13:03.899 --> 01:13:06.380
forget I'm not around my phone, but you can send

01:13:06.380 --> 01:13:09.359
me a good morning text to remind me. And again,

01:13:09.479 --> 01:13:12.399
there she's sending me one and then I can respond

01:13:12.399 --> 01:13:14.779
in an hour, hour and a half and be like, hey,

01:13:14.899 --> 01:13:16.739
it's great. Had a meeting, blah, blah, blah.

01:13:17.100 --> 01:13:19.899
But she's coming after me first. So she's still

01:13:19.899 --> 01:13:23.079
doing the chasing. Other women will tell me they'll

01:13:23.079 --> 01:13:25.520
always get used to chasing after me. So let's

01:13:25.520 --> 01:13:27.680
say, well, I feel like I'm annoying you than

01:13:27.680 --> 01:13:29.520
if I text you all the time. And I'll tell him,

01:13:29.520 --> 01:13:31.760
I'll be like, hey, I love like I have a busy

01:13:31.760 --> 01:13:35.220
day. There's nothing better I like than to receive

01:13:35.220 --> 01:13:38.100
that cute little text from you to balance out

01:13:38.100 --> 01:13:40.619
my day. And so you'll see her like light up a

01:13:40.619 --> 01:13:43.000
little bit. I'll be like, I love when you send

01:13:43.000 --> 01:13:45.039
me random text. Never feel like you're annoying

01:13:45.039 --> 01:13:48.220
me. Do it all the time. Just know it's not my

01:13:48.220 --> 01:13:50.500
first thought to wake up and send the text like

01:13:50.500 --> 01:13:53.909
that. But I love when you do that. And so in

01:13:53.909 --> 01:13:56.810
that context, now you're actually shaping her

01:13:56.810 --> 01:14:00.109
to, in a sense, chase after you more or to remind

01:14:00.109 --> 01:14:02.810
you about the good morning text because she's

01:14:02.810 --> 01:14:06.090
sending you one first. So there are a lot of

01:14:06.090 --> 01:14:08.130
good ways around it. But when you acknowledge

01:14:08.130 --> 01:14:10.050
it and you come off of like, you're not just

01:14:10.050 --> 01:14:12.029
saying like, no, I'm never going to send you

01:14:12.029 --> 01:14:14.449
a good morning text. You play it off aloof. You

01:14:14.449 --> 01:14:16.010
play it off like you're busy and all that. But

01:14:16.010 --> 01:14:18.789
you give her that acknowledgement that that that.

01:14:19.500 --> 01:14:22.880
that shaping of, Hey, but I love when you do

01:14:22.880 --> 01:14:25.399
that. I really like getting those texts from

01:14:25.399 --> 01:14:28.779
me. You, you are from you, you know, I'm busy.

01:14:28.859 --> 01:14:30.199
You know, I'm, you know, when I'm at the gym,

01:14:30.239 --> 01:14:32.720
I'm focused on my workouts, but I love between,

01:14:32.760 --> 01:14:35.300
between reps. When I get that random text from

01:14:35.300 --> 01:14:38.359
you, that's how I always shape it. And that will

01:14:38.359 --> 01:14:40.800
usually get a girl to perk up and be like, Oh,

01:14:40.800 --> 01:14:44.039
cool. Cause now she has a new game plan. That's

01:14:44.039 --> 01:14:45.920
what you want. Just a new game plan. Instead

01:14:45.920 --> 01:14:48.489
of you being the guy that said that you're, you

01:14:48.489 --> 01:14:51.229
know 7 a .m alarm every day to be like text my

01:14:51.229 --> 01:14:53.909
girl and and have it all automatic like that

01:14:53.909 --> 01:14:56.890
you can frame it in such a way that she still

01:14:56.890 --> 01:14:59.729
gets what she wants or she at least feels like

01:14:59.729 --> 01:15:02.869
she's allowed to blow up your phone with text

01:15:02.869 --> 01:15:06.310
messages but you're not giving her the power

01:15:06.310 --> 01:15:08.869
you're not handing her the power and again right

01:15:08.869 --> 01:15:10.689
when when you have the power in a relationship

01:15:10.689 --> 01:15:13.489
it's not that manipulation women look up to you

01:15:13.489 --> 01:15:16.739
then and they have something to to grab onto

01:15:16.739 --> 01:15:19.239
and to aspire after because they're still chasing

01:15:19.239 --> 01:15:22.119
after you so it works out for both of you when

01:15:22.119 --> 01:15:25.159
that dynamic is in play where she's chasing so

01:15:25.159 --> 01:15:27.279
you just got to be a little nuanced about it

01:15:27.279 --> 01:15:30.359
but do not cave and start to change all your

01:15:30.359 --> 01:15:32.319
patterns i really like how this guy's mindset

01:15:32.319 --> 01:15:34.779
is it sounds like his mind's in the right place

01:15:34.779 --> 01:15:37.319
and he's really you know got game under his belt

01:15:37.319 --> 01:15:39.159
he just wants a little bit of confirmation that

01:15:39.159 --> 01:15:41.319
what he's doing is working and i would say What

01:15:41.319 --> 01:15:43.420
you're doing is working and you can take some

01:15:43.420 --> 01:15:46.239
of those little tips we gave you to just kind

01:15:46.239 --> 01:15:48.779
of finally tune it. But what you're doing is

01:15:48.779 --> 01:15:51.079
good and your mindset is in the right place.

01:15:51.420 --> 01:15:54.460
And here's the caveat, texting Prince. Listen

01:15:54.460 --> 01:15:57.819
to this. Before she dated, she saw another guy

01:15:57.819 --> 01:16:00.680
once or twice. I found out that they used to

01:16:00.680 --> 01:16:03.020
text a lot and he would text her good morning

01:16:03.020 --> 01:16:06.220
every morning to which she got very excited.

01:16:06.359 --> 01:16:08.640
This guy was attractive, not going to lie. I

01:16:08.640 --> 01:16:12.079
guess he models at NYC. If she got very excited

01:16:12.079 --> 01:16:15.319
and she loved it from him, from those guys or

01:16:15.319 --> 01:16:18.199
from that guy, why isn't she still with them?

01:16:18.979 --> 01:16:22.619
Exactly right. Bingo. Why isn't she still with

01:16:22.619 --> 01:16:24.760
them? Because she got what she wanted. She already

01:16:24.760 --> 01:16:27.119
knew they fell for it. They're easily won over.

01:16:27.239 --> 01:16:30.239
They started chasing her now and she lost all

01:16:30.239 --> 01:16:33.220
attraction. That's it. Game over. She tamed the

01:16:33.220 --> 01:16:37.739
wild beast. So why would you comply to that motherfucker?

01:16:38.000 --> 01:16:41.229
That's what we're teaching you. OK, she's basically

01:16:41.229 --> 01:16:44.529
admitting to you that she lost the traction for

01:16:44.529 --> 01:16:46.829
them because she's not with them anymore. And

01:16:46.829 --> 01:16:48.710
she told them to do the exact same thing and

01:16:48.710 --> 01:16:52.310
they fell for it. OK, but next one, Adam. The

01:16:52.310 --> 01:16:56.090
last one I have for why women pull back is if

01:16:56.090 --> 01:16:59.510
you're coming off is too aggressive without building

01:16:59.510 --> 01:17:04.750
comfort with her first. And so one thing in this

01:17:04.750 --> 01:17:07.729
avenue would be if you're getting too sexual

01:17:07.729 --> 01:17:10.810
without her being invested yet. I see some guys

01:17:10.810 --> 01:17:12.630
will be like, yeah, I just took this program

01:17:12.630 --> 01:17:14.689
from so -and -so. And they said, you know, it's

01:17:14.689 --> 01:17:16.930
a numbers game. Every girl you match with just,

01:17:17.029 --> 01:17:18.829
you know, send her a dick pic or send her a sexual

01:17:18.829 --> 01:17:20.829
joke and you'll get the ones that play back.

01:17:21.029 --> 01:17:24.590
And I'm like, again, you're practicing such bad

01:17:24.590 --> 01:17:27.329
habits that would only work with a small percentage

01:17:27.329 --> 01:17:30.649
of women. If you are extremely high status, attractive,

01:17:31.010 --> 01:17:34.890
you have a great profile or whatever, but that's

01:17:34.890 --> 01:17:38.279
not best practice. That's not good game. So when

01:17:38.279 --> 01:17:40.460
you're coming off as too aggressive without that

01:17:40.460 --> 01:17:43.180
comfort, that's going to make her go, I don't

01:17:43.180 --> 01:17:44.840
want to deal with a stalker. I don't want some

01:17:44.840 --> 01:17:47.979
violent guy. I don't want some guy that won't

01:17:47.979 --> 01:17:50.479
take no for an answer. That's the vibe she's

01:17:50.479 --> 01:17:52.800
going to get if you're trying to come in way

01:17:52.800 --> 01:17:58.899
too sexual. I like to if I slip in a joke or

01:17:58.899 --> 01:18:01.579
I leave it open ended, I like to give like maybe

01:18:01.579 --> 01:18:06.180
an innuendo that could be taken sexually. For

01:18:06.180 --> 01:18:09.609
instance. when I was a school teacher and girls

01:18:09.609 --> 01:18:11.250
would know I was a teacher or whatever, and they

01:18:11.250 --> 01:18:15.130
would say something to me, I would say something

01:18:15.130 --> 01:18:18.229
like, oh, I don't like that. You're going to

01:18:18.229 --> 01:18:20.289
have to stay in a recess and put your head down,

01:18:20.369 --> 01:18:24.449
right? And so that context can be very sexual.

01:18:24.590 --> 01:18:26.590
A lot of girls would come back and go, I hope

01:18:26.590 --> 01:18:28.829
you do. Will you spank me too or whatever? But

01:18:28.829 --> 01:18:31.449
what I'm doing is I'm not getting sexual. I'm

01:18:31.449 --> 01:18:34.189
setting the trap. And then I want the girl to

01:18:34.189 --> 01:18:36.090
come in sexual first. And then when a girl comes

01:18:36.090 --> 01:18:38.880
in sexual, I will actually pull back and something

01:18:38.880 --> 01:18:41.579
I will kind of make her sweat it out and make

01:18:41.579 --> 01:18:43.479
her go, wait, did I get too sexual? Cause I want

01:18:43.479 --> 01:18:46.159
her to be the one always coming after me. And

01:18:46.159 --> 01:18:49.399
so I'm like, Whoa, Whoa, Whoa. We just met you.

01:18:49.439 --> 01:18:51.260
You know, you're going to have to, you're going

01:18:51.260 --> 01:18:53.340
to have to give me a kiss first before, like,

01:18:53.399 --> 01:18:55.520
but you don't want to be the guy that's coming

01:18:55.520 --> 01:18:58.739
across too sexual. Yeah. In your vibe, you want

01:18:58.739 --> 01:19:01.500
to have that sexual vibe where she feels like

01:19:01.500 --> 01:19:04.319
it can get sexual, but you don't want to be directly

01:19:04.319 --> 01:19:06.579
coming in sexual when she doesn't have comfort

01:19:06.579 --> 01:19:11.600
built. first. And I lost a woman I will never

01:19:11.600 --> 01:19:14.760
forget. She was this beautiful British girl from

01:19:14.760 --> 01:19:17.579
my previous job. She was a patient. So I used

01:19:17.579 --> 01:19:20.420
to work for an oral surgeon because I was heading

01:19:20.420 --> 01:19:22.439
over to dental school. And then this is my new

01:19:22.439 --> 01:19:25.739
path. We'll save that for another time. But I

01:19:25.739 --> 01:19:27.880
met this beautiful patient. I was in the room

01:19:27.880 --> 01:19:31.390
with her chit -chat, shooting the shit. And she

01:19:31.390 --> 01:19:34.050
was on her way to moving to California. So I

01:19:34.050 --> 01:19:36.729
knew I had a small window of opportunity. I could

01:19:36.729 --> 01:19:38.670
tell she was very attracted to me. I was only

01:19:38.670 --> 01:19:41.369
talking to her for maybe five, seven minutes.

01:19:41.550 --> 01:19:43.609
The attraction was there. And this is important.

01:19:43.789 --> 01:19:46.329
I'm going to get there before she leaves. You

01:19:46.329 --> 01:19:48.149
know, doctor steps in. He's talking to her. So

01:19:48.149 --> 01:19:50.609
before she leaves, I go out to take out the trash.

01:19:50.770 --> 01:19:52.510
That was always the perfect opportunity to get

01:19:52.510 --> 01:19:54.229
the girl's number as they're leaving. I'm pretending

01:19:54.229 --> 01:19:57.149
to take out the trash. And I stopped her. I said,

01:19:57.210 --> 01:19:59.069
hey, listen, you know. let me grab your number.

01:19:59.109 --> 01:20:00.550
We're going to go out for a drink. And she only

01:20:00.550 --> 01:20:03.270
lived five minutes for me, Adam. I dropped the

01:20:03.270 --> 01:20:06.289
ball on this big. The attraction was very fucking

01:20:06.289 --> 01:20:08.909
high with this girl. That night I texted her,

01:20:08.989 --> 01:20:10.390
hey, listen, what are you doing tomorrow night?

01:20:10.569 --> 01:20:13.029
I always strike when the iron's hot. And plus

01:20:13.029 --> 01:20:16.310
she was about to leave for California. So she

01:20:16.310 --> 01:20:18.210
said, yeah, I'm free. I'll grab drinks with you.

01:20:18.609 --> 01:20:21.590
And then I said, make sure you wear something

01:20:21.590 --> 01:20:26.289
tight and sexy. And that turned her off. I'll

01:20:26.289 --> 01:20:28.770
never forget. She replied with, I don't know

01:20:28.770 --> 01:20:30.630
what kind of a night you were expecting it to

01:20:30.630 --> 01:20:33.750
be, but I couldn't fumble back from that. But

01:20:33.750 --> 01:20:36.289
I always text a girl that that's an alpha move.

01:20:36.369 --> 01:20:38.630
You tell them what to wear. I would always text

01:20:38.630 --> 01:20:40.949
them wear something tight and sexy. That was

01:20:40.949 --> 01:20:44.350
my go -to and never failed me. But I've realized

01:20:44.350 --> 01:20:47.390
where I went wrong. The comfort wasn't built.

01:20:47.909 --> 01:20:51.109
The attraction was there, but you guys need to

01:20:51.109 --> 01:20:54.920
have the comfort built before you start. Throwing

01:20:54.920 --> 01:20:57.939
out sexual innuendos or trying to be sexual over

01:20:57.939 --> 01:21:00.920
text. If the comfort is not built, you will creep

01:21:00.920 --> 01:21:05.039
out majority of women, okay? That is a fact,

01:21:05.079 --> 01:21:08.300
fellas. And the girls that I talk to, they tell

01:21:08.300 --> 01:21:12.119
me that the second a guy asks for pics, naked

01:21:12.119 --> 01:21:15.039
pics or sexy pics, that's when the girl loses

01:21:15.039 --> 01:21:18.659
interest. That is when she loses interest. Do

01:21:18.659 --> 01:21:21.819
not do it. I don't care how horny you are, how

01:21:21.819 --> 01:21:24.739
fucking desperate you are. Have some self -control,

01:21:24.859 --> 01:21:27.939
fellas. And I have never sent a girl a dick pic

01:21:27.939 --> 01:21:31.020
in my life. And girls have told me the second

01:21:31.020 --> 01:21:33.960
a guy does that, they lose all attraction for

01:21:33.960 --> 01:21:35.859
him. I don't care how big it is. I don't care

01:21:35.859 --> 01:21:38.680
how nice or beautiful it is. You could have fucking

01:21:38.680 --> 01:21:40.760
diamonds coming out of it. It could be made out

01:21:40.760 --> 01:21:42.840
of a diamond. You could have doves flying out

01:21:42.840 --> 01:21:45.699
of it. It doesn't matter, fellas. Women aren't

01:21:45.699 --> 01:21:48.800
hardwired like men. Men are visual creatures.

01:21:49.760 --> 01:21:53.420
Women, you have to get them. erogenous zones

01:21:53.420 --> 01:21:59.460
is in here okay their mind that's how they're

01:21:59.460 --> 01:22:02.340
hardwired fellas right but learn from our mistakes

01:22:02.340 --> 01:22:05.159
don't be too sexual right off the gate it might

01:22:05.159 --> 01:22:07.840
work with some women of course it will right

01:22:07.840 --> 01:22:10.439
if the timing is right her temperature is high

01:22:10.439 --> 01:22:12.119
she's feeling it that night you're that alpha

01:22:12.119 --> 01:22:14.460
dude you come in masculine it might work right

01:22:14.460 --> 01:22:16.319
because i've come up to girls and said you have

01:22:16.319 --> 01:22:19.159
amazing tits that was my opener and it works

01:22:19.159 --> 01:22:22.130
cocky who cares right it's better than buying

01:22:22.130 --> 01:22:24.689
a girl a drink or simping for her right that

01:22:24.689 --> 01:22:27.390
line will always work 10 times better okay but

01:22:27.390 --> 01:22:29.310
you have to be careful make sure the comfort

01:22:29.310 --> 01:22:33.890
is built first okay um yeah yeah well on top

01:22:33.890 --> 01:22:36.229
of that though that was a great example too of

01:22:36.229 --> 01:22:39.689
just you striking a little too fast without the

01:22:39.689 --> 01:22:40.930
comfort because i've made all those mistakes

01:22:40.930 --> 01:22:43.789
as well but that's a great example for guys to

01:22:43.789 --> 01:22:45.430
learn from because sometimes when you think the

01:22:45.430 --> 01:22:47.109
vibe is right you're like oh i can go for it

01:22:47.109 --> 01:22:49.250
but again when you when you know you have that

01:22:49.250 --> 01:22:51.710
comfort is when she's starting to allude to sexual

01:22:51.710 --> 01:22:54.630
things before you are that's when more of that

01:22:54.630 --> 01:22:57.609
comfort is built and one thing i'll give every

01:22:57.609 --> 01:23:00.729
guy advice on right now about pics because again

01:23:00.729 --> 01:23:02.670
i'm the texting guy i'm the online dating guy

01:23:02.670 --> 01:23:06.189
so i build comfort quickly with women online

01:23:06.189 --> 01:23:09.470
and one thing i'll always do because i learned

01:23:09.470 --> 01:23:11.550
the hard way of you know send me a sexy pic right

01:23:11.550 --> 01:23:15.010
that can go yeah some women will some women won't

01:23:15.010 --> 01:23:17.579
but i want to develop the game that If I ever

01:23:17.579 --> 01:23:20.260
met that unicorn or I met any girl, the slutty

01:23:20.260 --> 01:23:22.199
girl, the unicorn, I want game that can work

01:23:22.199 --> 01:23:25.119
on all of them. I want to be able to keep it

01:23:25.119 --> 01:23:27.380
around and build attraction with all women. One

01:23:27.380 --> 01:23:29.859
thing I'll do a lot on dating apps is after messaging

01:23:29.859 --> 01:23:31.760
a little bit and she's starting to message me

01:23:31.760 --> 01:23:34.760
back quicker than I'm messaging her, I'll say

01:23:34.760 --> 01:23:38.479
something like, send me a cute pic. I'll say

01:23:38.479 --> 01:23:41.020
cute pic. Send me a cute pic. And again, right.

01:23:41.079 --> 01:23:44.100
It's like leaving the ball in her court again,

01:23:44.199 --> 01:23:46.500
because some girls then will literally send me

01:23:46.500 --> 01:23:50.159
lingerie pics. Other girls will send me a picture

01:23:50.159 --> 01:23:52.960
of their face. But when you say send me a cute

01:23:52.960 --> 01:23:55.680
pic, some girls will even come back and go, I'm

01:23:55.680 --> 01:23:58.560
not sending you nudes. And then. Right. But I

01:23:58.560 --> 01:24:00.819
have plausible deniability. Women are very good

01:24:00.819 --> 01:24:04.340
at this. I know how to use it, too. So I'll just

01:24:04.340 --> 01:24:07.069
say. No, I just meant a cute pic. So I know you're

01:24:07.069 --> 01:24:09.909
not some 59 year old guy in your mom's basement

01:24:09.909 --> 01:24:12.329
catfishing me. Right. You always have an out

01:24:12.329 --> 01:24:14.609
in that instance. But when you lead with send

01:24:14.609 --> 01:24:17.430
me a cute pic. Right. I get one of those and

01:24:17.430 --> 01:24:19.729
a girl sends me a pic. If I'm feeling the vibe

01:24:19.729 --> 01:24:22.229
is right, then I might go. But I want one for

01:24:22.229 --> 01:24:25.130
my eyes only. And then you'll get a little more.

01:24:25.229 --> 01:24:27.609
But then if a girl plays back and goes, I'm not

01:24:27.609 --> 01:24:28.970
sitting you nude, something like that. I go,

01:24:29.029 --> 01:24:32.529
no, I just meant all these pics. On your dating

01:24:32.529 --> 01:24:34.449
app, every other guy gets I just want, you know,

01:24:34.449 --> 01:24:36.310
a cute selfie from just you. Right. So I have

01:24:36.310 --> 01:24:39.689
plausible deniability again. So I'm never overstepping.

01:24:39.750 --> 01:24:42.489
And then girls kind of feel like, oh, I'm sorry,

01:24:42.609 --> 01:24:43.989
I didn't I thought you meant blah, blah, blah.

01:24:44.029 --> 01:24:47.010
And then they start to go, oh, I was wrong about

01:24:47.010 --> 01:24:49.369
my read on you. But when you always frame it

01:24:49.369 --> 01:24:52.789
in such a way that you're not coming across sexual,

01:24:52.869 --> 01:24:55.069
but you're kind of leaving that door open if

01:24:55.069 --> 01:24:58.489
she wants to open it, that is a great way to

01:24:58.489 --> 01:25:01.920
kind of break in. to more of that sexual vibe

01:25:01.920 --> 01:25:04.640
with women. But I always use plausible deniability.

01:25:04.880 --> 01:25:08.100
I always give myself an out so that she can't

01:25:08.100 --> 01:25:11.100
get mad at me and at least not with good reason.

01:25:11.180 --> 01:25:12.579
Cause I'll be like, whoa, what are you talking

01:25:12.579 --> 01:25:15.760
about? I just meant a cute selfie that you haven't

01:25:15.760 --> 01:25:17.140
sent all these other guys in your dating apps.

01:25:17.199 --> 01:25:19.619
That's all. Whoa, what's your, your mind's in

01:25:19.619 --> 01:25:22.560
the gutter. We just met. And then I can. playfully

01:25:22.560 --> 01:25:24.479
turn around on her again in those situations.

01:25:24.739 --> 01:25:27.560
But yeah, coming across as too sexual too quickly

01:25:27.560 --> 01:25:30.579
without that comfort is going to scare a lot

01:25:30.579 --> 01:25:33.560
of women off. And if you're looking for some

01:25:33.560 --> 01:25:35.720
type of relationship, the only girls that that

01:25:35.720 --> 01:25:38.220
does work on are not going to be the girls that

01:25:38.220 --> 01:25:40.680
you want to get in a committed relationship with

01:25:40.680 --> 01:25:43.960
anyway. That's genius. I love that line. Send

01:25:43.960 --> 01:25:46.180
me a cute pic because you covered your tracks.

01:25:46.760 --> 01:25:49.619
Covered your tracks. It's all about that. You

01:25:49.619 --> 01:25:52.520
lay landmines for women to walk into instead

01:25:52.520 --> 01:25:54.760
of having to tiptoe around all the landmines

01:25:54.760 --> 01:25:56.859
that she walks into. You completely flip the

01:25:56.859 --> 01:25:59.300
script. And that happened to me, fellas, three

01:25:59.300 --> 01:26:01.960
years ago. We're still learning the game, right?

01:26:02.020 --> 01:26:05.819
We're not complete masters. We consider ourselves

01:26:05.819 --> 01:26:08.239
masters because we've had so much practice. We

01:26:08.239 --> 01:26:10.859
understand the game. We've went through rejections.

01:26:10.920 --> 01:26:13.970
We learn from our mistakes. But I was so eager

01:26:13.970 --> 01:26:17.010
because this girl was so sexy. She was gorgeous

01:26:17.010 --> 01:26:19.750
and she was highly sexual. She came into the

01:26:19.750 --> 01:26:22.289
office looking like a schoolgirl the way she

01:26:22.289 --> 01:26:26.810
was dressed. Short skirt, heels, beautiful, voluptuous

01:26:26.810 --> 01:26:30.050
body, sexy British accent. And I could have had

01:26:30.050 --> 01:26:34.699
it, fellas, if I. wasn't so sexual if i played

01:26:34.699 --> 01:26:37.239
it cool she wanted to go out with me she was

01:26:37.239 --> 01:26:39.399
eager the attraction was there and you know what

01:26:39.399 --> 01:26:42.760
i had to see her twice she came into work again

01:26:42.760 --> 01:26:45.479
that could have backfired that could have backfired

01:26:45.479 --> 01:26:48.699
because i felt i felt the awkward tension in

01:26:48.699 --> 01:26:50.659
the room now i didn't even want to be in there

01:26:50.659 --> 01:26:52.739
but i also wanted to be in there to make sure

01:26:52.739 --> 01:26:55.640
she didn't tell the doctor anything okay behind

01:26:55.640 --> 01:26:59.060
my back so i had to play like being the cool

01:26:59.060 --> 01:27:02.880
nice guy right but be careful if you do if you

01:27:02.880 --> 01:27:05.680
do that at work you guys have to be careful right

01:27:05.680 --> 01:27:09.000
we still slip up but i learned from that never

01:27:09.000 --> 01:27:13.300
be too sexual right off the gate okay now the

01:27:13.300 --> 01:27:15.899
next one a lot of guys don't seem to understand

01:27:15.899 --> 01:27:18.220
this one adam so we're gonna break this shit

01:27:18.220 --> 01:27:20.899
down right now so you guys fucking get it through

01:27:20.899 --> 01:27:26.479
your head you were the rebound okay most beautiful

01:27:26.479 --> 01:27:30.239
women They aren't single, fellas. They're always

01:27:30.239 --> 01:27:32.939
fucking with someone. If you are the rebound,

01:27:33.260 --> 01:27:36.779
they will ghost you once their ex hits them back

01:27:36.779 --> 01:27:40.939
up. This is when they are emotionally unavailable

01:27:40.939 --> 01:27:44.720
for you. Women know in order to get over a man,

01:27:44.899 --> 01:27:48.939
they have to be under another man. That's how

01:27:48.939 --> 01:27:53.039
majority of women operate, fellas. So remain

01:27:53.039 --> 01:27:57.090
the rebound. Don't get attached. By expressing

01:27:57.090 --> 01:28:00.770
your feelings or bringing up a relationship with

01:28:00.770 --> 01:28:03.869
her or bringing up your insecurities. That's

01:28:03.869 --> 01:28:05.670
when you scare them away, fellas. They don't

01:28:05.670 --> 01:28:08.649
want another relationship. They got out of the

01:28:08.649 --> 01:28:13.010
last one to have fun now. They're not going to

01:28:13.010 --> 01:28:15.649
just jump right back into another relationship.

01:28:15.829 --> 01:28:19.750
They are emotionally unavailable for the time

01:28:19.750 --> 01:28:23.180
being. So you guys have to play it cool. And

01:28:23.180 --> 01:28:25.880
just remain the rebound. Have fun with her, fellas.

01:28:25.979 --> 01:28:28.560
If she doesn't bring up a relationship with you,

01:28:28.619 --> 01:28:32.539
you don't fucking bring one up either. I have

01:28:32.539 --> 01:28:35.039
never brought up a relationship with a girl unless

01:28:35.039 --> 01:28:37.840
if she already had a boyfriend and I truly wanted

01:28:37.840 --> 01:28:39.840
to be with her. That's when I would push her

01:28:39.840 --> 01:28:41.859
to leave him and to be with me because I know

01:28:41.859 --> 01:28:44.720
she wanted to be with me as well. She just didn't

01:28:44.720 --> 01:28:47.699
want to be the one that left him without having.

01:28:48.250 --> 01:28:50.909
a rebound like myself, a guarantee, and I gave

01:28:50.909 --> 01:28:53.050
her that guarantee. But that's the only exception,

01:28:53.270 --> 01:28:56.510
fellas, okay? Remain the rebound. Just assume

01:28:56.510 --> 01:29:01.130
that women are dating. They are fucking, fellas.

01:29:01.949 --> 01:29:04.510
I'm telling you, especially in the Western world,

01:29:04.770 --> 01:29:07.529
they are out here doing things that you can't

01:29:07.529 --> 01:29:10.550
even imagine. So be happy you're the rebound.

01:29:10.810 --> 01:29:12.970
Don't get caught up in your feelings and your

01:29:12.970 --> 01:29:16.710
emotions, or else you will lose this girl. OK,

01:29:16.710 --> 01:29:20.369
I'd rather play it cool, enjoy her company, enjoy

01:29:20.369 --> 01:29:23.409
my time with her, have sex here and there, go

01:29:23.409 --> 01:29:25.630
out with her sometimes. And that's it, fellas.

01:29:25.810 --> 01:29:28.310
Right. If she wants a relationship, she'll bring

01:29:28.310 --> 01:29:33.130
that up with me. Yeah, and that's another great

01:29:33.130 --> 01:29:35.289
point of a win -win pullback is if you're asking

01:29:35.289 --> 01:29:38.630
for a relationship before she is, before she's

01:29:38.630 --> 01:29:41.029
ready and all that, I would tell every guy a

01:29:41.029 --> 01:29:44.079
relationship should never be your idea. It should

01:29:44.079 --> 01:29:47.340
be her. What are we? Are we official? Are we

01:29:47.340 --> 01:29:49.739
together? All that. That's her energy. That's

01:29:49.739 --> 01:29:51.319
the feminine energy. That's feminine energy.

01:29:51.439 --> 01:29:54.039
If you're coming in going on one, two, three,

01:29:54.100 --> 01:29:55.720
I don't care how many times you're hanging out

01:29:55.720 --> 01:29:57.640
with the girl and you're asking her, so what

01:29:57.640 --> 01:30:00.340
are we? Are we exclusive? Should I get off my

01:30:00.340 --> 01:30:02.880
dating app? Those questions should never come

01:30:02.880 --> 01:30:05.859
from you as the man. Those should be coming from

01:30:05.859 --> 01:30:09.359
her. Because if you're coming in trying to pressure

01:30:09.359 --> 01:30:11.380
that relationship, that's going to make a woman

01:30:11.380 --> 01:30:14.409
pull back. She's going to go up. Right. I already

01:30:14.409 --> 01:30:16.390
got with this guy. He's telling me he's going

01:30:16.390 --> 01:30:18.750
to be committed to me. I have that commitment

01:30:18.750 --> 01:30:21.590
locked down. Do I really want to get committed

01:30:21.590 --> 01:30:23.890
right now? Let me see what else is up there.

01:30:23.989 --> 01:30:27.310
So always let women come to you with that relationship

01:30:27.310 --> 01:30:30.069
question. What are we? Are we exclusive? That

01:30:30.069 --> 01:30:37.069
should always come from her. Yeah. Me and the

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I think they deserve it. Let's do several more

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for you guys. Bonus. Yeah, we got bonus for you,

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fellas. We love you. Okay, we're doing this on

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want to help you. Adam, do you have another one

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or do you want me to keep going and we can keep

01:33:31.159 --> 01:33:33.420
going? I'll just add on. I'm done with my listed

01:33:33.420 --> 01:33:35.699
ones, but whatever you say, I'm sure I'll be

01:33:35.699 --> 01:33:37.420
able to bounce in for sure. Yeah, because I want

01:33:37.420 --> 01:33:40.380
to make sure we get every point of why a woman

01:33:40.380 --> 01:33:42.039
pulls back. And I think we're going to get all

01:33:42.039 --> 01:33:43.359
of them, fellas. You don't have to listen to

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We got you. Okay. Oh, and one quick one before

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play it back. Okay. If you don't know how to

01:35:11.170 --> 01:35:14.029
play the game, the worst position to be in is

01:35:14.029 --> 01:35:17.050
to have the woman play it for you. That is like

01:35:17.050 --> 01:35:19.409
playing chess handicapped. You're not even starting

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with the queen. OK, you're not going to win majority

01:35:23.449 --> 01:35:26.010
of the time. So you need to be prepared. Put

01:35:26.010 --> 01:35:28.750
on the full armor of game. Let's continue. Bonus,

01:35:28.829 --> 01:35:33.149
Adam. OK, this is a fucking great one. You started

01:35:33.149 --> 01:35:37.729
pursuing her after sex. This used to happen to

01:35:37.729 --> 01:35:41.390
me back in my beta barnacle days right after

01:35:41.390 --> 01:35:44.050
I either hooked up with the girl or I fucked

01:35:44.050 --> 01:35:47.050
the girl. I would be the first one reaching out

01:35:47.050 --> 01:35:50.210
right away. asking to see her again, acting all

01:35:50.210 --> 01:35:53.689
beta, telling her that I had a great time. I

01:35:53.689 --> 01:35:56.390
enjoyed your company. I'm excited to see you

01:35:56.390 --> 01:35:59.229
the next time. Have a great night, sweetie. I

01:35:59.229 --> 01:36:01.729
hope you think about me. Oh, I miss you, babe.

01:36:01.850 --> 01:36:03.829
When are we going to get married? I want three

01:36:03.829 --> 01:36:07.029
kids. How many do you want, babe? Beta shit.

01:36:07.250 --> 01:36:10.229
Just because she sleeps with you, you got to

01:36:10.229 --> 01:36:13.130
act as if you've done this plenty of times with

01:36:13.130 --> 01:36:16.609
women before. You act alpha. You play it cool.

01:36:17.130 --> 01:36:19.189
I would be the first one always reaching out

01:36:19.189 --> 01:36:21.770
to see her again acting beta. Once you fuck a

01:36:21.770 --> 01:36:25.149
girl, she has to chase you now, fellas. Okay?

01:36:25.770 --> 01:36:30.770
Men pursue up until the point when sexual intercourse

01:36:30.770 --> 01:36:34.890
has happened. That is my opinion. That is my

01:36:34.890 --> 01:36:37.609
belief. That's how the alphas did it back since

01:36:37.609 --> 01:36:40.270
the dawn of time. They would pursue a beautiful

01:36:40.270 --> 01:36:43.449
woman until they slept with her. Now the woman

01:36:43.449 --> 01:36:47.579
chases the man. She has to hit you up first.

01:36:47.720 --> 01:36:52.520
Now, this does several things, fellas. If a woman

01:36:52.520 --> 01:36:55.180
doesn't even bother hitting you up after you

01:36:55.180 --> 01:36:58.939
slept with her, that's all she wanted. And guess

01:36:58.939 --> 01:37:03.380
what? She is used to doing that because a high

01:37:03.380 --> 01:37:06.720
quality feminine woman, after she sleeps with

01:37:06.720 --> 01:37:10.239
a man, it doesn't sit right in her stomach to

01:37:10.239 --> 01:37:13.810
never contact that man ever again. They have

01:37:13.810 --> 01:37:16.869
this guilty conscious they go through. Whether

01:37:16.869 --> 01:37:19.569
it takes a week, two weeks, they will reach out

01:37:19.569 --> 01:37:24.170
to you. They want to see you again. If they don't,

01:37:24.170 --> 01:37:27.369
this is how I know that girl only wanted a one

01:37:27.369 --> 01:37:30.210
night stand. That's it. She's used to doing that.

01:37:30.529 --> 01:37:36.189
Why would I invest any of my time and or money

01:37:36.189 --> 01:37:40.689
on this girl, fellas? That is a waste of money.

01:37:41.100 --> 01:37:44.140
That is a waste of time. When a girl hits me

01:37:44.140 --> 01:37:47.220
up after I've slept with her, this shows me that

01:37:47.220 --> 01:37:50.539
she has high interest in me. She wants to see

01:37:50.539 --> 01:37:54.039
me again. She enjoyed my company. Maybe she wants

01:37:54.039 --> 01:37:56.899
something more with me. What does that tell me?

01:37:57.260 --> 01:38:00.100
Okay, I can spend a little bit more money on

01:38:00.100 --> 01:38:03.739
her. I can invest more of my time in seeing her.

01:38:03.920 --> 01:38:07.220
I know this girl's interested. I'll show her

01:38:07.220 --> 01:38:09.880
my appreciation. I'm going to take her out again.

01:38:09.920 --> 01:38:11.859
We're going to go out to a nice dinner this time

01:38:11.859 --> 01:38:14.380
because she earned it after she slept with me.

01:38:15.039 --> 01:38:18.520
Once again, everything has to be earned with

01:38:18.520 --> 01:38:21.579
a woman. Once they sleep with you fellas and

01:38:21.579 --> 01:38:24.640
she reaches out to you, set up the second date.

01:38:25.100 --> 01:38:27.020
Hey, listen, I'd like to take you out to dinner.

01:38:27.119 --> 01:38:29.960
I think you earned it. Boom. When you say that

01:38:29.960 --> 01:38:32.439
to a girl, I'd like to take you out to a nice

01:38:32.439 --> 01:38:35.340
dinner. I think you earned it. That means so

01:38:35.340 --> 01:38:38.319
much more to her, fella. She appreciates it.

01:38:39.060 --> 01:38:42.060
That's how you get a woman to fall in love with

01:38:42.060 --> 01:38:45.640
you when everything you do for her is earned,

01:38:45.920 --> 01:38:49.319
okay? But a good quality girl, she will always

01:38:49.319 --> 01:38:52.279
reach out to you. If she doesn't even bother

01:38:52.279 --> 01:38:56.100
reaching out to you after you got her when she

01:38:56.100 --> 01:38:59.380
was at her most vulnerable, a woman is at her

01:38:59.380 --> 01:39:02.819
most vulnerable when she sleeps with a man. That's

01:39:02.819 --> 01:39:05.340
how they express themselves via vulnerability,

01:39:05.439 --> 01:39:08.600
via sex. If she doesn't bother reaching out to

01:39:08.600 --> 01:39:11.520
you, guess what? Either you were horrible in

01:39:11.520 --> 01:39:13.920
bed or you did something to creep her out, or

01:39:13.920 --> 01:39:16.920
either she has a boyfriend, she could be married,

01:39:17.079 --> 01:39:21.380
or she could be a thot, a promiscuous woman who's

01:39:21.380 --> 01:39:24.899
used to doing this. It's your call, fellas. But

01:39:24.899 --> 01:39:27.560
this has never failed me. The girls that only

01:39:27.560 --> 01:39:30.000
wanted a one -night stand. I'm telling you, when

01:39:30.000 --> 01:39:32.899
they never reached out to me again and then I

01:39:32.899 --> 01:39:35.579
tried reaching out to them, I never saw them

01:39:35.579 --> 01:39:38.159
again. And that's when I knew, okay, now I know

01:39:38.159 --> 01:39:41.239
this is what those types of girls only wanted.

01:39:41.319 --> 01:39:44.779
And I'm cool with that. Yeah, I'm going to take

01:39:44.779 --> 01:39:46.659
this a step further too for a lot of guys that

01:39:46.659 --> 01:39:49.119
are going on dates or whatnot and not getting

01:39:49.119 --> 01:39:51.859
back to the bedroom or whatnot. And this one

01:39:51.859 --> 01:39:55.159
was harder for me to put into practice and kind

01:39:55.159 --> 01:40:01.619
of embody. is after a date too, I'm not reaching

01:40:01.619 --> 01:40:04.439
out to a girl. If we went on a date, I'm not

01:40:04.439 --> 01:40:06.319
reaching out to her and saying, hey, I had a

01:40:06.319 --> 01:40:09.359
great time tonight. I hope you did. You're a

01:40:09.359 --> 01:40:12.060
great, I'm not reaching out to her. I expect

01:40:12.060 --> 01:40:14.500
that the woman will reach out to me that night

01:40:14.500 --> 01:40:17.739
or the next morning. And if she doesn't reach

01:40:17.739 --> 01:40:19.899
out to you the next morning, right, without you

01:40:19.899 --> 01:40:23.260
initiating it, in my eyes, she probably wasn't

01:40:23.260 --> 01:40:25.439
interested. And that's cool. You're not gonna

01:40:25.439 --> 01:40:30.890
be everyone's cup of tea. But most guys, most

01:40:30.890 --> 01:40:34.369
guys go, hey, well, we just had a date. I got

01:40:34.369 --> 01:40:36.050
to reach out to her, make sure she got home safe

01:40:36.050 --> 01:40:39.130
and all that. It's like, yeah, OK, but you you

01:40:39.130 --> 01:40:42.130
it takes two to tango. She you went on that date

01:40:42.130 --> 01:40:44.229
with her. So why is she not reaching out to you?

01:40:44.369 --> 01:40:46.550
And it goes back to those dynamics of her chasing.

01:40:46.810 --> 01:40:49.829
So I know that one's kind of a hard one for guys

01:40:49.829 --> 01:40:52.369
to do. It's like we're taught to be a gentleman

01:40:52.369 --> 01:40:55.029
and all that. But if you build this all up the

01:40:55.029 --> 01:40:57.340
right way anyway, where you're. displaying yourself

01:40:57.340 --> 01:41:00.279
as a busy guy you're not always available to

01:41:00.279 --> 01:41:02.579
her you got things going on in her life it will

01:41:02.579 --> 01:41:04.779
be congruent and it will make sense that you're

01:41:04.779 --> 01:41:07.140
not thinking oh it slipped my mind to reach out

01:41:07.140 --> 01:41:09.399
to her afterwards and again you're also getting

01:41:09.399 --> 01:41:12.239
interest revealed from her when she's coming

01:41:12.239 --> 01:41:14.840
out to you and going hey i had such a great time

01:41:14.840 --> 01:41:17.319
last night blah blah blah i hope we can do it

01:41:17.319 --> 01:41:19.979
again right that's again what you want her to

01:41:19.979 --> 01:41:21.760
be sending but if you're sending that to her

01:41:21.760 --> 01:41:24.500
right away now she knows where you stand and

01:41:24.500 --> 01:41:27.210
now she decides whether Oh, maybe I wasn't feeling

01:41:27.210 --> 01:41:28.909
it. Maybe I don't want to be with this guy. So

01:41:28.909 --> 01:41:31.250
that's a rule that I always have. I don't reach

01:41:31.250 --> 01:41:34.590
out to a girl after a date. I'm expecting that

01:41:34.590 --> 01:41:36.710
she's reaching out to me. Do I get mad if she

01:41:36.710 --> 01:41:38.930
doesn't reach out to me? Of course not. I'm just

01:41:38.930 --> 01:41:41.550
like, hey, it wasn't there. That's fine. But

01:41:41.550 --> 01:41:44.229
a lot of guys are always going to go, well, I

01:41:44.229 --> 01:41:46.289
just had fun with her. I want to hear from her

01:41:46.289 --> 01:41:48.210
again. So it's almost an excuse you give yourself

01:41:48.210 --> 01:41:50.149
to be like, well, I'm just checking in to be

01:41:50.149 --> 01:41:53.250
safe. It's like, well, is that really what you're

01:41:53.250 --> 01:41:55.870
doing? Or were you looking for a little? subconscious

01:41:55.870 --> 01:41:58.869
validation that she might still like you so that's

01:41:58.869 --> 01:42:01.590
another reason too it shows that strength when

01:42:01.590 --> 01:42:03.510
you just left her and you're not just all the

01:42:03.510 --> 01:42:05.529
already fumbling over your phone to be like hey

01:42:05.529 --> 01:42:07.789
i had a great night hope you get home safe and

01:42:07.789 --> 01:42:10.329
all that right i want her to reach out to me

01:42:10.329 --> 01:42:13.170
first after a date or after we're hanging out

01:42:13.170 --> 01:42:15.630
yeah let me tell you guys something i'm sure

01:42:15.630 --> 01:42:18.689
adam has experienced this as well i've tried

01:42:18.689 --> 01:42:23.579
doing both fellas back in my beta days I always

01:42:23.579 --> 01:42:26.079
tried the, oh, I hope you make it home safely

01:42:26.079 --> 01:42:29.279
text. Oh, I can't wait to see you again text.

01:42:29.579 --> 01:42:32.600
Oh, when can I see you again? How about this

01:42:32.600 --> 01:42:35.779
week? I hope you have a great night. I really

01:42:35.779 --> 01:42:39.119
enjoyed your company. I hope you had fun. Let

01:42:39.119 --> 01:42:42.779
me tell you something, fellas. That shit got

01:42:42.779 --> 01:42:46.560
me nowhere except chronic masturbation. That

01:42:46.560 --> 01:42:49.949
is it. I never fucking saw those girls again.

01:42:50.029 --> 01:42:52.670
And you guys still won't believe us. You guys

01:42:52.670 --> 01:42:54.829
still won't fucking believe us. And you will

01:42:54.829 --> 01:42:57.949
take the advice of other women or these female

01:42:57.949 --> 01:43:01.010
dating coaches or these guys that have no idea

01:43:01.010 --> 01:43:03.529
what they're talking about. This all comes from

01:43:03.529 --> 01:43:07.109
experience. And then I've tried the advice that

01:43:07.109 --> 01:43:10.310
Adam's giving you. Do not reach out within that

01:43:10.310 --> 01:43:13.630
entire week. Let her reach out to you. If your

01:43:13.630 --> 01:43:16.229
game is tight enough and you know the value that

01:43:16.229 --> 01:43:19.020
you bring. She will reach out to you, fellas.

01:43:19.720 --> 01:43:22.600
But most of these women take the advice, and

01:43:22.600 --> 01:43:24.640
I've posted videos about this as well. Wait a

01:43:24.640 --> 01:43:27.020
week, right? Don't reach out to her. And then

01:43:27.020 --> 01:43:29.279
girls will comment, oh, if a guy doesn't reach

01:43:29.279 --> 01:43:31.340
out to me, I'm just moving on and I'm done with

01:43:31.340 --> 01:43:33.800
him. No, you won't. Because if you were really

01:43:33.800 --> 01:43:36.319
that attracted to him, you're not going to just

01:43:36.319 --> 01:43:38.880
let that guy go. You're going to get pissed off

01:43:38.880 --> 01:43:42.159
a little bit. And you're in their mind that entire

01:43:42.159 --> 01:43:43.920
week when I'm not reaching out. You know what's

01:43:43.920 --> 01:43:46.520
going through a woman's mind? Did he like me?

01:43:46.829 --> 01:43:49.670
Was it something I said? Why isn't he reaching

01:43:49.670 --> 01:43:52.289
out to me? Every guy hits me up after our date.

01:43:52.569 --> 01:43:55.289
Maybe was it the way I look? Was my makeup not

01:43:55.289 --> 01:43:57.850
done correctly? What could I have done to make

01:43:57.850 --> 01:44:00.689
him lose attraction for me? These are the thoughts

01:44:00.689 --> 01:44:03.310
that you want going through a woman's fucking

01:44:03.310 --> 01:44:08.189
mind, fellas. Stop being a beta male simp and

01:44:08.189 --> 01:44:12.329
listening to bullshit advice because I have been

01:44:12.329 --> 01:44:15.409
there. It never worked for me, fellas. If it

01:44:15.409 --> 01:44:18.149
didn't work for me, a guy like me, blue eyes,

01:44:18.369 --> 01:44:21.369
jacked as a motherfucker, you think it's going

01:44:21.369 --> 01:44:23.989
to work with you. You think you're that special.

01:44:24.430 --> 01:44:26.750
Go ahead and try it. You don't have to take our

01:44:26.750 --> 01:44:29.189
advice. If you guys can't wait a week or you're

01:44:29.189 --> 01:44:30.770
just like, oh, fuck what they're talking about,

01:44:30.930 --> 01:44:33.229
I'm going to reach out to her and I don't want

01:44:33.229 --> 01:44:36.449
to lose her. If you are too scared to lose a

01:44:36.449 --> 01:44:40.020
fucking girl, fellas, you already lost her. You

01:44:40.020 --> 01:44:43.039
already fucking lost her. I have never lost a

01:44:43.039 --> 01:44:47.079
girl that I was never scared of losing. That

01:44:47.079 --> 01:44:50.520
was my attitude. That is still my attitude. But

01:44:50.520 --> 01:44:54.119
if she doesn't reach out within that week, what

01:44:54.119 --> 01:44:58.100
I will do personally now is FaceTime her. I'll

01:44:58.100 --> 01:45:01.340
call her. I'll FaceTime her. Reignite the attraction.

01:45:01.720 --> 01:45:05.460
See how she's feeling. Because some women will

01:45:05.460 --> 01:45:09.010
play that game. I will set up the second date.

01:45:09.050 --> 01:45:13.090
I'll see if she bites. Based off her energy level,

01:45:13.270 --> 01:45:17.090
I can tell if I'm wasting my time or not. That's

01:45:17.090 --> 01:45:21.010
when I will finally OTN onto the next one. I

01:45:21.010 --> 01:45:23.210
will move on. I'll never hit her up ever again,

01:45:23.310 --> 01:45:27.810
fellas. But sometimes women will play the game

01:45:27.810 --> 01:45:31.930
or they just have a plethora of men they are

01:45:31.930 --> 01:45:35.350
going out with and fucking with. But it doesn't

01:45:35.350 --> 01:45:38.970
hurt to try. one more time. I'm not telling you

01:45:38.970 --> 01:45:42.189
to chase her. Wait a week so she's thinking about

01:45:42.189 --> 01:45:45.430
you. And then when you finally call her, don't

01:45:45.430 --> 01:45:47.989
text her. You call her or FaceTime her. Watch

01:45:47.989 --> 01:45:53.130
how excited she is to answer. That's the position

01:45:53.130 --> 01:45:56.689
I want you guys to be in. Another part of this

01:45:56.689 --> 01:45:59.390
too, right? If you're doing these things right,

01:45:59.470 --> 01:46:01.890
like we talked about with conversations, getting

01:46:01.890 --> 01:46:04.329
on the date, you're letting her talk at least

01:46:04.329 --> 01:46:07.340
90 % of the time. And you're more asking questions,

01:46:07.460 --> 01:46:10.659
probing deeper, being curious with her. Another

01:46:10.659 --> 01:46:12.899
thing that will go through her mind is a lot

01:46:12.899 --> 01:46:15.659
of girls will go home and go, that was a great

01:46:15.659 --> 01:46:18.279
day. I feel like I'm so understood, right? Because

01:46:18.279 --> 01:46:19.579
you're just sitting there listening and she's

01:46:19.579 --> 01:46:22.159
blabbing and she's feeling all connected. And

01:46:22.159 --> 01:46:24.380
she might even go at the end of the night, go,

01:46:24.500 --> 01:46:26.340
oh, he'll text me like every other guy does.

01:46:26.560 --> 01:46:28.960
And then the next day we don't text her. What

01:46:28.960 --> 01:46:30.859
goes through her mind then is she starts replaying

01:46:30.859 --> 01:46:33.319
the date and she goes, wow, I really don't know

01:46:33.319 --> 01:46:34.720
much about him. And then she'll start going.

01:46:35.310 --> 01:46:37.850
oh my gosh, I feel like maybe I talked the whole

01:46:37.850 --> 01:46:41.050
date and now she starts feeling bad. Like maybe

01:46:41.050 --> 01:46:42.949
you're just bored. I just blabbed the whole time.

01:46:42.970 --> 01:46:44.970
And now she's reaching out, apologizing. Hey,

01:46:45.069 --> 01:46:47.069
I talked, you know, all about myself and the

01:46:47.069 --> 01:46:49.529
date. I'm sorry. I had a great time. Boom, boom,

01:46:49.550 --> 01:46:52.510
boom. But either way you kind of look at it,

01:46:52.529 --> 01:46:54.850
when you give her that time to wonder and replay

01:46:54.850 --> 01:46:57.710
the date, if she's interested, she should be

01:46:57.710 --> 01:46:59.729
reaching out. If she's interested, she should

01:46:59.729 --> 01:47:02.630
be reaching out. And especially if you're doing

01:47:02.630 --> 01:47:05.000
these other things, right? Like being that busy

01:47:05.000 --> 01:47:07.560
guy, not texting her back all the time and asking

01:47:07.560 --> 01:47:09.819
a lot of questions or letting her do all the

01:47:09.819 --> 01:47:12.680
talking on the date, then she'll start to go,

01:47:12.800 --> 01:47:15.420
wow, that date was different than most guys.

01:47:15.500 --> 01:47:19.039
Because if I had the number one complaint that

01:47:19.039 --> 01:47:21.640
women tell me on a first date of how they're

01:47:21.640 --> 01:47:23.359
so bored and how they never want to see a guy

01:47:23.359 --> 01:47:26.100
again, it's not that the guy was super awkward

01:47:26.100 --> 01:47:28.659
necessarily. Yeah, that can happen or whatever.

01:47:28.779 --> 01:47:31.100
And he was sweating. Sometimes girls think, sometimes

01:47:31.100 --> 01:47:34.500
women think that's kind of cute, but. It's always

01:47:34.500 --> 01:47:37.020
girls telling me that this guy wouldn't shut

01:47:37.020 --> 01:47:38.859
up. He never asked about me. He told me about

01:47:38.859 --> 01:47:41.100
his job. He told me he goes to the gym all the

01:47:41.100 --> 01:47:42.840
time. He told me about this. I learned his whole

01:47:42.840 --> 01:47:45.119
workout routine. And she's like, it was so boring.

01:47:45.220 --> 01:47:47.880
He never let me talk. He never asked. And because

01:47:47.880 --> 01:47:51.039
girls are typically good conversationalists in

01:47:51.039 --> 01:47:52.739
a sense, because they're always talking with

01:47:52.739 --> 01:47:54.319
their girlfriends, they're going on a lot of

01:47:54.319 --> 01:47:56.859
dates. A lot of girls, if there's a guy across

01:47:56.859 --> 01:47:59.119
from them at the table. They're good at asking

01:47:59.119 --> 01:48:02.760
questions, but they hope they hope like any good

01:48:02.760 --> 01:48:05.279
conversationalist that that person won't blab

01:48:05.279 --> 01:48:07.500
the whole time. They hope that that person will

01:48:07.500 --> 01:48:09.819
let them do the talking. But a lot of women have

01:48:09.819 --> 01:48:12.899
to almost run the dates and do all the talking

01:48:12.899 --> 01:48:15.640
and ask all the questions to keep the date going

01:48:15.640 --> 01:48:18.119
now. And then the guy on the other side, if he's

01:48:18.119 --> 01:48:21.720
clueless, he's blabbing on and on and on, telling

01:48:21.720 --> 01:48:23.739
her all these stories and everything he does.

01:48:23.859 --> 01:48:27.020
And she's just like, I'm not invested at all.

01:48:27.359 --> 01:48:29.479
he didn't care about me he didn't ask about me

01:48:29.479 --> 01:48:32.520
he doesn't know anything about me now so there's

01:48:32.520 --> 01:48:38.020
there's a big difference there on on uh yeah

01:48:38.020 --> 01:48:40.939
on when you're going to get that that but again

01:48:40.939 --> 01:48:44.520
it goes back to i do expect her to reach out

01:48:44.520 --> 01:48:48.619
but doing these other things correctly will help

01:48:48.619 --> 01:48:52.699
make that happen much more much sooner and a

01:48:52.699 --> 01:48:54.899
much more receptive for the women on the other

01:48:54.899 --> 01:48:59.420
end I love that, Adam. Exactly right. And I'm

01:48:59.420 --> 01:49:01.619
sure your game is just as tight as mine is, where

01:49:01.619 --> 01:49:04.380
I know once I seal that first date, we're out.

01:49:04.460 --> 01:49:07.899
They always hit me up. I want your game to be

01:49:07.899 --> 01:49:09.979
that tight, fellas. If you're not there yet,

01:49:10.039 --> 01:49:13.600
you will get there. Playful, charming, cocky

01:49:13.600 --> 01:49:16.420
and funny. Interact with the cute bartender in

01:49:16.420 --> 01:49:18.659
front of her. Interact with the cute waitresses

01:49:18.659 --> 01:49:21.500
in front of her. Show her that other people respect

01:49:21.500 --> 01:49:24.539
you, that other women love you. That's the quickest

01:49:24.539 --> 01:49:27.399
way. To get a woman attracted to you. When you're

01:49:27.399 --> 01:49:30.960
interacting with the people around you. Cocky

01:49:30.960 --> 01:49:33.100
and funny. Masculine energy. Don't be afraid

01:49:33.100 --> 01:49:37.199
to tease her. Have interesting stories. Play

01:49:37.199 --> 01:49:39.899
some psychological games with her. Cold read

01:49:39.899 --> 01:49:43.680
her. Okay. But at the end of the night. The only

01:49:43.680 --> 01:49:45.840
text I will send them Adam. And I might even

01:49:45.840 --> 01:49:49.000
say this to them in person. So at the end of

01:49:49.000 --> 01:49:51.850
the date. I'll ask them to come over. Sometimes

01:49:51.850 --> 01:49:53.890
they will. Other times they're reluctant. They

01:49:53.890 --> 01:49:55.630
don't want to seem easy. They'll play hard to

01:49:55.630 --> 01:49:57.909
get. If a girl doesn't want to come over, just

01:49:57.909 --> 01:50:00.750
say, okay, cool. No problem. Don't push it, fellas.

01:50:00.890 --> 01:50:03.329
You're going to seem needy. That's very insecure.

01:50:03.510 --> 01:50:06.489
That's very unattractive, right? But give them

01:50:06.489 --> 01:50:10.729
a reason why you want them to come over. Psychologically,

01:50:10.930 --> 01:50:14.850
a woman is 70 % more likely to comply if you

01:50:14.850 --> 01:50:17.369
give her a reason. I'll give you an example.

01:50:18.000 --> 01:50:20.140
Hey, listen, I really enjoyed our company tonight.

01:50:20.220 --> 01:50:21.920
Why don't you come over? Because I want to have

01:50:21.920 --> 01:50:24.239
a glass of wine with you. Why don't you come

01:50:24.239 --> 01:50:26.000
over? Because I want to watch this scary movie

01:50:26.000 --> 01:50:28.159
with you. I saw on Netflix. Why don't you come

01:50:28.159 --> 01:50:30.800
over? Whatever. Because I want to play checkers

01:50:30.800 --> 01:50:32.500
with you. I want to, I don't know, play naked

01:50:32.500 --> 01:50:34.720
twister. Don't say that, but say something, fellas.

01:50:35.060 --> 01:50:37.619
Have that word because in there. Give them a

01:50:37.619 --> 01:50:40.260
reason. Don't just say, oh, come over my place.

01:50:40.520 --> 01:50:42.800
Or, oh, I want you to come back to my place.

01:50:43.359 --> 01:50:45.760
They're going to have their guard up. Majority

01:50:45.760 --> 01:50:47.979
of women are going to say no. Right. Even if

01:50:47.979 --> 01:50:50.739
they say no or they come over, this is what I

01:50:50.739 --> 01:50:54.880
text them. Send me nudes when you get home so

01:50:54.880 --> 01:50:58.420
I know you made it home safely. It's cocky. It's

01:50:58.420 --> 01:51:00.859
funny. It's alpha. I just literally took what

01:51:00.859 --> 01:51:03.479
the beta males like myself used to say. Text

01:51:03.479 --> 01:51:05.159
me when you get home so I know you made it home

01:51:05.159 --> 01:51:08.760
safely and spun it around. Send me nudes when

01:51:08.760 --> 01:51:10.640
you get home so I know you made it home safely

01:51:10.640 --> 01:51:13.949
with a wink face. OK, I'll even tell them this

01:51:13.949 --> 01:51:15.289
at the end of the night if they don't want to

01:51:15.289 --> 01:51:17.869
come over and then I'll grab their ass as I say

01:51:17.869 --> 01:51:20.449
goodbye to them. They love it. But fellas, remember,

01:51:20.689 --> 01:51:23.949
you need to have the attitude to back that up.

01:51:24.250 --> 01:51:27.510
Don't just be the beta male. Nice guy who's passive,

01:51:27.750 --> 01:51:31.270
who's boring, who has no like it factor to him,

01:51:31.329 --> 01:51:33.329
who doesn't make bold statements. If you say

01:51:33.329 --> 01:51:34.930
that shit, they're going to look at you like

01:51:34.930 --> 01:51:38.130
you're Joe Biden. Like, oh, like, what the fuck?

01:51:38.829 --> 01:51:41.229
But when I say it with my attitude, these girls

01:51:41.229 --> 01:51:43.890
always laugh. Not that I want a naked picture

01:51:43.890 --> 01:51:45.930
from them, Adam. Obviously, I don't give a fuck.

01:51:45.949 --> 01:51:48.590
But it separates me from the beta males. And

01:51:48.590 --> 01:51:51.470
sometimes they actually will send you nudes when

01:51:51.470 --> 01:51:53.590
they get home, even though you didn't want them.

01:51:54.050 --> 01:51:59.409
Right? So it's a win -win. Okay. So next one.

01:52:00.189 --> 01:52:04.489
We talked about you pursuing her after sex. She

01:52:04.489 --> 01:52:07.340
got bored. This is a big one, Adam, right? We

01:52:07.340 --> 01:52:09.920
always say women are similar to cats. When they

01:52:09.920 --> 01:52:12.800
get bored, they go seeking new adventures with

01:52:12.800 --> 01:52:16.159
their curiosities. So the second most unattractive

01:52:16.159 --> 01:52:20.659
quality in a man is being too boring after displaying

01:52:20.659 --> 01:52:24.529
neediness. Neediness was number one. being too

01:52:24.529 --> 01:52:27.170
boring is number two being too predictable is

01:52:27.170 --> 01:52:29.670
number three and they can go hand in hand so

01:52:29.670 --> 01:52:32.170
you always have to engage in fun conversations

01:52:32.170 --> 01:52:35.890
with her where you're engaging with her emotionally

01:52:35.890 --> 01:52:38.810
right and that can be saved for another podcast

01:52:38.810 --> 01:52:43.029
but you're not discussing mundane boring topics

01:52:43.029 --> 01:52:46.250
with her fellas okay you're not sending her funny

01:52:46.250 --> 01:52:48.930
videos from tick tock or instagram reels all

01:52:48.930 --> 01:52:51.829
the time that gets boring fellas don't do that

01:52:52.140 --> 01:52:55.020
Because then that's all those are the only messages

01:52:55.020 --> 01:52:57.399
you guys will be sending one another. Right.

01:52:57.779 --> 01:53:00.579
Stop sending her long paragraphs that become

01:53:00.579 --> 01:53:03.779
tedious to read over time. It becomes boring,

01:53:03.899 --> 01:53:06.859
fellas. You keep the spark going with women.

01:53:06.960 --> 01:53:10.680
This is why I tell you to only see her once a

01:53:10.680 --> 01:53:14.039
week. This way, it's harder for her to get bored

01:53:14.039 --> 01:53:16.680
with you. You do not reveal too much about your

01:53:16.680 --> 01:53:19.199
day to what you've been up to. Keep it vague

01:53:19.199 --> 01:53:22.659
and create an air of mystery. Keep it at once

01:53:22.659 --> 01:53:25.560
a week, fellas. I don't care if this girl wants

01:53:25.560 --> 01:53:28.020
to see you two days in a row or three times in

01:53:28.020 --> 01:53:30.340
one week. Nope, you're busy. You got shit to

01:53:30.340 --> 01:53:33.079
do. This is how they seek your validation. This

01:53:33.079 --> 01:53:35.859
is how you remain a mystery. This is how you

01:53:35.859 --> 01:53:38.470
do not become too boring to her because. She's

01:53:38.470 --> 01:53:40.350
still trying to figure you out what you've been

01:53:40.350 --> 01:53:43.390
doing all week, your entire day. They want to

01:53:43.390 --> 01:53:45.449
know these things. So you have interesting things

01:53:45.449 --> 01:53:49.970
to talk about with their fellas. Yeah, with the

01:53:49.970 --> 01:53:54.010
boring one, I and I think it is really good hand

01:53:54.010 --> 01:53:56.689
in hand with just predictable because boring

01:53:56.689 --> 01:53:59.569
is a little bit harder to grasp sometimes. But

01:53:59.569 --> 01:54:04.130
predictability is easy. Like if if she knows

01:54:04.130 --> 01:54:06.770
that when she texts you, you're going to respond

01:54:06.770 --> 01:54:09.949
within 10 minutes. That's boring. It's predictable.

01:54:10.829 --> 01:54:14.090
Predictability becomes very boring. If she knows

01:54:14.090 --> 01:54:16.149
when she asks how your day was and you say the

01:54:16.149 --> 01:54:18.630
same thing every time, it becomes boring and

01:54:18.630 --> 01:54:23.229
predictable. So a good way just to become unpredictable

01:54:23.229 --> 01:54:25.909
is always with following the mirror texting,

01:54:26.069 --> 01:54:28.689
right? If she's taking three hours, you're taking

01:54:28.689 --> 01:54:31.470
at least three hours and not necessarily right

01:54:31.470 --> 01:54:34.119
on the dot. where every 15 minutes and now you're

01:54:34.119 --> 01:54:36.020
15 minutes because that becomes in a sense that

01:54:36.020 --> 01:54:38.359
pattern is predictable but when you use that

01:54:38.359 --> 01:54:42.340
as a baseline she took 15 minutes now i got 15

01:54:42.340 --> 01:54:44.420
minutes where i cannot text her back and now

01:54:44.420 --> 01:54:45.739
you're doing your own thing you're losing track

01:54:45.739 --> 01:54:47.340
of time and maybe you're texting her back two

01:54:47.340 --> 01:54:50.520
and a half hours later but the point is she doesn't

01:54:50.520 --> 01:54:52.680
know it's not predictable anymore when she's

01:54:52.680 --> 01:54:55.239
going to hear from you it's not predictable of

01:54:55.239 --> 01:54:58.500
the every time she reaches out to you she's going

01:54:58.500 --> 01:55:00.319
to get a response or she's going to get a quick

01:55:00.319 --> 01:55:03.220
response. Same thing is if she tries to ask you

01:55:03.220 --> 01:55:06.380
to hang out every day, it becomes predictable

01:55:06.380 --> 01:55:08.600
if you're always like, yeah, I can hang out today

01:55:08.600 --> 01:55:12.760
versus, oh, Thursday's no good for me. Friday's

01:55:12.760 --> 01:55:15.699
no good for me. I got plans. How about boom?

01:55:15.939 --> 01:55:19.399
Or what's next week look like for you? Something

01:55:19.399 --> 01:55:23.239
like that. But when it becomes a pattern that

01:55:23.239 --> 01:55:25.840
she can recognize, that becomes predictable and

01:55:25.840 --> 01:55:29.159
boring for women. Yes, be spontaneous. Find a

01:55:29.159 --> 01:55:31.720
way to break those patterns. If you text her

01:55:31.720 --> 01:55:34.739
good morning every fucking morning, that is predictable,

01:55:34.920 --> 01:55:37.420
fellas. She knows what's going to happen before

01:55:37.420 --> 01:55:40.840
it happens. She knows what's going to come out

01:55:40.840 --> 01:55:43.479
of your fucking mouth before you say it. That's

01:55:43.479 --> 01:55:46.239
being predictable. She knows too much about you.

01:55:46.260 --> 01:55:48.560
You guys are boring, being mundane. I like to

01:55:48.560 --> 01:55:50.840
be spontaneous. They don't know what's going

01:55:50.840 --> 01:55:52.579
to come out of my mouth. They don't know when

01:55:52.579 --> 01:55:54.039
I'm going to text them back. They don't even

01:55:54.039 --> 01:55:56.239
know what I'm going to text them. but they're

01:55:56.239 --> 01:55:59.779
always engaged, right? Imagine you playing chess

01:55:59.779 --> 01:56:04.779
with another player, and they are so predictable.

01:56:04.840 --> 01:56:07.460
You know their every move already. Is that game

01:56:07.460 --> 01:56:09.359
going to be interesting over time? You're like,

01:56:09.420 --> 01:56:12.699
okay, I've seen that, seen this. Boring? No.

01:56:12.920 --> 01:56:14.880
I want to play against the guy that's spontaneous.

01:56:15.100 --> 01:56:17.600
Wow, I've never seen this move before. Holy shit,

01:56:17.619 --> 01:56:19.319
I've never seen that tactic. What do I do here?

01:56:19.539 --> 01:56:21.539
That's how you keep them on their toes, fellas.

01:56:22.279 --> 01:56:24.399
like we're teaching you this shit so you better

01:56:24.399 --> 01:56:27.100
be soaking up the game right now okay we're also

01:56:27.100 --> 01:56:29.979
going to go over how to handle the pullback we're

01:56:29.979 --> 01:56:31.340
not going to just give you problems we're going

01:56:31.340 --> 01:56:33.859
to go over the solutions right adam how do you

01:56:33.859 --> 01:56:36.520
handle the pullback okay because that's very

01:56:36.520 --> 01:56:38.859
important right and the last thing i want to

01:56:38.859 --> 01:56:41.760
go over before i forget is the availability trap

01:56:41.760 --> 01:56:45.279
they will pull back with the availability trap

01:56:45.279 --> 01:56:49.489
i will give you two instances right This girl

01:56:49.489 --> 01:56:51.869
in college, beautiful, slamming body, the one

01:56:51.869 --> 01:56:53.909
I told you about that had a boyfriend for five

01:56:53.909 --> 01:56:56.369
years. I write about her in my e -books as well

01:56:56.369 --> 01:56:58.149
because you can learn a lot of game from that.

01:56:58.770 --> 01:57:03.590
So we had the same class together. And on the

01:57:03.590 --> 01:57:05.710
way to school was on the way to my place, so

01:57:05.710 --> 01:57:08.130
it was perfect, right? When I was off and she

01:57:08.130 --> 01:57:10.750
had class, she would stop by my place before

01:57:10.750 --> 01:57:12.569
she went to school. Her boyfriend didn't know,

01:57:12.649 --> 01:57:15.149
thank God, right? He lived further away. But

01:57:15.149 --> 01:57:18.140
it was convenient. He never found out. She came

01:57:18.140 --> 01:57:21.899
over my place, okay? The first time we're in

01:57:21.899 --> 01:57:23.720
the backyard, we're hooking up, we're making

01:57:23.720 --> 01:57:27.279
out. I could tell she's very attracted to me,

01:57:27.319 --> 01:57:29.560
highly attracted to me, fellas. And you're going

01:57:29.560 --> 01:57:31.180
to learn something with feminine women. This

01:57:31.180 --> 01:57:33.939
is very important. I told her to come inside.

01:57:34.939 --> 01:57:37.380
She was reluctant. She said no. She didn't want

01:57:37.380 --> 01:57:39.789
to do it. But I knew she wanted me. I knew she

01:57:39.789 --> 01:57:41.810
wanted to have sex. I played it cool. I said,

01:57:41.850 --> 01:57:44.010
okay, cool. No problem. We still began making

01:57:44.010 --> 01:57:46.229
out, hugging. I was grabbing her ass, being sexual.

01:57:46.510 --> 01:57:49.510
The next time she comes over, I said, you know

01:57:49.510 --> 01:57:51.010
what? Fuck this. I'm not going to tell her to

01:57:51.010 --> 01:57:54.449
come inside anymore. I grabbed her by the hand

01:57:54.449 --> 01:57:57.229
and I just told her, follow me. Why? Because

01:57:57.229 --> 01:58:00.649
feminine women love to be led, Adam, right? If

01:58:00.649 --> 01:58:02.329
you tell them, oh, come inside, they're going

01:58:02.329 --> 01:58:03.930
to have their guard up. Feminine women, they

01:58:03.930 --> 01:58:05.949
don't want to seem like a slut. They aren't sluts.

01:58:05.989 --> 01:58:08.289
They're not promiscuous. Right. But if you have

01:58:08.289 --> 01:58:11.329
a strong masculine man that leads the way for

01:58:11.329 --> 01:58:13.609
her, she will follow you. I literally grabbed

01:58:13.609 --> 01:58:15.649
her hand and said, follow me. You're coming with

01:58:15.649 --> 01:58:18.869
me. OK, went inside. You know what happened next.

01:58:19.229 --> 01:58:23.729
Right. Amazing sex. OK, she was she was glowing.

01:58:23.810 --> 01:58:25.689
It was crazy. I've never seen like a woman's

01:58:25.689 --> 01:58:27.970
face like this after I've slept with her. Right.

01:58:28.010 --> 01:58:31.090
Because she was that attracted to me. She asked

01:58:31.090 --> 01:58:33.970
if she could see me the following day, right?

01:58:34.050 --> 01:58:36.170
I knew the rules. I broke my own rules because

01:58:36.170 --> 01:58:38.430
I found her so attractive, Adam. I wanted to

01:58:38.430 --> 01:58:40.529
sleep with her again, right? I wanted to be around

01:58:40.529 --> 01:58:42.609
this girl as much as I could. And I said, okay,

01:58:42.710 --> 01:58:44.529
you know what? Usually I don't do this, but yes,

01:58:44.710 --> 01:58:47.170
right? I'll see you tomorrow. Lo and behold,

01:58:47.350 --> 01:58:49.550
right? Tomorrow comes. I'm sitting in class.

01:58:49.710 --> 01:58:51.989
I get a text message from her. Hey, listen, I'm

01:58:51.989 --> 01:58:54.350
not going to be able to make it today. I fucking

01:58:54.350 --> 01:58:58.050
knew it. Like Groundhog Day, the availability

01:58:58.050 --> 01:59:01.619
trap. What do I tell you guys? Keep it at once

01:59:01.619 --> 01:59:04.960
a week. You never see a girl, the same girl,

01:59:05.060 --> 01:59:09.119
two days in a row, ever. She lost attraction

01:59:09.119 --> 01:59:11.180
that day, but I knew the attraction was so high

01:59:11.180 --> 01:59:13.399
I can bounce back from that. I played it cool.

01:59:13.680 --> 01:59:16.760
No problem. She still ended up coming over, I

01:59:16.760 --> 01:59:18.560
think, two weeks later. She pulled back for a

01:59:18.560 --> 01:59:21.060
little bit because I think she began thinking

01:59:21.060 --> 01:59:23.600
about what she did, her guilty conscience with

01:59:23.600 --> 01:59:26.600
her boyfriend. We actually ended up getting into

01:59:26.600 --> 01:59:28.880
a relationship after that. I was the second guy

01:59:28.880 --> 01:59:31.039
she ever slept with. And she was such a high

01:59:31.039 --> 01:59:33.420
quality girl. I wanted to steal her from her

01:59:33.420 --> 01:59:36.500
boyfriend, right? Because she was a rare gem.

01:59:36.640 --> 01:59:38.420
I don't care what anyone says. She never cheated

01:59:38.420 --> 01:59:40.699
on me. It was the best relationship I've ever

01:59:40.699 --> 01:59:43.239
had, right? So just because if a girl cheats

01:59:43.239 --> 01:59:46.460
on you, cheats on another man with you, doesn't

01:59:46.460 --> 01:59:49.159
mean she's going to do it to you. You have to

01:59:49.159 --> 01:59:52.909
understand that. Majority of high -quality, feminine,

01:59:53.010 --> 01:59:56.109
beautiful women out there, they are all in relationships.

01:59:56.310 --> 01:59:59.789
They are all taken. The guys are trying to wipe

01:59:59.789 --> 02:00:02.149
them up. You have to make sure she likes you

02:00:02.149 --> 02:00:04.289
more than that other guy. That's the game, fellas,

02:00:04.449 --> 02:00:07.010
okay? But I fell for the availability trap. Don't

02:00:07.010 --> 02:00:09.529
do it. If a girl wants to see you two days in

02:00:09.529 --> 02:00:11.369
a row because she enjoyed your company, you say,

02:00:11.449 --> 02:00:14.909
no, I'm busy. I could see you next week. if you

02:00:14.909 --> 02:00:17.250
don't listen to me the same shit will happen

02:00:17.250 --> 02:00:19.670
to you fellas it's like night and day you'll

02:00:19.670 --> 02:00:21.869
get that text the the next morning the next day

02:00:21.869 --> 02:00:25.069
oh i can't make it some bullshit excuse so be

02:00:25.069 --> 02:00:29.250
careful okay you want to add to that adam where

02:00:29.250 --> 02:00:31.789
we can go over the reasons or uh how do you handle

02:00:31.789 --> 02:00:36.869
the pullback yeah let's go on to yeah how you

02:00:36.869 --> 02:00:39.850
can handle the pullback okay what's your yeah

02:00:39.850 --> 02:00:42.489
what's your so what advice would you give the

02:00:42.489 --> 02:00:45.050
men out there if a girl if any girl pulls back

02:00:45.050 --> 02:00:49.189
on them yeah well any any girl that pulls back

02:00:49.189 --> 02:00:54.489
right everything i do is a little move to see

02:00:54.489 --> 02:00:57.590
how she's basically going to react so that's

02:00:57.590 --> 02:00:59.329
why like when i asked the when are you free next

02:00:59.329 --> 02:01:02.729
week her response is telling me whether i need

02:01:02.729 --> 02:01:06.369
to pull back or whether it's like game on so

02:01:06.369 --> 02:01:08.869
if a girl is pulling back the number one thing

02:01:08.869 --> 02:01:11.390
is give her space. And that doesn't mean you

02:01:11.390 --> 02:01:13.689
text her and go, I'm going to give you space.

02:01:13.850 --> 02:01:18.050
You just literally give her space. You're not

02:01:18.050 --> 02:01:21.949
ever sending her a text that she's not sending

02:01:21.949 --> 02:01:26.949
you first. You're not trying to check in or ask

02:01:26.949 --> 02:01:29.170
her to hang out or whatever. You're not showing

02:01:29.170 --> 02:01:32.029
up to her place at work just to be around her

02:01:32.029 --> 02:01:35.569
and hope she remembers you. No. And I know that

02:01:35.569 --> 02:01:37.229
has to be said, because I know that a lot of

02:01:37.229 --> 02:01:38.569
guys will do that. They're like, well, I'll just

02:01:38.569 --> 02:01:41.729
pretend like I bumped into her at the bar. And

02:01:41.729 --> 02:01:44.289
it's like, no, she's aware of that. She knows

02:01:44.289 --> 02:01:47.310
what's going on. When a girl pulls back, just

02:01:47.310 --> 02:01:50.569
like a cat, you have to pull back, reestablish

02:01:50.569 --> 02:01:53.350
your spot, your purpose in life, and then let

02:01:53.350 --> 02:01:57.569
her come around and join it again at the next

02:01:57.569 --> 02:02:00.310
time when she comes after you or whatnot, or

02:02:00.310 --> 02:02:02.270
you can decide at that point whether you want

02:02:02.270 --> 02:02:06.039
to or not. But another thing that will happen,

02:02:06.100 --> 02:02:08.439
though, when a girl will pull back is right.

02:02:08.479 --> 02:02:10.659
If you give her space and then she comes back

02:02:10.659 --> 02:02:13.500
and says something like, hey, we haven't spoken

02:02:13.500 --> 02:02:17.619
for a while. How have you been? I'm going to

02:02:17.619 --> 02:02:20.920
wait. If it's been, you know, days or, you know,

02:02:20.920 --> 02:02:23.460
weeks since we last had contact, I'm not going

02:02:23.460 --> 02:02:26.380
to reply to her within an hour. I'm going to

02:02:26.380 --> 02:02:29.100
still give her space because I'm reteaching her.

02:02:29.119 --> 02:02:30.880
I'm retraining her. Hey, I'm giving you space.

02:02:31.420 --> 02:02:34.640
So I'm definitely given at least an hour to respond

02:02:34.640 --> 02:02:37.119
to something like that. And then when she asked

02:02:37.119 --> 02:02:40.140
how you've been, you know, how you've been, it's

02:02:40.140 --> 02:02:43.159
always something positive, right? Your life is

02:02:43.159 --> 02:02:45.079
positive. You're doing good things. You're happy,

02:02:45.140 --> 02:02:47.260
right? It's never, oh, I'm depressed or blah,

02:02:47.340 --> 02:02:50.020
blah, blah, or I'm bored. It's never that. It's

02:02:50.020 --> 02:02:53.000
always something along the lines of, oh, everything's

02:02:53.000 --> 02:02:56.579
been going really well, very busy, but being

02:02:56.579 --> 02:02:59.069
productive. Something along those lines. So you're

02:02:59.069 --> 02:03:01.930
reiterating something of your life's going well.

02:03:02.090 --> 02:03:05.609
Things are positive. You've been busy, you know,

02:03:05.609 --> 02:03:07.649
been starting, you know, been working on a few

02:03:07.649 --> 02:03:11.170
projects, something like that. But you're showing

02:03:11.170 --> 02:03:13.390
her that you have a life without her. You're

02:03:13.390 --> 02:03:17.329
showing her that. that space that she needed

02:03:17.329 --> 02:03:20.250
or whatever you didn't need that space like you

02:03:20.250 --> 02:03:22.210
needed that space or i guess you needed that

02:03:22.210 --> 02:03:23.989
space as well as her in a sense or you didn't

02:03:23.989 --> 02:03:26.310
notice that she was gone in that sense because

02:03:26.310 --> 02:03:29.390
your life is busy you're having a good time in

02:03:29.390 --> 02:03:31.930
your life so you're keeping it positive and you're

02:03:31.930 --> 02:03:36.189
always backing off always responding slower to

02:03:36.189 --> 02:03:39.569
her to again teach her right because maybe before

02:03:39.569 --> 02:03:42.409
you're coming on too aggressive too needy too

02:03:42.409 --> 02:03:45.119
available So this is giving you that chance to

02:03:45.119 --> 02:03:48.579
kind of reset the meter and show her, not tell

02:03:48.579 --> 02:03:51.140
her, show her with your actions that you can

02:03:51.140 --> 02:03:55.760
give her space. Yeah, guys, if she pulls back,

02:03:55.899 --> 02:03:59.380
you guys better fucking pull back too. I swear

02:03:59.380 --> 02:04:01.579
to God, if you guys start chasing a girl that

02:04:01.579 --> 02:04:05.319
pulls back, listen, man, I will lose all respect

02:04:05.319 --> 02:04:08.500
for you. The texting prince will lose all respect

02:04:08.500 --> 02:04:11.600
for you. That is the number one rule when a woman

02:04:11.600 --> 02:04:14.710
pulls back. You don't reach out to her. You don't

02:04:14.710 --> 02:04:17.449
tell her or you don't ask her, was it something

02:04:17.449 --> 02:04:21.369
I said? Was it something I did? Oh my God, that's

02:04:21.369 --> 02:04:23.909
such fucking beta. Can't believe I used to do

02:04:23.909 --> 02:04:25.750
that back in my day, right? Or even like you

02:04:25.750 --> 02:04:28.090
said, Adam, oh, I'm going to give you your space

02:04:28.090 --> 02:04:30.329
now. I can't believe I used to text a girl that

02:04:30.329 --> 02:04:32.350
when I didn't know the game. That is cringe.

02:04:32.930 --> 02:04:35.270
Now, what do we tell you, right? Okay, cool.

02:04:35.310 --> 02:04:38.329
No problem. If they come back, they come back.

02:04:38.409 --> 02:04:40.810
If not, good. Good fucking riddance. Who cares?

02:04:41.250 --> 02:04:44.039
Okay. Now, texting Prince said he'll wait an

02:04:44.039 --> 02:04:46.880
hour if they reach back out to you. Me, I'll

02:04:46.880 --> 02:04:50.520
give him a day. I'll give him 24 hours, right?

02:04:50.640 --> 02:04:54.760
Because you have to find a way to punish any

02:04:54.760 --> 02:04:57.659
type of negative behavior. If she tries pulling

02:04:57.659 --> 02:05:01.140
back on you and you don't do anything about it,

02:05:01.180 --> 02:05:03.760
guess what? If it's that easy for them to come

02:05:03.760 --> 02:05:06.720
back in your life, fellas, they will do it again.

02:05:07.039 --> 02:05:10.420
You have to show them it's not okay. It's not

02:05:10.420 --> 02:05:13.600
cool. I have my own ways. Okay. I'm sure you

02:05:13.600 --> 02:05:17.100
have your own ways as well. Texting Prince. Yeah.

02:05:17.140 --> 02:05:19.979
Well, I just, I just said a minimum one hour.

02:05:19.979 --> 02:05:23.380
If I mean, I'm saying, I'm saying for them. Yeah.

02:05:23.640 --> 02:05:26.619
But that's just a minimum rule. Like one hour,

02:05:26.659 --> 02:05:30.939
at least to wait. Yeah. But what I mean is I'll

02:05:30.939 --> 02:05:33.239
demote them now. I'll demote them. Right. You

02:05:33.239 --> 02:05:35.359
might demote them as well. You know, that's it.

02:05:35.710 --> 02:05:37.970
they're coming over for the night maybe a booty

02:05:37.970 --> 02:05:40.069
call that's it right it's she's gonna have to

02:05:40.069 --> 02:05:43.210
work her way back into that number one spot and

02:05:43.210 --> 02:05:45.729
you don't tell them that your actions convey

02:05:45.729 --> 02:05:48.489
that you got to be what is it covert with it

02:05:48.489 --> 02:05:52.170
right covert yeah you got to do it covertly okay

02:05:52.170 --> 02:05:54.569
so i might demote them i might have them do chores

02:05:54.569 --> 02:05:57.430
right okay you know what if you want to see me

02:05:57.430 --> 02:06:01.090
again clean up my room or help me vacuum okay

02:06:01.090 --> 02:06:03.470
wash my dishes and nothing but but a thong on

02:06:04.579 --> 02:06:06.680
right? You have to make them earn it. I don't

02:06:06.680 --> 02:06:08.979
want to sound like women are like dogs. They're

02:06:08.979 --> 02:06:11.399
not, but this is human nature, fellas, right?

02:06:11.560 --> 02:06:13.899
If you did something that was disrespectful to

02:06:13.899 --> 02:06:17.039
the girl, I would hope that she would punish

02:06:17.039 --> 02:06:19.739
you as well, okay? She wouldn't just take you

02:06:19.739 --> 02:06:22.180
back that easily because she's teaching you that,

02:06:22.239 --> 02:06:25.680
oh, it's okay for you to disrespect her. She'll

02:06:25.680 --> 02:06:28.260
take you right back, no problem. No, it's going

02:06:28.260 --> 02:06:30.279
to take a while for you to get that number one

02:06:30.279 --> 02:06:33.930
spot in her life again. OK, I've had girls that

02:06:33.930 --> 02:06:37.289
really disrespected me, Adam. I was actually

02:06:37.289 --> 02:06:40.149
dating this one girl and, you know, we considered

02:06:40.149 --> 02:06:44.229
each other in a relationship and she got angry

02:06:44.229 --> 02:06:46.850
at me one day. She was very emotional in a volatile

02:06:46.850 --> 02:06:49.609
way. Right. This is when I just started doing

02:06:49.609 --> 02:06:52.829
TikTok. I was trying to get the hang of it, giving

02:06:52.829 --> 02:06:55.550
guys messages that I thought were cool at that

02:06:55.550 --> 02:06:56.949
time. I was still getting the hang of it like

02:06:56.949 --> 02:06:58.760
you were. Right. until you were getting the hang

02:06:58.760 --> 02:07:00.880
of the flow and how to really convey your message

02:07:00.880 --> 02:07:03.060
out there and the advice to give and one night

02:07:03.060 --> 02:07:08.640
she messaged me another dating coach's video

02:07:08.640 --> 02:07:12.100
it's like this big guy like a man bun a ponytail

02:07:12.100 --> 02:07:15.000
right she sent me one of his videos on tick tock

02:07:15.000 --> 02:07:18.020
and she said this is the advice you should be

02:07:18.020 --> 02:07:20.260
giving men you don't know anything about women

02:07:20.260 --> 02:07:26.180
i was like whoa okay that to me was very disrespectful

02:07:27.449 --> 02:07:29.229
To the point where it didn't even feel right

02:07:29.229 --> 02:07:33.010
in my gut. It was turning. Right? When you get

02:07:33.010 --> 02:07:35.449
that gut feeling where you're like, yo, this

02:07:35.449 --> 02:07:38.250
girl just crossed the line. And I texted her

02:07:38.250 --> 02:07:40.590
back. I said, why don't you fuck with him then?

02:07:42.069 --> 02:07:44.630
And then she hit me back with, oh, he's not my

02:07:44.630 --> 02:07:47.430
type. Right? With a wink face. And I said, okay.

02:07:47.689 --> 02:07:50.270
She said she wants to play that game. I blocked

02:07:50.270 --> 02:07:54.189
her. Okay? That week, I created, I think, three

02:07:54.189 --> 02:07:59.710
viral videos on TikTok. All because of her. I

02:07:59.710 --> 02:08:01.649
turned that pain into purpose. And this is why

02:08:01.649 --> 02:08:05.109
we tell you guys, women are the best motivators.

02:08:05.550 --> 02:08:07.909
Whether they disrespect you, they break up with

02:08:07.909 --> 02:08:10.989
you, or the positive influence they have in your

02:08:10.989 --> 02:08:14.829
life when you're with them. And she tried coming

02:08:14.829 --> 02:08:17.949
back in my life because I was posting pictures

02:08:17.949 --> 02:08:22.369
of me out with other women on Instagram. And

02:08:22.369 --> 02:08:24.310
she was still somehow following me. Women do

02:08:24.310 --> 02:08:26.729
this. They create fake accounts. They will find

02:08:26.729 --> 02:08:28.640
you. They will keep track of what you're doing.

02:08:28.760 --> 02:08:30.960
This was a week and a half later, right? I was

02:08:30.960 --> 02:08:33.359
living my life, never reached out to her, didn't

02:08:33.359 --> 02:08:36.119
care. She saw a picture of me and this beautiful

02:08:36.119 --> 02:08:39.579
Philippine woman out in the city. She's sitting

02:08:39.579 --> 02:08:43.159
on my lap as I have a drink. Okay, I posted that

02:08:43.159 --> 02:08:47.000
picture. That night when I'm heading to the train

02:08:47.000 --> 02:08:50.319
station, she FaceTimes me out of the blue. She

02:08:50.319 --> 02:08:52.140
wouldn't stop FaceTiming me. I answered and I

02:08:52.140 --> 02:08:54.550
said, what the fuck do you want? Just like that.

02:08:54.590 --> 02:08:56.149
I gave her an attitude because I'm showing her

02:08:56.149 --> 02:08:58.670
it's not OK. I'm not going to just take you right

02:08:58.670 --> 02:09:01.550
back into my life after you disrespected me like

02:09:01.550 --> 02:09:04.029
that. When a woman compares you to another man

02:09:04.029 --> 02:09:06.770
in that fashion, that is highly disrespectful,

02:09:07.149 --> 02:09:10.229
fellas. OK, whether she compares you to her ex.

02:09:10.329 --> 02:09:12.489
Oh, you know, my ex used to do this for me or

02:09:12.489 --> 02:09:15.810
my ex used to drive a BMW or my ex used to take

02:09:15.810 --> 02:09:18.050
me on a vacation every year. OK, why don't you

02:09:18.050 --> 02:09:20.449
go fuck with him then? That's very disrespectful,

02:09:20.710 --> 02:09:23.300
fellas. Don't ever let her compare you. to any

02:09:23.300 --> 02:09:25.960
other man. You got that? Unless it's her father

02:09:25.960 --> 02:09:30.380
in a positive way. So she tried coming back in

02:09:30.380 --> 02:09:32.859
my life. She was harassing me nonstop. And I

02:09:32.859 --> 02:09:35.140
said, okay, you know what? If you really want

02:09:35.140 --> 02:09:37.260
to come back in my life, and we've been dating

02:09:37.260 --> 02:09:39.760
for several months now, I knew the attachment

02:09:39.760 --> 02:09:41.960
was built. I knew she loved me. She didn't tell

02:09:41.960 --> 02:09:43.779
me that yet. And I said, okay, if you want to

02:09:43.779 --> 02:09:46.500
come back in my life, write me an apology letter.

02:09:47.500 --> 02:09:50.699
I swear to God. Adam, I said this, right? And

02:09:50.699 --> 02:09:52.300
a lot of guys aren't going to have the balls

02:09:52.300 --> 02:09:53.979
to say that because I didn't care. I was already

02:09:53.979 --> 02:09:56.600
dating other girls. So I didn't care. I didn't

02:09:56.600 --> 02:09:58.220
think she was going to do it. I said, write me

02:09:58.220 --> 02:10:00.539
an apology letter. I told you everything you

02:10:00.539 --> 02:10:03.239
did wrong and how disrespectful that was. And

02:10:03.239 --> 02:10:05.560
I want you to also tell me how you feel about

02:10:05.560 --> 02:10:09.079
me, why you want me back. Why did I do that?

02:10:09.319 --> 02:10:13.319
The power of the tongue. Women never take accountability.

02:10:13.500 --> 02:10:16.300
We know that, Adam. So if I can make her write

02:10:16.300 --> 02:10:19.460
that down, that is powerful. To make sure she

02:10:19.460 --> 02:10:22.659
never does it again. And also how you feel about

02:10:22.659 --> 02:10:25.380
me. At first she was very reluctant. She was

02:10:25.380 --> 02:10:28.020
like screw you. She was laughing. No way in hell

02:10:28.020 --> 02:10:30.720
I would ever do that. You're the man. I said

02:10:30.720 --> 02:10:33.539
okay cool. I was like no problem. I blocked her

02:10:33.539 --> 02:10:35.619
again after I said. Hit me up when you write

02:10:35.619 --> 02:10:40.699
that letter. Blocked her. A week goes by. Or

02:10:40.699 --> 02:10:45.720
two weeks. I'm ready with another girl. That

02:10:45.720 --> 02:10:47.520
night, that same night, this is what happened,

02:10:47.579 --> 02:10:49.699
right? I'm out with this other girl. We go out

02:10:49.699 --> 02:10:53.859
for drinks. My ex is blowing up my phone. As

02:10:53.859 --> 02:10:56.100
I'm with this girl, it's almost as if they know,

02:10:56.140 --> 02:10:58.739
Adam. It's crazy how intuitive women are. It's

02:10:58.739 --> 02:11:01.420
like they know you're with another girl. I don't

02:11:01.420 --> 02:11:05.340
know fucking how, but they know. As I'm driving

02:11:05.340 --> 02:11:07.880
with this other girl, my ex kept blowing me up

02:11:07.880 --> 02:11:09.800
like 30 times in a row. And the girl I'm with,

02:11:09.819 --> 02:11:11.869
she's like, who is that? She's like, is that

02:11:11.869 --> 02:11:14.229
in crazy X? And I just ignored it. You know,

02:11:14.229 --> 02:11:15.310
I was like, oh, don't worry about it. Right.

02:11:15.710 --> 02:11:18.710
I go out to grab drinks with this new girl. We

02:11:18.710 --> 02:11:23.109
come back to my place. I just got done fucking

02:11:23.109 --> 02:11:25.449
her. Right. I literally just got done fucking.

02:11:25.529 --> 02:11:28.250
I was eating her out to lights were a little

02:11:28.250 --> 02:11:32.350
bit on. We go to bed. Right. This is like five,

02:11:32.470 --> 02:11:34.310
10 minutes later. We go to sleep. We're laying

02:11:34.310 --> 02:11:37.270
down. It's pitch black. It's midnight. I hear.

02:11:38.200 --> 02:11:40.840
seven knocks in a row on my door as if it's the

02:11:40.840 --> 02:11:44.399
FBI. She jolts up the girl I'm with. She's like,

02:11:44.439 --> 02:11:46.739
who is that? I instantly already knew who it

02:11:46.739 --> 02:11:51.920
was, Adam. I said, that's my ex. I didn't want

02:11:51.920 --> 02:11:53.920
to answer the door, but she kept knocking, kept

02:11:53.920 --> 02:11:56.739
knocking nonstop about to wake up my neighbors.

02:11:56.960 --> 02:12:00.079
And the new girl I'm with, she said, well, are

02:12:00.079 --> 02:12:02.600
you going to go handle that? That's something

02:12:02.600 --> 02:12:05.939
you never want to hear, fellas. You never want

02:12:05.939 --> 02:12:08.159
to hear a girl say to you, well, Are you going

02:12:08.159 --> 02:12:10.899
to go handle that? Because as a man, you should

02:12:10.899 --> 02:12:13.560
go handle that without a girl having to tell

02:12:13.560 --> 02:12:17.100
you that. That's where I fucked up. But I was

02:12:17.100 --> 02:12:18.260
still with that girl. She didn't go anywhere.

02:12:18.340 --> 02:12:22.279
Okay. I didn't answer the door right away. Okay.

02:12:22.340 --> 02:12:26.020
I had to go through the back because if I opened

02:12:26.020 --> 02:12:28.899
that door, she would have came jolting in and

02:12:28.899 --> 02:12:31.760
she would have ran to the bedroom to see if I

02:12:31.760 --> 02:12:35.689
was with another girl. Right. I go outside. I'm

02:12:35.689 --> 02:12:38.449
talking to my ex. She was begging for her to

02:12:38.449 --> 02:12:40.210
come in, for me to let her come in. I said, no.

02:12:40.329 --> 02:12:42.649
I said, you're not coming in. She said, why?

02:12:42.750 --> 02:12:44.510
Why not? I want to see if you have another girl

02:12:44.510 --> 02:12:46.930
there. I was like, number one, you disrespected

02:12:46.930 --> 02:12:49.529
me by showing up to my place unannounced. That's

02:12:49.529 --> 02:12:51.930
highly disrespectful. When a girl does that,

02:12:51.970 --> 02:12:54.770
fellas, she shows up at your place unannounced.

02:12:55.090 --> 02:12:58.609
She is trying to establish dominance over you,

02:12:58.670 --> 02:13:02.590
over your territory. Some guys think it's cute,

02:13:02.670 --> 02:13:04.890
Adam. Oh, it's adorable. Yeah, she's jealous.

02:13:05.250 --> 02:13:08.689
It's not cute, fellas. That is so disrespectful.

02:13:08.810 --> 02:13:10.729
If you don't check her on that, guess what happens

02:13:10.729 --> 02:13:13.050
next? She's going to keep showing up, and one

02:13:13.050 --> 02:13:15.630
day she's going to break into your house if you

02:13:15.630 --> 02:13:19.170
don't check her on that, okay? I wouldn't let

02:13:19.170 --> 02:13:23.029
her inside. This is how smart women are. She

02:13:23.029 --> 02:13:25.930
started smelling my shirt to see if there was

02:13:25.930 --> 02:13:28.029
perfume on it, pretending like she was hugging

02:13:28.029 --> 02:13:30.949
me. She's like, oh, I just wanted to see you.

02:13:30.989 --> 02:13:32.609
I miss you. She was hugging me, and I could see

02:13:32.609 --> 02:13:34.569
she's trying to smell my shirt. This is how smart

02:13:34.569 --> 02:13:37.409
women are. I was like, fuck, did she smell the

02:13:37.409 --> 02:13:40.010
perfume? Because I'm caught, right? I lied to

02:13:40.010 --> 02:13:42.930
her and said, there is no girl there, okay? She

02:13:42.930 --> 02:13:44.630
didn't smell any perfume, thank God, because

02:13:44.630 --> 02:13:46.470
my cologne was overpowering it. I don't think

02:13:46.470 --> 02:13:49.489
the new girl even had any perfume on. Or I didn't

02:13:49.489 --> 02:13:52.289
smell like pussy, thank God. She actually wrote

02:13:52.289 --> 02:13:55.630
me the fucking letter. She showed up that night.

02:13:55.920 --> 02:13:58.000
gave me the fucking letter. And that's when she

02:13:58.000 --> 02:14:02.439
told me, I love you. That's how powerful that

02:14:02.439 --> 02:14:04.779
is, fellas. When you put a girl in check, when

02:14:04.779 --> 02:14:07.939
you don't tolerate disrespect, women want a guy

02:14:07.939 --> 02:14:10.739
that puts them in their place. They love it.

02:14:11.859 --> 02:14:14.199
I wasn't trying to get her to do that. I didn't

02:14:14.199 --> 02:14:16.100
think she was going to do that. She wrote me

02:14:16.100 --> 02:14:18.199
out one of the most beautiful letters I've ever

02:14:18.199 --> 02:14:20.420
read in my life of what she did wrong, how she

02:14:20.420 --> 02:14:22.960
feels about me, and that she loves me. And English

02:14:22.960 --> 02:14:25.420
wasn't even her first language, Adam. It was

02:14:25.420 --> 02:14:28.359
Portuguese. And she still found a way to write

02:14:28.359 --> 02:14:30.779
it. So if I can get a girl to do that, right,

02:14:30.859 --> 02:14:34.699
pay for her consequences, why can't you guys?

02:14:35.159 --> 02:14:40.100
Why are you so scared? Let me tell you what happened

02:14:40.100 --> 02:14:42.199
after that. I got back together with her. She

02:14:42.199 --> 02:14:45.380
never disrespected me again. But then I realized

02:14:45.380 --> 02:14:47.479
this just wasn't for me because of her volatile

02:14:47.479 --> 02:14:50.600
emotions, okay? She was way too emotional in

02:14:50.600 --> 02:14:52.300
a negative way for me because she was very masculine.

02:14:52.939 --> 02:14:55.520
She was covered in tattoos. She was very masculine,

02:14:55.600 --> 02:14:58.600
very built as well. She liked working out, but

02:14:58.600 --> 02:15:00.619
I still found her attractive, but it's the energy

02:15:00.619 --> 02:15:03.520
that I didn't get along with. Okay. That's very

02:15:03.520 --> 02:15:06.359
important. Fellas find a way to check a girl.

02:15:07.119 --> 02:15:12.199
Okay. Pull back, punish them in any way you feel

02:15:12.199 --> 02:15:16.050
fit. Nothing that is. the extreme fellas nothing

02:15:16.050 --> 02:15:19.130
over over the top okay there's still women at

02:15:19.130 --> 02:15:21.189
the end of the day but you have to let them know

02:15:21.189 --> 02:15:27.670
you're not going to tolerate that okay uh do

02:15:27.670 --> 02:15:30.989
you do you have another no that was it i just

02:15:30.989 --> 02:15:33.470
wanted to i wanted us to end with that interesting

02:15:33.470 --> 02:15:36.289
stories they can learn from and know that we

02:15:36.289 --> 02:15:38.869
don't fake anything right what we tell you is

02:15:38.869 --> 02:15:41.289
not bullshit we've lived this life we've been

02:15:41.289 --> 02:15:45.199
through it on both sides of it OK, so take our

02:15:45.199 --> 02:15:51.399
advice, guys. And guys, we have coming next is

02:15:51.399 --> 02:15:56.079
going to be episode four ways to convey high

02:15:56.079 --> 02:16:00.140
status to women. These are going to be just some

02:16:00.140 --> 02:16:02.979
different ways that you can come off as more

02:16:02.979 --> 02:16:05.420
high status. It doesn't mean you have to rent

02:16:05.420 --> 02:16:08.140
some car that's not yours, some Lamborghini or

02:16:08.140 --> 02:16:10.739
Bugatti or something and try to show high status

02:16:10.739 --> 02:16:12.800
in that way. These are going to be. everyday

02:16:12.800 --> 02:16:17.119
ways you can do it. I was a second grade classroom

02:16:17.119 --> 02:16:20.380
public school teacher. At the time when I started,

02:16:20.500 --> 02:16:25.159
it was like $35 ,000 a year after taxes in my

02:16:25.159 --> 02:16:29.180
first year. So there's ways to convey high status

02:16:29.180 --> 02:16:31.840
without needing the money. A lot of it is your

02:16:31.840 --> 02:16:35.239
mindset and how you react to situations or how

02:16:35.239 --> 02:16:37.520
you don't react to situations. But we're going

02:16:37.520 --> 02:16:39.700
to try to give you guys a list of ways that you

02:16:39.700 --> 02:16:43.909
can convey high status. to women so that they

02:16:43.909 --> 02:16:45.909
see you as a guy that they do want to pursue

02:16:45.909 --> 02:16:48.110
they see you as a guy that they don't want to

02:16:48.110 --> 02:16:50.969
lose out on it has nothing to do with showing

02:16:50.969 --> 02:16:54.149
off either we're not telling you to take pictures

02:16:54.149 --> 02:16:57.030
of a stack of money you have that's similar to

02:16:57.030 --> 02:16:59.829
a girl showing off her provocative pictures on

02:16:59.829 --> 02:17:02.389
social media in my opinion i think a guy that

02:17:02.389 --> 02:17:05.190
shows off the money he has or the cars on social

02:17:05.190 --> 02:17:07.090
media that's the equivalent of a girl showing

02:17:07.090 --> 02:17:10.209
off her fleshy goodness on social media right

02:17:10.510 --> 02:17:12.670
There's other ways. There's other ways. Yeah.

02:17:12.750 --> 02:17:14.870
In a way, when girls are showing off their body

02:17:14.870 --> 02:17:17.809
in a sense, it's kind of sending like, this is

02:17:17.809 --> 02:17:20.610
all I have to work with. Here's my big trick

02:17:20.610 --> 02:17:23.270
I have. Here's my body. In the same sense, when

02:17:23.270 --> 02:17:25.049
guys are leading with money or they're talking

02:17:25.049 --> 02:17:26.950
about their cars, they're talking about their

02:17:26.950 --> 02:17:28.889
bank accounts or their great job and all that.

02:17:29.590 --> 02:17:33.030
In a way, that conveys like, well. In a sense,

02:17:33.090 --> 02:17:36.270
I'm insecure now because this is what I feel

02:17:36.270 --> 02:17:38.590
like I'm worth to a woman is money. And this

02:17:38.590 --> 02:17:41.389
is all I have to present to her. So there's going

02:17:41.389 --> 02:17:43.129
to be a lot of different ways you can convey

02:17:43.129 --> 02:17:45.069
high status. And just like you said, it's not

02:17:45.069 --> 02:17:47.850
about showing off in any type of way like that.

02:17:47.930 --> 02:17:49.930
It's all about kind of how you handle yourself,

02:17:50.110 --> 02:17:53.909
your mindset and how you expect to be treated

02:17:53.909 --> 02:17:56.090
and how you how congruent you are with that.

02:17:56.969 --> 02:18:00.030
Exactly. So there's other ways of conveying that.

02:18:00.350 --> 02:18:02.690
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