Welcome. How are you guys to the Full Armor of
Game podcast episode numero tres. That is three
in Espanol. I know my Spanglish is muy bueno.
Podcast episode number three. Why woman pull
back? Me and our host as well, the texting prince.
I'm Zardanya. We're going to give you every reason
of why a woman pulls back. These are the common
questions we get. On social media, this girl
pulled back. I did this. Why did she pull back?
Don't worry. We got you guys. So let's hope you
don't make these same mistakes again. And we're
going to teach you how to handle the pullback,
okay? The way you go about handling a woman pulling
back, that will be the ultimate decision of whether
or not you give all your power away, especially
if you begin chasing her. And now you begin carrying
her purse and tying her shoes. congratulations
fellas but me and the texting prince we're gonna
make sure that does not happen to you we have
you covered you bring the crimes and heads of
conquered kings to my city steps you insult my
queen you threaten my people with slavery and
death This is where we fight! Hand me shields
boys! So one of the biggest signs, you know,
that this girl is starting to pull back. I could
feel this empty space that's there. And you're
right. She begins to create distance and you
feel that bubble between between the two of you.
So initially she went from being all yours. She
was saying yes to each and every time you've
asked her to hang out or to meet up with you.
Even if she has kids, fellas, okay? It doesn't
matter if she has kids. She will still meet up
with you. She has still said yes, right? She's
into you. She found you highly attractive in
the beginning. You were number one on their roster.
Now she's flaking or she's not as interested
in seeing you. She's starting to come up with
these excuses. And the second I notice, she isn't
fully invested into seeing me. I know, Houston,
we have a problem now. This is a girl. pulling
back fellas now some girls know how to play the
game we understand that but this is where mean
texting prints come in now my one of my reasons
of why a woman pulls back you're not busy enough
okay the players the certified gangsters the
ladies men they are busy You're not responding
to her messages right away and sending her long
ass paragraphs like you're like you're the nutty
fucking professor. OK, you're not giving her
enough space. Right. Women need space to think
about all those emotions she is going through.
This is how a woman ultimately falls in love
with you by missing you. Her thoughts of you
begin invading her mind like a parasite and any
parasite that takes over its host. has full control.
So you have to create that space and mystery
or else the woman will fellas. I'm not worried
about the girl thinking about me when I'm around
her presence. What I care about is her thinking
about me when I'm not around her fellas. Okay.
That's what attraction is. It's what you do to
her mind when you're not. with her. It's not
necessarily what you do to her mind when you
are with her. I'd rather be in the position of
her thinking about me when I'm not with her at
all. That's how a woman falls in love with you.
So you have to make sure you give them that space,
fellas. Don't always be responding to their messages.
Have some time in between when you text her back.
Show her that you live a busy life. And it shouldn't
be an act, right? Texting Prince. I want men
to actually start living a busy life. Don't act
like You're busy. Then you text her back three
hours later when you're sitting doing nothing
with a dry thumb up your ass. That's not what
we're talking about. OK, the ladies, men, the
players, men of high status, they are always
busy. Yeah, that's actually the first one I had
on the list here was coming across is too available.
And part of all this is women won't value your
time. If she doesn't see that your time is valuable
and you have to create that, you can't just tell
her your time is valuable. You have to show that.
So for instance, one rule I have with texting
women, mirror texting her time. I will never
text a woman back quicker than she texts me.
If she takes 10 minutes, I'm taking at least
10 minutes to respond. If she takes three hours,
I'm taking at least. three hours to respond because
a woman won't see that your time is available
until it's shown to her you can't tell women
that you have to show them that and one of the
things is texting these days is huge and so that's
a good rule of thumb is do not text your back
quicker than you do another way that you uh that
women will pull back because you're coming across
is too available is if you're the guy that It's
constantly asking her to hang out. Hey, can you
hang out Thursday? Can you hang out Friday? You're
not showing her that you have a life going on
outside of her. So a rule of thumb now for when
you're setting a date, I never pick a day like,
are you free Thursday? I will say, when are you
free next week to get together? Or I'll say,
what's your schedule look like next week? I always
say next week. And then I let her answer. revealed
to me how interested she is. If she says, oh,
I'm swamped at work. I got a lot of things going
on. Next week's really tough. That tells me to
back off. And that tells me she's not interested
in me yet. She doesn't have that attachment to
me yet. So I back off and I just say, hey, sounds
like you're busy. Great. Hey, have a fun week.
Let me know. You text me when you're free or
something like that. So that would be one thing
right there is I want to go, when are you free
next week to get together? If she gives you one
day, hey, I'm free Wednesday at seven, right?
You have to check in your own schedule if that
works, then you could set a date. But if she
gives you one day, to me, that shows low interest.
She's giving you a shot, but she's only giving
you one shot. versus what I love to see is when
I say, when are you free next week? And the girl
says, hey, I work till 5 p .m. Monday through
Friday, but I'm available anytime after that,
right? She's giving you so many opportunities
because her interest is high and she wants to
make her schedule available to you. So again,
rule of thumb, guys, don't ask for that day.
Don't constantly say, hey, can you hang out tonight?
Can you hang out tomorrow? Ask next week and
let her answer reveal to you whether you need
to back off or whether you can go, all right,
great. Thursday at 8 .30 works for me. How does
that work for you? Something like that. So coming
across as too available, that will always make
a woman pull back. I love that. This is why I
love the texting Prince because he has some of
the best texting game you guys will ever see.
And I still take notes. I'm learning from him.
So if a girl agrees and says, Oh, yeah, I'm free
7 o 'clock p .m. this weekend. A great way to
be playful with her is to reply back. I can't
do seven. How about 702 with a wink face? Right.
I remember you had a screenshot of a text message
like that. And I love that. I never thought about
that because it's playful. It's funny. The girl
knows you're teasing her. At least you're being
different than most of the men out there. But
I love the texting princess advice. Are you free
next week? right? That's what you said. Yeah.
Are you free next week? Okay. When are you free
next week? When are you free next week? What's
your schedule look like next week and leave it
open in her answer. Cause if a girl's interested,
she will make it known. She'll say something
like I'm free Wednesday, Thursday, blah, blah,
blah. She might even say, do you want to get
together? But when you leave it open, now you're
also not coming across. There's like these subtle
power games in every interaction with women.
Even if it's subconscious, if I say, Hey, do
you want to hang out Thursday? And she says,
no, I can't. I'm busy. Subtly, I just got rejected.
Subtly, she gains power in our little power dynamics.
I know it sounds crazy, but with women and dating
today, those are all things you got to take into
account. So when you leave it open for her, you're
basically just seeing how interested in you she
is. And then you can decide to proceed forward
or to back off based on how high of a. interest
response she gives you. Yeah. So the texting
princes game is when are you free next week?
Right. I'll do things a little bit differently.
You guys have to see what works for you. Okay.
I've tried his technique. It works. My go -to
is, are you available this weekend? I'm not saying
Friday, Saturday, or Sunday. I'm saying this
weekend. Because what does that count for, fellas?
Women instinctively know this weekend can count
as Friday, Saturday, or Sunday. So if she's free
one of those days and she says, oh, I'm free
Saturday night. Now I can tell her, hmm, let
me check my schedule. Yeah, you know what? I'm
also free Saturday night. Let's grab drinks together.
But if I said, are you available Friday night?
And if she says no. but I'm available Saturday
night. Now that makes me look like a loser. If
I had nothing going on Friday night and Saturday
night, does that sound like a high value due
to you that has any, anything going on with his
life? No. So be careful with how you word it
because the weekend can count for three days.
And I let her pick and act as if, Oh, voila.
Wow. I wasn't doing anything that night either,
but I'm busy the other nights. Yeah. yeah it's
all about how you frame it how you how you question
it as well uh so i have uh one of one i have
here for why women pull back is if you're being
too needy or coming across is too needy and so
this can come off as one constantly trying to
hang out with her like hey can you hang out tomorrow
can you hang out the next day what we we already
kind of went over that one But another one is
constantly checking in, sending those what I
call fluff texts where you're just saying hi
and just trying to start conversations with her
all throughout the day just because you're bored
or you're hoping to get some flirty response
from her or something. Because the problem is
when you're constantly checking in, it starts
to feel like a chore for the woman on the other
side to have to constantly respond to your texts.
She's like, oh, we've already been through this.
Hey, what's up? How's your day? All that. And
she's bored. She's bored. So that becomes a chore
door. It's like when you're playing fetch with
a dog and you throw the ball and the dog runs
and grabs it and brings it back to your feet.
And after 15 or 20 throws, you're like, okay,
this is super boring, right? But that dog will
keep bringing it back all day long. And so then
you're like, gosh, this is a chore now to keep
throwing this. I'm just entertaining the dog.
And that is how women feel on the other side.
Because remember, women are inundated with a
lot of betas or simps that will just flood her
inbox, always, you know, try to hang out with
her. And that becomes a chore for her to respond.
So you want to make your responses count, not
constantly checking in. Oh, hey, how are you?
How's your day going? Yeah, that's cool every
once in a while if you're the guy that's not
texting her very much because she likes to hear
from you. But if you're that guy every day checking
in on her, you want the flip of that. You want
the girl to be texting you, checking in. Hey,
how was your day? How was your day today? You
want that type of energy coming from her rather
than you. So when you're becoming too needy,
she will start to back off, back away and pull
back from you. Correct. Anytime I text a girl,
fellas, my messages have a purpose behind them.
I'm not just going to text a girl. Hey, how you
doing? How's it going? I don't send fluff messages
like that. Women send them to me and I appreciate
that. I love when women send me messages like
that because it shows me she has high interest
in me. If you're the one that's constantly sending
her those messages, you have no idea whether
this girl has high interest in you or not. If
she's just going with the flow. When a girl is
chasing me, I know she has high interest in me.
But you never want to give off needy and thirsty
vibes. If you start becoming a needy beta male
barnacle. she will automatically lose attraction
for you. Why is that? Because neediness is one
of the biggest turnoffs when it comes to women.
She will test your neediness as well, fellas.
So you might call her one day and she doesn't
answer you or call back until the next day. If
your beta ass gets emotional and you start questioning
why she didn't answer you, why didn't you pick
up? I called you yesterday. It took you a day
to call me back. Now she knows you are a beta
male needy barnacle, okay? You just revealed
your hands to her that you are needy, you are
thirsty, and you are very emotional. You're not
stoic. You're not ironclad. You don't have anything
else going on with your life. This girl will
begin to pull back. I promise you it's happened
to me before, fellas. Learn from our mistakes.
This hasn't happened to me in years because like
texting Prince said, I don't send out fluff texts.
I don't do that. If I send a girl any type of
text messages, it will be flirty. I'll tease
her. I'll make bold statements. And I set up
the date, whether she's coming over or whether
we're going out for the night. Yeah. And part
of this, especially to guys that are newer at
this newer. interacting with women that you're
feeling like this is manipulation or whatnot.
Women like to chase that keeps them engaged.
And what I like to tell guys that are kind of
new to this is like, think back to hunter and
gatherer days, right? Czar and I are out trying
to score some meat so that we can survive. So
we're on these hunting trips. We're going to
be gone two, three, four, five, six weeks at
a time. And our ladies are back. Keeping the
social connections in the community going, because
that's important. If you get exiled as a group
back then, you're screwed. You're not going to
survive on your own. So they have an important
role back at the social gathering, whether picking
berries and all that. So you want the girl, the
berry picker. She's the one that's going. When
are Zara and Adam going to be back? They're checking
in. Hey, how are you doing? How's the trip going?
Right. Obviously, they didn't have cell phones
back then, but that would be the energy. They're
going. When are they going to be back? I hope
they make it back safe. That's them checking
in versus we're out there hunting. We're on a
mission. We're on our purpose, trying to survive.
So we don't have time to pull out our cell phone
and check in with the berry pickers back home
going, Hey, how are you? How was your day today?
All that, right? That energy it's from that feminine
place. And I know people don't like traditional
gender roles these days, but that is natural.
Women want to chase men because that gets them
excited. She misses you. And then she's excited
when you're back. But if you're the guy checking
in, you're that berry picker. She now flips on
the role and she becomes the hunter. Very masculine.
And now the gender roles are all reversed. And
then there's no attraction there because she's
not going to be looking up to you or respecting
you as a man. I know it sounds kind of silly
to relate it like that. But this is stuff that
has worked since the beginning of the time. We
just are in a lot. We're more connected now than
ever with cell phones. So a lot of guys feel
like they have to check in. That is not the case.
Yeah, and we always think of these things we're
telling you in the perspective of since the dawn
of time, the alphas, the betas, how women chase
the alphas. We're not thinking in terms of women
being re -hardwired, right? They're being reprogrammed,
correct? And I'll give you an example. You have
female dating coaches. telling women and once
again i don't agree with female dating coaches
you don't ask the fish on how to catch fish you
ask the fishermen but they're spewing this bullshit
now how oh a man has to has to chase it's a man's
job to chase a woman if he wants you he'll chase
you right they are spewing this bullshit because
women have an innate fear of rejection. So if
they can manipulate the men to do all the chasing,
guess what? Now the women don't have to have
to do the chasing and now they don't have to
have the fear of rejection. That's why they say
that to you fellas. But secretly women love the
chase. That is something the female dating coaches
will not tell you that women secretly love the
chase. It goes back. To the dawn of time when
the alphas were out conquering land, fighting
battles, conquering new women and whatnot. The
women back at home were chasing them. All the
other women were chasing the alphas because they
were seen as high status. They had preselection.
All the other women wanted them. You're telling
me that a girl is not going to chase her celebrity
crush. Chris Brown, Tom Hardy, Brad Pitt. You're
telling me that these guys are going to end up
chasing the girls. They don't care. The girls
see them as high value. They see them as alpha.
So you tell me who's the one going to do the
chasing the girls. Okay. And this brings me to
the next point. You over pursued her, which translates
down to you chased her away. This is one of the
reasons why women pull back fellas. And it has
everything to do with biology. Evolution. Anything
that is physically bigger, stronger, faster than
you, a human's automatic response is to flee
or run the other way. Unless if it's a honey
badger. I don't fuck with honey badgers. If it's
a honey badger, I'm running the other fucking
way, fellas, okay? But if it's anything bigger,
stronger, faster than me, it's a human's automatic
reaction to flee the other way. Men pursue. But
we never chase a woman. Because the second you
start chasing a woman, what did I just tell you?
Men are physically bigger, stronger, and faster
than women. Well, they should be, okay? Unless
if you have some issues, go to the gym. But the
second a man starts chasing a woman, it is their
automatic reaction to flee the other way. That
is evolution. But now you tell me, are you ever
going to flee? from a beautiful feminine woman
chasing you. Does that make any sense? Is she
bigger than you? Is she stronger than you? Is
she more dangerous than you? No. So why would
you run the other way? This is why you guys are
being programmed to believe that you have to
chase a woman. But we just broke this down to
you in evolutionary terms, biology. This is why
you never chase a woman. And by chasing, we mean
you constantly keep asking her to see you. You're
double texting her, triple texting her. You're
sending her long ass paragraphs like you're the
nutty professor again, and you're over complimenting
her. You're giving her fluff talk as well. Got
it? Yeah, and I know we talk about this a lot,
but it's a good example. Let's keep it simple.
men are more like dogs women are more like cats
right when i see a dog at the park anywhere i
love dogs i will walk up to that dog and that
dog will walk right up to me and it'll chase
right back at me if i'm interacting with a dog
it's excited it wags its tail right that's that
guy versus if you chase after a cat just watch
what happens try it try on your friend's cat
try it on your own cat you try to come and cuddle
the cat what's its natural reaction to jump away
to leave until it feels safe and comfortable
around you. And you're sitting there in your,
you know, chair, just hanging back, doing your
own thing. And then the cat will slowly walks
around. It circles you. And then it goes, okay,
this is safe. And then it jumps up in your lap
and starts purring. So again, simple men are
dogs. Women are cats in this scenario. Do you
have any cats? I don't have any cats, but I love
cats. I'm the guy that will. cat sit for anyone
that needs, you know, they, they need someone
to watch your cats. I'm like, bring them over
to my place. I love it. Likewise. I have Adam
here. I have, I have two cats and what happens
every time I leave for quite some time. And the
second my cats hear the door closed, what do
they do? They run up to you. They can't wait
to see you. I gave him that space to miss me.
I gave him time to miss me. That mystery. When
is he going to be back? Right? They can't wait.
They're thinking about you when you're not with
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right. So one I have here for why women pull
back is. you're revealing too much to her too
fast, too quickly. So a woman wants to discover
more about you over time. It's like a book, right?
She doesn't want to open up a chapter book and
all of a sudden the first page is the ending
and she gets all of the plot and everything going
on. She wants the characters to develop chapter
after chapter. So she wants to discover things
about you over time. And this is where a lot
of guys get it wrong on texting and online dating.
And I will be the first to admit, I used to play
the 20 questions game with girls on dating apps
and texting. And I'd say, let's learn everything
we can about each other. I'm going to ask you
a question. You ask me one back and we would
learn everything we could about each other. But
then. it became boring. There's nothing left
to discover. She has no urgency to meet up with
you in person because she can get it all from
you over text message when she's sitting lazily
on her couch eating Cheetos and she can get everything
she wants. She can get her validation and attention
without ever needing to meet up and discover
more about you in person. So if you ever see
my text, right, I'm revealing very, very, very
little about myself. And it gets to the point
where women are always like. hey i feel like
i don't know anything about you when can we hang
out when can we meet up i want to go on a date
with you i want to see you that type of stuff
because they want they know that with me they're
only going to discover more about me when we're
together in person because i'm not going to reveal
much over the cell phone so if you're revealing
too much too fast especially if you're revealing
heavy subjects telling her about how you know
your dad died and all this and it was such an
emotional time like all of that on the first
date or something like that that's way too much
you want to keep it light and casual and whenever
i want to when i'm on a date with a girl or i'm
getting to know her it's like i'm trying to learn
95 about her and only reveal about 5 % about
myself. And women love that too. Cause women
like to talk. Everyone likes to talk about themselves,
but when you can learn about her and just get
curious, Ooh, what am I going to find out about
her? And when she tries to ask you about yourself,
instead of blabbing on and on and on, I go really
short. She, you know, if I ask about her siblings,
she tells me all about her siblings. She goes,
what about you? And I go, oh yeah, I got, I got
two brothers are really close. And then right
away, I'm already putting it back. Wait a second.
You told me your brother likes to play golf.
What is it? Like I'm putting it right back on
her right away. And all of a sudden she's revealing
all this information to me. She's feeling understood.
She's feeling heard. She's feeling seen yet.
The mystery of Adam is still lingering in the
background. So she always wants to hang out and
get to know me more. And that's part of this.
So guys, reveal way, way less than you think,
especially over texting and online dating. I
love that. We have such a similar game, Adam.
It's insane. Like you said, when you're out on
a date, the girl will start talking, telling
you all this information about herself. Then
they'll try reversing it on you. I keep it very
short. You have to be a master at this. Play
it off very short. Give them just enough and
then right back to them. OK, engage with them
again. Right. And most of the times on the date,
what will the girl always say? Well, enough about
me. Let's talk about you. I feel as if I don't
know anything about you. And we play that game
again. Right, Adam? We tell them a little bit
and they don't even realize you're doing this.
They know. They don't know at all. People love
talking about themselves, especially women. Majority
of men, they don't know how to keep their fucking
mouth shut. They're very good looking. They might
be tall, might be rich, but the second they open
their big fucking mouth and they start blabbing,
that's it. The woman's panties dry up. If they
just keep their mouth shut. learn to listen,
but they're so worried about thinking how they're
going to get in this woman's pants. They're not
enjoying the moment. I don't even think like
that because the second I start thinking about
sleeping with her, how am I going to get in her
pants? It's game over for me, right? It's always
game over. Tell me how many times you guys have
been out on a date and all you're thinking about
is having sex with this girl, bringing her back,
and you guys get flustered. She could feel that
energy. But if you're just cool, calm, smooth,
let her do the talking. And here's a little secret
I'm going to teach all you guys. And this works
wonders. What does every girl always ask you
for when you're out on a date with her? When
is your birthday? They always ask you this question.
What is your sign? When is your birthday? Many
men will fail because they reveal their birthday
very soon. They're no longer a mystery. And now
what the girl does is she knows your signs. She
can easily Google what your sign is. She'll look
at the compatibility of your sign with hers.
They'll look at whether or not you guys are going
to work out. She'll also look at the traits,
personalities, who you are as a person. And they
assume there's validity to that. There's truth
to that. So now they assume you are that person,
right? Mystery gone. What I do is I don't tell
them. It drives them crazy. Adam, I'm telling
you, I don't know if you've tried this. They
will bring this up during texting conversations
randomly. Like, oh, when I see you, are you finally
going to tell me your birthday? If I come over,
will you finally tell me? They go. I don't know
why women go crazy about this shit. But when
I realized this pattern, I started doing it with
every single girl. And it's all universal. They
can't handle it. They have to know what your
sign is. But if they really believe in the horoscopes.
and they think they know you, don't you think
they would guess your sign? So with this too,
this is fun because - They never do. They never
guess the sign correctly. So how much validity
is there behind horoscopes if they believe in
that? Well, and this is what I like because I
like, and yeah, women will a lot ask about your
horoscope and all that. But I started looking
into horoscopes. I look into personality types
and stuff. So if a woman tries that on me - I'll
go, wait a second. What's your sign? Because
I already know where she's getting to. And she'll
tell me she's an Aquarius or a Cancer or whatever
she is, a Gemini. And do I know much about that
horoscopes? Not really. But I'll go, ooh, this
might not work out. And I'll say something like
that and I'll make her I'll make her think that
I actually know more about science than she does
and something like that. And either way, I'll
keep I'll be like, all right, what do you. Well,
tell me about what's our relationship going to
be like. I'm going to test you now. And so even
if it gets to that point, you can play Inception
with them. And then still, though, I'll go, oh.
that's your sign. This is going to be tough.
I go, what do you think this means about us?
And I'll again, put it back on her and I'll let
her reveal everything. And maybe she does know
about horoscopes and maybe she thinks our horoscopes
aren't compatible. But when I say it like that,
now she's going to in her mind, go, wait a second.
He doesn't think we're compatible. Now she's
going to mix up the signs and go, actually, I
think we are compatible. I think these are really
good signs. So there are definitely ways around
it. But again, the center focus is always. You're
revealing less. You're letting her reveal more.
You're letting her tell you what's on her mind.
She's showing you her poker cards. So, you know,
where she stands rather than you just giving
them away and just going, what does that mean?
I don't know. Now she's going to find everything
out about me. I don't know what I'm doing. So
always keep that little mystery alive and make
her guess, make her make her reveal. And then
you'll have a lot more information to work with.
yeah you could you could go that with so many
ways we're gonna have to save that for another
podcast conversation topics or how to remain
a mystery that would be a great that's a good
one podcast topic we come up with these as we
do it right i'm gonna write that down write that
down adam and i'll say this right with the whole
horoscope i love the way you play it because
when you say oh you're a gemini she looks at
you what what what happened i don't know the
last girl was a gemini and it just didn't work
out between me and her you break rapport okay
sexual tension now she's gonna try to validate
herself fellas okay you have to learn i'm not
like all the other gemini's though i promise
yeah i love that i'm not like all the other women
what do you have a penis then i love when they
say that you know okay so the next one right
um She heard some gossip about you fellas, whether
she Googled you or whether other women have told
them about you. Women have this gossiping channel
on Facebook, right? Are we dating the same guy?
So if they match with a specific guy on a dating
app, they'll post your picture on that Facebook
group and ask the girls, are we dating the same
guy? Let me get some tea on him. And they start
gossiping about you, right? This happened to
me. Some girl posted a picture of me and asked.
Is is Daniel OK? Is he cool? And then some girl
said, no, he's a total douchebag. Whatever. Right.
I still ended up hanging out with this girl because
indifference, fellas. I told her, yeah, you know
what? She's right. I'm a total douchebag. It
would be in your best interest to stay away from
me. I'm narcissistic, egotistical. I'm schizophrenic.
I just kept going with it. I didn't defend myself.
And you'd be surprised how well that works, fellas.
Right. So they gossip about you. And I'll give
you another example. If you lie about your age,
and this happened to a girl at the gym. I went
up to her. She was talking to this older gentleman
prior to me. He was a good -looking dude. I could
tell she was attracted to him at first. But listen
to this. This girl is 18 years old. And she told
me, why do men lie about their age? And I said,
what? What do you mean? She said, you see that
guy over there, the one she was talking to, the
good -looking one? I said, yeah, what about him?
She said that he told her. He was 28. She Googled
him and he was a cop as well. And she found out
he was really 25. She lost all attraction for
him, I guess, because she was 18. And a lot of
guys will do this to lie about their age, to
make themselves appear younger or older. I have
never done this shit in my life, fellas. OK,
and I'll tell you why. If you lie about your
age and a girl finds out. They will find out
everything about you because they're like fucking
Inspector Gadget. They're like the FBI. So what
happens is if you lie about your age, that is
feminine energy. Women only lie about their age.
And we're not hating on them. They usually do
it on social media, on dating apps. They've never
lied about their age to me in person. So I understand.
But instinctively, they know if a man lies about
his age, he has just stripped himself of any
masculinity because that is feminine energy.
So remember, have a good reputation, fellas,
right? They might Google you to see if you've
been to jail before, if you've been to prison,
if you have any charges, if you were this, if
you were that. Women do their research. They
love to talk, fellas. I want women to say good
things about me, okay? That is preselection.
When they hear some women, other women say good
things about you automatically, they're all fighting
for you now. She wants you even more. OK, so
women gossip. It might not even have anything
to do with what you did. Right. But they just
find things out. Yeah, and that's why I hear
some advice the guys will give about. like if
a girl's not texting you back, well, what's just
keep texting her, be persistent. What's the worst
that can happen? And it's what's the worst that
can happen is your pride and dignity. And that
gets around town. When you become the guy that
goes, well, I already blew it with her. I may
as well send her this mean text and get this
out off my chest, or I'll just keep trying. Word
spreads around just like czar said. And so I'm
always. leaving. Even if, if I don't, if I meet
up with a girl, I don't meet up with a girl.
We're online dating, whatever. I'm never over
pursuing. I'm never overstepping. I'm never too
aggressive or too needy or clingy. Well, for
one reason is later down the road, I match with
her again on dating apps or whatever. She's like,
Oh, okay. This guy seemed cool. I don't know
what happened to our conversation. And now we
can go back out at, but also because if you're
that needy guy or that clingy guy, or you're
aggressive or emotional, all that stuff. That
word spreads and girls will know they will share
their dating apps. They'll tell each other, oh,
you're talking to this guy, too. And so all of
that stuff will happen in girls gossip and gossip.
Just watch an episode of Sex and the City and
get a feeling for how much women talk. But that's
why when guys tell you, well, if you already
blew your chance, that's fine. There's no harm
done. Just keep pursuing. It's like that's such
it's setting such a bad habit. You're practicing
terrible habits. and your reputation goes down
is that simp beta or that emotionally aggressive
or that guy that the girl had to block in that
reputation will come back to bite you right back
in the gonads so always try to be cool calm and
collected if it doesn't work out oh well if a
girl i'm talking to all of a sudden was talking
to other guys and she gets a boyfriend i don't
care i'm not butthurt about it i'm just like
oh hey Good luck. I hope it works out well for
you. You have my number for anything. You know,
if you ever want to text me again, I always leave
stuff like that. I'm never over pursuing or trying
to shoot my shot when that shot is not there.
Quick story. And Adam, you're absolutely right
about the reputation, never getting emotional,
going with the flow, acting indifferent. So this
one girl, I got her number at the gym, beautiful
blonde bombshell. We were supposed to hang out.
Okay. She hits me up out of the blue and says,
listen, we're not going to be able to hang out.
Me and my ex -fiancee are getting back together.
We're going to try it again. I said, okay, cool.
I don't even know what the fuck that means, Adam.
I said, cool. No problem. Whatever that means,
you do you. Within two months, three months,
she came back, fellas. Guess who was the first
guy she reached out to? Me. Because I played
it cool. I wasn't emotional. She said, wow. this
is a very solid self -possessed man who probably
has a ton of other women he didn't even care
that's the kind of reputation you want fellas
sometimes they do come back if you play your
cards right yeah it's like passive income right
you just got something coming on the side when
you're never overstepping your boundary and you're
meeting women you're the social guy and you're
not overstepping it's passive income They go
and they come back. They get in that little relationship
or situationship. It doesn't work out. The guy's
too needy or whatever, blah, blah, blah. And
she comes back. But when you overstep, you over
pursue, you never get that passive income. You
never get that return customer. They move on
to the next guy and she's always swiping left
on you again. Or when she sees you at the bar,
she's avoiding you. Yeah. You guys can judge
me all you want. I love sloppy seconds. I don't
care. If she wants to go handle what she has
and then come back to me, I don't care, fellas.
It makes no difference to me. A lot of you guys
get butt hurt. No, if she did that to me, I'm
blocking her. Sometimes with women, it's all
about timing, fellas. You have to get that through
your fucking head. It's about timing, okay? Some
women will pull back. Some women just broke up
with their boyfriend. They might get back together
with him. Why would you ever block or delete
her number? Why? That shows me you have a scarcity
mindset, you're too emotional, you get too butthurt,
and you do not understand women at all. Because
if you did, you would play it cool and know that
one day they'll come back into the arms of a
masculine man that they want to have a good time
with to make them forget about what they just
went through. But you guys are so quick to want
to wife up every girl. that you want to block
her and you get but her you don't even know her
fellas she wasn't your girlfriend why are you
getting emotional that's all i had to say yeah
yeah yeah and and obviously the exception to
that rule is if she cheated on you and she was
your girlfriend don't take her back at that point
100 but like legs are saying like when i'm when
i'm not looking for commitment like i'm not i
am i'm the least controlling least possessive
man on the planet I look at her hanging out with
other guys is like, good. They can entertain
you for a while. That's my mindset. I don't necessarily
say that to women, but that's my mindset. They
can entertain her. That's fine. And I trust my
own game, my own presence enough that I just
go, the longer she's with that guy, the more
she will miss me. And I truly feel that way.
That can, you know, sound egotistical or not.
But if it works out with her and that guy, I'm
happy for both of them. Great. Awesome. Good.
But I truly believe that when a girl. goes away
or or i've had girls threaten me right because
i don't want commitment they threaten me with
well you know how many guys are pursuing you
know how many guys would would love if i was
their girlfriend and i'm like hey i want what's
best for you if you need to explore those options
that's fine but you know where i'm at right now
in my life and if you ever want to hang out just
give me a text or phone call or whatever but
i'm never that controlling guy and girls will
use that is like that they're trying to make
me back down go okay okay let's date and stuff
like that but it's like no i truly believe The
reason she's threatened me with these other guys
is because I'm her number one option and she's
trying to pressure me. So go hang out with those
other guys. And in my back of my mind, I'm like,
all right, what is it going to be? One week,
one date until she's bored of this guy and text
me again. Oh, she has two drinks with that guy
on the date. And now she's texting me because
she's already bored on the date and wants to
leave the date and come over to my place. That's
the type of inner confidence. Now I get it. It
doesn't always come right away. But just so you
have a landmark, a finish line of the type of
mindset you want to have and develop. And then
you have a kind of a pathway forward. Yeah. Don't
ever fall for that, guys. Oh, do you know how
many guys are in my DMs dying to get with me
or how many guys want to be my boyfriend? You
know what I tell them, Adam? You know, I'm more
ruthless, right? OK, go fuck with them then.
That's it. With that attitude. They can't win
over you guys, fellas. They're like, damn, I
just can't win with this guy. I literally told
her, OK, go fuck with them then. I don't care.
Right. Similar to your approach, but mine is
a little bit more ruthless. So you guys have
to use what works for you. OK, it really it is.
It's a lot of the same principles behind our
approaches. But again, like I'm more of that
stigma and you're more of that direct like. all
right well go for it and you're you're gonna
like you're gonna be more like push against her
where i'm just gonna be like hey do your own
thing i think you'll come back i know you'll
come back eventually and you're more like right
up front like boom challenging them because i
think it works if you use that right oh okay
go fuck with them then i don't think it would
work with your personality right real talk and
a lot of guys don't get that they try to be like
like me or andrew tate or this person and if
you don't have the attitude to back that up this
girl's not gonna take you seriously she's gonna
be like okay Right. So you need to you need to
know what works for you guys, your personality
like Adam, that works for him because that's
more of his attitude, more of his personality.
But it's a different approach, just like I'm
giving you guys a different approach. OK, you
have two different personalities here. So pick
one, whichever one you guys are. OK. So another
reason I have of why women pull back is. You're
being too emotional. And this can be in a couple
different instances, but one would be you're
getting too butthurt. That's like you're trying
to if you're the guy that's going, why aren't
you texting me back? You're a slow texter, man.
You're really hard to get a hold of. And you
have that energy, that pushy energy like that.
That looks emotional. That comes off as you're
not you don't have that emotional endurance that.
that cool calm and collected and you're the one
that's the the river crashing like right is a
man you want to be the rock that just stays steady
she is the wave the chaotic wave crashing into
you getting emotional having her highs and her
lows and all that but you're steady the whole
time so when you're coming across is wow i can't
believe you didn't text me back why didn't you
text me back i saw you talking to another guy
at the bar That is that emotional wave coming
at her. And then she has to harden up like a
rock and get very masculine, very short with
you. And she gets very turned off. So that's
one aspect of being too emotional. The other
aspect is being way too sappy or romantic. And
I know that this one is we're so programmed and
brainwashed by the Disney movies, the love movies.
The is a man you're supposed to confess your
feelings. Tell her how you feel. I mean. Guys,
and I do feel bad for the guys, but I have so
many women that will come up to me and show me
their texts or their online dating apps and go,
this guy, I texted, we've been sending four messages
back on online dating and look what he just wrote
me. He wrote me this romantic poem about how
beautiful my eyes are and my hair and how much,
you know, he can, like all this really overly
emotional, sappy, romantic stuff. And that's
such a turnoff, right? Women have to earn it.
They want to earn it. If you give them the red
carpet treatment at the beginning, they're like,
it's fake to them. They're like, what does this
guy want from me? This is weird. I have done
nothing to deserve this. Even though she walks
around with that, I'm a queen. I bring everything
to the table mindset. It feels fake. It feels
inauthentic to her. If you're getting so emotional,
so romantic with her, she's the most beautiful
girl you've ever seen and all that type of stuff.
When you do that too early, too often, it comes
across as way too feminine, too emotional, too
needy, that energy. And she wants to pull back.
She wants the guy, right? So an example is in
my, if I give a girl a compliment, it's so rare,
right? And I'm not addicted to women at all.
I'm very playful with them, but I don't ever
just give a compliment out of the blue to the
point where if a girl. says something to me or
she sends me these selfies or whatever i go hey
you look cute if i say literally something like
that through text hey you look cute the girl
like hearts my image goes oh my gosh that's like
the nicest compliment you've ever given me adam
and she loves she was working for that she worked
so long to get that tiny little so little tiny
compliment from me but then she's all excited
because when your compliments are shot out all
the time your compliments are meaningless. It's
like if everyone was a millionaire, it wouldn't
be cool to be a millionaire because everyone's
a millionaire. There's no value in that. So when
you're sending less compliments, every compliment
you do send means more. The other thing is, if
you're the guy that's trying to be all smooth,
Casanova, always trying to give her the perfect
romantic words and all that stuff, when you're
blasting her with that, In her mind, she's like,
this guy is a player. He tells every woman that,
right? When I give a girl a compliment, she never
says, you tell all girls that, right? Adam, don't
you? And it's like, I go, no. How often do I
compliment you? It's like, and she goes, oh,
wow, you're right. And so she knows it's meaningful
because she knows that I'm not blasting her with
compliments. That means when I give her a compliment,
it's legit. It's authentic. It's genuine. And
she can actually take that and appreciate the
compliment for what it's worth because They're
rare, so they have value. 100%, Adam. I couldn't
agree with you anymore. If you express your feelings
too early with a girl, she will pull back. She
has now conquered you. You are easily won over.
That is very unattractive, fellas. You think
the alphas back in the time were expressing their
feelings early to the women they had? Fuck no,
they weren't, fellas. That was for the beta male
berry pickers. Those were the ones expressing
their feelings to the girls, hoping that maybe
they'll win them over with their charm and their
fake charisma and get in their pants. Alphas
were hard to conquer. That's what makes them
so valuable, okay? Expressing your feelings too
early to a girl is exactly the same as revealing
your hand in a high -stakes poker game. You're
letting everyone in the table know, look, I have
a royal flush. Game over, fellas. Now, there
are other ways to let a girl know how you feel
about her, a more masculine, charming way. One
of the examples is, babe, I love your feminine
energy. Oh, I can just get lost in it, right?
Or I love the way you talk to me. I love the
way you tell a story, babe. I want to get lost
in those words, right? Or I love how rhapsodic
your body feels when I lie naked next to you,
right? That is a more romantic, more creative
way. of telling a girl how you feel about her
without telling her, baby, I really love you.
I can't live without you. I think about you every
day. Oh my God, I want you to be my girlfriend.
I want to marry you. No, guys, even I would get
repulsed as a woman. And girls have come up to
me and told me, Zart, why do guys say I love
you too quickly in a relationship? This girl
that I just got done sleeping with, I didn't
want a relationship with her because I wasn't
ready at that time. She found another beta cuck.
that she was dating she got in a relationship
with him within a month or two months he already
told her that he loves her this girl lost all
attraction for him okay men fall in love much
quicker and women fall out of love much quicker
right so if you express your feelings too early
to a girl this is why it's so repulsive and this
is as repulsive as men view a slut a promiscuous
woman this is how repulsive this is fellas so
listen up when you express your feelings to a
girl too early they can't trust you anymore because
what is stopping you from falling in love with
the next beautiful woman that you meet that's
why they can't trust you that's why that's repulsive
there is no value in that She knows the second
you meet another cute girl, oh, you're going
to catch feelings for her too now. A woman that
is about to bear your children, your offspring,
it's evolutionarily hardwired. They can't trust
you now, okay? What did I tell you? I think it
was in podcast one or two. We went over the email,
the response we had. When you get caught cheating,
fellas, what is the first thing women will ask
you? Do you have any feelings for her? Why? Because
that's when they can't trust you anymore. You
cannot express your feelings too early with a
girl, fellas. Be more creative. Be original.
I can get lost in your feminine grace. I can
get lost in that feminine energy of yours. Babe,
I appreciate everything you do for me. I love
when you're caring. I love when you tell me sweet
things. I love when you call me daddy. If you
can throw in that word, I love when you do this,
you do that, your feminine energy, that's much
more powerful because you're giving them positive
reinforcement. You're giving them positive affirmation.
They're going to keep doing that behavior that
you're appreciating. That's a little secret and
a little trick for you guys. If you want a woman
to behave the way you want them to. Oh, baby,
I love when you cook for me. I love the way the
oatmeal tastes. I want you to make it for me
next week again. They love when you show appreciation,
but not. Oh, baby, I love you so much. I don't
know what I do. If you ever leave me, if you
ever cheated on me, I'll love you no matter what.
That is the most beta shit a man can ever say
to a woman because you're giving her the incentive
that you'll love her no matter if she cheats
on you, if she disrespects you, if she does this,
if she does that, whatever it is, you'll still
love her no matter what. I'm only going to love
a woman, Adam, on the condition that she respects
me. that's it my love is earned and you guys
have to start having that same attitude everything
you do for a woman is earned even the way you
smile at her a compliment your feelings for her
that is earned you buying her dinner you buying
her perfume everything has to be earned because
that which is not earned humans do not value
it's human nature if you win the lottery you're
not gonna value that money because you did not
earn it that's why majority of lottery winners
they go broke easy come easy go fellas that's
exactly what will happen to you yeah i mean there's
just so many good points to go off of there it's
just like it and so many guys do fall in love
so quickly or they think they're in love or whatever
so quickly but again three months six months
in and if she's the most amazing girl in the
world right If that girl knows that she hasn't
been on her absolute top game, every time she
hung out, she was looking her best. She's saying
all the charming, all that things, right? Women
have different levels of game. They work harder
for certain men than they work for other men.
So if you're one of those guys that she knows
she's not even putting her a game in and you're
already all into her, she's the greatest thing.
Again, she's going to be like, this is, I'm not
even on my a game. So if this guy's already in
love with me. imagine what my a game could do
with a better guy. So then that's when your admiration,
your affection, your, your love for her doesn't
matter that much. Cause she's like, well, I can
do better than cause I wasn't even on my a game
here. He didn't even see me at my best. He didn't
see how nurturing I could be. He didn't even
see all the things I could do. He didn't even
see me cook for him. He didn't even see me do
all these other things that she knows that she
has other tools in her belt to get the guy that
she wants. So again, if you're confessing, you're
giving your love to her way too easy, it feels
disingenuine to her because she knows that you
shouldn't be. She's just a human being like you
are. She poops and farts like you do. And it's
like, why is this guy so enamored with me? Something's
wrong with them. Or this guy gets no other women
because I'm not even doing what I know I should
be doing to get this guy's love. So she's like,
this guy either has no women in his life, which
is unattractive. She's like, well, what's wrong
with him? Maybe I should look for other guys.
Or she's like, this is way too easy. Another
guy, a higher status guy will appreciate me when
I'm on my A game because this guy was way too
easy. I gave him my C plus game and he's in love
with me right now. And Adam preaches that in
his courses and his videos. You do not want to
be too easy for a girl. You want her to work
for it, whether that's sex. whether that's seduction,
whether that's dating her, whatever it is, fellas,
easy come, easy go, okay? Now, the next one.
Now, this is very important, fellas, because
this happens to the players, to the playboys,
to the ladies' men, and this has happened to
me several times. It has also happened to Adam,
the texting prince. This has happened to Andrew
Tate as well. All the players out there, women,
will do this, okay? If they see you as that player,
as that playboy, they will pull back purposely
in order to have the power in the dating dynamics.
They never want to feel powerless, and they know
this every time they do the chasing. So what
do they do? They try to manipulate you in order
for you to chase them instead now. Right. So
they might give you a text like, oh, I don't
know. You just seem like a player. I don't know
if I want to hang out with you anymore. OK, no
problem. They want you to chase. I've had other
girls do this to me. I knew they loved me. I
know they wanted to be with me, but they were
tired of doing all the chasing. So what did she
text me? I'll never forget this. Listen, I don't
think it's going to work out between me and you.
I hope you have a good life and good luck to
you. I knew what she was doing, right, Adam?
She wanted me to go chase her now. Like, no,
no, don't go. I'm sorry. I'll do whatever you
ask me to because she knows I was dating other
women. But this was her power move. And guess
what? Within a week, week and a half, she came
right back. If you don't chase them, fellas,
just let them go. I promise you. They do this
to the players if they see you as that high -value
man. And Andrew Tate shared a story as well with
this really famous Indian girl, this beautiful
Indian girl that tried pulling the same move
on him. And he just laughed it off with his brother.
He showed his brother the text and they both
were laughing because they understand the game,
Adam. Right. They knew exactly what this girl
was trying to do. And then she ended up coming
back. So this will happen to you guys. It might
not happen anytime soon unless you really start
developing yourself to become that high value
man. That ladies, man, that they know all the
other women want you. You have high status. Maybe
you're successful, whatever it is, your attitude.
So what will they do? OK, it's a power move on
their part. So if you chase them and you fall
for it, that's it. You lost. You lost. They know
they have you now, fellas. They know it. But
I'd rather be the man who has the power in the
relationship. And another instance as well. This
always happens, Adam. This one chick. Kept texting
me good morning every morning. She was being
compliant. She was chasing me. One day she texted
me, I want you to start texting me good morning
every morning now. Did I do it, Adam? What do
you think? I hope not. I didn't. And guys fall
for this all the time. They think that's what
the girl wants because she said that's what she
wants. Okay. But women say one thing and mean
another. She said that so I can be the one chasing
her now. And the second I give her what she wants,
boom, she starts losing interest. She starts
pulling away. I'd rather her pull away by me
not complying and then her coming back and me
still having the power. And that's exactly what
happened. The next morning, I still didn't text
her good morning. She texted me. I thought I
told you to text me good morning. If you don't
text me good morning the next morning, I'm not
talking to you. I said, okay, cool. I still didn't
text her good morning the next morning. So she
gave me this spiel how I'm the one that steers
the ship. I have to be the one in control. Yada,
yada, yada. All this masculine bullshit that
men do not want to hear. I played it cool. I
said, OK, this is just not going to work out
between us. And guess what? Within a week and
a half, two weeks, she ended up coming back.
She said, hey, listen, I want to come over. We
need to talk. I said, OK, cool. No problem. She
comes inside, Adam. She starts giving me this
whole explanation how I wasn't cooperating. Do
I understand what I was doing wrong and how this
isn't fair to her? She went on for five, 10 minutes.
I looked at her, Adam, serious face. And I said,
you know what? I get it. I know exactly what
you're trying to say. And she said, oh, you do.
And I said, yes, you want me to do you in the
shower. With a smile on my face. That's good.
Very good. Broke the sexual tension. She punched
me in the arm that like, you know, I hate you,
but I want to fuck you right now. And we did.
We, you know, we had sex in the shower after.
But once again, guys, build that sexual tension
and then break it. I didn't take it too seriously
because I know the game, but she still didn't
go anywhere. Right. I was that lovable asshole
that she adored. That's what we want you guys
to do. Yeah, that's funny on this. I only had
one of like why she'll actually pull back because
most of the time for most men, women will pull
back because of some guy, something a guy's doing
wrong in a sense and she's getting turned off.
But this is one I had on here. Just like you
said, why women pull back in rare cases, it's
going to be to test your strength and she wants
you to start chasing. But again, if you start
chasing. than the game has evaporated for that
game why she was so engaged and wanted you to
chase in the first place once you give that to
her oh maybe that wasn't what i wanted for some
reason i'm just not feeling the same butterflies
i was with this guy before so part of this guys
that you got to understand women are going out
with an army of women around especially when
there's a guy they can't figure out there's a
guy that they can't get to comply there's a guy
that won't send her the good morning text and
won't Take her out to all the restaurants she
wants to go to. That's when the girls get around
at the girls' nights, drinking wine. And they
go, this guy, this guy, Adam, this guy, Czar,
he won't do blah, blah, blah. And then all of
the other cocky girls around her that have simps
and betas in their DM or they married a beta,
they go, oh, I know what will get them. Tell
him blah, blah, blah. And you're not going to,
and they'll give their advice to this girl. And
she'll be like, yeah, that's what I'm going to
do. Or they'll go. don't text him back for 24
hours. They'll give this rule to go. Don't text
him back for 24 hours. He'll, he'll feel like
he lost you and then he'll come scrambling back.
And then the powers in your court, right? That's
what girls will give that advice. So when a girl
does that to me, and I always know, I always
know when I have the power game one with a woman,
I already know I can look at a text message,
anything I go, she wants me, I'm in control.
So when she pulls back, I laugh and I go, oh,
this will be fun. And I just wait. I play the
waiting game because when she's not with her
girlfriends anymore, she's leaving for the night
and she has a couple glasses of wine at home
or she's at the bar. And now she's got a little
drunk and she goes, oh, my friends say I shouldn't
text him. But whatever. Just like every guy knows
that feeling when you like a girl and you let
a drunk text slip. You're like, I shouldn't do
it, but I do it anyway. girls are human beings
they'll do the same thing so when she puts on
that oh i'm i'm gonna test him all that and you
don't play along all of a sudden a few days later
next week when she gets some drinks in her or
when she's just feeling a little lonely she'll
come back hey what are you up to or she'll come
back and apologize hey i'm sorry i didn't text
you back blah blah blah she'll come back and
she'll try to get back in your good graces if
you have that strength right this is all the
test of your strength your emotional endurance
and if you can wait it out that's a big factor
that will weed out right the needy guys the fake
alphas the fake guys with game from the real
ones is most guys will cave to that test because
you know how i know this too all guys around
me If they look at my text messages, buddies
of mine, and they'll see some girl send me three
texts and they're looking at the go. Why aren't
you responding? You're going to lose her. You
better do this. And they get all frantic and
they give each other advice. Yeah, it's time
to check in. She just feels like you've got to
show you're committed. And guys will give other
guys this terrible advice all day long. That's
how I got my wife. I just kept pursuing. That's
what you need to do. And the guys will look around
because they don't really know. Us guys aren't
taught game. And they'll go, well, I don't know.
This guy sounds confident. I'll try that. And
then they start chasing and the girl runs away
or she starts to slowly pull back more and more
and more. And most guys go, what happened? I
don't know. Again, it was a test of strength.
So it's always you got to be careful who you
get your advice from. If you're getting your
advice from some guy that's married, is his wife
looking at him every time they're in every time
she's around him? Is she looking at him with
adoring eyes? Is she following his lead? Is she
always talking positively about him? Is she always
submitting to him? If she's not, then who cares
what that guy's? He might think I got the marriage,
but behind closed doors is a dead bedroom or
she's sleeping with some other guy behind his
back, whatever it is. So you got to look at.
Does this guy get women adoring him? Does this
guy get women chasing him? Does this guy seem
like he actually knows what he's talking about?
Because you will get bad advice from all normal
people around you that I would say in the blue
pill matrix, and they'll give you the advice
that they've heard. But that advice is not advice
that works with women. And any guy that's had
struggled with women understands that we've tried
the generic mainstream advice and it doesn't
work. So on that strength test, you got to hold
your ground and you will pass the test. I hope
you guys rewind that part and really listen to
what texting Prince was just telling you. He
made some stellar points right there. I even
had an aha moment how that girl that wanted me
to text her good morning every morning. How do
I not know her girlfriends told her to do that?
How do I not know that? Maybe a girl said, wait,
he doesn't text you good morning. Oh, my man
texts me good morning every morning and then
telling her what to do. Girls would get well,
they will get advice from their girlfriends.
They have these books as well. These bullshit
books written by female dating coaches, the rules
or whatever they're called. Right. Steve Harvey,
Steve Harvey or Steve Harvey. Yeah. Imp is giving
them advice. Yeah. Think think like a man or
act like a woman. Some bullshit I never read.
Whatever. But. The only advice I will ever take
from someone is Adam because I know he has game.
He knows I have game. I'm not asking anyone else
for advice. None of my friends because they don't
have the game I have. No married men. And I always
have married family members or cousins that are
married. Some bullshit person trying to give
me advice on women or they want me to do an interview
with them because, oh, they're married and they
understand relationships. I look at them and
I'm like, bro. You've never been with a girl
before you're white. What do you know about women?
And she has you by the balls. She gives you one
look and you're leaving. You're following her.
You already know the code. She keeps you away
from guys like me because they don't like me
because they know I see them for what they're
worth, okay? That's easier for them to manipulate
you if they can keep you away from guys like
myself, from listening to podcasts or advice
from Adam, the texting prince. They don't want
you guys listening to our stuff because they
know they can no longer manipulate you. Okay?
He made some very killer points. Go back, rewind
10 minutes right now, and listen to that, fellas.
Okay? Now, we're going to go over actually a
related email, Prince. This goes back to the
good morning text. This is what we're here for,
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So I'm going to go over the email. Donya, question.
When, if ever, is it a good idea to text her
good morning? She is my girlfriend of six months
now. I text her good morning every once in a
while when I feel like it. Good for you, bro.
That's what I want you to keep doing. However,
she has been asking me to text her good morning
often lately. Does this sound familiar, Adam?
Oh, it sure does. Does this sound familiar? And
guys still won't listen to us. They still won't
fucking believe us. Okay. Normally, I would tell
her no or simply say sure and do whatever I fucking
want in response to requests like this. Good.
Here's where I see a problem. Before we dated,
she saw another guy once or twice. I found out
that they used to text a lot and he would text
her good morning every morning to which she got
very excited. Parentheses. This guy was fucking
attractive. Not going to lie. I guess he models
in NYC. Obviously, she doesn't text anyone since
being with me. She's been my good little girl
and would be long gone if this ever wasn't the
case. For context, I'm a stud. I'm an athlete,
intelligent, and also attractive. Although it
sounds so gay for me to say this other guy I
mentioned was fucking hot. That's not as gay,
man. Other guys can look at a guy and tell whether
he's attractive or not. So it doesn't mean you're
gay. My only concern is that by me not texting
her good morning, she will think. Oh, well, this
other guy texted me every morning and I loved
it. My new guy doesn't do that at all. I don't
want to immediately submit to her request, but
I obviously don't want her to start resenting
me of this. I might start sending a good morning
text when she's been extra good. That seems like
a reasonable solution. What would you do? Also,
this girl is very submissive and devoted to me.
Thanks for your advice in advance. I love how
he said. he's only gonna text her good morning
when she's been extra good i like that right
when it's earned that's what we've been teaching
you guys okay but like i just said if you give
her what she wants now you're the one chasing
her she wants the power in the relationship my
dude that's why she's telling you that we've
been in these situations she ain't going nowhere
if she fell in love with you and you're the man
she finds attractive and found attractive especially
since the beginning why would you change anything
about yourself this is how they conquer you guys
they get the bad boy and they make him change
his bad boy ways they start taming him and that's
when they lose attraction okay but your opinion
yeah yeah yeah exactly i mean She's into you.
She's submissive, right? So what you're doing
is working. I love what he said about he only
does it when he feels like it. I'm the same way.
I will almost never send a fluff text, right?
But because I'm so unavailable and I text so
little, when I do every once in a while and I'm
inspired, I'll tell guys, if you're inspired
to be like, hey, and you send that text, that
is fine every once in a while. But when the girls
try to give you that demand. This is why it's
always so important to have how you're setting
it up in the dating process and all that of always
being slow to respond. Girls know that I'm not
around my phone. They know that I don't like
to text. So when girls say stuff like that to
me, I will say something like, hey. I just always
forget I'm not around my phone, but you can send
me a good morning text to remind me. And again,
there she's sending me one and then I can respond
in an hour, hour and a half and be like, hey,
it's great. Had a meeting, blah, blah, blah.
But she's coming after me first. So she's still
doing the chasing. Other women will tell me they'll
always get used to chasing after me. So let's
say, well, I feel like I'm annoying you than
if I text you all the time. And I'll tell him,
I'll be like, hey, I love like I have a busy
day. There's nothing better I like than to receive
that cute little text from you to balance out
my day. And so you'll see her like light up a
little bit. I'll be like, I love when you send
me random text. Never feel like you're annoying
me. Do it all the time. Just know it's not my
first thought to wake up and send the text like
that. But I love when you do that. And so in
that context, now you're actually shaping her
to, in a sense, chase after you more or to remind
you about the good morning text because she's
sending you one first. So there are a lot of
good ways around it. But when you acknowledge
it and you come off of like, you're not just
saying like, no, I'm never going to send you
a good morning text. You play it off aloof. You
play it off like you're busy and all that. But
you give her that acknowledgement that that that.
that shaping of, Hey, but I love when you do
that. I really like getting those texts from
me. You, you are from you, you know, I'm busy.
You know, I'm, you know, when I'm at the gym,
I'm focused on my workouts, but I love between,
between reps. When I get that random text from
you, that's how I always shape it. And that will
usually get a girl to perk up and be like, Oh,
cool. Cause now she has a new game plan. That's
what you want. Just a new game plan. Instead
of you being the guy that said that you're, you
know 7 a .m alarm every day to be like text my
girl and and have it all automatic like that
you can frame it in such a way that she still
gets what she wants or she at least feels like
she's allowed to blow up your phone with text
messages but you're not giving her the power
you're not handing her the power and again right
when when you have the power in a relationship
it's not that manipulation women look up to you
then and they have something to to grab onto
and to aspire after because they're still chasing
after you so it works out for both of you when
that dynamic is in play where she's chasing so
you just got to be a little nuanced about it
but do not cave and start to change all your
patterns i really like how this guy's mindset
is it sounds like his mind's in the right place
and he's really you know got game under his belt
he just wants a little bit of confirmation that
what he's doing is working and i would say What
you're doing is working and you can take some
of those little tips we gave you to just kind
of finally tune it. But what you're doing is
good and your mindset is in the right place.
And here's the caveat, texting Prince. Listen
to this. Before she dated, she saw another guy
once or twice. I found out that they used to
text a lot and he would text her good morning
every morning to which she got very excited.
This guy was attractive, not going to lie. I
guess he models at NYC. If she got very excited
and she loved it from him, from those guys or
from that guy, why isn't she still with them?
Exactly right. Bingo. Why isn't she still with
them? Because she got what she wanted. She already
knew they fell for it. They're easily won over.
They started chasing her now and she lost all
attraction. That's it. Game over. She tamed the
wild beast. So why would you comply to that motherfucker?
That's what we're teaching you. OK, she's basically
admitting to you that she lost the traction for
them because she's not with them anymore. And
she told them to do the exact same thing and
they fell for it. OK, but next one, Adam. The
last one I have for why women pull back is if
you're coming off is too aggressive without building
comfort with her first. And so one thing in this
avenue would be if you're getting too sexual
without her being invested yet. I see some guys
will be like, yeah, I just took this program
from so -and -so. And they said, you know, it's
a numbers game. Every girl you match with just,
you know, send her a dick pic or send her a sexual
joke and you'll get the ones that play back.
And I'm like, again, you're practicing such bad
habits that would only work with a small percentage
of women. If you are extremely high status, attractive,
you have a great profile or whatever, but that's
not best practice. That's not good game. So when
you're coming off as too aggressive without that
comfort, that's going to make her go, I don't
want to deal with a stalker. I don't want some
violent guy. I don't want some guy that won't
take no for an answer. That's the vibe she's
going to get if you're trying to come in way
too sexual. I like to if I slip in a joke or
I leave it open ended, I like to give like maybe
an innuendo that could be taken sexually. For
instance. when I was a school teacher and girls
would know I was a teacher or whatever, and they
would say something to me, I would say something
like, oh, I don't like that. You're going to
have to stay in a recess and put your head down,
right? And so that context can be very sexual.
A lot of girls would come back and go, I hope
you do. Will you spank me too or whatever? But
what I'm doing is I'm not getting sexual. I'm
setting the trap. And then I want the girl to
come in sexual first. And then when a girl comes
in sexual, I will actually pull back and something
I will kind of make her sweat it out and make
her go, wait, did I get too sexual? Cause I want
her to be the one always coming after me. And
so I'm like, Whoa, Whoa, Whoa. We just met you.
You know, you're going to have to, you're going
to have to give me a kiss first before, like,
but you don't want to be the guy that's coming
across too sexual. Yeah. In your vibe, you want
to have that sexual vibe where she feels like
it can get sexual, but you don't want to be directly
coming in sexual when she doesn't have comfort
built. first. And I lost a woman I will never
forget. She was this beautiful British girl from
my previous job. She was a patient. So I used
to work for an oral surgeon because I was heading
over to dental school. And then this is my new
path. We'll save that for another time. But I
met this beautiful patient. I was in the room
with her chit -chat, shooting the shit. And she
was on her way to moving to California. So I
knew I had a small window of opportunity. I could
tell she was very attracted to me. I was only
talking to her for maybe five, seven minutes.
The attraction was there. And this is important.
I'm going to get there before she leaves. You
know, doctor steps in. He's talking to her. So
before she leaves, I go out to take out the trash.
That was always the perfect opportunity to get
the girl's number as they're leaving. I'm pretending
to take out the trash. And I stopped her. I said,
hey, listen, you know. let me grab your number.
We're going to go out for a drink. And she only
lived five minutes for me, Adam. I dropped the
ball on this big. The attraction was very fucking
high with this girl. That night I texted her,
hey, listen, what are you doing tomorrow night?
I always strike when the iron's hot. And plus
she was about to leave for California. So she
said, yeah, I'm free. I'll grab drinks with you.
And then I said, make sure you wear something
tight and sexy. And that turned her off. I'll
never forget. She replied with, I don't know
what kind of a night you were expecting it to
be, but I couldn't fumble back from that. But
I always text a girl that that's an alpha move.
You tell them what to wear. I would always text
them wear something tight and sexy. That was
my go -to and never failed me. But I've realized
where I went wrong. The comfort wasn't built.
The attraction was there, but you guys need to
have the comfort built before you start. Throwing
out sexual innuendos or trying to be sexual over
text. If the comfort is not built, you will creep
out majority of women, okay? That is a fact,
fellas. And the girls that I talk to, they tell
me that the second a guy asks for pics, naked
pics or sexy pics, that's when the girl loses
interest. That is when she loses interest. Do
not do it. I don't care how horny you are, how
fucking desperate you are. Have some self -control,
fellas. And I have never sent a girl a dick pic
in my life. And girls have told me the second
a guy does that, they lose all attraction for
him. I don't care how big it is. I don't care
how nice or beautiful it is. You could have fucking
diamonds coming out of it. It could be made out
of a diamond. You could have doves flying out
of it. It doesn't matter, fellas. Women aren't
hardwired like men. Men are visual creatures.
Women, you have to get them. erogenous zones
is in here okay their mind that's how they're
hardwired fellas right but learn from our mistakes
don't be too sexual right off the gate it might
work with some women of course it will right
if the timing is right her temperature is high
she's feeling it that night you're that alpha
dude you come in masculine it might work right
because i've come up to girls and said you have
amazing tits that was my opener and it works
cocky who cares right it's better than buying
a girl a drink or simping for her right that
line will always work 10 times better okay but
you have to be careful make sure the comfort
is built first okay um yeah yeah well on top
of that though that was a great example too of
just you striking a little too fast without the
comfort because i've made all those mistakes
as well but that's a great example for guys to
learn from because sometimes when you think the
vibe is right you're like oh i can go for it
but again when you when you know you have that
comfort is when she's starting to allude to sexual
things before you are that's when more of that
comfort is built and one thing i'll give every
guy advice on right now about pics because again
i'm the texting guy i'm the online dating guy
so i build comfort quickly with women online
and one thing i'll always do because i learned
the hard way of you know send me a sexy pic right
that can go yeah some women will some women won't
but i want to develop the game that If I ever
met that unicorn or I met any girl, the slutty
girl, the unicorn, I want game that can work
on all of them. I want to be able to keep it
around and build attraction with all women. One
thing I'll do a lot on dating apps is after messaging
a little bit and she's starting to message me
back quicker than I'm messaging her, I'll say
something like, send me a cute pic. I'll say
cute pic. Send me a cute pic. And again, right.
It's like leaving the ball in her court again,
because some girls then will literally send me
lingerie pics. Other girls will send me a picture
of their face. But when you say send me a cute
pic, some girls will even come back and go, I'm
not sending you nudes. And then. Right. But I
have plausible deniability. Women are very good
at this. I know how to use it, too. So I'll just
say. No, I just meant a cute pic. So I know you're
not some 59 year old guy in your mom's basement
catfishing me. Right. You always have an out
in that instance. But when you lead with send
me a cute pic. Right. I get one of those and
a girl sends me a pic. If I'm feeling the vibe
is right, then I might go. But I want one for
my eyes only. And then you'll get a little more.
But then if a girl plays back and goes, I'm not
sitting you nude, something like that. I go,
no, I just meant all these pics. On your dating
app, every other guy gets I just want, you know,
a cute selfie from just you. Right. So I have
plausible deniability again. So I'm never overstepping.
And then girls kind of feel like, oh, I'm sorry,
I didn't I thought you meant blah, blah, blah.
And then they start to go, oh, I was wrong about
my read on you. But when you always frame it
in such a way that you're not coming across sexual,
but you're kind of leaving that door open if
she wants to open it, that is a great way to
kind of break in. to more of that sexual vibe
with women. But I always use plausible deniability.
I always give myself an out so that she can't
get mad at me and at least not with good reason.
Cause I'll be like, whoa, what are you talking
about? I just meant a cute selfie that you haven't
sent all these other guys in your dating apps.
That's all. Whoa, what's your, your mind's in
the gutter. We just met. And then I can. playfully
turn around on her again in those situations.
But yeah, coming across as too sexual too quickly
without that comfort is going to scare a lot
of women off. And if you're looking for some
type of relationship, the only girls that that
does work on are not going to be the girls that
you want to get in a committed relationship with
anyway. That's genius. I love that line. Send
me a cute pic because you covered your tracks.
Covered your tracks. It's all about that. You
lay landmines for women to walk into instead
of having to tiptoe around all the landmines
that she walks into. You completely flip the
script. And that happened to me, fellas, three
years ago. We're still learning the game, right?
We're not complete masters. We consider ourselves
masters because we've had so much practice. We
understand the game. We've went through rejections.
We learn from our mistakes. But I was so eager
because this girl was so sexy. She was gorgeous
and she was highly sexual. She came into the
office looking like a schoolgirl the way she
was dressed. Short skirt, heels, beautiful, voluptuous
body, sexy British accent. And I could have had
it, fellas, if I. wasn't so sexual if i played
it cool she wanted to go out with me she was
eager the attraction was there and you know what
i had to see her twice she came into work again
that could have backfired that could have backfired
because i felt i felt the awkward tension in
the room now i didn't even want to be in there
but i also wanted to be in there to make sure
she didn't tell the doctor anything okay behind
my back so i had to play like being the cool
nice guy right but be careful if you do if you
do that at work you guys have to be careful right
we still slip up but i learned from that never
be too sexual right off the gate okay now the
next one a lot of guys don't seem to understand
this one adam so we're gonna break this shit
down right now so you guys fucking get it through
your head you were the rebound okay most beautiful
women They aren't single, fellas. They're always
fucking with someone. If you are the rebound,
they will ghost you once their ex hits them back
up. This is when they are emotionally unavailable
for you. Women know in order to get over a man,
they have to be under another man. That's how
majority of women operate, fellas. So remain
the rebound. Don't get attached. By expressing
your feelings or bringing up a relationship with
her or bringing up your insecurities. That's
when you scare them away, fellas. They don't
want another relationship. They got out of the
last one to have fun now. They're not going to
just jump right back into another relationship.
They are emotionally unavailable for the time
being. So you guys have to play it cool. And
just remain the rebound. Have fun with her, fellas.
If she doesn't bring up a relationship with you,
you don't fucking bring one up either. I have
never brought up a relationship with a girl unless
if she already had a boyfriend and I truly wanted
to be with her. That's when I would push her
to leave him and to be with me because I know
she wanted to be with me as well. She just didn't
want to be the one that left him without having.
a rebound like myself, a guarantee, and I gave
her that guarantee. But that's the only exception,
fellas, okay? Remain the rebound. Just assume
that women are dating. They are fucking, fellas.
I'm telling you, especially in the Western world,
they are out here doing things that you can't
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Adam. OK, this is a fucking great one. You started
pursuing her after sex. This used to happen to
me back in my beta barnacle days right after
I either hooked up with the girl or I fucked
the girl. I would be the first one reaching out
right away. asking to see her again, acting all
beta, telling her that I had a great time. I
enjoyed your company. I'm excited to see you
the next time. Have a great night, sweetie. I
hope you think about me. Oh, I miss you, babe.
When are we going to get married? I want three
kids. How many do you want, babe? Beta shit.
Just because she sleeps with you, you got to
act as if you've done this plenty of times with
women before. You act alpha. You play it cool.
I would be the first one always reaching out
to see her again acting beta. Once you fuck a
girl, she has to chase you now, fellas. Okay?
Men pursue up until the point when sexual intercourse
has happened. That is my opinion. That is my
belief. That's how the alphas did it back since
the dawn of time. They would pursue a beautiful
woman until they slept with her. Now the woman
chases the man. She has to hit you up first.
Now, this does several things, fellas. If a woman
doesn't even bother hitting you up after you
slept with her, that's all she wanted. And guess
what? She is used to doing that because a high
quality feminine woman, after she sleeps with
a man, it doesn't sit right in her stomach to
never contact that man ever again. They have
this guilty conscious they go through. Whether
it takes a week, two weeks, they will reach out
to you. They want to see you again. If they don't,
this is how I know that girl only wanted a one
night stand. That's it. She's used to doing that.
Why would I invest any of my time and or money
on this girl, fellas? That is a waste of money.
That is a waste of time. When a girl hits me
up after I've slept with her, this shows me that
she has high interest in me. She wants to see
me again. She enjoyed my company. Maybe she wants
something more with me. What does that tell me?
Okay, I can spend a little bit more money on
her. I can invest more of my time in seeing her.
I know this girl's interested. I'll show her
my appreciation. I'm going to take her out again.
We're going to go out to a nice dinner this time
because she earned it after she slept with me.
Once again, everything has to be earned with
a woman. Once they sleep with you fellas and
she reaches out to you, set up the second date.
Hey, listen, I'd like to take you out to dinner.
I think you earned it. Boom. When you say that
to a girl, I'd like to take you out to a nice
dinner. I think you earned it. That means so
much more to her, fella. She appreciates it.
That's how you get a woman to fall in love with
you when everything you do for her is earned,
okay? But a good quality girl, she will always
reach out to you. If she doesn't even bother
reaching out to you after you got her when she
was at her most vulnerable, a woman is at her
most vulnerable when she sleeps with a man. That's
how they express themselves via vulnerability,
via sex. If she doesn't bother reaching out to
you, guess what? Either you were horrible in
bed or you did something to creep her out, or
either she has a boyfriend, she could be married,
or she could be a thot, a promiscuous woman who's
used to doing this. It's your call, fellas. But
this has never failed me. The girls that only
wanted a one -night stand. I'm telling you, when
they never reached out to me again and then I
tried reaching out to them, I never saw them
again. And that's when I knew, okay, now I know
this is what those types of girls only wanted.
And I'm cool with that. Yeah, I'm going to take
this a step further too for a lot of guys that
are going on dates or whatnot and not getting
back to the bedroom or whatnot. And this one
was harder for me to put into practice and kind
of embody. is after a date too, I'm not reaching
out to a girl. If we went on a date, I'm not
reaching out to her and saying, hey, I had a
great time tonight. I hope you did. You're a
great, I'm not reaching out to her. I expect
that the woman will reach out to me that night
or the next morning. And if she doesn't reach
out to you the next morning, right, without you
initiating it, in my eyes, she probably wasn't
interested. And that's cool. You're not gonna
be everyone's cup of tea. But most guys, most
guys go, hey, well, we just had a date. I got
to reach out to her, make sure she got home safe
and all that. It's like, yeah, OK, but you you
it takes two to tango. She you went on that date
with her. So why is she not reaching out to you?
And it goes back to those dynamics of her chasing.
So I know that one's kind of a hard one for guys
to do. It's like we're taught to be a gentleman
and all that. But if you build this all up the
right way anyway, where you're. displaying yourself
as a busy guy you're not always available to
her you got things going on in her life it will
be congruent and it will make sense that you're
not thinking oh it slipped my mind to reach out
to her afterwards and again you're also getting
interest revealed from her when she's coming
out to you and going hey i had such a great time
last night blah blah blah i hope we can do it
again right that's again what you want her to
be sending but if you're sending that to her
right away now she knows where you stand and
now she decides whether Oh, maybe I wasn't feeling
it. Maybe I don't want to be with this guy. So
that's a rule that I always have. I don't reach
out to a girl after a date. I'm expecting that
she's reaching out to me. Do I get mad if she
doesn't reach out to me? Of course not. I'm just
like, hey, it wasn't there. That's fine. But
a lot of guys are always going to go, well, I
just had fun with her. I want to hear from her
again. So it's almost an excuse you give yourself
to be like, well, I'm just checking in to be
safe. It's like, well, is that really what you're
doing? Or were you looking for a little? subconscious
validation that she might still like you so that's
another reason too it shows that strength when
you just left her and you're not just all the
already fumbling over your phone to be like hey
i had a great night hope you get home safe and
all that right i want her to reach out to me
first after a date or after we're hanging out
yeah let me tell you guys something i'm sure
adam has experienced this as well i've tried
doing both fellas back in my beta days I always
tried the, oh, I hope you make it home safely
text. Oh, I can't wait to see you again text.
Oh, when can I see you again? How about this
week? I hope you have a great night. I really
enjoyed your company. I hope you had fun. Let
me tell you something, fellas. That shit got
me nowhere except chronic masturbation. That
is it. I never fucking saw those girls again.
And you guys still won't believe us. You guys
still won't fucking believe us. And you will
take the advice of other women or these female
dating coaches or these guys that have no idea
what they're talking about. This all comes from
experience. And then I've tried the advice that
Adam's giving you. Do not reach out within that
entire week. Let her reach out to you. If your
game is tight enough and you know the value that
you bring. She will reach out to you, fellas.
But most of these women take the advice, and
I've posted videos about this as well. Wait a
week, right? Don't reach out to her. And then
girls will comment, oh, if a guy doesn't reach
out to me, I'm just moving on and I'm done with
him. No, you won't. Because if you were really
that attracted to him, you're not going to just
let that guy go. You're going to get pissed off
a little bit. And you're in their mind that entire
week when I'm not reaching out. You know what's
going through a woman's mind? Did he like me?
Was it something I said? Why isn't he reaching
out to me? Every guy hits me up after our date.
Maybe was it the way I look? Was my makeup not
done correctly? What could I have done to make
him lose attraction for me? These are the thoughts
that you want going through a woman's fucking
mind, fellas. Stop being a beta male simp and
listening to bullshit advice because I have been
there. It never worked for me, fellas. If it
didn't work for me, a guy like me, blue eyes,
jacked as a motherfucker, you think it's going
to work with you. You think you're that special.
Go ahead and try it. You don't have to take our
advice. If you guys can't wait a week or you're
just like, oh, fuck what they're talking about,
I'm going to reach out to her and I don't want
to lose her. If you are too scared to lose a
fucking girl, fellas, you already lost her. You
already fucking lost her. I have never lost a
girl that I was never scared of losing. That
was my attitude. That is still my attitude. But
if she doesn't reach out within that week, what
I will do personally now is FaceTime her. I'll
call her. I'll FaceTime her. Reignite the attraction.
See how she's feeling. Because some women will
play that game. I will set up the second date.
I'll see if she bites. Based off her energy level,
I can tell if I'm wasting my time or not. That's
when I will finally OTN onto the next one. I
will move on. I'll never hit her up ever again,
fellas. But sometimes women will play the game
or they just have a plethora of men they are
going out with and fucking with. But it doesn't
hurt to try. one more time. I'm not telling you
to chase her. Wait a week so she's thinking about
you. And then when you finally call her, don't
text her. You call her or FaceTime her. Watch
how excited she is to answer. That's the position
I want you guys to be in. Another part of this
too, right? If you're doing these things right,
like we talked about with conversations, getting
on the date, you're letting her talk at least
90 % of the time. And you're more asking questions,
probing deeper, being curious with her. Another
thing that will go through her mind is a lot
of girls will go home and go, that was a great
day. I feel like I'm so understood, right? Because
you're just sitting there listening and she's
blabbing and she's feeling all connected. And
she might even go at the end of the night, go,
oh, he'll text me like every other guy does.
And then the next day we don't text her. What
goes through her mind then is she starts replaying
the date and she goes, wow, I really don't know
much about him. And then she'll start going.
oh my gosh, I feel like maybe I talked the whole
date and now she starts feeling bad. Like maybe
you're just bored. I just blabbed the whole time.
And now she's reaching out, apologizing. Hey,
I talked, you know, all about myself and the
date. I'm sorry. I had a great time. Boom, boom,
boom. But either way you kind of look at it,
when you give her that time to wonder and replay
the date, if she's interested, she should be
reaching out. If she's interested, she should
be reaching out. And especially if you're doing
these other things, right? Like being that busy
guy, not texting her back all the time and asking
a lot of questions or letting her do all the
talking on the date, then she'll start to go,
wow, that date was different than most guys.
Because if I had the number one complaint that
women tell me on a first date of how they're
so bored and how they never want to see a guy
again, it's not that the guy was super awkward
necessarily. Yeah, that can happen or whatever.
And he was sweating. Sometimes girls think, sometimes
women think that's kind of cute, but. It's always
girls telling me that this guy wouldn't shut
up. He never asked about me. He told me about
his job. He told me he goes to the gym all the
time. He told me about this. I learned his whole
workout routine. And she's like, it was so boring.
He never let me talk. He never asked. And because
girls are typically good conversationalists in
a sense, because they're always talking with
their girlfriends, they're going on a lot of
dates. A lot of girls, if there's a guy across
from them at the table. They're good at asking
questions, but they hope they hope like any good
conversationalist that that person won't blab
the whole time. They hope that that person will
let them do the talking. But a lot of women have
to almost run the dates and do all the talking
and ask all the questions to keep the date going
now. And then the guy on the other side, if he's
clueless, he's blabbing on and on and on, telling
her all these stories and everything he does.
And she's just like, I'm not invested at all.
he didn't care about me he didn't ask about me
he doesn't know anything about me now so there's
there's a big difference there on on uh yeah
on when you're going to get that that but again
it goes back to i do expect her to reach out
but doing these other things correctly will help
make that happen much more much sooner and a
much more receptive for the women on the other
end I love that, Adam. Exactly right. And I'm
sure your game is just as tight as mine is, where
I know once I seal that first date, we're out.
They always hit me up. I want your game to be
that tight, fellas. If you're not there yet,
you will get there. Playful, charming, cocky
and funny. Interact with the cute bartender in
front of her. Interact with the cute waitresses
in front of her. Show her that other people respect
you, that other women love you. That's the quickest
way. To get a woman attracted to you. When you're
interacting with the people around you. Cocky
and funny. Masculine energy. Don't be afraid
to tease her. Have interesting stories. Play
some psychological games with her. Cold read
her. Okay. But at the end of the night. The only
text I will send them Adam. And I might even
say this to them in person. So at the end of
the date. I'll ask them to come over. Sometimes
they will. Other times they're reluctant. They
don't want to seem easy. They'll play hard to
get. If a girl doesn't want to come over, just
say, okay, cool. No problem. Don't push it, fellas.
You're going to seem needy. That's very insecure.
That's very unattractive, right? But give them
a reason why you want them to come over. Psychologically,
a woman is 70 % more likely to comply if you
give her a reason. I'll give you an example.
Hey, listen, I really enjoyed our company tonight.
Why don't you come over? Because I want to have
a glass of wine with you. Why don't you come
over? Because I want to watch this scary movie
with you. I saw on Netflix. Why don't you come
over? Whatever. Because I want to play checkers
with you. I want to, I don't know, play naked
twister. Don't say that, but say something, fellas.
Have that word because in there. Give them a
reason. Don't just say, oh, come over my place.
Or, oh, I want you to come back to my place.
They're going to have their guard up. Majority
of women are going to say no. Right. Even if
they say no or they come over, this is what I
text them. Send me nudes when you get home so
I know you made it home safely. It's cocky. It's
funny. It's alpha. I just literally took what
the beta males like myself used to say. Text
me when you get home so I know you made it home
safely and spun it around. Send me nudes when
you get home so I know you made it home safely
with a wink face. OK, I'll even tell them this
at the end of the night if they don't want to
come over and then I'll grab their ass as I say
goodbye to them. They love it. But fellas, remember,
you need to have the attitude to back that up.
Don't just be the beta male. Nice guy who's passive,
who's boring, who has no like it factor to him,
who doesn't make bold statements. If you say
that shit, they're going to look at you like
you're Joe Biden. Like, oh, like, what the fuck?
But when I say it with my attitude, these girls
always laugh. Not that I want a naked picture
from them, Adam. Obviously, I don't give a fuck.
But it separates me from the beta males. And
sometimes they actually will send you nudes when
they get home, even though you didn't want them.
Right? So it's a win -win. Okay. So next one.
We talked about you pursuing her after sex. She
got bored. This is a big one, Adam, right? We
always say women are similar to cats. When they
get bored, they go seeking new adventures with
their curiosities. So the second most unattractive
quality in a man is being too boring after displaying
neediness. Neediness was number one. being too
boring is number two being too predictable is
number three and they can go hand in hand so
you always have to engage in fun conversations
with her where you're engaging with her emotionally
right and that can be saved for another podcast
but you're not discussing mundane boring topics
with her fellas okay you're not sending her funny
videos from tick tock or instagram reels all
the time that gets boring fellas don't do that
Because then that's all those are the only messages
you guys will be sending one another. Right.
Stop sending her long paragraphs that become
tedious to read over time. It becomes boring,
fellas. You keep the spark going with women.
This is why I tell you to only see her once a
week. This way, it's harder for her to get bored
with you. You do not reveal too much about your
day to what you've been up to. Keep it vague
and create an air of mystery. Keep it at once
a week, fellas. I don't care if this girl wants
to see you two days in a row or three times in
one week. Nope, you're busy. You got shit to
do. This is how they seek your validation. This
is how you remain a mystery. This is how you
do not become too boring to her because. She's
still trying to figure you out what you've been
doing all week, your entire day. They want to
know these things. So you have interesting things
to talk about with their fellas. Yeah, with the
boring one, I and I think it is really good hand
in hand with just predictable because boring
is a little bit harder to grasp sometimes. But
predictability is easy. Like if if she knows
that when she texts you, you're going to respond
within 10 minutes. That's boring. It's predictable.
Predictability becomes very boring. If she knows
when she asks how your day was and you say the
same thing every time, it becomes boring and
predictable. So a good way just to become unpredictable
is always with following the mirror texting,
right? If she's taking three hours, you're taking
at least three hours and not necessarily right
on the dot. where every 15 minutes and now you're
15 minutes because that becomes in a sense that
pattern is predictable but when you use that
as a baseline she took 15 minutes now i got 15
minutes where i cannot text her back and now
you're doing your own thing you're losing track
of time and maybe you're texting her back two
and a half hours later but the point is she doesn't
know it's not predictable anymore when she's
going to hear from you it's not predictable of
the every time she reaches out to you she's going
to get a response or she's going to get a quick
response. Same thing is if she tries to ask you
to hang out every day, it becomes predictable
if you're always like, yeah, I can hang out today
versus, oh, Thursday's no good for me. Friday's
no good for me. I got plans. How about boom?
Or what's next week look like for you? Something
like that. But when it becomes a pattern that
she can recognize, that becomes predictable and
boring for women. Yes, be spontaneous. Find a
way to break those patterns. If you text her
good morning every fucking morning, that is predictable,
fellas. She knows what's going to happen before
it happens. She knows what's going to come out
of your fucking mouth before you say it. That's
being predictable. She knows too much about you.
You guys are boring, being mundane. I like to
be spontaneous. They don't know what's going
to come out of my mouth. They don't know when
I'm going to text them back. They don't even
know what I'm going to text them. but they're
always engaged, right? Imagine you playing chess
with another player, and they are so predictable.
You know their every move already. Is that game
going to be interesting over time? You're like,
okay, I've seen that, seen this. Boring? No.
I want to play against the guy that's spontaneous.
Wow, I've never seen this move before. Holy shit,
I've never seen that tactic. What do I do here?
That's how you keep them on their toes, fellas.
like we're teaching you this shit so you better
be soaking up the game right now okay we're also
going to go over how to handle the pullback we're
not going to just give you problems we're going
to go over the solutions right adam how do you
handle the pullback okay because that's very
important right and the last thing i want to
go over before i forget is the availability trap
they will pull back with the availability trap
i will give you two instances right This girl
in college, beautiful, slamming body, the one
I told you about that had a boyfriend for five
years. I write about her in my e -books as well
because you can learn a lot of game from that.
So we had the same class together. And on the
way to school was on the way to my place, so
it was perfect, right? When I was off and she
had class, she would stop by my place before
she went to school. Her boyfriend didn't know,
thank God, right? He lived further away. But
it was convenient. He never found out. She came
over my place, okay? The first time we're in
the backyard, we're hooking up, we're making
out. I could tell she's very attracted to me,
highly attracted to me, fellas. And you're going
to learn something with feminine women. This
is very important. I told her to come inside.
She was reluctant. She said no. She didn't want
to do it. But I knew she wanted me. I knew she
wanted to have sex. I played it cool. I said,
okay, cool. No problem. We still began making
out, hugging. I was grabbing her ass, being sexual.
The next time she comes over, I said, you know
what? Fuck this. I'm not going to tell her to
come inside anymore. I grabbed her by the hand
and I just told her, follow me. Why? Because
feminine women love to be led, Adam, right? If
you tell them, oh, come inside, they're going
to have their guard up. Feminine women, they
don't want to seem like a slut. They aren't sluts.
They're not promiscuous. Right. But if you have
a strong masculine man that leads the way for
her, she will follow you. I literally grabbed
her hand and said, follow me. You're coming with
me. OK, went inside. You know what happened next.
Right. Amazing sex. OK, she was she was glowing.
It was crazy. I've never seen like a woman's
face like this after I've slept with her. Right.
Because she was that attracted to me. She asked
if she could see me the following day, right?
I knew the rules. I broke my own rules because
I found her so attractive, Adam. I wanted to
sleep with her again, right? I wanted to be around
this girl as much as I could. And I said, okay,
you know what? Usually I don't do this, but yes,
right? I'll see you tomorrow. Lo and behold,
right? Tomorrow comes. I'm sitting in class.
I get a text message from her. Hey, listen, I'm
not going to be able to make it today. I fucking
knew it. Like Groundhog Day, the availability
trap. What do I tell you guys? Keep it at once
a week. You never see a girl, the same girl,
two days in a row, ever. She lost attraction
that day, but I knew the attraction was so high
I can bounce back from that. I played it cool.
No problem. She still ended up coming over, I
think, two weeks later. She pulled back for a
little bit because I think she began thinking
about what she did, her guilty conscience with
her boyfriend. We actually ended up getting into
a relationship after that. I was the second guy
she ever slept with. And she was such a high
quality girl. I wanted to steal her from her
boyfriend, right? Because she was a rare gem.
I don't care what anyone says. She never cheated
on me. It was the best relationship I've ever
had, right? So just because if a girl cheats
on you, cheats on another man with you, doesn't
mean she's going to do it to you. You have to
understand that. Majority of high -quality, feminine,
beautiful women out there, they are all in relationships.
They are all taken. The guys are trying to wipe
them up. You have to make sure she likes you
more than that other guy. That's the game, fellas,
okay? But I fell for the availability trap. Don't
do it. If a girl wants to see you two days in
a row because she enjoyed your company, you say,
no, I'm busy. I could see you next week. if you
don't listen to me the same shit will happen
to you fellas it's like night and day you'll
get that text the the next morning the next day
oh i can't make it some bullshit excuse so be
careful okay you want to add to that adam where
we can go over the reasons or uh how do you handle
the pullback yeah let's go on to yeah how you
can handle the pullback okay what's your yeah
what's your so what advice would you give the
men out there if a girl if any girl pulls back
on them yeah well any any girl that pulls back
right everything i do is a little move to see
how she's basically going to react so that's
why like when i asked the when are you free next
week her response is telling me whether i need
to pull back or whether it's like game on so
if a girl is pulling back the number one thing
is give her space. And that doesn't mean you
text her and go, I'm going to give you space.
You just literally give her space. You're not
ever sending her a text that she's not sending
you first. You're not trying to check in or ask
her to hang out or whatever. You're not showing
up to her place at work just to be around her
and hope she remembers you. No. And I know that
has to be said, because I know that a lot of
guys will do that. They're like, well, I'll just
pretend like I bumped into her at the bar. And
it's like, no, she's aware of that. She knows
what's going on. When a girl pulls back, just
like a cat, you have to pull back, reestablish
your spot, your purpose in life, and then let
her come around and join it again at the next
time when she comes after you or whatnot, or
you can decide at that point whether you want
to or not. But another thing that will happen,
though, when a girl will pull back is right.
If you give her space and then she comes back
and says something like, hey, we haven't spoken
for a while. How have you been? I'm going to
wait. If it's been, you know, days or, you know,
weeks since we last had contact, I'm not going
to reply to her within an hour. I'm going to
still give her space because I'm reteaching her.
I'm retraining her. Hey, I'm giving you space.
So I'm definitely given at least an hour to respond
to something like that. And then when she asked
how you've been, you know, how you've been, it's
always something positive, right? Your life is
positive. You're doing good things. You're happy,
right? It's never, oh, I'm depressed or blah,
blah, blah, or I'm bored. It's never that. It's
always something along the lines of, oh, everything's
been going really well, very busy, but being
productive. Something along those lines. So you're
reiterating something of your life's going well.
Things are positive. You've been busy, you know,
been starting, you know, been working on a few
projects, something like that. But you're showing
her that you have a life without her. You're
showing her that. that space that she needed
or whatever you didn't need that space like you
needed that space or i guess you needed that
space as well as her in a sense or you didn't
notice that she was gone in that sense because
your life is busy you're having a good time in
your life so you're keeping it positive and you're
always backing off always responding slower to
her to again teach her right because maybe before
you're coming on too aggressive too needy too
available So this is giving you that chance to
kind of reset the meter and show her, not tell
her, show her with your actions that you can
give her space. Yeah, guys, if she pulls back,
you guys better fucking pull back too. I swear
to God, if you guys start chasing a girl that
pulls back, listen, man, I will lose all respect
for you. The texting prince will lose all respect
for you. That is the number one rule when a woman
pulls back. You don't reach out to her. You don't
tell her or you don't ask her, was it something
I said? Was it something I did? Oh my God, that's
such fucking beta. Can't believe I used to do
that back in my day, right? Or even like you
said, Adam, oh, I'm going to give you your space
now. I can't believe I used to text a girl that
when I didn't know the game. That is cringe.
Now, what do we tell you, right? Okay, cool.
No problem. If they come back, they come back.
If not, good. Good fucking riddance. Who cares?
Okay. Now, texting Prince said he'll wait an
hour if they reach back out to you. Me, I'll
give him a day. I'll give him 24 hours, right?
Because you have to find a way to punish any
type of negative behavior. If she tries pulling
back on you and you don't do anything about it,
guess what? If it's that easy for them to come
back in your life, fellas, they will do it again.
You have to show them it's not okay. It's not
cool. I have my own ways. Okay. I'm sure you
have your own ways as well. Texting Prince. Yeah.
Well, I just, I just said a minimum one hour.
If I mean, I'm saying, I'm saying for them. Yeah.
But that's just a minimum rule. Like one hour,
at least to wait. Yeah. But what I mean is I'll
demote them now. I'll demote them. Right. You
might demote them as well. You know, that's it.
they're coming over for the night maybe a booty
call that's it right it's she's gonna have to
work her way back into that number one spot and
you don't tell them that your actions convey
that you got to be what is it covert with it
right covert yeah you got to do it covertly okay
so i might demote them i might have them do chores
right okay you know what if you want to see me
again clean up my room or help me vacuum okay
wash my dishes and nothing but but a thong on
right? You have to make them earn it. I don't
want to sound like women are like dogs. They're
not, but this is human nature, fellas, right?
If you did something that was disrespectful to
the girl, I would hope that she would punish
you as well, okay? She wouldn't just take you
back that easily because she's teaching you that,
oh, it's okay for you to disrespect her. She'll
take you right back, no problem. No, it's going
to take a while for you to get that number one
spot in her life again. OK, I've had girls that
really disrespected me, Adam. I was actually
dating this one girl and, you know, we considered
each other in a relationship and she got angry
at me one day. She was very emotional in a volatile
way. Right. This is when I just started doing
TikTok. I was trying to get the hang of it, giving
guys messages that I thought were cool at that
time. I was still getting the hang of it like
you were. Right. until you were getting the hang
of the flow and how to really convey your message
out there and the advice to give and one night
she messaged me another dating coach's video
it's like this big guy like a man bun a ponytail
right she sent me one of his videos on tick tock
and she said this is the advice you should be
giving men you don't know anything about women
i was like whoa okay that to me was very disrespectful
To the point where it didn't even feel right
in my gut. It was turning. Right? When you get
that gut feeling where you're like, yo, this
girl just crossed the line. And I texted her
back. I said, why don't you fuck with him then?
And then she hit me back with, oh, he's not my
type. Right? With a wink face. And I said, okay.
She said she wants to play that game. I blocked
her. Okay? That week, I created, I think, three
viral videos on TikTok. All because of her. I
turned that pain into purpose. And this is why
we tell you guys, women are the best motivators.
Whether they disrespect you, they break up with
you, or the positive influence they have in your
life when you're with them. And she tried coming
back in my life because I was posting pictures
of me out with other women on Instagram. And
she was still somehow following me. Women do
this. They create fake accounts. They will find
you. They will keep track of what you're doing.
This was a week and a half later, right? I was
living my life, never reached out to her, didn't
care. She saw a picture of me and this beautiful
Philippine woman out in the city. She's sitting
on my lap as I have a drink. Okay, I posted that
picture. That night when I'm heading to the train
station, she FaceTimes me out of the blue. She
wouldn't stop FaceTiming me. I answered and I
said, what the fuck do you want? Just like that.
I gave her an attitude because I'm showing her
it's not OK. I'm not going to just take you right
back into my life after you disrespected me like
that. When a woman compares you to another man
in that fashion, that is highly disrespectful,
fellas. OK, whether she compares you to her ex.
Oh, you know, my ex used to do this for me or
my ex used to drive a BMW or my ex used to take
me on a vacation every year. OK, why don't you
go fuck with him then? That's very disrespectful,
fellas. Don't ever let her compare you. to any
other man. You got that? Unless it's her father
in a positive way. So she tried coming back in
my life. She was harassing me nonstop. And I
said, okay, you know what? If you really want
to come back in my life, and we've been dating
for several months now, I knew the attachment
was built. I knew she loved me. She didn't tell
me that yet. And I said, okay, if you want to
come back in my life, write me an apology letter.
I swear to God. Adam, I said this, right? And
a lot of guys aren't going to have the balls
to say that because I didn't care. I was already
dating other girls. So I didn't care. I didn't
think she was going to do it. I said, write me
an apology letter. I told you everything you
did wrong and how disrespectful that was. And
I want you to also tell me how you feel about
me, why you want me back. Why did I do that?
The power of the tongue. Women never take accountability.
We know that, Adam. So if I can make her write
that down, that is powerful. To make sure she
never does it again. And also how you feel about
me. At first she was very reluctant. She was
like screw you. She was laughing. No way in hell
I would ever do that. You're the man. I said
okay cool. I was like no problem. I blocked her
again after I said. Hit me up when you write
that letter. Blocked her. A week goes by. Or
two weeks. I'm ready with another girl. That
night, that same night, this is what happened,
right? I'm out with this other girl. We go out
for drinks. My ex is blowing up my phone. As
I'm with this girl, it's almost as if they know,
Adam. It's crazy how intuitive women are. It's
like they know you're with another girl. I don't
know fucking how, but they know. As I'm driving
with this other girl, my ex kept blowing me up
like 30 times in a row. And the girl I'm with,
she's like, who is that? She's like, is that
in crazy X? And I just ignored it. You know,
I was like, oh, don't worry about it. Right.
I go out to grab drinks with this new girl. We
come back to my place. I just got done fucking
her. Right. I literally just got done fucking.
I was eating her out to lights were a little
bit on. We go to bed. Right. This is like five,
10 minutes later. We go to sleep. We're laying
down. It's pitch black. It's midnight. I hear.
seven knocks in a row on my door as if it's the
FBI. She jolts up the girl I'm with. She's like,
who is that? I instantly already knew who it
was, Adam. I said, that's my ex. I didn't want
to answer the door, but she kept knocking, kept
knocking nonstop about to wake up my neighbors.
And the new girl I'm with, she said, well, are
you going to go handle that? That's something
you never want to hear, fellas. You never want
to hear a girl say to you, well, Are you going
to go handle that? Because as a man, you should
go handle that without a girl having to tell
you that. That's where I fucked up. But I was
still with that girl. She didn't go anywhere.
Okay. I didn't answer the door right away. Okay.
I had to go through the back because if I opened
that door, she would have came jolting in and
she would have ran to the bedroom to see if I
was with another girl. Right. I go outside. I'm
talking to my ex. She was begging for her to
come in, for me to let her come in. I said, no.
I said, you're not coming in. She said, why?
Why not? I want to see if you have another girl
there. I was like, number one, you disrespected
me by showing up to my place unannounced. That's
highly disrespectful. When a girl does that,
fellas, she shows up at your place unannounced.
She is trying to establish dominance over you,
over your territory. Some guys think it's cute,
Adam. Oh, it's adorable. Yeah, she's jealous.
It's not cute, fellas. That is so disrespectful.
If you don't check her on that, guess what happens
next? She's going to keep showing up, and one
day she's going to break into your house if you
don't check her on that, okay? I wouldn't let
her inside. This is how smart women are. She
started smelling my shirt to see if there was
perfume on it, pretending like she was hugging
me. She's like, oh, I just wanted to see you.
I miss you. She was hugging me, and I could see
she's trying to smell my shirt. This is how smart
women are. I was like, fuck, did she smell the
perfume? Because I'm caught, right? I lied to
her and said, there is no girl there, okay? She
didn't smell any perfume, thank God, because
my cologne was overpowering it. I don't think
the new girl even had any perfume on. Or I didn't
smell like pussy, thank God. She actually wrote
me the fucking letter. She showed up that night.
gave me the fucking letter. And that's when she
told me, I love you. That's how powerful that
is, fellas. When you put a girl in check, when
you don't tolerate disrespect, women want a guy
that puts them in their place. They love it.
I wasn't trying to get her to do that. I didn't
think she was going to do that. She wrote me
out one of the most beautiful letters I've ever
read in my life of what she did wrong, how she
feels about me, and that she loves me. And English
wasn't even her first language, Adam. It was
Portuguese. And she still found a way to write
it. So if I can get a girl to do that, right,
pay for her consequences, why can't you guys?
Why are you so scared? Let me tell you what happened
after that. I got back together with her. She
never disrespected me again. But then I realized
this just wasn't for me because of her volatile
emotions, okay? She was way too emotional in
a negative way for me because she was very masculine.
She was covered in tattoos. She was very masculine,
very built as well. She liked working out, but
I still found her attractive, but it's the energy
that I didn't get along with. Okay. That's very
important. Fellas find a way to check a girl.
Okay. Pull back, punish them in any way you feel
fit. Nothing that is. the extreme fellas nothing
over over the top okay there's still women at
the end of the day but you have to let them know
you're not going to tolerate that okay uh do
you do you have another no that was it i just
wanted to i wanted us to end with that interesting
stories they can learn from and know that we
don't fake anything right what we tell you is
not bullshit we've lived this life we've been
through it on both sides of it OK, so take our
advice, guys. And guys, we have coming next is
going to be episode four ways to convey high
status to women. These are going to be just some
different ways that you can come off as more
high status. It doesn't mean you have to rent
some car that's not yours, some Lamborghini or
Bugatti or something and try to show high status
in that way. These are going to be. everyday
ways you can do it. I was a second grade classroom
public school teacher. At the time when I started,
it was like $35 ,000 a year after taxes in my
first year. So there's ways to convey high status
without needing the money. A lot of it is your
mindset and how you react to situations or how
you don't react to situations. But we're going
to try to give you guys a list of ways that you
can convey high status. to women so that they
see you as a guy that they do want to pursue
they see you as a guy that they don't want to
lose out on it has nothing to do with showing
off either we're not telling you to take pictures
of a stack of money you have that's similar to
a girl showing off her provocative pictures on
social media in my opinion i think a guy that
shows off the money he has or the cars on social
media that's the equivalent of a girl showing
off her fleshy goodness on social media right
There's other ways. There's other ways. Yeah.
In a way, when girls are showing off their body
in a sense, it's kind of sending like, this is
all I have to work with. Here's my big trick
I have. Here's my body. In the same sense, when
guys are leading with money or they're talking
about their cars, they're talking about their
bank accounts or their great job and all that.
In a way, that conveys like, well. In a sense,
I'm insecure now because this is what I feel
like I'm worth to a woman is money. And this
is all I have to present to her. So there's going
to be a lot of different ways you can convey
high status. And just like you said, it's not
about showing off in any type of way like that.
It's all about kind of how you handle yourself,
your mindset and how you expect to be treated
and how you how congruent you are with that.
Exactly. So there's other ways of conveying that.
right and adam what's what's your website the
texting prince if they want to buy any products
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