Welcome, guys, to podcast episode number two,
Put on the Full Armor of Game. I am your host,
Zardanya, as well as the texting Prince. Today,
we're going to go over red flags for you guys.
I always get these questions. I'm sure Prince
gets these questions as well. Is this a red flag?
How do I know if this girl is good for me? Because
the truth is, fellas, one woman can ruin a man's
life if you don't know how to properly screen
her. so you have to know is she relationship
material are you wasting your time energy and
resources on her because you heard the saying
behind every successful man is a high quality
woman you bring the crowns and heads of conquered
kings to my city steps you insult my queen you
threaten my people with slavery and death We
already went over the green flags on the last
show. If you missed that, catch that episode.
It is a banger. Me and the Prince break down
all the green flags you need to know. So Machiavelli,
Niccolo Machiavelli, The Prince, awesome book.
I recommend you guys read it. He has a saying
in there. He who seeks to deceive will always
find someone who will allow himself to be deceived.
This is why we tell you guys put on the full
armor of game so you know deception will not
work on you, especially when it comes to women
and their manipulative nature. Got that book
right here, The Prince. I would advise, I always
look at that book from time to time. Amazing,
especially if you're a man. Get that book and
The 48 Laws of Power. We'll do that on another
podcast, maybe a list of books we've read. So
it's important to define your customer, what
you want in a woman. Because when everyone is
your customer, fellas, no one is your customer.
So if you don't define what it is you want by
narrowing down your options, you'll always get
what it is you don't really want. So when it
comes to attracting the right woman, she'll never
show up on your radar because you'll have no
idea what she really looks like or how she behaves.
Define your customer. Know the green flags. Know
the red flags. We're teaching you the real game
on this podcast. No one is doing it like we are.
So my first red flag is. physical appearance.
Women display certain characteristics on their
sleeves, like a neon sign. Certain tattoos a
woman has, piercings, bright colored hair. No
disrespect to anyone that has bright colored
hair, but anything in the wild that has bright,
powerful colors, that is a warning sign. I'm
toxic, unstable. Stay away from me. I can kill
you. I can hurt you. Animals know this. So when
a woman dyes her hair a very bright color, I'm
not talking about a natural color like blonde
or sometimes red highlights. That's okay. That
looks good on a woman. But if she has bright
red, bright blue, bright yellow, bright green,
she is literally telling you, I am toxic. Stay
away from me. Unstable. I come with drama. Women
wear these flags. on their sleeves fellas on
their body on their hair sometimes you can't
visually see it we'll get into that later but
bright colored hair is a big one certain tattoos
if she has a dream catcher tattooed on her body
or a butterfly that means she's free spirited
by free spirited she lands on any within a five
mile radius That's what free spirited means.
Not all women. I know several women that have
a butterfly tattoo because it reminds them of
their grandma. But certain women, the more butterfly
tattoos they have or the more dream catcher tattoos
or feathers, they are free spirited. That's not
a great sign. That's what you guys have to look
out for. And piercings. Now, ear piercings are
okay. But if she has lip piercings, if she has
a nose piercing. if she has a septum nose ring
if she has that piercing right underneath their
lip i don't know what the that's called majority
of the times that girl is very promiscuous so
look out for those signs yeah actually i'll jump
in on that as well with the tattoos and piercings
so tattoos obviously one is just sheer number
quantity of tattoos you know if most women it
seems like today have tattoos one two or whatever
but when you get someone that's covering up their
entire body that to me is a red flag because
that's not really forward thinking how's that
gonna look when she's uh older when she wants
to be a mom um when her body starts wrinkling
a little bit uh another thing with tattoos is
I like to ask, oh, why'd you get that tattoo?
And listen to her reasoning. If there is a reasoning
she thought about and she's like, oh, I've wanted
to get this since I was young. It reminds me
of my grandma. It reminds me of my, you know,
my family, something like that. And it's well
thought out. That one to me is not as much of
a red flag is the girl that goes, oh, I was out
on, you know, a bachelorette. uh weekend and
we just randomly decided in new orleans to all
get a matching tattoo and she doesn't even really
have any uh there's no meaning to it it was impulsive
to her so that would be one part and then for
piercings and tattoos i would also look for where
on the body is it for instance a tattoo on her
the side of her hip like the cardi b tattoo tattoos
in the middle of her chest okay so who is she
wanting to display that to well one she whoever's
the tattoo artist is getting her full naked body
is they're doing that for hours at a time and
so that right there to me is a little bit of
a red flag a warning sign as well as nipple nipple
piercings are they kind of fun absolutely Does
it give me a red flag if I would want to settle
down with this girl in the future? Absolutely.
So think about that as well. It's like an inception,
the layer upon layer of the piercings and tattoos.
Where are they? What's their story behind it?
Do they have a story behind it or was it impulsively
done? Obviously, one more on the tattoos and
ex -boyfriend's name or something. If she tells
you that. She's got a tattoo of the heart on
it and an arrow through it. And it's like Dave.
And she tries to make up a story about her grandpa,
Dave. Check her on that later. Try to figure
out more if she's just lying and Dave is really
just her ex -boyfriend or something like that.
So that would be some red flags in my book. Yeah,
if she has our names tattooed, she's cool. yeah
true that's the only exception but another another
uh tattoo the new tramp stamp we all know about
the tramp stamp the new tramp stamp is the thigh
tattoo now why is that a red flag because every
single piece of clothing that she's gonna wear
now is gonna reveal that tattoo at the gym she
wants dozens of guys to look at it out in public
she wants guys to look at it The thigh tattoo
is the new tramp stamp, fellas. You have to get
with the culture and what women are doing. Majority
of these women are trashy. If you have a giant
thigh tattoo on one of your erogenous zones,
that is a red flag. And the fact that she had
another stranger, her tattoo artist, comfortably
doing that, why would you want a girl like that?
She's only for recreational use. That's it. Stop
wiping up these thoughts. All right. So for the
next red flag, I got one here that it I like
to look at workout apparel. So when I'm at the
gym, when I see a girl that is actually in baggy
clothes or something non -revealing, I'm impressed
by that. i know this is not green flags but starting
with the you know the positive here i'm impressed
with that because she's obviously not she's there
to work out to improve her body not to get stares
and looks versus the red flag to me is the girls
that walk in and yeah they're fun to look at
sure but they got the matching you know skin
tight leggings all the way down they got or they
got that those like really tight tiny little
shorts And you can tell every time she goes to
the gym, she's like perfectly, makeup's perfectly
put on. She's got the whole display going. I'm
like, okay, she is there to signal to men more
so than she's there to improve her body and her
health and fitness. So when I look at that for
the workout, I don't want the girl that wants
the flashiest workout clothes because what's
she going to do when she's, you know, sweating
all that? She's trying to signal to all the other
men in there. She wants some looks. She wants
some attention. So I look at that, the workout
apparel, and that to me can signal a red flag
early on. Going off that one, Adam, Prince, if
you see a bunch of guys approaching a girl at
a masculine place like the gym, they're all saying
hi to her. They're kissing her on the cheek.
They're hugging her. How does she know all these
guys, fellas? That is like me. or prince going
into a strip club and all the strippers approaching
us kissing us hugging us hey how you been in
your mind you're gonna wonder how many of these
girls are you sleeping with in my mind when i
see that in a woman a bunch of men approaching
her she's friendly with all them she's working
out with the new one every week her new flavor
of the week our mind automatically goes on autopilot
we ask ourselves how many of these men is she
sleeping with I don't want a girl that is very
outgoing like that around masculine men. I want
a girl that's low -key, that's feminine, that's
a little shy and reserved. Look out for that
one. Yeah, and branching off that one, I have
a red flag here of if she has mostly male friends.
All right. And this one's kind of tricky for
guys because I feel like every guy dreams about
the girl that can be with the boys and just hang
out with the boys and be cool with the boys.
And it's like, yeah, there's an aspect to that
that's nice. But when I know that a girl has
mostly male friends, that is going to signal
a red flag in me. It's because how did she meet
them and why are they all so eager to be friends
with them? Because I know in my personal groups
of all my social groups I hang out with. i've
slept with most of the women in my friend groups
at some point in time and i know that my buddies
in our friend groups have lusted after these
women or had you know things with them or wanted
something with them as well so when you have
a bunch of male friends around well what's gonna
happen she breaks up with some guy she's sad
at the party she's drinking with all of her friends
i already know all all of my guy friends even
though we have the friend groups of women a lot
of these guys secretly are hoping that the girl's
going to drink and like, oh, maybe something
will happen. So when you're around those scenarios,
when you have all male guys around you, it's
going to be very easy when she's in a vulnerable
position to slip up a little bit and invite some
of these men into something more than friendship.
So when she has mostly male friends, I'm a little
concerned there. That's a red flag to me. You
always hear this from time to time. I only hang
out with guys because women are too much drama.
Fellas, do not get into anything serious with
that girl. If she can't even coincide with a
group of women and they need each other because
women need the collectiveness of other women
in order to survive, that's hardwired in them.
That means there's something wrong with her.
She either gets very jealous, she's... She comes
with drama. She gossips a lot. If you can't get
along with your own gender, that is a big red
flag. Do not fall for that. Anytime a girl tells
me that, it's just the eggplant emoji times 10.
That's what I think of when a girl says she only
hangs out with guys because girls are too much
drama. And another branch off that as well is
because I know women. Women are very perceptive.
I really enjoy. when I'm hanging out with the
women going, Hey, let's read the social situation.
What do you think their relationship is? And
what do you think their relationship is? And
so part of the red flag on that too, is women
can sniff that in other women. So if there's
a woman that gets around, she doesn't want to
be hanging out around with other women. Cause
she knows that those other women will spill her
secrets. So if she's concerned about, you know,
hanging out with other women, it's because women
are competitive. And so she knows that if she's
been bouncing around on the carousel that if
she's got other women that have seen her doing
this, she's afraid that they're going to reveal
her secret. So that can be another red flag about
why she doesn't like to spend her time with women
is because women can read through this type of
things and can see the game going on. So if she
doesn't get along with other women, she might
be afraid that these women are going to reveal
her real secrets, her real lifestyle. That's
a great breakdown. I hope you guys were listening
to that. That is on point. That is golden. The
next one, she lies. Like she lies a lot, fellas.
I have been on a date with a girl that I caught
lying at least a dozen times in the conversation.
If you can't trust her to tell you where she
works or her current relationship status, you
can't trust her with anything. I have also had
girls give the dumbest lies to protect their
bad behavior. sorry sweetie i don't believe your
bible study class is over at 2 a .m peep game
guys yeah yeah uh a big one here a big one and
i live in washington state you're in jersey is
that right that's correct is she a proud feminist
gotta be careful on this one with the algorithms
of course but Remember, if a woman is proud to
be a feminist these days, it's almost like women
are going to be programmed to be a feminist regardless,
because that's plastered everywhere. You know,
you go, girl, women empowerment, men are bad,
all that. So it's already going to be naturally
in most women to kind of side that way. But if
she's coming out and she's a proud feminist,
I in my mind, it's like red flag, red flag, red
flag, red flag, red flag. because she's going
to be swept up in the culture she's going to
be swept up that one time you know if you're
her boyfriend and you don't do everything perfect
for her it's very easier easy for her to go on
social media with all of her strong empowered
women and they can you know tell her hey you
deserve better he should do he should do this
for you he should do that for you they get caught
up in that big cultural shift where men are bad
women are always in the right And so if you're
starting out and she's a proud feminist, man,
that's a red flag for me. If she is somewhere
in the middle, yeah, most women are these days.
But when she's coming out and she's a proud feminist,
that screams red flags all over the place to
me. That is not someone that I want any type
of serious commitment with if she's coming in
with that mindset. Yeah, you can train her. You
can train her to. see the other side, but it's
far easier to start with a clean slate than someone
that's coming in with all these preconceived
ideas about what men and what women should be
in today's world. Yeah, full armor of gay moment
right here. So listen up, guys. Every feminine
woman that I have dated has never believed in
feminism. In fact, we laughed about it because
these women don't have a victim mindset. They
know there is power within inner femininity.
They're not trying to compete with other men.
They know they can make it on their own. They're
intelligent. They're motivated. They're compassionate.
Look out for that sign, fellas. That's a big
one because if she does believe in feminism,
if you don't do anything that she tells you to
do or you have a disagreement, all of a sudden
you're a misogynist. Yeah, and it's such a fine
line, right? Because feminine women are great.
I love feminine women, but you turn that feminine
into a feminist. it's a completely different
mindset when she takes that on that's like she's
proud of being masculine that's what in my mind
i hear that she goes oh i'm a feminist i'm like
so you're masculine that's what you know goes
on in my mind versus the opposite i want the
feminine woman not the feminist woman another
red flag if every end of a relationship was horrible
on her end If she defines each breakup as the
man being abusive, cheating or otherwise doing
something evil to her, you can rest assured when
you stop dating her, she will also accuse you
as well. Remember that, fellas. Yep. I got that
on one of mine here. She speaks poorly about
her ex. Well, OK. If she speaks poorly about
her ex. That tells me that she's her feelings
are not. finish with him if she's still got those
emotions involved and she's upset about her ex
and all that and she's oh can't can't wait to
talk about what a bad guy he is okay so she either
has still some feelings and emotions for this
guy or she was a terrible decision maker she
she decided to be with this guy for how long
and he's such a bad horrible toxic guy yet she
decided to be with him so really either way you
look at it Either she's going to be speaking
poorly about you in the future or she's just
a bad decision maker. And that's one right there
that's like, all right, if she's a bad decision
maker, are you going to want to inherit those
decisions that she's going to be making when
she's with you? Great point. And this one is
another full armor of game. golden moment right
here this one's very important because a lot
of men fall for this i've had family members
best friends she hates your friends or family
members that's including your father your mother
this is the beginning of isolation for you so
she can change you and achieve the power in the
relationship she doesn't want any positive influences
in your life especially those influences that
keep telling you how bad of a girl she is they
see her for what she's worth She's dividing and
conquering. Once she divides and conquers you,
it is game over, bro. She's going to sink in
her fangs and the venom is going to start flowing
through your body and you're going to be paralyzed.
Watch out for this. I've lost best friends because
their girls hated me. They didn't like me because
they knew I saw them for who they're worth. They
don't want me chirping in my friend's ears because
real recognize real. Be careful, guys. Do not
fall for that. She cannot separate you from your
positive influences, especially if the person's
your father, your mother, your best friends.
They want what's best for you. Okay. Men stay
in toxic relationships because they don't listen
to their single friends. Women leave good relationships
because they listen to their single friends.
Well said. Very well said there. I got one here.
Red flag to me is her. eating habits or her diet
so when you're with younger women i remember
you know the and and you know all the college
women around me like there was a difference between
the women that would you know eat poorly they
go home after a drunk night and they're they're
you know taking down a pizza by themselves the
next morning they're getting up eating oreos
they're just putting whatever junk in their body
and it might be fine when she's in her young
20s or even mid 20s but if she hasn't changed
her eating habits or diet she's not looking at
healthy eating she's not um you know looking
into nutrition it's only a matter of time before
the metabolism catches up with her and if she
doesn't have good habits in place about you know
eating right if she can't cook her own healthy
type of meals then it's just a matter of time
before the weight comes and we know about the
wall that's the period of time when you know
women's bodies start to shift she's not aging
as well well if she doesn't have good eating
habits she doesn't have a good diet in place
now then it's much much harder for her to pick
up that habit later on and if she doesn't pick
up that habit soon eventually your physical attraction
will probably fade from her and in a relationship
you need to be attracted to a woman to get through
the obstacles the hurdles and all the other stuff
that's going to come up in some type of long
-term relationship so i want to see a girl that
has good eating habits in place or a good diet
in place if she doesn't have that yet i don't
want to necessarily be the man that teach her
that Because that can be a hard habit. We know
that weight is a really tough thing for all people,
men or women, to tackle. And so if she doesn't
have that down now, good luck in the future.
It's not going to be pretty. That's why it's
so important to constantly be working out, building
your armor, building your confidence. If she
sees her man working out, she knows that she's
competing with other women. So what is that going
to make her do? She's going to want to work out
now and look her best so she doesn't lose you.
But you guys get so lazy in a relationship, you
start eating fucking honey buns and donuts all
day that you stop working out. Why would she
work out now? And if she's in shape and she's
working out, you better be working out, fellas,
because she will leave you for a man at the gym
that has a nicer body than you. She will. It's
only a matter of time or she's going to cheat
on you. i don't believe in that whole i like
the dad bod no they don't they just don't want
to compete with other women anymore and guys
still fall for that i would go harder at the
gym if a girl tells me that oh yeah you like
the dad bod well looks like you're never gonna
like me then go to the gym that hour and start
working out don't give her what she wants fellas
that is a trap the next one i want to talk about
This is a big one. And guys always fall for this
when they get in a relationship with the girl.
They start paying off her debt or her college
tuition. Once you're done paying off her debt
or you're done paying off her college tuition
and she becomes successful, she doesn't need
your ass anymore. She's leaving you. She can't
respect the man who's going to give up his resources
that quickly like that. You are a simp in her
eyes. I can't believe men still fall for this.
I see this all the time. I hear about it. Right
after they pay off the woman's college tuition,
oh, she's gone. And they don't know what hit
them. Oh, but I was saving her. I was taking
care of her. Yeah, she manipulated you. Now she
can go be with the guy that she truly wants to
be with once she's established. Don't have simp
written on your fucking forehead, fellas. We're
not doing that. If she goes to college, that's
her decision. She has to pay off that debt. If
she gets in debt with a credit card, she has
to pay it off. She has to take accountability.
If she's looking for someone to constantly save
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got here, red flag for me is, and you see it
all the time these days, especially if you're
trying the dating apps and all that, a single
mother. So she has children from another man.
Can there be tiny exceptions to this rule? Yeah,
maybe she was married and she's a widow now.
And honestly, that's a sad moment and all that.
But if... If she's a single mother, that's a
red flag because there's going to be a couple
of things going on. First off, she's going to
put her kids first. Kids are a priority. Great.
I like a mother that's involved with their children.
But when you're now the guy that's stepping up,
you're stepping into that relationship. Her kids
come first before you. You have X drama, the
X baby daddy. You're going to have to deal with
that coming in and out of her life, especially
if he was toxic, a bad boy. You're going to have
to deal with. those feelings that you know we
know women like the bad boys and every time she's
dropping the kids off or whatnot and they're
staying in contact there's that x drama that's
going to be in your life and then for you you
now have a huge lifestyle change if you're inheriting
children that are not your your own i have a
couple buddies that have done this and i'm worried
about even the future. Right now, oh, it might
be great. You come in and you're stepping up.
You're the great guy. But how long until now
those children go, hey, you're not my father.
I don't have to listen to you. And now you have
the woman who, again, kids first. She's going
to side with her children. Don't talk to my children
like that. And so you have a whole bunch of extra
scenarios that you have to put yourself through
if you're starting out with. a single mother
yeah you're definitely at a disadvantage fellas
she has all the power the kids will never look
up to you they'll never respect you because all
they have to say is well you're not my real father
what are you going to do then a majority of teenagers
that i meet they can't stand their stepfathers
they hate them they have resentment towards them
the next one Within a few hours of meeting her
or being alone with her, she begins to brag about
her sexual ability. Feminine women aren't that
brazen, fellas. They're shy, they're reserved.
So I've had girls tell me how good they are at
blowjobs within 15 minutes of showing up at my
house for the first time. Just look her in the
eyes, then look down at your crotch and ask her,
what are you waiting for? Works almost every
time, fellas. works almost every time yeah true
good point she's bragging about that that's again
in a sense a masculine trait the whole like bragging
about the the notch count bragging about your
experience that again gives me that masculine
energy and it's like oh how did you get so good
at that practice oh was it practice you weren't
practicing on me that whole time so how did you
come in here like a pro Every master was once
a disaster. So she started somewhere. I remember
early on in my life, the girl said, man, it was
not pretty. But in a sense, at least it was,
okay, well, at least you're new at this. At least
you're new at this. But the girl that comes in
that's a pro, great for a night, great for a
few nights, of course. But again, how did she
get so good? Yeah, that's a telltale sign for
me. prints that she's been around the block,
right? I mean, I don't want to categorize all
women, but if she's really good at performing
oral, I'm talking about very good. That has to
take practice. She just learned that overnight.
Okay. So that is another telltale sign that maybe
this girl is used to doing that. Oh, how did
you get so good? Oh, I watched some YouTube videos
on it and I practiced on a banana. It's like,
no, you didn't. No, you did not. I'd rather have
the girl that is okay or not that well at performing
oral, but she meets all my other standards, right?
Because at least I know this girl hasn't been
around the block. Correct. And you can coach
her through that. Yeah. Versus the pro that came
in. It's like, this is great. I don't have to,
I don't have to teach you anything. That's wonderful.
You know, women love that when guys are experienced,
they know what they're doing, but as guys, right,
we have that, that in a, like, how, why did you,
why are you so good? You're supposed to be pure
and innocent. You're not supposed to be a pro
right, right out of the box here. Yeah. How did
I finish in one minute? Gosh, so good. Oh, man.
True story. This is a true story, Prince. So
I've had two Jesses. Both their names were Jesses
that were incredible at oral. And they were the
only ones, I think, that ever made me finish
very quickly. And the irony is that both their
names were Jesses. I don't know if that's a Jess
name. I would hope not. I don't want to assume.
But they were awesome women. No disrespect. um
i so i got uh i got one here is um i like to
figure out who her influences are who does she
like to listen to and one that used to be really
big was like if i knew a girl was into the call
her daddy podcast so that got really popular
a few years ago um the two podcast hosts split
up or whatever so it's not quite as good but
these if she listened to the call her daddy podcast
if she loves cardi b she loves megan the stallion
and you know that she's excited to you know do
that wap dance all over the place she likes to
twerk and all that stuff so i like to figure
out what influences she's putting into her ears
and the red flags to me are when you hear of
that really popular podcast that they're talking
about sex all the time they're talking about
um you know twerking you know getting getting
men to you know uh submit to them all that type
of stuff so like cardi b make the stallion call
her daddy those type of popular podcasts that
she's going to be hearing all these influences
on that like we said before a lot of that feminist
kind of perspective in there uh if she has role
models that are in my eyes impure um or uh very
um uh just promiscuous, even masculine influences
in that sense, that to me is a red flag. Good
one. If she listens to ratchet ass rap music,
I'm talking about complete depravity. She is
being influenced by that music, especially if
she's singing the lyrics. She lives by those
lyrics. She's being influenced by it, fellas.
That is a big red flag for me. She doesn't even
have to say anything. you just tell me what music
you like and that's it i i can already gauge
the temperature of what kind of a girl she is
because majority of high class high quality feminine
women they'll listen to uplifting music music
that talk about love music that is spiritual
some will listen to rock music whatever doesn't
matter what genre but it's not ratchet the lyrics
aren't degrading yeah Next one, if she claims
that she has called the cops on an ex before,
she will also call the cops on you, fellas. You're
not immune to that. I know you probably think
you're special. You're that rare gem. She's never
going to call the cops on you. I will guarantee
anything. She will also call the cops on you.
Remember that women reveal a lot of things about
themselves. We talked about it on the last podcast.
If you don't judge them. they'll just keep talking
fellas so it's important you find this out ask
her about her last relationship listen to the
last podcast okay this is red flags now but we
already mentioned that part yeah i got another
uh red flag here is she loves raves she loves
going to raves she loves going to um edm like
electronic dance music uh festivals or concerts
because when she's in that environment have you
seen the videos around you ever been to one yourself
what is out there it's scantily clad women it's
like it's like halloween in college when women
always dress up in halloween it was always like
the slutty clothes when she's around that those
edm festivals or she loves raves she's going
to be scantily clad With a bunch of men and women
around that are all into partying, drinking,
doing drugs, and dancing until 2, 3 a .m. at
night, what do you think is going to happen?
So when I hear a girl that says, oh, one of my
hobbies is going to raves, I'm like, red flag,
red flag, red flag, red flag. Yes, and I've been
to those raves in my younger formative years.
And let me tell you something about those women.
They are very sexual, especially in that environment.
I've had girls that cheated on their boyfriends
that they were there with at those raves. I have
stories you guys do not even want to know. And
many of those women take drugs to be at those
raves. You do not want a woman like that, unless
if you are going with her for... her first time
you want her to experience one because that's
the music you're into that's okay but it's a
very sexual environment filled with a lot of
drugs now if she is the type of girl that constantly
talks about how independent strong and empowered
she is that is a red flag anyone that really
is independent strong and empowered they don't
need to say it fellas That's a cop -out. It's
a cover -up. If I'm a nice, good guy who's a
gentleman, I don't have to say it. People can
see that through my actions, through the person
I am. This type of girl is an insecure feminist
that will start lots of drama because internally,
she wrestles with her fantasy strength and real
-world weakness. That's what it is. She's very
weak on the inside. So she has to boast about
how powerful, strong and independent she is.
Part of one that we touched on earlier about
the dieting thing, a red flag in a different
way is let's say you're in a relationship with
a woman. And out of nowhere, she starts just
boom, she all of a sudden starts really changing
up her diet. She starts doing her nails, doing
her hair. And this was something that she was
not doing in the pattern of relationship with
you earlier. To me, that's a red flag in your
relationship that she is getting ready to attract
someone new. And we've heard this before of,
you know, marriages or whatnot, where there's
fighting or whatever they're talking about, maybe
potentially getting divorced or all that. And
all of a sudden, you know, oh, this guy was trying
to get his wife to work out. He's trying to get
her to eat better and all that. She wasn't having
any of it. And then out of nowhere. Now, all
of a sudden she's doing her hair. She's doing
her makeup. She's doing her nails. She's getting
the new workout clothes. She's going to the gym
without you. Those to me are red flags that she
is ready. She's already, she's detached her emotions
now from you and she's ready to get back out
there on the CC that caught carousel. because
she's looking for other options so if you're
in a relationship and she switches that up out
of nowhere that should be a red flag in your
mind going okay something's going on right now
and typically that is when she is done with the
relationship and now she's getting out there
to get ready to monkey branch to a new guy so
that she has that security she has that backup
when she's about ready to leave you i've had
girls cheating on their boyfriends with me who
would send me videos of them working out all
of a sudden, sweating, putting on tighter yoga
pants, asking me how they look. These girls were
already cheating, fellas. They want to look good
for me. They want to look good for the new man
they're cheating on her boyfriend with. When
a girl starts working out randomly out of the
fucking blue, that is the number one sign of
infidelity. This is why I keep telling you guys,
if you're going to work out, Work out with your
girl as well. You should be her trainer. She
should always look her best around you. You should
always look your best around her. Don't get lazy.
Don't get too comfortable in a relationship.
The next one is attention whore -itis. I call
this attention whore -itis. If her social media
is filled with extremely slutty or sexual photos
and she doesn't get paid for this, like as in
being a model, She's going to be in constant
need of approval and validation, fellas. She
will never be yours. For a dominant man, this
constant need for approval is like rubbing the
back of your legs with a cheese grater. So if
she's not bringing in you money with these pictures,
if she's not a professional model, she'll never
be yours, fellas. Ever. Yeah, that actually branches
off. I have on here an influencer, like a social
media influencer. And to me, again, that's red
flag, right? But there's a difference. There's
some women that I actually have a lot of respect
for when I see them become an influencer in some
way. Let's say that a girl is into AI, artificial
intelligence, and she's making videos, but she's
not posting herself as she's talking about them.
She's doing... screen flows or she's literally
just trying to get information out there or she
has some experience in some field and she's trying
to display that knowledge versus maybe a girl
is trying to do ai but now she's in all of her
photos she's unzipping her shirt and she's got
the cleavage hanging out like that right there
right again how is she how is she influencing
her audience is it with her body is it with her
cleavage or is it with her actual information
is she actually trying to help and i i know this
isn't green flags but i do know um a woman that
is an influencer of some sort for diet and nutrition
but she never posts revealing clothing clothing
it's all about like hey here's a good diet plan
or here's how you should be working out and she's
not displaying her body to attract followers
she's actually just trying to uh get information
out there to other people because like czar said
if she's an influencer and she's got a bunch
of guys always in her dms or always messaging
her it's you know no one man here is superman
and so you have to now fulfill that role of all
that attention and validation she was getting
from hundreds thousands of simps in her dms she's
going to expect you to live up to giving her
all that validation all that attention all that
hype and the minute that you don't give that
to her it's that easy for her to pull up her
inbox and get that that flirty validation get
get all those compliments from all of these guys
coming in so influencer to me is a red flag dig
a little deeper if she's doing it legit that
is a rare that that's a rare case But I like
to dig in a little bit more and figure out how
is she influencing her audience? I just saw a
study that they did that a girl who is a social
media influencer, they are more likely to cheat
the most out of any other profession. So you
guys can take it how you want. But if I see thousands
of followers on a girl's profile and she claims
she's a social media influencer, I'm not even
getting into a relationship with her. I know
that comes with a headache. My attention is never
going to be enough. My validation will never
be enough for her. Yeah. The next one, if this
is a funny one, if she carries her own condoms
around, I mean, this should be common sense for
any man out there. Why does she have these condoms?
Especially if she has condoms at her own place.
No woman should ever carry around condoms. No
woman should ever have condoms. That's the man's
job. That's your job. So you better put on a
Jimmy hat. You better be using condoms. You better
be carrying around condoms. No woman should ever
have them in her purse. I knew girls in high
school that would carry them around in their
purse like it was a Mentos. These girls were
very promiscuous. And that can be for guys, right,
that haven't opened their eyes yet, haven't seen
through the matrix of women that can. And one,
I could see some guys go, that's a green flag.
She's really worried. about you know her health
and all that but it's like she's also worried
enough that she's gonna be caught in the moment
that she needs to sleep with the guy right now
that she's carrying these around so uh kind of
a a addition to that one is if i'm about to sleep
with a woman and she is trying to encourage me
to not wear protection that is a huge red flag
i wear it all the time all the time especially
these days man with all the creepy crawlies out
there you gotta be careful but there are so many
times we're caught in the moment and the girls
it's like just take it off just take it off no
i want to feel you in i want to feel your you
know you naturally inside me it's like yeah in
the moment that feels great and you feel like
such a man like oh yeah she wants me but you
got to think about that take yourself out of
that situation how many other guys has she pressured
in a sense or even just let him pressure her
into like oh it's not that big of a deal if she's
letting you in raw she's letting someone else
in raw unless maybe she's your wife of course
but uh other than that scenario if a girl ever
is like i want the girl that is like double checking
me like hey wait make sure you got one on like
i want that that to me is like good good i'm
glad you're you're wary of this i don't want
you to let anything slip inside you Yeah, and
it's not necessarily the woman's job. It's your
job as a man. Because if she views you as assertive,
a leader, if she finds you very attractive, and
you tell her, oh, no, no, I don't want to wear
a condom, many women will just go with it. It's
your job as a man to lead and protect yourself.
Okay? Or else now you're manipulating her. and
again if it's if she's gonna let you in someone
else is going to try like there's going to be
guys that have no worries about the diseases
that they're gonna they just want to get it in
in that moment so i want her because that is
she's the one that's opened up the legs in that
sense right i want her to have a firm stance
like no this is your this is not happening you
have to put one on like that is because again
she most guys are not going to be pressuring
her to put one on most guys are gonna be like
no no just let me take it off so i want her to
be strong enough that she can say no or else
again impulse control red flag goes off in my
mind yeah that's that's a very good one fellas
remember always use protection if she refuses
to acknowledge your relationship in public if
she doesn't want anyone to know She is either
using you, has another man, or both. That's what
that means, fellas. A girl eventually, I know
this is earned not right in the beginning, she's
not going to want a photo of you. Okay, that's
a red flag if a girl wants a photo very quickly
of you to post on social media. She's trying
to get someone else out there jealous. She's
putting you in a dangerous situation. It takes
time for a woman to want to show you off, fellas.
It takes time. But if you're in a relationship
with her and she doesn't want anyone to know
about it, I've seen this on social media. The
girl will post the flowers that her boyfriend
got her, right? Oh, my boyfriend got me flowers.
You scroll through her pictures. There's not
one picture of her and her boyfriend. Why is
that? She's using him. He's the beta male provider
while she can go cheat on him. She doesn't want
other guys to know that she's taken. She's still
out on the market. yeah yeah the the what what
i like in a scenario and it almost it happens
almost every time is like if i'm bringing a girl
to a new friend gathering or a new social event
new party i usually introduce her as hey this
is my friend so and so my friend sarah my whatever
i i want her to be like kind of nudging me like
hey like what are you gonna say that we're dating
are you gonna say like i want her to want to
bring up that we're together and i'm always gonna
be like the one no no we're just friends we're
just hanging out and all casual whatever but
if she's the one going you know you're going
up to a new party and they're like oh how do
you know each other and she's just like oh he's
just a friend or you know like if she's jumping
in for that like that to me is that's my job
to be like hey no we're just we're just hanging
out we're casual or whatever but if she's coming
in trying to put the label or the non -label
she's like really asserting Oh, no. And you'll
see this like on game shows or, you know, if
she shows up with some guy or I see that like
the comedy clubs and they're like, hey, are you
with this guy? And she's like, oh, no. Oh, no.
He's just a friend. And she's making it very
well known. That's she's going, hey, guys, come
hit on me. This is not this is not your competition.
So I want to be the one where I'm always introducing
her as a friend. And she's like pulling me aside
like that hurts that you're just introducing
me as a friend. Like I thought we were more than
that. Like. That's the type of energy you want
rather than her going, hey, no, you're back here.
You can't get in this picture with me. Nope.
You're not going to make it on my social media.
Yeah, that's my best friend, Timmy. Meet my best
friend, Timmy. He does everything for me. He's
such a sweet guy. Oh, he's so sweet. Oh, and
Timmy, you're going to find a great girl someday
that appreciates you is he brings you to the
party and he's expecting like he's thinking.
That's his girlfriend or whatever. And she's
like, oh, you're such a good friend. I have some
I have some great girls that I can set you up
with. It's like, OK, you're you are absolutely
friend zone. Yeah, that's a double that's a double
edged sword, because when they say that, oh,
meet my best friend, Timmy, especially when they
post that to the entire world on social media.
The girls know the girl code. If she doesn't
want him, what makes you think the other girls
are going to want him if you put him in the friend
zone? No one's going to want him. That's a double
-edged sword. Women know the code. And the guys
stand there like, oh, yeah, she's going to boast
about me. I'm like a brother to her. I'm her
best friend. You're not getting any DMs. So who
are you kidding? Girls know the code, guys. I
know. One of my favorite things is, like I say,
I meet a lot of women now playing pickleball
because that's just what I'm really interested
in. Obviously, golf, too, but there's not a lot
of women on the golf course. I'll have like a
girl that will show up sometime and she'll have
a guy that comes with her. And the easiest thing
in my mind is like I'm seeing them and I'm like
seeing the guys all into her. I'm like, you know,
after a point or something like, oh, that's a
hey, who's your boyfriend? I haven't met him
yet. And she like looks at me. She's like, oh,
he's not my boyfriend. But she's like very like,
oh, he's not my boyfriend. And I'm like, OK,
easy. She just signaled to me. She's like, I
want you to hit on me, Adam. This is not my boyfriend.
Don't worry about him. He's just a guy I brought
along or he's just a guy that drove me here.
And in my head, I'm like, OK, I really don't
have to worry about that guy. So that's how on
the reverse end, like if a girl introduces you
in some way. So the guys that are aware of game
girls want to signal to those guys that they're
still available. So they'll be like, oh, no,
he's he's just a friend. He's just he's a really
good guy. And girls will say it just like that.
They won't want to like isolate the best friend
from all the best friend validation he's giving
her and all that. keeps him along but signals
to the guys that can read through the lines no
i'm single so she'll be like oh he's a really
good guy i really you know he's just he's always
been there for me supportive and all that and
when i hear that i'm like she has she has no
feelings for him he is just the beta orbiter
in her life that she gets the safety validation
from adam i want to tell you a quick story about
that this is hilarious you brought this up So
me and my best friend, he's also really alpha.
He's big. After the gym, we go to this spot to
grab food. We're standing in line. There's these
two gorgeous young girls. They probably look
like they just got into college. They were with
two other guys. And they heard how cocky and
funny me and my friend were. We were just being
the life of the party in there. And she looks
at us and she turns, you know, I started a conversation
with her. I said, hey, how are you? What are
you guys up to? The first thing she says, she
looks at us, this blonde girl, I'll never forget.
She puts her hands on her friend's shoulder and
said, oh, by the way, this is just my friend.
We didn't even ask, right? We were just having
small talk, but the fact of how quickly she said
it, that's how you know this girl's into you,
fellas. If she says that, you're like, okay,
this guy ain't even a threat. She wants it. And
the guy was just standing there, like smiling
like a cuck, probably buying her food as well.
and i ended up getting her number after right
in front of him too as they were leaving right
in front of the guy i knew he wasn't gonna do
yes i mean women are always gonna display their
their mating priorities which is again hypergamy
she wants the highest status man that she feels
that she can lock down to protect and provide
for her so when she already knows that a guy
will do it she's signaling to other men now like
oh no this is just a friend Because she's saying,
all right, I already got this guy. I can already
attain him. I can already lock him down. So now
she's ready for, okay, he's a placeholder. What
better is out there? So once a woman knows that
she has you, it's just internal, right? It's
not women in the back lab developing all these
manipulative game plans. It's literally just
internal that she's always going to look for
the highest status man that she feels she can
attain. So that moment she... feels she can attain
you by you saying, hey, you're the greatest.
I would, oh man, any guy would be lucky to have
you. And you're always there for all that, always
talking her up and all that. She knows that she
can attain you. So at any point, if she does
decide to have a relationship for you, it's because
she could not go out there and find better men
in her eyes that would commit to her. So she's
keeping that guy as a placeholder, but he'll
never be number one priority. even if you start
dating getting a relationship married if she
always feels that that you're hers her eyes will
always in a sense biologically be wandering yeah
you see this on social media all the time after
10 years i finally married my best friend yeah
yep after 10 years because i'm 43 now and uh
none of these guys that i really want are looking
at me anymore oh best friend i knew you were
always the one I knew it. I had to kiss some
frogs to get to my prince. Lucky you. Oh, happily
ever after now. It's like, no, she threw in the
towel and she's like, I'm going to be the guy
that has a dad bod now. She's like, all right,
I'm going to settle down with my best friend
and now I can just let it go. And a smooth way
before we continue, guys, if you see a girl with
a guy, you're not sure if that's her boyfriend.
If you don't have the game to tell yet. strike
up a conversation then you can add this in there
in a smooth and charming way oh by the way how
do you two know each other and she will tell
you oh this is just my friend oh he's just a
co -worker she doesn't say oh this is my man
my boyfriend that's fair game that's fair game
fellas okay um and then i don't know if you have
any i have one last one here and then we can
probably wrap it up here if we we're gonna have
plenty more guys if we miss yeah we're gonna
definitely do a part two of red flags we know
they're they're all around there a lot of different
ones uh but i look at uh a girl going to bachelorette
parties now in my younger years i thought bachelorette
parties were oh it's just the girls getting together
one last hurrah they're gonna drink wine in their
hotel and just hang out and not do anything it's
like when i see a girl that's constantly going
to bachelorette parties So there's one girl that
I know that I had a thing with in college. She's
like 31 now. And I just saw her this past summer
go to three different bachelorette parties in
like different areas. She went to Vegas. She
went to Nashville. And then she went to San Diego
or something like that. So all three, she's in
all three of these different ones. And she has
a boyfriend right now. Feel bad for that guy.
But bachelorette parties are not innocent, guys.
they're not innocent unless it's the church girl.
There's some like that. And they actually go
to like some log cabin and they knit and do their
own things. I actually know a couple of girls
that are actually morally strong. They grew up
in all church and all that. And that's their
bachelorette parties. That's different than the
girls going out to Nashville and going or going
to the Vegas strip to celebrate because you get
caught in that moment of partying. And when you're
with other women, oh man, it's so much fun. to
get wild, to live it up for another day. So if
she's one of those like always going to the bachelorette
parties, that's a big old red flag to me because
she always has that urge for that extra little
party, that extra, ooh, let's just get it all
out there. Let's just have fun. Let's get drunk
and not remember the night. So if she's going
to multiple bachelorette parties, especially
ones that she's traveling to party destinations
for, that to me is a big red flag. And women
will give you a commitment test, fellas. They
want to see how committed you still are to this
relationship. So if they tell you, Mary is having
a bachelorette party in Vegas. I was thinking
of going. She invited me. As a man, you're supposed
to set boundaries and tell her, no, I don't want
you going. It's not that I don't trust you. I
don't trust the environment you're going to be
in. I know there's going to be a lot of loud
people. There's going to be alcohol there. i
don't feel comfortable with my woman going and
being put in that situation it's my job to protect
you that's what she's looking for fellas are
you still committed because if you just let her
go she's gonna be a little disappointed but now
she has to go she's like okay well he let me
go i'm i guess i'm gonna go now but you guys
fall for it because you don't want to be seen
as insecure or, oh, you can't tell your woman
no. And that's what happens. It goes from one
bachelorette party now to the second one in Nashville,
now to the third one in God knows where else,
now to the fourth one because you didn't set
boundaries. And the second you let her go, this
is in the book called Influence, The Psychology
of Persuasion. When you let her go to those bachelorette
parties and then you try taking that freedom
away from her to not go to the next one, it's
too late. That's when people revolt. That's when
people riot. That's how revolutions happen. When
you give them the freedom to do something and
then you take that away from them. That's when
people stand up and they have resentment and
they start fighting back. But if you don't give
her those freedoms and you set boundaries, she
can't riot. She can't revolt. Yeah. And this
is not insecure, fellas. This is a good. difference
too between in in me and zar i've talked about
this before it's like we have different approaches
so i would consider myself more sigma i would
say you're probably more the alpha range and
so his way is going to be setting those direct
boundaries my way is going to be i'll if she
wants to go to bachelor party i'll be like yeah
i wouldn't i personally wouldn't do it if you
go i don't know that i'll be you know around
here when you're doing it but i'm not going to
say you can't go i'm going to leave that decision
up to her And then if she makes that decision
on her own, then she's going to have to work
seven times as hard to just see me again the
next day. So I'm going to make it known, but
I'm not going to force it. I'm just going to
be like, hey, if you want to go, I disagree with
that. And then I'm going to test her in a sense
and let her make that decision. And if she goes,
then I am gone. And she's going to have to scratch
and claw her way back in just to hang out with
me again. So I will. i will always let a woman
do what she wants to do i'll make my um preferences
known and then i want her to show me her character
by making those decisions if she hears that i
i'm like i wouldn't do that fru there's gonna
be a lot of a lot of stuff going on down there
and she still decides to make that decision then
i go all right she cannot expect any ounce of
commitment from me because i'm already a guy
that doesn't give that away And if she's making
these decisions, I'm just like, all right, you
just you made the decision for me. Thank you.
Unless if it's a close family member, I understand
that because I would assume that the man would
trust her family. Yes, yes. And she doesn't want
to look like a like an idiot in front of her
family or in a certain type of light if she does
do anything disrespectful. Yeah. Yes. There's
definitely nuances to it. All right. So that's
probably a good spot to end. And just as a preview
for episode three, we're going to talk about
why women pull back. What makes women pull back
and how can you strategize with that scenario?
So we're going to talk about why women pull back
on episode three. Hands down, this is the best
game that you guys get to learn about women.
how to attract them. That will be later in the
podcast. Right now, we wanted to go over some
of the green flags, the red flags, so we can
teach you guys more game. The next one will be
why women pull back. Every single reason why
a woman pulls back, fellas. And that is one of
the biggest repertoire they have in their toolbox
is pulling back from a guy. So depending on how
you guys play this, you're either going to be
carrying her purse or tying her shoes, having
no power in the relationship. Or she's going
to be chasing you, which is what you want her
to do. You want her to be in that position. So
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subscribe, you might just be a total beta mon
-SIMP. maybe a beta barnacle the beta bar the
double b's you never want to be the double b's
all right take care guys