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Welcome, guys, to podcast episode number two,

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Put on the Full Armor of Game. I am your host,

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Zardanya, as well as the texting Prince. Today,

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we're going to go over red flags for you guys.

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I always get these questions. I'm sure Prince

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gets these questions as well. Is this a red flag?

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How do I know if this girl is good for me? Because

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the truth is, fellas, one woman can ruin a man's

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life if you don't know how to properly screen

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her. so you have to know is she relationship

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material are you wasting your time energy and

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resources on her because you heard the saying

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behind every successful man is a high quality

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woman you bring the crowns and heads of conquered

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kings to my city steps you insult my queen you

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threaten my people with slavery and death We

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already went over the green flags on the last

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show. If you missed that, catch that episode.

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It is a banger. Me and the Prince break down

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all the green flags you need to know. So Machiavelli,

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Niccolo Machiavelli, The Prince, awesome book.

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I recommend you guys read it. He has a saying

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in there. He who seeks to deceive will always

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find someone who will allow himself to be deceived.

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This is why we tell you guys put on the full

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armor of game so you know deception will not

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work on you, especially when it comes to women

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and their manipulative nature. Got that book

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right here, The Prince. I would advise, I always

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look at that book from time to time. Amazing,

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especially if you're a man. Get that book and

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The 48 Laws of Power. We'll do that on another

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podcast, maybe a list of books we've read. So

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it's important to define your customer, what

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you want in a woman. Because when everyone is

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your customer, fellas, no one is your customer.

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So if you don't define what it is you want by

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narrowing down your options, you'll always get

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what it is you don't really want. So when it

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comes to attracting the right woman, she'll never

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show up on your radar because you'll have no

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idea what she really looks like or how she behaves.

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Define your customer. Know the green flags. Know

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the red flags. We're teaching you the real game

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on this podcast. No one is doing it like we are.

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So my first red flag is. physical appearance.

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Women display certain characteristics on their

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sleeves, like a neon sign. Certain tattoos a

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woman has, piercings, bright colored hair. No

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disrespect to anyone that has bright colored

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hair, but anything in the wild that has bright,

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powerful colors, that is a warning sign. I'm

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toxic, unstable. Stay away from me. I can kill

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you. I can hurt you. Animals know this. So when

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a woman dyes her hair a very bright color, I'm

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not talking about a natural color like blonde

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or sometimes red highlights. That's okay. That

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looks good on a woman. But if she has bright

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red, bright blue, bright yellow, bright green,

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she is literally telling you, I am toxic. Stay

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away from me. Unstable. I come with drama. Women

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wear these flags. on their sleeves fellas on

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their body on their hair sometimes you can't

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visually see it we'll get into that later but

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bright colored hair is a big one certain tattoos

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if she has a dream catcher tattooed on her body

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or a butterfly that means she's free spirited

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by free spirited she lands on any within a five

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mile radius That's what free spirited means.

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Not all women. I know several women that have

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a butterfly tattoo because it reminds them of

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their grandma. But certain women, the more butterfly

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tattoos they have or the more dream catcher tattoos

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or feathers, they are free spirited. That's not

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a great sign. That's what you guys have to look

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out for. And piercings. Now, ear piercings are

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okay. But if she has lip piercings, if she has

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a nose piercing. if she has a septum nose ring

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if she has that piercing right underneath their

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lip i don't know what the that's called majority

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of the times that girl is very promiscuous so

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look out for those signs yeah actually i'll jump

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in on that as well with the tattoos and piercings

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so tattoos obviously one is just sheer number

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quantity of tattoos you know if most women it

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seems like today have tattoos one two or whatever

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but when you get someone that's covering up their

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entire body that to me is a red flag because

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that's not really forward thinking how's that

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gonna look when she's uh older when she wants

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to be a mom um when her body starts wrinkling

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a little bit uh another thing with tattoos is

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I like to ask, oh, why'd you get that tattoo?

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And listen to her reasoning. If there is a reasoning

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she thought about and she's like, oh, I've wanted

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to get this since I was young. It reminds me

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of my grandma. It reminds me of my, you know,

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my family, something like that. And it's well

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thought out. That one to me is not as much of

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a red flag is the girl that goes, oh, I was out

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on, you know, a bachelorette. uh weekend and

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we just randomly decided in new orleans to all

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get a matching tattoo and she doesn't even really

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have any uh there's no meaning to it it was impulsive

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to her so that would be one part and then for

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piercings and tattoos i would also look for where

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on the body is it for instance a tattoo on her

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the side of her hip like the cardi b tattoo tattoos

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in the middle of her chest okay so who is she

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wanting to display that to well one she whoever's

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the tattoo artist is getting her full naked body

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is they're doing that for hours at a time and

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so that right there to me is a little bit of

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a red flag a warning sign as well as nipple nipple

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piercings are they kind of fun absolutely Does

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it give me a red flag if I would want to settle

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down with this girl in the future? Absolutely.

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So think about that as well. It's like an inception,

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the layer upon layer of the piercings and tattoos.

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Where are they? What's their story behind it?

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Do they have a story behind it or was it impulsively

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done? Obviously, one more on the tattoos and

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ex -boyfriend's name or something. If she tells

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you that. She's got a tattoo of the heart on

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it and an arrow through it. And it's like Dave.

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And she tries to make up a story about her grandpa,

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Dave. Check her on that later. Try to figure

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out more if she's just lying and Dave is really

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just her ex -boyfriend or something like that.

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So that would be some red flags in my book. Yeah,

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if she has our names tattooed, she's cool. yeah

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true that's the only exception but another another

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uh tattoo the new tramp stamp we all know about

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the tramp stamp the new tramp stamp is the thigh

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tattoo now why is that a red flag because every

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single piece of clothing that she's gonna wear

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now is gonna reveal that tattoo at the gym she

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wants dozens of guys to look at it out in public

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she wants guys to look at it The thigh tattoo

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is the new tramp stamp, fellas. You have to get

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with the culture and what women are doing. Majority

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of these women are trashy. If you have a giant

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thigh tattoo on one of your erogenous zones,

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that is a red flag. And the fact that she had

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another stranger, her tattoo artist, comfortably

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doing that, why would you want a girl like that?

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She's only for recreational use. That's it. Stop

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wiping up these thoughts. All right. So for the

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next red flag, I got one here that it I like

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to look at workout apparel. So when I'm at the

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gym, when I see a girl that is actually in baggy

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clothes or something non -revealing, I'm impressed

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by that. i know this is not green flags but starting

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with the you know the positive here i'm impressed

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with that because she's obviously not she's there

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to work out to improve her body not to get stares

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and looks versus the red flag to me is the girls

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that walk in and yeah they're fun to look at

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sure but they got the matching you know skin

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tight leggings all the way down they got or they

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got that those like really tight tiny little

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shorts And you can tell every time she goes to

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the gym, she's like perfectly, makeup's perfectly

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put on. She's got the whole display going. I'm

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like, okay, she is there to signal to men more

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so than she's there to improve her body and her

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health and fitness. So when I look at that for

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the workout, I don't want the girl that wants

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the flashiest workout clothes because what's

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she going to do when she's, you know, sweating

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all that? She's trying to signal to all the other

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men in there. She wants some looks. She wants

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some attention. So I look at that, the workout

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apparel, and that to me can signal a red flag

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early on. Going off that one, Adam, Prince, if

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you see a bunch of guys approaching a girl at

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a masculine place like the gym, they're all saying

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hi to her. They're kissing her on the cheek.

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They're hugging her. How does she know all these

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guys, fellas? That is like me. or prince going

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into a strip club and all the strippers approaching

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us kissing us hugging us hey how you been in

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your mind you're gonna wonder how many of these

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girls are you sleeping with in my mind when i

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see that in a woman a bunch of men approaching

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her she's friendly with all them she's working

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out with the new one every week her new flavor

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of the week our mind automatically goes on autopilot

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we ask ourselves how many of these men is she

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sleeping with I don't want a girl that is very

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outgoing like that around masculine men. I want

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a girl that's low -key, that's feminine, that's

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a little shy and reserved. Look out for that

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one. Yeah, and branching off that one, I have

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a red flag here of if she has mostly male friends.

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All right. And this one's kind of tricky for

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guys because I feel like every guy dreams about

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the girl that can be with the boys and just hang

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out with the boys and be cool with the boys.

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And it's like, yeah, there's an aspect to that

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that's nice. But when I know that a girl has

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mostly male friends, that is going to signal

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a red flag in me. It's because how did she meet

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them and why are they all so eager to be friends

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with them? Because I know in my personal groups

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of all my social groups I hang out with. i've

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slept with most of the women in my friend groups

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at some point in time and i know that my buddies

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in our friend groups have lusted after these

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women or had you know things with them or wanted

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something with them as well so when you have

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a bunch of male friends around well what's gonna

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happen she breaks up with some guy she's sad

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at the party she's drinking with all of her friends

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i already know all all of my guy friends even

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though we have the friend groups of women a lot

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of these guys secretly are hoping that the girl's

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going to drink and like, oh, maybe something

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will happen. So when you're around those scenarios,

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when you have all male guys around you, it's

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going to be very easy when she's in a vulnerable

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position to slip up a little bit and invite some

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of these men into something more than friendship.

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So when she has mostly male friends, I'm a little

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concerned there. That's a red flag to me. You

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always hear this from time to time. I only hang

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out with guys because women are too much drama.

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Fellas, do not get into anything serious with

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that girl. If she can't even coincide with a

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group of women and they need each other because

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women need the collectiveness of other women

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in order to survive, that's hardwired in them.

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That means there's something wrong with her.

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She either gets very jealous, she's... She comes

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with drama. She gossips a lot. If you can't get

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along with your own gender, that is a big red

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flag. Do not fall for that. Anytime a girl tells

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me that, it's just the eggplant emoji times 10.

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That's what I think of when a girl says she only

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hangs out with guys because girls are too much

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drama. And another branch off that as well is

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because I know women. Women are very perceptive.

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I really enjoy. when I'm hanging out with the

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women going, Hey, let's read the social situation.

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What do you think their relationship is? And

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what do you think their relationship is? And

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so part of the red flag on that too, is women

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can sniff that in other women. So if there's

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a woman that gets around, she doesn't want to

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be hanging out around with other women. Cause

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she knows that those other women will spill her

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secrets. So if she's concerned about, you know,

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hanging out with other women, it's because women

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are competitive. And so she knows that if she's

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been bouncing around on the carousel that if

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she's got other women that have seen her doing

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this, she's afraid that they're going to reveal

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her secret. So that can be another red flag about

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why she doesn't like to spend her time with women

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is because women can read through this type of

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things and can see the game going on. So if she

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doesn't get along with other women, she might

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be afraid that these women are going to reveal

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her real secrets, her real lifestyle. That's

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a great breakdown. I hope you guys were listening

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to that. That is on point. That is golden. The

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next one, she lies. Like she lies a lot, fellas.

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I have been on a date with a girl that I caught

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lying at least a dozen times in the conversation.

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If you can't trust her to tell you where she

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works or her current relationship status, you

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can't trust her with anything. I have also had

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girls give the dumbest lies to protect their

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bad behavior. sorry sweetie i don't believe your

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bible study class is over at 2 a .m peep game

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guys yeah yeah uh a big one here a big one and

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i live in washington state you're in jersey is

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that right that's correct is she a proud feminist

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gotta be careful on this one with the algorithms

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of course but Remember, if a woman is proud to

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be a feminist these days, it's almost like women

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are going to be programmed to be a feminist regardless,

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because that's plastered everywhere. You know,

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you go, girl, women empowerment, men are bad,

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all that. So it's already going to be naturally

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in most women to kind of side that way. But if

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she's coming out and she's a proud feminist,

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I in my mind, it's like red flag, red flag, red

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flag, red flag, red flag. because she's going

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to be swept up in the culture she's going to

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be swept up that one time you know if you're

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her boyfriend and you don't do everything perfect

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for her it's very easier easy for her to go on

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social media with all of her strong empowered

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women and they can you know tell her hey you

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deserve better he should do he should do this

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for you he should do that for you they get caught

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up in that big cultural shift where men are bad

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women are always in the right And so if you're

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starting out and she's a proud feminist, man,

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that's a red flag for me. If she is somewhere

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in the middle, yeah, most women are these days.

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But when she's coming out and she's a proud feminist,

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that screams red flags all over the place to

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me. That is not someone that I want any type

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of serious commitment with if she's coming in

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with that mindset. Yeah, you can train her. You

00:17:01.799 --> 00:17:04.880
can train her to. see the other side, but it's

00:17:04.880 --> 00:17:08.299
far easier to start with a clean slate than someone

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that's coming in with all these preconceived

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ideas about what men and what women should be

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in today's world. Yeah, full armor of gay moment

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right here. So listen up, guys. Every feminine

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woman that I have dated has never believed in

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feminism. In fact, we laughed about it because

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these women don't have a victim mindset. They

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know there is power within inner femininity.

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They're not trying to compete with other men.

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They know they can make it on their own. They're

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intelligent. They're motivated. They're compassionate.

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Look out for that sign, fellas. That's a big

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one because if she does believe in feminism,

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if you don't do anything that she tells you to

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do or you have a disagreement, all of a sudden

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you're a misogynist. Yeah, and it's such a fine

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line, right? Because feminine women are great.

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I love feminine women, but you turn that feminine

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into a feminist. it's a completely different

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mindset when she takes that on that's like she's

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proud of being masculine that's what in my mind

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i hear that she goes oh i'm a feminist i'm like

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so you're masculine that's what you know goes

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on in my mind versus the opposite i want the

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feminine woman not the feminist woman another

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red flag if every end of a relationship was horrible

00:18:28.599 --> 00:18:32.519
on her end If she defines each breakup as the

00:18:32.519 --> 00:18:35.680
man being abusive, cheating or otherwise doing

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something evil to her, you can rest assured when

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you stop dating her, she will also accuse you

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as well. Remember that, fellas. Yep. I got that

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on one of mine here. She speaks poorly about

00:18:49.160 --> 00:18:54.059
her ex. Well, OK. If she speaks poorly about

00:18:54.059 --> 00:18:58.480
her ex. That tells me that she's her feelings

00:18:58.480 --> 00:19:01.720
are not. finish with him if she's still got those

00:19:01.720 --> 00:19:04.599
emotions involved and she's upset about her ex

00:19:04.599 --> 00:19:06.579
and all that and she's oh can't can't wait to

00:19:06.579 --> 00:19:09.740
talk about what a bad guy he is okay so she either

00:19:09.740 --> 00:19:12.480
has still some feelings and emotions for this

00:19:12.480 --> 00:19:17.480
guy or she was a terrible decision maker she

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she decided to be with this guy for how long

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and he's such a bad horrible toxic guy yet she

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decided to be with him so really either way you

00:19:28.200 --> 00:19:30.269
look at it Either she's going to be speaking

00:19:30.269 --> 00:19:33.369
poorly about you in the future or she's just

00:19:33.369 --> 00:19:36.210
a bad decision maker. And that's one right there

00:19:36.210 --> 00:19:37.910
that's like, all right, if she's a bad decision

00:19:37.910 --> 00:19:41.630
maker, are you going to want to inherit those

00:19:41.630 --> 00:19:43.849
decisions that she's going to be making when

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she's with you? Great point. And this one is

00:19:50.750 --> 00:19:54.099
another full armor of game. golden moment right

00:19:54.099 --> 00:19:55.940
here this one's very important because a lot

00:19:55.940 --> 00:19:58.299
of men fall for this i've had family members

00:19:58.299 --> 00:20:02.539
best friends she hates your friends or family

00:20:02.539 --> 00:20:04.940
members that's including your father your mother

00:20:04.940 --> 00:20:08.200
this is the beginning of isolation for you so

00:20:08.200 --> 00:20:10.859
she can change you and achieve the power in the

00:20:10.859 --> 00:20:14.000
relationship she doesn't want any positive influences

00:20:14.000 --> 00:20:17.759
in your life especially those influences that

00:20:17.759 --> 00:20:20.380
keep telling you how bad of a girl she is they

00:20:20.380 --> 00:20:23.640
see her for what she's worth She's dividing and

00:20:23.640 --> 00:20:26.420
conquering. Once she divides and conquers you,

00:20:26.480 --> 00:20:28.619
it is game over, bro. She's going to sink in

00:20:28.619 --> 00:20:31.480
her fangs and the venom is going to start flowing

00:20:31.480 --> 00:20:33.619
through your body and you're going to be paralyzed.

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Watch out for this. I've lost best friends because

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their girls hated me. They didn't like me because

00:20:40.259 --> 00:20:43.299
they knew I saw them for who they're worth. They

00:20:43.299 --> 00:20:46.440
don't want me chirping in my friend's ears because

00:20:46.440 --> 00:20:50.680
real recognize real. Be careful, guys. Do not

00:20:50.680 --> 00:20:53.309
fall for that. She cannot separate you from your

00:20:53.309 --> 00:20:56.210
positive influences, especially if the person's

00:20:56.210 --> 00:20:58.710
your father, your mother, your best friends.

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They want what's best for you. Okay. Men stay

00:21:02.750 --> 00:21:05.349
in toxic relationships because they don't listen

00:21:05.349 --> 00:21:09.049
to their single friends. Women leave good relationships

00:21:09.049 --> 00:21:11.589
because they listen to their single friends.

00:21:12.910 --> 00:21:17.029
Well said. Very well said there. I got one here.

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Red flag to me is her. eating habits or her diet

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so when you're with younger women i remember

00:21:28.019 --> 00:21:32.039
you know the and and you know all the college

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women around me like there was a difference between

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the women that would you know eat poorly they

00:21:39.180 --> 00:21:41.000
go home after a drunk night and they're they're

00:21:41.000 --> 00:21:43.539
you know taking down a pizza by themselves the

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next morning they're getting up eating oreos

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they're just putting whatever junk in their body

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and it might be fine when she's in her young

00:21:53.589 --> 00:21:57.630
20s or even mid 20s but if she hasn't changed

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her eating habits or diet she's not looking at

00:22:00.049 --> 00:22:03.910
healthy eating she's not um you know looking

00:22:03.910 --> 00:22:07.569
into nutrition it's only a matter of time before

00:22:07.569 --> 00:22:10.950
the metabolism catches up with her and if she

00:22:10.950 --> 00:22:13.450
doesn't have good habits in place about you know

00:22:13.450 --> 00:22:16.190
eating right if she can't cook her own healthy

00:22:16.190 --> 00:22:20.099
type of meals then it's just a matter of time

00:22:20.099 --> 00:22:24.720
before the weight comes and we know about the

00:22:24.720 --> 00:22:27.900
wall that's the period of time when you know

00:22:27.900 --> 00:22:31.819
women's bodies start to shift she's not aging

00:22:31.819 --> 00:22:34.740
as well well if she doesn't have good eating

00:22:34.740 --> 00:22:36.680
habits she doesn't have a good diet in place

00:22:36.680 --> 00:22:40.619
now then it's much much harder for her to pick

00:22:40.619 --> 00:22:43.119
up that habit later on and if she doesn't pick

00:22:43.119 --> 00:22:47.200
up that habit soon eventually your physical attraction

00:22:47.200 --> 00:22:51.740
will probably fade from her and in a relationship

00:22:51.740 --> 00:22:54.880
you need to be attracted to a woman to get through

00:22:54.880 --> 00:22:59.119
the obstacles the hurdles and all the other stuff

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that's going to come up in some type of long

00:23:01.000 --> 00:23:04.619
-term relationship so i want to see a girl that

00:23:04.619 --> 00:23:07.140
has good eating habits in place or a good diet

00:23:07.140 --> 00:23:10.700
in place if she doesn't have that yet i don't

00:23:10.700 --> 00:23:12.839
want to necessarily be the man that teach her

00:23:12.839 --> 00:23:15.599
that Because that can be a hard habit. We know

00:23:15.599 --> 00:23:20.160
that weight is a really tough thing for all people,

00:23:20.220 --> 00:23:23.660
men or women, to tackle. And so if she doesn't

00:23:23.660 --> 00:23:26.900
have that down now, good luck in the future.

00:23:26.940 --> 00:23:30.079
It's not going to be pretty. That's why it's

00:23:30.079 --> 00:23:33.220
so important to constantly be working out, building

00:23:33.220 --> 00:23:35.460
your armor, building your confidence. If she

00:23:35.460 --> 00:23:39.000
sees her man working out, she knows that she's

00:23:39.000 --> 00:23:41.890
competing with other women. So what is that going

00:23:41.890 --> 00:23:44.130
to make her do? She's going to want to work out

00:23:44.130 --> 00:23:46.809
now and look her best so she doesn't lose you.

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But you guys get so lazy in a relationship, you

00:23:49.849 --> 00:23:52.190
start eating fucking honey buns and donuts all

00:23:52.190 --> 00:23:55.450
day that you stop working out. Why would she

00:23:55.450 --> 00:23:59.250
work out now? And if she's in shape and she's

00:23:59.250 --> 00:24:01.630
working out, you better be working out, fellas,

00:24:01.769 --> 00:24:04.509
because she will leave you for a man at the gym

00:24:04.509 --> 00:24:08.130
that has a nicer body than you. She will. It's

00:24:08.130 --> 00:24:10.049
only a matter of time or she's going to cheat

00:24:10.049 --> 00:24:12.420
on you. i don't believe in that whole i like

00:24:12.420 --> 00:24:14.579
the dad bod no they don't they just don't want

00:24:14.579 --> 00:24:16.980
to compete with other women anymore and guys

00:24:16.980 --> 00:24:19.700
still fall for that i would go harder at the

00:24:19.700 --> 00:24:21.799
gym if a girl tells me that oh yeah you like

00:24:21.799 --> 00:24:23.900
the dad bod well looks like you're never gonna

00:24:23.900 --> 00:24:28.299
like me then go to the gym that hour and start

00:24:28.299 --> 00:24:31.019
working out don't give her what she wants fellas

00:24:31.019 --> 00:24:34.759
that is a trap the next one i want to talk about

00:24:36.079 --> 00:24:39.599
This is a big one. And guys always fall for this

00:24:39.599 --> 00:24:41.279
when they get in a relationship with the girl.

00:24:41.920 --> 00:24:44.900
They start paying off her debt or her college

00:24:44.900 --> 00:24:48.660
tuition. Once you're done paying off her debt

00:24:48.660 --> 00:24:50.799
or you're done paying off her college tuition

00:24:50.799 --> 00:24:53.259
and she becomes successful, she doesn't need

00:24:53.259 --> 00:24:56.299
your ass anymore. She's leaving you. She can't

00:24:56.299 --> 00:24:58.359
respect the man who's going to give up his resources

00:24:58.359 --> 00:25:01.000
that quickly like that. You are a simp in her

00:25:01.000 --> 00:25:03.559
eyes. I can't believe men still fall for this.

00:25:03.619 --> 00:25:06.059
I see this all the time. I hear about it. Right

00:25:06.059 --> 00:25:08.279
after they pay off the woman's college tuition,

00:25:08.539 --> 00:25:10.480
oh, she's gone. And they don't know what hit

00:25:10.480 --> 00:25:13.640
them. Oh, but I was saving her. I was taking

00:25:13.640 --> 00:25:17.359
care of her. Yeah, she manipulated you. Now she

00:25:17.359 --> 00:25:19.500
can go be with the guy that she truly wants to

00:25:19.500 --> 00:25:23.119
be with once she's established. Don't have simp

00:25:23.119 --> 00:25:25.579
written on your fucking forehead, fellas. We're

00:25:25.579 --> 00:25:28.140
not doing that. If she goes to college, that's

00:25:28.140 --> 00:25:31.420
her decision. She has to pay off that debt. If

00:25:31.420 --> 00:25:33.359
she gets in debt with a credit card, she has

00:25:33.359 --> 00:25:35.039
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00:25:36.019 --> 00:25:38.440
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all the time these days, especially if you're

00:28:32.579 --> 00:28:35.859
trying the dating apps and all that, a single

00:28:35.859 --> 00:28:39.960
mother. So she has children from another man.

00:28:40.480 --> 00:28:44.180
Can there be tiny exceptions to this rule? Yeah,

00:28:44.380 --> 00:28:47.619
maybe she was married and she's a widow now.

00:28:47.740 --> 00:28:51.140
And honestly, that's a sad moment and all that.

00:28:51.359 --> 00:28:55.309
But if... If she's a single mother, that's a

00:28:55.309 --> 00:28:57.589
red flag because there's going to be a couple

00:28:57.589 --> 00:28:59.490
of things going on. First off, she's going to

00:28:59.490 --> 00:29:02.369
put her kids first. Kids are a priority. Great.

00:29:02.470 --> 00:29:04.609
I like a mother that's involved with their children.

00:29:04.769 --> 00:29:07.750
But when you're now the guy that's stepping up,

00:29:07.829 --> 00:29:10.670
you're stepping into that relationship. Her kids

00:29:10.670 --> 00:29:14.650
come first before you. You have X drama, the

00:29:14.650 --> 00:29:17.069
X baby daddy. You're going to have to deal with

00:29:17.069 --> 00:29:18.809
that coming in and out of her life, especially

00:29:18.809 --> 00:29:21.930
if he was toxic, a bad boy. You're going to have

00:29:21.930 --> 00:29:25.069
to deal with. those feelings that you know we

00:29:25.069 --> 00:29:27.849
know women like the bad boys and every time she's

00:29:27.849 --> 00:29:29.710
dropping the kids off or whatnot and they're

00:29:29.710 --> 00:29:33.509
staying in contact there's that x drama that's

00:29:33.509 --> 00:29:37.390
going to be in your life and then for you you

00:29:37.390 --> 00:29:40.990
now have a huge lifestyle change if you're inheriting

00:29:40.990 --> 00:29:43.529
children that are not your your own i have a

00:29:43.529 --> 00:29:46.650
couple buddies that have done this and i'm worried

00:29:46.650 --> 00:29:49.950
about even the future. Right now, oh, it might

00:29:49.950 --> 00:29:52.009
be great. You come in and you're stepping up.

00:29:52.049 --> 00:29:54.750
You're the great guy. But how long until now

00:29:54.750 --> 00:29:58.150
those children go, hey, you're not my father.

00:29:58.269 --> 00:30:01.190
I don't have to listen to you. And now you have

00:30:01.190 --> 00:30:05.710
the woman who, again, kids first. She's going

00:30:05.710 --> 00:30:08.289
to side with her children. Don't talk to my children

00:30:08.289 --> 00:30:12.069
like that. And so you have a whole bunch of extra

00:30:12.069 --> 00:30:15.309
scenarios that you have to put yourself through

00:30:15.309 --> 00:30:18.779
if you're starting out with. a single mother

00:30:18.779 --> 00:30:22.619
yeah you're definitely at a disadvantage fellas

00:30:22.619 --> 00:30:26.579
she has all the power the kids will never look

00:30:26.579 --> 00:30:28.339
up to you they'll never respect you because all

00:30:28.339 --> 00:30:30.680
they have to say is well you're not my real father

00:30:30.680 --> 00:30:34.619
what are you going to do then a majority of teenagers

00:30:34.619 --> 00:30:37.039
that i meet they can't stand their stepfathers

00:30:37.039 --> 00:30:39.180
they hate them they have resentment towards them

00:30:39.180 --> 00:30:45.480
the next one Within a few hours of meeting her

00:30:45.480 --> 00:30:48.519
or being alone with her, she begins to brag about

00:30:48.519 --> 00:30:53.640
her sexual ability. Feminine women aren't that

00:30:53.640 --> 00:30:56.900
brazen, fellas. They're shy, they're reserved.

00:30:57.339 --> 00:30:59.799
So I've had girls tell me how good they are at

00:30:59.799 --> 00:31:02.500
blowjobs within 15 minutes of showing up at my

00:31:02.500 --> 00:31:05.119
house for the first time. Just look her in the

00:31:05.119 --> 00:31:08.079
eyes, then look down at your crotch and ask her,

00:31:08.140 --> 00:31:10.799
what are you waiting for? Works almost every

00:31:10.799 --> 00:31:17.549
time, fellas. works almost every time yeah true

00:31:17.549 --> 00:31:20.890
good point she's bragging about that that's again

00:31:20.890 --> 00:31:24.009
in a sense a masculine trait the whole like bragging

00:31:24.009 --> 00:31:26.609
about the the notch count bragging about your

00:31:26.609 --> 00:31:29.549
experience that again gives me that masculine

00:31:29.549 --> 00:31:32.150
energy and it's like oh how did you get so good

00:31:32.150 --> 00:31:36.289
at that practice oh was it practice you weren't

00:31:36.289 --> 00:31:38.329
practicing on me that whole time so how did you

00:31:38.329 --> 00:31:44.650
come in here like a pro Every master was once

00:31:44.650 --> 00:31:47.970
a disaster. So she started somewhere. I remember

00:31:47.970 --> 00:31:52.450
early on in my life, the girl said, man, it was

00:31:52.450 --> 00:31:54.829
not pretty. But in a sense, at least it was,

00:31:54.910 --> 00:31:58.230
okay, well, at least you're new at this. At least

00:31:58.230 --> 00:31:59.869
you're new at this. But the girl that comes in

00:31:59.869 --> 00:32:02.890
that's a pro, great for a night, great for a

00:32:02.890 --> 00:32:05.230
few nights, of course. But again, how did she

00:32:05.230 --> 00:32:10.730
get so good? Yeah, that's a telltale sign for

00:32:10.730 --> 00:32:13.569
me. prints that she's been around the block,

00:32:13.849 --> 00:32:17.430
right? I mean, I don't want to categorize all

00:32:17.430 --> 00:32:20.890
women, but if she's really good at performing

00:32:20.890 --> 00:32:25.650
oral, I'm talking about very good. That has to

00:32:25.650 --> 00:32:29.809
take practice. She just learned that overnight.

00:32:30.390 --> 00:32:33.869
Okay. So that is another telltale sign that maybe

00:32:33.869 --> 00:32:37.349
this girl is used to doing that. Oh, how did

00:32:37.349 --> 00:32:39.950
you get so good? Oh, I watched some YouTube videos

00:32:39.950 --> 00:32:41.970
on it and I practiced on a banana. It's like,

00:32:41.970 --> 00:32:44.950
no, you didn't. No, you did not. I'd rather have

00:32:44.950 --> 00:32:53.630
the girl that is okay or not that well at performing

00:32:53.630 --> 00:32:56.589
oral, but she meets all my other standards, right?

00:32:56.630 --> 00:32:58.750
Because at least I know this girl hasn't been

00:32:58.750 --> 00:33:01.420
around the block. Correct. And you can coach

00:33:01.420 --> 00:33:04.519
her through that. Yeah. Versus the pro that came

00:33:04.519 --> 00:33:06.460
in. It's like, this is great. I don't have to,

00:33:06.460 --> 00:33:08.140
I don't have to teach you anything. That's wonderful.

00:33:08.359 --> 00:33:10.200
You know, women love that when guys are experienced,

00:33:10.339 --> 00:33:12.819
they know what they're doing, but as guys, right,

00:33:12.880 --> 00:33:17.059
we have that, that in a, like, how, why did you,

00:33:17.099 --> 00:33:19.700
why are you so good? You're supposed to be pure

00:33:19.700 --> 00:33:22.640
and innocent. You're not supposed to be a pro

00:33:22.640 --> 00:33:25.819
right, right out of the box here. Yeah. How did

00:33:25.819 --> 00:33:31.900
I finish in one minute? Gosh, so good. Oh, man.

00:33:32.059 --> 00:33:34.240
True story. This is a true story, Prince. So

00:33:34.240 --> 00:33:37.740
I've had two Jesses. Both their names were Jesses

00:33:37.740 --> 00:33:40.660
that were incredible at oral. And they were the

00:33:40.660 --> 00:33:43.920
only ones, I think, that ever made me finish

00:33:43.920 --> 00:33:47.460
very quickly. And the irony is that both their

00:33:47.460 --> 00:33:49.519
names were Jesses. I don't know if that's a Jess

00:33:49.519 --> 00:33:51.599
name. I would hope not. I don't want to assume.

00:33:51.660 --> 00:33:58.460
But they were awesome women. No disrespect. um

00:33:58.460 --> 00:34:03.960
i so i got uh i got one here is um i like to

00:34:03.960 --> 00:34:08.559
figure out who her influences are who does she

00:34:08.559 --> 00:34:11.119
like to listen to and one that used to be really

00:34:11.119 --> 00:34:14.119
big was like if i knew a girl was into the call

00:34:14.119 --> 00:34:17.519
her daddy podcast so that got really popular

00:34:17.519 --> 00:34:20.900
a few years ago um the two podcast hosts split

00:34:20.900 --> 00:34:23.099
up or whatever so it's not quite as good but

00:34:23.099 --> 00:34:25.659
these if she listened to the call her daddy podcast

00:34:25.659 --> 00:34:29.500
if she loves cardi b she loves megan the stallion

00:34:29.500 --> 00:34:33.039
and you know that she's excited to you know do

00:34:33.039 --> 00:34:35.760
that wap dance all over the place she likes to

00:34:35.760 --> 00:34:38.699
twerk and all that stuff so i like to figure

00:34:38.699 --> 00:34:41.360
out what influences she's putting into her ears

00:34:41.360 --> 00:34:43.760
and the red flags to me are when you hear of

00:34:43.760 --> 00:34:47.340
that really popular podcast that they're talking

00:34:47.340 --> 00:34:49.519
about sex all the time they're talking about

00:34:49.519 --> 00:34:53.480
um you know twerking you know getting getting

00:34:53.480 --> 00:34:57.500
men to you know uh submit to them all that type

00:34:57.500 --> 00:34:59.699
of stuff so like cardi b make the stallion call

00:34:59.699 --> 00:35:03.119
her daddy those type of popular podcasts that

00:35:03.119 --> 00:35:04.820
she's going to be hearing all these influences

00:35:04.820 --> 00:35:07.880
on that like we said before a lot of that feminist

00:35:07.880 --> 00:35:11.840
kind of perspective in there uh if she has role

00:35:11.840 --> 00:35:17.159
models that are in my eyes impure um or uh very

00:35:17.159 --> 00:35:24.039
um uh just promiscuous, even masculine influences

00:35:24.039 --> 00:35:27.960
in that sense, that to me is a red flag. Good

00:35:27.960 --> 00:35:30.659
one. If she listens to ratchet ass rap music,

00:35:30.739 --> 00:35:34.239
I'm talking about complete depravity. She is

00:35:34.239 --> 00:35:37.579
being influenced by that music, especially if

00:35:37.579 --> 00:35:41.519
she's singing the lyrics. She lives by those

00:35:41.519 --> 00:35:44.460
lyrics. She's being influenced by it, fellas.

00:35:44.780 --> 00:35:48.280
That is a big red flag for me. She doesn't even

00:35:48.280 --> 00:35:50.610
have to say anything. you just tell me what music

00:35:50.610 --> 00:35:54.670
you like and that's it i i can already gauge

00:35:54.670 --> 00:35:57.269
the temperature of what kind of a girl she is

00:35:57.269 --> 00:35:59.809
because majority of high class high quality feminine

00:35:59.809 --> 00:36:03.429
women they'll listen to uplifting music music

00:36:03.429 --> 00:36:06.750
that talk about love music that is spiritual

00:36:06.750 --> 00:36:11.010
some will listen to rock music whatever doesn't

00:36:11.010 --> 00:36:13.849
matter what genre but it's not ratchet the lyrics

00:36:13.849 --> 00:36:20.019
aren't degrading yeah Next one, if she claims

00:36:20.019 --> 00:36:23.159
that she has called the cops on an ex before,

00:36:23.340 --> 00:36:27.659
she will also call the cops on you, fellas. You're

00:36:27.659 --> 00:36:30.099
not immune to that. I know you probably think

00:36:30.099 --> 00:36:32.920
you're special. You're that rare gem. She's never

00:36:32.920 --> 00:36:36.219
going to call the cops on you. I will guarantee

00:36:36.219 --> 00:36:39.500
anything. She will also call the cops on you.

00:36:40.739 --> 00:36:43.960
Remember that women reveal a lot of things about

00:36:43.960 --> 00:36:46.360
themselves. We talked about it on the last podcast.

00:36:46.699 --> 00:36:49.260
If you don't judge them. they'll just keep talking

00:36:49.260 --> 00:36:53.460
fellas so it's important you find this out ask

00:36:53.460 --> 00:36:55.340
her about her last relationship listen to the

00:36:55.340 --> 00:36:59.059
last podcast okay this is red flags now but we

00:36:59.059 --> 00:37:02.679
already mentioned that part yeah i got another

00:37:02.679 --> 00:37:10.239
uh red flag here is she loves raves she loves

00:37:10.239 --> 00:37:15.210
going to raves she loves going to um edm like

00:37:15.210 --> 00:37:18.369
electronic dance music uh festivals or concerts

00:37:18.369 --> 00:37:21.409
because when she's in that environment have you

00:37:21.409 --> 00:37:23.690
seen the videos around you ever been to one yourself

00:37:23.690 --> 00:37:28.769
what is out there it's scantily clad women it's

00:37:28.769 --> 00:37:30.889
like it's like halloween in college when women

00:37:30.889 --> 00:37:33.030
always dress up in halloween it was always like

00:37:33.030 --> 00:37:35.489
the slutty clothes when she's around that those

00:37:35.489 --> 00:37:38.710
edm festivals or she loves raves she's going

00:37:38.710 --> 00:37:43.449
to be scantily clad With a bunch of men and women

00:37:43.449 --> 00:37:45.710
around that are all into partying, drinking,

00:37:45.889 --> 00:37:50.630
doing drugs, and dancing until 2, 3 a .m. at

00:37:50.630 --> 00:37:52.769
night, what do you think is going to happen?

00:37:53.070 --> 00:37:55.550
So when I hear a girl that says, oh, one of my

00:37:55.550 --> 00:37:59.550
hobbies is going to raves, I'm like, red flag,

00:37:59.730 --> 00:38:06.690
red flag, red flag, red flag. Yes, and I've been

00:38:06.690 --> 00:38:09.409
to those raves in my younger formative years.

00:38:10.090 --> 00:38:13.170
And let me tell you something about those women.

00:38:13.250 --> 00:38:17.710
They are very sexual, especially in that environment.

00:38:18.030 --> 00:38:20.909
I've had girls that cheated on their boyfriends

00:38:20.909 --> 00:38:24.590
that they were there with at those raves. I have

00:38:24.590 --> 00:38:26.550
stories you guys do not even want to know. And

00:38:26.550 --> 00:38:31.269
many of those women take drugs to be at those

00:38:31.269 --> 00:38:35.670
raves. You do not want a woman like that, unless

00:38:35.670 --> 00:38:38.639
if you are going with her for... her first time

00:38:38.639 --> 00:38:41.099
you want her to experience one because that's

00:38:41.099 --> 00:38:45.219
the music you're into that's okay but it's a

00:38:45.219 --> 00:38:48.280
very sexual environment filled with a lot of

00:38:48.280 --> 00:38:53.699
drugs now if she is the type of girl that constantly

00:38:53.699 --> 00:38:57.679
talks about how independent strong and empowered

00:38:57.679 --> 00:39:01.239
she is that is a red flag anyone that really

00:39:01.239 --> 00:39:04.579
is independent strong and empowered they don't

00:39:04.579 --> 00:39:08.940
need to say it fellas That's a cop -out. It's

00:39:08.940 --> 00:39:12.559
a cover -up. If I'm a nice, good guy who's a

00:39:12.559 --> 00:39:17.139
gentleman, I don't have to say it. People can

00:39:17.139 --> 00:39:19.719
see that through my actions, through the person

00:39:19.719 --> 00:39:23.519
I am. This type of girl is an insecure feminist

00:39:23.519 --> 00:39:27.019
that will start lots of drama because internally,

00:39:27.179 --> 00:39:30.539
she wrestles with her fantasy strength and real

00:39:30.539 --> 00:39:33.510
-world weakness. That's what it is. She's very

00:39:33.510 --> 00:39:35.730
weak on the inside. So she has to boast about

00:39:35.730 --> 00:39:37.969
how powerful, strong and independent she is.

00:39:38.630 --> 00:39:41.710
Part of one that we touched on earlier about

00:39:41.710 --> 00:39:45.710
the dieting thing, a red flag in a different

00:39:45.710 --> 00:39:47.570
way is let's say you're in a relationship with

00:39:47.570 --> 00:39:53.630
a woman. And out of nowhere, she starts just

00:39:53.630 --> 00:39:57.630
boom, she all of a sudden starts really changing

00:39:57.630 --> 00:40:00.170
up her diet. She starts doing her nails, doing

00:40:00.170 --> 00:40:01.789
her hair. And this was something that she was

00:40:01.789 --> 00:40:04.949
not doing in the pattern of relationship with

00:40:04.949 --> 00:40:07.210
you earlier. To me, that's a red flag in your

00:40:07.210 --> 00:40:10.690
relationship that she is getting ready to attract

00:40:10.690 --> 00:40:13.570
someone new. And we've heard this before of,

00:40:13.570 --> 00:40:16.289
you know, marriages or whatnot, where there's

00:40:16.289 --> 00:40:18.449
fighting or whatever they're talking about, maybe

00:40:18.449 --> 00:40:20.230
potentially getting divorced or all that. And

00:40:20.230 --> 00:40:24.369
all of a sudden, you know, oh, this guy was trying

00:40:24.369 --> 00:40:26.030
to get his wife to work out. He's trying to get

00:40:26.030 --> 00:40:28.909
her to eat better and all that. She wasn't having

00:40:28.909 --> 00:40:31.489
any of it. And then out of nowhere. Now, all

00:40:31.489 --> 00:40:33.750
of a sudden she's doing her hair. She's doing

00:40:33.750 --> 00:40:36.150
her makeup. She's doing her nails. She's getting

00:40:36.150 --> 00:40:38.329
the new workout clothes. She's going to the gym

00:40:38.329 --> 00:40:41.809
without you. Those to me are red flags that she

00:40:41.809 --> 00:40:44.449
is ready. She's already, she's detached her emotions

00:40:44.449 --> 00:40:47.969
now from you and she's ready to get back out

00:40:47.969 --> 00:40:51.889
there on the CC that caught carousel. because

00:40:51.889 --> 00:40:54.190
she's looking for other options so if you're

00:40:54.190 --> 00:40:58.170
in a relationship and she switches that up out

00:40:58.170 --> 00:41:00.170
of nowhere that should be a red flag in your

00:41:00.170 --> 00:41:02.650
mind going okay something's going on right now

00:41:02.650 --> 00:41:06.050
and typically that is when she is done with the

00:41:06.050 --> 00:41:08.329
relationship and now she's getting out there

00:41:08.329 --> 00:41:12.809
to get ready to monkey branch to a new guy so

00:41:12.809 --> 00:41:15.090
that she has that security she has that backup

00:41:15.090 --> 00:41:19.570
when she's about ready to leave you i've had

00:41:19.570 --> 00:41:22.239
girls cheating on their boyfriends with me who

00:41:22.239 --> 00:41:24.719
would send me videos of them working out all

00:41:24.719 --> 00:41:27.280
of a sudden, sweating, putting on tighter yoga

00:41:27.280 --> 00:41:30.119
pants, asking me how they look. These girls were

00:41:30.119 --> 00:41:32.639
already cheating, fellas. They want to look good

00:41:32.639 --> 00:41:34.699
for me. They want to look good for the new man

00:41:34.699 --> 00:41:39.079
they're cheating on her boyfriend with. When

00:41:39.079 --> 00:41:41.440
a girl starts working out randomly out of the

00:41:41.440 --> 00:41:43.699
fucking blue, that is the number one sign of

00:41:43.699 --> 00:41:47.519
infidelity. This is why I keep telling you guys,

00:41:47.599 --> 00:41:50.019
if you're going to work out, Work out with your

00:41:50.019 --> 00:41:54.519
girl as well. You should be her trainer. She

00:41:54.519 --> 00:41:57.099
should always look her best around you. You should

00:41:57.099 --> 00:41:59.619
always look your best around her. Don't get lazy.

00:41:59.880 --> 00:42:01.760
Don't get too comfortable in a relationship.

00:42:03.659 --> 00:42:07.619
The next one is attention whore -itis. I call

00:42:07.619 --> 00:42:10.820
this attention whore -itis. If her social media

00:42:10.820 --> 00:42:14.000
is filled with extremely slutty or sexual photos

00:42:14.000 --> 00:42:16.400
and she doesn't get paid for this, like as in

00:42:16.400 --> 00:42:20.090
being a model, She's going to be in constant

00:42:20.090 --> 00:42:23.170
need of approval and validation, fellas. She

00:42:23.170 --> 00:42:25.989
will never be yours. For a dominant man, this

00:42:25.989 --> 00:42:28.130
constant need for approval is like rubbing the

00:42:28.130 --> 00:42:32.329
back of your legs with a cheese grater. So if

00:42:32.329 --> 00:42:34.769
she's not bringing in you money with these pictures,

00:42:34.869 --> 00:42:39.210
if she's not a professional model, she'll never

00:42:39.210 --> 00:42:44.219
be yours, fellas. Ever. Yeah, that actually branches

00:42:44.219 --> 00:42:47.079
off. I have on here an influencer, like a social

00:42:47.079 --> 00:42:50.460
media influencer. And to me, again, that's red

00:42:50.460 --> 00:42:52.860
flag, right? But there's a difference. There's

00:42:52.860 --> 00:42:55.000
some women that I actually have a lot of respect

00:42:55.000 --> 00:42:58.239
for when I see them become an influencer in some

00:42:58.239 --> 00:43:01.639
way. Let's say that a girl is into AI, artificial

00:43:01.639 --> 00:43:04.539
intelligence, and she's making videos, but she's

00:43:04.539 --> 00:43:07.340
not posting herself as she's talking about them.

00:43:07.360 --> 00:43:10.300
She's doing... screen flows or she's literally

00:43:10.300 --> 00:43:12.460
just trying to get information out there or she

00:43:12.460 --> 00:43:15.460
has some experience in some field and she's trying

00:43:15.460 --> 00:43:19.920
to display that knowledge versus maybe a girl

00:43:19.920 --> 00:43:22.719
is trying to do ai but now she's in all of her

00:43:22.719 --> 00:43:25.739
photos she's unzipping her shirt and she's got

00:43:25.739 --> 00:43:28.239
the cleavage hanging out like that right there

00:43:28.239 --> 00:43:32.750
right again how is she how is she influencing

00:43:32.750 --> 00:43:35.429
her audience is it with her body is it with her

00:43:35.429 --> 00:43:37.889
cleavage or is it with her actual information

00:43:37.889 --> 00:43:41.309
is she actually trying to help and i i know this

00:43:41.309 --> 00:43:44.869
isn't green flags but i do know um a woman that

00:43:44.869 --> 00:43:47.929
is an influencer of some sort for diet and nutrition

00:43:47.929 --> 00:43:50.869
but she never posts revealing clothing clothing

00:43:50.869 --> 00:43:53.469
it's all about like hey here's a good diet plan

00:43:53.469 --> 00:43:55.449
or here's how you should be working out and she's

00:43:55.449 --> 00:43:58.630
not displaying her body to attract followers

00:43:58.630 --> 00:44:01.420
she's actually just trying to uh get information

00:44:01.420 --> 00:44:04.800
out there to other people because like czar said

00:44:04.800 --> 00:44:08.099
if she's an influencer and she's got a bunch

00:44:08.099 --> 00:44:11.420
of guys always in her dms or always messaging

00:44:11.420 --> 00:44:15.880
her it's you know no one man here is superman

00:44:15.880 --> 00:44:19.159
and so you have to now fulfill that role of all

00:44:19.159 --> 00:44:21.400
that attention and validation she was getting

00:44:21.400 --> 00:44:24.920
from hundreds thousands of simps in her dms she's

00:44:24.920 --> 00:44:27.539
going to expect you to live up to giving her

00:44:27.539 --> 00:44:29.679
all that validation all that attention all that

00:44:29.679 --> 00:44:32.340
hype and the minute that you don't give that

00:44:32.340 --> 00:44:34.980
to her it's that easy for her to pull up her

00:44:34.980 --> 00:44:38.460
inbox and get that that flirty validation get

00:44:38.460 --> 00:44:40.880
get all those compliments from all of these guys

00:44:40.880 --> 00:44:44.679
coming in so influencer to me is a red flag dig

00:44:44.679 --> 00:44:48.199
a little deeper if she's doing it legit that

00:44:48.199 --> 00:44:52.960
is a rare that that's a rare case But I like

00:44:52.960 --> 00:44:55.059
to dig in a little bit more and figure out how

00:44:55.059 --> 00:44:59.639
is she influencing her audience? I just saw a

00:44:59.639 --> 00:45:02.760
study that they did that a girl who is a social

00:45:02.760 --> 00:45:05.539
media influencer, they are more likely to cheat

00:45:05.539 --> 00:45:08.400
the most out of any other profession. So you

00:45:08.400 --> 00:45:11.559
guys can take it how you want. But if I see thousands

00:45:11.559 --> 00:45:14.400
of followers on a girl's profile and she claims

00:45:14.400 --> 00:45:16.920
she's a social media influencer, I'm not even

00:45:16.920 --> 00:45:19.030
getting into a relationship with her. I know

00:45:19.030 --> 00:45:21.030
that comes with a headache. My attention is never

00:45:21.030 --> 00:45:23.050
going to be enough. My validation will never

00:45:23.050 --> 00:45:28.090
be enough for her. Yeah. The next one, if this

00:45:28.090 --> 00:45:31.849
is a funny one, if she carries her own condoms

00:45:31.849 --> 00:45:34.429
around, I mean, this should be common sense for

00:45:34.429 --> 00:45:37.070
any man out there. Why does she have these condoms?

00:45:37.510 --> 00:45:39.610
Especially if she has condoms at her own place.

00:45:40.909 --> 00:45:43.650
No woman should ever carry around condoms. No

00:45:43.650 --> 00:45:45.869
woman should ever have condoms. That's the man's

00:45:45.869 --> 00:45:50.130
job. That's your job. So you better put on a

00:45:50.130 --> 00:45:52.329
Jimmy hat. You better be using condoms. You better

00:45:52.329 --> 00:45:55.090
be carrying around condoms. No woman should ever

00:45:55.090 --> 00:45:57.150
have them in her purse. I knew girls in high

00:45:57.150 --> 00:45:58.730
school that would carry them around in their

00:45:58.730 --> 00:46:04.369
purse like it was a Mentos. These girls were

00:46:04.369 --> 00:46:08.590
very promiscuous. And that can be for guys, right,

00:46:08.670 --> 00:46:10.869
that haven't opened their eyes yet, haven't seen

00:46:10.869 --> 00:46:14.170
through the matrix of women that can. And one,

00:46:14.230 --> 00:46:16.309
I could see some guys go, that's a green flag.

00:46:16.389 --> 00:46:19.070
She's really worried. about you know her health

00:46:19.070 --> 00:46:21.449
and all that but it's like she's also worried

00:46:21.449 --> 00:46:24.130
enough that she's gonna be caught in the moment

00:46:24.130 --> 00:46:25.710
that she needs to sleep with the guy right now

00:46:25.710 --> 00:46:29.389
that she's carrying these around so uh kind of

00:46:29.389 --> 00:46:35.130
a a addition to that one is if i'm about to sleep

00:46:35.130 --> 00:46:38.889
with a woman and she is trying to encourage me

00:46:38.889 --> 00:46:42.289
to not wear protection that is a huge red flag

00:46:42.289 --> 00:46:44.969
i wear it all the time all the time especially

00:46:44.969 --> 00:46:47.719
these days man with all the creepy crawlies out

00:46:47.719 --> 00:46:53.400
there you gotta be careful but there are so many

00:46:53.400 --> 00:46:55.280
times we're caught in the moment and the girls

00:46:55.280 --> 00:46:57.340
it's like just take it off just take it off no

00:46:57.340 --> 00:46:59.519
i want to feel you in i want to feel your you

00:46:59.519 --> 00:47:02.400
know you naturally inside me it's like yeah in

00:47:02.400 --> 00:47:04.340
the moment that feels great and you feel like

00:47:04.340 --> 00:47:07.519
such a man like oh yeah she wants me but you

00:47:07.519 --> 00:47:09.199
got to think about that take yourself out of

00:47:09.199 --> 00:47:12.960
that situation how many other guys has she pressured

00:47:12.960 --> 00:47:17.190
in a sense or even just let him pressure her

00:47:17.190 --> 00:47:19.710
into like oh it's not that big of a deal if she's

00:47:19.710 --> 00:47:22.170
letting you in raw she's letting someone else

00:47:22.170 --> 00:47:25.050
in raw unless maybe she's your wife of course

00:47:25.050 --> 00:47:29.530
but uh other than that scenario if a girl ever

00:47:29.530 --> 00:47:32.670
is like i want the girl that is like double checking

00:47:32.670 --> 00:47:35.210
me like hey wait make sure you got one on like

00:47:35.210 --> 00:47:38.070
i want that that to me is like good good i'm

00:47:38.070 --> 00:47:41.110
glad you're you're wary of this i don't want

00:47:41.110 --> 00:47:45.699
you to let anything slip inside you Yeah, and

00:47:45.699 --> 00:47:48.679
it's not necessarily the woman's job. It's your

00:47:48.679 --> 00:47:52.139
job as a man. Because if she views you as assertive,

00:47:52.159 --> 00:47:55.320
a leader, if she finds you very attractive, and

00:47:55.320 --> 00:47:57.079
you tell her, oh, no, no, I don't want to wear

00:47:57.079 --> 00:48:00.820
a condom, many women will just go with it. It's

00:48:00.820 --> 00:48:04.940
your job as a man to lead and protect yourself.

00:48:07.579 --> 00:48:12.710
Okay? Or else now you're manipulating her. and

00:48:12.710 --> 00:48:16.230
again if it's if she's gonna let you in someone

00:48:16.230 --> 00:48:18.190
else is going to try like there's going to be

00:48:18.190 --> 00:48:20.690
guys that have no worries about the diseases

00:48:20.690 --> 00:48:22.309
that they're gonna they just want to get it in

00:48:22.309 --> 00:48:25.989
in that moment so i want her because that is

00:48:25.989 --> 00:48:28.389
she's the one that's opened up the legs in that

00:48:28.389 --> 00:48:31.630
sense right i want her to have a firm stance

00:48:31.630 --> 00:48:35.130
like no this is your this is not happening you

00:48:35.130 --> 00:48:39.150
have to put one on like that is because again

00:48:39.150 --> 00:48:42.130
she most guys are not going to be pressuring

00:48:42.130 --> 00:48:43.989
her to put one on most guys are gonna be like

00:48:43.989 --> 00:48:46.150
no no just let me take it off so i want her to

00:48:46.150 --> 00:48:49.829
be strong enough that she can say no or else

00:48:49.829 --> 00:48:52.849
again impulse control red flag goes off in my

00:48:52.849 --> 00:48:58.510
mind yeah that's that's a very good one fellas

00:48:58.510 --> 00:49:02.630
remember always use protection if she refuses

00:49:02.630 --> 00:49:06.389
to acknowledge your relationship in public if

00:49:06.389 --> 00:49:09.119
she doesn't want anyone to know She is either

00:49:09.119 --> 00:49:13.320
using you, has another man, or both. That's what

00:49:13.320 --> 00:49:16.579
that means, fellas. A girl eventually, I know

00:49:16.579 --> 00:49:18.599
this is earned not right in the beginning, she's

00:49:18.599 --> 00:49:21.079
not going to want a photo of you. Okay, that's

00:49:21.079 --> 00:49:23.980
a red flag if a girl wants a photo very quickly

00:49:23.980 --> 00:49:26.119
of you to post on social media. She's trying

00:49:26.119 --> 00:49:29.179
to get someone else out there jealous. She's

00:49:29.179 --> 00:49:31.539
putting you in a dangerous situation. It takes

00:49:31.539 --> 00:49:35.420
time for a woman to want to show you off, fellas.

00:49:35.619 --> 00:49:38.199
It takes time. But if you're in a relationship

00:49:38.199 --> 00:49:40.980
with her and she doesn't want anyone to know

00:49:40.980 --> 00:49:43.420
about it, I've seen this on social media. The

00:49:43.420 --> 00:49:45.780
girl will post the flowers that her boyfriend

00:49:45.780 --> 00:49:48.440
got her, right? Oh, my boyfriend got me flowers.

00:49:48.539 --> 00:49:50.039
You scroll through her pictures. There's not

00:49:50.039 --> 00:49:53.820
one picture of her and her boyfriend. Why is

00:49:53.820 --> 00:49:58.840
that? She's using him. He's the beta male provider

00:49:58.840 --> 00:50:01.360
while she can go cheat on him. She doesn't want

00:50:01.360 --> 00:50:03.800
other guys to know that she's taken. She's still

00:50:03.800 --> 00:50:10.119
out on the market. yeah yeah the the what what

00:50:10.119 --> 00:50:11.960
i like in a scenario and it almost it happens

00:50:11.960 --> 00:50:13.880
almost every time is like if i'm bringing a girl

00:50:13.880 --> 00:50:17.340
to a new friend gathering or a new social event

00:50:17.340 --> 00:50:21.420
new party i usually introduce her as hey this

00:50:21.420 --> 00:50:24.559
is my friend so and so my friend sarah my whatever

00:50:24.559 --> 00:50:28.420
i i want her to be like kind of nudging me like

00:50:28.420 --> 00:50:31.710
hey like what are you gonna say that we're dating

00:50:31.710 --> 00:50:34.070
are you gonna say like i want her to want to

00:50:34.070 --> 00:50:35.710
bring up that we're together and i'm always gonna

00:50:35.710 --> 00:50:37.150
be like the one no no we're just friends we're

00:50:37.150 --> 00:50:38.570
just hanging out and all casual whatever but

00:50:38.570 --> 00:50:41.150
if she's the one going you know you're going

00:50:41.150 --> 00:50:43.090
up to a new party and they're like oh how do

00:50:43.090 --> 00:50:44.769
you know each other and she's just like oh he's

00:50:44.769 --> 00:50:47.190
just a friend or you know like if she's jumping

00:50:47.190 --> 00:50:49.550
in for that like that to me is that's my job

00:50:49.550 --> 00:50:51.090
to be like hey no we're just we're just hanging

00:50:51.090 --> 00:50:53.349
out we're casual or whatever but if she's coming

00:50:53.349 --> 00:50:56.610
in trying to put the label or the non -label

00:50:56.610 --> 00:50:59.940
she's like really asserting Oh, no. And you'll

00:50:59.940 --> 00:51:02.900
see this like on game shows or, you know, if

00:51:02.900 --> 00:51:04.539
she shows up with some guy or I see that like

00:51:04.539 --> 00:51:06.460
the comedy clubs and they're like, hey, are you

00:51:06.460 --> 00:51:08.940
with this guy? And she's like, oh, no. Oh, no.

00:51:08.980 --> 00:51:10.760
He's just a friend. And she's making it very

00:51:10.760 --> 00:51:14.000
well known. That's she's going, hey, guys, come

00:51:14.000 --> 00:51:16.619
hit on me. This is not this is not your competition.

00:51:17.300 --> 00:51:20.320
So I want to be the one where I'm always introducing

00:51:20.320 --> 00:51:22.219
her as a friend. And she's like pulling me aside

00:51:22.219 --> 00:51:24.360
like that hurts that you're just introducing

00:51:24.360 --> 00:51:26.420
me as a friend. Like I thought we were more than

00:51:26.420 --> 00:51:28.750
that. Like. That's the type of energy you want

00:51:28.750 --> 00:51:31.869
rather than her going, hey, no, you're back here.

00:51:32.010 --> 00:51:33.869
You can't get in this picture with me. Nope.

00:51:33.909 --> 00:51:35.409
You're not going to make it on my social media.

00:51:36.550 --> 00:51:39.829
Yeah, that's my best friend, Timmy. Meet my best

00:51:39.829 --> 00:51:42.590
friend, Timmy. He does everything for me. He's

00:51:42.590 --> 00:51:46.489
such a sweet guy. Oh, he's so sweet. Oh, and

00:51:46.489 --> 00:51:49.150
Timmy, you're going to find a great girl someday

00:51:49.150 --> 00:51:51.929
that appreciates you is he brings you to the

00:51:51.929 --> 00:51:53.690
party and he's expecting like he's thinking.

00:51:54.219 --> 00:51:55.760
That's his girlfriend or whatever. And she's

00:51:55.760 --> 00:51:58.360
like, oh, you're such a good friend. I have some

00:51:58.360 --> 00:52:00.699
I have some great girls that I can set you up

00:52:00.699 --> 00:52:04.699
with. It's like, OK, you're you are absolutely

00:52:04.699 --> 00:52:07.519
friend zone. Yeah, that's a double that's a double

00:52:07.519 --> 00:52:09.539
edged sword, because when they say that, oh,

00:52:09.579 --> 00:52:11.780
meet my best friend, Timmy, especially when they

00:52:11.780 --> 00:52:14.019
post that to the entire world on social media.

00:52:14.159 --> 00:52:17.079
The girls know the girl code. If she doesn't

00:52:17.079 --> 00:52:19.480
want him, what makes you think the other girls

00:52:19.480 --> 00:52:21.480
are going to want him if you put him in the friend

00:52:21.480 --> 00:52:24.869
zone? No one's going to want him. That's a double

00:52:24.869 --> 00:52:27.170
-edged sword. Women know the code. And the guys

00:52:27.170 --> 00:52:28.969
stand there like, oh, yeah, she's going to boast

00:52:28.969 --> 00:52:31.110
about me. I'm like a brother to her. I'm her

00:52:31.110 --> 00:52:35.170
best friend. You're not getting any DMs. So who

00:52:35.170 --> 00:52:38.909
are you kidding? Girls know the code, guys. I

00:52:38.909 --> 00:52:41.789
know. One of my favorite things is, like I say,

00:52:41.889 --> 00:52:43.510
I meet a lot of women now playing pickleball

00:52:43.510 --> 00:52:44.750
because that's just what I'm really interested

00:52:44.750 --> 00:52:47.090
in. Obviously, golf, too, but there's not a lot

00:52:47.090 --> 00:52:51.940
of women on the golf course. I'll have like a

00:52:51.940 --> 00:52:53.900
girl that will show up sometime and she'll have

00:52:53.900 --> 00:52:58.059
a guy that comes with her. And the easiest thing

00:52:58.059 --> 00:53:00.260
in my mind is like I'm seeing them and I'm like

00:53:00.260 --> 00:53:02.900
seeing the guys all into her. I'm like, you know,

00:53:02.900 --> 00:53:04.659
after a point or something like, oh, that's a

00:53:04.659 --> 00:53:06.519
hey, who's your boyfriend? I haven't met him

00:53:06.519 --> 00:53:08.539
yet. And she like looks at me. She's like, oh,

00:53:08.619 --> 00:53:10.900
he's not my boyfriend. But she's like very like,

00:53:11.000 --> 00:53:13.320
oh, he's not my boyfriend. And I'm like, OK,

00:53:13.500 --> 00:53:16.440
easy. She just signaled to me. She's like, I

00:53:16.440 --> 00:53:18.860
want you to hit on me, Adam. This is not my boyfriend.

00:53:18.960 --> 00:53:21.739
Don't worry about him. He's just a guy I brought

00:53:21.739 --> 00:53:23.659
along or he's just a guy that drove me here.

00:53:23.840 --> 00:53:25.820
And in my head, I'm like, OK, I really don't

00:53:25.820 --> 00:53:28.019
have to worry about that guy. So that's how on

00:53:28.019 --> 00:53:30.099
the reverse end, like if a girl introduces you

00:53:30.099 --> 00:53:32.960
in some way. So the guys that are aware of game

00:53:32.960 --> 00:53:35.599
girls want to signal to those guys that they're

00:53:35.599 --> 00:53:38.059
still available. So they'll be like, oh, no,

00:53:38.179 --> 00:53:40.179
he's he's just a friend. He's just he's a really

00:53:40.179 --> 00:53:42.000
good guy. And girls will say it just like that.

00:53:42.099 --> 00:53:45.599
They won't want to like isolate the best friend

00:53:45.599 --> 00:53:47.739
from all the best friend validation he's giving

00:53:47.739 --> 00:53:51.920
her and all that. keeps him along but signals

00:53:51.920 --> 00:53:55.039
to the guys that can read through the lines no

00:53:55.039 --> 00:53:57.420
i'm single so she'll be like oh he's a really

00:53:57.420 --> 00:54:00.039
good guy i really you know he's just he's always

00:54:00.039 --> 00:54:02.619
been there for me supportive and all that and

00:54:02.619 --> 00:54:06.099
when i hear that i'm like she has she has no

00:54:06.099 --> 00:54:10.199
feelings for him he is just the beta orbiter

00:54:10.199 --> 00:54:13.900
in her life that she gets the safety validation

00:54:13.900 --> 00:54:16.699
from adam i want to tell you a quick story about

00:54:16.699 --> 00:54:19.730
that this is hilarious you brought this up So

00:54:19.730 --> 00:54:21.750
me and my best friend, he's also really alpha.

00:54:21.829 --> 00:54:24.289
He's big. After the gym, we go to this spot to

00:54:24.289 --> 00:54:27.010
grab food. We're standing in line. There's these

00:54:27.010 --> 00:54:30.389
two gorgeous young girls. They probably look

00:54:30.389 --> 00:54:32.610
like they just got into college. They were with

00:54:32.610 --> 00:54:36.250
two other guys. And they heard how cocky and

00:54:36.250 --> 00:54:38.389
funny me and my friend were. We were just being

00:54:38.389 --> 00:54:40.889
the life of the party in there. And she looks

00:54:40.889 --> 00:54:43.769
at us and she turns, you know, I started a conversation

00:54:43.769 --> 00:54:45.309
with her. I said, hey, how are you? What are

00:54:45.309 --> 00:54:47.570
you guys up to? The first thing she says, she

00:54:47.570 --> 00:54:49.449
looks at us, this blonde girl, I'll never forget.

00:54:49.550 --> 00:54:53.050
She puts her hands on her friend's shoulder and

00:54:53.050 --> 00:54:56.010
said, oh, by the way, this is just my friend.

00:54:57.170 --> 00:55:00.570
We didn't even ask, right? We were just having

00:55:00.570 --> 00:55:03.590
small talk, but the fact of how quickly she said

00:55:03.590 --> 00:55:06.590
it, that's how you know this girl's into you,

00:55:06.650 --> 00:55:08.070
fellas. If she says that, you're like, okay,

00:55:08.110 --> 00:55:10.949
this guy ain't even a threat. She wants it. And

00:55:10.949 --> 00:55:12.849
the guy was just standing there, like smiling

00:55:12.849 --> 00:55:15.750
like a cuck, probably buying her food as well.

00:55:16.190 --> 00:55:19.230
and i ended up getting her number after right

00:55:19.230 --> 00:55:21.489
in front of him too as they were leaving right

00:55:21.489 --> 00:55:23.210
in front of the guy i knew he wasn't gonna do

00:55:23.210 --> 00:55:26.889
yes i mean women are always gonna display their

00:55:26.889 --> 00:55:29.489
their mating priorities which is again hypergamy

00:55:29.489 --> 00:55:32.869
she wants the highest status man that she feels

00:55:32.869 --> 00:55:36.849
that she can lock down to protect and provide

00:55:36.849 --> 00:55:40.010
for her so when she already knows that a guy

00:55:40.010 --> 00:55:43.869
will do it she's signaling to other men now like

00:55:43.869 --> 00:55:46.559
oh no this is just a friend Because she's saying,

00:55:46.599 --> 00:55:48.619
all right, I already got this guy. I can already

00:55:48.619 --> 00:55:50.599
attain him. I can already lock him down. So now

00:55:50.599 --> 00:55:53.440
she's ready for, okay, he's a placeholder. What

00:55:53.440 --> 00:55:57.500
better is out there? So once a woman knows that

00:55:57.500 --> 00:56:01.519
she has you, it's just internal, right? It's

00:56:01.519 --> 00:56:05.400
not women in the back lab developing all these

00:56:05.400 --> 00:56:07.019
manipulative game plans. It's literally just

00:56:07.019 --> 00:56:09.760
internal that she's always going to look for

00:56:09.760 --> 00:56:12.039
the highest status man that she feels she can

00:56:12.039 --> 00:56:14.840
attain. So that moment she... feels she can attain

00:56:14.840 --> 00:56:17.099
you by you saying, hey, you're the greatest.

00:56:17.280 --> 00:56:19.579
I would, oh man, any guy would be lucky to have

00:56:19.579 --> 00:56:23.039
you. And you're always there for all that, always

00:56:23.039 --> 00:56:25.099
talking her up and all that. She knows that she

00:56:25.099 --> 00:56:28.739
can attain you. So at any point, if she does

00:56:28.739 --> 00:56:31.079
decide to have a relationship for you, it's because

00:56:31.079 --> 00:56:34.920
she could not go out there and find better men

00:56:34.920 --> 00:56:38.960
in her eyes that would commit to her. So she's

00:56:38.960 --> 00:56:41.039
keeping that guy as a placeholder, but he'll

00:56:41.039 --> 00:56:43.389
never be number one priority. even if you start

00:56:43.389 --> 00:56:46.230
dating getting a relationship married if she

00:56:46.230 --> 00:56:49.929
always feels that that you're hers her eyes will

00:56:49.929 --> 00:56:54.329
always in a sense biologically be wandering yeah

00:56:54.329 --> 00:56:56.449
you see this on social media all the time after

00:56:56.449 --> 00:56:59.469
10 years i finally married my best friend yeah

00:56:59.469 --> 00:57:04.809
yep after 10 years because i'm 43 now and uh

00:57:04.809 --> 00:57:07.530
none of these guys that i really want are looking

00:57:07.530 --> 00:57:10.610
at me anymore oh best friend i knew you were

00:57:10.610 --> 00:57:13.530
always the one I knew it. I had to kiss some

00:57:13.530 --> 00:57:17.630
frogs to get to my prince. Lucky you. Oh, happily

00:57:17.630 --> 00:57:19.969
ever after now. It's like, no, she threw in the

00:57:19.969 --> 00:57:22.369
towel and she's like, I'm going to be the guy

00:57:22.369 --> 00:57:24.110
that has a dad bod now. She's like, all right,

00:57:24.110 --> 00:57:25.329
I'm going to settle down with my best friend

00:57:25.329 --> 00:57:28.570
and now I can just let it go. And a smooth way

00:57:28.570 --> 00:57:31.369
before we continue, guys, if you see a girl with

00:57:31.369 --> 00:57:33.170
a guy, you're not sure if that's her boyfriend.

00:57:33.250 --> 00:57:35.559
If you don't have the game to tell yet. strike

00:57:35.559 --> 00:57:38.219
up a conversation then you can add this in there

00:57:38.219 --> 00:57:40.380
in a smooth and charming way oh by the way how

00:57:40.380 --> 00:57:43.280
do you two know each other and she will tell

00:57:43.280 --> 00:57:45.440
you oh this is just my friend oh he's just a

00:57:45.440 --> 00:57:47.920
co -worker she doesn't say oh this is my man

00:57:47.920 --> 00:57:51.460
my boyfriend that's fair game that's fair game

00:57:51.460 --> 00:57:55.500
fellas okay um and then i don't know if you have

00:57:55.500 --> 00:57:57.940
any i have one last one here and then we can

00:57:57.940 --> 00:57:59.599
probably wrap it up here if we we're gonna have

00:57:59.599 --> 00:58:02.710
plenty more guys if we miss yeah we're gonna

00:58:02.710 --> 00:58:04.449
definitely do a part two of red flags we know

00:58:04.449 --> 00:58:06.570
they're they're all around there a lot of different

00:58:06.570 --> 00:58:11.289
ones uh but i look at uh a girl going to bachelorette

00:58:11.289 --> 00:58:16.190
parties now in my younger years i thought bachelorette

00:58:16.190 --> 00:58:19.510
parties were oh it's just the girls getting together

00:58:19.510 --> 00:58:21.789
one last hurrah they're gonna drink wine in their

00:58:21.789 --> 00:58:25.429
hotel and just hang out and not do anything it's

00:58:25.429 --> 00:58:27.750
like when i see a girl that's constantly going

00:58:27.750 --> 00:58:30.710
to bachelorette parties So there's one girl that

00:58:30.710 --> 00:58:33.050
I know that I had a thing with in college. She's

00:58:33.050 --> 00:58:37.110
like 31 now. And I just saw her this past summer

00:58:37.110 --> 00:58:40.230
go to three different bachelorette parties in

00:58:40.230 --> 00:58:43.289
like different areas. She went to Vegas. She

00:58:43.289 --> 00:58:46.409
went to Nashville. And then she went to San Diego

00:58:46.409 --> 00:58:49.170
or something like that. So all three, she's in

00:58:49.170 --> 00:58:51.349
all three of these different ones. And she has

00:58:51.349 --> 00:58:53.650
a boyfriend right now. Feel bad for that guy.

00:58:53.869 --> 00:58:58.150
But bachelorette parties are not innocent, guys.

00:58:59.539 --> 00:59:02.139
they're not innocent unless it's the church girl.

00:59:02.260 --> 00:59:04.300
There's some like that. And they actually go

00:59:04.300 --> 00:59:07.059
to like some log cabin and they knit and do their

00:59:07.059 --> 00:59:08.619
own things. I actually know a couple of girls

00:59:08.619 --> 00:59:10.679
that are actually morally strong. They grew up

00:59:10.679 --> 00:59:11.980
in all church and all that. And that's their

00:59:11.980 --> 00:59:14.260
bachelorette parties. That's different than the

00:59:14.260 --> 00:59:16.579
girls going out to Nashville and going or going

00:59:16.579 --> 00:59:20.920
to the Vegas strip to celebrate because you get

00:59:20.920 --> 00:59:23.159
caught in that moment of partying. And when you're

00:59:23.159 --> 00:59:27.480
with other women, oh man, it's so much fun. to

00:59:27.480 --> 00:59:29.900
get wild, to live it up for another day. So if

00:59:29.900 --> 00:59:33.159
she's one of those like always going to the bachelorette

00:59:33.159 --> 00:59:36.480
parties, that's a big old red flag to me because

00:59:36.480 --> 00:59:39.719
she always has that urge for that extra little

00:59:39.719 --> 00:59:42.559
party, that extra, ooh, let's just get it all

00:59:42.559 --> 00:59:44.360
out there. Let's just have fun. Let's get drunk

00:59:44.360 --> 00:59:46.559
and not remember the night. So if she's going

00:59:46.559 --> 00:59:48.659
to multiple bachelorette parties, especially

00:59:48.659 --> 00:59:51.579
ones that she's traveling to party destinations

00:59:51.579 --> 00:59:57.480
for, that to me is a big red flag. And women

00:59:57.480 --> 01:00:00.619
will give you a commitment test, fellas. They

01:00:00.619 --> 01:00:03.480
want to see how committed you still are to this

01:00:03.480 --> 01:00:08.699
relationship. So if they tell you, Mary is having

01:00:08.699 --> 01:00:11.239
a bachelorette party in Vegas. I was thinking

01:00:11.239 --> 01:00:14.199
of going. She invited me. As a man, you're supposed

01:00:14.199 --> 01:00:17.300
to set boundaries and tell her, no, I don't want

01:00:17.300 --> 01:00:20.000
you going. It's not that I don't trust you. I

01:00:20.000 --> 01:00:21.780
don't trust the environment you're going to be

01:00:21.780 --> 01:00:23.679
in. I know there's going to be a lot of loud

01:00:23.679 --> 01:00:26.079
people. There's going to be alcohol there. i

01:00:26.079 --> 01:00:29.219
don't feel comfortable with my woman going and

01:00:29.219 --> 01:00:31.880
being put in that situation it's my job to protect

01:00:31.880 --> 01:00:35.179
you that's what she's looking for fellas are

01:00:35.179 --> 01:00:37.119
you still committed because if you just let her

01:00:37.119 --> 01:00:39.860
go she's gonna be a little disappointed but now

01:00:39.860 --> 01:00:42.420
she has to go she's like okay well he let me

01:00:42.420 --> 01:00:45.280
go i'm i guess i'm gonna go now but you guys

01:00:45.280 --> 01:00:48.119
fall for it because you don't want to be seen

01:00:48.119 --> 01:00:51.079
as insecure or, oh, you can't tell your woman

01:00:51.079 --> 01:00:53.260
no. And that's what happens. It goes from one

01:00:53.260 --> 01:00:56.400
bachelorette party now to the second one in Nashville,

01:00:56.539 --> 01:00:59.219
now to the third one in God knows where else,

01:00:59.280 --> 01:01:01.280
now to the fourth one because you didn't set

01:01:01.280 --> 01:01:03.900
boundaries. And the second you let her go, this

01:01:03.900 --> 01:01:05.980
is in the book called Influence, The Psychology

01:01:05.980 --> 01:01:10.519
of Persuasion. When you let her go to those bachelorette

01:01:10.519 --> 01:01:13.500
parties and then you try taking that freedom

01:01:13.500 --> 01:01:15.920
away from her to not go to the next one, it's

01:01:15.920 --> 01:01:18.860
too late. That's when people revolt. That's when

01:01:18.860 --> 01:01:21.719
people riot. That's how revolutions happen. When

01:01:21.719 --> 01:01:24.380
you give them the freedom to do something and

01:01:24.380 --> 01:01:27.780
then you take that away from them. That's when

01:01:27.780 --> 01:01:29.780
people stand up and they have resentment and

01:01:29.780 --> 01:01:31.800
they start fighting back. But if you don't give

01:01:31.800 --> 01:01:34.719
her those freedoms and you set boundaries, she

01:01:34.719 --> 01:01:39.440
can't riot. She can't revolt. Yeah. And this

01:01:39.440 --> 01:01:44.610
is not insecure, fellas. This is a good. difference

01:01:44.610 --> 01:01:47.309
too between in in me and zar i've talked about

01:01:47.309 --> 01:01:49.210
this before it's like we have different approaches

01:01:49.210 --> 01:01:51.929
so i would consider myself more sigma i would

01:01:51.929 --> 01:01:54.110
say you're probably more the alpha range and

01:01:54.110 --> 01:01:57.489
so his way is going to be setting those direct

01:01:57.489 --> 01:02:00.210
boundaries my way is going to be i'll if she

01:02:00.210 --> 01:02:01.809
wants to go to bachelor party i'll be like yeah

01:02:01.809 --> 01:02:05.269
i wouldn't i personally wouldn't do it if you

01:02:05.269 --> 01:02:07.530
go i don't know that i'll be you know around

01:02:07.530 --> 01:02:09.190
here when you're doing it but i'm not going to

01:02:09.190 --> 01:02:12.170
say you can't go i'm going to leave that decision

01:02:12.170 --> 01:02:14.949
up to her And then if she makes that decision

01:02:14.949 --> 01:02:17.590
on her own, then she's going to have to work

01:02:17.590 --> 01:02:20.489
seven times as hard to just see me again the

01:02:20.489 --> 01:02:23.010
next day. So I'm going to make it known, but

01:02:23.010 --> 01:02:24.449
I'm not going to force it. I'm just going to

01:02:24.449 --> 01:02:26.650
be like, hey, if you want to go, I disagree with

01:02:26.650 --> 01:02:29.949
that. And then I'm going to test her in a sense

01:02:29.949 --> 01:02:32.389
and let her make that decision. And if she goes,

01:02:32.650 --> 01:02:36.570
then I am gone. And she's going to have to scratch

01:02:36.570 --> 01:02:39.289
and claw her way back in just to hang out with

01:02:39.289 --> 01:02:42.550
me again. So I will. i will always let a woman

01:02:42.550 --> 01:02:46.449
do what she wants to do i'll make my um preferences

01:02:46.449 --> 01:02:51.110
known and then i want her to show me her character

01:02:51.110 --> 01:02:54.050
by making those decisions if she hears that i

01:02:54.050 --> 01:02:56.329
i'm like i wouldn't do that fru there's gonna

01:02:56.329 --> 01:02:59.190
be a lot of a lot of stuff going on down there

01:02:59.190 --> 01:03:02.869
and she still decides to make that decision then

01:03:02.869 --> 01:03:06.110
i go all right she cannot expect any ounce of

01:03:06.110 --> 01:03:08.750
commitment from me because i'm already a guy

01:03:08.750 --> 01:03:11.150
that doesn't give that away And if she's making

01:03:11.150 --> 01:03:12.949
these decisions, I'm just like, all right, you

01:03:12.949 --> 01:03:15.110
just you made the decision for me. Thank you.

01:03:16.150 --> 01:03:18.750
Unless if it's a close family member, I understand

01:03:18.750 --> 01:03:21.650
that because I would assume that the man would

01:03:21.650 --> 01:03:26.750
trust her family. Yes, yes. And she doesn't want

01:03:26.750 --> 01:03:29.550
to look like a like an idiot in front of her

01:03:29.550 --> 01:03:32.250
family or in a certain type of light if she does

01:03:32.250 --> 01:03:35.969
do anything disrespectful. Yeah. Yes. There's

01:03:35.969 --> 01:03:39.190
definitely nuances to it. All right. So that's

01:03:39.190 --> 01:03:42.889
probably a good spot to end. And just as a preview

01:03:42.889 --> 01:03:44.630
for episode three, we're going to talk about

01:03:44.630 --> 01:03:50.230
why women pull back. What makes women pull back

01:03:50.230 --> 01:03:54.210
and how can you strategize with that scenario?

01:03:54.750 --> 01:03:56.650
So we're going to talk about why women pull back

01:03:56.650 --> 01:03:59.309
on episode three. Hands down, this is the best

01:03:59.309 --> 01:04:01.909
game that you guys get to learn about women.

01:04:02.480 --> 01:04:05.059
how to attract them. That will be later in the

01:04:05.059 --> 01:04:08.539
podcast. Right now, we wanted to go over some

01:04:08.539 --> 01:04:11.119
of the green flags, the red flags, so we can

01:04:11.119 --> 01:04:13.539
teach you guys more game. The next one will be

01:04:13.539 --> 01:04:16.639
why women pull back. Every single reason why

01:04:16.639 --> 01:04:19.159
a woman pulls back, fellas. And that is one of

01:04:19.159 --> 01:04:22.059
the biggest repertoire they have in their toolbox

01:04:22.059 --> 01:04:25.599
is pulling back from a guy. So depending on how

01:04:25.599 --> 01:04:27.840
you guys play this, you're either going to be

01:04:27.840 --> 01:04:30.360
carrying her purse or tying her shoes, having

01:04:30.360 --> 01:04:33.619
no power in the relationship. Or she's going

01:04:33.619 --> 01:04:36.519
to be chasing you, which is what you want her

01:04:36.519 --> 01:04:38.699
to do. You want her to be in that position. So

01:04:38.699 --> 01:04:41.619
stay tuned for next week, fellas. Yep. We'll

01:04:41.619 --> 01:04:45.940
be back. If you really want to be an anti -SIMP,

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01:05:05.880 --> 01:05:07.719
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