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Hello everyone and welcome to Family Tree Talk,

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your favourite Family Tree podcast. I'm your

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co -host Nathan Ward and with me as always is...

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Helen Tovey. Hi Helen, how are you doing? I'm

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very, very well, yes, thanks. How are you? I'm

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okay, thank you. How's your family history going?

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It's going bionically. Bionically? I like the

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sound of that. I know, well... Unless the robots

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have taken over. Well, they are helping. Yes,

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they are helping. Yeah. So, well, back at the

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start of the year, what I've always done in my

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life is I always hope that I can do many, many

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more things than I can actually do. And so at

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the start of this year, as I just dial it down,

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Helen, focus on a few meaningful projects that

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you're going to be happy with that you've accomplished

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by the end of the year. And then. Try not to

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get distracted by rabbit holes. I have, of course,

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got distracted by rabbit holes, but just keep

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coming back to these four goals. And so I kind

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of made them one a season, one spring, summer,

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autumn, winter. Yeah. And the first one was my

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grandpa's logbook, which is a bit like Mary Ann

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Pickering. It's one of those things I've said

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six billion times. If you had a word cloud about

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me, my grandpa's logbook would come up. There's

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the great big word. But I made a start with it

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at the beginning of the year. And I. Kept running

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into the sand, partly due to problems with the

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AI and partly to do with problems how I was using

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the AI. Anyway, things have moved on because

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AI is progressing rapidly. I've learned a little

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bit more about how to use AI better. And we're

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now getting traction. So just last night at six

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minutes past 10, I actually generated a world

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map with all the places where he flew through

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the Second World War. plotted which is that was

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like my first little baby steps goal so anyone

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who's good at tech will go oh my life why has

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it taken her six months to accomplish this but

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it's one of those things with family history

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we have to do so much work behind the scenes

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so first of all I had to transcribe up his logbook

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and I wanted I was obviously I could do that

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manually but I wanted to use AI to help me Just

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as an exercise in AI, thinking, you know, how

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could it help me? I do actually really like transcribing,

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so a little bit of me was sneakily a little bit

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sad that AI was going to be helping me with this

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because I love the laborious, reflective nature

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of manually transcribing something. Not literally

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manually, I'll do it with typing, but, you know,

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me as a little human sitting there doing it.

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So getting AI to wrap through the pages, I felt

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a bit like it was taking away some of my calming.

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task bit of family history that I enjoy. Anyway,

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it did it and it was a mixed bag, but on balance,

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it was helpful. I've got this transcription,

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which I've checked and then because I'm neurotic,

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I double checked it again. So that was another

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two hours of my life because I thought this is

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worth, I'm going to be generating lots of things

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from this material. I really need to make sure

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those facts are straight before I go off and

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ask it to do X, Y and Z, it being AI. So then

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I've been asked and now I've got this transcription.

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I've got this body of really usable data like

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when it's just in the little paper his little

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paper notebook it's not very easy to work with

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whereas now I could just I uploaded the material

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from the workbook and meant extract me a list

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of place names extract me a list of all his operational

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flights as opposed to his training exercises

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so now I can just drill down and cut up all the

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little bits of information to get really fun

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little stories and insights. And they're not

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made up stories like, oh, it was a beautiful

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summer sunset and off he flew into the sky. It's

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not that sort of story, but literally just using

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the data to go, okay, these were his operational

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flights and this is where he flew. And so now

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I'm at the stage, I need to find out how far

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AI can help me with this. I have been asking

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to get the information about models of planes

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in particular. types of aircraft and it has some

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aircraft type, the name and the model number

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all through his log books. I've got, I don't

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know, countless, maybe like 15 different sorts

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of aircraft. That's really cool. Wow, he flew

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them all? Yes, yeah. Not being a pilot in all

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of them. Some of them he was like a warrant officer.

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I've learned jargon, WOM, he's Warrant Officer

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Mechanical, so he was, that was his role in lots

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of them. Some of them were just little two -seater

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things. Some of them... He was a gunner and you

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could see the little turret where he'd had to

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sit at the back. That was in like a Blenheim.

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I think he had to do that. And an Anson, which

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is terrifying. You've got this little glass roof

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above your head. You're pointing backwards, so

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you don't even know what's coming up ahead with

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the aircraft. And you're pointing backwards,

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trying to defend its tail. It's terrifying stuff,

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isn't it? Yeah, it does sound cool as well. It

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does sound cool. So now I've got the point. I've

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got my lovely map. With all the plots pointed,

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and then for each of the plot points, I want

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to add images of the relevant airplanes, and

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I want to add images of the original logbook,

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because then people can read those pages and

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then have a little narrative summary. And then

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my dream, which I will be able to get AI to do

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at some point, but I don't know how to do it

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yet, is to get some of his flights were just

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like an hour, but some were 12 hours long. Sometimes

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you fly for 19 hours in a day, yeah? Wow. I mean,

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I presume he had to stop for fuel. I have no

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idea about these things. But he was up in the

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air a lot. But I want to get a representation

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of the dot for each hour is one second. So you

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can see the dot travelling across the globe.

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Like one, two, for all the hours. That'd be cool,

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wouldn't it? Yeah, all of this sounds amazing.

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It sounds like a really cool little... I've actually

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made progress. Yeah, no, that sounds brilliant.

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You've done well. Yeah. Like, just going back

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a little bit, you were saying about when you

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were doing the transcribing, you felt a bit sad.

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Does that make you feel a bit more withdrawn

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from the text? Like, if you were transcribing

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it manually, you'd be literally reading every

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single word, so it's like you're reading the

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story as you're putting it together. Yeah. Has

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it removed that from it? If I'm really honest,

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in the sense of this logbook, kind of no, because

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there are lots of... acronyms and boring code

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numbers to transcribe which I think is one of

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the reasons why I chose this particular project

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to help get a computer to help me transcribe

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it because it's lots of like W8427 which is the

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model of one of the aircraft or whatever there's

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a lot of that and there's lots of military acronyms

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so it's unless you know what the acronyms mean

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which on the whole I don't know what they mean

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that it's not exciting reading it's just lots

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of code. Right, okay. You've converted it all

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to actual usable, searchable data, though. That's

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great, isn't it? It is. And one thing I've really

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noticed, I don't know if it's just because I'm

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using a different model. When I was trying to

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do this at the beginning of the year, I was using

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ChatGTP, and I was trying to have my program,

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my project I wanted to do, and it kept coming

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up with alternative suggestions at the end of

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every... I'd ask it to do something, and it'd

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go, and I can also do this. And it was kind of...

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A total, somebody like me who's prone to rabbit

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holes, it was a worst kind of friend. It's the

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kind of friend you don't need. You kept kind

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of inspiring me to go down other rabbit holes.

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And I've since learned that's because of, I should

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have known this already probably, the AI models

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trying to be sticky. They're trying to make you

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stay on them. They're trying to make you do the

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equivalent of doom scrolling. So having really

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long conversations with them, because obviously

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that's, they can learn off you while you're inputting

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all this data. It's really good for their kind

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of commercial. vibe that they can say people

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you use them a lot and stay on have long sessions

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but as you as a researcher your time is precious

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so you need to be really in charge of it do I

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want to spend this time or not as humans that's

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what's our most important commodity isn't it

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we've only got 24 hours each day yeah definitely

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and with with that chat gpt thing what you can

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do is just ask it not to ask questions at the

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end and you yes yeah And then it will just be

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like, okay, I'll just chat with you when you

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want me to chat or whatever. So I went over to

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Gemini because it's so good at transcriptions.

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And then Gemini, whether the algorithms changed

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or whether I was more terse with it. So it was

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like, oh, this isn't a chatty person, but we'll

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chat. Anyway, it's been much less rabbit hole

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inducing. So it's good. Nice. I've only used

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Gemini to convert wine labels from French to

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English. That's a very useful use. Yes. Yes.

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I feel so educated now. Another thing I did.

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So I have the most shocking handwriting to the

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extent that I can't read my own handwriting half

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the time, which is a bit of a drawback. But so

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whenever I'm in meetings like now in a podcast

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or meetings with authors, I'll be jotting notes

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down and sometimes I can't read them. Anyway,

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I thought I'll just. give it a go. And so I just

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took photographs of pages from my notebook. And

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obviously you have to be really mindful it's

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not including any details of any living people,

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anything sensitive like that. But when it's just

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to do tasks, things I have to do. And then I

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did find that it transcribed everything perfectly.

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Yeah. That's hilarious. So AI can read your own

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handwriting better than you can. Yes. Yeah, that's

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what I was saying. We are lefties though, aren't

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we? Yeah. So it's been all about the AI for me

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this week, really, I think. Yeah. And I have

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been working on lots of fun projects for our

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Family Tree website, which we launched in May.

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And that's really cool. So we have this, if you

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go to our website, it's family -tree .co .uk.

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And if you go to the content library, which I

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think is mine and Nathan's favourite bit, because

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in there you can find everything we have. So

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you can find guides. which might be really in

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-depth blogs with loads of different information

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all on one subject, really coherent. It has like

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a nice contents list so you can see what's on

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the menu and hop to the bits you want. So I've

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been gradually writing new pieces for the website.

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That's exciting. I've been writing one recently

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about family history organisations and societies

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and groups. That made me very excited. Again,

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just need more time in the day to join all the

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different sort of organisations that there are.

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Yeah. Yeah, definitely. It's such a big hobby,

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isn't it? It's crazy. I was thinking that today,

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just looking through the different websites and

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all the information that I actually don't know

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and all the websites that I don't use properly.

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It's crazy. But we're all in that position, aren't

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we? But we don't need to be the expert on everything.

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I think probably what we need is we need to know

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where can I go and find this information and

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where is a reliable source of information. Yeah.

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Yeah. That's that's what we need to be able to.

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And then we can go and get that information when

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we need it to help us. Yeah. Time effective.

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Yeah. Yeah. So if you were looking, let's say

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you were stuck on your family history, where

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would you go to try and get some information?

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Where would you think is this is going to provide

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me with reliable, credible, safe information?

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I'd go straight to the hints on ancestry. Would

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you? No, that's sarcasm. Of course I wouldn't.

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That's dangerous. I would use the search on the

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ancestry, though, but obviously with a bit of

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caution and obviously checking my facts. I keep

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saying that I like to have three related data

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points if I'm going to say something's correct.

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So I would do that. Obviously, I would go to

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free BMD, birth, marriage and death, if I'm looking

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for one of those things. And what else do I use?

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Well, I use the GOV for ordering those things.

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Well, that's it. That's my safe zone. But obviously

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there is like Fire My Pass, which has obviously

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got the newspapers, which I'm slowly creeping

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into that. It's got a really good search engine,

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that one, actually, hasn't it? I don't know.

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Where else? Where else, Helen? So I think it's

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interesting listening to your answer because

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your answer wasn't at all what I was expecting

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or guessing at. That wasn't where my train of

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thought was heading. So I guess what I was thinking

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about is we... As family historians, we can't

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know everything. And even if we do read about

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it, we can't necessarily remember everything.

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But when we are taking another step into potentially

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new territory or a new time period or a new record

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collection, where would we go to find out about

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it? So for me, I'd say the National Archives

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Research Guides is something which people say

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time and again, and they're never going to stop

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being popular. They're always useful. They'll

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give you comprehensive information, and it could

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be about... people who served in the Royal Navy,

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or it could be about a particular, you can search

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by time periods as well. So it can be about a

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topic or a time period. So I'd search for, look

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for the National Archives Research Guides. Mentioned

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it before, the Family Search Wiki. So that has

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150 ,000 plus different articles. I'd look on

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there. I would look on the Family Tree website,

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which I just mentioned, because it is really

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credible, good information. It's a much smaller

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body of information. But what we're trying to

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do is keep it really, really useful and think,

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what do people actually get stuck on? What do

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they actually need to know about? So it's kind

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of, that's where it's coming from. And then we

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all point people off to the research guides and

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the wikis. Because there's no point in us reinventing

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the wheel. No, well, our website is very practical

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and real, isn't it? It's coming from the standpoint

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of what do people want? where are they going

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to go and we'll show you how to do it so i like

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it i do like our website that probably would

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be mine say if i didn't know what i was doing

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but then i've got you so it's cheating so i'll

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probably just go i'll just ask helen well i wouldn't

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rely on me that's a really hit and miss thing

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to do and then i just mentioned a moment ago

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the blog i put about um did about the family

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history societies and organizations that's a

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really good hub place because then from there

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you can go and find organizations and groups

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which you can Totally relevant to your geographical

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area that you live or that your ancestors came

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from or subjects, lines of work or religious

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affiliations they had. So that's to find groups

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relevant to all of those sort of things. That's

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good. But you sounded a bit nervous that you

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didn't know everything. I think I'm feeling increasingly

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nervous I don't know everything. And I think

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the more we see that's out there and the more...

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I don't know that AI helps. I think it makes

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you almost lose confidence. It's just such a

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big subject, isn't it? And there is a comfort

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zone that you're in, or I'm definitely in, and

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it's like the safe bits of ancestry using the

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census. I'm very happy there. That's my happy

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place. How do I get back quickly? But obviously

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now I'm hitting that point where I am getting

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nervous because I'm at the 1841 census, which

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is a little bit more dangerous than the other

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one. In my opinion, should I say. and you can't

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take all the information from it as readily.

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You have to be a bit more meticulous and the

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information isn't free -flowing. That scares

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me a bit. And then it is, like, obviously every

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single conversation we have, there's always somewhere

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else you can go to and something else you can

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look at and then some more texture you can add.

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So it comes from initially, like, you've just

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got names and dates to suddenly you've got an

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entire community that you're creating. And it's

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great. I love it. you can get lost and a bit

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dazzled by it all quite quickly. I think you

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mentioned this before, but for you saying about

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sticking with, say, ancestry, find my past, things

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like that, there's absolutely nothing wrong with

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that. And then so when you go to the search interface

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and you've got all those little search fields,

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if you just scroll down or there'll be a link

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somewhere which will say read more or whatever,

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and then you can just click that and then read

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about the 1841 and then you can find out what

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could you expect to find in the 1841 census.

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What can you not expect to find? What potential

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hazards there are? Yeah. Yeah. It's all useful

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stuff. It is. I've just been a bit lazy and scared

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about going further back. But I keep finding

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things to distract myself with before there.

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But it's coming, isn't it? I'm going to get to

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that point where I need to dive into that stuff.

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Did you, when you, because I start. talked at

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the beginning about how I'd set myself these

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four goals and so that's why it's breaking news

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I'm I'm just about finishing the goal for the

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first quarter of the year we're just about ending

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the second quarter of the year but never mind

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but I have been working on the second goal of

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the year as well so I feel like all my life I'm

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actually on track so do you which is I so I do

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set myself goals and I quite often miss them

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but that's why it's groundbreaking news for me

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to be actually roughly on track so do you set

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yourself goals and think right over the summer

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I want to accomplish this in my genealogy At

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the start of the year, I did. I was going, obviously,

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to do my, get all my third time's great grandparents.

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And I've achieved that, but I didn't set myself

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another goal beyond that. And I think that's

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probably why I'm sort of milling about a lot

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at the moment. I don't have an actual direction.

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I'm just latching onto things or finding little

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hints and going off on a little adventure. Sensibly

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speaking, I should try and get all my fourth.

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Which I probably will. Yeah, when I say probably

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will, I don't mean I'll find them all. I meant

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that's the task I'll give myself. So yeah, it

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does help, doesn't it? It gives you some direction

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and some focus. It just gets harder, doesn't

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it? The further back you go. Gosh, I'm lazy.

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You're not lazy. You're not lazy. I'll do it.

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What you've been really good at, which I think

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definitely me and maybe other people in times

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gone past, when we started doing our family history,

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we'd very much stick to the core lines. And if

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we stumbled across siblings, then we would add

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those siblings that we stumbled across to the

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tree. But we wouldn't necessarily do an exhaustive

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search for all of our direct ancestors' siblings

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as we went. But I feel as though you have been

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much better at thinking, have I got the whole

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family before moving on to the next bit? Do you

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feel as though you have? I totally disagree.

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Yeah. I've been looking. I don't even have some

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of my great aunts and my great uncles on my tree,

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which is daft because I know who they are and

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I've got lots of information about them quite

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readily. So there are definite gaps, people that

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I just haven't bothered to put on. But as I do

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find people in the censuses, I am adding them.

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Maybe it's why I've got that generational gap

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there because obviously a lot of them don't really

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appear on anything. Apart from maybe the 1939.

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Maybe even then, not on that. Maybe I'm doing

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that. The thing for me I have found is the more

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interesting people when I'm looking for stories

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or events, they always seem to be the aunts and

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the uncles and the cousins. It's never the people

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on my direct line that give me the adventure

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stories. So that's what's drawn me to the side

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shoots. And do you think that's just because

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they feel novel? Most likely, yeah, definitely.

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People that I've not heard about, and then it's

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like, you kind of want to, like, I want to dazzle

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my mum and my aunties and stuff like that, and

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be like, oh, look at this person, you didn't

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know anything about this person, you've never

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mentioned them. It's nice to share a story, isn't

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it? That's not been heard before. Whereas I think,

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like, obviously my mum's done the family tree

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before, so she's quite good at the direct line.

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She seems to know them really well, still recalls

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it all quite quickly. It's just nice to do something

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a little bit different that hasn't been looked

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at. I definitely think for me, the sharing the

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story bit, that's always exciting. That's why

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I want to create the map of the logbooks. I feel

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as though if I just digitized the logbook and

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made it into a little flickable through digital

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thing and put it on my website, I feel as though

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lots of my relationships have to work too hard

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to have fun with it. Whereas if I can, so I've

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digitized all the pages. So if I made like a

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PowerPoint, for instance, and I have, they can

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flick through and see all the digitized images

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of the PowerPoint. But if I can link through

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to a Google map so they can see where the Cocoa

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Islands were or and they can see what plane he

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was flying in the Cocoa Islands. This is better,

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isn't it? Yeah. And with just two simple things.

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And then if I could say a little fact about this

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is what his role was in this bit, he would have

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been having to do this on this sort of plane.

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Then suddenly this is worth a bit, huh? oh this

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is worth my time yeah yeah to be honest it's

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nothing to do with me and I want to see it I

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am obviously a bit of an aviation geek but it

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just sounds like a really cool project cool well

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that's that's encouraging to hear you say that

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because that that's that for me the sharing bit

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And then somebody actually being interested is

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phenomenal. And it's not to be taken for granted.

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So anyone else is going to be interested in what

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we do. Part of us, we don't mind, do we? Because

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we find it so fascinating. And I don't know why

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I do family history. I do it because I love doing

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it. I find it calming, fascinating. Couldn't

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think of not doing it. Always wish I had more

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time to do different projects. It takes me painstaking

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and painstakingly slow. I'm always... I'm too

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slow at it, but anyway, I'm slow at it. But yeah,

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sharing is definitely one of the things why I

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love doing it. Yeah. Like for me, like if I've

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mentioned it to my kids, I'll get a grunt or

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a, oh yeah, or an okay. They don't care. And

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then randomly I'll mention it to someone or somebody

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will mention it to me and want to know the details

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and actually are invested in my little stories

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and that. It actually, I find it quite jarring

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and shocking. I'm like, oh, right, you actually

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do want to know this. And then I start reciting

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stuff and it's like, oh my God, I actually do

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know this as well. It's a very strange sort of

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place to be. We've got a really cool project

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coming up later in the year. People are going

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to start hearing about it soon. And we're working

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with Jana Hellstein. main thing is about genealogy

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for our descendants. So she's really, really

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keen on the fact that we don't just have family

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history doing it for us. She's really keen on

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the fact that we hand on stuff, memories, maybe

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items we're lucky enough to have, a sense of

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ourselves and our values, all of that sort of

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thing. We hand it on to future generations. So

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sharing is crucial. It is. It's very interesting

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because like... Last week I met up with my mum

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and my auntie and my uncle and obviously I started

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talking about family tree stuff. I shared their...

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My auntie and my uncle's child is my cousin.

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Obviously that's a stupid thing to say. Anyway,

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we're both runners. So I shared a picture of

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my grandad running with my cousin because he'd

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not seen this picture and he was interested and

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he started going off on one like, why haven't

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I seen this picture before? This is brilliant,

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blah, blah, blah. So we all started talking a

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little bit about family history. And I did a

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little bit more digging in my mum's family history

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trunk. And there were some certificates from

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the London College of Music for my grandad. And

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they didn't tell you anything on them about what

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they were for. So I was quizzing my uncle. I

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was like, do you know what grandad did musically?

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He goes, oh, no, he wasn't into music at all.

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And I'm like, well, I've got two certificates

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that prove otherwise. from the London College

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of Music. So it evolved a long conversation that

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then eventually transpired that they had a piano

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in the house and he'd totally forgotten about

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it, but he'd never seen his dad use it. And then

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my mum chimed in with a bit more information.

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It turns out, yeah, he really loved playing the

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piano. So it was such a weird conversation. You'd

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think this information would be known, but it

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could quite easily get lost, couldn't it? If

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my uncle, who doesn't know his dad, enjoyed playing

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the piano and my mum hadn't chimed in. then that

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information will be lost. It's like I've got

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these weird certificates that mean nothing. Yes.

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About getting on for 20 years ago, I did a half

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marathon. And when I did it, I'd never run that

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far in my life. I'd run eight miles before then.

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And I did it with my cousin, actually. And so

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we both were running this half marathon. Neither

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of us had run that far in our lives. And we were

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like... Well, eight miles is our personal best,

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so that's how untrained we were for it. And if

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we managed to run it further than eight miles,

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we were like, fantastic, that'll be our new personal

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best. So we ran and we managed to get to the

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end and we got our little medal that everybody

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gets when you do this sort of event. Anyway,

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I've now kept that and it's in one of my memory

00:24:44.319 --> 00:24:48.500
boxes. But probably even my kids will have forgotten

00:24:48.500 --> 00:24:51.420
about this. My grandkids certainly won't see

00:24:51.420 --> 00:24:53.200
me as a runner. I don't even own a pair of trainers

00:24:53.200 --> 00:24:55.940
you could go for a run in. And so... That will

00:24:55.940 --> 00:24:57.500
be a mystery to them because they'll be like,

00:24:57.539 --> 00:24:59.539
nope, nope, she never went for any runs. She

00:24:59.539 --> 00:25:03.259
couldn't run. So I'm now a living example of

00:25:03.259 --> 00:25:06.000
your grandpa's piano situation. It's curious,

00:25:06.180 --> 00:25:07.980
isn't it? Just small details of your life that

00:25:07.980 --> 00:25:10.599
can be overlooked. Whereas for me, that was a

00:25:10.599 --> 00:25:13.559
massive achievement. A dying consummate for ages.

00:25:14.400 --> 00:25:16.740
You should be proud. Yeah, I was very proud.

00:25:16.779 --> 00:25:18.779
Well, I'm still proud, but it feels like a different

00:25:18.779 --> 00:25:21.400
person did that. You could do it again, I'm sure.

00:25:21.959 --> 00:25:24.299
I don't think I'm going to. I have no intention

00:25:24.299 --> 00:25:26.180
to. I have so many more things higher up the

00:25:26.180 --> 00:25:28.140
wish list. I think we're going to train you up

00:25:28.140 --> 00:25:29.819
and then next year I'll take you out for a half

00:25:29.819 --> 00:25:34.579
marathon. I don't think so. The amount of training.

00:25:34.759 --> 00:25:36.819
I would never get any more family history done

00:25:36.819 --> 00:25:38.599
because I'd have to be doing so much training

00:25:38.599 --> 00:25:41.799
to move me from where I am now. That is true.

00:25:41.880 --> 00:25:52.230
It is an undertaking. So I've been talking to

00:25:52.230 --> 00:25:54.970
people recently about where they store their

00:25:54.970 --> 00:25:58.170
family history. So are you in the stage, you've

00:25:58.170 --> 00:25:59.650
got your notebooks, you've got your genealogy

00:25:59.650 --> 00:26:03.730
journal? Yes, that is my primary information

00:26:03.730 --> 00:26:07.109
storage point now, to be honest. I'm very, very

00:26:07.109 --> 00:26:09.450
bad on my digital files. Apart from updating

00:26:09.450 --> 00:26:12.829
Ancestry itself, I don't really use my digital

00:26:12.829 --> 00:26:16.130
research log at all, which is very, very bad.

00:26:17.259 --> 00:26:20.259
I'm trying to evolve a little bit and try and

00:26:20.259 --> 00:26:22.900
get as much on Ancestry as I can so that actually

00:26:22.900 --> 00:26:26.460
in essence becomes my research log. I'm not saying

00:26:26.460 --> 00:26:29.059
I'm doing a good job of it because I'm not, but

00:26:29.059 --> 00:26:31.700
that's my intention. Then I can just log into

00:26:31.700 --> 00:26:33.660
it wherever I am and then I can go to the notes

00:26:33.660 --> 00:26:36.619
or the comments and see what I'm thinking and

00:26:36.619 --> 00:26:38.500
where I'm going if something were to just crop

00:26:38.500 --> 00:26:42.380
up. Yeah, my main document is my genealogy journal

00:26:42.380 --> 00:26:45.000
now and then the notes that I have in between

00:26:45.000 --> 00:26:48.049
which are just... scrolled madness, basically.

00:26:48.170 --> 00:26:51.769
But hopefully the journal sorts that out. Do

00:26:51.769 --> 00:26:53.809
you know, you definitely shouldn't feel like

00:26:53.809 --> 00:26:55.509
you're doing a bad job. Partly, if you're doing

00:26:55.509 --> 00:26:57.650
any family history, I think that's a great job

00:26:57.650 --> 00:27:00.210
to hear. Anyone doing any family history, that's...

00:27:00.210 --> 00:27:03.190
Think of all the things that you could do while

00:27:03.190 --> 00:27:04.710
you're on planet Earth. Family history's got

00:27:04.710 --> 00:27:06.410
to be one of the best things you could do for

00:27:06.410 --> 00:27:10.670
every reason. Like, just for mental health, I

00:27:10.670 --> 00:27:12.329
think it's genuinely good for people's mental

00:27:12.329 --> 00:27:15.670
health to have a bigger... perspective of our

00:27:15.670 --> 00:27:17.509
time than just the time we live in. That can

00:27:17.509 --> 00:27:19.910
be quite calming to realise there's always been

00:27:19.910 --> 00:27:23.509
troubles and woes and we keep going. I think

00:27:23.509 --> 00:27:25.509
that's an important thing to take away from family

00:27:25.509 --> 00:27:28.869
history. And it's just a fun puzzle on the kind

00:27:28.869 --> 00:27:31.430
of flip fun side of it, isn't it? So you definitely

00:27:31.430 --> 00:27:33.190
should feel like you are, if you're doing family

00:27:33.190 --> 00:27:35.109
history, you are doing a good job and you are

00:27:35.109 --> 00:27:39.369
by nature a conscientious person. And you do

00:27:39.369 --> 00:27:41.089
do lots of things that I've told you to do that

00:27:41.089 --> 00:27:43.589
I don't necessarily do myself. So you dig well.

00:27:43.690 --> 00:27:50.390
Yeah. and it feels so so we work Nathan and I

00:27:50.390 --> 00:27:53.470
work in different offices and the office that

00:27:53.470 --> 00:27:56.049
I work in a few times a week has loads of people

00:27:56.049 --> 00:27:58.750
there maybe like 160 people all different age

00:27:58.750 --> 00:28:01.529
ranges I'm definitely on the older age range

00:28:01.529 --> 00:28:04.500
there And what I really notice is lots of the

00:28:04.500 --> 00:28:05.920
people who are much younger, so people in their

00:28:05.920 --> 00:28:08.599
20s and 30s, they have beautiful notebooks on

00:28:08.599 --> 00:28:11.940
their desks with their big flasks of water. And

00:28:11.940 --> 00:28:16.400
I always feel so impressive. And so it's literally

00:28:16.400 --> 00:28:18.640
like a little mini digital detox sitting there,

00:28:18.680 --> 00:28:22.359
this paper notebook with a nice pen. And we are

00:28:22.359 --> 00:28:25.000
little humans. We're made of real things. And

00:28:25.000 --> 00:28:28.339
I think we do like, I think, the Genie Analyst

00:28:28.339 --> 00:28:31.410
Journal on the one hand. That paper notebook

00:28:31.410 --> 00:28:33.269
is very old -fashioned. On the other hand, it's

00:28:33.269 --> 00:28:37.170
cutting -edge digital detox. It's nice. It is.

00:28:37.390 --> 00:28:39.589
It's lovely. It's just taking that time out to

00:28:39.589 --> 00:28:42.730
be away from the screen, isn't it? Yeah. Even

00:28:42.730 --> 00:28:45.390
just writing itself. I mean, I draw and paint

00:28:45.390 --> 00:28:48.529
and stuff, so I do generally end up scrolling

00:28:48.529 --> 00:28:51.609
or doodling all the time. But it is just nice

00:28:51.609 --> 00:28:53.309
to actually do the proper art of actually just

00:28:53.309 --> 00:28:55.109
writing something down instead of just typing

00:28:55.109 --> 00:28:58.740
it. But yes, life is chaotic, isn't it? So yeah,

00:28:58.799 --> 00:29:00.460
you should be proud when you get to do some family

00:29:00.460 --> 00:29:03.640
history. I struggle at the moment. I feel so

00:29:03.640 --> 00:29:06.420
busy, but I'm doing small things and then I'm

00:29:06.420 --> 00:29:08.460
like, it's not enough, but at least I have done

00:29:08.460 --> 00:29:10.980
something. Like since last week, all I've done

00:29:10.980 --> 00:29:14.839
is write up my notes. I say my notes, the notes

00:29:14.839 --> 00:29:17.539
that the listeners gave me about Alexander McKay.

00:29:17.539 --> 00:29:20.400
I've gone back in, I've written those notes up

00:29:20.400 --> 00:29:23.529
so that they're now on Ancestry. So I've got

00:29:23.529 --> 00:29:26.250
the marriage for Dorothy and Alexander and the

00:29:26.250 --> 00:29:28.309
marriage for Alexander and Jesse, which I had

00:29:28.309 --> 00:29:30.390
before. Anyway, bits, all those bits and bats.

00:29:30.910 --> 00:29:33.049
And then the only thing that I've managed to

00:29:33.049 --> 00:29:36.529
try and do is look for the birth of a child between

00:29:36.529 --> 00:29:38.349
Alexander and Jesse, because that was like one

00:29:38.349 --> 00:29:41.849
of my last remaining missions for this section.

00:29:42.650 --> 00:29:45.009
I couldn't really find it. I did a search where

00:29:45.009 --> 00:29:47.269
I thought, right, maybe the child was born illegitimately

00:29:47.269 --> 00:29:49.569
and that's why he got married. In my head, again,

00:29:49.670 --> 00:29:52.250
I've made up a story where it was a marriage

00:29:52.250 --> 00:29:54.069
of convenience because they'd had a child and

00:29:54.069 --> 00:29:55.670
that's why they got divorced, because it wasn't

00:29:55.670 --> 00:29:58.130
meant to be. Yakety smackety, blah, blah, blah.

00:29:58.789 --> 00:30:01.309
So I went for like a year or two earlier than

00:30:01.309 --> 00:30:03.890
the marriage just to see if that was going to

00:30:03.890 --> 00:30:07.710
happen. And I actually found a birth of a child

00:30:07.710 --> 00:30:10.809
in 1927, which is the year they got married.

00:30:11.819 --> 00:30:16.700
So it does tie, but going back, if you remember,

00:30:16.759 --> 00:30:19.039
I found a bunch of McKays in Middlesbrough and

00:30:19.039 --> 00:30:21.799
they were having children every two years. Well,

00:30:21.880 --> 00:30:23.799
this is a McKay in Middlesbrough. So part of

00:30:23.799 --> 00:30:26.519
me thinks, oh, it's tied to that. But then I

00:30:26.519 --> 00:30:28.200
was like, I need to find out. So I should probably

00:30:28.200 --> 00:30:34.640
go and buy the digital image. So I went to the

00:30:34.640 --> 00:30:37.119
GOV to buy the digital image, filled all the

00:30:37.119 --> 00:30:40.450
information out. It came up. it won't actually

00:30:40.450 --> 00:30:42.430
let me buy a digital image, it will only let

00:30:42.430 --> 00:30:45.150
me buy a certificate? Is that a common occurrence?

00:30:45.829 --> 00:30:49.970
It is, but if you wait till next year, maybe

00:30:49.970 --> 00:30:52.150
the year after, you'll be able to get it. And

00:30:52.150 --> 00:30:56.089
the reason is because there's a 100 -year closure

00:30:56.089 --> 00:31:01.369
period on those, just for people's security and

00:31:01.369 --> 00:31:05.109
their personal privacy, isn't it? So they don't

00:31:05.109 --> 00:31:08.319
want to be readily giving away... the JPEGs,

00:31:08.339 --> 00:31:10.920
you know, just for three quid. So there's a 100

00:31:10.920 --> 00:31:14.599
-year closure period for the birth records. There's

00:31:14.599 --> 00:31:18.460
a 50 -year, so because he was born 1927, then

00:31:18.460 --> 00:31:23.220
that's within the 100 -year closure period. Yeah.

00:31:23.299 --> 00:31:26.359
All right. That's cool. And for death records,

00:31:26.500 --> 00:31:32.339
it's 50 years, which takes us to 1976. And then

00:31:32.339 --> 00:31:36.079
for marriage records, it's 75 years, but marriage

00:31:36.079 --> 00:31:37.380
is slightly different because they don't have

00:31:37.380 --> 00:31:40.779
the digitised marriage registers. So you have

00:31:40.779 --> 00:31:43.000
to pay the £12, don't you, to get a marriage

00:31:43.000 --> 00:31:46.559
certificate. But it's all got the 75. It's not

00:31:46.559 --> 00:31:49.140
just for England or Wales. There's the 50, 75,

00:31:49.319 --> 00:31:51.859
100 year period. You find that in Scotland on

00:31:51.859 --> 00:31:54.859
Scotland's People. You find it across other websites

00:31:54.859 --> 00:31:58.640
because we know as family historians, you can

00:31:58.640 --> 00:32:01.160
piece together a few clues about a living person.

00:32:01.599 --> 00:32:07.180
quite easily yeah definitely yeah yeah right

00:32:07.180 --> 00:32:09.039
that's that's good to know then I thought I was

00:32:09.039 --> 00:32:10.579
doing something wrong I thought oh maybe the

00:32:10.579 --> 00:32:12.440
website's broken or something weird's going on

00:32:12.440 --> 00:32:14.680
but it will literally only let me buy a certificate

00:32:14.680 --> 00:32:17.740
and being the type person I am I'm like this

00:32:17.740 --> 00:32:19.920
is a side shoot this is a proper rabbit hole

00:32:19.920 --> 00:32:22.680
I don't really need to know this Interesting.

00:32:23.160 --> 00:32:26.339
So you could add a little note to yourself or

00:32:26.339 --> 00:32:28.579
if you've added the person provisionally to your

00:32:28.579 --> 00:32:30.259
tree, you could add a little note to them or

00:32:30.259 --> 00:32:32.960
add a note to one of their parents and say, if

00:32:32.960 --> 00:32:34.480
you do it as a note, then only you can see it.

00:32:34.500 --> 00:32:35.940
It's not like a comment. So on your ancestry

00:32:35.940 --> 00:32:38.539
tree under the mother, you could say this is

00:32:38.539 --> 00:32:40.200
potentially their baby. This is a volume page

00:32:40.200 --> 00:32:43.839
number. And then I need to check back in 2028

00:32:43.839 --> 00:32:46.619
and see if I can order this. Yeah. Yep. Definitely.

00:32:47.119 --> 00:32:49.839
Yeah. I feel like I need to put a full stop on

00:32:49.839 --> 00:32:53.900
this. It's a side shoot search. We've done well.

00:32:53.900 --> 00:32:56.500
We've found some good information. Here's an

00:32:56.500 --> 00:32:58.220
interesting one. I think I've done this before

00:32:58.220 --> 00:33:02.299
as well. But last week, one of the listeners

00:33:02.299 --> 00:33:06.579
told us that they'd found Dorothy McKay's marriage

00:33:06.579 --> 00:33:10.700
after Alexander McKay died. Do I put that on

00:33:10.700 --> 00:33:13.720
my tree? She's not a blood relation to me. And

00:33:13.720 --> 00:33:16.019
obviously he's really not a blood relation to

00:33:16.019 --> 00:33:21.700
me. Do I? Well, I mean, it's not wrong to put

00:33:21.700 --> 00:33:25.039
it on. Because we're all part of a massive network,

00:33:25.160 --> 00:33:28.619
aren't we, of marriages and remarriages and children

00:33:28.619 --> 00:33:31.779
and blended families. And even if your family

00:33:31.779 --> 00:33:33.940
didn't have any blended families or any remarriages,

00:33:33.980 --> 00:33:37.180
it's still part of a network. The other side

00:33:37.180 --> 00:33:41.279
branches, we all network together. So it's not

00:33:41.279 --> 00:33:45.039
not connected. You can keep adding those nodules

00:33:45.039 --> 00:33:48.029
onto your tree. Perfectly legitimate. The button's

00:33:48.029 --> 00:33:52.430
there to do it. I suspect I probably would add

00:33:52.430 --> 00:33:56.410
it to my tree. And the reason is because you

00:33:56.410 --> 00:33:59.289
and a helpful listener have done that thinking

00:33:59.289 --> 00:34:04.150
power. They found them. And then otherwise at

00:34:04.150 --> 00:34:06.069
some point in the future, you might find yourself

00:34:06.069 --> 00:34:09.030
dabbling in that area again because 10 years

00:34:09.030 --> 00:34:12.050
time, 20 years time. And if you've got some information,

00:34:12.130 --> 00:34:14.210
it seems silly not to record it in an easily

00:34:14.210 --> 00:34:17.710
findable way. spend time on something again in

00:34:17.710 --> 00:34:19.289
the future there's too many other things to do

00:34:19.289 --> 00:34:24.289
yeah I guess if I'm forgetful in the future I

00:34:24.289 --> 00:34:28.789
go to the 1939 census not census register and

00:34:28.789 --> 00:34:31.150
I see Dorothy and she's got the her name crossed

00:34:31.150 --> 00:34:33.389
out and it says me I'm going to be like oh what's

00:34:33.389 --> 00:34:36.030
that what's this marriage but yeah right I would

00:34:36.030 --> 00:34:38.389
add it and I and you can even write in the notes

00:34:38.389 --> 00:34:41.690
you can say I've added this so that I don't um

00:34:41.690 --> 00:34:43.550
we tread all ground in the future just add a

00:34:43.550 --> 00:34:47.230
note to yourself or let's say you were going

00:34:47.230 --> 00:34:48.969
to bequeath your tree, because our ancestry,

00:34:49.110 --> 00:34:50.769
you can set up someone who you're going to hand

00:34:50.769 --> 00:34:52.909
your tree onto. Let's say you can bequeath it

00:34:52.909 --> 00:34:55.090
to one of your kids. And then you can put a note

00:34:55.090 --> 00:34:57.329
in there so that when you do eventually pop your

00:34:57.329 --> 00:34:59.389
clogs, they inherit your ancestry tree. They'll

00:34:59.389 --> 00:35:01.750
go, why on earth has dad included Dorothy's second

00:35:01.750 --> 00:35:04.110
husband on here? And then you put a note just

00:35:04.110 --> 00:35:07.409
to save me time. Yeah. Yeah. I guess there is

00:35:07.409 --> 00:35:11.289
another part of me. Oh, this is deep psychology

00:35:11.289 --> 00:35:15.880
now on my part. If I put him on there. Ancestry

00:35:15.880 --> 00:35:17.579
might then be like, hey, there's some hints here

00:35:17.579 --> 00:35:19.739
for this guy. Do you want to research these hints?

00:35:19.780 --> 00:35:21.340
And it's like, all right, okay, he's nothing

00:35:21.340 --> 00:35:24.519
to do with me. But equally, if I put him on there

00:35:24.519 --> 00:35:27.119
and I don't have any sources citing what he's

00:35:27.119 --> 00:35:30.440
done, it's going to affect my tree score. So

00:35:30.440 --> 00:35:33.480
then I'm going to end up researching him and

00:35:33.480 --> 00:35:35.159
have a completely different tree that means nothing

00:35:35.159 --> 00:35:38.980
to me. Well, or you could just add the information

00:35:38.980 --> 00:35:41.420
about him then as a note in Dorothy, but don't

00:35:41.420 --> 00:35:44.849
actually add him. And then you've got it in an

00:35:44.849 --> 00:35:48.309
organised, findable way. Don't want to ruin my

00:35:48.309 --> 00:35:50.730
train score, do we? Well, add it to your research

00:35:50.730 --> 00:35:52.690
log. Just don't rely on your brain. That's what

00:35:52.690 --> 00:35:54.510
I'm trying to say. Write it down somewhere. Write

00:35:54.510 --> 00:35:56.409
it in your genealogy journal. Do whatever you

00:35:56.409 --> 00:35:59.250
want, but put it down somewhere. I am being silly.

00:35:59.329 --> 00:36:01.510
I will add it to my tree. I really don't care

00:36:01.510 --> 00:36:04.230
about tree rating anymore. It's still at 9 .9,

00:36:04.250 --> 00:36:06.809
by the way. I don't care about it, though. It's

00:36:06.809 --> 00:36:10.139
because... It does that refresh thing. It's never

00:36:10.139 --> 00:36:12.360
going to go up unless I do something like pay

00:36:12.360 --> 00:36:15.019
for more. I'm quite happy for it to drop as long

00:36:15.019 --> 00:36:19.440
as my facts are correct. Okay. Okay. Yeah. I

00:36:19.440 --> 00:36:21.179
feel like that was like a mini therapy session

00:36:21.179 --> 00:36:23.780
for me then, just that little instant. Talking

00:36:23.780 --> 00:36:27.139
yourself down and going it's okay about the tree

00:36:27.139 --> 00:36:30.739
score. It's all safe. We're good. Yeah. Yeah.

00:36:37.420 --> 00:36:40.719
So what are you going to do this week then? I

00:36:40.719 --> 00:36:47.300
endeavour to go further back. I think I'm going

00:36:47.300 --> 00:36:49.880
to make the bold claim that I'm going to start

00:36:49.880 --> 00:36:52.820
looking for the fourth time great grandparents.

00:36:54.380 --> 00:36:57.739
In fact, I might as well stay on the path I'm

00:36:57.739 --> 00:37:00.059
on. I love the McKays, don't I? But anyway, the

00:37:00.059 --> 00:37:02.639
McKays, I'll follow them back. I'm pretty sure

00:37:02.639 --> 00:37:05.219
that Alexander McKay, who's James McKay's dad,

00:37:05.320 --> 00:37:08.380
James McKay is... The rogue Alexander McKay.

00:37:09.340 --> 00:37:12.159
That's his dad. But I'm pretty sure that Alexander

00:37:12.159 --> 00:37:14.519
McKay's dad... Oh, my God, there's too many Alexanders.

00:37:15.099 --> 00:37:17.179
Anyway, his dad's called Alexander. I've got

00:37:17.179 --> 00:37:19.739
a hint of that, so I think I'll trace that and

00:37:19.739 --> 00:37:24.179
see if I can get some fourth times. Nice. I also,

00:37:24.219 --> 00:37:26.880
though, feel guilty because I'm pretty sure I'm

00:37:26.880 --> 00:37:29.900
missing a couple of dates with a third -time

00:37:29.900 --> 00:37:32.880
great -grandparent. So maybe I need to investigate

00:37:32.880 --> 00:37:37.090
those. Hmm. Which way are you looking at your

00:37:37.090 --> 00:37:38.849
tree? Are you looking at your tree on Ancestry

00:37:38.849 --> 00:37:43.530
as a, like, vertically or horizontally? I'm not

00:37:43.530 --> 00:37:45.489
looking at my tree at all. I'm totally focused

00:37:45.489 --> 00:37:48.010
on talking to you right now. Are you? I just

00:37:48.010 --> 00:37:49.550
don't believe you. No, I'm not. I am looking

00:37:49.550 --> 00:37:51.550
at my tree. I'm looking at it vertically and

00:37:51.550 --> 00:37:54.829
it's a right mess. And I'm just a bit confused.

00:37:55.230 --> 00:37:58.030
Did I set myself the goal of getting my second

00:37:58.030 --> 00:37:59.849
time great grandparents at the start of the year?

00:37:59.909 --> 00:38:05.199
Or was it third? I think it was your third. I'm

00:38:05.199 --> 00:38:06.980
a bad lad then because I've got quite a few that

00:38:06.980 --> 00:38:12.159
don't have death dates. Interesting. I'm very

00:38:12.159 --> 00:38:14.579
confused right now because I thought I'd made

00:38:14.579 --> 00:38:18.460
that my challenge. This is why I should have

00:38:18.460 --> 00:38:19.760
had a research log. Do you know what? I actually

00:38:19.760 --> 00:38:21.340
did record all this information on my research

00:38:21.340 --> 00:38:24.340
log so I will know what my challenge was. I was

00:38:24.340 --> 00:38:25.440
just going to say, if you're looking at your

00:38:25.440 --> 00:38:27.940
tree vertically, look at your tree horizontally

00:38:27.940 --> 00:38:30.659
on Ancestry and then you can... You could just

00:38:30.659 --> 00:38:32.599
see your direct lines and then you can quickly

00:38:32.599 --> 00:38:34.420
click through all of those people and quickly

00:38:34.420 --> 00:38:37.480
see who you're missing dates for. That's actually

00:38:37.480 --> 00:38:40.920
really calming. I've just done that. Yes. Right,

00:38:40.980 --> 00:38:46.079
so I've got death dates for all of my great -grandparents.

00:38:47.039 --> 00:38:50.780
Birth, marriage and death. Yeah, yeah. I'm missing

00:38:50.780 --> 00:38:54.519
a few little bits. Right, okay. No, I found all

00:38:54.519 --> 00:38:56.440
the death dates for the second time great -grandparents.

00:38:57.039 --> 00:38:59.039
I found all the third -time great -grandparents,

00:38:59.119 --> 00:39:02.539
I just don't have death dates for them. So I've

00:39:02.539 --> 00:39:05.119
got two options. I can try and claim all these

00:39:05.119 --> 00:39:08.719
death dates for the third times, or I can sneak

00:39:08.719 --> 00:39:10.480
away and try and get some fourth -times people.

00:39:11.199 --> 00:39:14.179
Or I could do both. I imagine some are going

00:39:14.179 --> 00:39:15.760
to lead to the other. When you start researching

00:39:15.760 --> 00:39:19.099
one person, you inevitably end up finding the

00:39:19.099 --> 00:39:22.079
parents on the sentences. Obviously, I am in

00:39:22.079 --> 00:39:26.030
the danger zone of the 1841. You could do it,

00:39:26.050 --> 00:39:27.929
Nathan. There's a lot going on here. This is

00:39:27.929 --> 00:39:32.489
stressful. So, yeah, that's what I'm going to

00:39:32.489 --> 00:39:34.969
do. Something around there. I'm going to be very

00:39:34.969 --> 00:39:38.090
quick. And we'll find out next week what you

00:39:38.090 --> 00:39:40.570
actually did. Yes, I won't hold myself accountable

00:39:40.570 --> 00:39:44.309
in any shape, form or way. OK, that sounds good.

00:39:44.429 --> 00:39:48.170
I think that sounds realistic. Yeah. Yeah, I

00:39:48.170 --> 00:39:49.690
mean, what sounds realistic is I'm probably going

00:39:49.690 --> 00:39:52.389
to end up doing nothing. No, you won't do nothing.

00:39:53.119 --> 00:39:54.659
I'll tell you what, I'm going to give the readers

00:39:54.659 --> 00:39:57.059
a few surnames and a few names and they can do

00:39:57.059 --> 00:39:59.659
it for me. That was brilliant. That's my favourite

00:39:59.659 --> 00:40:02.840
research. Which is more meticulous than my own

00:40:02.840 --> 00:40:06.820
as well. They were impressively meticulous. Oh,

00:40:06.820 --> 00:40:10.019
I love it. Clear and orderly. I love that. So

00:40:10.019 --> 00:40:12.719
proud of them all. Brilliant. Yeah. Obviously,

00:40:12.820 --> 00:40:14.539
I'm going to do my own research. I'm not that

00:40:14.539 --> 00:40:17.860
much of a bad lad. Cool. What about you? What

00:40:17.860 --> 00:40:20.739
are you going to do then? So I am going to finish

00:40:20.739 --> 00:40:23.210
off over the next week. Between now and the middle

00:40:23.210 --> 00:40:25.309
of next week, I'm going to finish off the logbook.

00:40:25.329 --> 00:40:29.329
So I've got to add the pictures of the scanned

00:40:29.329 --> 00:40:31.989
in pages and the logbook. And I've got to add

00:40:31.989 --> 00:40:33.989
a picture of the aeroplane and a little tiny

00:40:33.989 --> 00:40:38.210
sentence or two. And at a glance, kind of exciting

00:40:38.210 --> 00:40:41.070
little mini micro story so that when I show my

00:40:41.070 --> 00:40:44.130
brothers this interactive map and they can click

00:40:44.130 --> 00:40:45.550
and see all these pictures and these places in

00:40:45.550 --> 00:40:47.590
the world and the aeroplanes, potentially my

00:40:47.590 --> 00:40:49.050
kids, but definitely my brothers will be interested.

00:40:50.559 --> 00:40:52.860
they actually feel like, oh, this is exciting.

00:40:53.099 --> 00:40:56.320
This is interesting. Yeah. I'm really jealous

00:40:56.320 --> 00:40:57.800
of that project. So that's what I'm going to

00:40:57.800 --> 00:41:00.159
do because then the next few weeks after that

00:41:00.159 --> 00:41:01.699
get really busy and suddenly I'll be breaking

00:41:01.699 --> 00:41:03.920
my goal and I won't accept my goal. So it won't

00:41:03.920 --> 00:41:05.800
be perfect. I won't have achieved the goal perfectly,

00:41:05.940 --> 00:41:08.559
but I will have achieved it enough to make a

00:41:08.559 --> 00:41:11.800
shareable fun project. Yeah. And as soon as you

00:41:11.800 --> 00:41:13.340
share it with someone and they get excited about

00:41:13.340 --> 00:41:16.599
it, that'll spur you on to finish it off or tart

00:41:16.599 --> 00:41:19.590
it up even more. Yes, I might do a little PowerPoint

00:41:19.590 --> 00:41:22.829
with it as well. Yeah, not with me talking and

00:41:22.829 --> 00:41:24.650
them having to be a captive audience. I'll make

00:41:24.650 --> 00:41:26.710
it into a little video so that they can do it

00:41:26.710 --> 00:41:29.369
as quickly as they like. So that's me. And then

00:41:29.369 --> 00:41:33.170
I've got to move, my next goal is, yeah, the

00:41:33.170 --> 00:41:35.070
old photos. There's still loads of old photos

00:41:35.070 --> 00:41:38.670
I haven't scanned in. Yeah. That is fun though,

00:41:38.690 --> 00:41:39.989
that one, isn't it? That's nice. It's really

00:41:39.989 --> 00:41:43.630
fun and very rabbit hole -y. I loved it. Like

00:41:43.630 --> 00:41:45.710
just that small thing of sharing. I think this

00:41:45.710 --> 00:41:47.860
is what I was talking about before. sharing that

00:41:47.860 --> 00:41:50.820
picture with my cousin I didn't expect the reaction

00:41:50.820 --> 00:41:53.179
that he gave I just thought like oh yeah that's

00:41:53.179 --> 00:41:55.500
cool but then he actually started asking me all

00:41:55.500 --> 00:41:57.579
about my family history and how far I got back

00:41:57.579 --> 00:41:59.840
and where are we from from like he wanted to

00:41:59.840 --> 00:42:02.400
know it's like brilliant yeah yeah it was great

00:42:02.400 --> 00:42:04.780
I was so shocked that he engaged me with it in

00:42:04.780 --> 00:42:08.699
the way he did it was cool yeah yeah yeah I'm

00:42:08.699 --> 00:42:10.320
doing as bad as you know I'm just writing a note

00:42:10.320 --> 00:42:12.000
to myself what I'm going to do so I don't forget

00:42:12.000 --> 00:42:15.619
it We're there. Goodness. I hope everyone else

00:42:15.619 --> 00:42:18.260
is having a more clear -headed time than Nathan

00:42:18.260 --> 00:42:20.300
and I are. Our heads just swimming with all the

00:42:20.300 --> 00:42:22.099
things we have to do, all the things we want

00:42:22.099 --> 00:42:25.019
to do. And it's tough, isn't it, to get it into

00:42:25.019 --> 00:42:27.619
each day? It really is. I mean, I think that's

00:42:27.619 --> 00:42:30.739
the moral of today's podcast. Don't beat yourself

00:42:30.739 --> 00:42:32.400
up if you don't get as much done as you want

00:42:32.400 --> 00:42:34.659
to get done. As long as you're doing a little

00:42:34.659 --> 00:42:36.860
bit. As long as you're doing a little bit, as

00:42:36.860 --> 00:42:38.199
long as you're writing it down, you're doing

00:42:38.199 --> 00:42:40.659
good. Oh, you had to throw writing it down in

00:42:40.659 --> 00:42:45.800
there. Only because I've sung so much that I've

00:42:45.800 --> 00:42:48.159
never written down and it makes me sad, so I

00:42:48.159 --> 00:42:51.739
don't like to think about that. Don't be sad.

00:42:52.320 --> 00:42:55.219
Yeah. Okay, well, thanks for listening in, everybody.

00:42:55.760 --> 00:42:58.400
Yep, happy researching, everyone. Okay, bye -bye.
