1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,760 We chose the perfect name in chaos because that's all we really did. 2 00:00:05,760 --> 00:00:35,680 Okay, welcome to the chaos and carry ons podcast where the two most introverted people that you'll ever meet decide to start. 3 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:37,320 A podcast. 4 00:00:38,160 --> 00:00:39,280 An unlikely pair. 5 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:42,800 I thought we could start off with talking about how we met. 6 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:44,360 Just kidding. 7 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:52,120 We'll just say we bonded over our love of undercover work. 8 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:56,160 And as they say, the rest is history. 9 00:00:56,480 --> 00:01:02,080 Let's, let's pretend like somebody just found this, like, you know, we became famous and somebody finds this. 10 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:05,520 They don't know who we are, even though we know everybody that's listening right now. 11 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:06,480 Knows who we are. 12 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:10,280 So my name is Stephanie. 13 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:15,520 I have three kids, two girls and a boy, 16, 12 and three. 14 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:17,800 So we have all the ages. 15 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:23,480 And I don't know if I want to say where I live because I'm a little leery of the internet. 16 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:24,240 Yeah, don't say it. 17 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:26,280 We could say the state. 18 00:01:26,960 --> 00:01:28,440 Yeah, we live in Alabama. 19 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:30,360 So I got my love of traveling. 20 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:32,680 Well, let me go back. 21 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:35,000 We did not grow up traveling that much. 22 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:37,240 I only ever traveled with my grandmother. 23 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:41,880 And she took us everywhere. 24 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:45,280 We even went to like Frankenmuth, Michigan. 25 00:01:45,320 --> 00:01:49,640 I know that's like really random, but when we went to Disney, like that's. 26 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:52,200 That's who we went with was her. 27 00:01:54,600 --> 00:02:00,240 So shout out to Nana because if it wasn't for her, probably. 28 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:02,560 I mean, we talk about that sometimes. 29 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:05,440 Like if she didn't take us, I don't know if we would have really liked traveling. 30 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:07,160 Maybe eventually. 31 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:10,840 No, you would have been in the Smoky Mountains with everybody else that we know. 32 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:15,040 Yeah, it was really her. 33 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:17,280 I remember like one time she even took us to St. 34 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:17,920 Pete again. 35 00:02:17,920 --> 00:02:21,320 That's like really random, but that was just how she was. 36 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:25,200 Like she loved to go to someplace that she had never been. 37 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:27,440 Who does that sound like? 38 00:02:27,640 --> 00:02:28,040 You know? 39 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:28,400 Yep. 40 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:33,920 So once we got married, that's really, well, we were poor too. 41 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:35,760 When we first started, got married. 42 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:44,440 But after Sophia was maybe about, I'm going to say five, that's when N. 43 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:45,080 Harper was born. 44 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:47,240 That's when we really started traveling a lot. 45 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:53,360 And, you know, once you start, it's hard to go back. 46 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:56,280 I think between the two of us, we'd probably stayed at almost every resort. 47 00:02:58,040 --> 00:02:59,240 You mean Disney, right? 48 00:02:59,880 --> 00:03:00,400 Yes. 49 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:03,520 Because up till now, these people don't know that we're Disney dorks. 50 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:06,400 We should have added that in. 51 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:08,800 Remember, we're talking to people that don't know us. 52 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:10,040 Okay. 53 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:11,720 So we're both travel agents. 54 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:13,960 But that's not what this podcast is. 55 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:14,960 We're not selling trips. 56 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:16,040 No, no. 57 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:19,600 And we're not talking about, um, 58 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:23,440 adoption journeys or trauma right now. 59 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:24,120 No cancer. 60 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:28,120 Maybe one, no cancer, no kidnappings for now, maybe one day. 61 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:28,480 No. 62 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:29,880 Okay. 63 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:35,040 So yeah, we both are travel agents, but that's not the point of this podcast. 64 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:39,320 No, just two, two friends who love to travel. 65 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:44,880 And now our kids think that it's not a vacation unless we're all together. 66 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:49,880 Which is fine with me because we've had more laughs on our vacations than I've 67 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:52,080 probably ever laughed in my life. 68 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:53,240 I know. 69 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:55,160 Well, something always goes wrong too. 70 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:56,280 That's true. 71 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:58,400 That's why this is called chaos and carry ons. 72 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:02,040 So my name is Shelby. 73 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:04,200 Um, I live in Tennessee. 74 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:07,680 I was born and raised, actually, I was born in Tennessee, but I was raised in 75 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:10,560 Alabama and I was raised in the state of Alabama. 76 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:12,120 And I was raised in the state of Alabama. 77 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:14,800 Actually, I was born in Tennessee, but I was raised in Alabama. 78 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:21,000 Um, I have been married to my Disney dork for 10 years. 79 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:30,560 I have one little girl who is almost seven and, um, we live a very boring, 80 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:33,920 low key life, nothing interesting. 81 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:34,320 Boring. 82 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:37,600 I mean, no, it's really not boring. 83 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:40,720 Um, we love, love, love to travel. 84 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:45,560 Um, like Stephanie, I did not, I didn't travel a lot as a kid. 85 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:50,800 We would go to the beach usually, like, if not every year, every other year. 86 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:55,920 Um, mostly we went to the smokey mountains because that was close to home. 87 00:04:56,640 --> 00:05:01,120 And it was like a vacation without, without going big on vacation. 88 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:06,000 Um, I was 14 the first time I went to Disney world and I've probably 89 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:08,200 been a hundred times since then. 90 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:09,640 Just guessing. 91 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:15,640 Um, actually fun fact, when I was in kindergarten, mom and dad took us to Orlando 92 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:19,360 and I had the option, they gave me the choice. 93 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:22,720 We could go to Disney world or we could stay one more day at the beach. 94 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:29,480 And I chose Disney world and they took me to the phantasmagolf and told me 95 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:30,640 I was at Disney world. 96 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:35,560 And so when I got back home and all of my friends were like on spring break, 97 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:38,160 they're going to Disney world and I'm like, that place is horrible. 98 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:40,760 I don't know why you would want to go there because I thought 99 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:42,720 that's what Disney world was. 100 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:47,840 So I was 14 when I actually got to go to the real Disney world and was like, 101 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:50,840 okay, this makes so much more sense why people would choose to 102 00:05:50,840 --> 00:05:52,480 go here for spring break. 103 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:53,600 Okay. 104 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:55,280 So who did you go with then? 105 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:57,000 When I was 14. 106 00:05:57,880 --> 00:05:58,400 Yeah. 107 00:05:58,480 --> 00:05:59,400 Uh, my mom. 108 00:06:00,840 --> 00:06:01,360 Okay. 109 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:05,640 And she took me and my brother, we went, we did all the Disney parks. 110 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:12,040 We did universal, but Disney was like, that's, that's where I love Disney. 111 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:17,320 So we went more frequently as a teenager, we would go like pretty 112 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:19,320 much every year after that point. 113 00:06:19,840 --> 00:06:22,960 Um, and then I met Jordan. 114 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:27,120 Well, I mean, I already knew Jordan, but when we started dating, I realized 115 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:28,920 that he had a love for Disney. 116 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:32,760 Like I did, and he actually proposed at Disney world. 117 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:36,840 We went to Disneyland on our honeymoon, uh, Disney cruise on our 118 00:06:36,840 --> 00:06:38,800 anniversary, so on and so forth. 119 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:45,520 And so in that, uh, became more interested in selling Disney trips and helping 120 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:48,800 people to make magical memories like us. 121 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:52,640 And so that's where I began the travel agent gig. 122 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:57,080 And I've done it now for, I think January will be 8th of January. 123 00:06:57,080 --> 00:07:01,120 I think January will be eight years, which is crazy to think. 124 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:03,120 Um, and it's crazy. 125 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:03,520 Yeah. 126 00:07:04,840 --> 00:07:07,240 But again, that's not what this podcast is about. 127 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:13,040 We will gladly help you if you, if you want to book a trip, either one of us 128 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:15,880 can give you advice, but that's, that's not what this is about. 129 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:23,120 No, I think that, um, I didn't, I was like, I didn't even talk about Derek. 130 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:23,840 Poor Derek. 131 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:24,240 Yeah. 132 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:25,240 Shout out to Derek. 133 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:28,880 Just tell it now and then I'll insert it and I'm just kidding. 134 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:29,480 I won't really. 135 00:07:31,400 --> 00:07:36,120 Well, what I was going to say is Derek also, so Derek only went to Disney 136 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:37,880 once when he was a kid. 137 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:41,080 So like when we got married, we went on our honeymoon to Disney. 138 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:44,960 That was his second time ever going to Disney, which is nuts. 139 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:45,760 I know. 140 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:48,120 So he didn't grow up traveling either. 141 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:52,520 I think that that's, we can probably say for all of us now, I don't know 142 00:07:52,520 --> 00:07:53,800 about Jordan, Jordan went to Hawaii. 143 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:54,280 So he's not. 144 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:57,000 He's not Jordan's not included because he traveled. 145 00:07:57,560 --> 00:07:58,960 He went lots of places. 146 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:00,480 Yes. 147 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:05,960 But I think that's where the deep, like want to, like, I want to see more 148 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:07,360 places that I've never been before. 149 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:10,600 Cause you feel like a kid that's like, yeah, living out your dream. 150 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:14,640 You also want, like, I feel like it's one of those things that you want better 151 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:16,360 for your own kids than you had. 152 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:20,760 And, and our kids love traveling and seeing new places. 153 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:25,920 If they didn't, then we probably wouldn't do what we do or we'd leave them at home. 154 00:08:27,480 --> 00:08:27,880 Yeah. 155 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:32,280 But when I was thinking about this today, like what I hope comes from the podcast 156 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:36,840 is that somebody is like, I took a trip because you guys talked about it. 157 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:38,520 I wouldn't have planned it. 158 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:41,040 Like it seemed too, too hard to do. 159 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:44,960 Um, especially like the Hawaii trip, we both get that all the time. 160 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:50,200 That seems like daunting to like, how do you walk through planning that? 161 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:53,320 But think about how long we planned our Hawaii trip. 162 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:58,600 So yeah, I turned 30 last year and that that's where it all originated. 163 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:01,080 I wanted to go to Hawaii for my 30th birthday. 164 00:09:01,560 --> 00:09:03,280 And so we started planning. 165 00:09:03,840 --> 00:09:05,280 I don't know how long we planned it. 166 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:07,600 Maybe 18 months before we actually went. 167 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:09,480 That's when we were like, okay, we're doing this. 168 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:10,120 Let's go. 169 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:12,840 Well, Mattel wasn't even born yet. 170 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:18,000 Cause I re I remember when he was born and I remember you texting me something 171 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:20,720 about like, I can't wait to go to Hawaii with him. 172 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:21,320 Okay. 173 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:22,640 Well, he was two when we went. 174 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:23,040 Okay. 175 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:27,480 So it was more than so we, yeah, we already had the dream going. 176 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:32,760 Well, that was probably more like, you know, our, um, our fictional bucket 177 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:36,960 lists that we have like our non-ending bucket lists of trips. 178 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:38,280 Yeah. 179 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:42,800 But as far as like really planning, we, we plan that for a long time, but now I 180 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:46,280 feel like I could plan somebody else's Hawaii trip in two days. 181 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:47,200 Oh, for sure. 182 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:47,880 I feel the same. 183 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:52,560 I think that we actually started, like you said, seriously planning. 184 00:09:52,560 --> 00:09:55,880 It was about 18 months, like where we sat down and we were like, this is what, 185 00:09:56,080 --> 00:10:00,120 you know, this is what we're going to do and like really start researching it. 186 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:05,640 I mean, we're planning a trip now that's not going to take place until 2026. 187 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:07,440 We're still in 2024. 188 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:10,200 But yes, we, we have trips. 189 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:14,600 I mean, it's because like I said, our bucket list is so long and. 190 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,880 But we also have to plan them out when you're planning big trips. 191 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:19,680 That's a misconception. 192 00:10:19,680 --> 00:10:23,120 I feel like of traveling, you go on these big trips and it looks like that you've 193 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:28,640 spent so many thousands of dollars and you've just went big and it looks like 194 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:33,280 you're flaunting your money, but really like you save and prepare for that for so 195 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:33,880 long. 196 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:40,840 And I mean, but we don't, we don't drink, we don't smoke, we don't go to the 197 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:42,400 movies, we don't go to the movies. 198 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:43,720 We don't go to football games. 199 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:49,720 So there's extra things that like people spend their money on things like that, 200 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:50,880 that we don't. 201 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:54,040 So like traveling is our hobby. 202 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:57,040 Well, Jordan and Derek don't even hunt. 203 00:10:58,480 --> 00:10:59,000 No. 204 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:00,560 And that they don't hunt. 205 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:02,440 I mean, two men in the South. 206 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:04,000 Yeah. 207 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:08,480 People are probably gasping, but they just don't know. 208 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:09,920 They have no real hobbies either. 209 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:10,720 Let's be real. 210 00:11:10,720 --> 00:11:17,320 No, I mean, like our hobbies are planning where we're going on vacation, going on 211 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:19,480 vacation, talking about our vacations. 212 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:20,520 Like that's it. 213 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:28,120 I mean, we have a camper, so we do go camping through the summer, early fall. 214 00:11:28,680 --> 00:11:33,320 And I mean, that feels like a vacation, even though it's not, but I mean, I guess 215 00:11:33,320 --> 00:11:37,840 that that's kind of one of our hobbies, but, but it doesn't cost a lot of money 216 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:38,400 to camp. 217 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:43,680 No, the closest we've gotten to camping is staying at a cabin in the Smokies. 218 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:45,600 Yeah, that doesn't count. 219 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:47,480 And that was enough for us. 220 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:49,000 Yeah. 221 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:53,040 We went, we went to one of those cabins where it's like, you would rather get out 222 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:53,560 and walk. 223 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:58,840 And that was the last time it was very foggy and rainy that night. 224 00:11:59,840 --> 00:12:03,960 And you never say never because you know, on our list, we're going to the Fort 225 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:05,360 Wilderness cabins and you're doing it. 226 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:07,800 Well, luckily, we're going to the Fort Wilderness cabins. 227 00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:11,040 Well, luckily it's not going to be off right off of a cliff. 228 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:15,320 And Derek, and Derek driving and being like, this is fine. 229 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:17,680 It's like going up, you know, mountain I lived at at home. 230 00:12:17,680 --> 00:12:21,000 And I'm like, no, that one had a guard rail and it was nothing like this. 231 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:22,760 I don't know what you're talking about. 232 00:12:23,720 --> 00:12:24,800 You've lost your mind. 233 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:25,720 Okay. 234 00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:28,320 So that's, that's us in a nutshell. 235 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:32,360 I mean, we've been friends, how long we've been friends longer than me and Jordan 236 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:34,680 have been married, but we really got close. 237 00:12:34,680 --> 00:12:37,280 Like probably right before Taley was born. 238 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:42,360 And then now we're in so deep that like, yeah, we know, you know, too much. 239 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:44,600 We don't have to be my friend way too much. 240 00:12:45,680 --> 00:12:50,200 The voice memos at this point are like 10 minutes long. 241 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:53,200 Derek was like, how do you even remember what she said at the beginning of the 242 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:53,960 voice memo? 243 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:57,040 I was like, I don't like, I don't remember. 244 00:12:57,160 --> 00:12:58,080 It's just talking. 245 00:12:58,080 --> 00:13:02,120 No, but, but you know, like, you know what to reply to exactly. 246 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:04,640 And if it, if it was important, I would ask you again. 247 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:13,480 Well, like I said, I hope that somebody listens to this and maybe they decide to 248 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:14,240 go to Europe. 249 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:17,640 Maybe they decide, hopefully they decide to go to Japan. 250 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:19,400 Hey, that's on the bucket list for us one day. 251 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:27,040 It is if we can just get Jordan to survive off of rice and a sushi, that 252 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:29,120 sushi is probably not happening, but maybe rice. 253 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:30,760 I think he could live off rice. 254 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:36,240 So do you want to talk about like what we have planned or do you want to leave 255 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:40,080 them hanging and wait until like the first real episode after the intro? 256 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:43,640 We can talk about what we have planned. 257 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:48,240 I mean, I know we already talked about Hawaii, so that's going to be one of 258 00:13:48,240 --> 00:13:50,440 probably the first things that we talk about. 259 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:54,160 And it's going to have to at least be a two part episode. 260 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:56,440 I mean, we could talk about Hawaii for weeks. 261 00:13:56,440 --> 00:13:59,880 We had the absolute best vacation ever. 262 00:13:59,880 --> 00:14:04,880 And I still love that we went when we did because we didn't know what last 263 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:06,320 year was going to look like. 264 00:14:06,360 --> 00:14:09,840 And I'm so happy that we did it when we did it. 265 00:14:10,080 --> 00:14:12,400 I think it, we couldn't have timed it better. 266 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:15,080 Well, we could also say that was our first trip together. 267 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:16,840 It was. 268 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:19,400 So we had not traveled together until that trip. 269 00:14:20,520 --> 00:14:23,640 No, we have both been to Disney world. 270 00:14:23,640 --> 00:14:28,920 Many, many times and talked about it and helped each other kind of plan trips 271 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:29,920 based on that. 272 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:33,160 But as far as going together, Hawaii was the first one. 273 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:39,240 And then after that, that's when our kids began to think that they couldn't go 274 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:40,600 on vacation without each other. 275 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:45,400 Now, whenever we show up somewhere and the kids are like, um, so what time is 276 00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:46,960 Shelby and Jordan getting here? 277 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:48,560 And it's like, uh, they're not coming. 278 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:49,120 Why? 279 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:52,120 I mean, I'm sorry. 280 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:54,160 I said we're boring, but maybe we're not. 281 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:54,320 Yeah. 282 00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:56,400 So it feels like, did you not invite them? 283 00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:57,720 I mean, I thought you did. 284 00:14:57,720 --> 00:14:59,960 I was like, no, we don't have to be invited. 285 00:14:59,960 --> 00:15:00,760 We definitely did. 286 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:06,520 So, so Hawaii definitely is going to be at least two episodes. 287 00:15:06,520 --> 00:15:11,160 Maybe we'll do like, uh, the travel part of it and then like things to do there. 288 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:14,760 Um, also, I think we're going to be doing a lot of, uh, 289 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:21,440 travel and then like things to do there, um, also like Disney world, 290 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:25,040 Disneyland, we're going to Disneyland together in March. 291 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:29,600 So that will be to come, um, Disney cruise line. 292 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:31,520 You just went on a cruise. 293 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:34,840 I'm about to go on a cruise or another one. 294 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:37,200 So that, that will be to come. 295 00:15:37,240 --> 00:15:39,280 We have to talk about 30 a. 296 00:15:39,560 --> 00:15:39,880 Yeah. 297 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:42,880 That was our, both of our first time 38. 298 00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:44,000 Yes, it was. 299 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:48,400 Well, I see like, because I still have notes because I knew that I would forget. 300 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:51,600 So I have not told you everything that happened on that cruise. 301 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:52,480 Okay. 302 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:56,280 So going back to Disneyland, uh, I want to specify that that's not just 303 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:57,240 going to be a Disney trip. 304 00:15:57,400 --> 00:16:00,040 Let's put that out there for the future. 305 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:00,480 Yes. 306 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:01,520 Yeah. 307 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:06,360 And a lot of our trips are, I mean, well, I was going to say when we went to Disney 308 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:08,560 in June, it wasn't just Disney, but that was a lie. 309 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:12,040 We talked about doing other things, but we did it. 310 00:16:12,040 --> 00:16:16,880 We did, but like Disneyland and even Hawaii, we stayed in the Disney resort, 311 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:20,760 but we did a lot of things outside of the resort. 312 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:21,200 Yes. 313 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:27,840 Um, and when we go to Disneyland, where we really don't have just a ton 314 00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:31,760 planned at Disneyland, most of what we're doing is offsite. 315 00:16:32,640 --> 00:16:35,640 Um, no, and I'm so excited to go back there. 316 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:36,760 So it's going to be fun. 317 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:41,920 So let's say that that turned into Shelby's celebration trip, which, so 318 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:44,200 Sophia says we use that as an excuse for everything now. 319 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:45,720 Well, we will. 320 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:49,440 So that trip every day is a day to be celebrated. 321 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:53,760 So that trip has some pretty huge things that we both have never done going on. 322 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:54,360 We'll say that. 323 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:55,160 Yes. 324 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:55,800 Yes. 325 00:16:56,160 --> 00:16:56,680 Stay tuned. 326 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:57,040 Yeah. 327 00:16:57,080 --> 00:17:00,240 Some things that people probably think is nuts, but you know, hey, when you 328 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:03,200 almost die, you know, I know, right. 329 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:08,200 I guess I should say, I mean, we said we weren't going to talk about adoption or 330 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:13,480 trauma, but I guess I should say like last year I was talking about Hawaii and 331 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:17,960 the timing and all that it's because last fall at the age of 30, I was 332 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:21,440 diagnosed with breast cancer, but right now I'm cancer free. 333 00:17:21,600 --> 00:17:22,920 So that's in the past. 334 00:17:23,080 --> 00:17:26,560 This is not going to be a cancer podcast, but I just felt like I probably should 335 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:29,440 say that anybody that knows me knows that. 336 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:34,280 Um, and a lot of people that don't know me probably know that, but you know, for 337 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:38,320 our imaginary friends that are going to listen that don't know who we are. 338 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:39,360 I feel like I should say that. 339 00:17:39,360 --> 00:17:44,600 So, so yes, Disneyland is that's like my celebration trip. 340 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:47,000 That will be the end of all of my treatments. 341 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:48,840 My port will be taken out. 342 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:51,400 That will be the celebration trip. 343 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:56,960 But, you know, we went to Disney this past June, we celebrated the end of like IV 344 00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:59,520 chemo and then what did we do? 345 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:02,960 We celebrated some other something, the end of radiation. 346 00:18:02,960 --> 00:18:03,480 I don't know. 347 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:06,960 But like Sophia says, we use that excuse for everything. 348 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:08,160 Literally everything. 349 00:18:09,160 --> 00:18:10,680 But listen, I deserve it. 350 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:12,120 I would say so. 351 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:13,760 We all deserve it. 352 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:15,200 Yeah, we all do for the trauma. 353 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:17,000 That's what this is going to be like for the trauma. 354 00:18:17,800 --> 00:18:19,480 I think that wraps up our intro. 355 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:21,200 Yeah. 356 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:22,400 Stay tuned. 357 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:23,600 You never know what you're going to get. 358 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:24,120 Yeah. 359 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:29,880 Um, if anybody has that they want to throw out, you know, I mean, we do have a list 360 00:18:29,880 --> 00:18:31,320 of what the episodes are going to be. 361 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:35,280 But if you have something that you were like, yes, I want you to talk about this. 362 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:39,120 I mean, we're going to talk, like she said, we're going to talk about, we're 363 00:18:39,120 --> 00:18:42,880 going to talk about, um, we'll probably talk about Disneyland coming up and 364 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:45,240 planning that before we actually go. 365 00:18:45,800 --> 00:18:47,120 Uh, we're going to talk about Hawaii. 366 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:49,360 We're going to talk about my cruise. 367 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:51,040 Then you're going to have a cruise coming up. 368 00:18:52,760 --> 00:18:59,480 I'm thinking that we might have to touch on, um, this new, um, what is it? 369 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:00,560 What, what is it called? 370 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:01,640 They've changed it so many times. 371 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:03,200 It was like Genie plus and now it's. 372 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:06,160 Oh, the lightning lane premier. 373 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:06,480 Yes. 374 00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:06,920 Yes. 375 00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:08,160 Is that what it's called now? 376 00:19:08,160 --> 00:19:08,360 Yes. 377 00:19:08,360 --> 00:19:11,280 Because we both have been looking into this because we're going to Disneyland. 378 00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:15,520 Uh, even though it's Disneyland and not Disney world, they have it there as well. 379 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:19,920 I'm actually going to Disney world two days before my cruise. 380 00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:25,440 So I had already thought about getting it for science just so, so I can take 381 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:27,440 one for the team and see what it's all about. 382 00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:27,800 Yeah. 383 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:29,400 I mean, we'll probably touch on that. 384 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:34,800 Um, Disney world and just Disney is always changing. 385 00:19:36,120 --> 00:19:39,960 It's like, by the time that this comes out, Hey, it might have some kind of, 386 00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:42,240 um, what do you call that? 387 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:47,240 Like, uh, they might do it a little differently. 388 00:19:47,240 --> 00:19:49,800 It may not even be called lightning pass, which I would think it would be, 389 00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:50,520 but you know what I mean? 390 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:51,520 They may have some extra. 391 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:55,680 It might not even be called Disney world anymore. 392 00:19:56,360 --> 00:19:59,040 They always have some kind of, you know, like, like, like, 393 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:00,840 they have some kind of like add on. 394 00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:04,200 I'm going to say add on that you can buy to this package, you know, 395 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:08,640 which I think the top tier now it's getting you like all the rides, right? 396 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:10,360 Yes. 397 00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:11,680 I think that's what I think. 398 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:16,760 So, so well, we'll have to deep dive into that, but I was actually just 399 00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:18,760 looking at that, I think like two days ago. 400 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:25,200 It looks also have on my list, like traveling with kids, like traveling in 401 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:32,760 the world, but also like Disney with kids and why we chose to take our kids before. 402 00:20:33,360 --> 00:20:36,040 Like, you know, a lot of people say they want to wait till they're five, six, 403 00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:37,440 seven, so they remember it. 404 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:38,320 It's magical. 405 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:42,440 But both of us, how old were your girls when you first went? 406 00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:43,920 Sophia was 18 months. 407 00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:44,440 They were babies. 408 00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:44,640 Yeah. 409 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:45,880 Sophia was 18 months. 410 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:52,120 Um, Harper was four months old and then Mateo, we went for his first birthday. 411 00:20:52,120 --> 00:20:53,800 Um, okay. 412 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:54,600 And that's what I thought. 413 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:58,960 I really was 10 months old when we went, um, we went for her first birthday, but 414 00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:02,280 we went, she was like almost 11 months old. 415 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:03,720 We went at Christmas time. 416 00:21:04,120 --> 00:21:04,640 Yeah. 417 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:07,080 That those, I'm telling you easiest ages. 418 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:10,120 Honestly, it really is. 419 00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:12,280 But that also is on my list. 420 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:18,000 Um, is like talking about like why we chose to do that and, and how to do that. 421 00:21:18,360 --> 00:21:23,280 Um, like finding deals and discounts when traveling, that kind of thing. 422 00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:24,600 Um, dining plans. 423 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:26,480 I don't know. 424 00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:30,280 I have lots and lots and lots of ideas, but I guess we have to see if anybody 425 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:31,600 wants to listen to us first. 426 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:34,480 People definitely do, but they want the trauma. 427 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:35,400 I'm sorry. 428 00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:36,840 The trauma will come later. 429 00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:39,640 We need to, we need to cope from the trauma first. 430 00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:41,560 Let's, let's do that first. 431 00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:46,520 We need to get comfortable and then maybe we'll open up a little. 432 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:48,600 Yeah. 433 00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:50,600 But okay. 434 00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:53,600 That's going to wrap it up for the first one. 435 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:54,320 All right. 436 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:58,880 So do you want to hit them with the outro or do you want me to? 437 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:00,200 I can hit him with the outro. 438 00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:01,880 Let's go. 439 00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:02,320 Let's go. 440 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:06,240 Let's start by saying that here we didn't even talk about Derek. 441 00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:06,840 Shout out to Derek. 442 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:07,960 He wrote, he wrote the outro. 443 00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:09,440 Mm hmm. 444 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:15,600 He also helped with the, um, what do you call it? 445 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:17,120 The intro song. 446 00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:17,440 Yeah. 447 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:18,440 That was there too. 448 00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:19,360 Yeah. 449 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:20,080 Shout out to Derek. 450 00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:22,320 His name, I think he came up with our name too. 451 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:25,120 This is the Derek podcast. 452 00:22:25,120 --> 00:22:27,200 This is the Derek podcast. 453 00:22:29,360 --> 00:22:33,360 May your flights be on time and your luggage never lost, but if it's not, 454 00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:34,640 that's where the fun begins. 455 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:37,240 Bye. 456 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:45,280 Pack your dreams, grab your back. 457 00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:52,800 Adventures call at Sig and Zach from castles tall to ocean waves. 458 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:56,440 Magic made for wanderers brave. 459 00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:08,120 Theme parks light up the night. 460 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:11,920 Starry eyed and sheer delight. 461 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:15,440 Board the ships at sail and sea. 462 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:19,320 Endless tales and fantasy. 463 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:22,440 Chaos set carry ons. 464 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:23,200 Let's go. 465 00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:26,800 Disney dreams and so you know. 466 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:31,040 Every flight and every ride. 467 00:23:31,360 --> 00:23:33,200 Join the journey. 468 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:43,200 Come inside. 469 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:46,840 From Mickey ears to Dole with tree. 470 00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:50,760 Pixie dust beneath our feet. 471 00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:54,640 Through the lands and sea we roam. 472 00:23:55,120 --> 00:23:58,480 Feel the wonder feel at home. 473 00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:02,360 From road drop to the firework show. 474 00:24:02,360 --> 00:24:05,840 Lose yourself in joyful glow. 475 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:09,800 Cruising waters feeling free. 476 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:13,600 Every twist of memory. 477 00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:16,600 Chaos set carry ons. 478 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:17,440 Let's go. 479 00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:21,000 Disney dreams and so you know. 480 00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:25,280 Every flight and every ride. 481 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:27,480 Join the journey. 482 00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:46,480 Come inside.