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All right, so we've got a really interesting

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deep dive ahead of us today.

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You've sent in a ton of articles on affirmations.

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Yeah.

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And clearly, you're interested in how these

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positive statements can lead to real change.

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And I gotta tell you, it's way more

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than just thinking happy thoughts.

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You're absolutely right.

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It's really fascinating, actually.

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It's like affirmations bridge this gap

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between ancient wisdom and then cutting edge neuroscience.

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Right.

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We're talking about practices that have been around

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for centuries and now we're finally starting

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to understand the why behind them, you know.

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How they actually work.

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Okay, so for our listeners out there

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who hear the word affirmations and think

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it's just a bunch of wishful thinking,

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what's the best way to explain

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how these things actually work?

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Well, you gotta think about it like this.

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Our brains are these incredible organs

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constantly adapting and rewiring themselves

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based on our experiences and even our thoughts.

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And neuroplasticity is the term for this.

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And it's the key to understanding

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how affirmations can create change.

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So every time we repeat an affirmation,

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we're kind of like carving out new pathways in our brains.

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Exactly.

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Imagine like a path in a forest.

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The more you walk it, the more defined it becomes.

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Right.

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Affirmations work similarly.

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They reinforce specific thought patterns beliefs.

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They help us kind of shift from those well-worn paths

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of self-doubt and negativity to these new pathways

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of confidence, self-belief.

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And the more we travel those new paths,

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the more automatic those positive thoughts

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and behaviors become.

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That reminds me a lot about the whole

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growth mindset concept, right?

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Where instead of saying, oh, I'm terrible at math,

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you would say, I'm learning and improving my math skills.

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You're seeing those challenges as opportunities.

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Absolutely.

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And affirmations can be powerful tools

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in cultivating that growth mindset.

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Okay.

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When you repeat statements like,

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I embrace challenges as opportunities to learn,

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you're essentially telling your brain

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to approach those difficulties

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with a different perspective.

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Interesting.

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One of curiosity and possibility

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rather than fear and limitation.

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It's like rewiring your brain to see setbacks,

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not as failures, but as stepping stones,

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like on the path to success.

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It makes me think about Thomas Edison

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and that whole light bulb thing.

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And he said, I haven't failed.

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I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work.

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Exactly.

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That's growth mindset in action.

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And think about the impact that that shift

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in perspective can have on your life.

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It can be the difference between giving up on a goal

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because it feels too hard and persevering

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because you believe in your ability to learn and grow.

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It can be everything.

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It can be everything.

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So how do affirmations play into figures like Louise Hay,

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who's often referred to as the queen of affirmations?

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She really popularized this idea

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of using these positive statements for personal growth.

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And her work was groundbreaking

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because she really helped bring the power of affirmations

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into the mainstream.

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She understood that our thoughts are incredible powerful

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and by consciously choosing to focus

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on positive empowering statements,

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we can really transform our lives.

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It's interesting though,

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because some people might hear this and think, okay,

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so if I just keep telling myself I'm rich and successful,

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I'm gonna magically win the watery,

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but it's obviously not that simple.

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You hit on a really important point.

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Affirmations aren't magic spells.

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They don't change external circumstances.

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They change our internal landscape,

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which then influences how we perceive

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and interact with the world around us.

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It's more like this,

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imagine you're holding a map.

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The affirmations are like orienting the map

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in the right direction,

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but you still have to choose to walk the path.

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I like that.

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That's a good analogy because it really speaks to

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aligning our thoughts and our actions.

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So it's not just enough to repeat these empty phrases.

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You have to embody those affirmations

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through the choices that you make and how you behave.

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Precisely.

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And this is where it gets really interesting.

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We're not just talking about affirmations

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impacting our thoughts and feelings.

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There's growing evidence that they can actually influence

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our physical health as well.

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Yeah, I was reading about that,

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the mind-body connection research.

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There was a study about how people who practice

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loving-kindness meditations,

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which involve repeating positive affirmations

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about themselves and others,

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actually showed changes in their brain activity

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in areas associated with empathy and compassion.

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And not just that other studies have found links

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between practicing gratitude,

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which is a form of affirmation and improvements

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in sleep quality immune function,

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even cardiovascular health.

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It's amazing.

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So it's not just about feeling happier or more optimistic.

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Those positive emotions can create a ripple effect

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in our lives that impact our physical wellbeing.

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It's like the placebo effect in action.

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When we believe something will have a positive impact

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on our health, even if it's a sugar pill,

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our bodies often respond accordingly.

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Our minds are that powerful.

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That's pretty amazing.

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It really highlights the importance

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of our thoughts and beliefs,

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especially the ones that we repeat over and over again.

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A lot of people are interested in using affirmations

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for specific goals,

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like for improving their relationships

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or boosting their career success.

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So how do we move from these general concepts

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to applying affirmations

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to those really specific areas of our lives?

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about what you wanna create.

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Let's say your goal is to improve your communication skills

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in your relationships.

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Instead of using a generic affirmation

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like I am a good communicator,

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you might try something more specific

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like I listen with an open heart

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and express myself clearly and respectfully.

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So it's about tailoring those affirmations

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to what your needs are.

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And what your goals are.

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My emotion is also important to not just focus

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on ourselves, but to also incorporate affirmations

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about the other people involved in those relationships.

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For example, instead of dwelling on negative thoughts

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like my partner never listens to me,

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you might try an affirmation like I trust

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that my partner loves me

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and wants to understand my perspective.

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It's about shifting from a place of blame and resentment

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to a place of understanding and compassion.

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So it's nice.

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For ourselves and for the other person.

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And when we approach our relationships

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from this more positive and open-hearted perspective,

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it naturally influences how we communicate

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and interact with each other.

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Yeah, it's like they say what you focus on expands.

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So if you're constantly focused on the negative aspects

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of your relationship, that's what's gonna grow.

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But if you consciously choose to focus on the positive,

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even if it feels challenging at times,

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we open up the possibility

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for more love, understanding, and connection.

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You're exactly right.

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And this principle applies to career goals as well.

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It's like if we're talking about using affirmations

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to boost careers, you'd think it'd be a no-brainer.

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But I imagine there's some resistance there.

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Yeah, definitely.

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Because our careers are so tied to our identities

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and our sense of self-worth.

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That it can be really scary to challenge

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those deep-seated beliefs

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about what we're capable of achieving.

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It's like that fear of failure is amplified

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when it comes to your career.

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And this is where affirmations can be incredibly powerful

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because they help us to reframe those fears and doubts

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by introducing new, empowering beliefs.

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So instead of saying I'm not qualified enough,

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you would try something like I have the skills

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and experience to succeed in this role.

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and believing in your potential

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even before you have all that external validation.

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And here's the thing about affirmations.

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They work best when they're paired with action.

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It's not about sitting back and waiting for things

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to magically fall into place.

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It's about using those affirmations as fuel

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to take inspired action towards your goals.

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So affirmations provide that internal motivation and belief

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and then action is what creates the external result.

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And as you start taking action

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and you start seeing progress,

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those successes become fuel for even stronger belief

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in yourself and your abilities.

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It's like a positive feedback loop.

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It is a positive feedback loop.

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That makes me think about how we handle setbacks

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because let's face it, setbacks are inevitable.

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In any career journey.

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And this is where a lot of people stumble.

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They hit a roadblock and they think,

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see, affirmations don't work.

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But setbacks are not a sign of failure.

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They're an opportunity for growth and learning.

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So it's about shifting from that fixed mindset.

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Yes.

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Where you see it as a personal shortcoming.

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To a growth mindset where it's like,

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this is valuable feedback.

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And affirmations can help us

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to navigate those challenging moments.

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By reminding us of our strength, our resilience,

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our capacity to learn and grow from every experience.

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So instead of letting those setbacks completely derail us.

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We can use them as opportunities to refine our approach,

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strengthen our resolve, come back even stronger.

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And here's another really important point.

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Affirmations aren't about denying

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or suppressing negative emotions.

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It's okay to feel scared, disappointed, frustrated.

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When you encounter challenges.

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You're human.

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You're human.

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Yeah.

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You're gonna have those feelings.

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But it's about acknowledging those emotions

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without letting them control us.

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Okay.

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So it's not about pretending everything is perfect.

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No.

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It's about cultivating that inner resilience.

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Yes.

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To help you navigate the ups and downs.

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Exactly.

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With a little more grace, a little more ease.

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Precisely.

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And the more we practice affirmations,

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the more natural this way of thinking and being becomes.

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Okay.

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It's like strengthening a muscle.

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The more we use it, the stronger it gets.

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This has been incredibly insightful, I have to say.

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Oh good, I'm glad.

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So as we start to wrap up here.

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Okay.

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What's one final thought

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that you wanna leave our listeners with?

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I would say, remember you are capable

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of creating a life you love.

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And affirmations are powerful tools

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to help you do just that.

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Okay.

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Don't underestimate the power of your thoughts

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and beliefs to shape your reality.

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That's a really good reminder for all of us.

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So for our listeners who wanna maybe dive

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a little deeper into this topic,

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what resources would you recommend?

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Well, you know, there are some amazing books

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and articles available.

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Okay.

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But I think the most important thing

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is to start experimenting with affirmations yourself.

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Okay.

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Find what resonates with you.

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Be consistent with your practice.

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Right.

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And most importantly, believe in your own potential.

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It's about taking that first step

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and then the next and then the next.

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It's a journey.

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It is.

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Of self-discovery and growth.

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And we're all in this together.

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We are, you're exactly right.

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And this principle applies to career goals as well.

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So we're back to using these affirmations

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to boost our careers.

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You'd think it'd be a no-brainer.

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Right.

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But I imagine there's some resistance there.

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Absolutely.

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There is because our careers are so tied

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to our identities and our sense of self-worth

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that it can be scary to challenge

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those deep-seated beliefs

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about what we're capable of achieving.

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Like that fear of failure is amplified

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when it comes to your job.

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Exactly.

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And this is where affirmations can be incredibly powerful

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because they help us reframe those fears and doubts

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by introducing these new empowering beliefs.

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So instead of, I'm not qualified enough,

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it would be, I have the skills and experience

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to succeed in this role.

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So it's about owning your strengths

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and believing in your potential

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even before you have all the external validation.

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Precisely.

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Interesting.

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And here's the thing about affirmations.

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They work best when paired with action.

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It's not about sitting back and waiting for things

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to magically fall into place.

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Right.

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It's about using those affirmations as fuel

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to take inspired action toward your goals.

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So the affirmations kind of provide the internal motivation

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and belief.

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Exactly.

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But then the action is what creates the external result.

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Exactly.

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And as you start taking action and seeing progress,

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those successes become fuel

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for even stronger belief in yourself and your abilities.

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Looks like a positive feedback loop.

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It is a positive feedback loop.

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That makes me think about how we handle setbacks.

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Yes.

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Because let's face it, setbacks are inevitable.

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Absolutely.

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In any career journey.

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And this is where a lot of people stumble.

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They hit a roadblock and think,

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see, affirmations don't work.

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Yeah, they give up.

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But setbacks are not a sign of failure.

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Okay.

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They're an opportunity for growth and learning.

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So it's about shifting from that fixed mindset

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to the growth mindset.

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Yeah, yes.

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Where it's like, okay, this is just feedback.

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Exactly.

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And affirmations can help us to navigate

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those really challenging moments

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by reminding us of our strength, our resilience,

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our capacity to learn and grow from every experience.

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So instead of letting those setbacks derail us,

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we can use them to refine our approach,

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strengthen our resolve.

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Exactly.

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And come back even stronger.

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Exactly.

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And here's another important point.

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Affirmations aren't about denying

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or suppressing negative emotions.

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It's okay to feel scared, disappointed, frustrated

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when you encounter challenges.

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You're human.

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You're human.

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It's natural to feel those things.

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Right.

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It's about acknowledging those emotions

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without letting them control us.

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So we're not pretending like everything

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is perfect all the time.

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No.

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It's about building up that inner resilience

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to help you navigate the ups and downs of life.

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Precisely.

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Yeah.

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And the more we practice affirmations,

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the more natural this way of thinking and being becomes.

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It's like strengthening a muscle.

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The more we use it, the stronger it gets.

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This has been incredibly insightful, I have to say.

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As we wrap up here, what's one thought

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you wanna leave our listeners with?

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Remember, you are capable of creating a life

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that you love.

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And affirmations are powerful tools

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to help you do just that.

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That's a great reminder for all of us.

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Don't underestimate the power of your thoughts

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and beliefs to shape your reality.

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If our listeners wanna dive deeper into this,

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what resources would you recommend?

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There are so many amazing books and articles available,

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but I think the most important thing

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is to just start experimenting with affirmations yourself.

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Find what resonates with you.

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Be consistent with your practice.

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And most importantly, believe in your own potential.

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Just take that first step

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and then the next one and the next one.

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It's a journey of self-discovery. It is.

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And we're all in this together.

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Wait a minute.

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This has been another fascinating deep dive.

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Thank you to our listeners for tuning in

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and for submitting these thought-provoking questions.

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And until next time, keep exploring, keep questioning,

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keep diving deep into the power of your own mind.

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And remember, you are capable of amazing things.

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We'll see you next time on the deep dive.

