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Good morning Hey, hey, hey Welcome back episode

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81 of shit. That's just life with your favorite

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life coach here. We are here people Mm -hmm.

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We're here on this lovely Lovely Wednesday all

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the way from the United Kingdom. I am here. I

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hope you guys are listening any of our British

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folks. I hope you're listening, okay? It's a

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lovely Wednesday. The sun is shining. Mm -hmm.

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No birds are chirping, but the sun is shining.

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All right? I'm ready to get into it. There's

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a lot on the agenda today, but I just needed

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to say we're at episode 81. Mm -hmm. We're here.

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I'm proud of myself. I am proud of myself for

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getting this far, for being consistent, just

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proud of myself. Yes, new girl has went shopping.

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It's just so much to get into. So a life update

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is coming, of course, but I just wanted to start

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off the intro by saying good morning love. So

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let's get started. Welcome back episode 81. We're

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here. Let's get into it. I'm ready Let's get

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it started. Hi. Let's get it started. Hey Okay,

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so let's do a life update first shall we we shall

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okay, so Me again, I went shopping yesterday

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Mm -hmm. There is a lovely outlet over here in

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the UK and Your girls stopped by Mac cosmetics.

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Mm -hmm had to Get me some more consume concealer

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Also needed to give me some more serum for my

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face for my morning routine and my night routine

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on the face. Also, your girl had to stop at Victoria's

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Secret. Now, they were trying to sell your girl

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inside of Mac. I'm talking about every time,

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everywhere, every place. They were trying to

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sell me something. I bought too much, but...

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I was there to get the things that I needed and

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I got what I needed. I probably bought two extra

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things that was not on my list. I did need them,

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but they just wasn't on my list. Sometimes you

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don't know what you need until you get to the

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store. So I got to the store, got what I needed,

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got the other two things that were not on the

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list, and walked out feeling lovely. The outlet

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over here is huge. And I'm glad I was able, everything

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was just in a walking distance. So I was able

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to just hit the next door, hit the next door.

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Went into Victoria's Secret. We call that Victoria

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Don't Tell Nobody out there in Missouri, United

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States in Missouri. We call it Victoria Don't

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Tell Nobody. So we went there. I went there and

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I got me some strapless bras because I have a

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wedding anniversary party to attend. The colors

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are black and white, so your girl had to get

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ready. Yeah, I have to be fashionably ready,

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of course. So I'm excited. I'm so excited about

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this event. It's coming up on Saturday. Today

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is Wednesday. So I'll be potting in the morning

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on Saturday before all the activities get to

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festering. I'll probably try to record Friday

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night because it would be so many activities

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on Saturday. But outside of that, Your girl has

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finished the home. The home is lovely. With the

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decoring, I finished everything. I had to move

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some things out, arrange some things before I

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actually get to slap some colors on some things.

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But everything is completely done when it comes

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to organizing. Now it's time for the aesthetics.

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Okay, now it's time for the Virgo to shine. It's

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time for me to shine on the aesthetics as well.

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I'm ready. I'm ready. I'm ready. Like seriously.

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I put in so much work to help organize everything.

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I'm ready to see what the aesthetics will look

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like once we slap these bad boys on in every

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room. I need to see what this is going to be.

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Like I'm ready to do me a nice bubble bath. the

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aesthetics going give me a wooden tray for the

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bath wait i'm ready to relax on a whole nother

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level i'm so excited like you guys don't even

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you don't even understand how excited i am the

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fact that we got so far on this decorating on

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this organizing first just oh baby let's put

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ourselves on the back i'm so excited but outside

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of that people It's been a lovely, lovely time

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this week besides working and all that. So after

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going shopping, after organizing the home, I

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then found time to work out. So I went to the

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gym yesterday, two -hour session, had to get

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in there. Like I said, I have a wedding anniversary

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party. that I need to attend. So I have to be

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looking the parts. I need to be filling the parts.

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I know there will be lots of food. So I need

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to be gaining weight afterwards, but I need to

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be losing weight first. Okay. So I am in the

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gym. I'm hoping to get back in the gym a few

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days before the anniversary party. So that's

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just what's going on with me. A little life update

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with me. Home is ready. I'm ready. I've bought

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so much makeup it makes no sense. But I got some

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good lip liner. So I think that's all that matters.

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So outside of that, life has just been good so

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far. Praying every day, waking up, feeling grateful,

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having good meals at night. Life has been pretty

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good. It really has. So with that being said,

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of course, I'm going to shake it up and get into

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some topics here people. So the first topic that

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I would like to get into is about the girl Lala

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that was just unfortunately murdered by her boyfriend.

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So I have an auto clip. that you can hear so

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you can get a little more information you can

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hear what i'm talking about maybe go turn on

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the news or get on your shade room on your instagram

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tune in but for now sit back relax just listen

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to the audio clip let's switch it up here people

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all right stay in your seats sit back the audio

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clip is playing now murdered by her man This

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popular TikToker, known for her lavish wigs,

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shot a Tesla parked nearby, caught it on camera.

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Did you see that video? I didn't. It's too traumatizing.

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Police say it was her boyfriend who pulled the

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trigger. You can't trust every man that you see

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and meet. Social media outraged. Were the signs

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there? Of course my boyfriend made me mad. I

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had to buy a hug. The former college football

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player at the center of a murder investigation.

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I like women. in trans limit. It's called being

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trans -attracted. And now the family making headlines

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themselves at odds over what Girl La La La should

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be wearing at her own funeral. I ain't attending

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no funeral with my son that God gave to me as

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a boy in no wig. I'm Justin Carter and this is

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TSR Investigates. But before we get in toward

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roommates, for more TSR Investigates, make sure

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you go ahead and like this video and subscribe

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to the Shade Room's YouTube channel for new weekly

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episodes of this show. and more. This is the

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kind of stuff that as trans folks we're always

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telling people that we have to be aware of that

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we can be killed especially by people that we

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know and sometimes by people that we say we love.

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The news has not only rocked the trans community

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but Girl La La La's nearly half million followers

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on social media. This happened on November 14th

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in Lauderdale Lakes Florida and just as the sun

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had set a 911 call, someone frantically asking

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for help. In fact, it was a suspect, 25 -year

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-old Shanoid White Jr., who police say moments

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before had shot his transgender girlfriend and

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influencer, 21 -year -old Maurice Harrison, also

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known as Girl La La La. What he didn't know at

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the time, that there was a Tesla recording the

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entire encounter just a few doors down. Stay

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on the phone with me, OK? Yes, hello? At this

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point, the damage had already been done. You

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can hear someone even moaning in the background.

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According to court records, Shanoid White Jr.

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told investigators he got into an argument with

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Girl La La La and there was a fight in his car

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over a gun that he had. But video from a neighbor's

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Tesla appears to show White get out of the car

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with the gun in his hand as he races over to

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the passenger side and if you look close girl

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la la la her limp body slumps outside of the

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door white seems to pull her up by her hair to

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then get her back into the car I don't know why

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the shade room always sounds like the first 48

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but let's get into it my opinion first so hearing

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that clipped and just getting that piece of information

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crazy the fact that it was her own boyfriend

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he or she yes it was their own boyfriend and

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i'm just baffled that the boat the police says

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her boyfriend mr shea shea on white is now being

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charged with first degree murder with the fire

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uh firearm um killing someone and then calling

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when after the killing is done like that's something

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you see on a movie that is supposed to be fake

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not real this is crazy baffling that the fact

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that he called the police without telling them

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the full story um Yeah, well, I'm glad that he

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called the police and didn't just do his due

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diligence of wanting to murder someone and just

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leaving. So I'm glad he actually called for help.

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But it is upsetting that it was your own spouse,

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your own partner. It's just like you can't really

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trust who you land in a bed with all the time.

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Guess not. Or you just can't trust anybody. But

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specifically in this case, it looks like you

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can't really trust who you're in in the bed with.

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That's why I always advise people for life decisions.

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Continue to get to know folks. Every day somebody

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wakes up feeling different and please don't paint

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those red flags purple. Okay? Like, it's just

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not healthy painting red flags purple. Like,

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this is crazy. The story itself is crazy. both

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of the parties were young, so it's crazy. One

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was 21 year old, Maurice Harrison, also known

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as Girl La La, was 21. Like, 21? People are hardly

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making it past 21 nowadays, I'm noticing. Like,

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that is the age where people are just, things

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are becoming lights off when it shouldn't be.

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You know, so it's just, it's very unfortunate

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here. Also reading it says, loved ones and advocates

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are speaking out about the warning signs of abuse,

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the ongoing violence against transgender and

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black women, and the family disputes over how

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the honor girl la la identity, identity, identity.

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So they were the family itself was arguing about.

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the transgender's identity, which I think is

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just so crazy because the baby has already passed

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away. However, the baby wanted to be remembered

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on Earth, let her be remembered just like this.

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Like, it's not that deep. It's really not that

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deep. The deep part is the fact that the girl

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has passed away. Girlala has passed away. That's

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the part. that you guys should be stuck on. Not

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whether she should be in a wig, in some makeup,

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in some concealer. It's not that deep. It really

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isn't. It really isn't. And if the girl Lala

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was here, you guys wouldn't even be having this

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problem. But if the girl Lala was here, I'm pretty

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sure she would want to be remembered in how she

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was on her daily, how she was feeling, in her

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baddie style. Period. Like, it's just not that

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deep for you guys to want to have a dilemma over

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how someone should be buried when they're already

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passed away at 21. Like, I think that says enough.

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Let the child be the child. stop fighting over

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the identity this is crazy but that's just the

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first topic of the day this is a lovely wednesday

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again this is the news that you get on a hump

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day but like i said stop arguing people life

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decision after somebody passed away is just let

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them be who they were okay let them flourish

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let their soul rest all the arguing and bickering

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like the like the baby didn't just pass away

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like this girl just passed away oh goodness it's

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just crazy but i'm gonna move on because girl

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la la my condolences go out to the family prayers

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to that soul of girl la la's and like i said

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the most important thing that should be focused

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is just having a proper funeral nothing else

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Making sure everything comes together when it

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comes to the funeral not the identity not the

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hair not the nails Just make sure everything

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needs to be there Okay Focus on the actual issue,

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you know focus on grieving Just take a step back

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from all the extra emotions. That's what I would

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advise but that's just that's just me as a life

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coach here I'm gonna move on move on to the next

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topic of course so let's move on over here move

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on over here yeah we're gonna move on okay let's

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switch it up okay so on another note here switching

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it up bringing it back because like i said the

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shade room sounds like verse 48 and sometimes

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i just need to turn down channel turn off the

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channel switch it up okay but I was watching

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a video with JT, the city girl, and she was performing

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in Orlando, Florida, having a concert there.

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But the crowd was just not really reacting to

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anything. They were not giving standing ovations,

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barely clapping their hands. And I think... She's

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really trying to figure out where she stands

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in the music station. She even mentioned the

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fact that, hey, I don't even know if I'm young

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or considered the OG. Like, where do I stand?

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She's 33. Her music has had a diverse to it.

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She went from, you know, being a city girl outside

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to... Dibbing and dabbing in different sounds.

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So she's trying to figure out, am I OG? Am I

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young? What do I do at 33? I think looking for

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club bangers without going extra to the mouth.

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So no need to be a city girl anymore. Just be

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Jateeva. I think she do good beats and all that

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good. good mixes. If I was her, I would just

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keep doing a mix. Like, keep being on remixes.

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Like, that's just me. I'm not the rapper here,

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but I would just keep doing remixes until you

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find your niche, until you really get into the

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flow of where you want to be recognized. Because,

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like she said, she don't know if she's young,

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she don't know if she's old. But from the age,

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girl, I can tell you, you are young. You're getting

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older, but you're young. 33 is young, you're

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just getting older. Figuring out her corral.

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Typically, I'm gonna say age is 25 and up. Because

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after a certain age, you relate to different

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people, different mindsets, it will be 25 and

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up. I think the crowd she had was either younger

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than that, yeah they had to be younger than that,

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because she then brought out an artist called

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YK. So when she brought out the YK artist, everybody

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went crazy. And I know that artist. I know her

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music. So everybody went crazy when she came

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out, but when JT was out there, JT was trying

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to figure out, okay, why is it the crowd not

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giving me any reaction? What are we doing here?

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So, like I said, as a live coach here at Jateeva,

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if you're listening, Jatee, for sure, you need

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to just keep doing remixes, I think, until you

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figure out what your mission is, what are you

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here for when it comes to music again, realigning

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with that, how does the music bring you joy,

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realigning to that. The diversity was fun, but

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now we got to get back to the center of the seed,

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which is you. And that takes a while. That's

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not something that's done overnight. That's something

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you have to, like, focus on yourself, play with

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the music, figure out what's your genre, what's

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your new crowd, how are you going to shift the

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crowd that you do have, shift that audience,

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and see if they agree to what you're doing. But

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first things first, you got to tune in with yourself.

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Tune in with yourself, darling, okay? That's

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the advice that I would like to give JT, because...

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She seems like she's looking for a life coach.

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I'm here. If anybody that's listening and you

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guys know the City Girl JT, just let her know

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I am giving out advice, okay? She just needs

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to focus on herself. That's it. Before she expands

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anymore, get back to the root of the seed and

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focus on yourself. But that was just a little

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something something because I've seen that piece

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of news out there, people. This episode, episode

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81, will be short. We will not have a long episode

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because there's much more shopping I need to

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get done before this wedding anniversary. Yes,

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I have so much to get done. I tried on some outfits

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last night. Now I need to get to the sewing machine

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and adjust the dress. So that's just off topic,

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but heads up. this topic today's show will be

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short. So I'm gonna keep it going. Get ready

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to close up the show because I have a little

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piece of advice to give to you. Yes, I do. Okay.

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Before I give you that piece of advice, I want

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you to know a fun fact that I learned about myself

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this week is I have to continue to be very emotionally

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expressive. Okay, I need to be vocal when it

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comes to my emotions because typically I have

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to keep things to myself and I assume people

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know but they don't and they're not my readers,

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so I Will be more vocal when it comes to just

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being emotionally expressive towards my partner

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my friends my family Vocalizing that hey, I Do

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need you of course I need you You know, you're

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the best, right? I've had fun with you this time.

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You know, different ways. Uh -huh. Yeah, I think

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I gotta keep going. But different ways of being

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emotionally expressive. Because as I see people's

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reactions, they're like, I can't believe you

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said that. I never knew you felt that way. And

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I'm just like, really? You didn't? Oh, well,

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I guess you're not a mind reader. My apologies.

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But yes, it takes me a long way. It gets me far

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if I continue to be emotionally expressive. And

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that's just my goal here. Continue to be emotionally

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expressive. With Sebby in today, people, I'm

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going to shake it up and give you a piece of

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advice and head out of here. Because like I said,

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it's a lovely Wednesday. There's so much more

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to do, so much more to get into. But we'll end

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on that note, OK? So let's do it. It's from your

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favorite life coach here, Cecile. The piece of

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advice that I will give you is this. If you're

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going to overthink, at least overthink all the

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ways it could work out in your favor. Okay? The

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best scenario in every version of your life that

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turns out better than expected. So that's just

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the advice I'm going to give to you. Alright,

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if you're going to overthink, you better overthink

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all the best ways that it can work out in your

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favor. Alright, so with that being said, darling,

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it was fun. It's feeling good. I love it here.

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You love it here. But today was only a short

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episode because your girl got to get back out

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there and it's a lovely Wednesday. So this was

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episode 81 of Shit That's Just Life. You guys

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got a little news out of me. I was able to give

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you some news. But now I must go. Episode 82

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is coming, of course, because we have a wedding

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to get ready for. Well, actually, it's a wedding

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anniversary. So we have one of those to get for,

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get ready for. And I'm going to head out. I have

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a few guests coming on the podcast really soon.

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So stay tuned. Get ready for the guests, of course.

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They'll be coming in the next few episodes. But

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for now, au revoir. I love you. adios it's time

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to go i have to go love you all thank you for

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tuning in god bless prayers and condolences to

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any family out there in need anyone going through

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funeral arrangements people passing away prayers

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and thoughts sent to everyone love you i'm out

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of here bye