Hello, hello, hello. Welcome back. Episode 72,
That's Just Life. Your favorite life coach here
is Cecile. Cecile, yeah. Y 'all, I'm back. I'm
here. I'm ready. England is tearing me up more.
England is showing me different aspects. Nope.
different aspects of life seriously England is
showing me pros and cons you guys but I'm ready
to get started before I go too deep in I hope
you missed me I have missed you let's get into
it episode 72 let's get it started let's get
it started hey Okay, so let me educate you folks
that are listening that have never been to the
UK the United Kingdom Out here in the United
Kingdom out here in England specifically specifically
out here in England age 18 is the age That's
the age everything stops at age 18 meaning or
if not even stops everything starts better off
just saying that one you can start buying liquor
you can start going into the clubs at age 18
now what baffles me is that they do not check
id for anything they say as long as you look
over 18 they're not checking ids now if you ask
me that's a recipe for disaster because i'm like
i've got nieces that look like they over 18 and
they're only 14 but hey this is not my territory
so i am just here to comment but yes age 18 is
where everything just starts like i said you
can be partying alcoholic by that time hey whatever
you want you can do it by the age 18 in england
you know Pros and cons for that, the thing is,
kind of wish they had that in the U .S. somewhere.
But it's okay because I waited. I waited till
I was age 21 to try to get into the clubs. I
wasn't trying to do nothing I didn't need to
do. But I think it's just crazy out here in England
that they stop, that everything starts basically
at age 18 for you to just start to socialize
on a higher level of just adulthood. Imagine
a 32 year old in a club talking to a girl and
she just, she's 18. Mm -mm. Mm -mm. No. No. No.
That is the con. That's the con out here. That's
the... I'm like, no. No. No, no, no, no. The
pros is that yes, we can be young and just...
See what the adult life is, you know, that's
the pros, you know If you're young you just want
to get your foot in the door. I think that's
nice Now the con is just you may meet somebody
that's 40 years old while you're 18 No, mmm.
No, then that's why I say I'm glad to be from
the USA Even though mr. Donnie Trump is just
doing a lot right now. I'm still grateful to
be from the USA because maybe 21 needs to be
age because 18 you can now even spell half the
club's names okay i just think that is so baffling
that they start everything at age 18 like just
social party wise yeah that starts to age 18
okay i don't know people they're very different
out here okay very very different But you all,
I remember telling you guys that my novio, my
boyfriend, Mr. British man, we move around for
work, so I'm able to travel around England while
he's, you know, working. And I am now in a new
part of England called Warwick, England, okay?
Now, with this being in Warwick, England, I have...
we have been presented with an Airbnb for his
work. And I'm telling you, this Airbnb here,
luxury. This Airbnb is so luxury, okay? It's,
the bathroom is just to die for. The space, yes.
The outside, love it. Like, I've been able to
get so much done in this wall work England part
of life. in Warwick, Warwick, England. That part
of the England side of the UK. This is here.
Yes, this is it. Quiet. The neighbors are quiet.
You barely hear anything, you know? You literally
can go out for a walk. You can go to the coffee
shop. I've been Roman, okay? Gracefully. It's
nothing like Birmingham. So, I've just been really
getting out there, stretching my legs out every
morning. It's beautiful. It is beautiful on this
side of town. Doing my content. I was able to
do a lot. Like, baby girl. Lovely. Let's just
round of applause. A round of applause for Warwick
England, okay? Yes. So far, so good. I'm loving
it. Okay, I'm curious to where we're headed next,
but I am embracing Walrick England at the moment.
Just soaking it all in, baby. Yes, soaking it
all in. Mm -hmm, mm -hmm. But I want to get straight
into the agenda, you guys, because I have some
news for you. I have some hot tea party for you,
okay? Yes. So let's switch it over. Let's...
move it on up move it on up i'm just gonna switch
it up here okay so this is gonna be a nice simple
story time your girl was sitting in the lovely
lovely airbnb in walricks england me i am your
girl until i received a disturbing text message
from my british man he tells me that one of his
co -workers threatened to fight him at work.
Now, my darling is a ecologist, okay? So he works
outside in the field. And he doesn't really do
the manual labor. He just, if you google what
an ecologist does, you'll know exactly what he
does, okay? But he's out there with the fellas,
and one of his co -workers threatens to fight
him. And he tells me, you know. Now, because
I'm not fully UK trained, there's a lot of, let's
just say there's 85 % of USA in me still, okay?
Not even 85, 95 % of USA in me still, okay? The
UK has 5 % of me right now. So my 95 % that was
triggered when I got that text message. Like,
it took me back all the way back to my Kansas
City days, you know? I'm a very territorial person.
So when my baby told me that someone threatened
and wanted to have a scuffle with him, they wanted
to scrap, you know, that's what they call it
out here, it's called scrapping, you know? It's
not fighting for the scrap, people, okay? I was
trying to be the bigger person. You know, really,
before I said anything back, but my instant thought
was drop the location. Just drop the location.
That's my instant thought, you know? I'm not
much of a talker, so drop the location. I'll
be there. Do y 'all need, what you need? Because
when I get there, we're not talking. But I had
to be more reasonable, okay? I am a life coach,
so I didn't say it. I thought it, I thought it
for a very long time. But I didn't say it. So
I told my boy, told my lovely darling, hey, get
through your shift and come home. Because at
the end of the day, if I gotta come outside,
there will be no talking, okay? There would be
no talking. There would be no hot tea being served,
okay? There would be fist to the face being served,
USA style. But I didn't do that, okay? Like I
said, you guys have 5 % of me, England, you guys
have 5 % of me. So with that 5%, I inserted my
life coach duties, okay? So I told my babe, hey,
come home after your shift. Focus on getting
through your shift and come home. You still want
your paycheck, you still wanna get your pay,
you know, for your work. And the last thing you
wanna do... is react to someone else being emotional
at work, because my baby is very logical. So
when my baby started pulling out the logic of
the situation, the person got very emotional
and asked, do you want to fight? Or do you know,
let's go right now. So he started threatening
my baby. So like I said, I told my baby to take
a step back, take a breather, count to 10, because
if he don't, I'm on my way. And he counted to
10, you know, he was all right. But you guys,
it took a lot of me not to just search his, you
know, push the find my on my iPhone and just
go up there. You know, it took a lot for me not
to be in my life poach bag. It took a lot for
me to just put that bag right on and just be,
you know. when they go high. I'm sorry, when
we go low, we go high. Yeah, it took a lot. You
know, see, I almost forgot the whole remedy of
what Michelle said because that's how baffling
it was, you know. So I'm glad I was able to dig
into my life coach back and guide him from the
situation. Let him know that your friend is at
home. OK, those are your coworkers. So we'll
deal with that later. So, yeah, you guys. that's
the end of the story somebody somebody had the
audacity to want to scrap what my my english
boyfriend i'm still working on my accent but
they had the audacity to want to fight my english
british lovely boyfriend the audacity the audacity
is all i'm saying but I just wanted to give you
that tea party for today, okay? That hot tea
for today, okay? Today is nothing but a hot tea
party. We will keep indulging. I'm gonna switch
it up here, but I have to let you know what happened
to my British baby, okay? Nobody touched him,
of course not, because he is also half a Zimbabwe,
so. good luck to that participant if he would
have decided to touch my darling and then good
luck to everybody else on the field because then
I would have came out and I'm not going to do
that because I'm a life coach and I am better
than that okay okay okay okay no I'm kidding
but I'm trying here people it takes a lot when
somebody is knocking on my territory let's just
say that all right but we're good here people
let's just switch it up let's bring it back Let's
crank it up, okay? I'm gonna switch it up now.
Our lovely President of the United States has
once again given us an opinion. Specifically
this opinion and this specific insertment is
about Sean Diddy Combs. So I will let you hear
his opinion. I'll let you hear his insight on
the whole Sean Diddy Combs. situation. Let's
just listen up. Sean, did he close with Combs?
Right. Would you consider pardoning him? Well,
he was essentially, I guess, sort of half innocent.
Yes. I don't know what they, still in jail or
something, but he was celebrating a victory,
but he seems, I guess it wasn't as good as a
victory. Probably, you know, I was very friendly
with him. I got along with him great. and seemed
like a nice guy I didn't know him well but when
I ran for office Sean Diddy Combs very hostile
he said some not so nice things about you sir
and it's hard you know like you were human beings
right it and we don't like to have things cloud
our judgment right but when you knew someone
and you were fine and then you run for office
and he made some terrible statements so i don't
know it's it's more difficult it makes it more
i'm being honest it makes it more difficult to
do but more likely a no for combs that sounds
like okay very hostile we'll speak to the doj
i don't know i mean i'd have to speak to the
doj i'll look at it i'll i have a lot of people
have asked me for pardons I call him Puff Daddy
has asked me for a pardon. But she was convicted
of child sex trafficking. Yeah, I mean, I'm going
to have to take a look at it. I have to ask DOJ.
I didn't know they rejected it. I didn't know
she was even asking for it, frankly. Well, you
guys heard the audio of our lovely president
of the United States giving his insight on the
Sean Denny Cohn situation. Of course. They are
officially on day six or seven of that government
shutdown, and he is talking about Sean Diddy
Gold. Okay. Yep. That is just where we are in
life right now, people. Okay? But I did want
you to hear it. See it for yourself. It is all
over the news. Mm -hmm. If you are a social media
person, check on to Instagram, The Shade Room.
You can get all your information from there.
Okay? Multiple platforms. It's just out there.
Yeah. And it's just unfortunate that the government
is still on a shutdown and our lovely president
is talking about Sean Denny Combs. Like, darling,
we have bigger fish to fry. Literally bigger
fish to fry. But hey, got it. We can choose our
battles. So does he. So, yeah, let's shake this
up here. Get off that lovely president and let
him be. All right. So let's shake it up. Let
me introduce you to my next segment, which is
the Show of the Week, people. Let's talk about
That's Just Life Show of the Week that I've been
watching. Darling, let's just get right to it.
Love is Blind Season 9 on Netflix. This show
has had me on my tippy toes all week. literally
been watching this show it's got me all over
the place um seriously i am in a distraught when
i watch this show uh i have to see the the unedited
version of the show i just need to see it i need
to see the unedited version you know the clips
that don't make the show the clips that they
show you maybe at the reunion i'm ready to see
those yeah I need to see what's going on when
the cameras are off or just the unedited version.
Just being honest, that's all I need to know
because the Love is Blind, the castmates this
year on this season right now, not even this
year, on this season nine, the castmates or the
cast members are just very different, okay? Very,
very different. I don't want to... do too much
spoiling but when i tell you season nine of love
is blind is where everybody needs to be parking
their selves and just taking a breather watch
the show watch it watch it watch it okay i'm
ready to comment all the way but i haven't finished
it yet but where we are right now which is me
i am i think i'm on episode uh four five um I'm
already shaking in the boots. Already? Yeah,
I'm already shaking in the boots. I don't want
to say too much, but I do want to tell you guys
to tune in. Please tune in to Love is Blind Season
9. If you are someone that is in a relationship
and you're trying to figure out what can you
watch with your spouse, Love is Blind is it.
Me and my British man watches Love is Blind.
Yes, he's a darling. So he does whatever I say.
No, but seriously, we watch Love is Flying. Typically,
he watches it till he falls asleep. I will still
watch it until I start to gasp more and more
every day, okay? So if I don't find myself going,
then I'm gonna keep watching it. So by the time
I stay, then it's time for me to put the show
down. When I take a huge gasp like that, I definitely
need to put the show down. But I won't ruin too
much and I won't not just overly tell you guys
what's going on. I don't want to do a spoiler
alert. I want you to please, please, please tune
in. Especially if you're struggling trying to
find a good show to just be yourself then and
comment and watch at the same time. Love is blind
season nine. That's it. That is it. These people
are giving you. not even a run for your money,
they're literally giving you a show, okay? Literally.
The season is giving you a shout. Tune in, Love
is Blind, season nine. The only thing I will
say is that I hate the fact that cultures cannot
find one another. Like, I don't hate it that
much, trust me, but. I hate the fact that it's
sometimes right in front of them. The love of
their life is sitting right in front of them
and they just don't want to believe it because
they're within the same culture of them. It's
just like, I think you guys are looking at Instagram
too much. That's just what I'm going to say.
That's the only thing I'm going to say here about
the show. There's no way the love of your life
is sitting right in front of you. You share the
same culture aspects. You share. You're very
relatable on so many levels, but You've watched
too many TVs. You've seen so many things on the
outside world. Now you're just gunplayed on,
this is not my person, even though this sounds
just like my person. Partially because they're
from you where you're from. I've just never heard...
I don't know. I don't know. But I think people
of the same culture, of the same ethnicity, truly
understand each other on a deeper level. And
they know it. And it's just unfortunate that
they're just like, well, I never pictured myself
with a, even though I'm a, even though that's
the same culture, it's just like, geez, Louise,
this is why people stay single. You know what?
But I'm a life coach here. So of course I'm gonna
give you some advice at the end of this episode,
okay? But like I stated, please tune in to the
show of the week, Love is Blind, on Netflix season
nine, because it has me on my tippy toes like
crazy, all right? But I'm gonna get ready to
wrap this up, okay? Because I had a lovely time
chatting with you all, and there's so much more
for me to get out there to learn about. I can
tell you this before I leave this episode and
leave you guys here. I have been using Google
Translate like crazy because my baby not only
is speaking British, not only is speaking English,
my baby could also speak Shana. Now, I can hardly
even read Shana, but I'm trying because I'm determined,
but I'm trying. So I've been using Google Translate
to just talk in Shana. to his family and to him
every morning. So I told him like, hey, if you
talk to me back, I can Google it. Now I'm having
a hard time reading it. And when I have a hard
time reading something, it's even more frustrating.
You know, it's like somebody giving me a cheat
code to something. But yet I fully don't understand
what I'm about to be cheating myself into. So
my next goal here is to be talking in Shauna
and actually reading that bad boy, knowing what
I'm reading. OK. It's gonna be a journey. This
is what people mean when they say they have to
come to America and learn English and they have
a whole other language and it's not that easy
to learn. Now I see exactly what they're saying.
I know exactly what they're saying now. I feel
bad for those people because I'm about to be
one of them, okay? But like I stated, I am determined
because I have nothing but a little free time
here. So I'm like, what the heck? I can learn
a new language. Nobody said it was gonna be this
hard, but now I see. But I can do it. I am very
determined. I will do it every day. I'll do it
slowly but surely because specifically, slow
and steady always wins the race, okay? Always,
slow and steady just always wins the race. And
it always gets us there. And it typically has
the best results when you keep it slow and steady.
So I'm gonna leave you off. What a nice piece
of advice from your favorite life coach here,
okay? Yeah, I'm gonna do that for you, okay?
Piece of advice to my That's Just Life family
here. As you go into the world, never be afraid
to shake up your routine. Because in life, the
routine is being shaken up on you, okay? So don't
be afraid. to shake things up don't be afraid
to stand your ground and in the mix of doing
that always I mean always be prepared to see
why a in other words cover your own ass okay
cover your ass as you get out there and you get
ready to shake up your routine as you get out
there and you get ready to stand your ground
be ready to stand just be ready be ready to cover
your own ass, all right? It was a pleasure, all
right? I missed you all, okay? This is episode
72. This was a lovely, lovely hot tea party,
okay? I must go, I must go into the wind of England.
Of course, I must go into the winds of England.
I am not a singer, I don't even know why I just
did that. but byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee