WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:05.160 Hello, hello, hello I hope you guys miss me because 00:00:05.160 --> 00:00:09.339 I missed y 'all. Mm -hmm. You girl is back I'm 00:00:09.339 --> 00:00:15.300 back. I'm better. I'm ready Welcome back to that's 00:00:15.300 --> 00:00:21.420 just life with your girl Cecile Cecilia I'm outside 00:00:21.420 --> 00:00:26.480 you guys. I am outside I'm in the UK. But today 00:00:26.480 --> 00:00:30.600 you guys I am in Birmingham Yes, yes, yes. Yes. 00:00:30.600 --> 00:00:34.000 Yes. I hope you guys miss me seriously because 00:00:34.000 --> 00:00:38.539 I'm ready to unleash on you episode 71 We're 00:00:38.539 --> 00:00:43.780 here. Mm -hmm. We are here. Okay I'm looking 00:00:43.780 --> 00:00:46.200 out the window while I'm doing this episode because 00:00:46.200 --> 00:00:51.740 the Birmingham side of UK they are a little Let's 00:00:51.740 --> 00:00:54.859 just say they're a little hilarious. Okay You 00:00:54.859 --> 00:01:00.719 guys let me just start with my preview of Birmingham. 00:01:00.719 --> 00:01:02.640 I'm gonna give you my little review on Birmingham. 00:01:03.799 --> 00:01:11.659 I was outside doing a TikTok and one of the drivers 00:01:11.659 --> 00:01:14.980 cars, their car stopped in the middle of the 00:01:14.980 --> 00:01:18.859 road and it was near me in a way, not too close 00:01:18.859 --> 00:01:23.659 but near me. So all the cars behind them is hunk 00:01:23.659 --> 00:01:27.040 of nettle, right? And all you hear is fuck off. 00:01:27.260 --> 00:01:32.200 fuck off oh my goodness like i was just like 00:01:32.200 --> 00:01:37.760 oh my god oh my god oh my god so he's trying 00:01:37.760 --> 00:01:40.840 to tell everybody to go around him right so cars 00:01:40.840 --> 00:01:46.099 start going around him and i guess some pedestrians 00:01:46.099 --> 00:01:48.760 started to actually pull over park their car 00:01:48.760 --> 00:01:51.920 and try to help him pull his car over to the 00:01:51.920 --> 00:01:54.260 side of the road because mind you he was in the 00:01:54.260 --> 00:02:02.459 middle of the road In the midst of that, somebody 00:02:02.459 --> 00:02:07.099 came up to me. Yeah, one of the UK citizens started 00:02:07.099 --> 00:02:12.020 to come up to me. And just off the bat, once 00:02:12.020 --> 00:02:15.300 I see this UK citizen approaching me, I mean 00:02:15.300 --> 00:02:18.979 getting closer than close, my Kansas City side 00:02:18.979 --> 00:02:21.560 started to come out. Like yo, back the fuck up, 00:02:21.819 --> 00:02:23.819 whatever you gotta say, say it, but back the 00:02:23.819 --> 00:02:27.099 fuck up. okay my brain said that i didn't say 00:02:27.099 --> 00:02:29.439 it but my brain went straight to kansas city 00:02:29.439 --> 00:02:32.900 yo back the fuck up okay that's what i was thinking 00:02:32.900 --> 00:02:37.580 so he's like um don't be recording my friend 00:02:37.580 --> 00:02:39.740 we're trying to help him don't be recording my 00:02:39.740 --> 00:02:42.460 friend i said nobody's recording your friend 00:02:42.460 --> 00:02:44.900 back up at the end of the day i don't even have 00:02:44.900 --> 00:02:47.020 to show you my phone because i'm about to punch 00:02:47.020 --> 00:02:52.539 you is what i said um back up yeah he got too 00:02:52.539 --> 00:02:56.080 close like I've been noticing that out here in 00:02:56.080 --> 00:03:00.319 the UK. This is my second time a UK citizen has 00:03:00.319 --> 00:03:03.620 walked up on me and not been three feet. Like 00:03:03.620 --> 00:03:07.699 they are almost in my face, you know? I don't 00:03:07.699 --> 00:03:10.699 deal with that. Not will, at least. I don't play 00:03:10.699 --> 00:03:14.639 that. No, no, no, no. That's not my to -go -to 00:03:14.639 --> 00:03:17.460 method when needing to approach somebody. I don't 00:03:17.460 --> 00:03:19.939 go all up in their personal space. He was all 00:03:19.939 --> 00:03:22.879 up in my personal space. Almost call my man right 00:03:22.879 --> 00:03:25.819 in the air. Because if I call my man, he's gonna 00:03:25.819 --> 00:03:27.479 bring his British side out here and it's not 00:03:27.479 --> 00:03:31.240 gonna be pretty. Okay? So I had to explain to 00:03:31.240 --> 00:03:34.539 him. I said, yo, back up. I don't need you to 00:03:34.539 --> 00:03:36.479 come up to me. Nobody's recording your friend. 00:03:36.620 --> 00:03:38.500 That's on you if you're assuming that I'm doing 00:03:38.500 --> 00:03:41.719 so. And he noticed the camera was looking at 00:03:41.719 --> 00:03:44.719 him. So he's like, but you are recording. I can 00:03:44.719 --> 00:03:48.479 even see me. Well, clearly you're old, sir, because 00:03:48.479 --> 00:03:51.840 this is a camera. What does a camera do? It reflects 00:03:51.840 --> 00:03:54.610 what it sees. So I said, no, no, no, this is 00:03:54.610 --> 00:03:57.069 a camera. You see, it sees you and it sees me. 00:03:57.490 --> 00:04:01.069 So he's like, oh, okay. Yeah, just back up though, 00:04:01.129 --> 00:04:04.009 okay? You do not have to get into my personal 00:04:04.009 --> 00:04:08.530 space to understand what I'm doing and get out 00:04:08.530 --> 00:04:10.810 your own self -centered way to think that I'm 00:04:10.810 --> 00:04:13.150 out here recording you guys. You're not even 00:04:13.150 --> 00:04:16.050 doing anything great, okay? You're literally 00:04:16.050 --> 00:04:18.470 moving a car from the middle of the road to the 00:04:18.470 --> 00:04:23.019 side of the road. The audacity. to be walking 00:04:23.019 --> 00:04:26.040 up to somebody like that. I'm like, you're lucky 00:04:26.040 --> 00:04:29.399 you are in the UK. I said, yo, back up. I'm an 00:04:29.399 --> 00:04:31.819 American citizen. I'm about to do things that 00:04:31.819 --> 00:04:34.819 you probably would think was unspeakable. Back 00:04:34.819 --> 00:04:40.000 up. OK? He backed up. OK? I don't like people 00:04:40.000 --> 00:04:41.740 all up in my personal space like that. Like, 00:04:42.360 --> 00:04:45.240 I love people. Just don't be in my personal space. 00:04:45.560 --> 00:04:48.420 You know? Give me six feet. Because I can hear 00:04:48.420 --> 00:04:50.980 you loud and clear, but do not come up to me 00:04:50.980 --> 00:04:53.519 like that. Like, I don't know. Like, what the 00:04:53.519 --> 00:04:56.860 hell? What the hell? What the hellie? What the 00:04:56.860 --> 00:05:02.220 hellie? Yeah. They had me messed up. But that's 00:05:02.220 --> 00:05:04.360 just one part of Birmingham, you know? That's 00:05:04.360 --> 00:05:08.680 just the little thin streets here. And don't 00:05:08.680 --> 00:05:11.560 forget, you guys, Birmingham is not far from 00:05:11.560 --> 00:05:15.180 London, all right? People are getting a little 00:05:15.180 --> 00:05:18.250 more cruel. I'm kidding. No, they're just a little 00:05:18.250 --> 00:05:21.649 more outspoken in Birmingham. I can say that. 00:05:21.649 --> 00:05:24.149 They're a lot more outspoken, and that's okay. 00:05:24.709 --> 00:05:30.509 So am I, okay? So, episode 71, let's get started. 00:05:31.189 --> 00:05:34.810 I missed y 'all, seriously, need a vent, need 00:05:34.810 --> 00:05:37.449 to get into it. I know you guys been watching 00:05:37.449 --> 00:05:40.310 the news, because I know I have catching up on 00:05:40.310 --> 00:05:42.819 everything, like everything. But let's get started. 00:05:43.300 --> 00:05:45.740 Episode 71. That's Just Life. Your favorite life 00:05:45.740 --> 00:05:49.680 coach is here. Let's get it started. Let's get 00:05:49.680 --> 00:06:03.240 it started. So, of course, since it's my pod, 00:06:03.459 --> 00:06:08.139 I will start with my life update. I can say that 00:06:08.139 --> 00:06:10.800 I am in Birmingham. The British man has brought 00:06:10.800 --> 00:06:15.399 me to Birmingham. okay so my british man he moves 00:06:15.399 --> 00:06:19.439 around for work and that's where i am doing as 00:06:19.439 --> 00:06:22.079 well now when he's at work i am out exploring 00:06:22.079 --> 00:06:25.740 birmingham now i can't explore birmingham too 00:06:25.740 --> 00:06:29.240 much without my man because these folks are different 00:06:29.240 --> 00:06:32.339 i'm telling you i think somebody broke their 00:06:32.339 --> 00:06:34.579 glass window recently right across the street 00:06:34.579 --> 00:06:37.019 i'm like wait a minute when i first came over 00:06:37.019 --> 00:06:41.120 here that was a full window now it is broken 00:06:41.519 --> 00:06:44.540 Hope nobody just threw a rock up there. You know 00:06:44.540 --> 00:06:47.939 what? I'm gonna hope they got some Plastic bags 00:06:47.939 --> 00:06:50.139 or something to cover that window because that's 00:06:50.139 --> 00:06:56.420 great. Okay but outside of that you guys I Have 00:06:56.420 --> 00:07:00.259 just been enjoying my man's company like truly 00:07:00.259 --> 00:07:05.019 Now that my menstrual is over because baby my 00:07:05.019 --> 00:07:08.889 menstrual in those hormones We did not love on 00:07:08.889 --> 00:07:13.089 my man properly, okay? I was trying, holding 00:07:13.089 --> 00:07:15.649 on for their life, but he got through it, so 00:07:15.649 --> 00:07:20.430 did I. But yeah, it was a rollercoaster. Baby, 00:07:20.689 --> 00:07:23.009 I will not lie to you, it was a rollercoaster. 00:07:23.850 --> 00:07:26.750 These new hormones that I'm getting, partially 00:07:26.750 --> 00:07:30.870 because I am on birth control now, these hormones 00:07:30.870 --> 00:07:33.889 are different, baby. They're smacking you in 00:07:33.889 --> 00:07:36.819 the face. I don't even know why, like Sharkeisha, 00:07:36.860 --> 00:07:40.420 it's coming out of nowhere. Like babe, I wasn't 00:07:40.420 --> 00:07:43.500 even ready for that. You know, it's just coming 00:07:43.500 --> 00:07:46.120 out of nowhere. I'm telling you, that's just 00:07:46.120 --> 00:07:49.860 how the hormones are hitting me. But I've officially 00:07:49.860 --> 00:07:52.839 got through those hormones and your girl is back 00:07:52.839 --> 00:07:57.660 and better, okay? But let me tell you, I watch 00:07:57.660 --> 00:08:01.819 my man get ready for work all the time. And when 00:08:01.819 --> 00:08:05.410 I tell you when he's leaving, I'm just like, 00:08:05.670 --> 00:08:09.529 oh my God, I just love a man in a suit. Like, 00:08:09.529 --> 00:08:12.370 it's not even a suit. Let me just be honest. 00:08:12.990 --> 00:08:18.250 A man in a uniform. I love it. I love it. I love 00:08:18.250 --> 00:08:21.970 it, okay? I see this man in his work uniform 00:08:21.970 --> 00:08:25.709 and it drives me a little cuckoo. I'm like, I 00:08:25.709 --> 00:08:27.069 don't think you need to go to work. Just come 00:08:27.069 --> 00:08:31.930 back in the house. You can work on me. Love my 00:08:31.930 --> 00:08:35.769 man in a uniform. okay love amen in the uniform 00:08:35.769 --> 00:08:41.750 it just it gets me going okay but outside of 00:08:41.750 --> 00:08:44.809 that like i said we're moving around in birmingham 00:08:44.809 --> 00:08:49.669 i'm able to really dive into birmingham like 00:08:49.669 --> 00:08:54.889 there's a lot of black artists out here hairstylists 00:08:54.889 --> 00:08:58.470 you name it um lash text so your girl's about 00:08:58.470 --> 00:09:01.110 to go explore on that one and see how things 00:09:01.110 --> 00:09:05.960 are moving I want to see what they have to offer, 00:09:05.960 --> 00:09:10.360 you know? Because if I can find something good, 00:09:10.740 --> 00:09:14.600 I think I can find my man another barber. Because, 00:09:14.679 --> 00:09:16.799 baby, we're not traveling back and forth to get 00:09:16.799 --> 00:09:18.720 to his barber. No, no, no, no. We're just going 00:09:18.720 --> 00:09:22.340 to find a lovely barber here, hook him up, do 00:09:22.340 --> 00:09:24.639 it right, and we're going to be all about our 00:09:24.639 --> 00:09:29.179 day. But, I am slowly learning when it comes 00:09:29.179 --> 00:09:32.139 to being in this lovely relationship with my 00:09:32.139 --> 00:09:38.019 darling. Communication is not just the key, but 00:09:38.019 --> 00:09:42.679 keeping God aligned in our relationship. So whenever 00:09:42.679 --> 00:09:45.879 we have a problem, you go pray, I go pray. Okay? 00:09:46.440 --> 00:09:49.460 We're keeping God's center front of this relationship. 00:09:49.720 --> 00:09:52.840 God is right in the middle, main person. Yeah, 00:09:52.940 --> 00:09:56.059 we're praying so much. It's crazy, but it feels 00:09:56.059 --> 00:09:59.139 good because at the end of the day, God put us 00:09:59.139 --> 00:10:02.460 together. So why not let the King navigate us 00:10:02.460 --> 00:10:06.480 through? Okay, so we're literally praying more 00:10:06.480 --> 00:10:09.539 than ever. We're grateful for that. We are not 00:10:09.539 --> 00:10:13.590 ashamed of that, not whatsoever, but yeah. That's 00:10:13.590 --> 00:10:16.769 just my, my little life update. Being in Birmingham 00:10:16.769 --> 00:10:19.669 right now. Learning to communicate with my man. 00:10:20.330 --> 00:10:22.210 Learning that he doesn't know how to stay up 00:10:22.210 --> 00:10:24.730 for a movie to save his life. Like he will ask 00:10:24.730 --> 00:10:27.350 for a movie date. I'll give him a movie date. 00:10:28.289 --> 00:10:31.990 Let's say an hour in. He's locked out. It's not 00:10:31.990 --> 00:10:35.230 even a full hour. 45 minutes in, all you hear 00:10:35.230 --> 00:10:39.370 is... I'm like, oh my goodness. Oh my goodness. 00:10:39.549 --> 00:10:41.620 This has to be a joke. I thought I was supposed 00:10:41.620 --> 00:10:44.039 to be the one falling asleep, but no. Apparently 00:10:44.039 --> 00:10:48.340 it is him. Step. We're gonna do this movie day 00:10:48.340 --> 00:10:52.559 thing again. And this time I'm gonna make sure 00:10:52.559 --> 00:10:55.080 we watch the movie as soon as he walks in the 00:10:55.080 --> 00:10:57.320 door. Okay? Because I don't know what to do anymore. 00:10:58.240 --> 00:11:01.860 I'm trying to continue embossing from the house. 00:11:02.039 --> 00:11:04.259 as well as blossom on the outside because we 00:11:04.259 --> 00:11:07.799 go out for dinners and all that um but it's our 00:11:07.799 --> 00:11:09.940 movie days that i really enjoy but it's hard 00:11:09.940 --> 00:11:13.480 to enjoy him when he falls asleep dang and then 00:11:13.480 --> 00:11:15.620 he think i can't he thinks i won't watch the 00:11:15.620 --> 00:11:18.620 movie without him and i always do i end up finishing 00:11:18.620 --> 00:11:20.840 the movie and then i just have to run it back 00:11:20.840 --> 00:11:23.899 when he gets when he gets back but i'm okay with 00:11:23.899 --> 00:11:26.480 that i'm okay with watching something twice especially 00:11:26.480 --> 00:11:29.610 when i've already seen it so that's just my life 00:11:29.610 --> 00:11:34.509 update you guys movie nights are going a scale 00:11:34.509 --> 00:11:39.970 of one to ten movie night is a good eight okay 00:11:39.970 --> 00:11:43.070 and that's not horrible all right we also went 00:11:43.070 --> 00:11:46.389 to a place called rodeo barbecue and it was a 00:11:46.389 --> 00:11:50.029 bar so it wasn't even a full bar it's actually 00:11:50.029 --> 00:11:53.870 a full like little rodeo um they had their bar 00:11:53.870 --> 00:11:58.590 there they had lovely food he had some homemade 00:11:58.590 --> 00:12:03.049 tacos for the first time he's never had those 00:12:03.049 --> 00:12:07.509 like he was just like oh my days this is lovely 00:12:07.509 --> 00:12:11.690 so my baby had some homemade tacos for the first 00:12:11.690 --> 00:12:15.129 time so i was like okay if you like those wait 00:12:15.129 --> 00:12:19.049 till you taste my meatloaf okay but you guys 00:12:19.049 --> 00:12:22.149 that's just my little life update life is going 00:12:22.149 --> 00:12:25.090 pretty well for me um i'm just navigating every 00:12:25.090 --> 00:12:28.639 day knocking on my YouTube channel every day, 00:12:28.940 --> 00:12:31.759 mm -hmm, doing my TikToks, talking to you guys 00:12:31.759 --> 00:12:35.179 on my podcast, getting to know the UK citizens 00:12:35.179 --> 00:12:38.940 when they're not upset, of course, okay. But 00:12:38.940 --> 00:12:43.879 yes, outside of that, we went to the marina and 00:12:43.879 --> 00:12:46.059 basically we were able to see all the boats, 00:12:46.440 --> 00:12:52.360 all the different canoes and all that. Some of 00:12:52.360 --> 00:12:55.820 those people had a yacht. out there so yeah i 00:12:55.820 --> 00:12:59.179 went to the marina out here it was pretty good 00:12:59.179 --> 00:13:03.019 um life is going great actually when you think 00:13:03.019 --> 00:13:06.820 about it but no yeah that's just a little life 00:13:06.820 --> 00:13:09.179 update going to the marina was lovely get to 00:13:09.179 --> 00:13:13.059 see the boats and stuff uh then we went to a 00:13:13.059 --> 00:13:16.500 beach yeah i didn't even know the uk had beaches 00:13:16.500 --> 00:13:19.340 that close but they do we went to the beach i'm 00:13:19.340 --> 00:13:23.909 talking about the view was spectacular Very spectacular 00:13:23.909 --> 00:13:27.850 impeccable, babe. I love a good view of just 00:13:27.850 --> 00:13:31.429 nothing but blue water Okay, so that was very 00:13:31.429 --> 00:13:35.149 beautiful. It was very romantic Yeah, we're out 00:13:35.149 --> 00:13:38.470 here living life being romances. Yeah, I love 00:13:38.470 --> 00:13:42.450 it, but Let's move on cuz I just wanted to give 00:13:42.450 --> 00:13:45.149 you guys a little life update for you girl. Life 00:13:45.149 --> 00:13:48.389 is going good I'm getting out here the UK. I 00:13:48.389 --> 00:13:54.240 think I've hit three places already Sheffield 00:13:54.240 --> 00:13:56.820 Middlesburg And now I'm in Birmingham, so I've 00:13:56.820 --> 00:13:58.879 been to three different spots out here and we're 00:13:58.879 --> 00:14:00.799 not gonna stop there trust We're just gonna keep 00:14:00.799 --> 00:14:03.480 going and I'll be keep going myself. I'm ready 00:14:03.480 --> 00:14:06.179 to go shopping in Birmingham though So that's 00:14:06.179 --> 00:14:07.799 coming next I'll show you about that journey 00:14:07.799 --> 00:14:09.700 when it happens because that's coming next sometime 00:14:09.700 --> 00:14:12.080 this week. I'll be going shopping in Birmingham 00:14:12.080 --> 00:14:14.639 Okay, gotta see what the clothes is looking for 00:14:14.639 --> 00:14:17.620 looking like what are the shoes hitting on? Do 00:14:17.620 --> 00:14:20.629 we got the shoes people? I need to know Your 00:14:20.629 --> 00:14:24.429 girl needs to know. Okay? But let's move on. 00:14:25.370 --> 00:14:28.250 Because the U .S., where I am from, where I'm 00:14:28.250 --> 00:14:31.409 originally born from, is going through some things. 00:14:31.529 --> 00:14:34.149 So let's talk about that, people. Let's move 00:14:34.149 --> 00:14:39.730 right along, okay? Let's move right along. Okay, 00:14:40.169 --> 00:14:45.610 now considering I am a governed civilian, civilian 00:14:45.610 --> 00:14:48.830 governor, yeah. So I used to be a government 00:14:48.830 --> 00:14:52.529 worker, so I'm now a government civilian. That's 00:14:52.529 --> 00:14:55.610 what I'm going to call myself. Basically, I'm 00:14:55.610 --> 00:14:57.330 going to report to you guys what I know what's 00:14:57.330 --> 00:15:01.850 going on. Of course I do. So recently, you guys, 00:15:01.889 --> 00:15:04.090 I'm not sure if you heard, this was just, what, 00:15:04.330 --> 00:15:07.269 last night? Or just, I got the news this morning 00:15:07.269 --> 00:15:10.250 because I'm in the UK, of course. But the US 00:15:10.250 --> 00:15:15.659 government has now shut down, you guys. Basically, 00:15:15.919 --> 00:15:18.580 as senators have failed to pass the last -minute 00:15:18.580 --> 00:15:22.159 funding bill, basically, you guys, they had to 00:15:22.159 --> 00:15:26.019 do a shutdown. The shutdown, the first one, was 00:15:26.019 --> 00:15:30.580 the first shutdown since 2018 -2019, basically. 00:15:31.480 --> 00:15:35.759 And our lovely President Donald Trump threatens 00:15:35.759 --> 00:15:41.720 a mass, irreversible firing of the federal workers 00:15:41.720 --> 00:15:46.429 under a shutdown. Basically, the incisional workers 00:15:46.429 --> 00:15:55.190 will have to continue to work as normal, some 00:15:55.190 --> 00:15:58.590 without pay, but other government employees are 00:15:58.590 --> 00:16:03.230 now on unpaid leave. And that's just not fun. 00:16:03.309 --> 00:16:08.590 Trust me. I don't work for nothing. So I can 00:16:08.590 --> 00:16:10.870 guarantee you, they don't want to work for nothing. 00:16:11.070 --> 00:16:13.240 Okay? No pay. They definitely don't want to work 00:16:13.240 --> 00:16:18.059 on their own unpaid leave. Like, unpaid leave. 00:16:18.200 --> 00:16:19.919 It's just, it's all right there. Nobody wants 00:16:19.919 --> 00:16:23.059 to work for nothing, like I said. Basically, 00:16:23.799 --> 00:16:28.539 Republican Senator John says the party won't 00:16:28.539 --> 00:16:33.440 be taking hostage, while the Senate Democrat, 00:16:33.860 --> 00:16:37.620 which is Chuck Schumer, says the Republicans 00:16:37.620 --> 00:16:42.139 tell lies. So... You know, that's just how it 00:16:42.139 --> 00:16:47.159 starts. It's just both of the members of the 00:16:47.159 --> 00:16:51.039 parties are lying on the blame of one another. 00:16:51.480 --> 00:16:53.179 So they're just playing the blame game right 00:16:53.179 --> 00:16:58.039 now. It's just really looking crazy. I feel for 00:16:58.039 --> 00:17:02.039 all the government workers that are there. I'm 00:17:02.039 --> 00:17:08.130 a government civilian. So I do not Engage with 00:17:08.130 --> 00:17:12.970 him anymore. Not like that. I do have a few Colleagues 00:17:12.970 --> 00:17:16.069 that I am good friends with because they are 00:17:16.069 --> 00:17:19.549 past colleagues So yeah, I will be checking up 00:17:19.549 --> 00:17:24.450 on some people because this is crazy um When 00:17:24.450 --> 00:17:27.809 I was there the bill was barely getting passed 00:17:27.809 --> 00:17:30.869 and it was like about a grace of God that You 00:17:30.869 --> 00:17:32.589 would wake up and then it was like up no shut 00:17:32.589 --> 00:17:36.329 down. It's like, okay Well, thank you, but it 00:17:36.329 --> 00:17:39.069 was just too it was too rocky for me to stay 00:17:39.069 --> 00:17:41.690 You never know what you're gonna wake up to is 00:17:41.690 --> 00:17:44.509 literally living in the uncertainty and I'm already 00:17:44.509 --> 00:17:48.329 doing that as I live life So I didn't need to 00:17:48.329 --> 00:17:54.130 do that with the government job considering My 00:17:54.130 --> 00:17:57.809 president may or may not care. So I just needed 00:17:57.809 --> 00:18:01.680 to back away from my personal self And now I 00:18:01.680 --> 00:18:04.859 see that it's official. Yeah, it's an official 00:18:04.859 --> 00:18:09.140 government shutdown. And it's the first one in 00:18:09.140 --> 00:18:15.519 the last six years. So I really think that they 00:18:15.519 --> 00:18:17.039 should just stop playing the blame game. Let's 00:18:17.039 --> 00:18:19.640 just get to it. That's it. Let's just stop playing 00:18:19.640 --> 00:18:22.900 the blame game. We already know exactly what 00:18:22.900 --> 00:18:26.079 it is. A lot of Republicans are scared of their 00:18:26.079 --> 00:18:30.349 own person that they... basically called for 00:18:30.349 --> 00:18:33.970 her to become president. So it's, yeah, it's 00:18:33.970 --> 00:18:37.569 a lot. So I don't know how they're gonna really 00:18:37.569 --> 00:18:41.890 fix this one up here, rational, be very rational 00:18:41.890 --> 00:18:45.609 about things this time around. Yeah, he's going 00:18:45.609 --> 00:18:47.650 above and beyond and it's just really affecting 00:18:47.650 --> 00:18:49.869 a lot of employees, federal employees, and I 00:18:49.869 --> 00:18:52.630 just feel sorry for them. I'm sending my condolences. 00:18:52.789 --> 00:18:54.950 They're not dead, but just let them know that 00:18:54.950 --> 00:18:57.950 they can get through this. Yeah, this just got 00:18:57.950 --> 00:19:00.309 to be very disturbing. It's very, very, very, 00:19:00.309 --> 00:19:03.410 very disturbing. I'm grateful to be in England, 00:19:03.829 --> 00:19:05.990 though, at the moment. That's just what it is. 00:19:06.289 --> 00:19:10.289 No. Grateful. Yep. I was jumping ship for a reason. 00:19:10.710 --> 00:19:14.630 I seen that ship sinking. Mm -hmm. Mm -hmm. It 00:19:14.630 --> 00:19:16.990 was a tight ship that was sinking, so I had to 00:19:16.990 --> 00:19:20.329 get out of there. Yeah. Mm -hmm. But that's all 00:19:20.329 --> 00:19:23.609 I want to give on the government shutdown. Never 00:19:23.609 --> 00:19:26.509 know who's listening because if he is, he's still 00:19:26.509 --> 00:19:28.509 a lovely president, of course. It's just unfortunate 00:19:28.509 --> 00:19:31.789 that we had to get through a shutdown. Right. 00:19:32.410 --> 00:19:34.809 The people that are actually working there has 00:19:34.809 --> 00:19:36.089 to figure out where they're going to get their 00:19:36.089 --> 00:19:39.569 next paycheck after they didn't put in 80 hours 00:19:39.569 --> 00:19:43.809 and some putting in five years, 10 years worth 00:19:43.809 --> 00:19:47.049 of service. You know, it's unfortunate how you 00:19:47.049 --> 00:19:49.069 get treated after putting in so much time of 00:19:49.069 --> 00:19:52.789 service. Very unfortunate. But, like I said, 00:19:53.069 --> 00:19:55.670 that's all I wanted to give on the U .S. government 00:19:55.670 --> 00:19:58.930 shutdown. That's all I wanted to give. I'm gonna 00:19:58.930 --> 00:20:02.910 move right along now. Mm -hmm. U .S. shutting 00:20:02.910 --> 00:20:06.529 down. That government shutdown, I'm just kind 00:20:06.529 --> 00:20:08.230 of not surprised, but that's all I'm gonna say. 00:20:08.809 --> 00:20:11.289 That's all I'm gonna say, okay? Yes, I still 00:20:11.289 --> 00:20:15.670 love my government. I'm just very saddened that 00:20:15.670 --> 00:20:18.089 a lot of civilians, a lot of government workers 00:20:18.089 --> 00:20:20.930 are going through this. because it's going to 00:20:20.930 --> 00:20:23.289 be affecting the civilians as well. If you guys 00:20:23.289 --> 00:20:26.809 don't know, you will be knowing. You might not 00:20:26.809 --> 00:20:28.970 know until it hits your front door, but it's 00:20:28.970 --> 00:20:30.730 going to affect you guys as well. So we're going 00:20:30.730 --> 00:20:33.670 to hope that they come together quick, fast, 00:20:33.710 --> 00:20:36.589 in a hurry before it starts to actually affect 00:20:36.589 --> 00:20:40.589 the other civilians, hoping that the government 00:20:40.589 --> 00:20:43.589 workers, by the grace of God, have a backup plan, 00:20:43.910 --> 00:20:46.470 because not everybody has that. Not everybody 00:20:46.470 --> 00:20:50.589 is blessed with a backup plan to keep going so 00:20:50.589 --> 00:20:53.930 that's like i said i'm done talk about it i'm 00:20:53.930 --> 00:20:56.789 gonna move right along here next thing on my 00:20:56.789 --> 00:21:00.609 agenda let's get right along let's just move 00:21:00.609 --> 00:21:04.869 it baby let's move it okay so the next thing 00:21:04.869 --> 00:21:07.269 on my agenda here you guys i'm gonna do a movie 00:21:07.269 --> 00:21:09.849 review i'm gonna pray that my boyfriend doesn't 00:21:09.849 --> 00:21:12.109 listen to this episode so after we finish the 00:21:12.109 --> 00:21:15.089 movie together because i watched it without him 00:21:15.089 --> 00:21:18.299 so love you babe but we will watch the movie 00:21:18.299 --> 00:21:23.359 together of course so the movie was called the 00:21:23.359 --> 00:21:26.359 girlfriend that's what the movie is called it's 00:21:26.359 --> 00:21:30.220 on prime it's called the girlfriend and let me 00:21:30.220 --> 00:21:32.559 tell you this i don't even want to be a spoiler 00:21:32.559 --> 00:21:36.099 but let me tell you this they were one in the 00:21:36.099 --> 00:21:39.859 same the two characters mom and the girlfriend 00:21:39.859 --> 00:21:44.039 to me were just one in the same mom knew more 00:21:44.039 --> 00:21:48.339 of course but also There was a lot of substantial 00:21:48.339 --> 00:21:50.759 evidence to kind of back up what the girlfriend 00:21:50.759 --> 00:21:54.619 was doing, you know So I was kind of like, okay, 00:21:54.740 --> 00:21:57.420 I can see that I can foresee that I don't know 00:21:57.420 --> 00:22:00.319 why she's tripping I can foresee this being a 00:22:00.319 --> 00:22:05.079 legitimate situation That movie was so good Okay, 00:22:05.099 --> 00:22:07.599 you guys I need you guys to tune in to that movie. 00:22:07.599 --> 00:22:11.779 It literally had me on edge Probably one of the 00:22:11.779 --> 00:22:14.140 best movies. I'm literally gonna look for another 00:22:14.140 --> 00:22:17.869 movie tonight on prime but that movie the girlfriend 00:22:17.869 --> 00:22:22.150 oh wait hmm yes yes yes tap into it you guys 00:22:22.150 --> 00:22:26.769 go on prime look into the girlfriend because 00:22:26.769 --> 00:22:30.369 that movie had me up all night i think it's six 00:22:30.369 --> 00:22:34.109 episodes worth it that's what i want to let you 00:22:34.109 --> 00:22:36.990 know for sure that bad boy was worth it six episodes 00:22:36.990 --> 00:22:41.849 was worth it um so tune in to that movie you 00:22:41.849 --> 00:22:45.130 guys Don't mind me pushing buttons in the back. 00:22:45.130 --> 00:22:51.150 I'm just cooking, okay? But yes, so your mommy's 00:22:51.150 --> 00:22:53.109 coming home, so you don't need to be coming home 00:22:53.109 --> 00:22:55.190 to an empty stomach. Gotta get the food going. 00:22:55.650 --> 00:22:59.589 So yes, but I got a pod too. So yeah, I'm a cold, 00:23:00.049 --> 00:23:03.289 cold multitasker. But you guys tune in to The 00:23:03.289 --> 00:23:05.549 Girlfriend on Prime. I don't want to do a spoiler 00:23:05.549 --> 00:23:07.809 alert on that whole thing. I just wanted to give 00:23:07.809 --> 00:23:09.569 you a preview, let you know which movie I've 00:23:09.569 --> 00:23:12.970 been watching. The Girlfriend on Prime. Tune 00:23:12.970 --> 00:23:16.089 into it, okay? I needed a good movie. I've been 00:23:16.089 --> 00:23:18.650 watching my reality TV shows and that stuff is 00:23:18.650 --> 00:23:20.890 good too, but it's nothing like sitting down 00:23:20.890 --> 00:23:24.509 and watching a good movie. Tune into The Girlfriend 00:23:24.509 --> 00:23:29.549 on Prime, Amazon Prime, for sure, okay? Now, 00:23:30.109 --> 00:23:34.369 that was just one part of the segment. You know, 00:23:35.109 --> 00:23:37.170 I'm gonna move right along because I've done 00:23:37.170 --> 00:23:41.289 my movie review. Yes. but don't don't play with 00:23:41.289 --> 00:23:44.809 me actually go watch the movie if you need to 00:23:44.809 --> 00:23:46.289 leave a comment after you watched it do what 00:23:46.289 --> 00:23:48.950 you gotta do but go watch the movie but alright 00:23:48.950 --> 00:23:51.430 I'm gonna move on alright just go watch that 00:23:51.430 --> 00:23:56.509 movie the girlfriend on Amazon prom okay okay 00:23:56.509 --> 00:24:00.230 you guys now that you've listened to my movie 00:24:00.230 --> 00:24:03.950 review I want to speak about wanting more in 00:24:03.950 --> 00:24:07.579 life you know No matter what we go through in 00:24:07.579 --> 00:24:11.299 life and as blessed as we are to have family, 00:24:12.140 --> 00:24:17.200 boyfriends, husbands, careers, being an entrepreneur, 00:24:17.980 --> 00:24:23.460 it's okay to want more. Especially when you're 00:24:23.460 --> 00:24:27.619 a particular person, you have a particular vision, 00:24:27.680 --> 00:24:30.839 a specific vision for yourself, it is definitely 00:24:30.839 --> 00:24:33.779 okay to want more. That's what I'm learning from 00:24:33.779 --> 00:24:37.559 myself here. Wanting more has nothing to do with 00:24:37.559 --> 00:24:41.039 being ungrateful. It just means that you know 00:24:41.039 --> 00:24:44.359 that you Can reach for the stars and actually 00:24:44.359 --> 00:24:49.779 get there? Okay, so I am wanting more in my life. 00:24:50.119 --> 00:24:55.539 Okay, I Am telling my boyfriend I want more He 00:24:55.539 --> 00:24:58.680 is understanding that I want more I am deserving 00:24:58.680 --> 00:25:02.339 of more and it's just saying it first. Hey, I 00:25:02.339 --> 00:25:06.089 want more Second thing second is going towards 00:25:06.089 --> 00:25:11.509 that more, you know? No hard feelings, but as 00:25:11.509 --> 00:25:15.250 I get older, as I notice my older siblings wanting 00:25:15.250 --> 00:25:19.410 more, it's not a bad thing at all to communicate 00:25:19.410 --> 00:25:21.710 to the next person that you want more, that you 00:25:21.710 --> 00:25:24.970 deserve more. And it's not eliminating their 00:25:24.970 --> 00:25:27.069 position or their role in life. It's just letting 00:25:27.069 --> 00:25:30.930 them know, hey, now that we have this, I also 00:25:30.930 --> 00:25:33.799 can foresee us going here. or even just if it's 00:25:33.799 --> 00:25:36.640 a personal goal. Now that I have this, I can 00:25:36.640 --> 00:25:39.940 foresee myself going here as well. You know, 00:25:40.380 --> 00:25:43.339 never try to dim your own light. Keep in mind 00:25:43.339 --> 00:25:46.200 wanting more is just preparing for the future 00:25:46.200 --> 00:25:49.480 in different ways, you know? And I confidently 00:25:49.480 --> 00:25:53.279 can say that, okay? Your girl wants more. You 00:25:53.279 --> 00:25:56.539 know, I'm out here in England. I'm officially 00:25:56.539 --> 00:25:59.839 retired at 27 from the corporate world, so that's 00:25:59.839 --> 00:26:03.579 lovely. I have my lovely partner, but I will 00:26:03.579 --> 00:26:09.119 love more. I want more, okay? So, with this episode, 00:26:09.160 --> 00:26:11.720 you guys, I just wanted to let you know, as a 00:26:11.720 --> 00:26:14.440 life coach, it's totally okay to see and want 00:26:14.440 --> 00:26:17.740 more. You know, I know my man wants more, so 00:26:17.740 --> 00:26:20.039 that's why I'm over here cooking and TikToking, 00:26:20.380 --> 00:26:23.980 cooking, TikToking, doing my pod, multitasking. 00:26:24.119 --> 00:26:26.619 But as a woman, I can do that. There's nothing 00:26:26.619 --> 00:26:29.539 for me to juggle things, and I actually do love. 00:26:29.789 --> 00:26:32.450 juggling things, having a little bit of multiple 00:26:32.450 --> 00:26:35.809 tasks. Love that a lot of my energy doesn't go 00:26:35.809 --> 00:26:41.869 into just work, you know, but I'm actually able 00:26:41.869 --> 00:26:45.049 to get back into work and pick my line of work 00:26:45.049 --> 00:26:48.950 by being an entrepreneur. So just wanting more 00:26:48.950 --> 00:26:52.930 in life is nothing wrong. And it's just actually 00:26:52.930 --> 00:26:55.390 a part of life. You know, you start to see what 00:26:55.390 --> 00:26:58.460 you started off with. You start to see what You 00:26:58.460 --> 00:27:02.299 can bring to the table so some would say But 00:27:02.299 --> 00:27:05.319 you can you also learn to see what you have to 00:27:05.319 --> 00:27:09.799 offer to the world to a partner To a business 00:27:09.799 --> 00:27:13.039 to your own business and it's okay to one more, 00:27:13.039 --> 00:27:19.420 you know wanting more darling I want more Okay 00:27:19.420 --> 00:27:23.880 But before I head out because it was a lovely 00:27:23.880 --> 00:27:27.400 episode 71 just releasing to you guys I miss 00:27:27.369 --> 00:27:32.029 you all okay I'm gonna leave out with some lovely 00:27:32.029 --> 00:27:36.349 lovely advice okay as a life coach I just want 00:27:36.349 --> 00:27:40.650 to know I said I just want to know I'm sorry 00:27:40.650 --> 00:27:44.750 as a life coach I just want to let you know that 00:27:44.750 --> 00:27:47.170 a piece of advice is what I'm gonna give to you 00:27:47.170 --> 00:27:51.269 it's just going to be this when entering a relationship 00:27:51.269 --> 00:27:56.099 and I say not just a relationship entering intentional 00:27:56.099 --> 00:27:59.119 relationship meaning you and you are intending 00:27:59.119 --> 00:28:02.180 to get married you're intending to have a house 00:28:02.180 --> 00:28:04.519 together you're intending to maybe have children 00:28:04.519 --> 00:28:08.599 with each other keep in mind you need 80 % of 00:28:08.599 --> 00:28:13.700 communication 20 % sex okay communicate with 00:28:13.700 --> 00:28:18.920 your partner observe your partner lastly love 00:28:18.920 --> 00:28:21.859 on your partner but never forget about your you 00:28:21.859 --> 00:28:26.279 time Okay, we always need our u -time. Men need 00:28:26.279 --> 00:28:31.200 their u -time. Women need their u -time. Okay? 00:28:31.819 --> 00:28:35.920 Everyone needs a u -time. You know, have time 00:28:35.920 --> 00:28:39.700 to yourself. Have time to just recalculate your 00:28:39.700 --> 00:28:43.599 thoughts. Have time to take a breather. You know, 00:28:43.900 --> 00:28:47.160 observe your work. Enjoy the fruits of your labor. 00:28:48.299 --> 00:28:52.009 Just never forget you need time. Okay? But that's 00:28:52.009 --> 00:28:54.849 just me. Your favorite life goals here. Episode 00:28:54.849 --> 00:29:01.970 71. Birmingham, UK is crazy. Or just outspoken. 00:29:02.009 --> 00:29:03.910 We won't even say y 'all crazy. You guys are 00:29:03.910 --> 00:29:08.109 just more outspoken. They're more outspoken than 00:29:08.109 --> 00:29:10.450 your girl can have ever pictured. But guess what? 00:29:10.750 --> 00:29:13.170 I can keep up with the Kardashians in my dreams, 00:29:13.230 --> 00:29:15.369 but I definitely can keep up with the Birmingham, 00:29:15.369 --> 00:29:18.190 UK when it comes to being outspoken. That is 00:29:18.190 --> 00:29:22.029 my reality. It was a pleasure speaking with you 00:29:22.029 --> 00:29:24.569 guys talking to you guys let me know you guys 00:29:24.569 --> 00:29:27.490 potting with you guys all the above With your 00:29:27.490 --> 00:29:29.390 favorite life coach here. I'm headed out episode 00:29:29.390 --> 00:29:34.150 71. It was nice to release again We'll see you 00:29:34.150 --> 00:29:36.130 soon or you'll hear from me soon. Of course. 00:29:36.650 --> 00:29:40.990 I Love y 'all. I'll be back. Bye