WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.819 What happens when you're trying to record and 00:00:02.819 --> 00:00:05.219 you're accidentally connected to a Bluetooth? 00:00:05.700 --> 00:00:08.699 You gotta redo it again. But it's okay, you know? 00:00:08.779 --> 00:00:11.240 This is why it's raining. The rain means wash 00:00:11.240 --> 00:00:14.359 it away and do it all over again. Clearly, clearly, 00:00:14.359 --> 00:00:17.440 clearly, clearly. I'm just praying it's washing 00:00:17.440 --> 00:00:19.899 the tequila away as well because last night was 00:00:19.899 --> 00:00:24.039 a good night. You know? Date night. Last night, 00:00:24.199 --> 00:00:28.079 baby. We went out for Asian food and it was just 00:00:28.079 --> 00:00:32.390 a little token. of appreciation to my baby mommy 00:00:32.390 --> 00:00:37.469 mommy mommy you know for dealing with my shenanigans 00:00:37.469 --> 00:00:41.509 bringing me down to england letting me drink 00:00:41.509 --> 00:00:46.670 a little hot tea be a gobbna you know i've been 00:00:46.670 --> 00:00:49.049 been working on my accent okay i messed it all 00:00:49.049 --> 00:00:53.390 the way up but yeah let me be a gobbna out here 00:00:53.390 --> 00:00:58.170 in england so we are here you guys we as in me 00:00:59.819 --> 00:01:04.480 Episode 68 That's just like you guys Uh, yeah, 00:01:04.480 --> 00:01:06.480 we're here. I already get started favorite life 00:01:06.480 --> 00:01:09.019 coach here. Um, it's time to go It's time to 00:01:09.019 --> 00:01:11.239 get started. I'm potting from the car today because 00:01:11.239 --> 00:01:14.680 I wanted to watch the rain. Yeah, mm -hmm Potting 00:01:14.680 --> 00:01:17.140 from the car wanted to watch the rain May or 00:01:17.140 --> 00:01:19.540 may not have a bottle of wine next to me mind 00:01:19.540 --> 00:01:22.900 your business. I am a government civilian. So 00:01:22.900 --> 00:01:26.459 I Am just relaxing. We're gonna get started on 00:01:26.459 --> 00:01:30.200 in this next episode here episode 68 let's go 00:01:30.200 --> 00:01:32.900 let's get it let's go let's get it let's get 00:01:32.900 --> 00:01:36.400 started turning point and we know which direction 00:01:36.400 --> 00:01:40.939 we're going he's still got a job and you know 00:01:40.939 --> 00:01:43.200 i share his condemnation of political violence 00:01:43.200 --> 00:01:46.340 but who are they who is this homogeneous group 00:01:46.340 --> 00:01:48.319 of people that are all responsible for the actions 00:01:48.319 --> 00:01:51.099 of those individuals i mean he did actually go 00:01:51.099 --> 00:01:56.519 further we're angry and we're resolute And we're 00:01:56.519 --> 00:01:59.280 going to avenge Charlie's death in the way Charlie 00:01:59.280 --> 00:02:02.340 would want it to be avenged. I'm talking about 00:02:02.340 --> 00:02:06.200 avenging now. And how can you be opposed to political 00:02:06.200 --> 00:02:08.439 violence but supportive of a man who pardoned 00:02:08.439 --> 00:02:11.659 the January the 6th insurrectionists? You remember 00:02:11.659 --> 00:02:14.300 that footage, you saw it, you watched it. Donald 00:02:14.300 --> 00:02:17.539 Trump lost an election and his supporters attacked 00:02:17.539 --> 00:02:19.639 the Capitol and attacked the public servants 00:02:19.639 --> 00:02:22.199 working there and bade for the blood of the actual 00:02:22.199 --> 00:02:26.069 Vice President. I still don't know enough about 00:02:26.069 --> 00:02:28.930 Charlie Kirk to know how he would feel about 00:02:28.930 --> 00:02:32.490 the coverage of his murder. But I mean, I'm certain 00:02:32.490 --> 00:02:35.189 that he wouldn't want people to be complaining 00:02:35.189 --> 00:02:39.909 about hearing his words being repeated and disseminated. 00:02:40.009 --> 00:02:44.110 And I, well, I don't know. I mean, listen, you 00:02:44.110 --> 00:02:46.169 talk about all of the people that that water 00:02:46.169 --> 00:02:48.530 guy just talked about, and it's right to do so, 00:02:48.550 --> 00:02:50.569 but you then have to talk about Melissa Hortman 00:02:50.569 --> 00:02:53.810 and her husband. targeted in their homes, killed 00:02:53.810 --> 00:02:56.849 by a Trump supporter. That's a matter of record. 00:02:56.969 --> 00:02:58.590 The man charged with the attempted assassination 00:02:58.590 --> 00:03:00.969 of Pennsylvania's Democratic governor, Josh Shapiro, 00:03:01.069 --> 00:03:03.810 in April, a Trump supporter. Four Democratic 00:03:03.810 --> 00:03:07.229 elected officials targeted in New Mexico in 2022. 00:03:07.710 --> 00:03:11.150 The man who tried to kidnap the Democratic House 00:03:11.150 --> 00:03:13.349 Speaker, Nancy Pelosi, and actually assaulted 00:03:13.349 --> 00:03:16.590 her husband, Paul. That's something that Donald 00:03:16.590 --> 00:03:19.150 Trump Jr. made jokes about. Imagine if someone 00:03:19.150 --> 00:03:21.370 was making jokes, someone in public life, a really 00:03:21.370 --> 00:03:24.490 senior Democrat, was making jokes about Charlie 00:03:24.490 --> 00:03:26.830 Kirk's murder now. What do you think would happen 00:03:26.830 --> 00:03:29.849 to them? But Donald Trump's son made jokes about 00:03:29.849 --> 00:03:33.689 attempted kidnapping and attack upon senior Democrats. 00:03:34.430 --> 00:03:37.449 Everybody - Really condescending. What did she 00:03:37.449 --> 00:03:41.229 say? If you think you got it bad with me, then 00:03:41.229 --> 00:03:43.409 where else would you have it better? With your 00:03:43.409 --> 00:03:47.219 dad? That's what my mama would say. Yeah, my 00:03:47.219 --> 00:03:49.699 mama was way, way more different than that one. 00:03:50.539 --> 00:03:52.120 She was like, I brought you in this world, I'll 00:03:52.120 --> 00:03:55.400 take you out. I was like, well, you can just 00:03:55.400 --> 00:03:57.259 send me to my dad's. No, I can't. That's not 00:03:57.259 --> 00:04:00.979 your daddy. And then she'll be like, never mind, 00:04:01.099 --> 00:04:05.740 call your daddy. Oh, that was hilarious. Oh, 00:04:05.819 --> 00:04:09.680 you know, with last night going on the date, 00:04:10.419 --> 00:04:15.099 you know what was so funny, Mr. Britishman? The 00:04:15.099 --> 00:04:22.980 thing that made me gasp inside I went from Literally 00:04:22.980 --> 00:04:27.939 just being a pretty girl a civilian You know 00:04:27.939 --> 00:04:31.579 just showing her a man around to a lovely date 00:04:31.579 --> 00:04:36.740 night of course then the waiter introduces his 00:04:36.740 --> 00:04:41.420 himself to us and gives us his stories and challenges 00:04:41.420 --> 00:04:45.899 and informs us that he is from, or me specifically, 00:04:47.000 --> 00:04:49.199 oh actually both of us, he informed us that he 00:04:49.199 --> 00:04:55.120 was from Romania. What I found chuckling inside 00:04:55.120 --> 00:04:59.199 is when you went to the bathroom the conversation 00:04:59.199 --> 00:05:03.500 just got so real. Like we start talking about 00:05:03.500 --> 00:05:09.100 challenges throughout each country. I just feel 00:05:09.100 --> 00:05:13.139 like things got really real. within 2 .5 seconds. 00:05:14.300 --> 00:05:18.139 And I had to start thinking before I respond 00:05:18.139 --> 00:05:21.920 so I can think about my next following sentences. 00:05:22.199 --> 00:05:24.939 We can really engage here because we had something 00:05:24.939 --> 00:05:29.399 in common. We both were from somewhere else here 00:05:29.399 --> 00:05:33.660 in England, right? So we had that in common, 00:05:33.660 --> 00:05:39.139 but he just was kind of advising that how, you 00:05:39.139 --> 00:05:44.060 know, it's just a hard to learn new things. Once 00:05:44.060 --> 00:05:47.139 you leave your decorative woods, you know, him 00:05:47.139 --> 00:05:51.079 leaving Romania, it's hard for him to grasp onto 00:05:51.079 --> 00:05:54.379 new things, find jobs like he would like to, 00:05:54.379 --> 00:05:57.839 you know, just learn things in the different 00:05:57.839 --> 00:06:00.180 aspect from a whole different level, you know, 00:06:00.199 --> 00:06:02.839 because that's not he's no, he's no longer in 00:06:02.839 --> 00:06:05.439 Romania. He's in England, got along England now. 00:06:05.720 --> 00:06:10.589 Okay, he got to learn the flow of England. So 00:06:10.589 --> 00:06:14.269 I told him like I get that you know I understand 00:06:14.269 --> 00:06:19.250 that When you move from one side to another Maybe 00:06:19.250 --> 00:06:23.329 a country is not making it easy for you to get 00:06:23.329 --> 00:06:28.269 through and navigate but I also came from the 00:06:28.269 --> 00:06:33.649 government so my rebuttal was that you know I 00:06:33.649 --> 00:06:37.230 also meet a lot of people that just aren't willing 00:06:37.230 --> 00:06:41.629 to learn You know, it's very nice to meet people 00:06:41.629 --> 00:06:43.850 that are curious and that are willing to learn, 00:06:44.569 --> 00:06:46.709 but some people are just, I think it's, I say 00:06:46.709 --> 00:06:48.250 it was simple. Like some people are just not 00:06:48.250 --> 00:06:52.509 willing to read. So I thought I had to get real 00:06:52.509 --> 00:06:54.970 deep right there. I was like, you know, I think 00:06:54.970 --> 00:06:59.370 it's the lack of financial literacy and just 00:06:59.370 --> 00:07:02.680 reading as well. people don't really care about 00:07:02.680 --> 00:07:05.540 learning financial literacy, how to make money, 00:07:05.759 --> 00:07:07.579 earn money, how to save it, how to read the W 00:07:07.579 --> 00:07:11.699 -2s, how to read the 1099s or, you know, what 00:07:11.699 --> 00:07:15.339 they're about to sign, W -4s, all that. They 00:07:15.339 --> 00:07:20.060 don't, they're not even, you know, curious as 00:07:20.060 --> 00:07:23.819 to how these things work when they move to a 00:07:23.819 --> 00:07:28.819 whole other area. So how do they expect to be 00:07:28.819 --> 00:07:31.720 successful? when you're not even curious about 00:07:31.720 --> 00:07:36.879 how to, you know, learn how the, let's just say, 00:07:37.079 --> 00:07:39.660 England government is, you know, respectfully. 00:07:40.040 --> 00:07:42.279 How do I make sure I'm paying my dues? How do 00:07:42.279 --> 00:07:46.759 I make sure I don't owe, you know? So I totally 00:07:46.759 --> 00:07:51.579 understood his dilemma, but then I had my own 00:07:51.579 --> 00:07:54.759 rebuttal. So then I was like praying that you 00:07:54.759 --> 00:07:58.329 would come out the bathroom fast. Baby, I'm talking 00:07:58.329 --> 00:08:00.750 about, I was dressed up to have a good night. 00:08:00.850 --> 00:08:03.629 I was not dressed up to have a political conversation. 00:08:04.370 --> 00:08:08.170 I didn't even bring my glasses for that. I was 00:08:08.170 --> 00:08:11.449 like, oh no, I left my teacher glasses at home, 00:08:11.550 --> 00:08:15.310 sir. I was not ready for this. But it was fun 00:08:15.310 --> 00:08:18.389 to navigate and shift brains like that. But I 00:08:18.389 --> 00:08:20.850 was excited to get back to my date. I was excited 00:08:20.850 --> 00:08:23.050 to get back to, hey babe, do you love the food? 00:08:23.889 --> 00:08:28.600 Let the real issues... Rest for a second, you 00:08:28.600 --> 00:08:32.519 know, but it was a good shift for a second there 00:08:32.519 --> 00:08:35.960 hearing his challenges and giving him a little 00:08:35.960 --> 00:08:39.399 advice And that's just to make sure you know 00:08:39.399 --> 00:08:41.779 dot your eyes cross your t's don't sign nothing. 00:08:41.779 --> 00:08:45.639 You don't agree to You know, this is the basics. 00:08:46.220 --> 00:08:51.460 So it was fun. It was fun also, I want to switch 00:08:51.460 --> 00:08:55.019 it up you guys because Me and my baby, me and 00:08:55.019 --> 00:08:59.279 my baby, me and my baby. We were watching the 00:08:59.279 --> 00:09:03.100 England news and of course, we'll get straight 00:09:03.100 --> 00:09:06.279 to it guys, everyone was talking about the Charlie 00:09:06.279 --> 00:09:11.700 Kirk. And I thought the news reporter that was 00:09:11.700 --> 00:09:13.539 going, I think he had a podcast, really it was 00:09:13.539 --> 00:09:15.259 his podcast, it was not even a news reporter. 00:09:15.720 --> 00:09:20.899 He had a pod on TV. So I'll look up his name 00:09:20.899 --> 00:09:25.789 specifically, but I have a recording as to hearing 00:09:25.789 --> 00:09:30.029 his feedback to the whole situation. I was so, 00:09:30.029 --> 00:09:37.669 so surprised that UK was even commenting on what's 00:09:37.669 --> 00:09:40.870 going on in the US. But then I'm like, you know, 00:09:41.429 --> 00:09:44.669 with this whole podcasting world, nobody's afraid 00:09:44.669 --> 00:09:47.750 to share their opinion. They're like, I don't 00:09:47.750 --> 00:09:49.789 care if I'm not in that government or not. I'm 00:09:49.789 --> 00:09:54.299 about to tell you guys what I think. I thought 00:09:54.299 --> 00:09:58.080 that was refreshing and very funny especially 00:09:58.080 --> 00:10:03.440 because they're British and oh When I was listening 00:10:03.440 --> 00:10:08.899 to that It was it felt so sarcastic And then 00:10:08.899 --> 00:10:11.559 it wasn't even funny. Of course, it wasn't I 00:10:11.559 --> 00:10:14.440 could tell he wasn't being sarcastic But I can 00:10:14.440 --> 00:10:18.360 tell he either he truly had some questions for 00:10:18.360 --> 00:10:22.080 our government in the US so I'm going to let 00:10:22.080 --> 00:10:27.679 you all, you know, my family here. That's just 00:10:27.679 --> 00:10:30.840 like team, the family. I'm going to let you guys 00:10:30.840 --> 00:10:35.620 hear the part I was listening to. Watching, actually, 00:10:35.860 --> 00:10:38.080 was watching it moving around the house and I 00:10:38.080 --> 00:10:40.220 was able to stop myself and get a glimpse of 00:10:40.220 --> 00:10:43.820 that bad boy. Okay? I was just so surprised that 00:10:43.820 --> 00:10:46.419 they were even talking about what's going on 00:10:46.419 --> 00:10:48.759 in the U .S. and, you know, about our president 00:10:48.759 --> 00:10:51.690 and all that good stuff. it was hilarious though 00:10:51.690 --> 00:10:54.190 it was the things that they were saying were 00:10:54.190 --> 00:10:57.590 just a little bit um hilarious my favorite part 00:10:57.590 --> 00:11:02.649 was she said who are we who who are they who 00:11:02.649 --> 00:11:07.129 is they who are the we when they kept watching 00:11:07.129 --> 00:11:11.269 when you if you watch the news they keep um republicans 00:11:11.269 --> 00:11:17.129 or specifically republicans are stating we are 00:11:17.129 --> 00:11:21.399 at war they're coming for us I'm like who because 00:11:21.399 --> 00:11:25.100 I'm in bed. So who specifically is coming, you 00:11:25.100 --> 00:11:28.799 know, my man sleep, too So I need you know, his 00:11:28.799 --> 00:11:31.639 mom is at church. We need to know who the weeds 00:11:31.639 --> 00:11:36.480 Is it you know, is it Hispanics Asians? I need 00:11:36.480 --> 00:11:39.120 to know because should I be getting up headed 00:11:39.120 --> 00:11:41.639 that way? I don't know But I'm gonna let you 00:11:41.639 --> 00:11:45.480 guys listen listen to the recording here It was 00:11:45.480 --> 00:11:47.799 hilarious. I'm gonna figure out who was we that's 00:11:47.799 --> 00:11:50.889 it cuz we were in I was in bed we were in bed 00:11:50.889 --> 00:11:53.509 okay so i'm gonna let you guys hear that one 00:11:53.509 --> 00:11:57.230 here and uh let me know what you think you know 00:11:57.230 --> 00:12:01.590 let's do it apparently is someone who you don't 00:12:01.590 --> 00:12:04.690 agree with so everybody who doesn't agree with 00:12:04.690 --> 00:12:07.190 your viewpoint is categorized as they even if 00:12:07.190 --> 00:12:10.009 they agree with 99 of what you say the the one 00:12:10.009 --> 00:12:13.309 topic in which you don't agree automatically 00:12:13.309 --> 00:12:17.529 gives you the designation of they yes that's 00:12:17.529 --> 00:12:20.720 what i That's what I picked up from that message. 00:12:21.179 --> 00:12:25.779 Like, who are they? Yeah, I just thought it was 00:12:25.779 --> 00:12:30.320 crazy hearing that one there, but it was nice 00:12:30.320 --> 00:12:32.659 to hear their opinion as to, yeah, that was my 00:12:32.659 --> 00:12:35.240 question too. Who are they? You know, it was 00:12:35.240 --> 00:12:38.100 nice to see where some people have the same questions 00:12:38.100 --> 00:12:41.220 that we Americans that actually are in there 00:12:41.220 --> 00:12:44.120 have. So, but I'm in England, so I'm taking a 00:12:44.120 --> 00:12:48.580 break here, people, okay? You guys heard it. 00:12:48.700 --> 00:12:53.620 You heard the recording. You heard the man ask 00:12:53.620 --> 00:12:56.200 the questions. But I'm going to shake it up here 00:12:56.200 --> 00:12:58.559 people, okay? Because this is not a political 00:12:58.559 --> 00:13:01.240 channel, all right? Just because I am American 00:13:01.240 --> 00:13:03.419 and there's a lot of political things happening 00:13:03.419 --> 00:13:06.179 out there, that doesn't mean I'm a part of that, 00:13:06.539 --> 00:13:10.500 okay? I'm going to shift this up here. This episode 00:13:10.500 --> 00:13:13.139 is not about political, okay? But I did want 00:13:13.139 --> 00:13:16.190 to get into it. So I'm gonna check it up here 00:13:16.190 --> 00:13:19.590 for a second give you a life update and um, we're 00:13:19.590 --> 00:13:21.629 gonna end you out with the British man Give me 00:13:21.629 --> 00:13:27.970 a little piece of advice Let's shake it up There's 00:13:27.970 --> 00:13:29.789 no need to be in that much detail come on bro. 00:13:30.009 --> 00:13:32.070 No, you don't need that much detail shit. The 00:13:32.070 --> 00:13:35.190 camera takes a picture of what it sees babe So 00:13:35.190 --> 00:13:37.409 what you trying to say? I'm trying to tell you 00:13:37.409 --> 00:13:41.029 that my moles Were never meant to be publicized 00:13:41.029 --> 00:13:45.029 like this goodness I was just taking a picture 00:13:45.029 --> 00:13:52.570 well mmm life update for me it's been almost 00:13:52.570 --> 00:13:54.990 we're at two almost two weeks that I've been 00:13:54.990 --> 00:13:59.309 down here yeah coming up this Tuesday it will 00:13:59.309 --> 00:14:03.769 be week two for me but I've been down here baby 00:14:03.769 --> 00:14:09.279 what I find funny about these England girls The 00:14:09.279 --> 00:14:12.000 England girls turn into a whole other situation 00:14:12.000 --> 00:14:15.860 when they've had a few drinks. They are just 00:14:15.860 --> 00:14:17.779 completely different when they had a few drinks. 00:14:18.480 --> 00:14:22.100 I feel like they turn into a whole like woman 00:14:22.100 --> 00:14:26.440 empowerment team. When they were walking past 00:14:26.440 --> 00:14:28.679 us yesterday and we were relaxing on the side 00:14:28.679 --> 00:14:31.940 just watching everybody, all I hear is women 00:14:31.940 --> 00:14:36.519 empowerment movements. Like, you know what? We're 00:14:36.519 --> 00:14:39.320 not going to let him talk to us like that. Yeah. 00:14:41.899 --> 00:14:44.620 You know, you know, next time we're going to 00:14:44.620 --> 00:14:49.240 make him buy us a drink. Yeah. How do you think 00:14:49.240 --> 00:14:52.720 that differs from American women? Oh, we're totally 00:14:52.720 --> 00:14:56.379 different. We don't hit. We don't need the amen 00:14:56.379 --> 00:14:59.000 for the choir is what I call it. We don't need 00:14:59.000 --> 00:15:01.600 the amen from the choir. We're like, I'll be 00:15:01.600 --> 00:15:05.440 skin. Are we good? Let's go right out. We don't 00:15:05.440 --> 00:15:07.980 need an aid man from the choir, you know? Because 00:15:07.980 --> 00:15:11.700 if the aid man is wrong, like, girl, just calm 00:15:11.700 --> 00:15:13.759 down. Uh -uh, girl, ain't nobody talking to you. 00:15:14.259 --> 00:15:15.919 Mind your business. Because if you're not on 00:15:15.919 --> 00:15:18.639 the same train, you know, that's how we are over 00:15:18.639 --> 00:15:22.480 there. So it's funny how they move in a woman 00:15:22.480 --> 00:15:24.799 empowerment, and that's only after a few drinks, 00:15:24.919 --> 00:15:28.730 maybe. Before before they're quiet as a mouse. 00:15:28.769 --> 00:15:31.049 They are expecting the man to come up to them. 00:15:31.070 --> 00:15:33.809 They are very prissy They're very sometimes they 00:15:33.809 --> 00:15:36.629 even mugging, you know looking you up and down, 00:15:37.149 --> 00:15:40.470 you know So I I'm like they are so fun after 00:15:40.470 --> 00:15:43.049 a few drinks, you know, they turn into you know 00:15:43.049 --> 00:15:46.629 what? Everyone deserves a drink from a baton 00:15:46.629 --> 00:15:49.750 for my man. You know, I try I'm trying my accents 00:15:49.750 --> 00:15:53.090 I was like that is hilarious. That is like a 00:15:53.090 --> 00:15:58.039 major difference that I see with him But yes, 00:15:58.360 --> 00:16:01.460 I'm loving just the parks out here. Every time 00:16:01.460 --> 00:16:04.480 we go past a different park, all the scenery 00:16:04.480 --> 00:16:07.799 is just beautiful in England. So much green. 00:16:08.200 --> 00:16:10.919 I've never seen so much green in my life. Baby, 00:16:10.919 --> 00:16:13.740 I've never seen so much green in my pocket. This 00:16:13.740 --> 00:16:17.779 is more than the money I get, okay? So it's just 00:16:17.779 --> 00:16:21.080 lovely and green. It rains for like an hour and 00:16:21.080 --> 00:16:24.840 then it's back like, what, what, what, what? 00:16:25.080 --> 00:16:27.779 What? Okay. I like that. I like that. It just 00:16:27.779 --> 00:16:30.559 acts like it never rained at all, you know? So 00:16:30.559 --> 00:16:33.279 it brings back the sun. The sun is always shining. 00:16:33.899 --> 00:16:39.620 Okay. Okay. I'm ready to go get my nails done. 00:16:40.059 --> 00:16:42.480 I was nervous, but I think I'm ready to get my 00:16:42.480 --> 00:16:45.279 nails done out here. Because I'm used to being 00:16:45.279 --> 00:16:48.620 in the U .S. where there's multiple people. But 00:16:48.620 --> 00:16:50.799 now I'm curious where there'll be an Asian out 00:16:50.799 --> 00:16:54.529 here doing my nails. Will it? Who's going to 00:16:54.529 --> 00:16:57.429 be doing my nails? Somebody from another different 00:16:57.429 --> 00:17:01.350 culture doing my nails? What is likely? Would 00:17:01.350 --> 00:17:05.210 it be more than likely an English person? I think 00:17:05.210 --> 00:17:07.829 a lot of these nail salons are foreign owned. 00:17:08.509 --> 00:17:10.829 So it very well could be, you know, whenever 00:17:10.829 --> 00:17:14.289 I've been there, they seem to employ a lot of 00:17:14.289 --> 00:17:17.289 international workers. Okay. So we do got some... 00:17:17.289 --> 00:17:19.130 Because I'm just saying, I know the people that 00:17:19.130 --> 00:17:23.579 know what they do. So I'm nervous, but... as 00:17:23.579 --> 00:17:25.960 long as they know what they're doing. Oh, yeah. 00:17:26.319 --> 00:17:28.819 Okay. That's the thing. I don't really play about 00:17:28.819 --> 00:17:32.240 that. It's just like my hair. I don't know who's 00:17:32.240 --> 00:17:34.200 going to do it. I've been doing my hair, but 00:17:34.200 --> 00:17:35.960 I think I'm ready to put it off on somebody else. 00:17:36.500 --> 00:17:39.119 So I just got to figure out who's the best candidate 00:17:39.119 --> 00:17:41.500 and who knows what they're doing. All right. 00:17:41.579 --> 00:17:43.299 I have to let them know off of that. This may 00:17:43.299 --> 00:17:46.220 be nigga hair. Okay. Nigga hair. This may be. 00:17:46.380 --> 00:17:51.740 Okay. So I'm excited about just exploring my 00:17:52.059 --> 00:17:55.579 My things that I need, my hair, my nails. I'm 00:17:55.579 --> 00:17:58.240 ready to see what the UK can do for your girl. 00:17:58.420 --> 00:18:03.359 Come doll me up. You know? I wanna see, you know? 00:18:04.539 --> 00:18:08.359 Since you're here, Mr. Britishman, how has your 00:18:08.359 --> 00:18:11.460 time been? You know, I'm almost two weeks in, 00:18:11.460 --> 00:18:13.660 you haven't kicked me out yet. How has your time 00:18:13.660 --> 00:18:19.660 been? It's been one of the best two weeks I've 00:18:19.660 --> 00:18:26.130 had. in a very long time. The actual best two 00:18:26.130 --> 00:18:30.109 weeks I had was the first time you came. Okay, 00:18:30.430 --> 00:18:32.829 all right. So this one here is more like on a 00:18:32.829 --> 00:18:39.349 scale of one to ten. Okay, that's a tube. All 00:18:39.349 --> 00:18:41.390 right. Got it. It took you a while. You're still 00:18:41.390 --> 00:18:44.210 thinking 200. Okay. Yeah, cuz you were thinking 00:18:44.210 --> 00:18:46.990 It's supposed to be a tube. The number is so 00:18:46.990 --> 00:18:50.230 high I needed time to to to articulate it. Sure. 00:18:50.289 --> 00:18:52.069 We'll talk about that later Cuz it took you forever 00:18:52.069 --> 00:18:55.630 just to get that one You said to you I said 200. 00:18:55.750 --> 00:18:57.410 Yeah, cuz that's only cuz I'm looking at your 00:18:57.410 --> 00:19:00.609 face I'm like, um any data a number, please. 00:19:00.829 --> 00:19:06.650 That's my awestruck face. Yeah Okay interesting 00:19:07.500 --> 00:19:10.839 So anything interesting that's been going on 00:19:10.839 --> 00:19:14.460 in your deck of woods, Mr. Britishman? You know, 00:19:15.359 --> 00:19:19.240 your week, how interesting has it been? What 00:19:19.240 --> 00:19:21.200 have you been up to? I think it's been quite 00:19:21.200 --> 00:19:28.180 a productive week. Yeah. You know, Jim looking 00:19:28.180 --> 00:19:31.220 to get on a new project. So reaching out to different 00:19:31.220 --> 00:19:36.420 clients and... Just having a good routine with 00:19:36.420 --> 00:19:38.700 you around, you know waking up nice and early 00:19:38.700 --> 00:19:43.859 making breakfast and just Making the most off 00:19:43.859 --> 00:19:46.579 the day. Yeah, because you didn't know I utilized 00:19:46.579 --> 00:19:50.440 my time Before you met me you did not know I 00:19:50.440 --> 00:19:53.140 utilized every single pinch of the 24 hours that 00:19:53.140 --> 00:19:59.519 we have well You're learning I can't say it's 00:19:59.519 --> 00:20:03.539 a bad thing. Yeah But you're certainly more bubbly 00:20:03.539 --> 00:20:07.880 than I am when you wake up Yes, yeah, that's 00:20:07.880 --> 00:20:11.460 true, you know I need time for my my operating 00:20:11.460 --> 00:20:16.180 system to load I Need to actually boot up properly. 00:20:16.380 --> 00:20:19.099 Yeah, you explained that you say you was that 00:20:19.099 --> 00:20:21.619 this morning You're like, you know, just like 00:20:21.619 --> 00:20:24.740 just like a system You can't just turn on the 00:20:24.740 --> 00:20:27.380 laptop and then the energy just come on. It has 00:20:27.380 --> 00:20:36.130 to power up Somehow you wake up fully powered 00:20:36.130 --> 00:20:38.369 up. Yeah, I need to I need to charge up when 00:20:38.369 --> 00:20:41.650 I wake up So I think yeah. Yeah. I mean, I'm 00:20:41.650 --> 00:20:44.170 just excited to be waking up in England. So it's 00:20:44.170 --> 00:20:46.470 always Oh, it's ready to go. Let's go utilize 00:20:46.470 --> 00:20:48.769 our time people, you know, that's what it's here 00:20:48.769 --> 00:20:53.190 for, you know explore Be adventurous, you know, 00:20:53.250 --> 00:20:56.029 see the people smell the grass smell the roses 00:20:56.029 --> 00:21:01.650 You know Yeah, that's what I like about it, just 00:21:01.650 --> 00:21:04.410 getting out there. Watching people go to work, 00:21:04.609 --> 00:21:07.089 seeing the kids, they go back and forth to school. 00:21:07.309 --> 00:21:09.289 I was sticking my tongue out at some little boy 00:21:09.289 --> 00:21:12.049 yesterday. He stuck his tongue back. I was like, 00:21:12.210 --> 00:21:16.569 see, we cool already. So it was fun just navigating 00:21:16.569 --> 00:21:20.769 out here and just living life. So I would like 00:21:20.769 --> 00:21:27.829 to know in terms of the overall atmosphere and 00:21:27.869 --> 00:21:34.269 the lifestyle and you know the scenery yeah um 00:21:34.269 --> 00:21:40.289 what are the good things and what are the bad 00:21:40.289 --> 00:21:43.109 things compared to Dallas compared to Dallas 00:21:43.109 --> 00:21:46.789 so the bad thing I can tell you that I've learned 00:21:46.789 --> 00:21:49.849 about England is when we went to the library 00:21:49.849 --> 00:21:53.029 and we got a chance to speak to the homeless 00:21:53.029 --> 00:21:56.250 man and I'm you know of course just looking at 00:21:56.250 --> 00:21:58.200 his appearance I'm like oh He just use he needs 00:21:58.200 --> 00:22:00.380 he just needs to use the bathroom and then he 00:22:00.380 --> 00:22:03.660 explains like no, um, I sleep outside i'm homeless 00:22:03.660 --> 00:22:07.559 Uh, yeah, i'm coming in here to hopefully, you 00:22:07.559 --> 00:22:09.559 know use the bathroom and see if I can stay in 00:22:09.559 --> 00:22:11.880 here a little longer charge my phone up And then 00:22:11.880 --> 00:22:17.740 he explained like oh also I left mcdonald's because 00:22:17.740 --> 00:22:21.359 they asked me to leave Due to me not buying anything 00:22:21.359 --> 00:22:24.420 and he was like, I was very respectful. I wasn't 00:22:24.420 --> 00:22:27.569 making any noise. I even asked hey Can I sit 00:22:27.569 --> 00:22:30.089 here? I'm not making any trouble. You know, I 00:22:30.089 --> 00:22:32.109 don't have anywhere else to sit to power up my 00:22:32.109 --> 00:22:35.130 phone. And they told him, you have to buy something. 00:22:36.109 --> 00:22:38.670 He don't have any money, you know, so he had 00:22:38.670 --> 00:22:42.029 to get out. And I just thought that was, that 00:22:42.029 --> 00:22:45.890 was very, it was very terrible. It was frustrating 00:22:45.890 --> 00:22:50.730 for me really. It was frustrating because it's 00:22:50.730 --> 00:22:52.170 stuff like that. It's little things like that. 00:22:52.670 --> 00:22:55.369 You know what I'm saying? It's too much homelessness 00:22:55.369 --> 00:22:59.079 everywhere you look. And it's things like that 00:22:59.079 --> 00:23:02.640 that make you not... It's hard for you to appreciate 00:23:02.640 --> 00:23:05.160 your government. Let's just say that. And so, 00:23:05.160 --> 00:23:08.720 hearing that, I was like, in the U .S., specifically, 00:23:08.980 --> 00:23:12.119 since I'm located in Dallas, Dallas, they wouldn't 00:23:12.119 --> 00:23:14.279 have done that. They wouldn't have not done that. 00:23:14.759 --> 00:23:18.259 And I've seen Dallas people even McDonald's workers, 00:23:18.480 --> 00:23:20.440 hey, yeah, you can sit there. You're good. As 00:23:20.440 --> 00:23:22.079 long as you are good, you're not causing any 00:23:22.079 --> 00:23:24.920 trouble. Yeah, here's a cup of water. Yeah. Sometimes 00:23:24.920 --> 00:23:27.339 they even give them free food. you know so it 00:23:27.339 --> 00:23:30.059 was like oh you had to get out and you were just 00:23:30.059 --> 00:23:31.579 trying to power up your phone you know you know 00:23:31.579 --> 00:23:33.660 i'm saying and you were just sitting there you 00:23:33.660 --> 00:23:35.740 just wanted to sit there power up your phone 00:23:35.740 --> 00:23:37.779 you are already aware that you don't have funds 00:23:37.779 --> 00:23:39.839 to buy anything they are aware because he wouldn't 00:23:39.839 --> 00:23:41.980 be there sitting if that's the case he'd be buying 00:23:41.980 --> 00:23:46.619 something so i was just like that's a it's a 00:23:46.619 --> 00:23:51.019 little ignorant of the government you know and 00:23:51.019 --> 00:23:54.279 it's not even a government thing really That 00:23:54.279 --> 00:23:56.420 is a selective thing. They could have selectively 00:23:56.420 --> 00:23:59.400 said, sure. That's what I want to say. I want 00:23:59.400 --> 00:24:01.539 to say that they could have selectively that 00:24:01.539 --> 00:24:03.740 company, that little facility could have said, 00:24:03.740 --> 00:24:08.000 you know what? Sure. Do you think it's more the 00:24:08.000 --> 00:24:11.119 individual employee or the branch manager? Because 00:24:11.119 --> 00:24:14.259 I like to think on a different day in a different 00:24:14.259 --> 00:24:18.420 branch, someone else would say, yes, hey, you 00:24:18.420 --> 00:24:20.019 can stay for as long as you need to. You know, 00:24:20.019 --> 00:24:22.420 someone else may show a bit more compassion. 00:24:22.680 --> 00:24:27.319 Yeah. um then right there i'm saying we now we're 00:24:27.319 --> 00:24:30.960 in a rat race i couldn't tell you that one i 00:24:30.960 --> 00:24:33.140 really couldn't tell you if it was one or the 00:24:33.140 --> 00:24:35.299 other i can just say you based off the story 00:24:35.299 --> 00:24:38.500 that i wish that that wasn't the resort at all 00:24:38.500 --> 00:24:43.279 you know if someone is not making too much issue 00:24:43.279 --> 00:24:45.700 somewhere i'm just i will hope that's enough 00:24:45.700 --> 00:24:50.079 to say sure you can stay for a while you know 00:24:50.079 --> 00:24:52.759 especially if there are free seats yeah I know 00:24:52.759 --> 00:24:57.079 that McDonald's was not packed. For real. Like, 00:24:57.079 --> 00:24:59.339 I should've went over there myself. I really 00:24:59.339 --> 00:25:02.140 wanted to ask him, like, you know, do you want 00:25:02.140 --> 00:25:03.619 me to go, do you want to go back and do you want 00:25:03.619 --> 00:25:06.140 me? I was like, you know what, Cece, you ain't 00:25:06.140 --> 00:25:08.140 even got paid yet, girl. Sit the fuck down. So 00:25:08.140 --> 00:25:10.740 I didn't even ask. Okay? That bitch was broke. 00:25:10.900 --> 00:25:12.440 I would've got up there, my car would've declined. 00:25:12.700 --> 00:25:15.539 That would've kicked my ass out too. So I didn't 00:25:15.539 --> 00:25:18.099 say me I didn't say anything at all. I just waited 00:25:18.099 --> 00:25:20.019 to part about it Okay, I didn't say anything 00:25:20.019 --> 00:25:22.700 at all. But yeah, it was things like that. I'm 00:25:22.700 --> 00:25:25.200 paid now So if he need a little burger, I might 00:25:25.200 --> 00:25:28.259 go back up there. Check on them. So oh But yeah, 00:25:28.279 --> 00:25:32.380 I didn't say anything at all, but be And that 00:25:32.380 --> 00:25:35.079 was just the that's part of the cons there the 00:25:35.079 --> 00:25:40.799 pros that I've loved about England is how Cheer 00:25:40.799 --> 00:25:44.519 you they can be back to you They are not someone 00:25:44.519 --> 00:25:48.900 these English British folks over here You guys 00:25:48.900 --> 00:25:51.420 are not someone who starts conversations. It's 00:25:51.420 --> 00:25:54.579 yes. They speak when spoken to literally you 00:25:54.579 --> 00:25:58.380 literally have to Come in and say coming in to 00:25:58.380 --> 00:26:00.220 be like hey good morning, and then they're like 00:26:00.220 --> 00:26:03.160 oh good morning They speak what spoken to and 00:26:03.160 --> 00:26:05.779 I love that I mean Sometimes I wish they would 00:26:05.779 --> 00:26:07.359 go out there wait for me, but it's like a girl. 00:26:07.380 --> 00:26:10.359 Who are you? You know what, you're right. So 00:26:10.359 --> 00:26:13.039 I go out my way for them and say, hey, good morning. 00:26:13.180 --> 00:26:15.819 And they speak back, that I love. And then they're 00:26:15.819 --> 00:26:18.700 always typically surprised. Like they're looking 00:26:18.700 --> 00:26:20.500 like girl, I was not expecting you to walk past 00:26:20.500 --> 00:26:22.480 and say something. You know how many people walk 00:26:22.480 --> 00:26:25.680 past and don't say nothing? So even when we went 00:26:25.680 --> 00:26:29.519 to the library, the lady was just so happy that 00:26:29.519 --> 00:26:31.759 I was nice. She said, thank you for being nice. 00:26:32.559 --> 00:26:34.940 And so I'm like, wow, that's just what you guys 00:26:34.940 --> 00:26:38.099 are lacking over here. Niceness, okay. that makes 00:26:38.099 --> 00:26:40.920 sense all right i might literally be able to 00:26:40.920 --> 00:26:43.400 move into this country just because i'm nice 00:26:43.400 --> 00:26:47.640 okay i'm just laying here but that was just a 00:26:47.640 --> 00:26:49.640 life update you know that's just my pros and 00:26:49.640 --> 00:26:54.339 cons from how i'm feeling you know but since 00:26:54.339 --> 00:26:57.920 we headed out on this lovely episode 68 because 00:26:57.920 --> 00:27:01.640 i'm growing okay i'm moving around i'm ready 00:27:01.640 --> 00:27:05.400 to keep growing Before I leave you guys out and 00:27:05.400 --> 00:27:08.720 before we give you a piece of advice I want to 00:27:08.720 --> 00:27:13.839 say that your girl officially knows what creates 00:27:13.839 --> 00:27:24.339 Great Britain Scotland Wales England and Ireland 00:27:24.339 --> 00:27:29.660 I'm learning out here. You know that is very 00:27:29.660 --> 00:27:31.940 rare for people all right. I did not learn this 00:27:31.940 --> 00:27:34.680 is school My teacher probably taught it and I 00:27:34.680 --> 00:27:36.680 don't know if I was paying attention, but I'm 00:27:36.680 --> 00:27:39.599 learning it as I grow Okay, that's all that matters. 00:27:39.680 --> 00:27:41.640 If you're gonna be moving around the countries, 00:27:41.660 --> 00:27:44.400 you probably want to learn what makes that country 00:27:44.400 --> 00:27:47.160 Okay, so that's what I'm learning here. My boyfriend 00:27:47.160 --> 00:27:49.440 taught me and the next you know, he kept testing 00:27:49.440 --> 00:27:51.980 me every five minutes Okay, I was so over it. 00:27:52.160 --> 00:27:55.059 Okay, but it's now dashed in my head. I remember 00:27:55.059 --> 00:27:59.420 it now We're good to go. Okay, that's good. All 00:27:59.420 --> 00:28:02.700 right, but before we head out Mr Britishman, 00:28:02.920 --> 00:28:13.579 piece of advice, please. My piece of advice is... 00:28:13.579 --> 00:28:21.660 Yeah. So my piece of advice would be if we want 00:28:21.660 --> 00:28:29.339 to retain certain things in life that we've worked 00:28:29.339 --> 00:28:36.319 hard for. whether it be finances you know familial 00:28:36.319 --> 00:28:40.900 or romantic relationships or our careers you 00:28:40.900 --> 00:28:43.599 know because it's one thing to to work towards 00:28:43.599 --> 00:28:47.180 getting it but if you actually want to keep it 00:28:47.180 --> 00:28:52.000 you need to have the right foundation otherwise 00:28:52.000 --> 00:28:55.619 it's very easy to fall back into old patterns 00:28:55.619 --> 00:29:02.119 so I would say work on building foundation first 00:29:02.119 --> 00:29:05.980 and foremost that enables you to keep hold of 00:29:05.980 --> 00:29:12.359 those things because it'll be much easier to 00:29:12.359 --> 00:29:16.539 lose them once you get them if you don't do that 00:29:16.539 --> 00:29:21.859 okay so piece of advice build a foundation build 00:29:21.859 --> 00:29:27.420 a solid foundation okay and that's it people 00:29:27.420 --> 00:29:31.319 that's how we ended episode 68 that's just like 00:29:31.319 --> 00:29:34.640 your favorite life coach here and my lovely British 00:29:34.640 --> 00:29:39.099 we are out bye