What happens when you're trying to record and
you're accidentally connected to a Bluetooth?
You gotta redo it again. But it's okay, you know?
This is why it's raining. The rain means wash
it away and do it all over again. Clearly, clearly,
clearly, clearly. I'm just praying it's washing
the tequila away as well because last night was
a good night. You know? Date night. Last night,
baby. We went out for Asian food and it was just
a little token. of appreciation to my baby mommy
mommy mommy you know for dealing with my shenanigans
bringing me down to england letting me drink
a little hot tea be a gobbna you know i've been
been working on my accent okay i messed it all
the way up but yeah let me be a gobbna out here
in england so we are here you guys we as in me
Episode 68 That's just like you guys Uh, yeah,
we're here. I already get started favorite life
coach here. Um, it's time to go It's time to
get started. I'm potting from the car today because
I wanted to watch the rain. Yeah, mm -hmm Potting
from the car wanted to watch the rain May or
may not have a bottle of wine next to me mind
your business. I am a government civilian. So
I Am just relaxing. We're gonna get started on
in this next episode here episode 68 let's go
let's get it let's go let's get it let's get
started turning point and we know which direction
we're going he's still got a job and you know
i share his condemnation of political violence
but who are they who is this homogeneous group
of people that are all responsible for the actions
of those individuals i mean he did actually go
further we're angry and we're resolute And we're
going to avenge Charlie's death in the way Charlie
would want it to be avenged. I'm talking about
avenging now. And how can you be opposed to political
violence but supportive of a man who pardoned
the January the 6th insurrectionists? You remember
that footage, you saw it, you watched it. Donald
Trump lost an election and his supporters attacked
the Capitol and attacked the public servants
working there and bade for the blood of the actual
Vice President. I still don't know enough about
Charlie Kirk to know how he would feel about
the coverage of his murder. But I mean, I'm certain
that he wouldn't want people to be complaining
about hearing his words being repeated and disseminated.
And I, well, I don't know. I mean, listen, you
talk about all of the people that that water
guy just talked about, and it's right to do so,
but you then have to talk about Melissa Hortman
and her husband. targeted in their homes, killed
by a Trump supporter. That's a matter of record.
The man charged with the attempted assassination
of Pennsylvania's Democratic governor, Josh Shapiro,
in April, a Trump supporter. Four Democratic
elected officials targeted in New Mexico in 2022.
The man who tried to kidnap the Democratic House
Speaker, Nancy Pelosi, and actually assaulted
her husband, Paul. That's something that Donald
Trump Jr. made jokes about. Imagine if someone
was making jokes, someone in public life, a really
senior Democrat, was making jokes about Charlie
Kirk's murder now. What do you think would happen
to them? But Donald Trump's son made jokes about
attempted kidnapping and attack upon senior Democrats.
Everybody - Really condescending. What did she
say? If you think you got it bad with me, then
where else would you have it better? With your
dad? That's what my mama would say. Yeah, my
mama was way, way more different than that one.
She was like, I brought you in this world, I'll
take you out. I was like, well, you can just
send me to my dad's. No, I can't. That's not
your daddy. And then she'll be like, never mind,
call your daddy. Oh, that was hilarious. Oh,
you know, with last night going on the date,
you know what was so funny, Mr. Britishman? The
thing that made me gasp inside I went from Literally
just being a pretty girl a civilian You know
just showing her a man around to a lovely date
night of course then the waiter introduces his
himself to us and gives us his stories and challenges
and informs us that he is from, or me specifically,
oh actually both of us, he informed us that he
was from Romania. What I found chuckling inside
is when you went to the bathroom the conversation
just got so real. Like we start talking about
challenges throughout each country. I just feel
like things got really real. within 2 .5 seconds.
And I had to start thinking before I respond
so I can think about my next following sentences.
We can really engage here because we had something
in common. We both were from somewhere else here
in England, right? So we had that in common,
but he just was kind of advising that how, you
know, it's just a hard to learn new things. Once
you leave your decorative woods, you know, him
leaving Romania, it's hard for him to grasp onto
new things, find jobs like he would like to,
you know, just learn things in the different
aspect from a whole different level, you know,
because that's not he's no, he's no longer in
Romania. He's in England, got along England now.
Okay, he got to learn the flow of England. So
I told him like I get that you know I understand
that When you move from one side to another Maybe
a country is not making it easy for you to get
through and navigate but I also came from the
government so my rebuttal was that you know I
also meet a lot of people that just aren't willing
to learn You know, it's very nice to meet people
that are curious and that are willing to learn,
but some people are just, I think it's, I say
it was simple. Like some people are just not
willing to read. So I thought I had to get real
deep right there. I was like, you know, I think
it's the lack of financial literacy and just
reading as well. people don't really care about
learning financial literacy, how to make money,
earn money, how to save it, how to read the W
-2s, how to read the 1099s or, you know, what
they're about to sign, W -4s, all that. They
don't, they're not even, you know, curious as
to how these things work when they move to a
whole other area. So how do they expect to be
successful? when you're not even curious about
how to, you know, learn how the, let's just say,
England government is, you know, respectfully.
How do I make sure I'm paying my dues? How do
I make sure I don't owe, you know? So I totally
understood his dilemma, but then I had my own
rebuttal. So then I was like praying that you
would come out the bathroom fast. Baby, I'm talking
about, I was dressed up to have a good night.
I was not dressed up to have a political conversation.
I didn't even bring my glasses for that. I was
like, oh no, I left my teacher glasses at home,
sir. I was not ready for this. But it was fun
to navigate and shift brains like that. But I
was excited to get back to my date. I was excited
to get back to, hey babe, do you love the food?
Let the real issues... Rest for a second, you
know, but it was a good shift for a second there
hearing his challenges and giving him a little
advice And that's just to make sure you know
dot your eyes cross your t's don't sign nothing.
You don't agree to You know, this is the basics.
So it was fun. It was fun also, I want to switch
it up you guys because Me and my baby, me and
my baby, me and my baby. We were watching the
England news and of course, we'll get straight
to it guys, everyone was talking about the Charlie
Kirk. And I thought the news reporter that was
going, I think he had a podcast, really it was
his podcast, it was not even a news reporter.
He had a pod on TV. So I'll look up his name
specifically, but I have a recording as to hearing
his feedback to the whole situation. I was so,
so surprised that UK was even commenting on what's
going on in the US. But then I'm like, you know,
with this whole podcasting world, nobody's afraid
to share their opinion. They're like, I don't
care if I'm not in that government or not. I'm
about to tell you guys what I think. I thought
that was refreshing and very funny especially
because they're British and oh When I was listening
to that It was it felt so sarcastic And then
it wasn't even funny. Of course, it wasn't I
could tell he wasn't being sarcastic But I can
tell he either he truly had some questions for
our government in the US so I'm going to let
you all, you know, my family here. That's just
like team, the family. I'm going to let you guys
hear the part I was listening to. Watching, actually,
was watching it moving around the house and I
was able to stop myself and get a glimpse of
that bad boy. Okay? I was just so surprised that
they were even talking about what's going on
in the U .S. and, you know, about our president
and all that good stuff. it was hilarious though
it was the things that they were saying were
just a little bit um hilarious my favorite part
was she said who are we who who are they who
is they who are the we when they kept watching
when you if you watch the news they keep um republicans
or specifically republicans are stating we are
at war they're coming for us I'm like who because
I'm in bed. So who specifically is coming, you
know, my man sleep, too So I need you know, his
mom is at church. We need to know who the weeds
Is it you know, is it Hispanics Asians? I need
to know because should I be getting up headed
that way? I don't know But I'm gonna let you
guys listen listen to the recording here It was
hilarious. I'm gonna figure out who was we that's
it cuz we were in I was in bed we were in bed
okay so i'm gonna let you guys hear that one
here and uh let me know what you think you know
let's do it apparently is someone who you don't
agree with so everybody who doesn't agree with
your viewpoint is categorized as they even if
they agree with 99 of what you say the the one
topic in which you don't agree automatically
gives you the designation of they yes that's
what i That's what I picked up from that message.
Like, who are they? Yeah, I just thought it was
crazy hearing that one there, but it was nice
to hear their opinion as to, yeah, that was my
question too. Who are they? You know, it was
nice to see where some people have the same questions
that we Americans that actually are in there
have. So, but I'm in England, so I'm taking a
break here, people, okay? You guys heard it.
You heard the recording. You heard the man ask
the questions. But I'm going to shake it up here
people, okay? Because this is not a political
channel, all right? Just because I am American
and there's a lot of political things happening
out there, that doesn't mean I'm a part of that,
okay? I'm going to shift this up here. This episode
is not about political, okay? But I did want
to get into it. So I'm gonna check it up here
for a second give you a life update and um, we're
gonna end you out with the British man Give me
a little piece of advice Let's shake it up There's
no need to be in that much detail come on bro.
No, you don't need that much detail shit. The
camera takes a picture of what it sees babe So
what you trying to say? I'm trying to tell you
that my moles Were never meant to be publicized
like this goodness I was just taking a picture
well mmm life update for me it's been almost
we're at two almost two weeks that I've been
down here yeah coming up this Tuesday it will
be week two for me but I've been down here baby
what I find funny about these England girls The
England girls turn into a whole other situation
when they've had a few drinks. They are just
completely different when they had a few drinks.
I feel like they turn into a whole like woman
empowerment team. When they were walking past
us yesterday and we were relaxing on the side
just watching everybody, all I hear is women
empowerment movements. Like, you know what? We're
not going to let him talk to us like that. Yeah.
You know, you know, next time we're going to
make him buy us a drink. Yeah. How do you think
that differs from American women? Oh, we're totally
different. We don't hit. We don't need the amen
for the choir is what I call it. We don't need
the amen from the choir. We're like, I'll be
skin. Are we good? Let's go right out. We don't
need an aid man from the choir, you know? Because
if the aid man is wrong, like, girl, just calm
down. Uh -uh, girl, ain't nobody talking to you.
Mind your business. Because if you're not on
the same train, you know, that's how we are over
there. So it's funny how they move in a woman
empowerment, and that's only after a few drinks,
maybe. Before before they're quiet as a mouse.
They are expecting the man to come up to them.
They are very prissy They're very sometimes they
even mugging, you know looking you up and down,
you know So I I'm like they are so fun after
a few drinks, you know, they turn into you know
what? Everyone deserves a drink from a baton
for my man. You know, I try I'm trying my accents
I was like that is hilarious. That is like a
major difference that I see with him But yes,
I'm loving just the parks out here. Every time
we go past a different park, all the scenery
is just beautiful in England. So much green.
I've never seen so much green in my life. Baby,
I've never seen so much green in my pocket. This
is more than the money I get, okay? So it's just
lovely and green. It rains for like an hour and
then it's back like, what, what, what, what?
What? Okay. I like that. I like that. It just
acts like it never rained at all, you know? So
it brings back the sun. The sun is always shining.
Okay. Okay. I'm ready to go get my nails done.
I was nervous, but I think I'm ready to get my
nails done out here. Because I'm used to being
in the U .S. where there's multiple people. But
now I'm curious where there'll be an Asian out
here doing my nails. Will it? Who's going to
be doing my nails? Somebody from another different
culture doing my nails? What is likely? Would
it be more than likely an English person? I think
a lot of these nail salons are foreign owned.
So it very well could be, you know, whenever
I've been there, they seem to employ a lot of
international workers. Okay. So we do got some...
Because I'm just saying, I know the people that
know what they do. So I'm nervous, but... as
long as they know what they're doing. Oh, yeah.
Okay. That's the thing. I don't really play about
that. It's just like my hair. I don't know who's
going to do it. I've been doing my hair, but
I think I'm ready to put it off on somebody else.
So I just got to figure out who's the best candidate
and who knows what they're doing. All right.
I have to let them know off of that. This may
be nigga hair. Okay. Nigga hair. This may be.
Okay. So I'm excited about just exploring my
My things that I need, my hair, my nails. I'm
ready to see what the UK can do for your girl.
Come doll me up. You know? I wanna see, you know?
Since you're here, Mr. Britishman, how has your
time been? You know, I'm almost two weeks in,
you haven't kicked me out yet. How has your time
been? It's been one of the best two weeks I've
had. in a very long time. The actual best two
weeks I had was the first time you came. Okay,
all right. So this one here is more like on a
scale of one to ten. Okay, that's a tube. All
right. Got it. It took you a while. You're still
thinking 200. Okay. Yeah, cuz you were thinking
It's supposed to be a tube. The number is so
high I needed time to to to articulate it. Sure.
We'll talk about that later Cuz it took you forever
just to get that one You said to you I said 200.
Yeah, cuz that's only cuz I'm looking at your
face I'm like, um any data a number, please.
That's my awestruck face. Yeah Okay interesting
So anything interesting that's been going on
in your deck of woods, Mr. Britishman? You know,
your week, how interesting has it been? What
have you been up to? I think it's been quite
a productive week. Yeah. You know, Jim looking
to get on a new project. So reaching out to different
clients and... Just having a good routine with
you around, you know waking up nice and early
making breakfast and just Making the most off
the day. Yeah, because you didn't know I utilized
my time Before you met me you did not know I
utilized every single pinch of the 24 hours that
we have well You're learning I can't say it's
a bad thing. Yeah But you're certainly more bubbly
than I am when you wake up Yes, yeah, that's
true, you know I need time for my my operating
system to load I Need to actually boot up properly.
Yeah, you explained that you say you was that
this morning You're like, you know, just like
just like a system You can't just turn on the
laptop and then the energy just come on. It has
to power up Somehow you wake up fully powered
up. Yeah, I need to I need to charge up when
I wake up So I think yeah. Yeah. I mean, I'm
just excited to be waking up in England. So it's
always Oh, it's ready to go. Let's go utilize
our time people, you know, that's what it's here
for, you know explore Be adventurous, you know,
see the people smell the grass smell the roses
You know Yeah, that's what I like about it, just
getting out there. Watching people go to work,
seeing the kids, they go back and forth to school.
I was sticking my tongue out at some little boy
yesterday. He stuck his tongue back. I was like,
see, we cool already. So it was fun just navigating
out here and just living life. So I would like
to know in terms of the overall atmosphere and
the lifestyle and you know the scenery yeah um
what are the good things and what are the bad
things compared to Dallas compared to Dallas
so the bad thing I can tell you that I've learned
about England is when we went to the library
and we got a chance to speak to the homeless
man and I'm you know of course just looking at
his appearance I'm like oh He just use he needs
he just needs to use the bathroom and then he
explains like no, um, I sleep outside i'm homeless
Uh, yeah, i'm coming in here to hopefully, you
know use the bathroom and see if I can stay in
here a little longer charge my phone up And then
he explained like oh also I left mcdonald's because
they asked me to leave Due to me not buying anything
and he was like, I was very respectful. I wasn't
making any noise. I even asked hey Can I sit
here? I'm not making any trouble. You know, I
don't have anywhere else to sit to power up my
phone. And they told him, you have to buy something.
He don't have any money, you know, so he had
to get out. And I just thought that was, that
was very, it was very terrible. It was frustrating
for me really. It was frustrating because it's
stuff like that. It's little things like that.
You know what I'm saying? It's too much homelessness
everywhere you look. And it's things like that
that make you not... It's hard for you to appreciate
your government. Let's just say that. And so,
hearing that, I was like, in the U .S., specifically,
since I'm located in Dallas, Dallas, they wouldn't
have done that. They wouldn't have not done that.
And I've seen Dallas people even McDonald's workers,
hey, yeah, you can sit there. You're good. As
long as you are good, you're not causing any
trouble. Yeah, here's a cup of water. Yeah. Sometimes
they even give them free food. you know so it
was like oh you had to get out and you were just
trying to power up your phone you know you know
i'm saying and you were just sitting there you
just wanted to sit there power up your phone
you are already aware that you don't have funds
to buy anything they are aware because he wouldn't
be there sitting if that's the case he'd be buying
something so i was just like that's a it's a
little ignorant of the government you know and
it's not even a government thing really That
is a selective thing. They could have selectively
said, sure. That's what I want to say. I want
to say that they could have selectively that
company, that little facility could have said,
you know what? Sure. Do you think it's more the
individual employee or the branch manager? Because
I like to think on a different day in a different
branch, someone else would say, yes, hey, you
can stay for as long as you need to. You know,
someone else may show a bit more compassion.
Yeah. um then right there i'm saying we now we're
in a rat race i couldn't tell you that one i
really couldn't tell you if it was one or the
other i can just say you based off the story
that i wish that that wasn't the resort at all
you know if someone is not making too much issue
somewhere i'm just i will hope that's enough
to say sure you can stay for a while you know
especially if there are free seats yeah I know
that McDonald's was not packed. For real. Like,
I should've went over there myself. I really
wanted to ask him, like, you know, do you want
me to go, do you want to go back and do you want
me? I was like, you know what, Cece, you ain't
even got paid yet, girl. Sit the fuck down. So
I didn't even ask. Okay? That bitch was broke.
I would've got up there, my car would've declined.
That would've kicked my ass out too. So I didn't
say me I didn't say anything at all. I just waited
to part about it Okay, I didn't say anything
at all. But yeah, it was things like that. I'm
paid now So if he need a little burger, I might
go back up there. Check on them. So oh But yeah,
I didn't say anything at all, but be And that
was just the that's part of the cons there the
pros that I've loved about England is how Cheer
you they can be back to you They are not someone
these English British folks over here You guys
are not someone who starts conversations. It's
yes. They speak when spoken to literally you
literally have to Come in and say coming in to
be like hey good morning, and then they're like
oh good morning They speak what spoken to and
I love that I mean Sometimes I wish they would
go out there wait for me, but it's like a girl.
Who are you? You know what, you're right. So
I go out my way for them and say, hey, good morning.
And they speak back, that I love. And then they're
always typically surprised. Like they're looking
like girl, I was not expecting you to walk past
and say something. You know how many people walk
past and don't say nothing? So even when we went
to the library, the lady was just so happy that
I was nice. She said, thank you for being nice.
And so I'm like, wow, that's just what you guys
are lacking over here. Niceness, okay. that makes
sense all right i might literally be able to
move into this country just because i'm nice
okay i'm just laying here but that was just a
life update you know that's just my pros and
cons from how i'm feeling you know but since
we headed out on this lovely episode 68 because
i'm growing okay i'm moving around i'm ready
to keep growing Before I leave you guys out and
before we give you a piece of advice I want to
say that your girl officially knows what creates
Great Britain Scotland Wales England and Ireland
I'm learning out here. You know that is very
rare for people all right. I did not learn this
is school My teacher probably taught it and I
don't know if I was paying attention, but I'm
learning it as I grow Okay, that's all that matters.
If you're gonna be moving around the countries,
you probably want to learn what makes that country
Okay, so that's what I'm learning here. My boyfriend
taught me and the next you know, he kept testing
me every five minutes Okay, I was so over it.
Okay, but it's now dashed in my head. I remember
it now We're good to go. Okay, that's good. All
right, but before we head out Mr Britishman,
piece of advice, please. My piece of advice is...
Yeah. So my piece of advice would be if we want
to retain certain things in life that we've worked
hard for. whether it be finances you know familial
or romantic relationships or our careers you
know because it's one thing to to work towards
getting it but if you actually want to keep it
you need to have the right foundation otherwise
it's very easy to fall back into old patterns
so I would say work on building foundation first
and foremost that enables you to keep hold of
those things because it'll be much easier to
lose them once you get them if you don't do that
okay so piece of advice build a foundation build
a solid foundation okay and that's it people
that's how we ended episode 68 that's just like
your favorite life coach here and my lovely British
we are out bye