Darling, it's a new day. It's a new life. And
I'm feeling good. Hello. Hey, hey, hey, you guys.
Welcome back. Welcome back. Welcome back. Episode
67 with your girl, favorite life coach here.
shit that's just life you guys i'm excited uh
this beautiful day in england it's officially
a week today today officially makes a week that
i have been in england so people out here lovely
you know i was on a walk yesterday and during
my walk i started to run okay um started running
And I started noticing I was the only one running.
Everyone was still walking. Like no one hardly
jogs in England, okay? They're like, we're gonna
take a walk boogie and call it that. We're not
gonna take a walk and then later start jogging,
start sprinting. They do not overwork themselves
when it comes to exercise. With that being said,
on my journey there. I ended up running into
like a nice park area with different statues.
Statues were lovely. Um, then also I ran into
a man outside. He was weeping, you guys. He was
just walking around, smoking a cig, nice cigarette,
and weeping. So I walked up to him. No, actually
he walked up to me. I let him walk up to me and
I, you know, I postured. I gave us at least five
feet, you know, for COVID reasons. I'm just kidding.
But I gave us at least five feet and I was like,
hey, what's going on? You know, why are you weeping?
And he was expressing the fact that he had been
watching the news about the Great Britain and
how a lot of people are dying as we speak. I
thought that was pretty heavy. I'm like... Well,
don't cry immediately my brain went to just being
realistic and I'm like well first things like
Of course death is scary and it's not something
they're nice to see but I'm like We got to come
and we got to go Don't cry, you know I'm like
don't cry too heavy, you know, we have to come
and go and it's just unfortunate the way that
it's happening You know, but best believe half
those people that are passing they will be going
to heaven anybody that's passing away Just by
accident, you know, that's not necessarily by
accident, but by other people's drama. Yes, I'm
probably going to heaven, you know so I didn't
know what else to say to him because I do know
the reality of life and death So what I did tell
him is you know what I'm an American and it just
it brightened his day I didn't have to say much
I just said you know I'm an American and he was
just like you know and you're so nice you Americans
are so nice I love it you guys I've been working
on my British accent every time my boyfriend
talks I just take a mental note okay that's how
he says it okay so It's been nice to talk to
people in my American way and then talk to my
boyfriend in my British accent, but I never change
for the people. So as I am meeting people, I
want people to know that I'm from America. You
know, now it's just unfortunate America is where
we are right now, but it's still a lovely place.
Okay. Lovely people are there. So. Still want
to be myself so I just do that be myself and
let the people with the accent have the accent,
okay? It's it's fun though mingling with people
getting out here you guys It's been lovely now
the pros and cons to every situation you guys
pros and cons Because I'm gonna have to let the
cat out the bag okay, why because the cat is
gold The cat is gold, baby. That's what I'm learning
in life over here in England. The cat is gold.
What I mean by that is it gets you everywhere
you need to go. You gotta watch what you do and
who you do things with because that will help
deteriorate where you're going in life. Women
that are listening. We gotta be, we have to secure
the cool cat, you know? Do not, you know, paint
those red flags purple, but look at someone as
potential. But if they potentially don't want
to go straight, be ready to potentially leave.
Okay. The cat is gold people. I am realizing
that the cat is gold. We get, we can, anybody
can get what they need in life. They just have
to be a lot more realistic than anything. Be
real, be realistic. Look up what's in front of
you. Learn more. be curious, be gentle yet firm,
mother suckers, okay? That's what I'm learning
y 'all. England is really bringing out a lot
for me. It is really diving deep into my maturity
side and I am loving it, okay? Because of course
I can always hold on to my kid side, but my maturity
side is just, it's really getting sharpened people,
you know? I'm listening more than ever. Literally
listening to people. It's nice to just release,
you know see back shut up and listen Also you
guys you want to know something funny My boyfriend
was doing an application for something and The
questions on the application is completely different
from any American application the United Kingdom
in English application question was what is your
sexual orientation I was like what the hell does
that have to do with the job I just thought that
was a funny like why are you asking about a sexual
orientation are you gay are you straight are
you but do you like you got two legs and two
arms can you come work like why are we asking
about sexual orientation this is why we are where
we are in life every government has its pros
and cons. And that's what I'm just seeing the
United Kingdom's pros and cons. Sexual orientation
is crazy. And then another question on that application
was like, hey, what is your race, ethnicity?
The race, ethnicity, ethnicity, it's so hard
to say that word. Basically, the only options
were black no not even black it was really specific
it was British Caribbean you get what I'm saying
you see where I'm going here very direct British
Caribbean French it I was like baby are we talking
about countries or people I just thought that
was crazy like the options behind it. I was like
this has to be cool But I just laugh because
this is not my government this is not my world
I'm just I'm just a little fish in a big pond
out here y 'all. Okay. I thought it was hilarious
Reading that application like this is why people
can't find jobs. They don't even want to tell
a sexual or you what? business that it's crazy
but you guys I'm gonna switch it up again here
I'm playing y 'all because I need to give you
a little feedback on a movie review I did I want
to tell you about this movie review highest to
the lowest in Washington bay bay bay bay let
me tell you Highest to lowest, Denzel Washington
really did his thing. What I love about the movie
was how realistic it is, you know? Basically
explaining how you can pick your line of work
in life, men and women, and yet we still choose
to take the most difficult route, the unethical
route, the route that's just not right, and we
already know it. So you don't feel bad for people
who take Things the wrong way, you know, you
just know it's a part of that. It has to be a
part of their journey They've chosen that journey,
you know, they haven't let the dirt and journey
choose them yet so It's nice to see that movie
and just see the reality It's still the same
as I grow. The reality is not changing. So Baby,
we need more Denzel Washington folks and you
can tell by the movie quality this was something
he put his his funds into you know this was something
all that hard work he did for the other folks
he now invested his money into this production
with Spike Lee oh i could tell but the production
was still lovely and the message was still received
you know so i'm learning you don't need a light
to have more more is less baby Yeah, mm -hmm.
That's what Denzel was basically saying, baby.
Mm -hmm. More is less. All right? Man, I'm gonna
switch it up here, you guys. I just wanted to
tell y 'all that movie review, I don't want to
do a full spoiler. I just give you my little
review. I'll let you guys watch it. It is on
Apple TV. Highest to lowest, Denzel Washington
and Spike Lee. I'm gonna advise y 'all to watch
that, baby. Okay? Okay. Now, you guys. was meeting
my boyfriend's friend and I'm gonna tell you
my experience on that because mind you you know
my boyfriend is British he's a British man and
all his friends are from all over the place so
his friend is from Germany of course I didn't
know that wife his wife this friend's wife is
also from England like my boyfriend So I was
talking in my nice gentle voice because I have
never encountered these people before Mm -hmm.
So I was being nothing but just generous nice
soft also thinking like Let me just be respectful,
you know So I'm talking to them. I'm like, hey,
I'm just gonna tell you let's just say John Hey,
John. Hmm. Nice to meet you miss John and mrs
They're like, Mrs. Baby, we're not 80. I was
like, uh, ma 'am, you know, John, that's just
a form of respect, but now you're about to hear
from our American side. You know what? I didn't
have to say shit. I could have saved my black
ass in the house. But it was fun meeting them
because they're very straightforward. As I go
into the world, so many people are just so straightforward.
In America, we just love to polish things and
be gentle. And that's sometimes just exactly
what other people need, a little gentleness.
But the straightforward folks, oh baby, I love
it. I ain't even gonna lie. I love somebody that
can be straightforward, tell me what it is, tell
me what it's not. It's very rare that you see
people are straightforward, realistic, and not
a people pleaser. So, very rare. He took it was
like, but ma 'am, you know, I know you from America
and I know you dating him But we not 80 don't
talk to us like that. I Thought it was funny
I thought it was hilarious. I did not take offense
to it. Oh And I was like, okay, so we could joke
big big big. Okay, so it was it was fun It's
been a lovely lovely lovely time out here you
guys My man also did a review on the movie So
before I head out of here you guys at the end
of this episode You will hear me and my man give
a review on the highest to lowest But I wanted
to get my own review. So that's the reason why
I started the pie But my man definitely has a
say so in this mother if he got something said
we gonna let him say, okay but he don't always
have nothing to say so we'll just let me be the
talker but um you guys it was a pleasure doing
another episode with you guys it's much more
for me to be out here to learn um i'm excited
about getting into the studio soon you all seeing
your faces you seeing my faces i won't see yours
but you'll see mine's but i'm excited getting
into the studio um the youtube channel hasn't
been popping because your girl is doing something
every day Gotta keep growing it Gonna slowly
grow it though because I don't overwork myself
darling nope those days are over no no no no
no That's what I got a man for he likes to work.
I like to be cute and nurture So You guys I needed
to release I needed to come here and tell you
I'm back. I'm better. I'm back. I'm better. I'm
back. I'm bit You know I needed to let you know
the cat is go. All right. And I also want you
guys to truly tap into the highest to lowest.
But this is Washington. I'm not even getting
paid for this. But hey, I'm going to hit market
to market it because I'm going to go ahead and
tell them like, I'll help you market it. Because
at this point, the movie was great. All right.
The movie needed everything I needed. It had
everything I needed. It didn't need everything
I needed. But it had everything I needed, okay?
The movie was very expressive and I need to stop
talking about it. So I'm gonna let y 'all go
watch it. I'm gonna let you guys go tune in.
But the UK has been very interesting. I'm ready
to keep getting out here, you guys, in a fun
fact about the UK people. They do not say good
morning. You gotta speak to them. Every morning
I'm out and I'm running and I'm... Walking or
taking out or just you know enjoying the Sun
I? Have to speak to these people first then you
know they speak back for sure, but they are not
used to people speaking They're not used to you
waking up cheery and happy. They're not used
to using a good morning They say it back though,
but they always look surprised like every time
I look up. I'm like good morning. They're like
oh um oh good morning It's like yeah, it's morning
time people. It's a good one, too So I just love
how cheery I am in the world and how they're
just so different It's so nice. So nice. Love
the journey. I'm loving the journey. Okay, but
I'm head out. I'm gonna let you listen to my
man's review because we're at the end of this
episode Okay, baby We're at the end episode 67.
It was the pleasure potting releasing I gotta
get back to my man, my man gotta get back to
me. I gotta see what we're doing today because
I'll run this world. He just lives in it. I'm
just kidding. But I have to go, you guys. I have
to enjoy England and enjoy my journey. Bye! Because
I feel like it was, of course, it was all centered
around Denzel Washington. And that brings me
to our next point. His performance was, compared
to the other movies I've seen, his performance
was unremarkable for me. This was just, I felt
like I was just watching Denzel Washington playing,
not David King, but Denzel Washington playing
Denzel Washington. I didn't feel like I was getting
an act. I felt like he was just playing himself
with a different name. So I would say that this
was an unremarkable performance by Denzel Washington.
The movie was good, but not remarkable by any
stretch of the imagination. Okay, interesting.
It was Denzel Washington playing Denzel Washington.
And that's just boring to you. Yes. Because you're
used to a show, an audience, an act. I'm used
to an actor going beyond the... constraints of
their own personality to present a riveting character
yeah a character that that leaves me you know
wanting more yeah but i didn't get that from
this okay i've got a question then considering
dinda washington in the u .s as a citizen we're
currently in england Considering that Denzel
Washington is just a civilian. I thought this
was perfect. He's showing you the difference
between reality and movies. He doesn't get paid
enough to continue to be somebody else. He gets
paid enough to continue to be Denzel Washington.
So do you think he's gotten so big that he doesn't
even bother to step out of his personality? He's
done enough. It's an element of arrogance. It's
not arrogance. Life was about a journey. So he
did what he did because he wanted to pursue acting.
But then he learned, I can act all I want. I
could be every character in the book and still
wouldn't get paid like they get paid. Still wouldn't
get rewarded like they get rewarded. But you
know who does reward me? God. And my spouse at
home. My family. They're the ones that remember
a little bit of everything. Anything outside
of my work. They remember Denzel. You remember
you used to do this, besides work? It's just
like when I talk to you. Who is Mr. Ecologist
outside of ecology? Because outside of work,
who are you? If they stop giving you work, then
what does that mean? You less than? You're no
longer ecologist because you didn't work No,
that doesn't mean that you actually put in your
work. You literally have proof You got a couple
paychecks to show it Yeah, but that's never enough
It's never enough to say We thank you Dennis
for being one of the greatest ecologists took
time from your family Took time from your own
personal happiness So stop overworking yourself
The point of the whole movie. That's the grass
that I got from as a Capricorn Don't ever work
for yourself. We know what it's like to come
from nothing and everything That's just as a
you in US citizen as well We come from a lot
of us come from nothing and then we get a shot
and then we start working and make you know Stuff
start working money start coming in. We think
we got to keep going. No The journey is to learn
that it's just an opportunity. It's not a lifestyle
That's what he that was the point of the movie
the things that a you know ASAP Rocky was seeing
was a Journey wasn't a lifestyle darling wake
up And if it was a lifestyle be scared because
they definitely don't want you at the top So
it was a nice a nice evaluation highs to lowest
was it highest to lowest yeah by diesel love
it mm -hmm this is a movie review from me and
mr uk uh -huh