Your girl is officially out of the corporate
world. I'm officially out Not only am I out of
the corporate world I must laugh when I say that
I'm out of the US as well. I am currently you
guys I'm currently in England. Yes. I am potting
all the way from England The Sun is shining I'm
ready. I'm looking good. I'm feeling good Wait,
you know my man to come back home cuz I'm a little
hungry but Hey life is good people Yeah, I'm
feeling good You know The train not the train
The plane ride here Nine hours to get to the
UK. It's in England Nine hours almost nine to
ten hours you guys it Within itself was an experience
Packing leaving the US was an experience So many
things happened, but I'm ready to open up and
tell you about the full journey the journey of
a girl Packing up her things and leaving and
how I landed over here you guys I'll just tell
you specifically what happened you guys I Was
moving on the 31st of october that's a lie not
october the 31st of august okay i was moving
on the 31st of august you guys in a mix of moving
specifically this was the 30th 31st is the last
day for when my lease ended in my dallas texas
apartment so i'm moving everything on the 30th
the day before got the u -haul everything people
Mind you as I am moving Before I started packing
things into the u -haul I stopped at the store
to get a money order To pay off my rent right
to pay off the remaining balance of my Dallas,
Texas apartment, okay? so I Immediately start
packing once everything was good U -Haul was
booked, I started packing at home, just getting
some boxes ready, bags ready, you know, etc.
But, you guys, before I started packing things
and loading things into the U -Haul truck, why
did I misplace my wallet? My wallet, you know,
of course, has everything. It has all my IDs,
all my debit cards, and the most important thing
of all, it had my money order to pay the rest
of my rent. So, I wasn't really tripping about
the debit cards, which is something that's replaceable.
So is the IDs that I lost. Everything is replaceable.
The only thing that isn't replaceable is that
Six hundred and ninety three dollars that I didn't
last. That money order. I started penning. I
called the one person I know the call that comes
that pops up to my life as a hero. Of course,
that was my boyfriend. Called him. Babe, I'm
penking. I lost six ninety three money order.
I'm just calling to see if you can replace the
money. Although I'm the one that lost the money
order. We can play the blame game later. Let's
just fix the issue. He said no. He's like, no,
darling, I cannot cover what you just lost. And
from there, I was like, why am I talking to a
UK British man? His answer is going to be no
in life. Why am I talking to you? No No, but
you guys so Considering that your girl just left
the government, you know what I did. I Utilized
my skills that I've learned from the government.
I would utilize my spy skills as well. Okay so
I Googled searched how to stop a money order
and then I found out Just needed to call Western
Union They have a website westernunion .com slash
Stop a refund or you know, stop a refund or something
like that. So I put in the request Sent all my
documents to them Hopefully I'll be getting my
money back for them to put you know them the
whole request was for them to put a stop on their
check money order So I'm going to pray that that's
what they do because they said hopefully it should
be resolved within five days. If not, guess who
has an apartment hitting her credit? Okay? Great.
Just great. All right? No, seriously, I want
to hope that I have time on my own because I
really don't need that. I don't need anything
else. I don't need any other debt. Okay? I'm
literally knocking down my debt. I'll be waiting
on Weston Union to hit me up and let me know
where we going for Europe because if I have to
run my man's feet to get that $700 to pay off
that rent, then guess what I'll be doing? I'll
be rubbing somebody's feet. Okay? That's just
life. I can't believe I lost my wallet right
before coming to England. Like who does that?
I don't know. Who does that? I don't know. I
don't know. But this is episode 66 you guys with
you girl your favorite life coach okay let's
get started I just wanted to dump on you guys
for a second because I'm so excited I'm no longer
in the corporate world I am no longer in the
government's world I am all in my world in my
man's world of course I'm mainly in his world
but you know I come visit my world as well So
let's get started life is going great you guys
I Would love to hear my man's perspective and
I want to hear his feedback. How does he feel
with me? Invading his face Coming in brighten
up the place smelling the place good. Well, that's
really good Got the place smelling good. You
know, I want to know What it's been like since
my presence has hit his life. No, not his life,
but No, seriously, I just want to know how he's
been mentally with me coming into his face Full
-time now. I'm gonna know cuz sometimes he's
quiet. So we're gonna hear from him We're gonna
hear from my man my British lovely Lovely gentlemen,
because I want to know you guys. I'm going to
unleash a little bit on this episode. I've been
nothing but a hooligan. Ever since I've left,
I've been living life, enjoying life, just breathing
through these 20s, just grateful that I was able
to release and let go of the corporate job, well
aware of my trials and tribulations that may
come, but I'm also ready. I am ready, just like
Spongebob said. I'm ready. I'm ready. I'm ready.
I'm ready. Let's get started. Episode 66, y 'all.
I just needed to tell y 'all release. I missed
you guys, okay? I've been busy. I've been working
on other content, other stuff. Just moving, moving,
moving. But it's all coming to pieces, okay?
We're growing every day. I'm growing every day.
I started this pod working at my government position,
just looking for a way out to release, okay?
A way to just find even life, especially with
a repetitive schedule. So now I am free to take
a breather. to smell the roses, talk to the people,
and live life. We're gonna get started again.
Let's crank it up. Let's crank it up. Let's crank
it up. Now before we let my darling talk here,
you guys, when I was in the airport, Dallas,
Texas, headed to London, I saw, for the first
time, I saw my first South African ever in my
life. First one. When I tell you, not just any
South African, I'm not talking about same color
skin that I got. No, no, no. This South African
looked like he had been in the sun. Then he looked
like he also had a tan at the same time. This
was some South African, I've never seen this
complexion a day in my life. The skin complexion
was very intriguing. I was like, I gotta get
to South Africa. I'm always hearing about different
race being in different areas, especially when
it comes to Africa. I've been hearing different
parts of a world invaded. Africa, different parts
of Africa. So I'm always curious as to what everybody
looks like over there. I've heard like, yes,
there are some white Africans, of course, but
they're not white. They're actually tan looking
like he looked like he was in the sun and he's
been in the sun maybe for a while, like plus
a tan. You know what I'm saying? I've never seen
anything like it I was so intrigued and I was
just at awe and all he kept worrying about was
the fact that the airlines was a little slow
so he just was a little baffled about how slow
the service was and he was just very irritated
and he had an accent like this you guys it sounded
like a Australian accent but then again it was
very deep my boyfriend knows how to do it but
I don't It was something similar to like, you
know, I ain't even gonna do it. Do it wrong.
But I really wanna do it. It's like in my head,
but a part of me is like, girl, do it and see
what happens. Okay. So I'm not gonna do it. But
the accent was very different. Like I said, he
sounded like almost an Australian with a mix
of British. I can tell he definitely was African
by the way he talked in a way, but I had no idea
looking at him that he was African. I was just
like, oh, I've never seen this complexion before.
Where are you from? I didn't say it like that,
of course. I just specifically asked, hey, where
are you from? I love the Ikes. His eye color
was impeccable. I was like, oh my God, where
are you from? But nonetheless, people, other
than that, other than meeting a South African,
that was like the most intriguing thing that
happened to me, besides coming over to England,
of course. On my way here, though, never in my
million years did I think I was going to meet
a South African. that wasn't black. Let's just,
let me go ahead and say that wasn't full -blown
black. He definitely had a complexion that I
was like, you know, now I need to learn more.
Okay. Now I want to see more. Okay. I'm going
to keep educating myself people. I'm going to
keep educating myself. It's nice to get out here
and see the world. It's one thing to talk about
the world. It's another thing to see it. You'd
be like, okay. Oh, okay. Okay. Oh, you guys,
it was very intriguing. I'll set up that my man's
birthday was on Wednesday, you guys. Today's
a lovely, lovely, lovely Friday. My man's birthday
was on Wednesday, and we celebrated nicely. I
brought my man some banners, a happy birthday
banner. I blew up the balloons with my own breath.
So each one of these balloons means something.
So he better not pop any of these balloons, because
I literally had to blow these up with my own
breath. There was no air pump over here whatsoever.
So he has to keep these balloons for the rest
of his life. I don't care. But other than that,
got him some cologne for gifts purposes of his
birthday. Got him some cologne and some hats.
Then took my baby to Topgolf in Bolin, into Bar
and Grill out here in England. So it was very,
it was very free in there. Wasn't too many people
at all. So it was very spacious, quiet. They
had good music, like a mixture of music. I love
the fact that the UK plays in a mixture of music
when they're at different events, different sceneries.
Yeah, a mixture. So we enjoy that. Also brought
him a cake, mm -hmm. The 33 candles, now it be
turned 33. So bought him the candles, got the
cake, and let him do his wish. Hopefully, whatever
his birthday wish was, it's going to take us
far, okay? We need him. He needs us. No, but
he definitely was... excited for his birthday,
excited to have me here for his birthday. He
really wasn't planning to do anything. He was
just like, you're my gift, babe. You're fine.
You're my gift. I'm like, yeah, but I feel like
I'm going to pay for this later if I don't get
you something. So I got him something just so
we wouldn't have to test that theory. All right?
But. My man is ready to share his experience
with you guys Like he's ready to tell you guys
how I've impacted his life Within the last four
games and they got like let's hear it. It's just
the stepping stone to life But no, I'm gonna
let you guys Hear me and my baby because my baby
always want to come say hi. So let's just let
you say hi, darling okay i heard you recording
that just the best trick is to don't say do you
want a pod just start recording because then
i'll start overthinking what i say so just just
start recording discreetly yeah and then yeah
that's it because i'm more likely to you know
speak naturally well how's the last your last
three to four days been with me darling It's
I'd say it's been an emotional roller coaster.
Okay, so Prior to your arrival. Mm -hmm. I was
down in the dumps feeling sorry for myself. Yeah,
you know hopeless living a hopeless existence
of despair Okay, and then when you arrived suddenly
I mean, the sun started shining the moment you
touched that one, remember? Yeah, that makes
more sense. Yeah. The clouds cleared away, the
rain dissipated, suddenly the sun was beaming
and radiant, just like your smile when I saw
you. Okay, thank you. You are surely a Shakespeare.
Real, real, real Romeo right there. well that's
why you're with me Romeo and Juliet there mm
-hmm you're the Romeo yeah so following on from
that yeah obviously um we had uh we've had a
very chill reunion compared to last time because
you know you're coming to familiar territory
so some of the novelty that was there before
isn't there this time around yes in terms of
location yeah um in terms of atmosphere scenery
you know you're quite familiar with that so um
that was to be expected but in any case i think
for you it's still a much needed reset in completely
new territory yes it's a reset for me as well
because your arrival um definitely shifted me
towards a more fulfilling existence. Okay. It's
only been a few days. Yes. But I think that will
continue. Okay. That's nice to hear. Yeah. Yeah.
I feel like I really needed this. Partially because
where I just came from, you know, a lovely government
corporate position. Yes. So, you know. I laugh
at a lot of things now, partially because where
I came from, of just people freaking out over
little things. I've had people freak out just
because they didn't know the address or something.
Okay, just give me a second. It's funny when
I watch you freak out over something small. It
could be something very small. Oh, where's my
shirt? Oh, where's my undies? Yeah, I know where
my undies are. You know, they are keep them on
the thing. Yep Excuse me until until you're like
rushing and then you're like, where is it? We're
oh here it is, you know, it's just it just shows
how Fast we move in life and how much we can
slow down So I'm able to sit back and laugh at
you sometimes and just like hey, there it is
Hey, it's right above your head you know so it's
nice to be the one that is slowing down right
now and watching everybody else move at a fast
pace you know so almost at an unnecessary fast
pace so it's nice to slow down because I was
not able to slow down in the u .s. I wasn't able
to just relax you know so you know you're helping
me slow it down crank it up but slow it down
I'm really gonna have fun with this journey You
know, I'm gonna watch a lot of people move fast
Freak out panic. So do you think you've gone
from? quite an intense daily hustle and bustle
to You know a more tranquil. Yeah, just as this
thing I'm just grateful to be here just as existing
and I've learned everything takes a process,
you know So I'm just existing. I've also learned
to hurry up and wait. So the game is hurry up
and wait. Hurry up and wait. I like that. I like
that juxtaposition. It calms you down. It lets
you know that some things are not in your control.
And as soon as you do speed it up, guess what
you got to do? Wait. So just hurry up. Life has
a way of slowing you down anyway. So hurry up
and wait. And if you don't slow yourself down,
it'll slow you down. In probably a more negative
than positive way Slow down have fun, you know
Enjoy what's right in front of you Yeah, it's
one of those things like life will Always find
a way to rebalance things, but you have to make
sure that you are not Basically you have to make
sure that you're playing the game rather than
the game is playing you playing you so hurry
up and wait and know that as long as you provide
consistency you will be rewarded okay all right
but i'm loving this park i'm loving the fact
that you tagged along on this ending of my episode
66 it's an honor Oh, thank you. Thank you. Thank
you. I'm gonna let us enjoy our scenery for where
we are now, okay? It was another episode here.
Shit, that's just life. That's just life. I told
you my boy was gonna be here. I am here. Only
at the end though. So, thanks for tuning in.
Thanks for tagging along, darling. Okay, we're
gonna get out of here. We're going to close it
out. Episode 60 shit. Shit, that's just life.
Bye! England weather is lovely.