WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:07.019 hello hello hello welcome back welcome back welcome 00:00:07.019 --> 00:00:12.980 back yeah we're back yeah episode 60 darling 00:00:12.980 --> 00:00:17.780 i'm here i'm here i'm here i'm a little sick 00:00:17.780 --> 00:00:23.379 yeah i'm a little sick here i am breezing through 00:00:23.379 --> 00:00:26.800 it but the fever is fevering i don't know where 00:00:26.800 --> 00:00:31.070 this came from partially it's because every uber 00:00:31.070 --> 00:00:37.369 ride i take the ac is on blast and then you go 00:00:37.369 --> 00:00:44.369 outside texas weather is on 100 115 degrees so 00:00:44.369 --> 00:00:47.490 your girl is just breathing through you know 00:00:47.490 --> 00:00:52.329 i am for sure getting better but yeah you girls 00:00:52.329 --> 00:00:57.990 breathing through for sure also Speaking of Uber 00:00:57.990 --> 00:01:06.069 rides, I had an Uber ride and I thought it was 00:01:06.069 --> 00:01:10.730 pretty interesting. The fella said he was in 00:01:10.730 --> 00:01:15.590 the 1%, you know, the 1 % tally of life. You 00:01:15.590 --> 00:01:18.170 know, if y 'all know taxes or y 'all know anything 00:01:18.170 --> 00:01:25.390 about the 1%. He was up in there in the 1%. Until... 00:01:26.480 --> 00:01:32.140 He got fired. Well, not really fired. His department 00:01:32.140 --> 00:01:37.219 started really downsizing where he was at. So 00:01:37.219 --> 00:01:40.140 now he's no longer at the position where he was 00:01:40.140 --> 00:01:44.319 at. And basically, I ain't going to say he in 00:01:44.319 --> 00:01:45.739 the middle class because I don't think he in 00:01:45.739 --> 00:01:48.680 the middle class. But he could be close. He could 00:01:48.680 --> 00:01:53.000 be knocking at the middle class door. So, interesting. 00:01:53.959 --> 00:01:59.209 I was thinking. With him saying that, was he 00:01:59.209 --> 00:02:02.989 ever truly in the 1 %? If all it took was for 00:02:02.989 --> 00:02:06.849 your job to start downsizing and or firing folks, 00:02:07.150 --> 00:02:12.750 were you truly in the 1 %? I don't know. We gonna 00:02:12.750 --> 00:02:16.889 find out. Cause shit, that's just life. Episode 00:02:16.889 --> 00:02:22.189 60, let's get started. Ha, let's get started. 00:02:33.920 --> 00:02:37.599 curious like just really thinking was he truly 00:02:37.599 --> 00:02:41.319 in the one percent because in my eyes i was like 00:02:41.319 --> 00:02:45.919 maybe he wasn't in the one percent maybe the 00:02:45.919 --> 00:02:49.939 job was just carrying him like sir you thought 00:02:49.939 --> 00:02:52.620 you were flying that's why you were in the one 00:02:52.620 --> 00:02:56.099 percent but no you wasn't flying you were being 00:02:56.099 --> 00:03:00.819 carried that's why when they let you go when 00:03:00.819 --> 00:03:04.639 they downsized on that On that side of the group. 00:03:04.979 --> 00:03:08.300 Now you're down here. You know, you with the 00:03:08.300 --> 00:03:11.479 folks. The regular shmegular folks. You know? 00:03:11.740 --> 00:03:16.180 But I could be, you know, I could be crazy. I'm 00:03:16.180 --> 00:03:18.439 learning every day. I could be crazy. You know? 00:03:18.919 --> 00:03:22.259 Yeah, yeah. That's just me. But we're here. We're 00:03:22.259 --> 00:03:28.060 back. Episode 60. Yeah, people. Let's get into 00:03:28.060 --> 00:03:31.780 it. You know? Let's do a life update here, people. 00:03:32.590 --> 00:03:37.629 I got me. Of course. You got me. I got me. You 00:03:37.629 --> 00:03:43.930 got me. We're here. Of course. Plus, we have 00:03:43.930 --> 00:03:47.610 a special guest. The one and the only. She's 00:03:47.610 --> 00:03:55.030 back. She's better than ever. Clevisa. hey girl 00:03:55.030 --> 00:03:59.729 hey reread my twin she's here what's going on 00:03:59.729 --> 00:04:03.009 everybody how y 'all doing i'm just welcome on 00:04:03.009 --> 00:04:07.550 this beautiful episode 60 she's here let's get 00:04:07.550 --> 00:04:13.009 into it let's get into it let's do it so life 00:04:13.009 --> 00:04:16.889 update um i'll start with myself of course uh 00:04:16.889 --> 00:04:23.470 for me man you know no There's been a lot going 00:04:23.470 --> 00:04:28.110 on with work. If it's not work, I'm really focusing 00:04:28.110 --> 00:04:31.730 on just wrapping up out here in the U .S. I'm 00:04:31.730 --> 00:04:34.029 about to be like Eleanor Generous and just go 00:04:34.029 --> 00:04:38.470 to the U .K. Yep. I'm headed to the U .K. for 00:04:38.470 --> 00:04:41.829 a few months, and I'm going to get started out 00:04:41.829 --> 00:04:45.269 there, ready to explore above and beyond. But 00:04:45.269 --> 00:04:48.389 I have so much to wrap up in the U .S. before 00:04:48.389 --> 00:04:54.160 I do that. So, yeah, I'm doing that. Um, you 00:04:54.160 --> 00:04:57.480 know, in the wraps of Wrapping Up, there was 00:04:57.480 --> 00:05:01.160 a, I'm still in corporate right now, and I'm 00:05:01.160 --> 00:05:03.420 headed out of there, but we had a corporate party, 00:05:03.540 --> 00:05:06.079 you know, and they asked us to bring something. 00:05:07.160 --> 00:05:10.759 I had to bring, you know, the paper plates and 00:05:10.759 --> 00:05:13.920 the napkins. Right. Now, I started to use the 00:05:13.920 --> 00:05:16.800 napkins that are in the bathroom. Which you could 00:05:16.800 --> 00:05:19.079 have. Because there's still all those napkins 00:05:19.079 --> 00:05:21.560 you brought home. Yeah. I was bringing napkins, 00:05:21.660 --> 00:05:25.279 hey. But I'm going to use those because I'm like, 00:05:25.379 --> 00:05:27.879 those are still napkins. Napkins are napkins. 00:05:28.759 --> 00:05:33.519 You know, the ones that they give to us at work, 00:05:33.639 --> 00:05:37.160 I was going to use those. Yeah, why not? But 00:05:37.160 --> 00:05:40.379 instead, I used my money to go buy the napkins, 00:05:40.439 --> 00:05:43.040 and I got some plates, too. And whatever they 00:05:43.040 --> 00:05:45.660 didn't use, I just bought back home. We can use 00:05:45.660 --> 00:05:47.660 them. Save us some time on doing some dishes. 00:05:47.920 --> 00:05:54.410 Yeah. Outside of that, I also saw a lady be carried 00:05:54.410 --> 00:05:57.889 out in an ambulance. In a stretcher? In a stretcher. 00:05:58.529 --> 00:06:02.529 Wow. I wonder what happened. I know what happened. 00:06:02.589 --> 00:06:05.310 I said she's overworking herself. She's at this 00:06:05.310 --> 00:06:08.810 job. It's clear as day what's happening. Yeah. 00:06:08.910 --> 00:06:12.129 I don't even need to know what her health history 00:06:12.129 --> 00:06:16.720 is. Whatever it is. She shouldn't be here. It's 00:06:16.720 --> 00:06:18.500 probably a lot of stress. Yeah, this is going 00:06:18.500 --> 00:06:21.139 to add on to whatever the health problems you 00:06:21.139 --> 00:06:24.819 got, just being honest. And then taking on another 00:06:24.819 --> 00:06:29.519 stressor, which is her now, she might not, she's 00:06:29.519 --> 00:06:31.959 going to be having time off from work because 00:06:31.959 --> 00:06:36.779 that was not expected. And the thing is, this 00:06:36.779 --> 00:06:38.319 is what happens when you're trying to get to 00:06:38.319 --> 00:06:41.259 a paycheck. Yeah, and God will sit you down, 00:06:41.360 --> 00:06:44.329 you know, and tell you, hey. I need to take care 00:06:44.329 --> 00:06:48.649 of your body. Mm -hmm. That's exactly what I 00:06:48.649 --> 00:06:52.709 was thinking. I was like, she's being sat down 00:06:52.709 --> 00:06:55.310 to rest. She needs to rest. Whatever she has 00:06:55.310 --> 00:07:00.329 going on, that lady needs to rest. I'm over here 00:07:00.329 --> 00:07:05.329 sick as a dog. I had to call in like, hey, I 00:07:05.329 --> 00:07:08.670 am not feeling well. The PTO, the sick leave 00:07:08.670 --> 00:07:11.949 that I have available, put it all towards today. 00:07:12.509 --> 00:07:15.050 I will make it up in the next video. I have to 00:07:15.050 --> 00:07:19.569 kill my little bug, whatever this is. This ain't 00:07:19.569 --> 00:07:22.170 going to fly with me. Uh -uh. But I'm not going 00:07:22.170 --> 00:07:24.189 to do it fighting myself going back and forth 00:07:24.189 --> 00:07:27.649 with these Uber drivers, getting up there to 00:07:27.649 --> 00:07:31.509 the building and it's cold too. Uh -uh. I'm sick 00:07:31.509 --> 00:07:35.670 as a dog. What am I going to do, people? You 00:07:35.670 --> 00:07:39.970 know? You're lucky I got tea and herbs over here. 00:07:41.540 --> 00:07:45.120 You know cuz anybody said no honey or no anybody 00:07:45.120 --> 00:07:48.680 will nothing that job didn't see me a day better 00:07:48.680 --> 00:07:52.839 They didn't see me a night quill basket of nothing 00:07:52.839 --> 00:07:58.540 get well something nothing a text Huh? You know, 00:07:58.540 --> 00:08:00.800 but it's alright shit. That's just fine. We have 00:08:00.800 --> 00:08:03.939 way more than a paycheck people I am not expecting 00:08:03.939 --> 00:08:07.160 anything more from what they are speaking for 00:08:07.160 --> 00:08:10.069 me. There's me to come to work They expect me 00:08:10.069 --> 00:08:13.149 to call in sick if I got the PTO. And I got it. 00:08:13.329 --> 00:08:19.069 So that's what I did. So. We are here. You know. 00:08:19.870 --> 00:08:23.949 But I'm ready to get into it you guys. My shit 00:08:23.949 --> 00:08:25.870 that's just life show of the week. I'm ready 00:08:25.870 --> 00:08:29.529 to kind of recap on that bad boy. Before we get 00:08:29.529 --> 00:08:38.820 into the big bang of course. Yeah. So. Shit, 00:08:38.840 --> 00:08:40.860 that's like shit. That's just like show of the 00:08:40.860 --> 00:08:48.539 week is Basketball Wives, Atlanta. Mm -hmm. Ty 00:08:48.539 --> 00:08:51.059 Young. Or is it L .A.? Actually, I think it's 00:08:51.059 --> 00:08:54.919 Basketball Wives, L .A. Do you think it's L .A.? 00:08:54.919 --> 00:08:58.940 I don't think it's L .A. I think it is Basketball 00:08:58.940 --> 00:09:06.759 Wives, L .A. With Ty Young and me. I can confirm 00:09:06.759 --> 00:09:11.440 it. So, let's just say if it's Atlanta, then 00:09:11.440 --> 00:09:14.539 we have to play a basketball game up to five. 00:09:14.639 --> 00:09:18.299 We gotta get whoever shoots and makes the five 00:09:18.299 --> 00:09:21.700 points. And if it's LA, I mean, that's up to 00:09:21.700 --> 00:09:26.720 you. Uh -oh, people. What is it? It's right here. 00:09:26.779 --> 00:09:33.019 Basketball wise. What? That's it. Oh, so it's 00:09:33.019 --> 00:09:36.299 not nothing. They tell us nothing more. What? 00:09:36.669 --> 00:09:38.809 The most recent basketball wife. Well, it looks 00:09:38.809 --> 00:09:42.070 like we both won. So the most recent basketball 00:09:42.070 --> 00:09:49.149 wives were, you know, Shandell, Jackie, Ty Young, 00:09:49.470 --> 00:09:53.830 Ming. I would love to comment on every single 00:09:53.830 --> 00:09:56.549 one of those characters, but I'm not. I'm going 00:09:56.549 --> 00:10:02.629 to stick to specifically Ty and Ming. Specifically. 00:10:03.009 --> 00:10:06.259 Right. Just because my girl is here. My girl, 00:10:06.419 --> 00:10:11.919 my motherfucking road dog. You hear it. Yeah. 00:10:12.100 --> 00:10:15.399 I need to know. And it's based off our topic 00:10:15.399 --> 00:10:18.299 as well because I watched the show. This is partially 00:10:18.299 --> 00:10:20.639 why I brought the topic to you. Right. And I've 00:10:20.639 --> 00:10:23.379 watched it too. You know, you put me on. So I 00:10:23.379 --> 00:10:26.080 watched a few episodes with you. So I'm here 00:10:26.080 --> 00:10:28.980 pretty much. And I think it's just whatever Ty 00:10:28.980 --> 00:10:30.720 is going through, I'm like, everybody's going 00:10:30.720 --> 00:10:32.360 through. When I watched that, I'm like, hold 00:10:32.360 --> 00:10:34.750 on. She going through the same thing. With us 00:10:34.750 --> 00:10:38.870 relating to one another. Yes. So, I'm like, okay. 00:10:39.850 --> 00:10:42.690 I'm going to make my first opinion on this show. 00:10:42.990 --> 00:10:44.950 And you can kind of just let me know how you 00:10:44.950 --> 00:10:49.509 feel. So, when I watched the episodes of basically 00:10:49.509 --> 00:10:56.230 Ty finding out that Ming had the boy's name tattooed 00:10:56.230 --> 00:11:01.090 on her. And, you know, I'm like, in the LGBTQ 00:11:01.090 --> 00:11:05.139 community. If I was in that sucker locked in, 00:11:05.299 --> 00:11:08.700 like all the way locked in, I would be like, 00:11:08.720 --> 00:11:13.700 hoe, get out. You know, that's just me being 00:11:13.700 --> 00:11:16.580 non -classy. But if I was in there being classy, 00:11:16.740 --> 00:11:20.960 I would be like, are you serious? I mean, beyond 00:11:20.960 --> 00:11:24.779 that point, it's not even words. You know, you 00:11:24.779 --> 00:11:29.720 got a man name tattooed on you? Yeah, that's 00:11:29.720 --> 00:11:35.659 tough. Are you serious? That's what I will say. 00:11:37.259 --> 00:11:41.600 Seriously, like, I can only imagine. And I didn't 00:11:41.600 --> 00:11:44.539 know she was hurt until, like, the next few scenes 00:11:44.539 --> 00:11:47.139 where it really showed, like, the way she was 00:11:47.139 --> 00:11:50.159 reacting to responses. I'm like, oh, baby girl's 00:11:50.159 --> 00:11:54.000 hurt. Yeah, I mean, but also, Ty knew what she 00:11:54.000 --> 00:11:58.039 was doing. If a woman is showing that she might 00:11:58.039 --> 00:12:01.889 be interested in men, That's up to you if you 00:12:01.889 --> 00:12:03.509 want to keep messing with her. You have to know 00:12:03.509 --> 00:12:05.409 your boundaries whether you want to mess with 00:12:05.409 --> 00:12:07.129 a woman like that or someone that's strictly 00:12:07.129 --> 00:12:11.470 all for women. But I do feel bad for my girl 00:12:11.470 --> 00:12:18.610 Ty. Do you know who she is? Yeah. I definitely 00:12:18.610 --> 00:12:25.230 feel like Ty should... That's the question. Ty, 00:12:25.490 --> 00:12:28.940 do you know who you are? Yeah. Because, you know, 00:12:28.980 --> 00:12:31.980 you can ask people all day. You can say things 00:12:31.980 --> 00:12:33.940 like, you know, I'm Ty Young. You know who I 00:12:33.940 --> 00:12:37.820 am? I think she may have a little ego. She may 00:12:37.820 --> 00:12:39.860 not have a big ego, but she has a little one. 00:12:40.080 --> 00:12:43.679 You know, her friend Ming may have a big one. 00:12:43.960 --> 00:12:47.039 But Ty has a little ego. That's why her little 00:12:47.039 --> 00:12:52.320 ego is, if you play me, then, you know, I'm going 00:12:52.320 --> 00:12:56.580 to play you back. It's like, if you play me, 00:12:56.659 --> 00:12:59.200 I'm going to show you who Ty Young can be. In 00:12:59.200 --> 00:13:03.559 other words, I'm on demon time. Yes. Right. Sounds 00:13:03.559 --> 00:13:08.559 like. You know? I played the game right, but 00:13:08.559 --> 00:13:12.399 now you think it's sweet. So now, you know, it's 00:13:12.399 --> 00:13:16.200 just time to pull out the demon side. Yeah. Welcome 00:13:16.200 --> 00:13:18.460 to death row, you know, baby? Yeah, that's what 00:13:18.460 --> 00:13:22.320 I'm assuming that she's thinking. But that's 00:13:22.320 --> 00:13:25.509 the problem. Why not just pull away from somebody 00:13:25.509 --> 00:13:27.769 that makes you need to go into that side? That's 00:13:27.769 --> 00:13:31.029 the question. Right. Because that side is not 00:13:31.029 --> 00:13:34.649 even... Necessary. Yeah, not at all. Not necessary 00:13:34.649 --> 00:13:37.509 unless you're fighting for you and that person, 00:13:37.570 --> 00:13:41.529 not fighting that person. You get what I'm saying? 00:13:41.629 --> 00:13:46.710 Not going demon time against the person that 00:13:46.710 --> 00:13:49.860 you actually want to be with. You don't demon 00:13:49.860 --> 00:13:52.220 time against everybody else because the world 00:13:52.220 --> 00:13:54.440 is already on demon time. You know what I'm saying? 00:13:54.700 --> 00:13:59.580 Yeah. So we already got enough bigger fish to 00:13:59.580 --> 00:14:04.299 fry. So I thought it was interesting that she 00:14:04.299 --> 00:14:07.720 reacted the way she did in a way. I was like, 00:14:07.759 --> 00:14:11.720 okay, I think, does she not know who she is for 00:14:11.720 --> 00:14:14.559 a second? But she kept it cool. You know, she 00:14:14.559 --> 00:14:17.610 did keep it very calm and collective. But certain 00:14:17.610 --> 00:14:20.690 things I wouldn't have even liked the comment 00:14:20.690 --> 00:14:23.909 when she gave back Ming the ring. She gave Ming 00:14:23.909 --> 00:14:26.730 a ring that Ming gave her. She was like, hey, 00:14:26.769 --> 00:14:29.789 here's your sunglasses. Oh, and by the way, there's 00:14:29.789 --> 00:14:31.970 a ring that you gave Ming when we first started 00:14:31.970 --> 00:14:36.070 dating that's in there. And Ming was like, okay, 00:14:36.309 --> 00:14:38.809 yeah, I did give her this ring when we started 00:14:38.809 --> 00:14:41.610 dating. And, you know, I could tell Ming would 00:14:41.610 --> 00:14:44.090 kind of be like, damn, like she really gave it 00:14:44.090 --> 00:14:47.690 back. Yeah. I was like, that's the only way she'll 00:14:47.690 --> 00:14:51.409 know I'm serious. Well, I think she'll know you're 00:14:51.409 --> 00:14:53.509 serious if you just stop calling her. I'm just 00:14:53.509 --> 00:14:56.269 being honest. It's going to take more than just 00:14:56.269 --> 00:14:58.450 a ring. Here's the reason why she said, well, 00:14:58.509 --> 00:15:00.190 stop calling me. Yeah, it takes more than just 00:15:00.190 --> 00:15:03.110 a ring. All you got to do is cut communication. 00:15:04.200 --> 00:15:06.159 You can keep all the gifts in the world. All 00:15:06.159 --> 00:15:07.460 you got to do is just stop talking to somebody 00:15:07.460 --> 00:15:09.820 if you really want to stop talking to somebody. 00:15:10.220 --> 00:15:12.340 Yeah, like the ring don't even mean anything, 00:15:12.419 --> 00:15:15.700 but the ring can also be another entrance. Like, 00:15:15.779 --> 00:15:18.879 hey, I want to leave you alone, but I got this 00:15:18.879 --> 00:15:22.440 ring, so that's access. But if you're really 00:15:22.440 --> 00:15:25.259 over someone, I'm not even going to give the 00:15:25.259 --> 00:15:27.580 ring back. I'm going to go upon it. I'm really 00:15:27.580 --> 00:15:29.980 curious on what the age difference is between 00:15:29.980 --> 00:15:34.940 them as well. i don't think it'll be too significant 00:15:34.940 --> 00:15:39.460 maybe like two to three years i might have to 00:15:39.460 --> 00:15:44.259 look into it yeah i have to look into it but 00:15:44.259 --> 00:15:48.059 yeah just even not even age difference maturity 00:15:48.059 --> 00:15:50.639 level of where they both are they both mature 00:15:50.639 --> 00:15:55.899 they're just ego little ego big ego that's it 00:15:55.899 --> 00:16:01.240 right that's what i see little ego big ego but 00:16:01.240 --> 00:16:04.889 they need a uh Pipe it down, both of them. Pipe 00:16:04.889 --> 00:16:08.370 it down a little bit. You know, and walk away 00:16:08.370 --> 00:16:12.889 authentically. Yeah. You don't need to walk away. 00:16:13.090 --> 00:16:15.070 When she gave her back the ring, she was like, 00:16:15.190 --> 00:16:18.990 oh, Todd was like, here's the ring back. She 00:16:18.990 --> 00:16:21.549 was like, you can give your new guy the ring 00:16:21.549 --> 00:16:23.549 so he can represent you like you represent him 00:16:23.549 --> 00:16:25.750 since you got his name tattooed on your arm. 00:16:25.929 --> 00:16:28.370 Oh, yeah, that was definitely petty. I was like, 00:16:28.409 --> 00:16:34.049 wait, what? We don't care about things that other 00:16:34.049 --> 00:16:37.970 people do to themselves, okay? If we gonna play 00:16:37.970 --> 00:16:40.950 ball, play ball, okay? Yeah, you know, sometimes 00:16:40.950 --> 00:16:43.929 we look for closure, but... sometimes just closing 00:16:43.929 --> 00:16:46.830 that door and not going back is closer you don't 00:16:46.830 --> 00:16:49.470 need to verbally address it or yeah you can just 00:16:49.470 --> 00:16:51.190 like you gave her back the ring you don't need 00:16:51.190 --> 00:16:53.490 to let her know oh it's for him for you to give 00:16:53.490 --> 00:16:55.929 to him and him to get to her and him to get all 00:16:55.929 --> 00:16:58.470 that's not necessary ty if you know who you are 00:16:58.470 --> 00:17:00.590 keep it going because i'm pretty sure you got 00:17:00.590 --> 00:17:04.450 a whole top 10 list waiting on you she knows 00:17:04.450 --> 00:17:08.150 but yeah also sometimes we don't have a top 10 00:17:08.150 --> 00:17:14.200 waiting on us and Because you're good looking, 00:17:14.240 --> 00:17:18.339 you automatically have a lot of women. Oh, men 00:17:18.339 --> 00:17:21.460 feel the same way. Yeah, men too. Men feel the 00:17:21.460 --> 00:17:24.380 same way, but it's okay. We're going to get right 00:17:24.380 --> 00:17:28.920 into the next topic here. Before we do that though, 00:17:28.960 --> 00:17:31.259 we're going to send our condolences to Michael 00:17:31.259 --> 00:17:36.160 Jamal Warner family. Hearing that he passed away, 00:17:36.319 --> 00:17:39.640 drowning at age 54. Just going to send my condolences 00:17:39.640 --> 00:17:42.559 out to him and his family. Well, he's masculine. 00:17:42.839 --> 00:17:44.799 But we're going to send our condolences out to 00:17:44.799 --> 00:17:48.720 him directly. In spirit. I'm going to send my 00:17:48.720 --> 00:17:51.759 condolences out to his family as well. In person. 00:17:52.500 --> 00:17:55.839 So, condolences to the family of Michael Jamal 00:17:55.839 --> 00:17:59.960 Warner. Alright? On the Cosby Show. His art was 00:17:59.960 --> 00:18:02.099 just perfected. A little bit of everywhere. He 00:18:02.099 --> 00:18:05.140 did art with Tracy Ellis Morgan. Like, it was 00:18:05.140 --> 00:18:08.740 just so much. I'm sorry. Tracy Ellis Ross. She 00:18:08.740 --> 00:18:12.759 did so much. He did so much with her. And I like 00:18:12.759 --> 00:18:14.880 a few of their stuff. Their things together. 00:18:15.059 --> 00:18:17.460 A few of their little projects that they did 00:18:17.460 --> 00:18:20.680 together. Movies and segments and shows. Yeah. 00:18:21.859 --> 00:18:27.900 Love their artwork there. But. See my sickness 00:18:27.900 --> 00:18:32.099 can only have me thinking so partially. Tracy 00:18:32.099 --> 00:18:35.980 Ellis Morton. What? It's Tracy Ellis Ross. Alright. 00:18:36.039 --> 00:18:39.579 Sorry. But. We're going to get into the next 00:18:39.579 --> 00:18:45.039 topic here because I need to know and I really 00:18:45.039 --> 00:18:48.900 want to be nosy because I got to be in. Everybody 00:18:48.900 --> 00:18:55.500 is out here dating. Question is, do they know 00:18:55.500 --> 00:18:59.880 what they're looking for? You know? Yeah. Shit, 00:18:59.880 --> 00:19:01.400 that's just life. We're going to figure it out. 00:19:01.559 --> 00:19:03.019 Do they know what they're looking for? Are you 00:19:03.019 --> 00:19:06.740 looking for a young, younger person, older person? 00:19:07.319 --> 00:19:10.140 what's the age limit that you need you need to 00:19:10.140 --> 00:19:12.819 have here is it a three to five year situation 00:19:12.819 --> 00:19:19.140 let's get into it i want to know all right okay 00:19:19.140 --> 00:19:23.319 okay okay we are here on this last topic here 00:19:23.319 --> 00:19:27.420 young versus older when it comes to dating experiences 00:19:27.420 --> 00:19:33.799 miss clarissa you know i personally am in a relationship 00:19:33.799 --> 00:19:39.539 right now So, I can tell you from my experience, 00:19:39.900 --> 00:19:45.200 I am indeed, I'm neutral. I'm very neutral. I 00:19:45.200 --> 00:19:48.220 like to be right in the middle, darling. I have 00:19:48.220 --> 00:19:52.259 been up, I have been down, now I am right there 00:19:52.259 --> 00:19:55.720 in the middle. I like to be neutral. I have dated 00:19:55.720 --> 00:19:59.559 older, dated younger, I've dated right at my 00:19:59.559 --> 00:20:03.640 age, and it just didn't work out. now your girl 00:20:03.640 --> 00:20:08.200 is very much neutral when i say neutral to me 00:20:08.200 --> 00:20:12.579 it means just being at a three to five year age 00:20:12.579 --> 00:20:17.279 you know three to five year year apart age group 00:20:17.279 --> 00:20:21.519 there so yeah we can be three to five years of 00:20:21.519 --> 00:20:25.200 age apart on my end but i want to know for you 00:20:25.200 --> 00:20:28.539 what is what was must be your best experience 00:20:28.539 --> 00:20:34.250 has it been dating older or dating younger I 00:20:34.250 --> 00:20:37.630 mean, honestly, my best experience has been dating 00:20:37.630 --> 00:20:44.170 women around my age. Maybe that's like two or 00:20:44.170 --> 00:20:50.130 three years older than me or under me. But yeah, 00:20:50.269 --> 00:20:53.670 I don't think I can go lower than that. I mean, 00:20:53.670 --> 00:20:58.789 because it is a maturity difference. And yeah, 00:20:59.690 --> 00:21:03.730 I've tried talking to a 30 -year -old. Maybe. 00:21:03.730 --> 00:21:07.349 I thought I was the 30 -year -old. So, you know, 00:21:07.390 --> 00:21:10.089 everybody is the same, but I think what works 00:21:10.089 --> 00:21:13.329 for me is I just like dating around my age, two, 00:21:13.490 --> 00:21:19.650 three years max. But I am open to dating women 00:21:19.650 --> 00:21:23.349 in their 30s. Again, maybe she just wasn't the 00:21:23.349 --> 00:21:27.529 right one, but that was the only one that I talked 00:21:27.529 --> 00:21:30.700 to around that age. But so far, everybody else 00:21:30.700 --> 00:21:32.420 has been in that two - to three -year range. 00:21:32.640 --> 00:21:41.119 Yeah, like 25, 26, 28. So, yeah. Okay, that's 00:21:41.119 --> 00:21:45.779 not horrible. All right. Was the two - to three 00:21:45.779 --> 00:21:49.799 -year range more beneficial than the 30 -year 00:21:49.799 --> 00:21:57.559 -old? Yeah. I mean, the 30 -year -old, he really 00:21:57.559 --> 00:21:59.779 didn't do anything. I mean, she had a child, 00:21:59.859 --> 00:22:03.759 too. And so, yeah, I think I'm just over women 00:22:03.759 --> 00:22:06.339 with children, no offense. Yeah, no, that could 00:22:06.339 --> 00:22:08.859 be a boundary. Yeah, and she wanted to drink 00:22:08.859 --> 00:22:12.519 a lot. And I don't even drink, you know. But, 00:22:12.519 --> 00:22:17.220 yeah, with the 25, yeah, some of them are young. 00:22:17.279 --> 00:22:20.880 I mean, but I do feel like there are some younger 00:22:20.880 --> 00:22:23.440 individuals that are mature, maybe because they 00:22:23.440 --> 00:22:26.039 had to grow up and play, like, a mother role. 00:22:26.559 --> 00:22:29.079 uh while they're younger so that's where their 00:22:29.079 --> 00:22:34.079 maturity comes in at so yeah i can definitely 00:22:34.079 --> 00:22:36.539 foresee that i mean i've been curious especially 00:22:36.539 --> 00:22:41.400 in the lgbq community like what is what is really 00:22:41.400 --> 00:22:47.819 hindering girl on girl if females are easier 00:22:47.819 --> 00:22:50.519 than a little bit a little bit more than men 00:22:50.519 --> 00:22:55.559 then why can't the lgb become Why isn't everybody 00:22:55.559 --> 00:22:57.920 over there almost caked up? Like, everybody should 00:22:57.920 --> 00:23:00.660 kind of have a person. I mean, yeah, everybody 00:23:00.660 --> 00:23:03.119 should have a person. But then again, some of 00:23:03.119 --> 00:23:06.980 them don't want just one person. Yeah. Multiple 00:23:06.980 --> 00:23:12.000 women. Yeah. Yeah. So it's just some things move 00:23:12.000 --> 00:23:15.640 too fast. You meet her one day, then you move 00:23:15.640 --> 00:23:19.480 in the next week. So sometimes you can move a 00:23:19.480 --> 00:23:22.190 little bit too fast. If you're being intentional, 00:23:22.470 --> 00:23:24.970 I mean, it'll just happen naturally as far as 00:23:24.970 --> 00:23:29.690 all of that love stuff moving in. So, yeah. It 00:23:29.690 --> 00:23:32.509 won't be a week, but it'll be soon. Yeah. Oh, 00:23:32.529 --> 00:23:34.990 I learned my lesson. I learned my lesson. It'll 00:23:34.990 --> 00:23:37.369 be soon, but it won't be a week. It's just like 00:23:37.369 --> 00:23:39.849 when you are with someone and your feelings begin 00:23:39.849 --> 00:23:41.730 to grow stronger for them, you just want to be 00:23:41.730 --> 00:23:44.809 in their presence like 25, 8. But then that's 00:23:44.809 --> 00:23:47.970 where you have to place those boundaries. Because, 00:23:48.089 --> 00:23:52.390 yeah. You can get distracted by that. Yes. My 00:23:52.390 --> 00:23:54.529 thing is, baby, if I'm laying with you all day, 00:23:54.630 --> 00:23:56.150 how we going to make the money? How does rent 00:23:56.150 --> 00:24:02.170 going to get paid? How do we grow? On the material 00:24:02.170 --> 00:24:06.750 side, how do you want this? But we're just caked 00:24:06.750 --> 00:24:11.789 up and just laying around. I think we keep being 00:24:11.789 --> 00:24:15.769 curious. How do we keep being curious? If we're 00:24:15.769 --> 00:24:17.869 with each other every day, all day, every day, 00:24:18.349 --> 00:24:21.509 we gotta miss each other you know yeah we need 00:24:21.509 --> 00:24:24.029 curiosity oh what was she doing today i wonder 00:24:24.029 --> 00:24:27.029 what she's been up to curiosity that really helps 00:24:27.029 --> 00:24:30.829 i think you know especially just trying to get 00:24:30.829 --> 00:24:34.269 all the way into your relationship you know curiosity 00:24:34.269 --> 00:24:39.130 is the key interesting and uh when it comes to 00:24:39.130 --> 00:24:42.369 young versus older when it comes to dating experiences 00:24:43.670 --> 00:24:47.869 Which one would you think would creep off first? 00:24:48.410 --> 00:24:51.289 Would the younger people start talking to other 00:24:51.289 --> 00:24:52.869 people first, or would it be the older people 00:24:52.869 --> 00:24:56.029 that kind of creep off first and start talking 00:24:56.029 --> 00:25:00.670 to extra other people and be sneaky? What's been 00:25:00.670 --> 00:25:02.970 your experience? I mean, honestly, like I said, 00:25:03.250 --> 00:25:09.289 I only talked to an older woman that was a three 00:25:09.289 --> 00:25:12.109 -year -old. They're 30 years old. Yeah, that's 00:25:12.109 --> 00:25:14.490 the oldest I've talked to. And, I mean, you just 00:25:14.490 --> 00:25:16.710 never know, man. I mean, you don't know what 00:25:16.710 --> 00:25:19.029 they got going on when they leave my house, you 00:25:19.029 --> 00:25:21.750 know. And they're not going to. It's just a sneaky 00:25:21.750 --> 00:25:25.250 situation. But I do feel like the younger ones 00:25:25.250 --> 00:25:33.369 might sneak off to someone else. Because us young 00:25:33.369 --> 00:25:35.529 ones, we want options, you know. Let's say if 00:25:35.529 --> 00:25:38.230 they're not providing, then we want to move on 00:25:38.230 --> 00:25:42.349 to the next. or yeah it's just i don't even know 00:25:42.349 --> 00:25:46.289 if age really plays a part of that one so but 00:25:46.289 --> 00:25:48.730 i think you're right i think you like you just 00:25:48.730 --> 00:25:51.529 said that young want options yeah so i don't 00:25:51.529 --> 00:25:56.509 know why you want young yeah i mean not all of 00:25:56.509 --> 00:26:01.210 them want options but yeah older women they some 00:26:01.210 --> 00:26:03.609 of them come with they know what they want they 00:26:03.609 --> 00:26:06.190 are more intentional and they're ready to settle 00:26:06.190 --> 00:26:10.819 down and so yeah Yeah, so if you ask me, I think 00:26:10.819 --> 00:26:16.019 you should look into a little older. Yeah. I 00:26:16.019 --> 00:26:20.119 mean, hey, I'm single, so hey. Because, yeah, 00:26:20.180 --> 00:26:22.180 I mean, like you said, they know what they want. 00:26:22.480 --> 00:26:25.200 They're more intentional. They're not here to 00:26:25.200 --> 00:26:29.160 waste any time. Every hour is precious. Every 00:26:29.160 --> 00:26:32.000 minute is precious to them. So they know how 00:26:32.000 --> 00:26:34.259 to live like that. Hey, I'm going to be with 00:26:34.259 --> 00:26:36.099 my family. Hey, I'll be with you later. Yeah, 00:26:36.640 --> 00:26:39.279 they know how to rotate. They know how to also 00:26:39.279 --> 00:26:43.859 communicate. So, kudos to the older women. Uh 00:26:43.859 --> 00:26:46.380 -huh, uh -huh, uh -huh, uh -huh. Yeah, I think 00:26:46.380 --> 00:26:49.200 that'll be... I think if you're going to do two 00:26:49.200 --> 00:26:51.180 to three years, it should be two to three years 00:26:51.180 --> 00:26:54.539 older than you. Yeah. Nothing younger than you. 00:26:56.299 --> 00:26:58.920 Let the young that want options, let them have 00:26:58.920 --> 00:27:03.880 options. But the ones that know they won't, they've 00:27:03.880 --> 00:27:06.380 been through their option phase. Let's just say 00:27:06.380 --> 00:27:10.349 that. you know yes like even with some young 00:27:10.349 --> 00:27:14.049 ones sometimes we want options or people want 00:27:14.049 --> 00:27:21.170 options until um until we read that until we 00:27:21.170 --> 00:27:25.329 meet the right person yeah so i feel like yeah 00:27:25.329 --> 00:27:27.210 that just shows that we just didn't notice that 00:27:27.210 --> 00:27:28.769 we knew what we wanted but we didn't know how 00:27:28.769 --> 00:27:32.309 to say it yeah but me um when i meet the right 00:27:32.309 --> 00:27:34.210 person i'll be like oh i know what this was i 00:27:34.210 --> 00:27:39.589 pray for it Some things, if you don't, and that's 00:27:39.589 --> 00:27:41.150 the thing, you can get something that you've 00:27:41.150 --> 00:27:42.869 always been asking for and not even know that's 00:27:42.869 --> 00:27:45.250 what you've been asking for. That's where you 00:27:45.250 --> 00:27:47.470 can mess up on. So it's like, be intentional 00:27:47.470 --> 00:27:50.529 when you ask for stuff. Because you can mess 00:27:50.529 --> 00:27:52.289 something, you can mess a good thing up real 00:27:52.289 --> 00:27:56.089 quick. You know? I think everybody can. I know 00:27:56.089 --> 00:27:58.410 I have messed up a good thing real quick. By 00:27:58.410 --> 00:28:01.369 either rushing or not having a purpose in the 00:28:01.369 --> 00:28:04.150 relationship. So I definitely know that I may 00:28:04.150 --> 00:28:07.039 have messed up some things. Or just working too 00:28:07.039 --> 00:28:09.059 much. I feel like I would always work too much. 00:28:09.059 --> 00:28:10.880 Not knowing what's right in front of me. Yeah. 00:28:11.339 --> 00:28:19.140 That's it. Slow it down. Pump the brakes. But 00:28:19.140 --> 00:28:23.539 for me, mine was three to five. If you're going 00:28:23.539 --> 00:28:24.920 to do two to three, I think you should be two 00:28:24.920 --> 00:28:29.420 to three older. Nothing younger. Nothing that's 00:28:29.420 --> 00:28:33.480 trying to navigate through options. Yeah, 23 00:28:33.480 --> 00:28:40.099 is just a no -go. 23, 24. 25. 25 is bad. I mean, 00:28:40.119 --> 00:28:44.180 it's a two -year difference, you know, but, yeah. 00:28:44.460 --> 00:28:48.799 But it's still backwards. I know. I think 25 00:28:48.799 --> 00:28:51.200 would be fun to play with, but 25 to be serious 00:28:51.200 --> 00:28:55.519 with is, it takes a lot. And I know some 25 -year 00:28:55.519 --> 00:28:56.940 -olds that got their stuff together, but still, 00:28:56.980 --> 00:28:59.809 the way they talk. It's like you can have all 00:28:59.809 --> 00:29:01.430 the money in the world, but the way you talk 00:29:01.430 --> 00:29:05.009 just shows that you're not up to par, bookie. 00:29:06.369 --> 00:29:09.769 You may be letting all this masculine energy 00:29:09.769 --> 00:29:15.170 of you making money get to you, you know? Yeah, 00:29:15.170 --> 00:29:17.789 and I just feel like it's the person itself because, 00:29:17.950 --> 00:29:20.990 you know, all 30 -year -olds or people older 00:29:20.990 --> 00:29:23.069 than that don't have it all together, you know? 00:29:23.069 --> 00:29:25.190 Some of them are still just working a full time 00:29:25.190 --> 00:29:28.009 and don't really see anything past that. still 00:29:28.009 --> 00:29:31.549 wants you to provide for them and a fairy tale 00:29:31.549 --> 00:29:34.430 trick on them you know trick whatever name drinking 00:29:34.430 --> 00:29:36.710 on themselves yeah so i'm just like i don't even 00:29:36.710 --> 00:29:39.549 know if age really matters anymore to me you 00:29:39.549 --> 00:29:41.509 know i'm just like well no you don't want to 00:29:41.509 --> 00:29:44.630 settle so that i don't know not settling age 00:29:44.630 --> 00:29:48.089 does matter you just have to set it to know nobody's 00:29:48.089 --> 00:29:50.509 perfect and yet everybody wants a fairy tale 00:29:50.509 --> 00:29:54.410 situation young and or older everybody want a 00:29:54.410 --> 00:29:59.059 fairy tale situation you know Yeah. But at the 00:29:59.059 --> 00:30:01.480 end of the day, life is about how you make it, 00:30:01.559 --> 00:30:04.839 and every fairy tale that you have can come true 00:30:04.839 --> 00:30:07.579 if you work hard for it, you know? Yeah, that's 00:30:07.579 --> 00:30:10.099 true. Like, it's not a fairy tale if we put our 00:30:10.099 --> 00:30:11.759 hands together and actually get there, but we 00:30:11.759 --> 00:30:14.099 still got to be grateful. We got to do all that 00:30:14.099 --> 00:30:18.019 while we're there, you know? Ooh, child, I remember 00:30:18.019 --> 00:30:20.039 when me and Dennis, we went to London, right? 00:30:20.240 --> 00:30:25.329 Mm -hmm. We were arguing in London. It never 00:30:25.329 --> 00:30:29.029 in my wildest dreams that I picture myself arguing 00:30:29.029 --> 00:30:34.509 with anybody in London. I was like, this is so 00:30:34.509 --> 00:30:36.250 ghetto. That's what I was thinking in my head. 00:30:36.390 --> 00:30:39.089 I was like, this is beyond me. This is ghetto. 00:30:39.250 --> 00:30:42.470 I've never in my wildest dreams thought about 00:30:42.470 --> 00:30:48.289 arguing. But I'm like, we can call this for the 00:30:48.289 --> 00:30:52.849 train. You know, but it just shows I had to. 00:30:53.450 --> 00:30:56.049 I had to meddle the tone because I was like, 00:30:56.089 --> 00:30:58.190 you know what? The last thing I need is negative 00:30:58.190 --> 00:31:00.450 energy on the trip that I always wanted to be 00:31:00.450 --> 00:31:05.349 on. Get it together. We ended up being good. 00:31:05.609 --> 00:31:08.029 You know, I ended up apologizing, whatever I 00:31:08.029 --> 00:31:10.789 needed to do, because maybe the mood needed to 00:31:10.789 --> 00:31:15.450 be switched. We were in London, maybe. I always 00:31:15.450 --> 00:31:18.069 wanted to be there, you know? When we get to 00:31:18.069 --> 00:31:21.329 Paris, I don't want to hear a peep. You know? 00:31:21.569 --> 00:31:24.640 I'm just saying. But seriously, you just want 00:31:24.640 --> 00:31:27.359 to be able to celebrate and be present of where 00:31:27.359 --> 00:31:30.660 you are because these are rare situations, you 00:31:30.660 --> 00:31:34.519 know. It might happen again. It may not happen 00:31:34.519 --> 00:31:37.400 again. But just in case it doesn't, I want to 00:31:37.400 --> 00:31:41.039 be grateful for the time that we are here, you 00:31:41.039 --> 00:31:44.559 know. But life isn't perfect. People aren't perfect. 00:31:45.140 --> 00:31:48.240 Moments aren't perfect. But you make the best 00:31:48.240 --> 00:31:51.359 of what you have, you know. So that's what I've 00:31:51.359 --> 00:31:54.980 been doing. With the young, with the old, with 00:31:54.980 --> 00:31:58.779 life, you know, with the past, with the future, 00:31:58.900 --> 00:32:01.700 with the present. Making the best that I can. 00:32:01.960 --> 00:32:08.680 Making the best of it all, people. Okay? But 00:32:08.680 --> 00:32:13.559 it was a pleasure doing episode 60 with my girl, 00:32:13.740 --> 00:32:22.559 my twin, my amigo. Amiga. Yeah. It was a plundery. 00:32:22.900 --> 00:32:26.200 Episode 60. I'm going to wrap it up here. 6 -0. 00:32:26.319 --> 00:32:31.059 Let's go. Let's go. Let's get started. Well, 00:32:31.220 --> 00:32:33.279 actually, we're going to end this bad boy. Let's 00:32:33.279 --> 00:32:37.019 get out of here. Let's get out of here.