yeah that's how it usually happens it was usually
with that one video yeah that one moment that
one thing and then you're in yeah you just have
to keep keep finding the channel and then once
you find the right channel in the right moment
boom there you go yeah hopefully that's all it
takes well you that's that's what it will take
to really get in the spotlight yeah people will
be like They'll be vibing. It's because you have
so much content as well. Yeah. Then there'll
be something for them to see. There'll be a lot
for them to see. And then once you have that,
you actually gain enough data to then refine
your content. Because when you have that peak,
you have a lot more attention. And then it highlights
things because you'll have a lot more good attention
and you may have a lot more bad attention. Yes.
That's literally what it is. Yes. The volume
of... You know people looking at your content.
It's like the greater the greater the greater
the worst evil The more the more people that
like you the more people that hate you. Yes,
you know, it's a balance You got a balance in
our and I think that's just in life period and
life You'll you can't please everybody. Yeah,
but you shouldn't try to you shouldn't be a people
pleaser You should not try to please every single
person you come across some people should just
be grateful that they're in your presence be
grateful that it was an opportunity that they
are even supporting you you know be grateful
you know that's just what i think here you know
from the uk episode 57 we're here people shit
that's his life with your gal cecile and mr uk
he is here as well we're gonna get started let's
get started let's get started We're back people
we are back Episode 57 your girl your favorite
life coach years to steal Cecilia I'm here Yes,
I'm back from the lovely England the lovely United
Kingdom it was Yeah, I'm ready to talk I have
Especially yes, you know The family is here And
I mean Ramirez. That's right. You're here. You're
here. Okay I'm really excited to hear about this
trip because We specifically have been holding
off talking about it because we want to talk
about it on the show. Yeah Yeah, um, I'm excited
to talk about it What do you want to know? Starting
off with the very first thing I want to know,
because we've talked about this for other trips
you've gone on, not for this one. But how was
the plane ride? Was it the longest you've been
on or no? Yeah, the plane ride was pretty good.
Before I get to the plane, let's talk about security.
Sure. They took my hair oil. Oh, they took them
out? Yeah, my hair oil. You know, and I had a
bottle, and you know, it wasn't full. Yeah. But
they took it and I could have sworn I hid it
perfectly. But I guess I didn't. So they took
my ointment. That was crazy. I was baffled. I
was just like, ma 'am, I have natural hair. Do
you know what my hair was supposed to look like
without that? Vokey. Ma 'am, I don't even know
if they have grease over here in the UK. Ma 'am,
what are you doing? You're killing me. Literally.
So they took my order machine and I texted my
sister and let her know immediately, hey, order
machine's gone. Stored. You know? 9 -1 -1. They
took it, you know? The trip was canceled. Literally.
So I'm at the airport, I get the rest of my stuff,
and you know, I get ready to board my flight.
Had an issue trying to put my bags up there.
When I got on yeah, oh why? It's the foot the
stuff was heavy. I had one of them to put it
up there for me. It's basically different Yeah,
yeah, but on my way back. I did it myself, but
yeah I was definitely heavy had someone do it
for me was in those owl seats. It was pretty
good. I had Three meals on my way there Wow,
yeah, what'd you have? It wasn't nothing major,
it was something like some Chinese looking food.
Like chicken? Yeah, it's like chicken. Chicken
and rice, that's what it was. Classic. It didn't
give like drinks, so I had multiple wines on
that bad boy. Multiple. Some people had gin,
some people had beer. Gin on a flight, no thank
you. Oh, Dennis does gin on the flight. That's
crazy. Yeah, he does. I don't mind drinking a
bottle of gin specifically, not thank you. Yeah,
he would do some gin on the flight. Yeah. Uh
-huh. So I had gin. No, he had gin, sorry. Right.
I had wine. And it was pretty good. The flight
was pretty smooth, actually. Mm -hmm. So that's
what I enjoyed. The fact that it was just very
smooth, relaxing, relaxation. Yes. I was able
to put my feet up, you know, seat back. So it
was a pretty good flight heading there. And it
was, how many hours was it? I think it was like
nine hours. Oh. heading there long but if you
can work an eight -hour shift you can take sure
I know I can't I don't know about everybody else
but I know if I can work an eight -hour shift
yes I can take a nine to ten hour flight mm -hmm
so it was it was enjoyable for me really truly
an experience finally landed got there Dennis
Was late picking me up from the airport um Why
because this was all planned out we literally
knew what time I was gonna win all that But why
was he late? Uh -huh because once again my lovely
darling was being a gentleman He was late because
he bought me flowers I got to his car. There
were flowers beautiful flowers sitting in The
the seat sure and then he had a cooler full of
drinks and Then we stopped to get food since
the only thing he didn't have spoon Okay, so
that was major sure now. He knows though next
time I love flowers, but flowers and food Those
are two F's I love right flowers and food sure
okay, so It was beautiful though. I was very
grateful to have those beautiful flowers Yeah,
and put that I was out there talking to a professor
though, okay higher to Then this pulling up because
he was you know late getting me there. We started
minutes late. Mm -hmm, right? He's sitting in
the lobby Being a baddie anybody could have just
swooped me away, you know, I'm like anything
could have just happened Do you know? You gotta
be careful, Dennis. That's what I'm saying. Sometimes
you have to be very, very careful. Yes. You know?
He'll tell... He was telling the pilot, she's
precious cargo. Make sure she gets over here.
Wow. But when he gets the precious cargo, he'll...
I'm gonna be a little late. Oh, there you go.
Wait, wait, hold on. He knew the pilot? How does
he get a message to the pilot exactly? Well,
he wanted to delay. He wanted me to... Tell the
oh tell him that did you know right? But yeah,
he did request that yeah, I'm requesting that
you tell the pilot. That's funny. Okay That's
a good line. I'm gonna steal that actually So
I was like um After that when I finally got there
and I saw him You know, I was just walking talking
to some random people and I saw him at the end,
you know And it was like we had never left each
other. It felt like I had not, partially because
we talk every day and we're always on FaceTime,
but it literally felt like we had been in each
other's presence. Now it was different once we
got to his house. That's a different subject.
But in a bad way or what? No, it was just different.
Okay different means spicy So yeah Very different
when we got to his house But we stopped for food
first and believe it or not mind you my fight
was nine hours, right? Yeah How many hours or
in or minutes do you think it took us to get
home? Well, the fact that you're asking me in
the first place makes me think it's a long time.
Okay. I'm gonna guess 45 minutes. Okay, so Unfortunately,
we were out for about six hours. Oh my goodness.
Why? Why? Dennis wanted to take me everywhere.
Huh? Everywhere. First day. First day. Right.
No time to sleep. No time to sleep. Okay, he
doesn't empathize Right. I'm like sir. I am exhausted.
He's just we have to go to this place. Yes Yes,
he's excited. He's excited Excited I'm literally
Right. Now I'm cranky. Well, yeah, because you've
been on a flight for eight hours. Snapping, yeah.
I had to get some food, then I calmed me down
a little bit. The next you know, I snapped again.
Oh, no. After like 30 minutes of eating, after
I ate 30 minutes later, I snapped again. Yeah.
Because I'm like, you know what? I need some
sleep. Sure. Give me up this car. Uh -huh. Take
me home. And he took me home. Yeah. Yeah, we
went home. But yeah, I was like, I've been nothing
but generous. Six hours after a night. Yeah,
it was it was What a journey and what a journey
it was. That's what I could say that was and
that was just day one, you know, uh Now before
we go any further how many days was the total
you were there? 19 19 days. That's all that's
a little over half a month long time. Yeah, you
basically lived there for a bit I'm headed back
to yeah, what time wait, are you going to Amsterdam
or UK? so we can from the uk we're headed there
oh i see so we're gonna stop at home and then
we're gonna go there too yeah so um very exciting
that's um i'm gonna but i'm also gonna stop inside
we're gonna stop he's gonna stop here first okay
then we're gonna stop in kansas city oh really
what are you doing there visit my family okay
and then from there we're thinking to go back
to the uk wow so a full three stop Little destination
vacation. Well, not three from the UK. That's
where we had to know right for stop. Yep. That's
right So yeah, wow, so we're like That's real
nice So yeah Kind of get that in But yeah, cuz
there's nothing once we get to the UK it's nothing
to get to answer now Right cuz you're already
like you're basically there. I mean, how long
is the hour flight an hour flight? Yeah So, it's
like, once you get there, that's it. But we want
to stop and see family. Right. So, I want to
see my family in Kansas City. He wants to meet
them. And, like, in person. I'm excited. Like,
my auntie's gonna cook. I think she's gonna cook.
I want some, uh, neck bones or something. I need
some good, you know what I'm saying? Neck bones.
Yeah, I need something good. My auntie, they
used to cook all the time. Like something fall
off the bone something that like ribs or something.
I used to make ribs and all that So i'm thinking
i'm gonna actually make some ribs some corn bread
some mac and cheese Greens, you know what i'm
saying? Sure Some um some rice. Oh sure. That
sounds good black beans. Yeah Barbecue style.
So that's what I'm thinking. I'm excited. So
he's going to meet your family. I know he's met
your sister. Has he met anybody else in your
family? He's met everybody virtually. Really?
Yes. Okay. He hasn't met anybody in person. Because
we've been gone. How does it, virtually how?
Like on FaceTime? FaceTime and on the phone.
Sure. So he hasn't been able to actually meet
anyone in person, but people see the pictures
of us. That's interesting. Wait, so I didn't
know about this. How does that? How did those
calls go? Like, hey, what's up? Oh, he's pretty.
Dennis. Yeah, you know, he's pretty outgoing.
He's quick. Sure. Hello. Hello. You know, can
I hear Dennis impression from you? Yeah, that's
my impression. He's like, hello. Yeah, it's like
very soft, like, hello. And then you can hear
the British accent automatically in their amuse,
typically, you know. And he'll say something
like, um, uh, what do you call my sister? I don't
know if you call her like... I'm just gonna throw
it out, throw any slang out here, because I know
it's wrong. But it was something... In the sense
of like Queen Cabrinha You know like because
her name is Cabrinha my sister. Oh, it's the
way Yeah, but it wasn't that one. It was something
else. It was something like it was something
very like Extravagant and impressive something
that you would be like, oh, yeah that is me,
you know, so It was just funny him talking to
get him over the phone and He had fun, you know.
He had a problem with it. I met his family in
person. More people when I got down there. I
meet more and more of his family when I got to
the UK. So that tip really wasn't even planned.
His mom had came and she's just like, hey, you
want to come over? You want to meet the people?
I'm like, sure. OK. Because we had already needed
to pick her up from the airport. So we just ended
up. going there and we got invited to a wedding
but we didn't really want to go because it was
like towards the last days of our visit the wedding
was so we kind of just relaxed and think did
things our way you know really have fun and then
and then and then and then we go to london in
london itself has a story behind it sure It wasn't
just a trip to London. It wasn't just, you know,
hey, let's go to London. It was a lovely story
behind it. Because London was already on our
agenda. But we were having a blast where we were
at because it was so much to do. I was impressed
by so many people. It was so many different people,
different foods. You know, I was eating like
crazy. I was impressed from where I was it. I
Was settled down sure now locked in locked in
maybe London we got there that was on Sunday,
which is the last day I came back on Monday in
London was on Sunday London happened because
I miss my flight Oh. I miss my flight. And the
lady was like, I told the lady, I'm like, hey,
go up to the, I go up to the desk. I'm like,
hey. You know, ready to check in. Flight to Dallas.
Ready to go. She's like, to where? I said to
Dallas. And she's like, she basically tells me.
Really quickly with no no remorse. She's like
the felt the flight to Dallas is gone. Oh Yeah,
she's like it's gone They have an early check
-in you typically check in an hour early And
then you know, that's how it works. You typically
check in an hour early and then You know, that's
how you go go back. So I was like, all right,
so what's that? What's the options here? You
know, anything next? There must be a flight back,
right? Yeah? No? So, you know, I start panicking.
And then Dennis is like, calm down. Just calm
down. Because he can see that I'm panicking.
Oh, he's there already? Yeah, he's with me. He
didn't want to. He was like, I'm going to see
you off properly all the way off. So he's like,
we get there. and basically that she's like well
there's a flight tomorrow at 8 20 that leaves
at 8 20 they board at 7 30 you know i can check
you in right now and then all you got to do is
show up and go through security tomorrow so we're
like okay we'll do that so we did that we grabbed
the hotel that is at the airport and then we
were like you know what we have a full day because
the Flight was set for like 4 p .m. So we got
there like what two or three, you know rather
early so Really? You know what we got we got
a whole day kind of so, you know Monday was 20
minutes So the train was literally five or seven
minutes away We hit the train and we went to
London So that's how we got here nice that was
beautiful you were there for what a day then
yeah kind of all i needed i was exhausted yeah
is that the one you sent me a picture right you
sent me some videos that was in london right
yeah we hit so many major landmarks yeah yeah
i was i was so tired you know i noticed with
the pictures is that like the landmarks are really
cool too but i think they also have really good
lighting everything is lit really well very well
it looks very beautiful very beautiful and i
yes So it was like, this is even better. And
we got there during the day, but we ended up
staying through the night. So it was just like,
it got really beautiful at night. So that's some
of the best pictures from the night time. How
is the weather up there? Cause I don't know if
this is true or not, but what someone's told
me is that heat. like Dallas for example, is
different than how heat feels. Oh yeah. Is that
true? Yes. Why is why is that? It's beautiful
up there. I don't know why but the heat in Dallas
is a like a desert heat. Yes. And it's kind of
like Arizona in a way. It's hot out here but
over there it's like it's like cool. Okay. It's
literally like this how we feel in here. Just
cool. Very cool. you go out every day it's cool
like this just a mixture of high with a mixture
of cool cool cool sure nothing major nothing's
pushing it you know so the climbing up there
oh baby right baby i need that one yeah looks
like we need to give like a little uh patio yeah
so yeah it was pretty beautiful though just being
out there jogging and walking and engaging with
others too. Everybody's nice out here, especially
when they hear that you're from America, they
hear your accent. So they're impressed, amused.
And I'm amused by their accents as well, so that
was the kicker. Yeah, so what was the average
reaction you were getting from people who, because
I think people can tell you're a tourist, right?
Like, they just can tell that you're American?
Yeah. Yeah. Okay. What kind of reactions were
you getting? I was getting some pretty good reactions.
Sure. I even had, like, a conversation. Okay.
With a, what's it, you know, where was the other,
was he from Ireland? I have it. So he tells us
a story and I was, you know, I got a chance to
capture that moment. Sure. I left the, the, the...
The listeners hear it. Oh, yes, I captured it.
I'll let you hear it as well here. So let's play
it here here, folks. I'll let you hear the UK
for a second. You say something for me. I don't
know what you want me to say or why. OK, so after
hearing that, what did you think? It's cool that
it seems like you and Dennis are a good match
for like. Getting better conversations with people,
you know, yeah Getting conversations with strangers
because you're very outgoing and Dennis is very
outgoing too. Mm -hmm, right? And so especially
like combined you guys Yeah, some cool people.
Yeah, but I'm the star right, right, of course
Unfortunately, my man is my man, right? He's
a co -host You know, is he a co -host or is he
a guest? He's is he's a special guest. Okay,
you know You'll never see him, you know until
you see you Because it's funny, you know, obviously
you're talking to you're talking to the audience.
Don't talk to me Yes, I'm so of course I'm talking
about the audience Yeah, no, you won't see him
until you see him. Like if you see me out, we
don't be yeah But no, you don't see me out with
him. You won't see him. He's not gonna be all
social media He's not a social media person.
No, so we just mean just happen and be talking
and we just capture the moment didn't It was
nice. It was organic. It was natural. It was
in the UK. Right. You know? Importantly. Yeah.
So, he doesn't mind it. So, it was fun. Cool.
Yeah, just really invigorating out there with
people. I was stuck with so many people once
I actually got down there. Yeah. Stopped at like
a little smoke shop and they were like, this
lady was like, call me mama. Something like that.
That's just the name she goes by because she's
like the like the big mama of the neighborhood
in a way So yeah, she was a yes people used to
call my mother that so now, you know You know,
it's moved down to me. So I'm like, oh, okay
Interesting. All right, and she was just she
was very unique. She she her energy was very
I don't know. It was very different, you know?
Yes. She was telling Venice, like, you know,
you and your girlfriend are a very beautiful
couple, you know? So we got that a lot everywhere
out there. That's nice. And we were a beautiful
couple. So it was fun. But yeah, anything else?
Are you, are you curious? Well, so I'm curious
about, earlier you said something about it changed.
So you said that. When you met Dennis again at
the airport that it was like you would never
left, right? It was always like you guys had
been seeing each other for the which you have
been technically Yeah, but it's like you had
never spent time apart is what you're saying.
Mm -hmm You said except for when you get back
to the home. What does that mean? Well, can you
talk about on the pod? Yeah, I can I mean, it's
a lot shit. I mean it was so much, you know,
I'm gonna beep bleep out some things Was it was
a lot, you know ups and downs sure, you know
a roller coaster and It was it was a nice challenge.
It was a challenge. It was a challenge I think
I think everything every relationship has a challenge
Sure, so you go you go from your It's like you
think you're coming for out of your honeymoon
face, but really you're just going through a
challenge and if you get through that challenge
then Bam, you're back in the honeymoon phase,
you know, like you never left. So we had like
a little challenge and we were able to communicate
and just know like, okay, this is our boundary,
you know, this is my boundary, because your boundary,
this is our boundary, you know, even if I did
something, you know, he wouldn't like he would
communicate. So I like that, like we were able
to go through a challenge in a way, you know,
so you know it's like you now know somebody is
not fully perfect you know no matter how cute
they are so that's i like that you know that's
you that's when you realize just people are just
human just like anybody else you know cute or
not still human so uh yeah that was that was
you know we were actually you know we was banging
boom boom boom boom You know, we had some good
times good times, you know Making passionate
love. I mean after all the time spent apart from
each other. I think that's uh It was hard to
go out Because we were always in the house just
wanting to be even not just just we just wanted
to cuddle and just Under each other. We were
playing the game on his like I learned how to
play the console I've got a PS station app like
login now, you know, so yeah, I'm be a gamer
soon, you know Yeah, yeah, you know what I'm
saying. Yeah Good stuff good stuff. So yeah Just
kind of really connecting on different levels,
you know went to have a hike and all that so
Where'd you hike? Do you remember the location?
Um we went No, I don't know the location. That's
the problem. He always get upset. I don't know
locations. He's like you need to remember names
You always can't keep forgetting the names of
stuff. Yeah, but you remember the the sites always
Yeah, so don't remember the name specifically
because he doesn't remember either. Yeah, he
will literally call me and be like, hey, what's
the name? Like you weren't you telling me to
remember these names? Literally, you know, is
it cuz you need me to remember it for you? Yeah
we went to this park right and we basically we
were just walking through the uh because it it
was not even like a park we were just walking
to the store he's like let's walk to the store
it's 30 minutes away walking in my mind off the
bed i'm like 30 minutes walking are you serious
that's too much this boy is crazy but then again
i'm like you know what i've been calling myself
a nature girl now i gotta go be in nature that's
right But I gotta put my money where my mouth
is, clearly. You know, he's challenging me, clearly.
Somebody's calling me, you know, to the throne.
You know I'm gonna come. Hey, I'm gonna show
up. I showed up, I showed out. I also saw some
golfing on my journey. golfing golfing yes like
we went past a golfing course sure just to get
to the store i was like you don't go through
these type of adventures in america this is so
different you know it was very peaceful yeah
i'm like i can have a wedding ceremony out here
like we went through a lovely golf course yeah
so it was nice sounds like you just had a lot
of like nice sounds sounds like a lot of peace
yes a piece yeah a lot of peace there was there
was so much peace um and the thing is it was
just what exactly what i needed you know it was
like i went i also went to like a batana batonic
garden and it was just beautiful you know i was
a girl with wine sipping away and then i was
drinking hot tea yes i brought back some tea
i gotta get you some tea before i leave i'll
take some of that yeah i brought back some tea
is it like black tea or is it a green tea what
kind of tea no we got a rupus tea i don't know
what that is that is like an african tea and
it's very good i'm talking about huh very good
then there is like some lavender sweet tea that
i have Baby, it's going to be over. Once you
drink that tea, baby, it's over. So I'm like,
um, after that one, there's also, I think there's
like a, there's a green tea and then there is
something else. I forgot what it is, but there's
like four teas for sure. Okay. Wow. You brought
back all four? Yeah, I brought all four. The
other favorite out of all the ones you had? Yeah,
the Arubus. Oh, right. That's perfect. Of course,
the African tea. Yeah, the African tea. Even
then when I say it then it says no you're saying
it wrong and I'm like, you know, I can say that
one Yes Who's to say he's not wrong. Hey, that's
what I'm saying, right? That's what I'm seeing
here But anything else that you're curious of
for my trip It was it was beautiful, but I'm
curious if you just you know, yeah like when
you Compare because I think people say that sometimes
Americans are a little more polite unless you
go to like New York City or something Okay, do
you think that do you think that's true or do
you think people they're polite over there as
well? Well, let me tell you about an experience
now that you asked me that yeah, we went out
Exactly we went out, you know, it was time to
party, you know We get there, you know, I have
my drinks. He's getting he's getting some more
drinks And he comes back, and he looks a little
flustered. And I'm like, what's wrong? What's
wrong? He's like, that bartender. She just screamed
at me. Oh, screamed at him? Yeah. Why? I said,
she did what? Yeah. And he's like, I don't know
why she screamed at me. I just asked her for
some tequila. And she just screamed at me. You
know, she was like I guess she was mad that he
wasn't talking loud and he was talking loud enough
But she screamed at him like, you know, what
the and he was just like I was like, you know,
I'll get the next round So you knew who it was
she pointed out her because it's first he was
hesitant I was like, hey, um What who you know
what? I don't even know where So that's it how
we I didn't even want to know to who I just wanted
to know to where So where um, he was like no
You know, no, let's forget about no. I'm like
no. So the thing is that's my boundary, right?
You're gonna be flustered all night based off
that reaction Because you don't want me to fix
it, but little do you know? I'm gonna go fix
it So, yeah, I ended up seeing who it was that
did it, you know? Because he ended up eventually
letting me know. But I told him, like, I had
to calm him down because he was very flustered.
I think it triggered him a little bit, you know,
to be screamed at like that. So I was like, let's
take a breather. Yeah, let's take a breather.
because I was about to kill somebody. So you
don't get somebody marked up in this mother.
You know? I'm not even from this mother. You
get what I mean? You know? I was like, don't.
Hey, don't, don't test me. Hey, you know what
I mean? Nah, I mean, nah, it's fine. You know
what I'm saying? So I'm just like, it was a privilege,
you know, lovely opportunity to be out there,
but I would hate to get ugly. You know? It's
not what you're there for. That's what I'm there
for. Right. But I want to hate. But I have to.
But I have to. That's what I'm stating. You know
what I'm saying? Yes. So, you know, we got...
Look, I'm the last person who wants to make this
a bad situation for everybody. Literally. But
if you force my hand... Hey, I don't know what
to say. There's not much... That's on you. Literally,
that's on you. Right. So, we get out of there.
Because I'm like, we got to get out of here then.
Because if you're... You don't want me to say
nothing? I gotta get out of here. Right. So let's
get out of here before I don't say something.
Sure. So we get out of there and where do we
head to next? I think we head to like the next
little bar or something headed down. Had another
drink and all that, you know. And then we headed
out. We had the most fun just grabbing drinks
and then headed home anyway. Like turning on
the music and dancing in the house. You guys
are just having fun with each other. Yeah, just
enjoying each other's company. It's just immaculate,
you know. So we can do it anywhere. We can do
it in the car. We can do the, yeah. Dancing.
Yeah. So I'm like, it was just fun to also see
the UK folks. The best part for me was watching
people when they were drunk. Okay. When they
were jerizunk. Then you don't you can folks,
you know, they already it's just like fuck's
sake, you know, you know, they're already like
Mom, I you know irritable. Yeah very so with
a little Alcohol in their system. Oh, you're
this is a movie. I was in there with popcorn.
I was looking up Was yeah looking around with
my popcorn eating just yeah, I was intrigued
This is crazy. This is what what did he say?
You know, yeah, so They're a little aggressive
more aggressive when they have a little Liquor
in their system, of course, you know, but they're
interesting to watch, you know, and then I'll
tell them I'm from America. Oh cool, right? What
are you doing down here? This shit is this shitty
place What do you think about here? It's shitty,
huh? Like, oh no, it's actually entrance, actually.
Pretty nice, actually. Oh. You ever wanted to
be in America? Well, yeah. Yeah, actually, yeah.
A lot of them want to go to America. OK. So that's
the funny part. So they'll ask what part you're
from and all that. I'll tell them, well, I live
in Dallas. I'm from Kansas City, but I live in
Dallas. Oh, American football, Kansas City, you
know. Oh, really? Yeah. Wow, they know about
that. They know about the Chiefs. Okay. So, it
was just a whole different experience. I'm surprised
they know about NFL. Yes, American football.
So, they'll say, yeah, because, you know, they
got their football, which is soccer. Right. Well,
yeah, because soccer is, like, super popular
everywhere else in the U .S. Yeah. I was just
surprised. Yeah, I was really surprised that
they do about American football. Now which teams?
Yes, but American football? No. Right. So it
was an experience though, watching them drunk,
sober. Yeah, you know, just getting to know everybody.
Having experienced the time of my life with my
boy, my boyfriend. You know, yeah, we started
to pod. for a second out there. And then we were
like, ah, I was like, no, you know what, I'm
just gonna relax. You know, we'll be back. We'll
be back soon. We have plenty of time to pod later.
Yes, we have plenty of time to pod. Vacation
is for vacation. He made brisket every morning.
Every morning. Yeah. What was your favorite thing
he made you? My favorite brisket? Babe, when
he went to the bakery, The first day, he came
back with some pastries and muffin that kissed
my soul. I didn't know what to do. I was like,
yes. Is this a proposal? Are you asking me to
marry you? If so, the answer is yes. Yes. Yes.
Yes. Yes. Yes. But no, he was just giving me
some food. OK. but you know it was good it was
close enough so the food was immaculate oh god
that brisket was crazy and then he made me an
omelet oh he's an omelet guy i like omelets myself
he made me an omelet with mushrooms spinach tomatoes
the cheese that they have is not american cheese
it's something else way more very good as well
um throw some cheese in there um it was so delicious
it was showdily shush um literally bacon um we
had sausage uh yeah it was immaculate and then
i brought to the table of course because of course
i was not going to make him have to serve me
all these breakfasts as much as he did that i
enjoyed it i put my 20 in of course and i but
my 20 tasted like 200 percent right so amplified
of course so what i did was buy some sweet potatoes
some red peppers chop those bad boys up throw
a little olive oil put them in george foreman
little some um sausages on the side and he ate
those and he was just like this is the best breakfast
i've ever had mind you that was so simple And
he likes me omelets, you know goes to the bakery
He goes on his way. So I really love that about
him. I'm like, you know Very so he'll go get
you a bakery and get you a muffin and all that
and here I am Some sweet potatoes It was a simple
but he ate it and he was just like this is the
best it's the best simple You know that you can
make on the go may we love right? Yeah, and I
was like and now he literally makes it for breakfast
Oh, yeah before he go to work because I'm like,
it's a simple meal You can make it you can literally
have it going cooking while you're getting dressed
sure if you chop everything up and just put it
on there. George Foreman is cooking for himself
while you're getting dressed. So, you know, having
that nice little meal and see, it went to 200.
Because after that, he wanted to add, he wanted
to add that in everything. Sure. Like, okay,
let's make an omelet with the sweet potatoes.
That's like that, with the sweet potatoes. Sure.
So it was like, yeah, okay, we can do that. We
are, we're pretty good though. And so I've heard
mixed things about the food because I, because
some people will say that like, it's good. Some
people say that food in the UK is not so good.
It's good. It is? Oh, it's fire. I had lamb.
Maybe it's spots then that you... I had lamb
and they had bushers. So we had some lamb and
for like day and night we had lamb and all that.
It was so good. It was immaculate. And I was
just like, I want more. And really he's like,
we really want a lot. We should just go to the
butcher. The butcher will, you know, cut you
some lamb off. Versus just going to the store,
because the store, they just give you small portions.
And that's okay because, to me, with small portions,
I like small portions because I can have multiple
items if I have small portions. So, that's kind
of how I look at things. Like, I did that even
when we went out to eat. We went somewhere like
a... It was kind of like a... Don't want to say
hibachi, but it is kind of like a hibachi. It
was pretty good. It's like it's called guys shit
guys shoe guys shoe and Basically, it was so
good. You were able to make your own meat. So
I had some ox tongue That's where we cook ox
tongue and then I tasted ox balls Okay, ox balls
was very good. They call them where they call
there's another word for it like There's a word
for that dish. I forget what it's called though.
What? The uh, okra balls? Yeah, they call it,
there's a good thing they call it. Mmm, I don't
know. But you liked it, that was good? Yeah.
Yeah, it was very good though. Yeah, the okra
balls was just immaculate. The food was just,
oh! Chef's kiss, babe. Literally, chef's kiss.
Outside of that... you know the weather it will
rain for like an hour and then make sure no sunshine
it will literally wipe away as if it was never
wet outside a lot of rain then yeah and it's
a lot of walking around out there too so people
literally park their cars just to walk it's just
it's normal to walk it's normal to catch the
bus but like out here we don't normalize it we
just kind of You know, look down upon you from
around the bus over there. It's very normal for
you to ride the bus, ride the train, you know?
So, you know, you still have your interesting
people down there too, like the homeless. Okay,
what do you mean by that? The homeless people?
Yeah. They're interesting too. Yeah, why? Because
I like homeless people. Okay. I like to see.
Okay. I want to see some crazies, you know? So,
I was trying to see how they act, you know? I
like people without homes. Some of them are really
interesting people. They're good people to watch.
You know, some of them put on a show. Some of
them are interesting people. I'm telling you.
So, I was watching the homeless people down there
too. They're interesting. They're nice. You know.
A lot of people don't talk to each other down
there though. They just signal each other a nod.
Signal and nod. That's it. No talking. Nonverbal
society. Why do you think that is? It just never
was a thing culturally? It seems like everybody
is upset. Okay, everyone's irritable. The women
are a little bit stubborn. Aloof? Aloof. Because
I was speaking with people and they were looking
like I was speaking to this one couple. And she
was a little upset that I was making her husband.
I mean, not her husband. Yeah, her husband. My
bad. That was her husband. Her husband laughed
because the way they reacted, you would think
they were just friends, but they were married
for so long. I guess you can say there's no spark.
Well, that's not good. Well, I mean, I'm not
married. But he was, you know, he was interested
in my conversation. He was laughing with you
and she's like, absolutely not. Yes, absolutely
not. This is yours me this will not do this would
not do She didn't say it but she had the face
Dennis knows the look he was like, babe She didn't
like that. She really didn't like that because
she did invite me to the next location And when
I got out the bathroom, they were gone I was
like, oh That's rude, but I was like, it's fine
We didn't really come down here to meet people
and follow them. That was just a quickie You
ain't you ain't gonna threaten me with a good
time. You say never mind. Okay, let's go So we
were gone. So yeah, he was like, yeah, she didn't
really you know, but she really gave off She
regret was agreeing with me. She was laughing
with me But when I was engaging with him and
stuff and she was watching him laugh She was
just I guess giving him like though, you know
a stare sure, you know, I don't know I'm not
married to him. So there must have been a stare
that Dennis recognized And he was just like,
mm, babe, um, you know, that joyful spirit of
yours, you know, some people just... Don't like
it. Mm -hmm. You know. Well, that's on them,
you know? Yeah. Sounds like they're just miserable.
Yeah, because you can tell he was just interested.
He was, like, amused. Sure. You know? Just like,
you know, fresh, you know, American, and... Yeah,
it's not every day you get to talk to somebody
who's from America, right? Yeah. If you're in
the UK. Exactly. So it's an experience within
yourself. So it's just like, sorry that everybody
doesn't see life as an experience. There's no
reaching some people. Yeah. Even in the UK. Even
in the UK. Oh, yeah. Yeah. So it was just one
of many experiences, but it was lovely. um yeah
hitting the bars talking to people i feel like
a regular person well regular you can you know
i was like you know i think i really live you
know i think i can you know i've heard that one
before yeah what yeah you know i think this is
my home i think you i think you said something
similar after you spoke with someone at the gas
station who spoke Spanish to you yeah and afterwards
you're like you know what i think i'm a spanish
town yeah you know and i think you know what
and for the record audience i think she does
i think she's right about that yeah i'm like
i think i think this is home you know what i'm
saying people are greeting me they're overly
welcome the food is immaculate this cannot be
home you know so yeah I'll be back. I'll be back.
Running back. I'm talking about. Back in a heartbeat.
I will be back faster than you can say back.
Okay? She's back? Literally. Yes. Where's the
food? Stack up on the lamb. Yeah, I'm coming.
So it was just a lovely experience. We're gonna
go out more. We went to a zoo out there. That's
where I got that. you know, lovely souvenir for
you. Yes. The zoo. Very nice. Very nice keychain.
Very nice. We went out there. We went out there
to see some of your family members. Yeah, it
was an experience. It was fun. And yeah, we're
going to do more things going out there, you
know, but. We will be wrapping up here. We'll
do a part two soon about this trip here. Yeah,
back from the UK. It was an experience. You know,
ever since I've been back, I'm getting back to
work. I'm going to be getting in more content.
So we'll be back in the studio before you know
it because I'm back now, baby. Get to it. Let's
get to it. I'm excited. So I'm ready to talk
about my experiences out there. It's just my
relationship update. It's been a journey. Which,
you know, it makes sense since you guys had spent
so much time apart and then so much time together
again. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's been a journey.
So we are getting to some things where Dennis
may be right. You know, I don't say that often
because some people ain't right. They think they
right. I guess he made me write it. He made me
write it. You got a point, sir. Now be quiet.
Don't say it again. Not too much. We got it.
We got it. Darn it. You know, these British men,
they can't wait to rub it in your face. So yeah.
Other than that, he's a sweetheart. But when
he say, I told you so, it's like, you know, I
wasn't going to say I told you so, but I told
you so. Well, you just said it. Literally. You
know? But yeah, my sweetheart loves me. That's
just love, of course. Yeah, it was a pleasure
though. Episode 57. We're gonna get out of here,
Ramirez. Thank you for stopping by. Of course.
I missed you. Always a pleasure. Yeah. It was
always a lovely, lovely time to part with you.
Always. We're gonna head out of here because...
We're gonna go out there and smell the roses
again, okay? Gonna prepare for the next day.
It's gonna be a work week this week, you know?
Busy, busy, busy one. So, um, we're gonna head
out of here. Bye! Bye! Bye!