Welcome back, welcome back, welcome back. It's
the day. It's time. It's time for the UK. At
age 27, your gal, Cecile, your favorite life
coach here is headed to London, headed to the
UK, headed to the hot tea. Ready to get down
to it. You guys I'm excited. This is episode
56 Let's get started you guys cuz what shit that's
just life your girls headed to the UK We gotta
get started up. All right, let it go So you guys
Welcome welcome here episode 56 shit. That's
just life You guys are pre -recorded episode
56 Because your girl your favorite life coach
here will be on a plane headed to the UK So 56
episode was pre -recorded with your favorite
girl me Cecile And special guests special guests
Ramirez special guests clever cuts CJ on this
episode. We played a game called the da da da
priorities So, you hear the game priorities,
we talk about the game, we talk about the options,
and we talk about life. Shit, that's just life,
you know? Life doesn't stop a -lifing. Your girl
doesn't stop being fine! Alright, I'm sorry.
Nope. But, you get it? You know? You guys understand.
I'm headed to the UK, I'm trying to hold it in
to be professional here, but I'm ready to get
over there and start acting like a - acting like
a nickel -it. I'm kidding. At least acting like
I have no home training. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes.
I want someone to look at me and be like, you
Americans. So, um, I'm excited. I'm very much
excited. But like I stated, this episode 56 was
already taken care of. We pre -recorded. But
it was a pleasure to do the introduction because
your gal is getting ready to hit the plane. Yes.
The plane lands tonight, people. The flight is
tonight. the plan really lands in the morning
but the flight is tonight it is overnight you
guys it is a lovely Wednesday the birds are chirping
here in Dallas now I need to see if the hot tea
is hot teaing in the UK I need to work on my
accent before I get over there just so I can
blend in it's just so many things I need to do
you know it's a lot of things on the to -do list
so that's why I have the episode pre -recorded
for you guys all right shit That's just life.
Life is life, and I'm headed to the UK. I still
cannot believe it. Mm -mm. And it's so funny,
I'm headed there. Wow, the government is just
going through such, you know, non -cutesy, non
-demure situations, okay? That's all I can really
say, okay? Considering I'm a worker. Not for
long, but I'm a worker, okay? So, I'ma head out.
You guys. I'm going to start the episode because
I'm not actually heading out. I'm just going
to start the episode here. Wish me luck. We will
record from the UK as well. Maybe, maybe not.
I'm just not sure. I'll figure the one out later.
I got to let the life take me. You know, it takes
the pie too, but I got to let the life take me
first, darling. Life is life -ing. It's taking
me there. It's taking me places. UK, I'm headed
your way. Episode 56. Let's go. Let's get you
into it. Your girl is just the flight away. Okay
episode 56. Let's go Okay So let's pod baby Long
time no see we got the crew here The three musketeers.
We got me, Cecile, your girl. We're here, episode
56. We got Clever Cooks, Ruby, Clarissa, CJ,
if you want to introduce yourself. And your favorite
co -host. My favorite co -host is here, people!
Ramirez! i guess i'm not a co -host i guess i'm
a guest guest special guest you know co -host
always holding it down coming in weekend he's
a busybody brp brp yeah hold it down hold it
down i do like brp yeah well um this is a nice
special episode we'll do episode 56 here let's
play catch up you guys you know i'll be heading
to the uk you know so i'm excited i'm excited
are you going to keep that accent the whole time
or yes yes i will but until days until i go to
the uk i'll be speaking you okay with the uk
accent i like that i want to hear that that's
a vlog though because i want to see how long
you can really speak in that action um yeah i'm
dying to see people's reactions yes so to what
To me and an American, you know So I want to
be around them doing different stuff and I definitely
Want to just try some stuff out. I want to be
able like, oh my god. What is this? Oh my god
What the heck is this? I just want to see some
reaction. I don't know if you won't even say
heck Not down there, they know right, but they
they'll know I'm not okay. Oh, I hear certain
things Okay, he's American right? Yeah, that's
they're gonna say yeah Yeah, I love that so that's
always nice. I think it might work then I think
it might get old Well, I think I don't know if
it'll get old but I know it'll be interesting
You know, I know they'll be intrigued and entertained.
So sorry, sorry here people. Let's get started.
Let's get it started. Let's get it started. So
here, these are some interesting choices for
Sesty because there's a few of these that I think
she really does like. I think she likes England.
I think she likes Netflix. I think she likes
these four, specifically. A good amount. Any
thoughts? Yeah, I guess you can figure that out.
I got questions. What's interesting coming up
with you? What's been going on, actually, Ramirez?
You've been gone, you've been... Well, I'm going
to New Mexico for Father's Day in a week. Is
that El Paso? Uh, it is, it is near El Paso.
It's a, it's an hour drive from El Paso. Okay.
Going to a city called Ri... Riadoso. Okay. Riadoso.
You said where are you going again? Riadoso,
New Mexico. New Mexico. It's a city in New Mexico,
yeah. Cool. That's cool. You have a new haircut?
I do, yeah. Okay. Notice that haircut. Yes. Um,
that's a nice haircut. Thank you. Yeah, I like
that. It's good for the audio, our audio podcast.
Yeah. A visual thing. Yeah, love the, love the
haircut. Thank you. But yeah, that's uh, I was
coming up with me. I'm going to Mexico It's always
nice to go up there. It's a little more like
foresty. Okay Still it's a little close enough
to the desert that you know, it's not like the
most dense forest, but okay. It's nice Okay,
you guys gotta get some partners. I'm I'm down
to do some double dating triple a triple dating
Some all -inclusive resorts adults only let's
get crazy let's go back to cat bird with our
spouse or what a date not even a spot yeah yeah
let's just you know having fun you know getting
out there now an adult only resort what what
happens in an adult only resort no children are
there oh that's it only just as i said yeah well
that sounds nice no children is uh you don't
you don't realize it until you're in a place
with no children how nice it is yeah And I didn't
realize that. I was like, oh, goodness, there's
no children here. And that's different. That
is very, very different. Yeah. So when I went
to my all -inclusive resort and there was children,
I was like, OK, so the next one is no children.
So I'm excited about just doing some stuff, having
a boyfriend and being able to do stuff like that.
Because you know, me, I was going to do it anyway.
It's just going to be by myself. I was going
to be a little pervert watching everybody else.
you know yeah it's gonna be a perfect well it
doesn't have to be you can just be you know i'm
cool or something interesting are you guys over
there kissing what are you guys doing oh my god
what's going over there see i knew you was gonna
go with england kissing um netflix is third oh
i was just saying like which one should go but
let me see And for my listeners, you guys, we're
playing a game called Priorities. So they're
trying to figure out which numbers, which one
I like, my likes, and my dislikes. You get what
I'm saying? So from one to five, you got to figure
out what I pick here, people. My options are
England, kissing, Netflix, friendship, harmonizing.
So we got to figure out which your girl, your
favorite life coach here will be picked. What
did I pick? I know England is definitely in the
top three. I think I think I don't know if it'll
be the right here or keep it here. So I think
this is a nice startup right here. I agree. And
then harmonizing is like singing music. Yeah.
It's like when two pitches are come together
to like have a two different pitches come at
the same time. So it's like a harmony. Okay.
And I do that pretty often, right? You guys think
I have to sing pretty often? No? Yeah. You sing.
Yeah. Why does it just stop there? You sing.
Now do you harmonize is a different question,
but you sing and you sing well. Yeah. Well, okay.
Harmonizing is a very specific thing though.
Okay. You have to be a little, I can't do it.
You have to be like trained to do it. There's
like, there's well who there's like. aesthetic
right so i i feel like well is just not where
i am so you heard you don't do it necessarily
well and you that you thought oh i actually do
it better than well exactly so i'm like what
is what is a well i mean well is like cute you
know what i'm saying it's i guess i was trying
to protect your feeling here's what i'll say
here's what i'll say about harmonizing is you
can do it probably okay interesting yeah which
is you know that's good not everyone can do it
okay right okay yeah oh wow okay you know i am
in for rude awakening it's not a skill that i
have i'll say that too you know yeah well you're
not me that's that's for certain right you know
i've been able to crack some glasses you know
and that's in a good way No, that's actually
good. That you can reach a pitch that high. Is
that the idea? Yes. That's exactly what I'm doing
too. I think it's fit. And not because of skill
level, just because of what, compared to the
rest of these things, I think that... it is the
least liked okay so that makes sense okay let's
review these answers oh wait i like that or are
we good okay before we reveal anything exciting
with you ruri sure um i mean i'm meeting some
friends okay you're blushing i'm not blushing
no for real like i feel like it's definitely
time to just Get back out more. Have some fun.
Spread your wings. Yeah. Maybe because the wings
been down for a little bit, so last time I spread
them. I'm a little scared because I don't know
how wide I'm gonna spread them. Yeah. Yeah. Slowly.
Definitely ready to be happy and travel this
summer. Yeah. And just have fun. Yeah. Stay tuned
for the swag, you know? Stay tuned. Ay. Because
I'm gonna help you out. I'm ready for you to
get out of black. Get in order. Hold up. Don't
do that. No. I love black. Because I just put
it on today. No, I know you love black, but you
know I like colors too, but black this was see
black is my go -to color I know I just don't
know what to wear. I know it's your thing. I
know Yeah, I know but that's what's that something
to get you out. I want it out black it out. Yeah,
so something like a olive green Like like my
my Cecile collection you guys are listening Cecile
Creations .com No, seriously, but like my suit
collection. That's the reason why I was giving
you colors just to get you color Yes, you know,
but nothing that's too Nothing that just doesn't
really fit you. So I've got you like copper and
just a different color But I'll be getting more
colors though. I don't really like life brings
But we don't wear what we wear so Yeah, no. I
think that's nice. I think it's good for our
setting. Sure. Yes. I wouldn't wear this out
to a dinner. Right. I know you wouldn't. But
I think it's cool. He's chill. I think it's cool,
but it's a chill. You see, everybody don't have
the dress how you want it to be. They sure don't.
That's why I like y 'all. I like y 'all because
y 'all come in y 'all style. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
But if y 'all hungry, it was like, hey, Sissy.
And I'll be like, you need me? Well, yeah. As
a matter of fact, I actually had a hanky chip
waiting for you. But if you didn't want it, of
course, it's no rush here. I actually have a
few notes for you in my notebook here. But other
than that, I think it'll happen gradually. And
what it is, it just shifts like, bruh, your style
is shifting. And you're coming back into your
older, how you used to dress me. You used to
just get dressed to go get nice, just to go to
the dumpster. Ruri would get dressed up. She
would put on cologne and everything down to the
jeans. Down to the jeans just to go to the dumpster.
I'm talking about Jordan. She didn't understand,
but I understood. A whole Nike fit just to go,
a whole Nike just do it, just to go to the dumpster.
Like, you're just going to the dumpster. I don't
do that now, though. No, it's what I'm saying,
bud. Oh, okay. That fashion. The shift. Yeah,
that tone of fashion that you were wearing back
then is the stuff that you're bringing out now.
But now you're going to more than just the dumpster.
You got more places to go. You know? And now
you're going to the, you know, the brunch. You
go to places, you know? But that's just manifesting
in your own way. She had nowhere to go but the
dumpster. But she made sure she was, you know,
nice. She's like, my girl might be there. On
my way there, she might be there, you know? And
the dumpster wasn't far from the apartment, so
you could be looking out the door like, what
is she doing? You never know. You gotta stay
ready. You just might meet the love of your life
at the dumpster. I tell y 'all, you never know
what's over your sleeve. She's always ready.
That's for sure. Ready is another question. But
all right, I just wanted to get into that, but
you're excited about dating. You're just navigating
out there, excited. Yeah, I'm just going to take
it slow. I mean, just let it happen naturally,
too. I don't want to force anything, and I don't
want anyone to force anything on me. Upon you,
yeah. But is it it's fun though scale of what
it's in how fun it's gonna be interesting I definitely
have to as I'm growing I want to be more mature
like with it dating with the intent to marry
because when I was younger I was just being around
I think about no marriage. Oh So that is that
is the goal. Yeah Anything for you before I turn
mine are you dating to marry? Sure, well the
day that that changes. Yeah, we have to drink
before before like if you're like, hey sassy
I think I'm ready. I'm like well one last hurrah
before you go down Yeah, I mean at least one
last boys night out even though I'm not a boy,
right? I got you. So yeah, you know one last
I'm so glad that I'm talking about my intent
to marry on the pot. Yeah For real, you gotta
date around and see like who, like you gotta
peep out their characteristics, their personality,
just them as a person. I feel like this, right
now what I'm doing, it's a good time to do it.
Yeah. Because I don't wanna delay it and not
saying that there's any late age to date around
and what they tend to marry, but. I have the
intent to marry partially because I want to be
engaged for like two years, three years. Because
if my man pisses me off, I'm taking off that
ring. Like a movie moment. Yeah, I need a few
movie moments before I actually get married because
that will be a part of the movie moment as well.
You're a very theatrical person. I know, I'm
sorry. Nah, it's not a bad thing. You just like
those movie moments. I love those movies moments
and you know my life has so far been a movie
moment like meeting a guy that is from the UK
I'm like this is something this is some from
the movies people we're in the movie so you know
I think it's a it's a it's a blessing it's a
lovely opportunity um you know and I told Dennis
all the time I was like hold on if you didn't
have an accent You would just be some regular
old guy. You think so? That's what I tell him.
Yeah. I mean, he would be interested because
he's ecologist, you know, but I'm like, other
than that, and he loves nature, you know, I've
never met nobody that loves nature as much as
he does because almost as much as I do. So other
than that, I'm like, he's pretty freaking normal.
Sure. You know? And I'm like, you know, you don't
change into nothing maybe have some wings or
something. I don't know, you know Something you
know, can you do something maybe you run that
out? Dennis strikes me as someone who has like
a magic ticket a magic trick or two obviously.
Yeah Yeah, well He's very romantic. That's what
his Magic trick is. He's a poet. He's you know
You hear that, Dennis? I assume he's also. Look,
yeah. So maybe next week. He sometimes tags in
late. I'd be like, did you listen to the pop?
Yes, I did, babe. I said, so what did I say?
Oh, pop quiz. Yeah, always. So what did I talk
about? Babe, the connection. The connection,
babe. Oh, you're breaking up. Yeah. I'm always
breaking up when I'm asking about something important.
So yeah. um you gotta come prepared yeah with
sassy you can't you can't be you can't be caught
but yet he always is yeah yeah before i go deep
into not to be cooking at night but before i
go too deep into mine let me show my answers
people 63 is there's no 64 okay oh was that 84
oh was that an 80 oh okay no that is wait where
did this number come from i don't know maybe
i was looking off okay so i'll restart one was
kissing okay okay yeah all right we're gonna
come back to that one uh third uh third was england
okay third was england um we got the last one
right we got those two netflix was uh number
two oh so we got this one right then too yeah
oh we got we got these three right Netflix was
number two. Well technically you should give
us one because 64 was not number three was um
number three was english so we had kissing was
number one number two was netflix number three
was english number four was friendship number
five was uh harmonizing okay yes yes yes yes
because i love singing i can't sing but i'm dying
to learn I think I can push myself to be a good
singer. Oh my gosh! What? Kissing was first.
I literally, I thought about that. Kissing is
whole order. You said that. You said that. I
love kissing. But then we never did it. See,
the thing is England is third because, I know
he's 16, but England is third partially because
I still get to know England, you know? Oh yeah,
I've been there too, yeah. Yeah, I have not been
there, you know? So I'm, you know, I'm like,
we haven't been there, we're getting there, and
I'm still getting to know England in a way there.
But believe it or not, when I get down there,
it'll be five months that we've been dating.
Five months? Yeah. I hope this one is longer.
I'm like, if we make it over a year, I need to
pat myself on the back. I need to get me a tattoo
or something because I've got to do something
crazy because I haven't been in a relationship
past a year. So yeah. I've tried it. I think
they let me before I looked I don't know something
happened, but we didn't make it past the year
I'm like, how do it it's been a year nothing
more So yeah, I think this is gonna be exciting
like I said, this is also my first Real relationship
my first actual real relationship as a grown
-up as an adult grown up you know yeah i think
this is my favorite so so this will remember
spelling priorities uh this is our side this
is the games so yeah okay oh here we go Okay
question you guys since I've got you out here
it's Nick's person's turn It's just the English
spelling. This is an English game Okay, UK spelling
question. How do you feel about plan is safe?
In what respect? When it comes to dating plan
is safe like in the beginning of the date when
you're like, okay Do I kiss her now? Plan is
safe. How do you how do you? Feel about that.
How do you navigate with planet safe? What do
you know not to play it too safe? When I say
that really I mean in a general aspect with dating
with life as if like let's say you've got a manager
that gets Over you know overstepping boundaries,
you know and also with dating. How do you get
yourself off that? How do you take yourself into
that leap of okay? I'm gonna do it. You know,
you played the safe all night How do you stop
playing it safe? What's your way to navigate?
Well, for me, for the first date specifically,
I'm playing it super, super safe. Probably a
lot safer than maybe what people would recommend.
But I figure if you can make a passive first
date by playing it safe and they're still interested,
then that's something, right? If they get turned
off by you playing it safe, then... they probably
wouldn't like me in the first place yeah that's
how i think that's how i think of it so i'm not
you know i'm not going in for a kiss or anything
on the first day you're not no okay what about
the second date oh gosh i'm curious probably
not i know no okay it's just not my style yeah
no okay what about you riri camera click where's
that riri what's the question how should we go
how should we approach you i'm sorry because
i'm using like three different that i call you
on the spot Right. Just people trying for clarity.
Good confidence. CJ. Okay. Well, Riri is a family
nickname. Oh, CJ. Everybody looks next to her,
so. Are we family? CJ is. Yeah, it's the initials
of my name. Okay. So CJ, what is a good one plan
is safe dating wise? Have you figured out how
to navigate from playing it safe? Do you know,
hey, when's the best time to stop playing it
safe and just go in and... I mean, if you get
a gut feeling and your intuition is telling you
to go for it, why not go for it? I mean... No
one likes to live, right? Do you get that gut
feeling on day one? I don't know. I don't know
if it'll be a gut feeling or me. Me wanting to
do it, so... like forcing it so i don't know
i feel like it'll come natural as far as well
that is i don't think it's not day one it's not
day one okay okay i agree with that okay yeah
it's never day one maybe day three maybe date
three but not day three okay cool cool good thing
you clarify that up okay so america agreed that
you will be more of a and by the way sometimes
it might it may not happen on day three it just
that that is probably the earliest that is possible
for me yeah okay yeah interesting for me yeah
i was gonna say i don't think you agree with
that no but plain is say i say first things first
seize the moment always seize the moment you
know you feel it you seize the moment you know
when you see the girl and you hoping that's her
or you're you know you're like let me try something
new try something new see the moment the moment
of something new you know try something that
you never would try before or something you think
that's out of your out of your lane something
you just would you know some you know something
that's like in between like she looked like she
might like me but if she doesn't I guess I can
definitely say I had fun. Okay. You get what
I'm saying? So I think look at it as an opportunity
because the opportunity can take you far or it
could just be a nice... It could be a dead end,
but the dead end won't really be the way that
you phrase it. It'll be more like a trip that
ended quickly. But it was a lovely trip. Every
trip is lovely. One thing about a trip or a vacation,
they just end quickly, you know? I guess my question
to you is what happens when the person is definitely
not into it? Definitely not into it. Let's say
you go for it and they're like, whoa. Seize the
moment. How do you respond to that? So when I
say seize the moment, I guess I should elaborate
on that. To seize the moment, I'm not saying
go in there with a kiss. I'm saying seize the
moment if, go in there, we're confident it's
how you're doing. My name is such a sense with
yours. Oh, yeah. Yeah, seize the moment as you
get to know the person. I mean, sometimes people
are shy to even. Go talk to the girl. If you're
on a date, you should definitely, you should
definitely talk to her. Well, I'm not even talking
on a date. I mean just meeting somebody. Oh,
you mean like just a random encounter on the
street or something? Yeah, I mean both though.
Honestly, like if you were to be inside of a
place and you've seen somebody that you're attracted
to, do you play it safe or do you just stop playing
it safe and be like, you know what, I'm gonna
text it to her. I don't know if she's attracted
to me, but let me just go in here with her. Let's
see what I can come out with. Seize the moment.
Mm -hmm. Yeah, we're seeing she can say no, right?
That's true. Yeah, are you? We're fine with either
one. I think either one of those was still Last
up was from breathing the next day. It won't
kill us, you know, what typically won't kill
us makes us stronger So yeah That's all I was
asking here. All right, who's parents next? Look
get to that when it takes a minute Okay, I think
Specifically with what we were talking about
for you just now. This has got to be number one.
This is something that you're looking for Okay,
so we return in the game priorities and we she
has options and I say really as in CJ because
that is my twin New to you. Oh to me. No, but
so CJ options here on the game priorities is
love body odor yes over sharing fortnight and
fox news so wow cj writes down your answers you're
done already okay before we get into cj answers
we'll talk about the next topic because it's
kind of wrapping up here on the episode okay
next topic here let me know what you guys think
about being scared of the uncertainty How do
we feel about being scared of the uncertainty?
What does that really mean to you? Scared of
the uncertainty? I mean, it's basically not knowing
what's going to happen next. You don't know how
to feel. I mean, sometimes we are caught up.
Well, me personally is caught up in trying to
control things. But when it comes to not knowing,
that can be a little scary. And I guess the next
question to end that off is... How do you navigate
through it? How do you conquer being scared of
the uncertainty? Or is that something you're
still navigating through? I think it's something
that I'm still navigating through. I mean, there's
no specific way of how to navigate through it.
It just happens. You will eventually start to
find your way as you're going. You just gotta
go. Okay. Yeah. Do you think just going, like
you said, hey, you just gotta go. Is that easier
said than done? It is. It is, because it's opportunities
in life that I probably missed because I didn't
just go overthinking. Are you overthinking the
process before you get there? Yeah, I try to
map out the whole entire thing when I don't even
know how it was gonna go. But that's the form
of control. you know and have you been letting
go of control lately i have you know just working
on just going with the flow you know whatever
happens happens do you remember when i told you
you were a control freak you almost snapped says
the same person that said it takes one to know
one we are both we're twins yeah and that's something
i really recognize is how much we are alike yeah
we're twins so it's like I told Ruri, I was like,
you know, sometimes you like to control things,
but I only know because I like to control things.
You know, things that don't have... I didn't
realize I was a control freak until I actually
tapped more into myself. I'm like, oh shit, you
know, she's right. You know, we are so much alike
than I thought. And Ruri will do little things
like, yeah, so, you know, there's dishwater in
the sink. Soon as I get home, like, you know,
it's your way. Like, it won't be soon as I walk
in. She'll wait maybe like 15 minutes after I,
if she hear me on the phone, if she hear me on
the phone, then she might be like, you know,
oh, yeah, I made some dishwater for you. And
then walk away. So in my eyes, I'm like, well,
clearly she want me to do the dishes. It's clear
as day. She made it for me, not for nobody else.
That was only that one time when I was tired,
girl. And I was like, hey, do you mind doing
dishes? So how I was saying it, I was like, well,
I made dishwasher, dish water, just helping you
out. Not saying, hey, there's dish water. I was
just saying, hey, well, I made some water. Yeah.
No, and the thing is, I knew what was going on,
but I'm like, I guess she hasn't picked up that
I don't go to sleep with it. I'm extremely tired.
As soon as I walk in my room, I pass out. But
other than that, no, I conjure up the energy
to clean up those dishes before I go to sleep.
I'm not going to sleep with no dishes. It wasn't
many, you know? Yeah, it wasn't. But I was laughing
in my head. I laughed. I told Dennis, and he
laughed because he was like, oh shit. He know
not to even be like, hey, so did the dish water
for you. Wait, what? No, it wasn't I didn't take
it as that I just knew you you were really like
worried like don't forget But what it is is what
I see what you do to me I see what I do to Dennis
because he does seem a little sensitive it's
okay dennis because hey we all have a little
we all got some emotions on yeah he's actually
calling in right now dennis on the line shut
the hell up no he's not i'm like don't say that
because they think he better be asleep i'm like
i'm gonna say he better be mother f*** late we
had a six hour deep he's about to call five four
three no it is dennis thanks for calling in no
no next time though i want that to happen that
would be fun So, yeah, other than that here,
when it comes to scared of the uncertainty, Ramirez,
what are you thinking? I think that... You heard
the question that I asked, what it is and how
do you navigate and are you still trying to navigate?
I think it's very natural to get like a little
scared or, you know, just nervous about uncertainty
and what the future has in store for you. I think
that for me, There are some like, I think you
call them coping skills, which is like being
able to say, okay, look, yeah, there's some things
that I don't know about the future and there's
some things that I am not certain about and maybe
I'm a little worried about, but I can have comfort
in the things that I do know about, like things
that I am certain about, things that I have planned
for myself that I can say I have a fallback,
I have like a good foundation for myself, stuff
like that. so i think that's even more reason
for you to explore the uncertainty to explore
it to look into it more yeah considering when
you know you have locked in for you yourself
and it's pretty simple explore the uncertainty
yeah i don't agree with i don't disagree with
that you know so i think dive into it you know
especially when before you get to a place where
you're like hey i could have ended this thing
down here a little bit Oh shit, you know? Yeah,
that's definitely happened before. Even with
your entrepreneurship, I tell you that. You get
what I'm saying? Now you're selling your computer
here, folks, and I haven't seen that. Ceci has
come to me recently, like before in the past,
because I made my computer. She's like, why don't
you have a business where you sell made computers?
Yes. I'm like, yeah. Or even just like when you
told me you made an app before. Gosh in college.
Yeah. Yeah, I'm just like just little things
like that. You would have fun of being the Controller
I'm sure I would you get what I'm saying and
I'm like, you know me after this right now No,
it is like we're even though they're seem to
find more apps that are better than the apps
that we have Right, so it's just you know what
I'm saying better moved and approved No, it's
SC and I have had this conversation before where
it's uh, I think is I think when we had the conversation
I feel like when we have the conversation, it
feels like pressure. And I'm like, no, have fun
with it. The fun part of it is... I don't feel
pressured by it. Okay, because I assume, I'm
like, maybe he's feeling pressured. I'm like,
no, just have fun and just, you know... If you
feel some pushback, it's not pressure, it's like,
okay, well, if I were like, let's take, for example,
like the business thing with my computer. Okay,
let's say I started a business with my computer.
That's a lot of overhead for like costs about
all the parts that I'm gonna be getting. Do I
have like a physical store? Do I just run out
of my apartment or something? Yes. And that's
the thing, that's not what we're thinking, but
one step at a time and that's with somebody like,
hey, hey, what would you recommend? Right. Then
I'll send you videos. Well, I've seen this, I've
seen this. Does this need the other part for
you? Sure. There's always ways to do things and
you wouldn't be doing it alone. but you would
have so much fun. And I think you just being,
I think what it would be is like, you don't have
to create multiple, but I think you can do one
video, one tutorial of how to do something. Oh,
so I'd be making a tutorial. I wouldn't be selling.
You can show people how to make their own. Imagine
how many people have got the knowledge but don't
know where to get the stuff. And then you can
use that constellation list, you want to know
where I got the items, that you pay for. You
get what I'm saying? So it's just, when it comes
to knowledge, it's like, you want this knowledge?
You get what I'm saying? It's up to you. It's
up to you how you want to navigate your skills.
Yeah, that's true. Yeah, so I always say, and
then it'll be fun. You're just, you're doing
something you love and it's just less. In a way.
I get what you're saying. I always appreciate
the insight because Ceci has a knack for exploring
the unexplored or that unknown. That doesn't
necessarily come naturally to me. So I always
appreciate the perspective. Even if we don't
always agree on it. Yeah. And I'm not using the
force. I'm just like, this is an idea. Can you
believe it? Of course. And that's why I appreciate
it. Yeah. Still love you if you do or if you
don't. so you know of course it won't make or
break us but i think you have more than the potential
the knowledge the ambition if it's something
that you can do in your sleep you will yeah that's
true you know what i'm saying if it's something
you can do in your sleep you would But yeah,
that's just my opinion You guys it was a pleasure
We're gonna close up here before we close up.
We're gonna say Ruri's which is aka CJ Answers
here to the game priorities. I haven't locked
in yet Yeah, we're gonna give the options here.
The first option is love body odor over sharing
for not in fortnight in Fox News is the last
option. A lot of these are pretty bad. So we
gotta figure out, okay, which ones we got. We
gotta figure out which ones she chose, likes
and dislikes. What are we going for, Ramirez?
I gotta imagine body odor is low. Okay. Like
maybe the lowest. Now, I don't know if oversharing
maybe is. Do you know if this is a pet peeve
at first? Well, as my twin, I know that body
odor will not be the lowest. Really? Because
she does not play about that. um exactly so she
so she she dislikes it yeah so we're doing dislikes
at the bottom okay yeah i guess you should put
it at the bottom so yeah dislike that um over
sharing she wouldn't mind over sharing if she's
talking to the right person you know um fox news
is not her friend fortnight is not her friend
so we'll stick it here love over sharing i'm
gonna go i'm gonna go with this Fortnite is not
her friend. I'll say Fox News. You think this
is lower than Fox News? No. Why? I think body
odor is not less. I think the last one will have
to be Fox News or Fortnite. I know her. These
two are the last. I just don't know which ones
they are. Well, one, two, and three, which is
number one on my list, love. The second one is
oversharing. Thirdly is body odor. We want to
figure out which ones she has. And then we'll
wrap up. this episode 56 you guys which is let's
catch up it's been nice catching up playing catch
up you know while we wait for CJ why don't are
we gonna get an episode in london a london episode
i am trying to figure it out yes we will we will
get a london episode i gotta figure we're trying
to figure it out me and me and my baby they're
gonna figure out how we're gonna do it but we're
for sure gonna do it I want to do an audio one
for sure. Sure. And we'll do one with content.
I'm just I'm eager to see how this works down
there. You know, yes. They have studios just
like we do have studios. So I'm eager. But he
he's more he's already down there so he can kind
of get on like booking everything before I get
down there. So so eager. Would it be possible
for if I were to call in, let's say? on that
episode not that i'm going to yeah but let's
say let's say it's 8 p .m for you what time would
it be for me in the u .s um if it's 8 p .m in
london what time is it here in the u .s 8 p .m
in london yeah because i'm always looking at
my time i'm never looking at his oh well okay
how about we say what what if it's right now
it's nine what time is it in london if it's 8
p .m in london 8 p .m. Because this is six hour
difference darling, so either they're forward
or they're behind. Yeah, therefore. Yeah, so
So there's six hours before your 8 p .m. There
you are darling, so it would be at least It'd
be 2 p .m. For me 8 p .m. For you. Mm -hmm. Okay,
if we do it that way I was thinking yeah, too,
so We do it too then that works. We'll make a
day We'll pick a lovely day. Yeah. So I'm so
excited. My darling was getting candles and stuff.
Wow. And he's never bought candles. And then
he lit the candles and he was like, oh, I think
I like the candles. Oh, you're just not a candle
guy in general? No, he was never - For you, he's
gonna get - Well, he lit the candles and now
he's a candle guy. but no he wasn't a candle
guy generally candles are a game -changer y 'all
make sure you make sure you get candles yeah
candles are the way to life you know i agree
with that you know it's an easy way to have like
a nice scent in your house yes or your apartment
like in my case so i was like um he bought a
few candles so he had lit it today mind you we
are like officially what four days away from
the uk trip three days away from the uk trip
uh three days i'll stick with that one I'm officially
three days away from the UK trip. And he's like,
hey, I lit one of the candles. But then I was
like, shoot, I don't want to ruin the candle.
I want to make sure it's nice for Cecilia. And
then he's like, should I blow out the candle?
And then he was like, but I bought three. i was
like no you can like one candle dennis oh dennis
i i love hearing these dennis stories i love
my darling he's such a he's such a gentleman
he's such a character yeah dennis if you're shout
out to dennis yeah whether or not he's listening
shout out to you buddy my love bug is such a
he's such a character so uh and here he is on
the line dennis don't do that again now seriously
but yeah okay so cj before we wrap up here can
you give us your answers because we've been trying
to figure out yes what is what all right so we
have love coming in first okay and then we have
this was actually second okay which one is yeah
that's it 192 this is actually four okay okay
oh wait this is incorrect um 192 this is third
okay so this was last yeah okay bonia i don't
know too much about fortnight no so what i said
is that you love is first yes and then i said
two was going to be body odor and then lastly
i said fox news no thirdly i said fox news yeah
and fourth i said fortnight yeah oh 5049 sorry
yep 5049 yeah yeah this this is i want to say
i mean i was looking which one did you say for
this over sharing over sharing was third for
me was it second you put a second okay oh anyway
second that was important that was third my babe
yep second then yep yep yep yep yep but okay
one more ramirez okay before we close out or
should we okay so i think that was nice though
but before we hit out people okay it was fun
episode 56 playing catch up with you guys um
ramirez you have been gone far far away for too
long from the pod they almost forgot about you
people yeah um yeah clever cuts cj welcome to
the team Yeah, you're officially a potter now,
you know How does it feel to be a potter? I didn't
see myself doing it, but it feels good Work on
those social skills, right? Yeah. Okay. That's
what I like. Okay, so While we close up this
game priorities episode 56 You know catch it
up folks I'm gonna give a piece of advice to
you guys because your girls off to London petty,
you know my no I'm sorry that's Australian okay
I was close I was close yeah but piece of advice
for you guys and to my shit that's his life you
know my shit that's his life listeners you guys
my family familiar piece of advice I would advise
you guys is love simplicity okay enjoy simplicity
never get too simple but enjoy simplicity okay
that's it you know enjoy it dive in it thrive
in simplicity but never get too simple so that's
it you know however you want to take it take
it or leave it you know flip it up in the pan
mix it up however you want but love simplicity
all right we're out of here shit that's just
life episode 56 you guys bye bye everyone shit
this is life