WEBVTT 00:00:00.709 --> 00:00:07.730 Welcome back, welcome back, welcome back. It's 00:00:07.730 --> 00:00:14.789 the day. It's time. It's time for the UK. At 00:00:14.789 --> 00:00:19.210 age 27, your gal, Cecile, your favorite life 00:00:19.210 --> 00:00:23.070 coach here is headed to London, headed to the 00:00:23.070 --> 00:00:28.699 UK, headed to the hot tea. Ready to get down 00:00:28.699 --> 00:00:32.479 to it. You guys I'm excited. This is episode 00:00:32.479 --> 00:00:37.380 56 Let's get started you guys cuz what shit that's 00:00:37.380 --> 00:00:41.100 just life your girls headed to the UK We gotta 00:00:41.100 --> 00:00:46.420 get started up. All right, let it go So you guys 00:00:46.420 --> 00:00:50.899 Welcome welcome here episode 56 shit. That's 00:00:50.899 --> 00:00:54.020 just life You guys are pre -recorded episode 00:00:54.020 --> 00:00:57.719 56 Because your girl your favorite life coach 00:00:57.719 --> 00:01:02.140 here will be on a plane headed to the UK So 56 00:01:02.140 --> 00:01:05.099 episode was pre -recorded with your favorite 00:01:05.099 --> 00:01:11.359 girl me Cecile And special guests special guests 00:01:11.359 --> 00:01:15.480 Ramirez special guests clever cuts CJ on this 00:01:15.480 --> 00:01:20.340 episode. We played a game called the da da da 00:01:20.340 --> 00:01:24.849 priorities So, you hear the game priorities, 00:01:24.950 --> 00:01:27.010 we talk about the game, we talk about the options, 00:01:27.349 --> 00:01:30.049 and we talk about life. Shit, that's just life, 00:01:30.329 --> 00:01:34.950 you know? Life doesn't stop a -lifing. Your girl 00:01:34.950 --> 00:01:37.290 doesn't stop being fine! Alright, I'm sorry. 00:01:37.489 --> 00:01:41.010 Nope. But, you get it? You know? You guys understand. 00:01:41.170 --> 00:01:43.450 I'm headed to the UK, I'm trying to hold it in 00:01:43.450 --> 00:01:46.849 to be professional here, but I'm ready to get 00:01:46.849 --> 00:01:49.150 over there and start acting like a - acting like 00:01:49.150 --> 00:01:53.170 a nickel -it. I'm kidding. At least acting like 00:01:53.170 --> 00:01:56.109 I have no home training. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. 00:01:56.349 --> 00:01:58.010 I want someone to look at me and be like, you 00:01:58.010 --> 00:02:03.090 Americans. So, um, I'm excited. I'm very much 00:02:03.090 --> 00:02:07.650 excited. But like I stated, this episode 56 was 00:02:07.650 --> 00:02:11.310 already taken care of. We pre -recorded. But 00:02:11.310 --> 00:02:13.810 it was a pleasure to do the introduction because 00:02:13.810 --> 00:02:16.590 your gal is getting ready to hit the plane. Yes. 00:02:16.810 --> 00:02:19.789 The plane lands tonight, people. The flight is 00:02:19.789 --> 00:02:21.580 tonight. the plan really lands in the morning 00:02:21.580 --> 00:02:23.699 but the flight is tonight it is overnight you 00:02:23.699 --> 00:02:27.699 guys it is a lovely Wednesday the birds are chirping 00:02:27.699 --> 00:02:31.840 here in Dallas now I need to see if the hot tea 00:02:31.840 --> 00:02:35.180 is hot teaing in the UK I need to work on my 00:02:35.180 --> 00:02:37.979 accent before I get over there just so I can 00:02:37.979 --> 00:02:40.780 blend in it's just so many things I need to do 00:02:40.780 --> 00:02:43.840 you know it's a lot of things on the to -do list 00:02:43.840 --> 00:02:46.659 so that's why I have the episode pre -recorded 00:02:46.659 --> 00:02:50.289 for you guys all right shit That's just life. 00:02:50.650 --> 00:02:53.370 Life is life, and I'm headed to the UK. I still 00:02:53.370 --> 00:02:56.550 cannot believe it. Mm -mm. And it's so funny, 00:02:56.569 --> 00:02:59.349 I'm headed there. Wow, the government is just 00:02:59.349 --> 00:03:04.550 going through such, you know, non -cutesy, non 00:03:04.550 --> 00:03:08.090 -demure situations, okay? That's all I can really 00:03:08.090 --> 00:03:11.550 say, okay? Considering I'm a worker. Not for 00:03:11.550 --> 00:03:16.110 long, but I'm a worker, okay? So, I'ma head out. 00:03:16.509 --> 00:03:18.870 You guys. I'm going to start the episode because 00:03:18.870 --> 00:03:20.250 I'm not actually heading out. I'm just going 00:03:20.250 --> 00:03:24.409 to start the episode here. Wish me luck. We will 00:03:24.409 --> 00:03:27.509 record from the UK as well. Maybe, maybe not. 00:03:27.569 --> 00:03:30.069 I'm just not sure. I'll figure the one out later. 00:03:30.270 --> 00:03:33.110 I got to let the life take me. You know, it takes 00:03:33.110 --> 00:03:35.090 the pie too, but I got to let the life take me 00:03:35.090 --> 00:03:37.590 first, darling. Life is life -ing. It's taking 00:03:37.590 --> 00:03:40.689 me there. It's taking me places. UK, I'm headed 00:03:40.689 --> 00:03:48.930 your way. Episode 56. Let's go. Let's get you 00:03:48.930 --> 00:03:53.110 into it. Your girl is just the flight away. Okay 00:03:53.110 --> 00:04:09.210 episode 56. Let's go Okay So let's pod baby Long 00:04:09.210 --> 00:04:18.959 time no see we got the crew here The three musketeers. 00:04:19.160 --> 00:04:22.899 We got me, Cecile, your girl. We're here, episode 00:04:22.899 --> 00:04:27.959 56. We got Clever Cooks, Ruby, Clarissa, CJ, 00:04:28.259 --> 00:04:30.839 if you want to introduce yourself. And your favorite 00:04:30.839 --> 00:04:34.139 co -host. My favorite co -host is here, people! 00:04:36.699 --> 00:04:39.300 Ramirez! i guess i'm not a co -host i guess i'm 00:04:39.300 --> 00:04:42.800 a guest guest special guest you know co -host 00:04:42.800 --> 00:04:45.680 always holding it down coming in weekend he's 00:04:45.680 --> 00:04:49.519 a busybody brp brp yeah hold it down hold it 00:04:49.519 --> 00:04:54.480 down i do like brp yeah well um this is a nice 00:04:54.480 --> 00:04:57.819 special episode we'll do episode 56 here let's 00:04:57.819 --> 00:05:00.899 play catch up you guys you know i'll be heading 00:05:00.899 --> 00:05:09.019 to the uk you know so i'm excited i'm excited 00:05:09.019 --> 00:05:10.579 are you going to keep that accent the whole time 00:05:10.579 --> 00:05:14.620 or yes yes i will but until days until i go to 00:05:14.620 --> 00:05:18.040 the uk i'll be speaking you okay with the uk 00:05:18.040 --> 00:05:21.139 accent i like that i want to hear that that's 00:05:21.139 --> 00:05:23.699 a vlog though because i want to see how long 00:05:23.699 --> 00:05:28.240 you can really speak in that action um yeah i'm 00:05:28.240 --> 00:05:34.000 dying to see people's reactions yes so to what 00:05:36.149 --> 00:05:41.310 To me and an American, you know So I want to 00:05:41.310 --> 00:05:45.129 be around them doing different stuff and I definitely 00:05:45.129 --> 00:05:48.310 Want to just try some stuff out. I want to be 00:05:48.310 --> 00:05:52.170 able like, oh my god. What is this? Oh my god 00:05:52.170 --> 00:05:54.350 What the heck is this? I just want to see some 00:05:54.350 --> 00:05:55.850 reaction. I don't know if you won't even say 00:05:55.850 --> 00:05:59.209 heck Not down there, they know right, but they 00:05:59.209 --> 00:06:01.529 they'll know I'm not okay. Oh, I hear certain 00:06:01.529 --> 00:06:04.490 things Okay, he's American right? Yeah, that's 00:06:04.490 --> 00:06:08.709 they're gonna say yeah Yeah, I love that so that's 00:06:08.709 --> 00:06:11.750 always nice. I think it might work then I think 00:06:11.750 --> 00:06:16.790 it might get old Well, I think I don't know if 00:06:16.790 --> 00:06:19.709 it'll get old but I know it'll be interesting 00:06:22.300 --> 00:06:27.160 You know, I know they'll be intrigued and entertained. 00:06:31.839 --> 00:06:35.959 So sorry, sorry here people. Let's get started. 00:06:36.439 --> 00:06:44.160 Let's get it started. Let's get it started. So 00:06:44.160 --> 00:06:46.040 here, these are some interesting choices for 00:06:46.040 --> 00:06:47.860 Sesty because there's a few of these that I think 00:06:47.860 --> 00:06:50.959 she really does like. I think she likes England. 00:06:51.850 --> 00:06:54.829 I think she likes Netflix. I think she likes 00:06:54.829 --> 00:07:00.449 these four, specifically. A good amount. Any 00:07:00.449 --> 00:07:05.230 thoughts? Yeah, I guess you can figure that out. 00:07:05.290 --> 00:07:09.110 I got questions. What's interesting coming up 00:07:09.110 --> 00:07:11.430 with you? What's been going on, actually, Ramirez? 00:07:11.589 --> 00:07:15.009 You've been gone, you've been... Well, I'm going 00:07:15.009 --> 00:07:19.649 to New Mexico for Father's Day in a week. Is 00:07:19.649 --> 00:07:22.790 that El Paso? Uh, it is, it is near El Paso. 00:07:23.230 --> 00:07:25.589 It's a, it's an hour drive from El Paso. Okay. 00:07:25.730 --> 00:07:29.610 Going to a city called Ri... Riadoso. Okay. Riadoso. 00:07:29.649 --> 00:07:31.470 You said where are you going again? Riadoso, 00:07:31.550 --> 00:07:33.129 New Mexico. New Mexico. It's a city in New Mexico, 00:07:33.269 --> 00:07:35.810 yeah. Cool. That's cool. You have a new haircut? 00:07:36.389 --> 00:07:41.089 I do, yeah. Okay. Notice that haircut. Yes. Um, 00:07:41.089 --> 00:07:43.129 that's a nice haircut. Thank you. Yeah, I like 00:07:43.129 --> 00:07:45.709 that. It's good for the audio, our audio podcast. 00:07:45.829 --> 00:07:48.910 Yeah. A visual thing. Yeah, love the, love the 00:07:48.910 --> 00:07:52.939 haircut. Thank you. But yeah, that's uh, I was 00:07:52.939 --> 00:07:56.699 coming up with me. I'm going to Mexico It's always 00:07:56.699 --> 00:07:58.680 nice to go up there. It's a little more like 00:07:58.680 --> 00:08:02.399 foresty. Okay Still it's a little close enough 00:08:02.399 --> 00:08:04.300 to the desert that you know, it's not like the 00:08:04.300 --> 00:08:08.060 most dense forest, but okay. It's nice Okay, 00:08:08.060 --> 00:08:10.759 you guys gotta get some partners. I'm I'm down 00:08:10.759 --> 00:08:14.540 to do some double dating triple a triple dating 00:08:14.540 --> 00:08:18.980 Some all -inclusive resorts adults only let's 00:08:18.980 --> 00:08:22.790 get crazy let's go back to cat bird with our 00:08:22.790 --> 00:08:26.589 spouse or what a date not even a spot yeah yeah 00:08:26.589 --> 00:08:29.170 let's just you know having fun you know getting 00:08:29.170 --> 00:08:33.250 out there now an adult only resort what what 00:08:33.250 --> 00:08:35.470 happens in an adult only resort no children are 00:08:35.470 --> 00:08:41.230 there oh that's it only just as i said yeah well 00:08:41.230 --> 00:08:43.750 that sounds nice no children is uh you don't 00:08:43.750 --> 00:08:45.370 you don't realize it until you're in a place 00:08:45.370 --> 00:08:47.879 with no children how nice it is yeah And I didn't 00:08:47.879 --> 00:08:50.120 realize that. I was like, oh, goodness, there's 00:08:50.120 --> 00:08:53.080 no children here. And that's different. That 00:08:53.080 --> 00:08:57.779 is very, very different. Yeah. So when I went 00:08:57.779 --> 00:09:00.759 to my all -inclusive resort and there was children, 00:09:00.879 --> 00:09:02.580 I was like, OK, so the next one is no children. 00:09:03.139 --> 00:09:06.000 So I'm excited about just doing some stuff, having 00:09:06.000 --> 00:09:08.200 a boyfriend and being able to do stuff like that. 00:09:08.360 --> 00:09:10.120 Because you know, me, I was going to do it anyway. 00:09:10.240 --> 00:09:11.940 It's just going to be by myself. I was going 00:09:11.940 --> 00:09:13.860 to be a little pervert watching everybody else. 00:09:14.110 --> 00:09:16.210 you know yeah it's gonna be a perfect well it 00:09:16.210 --> 00:09:18.610 doesn't have to be you can just be you know i'm 00:09:18.610 --> 00:09:21.250 cool or something interesting are you guys over 00:09:21.250 --> 00:09:23.870 there kissing what are you guys doing oh my god 00:09:23.870 --> 00:09:26.250 what's going over there see i knew you was gonna 00:09:26.250 --> 00:09:33.730 go with england kissing um netflix is third oh 00:09:33.730 --> 00:09:36.370 i was just saying like which one should go but 00:09:36.370 --> 00:09:39.389 let me see And for my listeners, you guys, we're 00:09:39.389 --> 00:09:42.570 playing a game called Priorities. So they're 00:09:42.570 --> 00:09:45.549 trying to figure out which numbers, which one 00:09:45.549 --> 00:09:48.529 I like, my likes, and my dislikes. You get what 00:09:48.529 --> 00:09:51.370 I'm saying? So from one to five, you got to figure 00:09:51.370 --> 00:09:53.529 out what I pick here, people. My options are 00:09:53.529 --> 00:09:58.710 England, kissing, Netflix, friendship, harmonizing. 00:09:59.340 --> 00:10:01.820 So we got to figure out which your girl, your 00:10:01.820 --> 00:10:03.539 favorite life coach here will be picked. What 00:10:03.539 --> 00:10:05.659 did I pick? I know England is definitely in the 00:10:05.659 --> 00:10:08.019 top three. I think I think I don't know if it'll 00:10:08.019 --> 00:10:12.379 be the right here or keep it here. So I think 00:10:12.379 --> 00:10:14.820 this is a nice startup right here. I agree. And 00:10:14.820 --> 00:10:17.460 then harmonizing is like singing music. Yeah. 00:10:17.960 --> 00:10:21.840 It's like when two pitches are come together 00:10:21.840 --> 00:10:25.179 to like have a two different pitches come at 00:10:25.179 --> 00:10:27.720 the same time. So it's like a harmony. Okay. 00:10:27.840 --> 00:10:30.120 And I do that pretty often, right? You guys think 00:10:30.120 --> 00:10:33.659 I have to sing pretty often? No? Yeah. You sing. 00:10:35.580 --> 00:10:39.379 Yeah. Why does it just stop there? You sing. 00:10:41.159 --> 00:10:42.860 Now do you harmonize is a different question, 00:10:43.240 --> 00:10:47.360 but you sing and you sing well. Yeah. Well, okay. 00:10:47.860 --> 00:10:49.919 Harmonizing is a very specific thing though. 00:10:50.159 --> 00:10:52.120 Okay. You have to be a little, I can't do it. 00:10:52.220 --> 00:10:54.159 You have to be like trained to do it. There's 00:10:54.159 --> 00:10:57.549 like, there's well who there's like. aesthetic 00:10:57.549 --> 00:11:01.789 right so i i feel like well is just not where 00:11:01.789 --> 00:11:04.110 i am so you heard you don't do it necessarily 00:11:04.110 --> 00:11:06.110 well and you that you thought oh i actually do 00:11:06.110 --> 00:11:08.169 it better than well exactly so i'm like what 00:11:08.169 --> 00:11:11.649 is what is a well i mean well is like cute you 00:11:11.649 --> 00:11:14.730 know what i'm saying it's i guess i was trying 00:11:14.730 --> 00:11:17.470 to protect your feeling here's what i'll say 00:11:17.470 --> 00:11:20.570 here's what i'll say about harmonizing is you 00:11:20.570 --> 00:11:24.970 can do it probably okay interesting yeah which 00:11:24.970 --> 00:11:26.799 is you know that's good not everyone can do it 00:11:26.799 --> 00:11:32.080 okay right okay yeah oh wow okay you know i am 00:11:32.080 --> 00:11:35.139 in for rude awakening it's not a skill that i 00:11:35.139 --> 00:11:37.580 have i'll say that too you know yeah well you're 00:11:37.580 --> 00:11:43.100 not me that's that's for certain right you know 00:11:43.100 --> 00:11:47.100 i've been able to crack some glasses you know 00:11:47.100 --> 00:11:51.250 and that's in a good way No, that's actually 00:11:51.250 --> 00:11:54.509 good. That you can reach a pitch that high. Is 00:11:54.509 --> 00:11:57.990 that the idea? Yes. That's exactly what I'm doing 00:11:57.990 --> 00:12:03.250 too. I think it's fit. And not because of skill 00:12:03.250 --> 00:12:05.950 level, just because of what, compared to the 00:12:05.950 --> 00:12:08.830 rest of these things, I think that... it is the 00:12:08.830 --> 00:12:12.610 least liked okay so that makes sense okay let's 00:12:12.610 --> 00:12:17.370 review these answers oh wait i like that or are 00:12:17.370 --> 00:12:20.269 we good okay before we reveal anything exciting 00:12:20.269 --> 00:12:24.990 with you ruri sure um i mean i'm meeting some 00:12:24.990 --> 00:12:30.529 friends okay you're blushing i'm not blushing 00:12:30.529 --> 00:12:35.509 no for real like i feel like it's definitely 00:12:35.509 --> 00:12:38.889 time to just Get back out more. Have some fun. 00:12:39.169 --> 00:12:42.009 Spread your wings. Yeah. Maybe because the wings 00:12:42.009 --> 00:12:44.429 been down for a little bit, so last time I spread 00:12:44.429 --> 00:12:46.350 them. I'm a little scared because I don't know 00:12:46.350 --> 00:12:50.110 how wide I'm gonna spread them. Yeah. Yeah. Slowly. 00:12:51.090 --> 00:12:52.950 Definitely ready to be happy and travel this 00:12:52.950 --> 00:12:56.830 summer. Yeah. And just have fun. Yeah. Stay tuned 00:12:56.830 --> 00:12:59.070 for the swag, you know? Stay tuned. Ay. Because 00:12:59.070 --> 00:13:00.549 I'm gonna help you out. I'm ready for you to 00:13:00.549 --> 00:13:02.289 get out of black. Get in order. Hold up. Don't 00:13:02.289 --> 00:13:03.629 do that. No. I love black. Because I just put 00:13:03.629 --> 00:13:06.820 it on today. No, I know you love black, but you 00:13:06.820 --> 00:13:09.980 know I like colors too, but black this was see 00:13:09.980 --> 00:13:12.539 black is my go -to color I know I just don't 00:13:12.539 --> 00:13:15.139 know what to wear. I know it's your thing. I 00:13:15.139 --> 00:13:19.700 know Yeah, I know but that's what's that something 00:13:19.700 --> 00:13:21.840 to get you out. I want it out black it out. Yeah, 00:13:21.960 --> 00:13:27.440 so something like a olive green Like like my 00:13:27.440 --> 00:13:30.100 my Cecile collection you guys are listening Cecile 00:13:30.100 --> 00:13:35.379 Creations .com No, seriously, but like my suit 00:13:35.379 --> 00:13:36.940 collection. That's the reason why I was giving 00:13:36.940 --> 00:13:39.700 you colors just to get you color Yes, you know, 00:13:39.740 --> 00:13:43.899 but nothing that's too Nothing that just doesn't 00:13:43.899 --> 00:13:46.460 really fit you. So I've got you like copper and 00:13:46.460 --> 00:13:49.000 just a different color But I'll be getting more 00:13:49.000 --> 00:13:52.480 colors though. I don't really like life brings 00:13:52.480 --> 00:13:58.350 But we don't wear what we wear so Yeah, no. I 00:13:58.350 --> 00:14:01.190 think that's nice. I think it's good for our 00:14:01.190 --> 00:14:04.649 setting. Sure. Yes. I wouldn't wear this out 00:14:04.649 --> 00:14:06.769 to a dinner. Right. I know you wouldn't. But 00:14:06.769 --> 00:14:11.269 I think it's cool. He's chill. I think it's cool, 00:14:11.470 --> 00:14:13.850 but it's a chill. You see, everybody don't have 00:14:13.850 --> 00:14:16.129 the dress how you want it to be. They sure don't. 00:14:16.190 --> 00:14:18.230 That's why I like y 'all. I like y 'all because 00:14:18.230 --> 00:14:20.909 y 'all come in y 'all style. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 00:14:21.049 --> 00:14:22.970 But if y 'all hungry, it was like, hey, Sissy. 00:14:23.419 --> 00:14:27.179 And I'll be like, you need me? Well, yeah. As 00:14:27.179 --> 00:14:30.220 a matter of fact, I actually had a hanky chip 00:14:30.220 --> 00:14:32.379 waiting for you. But if you didn't want it, of 00:14:32.379 --> 00:14:35.559 course, it's no rush here. I actually have a 00:14:35.559 --> 00:14:38.240 few notes for you in my notebook here. But other 00:14:38.240 --> 00:14:40.899 than that, I think it'll happen gradually. And 00:14:40.899 --> 00:14:43.220 what it is, it just shifts like, bruh, your style 00:14:43.220 --> 00:14:46.580 is shifting. And you're coming back into your 00:14:46.580 --> 00:14:48.659 older, how you used to dress me. You used to 00:14:48.659 --> 00:14:51.200 just get dressed to go get nice, just to go to 00:14:51.200 --> 00:14:53.750 the dumpster. Ruri would get dressed up. She 00:14:53.750 --> 00:14:57.029 would put on cologne and everything down to the 00:14:57.029 --> 00:14:59.909 jeans. Down to the jeans just to go to the dumpster. 00:15:00.889 --> 00:15:02.750 I'm talking about Jordan. She didn't understand, 00:15:02.889 --> 00:15:05.629 but I understood. A whole Nike fit just to go, 00:15:05.690 --> 00:15:08.830 a whole Nike just do it, just to go to the dumpster. 00:15:09.070 --> 00:15:10.610 Like, you're just going to the dumpster. I don't 00:15:10.610 --> 00:15:12.370 do that now, though. No, it's what I'm saying, 00:15:12.610 --> 00:15:14.809 bud. Oh, okay. That fashion. The shift. Yeah, 00:15:14.970 --> 00:15:17.210 that tone of fashion that you were wearing back 00:15:17.210 --> 00:15:18.990 then is the stuff that you're bringing out now. 00:15:19.009 --> 00:15:20.970 But now you're going to more than just the dumpster. 00:15:21.269 --> 00:15:24.769 You got more places to go. You know? And now 00:15:24.769 --> 00:15:27.350 you're going to the, you know, the brunch. You 00:15:27.350 --> 00:15:30.950 go to places, you know? But that's just manifesting 00:15:30.950 --> 00:15:32.909 in your own way. She had nowhere to go but the 00:15:32.909 --> 00:15:35.590 dumpster. But she made sure she was, you know, 00:15:36.070 --> 00:15:41.110 nice. She's like, my girl might be there. On 00:15:41.110 --> 00:15:43.440 my way there, she might be there, you know? And 00:15:43.440 --> 00:15:45.259 the dumpster wasn't far from the apartment, so 00:15:45.259 --> 00:15:47.440 you could be looking out the door like, what 00:15:47.440 --> 00:15:49.279 is she doing? You never know. You gotta stay 00:15:49.279 --> 00:15:51.620 ready. You just might meet the love of your life 00:15:51.620 --> 00:15:53.500 at the dumpster. I tell y 'all, you never know 00:15:53.500 --> 00:15:55.139 what's over your sleeve. She's always ready. 00:15:55.240 --> 00:15:58.240 That's for sure. Ready is another question. But 00:15:58.240 --> 00:16:00.059 all right, I just wanted to get into that, but 00:16:00.059 --> 00:16:02.519 you're excited about dating. You're just navigating 00:16:02.519 --> 00:16:04.620 out there, excited. Yeah, I'm just going to take 00:16:04.620 --> 00:16:07.539 it slow. I mean, just let it happen naturally, 00:16:07.620 --> 00:16:09.120 too. I don't want to force anything, and I don't 00:16:09.120 --> 00:16:11.720 want anyone to force anything on me. Upon you, 00:16:11.779 --> 00:16:15.039 yeah. But is it it's fun though scale of what 00:16:15.039 --> 00:16:19.000 it's in how fun it's gonna be interesting I definitely 00:16:19.000 --> 00:16:22.039 have to as I'm growing I want to be more mature 00:16:22.039 --> 00:16:24.220 like with it dating with the intent to marry 00:16:24.220 --> 00:16:27.539 because when I was younger I was just being around 00:16:27.539 --> 00:16:31.100 I think about no marriage. Oh So that is that 00:16:31.100 --> 00:16:38.019 is the goal. Yeah Anything for you before I turn 00:16:38.019 --> 00:16:47.299 mine are you dating to marry? Sure, well the 00:16:47.299 --> 00:16:50.720 day that that changes. Yeah, we have to drink 00:16:50.720 --> 00:16:53.539 before before like if you're like, hey sassy 00:16:53.539 --> 00:16:56.919 I think I'm ready. I'm like well one last hurrah 00:16:56.919 --> 00:16:59.919 before you go down Yeah, I mean at least one 00:16:59.919 --> 00:17:02.200 last boys night out even though I'm not a boy, 00:17:02.279 --> 00:17:06.119 right? I got you. So yeah, you know one last 00:17:06.119 --> 00:17:11.299 I'm so glad that I'm talking about my intent 00:17:11.299 --> 00:17:16.019 to marry on the pot. Yeah For real, you gotta 00:17:16.019 --> 00:17:19.599 date around and see like who, like you gotta 00:17:19.599 --> 00:17:23.680 peep out their characteristics, their personality, 00:17:23.900 --> 00:17:27.099 just them as a person. I feel like this, right 00:17:27.099 --> 00:17:29.200 now what I'm doing, it's a good time to do it. 00:17:29.200 --> 00:17:32.119 Yeah. Because I don't wanna delay it and not 00:17:32.119 --> 00:17:35.339 saying that there's any late age to date around 00:17:35.339 --> 00:17:40.099 and what they tend to marry, but. I have the 00:17:40.099 --> 00:17:42.380 intent to marry partially because I want to be 00:17:42.380 --> 00:17:46.400 engaged for like two years, three years. Because 00:17:46.400 --> 00:17:51.039 if my man pisses me off, I'm taking off that 00:17:51.039 --> 00:17:55.180 ring. Like a movie moment. Yeah, I need a few 00:17:55.180 --> 00:17:57.960 movie moments before I actually get married because 00:17:57.960 --> 00:18:00.079 that will be a part of the movie moment as well. 00:18:00.799 --> 00:18:02.759 You're a very theatrical person. I know, I'm 00:18:02.759 --> 00:18:05.619 sorry. Nah, it's not a bad thing. You just like 00:18:05.619 --> 00:18:07.829 those movie moments. I love those movies moments 00:18:07.829 --> 00:18:10.970 and you know my life has so far been a movie 00:18:10.970 --> 00:18:15.089 moment like meeting a guy that is from the UK 00:18:15.089 --> 00:18:18.130 I'm like this is something this is some from 00:18:18.130 --> 00:18:22.269 the movies people we're in the movie so you know 00:18:22.269 --> 00:18:26.170 I think it's a it's a it's a blessing it's a 00:18:26.170 --> 00:18:30.769 lovely opportunity um you know and I told Dennis 00:18:30.769 --> 00:18:33.809 all the time I was like hold on if you didn't 00:18:33.809 --> 00:18:36.500 have an accent You would just be some regular 00:18:36.500 --> 00:18:39.140 old guy. You think so? That's what I tell him. 00:18:39.299 --> 00:18:41.099 Yeah. I mean, he would be interested because 00:18:41.099 --> 00:18:44.460 he's ecologist, you know, but I'm like, other 00:18:44.460 --> 00:18:47.259 than that, and he loves nature, you know, I've 00:18:47.259 --> 00:18:49.119 never met nobody that loves nature as much as 00:18:49.119 --> 00:18:52.380 he does because almost as much as I do. So other 00:18:52.380 --> 00:18:55.299 than that, I'm like, he's pretty freaking normal. 00:18:55.420 --> 00:19:00.990 Sure. You know? And I'm like, you know, you don't 00:19:00.990 --> 00:19:03.029 change into nothing maybe have some wings or 00:19:03.029 --> 00:19:08.130 something. I don't know, you know Something you 00:19:08.130 --> 00:19:11.230 know, can you do something maybe you run that 00:19:11.230 --> 00:19:13.569 out? Dennis strikes me as someone who has like 00:19:13.569 --> 00:19:15.970 a magic ticket a magic trick or two obviously. 00:19:16.250 --> 00:19:20.750 Yeah Yeah, well He's very romantic. That's what 00:19:20.750 --> 00:19:25.750 his Magic trick is. He's a poet. He's you know 00:19:25.920 --> 00:19:30.259 You hear that, Dennis? I assume he's also. Look, 00:19:30.440 --> 00:19:35.480 yeah. So maybe next week. He sometimes tags in 00:19:35.480 --> 00:19:37.380 late. I'd be like, did you listen to the pop? 00:19:37.440 --> 00:19:39.200 Yes, I did, babe. I said, so what did I say? 00:19:39.839 --> 00:19:42.960 Oh, pop quiz. Yeah, always. So what did I talk 00:19:42.960 --> 00:19:46.940 about? Babe, the connection. The connection, 00:19:47.180 --> 00:19:49.180 babe. Oh, you're breaking up. Yeah. I'm always 00:19:49.180 --> 00:19:51.319 breaking up when I'm asking about something important. 00:19:51.500 --> 00:19:55.009 So yeah. um you gotta come prepared yeah with 00:19:55.009 --> 00:19:57.170 sassy you can't you can't be you can't be caught 00:19:57.170 --> 00:20:01.289 but yet he always is yeah yeah before i go deep 00:20:01.289 --> 00:20:03.490 into not to be cooking at night but before i 00:20:03.490 --> 00:20:06.390 go too deep into mine let me show my answers 00:20:06.390 --> 00:20:13.690 people 63 is there's no 64 okay oh was that 84 00:20:13.690 --> 00:20:19.410 oh was that an 80 oh okay no that is wait where 00:20:19.410 --> 00:20:21.380 did this number come from i don't know maybe 00:20:21.380 --> 00:20:27.259 i was looking off okay so i'll restart one was 00:20:27.259 --> 00:20:31.640 kissing okay okay yeah all right we're gonna 00:20:31.640 --> 00:20:35.700 come back to that one uh third uh third was england 00:20:35.700 --> 00:20:41.220 okay third was england um we got the last one 00:20:41.220 --> 00:20:44.000 right we got those two netflix was uh number 00:20:44.000 --> 00:20:46.019 two oh so we got this one right then too yeah 00:20:46.019 --> 00:20:48.380 oh we got we got these three right Netflix was 00:20:48.380 --> 00:20:51.859 number two. Well technically you should give 00:20:51.859 --> 00:20:57.019 us one because 64 was not number three was um 00:20:57.019 --> 00:20:59.299 number three was english so we had kissing was 00:20:59.299 --> 00:21:01.480 number one number two was netflix number three 00:21:01.480 --> 00:21:04.859 was english number four was friendship number 00:21:04.859 --> 00:21:10.940 five was uh harmonizing okay yes yes yes yes 00:21:10.940 --> 00:21:13.839 because i love singing i can't sing but i'm dying 00:21:13.839 --> 00:21:17.609 to learn I think I can push myself to be a good 00:21:17.609 --> 00:21:21.769 singer. Oh my gosh! What? Kissing was first. 00:21:22.250 --> 00:21:24.930 I literally, I thought about that. Kissing is 00:21:24.930 --> 00:21:26.230 whole order. You said that. You said that. I 00:21:26.230 --> 00:21:29.549 love kissing. But then we never did it. See, 00:21:29.769 --> 00:21:32.549 the thing is England is third because, I know 00:21:32.549 --> 00:21:36.490 he's 16, but England is third partially because 00:21:36.490 --> 00:21:40.650 I still get to know England, you know? Oh yeah, 00:21:40.670 --> 00:21:42.430 I've been there too, yeah. Yeah, I have not been 00:21:42.430 --> 00:21:46.410 there, you know? So I'm, you know, I'm like, 00:21:46.410 --> 00:21:48.609 we haven't been there, we're getting there, and 00:21:48.609 --> 00:21:51.630 I'm still getting to know England in a way there. 00:21:52.089 --> 00:21:55.569 But believe it or not, when I get down there, 00:21:55.569 --> 00:21:58.410 it'll be five months that we've been dating. 00:21:59.930 --> 00:22:02.569 Five months? Yeah. I hope this one is longer. 00:22:02.769 --> 00:22:04.990 I'm like, if we make it over a year, I need to 00:22:04.990 --> 00:22:07.069 pat myself on the back. I need to get me a tattoo 00:22:07.069 --> 00:22:09.250 or something because I've got to do something 00:22:09.250 --> 00:22:11.450 crazy because I haven't been in a relationship 00:22:11.450 --> 00:22:17.359 past a year. So yeah. I've tried it. I think 00:22:17.359 --> 00:22:19.279 they let me before I looked I don't know something 00:22:19.279 --> 00:22:21.420 happened, but we didn't make it past the year 00:22:21.420 --> 00:22:23.559 I'm like, how do it it's been a year nothing 00:22:23.559 --> 00:22:29.819 more So yeah, I think this is gonna be exciting 00:22:29.819 --> 00:22:34.599 like I said, this is also my first Real relationship 00:22:34.599 --> 00:22:38.200 my first actual real relationship as a grown 00:22:38.200 --> 00:22:42.339 -up as an adult grown up you know yeah i think 00:22:42.339 --> 00:22:48.539 this is my favorite so so this will remember 00:22:48.539 --> 00:22:52.140 spelling priorities uh this is our side this 00:22:52.140 --> 00:22:59.940 is the games so yeah okay oh here we go Okay 00:22:59.940 --> 00:23:02.259 question you guys since I've got you out here 00:23:02.259 --> 00:23:07.740 it's Nick's person's turn It's just the English 00:23:07.740 --> 00:23:11.000 spelling. This is an English game Okay, UK spelling 00:23:11.000 --> 00:23:14.220 question. How do you feel about plan is safe? 00:23:15.279 --> 00:23:17.779 In what respect? When it comes to dating plan 00:23:17.779 --> 00:23:20.359 is safe like in the beginning of the date when 00:23:20.359 --> 00:23:23.339 you're like, okay Do I kiss her now? Plan is 00:23:23.339 --> 00:23:26.680 safe. How do you how do you? Feel about that. 00:23:26.700 --> 00:23:29.220 How do you navigate with planet safe? What do 00:23:29.220 --> 00:23:33.299 you know not to play it too safe? When I say 00:23:33.299 --> 00:23:36.279 that really I mean in a general aspect with dating 00:23:36.279 --> 00:23:41.059 with life as if like let's say you've got a manager 00:23:41.059 --> 00:23:45.140 that gets Over you know overstepping boundaries, 00:23:45.140 --> 00:23:48.400 you know and also with dating. How do you get 00:23:48.400 --> 00:23:50.220 yourself off that? How do you take yourself into 00:23:50.220 --> 00:23:52.779 that leap of okay? I'm gonna do it. You know, 00:23:52.779 --> 00:23:56.069 you played the safe all night How do you stop 00:23:56.069 --> 00:23:59.569 playing it safe? What's your way to navigate? 00:24:00.150 --> 00:24:04.430 Well, for me, for the first date specifically, 00:24:04.609 --> 00:24:07.809 I'm playing it super, super safe. Probably a 00:24:07.809 --> 00:24:12.450 lot safer than maybe what people would recommend. 00:24:13.069 --> 00:24:15.789 But I figure if you can make a passive first 00:24:15.789 --> 00:24:18.069 date by playing it safe and they're still interested, 00:24:18.710 --> 00:24:21.470 then that's something, right? If they get turned 00:24:21.470 --> 00:24:23.539 off by you playing it safe, then... they probably 00:24:23.539 --> 00:24:25.940 wouldn't like me in the first place yeah that's 00:24:25.940 --> 00:24:29.779 how i think that's how i think of it so i'm not 00:24:29.779 --> 00:24:31.859 you know i'm not going in for a kiss or anything 00:24:31.859 --> 00:24:34.579 on the first day you're not no okay what about 00:24:34.579 --> 00:24:37.019 the second date oh gosh i'm curious probably 00:24:37.019 --> 00:24:41.180 not i know no okay it's just not my style yeah 00:24:41.180 --> 00:24:44.299 no okay what about you riri camera click where's 00:24:44.299 --> 00:24:47.119 that riri what's the question how should we go 00:24:47.119 --> 00:24:49.019 how should we approach you i'm sorry because 00:24:49.019 --> 00:24:51.200 i'm using like three different that i call you 00:24:51.200 --> 00:24:54.700 on the spot Right. Just people trying for clarity. 00:24:57.720 --> 00:25:03.380 Good confidence. CJ. Okay. Well, Riri is a family 00:25:03.380 --> 00:25:06.380 nickname. Oh, CJ. Everybody looks next to her, 00:25:06.380 --> 00:25:12.720 so. Are we family? CJ is. Yeah, it's the initials 00:25:12.720 --> 00:25:18.079 of my name. Okay. So CJ, what is a good one plan 00:25:18.079 --> 00:25:21.930 is safe dating wise? Have you figured out how 00:25:21.930 --> 00:25:24.029 to navigate from playing it safe? Do you know, 00:25:24.029 --> 00:25:26.150 hey, when's the best time to stop playing it 00:25:26.150 --> 00:25:31.529 safe and just go in and... I mean, if you get 00:25:31.529 --> 00:25:34.710 a gut feeling and your intuition is telling you 00:25:34.710 --> 00:25:37.950 to go for it, why not go for it? I mean... No 00:25:37.950 --> 00:25:39.910 one likes to live, right? Do you get that gut 00:25:39.910 --> 00:25:43.849 feeling on day one? I don't know. I don't know 00:25:43.849 --> 00:25:47.549 if it'll be a gut feeling or me. Me wanting to 00:25:47.549 --> 00:25:50.380 do it, so... like forcing it so i don't know 00:25:50.380 --> 00:25:53.180 i feel like it'll come natural as far as well 00:25:53.180 --> 00:25:56.420 that is i don't think it's not day one it's not 00:25:56.420 --> 00:25:59.839 day one okay okay i agree with that okay yeah 00:25:59.839 --> 00:26:04.380 it's never day one maybe day three maybe date 00:26:04.380 --> 00:26:08.819 three but not day three okay cool cool good thing 00:26:08.819 --> 00:26:12.640 you clarify that up okay so america agreed that 00:26:12.640 --> 00:26:14.930 you will be more of a and by the way sometimes 00:26:14.930 --> 00:26:17.130 it might it may not happen on day three it just 00:26:17.130 --> 00:26:19.410 that that is probably the earliest that is possible 00:26:19.410 --> 00:26:24.970 for me yeah okay yeah interesting for me yeah 00:26:24.970 --> 00:26:27.190 i was gonna say i don't think you agree with 00:26:27.190 --> 00:26:33.529 that no but plain is say i say first things first 00:26:33.529 --> 00:26:38.869 seize the moment always seize the moment you 00:26:38.869 --> 00:26:42.519 know you feel it you seize the moment you know 00:26:42.519 --> 00:26:45.339 when you see the girl and you hoping that's her 00:26:45.339 --> 00:26:48.640 or you're you know you're like let me try something 00:26:48.640 --> 00:26:52.920 new try something new see the moment the moment 00:26:52.920 --> 00:26:55.500 of something new you know try something that 00:26:55.500 --> 00:26:57.460 you never would try before or something you think 00:26:57.460 --> 00:27:01.140 that's out of your out of your lane something 00:27:01.140 --> 00:27:03.920 you just would you know some you know something 00:27:03.920 --> 00:27:07.059 that's like in between like she looked like she 00:27:07.059 --> 00:27:11.700 might like me but if she doesn't I guess I can 00:27:11.700 --> 00:27:14.920 definitely say I had fun. Okay. You get what 00:27:14.920 --> 00:27:17.259 I'm saying? So I think look at it as an opportunity 00:27:17.259 --> 00:27:19.279 because the opportunity can take you far or it 00:27:19.279 --> 00:27:23.000 could just be a nice... It could be a dead end, 00:27:23.420 --> 00:27:26.960 but the dead end won't really be the way that 00:27:26.960 --> 00:27:29.819 you phrase it. It'll be more like a trip that 00:27:29.819 --> 00:27:33.160 ended quickly. But it was a lovely trip. Every 00:27:33.160 --> 00:27:36.420 trip is lovely. One thing about a trip or a vacation, 00:27:36.640 --> 00:27:40.500 they just end quickly, you know? I guess my question 00:27:40.500 --> 00:27:42.920 to you is what happens when the person is definitely 00:27:42.920 --> 00:27:45.440 not into it? Definitely not into it. Let's say 00:27:45.440 --> 00:27:48.900 you go for it and they're like, whoa. Seize the 00:27:48.900 --> 00:27:50.440 moment. How do you respond to that? So when I 00:27:50.440 --> 00:27:52.759 say seize the moment, I guess I should elaborate 00:27:52.759 --> 00:27:54.960 on that. To seize the moment, I'm not saying 00:27:54.960 --> 00:27:57.640 go in there with a kiss. I'm saying seize the 00:27:57.640 --> 00:28:00.579 moment if, go in there, we're confident it's 00:28:00.579 --> 00:28:02.480 how you're doing. My name is such a sense with 00:28:02.480 --> 00:28:04.460 yours. Oh, yeah. Yeah, seize the moment as you 00:28:04.460 --> 00:28:06.380 get to know the person. I mean, sometimes people 00:28:06.380 --> 00:28:10.160 are shy to even. Go talk to the girl. If you're 00:28:10.160 --> 00:28:11.779 on a date, you should definitely, you should 00:28:11.779 --> 00:28:13.019 definitely talk to her. Well, I'm not even talking 00:28:13.019 --> 00:28:15.180 on a date. I mean just meeting somebody. Oh, 00:28:15.180 --> 00:28:17.440 you mean like just a random encounter on the 00:28:17.440 --> 00:28:19.880 street or something? Yeah, I mean both though. 00:28:20.000 --> 00:28:23.079 Honestly, like if you were to be inside of a 00:28:23.079 --> 00:28:25.119 place and you've seen somebody that you're attracted 00:28:25.119 --> 00:28:29.980 to, do you play it safe or do you just stop playing 00:28:29.980 --> 00:28:31.220 it safe and be like, you know what, I'm gonna 00:28:31.220 --> 00:28:33.019 text it to her. I don't know if she's attracted 00:28:33.019 --> 00:28:36.140 to me, but let me just go in here with her. Let's 00:28:36.140 --> 00:28:39.799 see what I can come out with. Seize the moment. 00:28:39.799 --> 00:28:42.940 Mm -hmm. Yeah, we're seeing she can say no, right? 00:28:43.059 --> 00:28:46.900 That's true. Yeah, are you? We're fine with either 00:28:46.900 --> 00:28:49.740 one. I think either one of those was still Last 00:28:49.740 --> 00:28:52.119 up was from breathing the next day. It won't 00:28:52.119 --> 00:28:54.259 kill us, you know, what typically won't kill 00:28:54.259 --> 00:28:58.500 us makes us stronger So yeah That's all I was 00:28:58.500 --> 00:29:05.240 asking here. All right, who's parents next? Look 00:29:05.240 --> 00:29:20.579 get to that when it takes a minute Okay, I think 00:29:20.579 --> 00:29:22.420 Specifically with what we were talking about 00:29:22.420 --> 00:29:24.740 for you just now. This has got to be number one. 00:29:24.859 --> 00:29:27.440 This is something that you're looking for Okay, 00:29:27.619 --> 00:29:30.559 so we return in the game priorities and we she 00:29:30.559 --> 00:29:33.220 has options and I say really as in CJ because 00:29:33.220 --> 00:29:37.440 that is my twin New to you. Oh to me. No, but 00:29:37.440 --> 00:29:41.339 so CJ options here on the game priorities is 00:29:41.339 --> 00:29:47.539 love body odor yes over sharing fortnight and 00:29:47.539 --> 00:29:54.259 fox news so wow cj writes down your answers you're 00:29:54.259 --> 00:29:57.299 done already okay before we get into cj answers 00:29:57.299 --> 00:29:59.839 we'll talk about the next topic because it's 00:29:59.839 --> 00:30:02.299 kind of wrapping up here on the episode okay 00:30:02.299 --> 00:30:05.640 next topic here let me know what you guys think 00:30:05.640 --> 00:30:13.400 about being scared of the uncertainty How do 00:30:13.400 --> 00:30:16.079 we feel about being scared of the uncertainty? 00:30:16.299 --> 00:30:18.019 What does that really mean to you? Scared of 00:30:18.019 --> 00:30:20.380 the uncertainty? I mean, it's basically not knowing 00:30:20.380 --> 00:30:22.859 what's going to happen next. You don't know how 00:30:22.859 --> 00:30:26.640 to feel. I mean, sometimes we are caught up. 00:30:26.799 --> 00:30:30.700 Well, me personally is caught up in trying to 00:30:30.700 --> 00:30:33.859 control things. But when it comes to not knowing, 00:30:34.000 --> 00:30:38.220 that can be a little scary. And I guess the next 00:30:38.220 --> 00:30:42.000 question to end that off is... How do you navigate 00:30:42.000 --> 00:30:46.220 through it? How do you conquer being scared of 00:30:46.220 --> 00:30:48.240 the uncertainty? Or is that something you're 00:30:48.240 --> 00:30:50.319 still navigating through? I think it's something 00:30:50.319 --> 00:30:52.619 that I'm still navigating through. I mean, there's 00:30:52.619 --> 00:30:55.140 no specific way of how to navigate through it. 00:30:55.319 --> 00:30:59.059 It just happens. You will eventually start to 00:30:59.059 --> 00:31:01.240 find your way as you're going. You just gotta 00:31:01.240 --> 00:31:06.039 go. Okay. Yeah. Do you think just going, like 00:31:06.039 --> 00:31:09.220 you said, hey, you just gotta go. Is that easier 00:31:09.220 --> 00:31:15.319 said than done? It is. It is, because it's opportunities 00:31:15.319 --> 00:31:17.400 in life that I probably missed because I didn't 00:31:17.400 --> 00:31:24.160 just go overthinking. Are you overthinking the 00:31:24.160 --> 00:31:27.140 process before you get there? Yeah, I try to 00:31:27.140 --> 00:31:29.680 map out the whole entire thing when I don't even 00:31:29.680 --> 00:31:32.180 know how it was gonna go. But that's the form 00:31:32.180 --> 00:31:37.319 of control. you know and have you been letting 00:31:37.319 --> 00:31:40.539 go of control lately i have you know just working 00:31:40.539 --> 00:31:44.339 on just going with the flow you know whatever 00:31:44.339 --> 00:31:46.559 happens happens do you remember when i told you 00:31:46.559 --> 00:31:50.920 you were a control freak you almost snapped says 00:31:50.920 --> 00:31:53.299 the same person that said it takes one to know 00:31:53.299 --> 00:31:56.900 one we are both we're twins yeah and that's something 00:31:56.900 --> 00:32:00.740 i really recognize is how much we are alike yeah 00:32:00.740 --> 00:32:03.410 we're twins so it's like I told Ruri, I was like, 00:32:03.690 --> 00:32:05.809 you know, sometimes you like to control things, 00:32:05.809 --> 00:32:07.710 but I only know because I like to control things. 00:32:08.430 --> 00:32:10.190 You know, things that don't have... I didn't 00:32:10.190 --> 00:32:16.049 realize I was a control freak until I actually 00:32:16.049 --> 00:32:18.890 tapped more into myself. I'm like, oh shit, you 00:32:18.890 --> 00:32:21.869 know, she's right. You know, we are so much alike 00:32:21.869 --> 00:32:25.670 than I thought. And Ruri will do little things 00:32:25.670 --> 00:32:30.109 like, yeah, so, you know, there's dishwater in 00:32:30.109 --> 00:32:32.990 the sink. Soon as I get home, like, you know, 00:32:33.109 --> 00:32:35.470 it's your way. Like, it won't be soon as I walk 00:32:35.470 --> 00:32:37.730 in. She'll wait maybe like 15 minutes after I, 00:32:37.990 --> 00:32:42.549 if she hear me on the phone, if she hear me on 00:32:42.549 --> 00:32:45.430 the phone, then she might be like, you know, 00:32:45.670 --> 00:32:49.369 oh, yeah, I made some dishwater for you. And 00:32:49.369 --> 00:32:52.789 then walk away. So in my eyes, I'm like, well, 00:32:52.789 --> 00:32:55.049 clearly she want me to do the dishes. It's clear 00:32:55.049 --> 00:32:56.930 as day. She made it for me, not for nobody else. 00:32:57.049 --> 00:32:59.930 That was only that one time when I was tired, 00:33:00.170 --> 00:33:01.910 girl. And I was like, hey, do you mind doing 00:33:01.910 --> 00:33:04.910 dishes? So how I was saying it, I was like, well, 00:33:04.930 --> 00:33:08.829 I made dishwasher, dish water, just helping you 00:33:08.829 --> 00:33:11.529 out. Not saying, hey, there's dish water. I was 00:33:11.529 --> 00:33:13.609 just saying, hey, well, I made some water. Yeah. 00:33:14.190 --> 00:33:16.829 No, and the thing is, I knew what was going on, 00:33:16.849 --> 00:33:18.809 but I'm like, I guess she hasn't picked up that 00:33:18.809 --> 00:33:22.660 I don't go to sleep with it. I'm extremely tired. 00:33:23.839 --> 00:33:25.880 As soon as I walk in my room, I pass out. But 00:33:25.880 --> 00:33:28.779 other than that, no, I conjure up the energy 00:33:28.779 --> 00:33:30.660 to clean up those dishes before I go to sleep. 00:33:31.039 --> 00:33:32.819 I'm not going to sleep with no dishes. It wasn't 00:33:32.819 --> 00:33:35.720 many, you know? Yeah, it wasn't. But I was laughing 00:33:35.720 --> 00:33:38.940 in my head. I laughed. I told Dennis, and he 00:33:38.940 --> 00:33:43.220 laughed because he was like, oh shit. He know 00:33:43.220 --> 00:33:46.380 not to even be like, hey, so did the dish water 00:33:46.380 --> 00:33:51.410 for you. Wait, what? No, it wasn't I didn't take 00:33:51.410 --> 00:33:54.029 it as that I just knew you you were really like 00:33:54.029 --> 00:34:07.849 worried like don't forget But what it is is what 00:34:07.849 --> 00:34:10.969 I see what you do to me I see what I do to Dennis 00:34:17.949 --> 00:34:20.150 because he does seem a little sensitive it's 00:34:20.150 --> 00:34:22.409 okay dennis because hey we all have a little 00:34:22.409 --> 00:34:25.289 we all got some emotions on yeah he's actually 00:34:25.289 --> 00:34:27.150 calling in right now dennis on the line shut 00:34:27.150 --> 00:34:29.389 the hell up no he's not i'm like don't say that 00:34:29.389 --> 00:34:31.909 because they think he better be asleep i'm like 00:34:31.909 --> 00:34:34.730 i'm gonna say he better be mother f*** late we 00:34:34.730 --> 00:34:37.809 had a six hour deep he's about to call five four 00:34:37.809 --> 00:34:40.670 three no it is dennis thanks for calling in no 00:34:40.670 --> 00:34:45.269 no next time though i want that to happen that 00:34:45.269 --> 00:34:51.110 would be fun So, yeah, other than that here, 00:34:51.610 --> 00:34:54.670 when it comes to scared of the uncertainty, Ramirez, 00:34:54.809 --> 00:34:58.809 what are you thinking? I think that... You heard 00:34:58.809 --> 00:35:01.010 the question that I asked, what it is and how 00:35:01.010 --> 00:35:03.110 do you navigate and are you still trying to navigate? 00:35:03.250 --> 00:35:05.829 I think it's very natural to get like a little 00:35:05.829 --> 00:35:09.610 scared or, you know, just nervous about uncertainty 00:35:09.610 --> 00:35:14.349 and what the future has in store for you. I think 00:35:14.349 --> 00:35:17.539 that for me, There are some like, I think you 00:35:17.539 --> 00:35:20.960 call them coping skills, which is like being 00:35:20.960 --> 00:35:23.300 able to say, okay, look, yeah, there's some things 00:35:23.300 --> 00:35:24.739 that I don't know about the future and there's 00:35:24.739 --> 00:35:27.340 some things that I am not certain about and maybe 00:35:27.340 --> 00:35:30.079 I'm a little worried about, but I can have comfort 00:35:30.079 --> 00:35:33.199 in the things that I do know about, like things 00:35:33.199 --> 00:35:35.139 that I am certain about, things that I have planned 00:35:35.139 --> 00:35:38.400 for myself that I can say I have a fallback, 00:35:38.460 --> 00:35:41.219 I have like a good foundation for myself, stuff 00:35:41.219 --> 00:35:43.849 like that. so i think that's even more reason 00:35:43.849 --> 00:35:47.730 for you to explore the uncertainty to explore 00:35:47.730 --> 00:35:50.289 it to look into it more yeah considering when 00:35:50.289 --> 00:35:53.670 you know you have locked in for you yourself 00:35:53.670 --> 00:35:57.329 and it's pretty simple explore the uncertainty 00:35:57.329 --> 00:35:59.329 yeah i don't agree with i don't disagree with 00:35:59.329 --> 00:36:02.449 that you know so i think dive into it you know 00:36:02.449 --> 00:36:04.969 especially when before you get to a place where 00:36:04.969 --> 00:36:06.929 you're like hey i could have ended this thing 00:36:06.929 --> 00:36:09.639 down here a little bit Oh shit, you know? Yeah, 00:36:09.780 --> 00:36:11.699 that's definitely happened before. Even with 00:36:11.699 --> 00:36:14.000 your entrepreneurship, I tell you that. You get 00:36:14.000 --> 00:36:16.960 what I'm saying? Now you're selling your computer 00:36:16.960 --> 00:36:19.559 here, folks, and I haven't seen that. Ceci has 00:36:19.559 --> 00:36:21.860 come to me recently, like before in the past, 00:36:21.920 --> 00:36:24.480 because I made my computer. She's like, why don't 00:36:24.480 --> 00:36:27.539 you have a business where you sell made computers? 00:36:27.860 --> 00:36:31.119 Yes. I'm like, yeah. Or even just like when you 00:36:31.119 --> 00:36:34.500 told me you made an app before. Gosh in college. 00:36:34.500 --> 00:36:36.219 Yeah. Yeah, I'm just like just little things 00:36:36.219 --> 00:36:40.239 like that. You would have fun of being the Controller 00:36:40.239 --> 00:36:42.280 I'm sure I would you get what I'm saying and 00:36:42.280 --> 00:36:44.539 I'm like, you know me after this right now No, 00:36:44.539 --> 00:36:46.800 it is like we're even though they're seem to 00:36:46.800 --> 00:36:48.619 find more apps that are better than the apps 00:36:48.619 --> 00:36:52.280 that we have Right, so it's just you know what 00:36:52.280 --> 00:36:56.840 I'm saying better moved and approved No, it's 00:36:56.840 --> 00:36:58.900 SC and I have had this conversation before where 00:36:58.900 --> 00:37:01.940 it's uh, I think is I think when we had the conversation 00:37:01.940 --> 00:37:04.510 I feel like when we have the conversation, it 00:37:04.510 --> 00:37:06.829 feels like pressure. And I'm like, no, have fun 00:37:06.829 --> 00:37:09.030 with it. The fun part of it is... I don't feel 00:37:09.030 --> 00:37:11.210 pressured by it. Okay, because I assume, I'm 00:37:11.210 --> 00:37:13.230 like, maybe he's feeling pressured. I'm like, 00:37:13.409 --> 00:37:16.369 no, just have fun and just, you know... If you 00:37:16.369 --> 00:37:19.789 feel some pushback, it's not pressure, it's like, 00:37:20.809 --> 00:37:23.710 okay, well, if I were like, let's take, for example, 00:37:23.769 --> 00:37:26.469 like the business thing with my computer. Okay, 00:37:26.530 --> 00:37:28.030 let's say I started a business with my computer. 00:37:28.289 --> 00:37:31.010 That's a lot of overhead for like costs about 00:37:31.010 --> 00:37:32.750 all the parts that I'm gonna be getting. Do I 00:37:32.750 --> 00:37:34.889 have like a physical store? Do I just run out 00:37:34.889 --> 00:37:37.750 of my apartment or something? Yes. And that's 00:37:37.750 --> 00:37:39.630 the thing, that's not what we're thinking, but 00:37:39.630 --> 00:37:43.289 one step at a time and that's with somebody like, 00:37:43.369 --> 00:37:45.269 hey, hey, what would you recommend? Right. Then 00:37:45.269 --> 00:37:47.550 I'll send you videos. Well, I've seen this, I've 00:37:47.550 --> 00:37:49.789 seen this. Does this need the other part for 00:37:49.789 --> 00:37:52.030 you? Sure. There's always ways to do things and 00:37:52.030 --> 00:37:54.769 you wouldn't be doing it alone. but you would 00:37:54.769 --> 00:37:58.230 have so much fun. And I think you just being, 00:37:58.610 --> 00:38:00.849 I think what it would be is like, you don't have 00:38:00.849 --> 00:38:03.289 to create multiple, but I think you can do one 00:38:03.289 --> 00:38:07.230 video, one tutorial of how to do something. Oh, 00:38:07.269 --> 00:38:09.070 so I'd be making a tutorial. I wouldn't be selling. 00:38:09.610 --> 00:38:13.090 You can show people how to make their own. Imagine 00:38:13.090 --> 00:38:14.449 how many people have got the knowledge but don't 00:38:14.449 --> 00:38:16.739 know where to get the stuff. And then you can 00:38:16.739 --> 00:38:20.519 use that constellation list, you want to know 00:38:20.519 --> 00:38:23.500 where I got the items, that you pay for. You 00:38:23.500 --> 00:38:26.139 get what I'm saying? So it's just, when it comes 00:38:26.139 --> 00:38:27.920 to knowledge, it's like, you want this knowledge? 00:38:29.360 --> 00:38:31.099 You get what I'm saying? It's up to you. It's 00:38:31.099 --> 00:38:35.699 up to you how you want to navigate your skills. 00:38:36.000 --> 00:38:39.860 Yeah, that's true. Yeah, so I always say, and 00:38:39.860 --> 00:38:41.780 then it'll be fun. You're just, you're doing 00:38:41.780 --> 00:38:45.590 something you love and it's just less. In a way. 00:38:46.030 --> 00:38:48.809 I get what you're saying. I always appreciate 00:38:48.809 --> 00:38:52.849 the insight because Ceci has a knack for exploring 00:38:52.849 --> 00:38:56.250 the unexplored or that unknown. That doesn't 00:38:56.250 --> 00:38:59.409 necessarily come naturally to me. So I always 00:38:59.409 --> 00:39:02.869 appreciate the perspective. Even if we don't 00:39:02.869 --> 00:39:05.769 always agree on it. Yeah. And I'm not using the 00:39:05.769 --> 00:39:08.190 force. I'm just like, this is an idea. Can you 00:39:08.190 --> 00:39:10.869 believe it? Of course. And that's why I appreciate 00:39:10.869 --> 00:39:13.030 it. Yeah. Still love you if you do or if you 00:39:13.030 --> 00:39:16.030 don't. so you know of course it won't make or 00:39:16.030 --> 00:39:20.809 break us but i think you have more than the potential 00:39:20.809 --> 00:39:24.730 the knowledge the ambition if it's something 00:39:24.730 --> 00:39:32.050 that you can do in your sleep you will yeah that's 00:39:32.050 --> 00:39:33.269 true you know what i'm saying if it's something 00:39:33.269 --> 00:39:37.920 you can do in your sleep you would But yeah, 00:39:37.920 --> 00:39:42.840 that's just my opinion You guys it was a pleasure 00:39:42.840 --> 00:39:45.300 We're gonna close up here before we close up. 00:39:45.300 --> 00:39:49.960 We're gonna say Ruri's which is aka CJ Answers 00:39:49.960 --> 00:39:52.900 here to the game priorities. I haven't locked 00:39:52.900 --> 00:39:56.059 in yet Yeah, we're gonna give the options here. 00:39:56.059 --> 00:40:00.199 The first option is love body odor over sharing 00:40:00.199 --> 00:40:04.630 for not in fortnight in Fox News is the last 00:40:04.630 --> 00:40:06.309 option. A lot of these are pretty bad. So we 00:40:06.309 --> 00:40:10.030 gotta figure out, okay, which ones we got. We 00:40:10.030 --> 00:40:12.889 gotta figure out which ones she chose, likes 00:40:12.889 --> 00:40:15.889 and dislikes. What are we going for, Ramirez? 00:40:15.949 --> 00:40:19.409 I gotta imagine body odor is low. Okay. Like 00:40:19.409 --> 00:40:23.389 maybe the lowest. Now, I don't know if oversharing 00:40:23.389 --> 00:40:25.530 maybe is. Do you know if this is a pet peeve 00:40:25.530 --> 00:40:29.070 at first? Well, as my twin, I know that body 00:40:29.070 --> 00:40:30.929 odor will not be the lowest. Really? Because 00:40:30.929 --> 00:40:35.289 she does not play about that. um exactly so she 00:40:35.289 --> 00:40:39.090 so she she dislikes it yeah so we're doing dislikes 00:40:39.090 --> 00:40:42.349 at the bottom okay yeah i guess you should put 00:40:42.349 --> 00:40:48.929 it at the bottom so yeah dislike that um over 00:40:48.929 --> 00:40:51.769 sharing she wouldn't mind over sharing if she's 00:40:51.769 --> 00:40:55.269 talking to the right person you know um fox news 00:40:55.269 --> 00:40:58.230 is not her friend fortnight is not her friend 00:40:58.230 --> 00:41:01.429 so we'll stick it here love over sharing i'm 00:41:01.429 --> 00:41:03.739 gonna go i'm gonna go with this Fortnite is not 00:41:03.739 --> 00:41:06.079 her friend. I'll say Fox News. You think this 00:41:06.079 --> 00:41:08.880 is lower than Fox News? No. Why? I think body 00:41:08.880 --> 00:41:11.619 odor is not less. I think the last one will have 00:41:11.619 --> 00:41:15.659 to be Fox News or Fortnite. I know her. These 00:41:15.659 --> 00:41:17.900 two are the last. I just don't know which ones 00:41:17.900 --> 00:41:21.119 they are. Well, one, two, and three, which is 00:41:21.119 --> 00:41:23.659 number one on my list, love. The second one is 00:41:23.659 --> 00:41:27.739 oversharing. Thirdly is body odor. We want to 00:41:27.739 --> 00:41:31.539 figure out which ones she has. And then we'll 00:41:31.539 --> 00:41:37.519 wrap up. this episode 56 you guys which is let's 00:41:37.519 --> 00:41:40.639 catch up it's been nice catching up playing catch 00:41:40.639 --> 00:41:44.500 up you know while we wait for CJ why don't are 00:41:44.500 --> 00:41:47.639 we gonna get an episode in london a london episode 00:41:47.639 --> 00:41:50.119 i am trying to figure it out yes we will we will 00:41:50.119 --> 00:41:53.599 get a london episode i gotta figure we're trying 00:41:53.599 --> 00:41:56.360 to figure it out me and me and my baby they're 00:41:56.360 --> 00:41:57.920 gonna figure out how we're gonna do it but we're 00:41:57.920 --> 00:42:02.059 for sure gonna do it I want to do an audio one 00:42:02.059 --> 00:42:05.940 for sure. Sure. And we'll do one with content. 00:42:06.239 --> 00:42:08.820 I'm just I'm eager to see how this works down 00:42:08.820 --> 00:42:12.500 there. You know, yes. They have studios just 00:42:12.500 --> 00:42:15.559 like we do have studios. So I'm eager. But he 00:42:15.559 --> 00:42:18.639 he's more he's already down there so he can kind 00:42:18.639 --> 00:42:21.099 of get on like booking everything before I get 00:42:21.099 --> 00:42:24.940 down there. So so eager. Would it be possible 00:42:24.940 --> 00:42:28.460 for if I were to call in, let's say? on that 00:42:28.460 --> 00:42:30.480 episode not that i'm going to yeah but let's 00:42:30.480 --> 00:42:33.699 say let's say it's 8 p .m for you what time would 00:42:33.699 --> 00:42:38.980 it be for me in the u .s um if it's 8 p .m in 00:42:38.980 --> 00:42:41.619 london what time is it here in the u .s 8 p .m 00:42:41.619 --> 00:42:43.679 in london yeah because i'm always looking at 00:42:43.679 --> 00:42:45.460 my time i'm never looking at his oh well okay 00:42:45.460 --> 00:42:48.199 how about we say what what if it's right now 00:42:48.199 --> 00:42:52.400 it's nine what time is it in london if it's 8 00:42:52.400 --> 00:42:58.429 p .m in london 8 p .m. Because this is six hour 00:42:58.429 --> 00:43:00.809 difference darling, so either they're forward 00:43:00.809 --> 00:43:04.090 or they're behind. Yeah, therefore. Yeah, so 00:43:04.090 --> 00:43:08.570 So there's six hours before your 8 p .m. There 00:43:08.570 --> 00:43:12.630 you are darling, so it would be at least It'd 00:43:12.630 --> 00:43:15.230 be 2 p .m. For me 8 p .m. For you. Mm -hmm. Okay, 00:43:16.070 --> 00:43:18.269 if we do it that way I was thinking yeah, too, 00:43:18.510 --> 00:43:22.989 so We do it too then that works. We'll make a 00:43:22.989 --> 00:43:27.980 day We'll pick a lovely day. Yeah. So I'm so 00:43:27.980 --> 00:43:31.139 excited. My darling was getting candles and stuff. 00:43:31.179 --> 00:43:33.980 Wow. And he's never bought candles. And then 00:43:33.980 --> 00:43:35.980 he lit the candles and he was like, oh, I think 00:43:35.980 --> 00:43:38.360 I like the candles. Oh, you're just not a candle 00:43:38.360 --> 00:43:40.760 guy in general? No, he was never - For you, he's 00:43:40.760 --> 00:43:42.579 gonna get - Well, he lit the candles and now 00:43:42.579 --> 00:43:45.880 he's a candle guy. but no he wasn't a candle 00:43:45.880 --> 00:43:48.159 guy generally candles are a game -changer y 'all 00:43:48.159 --> 00:43:49.900 make sure you make sure you get candles yeah 00:43:49.900 --> 00:43:54.039 candles are the way to life you know i agree 00:43:54.039 --> 00:43:56.619 with that you know it's an easy way to have like 00:43:56.619 --> 00:43:59.179 a nice scent in your house yes or your apartment 00:43:59.179 --> 00:44:01.900 like in my case so i was like um he bought a 00:44:01.900 --> 00:44:05.760 few candles so he had lit it today mind you we 00:44:05.760 --> 00:44:09.380 are like officially what four days away from 00:44:09.380 --> 00:44:11.539 the uk trip three days away from the uk trip 00:44:11.539 --> 00:44:14.780 uh three days i'll stick with that one I'm officially 00:44:14.780 --> 00:44:18.099 three days away from the UK trip. And he's like, 00:44:18.280 --> 00:44:20.079 hey, I lit one of the candles. But then I was 00:44:20.079 --> 00:44:22.039 like, shoot, I don't want to ruin the candle. 00:44:22.119 --> 00:44:24.579 I want to make sure it's nice for Cecilia. And 00:44:24.579 --> 00:44:27.260 then he's like, should I blow out the candle? 00:44:27.820 --> 00:44:29.940 And then he was like, but I bought three. i was 00:44:29.940 --> 00:44:33.420 like no you can like one candle dennis oh dennis 00:44:33.420 --> 00:44:36.199 i i love hearing these dennis stories i love 00:44:36.199 --> 00:44:38.880 my darling he's such a he's such a gentleman 00:44:38.880 --> 00:44:42.179 he's such a character yeah dennis if you're shout 00:44:42.179 --> 00:44:44.340 out to dennis yeah whether or not he's listening 00:44:44.340 --> 00:44:46.980 shout out to you buddy my love bug is such a 00:44:46.980 --> 00:44:51.159 he's such a character so uh and here he is on 00:44:51.159 --> 00:44:54.000 the line dennis don't do that again now seriously 00:44:54.000 --> 00:45:01.280 but yeah okay so cj before we wrap up here can 00:45:01.280 --> 00:45:03.739 you give us your answers because we've been trying 00:45:03.739 --> 00:45:07.559 to figure out yes what is what all right so we 00:45:07.559 --> 00:45:11.760 have love coming in first okay and then we have 00:45:11.760 --> 00:45:16.320 this was actually second okay which one is yeah 00:45:16.320 --> 00:45:22.579 that's it 192 this is actually four okay okay 00:45:22.579 --> 00:45:30.050 oh wait this is incorrect um 192 this is third 00:45:30.050 --> 00:45:34.849 okay so this was last yeah okay bonia i don't 00:45:34.849 --> 00:45:37.269 know too much about fortnight no so what i said 00:45:37.269 --> 00:45:40.250 is that you love is first yes and then i said 00:45:40.250 --> 00:45:46.130 two was going to be body odor and then lastly 00:45:46.130 --> 00:45:52.650 i said fox news no thirdly i said fox news yeah 00:45:52.650 --> 00:46:00.559 and fourth i said fortnight yeah oh 5049 sorry 00:46:00.559 --> 00:46:04.380 yep 5049 yeah yeah this this is i want to say 00:46:04.380 --> 00:46:06.659 i mean i was looking which one did you say for 00:46:06.659 --> 00:46:10.039 this over sharing over sharing was third for 00:46:10.039 --> 00:46:12.739 me was it second you put a second okay oh anyway 00:46:12.739 --> 00:46:15.400 second that was important that was third my babe 00:46:15.400 --> 00:46:19.400 yep second then yep yep yep yep yep but okay 00:46:19.400 --> 00:46:23.199 one more ramirez okay before we close out or 00:46:23.199 --> 00:46:27.000 should we okay so i think that was nice though 00:46:27.000 --> 00:46:32.480 but before we hit out people okay it was fun 00:46:32.480 --> 00:46:37.039 episode 56 playing catch up with you guys um 00:46:37.039 --> 00:46:40.719 ramirez you have been gone far far away for too 00:46:40.719 --> 00:46:44.420 long from the pod they almost forgot about you 00:46:44.420 --> 00:46:51.019 people yeah um yeah clever cuts cj welcome to 00:46:51.019 --> 00:47:01.329 the team Yeah, you're officially a potter now, 00:47:01.329 --> 00:47:05.969 you know How does it feel to be a potter? I didn't 00:47:05.969 --> 00:47:10.710 see myself doing it, but it feels good Work on 00:47:10.710 --> 00:47:13.570 those social skills, right? Yeah. Okay. That's 00:47:13.570 --> 00:47:16.690 what I like. Okay, so While we close up this 00:47:16.690 --> 00:47:20.869 game priorities episode 56 You know catch it 00:47:20.869 --> 00:47:22.829 up folks I'm gonna give a piece of advice to 00:47:22.829 --> 00:47:25.829 you guys because your girls off to London petty, 00:47:26.630 --> 00:47:32.750 you know my no I'm sorry that's Australian okay 00:47:32.750 --> 00:47:40.150 I was close I was close yeah but piece of advice 00:47:40.150 --> 00:47:44.530 for you guys and to my shit that's his life you 00:47:44.530 --> 00:47:46.329 know my shit that's his life listeners you guys 00:47:46.329 --> 00:47:50.750 my family familiar piece of advice I would advise 00:47:50.750 --> 00:47:56.469 you guys is love simplicity okay enjoy simplicity 00:47:57.280 --> 00:48:02.980 never get too simple but enjoy simplicity okay 00:48:02.980 --> 00:48:07.159 that's it you know enjoy it dive in it thrive 00:48:07.159 --> 00:48:12.519 in simplicity but never get too simple so that's 00:48:12.519 --> 00:48:15.059 it you know however you want to take it take 00:48:15.059 --> 00:48:18.079 it or leave it you know flip it up in the pan 00:48:18.079 --> 00:48:22.559 mix it up however you want but love simplicity 00:48:22.559 --> 00:48:25.730 all right we're out of here shit that's just 00:48:25.730 --> 00:48:37.030 life episode 56 you guys bye bye everyone shit 00:48:37.030 --> 00:48:37.789 this is life