Hello, hello, hello. Welcome back. You can hear,
we're here, we're here people. You girl, your
favorite life coach here? Yes, me, Cecile. I'm
here. And I hope y 'all know when I say favorite
life coach, I am not certified. I know it sounds
crazy, but no, I'm not certified, darling. I
just know that I'm a life coach because life
be life and then I'm coaching folks to get through
it just like I coach myself. So no, but welcome
y 'all. Let's get started. Episode 54. We're
gonna keep pushing it. We're gonna keep going
baby. We're 13 days away from heading to the
UK. Exciting things. Time to let our hair down.
Time to twirl around in our dresses. Time to
put on our skirts. I'm ready. I'm ready. I'm
ready to get my nails done, my feet done, my
hair done. I'm ready to thrive in my girly, feminine
side. Like, I'm ready to see the UK folks. I'm
ready to see their all -day, everyday reactions
to life. Do they wake up annoyed? Because the
US? Oh, these cookies over here are tough. Okay?
These civilians over here are tough, you guys.
That's what I can say. Everybody is just trying
to get to the money in the U .S. Everybody just
wants their money. That's what I'm noticing.
People are just in need of their money in this
tax year. And we're right here in this year.
We're ending the tax season, people. It truly
all the way ends in October, but I'm just noticing
people are needing their money. Tax season ended
for some people on April 15th. Some people still
waiting on their money. You know what I'm saying?
Like, the U .S., clearly, they're waiting for
their money. These people are not always happy
in the morning. The civilians, they are not always
willing to listen. They are not always willing
to know that they may not know something. You
know, it's okay to not know, all right? But I
tell you, the civilians in the U .S., baby, I
need a whole new selection of civilians. Because
these civilians out here, they're over it. They
are, they're so over it. And as a government
worker, I'm about up here to it, but I do enjoy
-ish the journey. I'll be leading the journey
eventually, but I see where we are in life every
time I get to this government job. Every time
I interact with people. in Iraq with more civilians.
I see why we are where we are in life. I see
where we're at where we're at. We got to do better
people. We need to learn how to talk to each
other. We need to learn how to actively listen
to each other. Oh babe, it's a lot we need to
learn. We need to learn more things in life.
You need to be okay with not knowing people because
there are certainly so many things out there
that I don't know But I think we need to acknowledge
that hey, it's some things We just got to learn
and we need to be okay being tall, you know I
can't teach everybody but I do laugh at people
that are not okay with learning or not okay with
being taught a lesson within that moment They're
ready to curse you out because you proved them
wrong. So I am advising everybody. You're a good
life coach here. Let's take a breather, people.
Okay? We're in May, entering into June. I think
it's the Gemini season. I think it's the fact
that we're in Gemini season. You guys are acting
the f*** up. You guys are talking crazy. You
guys are getting indicted. There's trials. There's
so much stuff going out there, you guys. I'm
telling you guys, I'm praying for everyone. Because
life is life, and we still have to persevere.
So you all, episode 54, we're about to get right
into it. I needed to release off my chest. I
needed to give you guys an insight of what was
on my brain, what was on my mental, okay? I also
need to give you guys an insight of my meltdown.
that i had a few days ago but since we're back
and we're better we're gonna get started darling
episode 54 with your favorite coach with cecile
because shit that's just life lego normally i
wouldn't even entertain this but the fact that
you mentioned my children i'm not letting that
ride since this whole situation happened Everybody
know I never said nothing. The only time I said
something was the last time when she tried to
clout chase with the whole fake thing she tried
to put on Instagram before. But ever since this
transpired, I never opened my mouth, never said
nothing because that's not my style. And also,
I would never want to disrespect her. You know
what I mean? I actually speak way louder than
words. Initially, when it transpired, which was
2022, when she started dealing with the lane.
But that wasn't the first time I caught her cheating.
I've caught her cheating numerous times since
she's been home. With the lane, let's get to
the point. We won't get to the lane later. You
had the audacity to mention my child. You had
the audacity to mention me not seeing my daughter.
Ever since I left, she has not allowed me to
see my daughter. She's been straight miserable.
I'm gonna say it again, all men out there who
have ever been through this type of situation,
you know how it gets when you're dealing with
a miserable individual. She did not allow me
to see my daughter since this first transpired
at the end of last year. And normally, a grown
ass man wouldn't get on social media to respond,
especially if he's a real mother - I'm just kidding.
I ain't gonna do that. I ain't gonna do it to
you. Nope. So, Remy Ma and Pat Poose, you guys
heard it. You heard the audio. I was a little
confused as to what drove Pat Poose to go to
the internet. I was just confused. I'm only confused
because - He is a silent killer. Uh -huh. He
is like, um... Yeah, he's a silent killer. He
does not speak too loud. He don't do all that
Internet shenanigans. It takes a lot. That's
just what I've learned watching him, you know,
with Love and Hip Hop, Pappous and Remy Ma. You
know, it typically takes a lot for Pappous to
engage with the Internet, you know, with his
money related. Beef wise, beef wise, you know,
issues wise, dilemma wise, he typically hardly
ever goes to the internet. So I was very surprised
that he's going to the internet. Not only am
I surprised about their altercation at the moment,
I'm surprised because they were my favorite couple
of love and hip hop. Like, oh my God, seriously.
These two were my favorite on love and hip hop.
I think it was Nova Hip Hop in New York, when
she was in jail, when she got out of jail. Like
they were black love. That was the two words
that they were marketing at the time. Black love,
you know? So it really sucks to see the two be
going at it on the internet. And we don't have
clarity. I don't have clarity on what the problem
really is. But it's okay. It's not my business.
It is not my business. But I did see the clip.
I did take the audio so you guys can hear it
and get my review. Yeah, I'm very surprised because
when I tell you Papoose is a killer on the pin,
his raps, his rhymes, his penmanship is lovely.
So I was very, you know, caught off guard. I
won't even say surprise anymore. Caught off guard
that he took penmanship to the Facebook, I mean,
Instagram live and made a little recording. So
yeah, wouldn't want that. If my man is listening,
please don't do that ever, ever, ever, ever,
ever. Ever, ever, ever, ever. Okay? Police. All
right. But we'll move along here, people, because
Papoose and Remy Ma, you guys got some explaining
to do, because I really was falling for that
whole marketing of black love from Love & Hip
Hop New York. It's okay. Nobody's perfect, though.
Nobody's perfect. I'm giving everybody grace.
So nobody's perfect. I'm asking you guys that's
listening. Keep subscribing. Give them grace.
Because people's days, people's Time, nowadays,
yeah. I think things are just looking real sketchy
-ish for people. Things are looking real skeptical
for people. A lot of stuff is lived through the
internet. You never know what to believe anymore.
So, we're gonna send them prayers. Because I'm
still a little upset. Why did you get on, Peppus?
Why? Why? We'll come back to that later. It's
fine. I'll move on though. Um You guys I don't
know if you saw that you guy I'll say you guys
not my guy your guy You guys this guy. Mm -hmm.
Elon Musk was ready to jump -shift. I don't know
if you guys seen that He's ready to jump -shift.
He's ready to say hasta la vista Elon Musk leaves
the Trump administration after a turbulent effort
to slash the government. And this was on AP News,
you know? So I see that Elon is ready to say,
to the left, to the left, everything you, oh,
all right, is what he's trying to say. Of course,
after he didn't fiddle around. And I think he
did say that in the beginning, he didn't want
to stay over 180 days in the administration.
So this is him calling the quits, right? When
the damage is done after he didn't help put so
much stuff in Donnie's ear, he's like, hey, I'm
gone. So just a heads up, people. You know, he's
headed back to Tesla world, hopefully. Heads
up. Just a heads up a little bit there. Not sure
he's coming back, but we're gonna hope that he
just doesn't make a U -turn. No time so. Okay.
Yeah, just wanted to give that give that update
about mr. Musk there Now let's move right along
So Yeah, guys, I want to get into Since I got
into those news. I want to get into like I told
you all I had a meltdown last week and I want
to get into that But does she know down about
I can tell you but let me tell you right now.
I had a meltdown last week about just processing
everything. How I'm personally processing everything.
How I'm processing navigating through work, processing
navigation through relationship. Navigating,
processing is just being present as well. Mastering
being present, you know. Laughing at a lot of
things, you know. I was working back to back
to back to back to back to back to back to back.
I needed to take a break. So you guys, I had
to take a break from the pod. I had to take a
break from life. Yeah, I was sitting on Mars.
No, I wasn't. But I was really focusing on my
mental. Because with podding, darling, your mental
needs to be better. Your mental needs to be up
to par. You can hear it when you pod if you're
feeling good or not. So I personally needed to
take a break. But we're back and we're better.
I needed to reflect. I had Mother's Day approach
and my mother passed away. So I had to really
reflect and just process everything that I was
feeling. Process everything that I was thinking.
Share my feelings with my family. Wake them up
and tell them I need some assistance. Just staying
happy and staying grounded. So I feel better
just having the meltdown. I know it sounds crazy.
I knew it sounds crazy. I feel better having
the meltdown though. It was well needed and it
just reminds me that I'm still human. Okay? So
it reminds me that 27 is just my age right now
and it's just a part of my journey and I'm still
young so I can take a breather whenever I god
darn it ready to do so. And everybody else ain't
going nowhere. The money's not going anywhere.
You know, just relive in the time and enjoy the
time while I can. So, that's just what I've been
doing. You know, with that meltdown, babe, it
brought me back into better than ever. So, I
sound fresh. I feel fresh. I am fresh. My UK
trip is in 13 days, mother! Okay, I'm sorry.
But yeah, I'm excited about going to the UK.
I will have on a scarf almost every day. And
I don't mean the way you think I'll have it on.
I mean the most bougiest way you can think that
I can wear a scarf. I will be the bougie USA
in the UK. I'm so ready. You guys won't be able
to tell me anything. I will be sipping hot tea
from... beginning of time, from beginning to
the end. So that means probably 5 a .m., yeah?
Till what? 12 p .m.? Yeah, I'll be sipping tea.
I'll be sipping tea. I'll be in people's business.
I'll be in tea. I'll be giving tea. It will be
nothing but hot tea. And I'm ready. You know,
I'm ready to see what the weather is like. see
how the people are. I'm just already about engaging
with more culture. You know, trying to, because
I told myself I was going to see how they dress
and trying to implement their style. It sounds
crazy, but I want to know if I can blend in.
Could I blend in for one day with the UK folks?
Could they tell that I was not from there? I
want to challenge myself. and see if I can do
such a thing. I don't know what I will do yet,
but I think I'ma first imitate my boyfriend.
Whatever he does, I'll do. And I'm sure he's
listening. It's fine. Yes, I will be imitating
you, because I want to fit in for a day. I want
to see what it's like to be a civilian of the
UK for one day, you know? And then the rest of
the day is I'll be US tourist just moving around.
So I'm excited. I'm so ready. Did you guys get
to go to the UK at age 27? No? Okay. I'm sorry,
I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm more positive than
that. I'm just excited. What a beautiful opportunity
to be able to go to the UK at 27, you know? So
I'm ready to spread my wings. I'm ready to get
out there, you guys. So ready, so, so ready.
But let me switch it up before I let you guys
go. I want to also dive into the joys of being
simple, you guys. I've just been noticing nowadays
that just the joys of just being simple and also
I've been noticing I've been having a dilemma
from trying to shy away from being too simple.
Like I don't want to be too simple. I don't want
to simplify things that shouldn't be simplified,
you know, so I've been trying to navigate Simplicity
and not being too simple because your girl can
get real bougie real quickly. Okay So I'm just
trying to navigate how This will work for me.
And for me, it's just acknowledging where I'm
at Accepting what was really meant for me that
day, you know That's just how I'm navigating
how to be simple, how not to be too simple. So
what was for me that day was for me that day.
If I want to exceed, if I want to take, you know,
go more, go harder, ask for more, then I'm just
practicing my patience because with trying to
be not too simple, that's me extending myself,
knowing that I'm worth more. So to be worth more
just means I need to be a little more patient.
to basically truly reap the rewards of it, whatever
it is that I'm trying to stretch out myself for.
So that's what your girl be doing. That's just
my advice to you guys. Be a little more patient.
I'm kidding. No, but enjoy simplicity. You know,
that's just my advice. Piece of advice is enjoy
simplicity, but don't simplify the things that
shouldn't be simplified. You know? but love simplicity,
darling. I enjoy simplicity. Like when we get
to the UK, we're gonna literally start coloring
books, drinking hot tea, talking. I know it sounds
great because I'm 27, but I love simple things
like a coloring book situation, just sitting
down and relaxing and bobbing with each other
and connecting with each other on just a whole
nother level, you know, on the surface, on the
surface, connecting. I'm ready, baby. I'm ready.
It's gonna get hot and ready. I'm sorry, no.
But I'm ready to go to the UK, see my man, let
the UK see me. Yeah, yeah, I'm ready. Yeah, yeah,
yeah. But I'm gonna wrap up here, you guys. And
leave us out with a nice comedian, a nice comic.
So it was a pleasure speaking with you guys today.
Thank you guys for tuning in, listening to me
go on a rampage about life, and listening to
me give you the news. Thanks for tuning in, subscribing,
because shit, that's just life. Every day we
are growing, every day that we're navigating
through life, we'll pod, we'll laugh, and we'll
keep persevering, but we won't give up, okay?
We just won't. We won't do it. We too old, we
too fine, we getting grown. I won't even say
we too old, because we too young. We're too young,
we're too fine, we're too smart, okay, to give
up. All right, it was a pleasure. Your girl is
out, Emily. Your girl is out. Episode 54. Your
girl, we're about to head out. I'm headed to
the UK in 13 days. Please say yes, I will be
potting from the UK. Just like one or two days,
probably not even a full one or two days. A full
one day, I'll give you a pot. Not a full day
though. Probably 30 minutes, 20 minutes. Because
once I'm in vacation mode, I don't know you guys.
You guys don't know me, but we love each other
still. We'll never forget each other. But when
I'm in vacation mode, I don't know you, you don't
know me. but yet you're still looking out for
me making sure i get to the uk to the us back
in one piece and then go from the us to the uk
in one piece you know just make sure i get there
and back if you don't see episode 55 call the
people y 'all gonna look for me please come look
for me this is not normal very abnormal if episode
55 doesn't get dropped but i'll be back okay
all right no seriously be on the lookout for
me bye before i begin does anyone here work in
the judicial system okay cool i am currently
on jury duty i'm not supposed to talk about it
but that's all we're gonna talk about okay Be
dying to get this off my chest I Was so honest
with the judge too. I told him I said yo listen
I'm a stand -up comic my whole job is to go out
at night and talk about my day But they're so
hard up with jurors that he was like, oh so you
free from nine to five, you know And now I'm
on a jury, you know, and they ask you questions
to try to like filter you out So they were like,
hey listen, this is uh Murder case, you know,
it's a felony. Are you okay listening to details
about a murder for two weeks? And I was like
listen, I'm from New York. I wanted to kill people
every day. Okay Same token 30 some odd years.
I haven't done it yet. So I get the other side,
you know Perspective And then he was like, okay,
so we meet Monday through Friday, are you free
to do that? And I was like actually I got a show
on Friday in Rhode Island And I thought that
was going to knock me out the running. But he
just took a note. He sent me out the room. And
then when they brought us all in, he was like,
ladies and gentlemen, you are officially members
of the jury. We'll be meeting Monday through
Thursday. Because some of you have other obligations.
This dude is on trial for murder, and they got
delayed a week so I can entertain 70 people in
Providence? That's too much power, you know,
I Started listening to the case. He's wild guilty
by the way Wow We've never seen this guy again,
he is sober forever I'm listening to the case
and like the more I hear the more I realize I
can't just do the free weekend, you know This
could have been wrapped up on Friday. I gave
him more time to get his affairs in order, you
know It was so bad that, like, the jury couldn't,
like, hide how they felt about it, you know?
Like, he brought out a character witness and
every time she spoke, she was lying so much that
the jury next to me would just be like, uh -uh.
It's not a good sound for you when, like, the
juries just tapping each other during your trial.
Like, yo, you hearing this shit?