WEBVTT 00:00:02.030 --> 00:00:07.549 Hello, hello, hello. Welcome back. You can hear, 00:00:07.750 --> 00:00:11.009 we're here, we're here people. You girl, your 00:00:11.009 --> 00:00:14.269 favorite life coach here? Yes, me, Cecile. I'm 00:00:14.269 --> 00:00:17.510 here. And I hope y 'all know when I say favorite 00:00:17.510 --> 00:00:21.129 life coach, I am not certified. I know it sounds 00:00:21.129 --> 00:00:25.250 crazy, but no, I'm not certified, darling. I 00:00:25.250 --> 00:00:26.969 just know that I'm a life coach because life 00:00:26.969 --> 00:00:28.850 be life and then I'm coaching folks to get through 00:00:28.850 --> 00:00:33.469 it just like I coach myself. So no, but welcome 00:00:33.469 --> 00:00:37.689 y 'all. Let's get started. Episode 54. We're 00:00:37.689 --> 00:00:40.009 gonna keep pushing it. We're gonna keep going 00:00:40.009 --> 00:00:44.570 baby. We're 13 days away from heading to the 00:00:44.570 --> 00:00:49.829 UK. Exciting things. Time to let our hair down. 00:00:50.469 --> 00:00:55.820 Time to twirl around in our dresses. Time to 00:00:55.820 --> 00:00:58.759 put on our skirts. I'm ready. I'm ready. I'm 00:00:58.759 --> 00:01:01.079 ready to get my nails done, my feet done, my 00:01:01.079 --> 00:01:06.280 hair done. I'm ready to thrive in my girly, feminine 00:01:06.280 --> 00:01:10.420 side. Like, I'm ready to see the UK folks. I'm 00:01:10.420 --> 00:01:14.859 ready to see their all -day, everyday reactions 00:01:14.859 --> 00:01:19.939 to life. Do they wake up annoyed? Because the 00:01:19.939 --> 00:01:24.709 US? Oh, these cookies over here are tough. Okay? 00:01:25.829 --> 00:01:29.349 These civilians over here are tough, you guys. 00:01:30.090 --> 00:01:33.709 That's what I can say. Everybody is just trying 00:01:33.709 --> 00:01:36.810 to get to the money in the U .S. Everybody just 00:01:36.810 --> 00:01:40.510 wants their money. That's what I'm noticing. 00:01:41.030 --> 00:01:44.370 People are just in need of their money in this 00:01:44.370 --> 00:01:47.409 tax year. And we're right here in this year. 00:01:48.609 --> 00:01:52.659 We're ending the tax season, people. It truly 00:01:52.659 --> 00:01:57.099 all the way ends in October, but I'm just noticing 00:01:57.099 --> 00:02:02.019 people are needing their money. Tax season ended 00:02:02.019 --> 00:02:05.180 for some people on April 15th. Some people still 00:02:05.180 --> 00:02:08.039 waiting on their money. You know what I'm saying? 00:02:08.580 --> 00:02:12.979 Like, the U .S., clearly, they're waiting for 00:02:12.979 --> 00:02:15.800 their money. These people are not always happy 00:02:15.800 --> 00:02:20.060 in the morning. The civilians, they are not always 00:02:20.060 --> 00:02:25.879 willing to listen. They are not always willing 00:02:25.879 --> 00:02:29.139 to know that they may not know something. You 00:02:29.139 --> 00:02:32.020 know, it's okay to not know, all right? But I 00:02:32.020 --> 00:02:36.400 tell you, the civilians in the U .S., baby, I 00:02:36.400 --> 00:02:42.900 need a whole new selection of civilians. Because 00:02:42.900 --> 00:02:47.759 these civilians out here, they're over it. They 00:02:47.759 --> 00:02:52.800 are, they're so over it. And as a government 00:02:52.800 --> 00:03:00.020 worker, I'm about up here to it, but I do enjoy 00:03:00.020 --> 00:03:04.340 -ish the journey. I'll be leading the journey 00:03:04.340 --> 00:03:09.680 eventually, but I see where we are in life every 00:03:09.680 --> 00:03:13.780 time I get to this government job. Every time 00:03:13.780 --> 00:03:17.199 I interact with people. in Iraq with more civilians. 00:03:17.360 --> 00:03:20.199 I see why we are where we are in life. I see 00:03:20.199 --> 00:03:23.699 where we're at where we're at. We got to do better 00:03:23.699 --> 00:03:26.680 people. We need to learn how to talk to each 00:03:26.680 --> 00:03:31.039 other. We need to learn how to actively listen 00:03:31.039 --> 00:03:34.419 to each other. Oh babe, it's a lot we need to 00:03:34.419 --> 00:03:39.620 learn. We need to learn more things in life. 00:03:41.639 --> 00:03:44.539 You need to be okay with not knowing people because 00:03:44.539 --> 00:03:47.240 there are certainly so many things out there 00:03:47.240 --> 00:03:50.479 that I don't know But I think we need to acknowledge 00:03:50.479 --> 00:03:52.439 that hey, it's some things We just got to learn 00:03:52.439 --> 00:03:55.639 and we need to be okay being tall, you know I 00:03:55.639 --> 00:03:58.520 can't teach everybody but I do laugh at people 00:03:58.520 --> 00:04:03.259 that are not okay with learning or not okay with 00:04:03.259 --> 00:04:07.479 being taught a lesson within that moment They're 00:04:07.479 --> 00:04:09.979 ready to curse you out because you proved them 00:04:09.979 --> 00:04:14.379 wrong. So I am advising everybody. You're a good 00:04:14.379 --> 00:04:16.779 life coach here. Let's take a breather, people. 00:04:17.279 --> 00:04:23.019 Okay? We're in May, entering into June. I think 00:04:23.019 --> 00:04:27.319 it's the Gemini season. I think it's the fact 00:04:27.319 --> 00:04:30.120 that we're in Gemini season. You guys are acting 00:04:30.120 --> 00:04:34.500 the f*** up. You guys are talking crazy. You 00:04:34.500 --> 00:04:38.060 guys are getting indicted. There's trials. There's 00:04:38.060 --> 00:04:43.019 so much stuff going out there, you guys. I'm 00:04:43.019 --> 00:04:47.720 telling you guys, I'm praying for everyone. Because 00:04:47.720 --> 00:04:51.500 life is life, and we still have to persevere. 00:04:51.779 --> 00:04:56.439 So you all, episode 54, we're about to get right 00:04:56.439 --> 00:05:00.540 into it. I needed to release off my chest. I 00:05:00.540 --> 00:05:04.000 needed to give you guys an insight of what was 00:05:04.000 --> 00:05:08.560 on my brain, what was on my mental, okay? I also 00:05:08.560 --> 00:05:10.540 need to give you guys an insight of my meltdown. 00:05:11.040 --> 00:05:14.980 that i had a few days ago but since we're back 00:05:14.980 --> 00:05:17.120 and we're better we're gonna get started darling 00:05:17.120 --> 00:05:20.579 episode 54 with your favorite coach with cecile 00:05:20.579 --> 00:05:28.560 because shit that's just life lego normally i 00:05:28.560 --> 00:05:31.300 wouldn't even entertain this but the fact that 00:05:31.300 --> 00:05:35.160 you mentioned my children i'm not letting that 00:05:35.160 --> 00:05:40.389 ride since this whole situation happened Everybody 00:05:40.389 --> 00:05:44.230 know I never said nothing. The only time I said 00:05:44.230 --> 00:05:47.089 something was the last time when she tried to 00:05:47.089 --> 00:05:49.769 clout chase with the whole fake thing she tried 00:05:49.769 --> 00:05:52.870 to put on Instagram before. But ever since this 00:05:52.870 --> 00:05:56.410 transpired, I never opened my mouth, never said 00:05:56.410 --> 00:05:58.810 nothing because that's not my style. And also, 00:05:59.110 --> 00:06:03.430 I would never want to disrespect her. You know 00:06:03.430 --> 00:06:04.970 what I mean? I actually speak way louder than 00:06:04.970 --> 00:06:09.220 words. Initially, when it transpired, which was 00:06:09.220 --> 00:06:12.100 2022, when she started dealing with the lane. 00:06:13.980 --> 00:06:16.519 But that wasn't the first time I caught her cheating. 00:06:17.879 --> 00:06:20.040 I've caught her cheating numerous times since 00:06:20.040 --> 00:06:26.279 she's been home. With the lane, let's get to 00:06:26.279 --> 00:06:30.180 the point. We won't get to the lane later. You 00:06:30.180 --> 00:06:33.139 had the audacity to mention my child. You had 00:06:33.139 --> 00:06:35.420 the audacity to mention me not seeing my daughter. 00:06:36.509 --> 00:06:40.209 Ever since I left, she has not allowed me to 00:06:40.209 --> 00:06:43.029 see my daughter. She's been straight miserable. 00:06:44.110 --> 00:06:46.410 I'm gonna say it again, all men out there who 00:06:46.410 --> 00:06:47.790 have ever been through this type of situation, 00:06:48.470 --> 00:06:50.050 you know how it gets when you're dealing with 00:06:50.050 --> 00:06:55.050 a miserable individual. She did not allow me 00:06:55.050 --> 00:06:58.930 to see my daughter since this first transpired 00:06:58.930 --> 00:07:06.439 at the end of last year. And normally, a grown 00:07:06.439 --> 00:07:09.879 ass man wouldn't get on social media to respond, 00:07:11.100 --> 00:07:13.180 especially if he's a real mother - I'm just kidding. 00:07:13.420 --> 00:07:14.699 I ain't gonna do that. I ain't gonna do it to 00:07:14.699 --> 00:07:19.860 you. Nope. So, Remy Ma and Pat Poose, you guys 00:07:19.860 --> 00:07:23.060 heard it. You heard the audio. I was a little 00:07:23.060 --> 00:07:28.800 confused as to what drove Pat Poose to go to 00:07:28.800 --> 00:07:32.120 the internet. I was just confused. I'm only confused 00:07:32.120 --> 00:07:36.269 because - He is a silent killer. Uh -huh. He 00:07:36.269 --> 00:07:41.209 is like, um... Yeah, he's a silent killer. He 00:07:41.209 --> 00:07:44.389 does not speak too loud. He don't do all that 00:07:44.389 --> 00:07:46.689 Internet shenanigans. It takes a lot. That's 00:07:46.689 --> 00:07:48.889 just what I've learned watching him, you know, 00:07:48.930 --> 00:07:52.529 with Love and Hip Hop, Pappous and Remy Ma. You 00:07:52.529 --> 00:07:56.689 know, it typically takes a lot for Pappous to 00:07:56.689 --> 00:08:00.290 engage with the Internet, you know, with his 00:08:00.290 --> 00:08:04.620 money related. Beef wise, beef wise, you know, 00:08:04.740 --> 00:08:08.579 issues wise, dilemma wise, he typically hardly 00:08:08.579 --> 00:08:12.480 ever goes to the internet. So I was very surprised 00:08:12.480 --> 00:08:16.019 that he's going to the internet. Not only am 00:08:16.019 --> 00:08:20.579 I surprised about their altercation at the moment, 00:08:20.620 --> 00:08:25.579 I'm surprised because they were my favorite couple 00:08:25.579 --> 00:08:28.560 of love and hip hop. Like, oh my God, seriously. 00:08:29.220 --> 00:08:31.259 These two were my favorite on love and hip hop. 00:08:31.420 --> 00:08:34.360 I think it was Nova Hip Hop in New York, when 00:08:34.360 --> 00:08:37.679 she was in jail, when she got out of jail. Like 00:08:37.679 --> 00:08:43.059 they were black love. That was the two words 00:08:43.059 --> 00:08:47.600 that they were marketing at the time. Black love, 00:08:47.600 --> 00:08:54.539 you know? So it really sucks to see the two be 00:08:54.539 --> 00:08:57.419 going at it on the internet. And we don't have 00:08:57.419 --> 00:08:59.539 clarity. I don't have clarity on what the problem 00:08:59.539 --> 00:09:02.740 really is. But it's okay. It's not my business. 00:09:02.919 --> 00:09:06.299 It is not my business. But I did see the clip. 00:09:06.980 --> 00:09:10.120 I did take the audio so you guys can hear it 00:09:10.120 --> 00:09:13.620 and get my review. Yeah, I'm very surprised because 00:09:13.620 --> 00:09:17.320 when I tell you Papoose is a killer on the pin, 00:09:18.620 --> 00:09:23.840 his raps, his rhymes, his penmanship is lovely. 00:09:24.100 --> 00:09:27.720 So I was very, you know, caught off guard. I 00:09:27.720 --> 00:09:29.480 won't even say surprise anymore. Caught off guard 00:09:29.480 --> 00:09:33.860 that he took penmanship to the Facebook, I mean, 00:09:33.919 --> 00:09:37.220 Instagram live and made a little recording. So 00:09:37.220 --> 00:09:40.639 yeah, wouldn't want that. If my man is listening, 00:09:41.059 --> 00:09:43.379 please don't do that ever, ever, ever, ever, 00:09:44.299 --> 00:09:49.200 ever. Ever, ever, ever, ever. Okay? Police. All 00:09:49.200 --> 00:09:52.500 right. But we'll move along here, people, because 00:09:52.500 --> 00:09:54.639 Papoose and Remy Ma, you guys got some explaining 00:09:54.639 --> 00:09:57.279 to do, because I really was falling for that 00:09:57.279 --> 00:10:00.480 whole marketing of black love from Love & Hip 00:10:00.480 --> 00:10:03.820 Hop New York. It's okay. Nobody's perfect, though. 00:10:04.159 --> 00:10:06.179 Nobody's perfect. I'm giving everybody grace. 00:10:07.019 --> 00:10:10.039 So nobody's perfect. I'm asking you guys that's 00:10:10.039 --> 00:10:13.059 listening. Keep subscribing. Give them grace. 00:10:14.080 --> 00:10:19.000 Because people's days, people's Time, nowadays, 00:10:19.539 --> 00:10:23.299 yeah. I think things are just looking real sketchy 00:10:23.299 --> 00:10:27.100 -ish for people. Things are looking real skeptical 00:10:27.100 --> 00:10:31.139 for people. A lot of stuff is lived through the 00:10:31.139 --> 00:10:34.240 internet. You never know what to believe anymore. 00:10:35.039 --> 00:10:38.899 So, we're gonna send them prayers. Because I'm 00:10:38.899 --> 00:10:41.600 still a little upset. Why did you get on, Peppus? 00:10:41.639 --> 00:10:44.580 Why? Why? We'll come back to that later. It's 00:10:44.580 --> 00:10:49.039 fine. I'll move on though. Um You guys I don't 00:10:49.039 --> 00:10:52.500 know if you saw that you guy I'll say you guys 00:10:52.500 --> 00:10:56.759 not my guy your guy You guys this guy. Mm -hmm. 00:10:56.940 --> 00:11:00.139 Elon Musk was ready to jump -shift. I don't know 00:11:00.139 --> 00:11:02.500 if you guys seen that He's ready to jump -shift. 00:11:02.500 --> 00:11:07.000 He's ready to say hasta la vista Elon Musk leaves 00:11:07.000 --> 00:11:11.570 the Trump administration after a turbulent effort 00:11:11.570 --> 00:11:16.090 to slash the government. And this was on AP News, 00:11:16.289 --> 00:11:20.490 you know? So I see that Elon is ready to say, 00:11:21.450 --> 00:11:23.870 to the left, to the left, everything you, oh, 00:11:24.029 --> 00:11:25.830 all right, is what he's trying to say. Of course, 00:11:25.870 --> 00:11:29.149 after he didn't fiddle around. And I think he 00:11:29.149 --> 00:11:32.169 did say that in the beginning, he didn't want 00:11:32.169 --> 00:11:36.529 to stay over 180 days in the administration. 00:11:37.759 --> 00:11:41.259 So this is him calling the quits, right? When 00:11:41.259 --> 00:11:44.299 the damage is done after he didn't help put so 00:11:44.299 --> 00:11:46.899 much stuff in Donnie's ear, he's like, hey, I'm 00:11:46.899 --> 00:11:51.799 gone. So just a heads up, people. You know, he's 00:11:51.799 --> 00:11:54.659 headed back to Tesla world, hopefully. Heads 00:11:54.659 --> 00:11:58.159 up. Just a heads up a little bit there. Not sure 00:11:58.159 --> 00:12:00.700 he's coming back, but we're gonna hope that he 00:12:00.700 --> 00:12:03.690 just doesn't make a U -turn. No time so. Okay. 00:12:03.870 --> 00:12:05.950 Yeah, just wanted to give that give that update 00:12:05.950 --> 00:12:10.350 about mr. Musk there Now let's move right along 00:12:10.350 --> 00:12:18.350 So Yeah, guys, I want to get into Since I got 00:12:18.350 --> 00:12:20.710 into those news. I want to get into like I told 00:12:20.710 --> 00:12:23.250 you all I had a meltdown last week and I want 00:12:23.250 --> 00:12:26.190 to get into that But does she know down about 00:12:26.190 --> 00:12:28.929 I can tell you but let me tell you right now. 00:12:29.289 --> 00:12:33.950 I had a meltdown last week about just processing 00:12:33.950 --> 00:12:36.629 everything. How I'm personally processing everything. 00:12:37.370 --> 00:12:41.429 How I'm processing navigating through work, processing 00:12:41.429 --> 00:12:46.409 navigation through relationship. Navigating, 00:12:46.629 --> 00:12:50.509 processing is just being present as well. Mastering 00:12:50.509 --> 00:12:53.350 being present, you know. Laughing at a lot of 00:12:53.350 --> 00:12:57.429 things, you know. I was working back to back 00:12:57.429 --> 00:12:59.350 to back to back to back to back to back to back. 00:13:00.559 --> 00:13:03.580 I needed to take a break. So you guys, I had 00:13:03.580 --> 00:13:06.059 to take a break from the pod. I had to take a 00:13:06.059 --> 00:13:09.480 break from life. Yeah, I was sitting on Mars. 00:13:10.419 --> 00:13:14.120 No, I wasn't. But I was really focusing on my 00:13:14.120 --> 00:13:18.600 mental. Because with podding, darling, your mental 00:13:18.600 --> 00:13:21.919 needs to be better. Your mental needs to be up 00:13:21.919 --> 00:13:25.360 to par. You can hear it when you pod if you're 00:13:25.360 --> 00:13:28.820 feeling good or not. So I personally needed to 00:13:28.820 --> 00:13:31.269 take a break. But we're back and we're better. 00:13:31.909 --> 00:13:35.889 I needed to reflect. I had Mother's Day approach 00:13:35.889 --> 00:13:39.269 and my mother passed away. So I had to really 00:13:39.269 --> 00:13:42.909 reflect and just process everything that I was 00:13:42.909 --> 00:13:46.210 feeling. Process everything that I was thinking. 00:13:48.789 --> 00:13:52.429 Share my feelings with my family. Wake them up 00:13:52.429 --> 00:13:55.950 and tell them I need some assistance. Just staying 00:13:55.950 --> 00:14:00.279 happy and staying grounded. So I feel better 00:14:00.279 --> 00:14:04.320 just having the meltdown. I know it sounds crazy. 00:14:04.559 --> 00:14:07.240 I knew it sounds crazy. I feel better having 00:14:07.240 --> 00:14:09.480 the meltdown though. It was well needed and it 00:14:09.480 --> 00:14:12.940 just reminds me that I'm still human. Okay? So 00:14:12.940 --> 00:14:16.860 it reminds me that 27 is just my age right now 00:14:16.860 --> 00:14:19.759 and it's just a part of my journey and I'm still 00:14:19.759 --> 00:14:22.820 young so I can take a breather whenever I god 00:14:22.820 --> 00:14:26.759 darn it ready to do so. And everybody else ain't 00:14:26.759 --> 00:14:28.899 going nowhere. The money's not going anywhere. 00:14:30.200 --> 00:14:36.379 You know, just relive in the time and enjoy the 00:14:36.379 --> 00:14:39.919 time while I can. So, that's just what I've been 00:14:39.919 --> 00:14:42.980 doing. You know, with that meltdown, babe, it 00:14:42.980 --> 00:14:46.759 brought me back into better than ever. So, I 00:14:46.759 --> 00:14:52.500 sound fresh. I feel fresh. I am fresh. My UK 00:14:52.500 --> 00:14:55.659 trip is in 13 days, mother! Okay, I'm sorry. 00:14:56.179 --> 00:14:59.399 But yeah, I'm excited about going to the UK. 00:15:00.460 --> 00:15:03.820 I will have on a scarf almost every day. And 00:15:03.820 --> 00:15:05.799 I don't mean the way you think I'll have it on. 00:15:05.960 --> 00:15:08.720 I mean the most bougiest way you can think that 00:15:08.720 --> 00:15:13.500 I can wear a scarf. I will be the bougie USA 00:15:13.500 --> 00:15:18.519 in the UK. I'm so ready. You guys won't be able 00:15:18.519 --> 00:15:21.799 to tell me anything. I will be sipping hot tea 00:15:21.799 --> 00:15:25.980 from... beginning of time, from beginning to 00:15:25.980 --> 00:15:30.620 the end. So that means probably 5 a .m., yeah? 00:15:31.379 --> 00:15:35.259 Till what? 12 p .m.? Yeah, I'll be sipping tea. 00:15:36.659 --> 00:15:39.980 I'll be sipping tea. I'll be in people's business. 00:15:40.179 --> 00:15:44.379 I'll be in tea. I'll be giving tea. It will be 00:15:44.379 --> 00:15:47.980 nothing but hot tea. And I'm ready. You know, 00:15:47.980 --> 00:15:51.799 I'm ready to see what the weather is like. see 00:15:51.799 --> 00:15:55.559 how the people are. I'm just already about engaging 00:15:55.559 --> 00:16:01.220 with more culture. You know, trying to, because 00:16:01.220 --> 00:16:03.860 I told myself I was going to see how they dress 00:16:03.860 --> 00:16:08.120 and trying to implement their style. It sounds 00:16:08.120 --> 00:16:10.460 crazy, but I want to know if I can blend in. 00:16:10.580 --> 00:16:13.320 Could I blend in for one day with the UK folks? 00:16:13.399 --> 00:16:15.779 Could they tell that I was not from there? I 00:16:15.779 --> 00:16:18.379 want to challenge myself. and see if I can do 00:16:18.379 --> 00:16:20.559 such a thing. I don't know what I will do yet, 00:16:20.580 --> 00:16:24.460 but I think I'ma first imitate my boyfriend. 00:16:25.039 --> 00:16:27.139 Whatever he does, I'll do. And I'm sure he's 00:16:27.139 --> 00:16:29.360 listening. It's fine. Yes, I will be imitating 00:16:29.360 --> 00:16:33.559 you, because I want to fit in for a day. I want 00:16:33.559 --> 00:16:36.419 to see what it's like to be a civilian of the 00:16:36.419 --> 00:16:39.360 UK for one day, you know? And then the rest of 00:16:39.360 --> 00:16:43.419 the day is I'll be US tourist just moving around. 00:16:43.980 --> 00:16:50.269 So I'm excited. I'm so ready. Did you guys get 00:16:50.269 --> 00:16:56.470 to go to the UK at age 27? No? Okay. I'm sorry, 00:16:56.509 --> 00:16:59.149 I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm more positive than 00:16:59.149 --> 00:17:02.870 that. I'm just excited. What a beautiful opportunity 00:17:02.870 --> 00:17:07.589 to be able to go to the UK at 27, you know? So 00:17:07.589 --> 00:17:11.509 I'm ready to spread my wings. I'm ready to get 00:17:11.509 --> 00:17:15.430 out there, you guys. So ready, so, so ready. 00:17:15.950 --> 00:17:18.009 But let me switch it up before I let you guys 00:17:18.009 --> 00:17:24.809 go. I want to also dive into the joys of being 00:17:24.809 --> 00:17:28.509 simple, you guys. I've just been noticing nowadays 00:17:28.509 --> 00:17:32.670 that just the joys of just being simple and also 00:17:32.670 --> 00:17:36.829 I've been noticing I've been having a dilemma 00:17:36.829 --> 00:17:41.289 from trying to shy away from being too simple. 00:17:41.850 --> 00:17:43.990 Like I don't want to be too simple. I don't want 00:17:43.990 --> 00:17:45.829 to simplify things that shouldn't be simplified, 00:17:45.910 --> 00:17:50.029 you know, so I've been trying to navigate Simplicity 00:17:50.029 --> 00:17:52.549 and not being too simple because your girl can 00:17:52.549 --> 00:17:56.390 get real bougie real quickly. Okay So I'm just 00:17:56.390 --> 00:17:59.450 trying to navigate how This will work for me. 00:17:59.650 --> 00:18:04.170 And for me, it's just acknowledging where I'm 00:18:04.170 --> 00:18:09.369 at Accepting what was really meant for me that 00:18:09.369 --> 00:18:12.640 day, you know That's just how I'm navigating 00:18:12.640 --> 00:18:16.460 how to be simple, how not to be too simple. So 00:18:16.460 --> 00:18:19.240 what was for me that day was for me that day. 00:18:19.660 --> 00:18:22.539 If I want to exceed, if I want to take, you know, 00:18:22.539 --> 00:18:26.160 go more, go harder, ask for more, then I'm just 00:18:26.160 --> 00:18:29.680 practicing my patience because with trying to 00:18:29.680 --> 00:18:32.700 be not too simple, that's me extending myself, 00:18:32.819 --> 00:18:36.539 knowing that I'm worth more. So to be worth more 00:18:36.539 --> 00:18:38.720 just means I need to be a little more patient. 00:18:39.840 --> 00:18:45.039 to basically truly reap the rewards of it, whatever 00:18:45.039 --> 00:18:47.720 it is that I'm trying to stretch out myself for. 00:18:48.299 --> 00:18:50.859 So that's what your girl be doing. That's just 00:18:50.859 --> 00:18:53.799 my advice to you guys. Be a little more patient. 00:18:54.240 --> 00:18:58.319 I'm kidding. No, but enjoy simplicity. You know, 00:18:58.319 --> 00:19:00.920 that's just my advice. Piece of advice is enjoy 00:19:00.920 --> 00:19:04.259 simplicity, but don't simplify the things that 00:19:04.259 --> 00:19:08.119 shouldn't be simplified. You know? but love simplicity, 00:19:08.319 --> 00:19:11.240 darling. I enjoy simplicity. Like when we get 00:19:11.240 --> 00:19:14.799 to the UK, we're gonna literally start coloring 00:19:14.799 --> 00:19:19.839 books, drinking hot tea, talking. I know it sounds 00:19:19.839 --> 00:19:22.400 great because I'm 27, but I love simple things 00:19:22.400 --> 00:19:25.119 like a coloring book situation, just sitting 00:19:25.119 --> 00:19:27.440 down and relaxing and bobbing with each other 00:19:27.440 --> 00:19:30.640 and connecting with each other on just a whole 00:19:30.640 --> 00:19:33.380 nother level, you know, on the surface, on the 00:19:33.380 --> 00:19:38.359 surface, connecting. I'm ready, baby. I'm ready. 00:19:38.460 --> 00:19:40.299 It's gonna get hot and ready. I'm sorry, no. 00:19:40.700 --> 00:19:45.819 But I'm ready to go to the UK, see my man, let 00:19:45.819 --> 00:19:50.160 the UK see me. Yeah, yeah, I'm ready. Yeah, yeah, 00:19:50.160 --> 00:19:54.460 yeah. But I'm gonna wrap up here, you guys. And 00:19:54.460 --> 00:19:58.220 leave us out with a nice comedian, a nice comic. 00:19:58.569 --> 00:20:01.529 So it was a pleasure speaking with you guys today. 00:20:01.769 --> 00:20:05.269 Thank you guys for tuning in, listening to me 00:20:05.269 --> 00:20:09.250 go on a rampage about life, and listening to 00:20:09.250 --> 00:20:13.549 me give you the news. Thanks for tuning in, subscribing, 00:20:14.269 --> 00:20:16.309 because shit, that's just life. Every day we 00:20:16.309 --> 00:20:18.230 are growing, every day that we're navigating 00:20:18.230 --> 00:20:22.410 through life, we'll pod, we'll laugh, and we'll 00:20:22.410 --> 00:20:24.970 keep persevering, but we won't give up, okay? 00:20:25.269 --> 00:20:28.049 We just won't. We won't do it. We too old, we 00:20:28.049 --> 00:20:30.710 too fine, we getting grown. I won't even say 00:20:30.710 --> 00:20:32.990 we too old, because we too young. We're too young, 00:20:33.230 --> 00:20:36.349 we're too fine, we're too smart, okay, to give 00:20:36.349 --> 00:20:39.589 up. All right, it was a pleasure. Your girl is 00:20:39.589 --> 00:20:46.990 out, Emily. Your girl is out. Episode 54. Your 00:20:46.990 --> 00:20:50.230 girl, we're about to head out. I'm headed to 00:20:50.230 --> 00:20:53.450 the UK in 13 days. Please say yes, I will be 00:20:53.450 --> 00:20:55.809 potting from the UK. Just like one or two days, 00:20:55.930 --> 00:20:58.410 probably not even a full one or two days. A full 00:20:58.410 --> 00:21:01.349 one day, I'll give you a pot. Not a full day 00:21:01.349 --> 00:21:05.369 though. Probably 30 minutes, 20 minutes. Because 00:21:05.369 --> 00:21:08.069 once I'm in vacation mode, I don't know you guys. 00:21:08.190 --> 00:21:10.210 You guys don't know me, but we love each other 00:21:10.210 --> 00:21:12.289 still. We'll never forget each other. But when 00:21:12.289 --> 00:21:14.589 I'm in vacation mode, I don't know you, you don't 00:21:14.589 --> 00:21:16.779 know me. but yet you're still looking out for 00:21:16.779 --> 00:21:21.079 me making sure i get to the uk to the us back 00:21:21.079 --> 00:21:25.440 in one piece and then go from the us to the uk 00:21:25.440 --> 00:21:28.759 in one piece you know just make sure i get there 00:21:28.759 --> 00:21:33.000 and back if you don't see episode 55 call the 00:21:33.000 --> 00:21:36.279 people y 'all gonna look for me please come look 00:21:36.279 --> 00:21:41.180 for me this is not normal very abnormal if episode 00:21:41.180 --> 00:21:43.799 55 doesn't get dropped but i'll be back okay 00:21:44.319 --> 00:21:46.319 all right no seriously be on the lookout for 00:21:46.319 --> 00:21:55.619 me bye before i begin does anyone here work in 00:21:55.619 --> 00:22:05.539 the judicial system okay cool i am currently 00:22:05.539 --> 00:22:09.640 on jury duty i'm not supposed to talk about it 00:22:09.640 --> 00:22:14.700 but that's all we're gonna talk about okay Be 00:22:14.700 --> 00:22:18.619 dying to get this off my chest I Was so honest 00:22:18.619 --> 00:22:20.740 with the judge too. I told him I said yo listen 00:22:20.740 --> 00:22:23.700 I'm a stand -up comic my whole job is to go out 00:22:23.700 --> 00:22:27.779 at night and talk about my day But they're so 00:22:27.779 --> 00:22:31.200 hard up with jurors that he was like, oh so you 00:22:31.200 --> 00:22:34.079 free from nine to five, you know And now I'm 00:22:34.079 --> 00:22:36.460 on a jury, you know, and they ask you questions 00:22:36.460 --> 00:22:38.519 to try to like filter you out So they were like, 00:22:38.539 --> 00:22:41.259 hey listen, this is uh Murder case, you know, 00:22:41.359 --> 00:22:44.039 it's a felony. Are you okay listening to details 00:22:44.039 --> 00:22:45.599 about a murder for two weeks? And I was like 00:22:45.599 --> 00:22:48.160 listen, I'm from New York. I wanted to kill people 00:22:48.160 --> 00:22:52.220 every day. Okay Same token 30 some odd years. 00:22:52.220 --> 00:22:54.680 I haven't done it yet. So I get the other side, 00:22:54.680 --> 00:23:01.319 you know Perspective And then he was like, okay, 00:23:01.440 --> 00:23:03.480 so we meet Monday through Friday, are you free 00:23:03.480 --> 00:23:06.019 to do that? And I was like actually I got a show 00:23:06.019 --> 00:23:08.940 on Friday in Rhode Island And I thought that 00:23:08.940 --> 00:23:11.420 was going to knock me out the running. But he 00:23:11.420 --> 00:23:14.079 just took a note. He sent me out the room. And 00:23:14.079 --> 00:23:16.380 then when they brought us all in, he was like, 00:23:16.740 --> 00:23:18.640 ladies and gentlemen, you are officially members 00:23:18.640 --> 00:23:21.579 of the jury. We'll be meeting Monday through 00:23:21.579 --> 00:23:27.099 Thursday. Because some of you have other obligations. 00:23:28.279 --> 00:23:31.299 This dude is on trial for murder, and they got 00:23:31.299 --> 00:23:34.779 delayed a week so I can entertain 70 people in 00:23:34.779 --> 00:23:39.440 Providence? That's too much power, you know, 00:23:39.440 --> 00:23:43.200 I Started listening to the case. He's wild guilty 00:23:43.200 --> 00:23:47.539 by the way Wow We've never seen this guy again, 00:23:47.539 --> 00:23:54.259 he is sober forever I'm listening to the case 00:23:54.259 --> 00:23:57.880 and like the more I hear the more I realize I 00:23:57.880 --> 00:24:00.619 can't just do the free weekend, you know This 00:24:00.619 --> 00:24:02.500 could have been wrapped up on Friday. I gave 00:24:02.500 --> 00:24:04.599 him more time to get his affairs in order, you 00:24:04.599 --> 00:24:10.089 know It was so bad that, like, the jury couldn't, 00:24:10.089 --> 00:24:12.910 like, hide how they felt about it, you know? 00:24:13.390 --> 00:24:15.170 Like, he brought out a character witness and 00:24:15.170 --> 00:24:18.049 every time she spoke, she was lying so much that 00:24:18.049 --> 00:24:20.490 the jury next to me would just be like, uh -uh. 00:24:23.950 --> 00:24:25.950 It's not a good sound for you when, like, the 00:24:25.950 --> 00:24:28.109 juries just tapping each other during your trial. 00:24:28.269 --> 00:24:29.269 Like, yo, you hearing this shit?