WEBVTT 00:00:11.980 --> 00:00:19.899 Are we here? Are we here? We are here! But yet 00:00:19.899 --> 00:00:23.519 I'm showing up every day as possible. I'm thriving. 00:00:24.160 --> 00:00:27.579 I attended pop -up shops. Two pop -up shops, 00:00:27.859 --> 00:00:31.179 okay? You know? So I'm coming to the UK. I'm 00:00:31.179 --> 00:00:35.240 coming just for vacation. So meeting more creators, 00:00:35.500 --> 00:00:40.219 I was able to meet sisters that have a business. 00:00:40.640 --> 00:00:42.820 Baby, we out here thriving, okay? We're coming 00:00:42.820 --> 00:00:44.899 together. We're putting our heads together. We're 00:00:44.899 --> 00:00:48.479 coming to figure it out, and I think we all are, 00:00:48.479 --> 00:00:51.219 you know, believe it or not, persevering through. 00:00:51.799 --> 00:00:55.479 You know, we're persevering through. Yeah, you 00:00:55.479 --> 00:00:57.280 guys, I'm not sure if you've been looking at 00:00:57.280 --> 00:01:02.159 any news lately, but lately I've seen the news 00:01:02.159 --> 00:01:05.959 of Stephen A. Smith saying that he wants to run 00:01:05.959 --> 00:01:10.019 for president. Little do we know we are persevering 00:01:10.019 --> 00:01:20.859 through life Welcome we're here. We're here. 00:01:20.939 --> 00:01:23.280 We're here. I think we're back. We are here cameras 00:01:23.280 --> 00:01:29.620 are on action is going Okay Episode 50 we are 00:01:29.620 --> 00:01:32.760 here you guys welcome back episode 50 with your 00:01:32.760 --> 00:01:37.799 girl your favorite life coach here Cecile Yeah, 00:01:37.799 --> 00:01:40.299 cuz shit. That's just life. Yes. We are literally 00:01:40.299 --> 00:01:46.359 an episode 50 today was a day I literally had 00:01:46.359 --> 00:01:49.959 my own agenda But then life starts life in you 00:01:49.959 --> 00:01:51.519 know what I'm saying. That's the thing about 00:01:51.519 --> 00:01:55.560 life You could make plans, but then plans start 00:01:55.560 --> 00:01:59.299 making you Mm -hmm. I want to say that one because 00:01:59.299 --> 00:02:04.159 I woke up today excited about Getting my deep 00:02:04.159 --> 00:02:08.949 cleaning done you guys I'm just taking self -care 00:02:08.949 --> 00:02:12.210 to a whole other level each and every day. I'm 00:02:12.210 --> 00:02:15.590 cranking it up. Okay, so excuse me. Excuse me. 00:02:15.770 --> 00:02:21.090 I took Went and took my appointment since we 00:02:21.090 --> 00:02:26.469 said it but got there and Basically was told 00:02:26.469 --> 00:02:29.530 that that deep cleaning would be at least $500 00:02:29.530 --> 00:02:35.509 now darling You know The price wasn't the problem 00:02:35.819 --> 00:02:39.360 But the problem was, if I do indeed have $500, 00:02:39.620 --> 00:02:42.520 do I want to give it all to you guys in one facility? 00:02:43.900 --> 00:02:50.539 No. So, I was talking to my fella, my boyfriend, 00:02:51.180 --> 00:02:55.020 my novio, my boyfriend in the UK of course, my 00:02:55.020 --> 00:02:58.159 English gentleman. He was telling me, hey babe, 00:02:58.560 --> 00:03:00.620 just come on over here and get your deep cleaning 00:03:00.620 --> 00:03:03.219 done. It's like a hundred such -and -such bucks. 00:03:03.789 --> 00:03:08.069 And here we are in the U .S. paying 500 bucks 00:03:08.069 --> 00:03:12.250 for deep cleaning. You know? I'm sick of this. 00:03:13.710 --> 00:03:18.430 What was more upsetting is that I as a government 00:03:18.430 --> 00:03:22.789 worker has to pay 500 bucks for deep cleaning. 00:03:23.389 --> 00:03:28.849 If anything, I should be getting some type of 00:03:28.849 --> 00:03:30.909 Queen Sheba rewards. You know what I'm saying? 00:03:30.930 --> 00:03:34.560 I need the same treatment. the Queen England, 00:03:34.599 --> 00:03:37.500 the Queen of England gets like, I literally work 00:03:37.500 --> 00:03:40.060 for the government. Like, what the heck? I should 00:03:40.060 --> 00:03:42.560 be getting some type of pamperment treatment. 00:03:43.159 --> 00:03:46.699 You know, I should be getting royalties. You 00:03:46.699 --> 00:03:51.020 know, a little, I should be invited to the tea, 00:03:51.139 --> 00:03:53.819 you know what I'm saying, the tea parties. But 00:03:53.819 --> 00:03:57.919 yet, I'm getting charged, hit with a 500 bill 00:03:57.919 --> 00:04:00.240 for just deep blaming. And that's just not even 00:04:00.240 --> 00:04:03.300 including tighten up the teeth people. You know? 00:04:03.639 --> 00:04:06.680 It's fine. Shit, that's just life. It's probably 00:04:06.680 --> 00:04:10.259 worse out here. Episode 50. I'm gonna get started. 00:04:10.780 --> 00:04:13.699 Because you know what? I had to find a song to 00:04:13.699 --> 00:04:17.319 help me calm down through all that to get through 00:04:17.319 --> 00:04:20.579 the beautiful episode here, okay? So I did, of 00:04:20.579 --> 00:04:22.939 course, and I'm gonna share with you guys, you 00:04:22.939 --> 00:04:26.879 know I always do, you know? I'm a loyal civilian, 00:04:27.500 --> 00:04:33.079 okay? Because life is life and out there. A lot 00:04:33.079 --> 00:04:37.800 of things are out of our control. Definitely 00:04:37.800 --> 00:04:42.220 out of my control. But yet I'm showing up every 00:04:42.220 --> 00:04:46.600 day as possible. I'm thriving. I attended pop 00:04:46.600 --> 00:04:50.720 -up shops. Two pop -up shops, okay? I attended 00:04:50.720 --> 00:04:56.920 two pop -up shops. I have prospered between both 00:04:56.920 --> 00:05:00.120 of those pop -up shops. So it's been a lovely 00:05:00.120 --> 00:05:03.620 journey, minus my deep cleaning situation. It's 00:05:03.620 --> 00:05:06.000 been a lovely journey. All right for this episode 00:05:06.000 --> 00:05:10.180 50 Like I said, I'm gonna play the music I'm 00:05:10.180 --> 00:05:15.439 gonna play the song that got me going for today 00:05:15.439 --> 00:05:19.279 For episode 50 because your girls working hard 00:05:19.279 --> 00:05:22.639 your life coaches out here life in all right 00:05:22.639 --> 00:05:26.180 coaching folks Giving people advice. All right, 00:05:26.180 --> 00:05:29.060 and I'm still loving it yet. I'm still life in 00:05:29.060 --> 00:05:31.279 every day yet I'm still going through trials 00:05:31.279 --> 00:05:33.319 and tribulations They don't want to give your 00:05:33.319 --> 00:05:36.839 sister a break, but I'm fine. Okay. I'm a baddie. 00:05:36.939 --> 00:05:41.160 I'm going to show up anyway. All right. I'm not 00:05:41.160 --> 00:05:43.980 like everybody else. They're not like me. All 00:05:43.980 --> 00:05:48.399 right. So the song that had me going in, we're 00:05:48.399 --> 00:05:51.779 going to shout out to the JBP podcast because 00:05:51.779 --> 00:05:54.480 they put me on this one here. I usually wouldn't 00:05:54.480 --> 00:05:56.279 shout folks out, but I'm not going to be stingy. 00:05:56.379 --> 00:05:58.529 Yep. I'm not going to be stingy. The song that 00:05:58.529 --> 00:06:02.730 had me going to get this pod, just up and going, 00:06:02.970 --> 00:06:05.930 getting this pod, you know, cranking, we cranking 00:06:05.930 --> 00:06:10.589 it up here, all right, was Endangered Innocence 00:06:10.589 --> 00:06:13.230 by Lloyd Banks. So I'll let you guys hear it. 00:06:13.529 --> 00:06:16.189 We'll get started. We'll start podding after 00:06:16.189 --> 00:06:18.649 you guys hear this, all right? Just a little 00:06:18.649 --> 00:06:28.939 bit afterwards, all right? Sometimes I laugh 00:06:28.939 --> 00:06:30.879 and cry when thinking about my days as a kid. 00:06:31.079 --> 00:06:33.120 Highlights was watching TV shows and music played 00:06:33.120 --> 00:06:35.560 in the crib. It shook my mind up. Morning show 00:06:35.560 --> 00:06:37.579 train, we did the lineup. Used to look forward 00:06:37.579 --> 00:06:39.540 to games from my cousin when I could find him. 00:06:39.720 --> 00:06:41.500 Grew up in my grandma house, was the kind with 00:06:41.500 --> 00:06:44.240 the open door. Birthdays had to appreciate, still 00:06:44.240 --> 00:06:47.060 hoping for more. Cortez, Nikes, and Adidas Reeboks. 00:06:47.180 --> 00:06:49.259 I love my sneakers, but Obama's with the collar 00:06:49.259 --> 00:06:51.279 furred up. Watch how I freak this, gotta make 00:06:51.279 --> 00:06:53.180 it out the bottom, cause shit, with all these 00:06:53.180 --> 00:06:55.120 speeches got me questioning if change is gonna 00:06:55.120 --> 00:06:57.160 come. Could even reach us, hold up, shout out 00:06:57.160 --> 00:06:59.420 my team. that actually taught me something. All 00:06:59.420 --> 00:07:01.920 the influential artists that had my walkman bumpin', 00:07:01.920 --> 00:07:04.519 uh. Nigga, the Havoc and Prodigy, see, they changed 00:07:04.519 --> 00:07:07.519 my life. Frank White and Escobar, they made me 00:07:07.519 --> 00:07:10.100 nice. That Snoop Doggy style was worth the price. 00:07:10.199 --> 00:07:12.579 Now I feel like I gotta study shit. I'ma begin 00:07:12.579 --> 00:07:16.839 a night. I wouldn't change shit. Everything we 00:07:16.839 --> 00:07:19.000 went through made me who I am now, one of the 00:07:19.000 --> 00:07:23.579 same kids. Every day's a struggle, all the bullshit 00:07:23.579 --> 00:07:37.860 pals, I got to make it. I'm gonna let you guys 00:07:37.860 --> 00:07:42.180 tune into the rest Like I said, Lloyd Banks. 00:07:42.519 --> 00:07:46.079 All right, it was the endangered innocence that 00:07:46.079 --> 00:07:50.379 got me going today Because life is life in every 00:07:50.379 --> 00:07:52.160 time you trying to persevere through something 00:07:52.160 --> 00:07:54.399 there is something on the line trying to stop 00:07:54.399 --> 00:07:57.410 you darling. Yeah there is a trial there is a 00:07:57.410 --> 00:08:00.029 tribulation there's always something all right 00:08:00.029 --> 00:08:02.569 we're gonna continue to persevere though okay 00:08:02.569 --> 00:08:06.050 i'm not gonna give up i hope you don't so yes 00:08:06.050 --> 00:08:09.769 let's get into it um the week has been weakening 00:08:09.769 --> 00:08:11.949 yes yeah yeah yeah i'm gonna take these bad boys 00:08:11.949 --> 00:08:15.810 off the week has been weakened mcgala oh you 00:08:15.810 --> 00:08:18.769 guys i should have been invited but i wasn't 00:08:18.769 --> 00:08:22.829 it's fine 2025 mcgala i should have been invited 00:08:22.829 --> 00:08:28.029 to that one I was not invited to 2025's Met Gala, 00:08:28.470 --> 00:08:32.210 yet I saw all the beautiful celebrities. Yes. 00:08:32.470 --> 00:08:36.929 Issa Rae, my girl Issa Rae, you looked beautiful. 00:08:37.789 --> 00:08:41.509 She was stunning. The way her skin was just glistening 00:08:41.509 --> 00:08:43.789 through those clothes. Like she could've came 00:08:43.789 --> 00:08:47.029 naked, but she didn't. But she could've. That's 00:08:47.029 --> 00:08:49.809 what I'm saying. She could've came naked. There 00:08:49.809 --> 00:08:53.759 was so many celebrities there, people. I literally 00:08:53.759 --> 00:08:57.580 have a list. Yeah, it was a good night to just 00:08:57.580 --> 00:09:00.460 sit back and watch all these celebrities, just 00:09:00.460 --> 00:09:04.799 celebs. I even went back to go reminisce on 2015's 00:09:04.799 --> 00:09:08.120 Met Gala with Rihanna, you know, her beautiful 00:09:08.120 --> 00:09:10.799 dress back then. I went to go reminisce on that 00:09:10.799 --> 00:09:17.860 one. It was a pretty beautiful scenery. Lauren 00:09:17.860 --> 00:09:24.039 London, she should have been there. Lauren Hill 00:09:24.039 --> 00:09:27.039 did the job. I was still waiting on Lauren, but 00:09:27.039 --> 00:09:29.440 Lauren Hill did the job because she was looking 00:09:29.440 --> 00:09:33.539 beautiful. She had that beautiful, just beautiful 00:09:33.539 --> 00:09:36.279 yellow over there, you know, still waiting on 00:09:36.279 --> 00:09:38.639 a few celebrities to pop up and show me what 00:09:38.639 --> 00:09:42.559 they got. Rihanna, you showed up like the mother 00:09:42.559 --> 00:09:45.480 goddess you are. It was just beautiful. You know, 00:09:45.580 --> 00:09:48.919 the Met Gala 2025 was pretty beautiful while 00:09:48.919 --> 00:09:54.480 we're going through this. big exchange in generation 00:09:54.480 --> 00:09:57.539 of history at the moment. It's good to have the 00:09:57.539 --> 00:10:00.399 Met Gala. It's good to see people still getting 00:10:00.399 --> 00:10:03.820 out there, showing up, dressing up, rushing to 00:10:03.820 --> 00:10:06.559 events. I rushed to this here. I didn't really 00:10:06.559 --> 00:10:10.200 rush, but sometimes I will rush one day when 00:10:10.200 --> 00:10:15.299 I have so many things to do on my agenda. So 00:10:15.299 --> 00:10:18.340 the thing is, it was just nice to see everybody 00:10:18.759 --> 00:10:23.980 show up, be beautiful, and really thrive, okay? 00:10:24.259 --> 00:10:26.620 Rihanna and her Fenty are just thriving out here. 00:10:26.799 --> 00:10:29.799 And being another mother, again, of what, three? 00:10:30.019 --> 00:10:33.519 Four? Three? Okay. They were looking beautiful, 00:10:33.759 --> 00:10:38.100 okay? So, she was just thriving in that lovely 00:10:38.100 --> 00:10:43.200 outfit, Andre 3000, thriving in that beautiful, 00:10:43.539 --> 00:10:48.299 beautiful piano. I've never seen someone just 00:10:48.330 --> 00:10:52.289 carry a piano like that and just look lovely. 00:10:54.549 --> 00:10:57.629 Everybody's skin is looking great. I'm just looking 00:10:57.629 --> 00:11:00.210 past the outfits because I'm a fashion designer 00:11:00.210 --> 00:11:03.730 and once the outfits is outfitting, we're good 00:11:03.730 --> 00:11:06.669 to go. I'm now looking at the skin for health, 00:11:06.970 --> 00:11:10.269 okay? So everybody's looking good, looking healthy. 00:11:10.990 --> 00:11:14.110 Life is still life -ing, but I love to see everybody 00:11:14.110 --> 00:11:18.169 is just growing, okay? Outside of the Met Gala 00:11:18.169 --> 00:11:24.490 for me personally Your girl is getting ready 00:11:24.490 --> 00:11:28.750 to travel your girl is getting ready to travel 00:11:28.750 --> 00:11:34.090 To the UK Okay, the UK is coming to me. No, I'm 00:11:34.090 --> 00:11:37.830 sorry. I'm coming to the UK Okay, I'm coming 00:11:37.830 --> 00:11:41.649 to the UK I'm coming to be nosy. I'm coming apart. 00:11:41.909 --> 00:11:44.830 I'm coming to content create. I'm coming to grow 00:11:45.360 --> 00:11:47.759 I'm coming to ask for some money and for you 00:11:47.759 --> 00:11:52.299 guys to say no. Okay, I'm coming to see Possibilities. 00:11:52.399 --> 00:11:55.519 All right. Yes. I'm coming. I'm coming in June. 00:11:55.539 --> 00:12:00.419 I'm excited. I'm coming to the UK The UK will 00:12:00.419 --> 00:12:04.539 be welcoming. I can smell it now The English 00:12:04.539 --> 00:12:08.100 gentleman's over there I'm coming to the UK. 00:12:08.100 --> 00:12:11.860 I'm excited to explore. I'm excited to grow. 00:12:11.919 --> 00:12:16.259 I'm excited to see what is beyond the US you 00:12:16.259 --> 00:12:19.580 know so I'm coming to the UK I'm coming just 00:12:19.580 --> 00:12:23.179 for vacation you know just coming for vacation 00:12:23.179 --> 00:12:28.139 coming to dip my pinky toe over there that's 00:12:28.139 --> 00:12:29.960 what I call it you know when you're not moving 00:12:29.960 --> 00:12:31.360 somewhere you're just dipping your pinky toe 00:12:31.360 --> 00:12:34.700 over there I'm dipping my pinky toe over there 00:12:34.700 --> 00:12:39.220 I want to see what it is that I can indulge with 00:12:39.220 --> 00:12:45.120 what can I create create Over there in the UK, 00:12:45.580 --> 00:12:50.039 you know, how could your girl? Your favorite 00:12:50.039 --> 00:12:52.299 life coach here, you know cuz shit that's just 00:12:52.299 --> 00:12:57.580 life. How can we persevere in the UK? We don't 00:12:57.580 --> 00:13:00.279 know until we get there, you know, so I'll be 00:13:00.279 --> 00:13:03.639 there. I'll be there I'm gonna pray everybody 00:13:03.639 --> 00:13:06.500 is there with me. Okay, but we're taking this 00:13:06.500 --> 00:13:10.440 beautiful scenery to the UK for a vacation, okay? 00:13:10.580 --> 00:13:12.860 I'm gonna do a little content creating. I'm gonna 00:13:12.860 --> 00:13:18.379 explore. I will let nature be nature. Let me 00:13:18.379 --> 00:13:24.059 be me. I'm excited, you know? Truly don't get 00:13:24.059 --> 00:13:27.139 enough time to travel, as much as I would love 00:13:27.139 --> 00:13:32.340 to, but going to the UK is going to be a challenge 00:13:32.340 --> 00:13:36.220 as well for me. The major challenge for me is 00:13:36.220 --> 00:13:39.769 to see How will people react to a guy like me? 00:13:39.929 --> 00:13:43.610 You know, because I feel like the UK folks may 00:13:43.610 --> 00:13:46.929 be a tad bit stuck up, but I'm not sure yet. 00:13:46.929 --> 00:13:49.809 They may be fun. You know, I'm just may just 00:13:49.809 --> 00:13:52.570 be I personally just may be judging a book by 00:13:52.570 --> 00:13:55.710 its color. I haven't been there yet, but I'll 00:13:55.710 --> 00:13:58.009 give you better answers when I get there. OK, 00:13:58.490 --> 00:14:01.990 so I'm excited about going to the UK, excited 00:14:01.990 --> 00:14:06.679 to see what the UK will bring, you know. I'm 00:14:06.679 --> 00:14:08.720 excited. I'm in nervous at the same time, but 00:14:08.720 --> 00:14:11.639 I'm more excited than ever okay, cuz life is 00:14:11.639 --> 00:14:15.539 life in right now, and I need to see What is 00:14:15.539 --> 00:14:19.600 beyond my horizon? I don't know about you guys, 00:14:19.639 --> 00:14:22.279 but I need to see what's been beyond my right 00:14:22.279 --> 00:14:25.980 all right But I do want to tell you guys about 00:14:25.980 --> 00:14:29.559 the pop -up shop that I had I want to tell you 00:14:29.559 --> 00:14:35.169 guys about the different creators I met, different 00:14:35.169 --> 00:14:39.610 vendors I met. It was epic. Believe it or not, 00:14:39.669 --> 00:14:43.470 it was a lot of black entrepreneurs there. And 00:14:43.470 --> 00:14:46.409 I was just, they were black, young, ambitious, 00:14:46.649 --> 00:14:51.730 and it was just nice to be in a room of simplicity, 00:14:52.490 --> 00:14:57.210 a room of similarity. And it was just fun. It 00:14:57.210 --> 00:15:00.730 was just beyond the purpose of why I'm here. 00:15:01.639 --> 00:15:06.759 So it was just lovely to really create and come 00:15:06.759 --> 00:15:11.399 amongst more creators. So meeting more creators, 00:15:11.639 --> 00:15:16.279 I was able to meet sisters that have a business, 00:15:16.860 --> 00:15:19.200 two different businesses, a skin care business 00:15:19.200 --> 00:15:24.539 and a clothing business. Met a beautiful photographer 00:15:24.539 --> 00:15:28.139 that's... Diving into more media production. 00:15:28.500 --> 00:15:32.379 You just see the young in expired in maybe we 00:15:32.379 --> 00:15:34.580 out here thriving Okay, we're coming together. 00:15:34.580 --> 00:15:36.700 We put our heads together. We're coming to figure 00:15:36.700 --> 00:15:40.700 it out and I think we all are you know, believe 00:15:40.700 --> 00:15:46.720 it or not persevering through So it's nice it 00:15:46.720 --> 00:15:51.350 was beautiful to see in person Young people persevering 00:15:51.350 --> 00:15:53.309 without even knowing they're persevering, you 00:15:53.309 --> 00:15:57.009 know, we think they were just chasing our dreams 00:15:57.009 --> 00:16:00.570 and chasing our goals But little do we know we 00:16:00.570 --> 00:16:04.870 are persevering through life So it was just a 00:16:04.870 --> 00:16:09.629 pleasure it was it was a Immaculate experience 00:16:09.629 --> 00:16:15.409 But yeah, I think it's just being great on another 00:16:15.409 --> 00:16:18.389 note I want to switch it up here people It's 00:16:18.389 --> 00:16:20.649 time to shake it up for a second, so you can 00:16:20.649 --> 00:16:23.070 get into the personal. I can tell you what's 00:16:23.070 --> 00:16:26.149 personally going on with your girl. You guys, 00:16:26.309 --> 00:16:31.950 okay? Let's talk about dating for a second. I've 00:16:31.950 --> 00:16:34.809 been dating, right? I tell you that my lovely 00:16:34.809 --> 00:16:39.690 spouse is in the UK, and I am not. No, I am in 00:16:39.690 --> 00:16:43.870 the US, okay? So we have been having our virtual 00:16:43.870 --> 00:16:46.750 date nights, just keeping up with our connections. 00:16:47.380 --> 00:16:52.419 And boy, it has been a challenge. Okay? So, it's 00:16:52.419 --> 00:16:55.139 not always perfect, you know? Playing a date 00:16:55.139 --> 00:16:58.179 night, somebody shows up and or they don't show 00:16:58.179 --> 00:17:02.019 up properly, you know? But I think it just really 00:17:02.019 --> 00:17:06.059 shows both of us how much we truly don't need 00:17:06.059 --> 00:17:08.440 each other. We just truly want each other, you 00:17:08.440 --> 00:17:12.880 know? You really get clarity from the wants and 00:17:12.880 --> 00:17:16.759 the needs when you're... Dealing with something 00:17:16.759 --> 00:17:19.059 that's at a far, you know, but yet it's still 00:17:19.059 --> 00:17:24.000 close. How crazy is that? You know, so the clarity 00:17:24.000 --> 00:17:29.660 of seeing that we truly don't Need each other. 00:17:29.839 --> 00:17:32.880 We truly just want each other makes us want each 00:17:32.880 --> 00:17:36.240 other even more It's been a journey though, because 00:17:36.240 --> 00:17:39.039 I'm ready to get to the UK, you know, I'm ready 00:17:39.039 --> 00:17:41.700 for my man to be a man Okay, I'm sorry. But yeah, 00:17:41.859 --> 00:17:45.039 I'm ready to get to the UK I'm ready to explore 00:17:45.309 --> 00:17:49.529 I'm ready to explore more English, more English 00:17:49.529 --> 00:17:53.190 gentlemen. I'm ready to explore how they talk, 00:17:53.289 --> 00:17:56.730 how they react to situations. I'm ready to judge. 00:17:57.349 --> 00:17:59.529 I'm ready to be like, the U .S. would never, 00:17:59.869 --> 00:18:04.410 you know? Yeah, I'm ready. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 00:18:04.769 --> 00:18:07.250 Because I've been I've been looking down on the 00:18:07.250 --> 00:18:10.349 U .S. because when you in something for so long, 00:18:10.750 --> 00:18:12.930 it's hard. It's really easy for you to judge. 00:18:13.230 --> 00:18:16.029 You know, when you're right up close to that 00:18:16.029 --> 00:18:19.849 whale so I'm like let me take a few steps back 00:18:19.849 --> 00:18:23.470 from the whale and really just enjoy the color 00:18:23.470 --> 00:18:27.470 the blue the detail of the whale and not judge 00:18:27.470 --> 00:18:30.430 it so I need to get to another country another 00:18:30.430 --> 00:18:34.549 continent oh another place just to really appreciate 00:18:34.549 --> 00:18:38.609 where I am you know what I'm saying so I'm excited 00:18:38.970 --> 00:18:42.569 Life has been life and people I'm not gonna stop 00:18:42.569 --> 00:18:47.170 thriving. I'm not gonna stop growing With the 00:18:47.170 --> 00:18:51.289 challenges of just dating from afar people. I 00:18:51.289 --> 00:18:55.650 think it's a great test, you know Never in my 00:18:55.650 --> 00:18:57.470 great mind did I think I would be able to do 00:18:57.470 --> 00:19:00.670 it, but I think it is it's doable It's uh, it's 00:19:00.670 --> 00:19:03.529 not I don't think I know it's doable, you know, 00:19:03.690 --> 00:19:07.490 not only did Daddy from afar give me a great 00:19:07.490 --> 00:19:11.470 opportunity to focus on myself and stay focused 00:19:11.470 --> 00:19:15.829 on myself It gave me opportunity to get to know 00:19:15.829 --> 00:19:19.650 my partner. Just listening, you know I can be 00:19:19.650 --> 00:19:22.650 very distracted sometimes if the skin is skinning 00:19:22.650 --> 00:19:27.450 and the man is manning But I'm listening people. 00:19:27.450 --> 00:19:32.349 I am using my ears using my mouth to communicate 00:19:32.720 --> 00:19:35.940 But, I will be able to see him in person soon. 00:19:36.160 --> 00:19:40.180 We will reunite really soon, my darling. Okay? 00:19:40.920 --> 00:19:44.279 Um, yeah. Just balancing all my new challenges 00:19:44.279 --> 00:19:47.380 has been a journey. You get what I'm saying, 00:19:47.660 --> 00:19:49.980 people? But I like juggling. I've always liked 00:19:49.980 --> 00:19:52.000 juggling. You know, I've never been an actual 00:19:52.000 --> 00:19:54.319 clown or been in a circus, but I've always loved 00:19:54.319 --> 00:19:58.000 the thought of trying to juggle one too many 00:19:58.000 --> 00:20:00.420 things at a time and then maybe dropping something. 00:20:00.779 --> 00:20:03.140 Then maybe you catch it again and trying it again. 00:20:03.319 --> 00:20:06.519 So I've always loved actually juggling, you know 00:20:06.519 --> 00:20:10.440 to a certain expense Like I say anything in life 00:20:10.440 --> 00:20:15.400 is great to a certain expense. All right so other 00:20:15.400 --> 00:20:17.900 than that like be like be I'm getting through 00:20:17.900 --> 00:20:23.279 it though, you know a Lovely art show I attended 00:20:23.279 --> 00:20:28.319 on Was I think that was Sunday I attended a lovely 00:20:28.319 --> 00:20:33.240 art show on Sunday and in Dallas I see nothing 00:20:33.240 --> 00:20:36.839 but beautiful art. I'm talking about beautiful 00:20:36.839 --> 00:20:43.259 art. Do you hear me? I was up there browsing 00:20:43.259 --> 00:20:46.779 and I me as an artist I typically don't like 00:20:46.779 --> 00:20:49.660 to get out too much because I'm like I don't 00:20:49.660 --> 00:20:53.339 want to be somewhere and then can't buy it. The 00:20:53.339 --> 00:20:55.339 moment I see that art I'm gonna feel like it's 00:20:55.339 --> 00:20:59.769 a need not a want a need. So then I had to call 00:20:59.769 --> 00:21:03.089 my boyfriend and tell him that whatever house 00:21:03.089 --> 00:21:05.849 we ever get in life We will need these artists 00:21:05.849 --> 00:21:13.750 art But specifically there was a beautiful Butterfly 00:21:13.750 --> 00:21:15.609 you get what I'm saying? There was a beautiful 00:21:15.609 --> 00:21:20.490 butterfly that you use as a like a lamp a lamp 00:21:20.490 --> 00:21:24.170 cover and It was just stunning. You get what 00:21:24.170 --> 00:21:26.509 I'm saying? The art of it behind it stunning 00:21:26.509 --> 00:21:31.660 and And I was just like, these people come from 00:21:31.660 --> 00:21:36.220 New Mexico, Delaware, Colorado, just everywhere 00:21:36.220 --> 00:21:40.299 you can think of. Arizona, they come from everywhere 00:21:40.299 --> 00:21:45.059 to sell their art in Dallas. And some people 00:21:45.059 --> 00:21:50.079 are truly diving into only doing it for a peer, 00:21:50.380 --> 00:21:57.029 a peer just all day situation. full -blown entrepreneur 00:21:57.029 --> 00:21:59.210 on selling their art. Some people just do it 00:21:59.210 --> 00:22:01.990 for hobby, some of those folks really are just 00:22:01.990 --> 00:22:05.509 selling to become a full entrepreneur. Baby, 00:22:05.789 --> 00:22:09.630 the art was artin'. I have pictures, I have examples. 00:22:09.890 --> 00:22:15.369 You guys, you see, the art is arting. It was 00:22:15.369 --> 00:22:19.130 just impeccable. My favorite piece of art was 00:22:19.130 --> 00:22:22.970 the people playing sorry, trying to figure out 00:22:22.970 --> 00:22:28.940 the game sorry. Trying to If I could like really 00:22:28.940 --> 00:22:32.700 reiterate how I noticed this image and when I 00:22:32.700 --> 00:22:38.440 saw this image what I truly saw was The people 00:22:38.440 --> 00:22:41.660 Everyone trying to figure out how to fix the 00:22:41.660 --> 00:22:46.200 sorry You know everyone in this photo. I just 00:22:46.200 --> 00:22:50.660 I just envisioned like okay If you had to pick 00:22:50.660 --> 00:22:54.039 some words to go with the photo, it would be 00:22:54.039 --> 00:22:58.740 everyone Trying to fix the sorry, you know because 00:22:58.740 --> 00:23:01.140 I'm I find myself saying it every day I'm starting 00:23:01.140 --> 00:23:04.180 to feel sorry for folks people don't read nowadays 00:23:04.180 --> 00:23:07.980 when they can I'm starting to feel sorry, you 00:23:07.980 --> 00:23:10.200 know, so imagine just trying to fix the sorry, 00:23:10.980 --> 00:23:12.579 you know, that's what I got from that little 00:23:12.579 --> 00:23:17.640 picture artists crazy people Life is life in 00:23:17.640 --> 00:23:20.599 out there and these artists is just catching 00:23:20.599 --> 00:23:24.180 up and putting it on a big beautiful platform 00:23:24.319 --> 00:23:27.880 Okay, so it was beautiful to just go around and 00:23:27.880 --> 00:23:30.440 get out for myself personally on that Sunday 00:23:30.440 --> 00:23:35.160 and dive into art. Nice to see the beautiful 00:23:35.160 --> 00:23:38.039 different arts is just all over the place, you 00:23:38.039 --> 00:23:41.180 know, having getting people's business cards 00:23:41.180 --> 00:23:43.559 and all that good stuff here. It was beautiful. 00:23:44.200 --> 00:23:48.039 Love Lee. Lovely, lovely, lovely. Had I just 00:23:48.039 --> 00:23:50.319 really enjoyed that our show me and my twin. 00:23:50.319 --> 00:23:53.420 We went together. And it was just unfortunate 00:23:53.420 --> 00:23:57.299 that, it was very unfortunate that when we got 00:23:57.299 --> 00:24:04.779 there, we ended up dividing because I just got 00:24:04.779 --> 00:24:08.440 lost in the south of art. I saw one picture, 00:24:08.799 --> 00:24:12.180 I couldn't stop. Then saw another picture, saw 00:24:12.180 --> 00:24:15.240 another painting, saw another portrait everywhere. 00:24:15.240 --> 00:24:18.119 I was just all over the place. Turned around, 00:24:18.160 --> 00:24:21.000 my sister was gone. Couldn't get a hold of her. 00:24:21.769 --> 00:24:24.950 We were lost my twin. Yeah, we were lost. I was 00:24:24.950 --> 00:24:27.950 gone. I was lost I was lost in the sauce called 00:24:27.950 --> 00:24:32.009 her finally got a hold of her finally and She's 00:24:32.009 --> 00:24:35.089 like girl. I just went home. I Was like well, 00:24:35.089 --> 00:24:41.329 I'm still here At the art show Thinking you just 00:24:41.329 --> 00:24:43.950 went to the bathroom, but she did she just went 00:24:43.950 --> 00:24:49.230 home. So found her went home with her because 00:24:49.230 --> 00:24:52.490 eventually she came back to come get me. I had 00:24:52.490 --> 00:24:56.730 not only enjoyed the art, enjoyed the food. Yeah, 00:24:56.730 --> 00:24:59.309 of course there was multiple food trucks. I got 00:24:59.309 --> 00:25:02.490 a few plates, got a few foods and couldn't walk 00:25:02.490 --> 00:25:06.390 home because I had too much food. But partially 00:25:06.390 --> 00:25:08.710 it's because I had a partner with me. I assume 00:25:08.710 --> 00:25:10.869 if I was going to be limping, my partner was 00:25:10.869 --> 00:25:13.069 going to have me because she didn't went home 00:25:13.069 --> 00:25:16.960 early. I could barely walk off of two hot dogs. 00:25:17.279 --> 00:25:19.539 It was just so crazy, but it was a beautiful 00:25:19.539 --> 00:25:25.059 day. It was lovely. It was a beautiful day. OK. 00:25:26.660 --> 00:25:30.400 But on the on the note here, just wrapping it 00:25:30.400 --> 00:25:34.440 up on that story, I just enjoy the art. I enjoy 00:25:34.440 --> 00:25:38.039 watching people come out. There was a man who 00:25:38.039 --> 00:25:41.859 made flowers out of like steel, copper, like. 00:25:41.960 --> 00:25:45.920 Metal who does this like this stuff was just 00:25:45.920 --> 00:25:50.339 impeccable. So I was just like, okay steel metal 00:25:50.339 --> 00:25:53.700 Flowers, you know, if you if you can make this 00:25:53.700 --> 00:25:57.720 this literally shows me simplicity You can make 00:25:57.720 --> 00:26:00.720 this you can make anything, you know, so it was 00:26:00.720 --> 00:26:03.079 just crazy. It was beautiful But it was just 00:26:03.079 --> 00:26:06.839 a reality check for me. Yeah people are out here 00:26:06.839 --> 00:26:09.700 persevering All right, and they don't even know 00:26:09.700 --> 00:26:14.869 it yeah yeah yeah yes yes yes so that was that 00:26:14.869 --> 00:26:20.269 was something uh yeah you guys i'm not sure if 00:26:20.269 --> 00:26:23.670 you've been looking at any news lately but lately 00:26:23.670 --> 00:26:28.630 i've i've seen the news of stephen a smith saying 00:26:28.630 --> 00:26:31.990 that he wants to run for president and i think 00:26:31.990 --> 00:26:34.869 donald trump kind of gave him like the uh okay 00:26:34.869 --> 00:26:41.160 you know the uh you know attaboy I'm not sure 00:26:41.160 --> 00:26:43.099 how that's gonna work out my boy Stevie and I 00:26:43.099 --> 00:26:45.799 think it was just more of a you know situation 00:26:45.799 --> 00:26:49.519 where Donnie knows he may win and It doesn't 00:26:49.519 --> 00:26:52.880 hurt for him to you know toy with my guy, but 00:26:52.880 --> 00:26:55.059 we're gonna hope it's nothing like that, right? 00:26:55.259 --> 00:26:59.539 Those are just I would say accusations accusations 00:26:59.539 --> 00:27:03.819 so Allegations and we won't think that there's 00:27:03.819 --> 00:27:06.759 anything true just elegant allegations. All right 00:27:06.829 --> 00:27:10.089 Nothing that Stephen A is saying is currently 00:27:10.089 --> 00:27:12.269 true. We're gonna hope right? Mm -hmm. Yeah, 00:27:12.269 --> 00:27:15.230 no, we're gonna hope that just after all of this 00:27:15.230 --> 00:27:17.950 Stephen A doesn't want to get in there and just 00:27:17.950 --> 00:27:20.650 Lose any hair. He already is losing or having 00:27:20.650 --> 00:27:24.630 or growing or whatever Babe, that's not the party 00:27:24.630 --> 00:27:27.690 you want to go into babe, you know now maybe 00:27:27.690 --> 00:27:30.029 go into gardening I don't know a presidential 00:27:30.029 --> 00:27:33.029 is the way but gardening sounds, you know, just 00:27:33.029 --> 00:27:38.289 a little less stressful still pretty Yet it's 00:27:38.289 --> 00:27:41.170 still Within service. We all can look at some 00:27:41.170 --> 00:27:43.329 beautiful flowers. It's within service. Okay, 00:27:43.789 --> 00:27:46.910 so I don't want Stephen a to go too crazy with 00:27:46.910 --> 00:27:53.109 that one there But I can honestly say for me 00:27:53.109 --> 00:27:59.210 at the age of 27 It has been a blast to be it 00:27:59.210 --> 00:28:04.230 just feels very empowering to know It feels empowering 00:28:04.230 --> 00:28:08.900 to know what's going on in life, it feels empowering 00:28:08.900 --> 00:28:17.240 to know how my country works, the US works. Now 00:28:17.240 --> 00:28:19.240 it's nothing I can do sometimes, but then there 00:28:19.240 --> 00:28:22.680 are things I can do considering I know more than 00:28:22.680 --> 00:28:26.920 I've ever known before. Let's just say that one 00:28:26.920 --> 00:28:31.519 there. So it feels empowering to know, but then 00:28:31.519 --> 00:28:35.549 there's just the lack of Do you fight or do you 00:28:35.549 --> 00:28:38.869 fall in line? You know But I don't think you 00:28:38.869 --> 00:28:40.930 ever fall in line. I think you need to know when 00:28:40.930 --> 00:28:45.589 to fight and when to patiently wait Let go let 00:28:45.589 --> 00:28:49.190 go and let God you know folks. I tried to do 00:28:49.190 --> 00:28:54.069 that so it's just empowering to know the unknown 00:28:54.069 --> 00:28:59.730 empowering to come become familiar with the uncertainty 00:28:59.730 --> 00:29:04.140 You know and that's just for me It's been feeling 00:29:04.140 --> 00:29:10.759 very empowering to grow. Have my team, you know, 00:29:11.059 --> 00:29:13.640 give my team compliments. They give me compliments. 00:29:13.700 --> 00:29:17.720 Have a village. Very empowering. Your girl is 00:29:17.720 --> 00:29:21.480 ready to keep trailing. She's ready to keep cranking 00:29:21.480 --> 00:29:24.539 it up. Okay, we're just at episode 50. Like I 00:29:24.539 --> 00:29:27.039 said, we're taking this bad boy to the UK. Yeah, 00:29:27.059 --> 00:29:29.279 here we are. Shit, that's just life. We don't 00:29:29.279 --> 00:29:30.839 have anywhere else to do. We don't have nothing 00:29:30.839 --> 00:29:34.750 else to do. but to keep going keep life in see 00:29:34.750 --> 00:29:37.769 where it takes us there bring more people to 00:29:37.769 --> 00:29:41.190 the pod keep embracing more entrepreneurs black 00:29:41.190 --> 00:29:43.750 beautiful entrepreneurs that are truly ready 00:29:43.750 --> 00:29:48.190 to grow okay so this is my goal here i don't 00:29:48.190 --> 00:29:52.910 know about y 'all's so my goal is just to help 00:29:52.910 --> 00:29:56.569 ages 25 and up navigate persevere through life 00:29:56.569 --> 00:30:00.869 my goal This next year darling is to take it 00:30:00.869 --> 00:30:06.490 up a notch Make and break the audience Help the 00:30:06.490 --> 00:30:08.809 I didn't how do you help the audience grow help 00:30:08.809 --> 00:30:13.390 me grow the audience? Okay Help me grow the brand 00:30:13.390 --> 00:30:15.509 darling. We're just trying to persevere. Hey 00:30:15.509 --> 00:30:18.410 link is in the bio. So still collections calm 00:30:18.410 --> 00:30:24.329 Www Okay, I'm excited. Um It's just a journey 00:30:24.329 --> 00:30:26.710 to see everything going at once. It's a journey 00:30:26.710 --> 00:30:34.990 to be in it They say, being great is a lot. They 00:30:34.990 --> 00:30:40.630 didn't lie. Yeah, being great is a lot, but being 00:30:40.630 --> 00:30:43.930 great is great. So yeah, it's a lot. It's a journey, 00:30:44.309 --> 00:30:49.309 but it is great. Wanting to be more than you 00:30:49.309 --> 00:30:53.210 ever have thought you could be is even more empowering, 00:30:53.269 --> 00:30:56.549 you know? of knowing when to have that balance 00:30:56.549 --> 00:30:59.950 of knowing when to rest is even more empowering, 00:31:00.150 --> 00:31:02.450 you know? I don't have to feel like I need to 00:31:02.450 --> 00:31:07.490 do it all. I feel like I've done it all. So doing 00:31:07.490 --> 00:31:12.930 little things, enjoying simplicity, going far 00:31:12.930 --> 00:31:15.990 in life, that's what we're gonna do here. Because 00:31:15.990 --> 00:31:19.109 this is episode 50 of Shit, That's Just Life 00:31:19.109 --> 00:31:21.250 with your girl, your favorite life coach, Cecile, 00:31:21.670 --> 00:31:25.170 okay? Love to grow every day. I love for people 00:31:25.170 --> 00:31:31.069 to grow every day and Yeah better Cuz that shit 00:31:31.069 --> 00:31:32.430 that's just like if you have nothing else to 00:31:32.430 --> 00:31:36.190 do You either falling not fall in line or you 00:31:36.190 --> 00:31:39.089 just fall out of line You either sink or swim 00:31:39.089 --> 00:31:43.930 you either? enjoy the process or complain about 00:31:43.930 --> 00:31:49.109 the process Or you can do both you know Both 00:31:49.109 --> 00:31:54.210 is doable, but just persevere Darling, just persevere. 00:31:54.930 --> 00:31:58.250 Um, that's the goal, persevere. And every day 00:31:58.250 --> 00:32:01.630 isn't going to be a good day, but every day will 00:32:01.630 --> 00:32:04.450 be a day. And some people don't even get to say 00:32:04.450 --> 00:32:09.710 that. So I enjoy simplicity. I am gracious, people. 00:32:10.329 --> 00:32:13.349 We are on episode 50. We are feeling lovely. 00:32:13.630 --> 00:32:16.410 We are looking good. We are growing every day. 00:32:16.829 --> 00:32:21.319 We, which is me and you. We're gonna go far. 00:32:21.700 --> 00:32:24.160 We're gonna take this bad boy to the UK, alright? 00:32:24.579 --> 00:32:26.559 We're gonna thank our UK boyfriend for being 00:32:26.559 --> 00:32:31.039 in the UK, okay? It's lovely to date a US, and 00:32:31.039 --> 00:32:33.900 then it's lovely to do it in the UK. It's just 00:32:33.900 --> 00:32:37.900 lovely to date, okay? It's lovely to love. It's 00:32:37.900 --> 00:32:41.980 lovely to try something different. So, here we 00:32:41.980 --> 00:32:46.299 are, living life, cause, what? Shit, that's just 00:32:46.299 --> 00:32:51.849 life. Episode 50. uh see y 'all later because 00:32:51.849 --> 00:32:54.849 i gotta go out there and smell the roses life 00:32:54.849 --> 00:32:57.789 don't stop laughing uh you know like i said i 00:32:57.789 --> 00:32:59.950 can i can write an agenda but then life starts 00:32:59.950 --> 00:33:03.289 laughing so you know the episode does itself 00:33:03.289 --> 00:33:05.369 okay literally i'll just show up and tell y 'all 00:33:05.369 --> 00:33:08.150 what the fuck's going on but it's been a pleasure 00:33:08.150 --> 00:33:12.640 episode 50 Your girl has had a wonderful time 00:33:12.640 --> 00:33:15.740 here. I'm still going to expand. I'm still going 00:33:15.740 --> 00:33:19.819 to grow. I can do nothing less. I have to be 00:33:19.819 --> 00:33:23.359 me. Okay, we will bring more entrepreneurs to 00:33:23.359 --> 00:33:26.339 the table. We will be in their business. They'll 00:33:26.339 --> 00:33:30.660 be ready to now open up their doors to us. So 00:33:30.660 --> 00:33:34.099 I'm ready for that. I'm ready to bring more loving, 00:33:34.519 --> 00:33:39.059 hardworking folks. onto the platform, okay? Black, 00:33:39.339 --> 00:33:42.940 Hispanic, Chinese, everywhere, anybody willing 00:33:42.940 --> 00:33:45.640 to work hard, just trying to grow and persevere, 00:33:45.920 --> 00:33:48.119 I'm ready to do it. Taking this bad boys to the 00:33:48.119 --> 00:33:59.259 UK in episode 50, we're outta here. 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