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All right, so you're here, which means you're ready to go deeper with resilience.

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Deeper.

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Yeah, beyond the basics.

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Like you're ready for that elite level stuff.

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Okay, I like where this is going.

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So in this deep dive, we're looking at this podcast episode called elite level resilience.

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Unfiltered insights on building an entrepreneurial mindset, tough enough to handle anything life throws your way.

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That's a mouthful.

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It is.

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But basically it's all about getting real about resilience, you know, like the grit and the tough emotions and

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turning those setbacks into something you can use.

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Unfiltered insights, huh?

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That definitely suggests they're not sugarcoating anything.

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Not at all.

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So to start off, how does this source actually define elite resilience?

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It's obviously not just about bouncing back from like everyday stuff.

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Right, it goes way beyond just never give up.

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It's about facing those really tough challenges that really make you question everything.

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So how do you actually do that?

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What does that even look like?

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Well, they talk about this idea of realistic optimism.

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It's like acknowledging that, yeah, things can go wrong, but you still find a way to move forward.

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So you're not ignoring the negative, but you're not letting it stop you either.

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Exactly.

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They actually use this boxing analogy I thought was helpful.

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Like a boxer goes in with a plan, right?

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But then their opponent does something totally unexpected.

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Oh, so they have to adapt.

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Yeah, think on their feet.

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Use that new information and adjust.

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I like that.

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So it's being realistic, but not letting that turn into like giving up.

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And a big part of that is emotional agility, which they say is super important for entrepreneurs

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because, well, business is emotional.

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Oh, absolutely.

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The highs and lows can be crazy.

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So how does emotional agility fit in?

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Is it about like suppressing those emotions?

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Not at all.

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It's more about being able to handle them, especially when things get intense.

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Like imagine driving a car down a winding road.

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Okay, I can picture that.

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If you're super tense, gripping the wheel too tight, you won't react smoothly to the curves,

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but being too relaxed and not paying attention is just as bad.

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So you need that balance.

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Exactly.

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And that balance comes from being present with your emotions, seeing them as information,

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not letting them totally take over.

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Like think of anger, frustration, even fear as signals, not dictators.

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Okay.

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So like if you're feeling super scared, that's something to pay attention to,

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not something to just shut down.

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Exactly.

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You're using that emotion to decide what to do next.

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Now the source tied all of this to something we hear a lot about having a growth mindset.

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Right.

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But how does that actually play into this elite resilience idea?

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It's all about how you see challenges and setbacks.

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Someone with a growth mindset, they don't see failing as the end.

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It's more like valuable data.

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They learn from it and then use it to tackle the next challenge.

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So it's like using those tough experiences to actually grow.

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You're not dwelling on the negative.

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You're using it to get stronger.

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Honestly, I can already see how these ideas could help me in my own life.

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Me too.

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And get this, they actually share some specific strategies for building this kind

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of resilience, want to hear about them.

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For sure.

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Let's get into those strategies and see how we can actually use them.

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Okay.

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So the first strategy is about reflection and reframing.

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So not just like thinking about what went wrong, but looking at it differently.

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It's about taking those past mistakes and figuring out how to use them to succeed

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in the future.

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They even have this little reframing exercise.

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Like instead of just saying, well, I learned something.

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Ask yourself, how can I use this next time?

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I like that.

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It's like you're already looking ahead instead of dwelling on the past.

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You're being proactive, not reactive.

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And they really emphasize making this reflection thing a regular practice.

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Like mental conditioning.

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You build that mental muscle by consistently reflecting and reframing.

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The next strategy is called emotional presence.

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Have you ever been so overwhelmed by emotions that you can't think straight?

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Oh, yeah.

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All the time, especially in my business, you can get pretty crazy.

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Well, they suggest this thing called a mind reset.

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You take like five minutes to just sit with those emotions,

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not fighting them, just noticing them.

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Like hitting pause and just breathing.

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It's amazing how much clearer things can become when you do that.

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You're basically clearing the fog so you can deal with things in a calmer way.

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I can see that would be super helpful.

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What's the third strategy?

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This one might seem obvious, but it's building a strong support network.

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Who do you turn to when things get rough?

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My close friends and family, for sure.

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They're like my cheerleaders.

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But I also have a few mentors who I can always count on for honest feedback.

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You've got both people who cheer you on and people who give you that constructive

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criticism.

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So you need both sides, support and honesty.

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And they make a great point about how

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those real life connections are way more valuable than the ones we make online.

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Right.

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Likes on social media are nice, but they're not the same as real conversation

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with someone who really gets you.

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Exactly.

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Those genuine relationships are so important, especially when you're struggling.

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So we've got these three strategies.

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Reflecting and reframing, being emotionally present and having a strong support network.

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I'm already seeing how these could make a big difference.

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But how do you actually use these in real life, like when things get tough?

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That's where their resilience response cycle comes in.

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It's like a framework for handling challenges and it pulls in all those strategies.

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OK, tell me more.

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What's the first step?

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First step is facing reality.

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Sounds simple, but it's often the hardest.

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You have to acknowledge the facts of the situation, even when they suck.

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But you don't let those facts define you.

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So no burying your head in the sand, but also not letting it destroy you.

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Right.

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You're creating that space between the problem and your sense of self.

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Like, let's say you're working on a big project and you hit a wall.

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Oh, I've been there.

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It's so easy to freak out.

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Instead of panicking, you take a breath, acknowledge the problem,

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but you don't let it mean you're a failure.

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So you're taking ownership, but not letting it crush you.

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Once you've faced reality, then you move into solution mode.

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This is where the action starts.

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So you're not dwelling on the problem.

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You're figuring out what to do about it.

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You start asking, what's one thing I can do to move forward?

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Maybe you break the problem down into smaller pieces or ask for help.

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The key is to go from being stuck to taking action.

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Because taking action creates momentum and momentum builds confidence.

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I see how that works.

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And the last step in the cycle is learning from what happens.

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After you've dealt with the challenge, it's time to reflect and figure out what you learned.

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Like asking what went well, what could I have done differently,

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and how can I use this going forward?

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They use this analogy of collecting armor.

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Each challenge makes you stronger for the next one.

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I love that.

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It's like turning those tough experiences into something positive.

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And the more you practice this whole cycle, the more natural it becomes.

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It's like your go to move for dealing with anything.

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This is all making a lot of sense.

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But one thing I've always struggled with is dealing with criticism.

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It's so hard not to take it personally.

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That's really common.

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They talked about this too.

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They said the key is discernment.

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Not all criticism is equal.

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Some is actually helpful, you know, aimed at helping you improve.

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But some is just negative, probably coming from the other person's own issues.

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So you have to figure out which kind it is.

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Exactly. Ask yourself, is this person genuinely trying to help?

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Or are they just being negative?

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If it's just negativity, you can let it go.

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It's so easy to get caught up in those negative voices,

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especially when they're from people you care about.

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It is. But you get to choose what you let affect you.

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And when it comes to constructive criticism,

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remember that growth mindset.

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Because if you see it as a threat,

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you're just going to get defensive and miss the chance to learn.

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So even if the feedback stings a little, try to focus on the message.

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What can you learn from it?

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How can you use it to get better?

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It's like shifting the focus from defending yourself to trying to understand

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the other person's point of view.

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And you don't have to agree with everything they say.

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Take what resonates with you and leave the rest.

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This is really helpful.

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It could really change how I deal with criticism.

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I think so too.

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You mentioned earlier how intense running a business can be.

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That's where emotional agility comes in.

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Remember that car analogy?

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Yeah, like driving on a winding road, finding that balance.

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Emotional agility is like that.

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It's about navigating the ups and downs without letting your emotions control you.

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Because we all make decisions based on our emotions sometimes.

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And sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't.

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Exactly.

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So how do we get better at this?

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They suggest a practice called mind reading.

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It's called mind reset.

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Basically, you're creating space between you and your emotions.

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OK, I'm listening. What is mind reset?

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It's not about suppressing your emotions.

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It's about observing them without judging them.

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You're like a curious observer of what's happening inside you.

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So when you're feeling overwhelmed, you just notice it.

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You're present with it, but you don't let it make you do anything.

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You notice what's happening in your body, the thoughts in your head and you just breathe.

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I like that.

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It's like acknowledging the feeling without letting it take over.

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Yeah, and then you can deal with things more calmly.

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Being able to manage your emotions is huge when it comes to resilience.

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You're not letting your feelings control you anymore.

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This has been really insightful.

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We've talked about facing reality, finding solutions, learning from experiences,

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dealing with criticism and managing our emotions.

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I feel like I've had a whole new toolkit.

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But before we wrap up, they made a really important point.

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Resilience isn't something you're born with.

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It's a practice.

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Totally. It's like going to the gym for your mind.

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You got to keep showing up and putting in the work.

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And like with physical fitness, some days are better than others.

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The key is to just keep practicing, keep learning, keep growing.

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The more you do, the more resilient you become.

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And that lets you achieve amazing things.

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OK, we've covered a lot, but there's one more super important part of elite

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resilience, having a strong support network that we'll be getting into next.

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So we're back and ready to talk about support networks.

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I think they're essential for building real resilience.

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Yeah, this is where it all comes together, you know, taking those ideas and turning

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them into something you can actually use.

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Because nobody can do it all alone, right?

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You can't handle everything by yourself.

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Nope, we need each other.

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Humans are social creatures, after all.

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And those connections, those relationships become even more important when things are tough.

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The source made a really interesting point.

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It's not enough to just have people around you need the right kind of support.

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They talked about having cheerleaders, but also people who give you constructive criticism.

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I like that because we need both, don't we?

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We need people who celebrate our wins.

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Absolutely.

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They remind you of your strength when you're starting to doubt yourself.

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They help you see the good stuff, even when things feel bad.

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But you also need people who'll be honest with you, even if it's hard to hear.

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They push you to grow, to be better, even if it's uncomfortable.

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It's like having your own personal board of advisors.

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People who care about you, but won't just tell you what you want to hear.

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So how do you actually build this kind of network?

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You have to be really intentional about the relationships you create.

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So you think about the people you spend time with, making sure they fit with your values and goals.

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People who inspire you, challenge you and make you want to be better.

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And it's not about how many people you know, it's the quality of those connections.

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They talked about that too.

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The difference between like online connections and the really genuine ones you

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build in person.

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Think about it.

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Those likes on social media feel good for a minute, but it's not the same as talking

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to someone face to face, someone who understands you.

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It's like a quick text versus a handwritten letter.

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Exactly.

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You need those people you can actually call when you're struggling.

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Someone who'll just listen, no judgment and give you advice or just be there for you emotionally.

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That's who helps you stay strong when things are difficult, who reminds you that you're

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capable and helps you get back on track.

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And those relationships, they take time and effort.

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You have to show up for people, be present, invest in those connections.

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Be the kind of friend or colleague that you want to have in your own life.

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And the more you put in, the stronger those relationships get and the more resilient

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you'll be when you hit those challenges.

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Knowing you've got people you can count on, it makes a huge difference.

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It's like having a safety net, knowing you're not alone.

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So if you're feeling isolated, reach out, connect with someone, a friend, family

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member, a colleague, maybe a mentor, find a group or community that shares your interest,

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make the effort to build those real connections.

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It'll make you feel better and more resilient too.

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Because having that support system, it makes all the difference when things get tough.

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So I think we've given our listeners a lot to think about today.

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We looked at the main ideas behind elite resilience from facing facts to building

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that strong support network.

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We impact some really good strategies like the resilience response cycle and things

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like that mind reset technique.

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And the biggest takeaway is that resilience isn't something you're just born with.

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It's something you practice.

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It's a journey.

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A journey anyone can take with the right tools and mindset.

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To wrap things up, we want to leave you with something to think about.

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What's one challenge you're facing right now?

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Something that's been on your mind, testing your resilience.

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And how could you use even just one part of the resilience response cycle to deal

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with it, maybe facing reality, coming up with solutions or seeing what you can learn.

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You have the power to choose to be resilient and you're strong enough to

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overcome anything and you don't have to do it alone.

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Keep learning, keep growing and keep building your resilience and reach out

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to those who support you.

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Until next time, stay curious.