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Dr. Jerry, you got the whole world waiting.

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Been ready for you to start the conversation.

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No point of view.

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We got the haters confused.

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We would have to you to bring us all the good news.

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Positive five lives and the six appeal to Dr.

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Andre Jerry, can I get an interview?

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You, you, you, you, you, you, you.

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Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to Live with Dr.

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Andre Jerry, the internationally broadcast radio show that

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keeps you engaged and informed on business and entertainment.

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I'm your guest host, Freddie Valoy.

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And I'm excited to be here with you tonight.

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Dr. Jerry is traveling on business this week.

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He has entrusted me with his very last show of the year.

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So let's make it a good one.

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I was actually a guest this time last year on Dr.

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Andre Jerry show, and it was a, it was an interesting time for me.

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So it was an interesting time.

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If you don't know just a little bit about myself, I'm Freddie Valoy.

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I'm a comedian out of New York City.

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Just moved back to New York earlier this year.

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And when I was on the show last was it was for this Wednesday show.

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And my girlfriend of 10 years had just broken up with me.

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And I was on my way to move to New York at the end of January.

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And all that has happened.

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There's been a year of growth.

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There's been taking some lumps early on in the dating world.

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But, you know, like we do, we adapt, we overcome, we get better.

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So if anybody's listening to this, go ahead and send this link to over to

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somebody, anybody that's going through a breakup and just let them know that time

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does heal all things.

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Now, that's probably the least fun answer that anybody could give, right?

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Time heals all things because we don't want time.

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We want the magic bullet.

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We want the pain to go away right away, right?

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We want the pain to go away right away.

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We don't want time to heal this part, you know, when it comes to heartbreak.

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But it's there for a reason.

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And, you know, we should be able to learn from any type of situation that we

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get ourselves in.

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So it's been a year now.

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I'm in New York City.

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I would say that my heart is healed.

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The relationship ended on good terms.

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We did the best we could, but it was just time to move on.

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And we still have a good relationship, which is good.

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So that's me catching you up.

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This year in New York City has been very, it's been a ventral.

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It has been a ventral.

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And I will say that this is my first Christmas in New York City.

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First Christmas in New York City in a very long time.

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So I want to ask you, listener, how's your Christmas going?

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How's it going over there?

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Are you, are you having yourself?

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Oh, Mary little.

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Oh, Mary little Christmas.

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Listen, I can't sing, but I'm going to do it anyway, because that's what we do.

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Just because you can sing doesn't mean you shouldn't.

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Maybe not public in a live show, right?

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Maybe, maybe that's the thing.

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That's the kicker, right?

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Not publicly on a live show.

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I should be singing by myself like into a pillow or something like that.

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If you can't tell, this is going to be a very different episode from Dr.

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Andre Jerry's.

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Like I said, I'm a comedian.

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So we're going to be, we're going to be getting silly here.

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So this is that time of the year where it's international waters, y'all.

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This is international waters.

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Do you have one of those jobs where it's okay to take the gas off at the end of the

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year?

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Or do you have one of those jobs where you got to go pedal to the metal?

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Which one are you?

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Huh?

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What are you doing in between Christmas and New Year's?

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So that timeframe, a lot can happen though.

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That's where a lot of like last minute growth happened.

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Are you ready to, ready to gear up to go to the gym in January?

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Get up on those fitness goals.

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Hopefully not fail a 60 year in a row.

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Come on.

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Come on.

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You don't want to do that.

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Shake it up.

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This is what you got to do.

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I'm going to give you some advice.

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And some advice for the advice.

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Ready?

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If you're going to, if you're thinking of starting your fitness goals in the

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new year, just go ahead and start it this week.

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This is the best week to do it.

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The gyms are a lot emptier than they're going to be.

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Here's the little added bonus is that when you start this week, next week

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goes around, you get to feel superior to the people that waited for the next year.

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You get to go, wow, what happened to this gym?

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All these people, all these New Year's resolution people.

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So you get to have the one up on people.

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So if you are a petty person, that could work for you.

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It could work.

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Sometimes I give my mind to listen to the advice as good advice or it could be

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advice to make you a worse person.

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Cause some people don't want to be good people.

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Some people want to be bad people.

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And I wouldn't say you're bad, but you're an egotistical person and you want

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to feel a little bit better than anybody.

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Start your goal a week early.

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Trust me.

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You'll feel superior.

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You get to walk your chest even higher in the gym.

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Have yourself a merry little Christmas.

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That's my favorite Christmas song.

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That's my favorite Christmas.

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I would say compared to the buildup to Christmas, the right after, I sort of got

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the day after Christmas is done.

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It's almost like we forget about it.

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Cause weird.

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I feel a little weird still talking about Christmas, but I like that.

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I think it's, is it being cross me?

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Have yourself a merry little Christmas.

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It is such a, it's a very reflective song.

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It's an interesting song for me.

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Cause the way I look at that song, it's like a, it's like a sad song and a happy

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song at the same time.

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It's one of those songs where it's playing.

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You're in your study.

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You don't even need to actually physically have a study, but you're in your study

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in your mind, right?

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Swirling around a glass of whiskey.

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If you're recovering alcoholic, maybe just a glass of seltzer water with a

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little bit of lime squeezed in there, right?

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Swirling your glass around.

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Are you just watching the drink swirl and you're just thinking back at your year?

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If you give a little laugh, like, cause you remembered something good, but then

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immediately you make a, you, you wince a little ego.

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That was, that was rough.

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I shouldn't have said that to that girl.

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Hey, you start, you start, you reflect on the good and the bad.

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It's a very balanced, reflected type of song.

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That's your favorite Christmas song and why I like to ask a lot of questions.

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I like to ask a lot of questions, but by myself, just have you guys answer them in

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your heads, communicating telepathically at this point.

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What is your history with Christmas?

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Huh?

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What's your relationship with Christmas?

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If you don't know, I run a podcast called Fred talk.

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Um, you can look for it anywhere, Spotify, Apple.

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Um, and it's pretty much this, me talking, asking questions.

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So if you're interested in this, feel free to follow me.

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It's Fred talk, all one word.

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Yes, I got it.

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It was a plan word on Ted talk.

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It's like a Ted talk, but cooler.

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How I look at it.

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It's funnier, much funnier than most Ted talks.

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A lot of Ted talks, not funny.

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Okay.

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So if you're looking for more laughs in your life, we're looking to smile a little

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bit, uh, follow me on Spotify, Apple, YouTube.

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So what is, what is, there's your favorite Christmas song.

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It's a relationship with Christmas.

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Huh?

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Some people have bad upbringings.

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Maybe you don't like Christmas.

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Some people have grown up with great Christmases their whole lives.

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And they, they can't understand how other people would have bad Christmases.

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But what is yours?

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Me recently, I had fully become a Christmas person.

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My ex that I was with for 10 years.

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I was a Christmas person.

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I was a Christmas person.

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My ex that I was with for 10 years, uh, she really worked to make me really

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appreciate Christmas.

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And this winter in my first winter in New York City, I was able to experience

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Christmas in full go.

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Uh, Ron McCormick show, which played earlier on, uh, big shout out to them.

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Uh, Ron was giving, uh, uh, you know, saying really good words about New York,

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which I love because you don't hear that a lot.

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A lot of people think New York city is mad max.

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And it's, it's quite the opposite.

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I'll tell you.

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Uh, but, but, uh, but Ron's, uh, passionate about the, the Knicks,

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especially him calling it the Knickerbockers, uh, really, really.

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I thought that was, I thought that was awesome.

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It warmed my heart.

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So it was a great lead in to hear.

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So what is, what is your relationship with Christmas?

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Uh, I'm, I'm, I'm full go now.

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I've had some interesting, I've, you know, interesting time and Christmas here

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in New York City.

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I did a 1920s holiday train.

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It ran on like the New York city subway platform and all that on the F line.

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Uh, it was so cool.

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The design was awesome.

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It was a green train.

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You walk in wicker seats, but spring loaded wicker seats, uh, uh, ceiling fans,

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If you haven't been to that, if you've been on a subway, you know, that, that right

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now it's plastic and metal.

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It's not very, if you go side by side, the aesthetic from the 1920s to the modern

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train cars, it is like leaves and bounds, you know, the 1920s cars were pimping

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and these, these new trains are just all business.

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But anyway, we get to these holiday train and I don't know, I don't know why,

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but I think it's a thing.

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Um, autistic people really enjoy trains.

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And I can't, I can't, I can't, I don't know what the callers, but I gotta look up

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why, but I didn't see, there seems to be a correlation of like autistic people

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loving trains.

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And I've had to see that in full display on this holiday train.

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So the energy was pure.

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It was awesome.

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If you're ever looking to do Christmas in New York City, I highly recommend it

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and put this on your calendar.

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Nostalgia, nostalgia train.

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It runs every Saturday in December and it's, it is, it is awesome.

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And you will likely get a free tour of the train or at least like random facts

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from some of the riders.

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We talked to a guy, I call him Ralph, I just want to keep his name.

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Uh, uh, keep it anonymous.

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Talk to a guy named Ralph, built like a Ralph, right?

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Kind of short stocky, has a belly.

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He had onto Navy pants, a brown cardigan and a conductor's hat.

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And he was passionately, passionately talking about the play trains passionately.

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Hey, this is the R188.

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These are in service of 50 years.

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Then they retire them.

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Did you know that after they retire in New York City trains, one of the things

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they do with them is that they dip them, they put them into the ocean so they

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can coral, so they can grow coral on them, which I think is pretty cool.

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And I learned that from Ralph and Ralph was really passionate.

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And I'm thinking, wow, the MTA was, you know, they went all out for this.

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The MTA is the Metropolitan Transit Authority.

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They run the trains in New York City.

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I'm like, wow, they got a, got a guy given facts, almost like a tour guide on

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this train.

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This is amazing.

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Then there were some things that made me go, maybe he's just autistic and just

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loves talking about trains.

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Then I saw a model train that he had and we started to get a little bit closer.

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But this guy's going off on his presentation.

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This is the R188.

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One train card costs $1 million.

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One zero, zero, zero.

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This guy had a heavy Brooklyn accent to a real character.

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They don't make, you know, New Yorkers like this anymore.

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A guy with the heavy accent and all that, they don't make him like that anymore.

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So this guy was fascinating, his passion.

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I mean, you ever sit in front of someone when they're passionately talking about

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something?

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It's amazing.

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You can feel it.

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You can feel that energy.

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You can feel that charisma.

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And we got to experience it.

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We got to experience that with Ralph.

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The best part was when our child came up.

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This kid had to be about eight years old and Ralph's going off about the R188 trains

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or whatever, giving his facts.

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And this little kid walks up and goes, I want the R188 for Halloween.

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And Ralph's reaction instead of being like, oh, that's really cool kid.

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Good for you, buddy.

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He goes, hey, hey, hey, slow down, kids.

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Right?

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This is like a 30-year-old man talking to a child like that.

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So I am dying laughing.

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Me and the girl I'm with are trying to acknowledge the kid.

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So he doesn't turn into a supervillain with this interaction.

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And my girl's like, oh, wow, how'd you make it?

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You know, blah, blah, blah.

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Ralph gets back into his presentation.

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And that same thing happens about three or four more times where the kid interrupts Ralph.

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And Ralph just really just like, just does not let him speak.

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At one point he goes, hey, slow down, Junior.

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Slow down, Junior.

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I am literally, I'm crying laughing at this.

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I'm like, because, you know, I guess certain people on the spectrum have social cues.

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Like, they didn't know he should be talking to the kid like that.

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It was, it was funny.

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It was funny about it.

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Finally, there's a break in the conversation.

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And I go, hey, man, do you work for the MTA?

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He looks at me.

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He looks at his buddy.

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So I'm like, I'm at his two o'clock.

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His buddy's at his 12 o'clock.

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He looks at me, looks at his buddy at 12 o'clock and points to me at two o'clock and goes,

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this guy doesn't get it, huh?

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He goes, then he looks back at me and goes, do you think the MTA knows what I know?

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Do you, I, I offended him and that was rightfully put in my place.

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I had never felt so good be put to be put in my place.

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It was, it was great.

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I was literally crying from laughter.

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It was a magical time on this train.

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It was pure energy.

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It was great.

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So if you're ever in New York, you plan on a trip to New York City,

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a soldier train that's definitely on the list of things you got to do,

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of course, with the tree and all the touristy stuff, don't get lost in the saucy either.

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It's okay to do touristy stuff.

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Some people think they're too cool to see touristy things,

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but people, there is a reason that these things have become popular.

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So don't, don't let your pride get in the way of some really cool, like human ingenuity.

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All right.

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Let's not, let's not do that.

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Have you also know, oh, Mary Lugo Christmas.

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What, what is your, I feel like I'm getting better.

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This is your favorite Christmas song.

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Why?

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Think about that or what?

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Reflect, this is the best, best week of the year to do a little bit of reflection.

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I was on the, another subway story.

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I was on, on the subway and there was a Jehovah Witness, not a Jehovah Witness.

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Oh gosh.

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Out of the same, Mormon, out of the same.

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That's what it was.

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The latter day of the same on the train.

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It was a Monday around 530.

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And you know, they were out there proselytizing, trying to get people to go to their church,

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which, which, hey, hey, listen, listen, listen.

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530 on a Monday, 530 PM, I would say arguably the best time to get someone to switch religions.

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So Monday, you just finished the first day of the week of the job.

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You probably ate your, your catching people at a week moment there.

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So whoever figured that out for the church of Latter-day Saints, good on y'all, man.

328
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Good on y'all.

329
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You guys are strategizing out there.

330
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Hey, but they're going around.

331
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Excuse me, sir.

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Excuse me, sir.

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Would you like to go to church with me?

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Or this Sunday?

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That's what they would ask.

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One of the guys was a really like hip dude, really hip guy, white dude with some really

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like trendy glasses.

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He looked really hip, super cool.

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It was like a mix of Justin Timberlake and Jack Harlow.

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If you don't know the reference, it's just two cool white guys from different time periods

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put together, curly, blonde hair, really smooth guy.

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I'm like, wow, this guy must get a lot of people going to their church.

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So he's walking around the train.

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He's like, excuse me, sir.

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He's like, excuse me, sir.

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Would you like to go to church with me on Sunday?

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And everybody said no.

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Everybody said no because that's life, y'all.

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That is life.

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You go around trying to get people to your church and they're going to tell you no.

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But then he got to me.

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He goes, excuse me, sir.

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Excuse me, sir.

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Would you like to go to church with me this Sunday?

355
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And I turned to him.

356
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This is a true story, y'all.

357
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You're bored out there in these streets.

358
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No?

359
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Turn to him after he says, excuse me, sir.

360
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Would you like to go to church on Sunday?

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I go to church on Sunday.

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I go to church on Sunday.

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I turn to him and go, excuse me, y'all have hoes.

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He's like, what?

365
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He's taking it back.

366
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I said, sir, does the church of Latter-day Saints, do y'all have hoes?

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He takes a long pause.

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I almost crunches up his face like he's thinking.

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He goes, I think we have something for you, man.

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I think we got a little something like, oh man,

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Elder Moss was his name that was on his name tag.

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Before he left, I go, hey, Elder Moss, Elder Moss, he's Elder.

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I know that's not your first name.

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What does Elder mean?

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It seems like a position in the church.

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And he was like, oh, it means we're missionaries.

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And I was like, oh, that's great.

378
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What do you call these doggies-styles in your church?

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Oh, wow.

380
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Look at that.

381
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Look at that.

382
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Making stupid little jokes here, guys.

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I have him fun.

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He did.

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I think he took my invite from the church.

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He was disappointed at the joke.

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He was like, OK, all right, buddy, I see what you're doing.

388
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So there are some characters out here in New York City.

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Great neighborhoods.

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I was walking through Chinatown one time.

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Everybody knows China.

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Almost every place kind of has a Chinatown, especially big cities.

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And I was talking to this girl on the phone.

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This is like dating stuff.

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Is anybody else an overshare?

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Is anybody else overshare?

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I suck at being mysterious with the ladies.

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I've gotten that as feedback.

399
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But you just got to find a woman that don't care about mystery.

400
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Mystery is fake.

401
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Mystery is fake news.

402
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It's not a thing.

403
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You just, maybe I'm just hating.

404
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Maybe, all right, all right, guys.

405
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I'm jealous of mysterious guys because I literally can't keep my mouth shut.

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This girl goes, hey, what are you doing?

407
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And I go, oh, I'm walking through Chinatown.

408
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And she goes, oh, have you ever gotten a massage from that neighborhood, right?

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Chinatown massage.

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I'm thinking, hey, Larry, I'm just going to be straight up and tell her.

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I go, hey, listen, I've thought about getting a happy ending a bunch of times in my life.

412
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So many times.

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But I just can't get over a couple of humps.

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The main hump is, I don't because I, you know, I don't want to be getting a happy ending.

415
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And then I'm going to be thinking, wow, two weeks earlier, this lady was probably in the shipping container, right?

416
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Because you find out, they find out later in life that a lot of these sex workers, they're been kidnapped.

417
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There's sex trafficking going on.

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That doesn't quite do it for me, right?

419
00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:53,280
Hey, sex trafficking does not give me a boner.

420
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I'm sorry.

421
00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:55,280
I'm just not that kind of guy.

422
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So I can't get over that hump.

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But let's just say that I could get over that hump.

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And by the way, this is just my thought.

425
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If you go out and get happy endings, dude, you go ahead and do it, bro.

426
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This is America.

427
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You do.

428
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This is the land of opportunity and happy endings if you want them from sea to sea, baby.

429
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All right.

430
00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:15,280
So this is no judgment.

431
00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:17,280
I'm just just riffing here, guys.

432
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And I'm just telling you what I think, but we can all have different different opinions on things.

433
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Respect you.

434
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If you go get a happy ending right after the show, I respect that.

435
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Do you?

436
00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:33,280
Let's say I can't get over the sex trafficking hump and I'm like, all right, I can, you know,

437
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I've heard do this thing.

438
00:19:34,280 --> 00:19:39,280
Another thing that I can't get over is I like to kiss before I have sex.

439
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It's just something I do.

440
00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:43,280
You know, it's part of the whole four play thing.

441
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Like, tell her all of this that I just told you.

442
00:19:46,280 --> 00:19:53,280
Her response was, oh, yeah, I was talking about just a normal, like, back rub or a regular massage.

443
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Jump the gun on that one, y'all.

444
00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:57,280
Jump the gun.

445
00:19:57,280 --> 00:19:58,280
I'll be more mysterious.

446
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She's still talking to me though.

447
00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:05,280
So at least we know that she is super cool.

448
00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:07,280
At least we know that she's super cool.

449
00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:12,280
So I say this to say, I've been in New York for a year.

450
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I know the news has been, you know, portraying us like this is like, you know, I'm post apocalyptic, whatever.

451
00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:26,280
I would say don't let the news brainwash you from a good time, right?

452
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Don't be that person.

453
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Don't let the news brainwash you from a good time.

454
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New York's good to go.

455
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The most you'll see is some homeless people and some crazies.

456
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But as far as like outright crime, I personally haven't seen that.

457
00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:39,280
But we also have to take it to effect.

458
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I'm six feet, 220 pounds.

459
00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:44,280
You know, I don't look like a guy.

460
00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:46,280
I give off undercover cop buy.

461
00:20:46,280 --> 00:20:57,280
So maybe my perspective of the city is a little bit different than, you know, like a woman or maybe a guy that's under 200 pounds or under one foot or an untrained, you know, person.

462
00:20:57,280 --> 00:20:58,280
It could be different.

463
00:20:58,280 --> 00:20:59,280
You don't know.

464
00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:02,280
But I would say that New York passes the vibe check.

465
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If you've been like thinking about doing it, but you're like, ah, the news says dangerous.

466
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:07,280
I'm out here.

467
00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:11,280
I'm also not liable for anything that happens.

468
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Also, any, any opinions, any opinions expressed during this episode of live with Dr. Andre Jerry are not the, the, the opinions of Dr. Andre Jerry or the Z-man or engineer.

469
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Right.

470
00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:26,280
These are all just me.

471
00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:27,280
This is me right here.

472
00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:30,280
This is the takeover.

473
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The takeover.

474
00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:37,280
All right, we got to, the singing will be done with the singing in a second.

475
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Go.

476
00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:39,280
All right.

477
00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:44,280
We got to start with the singing in a second.

478
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Anybody.

479
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I was, I don't know what the, the listener demographic is, but you guys know what the.

480
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Is.

481
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Is know what the.

482
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Is the.

483
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Is something started by Gen Z or something.

484
00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:02,280
But it's something that we, I think, I think it transcends generations.

485
00:22:02,280 --> 00:22:07,280
This is when women need to get over themselves.

486
00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:12,280
No, no, the, it's actually, it's a thing where a guy can do something very small.

487
00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:13,280
It's not even a red flag.

488
00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:15,280
The guy does something very small.

489
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:20,280
It turns the woman off where they go, wow, I no longer want to have sex with the guy.

490
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:21,280
Right.

491
00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:27,280
So this could be the ones I've heard where a man was trying to switch lanes and they wouldn't let him in.

492
00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:30,280
So the girl got the egg.

493
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Watching a guy get knocked out.

494
00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:36,280
That was, that's kind of like, you know, you can see that.

495
00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:39,280
The egg, the egg, what else, what else, what else.

496
00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:43,280
I would say the best example is switching lanes, right?

497
00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:47,280
Cause then I guess I'm conscious of the girls like, wow, this guy, strangers don't even respect this guy.

498
00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:48,280
Why should I respect him?

499
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:50,280
So that is the egg.

500
00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:56,280
I was thinking, wow, if I was a girl, if I was a girl, what would give me the egg?

501
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:57,280
And here's what would give me the egg.

502
00:22:57,280 --> 00:23:03,280
If I was a girl and a guy took me out on a date and we went to the ice cream shop.

503
00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:08,280
And we were going to the ice cream shop and he wanted a taste test ice cream at all.

504
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:10,280
I don't want one, two, three.

505
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:17,280
Oh, if you're a guy that tastes ice cream and I'm a girl, there's no chance again in these pants, buddy.

506
00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:18,280
I'm sorry.

507
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:21,280
I need my men to be decisive about their ice cream choices.

508
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:22,280
Right.

509
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:24,280
I don't care what you choose.

510
00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:26,280
When you walk in, you go, I already know what I want.

511
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:27,280
What do you want?

512
00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:30,280
I'm going to go, ooh, ooh, ooh.

513
00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:33,280
I like a man that knows what he wants.

514
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:37,280
So if I was a girl, that would give me the egg.

515
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:38,280
Indecisive about ice cream.

516
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:41,280
Are you trying to get in these, trying to get in this?

517
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:42,280
Huh?

518
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:43,280
I don't know.

519
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:44,280
Huh.

520
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:48,280
Here's another thing.

521
00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:52,280
Before we were brought together to a commercial break here in a few minutes.

522
00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:59,280
Another thing that bugs me that I'm sure, I think most people would agree with me on this.

523
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:02,280
What mental illness?

524
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:10,280
Which mental illness is the one where people keep their keyboard sound on as they're texting the public setting?

525
00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:11,280
I don't know.

526
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:14,280
I was a couple of friends and they'll be texting and you just hear that.

527
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:17,280
Like, like, like, like.

528
00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:18,280
You can hear that keyboard.

529
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,280
You can turn that off and setting.

530
00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:21,280
Don't do that.

531
00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:25,280
If you're going to leave anything in 2003, let's leave the keyboard sounds off.

532
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:26,280
Right.

533
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:27,280
Bring that into 2024.

534
00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:28,280
Nobody wants to hear.

535
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:33,280
you're texting your girlfriend as she questions you about,

536
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:36,280
you know, these panties are these that I found in the car,

537
00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:37,120
right?

538
00:24:37,120 --> 00:24:39,760
Nobody wants to hear you lie to your girlfriend about why you

539
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:41,160
are, how you didn't cheat on her.

540
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:43,040
Even though you maybe you did, maybe you did.

541
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,360
You got a little drunk at the holiday party and you didn't,

542
00:24:45,360 --> 00:24:46,840
maybe they physically cheat on her,

543
00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:49,400
but you emotionally cheated and you told some girl at your

544
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:52,000
office information about your marriage that you probably

545
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:53,560
shouldn't have. Huh?

546
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:54,920
Nobody wants to hear that sweet text.

547
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:57,160
Click, click, click, click, click, click, click, click, click.

548
00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:58,560
Right?

549
00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:00,800
Girlfriend's like, hey, why'd you tell her you were single?

550
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:04,120
And you're like, I thought she was asking about my tax status.

551
00:25:04,120 --> 00:25:05,760
All right? We're not married.

552
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:07,480
I filed for taxes and I'm single.

553
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:08,480
I thought that's what she said.

554
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:10,320
Nobody wants to hear that lie.

555
00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:13,000
The text message, click, click, click, click, click, click.

556
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:13,840
Right?

557
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:18,680
Nobody wants to hear you texting your drug dealer.

558
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:19,520
Right?

559
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:22,120
You got your order weed that was supposed to be there at 2pm

560
00:25:22,120 --> 00:25:23,000
or whatever.

561
00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:24,640
And then now it's 11 o'clock at night.

562
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:25,560
You still don't have your drugs.

563
00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:27,360
Nobody wants to hear that.

564
00:25:27,360 --> 00:25:30,160
So leave that in 2023.

565
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:31,520
No more keyboard sounds on.

566
00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:33,760
We're checking things off, y'all.

567
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:35,440
We're checking things off.

568
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:36,480
No keyboard sounds on.

569
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:40,480
If I'm ever president, I'm not deporting Mexicans.

570
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:41,760
I'm not deporting anything.

571
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:45,160
I'm not, you don't even gotta live here.

572
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:46,720
No, you don't have to be born here or stay.

573
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:49,360
I, what do you provide and what do you do for the country?

574
00:25:49,360 --> 00:25:51,920
That's how I would be president.

575
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:55,720
So people that leave their keyboard sounds on,

576
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:57,920
y'all are going into internment camps.

577
00:25:57,920 --> 00:25:58,760
Yes.

578
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:00,960
So they keep the, oh, here's another one.

579
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:04,760
People that park their cars on the white line

580
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:08,360
and parking lots, you see it, you don't fix it.

581
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:12,240
Immediate deportation, no trial.

582
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:14,040
That's the kind of presidency that I would have.

583
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:16,320
Those are the kind of people I'm trying to deport.

584
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:18,760
You come here from somewhere else and you're hardworking.

585
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:22,800
You don't, you have etiquette when you're out there.

586
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:24,960
It's gonna be an etiquette-based system.

587
00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:30,600
It is going to be an etiquette-based system.

588
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:33,520
Vote for me at 2050, Freddie Valoy,

589
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:37,440
when my comedy career fails and I run for president.

590
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:41,000
So we are gonna move on.

591
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:42,080
Don't go anywhere, folks.

592
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:43,720
Oh, Dr. Andre gave you a script

593
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:46,560
and I'm really like reading from the script.

594
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:48,960
Obviously for the riff I just did, that was just

595
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:50,720
off the top, y'all, all right?

596
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:52,600
But this transition, hold on, ready?

597
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,040
Don't go anywhere, folks.

598
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:55,960
We're just heating up.

599
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,640
I would say that we're already cooking at this point.

600
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:00,080
That's the only thing I would change.

601
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,200
We were already cooking, we were on fire.

602
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:05,680
Coming up after the break, we died deeper

603
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:08,080
into our discussion and talked more about blank.

604
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:09,600
I should fill in that blank.

605
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:13,160
Actually, when we get back, I have some headlines, right?

606
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:15,040
A little bit of riff for a little bit

607
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:17,440
and now I got some headlines that we're gonna read

608
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:20,200
or not we, I'm gonna read and we'll talk about that.

609
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:24,120
So stay tuned, because you all wanna miss what's next.

610
00:27:24,120 --> 00:27:26,280
But first, we're gonna take a quick commercial break.

611
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:27,120
Love commercials.

612
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:32,320
Waves of sadness from out of nowhere.

613
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:34,960
Instantly you feel a weight of despair.

614
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:38,640
A subtle heaviness that leaves you drained.

615
00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:43,200
And a lingering loneliness that remains.

616
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:46,320
Suddenly, there is no reason to smile.

617
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:50,040
And then you become angry for a while.

618
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:52,360
Lashing out at anyone near,

619
00:27:52,360 --> 00:27:55,680
especially the ones you hold dear.

620
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:58,280
Imprisoned by your own emotions,

621
00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:00,560
unsettled by the lack of control.

622
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:03,480
Trying to make sense of it all,

623
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:06,280
meanwhile it takes its toll.

624
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:10,640
Distancing yourself from family, pushing your friends away,

625
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,680
knowing in your heart that maybe

626
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:15,040
you'll need their support one day.

627
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:19,200
As your despondency becomes palpable and more real,

628
00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:22,800
you find it difficult to express how you feel.

629
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:27,200
So you become quiet and do your best to disguise it.

630
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:29,680
But there is no denying it.

631
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:31,560
There is something wrong

632
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:34,120
because nothing you do feels right.

633
00:28:34,120 --> 00:28:39,000
The sadness is overwhelming, but you're too angry to cry.

634
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:42,000
Deep into the pit of self-pity you're hurled,

635
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,880
where you realize you're not depressed,

636
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:46,320
you're mad at the world.

637
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:51,720
This poem written by Dr. Andre Gerry

638
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:53,960
is entitled Mad at the World.

639
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:55,680
From his literary debut,

640
00:28:55,680 --> 00:29:00,480
Write or Die, Expressions of Life, Love and Loss, Volume One,

641
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:03,400
available exclusively on Amazon and Kindle.

642
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:06,760
Write or Die is more than just a collection of poetry.

643
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:10,160
It's a lifestyle, a call to action to its readers

644
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:13,200
to consider expressive writing, such as poetry,

645
00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:16,800
as a catalyst for healing, growth and change.

646
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:19,000
Write or Die assists the reader in a way

647
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:20,280
that's relative to them

648
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:22,680
and helps to identify their own emotions.

649
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:24,800
Each expression is poetically written

650
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:27,320
in an elegant style that's helpful to the reader.

651
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:28,960
For each expressed title,

652
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:30,840
motivates in a personal way,

653
00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:33,760
providing pure insight and introspection.

654
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:36,720
Having triumphed over his own trauma and adversity,

655
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:41,040
Dr. Andre Gerry has proven how powerful expressive writing

656
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:43,120
can be to the healing process.

657
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:45,600
If you're feeling stuck in an emotional state

658
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:48,600
that's keeping you from achieving your highest potential,

659
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:52,000
consider expressive writing as a tool to help identify

660
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:53,920
and release negative thoughts.

661
00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:55,840
Purchase your copy of Write or Die,

662
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:59,320
Expressions of Life, Love and Loss, Volume One,

663
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:01,160
by Dr. Andre Gerry,

664
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:04,200
available exclusively on Amazon and Kindle.

665
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:07,680
You're back live with Dr. Andre Gerry.

666
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:13,680
Welcome back to the live with Dr. Andre Gerry radio show.

667
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:27,800
My name is Freddie Valour, your guest host for today.

668
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:31,640
We're going to continue our conversation about blank.

669
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:33,400
Remember y'all, I'm reading from this script

670
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:36,120
Oh, so this blank, we're going to switch gears.

671
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:39,040
I told you some stories about some experiences

672
00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:41,320
in New York City, Christmas time in New York City.

673
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:43,120
We're going to change gears now.

674
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:47,840
We're going to change gears on, go to some headlines

675
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,360
that I found on the internet, very big.

676
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:52,560
And we're going to read through some of these y'all.

677
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:54,920
So buckle in.

678
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:58,520
The first one that I found that was weird was a study.

679
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:03,120
Sniffing women's tears reduces male aggravation

680
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:07,320
by 44% study fines.

681
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:11,600
I mean, this is just fellas,

682
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:14,000
if you're looking for a way to reduce male aggression,

683
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:16,560
I would say stay away from trying to smell women's tears

684
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:18,000
unless you got consent.

685
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:20,600
But this is just, this is a big one

686
00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:22,200
for the Crete bucket right here.

687
00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:27,200
This is, this is creepy sniffing, sniffing women's tears.

688
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:32,320
I'm just picturing like some dude at the gym going on

689
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:34,760
road rage and his boys like, hold on, dude, hold on.

690
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:38,320
He opens up like a vial of his girlfriend's tears.

691
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:41,320
He's just like, literally like the Hulk.

692
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:43,000
Is that all the Hulk needed?

693
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:44,160
Calm down.

694
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:48,760
Just needed to sniff Betty Ross's tears.

695
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:54,040
Sniffing women's tears reduces male aggression.

696
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,320
It makes sense though, because I do,

697
00:31:56,320 --> 00:32:01,320
I do sniff the tears, is it the smell of the tears?

698
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:05,920
Cause I think just a woman in general crying

699
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:07,880
does something to a man.

700
00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:09,720
It makes you go, oh, what is happening?

701
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:11,720
Like for most men, if you're not crazy,

702
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:13,560
it breaks you down a little bit,

703
00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:15,960
it makes you stop and go, what is happening?

704
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:17,720
It is the full stop.

705
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:19,400
It is the full stop.

706
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:21,400
That's why some women use it as manipulation

707
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:24,240
and they'll cry, not be held accountable for something

708
00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:25,080
which is crap.

709
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:30,080
Imagine a guy doing that, a grown man doing that.

710
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:32,040
That would be so funny.

711
00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:33,800
We would make fun of him as we should.

712
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:34,640
Should jump him.

713
00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:39,640
If a guy's crying, cause he's been logically cornered

714
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:43,560
in an argument, that would just be ridiculous.

715
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:48,400
A lot of people don't like the double standard,

716
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:49,960
but I do.

717
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:53,600
You pro double standard between men and women.

718
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:55,640
Some people are like, well, they get to do this.

719
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:57,560
It's like, yeah, but then there's also things

720
00:32:57,560 --> 00:32:58,400
that we get to do.

721
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:00,000
It is way better to be a dude.

722
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:00,840
I'm sorry.

723
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:02,560
It is like, we don't get periods,

724
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:03,840
we gotta get pregnant.

725
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:09,840
It is so much easier being a dude and I love that.

726
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:11,160
I love that.

727
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:13,920
I don't have anything to prove as a guy.

728
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:16,480
If we do as a man, but me personally,

729
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:17,920
be around women sometimes and they'll try to

730
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:20,240
be into an argument of like,

731
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:21,840
women are so much smarter than men.

732
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:24,400
I'm like, yeah, that's fine. I don't care.

733
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:27,040
I don't care if you're a smarter.

734
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:32,440
Who cares if you're smarter?

735
00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:34,760
That would be funny to see a guy just crying,

736
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:37,040
just having a temper tantrum,

737
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:38,440
trying to have an adult conversation.

738
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:40,320
And I'm obviously not all women are like that,

739
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:42,800
but it is a tool that you guys have.

740
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:45,640
Women evolutionarily are just better at manipulation

741
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:46,480
than guys are.

742
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:48,200
Guys are just, they're right for the taking,

743
00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:49,480
especially today, dude.

744
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:52,600
Can't, don't try to compete with a woman

745
00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:54,000
on the mental games, dog.

746
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:56,520
They play the long game, dog.

747
00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:59,040
Obviously these are unhealed people.

748
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:02,880
Most people are unhealed, so we're generalizing here.

749
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:07,880
But yeah, don't get into a mind game with the lady.

750
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:11,040
It's, they've had years of evolution.

751
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:12,880
We're just now starting to get better.

752
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:15,800
Dudes are just starting to go to therapy now.

753
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:17,440
Dudes are just starting to go to therapy.

754
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:21,080
And if you're not going to therapy, I highly recommend it.

755
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:23,600
Highly recommend it, it makes you super man.

756
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:25,400
If you're into personal development,

757
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:27,920
if you're into getting better as a person,

758
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:30,560
I highly recommend therapy.

759
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:33,880
Especially if you're single because going to therapy

760
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:38,600
will get you some, you know,

761
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:40,400
will get you in bed with some ladies.

762
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:43,760
What was a lot of people on whatever you're into, right?

763
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:45,680
Whatever you're into, there's people out there

764
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:48,400
that like therapy is a turn on,

765
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:49,800
especially depending on what pocket

766
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:51,640
the people you hang out with.

767
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:53,800
But let's just say you don't even want to tell

768
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:55,040
the world that you're doing therapy.

769
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:56,400
Just the benefits from it,

770
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:57,880
you'll be able to control your emotions,

771
00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:00,520
not get triggered, not get emotionally hijacked by things.

772
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:01,920
It is great.

773
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:03,480
10 out of 10 recommend therapy.

774
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:05,440
And also you might get a little boozy.

775
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:06,280
You know what I'm saying?

776
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:08,360
Come on, come on.

777
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:10,760
By the same token now.

778
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:13,080
All right, ladies, by the same token,

779
00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:16,200
when a man tells you,

780
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:18,280
because there's a lot of women right now that love,

781
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:20,640
like when they hear about a guy goes to therapy,

782
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:21,480
they love that.

783
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:25,680
I told the girl from that, this guy goes to therapy

784
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:27,200
and she like almost fell to the ground.

785
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:28,960
She was like, oh my God, that's so hot.

786
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:30,560
I'm like, get up, you dummy.

787
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:33,080
Like you didn't even ask any follow up question.

788
00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:34,520
Right, so ladies, when a guy tells you,

789
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:35,360
if you're into that,

790
00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:37,840
the guy tells you he's going to therapy,

791
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:42,080
make sure you just follow up with some questions, right?

792
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:43,720
When was the last time you went?

793
00:35:43,720 --> 00:35:45,840
How often does he go?

794
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:48,840
Ask him to send you a copy of an invoice or something

795
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:51,640
or a screenshot of the telehealth medicine

796
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:54,640
because you can do therapy on your phone now and it works.

797
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:56,640
So just ask some follow up questions

798
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:59,880
because these F boys, these fuck boys are evolving.

799
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:03,240
I'm gonna say F boy,

800
00:36:03,240 --> 00:36:04,560
I'm trying to keep the cursing to a minimum,

801
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:09,480
mostly happy, but the F boys are evolving out here.

802
00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:11,240
Men still lie and it's just,

803
00:36:11,240 --> 00:36:13,800
this is liars and then women lie too, right?

804
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:15,520
Some people tell you they're pregnant when they're not,

805
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:17,920
just so they can get extra $400, right?

806
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:20,200
It's a cold world out there.

807
00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:22,800
Y'all keep your head on a swivel, okay?

808
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:27,760
Keep your head on a swivel.

809
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:31,720
The ladies make sure to ask

810
00:36:31,720 --> 00:36:34,400
and follow up questions on therapy.

811
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:37,960
So snitching women's tears can reduce male aggression

812
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:40,320
or just go to therapy, less weird.

813
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:44,320
If you have a tear plug, if you have a tear dealer,

814
00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:46,840
if you got somebody selling tears on the black market,

815
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:49,120
let me know, because I would like to test this out for myself.

816
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:51,880
I'm always down for like little relaxing things.

817
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:56,200
I look at this as maybe like an essential oil type thing,

818
00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:57,040
right?

819
00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:59,440
You carry it in a vial, you open it up,

820
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:01,600
people believe in essential oils.

821
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:03,200
And some people are like, oh, it's bullshit,

822
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:06,720
but like it's placebo, but placebo like works.

823
00:37:06,720 --> 00:37:08,960
I think it was like a 78%.

824
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:10,600
Don't fact check me on it.

825
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:12,160
Actually do fact check on these numbers,

826
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:14,920
but it was a pretty high number

827
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:17,160
on how effective placebo effect is.

828
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:18,800
And people bring that up as if it's bad.

829
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:20,880
I'm like, yo, who works at works?

830
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:23,680
It just goes to show you how the mind is a powerful thing.

831
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:26,200
So make sure you protect that, you know?

832
00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:27,680
Protect that mind of yours.

833
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:31,560
Okay, moving on to the next headline.

834
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:36,720
An unaccompanied six-year-old child put on the wrong

835
00:37:36,720 --> 00:37:38,760
spirit airlines flight.

836
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:40,440
Okay, all right.

837
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:45,120
I get that kids have it easy nowadays.

838
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:47,840
I get that they, you know, they don't have much adversity

839
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:51,200
to overcome because of modernization and things like that.

840
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:54,680
But this is an interesting exercise.

841
00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:58,040
Putting your kid an unaccompanied minor,

842
00:37:58,040 --> 00:37:59,000
you know, they do that.

843
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:00,920
I used to do that when I used to take trips

844
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:02,240
to the Dominican Republic.

845
00:38:02,240 --> 00:38:04,880
My mom would drop us off at the airport

846
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:06,840
and like one of the flight attendants would make sure

847
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:08,600
that we get to like the next person

848
00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:12,560
down in the Dominican Republic on a company minor.

849
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:17,560
But they are accompanied by the airline.

850
00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:18,320
So,

851
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:21,560
they're airlines?

852
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:23,000
Come on.

853
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:23,840
Come on, y'all.

854
00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:27,280
I vote we call CPS on this family.

855
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:29,600
Who the hell puts their kid unaccompanied

856
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:32,480
on a spirit airline flight?

857
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:33,800
I don't think this is on spirit.

858
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:36,000
Our airlines, they lost the kid,

859
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:37,760
an unaccompanied six-year-old child,

860
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:40,700
but on wrong spirit airlines flight.

861
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:43,360
Yeah.

862
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:46,840
Yeah, no, no, you don't, you don't,

863
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:49,320
how do you trust spirit airlines with your kids?

864
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:50,920
I vote we take the kids away.

865
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:51,840
Let's read this.

866
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:56,000
According to CNN, an unaccompanied six-year-old child

867
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:58,640
flying on spirit airlines to visit his grandmother

868
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:00,680
in Fort Myers, Florida,

869
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,440
was instead put on a flight to Orlando.

870
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:05,160
The child was under the care and supervision

871
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:06,960
of a spirit team member.

872
00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:08,560
And as soon as we discovered the error,

873
00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:10,920
we took immediate steps to communicate with the family

874
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:11,760
and reconnect them.

875
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:14,040
No, that is crazy.

876
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:17,880
After the plane was initially supposed to be on,

877
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:20,360
landed on her grandson, it wasn't on it.

878
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:22,060
Holy shit, that is crazy.

879
00:39:22,060 --> 00:39:23,840
How is spirit airlines still going?

880
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:24,880
Is it really that?

881
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:27,120
People in, and, you know,

882
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:30,240
I guess people need affordable flights, you know?

883
00:39:30,240 --> 00:39:32,040
That's one thing Europe has figured out, man.

884
00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:33,000
They got that Ryanair,

885
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:34,360
which I guess is the spirit of Europe.

886
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:36,320
Maybe sounds like it's a little better,

887
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:38,480
but flights are cheap.

888
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:40,120
Even here, train tickets are expensive.

889
00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:43,720
Train tickets are about as much as plane tickets.

890
00:39:43,720 --> 00:39:46,160
Everything's just getting higher, but, you know,

891
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:50,040
Biden inflation is another episode that we might do.

892
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:53,240
If you, you know, that might be another episode

893
00:39:53,240 --> 00:39:54,960
on a company six-year-old.

894
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:57,280
That's not happening.

895
00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:59,680
Let's call CPS, let's move on to the next story.

896
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:02,840
All right, here's a little,

897
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:05,680
I got this from psychology facts on Instagram.

898
00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:09,280
Kissing for one minute burns 26 calories.

899
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:11,680
That's a lot of calories.

900
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:14,400
What kind of kiss on are you doing in one minute?

901
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:16,960
Is this like aggressive, like,

902
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:20,400
like young people kissing, like, oh, oh,

903
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:22,640
did you make it noises like that?

904
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:25,160
Kissing for one minute burns 26 calories.

905
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:29,120
I wonder how many calories twerking burns.

906
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:32,880
That has to, you know, dry rain your hips like that

907
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:34,920
and throwing that thing around, as they say.

908
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:36,600
That has to burn a few calories.

909
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:40,440
It really does.

910
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:41,280
I mean, you know, that has to,

911
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:44,240
kissing for one minute burns 26 calories.

912
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:46,880
That's crazy.

913
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:49,480
That means you could burn like, oh,

914
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:51,160
I'm getting into quick math and I,

915
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:52,920
already I was gonna disassociate.

916
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:55,680
I feel like if you kiss for an hour,

917
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:57,760
then that seems like a good amount of calories,

918
00:40:57,760 --> 00:41:00,160
let alone any of the other stuff you can do, right?

919
00:41:02,720 --> 00:41:04,880
All right, moving on, moving on.

920
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:07,160
You got it here.

921
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:09,000
Couple's goals.

922
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:10,160
Question mark.

923
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:12,320
Cameron Diaz says separate bedrooms

924
00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:14,320
should be normalized in relationships.

925
00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:15,160
Okay.

926
00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:21,680
I agree with Cameron, but I didn't initially, okay?

927
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:24,640
I agree with this because when I first heard of this,

928
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:26,920
you told me what it told me this eight years ago.

929
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:28,800
Yeah, like five years ago.

930
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:29,840
You sleep in separate bedrooms.

931
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:32,280
I'm thinking these people don't love each other.

932
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:36,200
They're already reneging on their vows.

933
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:37,680
They, you know, these people,

934
00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:40,800
they, this was a business proposition for them.

935
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:42,720
There's no love in this marriage.

936
00:41:42,720 --> 00:41:43,920
That's what I would, that's what I would,

937
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:46,120
that's what I would think.

938
00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:49,520
But a lot of guys, I spoke to a friend and she was getting

939
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:51,520
bad sleep, sleeping with her partner in the same room.

940
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:53,400
So they started sleeping in separate rooms.

941
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:55,100
Her snoring was keeping him up.

942
00:41:55,100 --> 00:41:57,020
She couldn't sleep.

943
00:41:57,020 --> 00:42:00,660
She was having terrible sleep for days on end, weeks on end.

944
00:42:00,660 --> 00:42:01,700
And when you don't, when you,

945
00:42:01,700 --> 00:42:03,660
when you have terrible sleep for that long,

946
00:42:03,660 --> 00:42:06,460
that many days in a row, you become a different person.

947
00:42:08,260 --> 00:42:09,340
Become a different person.

948
00:42:09,340 --> 00:42:11,100
Sleep is so freaking important.

949
00:42:11,100 --> 00:42:14,100
You know, you want to get your six to eight hours in, right?

950
00:42:15,900 --> 00:42:16,820
Your sleep is off.

951
00:42:16,820 --> 00:42:20,380
It's like, it's like having a sniper rifle in the scopes off.

952
00:42:20,380 --> 00:42:23,140
It's like, you're shot, no matter how, you know,

953
00:42:23,140 --> 00:42:25,340
you got to, you got to adjust for shitty sleep

954
00:42:25,340 --> 00:42:28,980
and do different things, you know?

955
00:42:30,140 --> 00:42:32,140
So I'm, so, so, so now I'm on board.

956
00:42:32,140 --> 00:42:34,500
I'm like, Cameron Diaz, I'm with you separate bedroom

957
00:42:34,500 --> 00:42:35,460
should be normalized.

958
00:42:35,460 --> 00:42:36,980
I'd rather my partner get good sleep.

959
00:42:36,980 --> 00:42:38,980
So they still love me later on, you know?

960
00:42:40,980 --> 00:42:43,620
They don't turn into a different person.

961
00:42:43,620 --> 00:42:47,020
What do you think, listen, would you sleep in separate bedroom?

962
00:42:48,420 --> 00:42:49,740
When was the last time you got kicked out

963
00:42:49,740 --> 00:42:51,000
and I had to sleep on the couch

964
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:52,380
because you said something you shouldn't have said

965
00:42:52,380 --> 00:42:54,980
to white over the girlfriend, huh?

966
00:42:54,980 --> 00:42:56,820
Let's reflect back on that one.

967
00:42:59,660 --> 00:43:00,940
Let's reflect back on that one.

968
00:43:00,940 --> 00:43:02,820
So I agree with you, Cameron Diaz.

969
00:43:02,820 --> 00:43:04,340
She came out of hiding to let us know that.

970
00:43:04,340 --> 00:43:05,580
It's good to see you're still alive.

971
00:43:05,580 --> 00:43:06,720
She kind of looks the same too.

972
00:43:06,720 --> 00:43:08,640
Good for her.

973
00:43:09,820 --> 00:43:10,660
Moving on.

974
00:43:10,660 --> 00:43:14,140
All right, this next, all right, I'm gonna challenge you.

975
00:43:14,140 --> 00:43:16,140
I'm gonna challenge you to listen to this next headline

976
00:43:16,140 --> 00:43:21,140
and not respond like a child, but I bet you can't.

977
00:43:21,140 --> 00:43:22,980
I bet you can't, this one's a classic.

978
00:43:22,980 --> 00:43:23,820
Ready?

979
00:43:23,820 --> 00:43:28,820
The James Webb telescope captures new images of Uranus.

980
00:43:30,140 --> 00:43:30,980
Come on.

981
00:43:32,140 --> 00:43:36,300
The James Webb telescope captures new images of Uranus.

982
00:43:36,300 --> 00:43:38,860
How's it looking these days, y'all?

983
00:43:38,860 --> 00:43:40,220
Some of us try to be slick too.

984
00:43:40,220 --> 00:43:41,900
I'll pronounce it Uranus.

985
00:43:41,900 --> 00:43:43,820
They just sound like, you know, like classy,

986
00:43:43,820 --> 00:43:45,580
but also like not to say Uranus,

987
00:43:45,580 --> 00:43:47,820
but I saw this and I had to include it in

988
00:43:47,820 --> 00:43:49,860
because I'm a silly man child, y'all.

989
00:43:49,860 --> 00:43:53,520
Hey, listen, Uranus is looking good over here.

990
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:54,400
I'm looking at the pictures.

991
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:56,880
I know this is your radio, but just take my words for it,

992
00:43:56,880 --> 00:43:59,960
y'all, Uranus is looking nice.

993
00:43:59,960 --> 00:44:02,240
This thing is high def.

994
00:44:02,240 --> 00:44:04,800
There's other things around Uranus.

995
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:06,880
There's other little like sparkles

996
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:09,480
and other galaxies right around, not a galaxy.

997
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:10,480
I think there is a galaxy.

998
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:13,840
Yeah, I'm seeing a whole other galaxy,

999
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:15,960
not too far from Uranus.

1000
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:16,800
This is crazy.

1001
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:19,480
So look, we cover a little bit of space in this episode too.

1002
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:23,040
We cover the relationships, New York City, sniffing tears.

1003
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:25,480
Now we're covering Uranus, y'all.

1004
00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:28,240
Look at that, look at all the stars,

1005
00:44:28,240 --> 00:44:31,040
all the glitz and the glam around that yam.

1006
00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:35,040
Ah, bad.

1007
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:36,880
All right.

1008
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:39,600
Let's see.

1009
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:43,960
How's Uranus doing, y'all?

1010
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:45,600
Boom, all right, moving on.

1011
00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:50,600
Research says, we're going into some relationships stuff here,

1012
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:55,280
research says that over 50% of women

1013
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:57,600
have a backup partner in mind.

1014
00:44:57,600 --> 00:44:59,880
I mean, this is kind of a given, right?

1015
00:44:59,880 --> 00:45:02,600
There's always somebody out there trying to take your girl.

1016
00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:08,920
There's always, even if she doesn't consciously

1017
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:12,040
have a backup, subconsciously she does,

1018
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:15,000
because once again, talking about the evolution of women,

1019
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:19,000
they have been, have evolved to move on.

1020
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:21,280
Because for a long time throughout history,

1021
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:23,560
a lot of men died in wars.

1022
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:27,800
A lot of men died in war.

1023
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:32,600
So to keep the DNA, to keep the information,

1024
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:34,120
genetic information moving on,

1025
00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:37,320
women had to find ways to cope to like find another husband

1026
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:38,160
to take care.

1027
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:41,080
This is like for most of history because of war.

1028
00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:43,840
So I would say this research of 50%,

1029
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:45,200
there's probably even more,

1030
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:47,680
I had to guess with that backup partner in mind,

1031
00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:49,200
because you gotta survive.

1032
00:45:50,720 --> 00:45:52,280
You gotta survive.

1033
00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:55,280
Ever look at like the woman you're with

1034
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:57,280
or the girl you're with or somebody you wanna be with

1035
00:45:57,280 --> 00:46:00,200
and think, oh, I wanna start a family with it.

1036
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:02,120
It's almost like for a breeding purpose.

1037
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:08,160
I like the way she takes groceries in on one trip.

1038
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:09,560
That's what I wanna start a family with.

1039
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:10,760
That's the kind of woman I want.

1040
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:15,360
Woman that in a pinch she can bring in groceries on her own.

1041
00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:16,920
I saw a video on Instagram,

1042
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:20,240
this lady brought in her own groceries

1043
00:46:20,240 --> 00:46:22,520
to where she had to use her head to close the trunk.

1044
00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:23,840
And she did it successfully.

1045
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:25,560
Didn't get her hair caught in the trunk

1046
00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:26,800
or anything like that.

1047
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:27,880
And I saw that, I was like,

1048
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:30,080
that lady's not gonna be single for long.

1049
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:32,840
That's someone you wanna start a family with.

1050
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:34,520
All right.

1051
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:39,880
That's someone you wanna start a family with.

1052
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:43,880
Let's see, let's do some more headlines here, y'all.

1053
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:45,360
How y'all doing?

1054
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:46,680
Are y'all still with me?

1055
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:50,240
Some people like a solo thing

1056
00:46:50,240 --> 00:46:53,360
and others are like, what is going on?

1057
00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:56,160
And I totally understand it.

1058
00:46:58,160 --> 00:46:59,360
I guess so.

1059
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,160
Oh, Mary little Christmas.

1060
00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:03,080
What's up? This is the last week.

1061
00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:05,040
We're in between Christmas and New Year's.

1062
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:08,320
This is International Waters, y'all.

1063
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:10,040
International Waters.

1064
00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:14,040
So I'm gonna go through some advice.

1065
00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:18,240
We're gonna end here with some advice

1066
00:47:18,240 --> 00:47:22,040
from a relationship account on Instagram called Tinder Platinum.

1067
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:25,160
It says never ever bore her.

1068
00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:27,000
So if you're a guy listening to this,

1069
00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:28,360
maybe you'll get some advice.

1070
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:31,400
And if you're a woman listening to this, I would like to,

1071
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:34,440
I guess I can't know because we don't do callers,

1072
00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:36,320
but keep it to yourself and be like,

1073
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:38,240
oh, this actually would work, this should not.

1074
00:47:38,240 --> 00:47:44,240
Now, please know that I'm going blind into this post.

1075
00:47:44,240 --> 00:47:45,960
I haven't read through this.

1076
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:48,080
And my history with this account,

1077
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:49,080
because sometimes I'll say things

1078
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:51,720
and I'm like, dude, you're way off the money.

1079
00:47:51,720 --> 00:47:53,360
And I'll start off disagreeing with him

1080
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:54,840
and sometimes agree.

1081
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:55,840
So I don't really know.

1082
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:56,680
I don't know.

1083
00:47:56,680 --> 00:47:58,520
I don't sometimes agree.

1084
00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:00,160
So I don't really know what I'm walking into here.

1085
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:05,160
So we're gonna see how, how to never bore a girl.

1086
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:07,680
Here we go, how to never bore her.

1087
00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:10,360
When you approach her, do not get into interview mode

1088
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:12,280
where you just ask questions.

1089
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:14,320
You don't want to bore her and make her lose her

1090
00:48:14,320 --> 00:48:16,280
the little interest he has when you approach her.

1091
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:18,280
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1092
00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:23,280
You gotta be funny, maybe a little self-deprecating,

1093
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:26,280
maybe poke fun at her or something like that.

1094
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:29,600
Going into 60 minutes with whoever you are.

1095
00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:34,760
But also all of this stuff is all just practice.

1096
00:48:35,640 --> 00:48:37,720
Because after being in a relationship for 10 years

1097
00:48:37,720 --> 00:48:39,360
and getting back into the dating world,

1098
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:40,880
there were some definite lumps.

1099
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:42,880
And I was a person that like,

1100
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:44,360
didn't really have issues getting women,

1101
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:47,040
but like after you're out the game for 10 years,

1102
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:49,560
you don't do something for 10 years, you lose the skill.

1103
00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:51,520
And if you're single and you're like,

1104
00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:54,560
how do I go out there and I, you know, put myself out there?

1105
00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:56,920
You literally just go put yourself out there.

1106
00:48:56,920 --> 00:48:59,000
Start by waving at women,

1107
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:01,720
start by complimenting something, not their body.

1108
00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:05,920
You can compliment their hair or like a dress

1109
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:07,880
if they're wearing it, but don't make it too sexual.

1110
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:10,360
Make it like fun, like you're kind of like the semi-gay

1111
00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:13,920
from be like, hey girls, the colors on that dress are popping.

1112
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:16,080
Like make it fun, make it like hearted.

1113
00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:18,240
Don't like stare down the barrel of her eyes

1114
00:49:18,240 --> 00:49:21,720
and be like those, that's a nice skirt you have there.

1115
00:49:21,720 --> 00:49:24,040
You know, read the room.

1116
00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:26,640
I'm going to interview Moe, be fun, be someone she's like,

1117
00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:28,120
oh, be someone that she wants to go,

1118
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:30,560
oh wow, I wanna go have a coffee with that guy.

1119
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:33,520
I wanna go sit on his lap or whatever women think

1120
00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:35,560
when someone's hit on them.

1121
00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:39,000
The next piece to not bore her,

1122
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:44,240
you just, you don't just directly get to her and say,

1123
00:49:44,240 --> 00:49:45,640
hey, I'm blank, what's your name?

1124
00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:48,360
Oh, whoa, I usually just go with that,

1125
00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:50,520
but in this case, she's gonna be like,

1126
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:52,920
why would I care if your name or blank or ABC?

1127
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:55,400
All right, and why should I tell you who I am?

1128
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:56,240
I disagree with that.

1129
00:49:56,240 --> 00:49:58,480
You can go up and go, just be honest.

1130
00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:02,320
I would say approaching a woman being vulnerable.

1131
00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:04,240
Hey, listen, I know this is weird.

1132
00:50:04,240 --> 00:50:05,680
I'm a nervous myself.

1133
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:06,840
My name is Freddie, what's your name?

1134
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:08,840
I would love to take you out.

1135
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:09,680
That's it.

1136
00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:10,960
Not everybody's gonna say yes,

1137
00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:12,840
but some people will and when they do,

1138
00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:14,600
you're gonna completely forget about all the people

1139
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:15,720
that say no.

1140
00:50:15,720 --> 00:50:17,240
If you're listening to this and you're like,

1141
00:50:17,240 --> 00:50:18,600
I gotta put myself out there,

1142
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:20,800
this is your sign from the universe

1143
00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:22,280
to put yourself out there.

1144
00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:25,600
This guess, if anything, this guess takeover

1145
00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:28,200
was only for the sole purpose to get you back out there

1146
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:30,560
and into the street to help you with that heartbreak.

1147
00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:32,400
If I did it, you can, all right?

1148
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:34,240
I know you can.

1149
00:50:34,240 --> 00:50:39,160
Moving on to the next, how not to bore her.

1150
00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:42,800
He says, be the guy.

1151
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:46,080
Be the guy who approaches women for his own fun.

1152
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:50,080
Be the guy who doesn't care if she'll give her number or not.

1153
00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:52,160
Be the guy who is humorous,

1154
00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:54,640
knows well about his surroundings and notices, right?

1155
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:55,680
Reads the room.

1156
00:50:57,400 --> 00:50:59,920
Yeah, if you can get to the place mentally

1157
00:50:59,920 --> 00:51:02,280
where you don't care if you get her number or not,

1158
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:03,120
you're in a good spot.

1159
00:51:03,120 --> 00:51:04,720
And the way I would frame that in your head

1160
00:51:04,720 --> 00:51:06,040
is instead of being like,

1161
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:08,080
I'm gonna go out and get a girlfriend.

1162
00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:12,760
Or I'm gonna go out and I'm going to get a girl's number.

1163
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:14,120
Don't think about it like that.

1164
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:17,360
Instead be like, I'm gonna get rejected by five women.

1165
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:21,560
Oh, but get rejected by five women,

1166
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:23,520
but like you're trying to get her number,

1167
00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:25,720
but your goal is to get rejected.

1168
00:51:25,720 --> 00:51:27,720
Which means you just gotta approach

1169
00:51:27,720 --> 00:51:30,200
and be a halfway decent human being.

1170
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:33,840
Fellows, the bar is so low for men right now.

1171
00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:36,160
Men are having a rebuilding year these past couple of years

1172
00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:37,000
and it was just good.

1173
00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:37,840
It happened, right?

1174
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:39,280
Women had to come up.

1175
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:40,400
I was necessary.

1176
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:43,000
I feel like there's gonna be another swing coming along

1177
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:45,360
because like we do, we adapt, we overcome.

1178
00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:46,360
But I do think,

1179
00:51:49,160 --> 00:51:51,280
yeah, you wanna go in there thinking,

1180
00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:53,600
I'm trying to get rejected by five women today.

1181
00:51:53,600 --> 00:51:55,080
That's a good mindset to be in

1182
00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:59,400
because you don't wanna let the inevitable failure,

1183
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:01,680
quote unquote, and it's not really failure,

1184
00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:03,920
get to you to where you just go back to your home

1185
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:05,840
and now you're recluse.

1186
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:07,080
You've gotta put yourself out there.

1187
00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:08,520
And what kind of energy are you giving off?

1188
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:11,240
Are you taking care of yourself? You're sleeping?

1189
00:52:11,240 --> 00:52:12,920
Are you washing your ass, huh?

1190
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:16,960
I get some kind of physical activity, right?

1191
00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:19,320
If you do walk at least for an hour a day,

1192
00:52:19,320 --> 00:52:21,720
like what kind of energy are you putting out there?

1193
00:52:21,720 --> 00:52:22,880
Be cognizant of that.

1194
00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:27,920
Doesn't care, approaches women if it's fun.

1195
00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:29,380
Humorous, yeah.

1196
00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:33,280
Moving on to the next one, your approach to girl.

1197
00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:38,280
Okay, be calm and confident while approaching women.

1198
00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:41,120
This is hard.

1199
00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:43,920
This, this one's too, man.

1200
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:47,800
It's not my try to approach women in the cold.

1201
00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:49,600
And it is not cool to be talking

1202
00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:50,960
when it's like 15 degrees out.

1203
00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:52,840
You're like, hey, what's going on?

1204
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:57,840
It is not, yeah, it is not a good feeling.

1205
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:00,040
It doesn't make you feel powerful.

1206
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:00,880
It's not loose.

1207
00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:04,040
Literally you're just like tight and bunched up.

1208
00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:05,600
And then ladies like, okay,

1209
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:07,560
someone's got to really see through

1210
00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:09,680
to see the good person you are to overcome that.

1211
00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:13,040
But yes, be calm and confident while approaching women.

1212
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:14,320
How?

1213
00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:15,400
What the guy says,

1214
00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:17,880
keep in mind that there's lots of them.

1215
00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:18,720
There are.

1216
00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:21,720
Is it the funny way to word it?

1217
00:53:21,720 --> 00:53:24,440
Not every woman would like you, very true.

1218
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:26,640
If she doesn't show interest in you,

1219
00:53:26,640 --> 00:53:27,800
she's gonna miss the fun.

1220
00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:29,240
She'll get along with you.

1221
00:53:29,240 --> 00:53:31,680
Yeah, sometimes are you a fun person?

1222
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:33,480
You're a fun person, that's the case.

1223
00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:37,880
Relax your anxiety by saying it's just practice.

1224
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:41,000
Yeah, know what they say in sales.

1225
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:44,000
A no is just one step closer to a yes.

1226
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:46,880
Ha, ha, ha.

1227
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:52,800
A no is just one step closer to a yes.

1228
00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:54,520
So I'll remember that.

1229
00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:59,440
Be respectful, but be adventurous yourself.

1230
00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:01,960
And if yourself isn't working,

1231
00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:03,200
change yourself a little bit.

1232
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:05,920
Just change yourself as a tad bit.

1233
00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:08,640
We all, we're all in the process of changing ourselves.

1234
00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:11,160
We're all evolving, we're all growing.

1235
00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:14,680
Just do that in a way where a woman might wanna,

1236
00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:16,440
you know, spend a couple hours with you.

1237
00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:18,160
Maybe steps, right?

1238
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:21,680
Act in a way that a woman wanna give you her number, right?

1239
00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:23,400
Then if you can't get past the number point,

1240
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:26,320
like past the first date, then act in a manner

1241
00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:28,040
that gets you the second date.

1242
00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:29,480
What does that mean?

1243
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:30,320
I don't know.

1244
00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:34,120
I'm just getting you started on your journey.

1245
00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:37,440
So maybe I have a friend that's a guy friend

1246
00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:40,120
that's down in the dump, send him this

1247
00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:44,080
or have him subscribe to my podcast Fred Donner.

1248
00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:48,080
F-R-E-D-T-A-L-K, one word.

1249
00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:49,760
It's a relationship podcast.

1250
00:54:49,760 --> 00:54:53,080
Today I gave you a medley of what the podcast entails.

1251
00:54:53,080 --> 00:54:56,560
I usually cover some headline, some relationship advice,

1252
00:54:56,560 --> 00:55:00,080
also go through some stories and whatnot.

1253
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:03,480
And just, you know, keeping you guys interested.

1254
00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:08,080
So sadly, our time together has come to an end.

1255
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:09,560
I'm reading off the script again, guys.

1256
00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:11,280
By the way, I love this.

1257
00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:13,960
Shout out to Dr. Andre Jerry for being very polished.

1258
00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:16,760
I'm a mess, fly by the seat of my pants.

1259
00:55:16,760 --> 00:55:17,600
So I'm loving this.

1260
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:18,880
This script reading is fun.

1261
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:21,120
So sadly, our time has come together and come to an end.

1262
00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:23,320
But before we go, I want to extend my gratitude

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to Dr. Andre Jerry for the opportunity

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to guest host this incredible radio show.

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Thank you to our listeners for tuning in

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and being an active part of today's engaging discussion.

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Remember to catch live with Dr. Andre Jerry

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every fourth Wednesday at 8 p.m. Eastern,

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exclusively on the Artist First radio network.

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For more thoughtful, go to these conversations

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and world renowned experts and influence influencers.

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Until next time, stay informed, stay inspired

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and keep making a difference.

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This is Freddie Beloit signing off.

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Thank you and have a great evening.

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I'm going back to Saudi, Saudi, Saudi.

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I'm going back to Saudi, wasted.