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us as we wander off the path to find the ideas
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mind, the ego, wellness and hidden history with
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life. Hello, everybody, and welcome. This is
Dr. Tia Jolie Phillips, and you're on Phillips
Island in the Treehouse with Sarah Tirri. Hello,
everyone. Good to be back. Hello, darling. How's
your week been? My week's been great. You look
green. Yes, I'm living what I want to feel like,
which is fresh and vibrant. You look like a spring
plant, like a little budding flower. I should
have a flower in my hair. You should wear a flower
because you look like this. Fresh green stalk
that's about to... A beanstalk. Well, you're
tall enough to be a beanstalk. So, hey, wow,
there's so much going on. So how's your week
been? I haven't talked to you. My week is crazy.
Well, I have one thing to be grateful. Well,
I have a lot to be grateful. Yes. But give the
prime, the big one. Well, the big one was yesterday,
Robin and I went to get our... She got her hair
done. I got my nails done while she was getting
her hair done. So I was just in the front of
the salon and I was eating my little... I had
a little... to -go container you know yeah the
glass container with the tupperware type of top
and i was uh you dropped it and it smashed all
over the no i didn't even have to drop it i was
literally i ate a couple pieces of what was in
there it's just like some spinach uh spinach
pie and i put it on my lap and i was putting
the top the plastic top on you know clips yeah
and i guess i'm lifting too many weights because
i went like i just literally went like this snapped
it I was pushing the lid on and I destroyed it.
Like the whole, the glass just shattered. Holy
shit. How dramatic. It was everyone in the place.
All these ladies. You must have been surprised.
These ladies had their hair. Could you hear it
then? Could you hear the glass shatter? Was it
loud? It was all over the floor. I mean, I literally
had a lap full of glass. My hands were bleeding.
Oh no. They cut both of my hands. I had cuts.
Yeah. Let me see your hands. Well, this is the
last one. I heal quickly. You do heal quickly,
I can just see. But they were really clean cuts.
Yeah. You can see how it's... I mean, glass,
if it's a tiny, it can be... It was so... Yeah,
but I had cuts. So how did you handle it then?
Well, I froze. I just stopped. Yeah, good move.
I said, stop. Yeah, get your equilibrium. Well,
I looked at the girl. the salon, the receptionist
girl. And I said, I need a broom. Would you bring
me the trash can right there? And I just went
and I dropped all the food and everything right
in the trash can. But I literally had, I mean,
I had glass. like on my breasts so you just sat
there and had to pick it off i literally took
off all the big pieces picked it all off and
thankfully the cuts were really really clean
and small yes well if it's a piece of glass shard
it was really it's not gonna be like a nail it's
gonna be quite thin isn't it but it could be
deep yeah like that one right there that cut
was just it was really clean and you can see
it's like almost gone yeah you're not gonna scar
when you have a really clean cut yeah just That's
what glass will do. But I was so grateful. It
was such a mess. There was glass. It went like
12 feet in diameter. And did they get a broom?
Oh, yeah. They broomed, vacuumed. I had her wiped
down. It was like a leather chair I was on. I
said, look, it's got pores. There was glass powder.
Glass powder. Yeah, of course. It was just like
it disintegrated. I'm like, Robin's like, you
got to stop going to the gym. I'm like, I don't
even go to the gym. What are you talking about?
But I'm just really grateful because that really
could have been a really bad. Yes, it could.
And that's a really good way of proving that
could have been nasty. Yeah. And you had a load
of people around you who were there to assist
you can get what you need, get it cleaned up.
You've got presence of mind so you can pick it
all off you. And I got back right into working
with Rosie. So no, I had literally like three
band -aids on my hands. I was like, man, it's
crazy. But it was a weird day because while I
was getting my brows done. The lady next to me,
she's kind of an older lady, maybe. I hate to
say older. Yeah, well, older. You're not saying
old. She appeared older. She might have been
younger, but she appeared older. And she was
non -responsive. What's that mean? Non -responsive.
She was just sitting there like a zombie. Oh.
And she had been getting her hair done and stuff.
And the owner of the salon, he's my friend David.
and he said to me he says i think we have a problem
here you know because you know i'm yeah i'm not
a medical doctor but i know a lot about health
right yeah exactly and so here i am with band
-aids on my hand and he says he says this late
so i went i looked at her and her breathing was
shallow her eyes were like you know you can just
it's easier and she didn't respond or look at
you or anything well she was very you should
have slapped her really really hard right i'm
just kidding Yeah, that's the holistic way to
do it. Yeah, it is. Boom. But, you know, in like
literally five seconds, I said, yeah, you need
to call 911. Really? So what do you think was
happening to you? Well, she was, I don't know.
I don't know her background or anything. I don't
do the assessment. Maybe she'd had a mild stroke.
But she had, she may have had, she was. she was
pallid she was not responsive she was that's
interesting though it's a good place to have
that happen because there's people around that
can take care of you wouldn't want to be driving
oh yeah it was all hands on deck yeah it's nice
to be grateful for life because it could be so
much fucking worse and that's the whole thing
you know it's just this is a this is supposed
to be a day off at the salon right We literally
blocked off the calendar so we can go chill out.
You were obviously needed. God had bigger plans
for you that day. Yeah, you can chill out another
day. You can chill out tomorrow with Sarah. And
you know what? All the people that watched you
shatter this glass have all got this really funny
story to tell because they're going to go back
home and they're going to sit around their dinner
table and they're going to say, oh, there's this
lady today. And they're just going to relive
the whole thing. And it'll be funny because it
didn't happen to them. So it's easier. It's just
a funny story. your day so there's an elevation
with that as well which is kind of interesting
there's this guy sitting there because sometimes
guys go to this line and get their hair cut right
so just like instead of a barber because they
like to have their certain thing done a certain
way or whatever and he was an older guy kind
of a just like just a farm guy just from central
florida right and he was sitting there in his
deep southern accent and stuff and he was the
way they were cutting his hair, he was facing
me. I was by the front window. So the morning
sun was at my back. And so when the morning sun's
at your back, you can actually see the curvature
of like your musculature and stuff. So I, from
his perspective, I looked really, really strong,
like really powerful. And I'm sitting there and
here's the one that's like. He's like, you know,
he made some, I couldn't hear his, cause you
know, when they speak in that. Yes. It's hard
to understand. You've got to hear it for a little
bit and then you can adjust, but out the gate,
it's quite tricky, isn't it? But he did say something
about not working out as much or something like
that. So it is going to be a story for them,
but the whole day was a story. Cause it was like,
they had EMS there for the sheriff. God. Fire
truck. Did you stay around for that? You were
there. Oh, we weren't done yet. So that was while
we were still there. So it was all just big drama
going on. But they did a good job. I mean, I
don't know what, I'm not an EMT person. Did she
walk out? No, they stretchered her out. Wow.
But the interesting, I think the sheriff, the
first person on the scene was the sheriff. And
evidently they're trained a little bit, at least
at the preliminary stages. They know the basic
questions to ask. And I guess they put it in
their little laptop computer. So that by the
time the EMS people come, they already have an
idea of what age, what issues, what's the preconditions
and all this stuff. But I was pretty impressed
with their efficiencies. That's good. It was
a good thing to see. Yeah, you've got to have
a system going in that. Well, let's just wish
her... Yeah, well, I got a note from my friend
David. And, you know, I guess she was released
yesterday. So whatever it was, it was transient.
So, yeah, I don't know what... I don't pry. If
they want my help, they ask me. And it has to
come from then. Otherwise, you are prying. When
somebody's like in this medical situation, like
she was clearly... David shared with me that
she was post -cancer. And so she was probably,
you know, some blood thinner or something. You
know, something going on. And, you know, when
you take foods and nutrients in from your gut
and you're doing fresh air and exercise and sunshine
and you have a balanced work life, your work
life is balanced, you're playing hard, you're
working hard, you're playing hard. Meditative
life. You know, like you and I talk about on
this podcast all the time. Yeah, your meditation.
You're balanced. When you take nutrients in from
your gut and you don't have any poisons in your
blood, you're going to respond pretty normally
to most situations most of the time, right? Yeah.
But when you start doing medications, your body
doesn't know what those are. Your body responds
the best way it knows how, but it's foreign.
Those things, those chemicals, those things that
they put in you, the drugs, your body doesn't
know what those are. Your body responds the best
it can to it, but it can't modulate that. It
treats it like a foreign... It's a foreign agent,
a foreign substance. So I can only imagine this
lady, you know, she had this bout with so -called
cancer. I say so -called cancer because cancer
in my book is a symptom. Yes. Now, we did the
seven stages of cancer, didn't we? Yeah, we did.
I think we were in agreement that this starts
out on an early stage and it progressively gets
worse, doesn't it? It's a manifestation of lack
of balance. physically, sleep -wise, mentally,
emotionally, everything is out of sync. And so
I really can't comment when somebody's post -cancer,
supposedly, because now God only knows what medicines
they're on, and God only knows how those medicines
are working synergistically against her. And
so that's why I just let the EMS, let the medical...
clerics and, uh, let, let them do their thing.
Yes, absolutely. Yeah. So, um, that's my world.
What's going on in your world? Well, we're talking
about medical issues. So, um, I lost my uncle
Mickey and I, this week. Yeah. So yeah, my, I
found out last night from my brother. Now he
was, um, my mom's favorite brother and he was
about five years older than me. And when he was
40, he had a benign cyst on the back of his neck,
on the base of his brain. And he was told he
was going in for routine surgery. They're going
to lop it off. Everything will be OK. You'll
be here overnight and you can go home tomorrow.
So it was all quite, you know, la -di -da. Oh,
bless you, darling. And so he went into this
surgery and they removed this benign, if it's
not non -benign, that's benign. Malignant? It
wasn't malignant. It was just a tumor. Oh, benign.
Yeah, benign. So they cut it off and then they
left him in recovery and they'd put a, is it
a shunt or a stint? So it's a tube that releases
any buildup of, you know. whatever toxins that
so he had woken up and he had he had got the
shunt or the stint and he'd bashed it away so
now his brain was filling up with all the toxins
and all this pus and fluid and that caused a
huge problem because he was left for three hours
and then what was a routine surgery just one
day, turned out that he got this massive brain
infection. And within six weeks, they amputated
both of his legs from the knee down and amputated
fingers. He was never the same again because
he was stuck in the 1970s. So when you'd see
him, he could remember me because we grew up
in the 70s. But that's all he could remember.
He couldn't remember his own son because his
son was born at the beginning of the 90s. Yeah.
And then he was put in, I guess it's like a nursing
home in England. been 23 so when was this 23
years ago 23 years yeah wow so he was 40 so about
63 roughly and When you saw him, he had no memory
of the day before. So every day was brand new.
So if I'd seen him on the Thursday, he wouldn't
remember Friday morning. So he had zero short
-term memories. Zero. The only memories he had
was longer. Long -term. Very long -term. Yeah,
he talked about everything being 1970s TV shows,
1970s cars, what we were doing. And it was quite
difficult. I mean, it doesn't suck. That's a
good time to have memories. That's kind of interesting
because I've been pondering this, right? So I
have a belief system that we come in. to this
life and some major themes are what we're going
to elect as part of our destiny we have a degree
of free will as well so in my pantheon this was
something he chose to experience now let's just
use this as a thought experiment maybe he didn't
but what he basically ended up was no freedom
to do anything but he was he was living in the
moment without any short -term memory. So if
he had chosen this, if this was supposed to happen,
that was a very interesting choice because you've
limited all your expression and now each moment
is anew and you can't remember the day before.
He probably couldn't even remember that morning.
That is just mind -blowing to me that you would
choose to do that. But apart from his physical
ailments, he did... find some happiness because
he wasn't able to grieve over all the bullshit
because he couldn't remember the operation he
couldn't remember what happened to him he couldn't
remember I've been here for 23 years he had nothing
to grieve or complain about because he couldn't
remember anything so in a way he was actually
quite jolly and so he'd been into a few nursing
homes and he was quite people he could make people
laugh and so it was a very very strange existence
that he could have chosen for himself almost
like a lobotomy where where well that when his
brain swelled i mean there was the hacking of
his brain to some degree so some major damage
Wow. Yeah, but he had 40 years without that.
He was a prison guard prior to that. He would
escort inmates across London and he would be
handcuffed in the back of a car. What a terrific
existence. I don't know what sucks worse. Well,
you're in a low grade. Hi, Uncle Mickey. If you're
watching, darling, I love you and I'll see you
down the line. He took a step up. Yeah, from
that. That's crazy. That's an intense job. Yeah,
and very low vibration because you're dealing
with, you know, the scum of the earth. But then
there's also opportunity as well. Because, you
know, people, you know, I have a lot of people
talk to me about, because I have people find
me, they're morbid. I have people that find me,
their diabetic retina or their diabetic neuropathy
is so bad. Maybe they're pre -amputee diabetics.
Maybe they're almost blind. And they find me
when they're in such a dire position. Some of
them. I actually have helped people get out of
hospice. That's unbelievable. Now, that's very
rare. It's rare, but it's very satisfying. But
the point is, when that happens to me, you could
say to me, well, that's such a hard, very difficult
thing. But in my world, these people are on their
way out anyway. The only thing that can happen
is something better. The only thing I can do
is something better. Right, yeah. I mean, because
they've already spent years and years and years
getting to this point. The wrong things. There's
no burden on me in one, two, three, four, five
weeks. There's no burden on me to change their
entire life in five weeks. A lot of times we
do. And it depends on how committed they are
and how responsive, doesn't it? Yeah, it just
depends. But then you'd want it bad enough at
that point. This is the point. And if you're
prepared to be honest with yourself and it requires
that, you'd have to look at your mind. You have
to examine what have you been thinking about?
What type of thoughts? Where are you mentally?
And that requires courage just to be honest with
yourself about how messed up your mind is, because
that's to me, it's really important to get that
under control. Well, it's funny you say that,
because when I have people come to me and they
say they're very, very obese, right? They want
to lose. They're inflamed. They have all these.
inflammatory conditions their organs are starting
to shut down they have some major things going
on but their weight is one of the major things
that's driving them forward they're like i gotta
do something with this this weight this information
right and in your opinion if you're obese and
you lose 50 pounds would that take care of 80
of the issues or go a long way it's a percentage
it's a percentage of body weight so right okay
yeah yeah because if you're 400 pounds yeah and
you get to 350 well Okay, we still have some
work to go. But if you just had to lose 50 pounds
and you were down in a good body weight, to me
that goes a long way to curing a lot of your
ailments of inflammation, potential diabetes.
Would you say that? So I don't really pay attention
to weight. I want people to actually keep their
weight. I want them to lose their fat. Yes, okay,
all right. So I don't really pay attention to
weight. Yes, I think that I misspoke. We're talking
about fat, not weight, not muscle, not everything
else. I'm more interested in the composition.
I mean, my dad had this massive beer belly, and
if you'd have lobbed it off with a knife and
put it on some scales, his beer belly would have
weighed at least 40 pounds. Right. And it was
just fat. So with that gone, he died at 75. With
that gone, I think he would have been really
on the way to living a much healthier life. So
when these people come to me and they're very,
very, they have a lot of extra fat. Yeah. I asked
them, I said, you're looking to lose inches,
right? You're really looking to lose inches.
And that's why they come to me to lose inches.
What I tell them is there's a few inches that
I want you to gain. And they're looking at me
like, wait a minute. What are you talking about?
And I put my hands on either side of my face,
indicating this six inches between your palms,
this six inches that's in your skull, you need
to gain that. In other words, what's going on
between your ears, the way you're thinking, the
way your attitude is, the way you're looking
at life, you have to gain there. Yes. That's
a gain. Now, it's not a gain of inches. It's
a gain of perspective. Yeah. And it's a gain
of knowledge. Knowledge, wisdom. And I let them
know. It's like, I'm not going, I cannot do everything
for you. I can't breathe deeply for you. I can't
take a walk. I can't do those things. I can just
advise you and guide you and tell you what I
think is going to help. And that's it. I just
say, look, you're the princess. You're Princess
Sarah. I'm just a really good advisor. In fact,
I'm probably the best advisor you'll ever have.
Dispassionate, because you have to be, because
there's nothing you can do. You can't force someone
to change. No, you're the princess. I'm not going
to tell the princess what to do. I'm going to
be a good advisor, and whatever you decide, I'm
going to just, I've got to go with it. I can't
change you. You have to change you. So, well,
that's fascinating. I'm sorry about your uncle.
It sounds like, so from your perspective. He
came into this earth space and he moved on to
someplace else. Yes, that's what I believe. And
he might rebound back here. We don't know what
time is on the other side, so maybe he's going
to have an 80 years of having fun. But whatever
his life was, I'm absolutely certain that it
was tailor -made for him and gave him a very
precise... I mean, we don't know what people's
karmas are. We have no idea. But this very narrow
perspective was what I believe he decided he
needed for 23 years. But we wouldn't actually
choose that because it sounds terrifying, doesn't
it? I mean, if you had his life tomorrow, you'd
be, no, no, you wouldn't want that. I mean, it
would be, but in a way he was happy. He didn't,
he wasn't able to, we just have no idea who he
was really because. He wasn't average in terms
of how we all cognitively process life, but I
loved him. He was very, very funny and we grew
up together and I'll catch up with you down the
line. Send me a seat. So, wow, that's a lot.
Yeah. And you know what's in, well, this is interesting.
So my other, so his brother, now his brother
died, it was in 2013. That was my uncle John.
He was about six, he was about a year older than
Mickey who died yesterday, died last week, I
found out yesterday. Now, he was an alcoholic
and smoked a lot of cigarettes and he had an
amputation on his left leg. And what he needed,
because he had his... No, hang on. That wasn't
the first thing. He had his veins stripped. They
stripped veins and they put in artificial veins.
And what was required of him was to walk around
and get the circulation going. But they didn't
give him strong enough pain medicine. So when
it came to doing it, you wouldn't have that problem
in America. When it came to doing it, it was
so painful he didn't do it enough. So all this
surgery kind of fell apart. And then he had an
amputation from his knee down. And then he did
heal from that. His body was so messed up. I
think he had maybe four or five years. And he
died very young as well. He was, I think, about
57 when he died. So it's interesting that both
brothers have had issues with amputations. Interesting
from I don't know what perspective. I mean, it's
weird. It's just it's a weird. But we don't know
what they're choosing. Now, Uncle John had had
an unhappy life and he'd made some choices. And
he told me that he regretted those choices so
bitterly because had he made different choices,
he wouldn't have feel he'd fucked his life up.
So he was living with that. And that, I think,
kind of destroyed him. It's quite difficult.
I don't know. I think it would be difficult to
think that you really messed your life up. Well,
I think that what you and I speak of during these
hours we're together, I hope it's a catalyst
for good for people listening. Because like you
had indicated just a moment ago that you would
have said, well, how would I have felt if this
happened? Well, you would say no to it if I offered
you that. If I was God and say, okay, tomorrow
you would just say no. Well, I would have to
ask, you know, I'd say, well, what is it? What
am I supposed to learn? If you're looking for,
if this is supposed to be in my best interest,
what is it that I'm supposed to learn? Well,
that would come in your pre -planning stage.
That's what I'm saying. Yeah. Right. Yeah. You
would know that. Just like yesterday when I smashed
glass in my hands and I pulled little shards
out of my finger. It's like. You know, sometimes
things happen to you. Yeah. I know a few episodes
ago when I dropped a log and it hit my shin.
Yes. You told me that. Focus. Focus a bit more.
Because I wasn't thinking well enough. Well,
you'd lost focus and you were too complacent.
No. I was like, what the hell are you saying?
This is like so wrong. Because that's to suggest
that any accident that happens to anybody at
any time. I think accidents can be avoidable.
I've had accidents where I lost focus. It happened
to me on my dock and I bunny hopped onto the
side of the dock and I came right down. And the
reason was I could see in myself I'd lost my
focus and my mind. So had I been more mindful,
I would have seen the potential. So I completely
disagree with you on this one. Because I've been,
back when I was in Michigan, I was just a, I
had a couple of young kids at the time, my former
spouse. I had a Mercedes, there was... paid for
i was like a you know late 80s or early 80s mercedes
paid for and i got rear -ended on the highway
or on the exit ramp of the highway i was completely
the kids are buckled unbuckled great car oh that
that wasn't a lack of focus this was a car behind
lost but that was an accident yeah but he'd lost
focused he'd done that right but that wasn't
me that wasn't you no but that's what i'm saying
sometimes things happen yeah i agree And it's
not me. Yeah, that wasn't. Same thing if you're
T -boned or if... But the one that you had outside,
you were throwing something into a wood chipper.
No, no, no, no. I was moving a very, very long
log. I was moving a very long log, but the end
of the log had a twist to it. So when I put the
log down, it rolled into me because the weight
of the log rolled it. So my point is... I think
that, yes, there's this in the grand scheme of
things. Do you think if you stub your toe on
the coffee table that I would say when that's
happened, it's happened to us all. If I'd have
focused my being a present, that wouldn't have
happened. I wouldn't have been that close. I
would have been in my environment watching everything.
I mean, what I tell you is I've told my children,
they've grown up with this. If they've had an
accident, it's like, well, you've got to focus
your attention. You can't be caught up in a thought
form when you're doing something that's not dangerous,
but requires steady attention. I mean, I've had
accidents and I believe that I've caused them.
by not being present, not all of them, sometimes
like that one with your car is not my fault,
but there's been a few where I thought, wow,
that wouldn't have happened had you have been
present. Well, I mean, I'll go back to the shattered
glass in my lap. I mean, no matter how present
I was, and I was very present, no matter how
present I was. What was your take from it? I
could not have predicted that that would happen.
So if you just look at your take from that in
terms of practicalities, how old was that glass?
It was pretty new, less than a year probably.
Oh, really? Okay. Has it been through the dishwasher?
Has it been in a really hot oven? I mean, was
there some weakness? I didn't know how old it
was. No, yeah. I mean, Robin's a chef and most
of our stuff is relatively new. We don't use
junky stuff around here. we what's in this house
what we use is we're like you we like to have
nice things uh if something's kind of getting
junked out we donate it let somebody else use
it like because i've put glass not that we donate
junky stuff some of our stuff that we donate
is nicer than most what most people live with
you know but but i've put glass in an oven And
it shattered. Actually, it didn't. It split in
two. I had a shepherd's pie in it. So you lost
focus. It was too old. And you've got it at 500
degrees with the broiler on. So I never did it
again. Because I thought, OK, if I'm going to
do that, I will use a metal pan. I won't ever
use glass that close to the broiler. But the
other thing with you, you had a lot of presence
of mind. And that's something that your life
is going to require. You didn't freak out. You're
trained. You just sit there and it's all shit.
It's just a big shit show. Your life just went
like that immediately. But then the way that
you got out of it, I mean, you haven't got, I
can't even see your hands. I know that you had
some band -aids on. You're fine. You picked it
off and you asked people, bring me the trash
can. So the way that you handled that, to me,
we give ourselves little tests like that because
to whom much is given, much is expected. So there
are going to be little trials and tribulations.
on the way to test yourself and how you're going
to handle it. Because a lot of people, I mean,
people could have freaked out over that, right?
I mean, that really could have been. I'd like
to think I would have had your reaction. I'm
quite good in... So you and I are in a, we just
made our, we came full circle and I'm in agreement
with you on this because I think when we enter
this life, we do have themes. We have, okay,
here's the five major themes and here's the 10
minor themes or whatever. So I do think we come
in with some scaffolding, but then I, you know,
I was thinking about this a few episodes ago.
It kind of made it cross my brain, but. You know,
I like the idea of randomness. See, I don't believe
life is random. I like the randomness of life.
I embrace it. Yeah, I just don't think it's random.
Well, okay. I think we're creators. I think that
we're creating reality, not reacting to a reality
that already exists. Because if it's random,
all you're doing is reacting to an outside reality
that you haven't manifested. So in my pantheon
of ideas that we're in a quantum field and our
vibration is manifesting our life. But that doesn't
mean there's not going to be trials and tribulations
because they have to factor in because we're
growing. But that's what I'm saying. Is that
what you're seeing as the random? But that's
why I'm saying the so -called randomness. Yeah,
but they're not. Is that trial or tribulation?
Yes, but it'd be part of the code. But you're
saying that that randomness to some degree was
something I summoned. Yes, because of your growth.
Yes. Yeah. Okay. I'm going to let that be where
it is because I can't dispute it. I think there's
some legitimacy to it, truthfully. Maybe. Because
I personally know when I look backwards at the
things that served me the most in my life. It
was a challenging shit. When I was in the mix,
it was a big shit show. And I'm like, oh, my
God, why is this happening? But when I look backwards
at it, it's one of the best things that ever
happened to me. Yeah, you wouldn't change it.
Yeah. Yeah, I wouldn't change a damn thing. And
that's when I'm looking, I'm sitting here talking
with you. I look back at 62 years this time through.
And I'm just like, I would not. And, you know,
I've asked this question, Sarah, to so many people
over the past 40 years. We tend to cherry pick
our lives and we make judgments based on that.
It's like, oh gosh, I wish I was tall and slender
and had Sarah's hair and her whatever your life
has, right? Finances, your travels. All of the
cool things that you had in your life, right?
I wish I could type as fast as Sarah. So I'm
going to look at your life and I'm going to cherry
pick all of these really super cool things about
you. And I'm going to compare your best things
to my worst. And alternatively, the equal and
opposite negative is me looking at somebody and
saying, Oh, well, there's Judith. I can't believe
how slothfully she migrates, how she sloughs
her feet, she drags her feet, she walks like
this. Why can't she be powerful and nimble like
me? And so regardless of how we look at things,
we tend to compare. Somebody else to ourselves.
And I tell people, stop doing that. There's only
one comparison we ever, ever, ever make. And
that's your current self to your future self.
Yes. That's the only comparison. Because otherwise
you're taking the best or worst of somebody else.
compared to your best or worst. And it's unrealistic
even to have a moment's thought about it. I call
it cherry -picking. But it's useless because
it's not relevant. It's just fantasy. It's totally
not relevant. Just get your attention off that
and focus on what you can control. You know,
I started down this path because I've got relatives.
Now, my siblings and I, my relatives, all of
us came from Detroit. None of us were really
well off except for my uncle that passed away.
But pretty much we all scrapped for whatever
we had. We had to work hard, save our money,
be frugal, be smart, make things last, take care
of our stuff to make it last so we don't have
to buy it again, right? So we all grew up with
this kind of this work ethic and this ethos that
is conservative in terms of not making waste.
So we didn't make waste. And if there was something
that we did waste, we tried to minimize it or
put it to use, recycle it. So over the years,
some of us were more efficient at things. Like
I was very efficient with business and finance
and investing. But those who were not, instead
of coming to me for coaching or asking me, what
are you doing next? What are you looking at?
I find some of my relatives are like. oh, well,
you have more than me. You should give me some
of this. And I'm like, well, why? I mean, I don't
mind giving people stuff if they can't do it
themselves. If they can do it themselves, I'll
teach them. But I don't want to just give it
to them because then they never learn how to
do it for themselves. If you want to learn how
to invest or do cryptocurrency or use Web 3 .0.
So you've got two things there. You've got envy
and entitlement, haven't you? They feel entitled
to what you have and they want you to be generous
with that and you share what you have. That's
what they're wanting from you. Would they do
the same? Well, I mean, to me, it's not relevant
because my journey is one of discernment. And
my discernment says, OK, this person is homeless
or not even homeless. That's too big. This person.
Wants to be a millionaire. Let's just say that
they're not homeless. They're doing fine. There's
not a good platform. They're in it. They're smart.
They're paying their bills. There's nothing like
there's nothing life shattering. They're comfortable.
Yeah. OK, let's just secure. Yeah. Now they're
comfortable. They're looking at me and they're
saying, well, you have more than me. Why don't
you give me some? Right. I've had family members
that have expected that, too. Right. And it's
like, well, I just give it to them. But the thing
is, I do give, but I don't typically give to
somebody that... You give to the needy. I give
to the needy. I give to the people that can't
do for themselves. And when I do, it's a knowledge.
So it's a compassion -based philosophy, isn't
it? You're going to where the demand is. Well,
if somebody wants what I've got. That's like
me going, if I go to the gym... Have you ever
coveted another person's possessions? Because
I have, but I saw myself doing it, and I didn't
like it, and then I stopped doing it. But I think
it's one of the seven deadly sins, covetedness.
Yeah, but I wouldn't say covet. I mean, when
I was trimming out, like, you know... maybe 10,
15 years ago, I dropped a lot of, because I was
sitting around flying airplanes getting fat.
I mean, not super fat, but just not what I'm
used to. Well, when I was trimming out my gut,
I had a photograph on my phone. I think I told
this to you. It was my screensaver on my phone
was just an absolutely beautiful female. That's
right. And you showed me your piercing. With
the navel. It was just beautiful, beautiful picture.
And I was just always looking at sand. So it
wasn't covet. it's not like well i want that
but it was well that was an image of a non -sentient
being i'm talking about other people but it was
an it was an inspiration yes okay so covet says
in that context covet says you've got something
and i want it yeah and i'm upset because i don't
have it inspiration says sarah you you're a prolific
author i want to be a prolific author Will you
teach me? Will you help me? Will you coach me?
Will you guide me? To me, that's an inspiration.
Yes. So I get my motivation, which is internal
to me from the relationship because you inspire
me to be better. Right. So if my brother says
to me or my cousin, whatever, you've got all
this money. I want it. Okay. I'll show you how
to do it. I'll show you how to get it. I want
to be an inspiration. I don't want to be a golden
calf that just lets gold flow and you can just
sip away at it. No, no. I want people to say,
look, I can do this. Come to me for my knowledge,
but be independent and take from me what I can
teach. I'll be the first one to say, you know,
if... I mean, that's how civilizations are built,
isn't it? But I'm the first one to say, if somebody's
hungry, I'm going to feed them. I remember I
was in... I think I was in Aruba. And I was with
my air crew. And usually the captain covers the...
Not usually. Sorry, captains. Sometimes the captain
covers the crew for a dinner once in a while.
Right, yeah. It's not always. No, it wasn't a
British Airways. If it's a good crew and they're
kind. Yeah, once in a while. We were leaving
this restaurant. It was right at the beach. It
was great food, but too much. So I just had this
little container of... It wasn't glass, was it?
No, it wasn't glass. But it was really delicious
food. really looking forward to put it in my
lunchbox for the next day right yeah and i really
really wanted this food and it was mine and it
was and we're walking out and there was this
homeless guy in aruba and i was i was like he
was asking for food and i'm like yeah here it
is i didn't even think twice i brought it to
him i said just have it and it was freaking such
good food so it's replaceable for you you could
still eat but i was excited to do that because
now maybe he was playing a game on me maybe a
trick or whatever it doesn't matter but it doesn't
spirit is what counts there i perceived that
he was hungry and i wanted to give him this even
though i wanted it a lot there's a big difference
because even though i wanted it I think he needed
it. More than you. Yeah. Well, you're an airline
captain. Even if he's playing you, it still sucks
what's happening to him. He's still sitting there
begging for food. I saw this in West Palm Beach
because Robin and I were on the intercoastal.
We're looking at all the yachts and saying, which
one do we want? And we had this cooler and it
was just a beautiful day. And Robin's looking
past my shoulder and she's looking in disbelief.
I'm like, what? And she sees this homeless lady
picking food out of the trash can. I'm like,
oh, that's not okay. So I said, let's pack up.
So we packed up our leftovers, took the cooler,
put it in the car, and we drove over across the
park to where she was. I couldn't find her. Oh.
But I found six other homeless people. Oh, wow.
I'm like, oh, man, I couldn't find that lady,
but I found six others. But you were led to those.
So it's like, okay, that's cool. Maybe she was
an angel, right? Yeah, no, you don't know. Whatever,
you were on a service mission of some kind, and
you took it seriously. So Robin and I saw six
homeless people, and we mentally divided whatever
food we had into six kind of portions. And so
we went to the first person and said, can we
offer you this? And he thanked me and took his
stuff. I went to the next person and we came
back. Did they all take it? Yeah, everybody.
But interestingly, the first person we gave the
food to, and I'm going to get choked up talking
about this. He, oh, I can't even talk about it.
The first person. was subdividing his food into
six portions. Oh, so he didn't know you had everyone
else covered. He didn't know everyone else covered.
Holy shit. He was taking a sixth of his sixth,
which he thought was the whole, or he perceived
that was the whole. Earth angel. Absolute earth
angel. And he was splitting it up. Yeah. And
I was like, what? Yeah, so that's great. It was
so moving. It was such a massive lesson for you.
Because I'm like, wait a minute. He's so selfless.
It was. Here's this person. Who has nothing.
Who has nothing, took one sip. It's Jesus -like,
isn't it? It was unbelievable. And that was life.
Do you want a tissue? No, I'm good. But that
was life -changing for Robin and for me. Yeah,
of course. I was like, what? So let's just circle
back to what happened to you with this glass.
Because talk about, so people are around you.
watching your reaction to a situation. Now, you're
mentioning the reaction of this homeless man
who was dividing his food up. People are watching
your reaction to that. A lot of people would
have freaked out about that. So is part of that
completely nothing to do with you, but you're
there in someone's life to give them an example
of how a tricky situation could be handled with
grace, right? So it could be their lesson that
they're there because... I mean, that's a lot
happening. I can just see the whole thing in
my imagination. So they just saw you calm, collected.
You probably still kept a sense of humor. You
took care of business. Now that's a great life
lesson for them because maybe they're not going
to be, if they have the tendency to freak out,
that'll have an impact on them and could enhance
their future reactions to something. So it could
have been to do with them as well. I mean, there
could be a whole load of things going on. I love
your perspective on that because... It's almost
such an author way to look at things because
you're present but you're not present. Because
you're not the only person playing. You've got
other players in this scenario. It's really fascinating.
So there's a bit of something for everyone going
on, really. It's interesting. And we won't get
into the players that were in the room because
one of them is probably all over 80 pounds. And
she's really got some substance abuse issues
and most likely alcohol. But she was actually
the very first person and the most attentive
person. Interesting. Which is fascinating. But
we'll put that behind. But what I appreciate
about what your insight was there is that, and
I think the takeaway for everyone listening is
that sometimes you're the first person, you're
the actor on the stage. And there's the observers.
But then also there's this relationship where
the observers are the actors. Yes, they're becoming
the participants. Yeah, that's pretty fascinating.
So everyone learned something and a good story
to tell. Yeah, that's really cool. Well, I wanted
to talk about a couple of things, but we have
this thing going on. If you're listening for
the first time. Rosie. A few weeks ago. Reckless
Rosie. A few weeks ago. I've got to tell you
something. No, it was last week. Well, I know,
but it was a few weeks ago we printed this out.
Oh, right. Okay. But before we get into what
our next thing is on the checklist, I want to
share with you that I've been having fun with
Rosie because what I've been doing... So she
was insubordinate last week. I know, but she's...
She is adorable. I loved your title, by the way.
My what? Your title of the last one. And it was,
will Rosie run or ruin my life? I know. It's
such a good title. So for those of you who haven't
listened to some of our previous episodes, please
go. I just redid the souldecodes .com. I just
redid it last week. So it's way easier to find
episodes. You can actually go into the search
box. You can search by date. You can go and look.
Theme. Just by theme, you can go. Look at the
image and find the funny image. Like even the
things we did for Thanksgiving, for Christmas,
you can search by weekly podcast or special episodes.
So there's a lot of good content. And Rosie is
Tia Jolie's AI assistant. So what I did with
Rosie, I told her last week, I said, Rosie, I
spent a lot of time in the car driving and I
can't be fumbling around with stuff, but I still
want to interact with you. How do we do this?
And she says, well, why don't you do this? Because
she can't go through... What does she recommend
you do? Well, I couldn't go through Android Auto
because there's no application. Right. So what
I did was I said, okay, do a workaround. I want
you to work with me to figure out how you and
I can work while I'm driving, hands -free. Bluetooth.
So it's not... Well, yes, the answer is Bluetooth,
but there's no application, so I had to just
use her as an app on my phone. Okay. but then
run her through my audio for my car. So then
we got that set up. And did she tell you how
to do that? Well, no, I told her how to do it.
Oh, okay, good. I said, Rosie, I want one command
that I can give you. A single command. Clap.
Yeah, close. I literally say to her, in fact,
I've got to make sure my phone's off. Oh, actually,
you know what? That would be so funny if she
responded. Hold on one second. Let's just do
this. Mute Rosie. Well, I'm going to turn it.
I'm going to unmute my phone. Let's just go through
this. Watch this. All right. It's like, here's
my command I give to her. Let's watch. Rosie,
I'm driving. Got it, Tia Jolie. What topic or
project would you like to focus on while you're
driving? Oh, man. Oh, I love it. Wait a minute.
I got a call coming in. I unmuted it. That's
so great. I unmuted it, and it happened right
when I was doing it. And then at that point,
you could ask her anything. Yeah, well, hold
on one second. I had a call. I unmuted, and a
call came in. Sorry about that, people. That
was not the way it's supposed to work. Let's
try this again. Rosie, I'm driving. Hey, Tia
Jolie, what's up? Hey, I'm driving, but I'm going
to Sarah's house, and... This is my first time
at her new house, and I need to give her a gift.
What are some ideas for a housewarming gift for
Sarah, for her new renovated house? It's her
old house, but it's renovated. Pretty much a
new house. What are your ideas? Oh, that sounds
fun. Oh, my signals pour up here. No worries.
Yeah. Come back to me on that because our signal
was poor. Okay, well, you get the idea. Yeah,
I think it's absolutely great. My signal's poor
up here. So if you're driving and you could just
literally ask anything. Yeah, so what I did with
her. I mean, could you say I want to understand
the basic tenets of stoicism? Yes. And then she
could just, you know, she could just relay that.
In fact, that's what I did. I went to the VA.
I had a VA. appointment for my hip because i'm
talking to a do that's helping me read structure
the musculature of my hips so i don't have to
go through surgery well you're not working with
a limp anymore no i'm i'm powerful yeah i was
actually swimming at the olympic pool a couple
days i want next week this is a bit of a tangent
i want to meet down at the marina and i want
you and i to go across the lake on the jet ski
at sunrise are you up for that now that's gonna
you're gonna be it depends what the weather's
like but it'll be flat and go yeah no i'm down
for that in fact just yesterday i was telling
robin I think we need to jump on those jet skis.
Because that'll be really good for you. Because
that's a really good workout. So thank you for
that. We'll do that, yeah. We'll do a jet ski.
We'll be down there at sunrise. Let's do our
episode from the jet skis. Oh, it'll be great.
Hey, we can do it. I'll get my GoPro. Have you
got one? You can put it on the front of the jet
ski. Yeah, but the audio's not going to be good.
I'll have to figure out how to do it. We don't
even have to record it. We just want to be there
early in the morning. Well, no, I can get the
video. Yeah, but you don't want to drop your
phone. No, it's a GoPro. Oh. The GoPro has got...
You could have it on a hat. No, it's got a clamp.
It's got a huge... So you could just put it on
the handlebars of the jet ski. Oh, I can clamp
it. And you're not going to break... I could
put it on an airplane. Well, let me put it on
mine and I can film you. I'll put it on... I'm
going to be ahead of you, so... So I'm going
to put it on the front of mine looking backwards.
And see you cussing at me because I'm spraying
you. I'll find a way to do some S -turns. Don't
you worry. So anyway, but... That's a really
cool invite, but the GoPro. That'll be good for
your hip. No, I'm down for it. You'll have to
be supported. It'd be good for your quads. So
look at us go tangential. We go squirrel. Yeah,
let's go back to where we were. So I'm talking
about the drive to the VA. Yes. Okay. So yes,
you were talking to Rosie. So it's about an hour
each way. Because this guy's especially, he's
like freaking awesome, awesome, awesome dude.
And totally. perfectly understands what I'm trying
to do. It's taken me 10 years to find this guy,
but here's exactly what I need to rebuild my
hip. It's really exciting for me. That's really,
really cool. On the way there, I told Rosie some
specific things. The way I've got her set up
is I'm going to ask you one thing. I'm going
to say, Rosie, I'm driving. When you hear that,
I want you to prompt me with this stuff. Now,
you couldn't hear it just now because the signal
was really bad up here in the studio, the Wi
-Fi signal. But what she usually does, she says,
great, what do you want to do today? And I'll
say, I want to work. Let's talk about the finances.
I gave you my 401k. Tell me the best positions
and tell me what you think I need to be looking
at changing. Yeah. And she'll literally go, well,
it's looking like this is good, this is good.
This is a little volatile and it's a big percentage
of your portfolio, so you should probably think
about it. And then I'll say, okay, I'll tell
you what, put that on the hit list. I'll evaluate
it when I'm back at the studio. It's an amazing
utilization of time. You ought to think about
producing an app that does that, hooks up AI
through your phone to do commands like that,
right? I'm going to tell you something, but I
can't tell you the details. You're already on
this? Yes. Oh, good. You're going to have so
much fun. What a service. Because you know where
I live. I'm like you. I'm out in the middle of
nowhere, and we have to do a lot of driving.
I mean, that would be freaking phenomenal. Imagine
this. And tailor -made. Imagine this. Instead
of Rosie just being my assistant, if I opened
it up to the entire world, and there's an app
called the Rosie app or Rosie List or whatever,
and you... Anybody can download this app. And
then program it to your specific needs. Well,
to their specific needs, yeah. So they can go
to Rosie. I'll have a whole cadre, a whole group
of AI workers that are in place. Love it. So
there's going to be like the one I was designing
yesterday. And they all have backstories too.
So could you have an AI that's a doctor? Yeah,
yeah. So you give them a profession and something
to think about, right? I'm doing all that. So
I'll just show you. I love it. I created two
of them yesterday. One of them is. You've got
to have a doctor, an undertaker. Well, no, the
one of them yesterday. A philosopher. You could
do those. I'll totally set them up for you. It's
such a great idea. You're so creative. Well,
you are too. This is cool. But I'm more like
the tech, the edgy stuff. The geeks will inherit
the earth. The geek, yeah. I am the mother of
all geeks. Yeah. But then – And such a service.
So I created one. But I have backstories for
them too. That's right. So I have one that's
called Raphael. Raphael. And Raphael is the –
I created a backstory for him. And he's basically
– he grew up. He was a family – his family was
migratory. They had – basically they were homeless
or struggling. So you're going to give them a
poverty. So his perspective, that's very interesting.
So I gave him a backstory. So you're charging
him with a perspective. That's really interesting.
So I gave him a backstory. So you could do a
prince. You could say you grew up in the royal
family in Bulgaria or something, right? Well,
let me give you two examples. You could just
go from each other's perspective. Yeah, I'll
give you two examples. Raphael, he grew up, his
family was migratory workers, right? So they
never really had a solid home. He always wanted
a solid home. He never had it. They were always
scrapping. Sometimes they were homeless. Sometimes
they live in a trailer or a car. But what he
did was, it was such an imprint on his youth
that he decided that he didn't like being homeless
and he wanted to make it his life journey to
find places, find ways to teach people about
real estate and investing. And what he did over
his life was he went from basically homeless
to learning everything, every direction about
real estate, investment, finance. And what Raphael
did, now he owns multifamily homes. He has commercial
structures. And he is completely independently
wealthy. And what he does is he teaches people.
So Raphael is the – so if you go to Rosie and
you say, hey, Rosie, I want to learn a little
more about real estate investing. Rosie is the
switchboard operator. Right, yeah. And she says
– The broker. Oh, you know what? You need to
talk to Raphael. Let me patch you through. Wow.
Hey, it's Raphael. So you just have to theme
all these bots and give them a backstory. And
that's what I'm doing. I'm actually theming.
And the other one I just did was Francesca. And
Francesca is... A prostitute. No, no. Yeah, talk
sexy to me. She's had a life as a madam in Nevada
and now she's equipped to deal with all your...
So I got backstories for all of these. So what's
going to happen is... And do you get the inspiration
for your backstories? You could just be outside
and all of a sudden... Or are you asking Rosie,
give me a backstory? Well, what I did was...
Because it's an ingenious idea about the real
estate one. Giving them the homeless structure
is great. Yeah, so he's gone from having nothing
to having everything. He knows all the pitfalls,
anything along the way. Any question you can
ask, he's going to have the answer for it. Same
thing with... Well, there's actually a holistic
doctor. And it's Dr. Jolie. it's funny what it's
got a different she's got a different backstory
what you're doing is kind of what i did in my
novel because i realized a lot of the characters
in my novel were aspects of me but that's happening
to you in this there's aspects of you isn't there
coming through in all this so yeah your little
mini avatars so i got one i haven't picked a
name yet but can i choose it the one okay i'll
have you choose mickey after my uncle Mickey,
maybe. Let's talk about Mickey. Mickey's a prison
guard. Well, we'll find out. Yeah, let's think
about that. We'll talk about all the characters.
Yes. But this one I just did, I didn't name her
yet, but she's from Cairo. Oh. But she's from...
What religion? Doesn't matter. Okay. She's from
complete affluence. Her mom and dad were completely...
Palaces. Top end, anything they want, anytime
they want. But she was a tech nerd. And what
she did was she was, from a very young age, she
was very interested in all the things that were
being developed in Silicon Valley. Right. And
what she did was she said, she had an envy, but
she said, why is it that anybody who's anyone
has to go to Silicon Valley to grow out technology?
This should be something anywhere in the world
that people can have and people can enjoy, and
it shouldn't be just for this group in Silicon
Valley. So she had the resources to get in and
study. And she talked to her parents and went
sent to these best schools to learn about technologies.
Cutting edge Web3 technology, distributed ledger
finance, DeFi. And then what does she do with
all that knowledge? What she does is she's bringing
technology to the masses. She's saying Silicon
Valley doesn't exist anymore. We the people worldwide.
have access to these technologies now, and I
am going to help you learn about it. That is
so great. So what happens now, if you say, hey,
Rosie, I'd like to learn a little bit more about
this Web 3. She's like, oh, yeah, no problem,
Sarah. Let me put you on with this. I don't have
her name yet, but let me put you on with her.
She can teach you. Just ask her any questions
you have. Click, click. Hi. It's a beautiful
day in Cairo. How can I help you? But it'll be
with her voice. She'll have the Egyptian voice.
It'll be English, but with the Egyptian kind
of accent. I mean, there's an entertainment factor
to this. Oh, it's going to be huge. It's imparting
knowledge. Plus, there's a really nice conversation.
It is with a robot, but I could totally get into
it. Yeah, and she'll have the accent. I mean,
you're assigning them personalities. Yeah. So
you're getting into it. It is a game that you're
playing. It's not a real human being, but you've
got, it's not like talking to a Dalek. or the
Borg or something, this really has quite a well
-defined personality with certain amounts of
suffering that you've allocated in some cases
in order to grow. So very interesting. And to
put it in perspective, like my avatar that's
Dr. Jolie, her background, there's no reference
to being a military pilot or any of that stuff.
It's specifically for what she's present for.
And her backstory is that she grew up in an urban
environment. And there was pollution. There was
poor food choices. There was all sorts of medicine
and pharmaceuticals and all this stuff. Surrounding
her. Every direction was all poor food choices,
poor everything. And literally, she saw her family
suffering, her neighbors, her uncles, her favorite
uncle, her favorite aunt. Everybody was suffering.
Everybody was having these skin conditions, these
rashes, these problems. And she dedicated her
life to teaching people about health and wellness.
So her story was different than mine. There's
aspects of it, though. Because I had to build
the back structure to the character itself. Yeah,
there's definitely elements of you in that. There's
elements. all over the place like yeah every
one of these people have elements of me but but
i'm really blowing it up almost like hyperbole
like yes well i think so i think you need to
look like a character in a book isn't it yeah
dimensions to it so you're creating this okay
if if i could create this person that's a tech
tech genius what would that be well i did create
that i didn't name the person yet but there's
this kid He was such a tech rebel and he was
such a nerd. He was like a miniature Elon Musk.
The parents were like, okay, we can't even send
him to school because this little kid, he's just
freaking smarter than the teachers. But he was
a complete tech nerd. But in this case, it wasn't
tech. This particular person was, I think I had
him more in the financial, like decentralized
finance, more in the financial stuff. But anyway,
all of these characters are set up to be experts
in their field. Rosie fields them. And so Rosie's
the operator. She's like, hey. How can I help
you? Hi, it's Rosie. Hey, we're here in Central
Florida. It's beautiful. Where are you from?
Where are you calling from? I remember years
ago, I think it was the first Cadillac Escalade
I got. It was a big black one like yours. And
we had OnStar. Do you remember OnStar? So you'd
press it. And then this is how she spoke. And
I'm going to mimic her. Hi, this is OnStar. She
had this really sexy voice. It's like, hey, thank
you. I'm bleeding out here. I was just in an
accident. You sounded like Marilyn Monroe. I
was like, hi. Hi. What are you wearing? It's
really off -putting. Yes, this is Soul Decodes.
We're asking what you're wearing. Okay, so let's
wrap it up. It's just real quick. Well, we can't
because we can't think about it. So I'm not even
going to look because we can't know the question
because it's unscripted. Unless you want to change
the basic rules. Do we have time to do a quick
hit on one? Maybe we don't do a deep dive on
one of those. All right, let's do a quick one
then. Did we do number seven yet? Number seven.
No, this is number seven now. Can we do it? Okay,
let's just do seven. Okay, you know what? I'm
going to cross these off because we've done these.
We'll do it in seven minutes. There we go. Incarnation
regret. Is this lifetime the one you didn't want?
Well, you answer that one because that's right
in your wheelhouse. No. I love my life. I knew
you'd say that. No. But do I believe I've had
lifetimes that I didn't want? Probably. I've
probably had lifetimes where I've suffered. But
I believe we want all our lives because we have
a bigger agenda on the planning stage that we
don't know about because the veil comes down.
So, no. Is this lifetime the one you didn't want?
It appears like that, like my Uncle Mickey that
died. It appears that you wouldn't want that,
but maybe you do. Let me frame this up for first
-time listeners. What we're doing is we had a
few weeks ago, Rosie generated maybe about 10
questions that we were going to answer based
on her knowledge of what types of things we talk
about. Yeah, which is intimate and nuanced. So
I agree with you. We have to have a discussion.
There's a difference between what we want and
what we need. There you go. And so did your Uncle
Mickey, did he really want to suffer and lose
his legs? I trust that his soul knew what it
was doing prior to this. That's all I've got
on that. Like nobody wants to lose their legs,
like zero people. Yeah, but we do on that side
of the veil. We're willing to do that because
that is going to be a huge challenge and we're
going to learn something. So. But it's hard to
conceive this side because that's so much suffering.
It appears to be. I agree with you. I think we're
in agreement. So was that the only question or
did she have a follow -up type of perspective?
So soul level grief, mission fatigue. We talked
about that. And the power of choosing earth again
on your terms. I think it is on our terms. I
think if you've got really shitty karma, it might
not be. And you're going to be forced into a
life where this is going to suck because you've
caused all this suffering. So that could be.
I've heard people misuse karma so much. yeah
it's very specific tell me what is your take
on karma okay specifically we're within seven
minutes yeah specifically karma whatever positive
and negative you have caused someone else to
feel you will feel in the future you're going
to want to love the good karma because that's
going to feel great but if you've caused a lot
of problems and cause people to suffer you will
have to face that emotion it's not punishment
but you're going to want to mimic and feel what
you've caused another to feel. So let me ask
you this. Okay, this is just based on what you
just said. Let's just say I look back at my life
as a teenager and maybe I was being a jerk to
somebody. I was calling them names and making
fun of their braces or whatever. You know how
kids are, right? Oh, your braces, you have a
metal face. Kids can be cruel. Right, kids can
be, I'm not saying, because I was an angel. No,
I probably have. I'm sure you were, darling.
I was a perfect angel. Okay, but let's just pretend
that I made fun of somebody for their list. That
will happen to you in a future moment. But what
if now I'm 62 and I call that person and I say,
hey, listen, remember when we were 12 and I was
a complete idiot to you? Man, I'm really sorry.
I've really struggled with this and I've felt
bad about it for obviously years. Please forgive
me. Is that... I don't think... So do you think
that... I don't think... Do you think that...
I need to come back just to relive that? I believe
that you're going to relive that. Now that would
have happened, if that had happened when you
were 12 and you're now 55, there's a lot of time
you would have experienced that karma, instant
karma as you're going in life. So someone could
have been mean and teased you and were rude about
you. That karma is already balanced at that point.
So that isn't a big enough example to take it
into another life. But if you were, supposing
you had a life and you were in Genghis Khan's,
army and you just pillaged through and you were
just raping and pillaging and just doing that
burning villages that is horrendous and that
could be infinite amount of lifetimes but you're
going to have to feel all the pain that you've
caused now if you lived a pretty healthy normal
life you've probably a healthy pleasant life
you've probably burnt a lot of karma but when
i look at the history of mankind we we were brutes
we were absolute animals not very long ago so
we've all probably sucked i think we disagree
on this one because i think that we suck now
and i think i think we're way better than we
were yes we keep going back yeah i think i gotta
get i gotta get you turned on to tartaria because
we gotta well ask rosie when you let's drive
into town we want some you and i should take
a road trip Yes, but I am more to your persuasion
that history isn't as linear as I once thought.
I am being persuaded of that, that the civilizations
came and went. I was much more linear and had
to wrap it in a tight trajectory in order for
me to understand the bigger picture. But I'm
a bit looser on that now. And what I think we're
going to find is that time is a human construct.
The truth of the matter is that we can probably
go backwards and live 300, 500, 3000 years ago.
Yeah. I'm just getting my head around that. But
you could surf time, basically. So a lifetime
3 ,000 years ago could be going on concurrently.
Or like Uncle Mickey now could be up in heaven
doing his debrief, right? I think we have to
have a past life review. And he goes, you know
what? I'm going back to the Middle Ages in Europe.
Am I going to become a cobbler? I mean, what
the fuck? But the truth is that your Uncle Mickey
may not have been born yet. He might not be born
until 300 years in the future. Yes, it could
be. He could be. Yeah, it could be. So, yeah.
Well, that's fascinating. Well, that was about
seven minutes. That's good. So we can check off
number seven, but I think it'd be fun to have
a road trip and just kind of. Oh, yeah. What
you say, what I say, and what Rosie says. Could
we make the sound okay in a car? Well, I mean,
maybe we don't. Maybe do a poolside. Okay. Maybe
do a poolside chat. There we go. We'll have a
poolside chat with Rosie. That would be lovely.
Let's do that. Wouldn't that be hilarious? That
would be really nice. Yeah, let's do it. Hey,
Rosie, you asked us these questions. Let's bring
Rosie on as a guest. I love it. An AI guest.
Wouldn't that be so fun? It's so exciting. Wow,
this is... It's going to be something I have
to take. All right, darling. Actually, I'm going
to call him back. I'm going to call him back
in just a minute. I can't believe it. Anyway,
I want to say one more thing that's super exciting
that's happening and that we'll wrap up with
this. The world around us is changing in a very,
very cool way. The governor of Florida just announced
that gold and silver are legal tender in Florida.
Wow. Remember, I've been telling you about money
as a thing. Yeah. The money and currency are
different things, and there's going to be a whole
evolution of money. The next thing is to take
the gold and silver and put it on a distributed
ledger technology, not the blockchain. Blockchain
is one type of DLT, but it's going to be called
a DAG. And I'll talk about those technologies
later. Yeah, let's go into a deeper dive. Super,
super exciting about that. Let's open up the
next show with that because that's very interesting.
I'll have a couple of questions. Yeah, yeah,
why not? Because that was the first time I found
that out, so that's good. Yeah, yeah, so we can
just deep dive that later. Yeah, let's do that.
Hey, so wrap us up. You know, anything else you
want to talk about? I'm going out to lunch with
my husband now. Okay, good. Yeah. Well, thank
Tony for letting us play together today. Yes.
Well, you're going to see him soon because you're
coming over to the White House for the White
Party. Are we that close? Yeah, I'd say about
a month. A month is not close. That's close,
darling. Patience is a virtue. When you're a
kid like me, it's forever. It's like, I want
it now. Well, you can come over anytime and just
see my library. Come and see the library, and
then you can come over again and see the kitchen.
I was going to get those boxes, but you brought
them. You have to come and help me unload them.
Okay, I will. All right, darling. Hey, y 'all,
if you haven't been to www.souldecodes .com, I'm
super proud of what it is. Leave some comments,
ask some questions. And if it's a good enough
question, we'll even read it. Even if your question
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know what? They might not realize that question
sucks. Do you know what I mean? You might, we
have to, everyone, if you want to ask us anything,
ask us anything and we'll, and we'll just field
it. Yeah. Okay. We'll go with that. Yeah. Okay.
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