1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:08,000 This episode of Soul Decodes is pre-recorded, but Sarah and Tia Jolie felt it compelling enough to share with you today. We hope you agree. 2 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:54,000 Welcome to Soul Decodes. Join us as we wander off the path to find the ideas that fascinate. We talk about spirituality, the mind, the ego, wellness and hidden history with tips, travels and 3 00:00:54,000 --> 00:01:04,000 tales. Charms for a better life. 4 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:26,000 Hello everybody and welcome. My name is Dr. Tia Jolie Phillips and I want to welcome my special co-hostess, Sarah Tirri. She's a notable writer, philosopher and more than anything a thinker. 5 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:41,000 But I have to do one thing before we get started today. I have to congratulate you on surviving the eclipse. I know, didn't I do well? So people are buzzing, still talking about different things, but let's just go ahead. 6 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:57,000 You assign whatever meaning you need to assign to it and if you do make sure it's a positive one. But this is your show, we got sidetracked last week. I'm glad we did because I always love where we take these different. 7 00:01:57,000 --> 00:02:19,000 Oh, the tangents are what's important. That's one thing we are is tangential. There's too much to cover, isn't there? But it's fun, you know, just a little bit of randomness that hurts. So kind of keeps things interesting. But I do know there were certain things that you wanted to get to. And of course, it's your show. So I just want to tee it up for you and just say, you know, where do you want to take us today? 8 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:41,000 So, in recent podcasts, we've talked about waking up, that we have to wake up to what reality is. So I'd like to talk about my encounter with that. Okay. So I'll go right back to the beginning. So I built a house out here in Florida, I had three children, I had a three year old, a five year old and a seven year old. 9 00:02:41,000 --> 00:03:10,000 And had a lovely house, lovely car, beautiful marriage, Prince charming, my husband back then and he still is. And I couldn't understand why I was experiencing, I guess what was a low grade depression, I couldn't understand why I wasn't happy because I had everything that I was told that would make one happy, which would be security, money, beautiful house, car, family, happy marriage, I had everything. 10 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:36,000 And I realized I wasn't happy. So it was in August of 2000. And I knelt next to my bed and I prayed and it was kind of, I kind of got in God's face a bit but I said, you got to tell me something here because I'm not getting it. Tell me something I don't understand why is it that I'm not happy. So when you pray like that, you're going to get an answer. Ask and thou shall receive baby. 11 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:59,000 You better be ready for this. So I'd, my children had gone to school and I walked back into my house through my back door and I was walking through my living room and I still remember the tile that I was standing on. And I basically got what I could describe as a download. That's, I mean, computers weren't a big thing back then but that's what the terminology would be now. 12 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:13,000 And I heard in my head, this clarion is clarity and it wasn't me. It was my it sounded they sounded like it was my voice but it wasn't it was a it was a different it had come from somewhere else. 13 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:39,000 And it said two things and it was this is not about you Sarah. This is about God and you're going to be a very successful author one day and the emphasis was on the very they were the words but it was very successful. So basically I kind of went into a six week holding my shit together but spiraling a little bit because at that point I knew what my future was going to look like. 14 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:56,000 And it was it was mapped out for me I was 33. And once I accepted that I knew what was happening to me. I started writing, and I wrote for children, I told you I think in the previous podcast about Travis for 10s and how that came about. 15 00:04:56,000 --> 00:05:12,000 And then I got a call. It was from my brother to say that my mother was sick. And I write about that in the beginning of his is the best God could do and I won't go into it now because it's pretty depressing so be warned it's very depressing but it's supposed to be because it was it was, you know, 16 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:26,000 just horrendous. And my mother died. And that was about what that was in said about eight months after praying to God, show me something, because I need to know something because I'm not happy my mother died. 17 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:45,000 And my mother features quite a lot in what I write about she was in the star side prophecy, but my mother dying propelled me into the quest that I have still today of gathering knowledge. So I devoured every book, I could get my hands on, which pertain to the nature of this reality, 18 00:05:45,000 --> 00:06:03,000 God, spirit, religion. And I wanted to find out what heaven was, and what the soul was because my mother wasn't a believer. And according to a lot of Christians I'd come into contact with if she didn't believe that Jesus Christ was her Lord and Savior, she was going to hell. 19 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:16,000 And I believed that for a while until I woke up and I woke up and, and it was like, God is not going to do that whoever is his benevolent loving creator is not sending your mom to hell. 20 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:32,000 But it took me three months and it was 911 I think we talked about that in our last episode. It was around the time of 911 that I realized that I didn't have a frame of reference to what reality was with the God of Magnificence a frame of reference was around this 21 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:49,000 very, very angry God, who was capable of damning my mother. And that's when I woke up. And that's when I started writing Is this the best God could do and it's basically a polemic that dissects the, the tenants of believing that God is separate from his creations. 22 00:06:49,000 --> 00:07:04,000 And I just wanted to talk to you and let our listeners know that was my awakening story. So, there's a second part to this so this reality that I'm creating which is writing perfecting my craft and wanting to become a successful author is still ongoing. 23 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:12,000 And although I had my future I could see in Christian terminology that would be prophesied to me it was in my head. 24 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:25,000 And I understood a few years ago, this is not going to be handed to you, Sarah. And then I also understood that I have to calibrate the right vibration to intersect with the reality that is already in the quantum grid. 25 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:38,000 And that's what I write about in the mirror world. So, even though you have a very big idea of what your future is, you have to keep your vibration and your vision aligned in order for that to manifest. 26 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:49,000 And that was my latest book the mirror world which I actually wrote to myself, I dedicate that to myself because I had to sharpen up my mental thought processes and my thought life. 27 00:07:49,000 --> 00:08:02,000 And I'm still manifesting what I was told back when I was 33. So here I am today, manifesting but that was that was the initial part of this journey that's what propelled me to you're doing a great job with it. 28 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:13,000 There's so few people that I've met in my lifetime that manifest more than you do. I mean you're really getting it, you're catching your stride here. 29 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:23,000 But you know, and I've had people throughout my life say, you know, they've looked at my biography and they're like, how, how did you do all that? It's like, what are you talking about? 30 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:33,000 And because like a lot of people they'll look at their day and they'll say, oh, I can't do that because tomorrow I have something going on. It's like, but that something is only two hours. 31 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:43,000 That's right. But it's like, you know, you've got like another 16 hours or something like that. You got this huge. Tony says that there's 16 hours in a day. What do you choose to do with it? 32 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:53,000 I love that. I was already in Claremont this morning. I did four errands this morning before coming back to my house and then coming here. I mean, it's. 33 00:08:53,000 --> 00:09:00,000 Sure. Yeah, no, I get it. And so, first of all, thank you for sharing all that with me. 34 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:09,000 You know, I'm just going to ask this question, you know, the higher that this this voice that you heard that was your voice, but it was very crystal clear. It was the Holy Spirit. 35 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:14,000 So, but it was my higher self. I was going to ask you. Well, it always leads to the same thing. 36 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:24,000 It's God, the Holy Spirit, your higher self, the source. It is a voice which is distinct from the ego mind thinking thoughts that you have. 37 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:33,000 It was a different reality entirely. And that's why people learn to meditate. They want to get back to awareness so you can actually hear those voices. 38 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:41,000 And you say, well, what voice is this? You know, then people thought that's Sarah. You're just hearing voices. No, that was my higher self. 39 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:53,000 It could have been an angel. It could have been a spirit guide. Christianity would say it's the Holy Spirit, the Comforter, whatever that was, was not of me, my personality, Sarah, of my thinking mind. 40 00:09:53,000 --> 00:10:00,000 This was from elsewhere, something a part of me, but distinctive from my everyday thinking. 41 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:10,000 That's lovely. So taking this apart, just what you laid out for me just in the past few minutes, what does it really, what does that mean? 42 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:17,000 How does that translate to the average person out there in terms of their daily lives? 43 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:26,000 Well, your daily life is generally mundane. There's a lot of boring shit to take care of, just putting gas in the car, shopping and just keeping yourself going, showering, doing your shopping and all the rest of it. 44 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:37,000 But it's very, very important to have a big dream. Now, I was very, very fortunate when I heard this inner guidance that came when I was 33, my future was laid out for me. 45 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:44,000 So I knew that I had to perfect my craft of writing because you can't be a successful author, pretty much not. 46 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:49,000 And then have a best seller. You've got to be kind of good at what you do in order to be successful. 47 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:58,000 So I had to practice my craft. So I would say to anyone listening, do what I did and pray to ask God what you're not getting here. 48 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:06,000 Why aren't you happy? And it's likely that you don't know what your purpose is and you don't have a grand enough vision for your life and you've lost control of your thinking mind. 49 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:10,000 So your vibrations low. So start with prayer. 50 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:21,000 So there's this kind of a different, there's different trains of thought revolving around this idea of who God is in our relationship with God. 51 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:24,000 You know, there's the good God, there's the bad God. There's bad God. 52 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:30,000 There's all of it. But there are people out there who feel like there's the hellfire, the brimstone and all that. 53 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:37,000 But at the same time, you know, you're having this conversation with God and you're asking God. 54 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:46,000 But on the other hand, there's this group of people that say you pretty much dictate to the universe, the one, the infinite, what you want to accomplish. 55 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:51,000 How do you find the balance between, you know, asking for something or begging or beseeching? 56 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:55,000 You don't have to ask. It's already in the quantum matrix. It's already there. 57 00:11:55,000 --> 00:12:00,000 God knows the beginning, the middle and the end. So we're living in a matrix of source like a hologram. 58 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:05,000 And we're born into life cycles and we're here to manifest our reality. 59 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:12,000 When I understood at least conceptually and intellectually what that meant, I was able to implement that in my thoughts. 60 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:19,000 So I don't ask for things. So when you I don't buy ask for wisdom and knowledge, those two things. 61 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:23,000 And then but they're already in my subconscious. I've lived for thousands of lives. 62 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:29,000 I already have this database within me, which is probably where my high self connected me with with me when I was 33. 63 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:35,000 So I don't ask for things. I just create what I want in my mind as a load of visual images. 64 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:42,000 And then I decree it. It is done. And then you hold the vibration and put in the necessary work to get that with me. 65 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:48,000 It's writing and publishing. That is what I'm doing with my life. Whatever that looks like for the listener. 66 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:54,000 But you can ask through prayer, show me what I'm born to do. That's why prayer is very significant. 67 00:12:54,000 --> 00:13:01,000 That's totally fair. And you said something very important because like you're putting in you're putting the vision in place for yourself. 68 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:05,000 You're you're kind of dictating to yourself where you're going to go. 69 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:10,000 And they say, you know, a man without vision will perish. Well, that's what it's like. 70 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:12,000 If you're not going for something, you're going to decay. 71 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:16,000 And I think people have very, very small ideas about what reality can do. 72 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:20,000 What if reality can bend to whatever you your mind is projecting? 73 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:25,000 That's what I want to get out there. And that's what I wrote the Mirror World for to get people to understand. 74 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:31,000 You're way more powerful than you think you are or you've been led to believe. 75 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:36,000 So where do we draw the line in terms of like this this relationship with God? 76 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:46,000 Is there this one God that's kind of immutable, like there's this God likeness or image, this this force? 77 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:50,000 And is your like is your relationship different than my relationship with that God? 78 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:53,000 I don't have a relationship to another God other than myself. 79 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:57,000 And I have to explain that. OK, yeah, I was going to say what I'm getting at. 80 00:13:57,000 --> 00:14:05,000 And this is a very important distinction because like for me, when I'm coaching my people, when somebody comes in and they're, you know, hi, my name is Kathy. 81 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:08,000 I lose this weight off my butt and all this, you know, whatever they have to do. 82 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:10,000 What I do. Hi, Kathy. 83 00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:12,000 You're so silly. 84 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:17,000 It was hypothetical. I don't know. I'm just teasing. I do not have a client. 85 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:22,000 Catherine. So but, you know, I always some do not always. 86 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:25,000 But I oftentimes hear people comparing themselves to other people. 87 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:37,000 And I find I I discourage that because whenever like if I'm going to compare myself to somebody else, we almost always take our worst against their best. 88 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:42,000 Like the thing I feel the worst about with myself, I take that and compare it against somebody else's past. 89 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:46,000 Yes, that's the path. Yeah. It's not fair to either. 90 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:48,000 It's not fair to that person or to you. 91 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:56,000 And I say this because when I was growing up, my family was my siblings were always struggling for everything. 92 00:14:56,000 --> 00:15:02,000 It's just the opposite of your world. Like I marvel at how you and I have come to agree on so many things. 93 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:08,000 Not everything, but, you know, we come to terms on so many things from such diverse, different backgrounds. 94 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:11,000 My family was pretty broke. I'll be honest with you. 95 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:16,000 Like we we had our basics. We had what we needed. But there was no extra. 96 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:24,000 We didn't travel. We didn't do anything like our traveling was like maybe driving to northern Michigan for a weekend. 97 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:28,000 I mean, that was it. And so we've come to the same place from different angles. 98 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:33,000 But my myself and my siblings, we're we turned out to be very competitive. 99 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:39,000 We're always like if we're going to get something, it's going to be because we scrapped for it. 100 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:45,000 Do you think competitiveness in the context that you're talking about is synonymous with being ambitious? 101 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:57,000 Well, this is a good question because and this kind of goes towards what I'm this is kind of what goes towards what I was going to say is my 102 00:15:57,000 --> 00:16:02,000 my teaching to my people is that you should only compete against your future best self. 103 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:05,000 I'd love that you you should be against your future best self. 104 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:13,000 Don't compete because when you say the difference between competition and ambition is competition means there's one trophy. 105 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:16,000 Only one of us is going to get it. It's a zero sum game. 106 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:20,000 If I win, Sarah loses. If Sarah wins, Tia Jolie loses. 107 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:23,000 That's a competition. Yeah. Someone screwed and someone wins. 108 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:29,000 So but ambition is you versus you. Yeah. Your ambition says Tia Jolie is a little girl. 109 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:33,000 She's going to fly airplanes one day. That's my ambition. 110 00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:38,000 So it's not me versus some to some degree it is because there's only so many. 111 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:43,000 I think as a child when you're competing with your siblings, though, there would be because you're seeing it. 112 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:45,000 There's a prize and I want it. 113 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:51,000 But I think you have to have an ambitious nature in order to be inherently competitive. 114 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:56,000 I'm a very, very ambitious person. The vision I have for my life would blow your mind. 115 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:59,000 And I'm a Capricorn. Try me. 116 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:04,000 But a Capricorn. I don't know too much about astrology. I don't focus on that too much. 117 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:08,000 But very ambitious, apparently Capricorns. My ambition is to fly your airplanes. 118 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:12,000 Oh, that would be nice. OK. So OK. 119 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:16,000 But what I'm saying is like, you know, competition could be like me versus my best self. 120 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:22,000 So do you see as competition as negative completely because there's someone that loses? 121 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:26,000 Well, no, I mean, to me. Well, let me just give you a quick story. 122 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:32,000 So my oldest son, his name is Timmy. And 16 months later, we had Johnny. 123 00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:36,000 So they grew up 16 months apart. They are very, very different. 124 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:42,000 My oldest son, Tim, he's the Bible thumper. He quotes scriptures, the whole thing, you know. 125 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:47,000 My son, John, lives in Austin, Texas, and he's going to go smoke a joint when he wants. 126 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:50,000 Go listen to some rock music and have a beer or whatever. 127 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:54,000 He's just going to be very, very different, both adorable, both lovable. 128 00:17:54,000 --> 00:18:02,000 But we played games growing up. We played battleship and cards and, you know, 129 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:07,000 just the things that we play with the kids, you know, board games, things like that. 130 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:12,000 Well, I taught my boys to play chess. And during the course of playing chess, 131 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:18,000 if you're the if you're, you know, 33 years old and you're playing your eight year old or whatever, 132 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:21,000 you know, you're you're going to beat them every time. 133 00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:26,000 So what I would do is I would artificially. 134 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:28,000 Well, I won't give you the punch line yet. 135 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:34,000 My my son, Tim, who's the older one, got frustrated one day 136 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:39,000 because my son, Johnny, was so good at chess that he actually beat me once. 137 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:45,000 And so Tim was angry with me because he thought because I've always taught, don't lie, don't cheat, don't steal. 138 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:50,000 And he felt like I threw the game to Johnny to make him feel better. 139 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:54,000 So I told I said, Tim, well, what do you what's your definition of winning? 140 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:57,000 And he says, well, it's a it's a game of chess. 141 00:18:57,000 --> 00:19:01,000 You know, whoever's got the king at the end of the game wins the game. 142 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:06,000 I said, well, that's you defining winning according to the chess game. 143 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:16,000 As a parent teaching a child what is winning, winning is starting a game, being competitive and doing your best. 144 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:18,000 That's right. Not who's got the king standing. 145 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:20,000 So he says, well, I don't understand. 146 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:23,000 He says, you did. And it looked to me. 147 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:27,000 He's very he's an intense person and I love him. I love him. 148 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:32,000 And he says, he says, yeah, but, you know, there's no way Johnny can beat you. 149 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:39,000 I said, well, Tim, my win has nothing to do with this chess game. 150 00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:45,000 My win has to do with Johnny's confidence in being able to compete and win. 151 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:51,000 So what I did was I let him take as much time with his moves as he wanted. 152 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:55,000 He could take five minutes per move. Doesn't matter. 153 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:58,000 I forced myself to move after he moved. 154 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:02,000 I forced myself to move within. I gave myself five seconds to move. 155 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:08,000 So I created a handicap for myself that I had to move within five seconds. Level the playing field. 156 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:14,000 And I leveled it. I said, so Tim, put yourself in my spot as a parent. 157 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:21,000 Do you think I was dishonorable for creating a handicap and leveling the field for Johnny? 158 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:24,000 And he capitulated. He stipulated. He says, no, I get it now. 159 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:28,000 I said, do you think I threw the game? He said, no, he says he gets it. 160 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:32,000 So I think that defining what winning is is different. 161 00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:39,000 And so if there's a zero sum game, it's because you're all competing on the same frame of reference. 162 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:45,000 Like the 2020. And we think there's one prize with chess, the prizes, whoever has the king in life. 163 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:50,000 There is the prizes for everyone. Everyone can have, apart from your karma. 164 00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:52,000 So karma is something that comes into us in this life. 165 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:57,000 A lot of people I would say in the modern world are either going through their karma or they've been through it. 166 00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:59,000 And they have a very open palette of creation. 167 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:06,000 But when you're creating your reality, that you're not competing with anyone, like you said, it's your future self. 168 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:16,000 You just imagine in an emotional context how you would feel if you had and saw all the things that are in this quantum matrix we live in. 169 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:22,000 At that point, your vibration is now aligned with your vision and then you watch all the doors open. 170 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:26,000 So everyone listening, there is nothing not competing with anyone. 171 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:31,000 There's enough on this planet. You're in a hologram basically anyway, and there's enough for anyone. 172 00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:34,000 So you're not competing with yourself. You're right. 173 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:41,000 There's a future vision of who you want to be. And that's physical, mental, whatever you're going to do. 174 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:51,000 Have that built up in your mind with a very, very high degree of precision in terms of how that looks in technicolor, in 3D imagery. 175 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:58,000 Have that vision. You're not competing with anyone. You're competing with the person that you don't want to be. 176 00:21:58,000 --> 00:21:59,000 Maybe you could say that. 177 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:08,000 There's some of that. And that's a really good point because as I was learning to fly airplanes, I mean, this is very foreign. 178 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:14,000 What we would do a lot of times is we have this vision for what we want to be. 179 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:19,000 And what's yours then, apart from flying me around in my planes? 180 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:23,000 You know what? Well, OK, let's go there. 181 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:29,000 Pretty much to be a good pilot is the same as being a good golfer, a good skater, whatever your thing is. 182 00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:35,000 You're going to learn from within yourself. You're going to learn from a mentor, an instructor. 183 00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:40,000 You're going to learn from others. But most importantly, you're going to learn from your own mistakes. 184 00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:46,000 And so even my children are like, how did you like how do you accomplish all the same as you? 185 00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:52,000 How do you accomplish all of those things? And I admit to them it's like because I'm not afraid to fail. 186 00:22:52,000 --> 00:23:00,000 I've I personally and I'm telling you this today, I don't know anybody in my life that's failed more than me. 187 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:06,000 I'm a by by this world's estimation, I'm a complete failure. 188 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:14,000 But it's getting back up and keeping going. You can fail just to make a decision to get back up. 189 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:19,000 So I've failed more than most people are willing to even try. 190 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:22,000 And I wonder when you fail at something. So I failed. 191 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:27,000 But to me, guilt, if I fail at something, I don't worry about guilt. 192 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:31,000 Now, it doesn't even come into my mind. But I feel bad if I failed at something. 193 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:35,000 I look back. But I've I've just guilt is the mind killer. 194 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:39,000 And that comes through failure. But if you process failure the way that you are, 195 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:46,000 failure is actually a gift because you're going to know what should be as a result of what wasn't. 196 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:54,000 Let me put it in this in terms of pilot terms. If I'm flying my airplane from Miami to Seattle, OK, I jump in. 197 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:59,000 I have a destination in mind. Not once. I mean, I've got tens of thousands of flying hours. 198 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:06,000 So does Tony, right? Not once has he gotten in an airplane or me or any pilot anywhere 199 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:12,000 where you took off and the flight was exactly precisely as you planned it. 200 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:16,000 Does it ever come near to that? Does it ever come near to being? 201 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:19,000 Well, I mean, certainly certainly some flights are smoother than others. 202 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:23,000 But there's always some shit going down. Well, there's but it's not even some shit. 203 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:30,000 It's like you have I could plan for certain winds. I could plan for certain weather. 204 00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:34,000 There's always going to be different. There's going to be traffic and you have to get a divert. 205 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:38,000 There's going to always be something that there's no perfect flight. 206 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:43,000 So our flight through life is that's a quote from the Academy. 207 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:49,000 It's sustained. It's it's on the wall. Our flight through life is sustained by the power of our knowledge. 208 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:58,000 That's the quote. It's pretty nice, right? But basically that but our flight through life is it's not about A to B. 209 00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:01,000 We're going to get from A to B. We're going to get there. 210 00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:06,000 The question is, when you're blown one way or the other or there's some issue, there's some turbulence. 211 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:10,000 If you have turbulence, are you able and willing to change altitude? 212 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:15,000 If you have too much of a headwind, do you have the presence of mind to say, yeah, we're not going to make it. 213 00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:20,000 We need to divert, get some gas and then go on to the destination. 214 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:26,000 You know, this is what we're experiencing, like even you and me speaking today. 215 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:32,000 This is not about a podcast. I mean, yeah, we're producing a podcast, but this is about a journey. 216 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:38,000 This is about our journey. Like, I don't know where this podcast is going to take you or me. 217 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:41,000 That's exciting part though, isn't it? But it's the journey. I'm enjoying it. 218 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:45,000 Like this is like our 11th episode. I know I love that. I'm starting to lose track. 219 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:51,000 No, it's not the 11th. But the thing is like it's not about the podcast itself or the broadcast. 220 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:54,000 It's where it takes us. It's about the experience that I'm having. 221 00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:57,000 I learn a lot from you. I hope you learn some things here. Oh, I do every time. 222 00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,000 But these are different things. Like it's about the journey. 223 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:08,000 So when we, when I was flying the East Coast, I was flying for a captain for JetBlue, right? 224 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:13,000 So I'd fly from Florida to New York and back again. And I'd do this all day, right? 225 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:20,000 And I would have these people come up, these passengers, and they would be bitching about why we don't have real lemons. 226 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:26,000 We only have these little pouches of lemon powder or whatever they're going to complain about. 227 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:32,000 It's like in my mind, I'm like, you know, you're flying in this multimillion dollar. 228 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:37,000 You're sitting there in leather chairs. You're watching this television show, laughing your butt off. 229 00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:45,000 Being served. You're being served. We're in this freaking amazing, this machine that's just amazing. 230 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:51,000 And we're six miles up and we're doing like two, three, you know, three quarters the speed of sound. 231 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:56,000 And it's cool. It's cool. It's comfortable. It's it. And you're just you're complaining. 232 00:26:56,000 --> 00:27:00,000 It's like seriously people. But there's people in this world that... 233 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:05,000 Well, that's an ego trap of the ego mind thinking because you can, the glass is half full or half empty. 234 00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:10,000 I meet people that do nothing but complain. And I feel so it's tragic. 235 00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:14,000 But you've got to see, you've got to cause your thoughts. 236 00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:21,000 Otherwise, your mind will just upload and dump into your awareness everything that's wrong with the world. 237 00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:26,000 And I talk about that in the mirror world because we're actually programmed to find fault with reality in order to improve it. 238 00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:32,000 That's how civilizations were built. But you don't want to let that mechanism just churn and churn. 239 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:40,000 And to be happy the way that you just described, you're on a lovely plane, you're high up, you're going somewhere, you're being served in a leather seat, you're watching a movie. 240 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:50,000 That is you telling yourself that if you don't program your thinking, you'll fall back and start bitching about lemons or the lack of them. 241 00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:53,000 That was a good recap. 242 00:27:53,000 --> 00:28:04,000 So, you know, I do run into this often and I was actually presenting to a group, there was probably 30 people. 243 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:10,000 I was like, I was invited to talk to a chamber group, a chamber of commerce type of thing. 244 00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:17,000 I opened up with this statement that I said, I want you all to repeat after me. 245 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:20,000 I said, I am beautiful. 246 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:23,000 I am beautiful. I am powerful. 247 00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,000 I am powerful. 248 00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:28,000 I am free. 249 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:29,000 I am free. 250 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:31,000 I'm like, let's do it again like we mean it. 251 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:34,000 And I did it again. I'm beautiful. I'm powerful. I'm free. 252 00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:36,000 All 30 people. 253 00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:48,000 Then I said, if those statements that you just said are uncomfortable to you, even the slightest bit, you need to start asking better questions. 254 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:50,000 Nice. Nice. That's set up nicely. 255 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:54,000 Because you are beautiful and you are powerful and you are free. 256 00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:55,000 Yeah. 257 00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:56,000 So I think that a lot of... 258 00:28:56,000 --> 00:29:01,000 You've got to absolutely believe that. Just don't understand that conceptually. That is, and we are, each of us. 259 00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,000 But that's why I brought it back. 260 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:06,000 I love the way that you did that. You need to be asking different questions. 261 00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:09,000 If you didn't feel that to your very core. 262 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:10,000 Yeah. 263 00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:16,000 Now, none of us love liars, cheaters or stealers. 264 00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:34,000 But if you believe that you're beautiful and you're powerful and you're free, and somebody comes around and they start telling you that you're ugly, powerless and a slave. 265 00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:35,000 I'd put him in a choke hold. 266 00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:40,000 You would. That's where the Benelli M4 comes out. 267 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:45,000 But we've been told that for our whole lives. 268 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:48,000 Well, you go back to original sin. You were born into sin. 269 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:50,000 I'm sitting across from a supermodel here. 270 00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:54,000 Look at you. You walk down the street and every head turns. 271 00:29:54,000 --> 00:30:01,000 But even so, the world is going to tell you that you're not perfect. That you still have room to go. 272 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:05,000 And there's all of this shaming that goes on. 273 00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:08,000 This is what a real girl or a real guy looks like. 274 00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:13,000 This is what you need to aspire to. 275 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:17,000 Which means covet in a way. You're not good enough. You need to be this. 276 00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:22,000 So what I'm saying is we need to get to the spot where we identify what a narrative is. 277 00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:25,000 Why would a person be saying that? 278 00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:34,000 And I tell my people, if you're truly sovereign, if you're a divine princess, Sarah Terry, divine princess right in front of me. 279 00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:43,000 If you are that divinity personified and you have a heckler on the side of the road heckling you. 280 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:46,000 How do you deal with that? 281 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,000 Give him $20 and wish him well. 282 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:50,000 Do you bless them? Yes. That's the point. 283 00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:52,000 Do you take it personally and go argue with them? No. 284 00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:54,000 No, you give all your power away at that point. 285 00:30:54,000 --> 00:31:00,000 You bless him and say, whatever you're going through, I hope this helps. 286 00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:08,000 The ego mind would go, fuck you, don't speak to me like that. 287 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:10,000 But the soul wouldn't do that. 288 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:13,000 I try and give to homeless people whenever I can. 289 00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:15,000 I kind of have a pact with God. 290 00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:17,000 I heard the other day, turn right. 291 00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,000 I'm like, why have I got to turn right? 292 00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:22,000 I need to be going straight down on 50. I turn right as a homeless guy. 293 00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:24,000 And I gave him some money. 294 00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:26,000 But I think help these people. 295 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:30,000 Don't lower your own vibration because if someone is heckling you, 296 00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:35,000 it's because they have such that their minds are lost. 297 00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:38,000 Their mind is not operating from awareness or soul. 298 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:41,000 Their mind is inferior ego pettiness. 299 00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:43,000 And that's what they're projecting. 300 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:44,000 That's why they're homeless. 301 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:47,000 That's why they're in the position they are because they haven't used their mind properly. 302 00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:50,000 And I just feel really bad for people like that because I was once like that. 303 00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:55,000 So what if the heckling wasn't from some guy on the side of the road, heckling Princess Sarah? 304 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:58,000 But it was the system itself. 305 00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:00,000 Right. The underlying reality. 306 00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:02,000 The system itself, heckling you. 307 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,000 You're not good enough. You're not smart enough. 308 00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:06,000 Sit down. Shut up. 309 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:07,000 You're not powerful. 310 00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:09,000 We're the powerful ones. 311 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:10,000 You are a slave. 312 00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:14,000 Like what if the system is saying those things to you and they're relentless? 313 00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:17,000 Well, I think in terms of Christianity, 314 00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:21,000 to me that is a slave religion because that's what it's saying. 315 00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:22,000 God is separate. You have no power. 316 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:23,000 The devil's on the loose. 317 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:26,000 You'll be blessed and favored or not. 318 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:28,000 And you're going to get one stinking life. 319 00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:30,000 Shut up and deal with it and you'll go to heaven. 320 00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:33,000 That's such an inferior belief system. 321 00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:39,000 And if you're born into that, you're not going to have any inherent feelings of worthiness because you're born into sin. 322 00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:42,000 Adam and Eve fucked up in the Garden of Eden. 323 00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:44,000 And here you are, not worthy. 324 00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:46,000 Bow down to a separate creator. 325 00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,000 And there's no separate creator. 326 00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:50,000 We're all part of one creation. 327 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:54,000 I mean, the God of Abraham is no more real to me than Mickey Mouse. 328 00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:57,000 And we were talking about that earlier. 329 00:32:57,000 --> 00:33:00,000 So there's no separate God in my pantheon. 330 00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:02,000 I'm one of God's sense receptors. 331 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:04,000 So God is everything. 332 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,000 There's no separate God of Abraham. 333 00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:08,000 But I think if you believe that God's separate, 334 00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:12,000 that's probably not the ideal platform in which to feel powerful 335 00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:19,000 because the divine is in all of us, every single one of us, everyone, even the people on death row. 336 00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:21,000 There is the divinity is within human beings. 337 00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:23,000 And it's not outside of us. 338 00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:28,000 If we can get our heads around that, that's a really good platform to form a belief system. 339 00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:29,000 So I love what you say. 340 00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:35,000 And it goes back to this guy on the curb because I was up in this probably 10 years ago, 341 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:38,000 but I was up in Boston and I had like a six hour layover. 342 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:42,000 So I just jumped on the train and instead of staying at the terminal for six hours, 343 00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:46,000 I jumped off and went downtown and mini vacation. 344 00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,000 Go have some lunch somewhere. 345 00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:50,000 And I happen to have my family with me. 346 00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:54,000 So we went to have some Asian dish or something. 347 00:33:54,000 --> 00:34:00,000 But on the way back, I saw this homeless guy sitting on the curb and I'm in my uniform. 348 00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:04,000 And it's just he's sitting on the curb and I went down and I sat down next to him. 349 00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:05,000 That was nice. 350 00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:09,000 And in my uniform and it's like, hey, I introduced myself and talked to him. 351 00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:12,000 And I said, you know, how did you come to be here? 352 00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:14,000 You know, what's your story? 353 00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:16,000 Was he open to talking to you? 354 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:17,000 Totally. 355 00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:18,000 And this guy was brilliant. 356 00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:19,000 He was actually very smart. 357 00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:21,000 He was a veteran, homeless veteran. 358 00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:25,000 I ended up I gave him some money and it turned out I said, 359 00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:30,000 but what I'm getting at is it's important that we when we look at others, 360 00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:33,000 we recognize that we've not walked their journey. 361 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:39,000 They regardless of where they are, who they are, what their lot is right now in life, 362 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:43,000 we've not we don't know what they're up against. 363 00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:46,000 The only thing we can do is help them on their journey. 364 00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:49,000 Maybe it's just a 20 spot. 365 00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:52,000 You know, maybe it's just maybe it's just a something. 366 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:53,000 Maybe it's a word of light. 367 00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:56,000 You're just letting them know there's some light in this reality. 368 00:34:56,000 --> 00:35:00,000 And $20 is going to buy you a burger, a bottle, whiskey, a sleeping bag. 369 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:01,000 It's going to do. 370 00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,000 It's not going to change anything, but it's that little bit of light. 371 00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:05,000 And that's upping the vibration of the entire planet. 372 00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,000 And it's not just 20 bucks. 373 00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:10,000 It's the idea that you took time and you said, just, you know, 374 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:13,000 whatever you're dealing with is transient. 375 00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:14,000 It's temporary. 376 00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:17,000 Yeah, it is. You're you're a remarkable. 377 00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:21,000 And these are the messages they give everybody, especially like a homeless person. 378 00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:24,000 You're remarkable. Your best days are just ahead of you. 379 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:27,000 Don't give up. Keep moving. Have a vision. 380 00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:28,000 Understand how powerful you are. 381 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:33,000 And it turns out that he did not even know that there were veteran resources 382 00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:35,000 within a walk from where he was. 383 00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:38,000 And did you and you told him? Oh, yeah, I told I said I I set him up. 384 00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:40,000 I told him when and where and how to get there and stuff. 385 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:43,000 So, you know, it's not just about giving them a 20 spot. 386 00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:46,000 No, you steered him somewhere. I wanted to just let him know that. 387 00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:51,000 Because when you start to look, when all of us start to look at other people as 388 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:58,000 and I do this, I I learned this because I had some angst with my father 389 00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:01,000 and a little bit with my mom, but just most most of my dad, you know, 390 00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:03,000 I knew he loved us, but he never said it. 391 00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:05,000 He never used the words. 392 00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:08,000 And it was he's like a big grown up kid. 393 00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:10,000 It was all things he wanted to do and stuff. 394 00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:13,000 He's probably a younger soul. Yeah, possibly. 395 00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:15,000 But but I had to come to terms in this angst. 396 00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:18,000 And the things I'm sharing with you now is how I came to terms. 397 00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:21,000 It's like, you know, I've always looked at him as my father, 398 00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:29,000 but I never looked at him as a little boy, a divine child of this chain of like 399 00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:32,000 he had a mom and she had a mom and she had a mom and she had a mom. 400 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:34,000 All this whole lineage of people. 401 00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:40,000 So although he's my father, my earthly father, he was the manifestation 402 00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:45,000 of generations and generations of people who loved each other. 403 00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:53,000 So he's this little boy that happens to be an old man now that for whatever reason, 404 00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:56,000 his journey was not something I could understand, 405 00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:59,000 but it didn't mean that he wasn't still precious. 406 00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:03,000 And I think that as people come to understand this, you know, 407 00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:08,000 you could have a brother or sister, somebody that's transgressed you in your life, 408 00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:13,000 and they are just absolute a-holes. 409 00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:18,000 But the truth is, like, you still don't know why they're that way. 410 00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:21,000 And you don't know what their previous life's encounters were. 411 00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:24,000 Forget this just one life. What the hell's going on as a result of all the decisions 412 00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:26,000 you've made over thousands of years? 413 00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:31,000 So it's very easy to arrive at compassion when you upgrade your worldview, 414 00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:36,000 because you can see it. I mean, you and I have been homeless in a previous life, for sure. 415 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:38,000 You know, and we do choose these experiences. 416 00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:40,000 We can't do it now because we're running out of time. 417 00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:45,000 But in the next podcast, I'd like to take a quote out of my book. 418 00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,000 It's We Who Are Becoming Gods. 419 00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:53,000 And I basically made a list of all the themes that we could be covering. 420 00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:56,000 And it's quite a boring list, but I'll go through it really quickly. 421 00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,000 Maybe we could speed it up. That might be good. 422 00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:02,000 But it's a list of what we will tackle in certain lifetimes, every lifetime. 423 00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:07,000 And there'll be every theme. Homelessness will be one of them. 424 00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:11,000 But if you come across a homeless person, that doesn't mean, fuck him, 425 00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:14,000 he's chosen this in his life path. There's some good lesson going on here. 426 00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:18,000 We have to show compassion, because that's part of what we're trying to do, 427 00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:22,000 is create heaven on earth. And without compassion, there's going to be no heaven. 428 00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:25,000 And there won't even be an earth, because compassion is going to be the key. 429 00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:30,000 So we need to upgrade the entire vibration of the planet, understand our thought forms 430 00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:35,000 of doing that, and then help people who've had downgraded thought forms, 431 00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:39,000 help them, steer them, just like you did this homeless guy. 432 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:42,000 Because it's likely he's either had homelessness written into his life plan, 433 00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:46,000 he would have written that in, or his thought forms became so debased, 434 00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:52,000 that's where it's left him, because the world was reflecting his vibration. 435 00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:55,000 But either way, it doesn't matter, these are our brothers and sisters, 436 00:38:55,000 --> 00:39:01,000 and this sounds corny, but just help anyone that God puts in your path. 437 00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:06,000 And you up your own vibration by doing that. It's a win-win. 438 00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:09,000 You're giving and receiving, it's the same thing. 439 00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:13,000 What you just said brought me a lot of peace. 440 00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:19,000 You know, 15 or 20 years ago, I was in a place where I just wanted to save the world. 441 00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:23,000 I wanted to change the world, save the world. 442 00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:31,000 But now being where I am, I don't feel like I need to change anything. 443 00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:33,000 I used to feel like you. 444 00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:39,000 What I've learned now is that I look at everybody as a divine sovereign, 445 00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:45,000 and the best thing I can do is look at them and ask them where they are on their journey, 446 00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:47,000 and what I can do to help them. 447 00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:49,000 I love that. I do that a lot. 448 00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:52,000 And these people will be steered into your pathway. 449 00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:57,000 I have so many stories of my interactions with homeless people, 450 00:39:57,000 --> 00:40:04,000 but there's this fella, I usually travel with food in my car. 451 00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:08,000 It's hard in South Florida because the food goes bad, so I had nuts. 452 00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:12,000 Of course, the guy I pulled over, it was a red light, and there was nobody behind me, 453 00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:16,000 so I rolled down my window, it's like, what can I give you? 454 00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:18,000 He says, just some food. 455 00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:20,000 I said, well, I've got nuts. 456 00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:22,000 He smiled and he had no teeth. 457 00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:24,000 He says, I can't eat nuts, I have no teeth. 458 00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:28,000 I said, well, if I give you some money, will you spend it on food? 459 00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:30,000 He says, absolutely. 460 00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:32,000 You've got to take them at their word. 461 00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:34,000 So I gave it to him. 462 00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:38,000 Another time I stopped and rolled down the window, I said, what do you need? 463 00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:41,000 You're on the street, what do you need? 464 00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:44,000 All he said was, do you have a marker? 465 00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:47,000 I found my marker for my sign, I can't find it. 466 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,000 He needed a marker. 467 00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:52,000 I know, it made me cry. 468 00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:56,000 This fella could have asked for anything, and he asked for a marker. 469 00:40:56,000 --> 00:41:01,000 My spouse was in the car, and I'm like, okay, do we have a marker? 470 00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:04,000 So actually, truthfully, I had a marker. 471 00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:11,000 Because I need it for when I write on bathroom walls and stuff. 472 00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:16,000 But no, I happen to have a marker, and now I have a marker in my purse all the time. 473 00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:18,000 I think I'm going to carry it. 474 00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:20,000 So this was for him to be able to make available his sign. 475 00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,000 But he needed to make a sign, he needed to fix his sign. 476 00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:27,000 But I thought to myself, wow, if I didn't ask the question, what do you need today to make your day better? 477 00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:29,000 What do you need? 478 00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:33,000 I never would have even thought about this guy just needing a marker. 479 00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:35,000 I know, you wouldn't. 480 00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:37,000 That was the farthest thing from my mind. 481 00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:40,000 But it's actually quite a logical necessity, given the game that he's involved in. 482 00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:47,000 He was at a place in his life where he wasn't even thinking about tomorrow, the next day, or the next day, or the next day. 483 00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:54,000 You can't talk about somebody about a dream when their only dream is to find a marker. 484 00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:58,000 I pulled out of Walmart, actually, when I went shopping for you and I the other day, 485 00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:02,000 and there was a guy standing on the corner, and I keep some 20s in the car, so I gave him a 20. 486 00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:04,000 I always leave the window. 487 00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:06,000 I be cautious. 488 00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:09,000 I don't get out and talk like you were quite brave doing that. 489 00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:11,000 Tony would. 490 00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:14,000 When I was talking to the guy in Boston, I was surrounded by people. 491 00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:16,000 I was like, there's no risk there. 492 00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:20,000 Plus, I'm a pretty good fighter. 493 00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:25,000 But I saw his sign, and he was a vet as well. 494 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:30,000 I don't know whether it's because I'm publishing books, it's kind of weird this, 495 00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:34,000 but I thought, well, that is not a good sign because it should have been bigger. 496 00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:38,000 I mean, I could read it, but I thought, and that's kind of weird that you should say that. 497 00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:40,000 This guy needed a marker. 498 00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:44,000 But that would be so patronizing to walk around and give people bigger signs and markers, 499 00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:48,000 but maybe that's what they bloody need and put a stick on it and hold it up. 500 00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:50,000 It's like help them out, right? 501 00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:54,000 Help them out with whatever their life trajectory is at that point. 502 00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:56,000 And I think that's a really sweet story. 503 00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:58,000 I think I'm going to keep a marker now. 504 00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:00,000 So we have about seven minutes or so. 505 00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:06,000 I think I didn't look at my clock, but how do we put a bow on today's presentation? 506 00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:10,000 I don't think there is a bow because we kind of talk about, 507 00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:15,000 I guess the bow is that we have sovereignty, that God is not separate. 508 00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:21,000 We're gods in the making on an eternal evolutionary journey. 509 00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:25,000 We don't remember what we started out as, and maybe that was a single cellar neighbor, 510 00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:32,000 and we've had lifetimes as plant, mineral, rock, but our consciousness is going through an evolution, 511 00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:35,000 and we don't know what we're evolving into. 512 00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:40,000 But Tia Jolie and Sarah Tyree are here, and we're evolving into something more. 513 00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:44,000 And how we evolve is harness our thought forms. 514 00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:47,000 Have a big vision for what you want your life to look like. 515 00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,000 Don't compare yourself to other people. 516 00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,000 We touch that. 517 00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:54,000 If you catch yourself complaining, you're in a low vibration. 518 00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:55,000 Stop it. 519 00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:59,000 Recalibrate your thinking and be grateful for something immediately. 520 00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:04,000 Make sure you keep your vibration high in order to attract the reality that you want. 521 00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:08,000 If your reality sucks, it's likely that your thought life sucks. 522 00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:09,000 That's good stuff. 523 00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:15,000 And I'm just reminded in closing, you know, I was probably about eight or ten years ago, 524 00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:17,000 I was walking by this computer screen. 525 00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:20,000 My spouse was watching this thing. 526 00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:23,000 This presenter's name was Joe Dispenza. 527 00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:25,000 Now, I didn't know who that was. 528 00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:28,000 Like, I should have known, but I didn't know at the time who it was, 529 00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:32,000 but he was saying these things, and they were exactly the way I teach. 530 00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:36,000 It's exactly the things that I say, and I was just like, wait a minute, who is this guy? 531 00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:37,000 He's amazing. 532 00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:40,000 I couldn't wait to find out who this guy was to learn more. 533 00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:41,000 He's been a teacher of mine. 534 00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:42,000 But he's amazing. 535 00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:46,000 But one of the things Joe Dispenza says, and I teach too, 536 00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:52,000 is the movies that you play in your mind, they're yours. 537 00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:55,000 So if you're going to make movies, because I say to people... 538 00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:56,000 Make a good one. 539 00:44:56,000 --> 00:45:01,000 You know, I say to people, it's like you're a creator, whether you like it or not, 540 00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:06,000 whether you acknowledge it, you are a creator, or at least a co-creator. 541 00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:07,000 Yes. 542 00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:12,000 You're at least a co-creator, but certainly there's this creative aspect to you. 543 00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:15,000 The question is, first of all, you're going to acknowledge it. 544 00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:17,000 Second of all, what are you going to create today? 545 00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:19,000 Are you going to create divisiveness? 546 00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:21,000 Are you going to create excuses? 547 00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:22,000 Are you going to create... 548 00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:24,000 You can bitch-wine and complain. 549 00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:29,000 Are you going to take a seed from your mouth and put it in somebody else's soul 550 00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:33,000 and let it grow and look at them dead in the eye and say, 551 00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:38,000 I know the world wants you to think that you suck, but I think you're magnificent. 552 00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:44,000 I think you're crazy powerful and you're beautiful and you're free. 553 00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:48,000 And I want you to know that I don't care what the rest of the world thinks. 554 00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:50,000 I don't care what they see. 555 00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:53,000 I see something magnificent in you. 556 00:45:53,000 --> 00:46:00,000 And if all you do every day is something like that, in your own words, 557 00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:04,000 and you look them dead in the eye and speak right to their soul, 558 00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:07,000 and don't do it just because, oh, I'm checking a box. 559 00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:08,000 No, you've got to believe it first. 560 00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:09,000 Yes, you have to believe it. 561 00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:11,000 You have to believe it because you've told yourself that. 562 00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:12,000 You know what you are. 563 00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:14,000 You've told yourself that a thousand times. 564 00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:15,000 It all started with you. 565 00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:16,000 Yeah. 566 00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:19,000 And then once you believe it for yourself, because you can't give something you don't have. 567 00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:21,000 That's right. You've got to embody it. 568 00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:23,000 You have to own it yourself. Feel it. 569 00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:28,000 And I love what you said about it's not just I think it was either this episode or the one before, 570 00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:31,000 but so many people, they use these words. 571 00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:32,000 They pray. 572 00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:34,000 They do this, whatever their meditation is. 573 00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:38,000 They use the words, but they don't use their vision and their feeling. 574 00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:42,000 So when I'm having somebody that's going through, say, a body transformation, 575 00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:46,000 they're trying to lose weight or they're trying to become pro athletes, 576 00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:52,000 what I do is I say, how much time do you every day do you spend closing your eyes, 577 00:46:52,000 --> 00:47:00,000 using your visualization, not these eyes, but your imagination, your inner vision, your true vision? 578 00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:01,000 Because this is not your true vision. 579 00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:02,000 This is deceiving. 580 00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:03,000 Yeah. 581 00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:04,000 But your true vision. 582 00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:07,000 This is just outer reality navigating so you don't fall down some stairs. 583 00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:09,000 Your inner vision is that that is God. 584 00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:12,000 Right. So if you're trying to be a pro golfer, 585 00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:18,000 how many times do you sit there and just not just sit there and tee it up and hit the ball, 586 00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:25,000 but watch the ball and celebrate, celebrate, feel the hit, celebrate. 587 00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:30,000 You just calculated the error and watch it land inches from the pin. 588 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:35,000 But not only see it, but do you feel it? 589 00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:36,000 Bring it to life. 590 00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:38,000 Do you see it? Do you feel the breeze? 591 00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:39,000 Do you feel the sun on your face? 592 00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:40,000 That's exactly right. 593 00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:45,000 Do you feel, do you hear the crowd, the gallery just cheering? 594 00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:47,000 That's it. Yes. The whole thing. 595 00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:50,000 Can you make it so that you see your own reaction to the crowd? 596 00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:51,000 It's your own movie. 597 00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:57,000 Do you feel these people cheering for you and this humility, this gratefulness that you've arrived? 598 00:47:57,000 --> 00:48:03,000 And people would mistake this for being a fantasy, just an inconsequential fantasy, but it isn't. 599 00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:04,000 It's the makings of reality. 600 00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:06,000 This is how you, this is how you manifest. 601 00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:11,000 You create it. It's so compelling that you actually own it before you actually even own it. 602 00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:14,000 Yes. That's it. You bring it to life. 603 00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:19,000 I think the Bible says in Hebrews, you're calling in the unseen as though it were. 604 00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:20,000 That's what that is. 605 00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:21,000 Very much so. 606 00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:23,000 So thank you for wrapping us up today. 607 00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:25,000 I'm always so grateful. 608 00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:26,000 Yes, it's been wonderful. 609 00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:29,000 Thanks for coming out to Phillips Island all this time. I appreciate it. 610 00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:30,000 Thank you. 611 00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:31,000 Take care now. 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