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Hello, and welcome to Networking Unleashed, Building Profitable Connections.

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Welcome to the show, folks.

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I'm your host, Michael Forman, and you're listening to the podcast where networking

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is more than just an awkward handshake and bad coffee.

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It's an art and a talent.

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But here's the twist.

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It's an art and talent you can actually learn.

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Yes, even if you're the person hiding in the corner at every event pretending to check

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emails.

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Networking isn't just a nice skill to have.

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It's a game changer.

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And when you get good at it, you'll wonder why you didn't start sooner.

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More connections, more opportunities, more profits.

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It's like unlocking a cheat code for life.

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So whether you're the life of the party or the let me just stay at home and text type,

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we've got something for you.

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So stick around.

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Let's turn those awkward small talk moments into big wins.

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Now I've got quite a guest this morning.

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His name is Chris Griggs.

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Don't look like that, Chris.

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He is the owner of a photography studio.

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He's an Atlanta native, but he graduated UGA.

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By the way, my future daughter-in-law also graduated from UGA.

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And he's got a wife, three kids.

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But you know what?

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I'm really not doing him justice.

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Let me introduce Chris and let him tell you all about himself.

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Chris, how are you today?

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I'm doing great, Michael.

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I am actually really excited about doing this today because you kind of mentioned those

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networking skills and all that.

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But you know, podcasting skills are pretty important too, I think.

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It all works together because one helps you and teaches you about the other.

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Oh, yeah, for sure.

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You know, I really appreciate that intro.

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I don't know how interesting of a guest I am, but I'll try to stay on my ground.

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You know, one thing you didn't mention is being an owner of a photo and video company.

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I have to give that credit to my wife, just though.

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She is the founder of our company.

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She founded it a little over eight years ago and she really is the driving force behind

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what we do.

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I just kind of sort of claim part ownership for my own sake, but she really is the one

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that drives the bus in most things.

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And sometimes I'm all in front of the ride and sometimes, you know, she'll let me take

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a few things on.

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Okay, so you've got this photography studio, video studio and networking obviously is a

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very important part of what you do, how you market.

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But this has become a very digital world.

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And how do you build genuine connections in a world that's increasingly digital?

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Wow.

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Gosh, that digital angle is a tough one.

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I guess really to kind of start, you're right, networking really is huge.

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And I think a lot of people, especially small business owners, I think they underestimate

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that and the value of it.

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I was even talking to somebody the other day and this kind of segues into something else

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that I bring out too, but their key role is new client acquisition for their employer.

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And they kind of said, you know what, networking can almost be a full time job.

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If your role is to bring in more clients, more customers to get people in the door,

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whatever your business is, whether you're staying by an account or working behind a

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computer, networking has been absolutely key in our business.

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I mean, it's absolutely crucial from the digital side, though, gosh, I don't really have an

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answer on that one because to me, I'm really more old school.

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I like being in person, being in rooms, talking to people, seeing faces, shaking hands, even

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when those rooms are excessively packed with 100 people and you have to shout to the person

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next to you.

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You know what, that might be a really good dive on this too, to talk about the sort of

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virtual digital aspect of that.

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And that might be something that I can learn here today.

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It's virtual is good.

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Zoom is very good, but I am old school and I believe in the face to face networking,

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networking events, meetings, small meetings, large meetings, whatever, because you get

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to feel the vibe of the person that you're talking with.

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You get to feel the vibe of the room that you're in.

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And so many things can happen that you need to pick up the vibe.

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Now the first thing you must consider when you're speaking with somebody is confidence.

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You have to have confidence in yourself in order for you to start to speak on a confident

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level.

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So it all starts from there.

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Can you give me a specific example of how a networking relationship significantly impacted

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your business?

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Oh, that's an easy one.

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So I'll actually kind of step back a few years on this one.

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So I actually came into our business about four years ago.

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I did, as a lot of people kind of jokingly refer to as the pandemic pivot.

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So I had my prior career went for about 20 years.

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And so this is career number two.

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When I came into the business, Jess had been a member of some of the area organizations

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around here, business associations and so on.

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And she showed up to a couple of meetings, met some people, picked up a tiny little business.

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But at that point for us, like joining any local area organization, especially when we

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were literally trying to figure out week to week how to keep the business running and pay

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ourselves, joining an organization for like $150 a year or something like that.

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That was kind of a big deal.

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So four years ago, we had an opportunity presented to us.

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I won't go too far into the story, but we had an opportunity presented to us to photograph

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an event for a larger organization.

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And fortunately, we got that and we were booked for it.

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And then the person that connected us with this opportunity said, the organization would

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actually feel a little better about you shooting this, especially considered what you guys

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are being paid to shoot this.

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If you would join the organization, we're like, okay, sure.

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No big deal.

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And at that point, I think we had only joined, I think we were only actively like once, twice

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a month, attending two other organizations.

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And those were to the team, like I mentioned, like $150 for an annual membership and all

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that.

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And we were like, well, sure, how much?

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And they were like, it's $150.

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And we were just kind of like, oh, okay.

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Well, you know, we had to give it some thought.

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So we bit the bullet, joined the organization.

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And we made a point to network to show up to meetings, show up to after hours, show up

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to lunches, show up to anything that we could fit in our schedule with that organization

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because we made a pretty significant investment for us at that time.

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That was huge.

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And even today, four years later, it's still not some change.

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But so networking, showing up, being a part of that organization, our $850 investment

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netted us $35,000 in revenue in the first year.

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And now on a year to year, we average, I think, about $60,000 to $65,000 revenue in our business

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just from that one organization.

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And that's because of the client base that we've built out of that organization.

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These are companies that we now shoot with on a regular basis.

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These are regular clients and clients who we've held on to for now two and three years

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plus.

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So networking absolutely is key to our business.

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And it's not just that we just made those relationships and then they just sort of self-sustain.

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Still got to show up, still got to be seen, still have to follow up.

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We need network.

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Yeah, the follow up, I say this all the time and on most of the podcasts, the follow up

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is almost more important than just meeting the person.

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Because it's not only how you follow up, but how many times and the way that you follow

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up so that you don't feel like you're overdoing it, but you don't want to underdo it as well.

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So it's very, very difficult.

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Oh, you're totally hitting that concern right there for me because I'm always wondering

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how much is too much, how much is too little.

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And most times I feel like I'm not doing enough, to be honest.

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I have what's called a secret sauce for follow up.

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And within two weeks, you find out whether or not the person was serious.

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So it's a fine line, but it has always worked very well for me.

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And that's what I profess that follow up.

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But what would you say are the key elements with professional networking?

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The key elements for me in my own experience is just becoming known, not showing up and

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trying to make a sale.

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I guess the best way to sort of encapsulate this, and I don't take credit for this, somebody

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else gave me this one, is that networking is farming, not hunting.

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You know, I think a lot of people ship to network events and immediately they want to

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shake your hand, they want to tell you who they are and exactly what they do and why

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you need to use them.

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And you know, when I started networking, I was guilty of that too.

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Definitely did that and found out right away.

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People don't care and that's the quickest way to turn people away.

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But really just by showing up and just getting to know people, you know, and I think if you

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kind of get to know people a little on a personal level, just to know if they're married, if

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they have kids, you know, I mean, know enough about what they do in their job just to have

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conversation but not necessarily to try to drive them, you know, to book a project or

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something and over time, and this has been our experience over time, when people have

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a need for something and they remember you, they come to you and they're like, I've got

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an idea, can I just talk to you about it?

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And I'm like, you know what, let's have a conversation and that's it.

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I don't have to sell them on a photography package or a video package or give them a

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price or anything.

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It's like, I don't even want to ask them, you know, what kind of budget are you looking

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at because I'm not concerned about the money aspect at that point because they've approached

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me, they're like, I've got a challenge and I'm looking for a solution.

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It may or may not be me.

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And that's fine.

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You hit a lot of topics that I talk about.

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Okay.

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The first and foremost is you look to give, not receive.

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All right.

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So that's the first thing you walk into that room and you say, who can I be a good referral

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source for or how can I help them become more successful?

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There's a lot of different ways to give and you're not even thinking about receiving.

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Then you're talking about your rapport that you build with the person.

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If they know you like you trust you, they'll do business with you.

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If they know you, that's great because you're in a big area and everybody knows you, you're

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great guy.

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They like you.

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That narrows the field down just a little bit, but trust you.

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The trust factor is so crucial that, you know, when you're building that rapport with that

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person and I use something else, well, this is stolen, by the way, everything, I've just

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put it all together, but it's form, F-O-R-M, family, occupation, recreation and a message.

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So you want to talk to them about anything and everything, their family, what they do

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for a living, how they enjoy themselves.

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Ever since the pandemic, the days of building your customer base is really out the window.

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It's building relationships and how do you build those relationships through form, know

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you like, you trust you, everything else comes into play, but it's very, very important.

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So what is your, give me your biggest mistake you made in business and how you overcame

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That's embarrassing.

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And it goes outside of networking too.

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I mean, it doesn't even have anything to do with that, to be honest.

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You know, we work with a lot of difficult clients in a large segment of our business.

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That doesn't mean we don't have a lot of undesirable clients.

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Occasionally, you just run across a personality that's really hard to work with.

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And sometimes it's hard to not react to that.

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It could be as simple as, gosh, like I said, I'm putting myself out there.

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I'll give you one example.

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We had a real estate shoot one time and the agent was not there at the property that I

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was shooting.

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As I'm finishing the shoot, the homeowner comes in and I just make chitul, nice, good

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conversation.

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And then all of a sudden the homeowner starts kind of becoming a little obsessive about

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what I am shooting.

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And she starts asking questions that really pertain more to us in our business and our

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client who is the realtor.

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And these were questions that I actually got.

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I grew increasingly more uncomfortable with because it's like, you know, the agent is

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the one who I work with.

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And I guess long story short, this particular homeowner started asking kind of personal questions

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like, well, what do you charge?

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Why are you charging this to my realtor and blah, blah, blah, and then also started to

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tell me what you wanted to have photographed in the house.

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Whereas we already had direction from our client, the realtor.

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And it kind of started, I mean, tension started building.

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I felt like it was starting to escalate.

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I had to get out of there.

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And as I'm leaving, the homeowner is yelling at me.

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Yelling at me.

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And it's really hard to not yell back at somebody because, you know, when it comes to like fight

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or flight, you know, it's like, you know, I want to fight, but I'm like, I can't do this

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professionally.

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I can't do this.

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But the thing was is it ended up with the homeowner being mad at me.

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And then of course, the homework, talk to the realtor about it.

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We had a phone call with the realtor, explain what happened, had a conversation.

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The realtor fully understood, but we never got a call again from that, from that realtor.

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Now that was very early on for me.

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And that was a big lesson.

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It really was because it's like, you know, it was a lesson in me keeping myself in check,

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not just me personally, but I have to remember that I represent not just me, but I represent

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my business.

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I represent what I do.

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And there's a brand element to that.

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The biggest thing that I realized is that even though the realtor was our client and

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the homeowner was the realtor's client, that homeowner is also a client by extension.

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And what I do, what I come in and when I photograph a house or do you video or anything

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like that, it goes beyond what we provide to our immediate client because when the homeowner

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is trying to sell their house, they're trying to maximize what they're potentially going

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to sell that house for.

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And what they sell the house for probably is going to help them move into whatever the

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next step of their life, their journey, whatever is going to be.

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And it really humbled me quite a bit and it made me change my perspective in how we work,

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not just with our clients, but our clients, customers and clients as well.

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Because in the end, it doesn't matter who really booked the project with us and who's

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paying what and all that kind of stuff.

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The end result is, is it?

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That's it.

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That's what matters.

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The way we deliver is the very thing that defines our business and how we work with people.

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And so, yeah, that was, trust me, you do that one time, you do not do it again.

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Yeah, it's humbling.

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And all of this comes around to that trust factor because they have to trust you to such

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a point where they let you do your job.

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But how do you establish and maintain the relationships, thinking that trust factor,

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how do you maintain the relationships now with fellow professionals?

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I know this probably sounds cliche, but chemistry, it's like personality chemistry.

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We've had clients that we get good work from, we even get regular work from, but we can

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barely hold a conversation.

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And that's nobody's fault.

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Some personalities click better than others.

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But chemistry and personality is very important to us.

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In fact, it's one of the things that we bring up with our team, within our company.

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We've got about six contractors that work with us on various projects.

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Five of them are very active and very regular in our day to day business.

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And one of the things that we always tell them is that chemistry is really important.

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Personality is really important because it's part of our culture and our business.

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Quite simply put, if we didn't love what we do, we wouldn't do it.

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Just fair enough.

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And honestly, that comes up with our clients as well.

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So the very people that are looking projects with us and are bringing revenue into our

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business, same thing.

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And it goes back to what I was saying earlier about just getting to know people using form,

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just saying hi and sometimes a handshake and a smile is all you really need to do.

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And it takes that tension away too.

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That's another thing too.

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We found out that it takes the weight off of our own shoulders.

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It's like, if we make a connection at a meeting at an event, then it doesn't mean that we

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got a booking.

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It's just that we got a connection.

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We met somebody.

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We had a good conversation.

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And to the point that the next time we see them, it's going to be like, oh my God, hey,

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man, it's great to see you again.

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There's one guy that is in three of our networking groups.

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Three different, completely different organizations.

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There literally was one day a couple of weeks ago, I saw him three times in this.

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It makes the job more fun when you see familiar faces.

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I'm not the best with names.

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I remember faces, but names are kind of hard to me.

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I'm probably going to have to see you about a good six or eight times before I remember

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your name.

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But that's only because of the sheer volume of people I encounter on a daily basis.

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So no offense to anybody.

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What you're describing, because you're describing the relationship you get to obtain with these

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people.

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And ever since the pandemic, when I said that it's really not a time for building a customer

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base anymore, and this is the way that I tell you the difference between a customer and

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relationship.

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Let's say you're going along in a supermarket and I bump into you and say, hey, Chris, how

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you doing?

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Goodbye.

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And that's it.

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That is what a customer usually does.

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A relationship.

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Hey, Chris, how you doing?

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Oh, that's great.

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How's your wife?

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Oh, is your child doing this?

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Oh, was he doing?

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Oh, he's playing Little League now.

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Oh, that's great.

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And we have a little conversation.

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That is a relationship.

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So when I leave, you now remember that much better.

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You remember me and you put me more on top of the pile of people that you've already

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run into.

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So it's a relationship.

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And actually, I prefer this.

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I prefer this type of getting together and networking because it brings us all closer.

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And that is exactly my philosophy.

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I've actually said this a number of times when speaking with people and also in network

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meetings, I mean, you're almost verbatim nailing what my philosophy is, is that in this manner

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I'd be the best delivery, but I don't care about a transaction.

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I don't.

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I really don't.

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I can have a one off client and this happens in our business.

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We can have one off clients all the time.

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Now as long as we did our job, we did it well.

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We delivered, we did everything to the satisfaction of the client.

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That's great.

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But I feel like in our business, we're more effective and we deliver better work when

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we understand what our client's business is.

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You know, so without going long on it, I mentioned earlier, we belong to several organizations

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and associations and whatnot.

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But they're not all the same type of group.

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They're not just, you know, business chambers, you know, business association or whatever.

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We try to join organizations in sort of different markets, different areas.

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And that's one of the things that's also helped us build our business.

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But going back to your point, by getting to know people and what they do and what their

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business is about, you know, it doesn't matter if it's real estate, it could be banking,

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it could be insurance, it could be law, maybe it's professional speaking and networking,

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Michael.

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You know, it's like by us kind of getting to know those people and what they do, it

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actually better positions us to deliver on what their needs are.

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It really does.

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Okay.

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So let's do this.

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Give me one tip that if somebody is looking to improve their networking or sales skills,

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what would you say?

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Just give me one tip.

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I think I would say this, networking and approaching people and all that.

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You don't wake up one morning and you can just do it.

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It's like anything else you do, any hobby, any sport, any skill that you develop, it

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takes practice.

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You have to show up and you keep having to work sort of those social muscles, so to say,

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in order to walk into a networking event and be comfortable and just walk right up to somebody

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you've never met before and go, you look just as lost as I feel sometimes.

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How are you doing?

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What brought you here?

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And just opening up a conversation that way.

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You know, the other side of that too, especially for those of us out there that attend networking

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events where you have to give your elevator pitch, quote unquote, Jesus, I am still learning

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how to do that.

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That is so hard to do.

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It really is.

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Even though I've done it like 200 times, I get up there.

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I say what I say.

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You know, say your elevator pitch in front of a B&I group is one thing.

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But if you say your elevator pitch in front of real people, then you really don't, they

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say an elevator pitch is 30 seconds long and you try to keep it to that.

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I don't.

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Okay.

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Networking skills are all practice, practice, practice, you'll get better.

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Now here's my elevator pitch.

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I help professionals network and communicate more effectively and efficiently, thus creating

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more profits.

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Now I don't say, if I imagine myself in an elevator, I don't come out with that whole

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thing.

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I help professionals network and communicate.

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And all you're trying to do is get a response.

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That's the whole idea of an elevator pitch is to get a response.

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So if they say, well, what do you mean by that?

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Or can you further explain that?

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Or you know what?

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Let's get off the floor and just tell me about.

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So something so that you get a response.

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Okay.

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So, but that's it.

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But that's the key thing you have to remember in the classes, when I teach in a workshops

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and things like that, that's exactly what I say.

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Say, just enough to get a response.

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And then that will invoke the conversation.

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And then it's up to you to take it for what it's worth.

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But it's very important.

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And that is just a small fraction of the part when you meet somebody.

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When you walk into that room, that big room, most people are like, oh my God, what did

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I get myself into?

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But you know, if you are there, if you've gone to eight networking events beforehand

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and you practice, practice, practice, you've tweaked it, you've done it and you don't say

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certain things.

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You do say certain things.

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But what most people neglect is when they walk up to a networking table, you don't talk.

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You don't say a word.

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You listen for the conversation.

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Is this a conversation that I want to be a part of?

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It's not.

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I'm going to politely bow out and go to the next table.

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If it is, then you come out with something.

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And I remember, you're the expert in your field and your professional.

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So whatever you say should really be that.

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And all you figure there's four or five people at the table.

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What you're trying to do is to get two or three of those people to look at you and comment

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on what you said.

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So then you're thinking form when you're speaking to that one, two or three people and you're

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letting them talk and you're letting them talk about themselves because trust, here's

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that trust factor.

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That trust factor is building and that wall is coming down because listen, everybody loves

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to talk about themselves and you let them, let them talk.

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And the first thing that you say, first of all, you're listening to them.

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You don't know distractions and you listen is the pause at the end of the listening.

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And why is it so important?

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Because that tells the other person that you were listening to them wholeheartedly and

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you respond to them.

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What they were saying, not the next thing that you want to say, but the next to respond

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to something that they said.

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And after that, you say, you know something, I like you.

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I like the way you do your business.

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How can I make you more successful?

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How can I be a good referral source for you?

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Usually blows them away, but this is the art of giving and not receiving.

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The whole whole works together.

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I've even had moments where I'll meet somebody at any given event and I'll be honest with

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it.

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It's rare that I say that.

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It's very rare that I say that and I'm sure a lot of people, maybe even yourself are going,

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never say that.

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But no, no, I believe what you're saying.

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But what I follow up with that is this is like, you know what, let's exchange information.

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Because although I know I don't need your service, you don't need my service.

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I encounter people all the time who are looking for what you do.

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Networking has built our business and I am always, always willing and open to share information

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to somebody else who needs a lead, needs a direct contact, needs an introduction to somebody

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out of probably the 1500 plus contacts that I have saved in our CRM software.

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If somebody is looking for a mortgage loan, a home remodeler, a painter, a plumber, an

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owner, somebody who's looking to open, just moved to town and needs to know what bank

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to go to.

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It's like, I could give them pretty much an answer to anything that they're asking about

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or need some kind of information about.

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When we made a referral to somebody else, and this is one of those people that we did

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not think that we would be doing business with, they've contacted us and they'd be like,

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hey, we've added some staff to our office, we've got 50 plus people, we think we need

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headshots.

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It's like, oh, well, let's talk about that.

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It surprises us.

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All the art of giving.

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Because listen, if you give, give, give, what goes around does come around.

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It will come around to you because that client, that person will remember how much you helped

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them.

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So the best way to do that, obviously, is to give a referral and not ask for anything

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in return.

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Because you will get that in return eventually.

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Okay, let's bring this full circle.

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Give me one takeaway that my listeners can use today.

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One takeaway regarding network.

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Seriously, just one thing, what's one thing that you do most often in networking?

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I think the one thing that, and I do this consciously and subconsciously, is just try

473
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to be sincere.

474
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Just be authentic.

475
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:07,760
Just be authentic.

476
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:08,760
Just be authentic.

477
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:09,760
Be genuine.

478
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:10,760
Be authentic.

479
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:16,280
Like I said earlier, I'm not there to try to close a sale.

480
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:18,080
That's not what networking is about.

481
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:19,160
It really isn't.

482
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:26,240
I mean, networking is just, just meeting people and having fun.

483
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:30,680
I mean, honestly, that's actually been the hardest thing for me to learn.

484
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:35,440
It's so funny saying that now because it's so obvious and sounds so easy.

485
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:43,240
But having going to networking meetings and events and all this kind of stuff for four

486
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:48,560
years, it's only within the past year that I'm just kind of like, you know what, if I

487
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:55,480
just walk into this place, no matter how many people there are five or 150, I'm just gonna

488
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:56,480
have fun.

489
00:32:56,480 --> 00:33:00,360
And honestly, that's actually one of the things that also keeps me in check too.

490
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:05,200
It's like if I'm not having fun, I'll leave.

491
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:06,200
I will.

492
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:08,120
I mean, because your job to be a job.

493
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:09,120
Right.

494
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:14,360
I don't want my job to be a job, but also like if it's a new group, it's a different environment.

495
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:19,120
If something feels off, I mean, we've learned to kind of trust our gut and just be like,

496
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:22,800
maybe this isn't the best use of our time right now because we have plenty of back work

497
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:23,800
to do.

498
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:24,920
We got client work.

499
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:29,720
We have things waiting to be delivered, finished, worked on, edited, whatever.

500
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:36,240
That's rare, really rare that we show up to a place and we check out after 15 minutes,

501
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:37,240
right?

502
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:39,360
You're picking up the vibe of the room.

503
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:40,360
Yes.

504
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:44,120
You're picking up the vibe of the room, the vibe of the other people.

505
00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:48,240
You have to trust your gut, your instincts.

506
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:54,400
And if you don't like the vibe of the room, then absolutely you pick up and walk out.

507
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:55,400
Yeah.

508
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:57,400
But of course you pay $100 for it.

509
00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:58,400
Yeah.

510
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:00,400
Right.

511
00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:03,560
Well, the paid ones, we're going to have fun.

512
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:05,960
We're going to make sure that the mines work.

513
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:07,680
But again, it goes back to what I said earlier.

514
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:12,520
If we didn't enjoy what we do, why would we do this?

515
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:19,840
I've had plenty of jobs in my previous career where, I mean, it was okay, but I didn't love

516
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:20,840
it.

517
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:21,840
I wasn't passionate about it.

518
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:26,000
It's like I just showed up, clocked in, did the work, clocked out.

519
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:29,680
I mean, it was about as robotic as it could be.

520
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:34,480
And that's easy to do when you work for somebody else, right?

521
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:37,960
Because you got to pay check.

522
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:39,360
You get paid every two weeks.

523
00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:42,400
As long as you do your job, you do it well.

524
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:47,440
You work just hard enough to not get fired.

525
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:55,800
But now that we're business owners and we are the only source of our income.

526
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,000
We are the only source of our business.

527
00:34:58,000 --> 00:35:05,200
And we are the only ones providing for our livelihood, for ourselves and our family.

528
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:08,320
It's like having fun is actually much more important.

529
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:11,080
It makes our interactions with our clients better.

530
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:16,280
And a lot of times, so I know I gave that horror story earlier about the homeowner or

531
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:18,920
the house that I was shooting and all that.

532
00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:24,960
But you know, like now, when I walk into a house and the realtor is there, or it could

533
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:26,480
even be a builder, right?

534
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:28,720
It doesn't have to be a resale.

535
00:35:28,720 --> 00:35:31,720
And the homeowner is there too.

536
00:35:31,720 --> 00:35:35,600
That's the first person I walk up to and I introduce myself to.

537
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:40,480
That is absolutely because I want them to know that I'm there for them.

538
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:43,080
You know, that lesson I mentioned I learned earlier.

539
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:44,080
I'm there for them.

540
00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:45,080
I really am.

541
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:49,040
And when I have those opportunities to meet the homeowner or whoever the end user is, let's

542
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:54,120
just say that the end user of the product that's being provided by putting them at ease.

543
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:55,400
It actually puts me at ease.

544
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:57,440
So it kind of makes sense.

545
00:35:57,440 --> 00:35:58,880
And it sets the tone right there.

546
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:04,640
And it's like within the first five minutes of showing up on a project, it's like, there

547
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:05,640
it is.

548
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:06,640
The tone has been set.

549
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:07,640
The vibe is there.

550
00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:08,640
The atmosphere is good.

551
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:11,880
And it's just like, you know what, I'm going to have fun with this.

552
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:15,000
Let's just knock this out and we're going to deliver some amazing work.

553
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:20,960
It makes working that much easier because it's really not like working, you know, it

554
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:21,960
makes it more fun.

555
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:23,960
Chris, let me ask you a question.

556
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:24,960
Sure.

557
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:30,160
Somebody wants to contact you for photography, for video or anything else.

558
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:32,560
What's the best way that they can get hold of you?

559
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:36,800
And if you have anything in the works that's coming out that's new, tell me about that

560
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:37,800
also.

561
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:38,800
Yeah, sure.

562
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:41,360
So they answered the first party question.

563
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:45,880
We're really fortunate that we have a very unique name.

564
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:52,440
So for anybody who missed it or didn't see it in the notes, our company is LaRouche Photo.

565
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:58,000
It's LaRuCHE Photo.

566
00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:05,400
And if you look for at or hashtag LaRouche Photo on pretty much any social media platform,

567
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:07,320
you will find us.

568
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:13,120
We're in all the usual places, Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, YouTube.

569
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:17,120
We have our own channel there where we post client videos, things like that.

570
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:19,680
And if I missed one, I probably did.

571
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:23,880
But I think we have a TikTok page, but I know we don't know where TikTok's going.

572
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:27,600
But Instagram is probably the best place to find us.

573
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:31,040
That's where we keep a lot of our current work posted.

574
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:37,840
We don't do a lot of videos there, but as far as our photo work, every market, every

575
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:40,720
industry that we service, you'll see examples there.

576
00:37:40,720 --> 00:37:46,120
So things that are kind of coming up sort of new for this year, we are expanding our

577
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:47,120
team.

578
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:51,160
We're increasing our capabilities to bring on more clients.

579
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:57,200
As a matter of fact, just in January, we've brought on two new builder clients in our

580
00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:58,200
business.

581
00:37:58,200 --> 00:37:59,800
They're testing the waters with us.

582
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:01,120
We're testing them too.

583
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:06,160
But we've had multiple projects already in the bag and shot and delivered for them.

584
00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:07,800
And they've been super happy.

585
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:13,160
And we're trying to get some more builder clients on board with our business.

586
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:16,680
It just so happens, and this goes back to the whole pandemic thing, that the majority

587
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:19,440
of our business happens to be property related.

588
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:21,400
It's not what we were looking to do.

589
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:27,160
It's not sort of that niche market that we were just like, that's it.

590
00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:28,280
That's our only focus.

591
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:37,600
It just turned out that about, I'm just going to guess probably about 60 to 70% of our business

592
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:39,280
is property related.

593
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,080
That includes, of course, resale market.

594
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:43,080
That's always there.

595
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:47,160
We've really built our business into the new build market.

596
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:52,840
So we work with a couple of national builders, some regional builders, and some custom luxury

597
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:54,200
home builders as well.

598
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:55,880
We work with remodeling companies.

599
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:57,680
We work with investment companies.

600
00:38:57,680 --> 00:39:02,720
We work with a small amount of even commercial real estate, people who are looking for that

601
00:39:02,720 --> 00:39:04,720
mixed use office type work.

602
00:39:04,720 --> 00:39:09,120
And a lot of our work is actually sort of grown peripherally out of that market.

603
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:15,680
So when we shoot for builders and things like that, we've developed relationships with mortgage

604
00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:22,280
providers and closing attorneys and other and remodeling companies.

605
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:28,200
And it's kind of interesting how that all just sort of grew out of itself.

606
00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:30,320
But outside of that, we do a lot of headshot work.

607
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:32,880
We do a lot of event and video work.

608
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:36,640
We shoot award shows and we shoot business seminars.

609
00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:39,480
We also do a little bit of product work too.

610
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:44,080
We don't push for that, but occasionally somebody comes in, we shoot product.

611
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:49,400
But I think probably overall the biggest area, or I would say the biggest category of what

612
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:55,560
we do in addition to this property stuff, and actually the property work sort of siphons

613
00:39:55,560 --> 00:40:00,040
back into this category too, is we provide marketing assets.

614
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:05,760
I think that's honestly probably the most accurate description of what we do.

615
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:09,320
One short we do photo and video.

616
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:14,360
It's like, yes, in the end, we deliver photography, we deliver videos and things like that.

617
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:19,280
But what we are doing is we are providing people with marketing assets because when

618
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:22,700
it comes to social media, these companies, they need content.

619
00:40:22,700 --> 00:40:25,000
They need content for social media marketing.

620
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:29,000
And it doesn't matter if it's product, if it's a service, or even if it's their own

621
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:30,000
face.

622
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:37,120
And if that's what they build their business on, just recognition, then hey, that picture

623
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:39,320
review is pretty important.

624
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:42,520
But your marketing assets go beyond social media.

625
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:49,280
It goes into whatever, anything you put in front of a potential client, you need a photo

626
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:51,840
or a video of some sort.

627
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:57,120
Every presentation, if it's a proposal debt to a new client, if it's your next Facebook

628
00:40:57,120 --> 00:41:04,080
post, another good example is, let's say a company's redesigning their website for 2025.

629
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:10,960
We've worked with web design companies as well to provide full asset suites for websites.

630
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:16,960
So all the photography, all the video, your video banners, all that kind of stuff, probably

631
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:21,800
a better, better enlarger picture of what we're able to offer.

632
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:27,240
Okay, Chris, you know something, this was an outstanding podcast.

633
00:41:27,240 --> 00:41:30,160
I love learning all about what you do.

634
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:35,000
And if any of my listeners want to contact Chris, contact him, go on Instagram.

635
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:37,280
That's the most prevalent one.

636
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:39,360
And just thank you for coming on.

637
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:40,360
Thanks Michael.

638
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:41,360
I appreciate it.

639
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:42,360
This has been a lot of fun.

640
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:46,480
And to be honest, this is, I haven't done a lot of podcasts, so I needed this practice.

641
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:48,480
All right then.

642
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:49,480
All right.

643
00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:50,480
Goodbye.

644
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:52,840
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You can find me on Apple, Spotify, YouTube, or my website, MichaelAForman.com.

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Remember, until next time, keep practicing, keep connecting, and keep building those relationships.

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00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:27,080
This is Michael A. Foreman, signing off.

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Take care, and happy networking.

