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Yo yo yo what's up everybody it's 2AM here in

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Houston and it is really cold outside for no

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reason whatsoever and I'm gonna tell you right

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now that's not a normal temperature here in Houston.

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We're going to pick up the top of where we left

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off late yesterday, and we're going to start

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off with relationships. I have call -ins ready

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for anybody who has anything they want to add,

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or if they want to pitch a topic for the next

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couple of days, all years. Maybe your call -in

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will become part of the station. We'll see what

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happens. But we're going to start off with this,

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basic relationship standards as far as how to

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keep them stable and keep them going. Most relationships

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require at least two people and I'm hoping that

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it's still that way. Society today says it doesn't

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have to be and you can be a girl with a girl

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and a guy with a guy, that's fine. I don't have

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nothing to say about that. How you feel about

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that, that is totally up to you. I will not condemn

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you. However, as for any relationship, doesn't

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matter whether it's friendship or you're dating

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or you're freaking married, it doesn't matter.

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It takes two to tango my friend and that has

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been a thing since well before the 1990s and

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I was born in 93, so. Let me go ahead and tell

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it to you the way it is right now. And this is

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still on the thoughts topic because that is the

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whole point of my channel here. I want you to

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think about this and keep this in mind. Anytime

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you're in a relationship, it's no more than just

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an advanced friendship. You're still friends

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with that person You're still associated with

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that person Nothing really changes the only perks

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the only benefits of being in a relationship

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with someone is that you can go a little bit

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further Than you would if you were friends. That's

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the only major thing It's basically similar to

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that of a friends with benefits types of relationship

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The only difference is with that type of relationship

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The only thing that you get is the benefits and

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you don't actually associate with each other

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whatsoever That has nothing to do with this if

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you want a real relationship something that's

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gonna last you nearly a lifetime or at least

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to find out that person you're with is someone

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you want to marry and stay with you need to first

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be able to get along with each other act with

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each other be seen in public with each other

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and act the same way you would normally act as

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if you were friends with no major issues keeping

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the taboo stuff at home okay no attitudes no

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issues you need to be able to forgive each other

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you need to be able to Handle anything that happens

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with each other whether it's an incident whether

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the other person got drunk and did something

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stupid Or they even accidentally get arrested

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doesn't matter what it is if you have a forgiving

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heart if you know that you can handle that person

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in Your mental state or you can actually work

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with that person everything should work out just

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fine This is the basis for any kind of relationship

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whether friends whether you're dating. It doesn't

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matter what it is That is the topic here and

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I want to make this a known fact I want to hear

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everyone's opinions on this I want to see what

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they think I'm gonna go ahead and tell you the

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basic rundown as it was taught to me and So you

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can get something to think about get something

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in your heads Like I said, I'm taking Collins

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for the next couple of hours until I fall asleep

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or until you know, I don't get or until this

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topic dies. We'll see how far we can take this,

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how many episodes we're going to get out of this

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podcast here on this radio station. Like I said,

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I'm Neo Gentrix. This is the Thoughts If It Were

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You Saga. That's what I'm doing right now. We're

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going to see how far this goes. And I want to

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hear your thoughts on these topics. I want to

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hear what you guys have to say so we can move

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on forward with this. and see if we can save

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some people's relationships or at least help

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you get started in the right direction for the

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one that you're attempting to get in with, okay?

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Keep in mind, I am not a relationship guru, but

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I do have the guides, the tips to help you keep

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a relationship at least stable. And I honestly

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know that these tips work because I've had a

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relationship lasting more than a year and a half.

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My longest relationship was four and a half to

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five years before... her dad died and everything

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pretty much went to hell and i haven't seen her

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since then so i mean situations like that you

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can't control okay but you got to put yourself

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in that person's shoes and understand where they're

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coming from you know you can't just force them

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to stay with you when in reality they got issues

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they need to work out and they can't do nothing

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about it okay everyone's got problems all right

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it's being able to be there for that person but

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then knowing when to step back and knowing when

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you can help that person and knowing what to

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say i personally am not experienced in this enough

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to give you advice but I can tell you what I

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do know from personal experience from you know

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failing at it and then what my successes were

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and then you know you can grow from that we're

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gonna see how far this goes like I said feel

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free to call in and we'll get this ball rolling

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here today I'm gonna start off with the first

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topic in a few but here's a short interlude Let's

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start this off with the fact that relationships

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have two people. We're gonna start on the guy's

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side. Obviously, I could do the guy's side because

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I'm a male myself. And yes, for any of those

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out there who say that otherwise I could be something

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else. No, I was born male. I know I am male.

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And I have no issues with my personal self. And

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I don't think I'm a girl. I've heard a lot of

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that going around right now and I've heard it

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from my friends like one of my friends he was

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born a he but he decided to change himself to

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a she I'm not gonna condemn his actions he chose

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to do that you know that's that's his decision

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I have nothing to say about it and I will not

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comment on that topic because that has nothing

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to do with me okay it has nothing to do with

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me or this topic whatsoever so we're gonna focus

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on guys aspect for the next couple of minutes

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and parts to this and how guys are supposed to

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act and what they're supposed to do, okay? I

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mean, it's fairly simple, but for some reason

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I feel like we need to cover this topic once

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and for all anyway. Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys.

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Like I said before, relationships do take two

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people, and yes, the guy does end up falling

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short and having to do most of the work. However,

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with today's current age, the way everything

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is right now, women wanna be independent, they

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wanna be able to handle their own, but they still

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want the guy to be there. for their support for

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their comfort and to do for the most part what

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guys are supposed to be doing as a standard but

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nowadays they don't want us opening the doors

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for them they don't want us paying for their

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food they don't want us doing a whole lot because

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of that independence that thing where women want

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to be you know themselves they want to be conscious

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of their own actions they want to be empowered

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that's fine Let them be how they want to be,

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but this does not change what the guys do. This

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is how you're supposed to be. This is how I was

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raised, okay? How you were raised. I'm not gonna

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make you change the way you are. I'm not gonna

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make you change your thoughts, okay? I just want

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you to think about this for a minute. Alright?

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The standard was, originally, guys are supposed

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to be nice. They're supposed to treat their women

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with respect. From the time they meet them, to

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the time they marry them, to the time they die.

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It doesn't matter. If they... ugly as hell. It

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doesn't matter if they... gorgeous doesn't matter

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if they have a bad attitude doesn't matter if

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they have a kid doesn't matter if the ex is constantly

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always around you treat that woman with respect

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no matter what her actions are no matter what

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she does no matter how she treats you you treat

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her with respect and number one rule of any relationship

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when being a guy never ever raise your hand to

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a woman it doesn't matter who she is it doesn't

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matter what she does you do not ever raise your

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hand to her Okay? That's the number one rule.

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It doesn't matter where you go. You can yell

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at her all day long. That's your decision. It's

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not gentleman -like. But that is your decision.

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But you do not ever raise your hand to a woman.

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And in today's society, just the thought of you

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even doing that is enough to get your ass arrested

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and sent to jail for five plus years. And I'm

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watching it happen constantly over and over again.

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You need to consider your actions before you

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do them. Alright, we're getting that topic right

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there out of the way. Second one is opening doors,

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being nice, treating them with respect, these

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corny pickup lines just to get something good.

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You need to let that go right now, right here,

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right now. Sure they're great and all, and sure

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buttering them up makes them feel all good inside,

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but you need to keep in mind that when you say

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something to a girl, Especially if she already

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finds you cute and tried to or she's even giving

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you the time of day to listen to you That these

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lines can give off the wrong influence the wrong

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impression and if you're actually a legit guy

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Who really does want to date that girl who really

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has interest in her who really likes her these

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pickup lines do not help you at all They cause

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you more grief than it's worth and it makes you

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look like one of those guys That just upstages

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women is basically a womanizer. You are not if

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you are not a womanizer and you know, you're

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not Using pick -up lines is a bad idea straight

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off the bat right now. This is just a personal

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thought. You can tell me how you feel about that,

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what you think about that. That is not the way

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you want to go with this. When you talk to women,

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you need to talk to them normally, talk to them

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with respect, talk about something that's common

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with them, or find out what they have in common.

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But using pick -up lines, I'm gonna go ahead

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and say right now, is a strict no. You shouldn't

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even need to use that whatsoever. They're great

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and all, but that's not the main focus here.

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Keep this I'm gonna keep this focus on this topic

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for a few more minutes. I'm gonna carry this

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for a while things guys can cannot do that will

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keep women interested, but at the same time not

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make them think that we're man whores and You

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know Staying on topic here working with the main

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goal here Like I said before, there are main

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things and some things that guys can and cannot

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do. And like I said in the last piece that, you

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know, pickup lines, they're just not as useful

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as they used to be with the way the current society

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is right now. So we're going to go back into

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this topic again. Like I said, we're going to

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continue this for a little bit and see where

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it goes. And like I said, if you have any thoughts,

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go ahead and call in. We'll, you know, we'll

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go ahead and put those in here as well and throw

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in your conversation as well. The main thing

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that guys need to be is straightforward I'm not

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saying be straightforward how you feel no no

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no no don't don't do that As far as that's concerned

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doing that would just scare the girl away or

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make you think make her think that you're a creep

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That's the last thing that you need right now.

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That's the last thing you have you even want

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If you're a guy who has issues with talking to

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people or even talking to girls in general, that

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is the last thing you want to do. You want to

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find some calming ground. You want to find something

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easy, something simple to talk to them about.

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Start off simple. Don't rush it. You know, even

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if it's just like a simple one minute conversation,

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if you can get that much, you've made some progress.

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Okay. As far as women are concerned, all guys

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are idiots for the most part. I'm not saying

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all women are like this. No. but they they're

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all aiming to get something that they just can't

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get right now or they just want to sleep with

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them and that's that's that's not that's not

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true okay most of us guys we we want to have

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a decent relationship we want to do something

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here and a lot of times i'm like you know the

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women need to put themselves in our shoes understand

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how we feel we work almost every single day from

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the time the sun comes up to the time the sun

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goes down we come home tired we don't want to

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be bothered you know this is just this is just

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how we are okay we're not emotional we don't

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think with our emotions we can use our emotions

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but we don't use them like women do okay most

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women some women aren't even that way some aren't

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emotional some they are logical just like we

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are but just because guys are logical does not

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mean that they use their heads think before you

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open your mouth watch what you say and be gentle

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be loving be caring be sincere be real what you're

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saying You know, lying is the first thing that

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has to go. The second you start lying to the

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girl, you might as well hang it up because she's

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not going to listen to anything else you say.

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And if she does, it's out of pity. I'm sorry

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to say this, but it's mostly out of pity. Like

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she really does not care what you have to say.

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She's just humoring you to kill some time more

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than likely. And then when you meet a girl who's

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snobby, uptight, someone who doesn't care if

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you even exist or why are you even there? I don't

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care how gorgeous she looks. I don't care if

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she's the president of the damn club, I don't

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care if she runs the damn school, I don't care

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if she's your boss, I don't care if she's your

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aunt, uncle, what have you, doesn't matter. Leave

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them alone. Because they're in more trouble than

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they're worth. Honestly, if you think you can

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handle a person with that kind of attitude and

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personality, like my aunts, I grew up with them,

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I grew up knowing them for the most part, not

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with them, but I have more women in my family

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than I have men, okay? understanding what how

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women are and how cross they can get immediately

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like the whole situation can drop in the heart

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in a heartbeat and they can go from being your

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best friend to your worst enemy in like five

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seconds okay this is standard for just them guys

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will stand there duke it out manner of pride

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you know and after about five minutes we get

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over it but women will hold a grudge they will

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hold it and they will hold it for a very long

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time they may never even talk to you again or

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they will talk to you Just to find out more information

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about you just so they can throw you in a pit

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so Again, I'm putting this out there for the

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guys you really need to think about your actions

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watch what you do and be careful how you treat

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them because women are and will always be like

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a precious rose or like a crystal statue sitting

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in the middle of your room and I'm pretty sure

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if you have something delicate something major

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that you care for whether it's a statue your

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playing cards your game console a stupid basketball

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it doesn't matter what it is you treat that basketball

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better than you treat her you might as well hang

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up having a decent relationship or even continuing

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your family legacy right there because the same

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way you treat that item is the same way you need

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to treat her with respect I'm pretty sure if

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someone walked in and you had a basketball that

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you were treating like it was some treasure but

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they walked in with a black marker and wrote

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their name on it you would throw a fit how would

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you feel if another guy walked in on your girl

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wrote their name on the back of her and said

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this girl is mine you can't have her how would

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you feel you need to consider this thought you

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need to consider how this how your actions affect

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her what she does and how this outcome is don't

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be overprotective but then don't be overbearing

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you need to keep that in mind but set your ground

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let her know What you will will not allow but

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don't be overbearing and don't be too spiteful

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about okay