Yo yo yo what's up everybody it's 2AM here in
Houston and it is really cold outside for no
reason whatsoever and I'm gonna tell you right
now that's not a normal temperature here in Houston.
We're going to pick up the top of where we left
off late yesterday, and we're going to start
off with relationships. I have call -ins ready
for anybody who has anything they want to add,
or if they want to pitch a topic for the next
couple of days, all years. Maybe your call -in
will become part of the station. We'll see what
happens. But we're going to start off with this,
basic relationship standards as far as how to
keep them stable and keep them going. Most relationships
require at least two people and I'm hoping that
it's still that way. Society today says it doesn't
have to be and you can be a girl with a girl
and a guy with a guy, that's fine. I don't have
nothing to say about that. How you feel about
that, that is totally up to you. I will not condemn
you. However, as for any relationship, doesn't
matter whether it's friendship or you're dating
or you're freaking married, it doesn't matter.
It takes two to tango my friend and that has
been a thing since well before the 1990s and
I was born in 93, so. Let me go ahead and tell
it to you the way it is right now. And this is
still on the thoughts topic because that is the
whole point of my channel here. I want you to
think about this and keep this in mind. Anytime
you're in a relationship, it's no more than just
an advanced friendship. You're still friends
with that person You're still associated with
that person Nothing really changes the only perks
the only benefits of being in a relationship
with someone is that you can go a little bit
further Than you would if you were friends. That's
the only major thing It's basically similar to
that of a friends with benefits types of relationship
The only difference is with that type of relationship
The only thing that you get is the benefits and
you don't actually associate with each other
whatsoever That has nothing to do with this if
you want a real relationship something that's
gonna last you nearly a lifetime or at least
to find out that person you're with is someone
you want to marry and stay with you need to first
be able to get along with each other act with
each other be seen in public with each other
and act the same way you would normally act as
if you were friends with no major issues keeping
the taboo stuff at home okay no attitudes no
issues you need to be able to forgive each other
you need to be able to Handle anything that happens
with each other whether it's an incident whether
the other person got drunk and did something
stupid Or they even accidentally get arrested
doesn't matter what it is if you have a forgiving
heart if you know that you can handle that person
in Your mental state or you can actually work
with that person everything should work out just
fine This is the basis for any kind of relationship
whether friends whether you're dating. It doesn't
matter what it is That is the topic here and
I want to make this a known fact I want to hear
everyone's opinions on this I want to see what
they think I'm gonna go ahead and tell you the
basic rundown as it was taught to me and So you
can get something to think about get something
in your heads Like I said, I'm taking Collins
for the next couple of hours until I fall asleep
or until you know, I don't get or until this
topic dies. We'll see how far we can take this,
how many episodes we're going to get out of this
podcast here on this radio station. Like I said,
I'm Neo Gentrix. This is the Thoughts If It Were
You Saga. That's what I'm doing right now. We're
going to see how far this goes. And I want to
hear your thoughts on these topics. I want to
hear what you guys have to say so we can move
on forward with this. and see if we can save
some people's relationships or at least help
you get started in the right direction for the
one that you're attempting to get in with, okay?
Keep in mind, I am not a relationship guru, but
I do have the guides, the tips to help you keep
a relationship at least stable. And I honestly
know that these tips work because I've had a
relationship lasting more than a year and a half.
My longest relationship was four and a half to
five years before... her dad died and everything
pretty much went to hell and i haven't seen her
since then so i mean situations like that you
can't control okay but you got to put yourself
in that person's shoes and understand where they're
coming from you know you can't just force them
to stay with you when in reality they got issues
they need to work out and they can't do nothing
about it okay everyone's got problems all right
it's being able to be there for that person but
then knowing when to step back and knowing when
you can help that person and knowing what to
say i personally am not experienced in this enough
to give you advice but I can tell you what I
do know from personal experience from you know
failing at it and then what my successes were
and then you know you can grow from that we're
gonna see how far this goes like I said feel
free to call in and we'll get this ball rolling
here today I'm gonna start off with the first
topic in a few but here's a short interlude Let's
start this off with the fact that relationships
have two people. We're gonna start on the guy's
side. Obviously, I could do the guy's side because
I'm a male myself. And yes, for any of those
out there who say that otherwise I could be something
else. No, I was born male. I know I am male.
And I have no issues with my personal self. And
I don't think I'm a girl. I've heard a lot of
that going around right now and I've heard it
from my friends like one of my friends he was
born a he but he decided to change himself to
a she I'm not gonna condemn his actions he chose
to do that you know that's that's his decision
I have nothing to say about it and I will not
comment on that topic because that has nothing
to do with me okay it has nothing to do with
me or this topic whatsoever so we're gonna focus
on guys aspect for the next couple of minutes
and parts to this and how guys are supposed to
act and what they're supposed to do, okay? I
mean, it's fairly simple, but for some reason
I feel like we need to cover this topic once
and for all anyway. Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys.
Like I said before, relationships do take two
people, and yes, the guy does end up falling
short and having to do most of the work. However,
with today's current age, the way everything
is right now, women wanna be independent, they
wanna be able to handle their own, but they still
want the guy to be there. for their support for
their comfort and to do for the most part what
guys are supposed to be doing as a standard but
nowadays they don't want us opening the doors
for them they don't want us paying for their
food they don't want us doing a whole lot because
of that independence that thing where women want
to be you know themselves they want to be conscious
of their own actions they want to be empowered
that's fine Let them be how they want to be,
but this does not change what the guys do. This
is how you're supposed to be. This is how I was
raised, okay? How you were raised. I'm not gonna
make you change the way you are. I'm not gonna
make you change your thoughts, okay? I just want
you to think about this for a minute. Alright?
The standard was, originally, guys are supposed
to be nice. They're supposed to treat their women
with respect. From the time they meet them, to
the time they marry them, to the time they die.
It doesn't matter. If they... ugly as hell. It
doesn't matter if they... gorgeous doesn't matter
if they have a bad attitude doesn't matter if
they have a kid doesn't matter if the ex is constantly
always around you treat that woman with respect
no matter what her actions are no matter what
she does no matter how she treats you you treat
her with respect and number one rule of any relationship
when being a guy never ever raise your hand to
a woman it doesn't matter who she is it doesn't
matter what she does you do not ever raise your
hand to her Okay? That's the number one rule.
It doesn't matter where you go. You can yell
at her all day long. That's your decision. It's
not gentleman -like. But that is your decision.
But you do not ever raise your hand to a woman.
And in today's society, just the thought of you
even doing that is enough to get your ass arrested
and sent to jail for five plus years. And I'm
watching it happen constantly over and over again.
You need to consider your actions before you
do them. Alright, we're getting that topic right
there out of the way. Second one is opening doors,
being nice, treating them with respect, these
corny pickup lines just to get something good.
You need to let that go right now, right here,
right now. Sure they're great and all, and sure
buttering them up makes them feel all good inside,
but you need to keep in mind that when you say
something to a girl, Especially if she already
finds you cute and tried to or she's even giving
you the time of day to listen to you That these
lines can give off the wrong influence the wrong
impression and if you're actually a legit guy
Who really does want to date that girl who really
has interest in her who really likes her these
pickup lines do not help you at all They cause
you more grief than it's worth and it makes you
look like one of those guys That just upstages
women is basically a womanizer. You are not if
you are not a womanizer and you know, you're
not Using pick -up lines is a bad idea straight
off the bat right now. This is just a personal
thought. You can tell me how you feel about that,
what you think about that. That is not the way
you want to go with this. When you talk to women,
you need to talk to them normally, talk to them
with respect, talk about something that's common
with them, or find out what they have in common.
But using pick -up lines, I'm gonna go ahead
and say right now, is a strict no. You shouldn't
even need to use that whatsoever. They're great
and all, but that's not the main focus here.
Keep this I'm gonna keep this focus on this topic
for a few more minutes. I'm gonna carry this
for a while things guys can cannot do that will
keep women interested, but at the same time not
make them think that we're man whores and You
know Staying on topic here working with the main
goal here Like I said before, there are main
things and some things that guys can and cannot
do. And like I said in the last piece that, you
know, pickup lines, they're just not as useful
as they used to be with the way the current society
is right now. So we're going to go back into
this topic again. Like I said, we're going to
continue this for a little bit and see where
it goes. And like I said, if you have any thoughts,
go ahead and call in. We'll, you know, we'll
go ahead and put those in here as well and throw
in your conversation as well. The main thing
that guys need to be is straightforward I'm not
saying be straightforward how you feel no no
no no don't don't do that As far as that's concerned
doing that would just scare the girl away or
make you think make her think that you're a creep
That's the last thing that you need right now.
That's the last thing you have you even want
If you're a guy who has issues with talking to
people or even talking to girls in general, that
is the last thing you want to do. You want to
find some calming ground. You want to find something
easy, something simple to talk to them about.
Start off simple. Don't rush it. You know, even
if it's just like a simple one minute conversation,
if you can get that much, you've made some progress.
Okay. As far as women are concerned, all guys
are idiots for the most part. I'm not saying
all women are like this. No. but they they're
all aiming to get something that they just can't
get right now or they just want to sleep with
them and that's that's that's not that's not
true okay most of us guys we we want to have
a decent relationship we want to do something
here and a lot of times i'm like you know the
women need to put themselves in our shoes understand
how we feel we work almost every single day from
the time the sun comes up to the time the sun
goes down we come home tired we don't want to
be bothered you know this is just this is just
how we are okay we're not emotional we don't
think with our emotions we can use our emotions
but we don't use them like women do okay most
women some women aren't even that way some aren't
emotional some they are logical just like we
are but just because guys are logical does not
mean that they use their heads think before you
open your mouth watch what you say and be gentle
be loving be caring be sincere be real what you're
saying You know, lying is the first thing that
has to go. The second you start lying to the
girl, you might as well hang it up because she's
not going to listen to anything else you say.
And if she does, it's out of pity. I'm sorry
to say this, but it's mostly out of pity. Like
she really does not care what you have to say.
She's just humoring you to kill some time more
than likely. And then when you meet a girl who's
snobby, uptight, someone who doesn't care if
you even exist or why are you even there? I don't
care how gorgeous she looks. I don't care if
she's the president of the damn club, I don't
care if she runs the damn school, I don't care
if she's your boss, I don't care if she's your
aunt, uncle, what have you, doesn't matter. Leave
them alone. Because they're in more trouble than
they're worth. Honestly, if you think you can
handle a person with that kind of attitude and
personality, like my aunts, I grew up with them,
I grew up knowing them for the most part, not
with them, but I have more women in my family
than I have men, okay? understanding what how
women are and how cross they can get immediately
like the whole situation can drop in the heart
in a heartbeat and they can go from being your
best friend to your worst enemy in like five
seconds okay this is standard for just them guys
will stand there duke it out manner of pride
you know and after about five minutes we get
over it but women will hold a grudge they will
hold it and they will hold it for a very long
time they may never even talk to you again or
they will talk to you Just to find out more information
about you just so they can throw you in a pit
so Again, I'm putting this out there for the
guys you really need to think about your actions
watch what you do and be careful how you treat
them because women are and will always be like
a precious rose or like a crystal statue sitting
in the middle of your room and I'm pretty sure
if you have something delicate something major
that you care for whether it's a statue your
playing cards your game console a stupid basketball
it doesn't matter what it is you treat that basketball
better than you treat her you might as well hang
up having a decent relationship or even continuing
your family legacy right there because the same
way you treat that item is the same way you need
to treat her with respect I'm pretty sure if
someone walked in and you had a basketball that
you were treating like it was some treasure but
they walked in with a black marker and wrote
their name on it you would throw a fit how would
you feel if another guy walked in on your girl
wrote their name on the back of her and said
this girl is mine you can't have her how would
you feel you need to consider this thought you
need to consider how this how your actions affect
her what she does and how this outcome is don't
be overprotective but then don't be overbearing
you need to keep that in mind but set your ground
let her know What you will will not allow but
don't be overbearing and don't be too spiteful
about okay