Okay. So I'm going to give you 30 quick ways
to keep a guy interested. Okay. And I'm going
to do this in two parts real quick. And, but
it might be one episode for those listening to
this on the podcast. All right. Going back into
the previous topic in the first eight. topics
that i mentioned to you keeping that guy interested
in you first thing you need to do is be spontaneous
okay shock him on him make plans for the evening
or plan an entire elaborate date by yourself
okay surprise him and never be too predictable
this doesn't mean that you know you expect you
don't want him to plan a date out for you you
know every so often you know you plan one so
that he knows that you care enough to at least
you know give him a break from all the trying
to make you happy if he is already putting in
the effort to do so too Don't change yourself.
Stay true to the real person that you are. Don't
change yourself constantly assuming he doesn't
like your personality. But at the same time,
be creative, but stick to your comfort zone.
Don't step outside your comfort zone just to
try something new to the point where you're not
even the person that you initially were. Three,
take initiative in bed, okay? If you're already
with a guy that you love and you want to be with,
you know, your guy may... like taking you taking
control in the bed but when you dominate him
in some cases and show off your confidence you
know he can't be help can't help but be in awe
of your confidence and sexiness in bed and at
the same time he'll respond accordingly especially
you know if he wants more in the future or he
wants to do more that that night fourth which
is probably something i shouldn't have to say
but i'm gonna mention it anyway smell great all
the time okay always smell great around him but
don't overpower subtle fragrances with no sickly
sweet perfumes though and at the same time you
know always smell good and pay attention pay
special attention to your personal hygiene and
body odor just because something smells great
does not mean it smells great on you for an extended
period okay all his friends okay men are competitive
as long as he thinks he has the best girl on
the social circle he'll always cling to you and
want to be with you you know by arming his friends
and making them think you're a great girl and
you've done a great job okay six learn to seduce
him but in the right way okay seduction doesn't
stop in the bed okay be sexy around him be creative
wherever you go you know just simple things all
right and you know seduction i'll i'll talk about
that in a later piece okay uh show off his hobbies
okay you know A guy would absolutely love a girl
who shows interest in his special hobbies, be
it playing an Xbox or climbing a mountain. Men
want to spend their lives with a woman who truly
understands them and connects to them. Show interest
in his hobbies, but don't give up on your own
at the same time to do what he wants to do because
at the same time, you're not being true to yourself.
Eight, and this is one of the major things that
bothers most guys. Don't be a drama queen. Okay,
it's alright to throw a fussy fit now and then
but if your guy disrespects you. But no matter
what, do not exaggerate a situation or blow it
out of proportion just to prove a point. Okay,
guys can see through the acts of even the best
drama queens and unfortunately all it does is
push us away. It doesn't make us want to fix
the problem. It just makes us think that this
woman is spoiled or doesn't really care what
I think. they just want what they want and at
the same time it pushes us away and lessens the
attractiveness between you and him 9. be his
shoulder to lean on also okay give him your strength
and support when he is low on morale this helps
out guys a lot you know reassure him and help
him confide his problems to you be it his confidence
and his warm pillow when he's in the dumps and
he'll treat you like a goddess now granted Usually,
this would be something that a woman would expect
a guy to do, but keep in mind that even guys
have emotional breakdowns as well. Be it rare
as it is, it does happen. okay 10 be his arm
candy okay look good in his arms and with when
both of you are together okay get a new hairstyle
now and then not all the time but now and then
look fashionable classy and he'll never want
you to leave his arms at all okay granted do
not squeeze his arms to the point where he can't
use them anymore because that's going to make
them make him uncomfortable and want to move
either on make you unhook his arm or walk away
Granted, he will still love you and want to be
with you, but he will want his arm to breathe
more, okay? I bring this up because it has happened
to me once before, and I have to make it known
to my girlfriend that, you know, be it that it's
great she's there, I like the feeling in my arms.
Just throwing this out there, alright? Next.
Okay, 11. Be financially secure, okay? This is
something that you have to keep in mind. While
it's great to have a guy that is financially
sound, you need to make sure you're also financially
sound for the sake of should something happen
to him, okay? Be in control of your own finances
as well and have a well -settled job. You know,
guys love a girl with a steady head on her shoulders
as well. At the same time, you know, they stay
a mile away from a careless spending thrift.
You know, basically gold diggers. They can't
stand gold diggers. Now, granted, if he's some
type of sugar daddy, then that's one thing. But
at the same time, you know, Most normal guys
do not really pay attention to women like that,
okay? Well, at the same time, don't expect your
man to always be some high and mighty person
who has a great job, who can take care of himself.
You might find that you're actually in love with
a person who doesn't have a lot of anything going
for him in the first place, and you might want
to help him and support him, okay? And the only
way to do this is for you to have a job and be
financially secure yourself, okay? Next. Have
intelligent conversations with your guy, okay?
A guy may want an armed guinea when he's on the
streets But he also wants a lover who can communicate
with him and have intelligent conversations at
the end of the day This doesn't mean all day.
It just means there are certain parts of the
day, okay? Next you want to win over his family
Okay, guys are attached to their families and
a few guys are even loyal mama's boys, which
you know can't be helped Granted I did mention
this in the guys section That no girl loves an
excessive mama's boy, but at the same time, you
know If you make his family and friends think
you're a catch, you know He'll definitely love
you more and he'll draw pull a little bit away
from his mom. I'll start to depend more on you
which is a good thing for you. Next, help him
deal with life, okay? Men may behave like the
saviors of the world, but inside there's still
little boys who need a cuddle and a hug every
now and then. You know, help your man deal with
issues life throws at him, all right? Don't just,
you know, ignore him and say, man up and deal
with it, okay? Some guys are unable to do this.
Next, public displays of affection, okay? Your
man may be shy, may shy away for a bit of, a
little PDA, but he still loves it when you cling
to his arms like a damsel in distress. It makes
him feel more powerful and yes, even a little
bit sexy. While that's being said, stroke his
ego a little. Not a lot, but a little. If you
want to keep your guy interested and happy, learn
to stroke his ego. Compliment his achievements.
Give him a pat on the back when he's proud of
something. Make him feel like a man and he'll
stay your man. Be independent and dependent,
okay? I understand this is a little confusing,
but be dependent when you're with him, okay?
Be independent when you're by yourself. Know
the difference, all right? It'll make him feel
more like a man when he's around you without
really feeling like you're needy when he's busy
doing something else, okay? If you're an independent
type woman, that's great when you're all by yourself,
but if you want your man to be with you, love
you, and be attracted to you more, you know,
learn to be dependent. on him and him only when
you're with him okay this helps build the attraction
between the two and learn more about each other
um next be happy and interesting okay be interesting
and creative with your life you'll see the happy
side of everything even in the most mundane of
days okay when you're you're an optimist you
know you're if uh your infectious happiness will
eventually definitely rub on to him as well okay
At the same time, don't make him feel insecure.
Flirt with others and talk to men, but never
at the cost of his insecurity. When he's around,
hug him close and he'll swell with the affection
for you as well. Also, don't be easily available.
Spend time with him, but don't be ready for him
at his beck and call. Be there for him, but make
him miss you when you aren't around. At the same
time, you know, be smart and sassy, but don't
ask stupid questions, okay? Guys may like a dumb
bimbet at first, but they're not looking for
a long -term relationship with them, okay? It
just bothers them. At the same time, with that
being said, and I have to laugh saying this a
little bit, don't be clingy and needy, okay?
Guys like a damsel who needs their help, but
that stops once the infatuation period is over,
okay? So, show him that you're self -reliant
and he'll always look for ways to help you and
please you, alright? Just keep that in mind.
Again, these are a lot of things to think about,
but, you know. There's a lot on the men's side
as well so but I want everyone to have a successful
relationship So I just want you guys to think
about a lot of these topics that I'm covering
You know and focus a little bit more on them,
okay? Okay next be sexually innovative okay know
your moves in bed and else everywhere else okay
have sex in different places roleplay with him
a little you know wear an apron and nothing else
while cooking something special you know well
this other one might seem ideal just keep in
mind that some guys might not be into this you
know you can always tie his hands to the bedpost
you know you get the drift don't you at the same
time you know find out what really turns him
on now Not all guys might be into the BDSD type
thing, but at the same time, you know, you might
have one that does, you might have one that likes
to do kinky things. You might have one that's
just a freaking straight up nasty. You never
know what kind of guy you really have until you
start to get to know them a little bit. Okay.
Just keep that in mind. All right. Next. Okay.
With this next one, no matter what people say.
you know the the the adage is you know the way
a man the way to a man's heart is his stomach
still holds good okay be a good cook it doesn't
matter if he can cook look now know how to cook
yourself and at the same time don't be afraid
to eat what he cooks okay even if it does look
a little scary unless he's some type of master
chef okay learn to think like a guy now this
is something that's a little hard um for some
women but at the same time you know there's a
lot of things that guys have a hard time with
as well and they have to focus with you know
guys and girls don't always think a lot along
the same lines okay learn to think like him and
his eyes will well up with happy tears to have
the woman he loves be so special as to understand
him a little bit better okay next don't ever
be a pushover okay don't be the submissive wife
okay you don't need to sit at his feet to earn
his respect and love instead be opinionistic
uh i'm sorry opinionated and throw him around
uh when he throws his weight around you okay
but again you know don't force him to do something
he doesn't want to do next whip him when he can't
behave okay treat him like a spoiled child when
he doesn't behave Ignored his ignoring his childish
behavior or scold him when he behaves like a
slob You know be unpredictable and rude when
he misbehaves and he'll fear you at the same
time He'll respect you the same way he would
his mom. Okay, and yes, unfortunately, this is
something that's pretty advantageous with most
guys as You know guys tend to stick to their
moms Well girls tend to stick to their dads and
this has been held true for the last millennia
Next, make him proud of you. Guys may be shallow
at first sight, but they still want a girl they
can respect and admire. Be an achiever. Be a
girl he can look up to and awe at the same time.
Respect yourself. You're not a doormat. Let him
know that you have the strength to move on if
he does something stupid or treats you badly.
And always make it look like you're the biggest
prize he's won. Call yourself a prize in front
of him. But, you know, show it to him by ignoring
him or pushing him out of the bedroom when he
misbehaves. Going back to that previous topic,
you know, and at the same time, make him dependent
on you. As long as he thinks he can't live without
you or if he feels helpless without you, he'll
always stay interested in you. OK, pick the traits
you can use, you know, and you'll see how easy
it is. It can be to keep a guy interested in
you, but never let him use you or treat you like
a pushover. And don't think twice about punishing
him or putting him in his place when he doesn't
treat you right. Earn his respect and let him
earn yours. It's not something that's given,
it's earned. Treat him with love and affection,
but only if he deserves it after all. As long
as he fears losing a catch like yourself, he'll
never put a toe out of line at all. He'll always
be there with you. And with that being said,
when I say punish him, I'm throwing this out
at the end of this piece here. Do not go after
another guy. This will definitely push him away
more so than it will be considered punishment.
Because all he's going to want to do at this
point is retaliate, which is always going to
end up doing is breaking your little heart or
hurting your feelings. And you don't want a guy
to do this. Okay.