WEBVTT 00:00:05.740 --> 00:00:08.400 picking up where we left off yesterday good morning 00:00:08.400 --> 00:00:11.359 everybody it is 3 46 a .m here where i'm at and 00:00:11.359 --> 00:00:15.279 the temperature is currently i don't believe 00:00:15.279 --> 00:00:18.800 it is 18 degrees outside how are you guys doing 00:00:18.800 --> 00:00:21.219 this morning this is neogentrics with thoughts 00:00:21.219 --> 00:00:23.399 if it were you relationships from the women's 00:00:23.399 --> 00:00:25.960 side i'm gonna pick it up where we left off yesterday 00:00:25.960 --> 00:00:29.399 with the eighth point that i had initially talked 00:00:29.399 --> 00:00:33.500 about you know men can't read minds um As convinced 00:00:33.500 --> 00:00:35.380 as you are, you know, men should have the innate 00:00:35.380 --> 00:00:37.619 ability to read a woman's mind. They just really 00:00:37.619 --> 00:00:39.780 can't. So, you know, you need to speak your mind 00:00:39.780 --> 00:00:41.979 and he'll listen to your thoughts more than likely 00:00:41.979 --> 00:00:47.420 than not. Because no guy wants to upset a woman 00:00:47.420 --> 00:00:50.560 where they don't know what's wrong. And it just 00:00:50.560 --> 00:00:52.780 causes irritation and frustration between the 00:00:52.780 --> 00:00:57.920 two. Okay? Nine. Pick up on number nine. No guy 00:00:57.920 --> 00:01:01.359 likes a drama queen, okay? Especially if she 00:01:01.359 --> 00:01:03.380 goes looking for ways to complicate the relationship, 00:01:03.679 --> 00:01:06.000 okay? If you're the kind of person that constantly 00:01:06.000 --> 00:01:08.480 is looking for things that are wrong, I'm going 00:01:08.480 --> 00:01:09.599 to just go ahead and tell you right now, just 00:01:09.599 --> 00:01:13.540 stop. Because no guy likes to deal with issues 00:01:13.540 --> 00:01:15.819 and problems, okay? That's why most guys, when 00:01:15.819 --> 00:01:19.439 they have an issue or stuff that bothers them, 00:01:19.560 --> 00:01:23.159 they can't solve it, they leave it alone. That's 00:01:23.159 --> 00:01:25.879 simply not because we don't have the urge to 00:01:25.879 --> 00:01:28.299 want to fix it or solve the problem. It's just 00:01:28.299 --> 00:01:32.519 that if it causes unnecessary issues, then we 00:01:32.519 --> 00:01:34.400 consider it unwarranted and we don't want to 00:01:34.400 --> 00:01:36.760 spend any unnecessary time and energy on it because 00:01:36.760 --> 00:01:38.900 it doesn't benefit us in any way. And there's 00:01:38.900 --> 00:01:41.480 no outcome in which we've actually, I guess you 00:01:41.480 --> 00:01:46.459 could say prosper from. Okay. So causing. intentional 00:01:46.459 --> 00:01:48.980 irritation just hurts the relationship and puts 00:01:48.980 --> 00:01:51.439 and pushes the other person further away while 00:01:51.439 --> 00:01:53.540 you may feel safer about everything that you 00:01:53.540 --> 00:01:56.040 know keep in mind you're just pushing him further 00:01:56.040 --> 00:01:59.359 and further away number 10 is the silent treatment 00:01:59.359 --> 00:02:02.359 okay ignoring your boyfriend when he hurts you 00:02:02.359 --> 00:02:05.060 uh may seem like the best way to teach him a 00:02:05.060 --> 00:02:06.719 lesson but i'm gonna go ahead and be honest with 00:02:06.719 --> 00:02:09.300 you truth be told the silent treatment won't 00:02:09.300 --> 00:02:11.860 make him stop hurting you it only makes him a 00:02:11.860 --> 00:02:15.479 better liar okay by you not saying anything he's 00:02:15.479 --> 00:02:18.740 gonna think he can get away with it so unless 00:02:18.740 --> 00:02:22.500 you correct him right there and then uh more 00:02:22.500 --> 00:02:25.080 likely than not he's gonna continue doing what 00:02:25.080 --> 00:02:27.000 he's doing you have to be straightforward and 00:02:27.000 --> 00:02:29.159 honest and just tell straight up tell the truth 00:02:29.159 --> 00:02:32.300 i know it's hard sometimes to do this but if 00:02:32.300 --> 00:02:34.759 you can buck up and do the very thing i'm also 00:02:34.759 --> 00:02:37.819 telling the guys to do and not lie to your partner 00:02:37.819 --> 00:02:41.530 you know you'll be a better team for it Oh, and 00:02:41.530 --> 00:02:44.590 ironically, number 11 from the list of 23 things 00:02:44.590 --> 00:02:48.710 I mentioned in the beginning. You and your partner 00:02:48.710 --> 00:02:51.129 are a team, okay? There's no winners or losers 00:02:51.129 --> 00:02:53.889 between partners. Either both of you will win 00:02:53.889 --> 00:02:56.030 or both of you will lose together. So any issues 00:02:56.030 --> 00:02:58.169 have to be worked out to better the relationship 00:02:58.169 --> 00:03:02.270 not to win points, okay? He's not higher than 00:03:02.270 --> 00:03:05.870 you. You're not higher than him. Yes. don't get 00:03:05.870 --> 00:03:08.550 me wrong if you're a bible person it does say 00:03:08.550 --> 00:03:10.210 the man is the head of the household however 00:03:10.210 --> 00:03:13.509 he is not a dictator it just means that he has 00:03:13.509 --> 00:03:16.030 the last say so under the guidelines that god 00:03:16.030 --> 00:03:20.430 set that is all it means okay he's supposed to 00:03:20.430 --> 00:03:22.090 help protect you and you're supposed to help 00:03:22.090 --> 00:03:23.610 protect him i'm just going to go ahead and throw 00:03:23.610 --> 00:03:27.210 that in there right now um but neither one of 00:03:27.210 --> 00:03:30.110 y 'all is higher than the other okay you all 00:03:30.110 --> 00:03:34.759 work together sorry about that It's actually 00:03:34.759 --> 00:03:38.659 pretty cold here. I can't help but yawn. I'm 00:03:38.659 --> 00:03:42.659 just trying to stay awake. Warm in my room with 00:03:42.659 --> 00:03:46.659 my blanket. I'm trying my best here. 12. Men 00:03:46.659 --> 00:03:49.800 think they hate high -maintenance women, okay? 00:03:50.060 --> 00:03:52.539 But that's exactly the kind of girl they secretly 00:03:52.539 --> 00:03:55.020 desire, okay? A girl that wants them to do a 00:03:55.020 --> 00:03:57.400 lot for them where they don't, you know, they 00:03:57.400 --> 00:04:01.379 feel appreciated and such, okay? And don't worry, 00:04:01.460 --> 00:04:03.300 if you're not sure whether or not you're a high 00:04:03.300 --> 00:04:05.199 maintenance woman, I can definitely give you 00:04:05.199 --> 00:04:07.879 15 signs in which that will help determine whether 00:04:07.879 --> 00:04:10.860 or not you are. High maintenance to a point, 00:04:10.900 --> 00:04:13.500 however, is a such thing as being too high maintenance 00:04:13.500 --> 00:04:16.399 where a guy just can't deal with you whatsoever 00:04:16.399 --> 00:04:18.160 and you don't want to be that kind of person, 00:04:18.279 --> 00:04:20.759 okay? I'm going to take a short interlude here 00:04:20.759 --> 00:04:22.480 and we're going to move on to the next five points. 00:04:29.960 --> 00:04:33.060 Okay. Picking up back where we are at. We're 00:04:33.060 --> 00:04:36.920 at number 13. Okay. Out of the 23 things. Love 00:04:36.920 --> 00:04:40.360 is a complex blend of physical attraction and 00:04:40.360 --> 00:04:42.579 emotional attachment for men. Okay. Make a man 00:04:42.579 --> 00:04:44.540 realize that he needs you emotionally before 00:04:44.540 --> 00:04:47.899 he sees all of you. Okay. There are seven stages 00:04:47.899 --> 00:04:51.680 of love for men. I will cover that in a later 00:04:51.680 --> 00:04:55.199 episode for this podcast. However. Just know 00:04:55.199 --> 00:04:57.079 that there are some stages in doing this where 00:04:57.079 --> 00:04:59.079 you can make a man fall for you before he ever 00:04:59.079 --> 00:05:04.139 actually sees you. 14. Every guy loves a girl 00:05:04.139 --> 00:05:07.259 who's a lady on the street, but yet like a hooker 00:05:07.259 --> 00:05:10.990 in the bed. Okay, I'm not saying this. in the 00:05:10.990 --> 00:05:12.769 sense that you know every man wants a hooker 00:05:12.769 --> 00:05:16.050 no that's not the case um they just want they 00:05:16.050 --> 00:05:18.449 want a woman who can be a woman when she needs 00:05:18.449 --> 00:05:21.089 to be but a freak when she needs to be at the 00:05:21.089 --> 00:05:23.589 same time but know that there's a time and a 00:05:23.589 --> 00:05:27.589 place for everything okay um do not mix the two 00:05:27.589 --> 00:05:33.490 all right next 15 know that love is full of layers 00:05:33.490 --> 00:05:37.250 okay it takes time to fall in love and experience 00:05:37.250 --> 00:05:39.910 the relationship one step at a time okay rushing 00:05:39.910 --> 00:05:43.050 too soon and moving in together too soon can 00:05:43.050 --> 00:05:45.069 make him think twice about his commitment to 00:05:45.069 --> 00:05:47.949 you even before he really has fallen in love 00:05:47.949 --> 00:05:51.810 with you okay um and there are 10 reasons why 00:05:51.810 --> 00:05:55.730 um i have i have 10 reasons here why saying i 00:05:55.730 --> 00:06:00.639 love you too soon also sucks um There are some 00:06:00.639 --> 00:06:02.579 cases where that's not the case, but it depends 00:06:02.579 --> 00:06:06.699 on the people that are actually together. Again, 00:06:08.160 --> 00:06:12.459 this also depends on you as well. 16. Don't let 00:06:12.459 --> 00:06:15.019 yourself go. You're in a long -term relationship. 00:06:15.139 --> 00:06:18.199 Sexual attraction plays a big part in a happy 00:06:18.199 --> 00:06:21.420 romance. Work out. Look your best. If you want 00:06:21.420 --> 00:06:23.459 your man to desire you more than he desires any 00:06:23.459 --> 00:06:27.129 other woman, be better than... any other woman 00:06:27.129 --> 00:06:29.449 around you i'm not saying compete with them i'm 00:06:29.449 --> 00:06:32.990 saying be the only thing he sees and be have 00:06:32.990 --> 00:06:37.629 you know be what he likes most while still being 00:06:37.629 --> 00:06:41.490 yourself okay with that being said number 17 00:06:41.490 --> 00:06:46.970 is brought up insecurity woes don't wet i'm sorry 00:06:46.970 --> 00:06:49.949 don't let your insecurities get the better of 00:06:49.949 --> 00:06:52.730 you okay sex appeal is all in your mind and how 00:06:52.730 --> 00:06:57.079 you project yourself okay so You know, if you're 00:06:57.079 --> 00:07:00.339 having issues feeling sexy or desirable at times, 00:07:00.480 --> 00:07:04.420 I got 14 easy tips for that as well. I will cover 00:07:04.420 --> 00:07:09.819 that in another piece. Number 18. I know I probably 00:07:09.819 --> 00:07:12.959 brought this up earlier in yesterday's podcast, 00:07:13.100 --> 00:07:15.360 but I'm going to go ahead and say it again. Praise 00:07:15.360 --> 00:07:17.579 him for his achievements, okay? Even if it's 00:07:17.579 --> 00:07:20.120 small, you know, he'll try harder all the time 00:07:20.120 --> 00:07:22.930 just to win your praise, okay? this is notorious 00:07:22.930 --> 00:07:25.389 with just about any guy because you know every 00:07:25.389 --> 00:07:28.029 guy i mean even women sometimes you know they 00:07:28.029 --> 00:07:30.370 like to get a pat on the head saying good job 00:07:30.370 --> 00:07:33.370 you did wonderful sweetheart or what have you 00:07:33.370 --> 00:07:36.449 you did really good son you know most people 00:07:36.449 --> 00:07:40.110 love this type of thing okay know that guys like 00:07:40.110 --> 00:07:43.029 women who crave attention guys love being praised 00:07:43.029 --> 00:07:45.430 for their achievements it strikes their ego a 00:07:45.430 --> 00:07:49.889 little bit makes them feel good 19. Don't try 00:07:49.889 --> 00:07:53.029 too hard to please your man. Okay, if your gestures 00:07:53.029 --> 00:07:56.930 aren't reciprocated He just take you for granted. 00:07:57.029 --> 00:07:59.970 Okay, instead make him realize just how lucky 00:07:59.970 --> 00:08:03.029 he is to have you But at the same time, you know, 00:08:03.029 --> 00:08:05.089 most guys just take things for granted instead 00:08:05.089 --> 00:08:08.430 of realizing how lucky they are, you know There 00:08:08.430 --> 00:08:12.110 are ways to tell There's a ways to make your 00:08:12.110 --> 00:08:14.589 boyfriend want you more than ever like I probably 00:08:14.589 --> 00:08:17.389 I mentioned before But at the same time, you 00:08:17.389 --> 00:08:21.029 know don't Be overbearing, you know. 20 states 00:08:21.029 --> 00:08:24.509 this, okay? This is my 20th point. A man needs 00:08:24.509 --> 00:08:27.009 his space, okay? Even if he doesn't ask for it, 00:08:27.029 --> 00:08:29.230 as long as he is by himself or with his guy friends, 00:08:29.430 --> 00:08:31.569 you really have nothing to worry about. In fact, 00:08:31.709 --> 00:08:33.870 it'll help both of you love each other better, 00:08:33.990 --> 00:08:37.250 okay? Know how to give each other space without 00:08:37.250 --> 00:08:41.750 being overbearing to each other, okay? Which 00:08:41.750 --> 00:08:54.899 will bring us to our next piece. Well, that brings 00:08:54.899 --> 00:08:57.519 us to our last three points for the 23 things, 00:08:57.659 --> 00:08:59.519 and then I'm going to cover some side topics 00:08:59.519 --> 00:09:05.440 as well here. 21 is this, okay? Get kinky, okay? 00:09:06.159 --> 00:09:10.759 Kinky. K -I -N -K -L. Why? A relationship needs 00:09:10.759 --> 00:09:13.299 to evolve all the time, and so does sexual intimacy. 00:09:13.360 --> 00:09:15.720 If you think your sex life is starting to get 00:09:15.720 --> 00:09:19.240 predictable or boring... Try something new every 00:09:19.240 --> 00:09:21.159 now and then. Talking dirty is a great way to 00:09:21.159 --> 00:09:23.559 kickstart your sexual adventure and bring a little 00:09:23.559 --> 00:09:26.200 more desirability into it as well as a lot of 00:09:26.200 --> 00:09:30.299 new surprises that you may or may not know you 00:09:30.299 --> 00:09:32.440 were even capable of doing in the first place. 00:09:33.259 --> 00:09:36.179 With that being said, should he slip up or do 00:09:36.179 --> 00:09:38.919 something out of the norm? you accidentally hurt 00:09:38.919 --> 00:09:42.039 each other or you get mad this brings us to point 00:09:42.039 --> 00:09:45.279 22 okay and this is something that pushes all 00:09:45.279 --> 00:09:48.000 guys away i'm sorry i have to go ahead and bring 00:09:48.000 --> 00:09:52.379 this up now uh don't knee him below the belt 00:09:52.379 --> 00:09:57.799 okay using sarcasm or snide comments aside you 00:09:57.799 --> 00:10:01.259 know if he feels helpless or emotionally violated 00:10:01.259 --> 00:10:03.559 he'll just straight up stop communicating with 00:10:03.559 --> 00:10:09.080 you um with that being said also When I say don't 00:10:09.080 --> 00:10:10.840 knee him below the belt, I also mean that literally. 00:10:11.700 --> 00:10:17.000 Please don't aim below his waistline for anything, 00:10:17.200 --> 00:10:21.159 even if you want to hit him. Nothing destroys 00:10:21.159 --> 00:10:25.440 a guy's pride more than hitting him below the 00:10:25.440 --> 00:10:29.519 belt, literally. It doesn't help him lean any 00:10:29.519 --> 00:10:31.820 more closer to you. In fact, it actually pushes 00:10:31.820 --> 00:10:35.470 him further away from you. And, ironically, into 00:10:35.470 --> 00:10:37.929 the hospital. I'm not trying to be funny. I'm 00:10:37.929 --> 00:10:45.929 dead serious. And I had a friend who, you know, 00:10:45.929 --> 00:10:48.210 true story, was dating this girl because she 00:10:48.210 --> 00:10:49.929 thought he was cheating on her when he tried 00:10:49.929 --> 00:10:52.889 to buy her some stuff for self -defense. She 00:10:52.889 --> 00:10:54.870 was still upset with him and without thinking. 00:10:55.509 --> 00:10:58.809 When he displayed how to use her taser to her, 00:10:58.909 --> 00:11:02.240 she tried to use it at the same time. She was 00:11:02.240 --> 00:11:03.919 still mad at him when she tried to confront him 00:11:03.919 --> 00:11:05.820 about it, but she went about it the wrong way. 00:11:05.899 --> 00:11:07.379 Like I mentioned before, you know, don't let 00:11:07.379 --> 00:11:10.600 your anger control you. And she tased him in 00:11:10.600 --> 00:11:15.159 his nuts. Now, well, to women, that may not seem 00:11:15.159 --> 00:11:17.320 like a big deal for us guys. That is just the 00:11:17.320 --> 00:11:20.139 cringiest thought, one of the cringiest thoughts 00:11:20.139 --> 00:11:24.779 possible. And as a result, he is now unable to 00:11:24.779 --> 00:11:28.659 actually have kids. Does she regret her actions? 00:11:29.220 --> 00:11:32.600 I have no idea. But once she finally came to 00:11:32.600 --> 00:11:35.740 realize what she had done, let's put it this 00:11:35.740 --> 00:11:38.620 way. She cried for days because now even if she 00:11:38.620 --> 00:11:42.840 marries him, he can't he can't have kids, help 00:11:42.840 --> 00:11:45.679 her have kids at any time. So it's unfortunate. 00:11:46.960 --> 00:11:50.220 Which brings us to point 23. Be his shoulder 00:11:50.220 --> 00:11:52.419 to lean on. Like I mentioned before, as macho 00:11:52.419 --> 00:11:54.600 as he may seem, he's also a child who needs a 00:11:54.600 --> 00:11:56.899 woman's love to give him emotional support and 00:11:56.899 --> 00:12:00.860 strength. OK. while these tips could seem pleasantly 00:12:00.860 --> 00:12:04.500 easy to follow um you need to keep in mind that 00:12:04.500 --> 00:12:06.740 are they really that simple you know do you really 00:12:06.740 --> 00:12:08.480 think you're following all these tips in your 00:12:08.480 --> 00:12:11.500 own love life most people think they are um but 00:12:11.500 --> 00:12:15.139 they never actually do okay You need to use these 00:12:15.139 --> 00:12:19.639 23 must -know relationship advice tips for women 00:12:19.639 --> 00:12:22.820 if you want to be able to create a better romance 00:12:22.820 --> 00:12:25.799 for yourself and your man. After all, experiencing 00:12:25.799 --> 00:12:29.139 a perfect romance doesn't have to be as hard 00:12:29.139 --> 00:12:32.379 as most people think it is. And now I'm going 00:12:32.379 --> 00:12:36.139 to cover... Now that I've finished covering the 00:12:36.139 --> 00:12:38.539 23 must -knows, I'm going to cover some side 00:12:38.539 --> 00:12:41.419 topics on the side to help women improve their... 00:12:41.419 --> 00:12:44.379 I guess you could say... relationship abilities 00:12:44.379 --> 00:12:47.279 and making themselves feel a little more confident 00:12:47.279 --> 00:12:47.960 in their abilities.