WEBVTT 00:00:07.919 --> 00:00:11.359 everybody this is thoughts if it were you food 00:00:11.359 --> 00:00:15.119 for thought by neogentrix relationships the women's 00:00:15.119 --> 00:00:19.920 side and it is 12 23 a .m here where i am at 00:00:19.920 --> 00:00:24.699 and the temperature outside is 28 degrees how 00:00:24.699 --> 00:00:27.559 are you guys doing this morning last time we 00:00:27.559 --> 00:00:30.359 were talking about relationships for the women's 00:00:30.359 --> 00:00:34.939 side we covered 23 topics in which women can 00:00:34.939 --> 00:00:37.979 use 23 things in which women can use to help 00:00:37.979 --> 00:00:39.820 improve their relationship with the man that 00:00:39.820 --> 00:00:42.579 they're with and Teach them how to love them 00:00:42.579 --> 00:00:45.119 a little bit more and keep their eyes only on 00:00:45.119 --> 00:00:53.460 them Today I'm gonna move on to the next bit 00:00:53.460 --> 00:00:55.200 like I mentioned before we're gonna talk about 00:00:55.200 --> 00:00:57.740 a couple of little tidbits here and there of 00:00:57.740 --> 00:00:59.159 other things that women can do to improve their 00:00:59.159 --> 00:01:03.939 relationships as well and then We'll finish it 00:01:03.939 --> 00:01:06.239 off hopefully either today or tomorrow with these 00:01:06.239 --> 00:01:10.340 podcasts on this radio station. All right. So 00:01:10.340 --> 00:01:11.799 we're going to pick up where we left off, what 00:01:11.799 --> 00:01:15.659 relationships need in order to grow and evolve 00:01:15.659 --> 00:01:19.379 to become perfect, or at least perfect in a manner 00:01:19.379 --> 00:01:21.519 of speaking, okay? Here are a few things to talk 00:01:21.519 --> 00:01:24.200 about in a relationship that can help you do 00:01:24.200 --> 00:01:27.959 just that, okay? The first thing you need to 00:01:27.959 --> 00:01:30.200 keep in mind is that all relationships aren't 00:01:30.200 --> 00:01:31.760 the same, and the status of your relationship 00:01:31.760 --> 00:01:33.920 has a lot to do with the things you and your 00:01:33.920 --> 00:01:36.099 partner talk about, okay? While conversation 00:01:36.099 --> 00:01:38.439 comes naturally as two people start dating and 00:01:38.439 --> 00:01:40.219 falling in love with each other, there are a 00:01:40.219 --> 00:01:42.280 few conversations that can help create a perfect 00:01:42.280 --> 00:01:46.840 relationship over time. So, first off, answer 00:01:46.840 --> 00:01:50.379 this question. Again, remember the whole point 00:01:50.379 --> 00:01:54.340 of this. on my station and my channel here for 00:01:54.340 --> 00:01:56.540 this podcast is to make you think about what 00:01:56.540 --> 00:01:58.700 you're doing so that you can improve your lifestyle 00:01:58.700 --> 00:02:01.659 and make it better for both you and your loved 00:02:01.659 --> 00:02:06.700 ones okay so answer this are you new in a relationship 00:02:06.700 --> 00:02:10.520 or are you in a seasoned long -term relationship 00:02:10.520 --> 00:02:12.159 you need to consider which one of these you're 00:02:12.159 --> 00:02:15.840 actually in and what the state of it is okay 00:02:16.680 --> 00:02:18.240 Things to talk about in a relationship, okay? 00:02:18.719 --> 00:02:20.879 Conversations between couples have to be fun 00:02:20.879 --> 00:02:24.560 and yet illuminating, okay? I can give you a 00:02:24.560 --> 00:02:26.340 few things that you can talk about to keep it, 00:02:26.340 --> 00:02:29.759 you know, exciting and love glowing strong, I 00:02:29.759 --> 00:02:36.120 guess is the best way to put it, okay? Irrespective 00:02:36.120 --> 00:02:38.439 of your relationship status, there are a few 00:02:38.439 --> 00:02:40.479 conversation tips that can help both you and... 00:02:40.699 --> 00:02:43.639 Help both of you understand each other and create 00:02:43.639 --> 00:02:46.060 new exciting conversations that can keep the 00:02:46.060 --> 00:02:48.060 relationship alive even when it doesn't involve 00:02:48.060 --> 00:02:53.199 love and mosh. The first thing is daily individual 00:02:53.199 --> 00:02:57.879 lives. Talk about each other's daily events and 00:02:57.879 --> 00:03:01.080 activities. It can help both of you understand 00:03:01.080 --> 00:03:04.120 more about each other's lives. Most couples ignore 00:03:04.120 --> 00:03:06.039 these conversations and end up drifting away 00:03:06.039 --> 00:03:08.180 from each other in no time because they don't 00:03:08.180 --> 00:03:11.080 choose to learn about the other person. Okay. 00:03:11.879 --> 00:03:15.620 Next would be movies and TV shows. Movies and 00:03:15.620 --> 00:03:17.379 television shows are perfect conversation makers 00:03:17.379 --> 00:03:20.560 for all couples. They provide for hours of gossiping 00:03:20.560 --> 00:03:22.979 and interesting conversations with a fresh perspective 00:03:22.979 --> 00:03:28.000 every day as they never are constant. Okay. Next 00:03:28.000 --> 00:03:31.469 would be crushes and second glances. Okay. Do 00:03:31.469 --> 00:03:33.110 you think someone in your workshop is attractive 00:03:33.110 --> 00:03:36.289 or is someone from the third floor trying to 00:03:36.289 --> 00:03:37.969 catch your attention by trying to flirt with 00:03:37.969 --> 00:03:40.310 you? You know, talk to your partner about it. 00:03:40.330 --> 00:03:43.229 It may feel uncomfortable at first, but these 00:03:43.229 --> 00:03:45.610 conversations can actually bring both of you 00:03:45.610 --> 00:03:49.009 more closer than even before and even eliminate 00:03:49.009 --> 00:03:51.969 insecurities. At the same time, it'll also help 00:03:51.969 --> 00:03:57.250 you avoid any unwanted attention. From other 00:03:57.250 --> 00:03:59.210 people when you're trying to focus on the one 00:03:59.210 --> 00:04:06.469 that you're with, okay We're gonna take a short 00:04:06.469 --> 00:04:08.210 interlude right here and then we're gonna pick 00:04:08.210 --> 00:04:19.430 it up with hobbies and interests All right next 00:04:19.430 --> 00:04:21.370 topic that we're gonna cover here is hobbies 00:04:21.370 --> 00:04:24.769 and interests, okay, do you like clubbing painting 00:04:24.769 --> 00:04:27.689 playing games Talk about it with your partner. 00:04:28.110 --> 00:04:30.290 Our hobbies and interests change all the time, 00:04:30.310 --> 00:04:32.209 and keeping our lover in the loop will help both 00:04:32.209 --> 00:04:34.129 of you understand each other's likes and dislikes 00:04:34.129 --> 00:04:37.290 a lot better. Next would be silent conversations. 00:04:38.129 --> 00:04:40.550 Silence is a beautiful thing in any relationship. 00:04:40.810 --> 00:04:43.129 Just being able to sit next to each other without 00:04:43.129 --> 00:04:45.509 feeling awkward or having to worry about what 00:04:45.509 --> 00:04:47.370 to talk about is a sign of a perfect relationship 00:04:47.370 --> 00:04:50.980 already. But then again, are you both being comfortable 00:04:50.980 --> 00:04:52.860 with each other or just ignoring each other? 00:04:52.920 --> 00:04:55.420 You need to consider that as well. Sometimes 00:04:55.420 --> 00:04:57.300 you can be sitting there for the wrong reasons, 00:04:57.360 --> 00:05:01.660 not saying anything to each other. Next, you 00:05:01.660 --> 00:05:06.060 know, new relationships are more fun and exciting. 00:05:06.620 --> 00:05:08.199 We're going to talk about those for a second. 00:05:08.259 --> 00:05:11.180 It's touchy -feely, sexy, and doesn't involve 00:05:11.180 --> 00:05:14.800 a hint of long -term relationship just yet, you 00:05:14.800 --> 00:05:17.730 know. You may be floating on the bubble of infatuation 00:05:17.730 --> 00:05:21.449 and everything may just seem perfect, but if 00:05:21.449 --> 00:05:23.569 you want your relationship to stay the same forever, 00:05:23.870 --> 00:05:26.769 talk about serious issues in a lighter vein and 00:05:26.769 --> 00:05:29.670 avoid any long -term plans unless both of you 00:05:29.670 --> 00:05:31.709 are definitely serious about the relationship. 00:05:32.389 --> 00:05:34.850 Here are a few great things to talk about as 00:05:34.850 --> 00:05:38.129 well as far as a new relationship, okay? Goals 00:05:38.129 --> 00:05:42.370 and focus in life. New relationships are exciting 00:05:42.370 --> 00:05:45.449 and mysterious, but it helps a lot to start understanding 00:05:45.449 --> 00:05:48.850 each other's goals and aspirations in life early 00:05:48.850 --> 00:05:51.589 in the relationship to avoid the pain of being 00:05:51.589 --> 00:05:53.589 stuck in a relationship with two different goals 00:05:53.589 --> 00:05:56.649 and ideologies toward life. You want to have 00:05:56.649 --> 00:05:58.889 something similar or something close to the other 00:05:58.889 --> 00:06:01.430 person, or at least be able to support each other 00:06:01.430 --> 00:06:05.230 despite the goals that y 'all select. New places 00:06:05.230 --> 00:06:08.009 to see. That's the next one here on my list. 00:06:08.800 --> 00:06:10.600 Talking about new places to spend the weekend 00:06:10.600 --> 00:06:13.019 together can be a lot of fun in the new relationship. 00:06:13.220 --> 00:06:16.019 Do you have a few favorite hangouts where you 00:06:16.019 --> 00:06:17.839 like to spend a few hours over the weekend? Or 00:06:17.839 --> 00:06:20.279 did you just hear about a new restaurant or a 00:06:20.279 --> 00:06:21.920 movie that you definitely wanted to check out? 00:06:22.079 --> 00:06:24.399 These are things you can talk about to help improve 00:06:24.399 --> 00:06:29.459 your relationship. With that being said, talk 00:06:29.459 --> 00:06:32.379 about each other's lives. Talk about either of 00:06:32.379 --> 00:06:34.899 your friends and their relationships. Talk about 00:06:34.899 --> 00:06:39.779 work. either of your favorite shows on TV. In 00:06:39.779 --> 00:06:41.939 a new relationship, even the most mundane of 00:06:41.939 --> 00:06:44.000 conversations can make your partner's eyes light 00:06:44.000 --> 00:06:47.160 up. Help both of you understand each other's 00:06:47.160 --> 00:06:49.279 friends, interests, and everything else with 00:06:49.279 --> 00:06:52.160 happy gossip, good gossip, not the bad kind. 00:06:52.459 --> 00:06:54.720 There is a difference between good and bad gossip, 00:06:54.779 --> 00:06:57.180 whereas one will help you as far as your relationship 00:06:57.180 --> 00:06:59.759 and your life goes, and the other will destroy 00:06:59.759 --> 00:07:02.399 everything that's in your path, which... No one 00:07:02.399 --> 00:07:06.100 wants. Okay. Next thing is lifestyle and habits. 00:07:06.959 --> 00:07:09.120 What does your partner like doing over the weekend? 00:07:09.160 --> 00:07:11.959 Okay. How long do they take to dress up for a 00:07:11.959 --> 00:07:14.319 night out? How long do they spend playing games 00:07:14.319 --> 00:07:16.839 every evening? What about vacations, family, 00:07:16.939 --> 00:07:21.300 pets, hobbies, and all the works? You know, couples 00:07:21.300 --> 00:07:24.420 in a new relationship have so many exciting things 00:07:24.420 --> 00:07:26.620 to talk about, don't they? You know, use these 00:07:26.620 --> 00:07:28.959 conversations to learn about each other's lifestyles 00:07:28.959 --> 00:07:31.100 and interests. You know, it can help judge your 00:07:31.100 --> 00:07:34.019 compatibility for long term and avoid issues 00:07:34.019 --> 00:07:37.459 in the long run. And then on top of that, I'm 00:07:37.459 --> 00:07:38.920 going to go ahead and bring up a topic that's 00:07:38.920 --> 00:07:42.160 kind of hard for some people to talk about. Their 00:07:42.160 --> 00:07:44.600 past relationships. Past relationships are suspense 00:07:44.600 --> 00:07:47.000 thrillers in the dating scenario. We want to 00:07:47.000 --> 00:07:49.000 talk about it, but yet we're too scared to talk 00:07:49.000 --> 00:07:52.720 about it because we feel like the time is right. 00:07:54.569 --> 00:07:56.730 Talking about it before the time is right can 00:07:56.730 --> 00:07:59.050 hurt you, but at the same time, if you don't 00:07:59.050 --> 00:08:02.149 talk about it, it can cause problems later. Don't 00:08:02.149 --> 00:08:03.949 talk about your past relationships until you're 00:08:03.949 --> 00:08:05.829 a few months into the new relationship, unless, 00:08:05.930 --> 00:08:08.550 of course, it crops up out of the blue into a 00:08:08.550 --> 00:08:10.529 conversation, which is what I was saying before. 00:08:11.769 --> 00:08:13.910 Hiding facts about past relationships or revealing 00:08:13.910 --> 00:08:16.490 them too soon can create insecurities and confusion, 00:08:16.910 --> 00:08:19.550 and that could damage a relationship before it 00:08:19.550 --> 00:08:21.870 has time to even create a strong foundation. 00:08:22.170 --> 00:08:33.090 So keep this in mind as well. Moving on. Next 00:08:33.090 --> 00:08:35.789 thing to talk about in season long -term relationships, 00:08:36.070 --> 00:08:39.210 okay? Long -term relationships are not easy to 00:08:39.210 --> 00:08:42.549 experience, okay? But if you've been past a few 00:08:42.549 --> 00:08:44.649 years and are still deeply in love with each 00:08:44.649 --> 00:08:47.389 other, well, kudos to you, okay? I congratulate 00:08:47.389 --> 00:08:50.179 you right here, right now. Here are a few things 00:08:50.179 --> 00:08:51.799 to talk about in long -term relationships that 00:08:51.799 --> 00:08:54.379 will ensure that both of you still think along 00:08:54.379 --> 00:08:56.399 the same lines. After all, a perfect long -term 00:08:56.399 --> 00:08:58.379 relationship isn't defined by two people in love 00:08:58.379 --> 00:09:00.639 with each other. It's defined by the two people 00:09:00.639 --> 00:09:02.340 who love each other and understand each other 00:09:02.340 --> 00:09:05.960 more than anyone else in the world does. Things 00:09:05.960 --> 00:09:08.139 you can actually talk about after this point. 00:09:08.759 --> 00:09:11.879 Finances. Finances and money issues. play a big 00:09:11.879 --> 00:09:13.919 part in any long -term relationship and monetary 00:09:13.919 --> 00:09:18.399 satisfaction in a long -term relationship can 00:09:18.399 --> 00:09:20.620 be achieved only if both partners discuss ways 00:09:20.620 --> 00:09:23.340 to save money, invest money, and as well spend 00:09:23.340 --> 00:09:26.120 it. Next would be your future together and paired 00:09:26.120 --> 00:09:29.419 goals. Going back to the goals thing here. One 00:09:29.419 --> 00:09:31.159 of the satisfying conversations of a long -term 00:09:31.159 --> 00:09:33.759 relationship is the one involving future plans 00:09:33.759 --> 00:09:35.559 and goals in life. You know, talk about your 00:09:35.559 --> 00:09:37.559 dreams and aspirations with your partner and 00:09:37.559 --> 00:09:39.379 make sure you know your partner's wants and dreams 00:09:39.379 --> 00:09:42.950 in life too. Sometimes we assume we know everything 00:09:42.950 --> 00:09:45.309 about our partner, but it takes a few conversations 00:09:45.309 --> 00:09:47.590 and exchange of ideas to truly understand each 00:09:47.590 --> 00:09:52.090 other instead of making wrong assumptions. It's 00:09:52.090 --> 00:09:55.330 better to ask questions than to assume and make 00:09:55.330 --> 00:09:59.029 an ass of yourself. Next would be vacations and 00:09:59.029 --> 00:10:02.690 getaways. Vacations are a happy time for each 00:10:02.690 --> 00:10:06.860 partner. Both of you work hard all year long 00:10:06.860 --> 00:10:11.539 and may want to look forward to something exciting, 00:10:11.779 --> 00:10:14.600 pleasurable, to renew the excitement of love 00:10:14.600 --> 00:10:17.440 and life. Talk about vacation, even if you intend 00:10:17.440 --> 00:10:21.740 to travel several months from now. Talking about 00:10:21.740 --> 00:10:23.919 taking a break and romantic getaway can help 00:10:23.919 --> 00:10:26.200 fill both of you with a surge of happiness and 00:10:26.200 --> 00:10:28.279 motivation, even if there's a lot of hurdles 00:10:28.279 --> 00:10:33.639 of pain today. It helps create relief. Next is 00:10:33.639 --> 00:10:36.759 kids and families. Families may seem perfect 00:10:36.759 --> 00:10:39.120 on the outside, but every one of them has a few 00:10:39.120 --> 00:10:42.460 cracks that can be a minor annoyance. Discuss 00:10:42.460 --> 00:10:44.360 about family matters and how either of you can 00:10:44.360 --> 00:10:46.899 deal with it. Talk about kids and their lives 00:10:46.899 --> 00:10:50.720 ahead. And if you don't have kids just yet, talk 00:10:50.720 --> 00:10:53.720 about when you intend to have them and how you 00:10:53.720 --> 00:10:56.279 can plan for them. Conversations like these are 00:10:56.279 --> 00:10:59.820 better spoken earlier than later. Also, considering 00:10:59.820 --> 00:11:03.139 how many you actually want to try to have. so 00:11:03.139 --> 00:11:05.720 that you're not just having them at random. You 00:11:05.720 --> 00:11:07.299 don't want to say, okay, we're just going to 00:11:07.299 --> 00:11:10.019 have kids and say you're going to have two and 00:11:10.019 --> 00:11:12.440 try but end up with three because a set came 00:11:12.440 --> 00:11:15.659 out as twins. Always consider possibilities. 00:11:16.460 --> 00:11:20.279 Next is intellectual conversations and emotional 00:11:20.279 --> 00:11:23.179 growth. In a perfect relationship, both partners 00:11:23.179 --> 00:11:25.360 must be able to predict each other's thinking 00:11:25.360 --> 00:11:27.700 and behavior, but it doesn't end with a little... 00:11:28.059 --> 00:11:30.340 end with little odd jobs or happy surprises, 00:11:30.559 --> 00:11:33.639 okay? Life is a complex experience. That's as 00:11:33.639 --> 00:11:36.779 unique as we are, okay? Have intellectual conversations 00:11:36.779 --> 00:11:39.259 about life, the paths people choose, the hurdles 00:11:39.259 --> 00:11:42.379 both of you have overcome, and mysterious forces 00:11:42.379 --> 00:11:45.059 that both of you believe in, okay? When you grow 00:11:45.059 --> 00:11:47.799 emotionally and intellectually as a couple, both 00:11:47.799 --> 00:11:50.240 of you will come closer to each other spiritually 00:11:50.240 --> 00:11:53.200 and intellectually, okay? And if that doesn't 00:11:53.200 --> 00:11:55.179 make for a perfect couple, think about it. What 00:11:55.179 --> 00:11:58.549 would, okay? Basically, to experience a perfect 00:11:58.549 --> 00:12:00.509 relationship, you need to remember these little 00:12:00.509 --> 00:12:03.169 things to talk about in any relationship because 00:12:03.169 --> 00:12:06.649 they really, really can make the difference between 00:12:06.649 --> 00:12:10.029 a happy, romantic ending and a very messed up, 00:12:10.110 --> 00:12:14.090 twisted, confused one. Like I mentioned before, 00:12:14.309 --> 00:12:16.789 I want to help you make your relationship more 00:12:16.789 --> 00:12:19.509 stable. But the only way we can do this is if 00:12:19.509 --> 00:12:21.610 you stop and consider your options and think 00:12:21.610 --> 00:12:24.690 about what you're doing before you actually do 00:12:24.690 --> 00:12:42.110 it. Okay. Well, that concludes my radio podcast 00:12:42.110 --> 00:12:46.169 for the tonight. Uh, next we'll be covering the, 00:12:46.289 --> 00:12:49.529 let me have a look here real quick. The next 00:12:49.529 --> 00:12:52.649 topic we're going to cover is 10 reasons why 00:12:52.649 --> 00:12:55.509 saying I love you too soon can cause issues. 00:12:56.570 --> 00:12:59.450 and how to talk dirty to a guy and basically 00:12:59.450 --> 00:13:03.269 sound really sexy, okay? But before I get to 00:13:03.269 --> 00:13:06.090 that, like I mentioned before, these topics and 00:13:06.090 --> 00:13:07.950 things in which I bring up are stuff for everyone 00:13:07.950 --> 00:13:10.850 to consider and to think about. Yes, guys may 00:13:10.850 --> 00:13:13.450 be logical and women may be more emotional, but 00:13:13.450 --> 00:13:15.750 it doesn't stop the fact that we both have to 00:13:15.750 --> 00:13:19.129 stop and consider the other side, how the other 00:13:19.129 --> 00:13:22.090 person feels, and actually think about the actions 00:13:22.090 --> 00:13:24.490 we do in these relationships to help us move 00:13:24.490 --> 00:13:28.220 forward, okay? No relationship is going to move 00:13:28.220 --> 00:13:29.899 forward and go in the direction it's supposed 00:13:29.899 --> 00:13:33.519 to if we don't put in the effort to actually 00:13:33.519 --> 00:13:37.320 make it work. While guys may have the hardest 00:13:37.320 --> 00:13:40.759 side of most of the work in which to do, women 00:13:40.759 --> 00:13:42.779 still need to consider their actions and what 00:13:42.779 --> 00:13:45.159 they do because they can either help build the 00:13:45.159 --> 00:13:46.860 attraction to the guy they're in love with or 00:13:46.860 --> 00:13:49.399 want to be with, or they can completely destroy 00:13:49.399 --> 00:13:52.120 it in a matter of seconds and without doing anything 00:13:52.120 --> 00:13:55.860 to even fix it in the first place. Thinking that 00:13:55.860 --> 00:13:58.279 you're right and always right and that no one 00:13:58.279 --> 00:14:01.120 is more right than you because you're a female 00:14:01.120 --> 00:14:04.100 and guys are all idiots is the wrong way to go 00:14:04.100 --> 00:14:06.700 about it. Whether we are or not is irrelevant. 00:14:07.000 --> 00:14:09.259 How you choose to handle that and what you do 00:14:09.259 --> 00:14:12.480 with it is more important because if you consider 00:14:12.480 --> 00:14:14.840 every guy to be the same and you don't even put 00:14:14.840 --> 00:14:19.059 any trust in any one of us or even risk putting 00:14:19.059 --> 00:14:21.320 yourself out there and trying to do some of the 00:14:21.320 --> 00:14:23.779 work to help make the relationship work, it's 00:14:23.779 --> 00:14:27.950 going to fail. OK, so I'm covering these topics 00:14:27.950 --> 00:14:31.090 because I want to help both sides. OK, I'm not 00:14:31.090 --> 00:14:32.669 rooting for the guys. I'm not rooting for the 00:14:32.669 --> 00:14:34.590 women. I'm rooting for a successful relationship 00:14:34.590 --> 00:14:37.769 that lasts more than six to eight months, possibly 00:14:37.769 --> 00:14:41.009 a year. OK, you can't come to me and tell me 00:14:41.009 --> 00:14:43.309 that you've had a good relationship for a year 00:14:43.309 --> 00:14:46.590 and then it dies. Well, then it wasn't a good 00:14:46.590 --> 00:14:48.370 relationship because it didn't manage to make 00:14:48.370 --> 00:14:52.039 it any further than one year. but kudos to anyone 00:14:52.039 --> 00:14:54.080 who's managed to stay in a relationship for more 00:14:54.080 --> 00:14:57.179 than two to three years okay you must be doing 00:14:57.179 --> 00:14:59.639 something right and that's for these tips that 00:14:59.639 --> 00:15:01.720 i'm giving here just because you're doing something 00:15:01.720 --> 00:15:04.360 right up until this point doesn't mean that you're 00:15:04.360 --> 00:15:06.980 still going to continue to do so you need to 00:15:06.980 --> 00:15:10.399 consider consider what you're doing and keep 00:15:10.399 --> 00:15:13.340 doing what works but at the same time add a little 00:15:13.340 --> 00:15:15.080 spice to your life so that it's not completely 00:15:15.080 --> 00:15:17.200 boring as you're moving forward and you're not 00:15:17.200 --> 00:15:20.590 just you know existing in the relationship and 00:15:20.590 --> 00:15:22.750 you're just expecting both people to be there 00:15:22.750 --> 00:15:26.750 as a whole this is considered a stagnant relationship 00:15:26.750 --> 00:15:29.950 where basically you expect the other person always 00:15:29.950 --> 00:15:32.090 be there but you're not doing anything to help 00:15:32.090 --> 00:15:35.980 incite it okay Well, that brings this particular 00:15:35.980 --> 00:15:39.220 radio podcast to an end. And until next time, 00:15:39.240 --> 00:15:42.659 this is Neogentrix on Thoughts If It Were You, 00:15:42.820 --> 00:15:46.399 Relationships The Women's Side. Okay? We will 00:15:46.399 --> 00:15:49.399 pick this back up with the next piece next time.