guys welcome back to this station food for thought
with neogentrics the time is currently 8 .04
pm where i'm at and the temperature outside is
25 degrees yes we're still on the relationship
topic for the women's side and next i'm going
to cover the how many how men fall in love the
seven stages okay while it may not seem like
it may apply to you keep in mind that again these
tips are here to help you and how you choose
to use them and what you do with them is up to
you I'm just presenting them to you so you can
have something to think about okay speaking of
which stage one appreciation okay this is all
about physical appearance and instant attraction
now this should clear the doubts out for women
stuff okay Men are rather shallow when it comes
to getting attracted at first sight. While women
may fall in love in the first conversation, men
are attracted to a woman only for her physical
aspects and, well, nothing else. Physical appearance
is paramount for men, but it may not necessarily
be the entire package. Each guy has their own
preferences in what he likes about a woman, be
it her face, her legs, her smile, even her size
or her... the way she carries herself. Some of
them, it's just the way she talks. It could even
be the way she runs her hands through her hair.
I mean, each one's a little bit different. A
guy may not even know what it is about a girl
he likes, but if he finds something attractive
in her, he may experience the appreciation stage
early on. As I sign out, while I will move on
to stage two in a second, I'm going to just go
ahead and quickly go over some stuff that guys
find most attractive about women in this first
piece here. Okay? So, what do guys like about
women more than anything else? And, well, there
was a poll that did summarize this. And you may
or may not like this. But I'm just going to go
ahead and list it again. When we did when the
poll was done and I'm getting this information
from a friend of mine she lent it to me Out of
a lot of guys the most areas that most guys tend
to pay attention to Or at least on the poll 20
% of them did was the butt and 22 % was the chest
Not really too surprising, but I did find this
interesting that 19 % of them found the girls
legs attractive Whereas, if I'm not mistaken
here, I do believe about 7 % of them found both
the eyes, the ears, and the nose attractive,
while 11 % found their hair attractive. Okay?
Just thought I'd go ahead and let you know. Now,
these preferences may reflect what guys notice
in girls all the time, but what about on a date?
What do guys notice the most, and what do girls
notice? and overlook in a guy. These facts here
are things that you want to make sure you make
note of. So, keeping in tune with what I was
saying before, do you think... Actually, how
do I ask this? So, what do you think guys like
in a girl, really? This is the question that
I want women to ask, okay? Do you really think...
do you think that they reflect your preference
or do you believe some guys are just wrong in
the head i mean but all said and done the whole
does reflect the preference of most men and well
you'll just have to live with that unfortunately
but ears and those two guys seriously you know
working most women are confused because y 'all
just you just added those for the fun of it you
don't really care too much for it but perhaps
a few people do love ears and some of them others
some others than some more than others have a
sense of humor too when it comes to figuring
out what men find attractive in women as well
so i mean rounding it all up though what do guys
like in the girl physically well as i mentioned
before the poll does kind of reveal that and
it is rather obvious all three are just as close
to the name as a clear winner but men Just in
general love breasts butt and legs, okay? It's
How do I put it so clearly what do guys like
in the girls appearance perhaps? It's to each
his own or perhaps No one really knows what men
find attractive in women or just maybe girls
are just so cute as a bottom That guys just like
everything in a girl you never really know until
you well get to know the guy you're with This
brings us to stage two, infatuation. Men appreciate
a lot of women on a daily basis. However, they
try to steal second glances or get a girl's attention
all the time. This isn't uncommon, but it's not
always as successful either. Either because he's
not trying hard enough or because the girl's
just not interested in him. The infatuation stage
of how men fall in love is also the wooing stage
of love for men in the dating game, as far as
they're concerned. A man may appreciate a lot
of women, but he doesn't really get infatuated
by all of them. If he appreciates a woman and
is interested in wooing her or pursuing her,
he enters into the infatuation phase. A man may
pursue a woman in various ways, but if she doesn't
accept his advances, he usually forgets this
girl as just another attractive girl he'll try
to go after her instead. It's easier for a man
to like a girl one day and forget he ever liked
her the next because he has so many stages to
deal with before he even makes up his mind as
to whether or not he He's going to fall in love
with her or the next one that walks in front
of him. This is definitely true for a lot of
men, and it can't be bypassed, as this stage
is necessary to move on to stage three, which
is attraction. If an attractive girl reciprocates
a guy's advances, he enters into the attraction
stage of love. Until this stage, a guy can walk
away from any girl without any pain or heartbreak,
even if the girl rejects him. he's not really
trying too hard and he's not really falling in
love to uh to care about a rejection when he's
trying to get lucky but if a girl does show the
slightest sign of reciprocation or interest in
the guy or even if he assumes she's into him
the guy digs deep into this stage and then the
attraction stage begins in this stage he decides
to pursue the girl and make her like him um while
this is not that big of an issue for most guys
it does cause a lot of complications later on
should he actually find out that she doesn't
actually like him in which this case it does
end up hurting him okay moving on this brings
us to stage four okay this is impression understanding
how men fall in love is complicated stuff but
quite frankly he's nowhere close to falling in
love right now even in this stage okay all he
wants to do is make the girl like him so in men's
terms he's basically showing off his mating potential
to her um he plans dates and splurges on gifts
to please her um sorry to please the woman he's
definitely not in love but he does want something
good to come out of this stage of impressions
which is what most guys hope for Okay, which
brings us to stage 5 if stage 4 succeeds. If
a guy successfully breezing through the different
stages of love, he'd start to wonder if there's
something more in the air. But instead of falling
in love with the girl, all he's worried about
is how to convince the girl to fall in love with
him. Okay? He would really like the girl in this
stage and would definitely want to go out with
her. but the uncertainty would still confuse
him and he would not be at ease until he's certain
the girl actually likes him okay this stage is
especially prominent when a guy falls in love
with a friend keep in mind that this can also
cause problems he can't really try to impress
her by buying gifts or taking her out on dates
but yet he wouldn't be able to stop pondering
over how to convince the girl to go out with
him okay in this stage all the guy cares about
is how to get the girl to like him um which again
like i said can be a bit of a drag but it's usually
pretty good um here being a guy as myself this
is actually very hard um for a guy as far as
trying to find out if she really does care for
him in return okay most women they play along
with this game only to end up hurting the guy
in the end and but then at that point when they
realize that they actually do have feelings for
the guy they do like him it's already too late
they basically just scared him away okay try
not to do this which then brings us to stage
six reaffirmation uh sorry let me say that again
re -affirmation if he's able to convince the
girl and make her fall in love with him he's
a happy man okay He likes where the dating game
is heading, but until now, in his pursuit of
getting the girl to like him, he has not asked
himself if he really likes the girl or whether
he actually wants to go out with her. Until this
stage of love, getting the girl to like him was
a goal he's been focused on. Once the girl is
in love with him, only then does the guy seriously
start to consider if he wants to have a relationship
with the girl who now loves him. It's a selfish
move, but it's something evolution has taught
all male species, or rather our Father in Heaven,
for those who believe in the Bible. Don't waste
time thinking. Spend your time searching for
more places to bust a nut. Apparently that's
what most guys consider to be the most prominent
thing to do, and that's what evolution has taught
them. However, that's not what the Bible has
taught most people to do in the past. But again,
this is not a religious station and I will not
be going into that unless asked. So I'm going
to go ahead and move on. Now that the girl is
in love with him, he takes a couple of days to
sit back and weigh the pros and cons of being
in the relationship with that girl. You know,
does he really love the girl too? And will he
be happy with her? Is she the woman he wants
and needs? This is key because If you don't fall
into any of these categories after you've already
fallen in love with the guy, unfortunately your
chances of having a relationship with him will
start to slim, or rather dim down to the point
where it's possibly not possible at all. So,
moving on.