WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.000 Welcome back to internet frenzy. Welcome back 00:00:03.000 --> 00:00:06.120 everyone. I'm Whitney and I'm Joe and we're in 00:00:06.120 --> 00:00:11.320 enough frenzy What's so funny about that there's 00:00:11.320 --> 00:00:13.699 literally nothing funny about it Joe, you know, 00:00:13.699 --> 00:00:16.579 it's funny what we have a Christmas tree set 00:00:16.579 --> 00:00:18.899 up and it is a couple days before Thanksgiving 00:00:18.899 --> 00:00:22.000 currently That's like normal that every girlie 00:00:22.000 --> 00:00:24.800 is gonna understand that I mean shout out to 00:00:24.800 --> 00:00:26.879 those that understand that because it feels early 00:00:26.879 --> 00:00:29.300 for me But I was just telling you this Something 00:00:29.300 --> 00:00:31.839 about this holiday season. It feels like I'm 00:00:31.839 --> 00:00:34.020 feeling the vibes like I'm feeling like it's 00:00:34.020 --> 00:00:37.840 actually The season so I'm excited about that. 00:00:37.840 --> 00:00:40.420 I'm excited for Thanksgiving. I know me too. 00:00:40.420 --> 00:00:43.299 I feel so magical I feel like this Christmas 00:00:43.299 --> 00:00:46.619 everything seems so much calmer Don't I have 00:00:46.619 --> 00:00:49.979 had like a crazy couple of years? Where literally 00:00:49.979 --> 00:00:52.280 life's just been spiraling and we felt like you've 00:00:52.280 --> 00:00:55.240 been drowning to be honest. So to feel like we 00:00:55.240 --> 00:00:58.909 are Catching our breath and everything is going 00:00:58.909 --> 00:01:02.770 great. Fuck on wood right freaking out. Thank 00:01:02.770 --> 00:01:09.069 you. Oh What's it was us don't park new? Yeah, 00:01:09.170 --> 00:01:11.969 there it is. There we go spiraling here. Well, 00:01:11.969 --> 00:01:13.989 it's gonna take more than that to kill my mood 00:01:13.989 --> 00:01:17.530 Thank you. No one's here, bro. Our dogs are going 00:01:17.530 --> 00:01:20.189 nuts. Sorry guys. Okay. Anyways pancake. Look 00:01:20.189 --> 00:01:23.109 we were knocking That's it. No, you just wanted 00:01:23.109 --> 00:01:26.560 to keep him going Oh my gosh. Welcome to the 00:01:26.560 --> 00:01:30.819 podcast. Okay. Are you going to do the recap 00:01:30.819 --> 00:01:34.519 of last week? Yes, I am. Okay. Last week's episode 00:01:34.519 --> 00:01:36.939 was so fun and it was fun having you guys vote 00:01:36.939 --> 00:01:39.700 on what theme we needed to do that more often 00:01:39.700 --> 00:01:41.840 on our stories on Instagram and have you guys 00:01:41.840 --> 00:01:44.040 vote what theme of the episode you want us to 00:01:44.040 --> 00:01:47.180 do. But the last week's episode was family secrets. 00:01:47.400 --> 00:01:50.980 Um, revealed the four stories were my aunt faked 00:01:50.980 --> 00:01:53.969 her death and I just found out why. Second story, 00:01:54.049 --> 00:01:56.590 it was revealed my dad had a secret other family 00:01:56.590 --> 00:01:59.109 and now there's drama I effed up by talking about 00:01:59.109 --> 00:02:01.829 a family secret. My mother told me as a child 00:02:01.829 --> 00:02:04.769 And in my bay hole for being upset. My sister 00:02:04.769 --> 00:02:07.150 has been in a secret relationship with my sister 00:02:07.150 --> 00:02:10.270 for two years Which one do you think was the 00:02:10.270 --> 00:02:12.610 fake? I don't remember now. It feels like so 00:02:12.610 --> 00:02:14.750 long ago I know it's been a couple weeks since 00:02:14.750 --> 00:02:18.340 we've filmed an episode but Fake was and this 00:02:18.340 --> 00:02:20.759 one popped off on Instagram. Everyone was loving 00:02:20.759 --> 00:02:24.659 this one. So I got to my own horn to do My aunt 00:02:24.659 --> 00:02:27.659 faked her death and I just found out why and 00:02:27.659 --> 00:02:29.259 technically it wasn't the aunt that faked her 00:02:29.259 --> 00:02:32.259 death It was the grandma that faked the aunts 00:02:32.259 --> 00:02:34.180 death So everyone on Instagram was commenting 00:02:34.180 --> 00:02:37.580 that and being like no that this isn't true. 00:02:37.580 --> 00:02:40.060 The title is misleading blah blah blah I was 00:02:40.060 --> 00:02:42.099 like, oh, I didn't even catch that from chat 00:02:42.099 --> 00:02:45.379 to BT. I remember noticing that. I remember noticing 00:02:45.379 --> 00:02:47.199 the discrepancy when I was listening to your 00:02:47.199 --> 00:02:50.080 story and thinking like, oh, chat. Oh, chat. 00:02:50.259 --> 00:02:52.560 See, I should have been better about that one, 00:02:52.680 --> 00:02:55.340 but a lot of people didn't get it. I'm thinking 00:02:55.340 --> 00:02:57.659 that was the fake, so I did pretty good. Yeah, 00:02:57.900 --> 00:03:00.099 there was a couple of other crazy ones. The whole, 00:03:00.139 --> 00:03:03.479 the boyfriend, I mean the friend dating the little 00:03:03.479 --> 00:03:05.699 sister. For two years secretly. Two years, that 00:03:05.699 --> 00:03:08.120 was a real story, that's crazy. Crazy and the 00:03:08.120 --> 00:03:10.719 parents not telling the son, that's so messed 00:03:10.719 --> 00:03:15.340 up. But anyways, I am so excited for this week's 00:03:15.340 --> 00:03:17.439 episode because of course Thanksgiving's coming 00:03:17.439 --> 00:03:20.819 up, like ASAP this week. And we are really looking 00:03:20.819 --> 00:03:22.439 forward to it. We love Thanksgiving. We get to 00:03:22.439 --> 00:03:24.879 spend time with our families on both sides. And 00:03:24.879 --> 00:03:27.500 it's just really fun. And I gain five pounds 00:03:27.500 --> 00:03:30.879 every year. It's terrible. Five pounds? At least. 00:03:31.219 --> 00:03:34.199 From Thanksgiving? Yes, I go crazy. It's fine. 00:03:34.259 --> 00:03:36.280 I lose five pounds because I play quarterback 00:03:36.280 --> 00:03:39.340 in the turkey bowl. Oh my gosh. I'm just kidding. 00:03:39.659 --> 00:03:43.599 But I'm excited. We're also going to do the Mount 00:03:43.599 --> 00:03:46.710 Rushmore of Thanksgiving food. Yeah, that's going 00:03:46.710 --> 00:03:48.090 to be really fun. We'll do that at the end of 00:03:48.090 --> 00:03:50.770 the episode, though. So let's get your horses. 00:03:50.990 --> 00:03:53.650 Let's get into this week's episode. Joe, kick 00:03:53.650 --> 00:04:16.470 it off for us. The title is. Humans going feast 00:04:16.470 --> 00:04:21.050 mode. Let's freaking go feast mode. I'm ready 00:04:21.050 --> 00:04:25.110 for a feast. Same. So to get this baby kicked 00:04:25.110 --> 00:04:27.050 off, there's going to be a little bit on the 00:04:27.050 --> 00:04:29.029 positive, a little bit on the negative, just 00:04:29.029 --> 00:04:34.470 general Thanksgiving stories. So I turned to 00:04:34.470 --> 00:04:37.569 the subreddit, ask Reddit for a Thanksgiving 00:04:37.569 --> 00:04:40.730 post. And the question that was posed was, so 00:04:40.730 --> 00:04:42.689 who ruined Thanksgiving this year? And this is 00:04:42.689 --> 00:04:46.180 from last Thanksgiving. So just a couple of good 00:04:46.180 --> 00:04:48.360 comments to get us kicked off in the Thanksgiving 00:04:48.360 --> 00:04:52.819 mood. I like it. This is great. This is the very 00:04:52.819 --> 00:04:55.199 first one on the thread. The very first comment 00:04:55.199 --> 00:04:58.600 says, one niece says to another, at least I know 00:04:58.600 --> 00:05:00.939 who my dad is while playing a version of Cards 00:05:00.939 --> 00:05:06.120 Against Humanity. Just some nice holiday banter. 00:05:06.899 --> 00:05:10.279 Can you imagine? I don't get it. I'm not going 00:05:10.279 --> 00:05:14.790 to lie. It's exactly what it sounds like. It's 00:05:14.790 --> 00:05:17.029 just conversation. You get the family all together. 00:05:17.149 --> 00:05:20.610 They're playing a game. And one of them, like, 00:05:20.610 --> 00:05:22.629 could you imagine saying to your cousin, like 00:05:22.629 --> 00:05:24.790 you're joking around, like, well, at least I 00:05:24.790 --> 00:05:27.509 know who my dad is, if they didn't know. Like 00:05:27.509 --> 00:05:29.569 if they were, their dad was out of their lives. 00:05:29.889 --> 00:05:32.089 Like if I'm in a game against my cousin and I'm 00:05:32.089 --> 00:05:36.470 like, at least I know who my dad is. Like, what's 00:05:36.470 --> 00:05:38.730 ruining Thanksgiving? It's not. It's, that's 00:05:38.730 --> 00:05:41.910 just a - Let's just banter. Okay. Unless you 00:05:41.910 --> 00:05:46.040 didn't have a dad. Can you imagine your your 00:05:46.040 --> 00:05:49.420 dad? Was not a part of your life Yeah, but who 00:05:49.420 --> 00:05:51.319 knows what their kind of banter and their humor 00:05:51.319 --> 00:05:53.360 and like how their family jokes because I could 00:05:53.360 --> 00:05:55.220 definitely see a family member saying something 00:05:55.220 --> 00:05:58.300 funny like that You don't think so. It's it's 00:05:58.300 --> 00:06:00.920 the fact that How uncomfortable is that gonna 00:06:00.920 --> 00:06:02.600 make the whole family if she actually doesn't 00:06:02.600 --> 00:06:04.500 know her dad like there's it's not that deep 00:06:04.500 --> 00:06:08.759 It's just like a very simple like It's really 00:06:08.759 --> 00:06:13.060 not that deep. Okay continue. It's just not the 00:06:13.060 --> 00:06:15.680 types of things that you would want to hear. 00:06:15.959 --> 00:06:17.699 I don't know. Yeah, I think I need to fix my 00:06:17.699 --> 00:06:20.180 mentality here. This isn't like funny threat. 00:06:20.220 --> 00:06:22.800 This isn't a funny threat. This is like a, this 00:06:22.800 --> 00:06:26.079 is how my Thanksgiving got ruined. Correct. Okay. 00:06:26.079 --> 00:06:27.959 Sorry. Let me change it. Cause I'm sitting here 00:06:27.959 --> 00:06:29.899 like that's not that funny, but it's not funny. 00:06:30.519 --> 00:06:33.839 Okay. Here we go. It's not funny. It ruins somebody's 00:06:33.839 --> 00:06:39.120 Thanksgiving. Okay. So this one, this one's kind 00:06:39.120 --> 00:06:42.279 of a, you'll understand this one. Oh gosh. My 00:06:42.279 --> 00:06:44.579 daughter showed up three weeks early a few days 00:06:44.579 --> 00:06:46.839 ago and doctor said she's still developing so 00:06:46.839 --> 00:06:48.600 we shouldn't really take her anywhere outside 00:06:48.600 --> 00:06:51.180 of our home for a few weeks. I unfortunately 00:06:51.180 --> 00:06:53.500 had to cancel all plans of traveling out to my 00:06:53.500 --> 00:06:56.220 dad's then out to my mom's then over to the wife's 00:06:56.220 --> 00:06:59.459 parents house. It was tragic. The wife and I 00:06:59.459 --> 00:07:01.779 and the baby were forced to stay home alone watching 00:07:01.779 --> 00:07:04.079 Christmas movies, making an ad hoc Thanksgiving 00:07:04.079 --> 00:07:07.199 dinner and laughing and having a great time peacefully 00:07:07.199 --> 00:07:11.720 alone. P .S. Best Thanksgiving ever. There we 00:07:11.720 --> 00:07:14.920 go. So the baby's born earlier than they expected 00:07:14.920 --> 00:07:17.279 Yes off all the plans and they get to have Thanksgiving 00:07:17.279 --> 00:07:19.459 at home with their brand new baby See that sounds 00:07:19.459 --> 00:07:21.660 great But also the only thing I would need on 00:07:21.660 --> 00:07:23.800 top of that to make it an actually good Thanksgiving 00:07:23.800 --> 00:07:26.360 is like people dropping off a ton of Thanksgiving 00:07:26.360 --> 00:07:28.939 food for me It's like postpartum. You don't want 00:07:28.939 --> 00:07:32.439 to like cook a freaking Thanksgiving meal That's 00:07:32.439 --> 00:07:35.079 his he said that they threw together an ad hoc 00:07:35.079 --> 00:07:38.079 Thanksgiving dinner, which was that mean ad hoc? 00:07:38.079 --> 00:07:40.019 I mean, it's kind of like your best effort. I 00:07:40.019 --> 00:07:42.459 think Just kind of put together what you can. 00:07:42.740 --> 00:07:44.660 Not good enough. It's not good enough for me, 00:07:44.660 --> 00:07:47.000 but I'm glad they had a good time. You just want 00:07:47.000 --> 00:07:48.779 to be the villain in the stories, don't you? 00:07:49.879 --> 00:07:52.279 Continue. All right. There's a couple of other 00:07:52.279 --> 00:07:53.899 ones. This one, I feel like you'll appreciate 00:07:53.899 --> 00:07:57.180 this one. Okay. My cousin's new girlfriend who 00:07:57.180 --> 00:07:59.800 brought her own Tupperware to my family's house 00:07:59.800 --> 00:08:04.019 and proceeded to unasked scrape most of the leftovers 00:08:04.019 --> 00:08:08.660 into her containers. You could have heard a pin 00:08:08.660 --> 00:08:10.779 drop. I think my uncle almost launched across 00:08:10.779 --> 00:08:12.980 the kitchen. It was priceless and will go down 00:08:12.980 --> 00:08:16.720 in family Thanksgiving history. Stop it. I can't 00:08:16.720 --> 00:08:20.279 even imagine. Can you imagine? I'm your girlfriend. 00:08:20.459 --> 00:08:22.459 I've been to your family's Thanksgiving when 00:08:22.459 --> 00:08:24.120 I was a girlfriend. Don't make me laugh. Let's 00:08:24.120 --> 00:08:26.819 say our cousin. I showed up in your mom's house 00:08:26.819 --> 00:08:35.029 with a double A. So good. I cannot even imagine. 00:08:35.110 --> 00:08:37.450 Can you imagine like Isaiah and Marley? Marley's 00:08:37.450 --> 00:08:40.149 dating Isaiah and comes to my family's Thanksgiving 00:08:40.149 --> 00:08:42.210 and has a separate or bad... Marley just like 00:08:42.210 --> 00:08:45.029 pulls out a collapsible, like a Russian doll. 00:08:45.210 --> 00:08:46.789 There's like four different ones. They're all 00:08:46.789 --> 00:08:49.750 good. Small compartmentalized. Honestly, I'd 00:08:49.750 --> 00:08:51.850 respect it so much. Like if that was Marley, 00:08:51.870 --> 00:08:53.990 I'd be like, dude, hell yeah, that's genius. 00:08:54.450 --> 00:08:57.029 I feel like Marley will probably never hear this, 00:08:57.070 --> 00:08:59.110 but that is a Marley thing. I could see Marley 00:08:59.110 --> 00:09:03.750 doing that. Really? Could you not? No, no, now 00:09:03.750 --> 00:09:06.610 I could now she's like in the fam, but I don't 00:09:06.610 --> 00:09:09.429 think like as a girlfriend, just the first Thanksgiving 00:09:09.429 --> 00:09:12.990 for you. Honestly, it's genius. I probably should 00:09:12.990 --> 00:09:15.950 do that this year. I'm going to I'm going to 00:09:15.950 --> 00:09:18.750 go ahead and veto that on your behalf on our 00:09:18.750 --> 00:09:24.850 behalf. No, no, no. OK, I won't. But I want to. 00:09:26.169 --> 00:09:28.909 So there's this thread is great. If you want 00:09:28.909 --> 00:09:31.460 some entertainment. I had a Thanksgiving. Go 00:09:31.460 --> 00:09:33.259 go look at all the crazy Thanksgiving folks. 00:09:33.659 --> 00:09:36.159 But that's fine. Here's another one. My roommate's 00:09:36.159 --> 00:09:39.179 mother's parrot who kept biting everyone. You 00:09:39.179 --> 00:09:42.659 go to Thanksgiving and a parrot is just like. 00:09:43.019 --> 00:09:44.980 You know, OK, one, I wouldn't even eat the food. 00:09:45.019 --> 00:09:48.600 Birds gross me out so much. I think no, that's 00:09:48.600 --> 00:09:50.360 messed up. I know, I know, but there's people 00:09:50.360 --> 00:09:53.340 out there that like if I because I have dogs 00:09:53.340 --> 00:09:56.480 and I people close to me won't eat my food because 00:09:56.480 --> 00:09:59.539 I have dogs in my house. That's messed up right, 00:09:59.539 --> 00:10:01.840 but also if there were birds and someone says 00:10:01.840 --> 00:10:05.899 I probably wouldn't eat their food so You can't 00:10:05.899 --> 00:10:07.580 be offended by the same thing that you would 00:10:07.580 --> 00:10:10.299 turn around and do no. I'm not offended I was 00:10:10.299 --> 00:10:12.399 here sad cuz I'm a good cook though, so I'm like 00:10:12.399 --> 00:10:14.860 oh, you're missing out on my good food, but I 00:10:14.860 --> 00:10:17.740 also Understand like I don't want dog care in 00:10:17.740 --> 00:10:20.519 my food either Frick. Yeah, I just don't want 00:10:20.519 --> 00:10:23.220 to get bit by a parrot okay back to that you're 00:10:23.220 --> 00:10:25.840 right not so much about like The parrot doesn't 00:10:25.840 --> 00:10:28.019 have to take a dump in my food. I just only a 00:10:28.019 --> 00:10:33.440 bit by it. Is there anymore? Of course. It doesn't 00:10:33.440 --> 00:10:35.860 end. I'll read two more. So it says, not sure 00:10:35.860 --> 00:10:38.340 who, but we were walking our dogs when the police 00:10:38.340 --> 00:10:40.360 pulled up down the street and started yelling, 00:10:40.539 --> 00:10:43.720 get down, get down. We saw a dude spill out of 00:10:43.720 --> 00:10:45.879 a house followed by about 10 family members, 00:10:46.080 --> 00:10:48.340 all of them just screaming at him. Cops were 00:10:48.340 --> 00:10:49.919 arresting him and some of the family started 00:10:49.919 --> 00:10:52.399 trying to kick the crap out of the dude. So they 00:10:52.399 --> 00:10:55.129 got arrested too. By the time it was done, there 00:10:55.129 --> 00:10:57.429 were about five or six police cars and about 00:10:57.429 --> 00:11:01.149 as many family members in cuffs edit for those 00:11:01.149 --> 00:11:03.250 who are wondering all i can figure out is that 00:11:03.250 --> 00:11:05.070 yes several of the family had already been in 00:11:05.070 --> 00:11:10.820 jail for meth i didn't proofread this The one 00:11:10.820 --> 00:11:12.700 who was getting arrested and beaten according 00:11:12.700 --> 00:11:15.200 to word on the street was disinvited to Thanksgiving 00:11:15.200 --> 00:11:18.200 after essaying one of the family members or attempting 00:11:18.200 --> 00:11:21.240 to. He decided to re -invite himself by breaking 00:11:21.240 --> 00:11:23.000 through the back door which explains why the 00:11:23.000 --> 00:11:25.480 cops were spilling out from the backyard too. 00:11:26.200 --> 00:11:28.360 Can't stress enough the importance of getting 00:11:28.360 --> 00:11:31.460 an invitation to Thanksgiving. Don't just show 00:11:31.460 --> 00:11:34.440 up unannounced, especially if any of those parameters 00:11:34.440 --> 00:11:37.179 apply to you. You're gonna have to skip this 00:11:37.179 --> 00:11:41.039 year. Oh my gosh. That's fun. That's eventful. 00:11:41.100 --> 00:11:42.919 Could you imagine walking the dogs down the street 00:11:42.919 --> 00:11:45.320 and you just see this whole ordeal? OK, this 00:11:45.320 --> 00:11:47.659 isn't during Thanksgiving, but when we lived 00:11:47.659 --> 00:11:50.559 in our apartment, we hear some commotion. This 00:11:50.559 --> 00:11:53.340 is in our old place and we lived in a not quite 00:11:53.340 --> 00:11:56.740 such a good part of town at this time. But we 00:11:56.740 --> 00:11:59.720 hear like yelling and like something that definitely 00:11:59.720 --> 00:12:02.120 sounded out of the ordinary. Yes, scary. And 00:12:02.120 --> 00:12:04.700 I go to the door and we had a. a bit of fresh 00:12:04.700 --> 00:12:07.220 baby. How old was our kid like? Oh, baby. And 00:12:07.220 --> 00:12:09.480 we're we have a one bedroom apartment. So we're 00:12:09.480 --> 00:12:12.080 literally in our living room and the front door 00:12:12.080 --> 00:12:14.279 is right here and we're sitting on the couch. 00:12:15.000 --> 00:12:17.399 So it's like walls are thin. Yeah. You can hear 00:12:17.399 --> 00:12:19.039 everything. Well, not everything you can hear 00:12:19.039 --> 00:12:21.279 like commotion. Yeah. And there's the way it 00:12:21.279 --> 00:12:23.960 was set up was there was our door and then our 00:12:23.960 --> 00:12:25.740 neighbor's door right next to each other. And 00:12:25.740 --> 00:12:29.019 they were facing two other doors. So there's 00:12:29.019 --> 00:12:31.769 this hallway that connects the two. And long 00:12:31.769 --> 00:12:33.690 story short, the neighbors that live directly 00:12:33.690 --> 00:12:36.470 across from us, they had a history, there were 00:12:36.470 --> 00:12:38.190 people in and out, we'll just say it like that. 00:12:38.929 --> 00:12:42.049 We weren't too sure about like, we didn't always 00:12:42.049 --> 00:12:44.429 feel safe. That's all I'm gonna say. After we 00:12:44.429 --> 00:12:46.710 hear this commotion, I looked through the peephole 00:12:46.710 --> 00:12:50.629 and I literally see my neighbor holding a gun 00:12:50.629 --> 00:12:55.409 and he's facing my door and I can see his entire 00:12:55.409 --> 00:12:58.919 body in the frame going like this, holding. the 00:12:58.919 --> 00:13:01.879 gun pointing it at somebody. And I'm like, Oh, 00:13:01.879 --> 00:13:03.980 I just like back up from the door. I'm like, 00:13:03.980 --> 00:13:06.240 um, someone's about to get shot in front of our 00:13:06.240 --> 00:13:08.720 door. Like, this is not good. He's like, he has 00:13:08.720 --> 00:13:13.100 a gun. He has a gun. What? What's going on? Like 00:13:13.100 --> 00:13:16.159 freaking out or something. Yeah. Anyway, so, 00:13:16.159 --> 00:13:19.500 um, we hear the commotion going back and forth. 00:13:20.240 --> 00:13:25.740 I stay inside and no gunshots were fired. Ended 00:13:25.740 --> 00:13:27.879 up being the nephew of the guy that lived there 00:13:27.879 --> 00:13:31.740 and It was pretty crazy. Yeah, they were also 00:13:31.740 --> 00:13:34.000 the neighbors that they set their apartment on 00:13:34.000 --> 00:13:37.720 fire, their oven on fire in their apartment. 00:13:38.019 --> 00:13:40.960 And the man, the dad, and he was like scrawny, 00:13:41.200 --> 00:13:45.019 skinny guy, literally ripped the oven out of 00:13:45.019 --> 00:13:47.299 the thing because they panicked. They didn't 00:13:47.299 --> 00:13:49.159 want to set the fire off or whatever. It was 00:13:49.159 --> 00:13:51.299 an oil fire. They tried to set it out and there 00:13:51.299 --> 00:13:54.659 was just like crap all over the range. Crazy 00:13:54.659 --> 00:13:57.080 scary. He dragged it out and we were hearing 00:13:57.080 --> 00:14:01.100 screaming. and he literally opened his door and 00:14:01.100 --> 00:14:04.779 he dragged the fired fire how am i i'm explaining 00:14:04.779 --> 00:14:09.360 this terribly the burning fire oven and dragged 00:14:09.360 --> 00:14:13.000 it out and there was black char like scrapes 00:14:13.000 --> 00:14:15.120 everywhere yeah i don't know how long the thing 00:14:15.120 --> 00:14:17.620 was burning for but he had he dragged it out 00:14:17.769 --> 00:14:20.210 into like that middle walkway that I just described. 00:14:20.250 --> 00:14:22.230 Yeah, right in front of our door. Firefighters 00:14:22.230 --> 00:14:24.669 are showing up. So whoever I think his wife probably 00:14:24.669 --> 00:14:26.950 called the police because they just thought their 00:14:26.950 --> 00:14:28.470 house was going to burn down. They couldn't get 00:14:28.470 --> 00:14:31.350 this thing out. And yeah, he went he went Hulk. 00:14:31.470 --> 00:14:33.789 He went beast mode and dragged that thing out. 00:14:34.009 --> 00:14:36.750 And it was there was like char marks where he 00:14:36.750 --> 00:14:39.529 dragged it out into the curb. He wasn't going 00:14:39.529 --> 00:14:41.669 to let all because we had neighbors above us 00:14:41.669 --> 00:14:43.289 to one, two, three, four, five, six, seven. It 00:14:43.289 --> 00:14:46.190 wasn't going to let all eight. units just go 00:14:46.190 --> 00:14:49.350 up in flames. That's so scary. No, yeah, he went 00:14:49.350 --> 00:14:52.590 beast mode. Talk about feast mode. Feast mode, 00:14:52.710 --> 00:14:54.870 beast mode. He grabbed that oven and they couldn't 00:14:54.870 --> 00:14:56.730 cook the rest of the night. And just imagine 00:14:56.730 --> 00:14:59.029 that was probably just like some bacon. It was 00:14:59.029 --> 00:15:02.970 on too hot and like. Frick. I don't know. Frick. 00:15:03.450 --> 00:15:05.669 Well. OK, last one on this and then I'm done. 00:15:06.230 --> 00:15:08.190 OK. Somebody's comment says my favorite part 00:15:08.190 --> 00:15:10.309 of Thanksgiving is logging into Reddit and spending 00:15:10.309 --> 00:15:12.169 hours reading about other people's Thanksgiving 00:15:12.169 --> 00:15:15.149 drama. Wow. There's people out there that really 00:15:15.149 --> 00:15:17.149 do that. Like our whole podcast is based off 00:15:17.149 --> 00:15:19.409 us reading Reddit stories all the time, but I 00:15:19.409 --> 00:15:21.590 can't imagine during Thanksgiving reading Reddit 00:15:21.590 --> 00:15:27.610 stories. Yeah, me either. You're much more of 00:15:27.610 --> 00:15:29.990 a Reddit guy than I am. It's just, yeah, there's 00:15:29.990 --> 00:15:32.529 some of us like to consume the content. Yeah, 00:15:32.929 --> 00:15:35.289 you're more of a consumer. I'm more of a, what 00:15:35.289 --> 00:15:39.539 is it? Creator. Creator. Thank you. But I'm also 00:15:39.539 --> 00:15:41.759 a creator too. Like I like the creating. Yeah, 00:15:41.799 --> 00:15:44.399 you like both. I don't like consuming That was 00:15:44.399 --> 00:15:46.620 a fun thread Joe. Thanks for entertaining us 00:15:46.620 --> 00:15:48.840 with that. We're gonna go on to my story, which 00:15:48.840 --> 00:15:51.399 is story number two That's why you pay me the 00:15:51.399 --> 00:15:54.080 big bucks in my day hole for telling my husband. 00:15:54.100 --> 00:16:00.139 There is a no football rule on Thanksgiving That's 00:16:00.139 --> 00:16:03.480 messed up yes, yeah, I agree. Okay, but here 00:16:03.480 --> 00:16:06.720 we go So I, 38F, host Thanksgiving every year 00:16:06.720 --> 00:16:09.899 because my family is huge, like 50 plus people. 00:16:10.379 --> 00:16:12.559 Cousins, cousins, cousins, everyone's kids running 00:16:12.559 --> 00:16:14.720 around, the whole thing. It's loud, chaotic, 00:16:14.940 --> 00:16:17.759 and honestly the only holiday I actually enjoy. 00:16:18.139 --> 00:16:20.519 My husband, 40M, is a good guy, but he and the 00:16:20.519 --> 00:16:22.720 other men in my family turn into zombies anytime 00:16:22.720 --> 00:16:25.159 football is on. They disappear into the living 00:16:25.159 --> 00:16:27.720 room, pile onto the couch, and stay there all 00:16:27.720 --> 00:16:30.659 day. Every year it ends up being the woman cooking, 00:16:30.960 --> 00:16:33.419 serving, cleaning, and managing 20 plus kids 00:16:33.419 --> 00:16:36.399 while the guys are glued to the TV supervising 00:16:36.399 --> 00:16:38.659 from the couch. This year I told them I wanted 00:16:38.659 --> 00:16:41.740 Thanksgiving to be a no football day. Just this 00:16:41.740 --> 00:16:45.000 one day. I said we have people coming in from 00:16:45.000 --> 00:16:47.620 out of state, tons of kids to keep safe, and 00:16:47.620 --> 00:16:49.580 honestly I'm tired of feeling like I'm running 00:16:49.580 --> 00:16:52.149 a free daycare. while he gets to watch three 00:16:52.149 --> 00:16:55.110 games back to back with his uncles. He got really 00:16:55.110 --> 00:16:58.009 annoyed and said Thanksgiving is football and 00:16:58.009 --> 00:17:00.710 that I'm messing with tradition. I told him he 00:17:00.710 --> 00:17:04.349 can watch highlights later and he said if I turn 00:17:04.349 --> 00:17:06.450 off the game this year, he'll just go to the 00:17:06.450 --> 00:17:08.849 bar instead because at least they won't police 00:17:08.849 --> 00:17:11.670 him. We argued for a bit and now he's sulking 00:17:11.670 --> 00:17:14.029 like I disinvited him from the whole holiday. 00:17:14.490 --> 00:17:16.390 My family hasn't heard about the rule yet and 00:17:16.390 --> 00:17:18.609 I'm already dreading being the one who has to 00:17:18.609 --> 00:17:35.910 announce it. Did you write this? No. Did you 00:17:35.910 --> 00:17:38.650 post this? No, I love when the guys watch football. 00:17:38.650 --> 00:17:42.170 I love watching the football. Look, here's the 00:17:42.170 --> 00:17:45.670 problem. Was this recent? This is about this 00:17:45.670 --> 00:17:48.759 Thanksgiving? Yes. This was posted a week ago. 00:17:48.960 --> 00:17:52.359 Oh, no. Yeah, everyone's going nuts. So here's 00:17:52.359 --> 00:17:55.720 the problem. Yeah. The lineup of games this year 00:17:55.720 --> 00:17:59.960 is really good. What's the lineup? The matchups 00:17:59.960 --> 00:18:02.440 are they're just really good matchups. We have 00:18:02.440 --> 00:18:05.619 like the Chiefs Cowboys. They blame Chiefs have 00:18:05.619 --> 00:18:09.579 to win. Both both teams have to win kind of surging. 00:18:09.759 --> 00:18:12.619 Lots of fans going to score some points. It's 00:18:12.619 --> 00:18:14.420 going to be fun. What else do we have? We have 00:18:14.420 --> 00:18:17.359 the Lions always play. They have to play the 00:18:17.359 --> 00:18:20.819 Lions Rams. That's what it is. That's it. That's 00:18:20.819 --> 00:18:23.740 a killer matchup. Then the day after we also 00:18:23.740 --> 00:18:28.200 have Eagles Bears. It's it's a very good slate 00:18:28.200 --> 00:18:32.200 of NFL games. So it's not like it's not like 00:18:32.200 --> 00:18:34.720 it's the old crappy Lions playing some other 00:18:34.720 --> 00:18:38.440 crappy team. Like they're good games. So sorry 00:18:38.440 --> 00:18:41.200 to the ladies, but the men, the sports fans are 00:18:41.200 --> 00:18:44.390 going to be watching football. Of course, that's 00:18:44.390 --> 00:18:46.549 part of Thanksgiving. There has to be football 00:18:46.549 --> 00:18:50.069 on. Well, yeah, I don't understand why it has 00:18:50.069 --> 00:18:53.789 to be so extreme. Why does she have to be like, 00:18:54.269 --> 00:18:58.230 no football, TVs are off? Well, that's the thing 00:18:58.230 --> 00:19:00.390 is not only is it the husband that's going to 00:19:00.390 --> 00:19:02.589 have to be punished, it's all the men. Can you 00:19:02.589 --> 00:19:05.250 imagine showing up to a Thanksgiving? Someone 00:19:05.250 --> 00:19:07.450 else is hosting and they're like, yeah, no TVs. 00:19:07.750 --> 00:19:10.549 Yeah, they're like, no football. She's mad because 00:19:10.549 --> 00:19:13.650 she... whatever she cooked she said no TV no 00:19:13.650 --> 00:19:15.990 no one's gonna want to go the next year after 00:19:15.990 --> 00:19:17.769 that because their husbands are gonna be like 00:19:17.769 --> 00:19:20.769 absolutely not I'm hosting I don't know if this 00:19:20.769 --> 00:19:22.950 is this is a bad deal because I don't really 00:19:22.950 --> 00:19:25.109 care who it is I'm gonna be giving them grief 00:19:25.109 --> 00:19:27.289 yeah I'm gonna be talking smack I'm gonna be 00:19:27.289 --> 00:19:30.470 like oh so like Jerry what you're you're not 00:19:30.470 --> 00:19:32.269 not helping out around the house like tell you 00:19:32.269 --> 00:19:34.890 what I volunteer to help Jerry do the dishes 00:19:34.890 --> 00:19:37.230 After we're done if we can turn the football 00:19:37.230 --> 00:19:39.490 game on is that okay with you Karen? What's gonna 00:19:39.490 --> 00:19:41.970 end up happening is some one of the guys is gonna 00:19:41.970 --> 00:19:44.970 have an iPad or like a phone And they're all 00:19:44.970 --> 00:19:46.910 gonna be huddled in the corner watching on their 00:19:46.910 --> 00:19:50.109 phone a hundred percent Like you can't escape 00:19:50.109 --> 00:19:52.170 the fact that men want to watch football and 00:19:52.170 --> 00:19:55.369 like what else all we want to do on the day that 00:19:55.369 --> 00:19:57.569 we don't have to do anything is eat a bunch of 00:19:57.569 --> 00:20:00.980 food and then let your brain just focus on the 00:20:00.980 --> 00:20:03.220 dumb football that doesn't matter at all. Yeah, 00:20:03.220 --> 00:20:05.839 I do understand what she's trying to say is like 00:20:05.839 --> 00:20:08.759 the women are the ones that are more involved 00:20:08.759 --> 00:20:11.339 with the kids on Thanksgiving while the men can 00:20:11.339 --> 00:20:13.140 just shut off their brains and watch football. 00:20:13.400 --> 00:20:15.180 Yeah, but don't you guys like that? No, it's 00:20:15.180 --> 00:20:18.240 not really fair. No, I want to sit down and shout 00:20:18.240 --> 00:20:21.220 with my cousin friends and eat and not care about 00:20:21.220 --> 00:20:24.059 where my kid is. Well, lucky for you. That's 00:20:24.059 --> 00:20:25.980 exactly what you're going to do while I watch 00:20:25.980 --> 00:20:29.200 football and periodically go and check on her 00:20:29.200 --> 00:20:31.160 kid and make sure she's still good. Yeah, you're 00:20:31.160 --> 00:20:33.519 really good at multitasking, kind of. No, I'm 00:20:33.519 --> 00:20:35.539 actually the worst at multitasking. My first 00:20:35.539 --> 00:20:39.140 priority is my child, but I can watch and let 00:20:39.140 --> 00:20:41.119 a few minutes pass without checking on her. I 00:20:41.119 --> 00:20:43.259 will say, I want to give her the benefit of the 00:20:43.259 --> 00:20:46.160 doubt too, because when you are hosting, that 00:20:46.160 --> 00:20:50.400 makes it even more stressful. And so that does 00:20:50.400 --> 00:20:53.420 add something to it. She doesn't want any of 00:20:53.420 --> 00:20:55.819 the kids to get hurt and she needs help. Yeah, 00:20:55.819 --> 00:20:58.519 she just needs to tell the husband, hey, have 00:20:58.519 --> 00:21:00.180 your fun, watch your game, but I really need 00:21:00.180 --> 00:21:02.599 you to help with cleaning up this year. Or I 00:21:02.599 --> 00:21:04.779 really need you to do X, Y, and Z. Like I need 00:21:04.779 --> 00:21:07.500 you to, to be involved. Yeah. But I think it's 00:21:07.500 --> 00:21:11.079 more about during the party. She wants her kids 00:21:11.079 --> 00:21:12.859 to be watched over and she doesn't want to feel 00:21:12.859 --> 00:21:15.559 like she has to do it and host because when you're 00:21:15.559 --> 00:21:17.740 hosting, you're having to like help with the 00:21:17.740 --> 00:21:20.339 food. You're like, if the rolls are empty, you 00:21:20.339 --> 00:21:22.930 got to. add more like there's there's crap you 00:21:22.930 --> 00:21:25.130 got to do when you're a host and if you don't 00:21:25.130 --> 00:21:28.549 like hosting then don't volunteer bro no there's 00:21:28.549 --> 00:21:31.529 a difference i think most women there's not one 00:21:31.529 --> 00:21:33.869 host out there that loves hosting but doesn't 00:21:33.869 --> 00:21:36.130 get a little overwhelmed while hosting everyone 00:21:36.130 --> 00:21:38.130 gets overwhelmed when they're hosting you see 00:21:38.130 --> 00:21:39.849 me before i host i'm like we've got to clean 00:21:39.849 --> 00:21:42.230 the whole house hurry yeah and i'm like we live 00:21:42.230 --> 00:21:44.599 here People know we live here and this is what 00:21:44.599 --> 00:21:47.099 a house looks like when it's lived in. No, you 00:21:47.099 --> 00:21:49.119 got to look like it's not lived in Yeah, you 00:21:49.119 --> 00:21:51.980 got to make it look like it's Perfect. Yeah, 00:21:51.980 --> 00:21:54.380 like we are just the cleanest. Yeah. Well, like 00:21:54.380 --> 00:21:56.819 we don't ever have a mess anywhere Yeah, like 00:21:56.819 --> 00:21:59.779 every blanket is folded at all times. Yeah, cuz 00:21:59.779 --> 00:22:04.319 we don't use them. They just they just sit there 00:22:04.319 --> 00:22:07.740 The blankets you guys sorry, yeah, you love my 00:22:07.740 --> 00:22:10.619 answer don't edit this out. I'm not go shout 00:22:10.619 --> 00:22:14.740 out to weighted blankets I yesterday I put this 00:22:14.740 --> 00:22:17.099 baby on didn't have to work didn't have to do 00:22:17.099 --> 00:22:19.400 anything after I like woke up them in the morning 00:22:19.400 --> 00:22:21.539 crushed a bowl of cereal laid on the couch put 00:22:21.539 --> 00:22:24.420 this on first time in a while and I took a nap 00:22:24.420 --> 00:22:29.339 for like three hours it was it was absurd went 00:22:29.339 --> 00:22:31.819 to a different dimension all because of a weighted 00:22:31.819 --> 00:22:34.420 blanket I'm a big believer so if you have a weighted 00:22:34.420 --> 00:22:37.230 blanket you want to give me give me it All right, 00:22:37.349 --> 00:22:40.529 so there is a couple comments. So this one says 00:22:40.529 --> 00:22:43.589 she's not the a -hole. If you're hosting 50 plus 00:22:43.589 --> 00:22:46.089 people, you shouldn't be the only one actually 00:22:46.089 --> 00:22:49.089 working. Football basically sidelines half the 00:22:49.089 --> 00:22:51.490 adults from helping. It's reasonable to ask for 00:22:51.490 --> 00:22:54.430 everyone to be present for one day. Present? 00:22:54.990 --> 00:22:57.890 Yeah. Do you know what present looks like for 00:22:57.890 --> 00:23:02.500 us guys? Like, you guys are all... Chatty Kathy 00:23:02.500 --> 00:23:05.059 just talking about who knows what your nails 00:23:05.059 --> 00:23:08.079 and whatever you like to talk about Whatever. 00:23:08.440 --> 00:23:10.539 Yeah, you're always like making jokes and you're 00:23:10.539 --> 00:23:13.880 all probably talking about sex and stuff That's 00:23:13.880 --> 00:23:16.440 what you all talk about. Oh my gosh shit. This 00:23:16.440 --> 00:23:18.819 is just facts of life We talk about you know 00:23:18.819 --> 00:23:21.740 what the guys talk about what oh the standings 00:23:21.740 --> 00:23:25.500 we talk about. Yeah, it's crazy Like the Ravens 00:23:25.500 --> 00:23:28.000 they were one in five now They're six and five 00:23:28.000 --> 00:23:29.859 and they're the odds -on favorite to win the 00:23:29.859 --> 00:23:32.549 AFC North. It's like If you don't have football, 00:23:32.710 --> 00:23:34.190 we're still just going to talk about football. 00:23:34.329 --> 00:23:35.930 And then after about five minutes, we're going 00:23:35.930 --> 00:23:38.549 to be like, wait, why isn't the game on? Like, 00:23:38.569 --> 00:23:41.250 hey, let's turn the game on. Where's the power 00:23:41.250 --> 00:23:43.569 button on this TV? I'm going to go pushing it. 00:23:43.569 --> 00:23:45.069 I'm going to be hitting input. I'm like, who's 00:23:45.069 --> 00:23:47.789 got the remote? Somebody's going to have to tell 00:23:47.789 --> 00:23:51.670 me that the games are off limits. And that's 00:23:51.670 --> 00:23:54.009 not even to be disrespectful. What does being 00:23:54.009 --> 00:23:56.289 present look like? I guess I'm underestimating 00:23:56.289 --> 00:24:00.210 the whole, like, watching the kids. If it's like, 00:24:00.430 --> 00:24:03.069 a backyard with the fence. But do you feel like 00:24:03.069 --> 00:24:04.789 he's being a little dramatic about being like, 00:24:04.869 --> 00:24:06.690 I'm going to go to the bar and fuck out football 00:24:06.690 --> 00:24:09.549 in there. Yes. Like F my family time, I'm going 00:24:09.549 --> 00:24:12.809 to the bar. Yes. That's kind of an issue. That's 00:24:12.809 --> 00:24:15.009 that's not cool. I would not do that. You would 00:24:15.009 --> 00:24:17.569 just be in the bathroom on your phone. No, I 00:24:17.569 --> 00:24:19.670 wouldn't take no for an answer and be like, hey, 00:24:19.710 --> 00:24:21.650 there's a compromise here. I'll do whatever you 00:24:21.650 --> 00:24:23.529 need me to do to help. I really will. But the 00:24:23.529 --> 00:24:27.529 TV thing on. Fine. Yeah. Take stuff down. Fine. 00:24:27.730 --> 00:24:30.829 Yeah. Anything else? I will. I'll put a leash 00:24:30.829 --> 00:24:33.210 on my kid and watch the game and the kid can 00:24:33.210 --> 00:24:36.049 just play around the couch. Oh, my God. No, but 00:24:36.049 --> 00:24:39.190 I there's always a compromise to be had. Football 00:24:39.190 --> 00:24:41.690 and Thanksgiving. I'm not giving that up. OK, 00:24:41.730 --> 00:24:44.750 so this one's that you're the a -hole. It's Thanksgiving. 00:24:44.910 --> 00:24:46.829 Football is literally part of the holiday for 00:24:46.829 --> 00:24:49.549 a lot of families asking every guy in the house 00:24:49.549 --> 00:24:51.829 to give it up completely is going to feel controlling, 00:24:52.069 --> 00:24:55.430 not collaborative. So that's true. Any other 00:24:55.430 --> 00:24:57.960 comments you want to share? No, I mean, there's 00:24:57.960 --> 00:25:00.480 tons, but they're all, it's honestly a mix, which 00:25:00.480 --> 00:25:03.380 is surprising. There's a lot of not, not the 00:25:03.380 --> 00:25:06.539 a -hole ones and it's a lot of women. Oh, surprise. 00:25:06.779 --> 00:25:09.700 Yeah, they're all for it. There's not one guy 00:25:09.700 --> 00:25:12.579 so far that I'm looking at that says all the 00:25:12.579 --> 00:25:16.019 guys are going hard on her. Of course. Yeah. 00:25:16.779 --> 00:25:20.680 They're like, you're freaking crazy. You don't 00:25:20.680 --> 00:25:24.000 just take away what makes the holiday the holiday. 00:25:24.259 --> 00:25:28.750 Yeah, exactly. Like, OK, fine. No football, no 00:25:28.750 --> 00:25:31.329 Black Friday shopping. You don't get to go to 00:25:31.329 --> 00:25:33.490 Target. Yep. You better be present with your 00:25:33.490 --> 00:25:36.369 kids that day. Uh huh. While we all just sit 00:25:36.369 --> 00:25:40.549 presently and look at each other. Exactly. So 00:25:40.549 --> 00:25:42.829 anyways, those are my that's my story. Let's 00:25:42.829 --> 00:25:44.789 go to the third one. That's a good one. I wanted 00:25:44.789 --> 00:25:47.269 to switch gears and try to look for like just 00:25:47.269 --> 00:25:49.309 something that felt good, something that inspired 00:25:49.309 --> 00:25:51.509 some gratitude. It's not necessarily Thanksgiving 00:25:51.509 --> 00:25:55.640 related, but in the spirit of being grateful. 00:25:55.740 --> 00:25:58.079 It's not all doom and gloom in the world, right? 00:25:58.220 --> 00:26:00.279 There's a lot of good stuff going on and it's 00:26:00.279 --> 00:26:03.640 all about where we put our attention. And this 00:26:03.640 --> 00:26:06.660 one, I stumbled across this post. This was originally 00:26:06.660 --> 00:26:08.819 posted on Tumblr and somebody took screenshots 00:26:08.819 --> 00:26:11.720 and posted it on Reddit. And the title is, On 00:26:11.720 --> 00:26:15.480 the Kindness of Strangers. Oh, cool. The prompt 00:26:15.480 --> 00:26:18.980 says, Tell me a soft memory. And this person 00:26:18.980 --> 00:26:21.420 responded and said, We would find out later I 00:26:21.420 --> 00:26:24.829 had burned off my entire cornea. about 65 % of 00:26:24.829 --> 00:26:27.569 my eye. My doctor told me it is the organ with 00:26:27.569 --> 00:26:29.930 the highest concentration of nerve endings, and 00:26:29.930 --> 00:26:32.369 I was in an amount of pain that cannot be spoken. 00:26:32.569 --> 00:26:35.710 Ouch. And I was blind. For the first time in 00:26:35.710 --> 00:26:38.410 my life, I was totally blind. I kept thinking 00:26:38.410 --> 00:26:41.890 about reading, about writing, weirdly just once 00:26:41.890 --> 00:26:44.549 about driving. We had no idea if I would ever 00:26:44.549 --> 00:26:47.289 see again. Just like that, my entire life was 00:26:47.289 --> 00:26:49.130 different. It's a strange place to reference 00:26:49.130 --> 00:26:52.289 for a soft memory to begin here. My siblings 00:26:52.289 --> 00:26:54.670 were taking excellent care of me. There was a 00:26:54.670 --> 00:26:56.750 moment in the hospital where just through bad 00:26:56.750 --> 00:26:59.089 luck and timing Both of them had to step away 00:26:59.089 --> 00:27:01.630 for a moment. I was crying at that point not 00:27:01.630 --> 00:27:03.809 emotionally for three days after this I would 00:27:03.809 --> 00:27:07.109 still be crying my tears like a mermaid's a frothy 00:27:07.109 --> 00:27:12.349 pink with blood Yes, I mean kudos to them for 00:27:12.349 --> 00:27:14.190 articulating it that way as persons in a lot 00:27:14.190 --> 00:27:16.490 of pain My brother worried about leaving me yet 00:27:16.490 --> 00:27:20.009 another just as bad emergency. I got her someone 00:27:20.009 --> 00:27:23.299 said Don't worry. A soft hand held mine and she 00:27:23.299 --> 00:27:26.140 started talking. Her name was Jess. She has a 00:27:26.140 --> 00:27:28.900 wife named Clyde. They live a few blocks up the 00:27:28.900 --> 00:27:31.259 street. Clyde fell down but the x -ray seemed 00:27:31.259 --> 00:27:33.740 to be coming back better than expected. Jess 00:27:33.740 --> 00:27:36.220 says she's got longer hair and more wrinkles 00:27:36.220 --> 00:27:39.000 than an elephant. Jess describes every chair 00:27:39.000 --> 00:27:41.099 in the room and every person. She talks about 00:27:41.099 --> 00:27:43.460 her two kids and her cats and her favorite memories 00:27:43.460 --> 00:27:45.859 from college. A doctor came. I had to switch 00:27:45.859 --> 00:27:47.920 to a different waiting room. I tried to stand 00:27:47.920 --> 00:27:51.160 up to follow the voice. I found Jess's hand following 00:27:51.160 --> 00:27:54.039 me. She didn't let go. She kept talking the whole 00:27:54.039 --> 00:27:57.079 way. Lamp to your left. Just a few more steps. 00:27:57.180 --> 00:27:59.099 Okay, to your right is the ugliest painting. 00:27:59.599 --> 00:28:01.660 Good, now a little more walking straight. You 00:28:01.660 --> 00:28:03.740 got it, baby. In the new silence of the next 00:28:03.740 --> 00:28:05.880 room, she sat me down and called my brother for 00:28:05.880 --> 00:28:08.480 me, telling him where we'd gone to. And she stayed 00:28:08.480 --> 00:28:10.960 there for a bit, just chatting, her voice echoing 00:28:10.960 --> 00:28:13.579 in the eerie quiet, gently describing the room 00:28:13.579 --> 00:28:16.450 to me. And then someone was rude. from the sound 00:28:16.450 --> 00:28:18.950 of the voice a kid i think why is she crying 00:28:18.950 --> 00:28:21.470 she just lost her vision jess said she can't 00:28:21.470 --> 00:28:25.210 see oh said the kid that's scary the kid tells 00:28:25.210 --> 00:28:27.509 me he is here because he has peace stuck up his 00:28:27.509 --> 00:28:30.890 nose that makes me laugh his mom groans she tells 00:28:30.890 --> 00:28:33.509 me about the kid he's six he likes paw patrol 00:28:33.509 --> 00:28:36.630 and eating cheese about herself and about moving 00:28:36.630 --> 00:28:38.849 from california jess says she's sorry but she 00:28:38.849 --> 00:28:40.730 has to leave now she's got to go check on her 00:28:40.730 --> 00:28:43.829 wife don't worry says the mom i got her and then 00:28:43.829 --> 00:28:46.569 i felt her hand press into mine For hours like 00:28:46.569 --> 00:28:49.069 that I am taken care of by strangers, each person 00:28:49.069 --> 00:28:51.289 just talking with whatever comes to their mind, 00:28:51.710 --> 00:28:54.029 not for any reward or celebrity or real reason 00:28:54.029 --> 00:28:56.630 I guess, just because I am scared and alone and 00:28:56.630 --> 00:28:59.789 in the hospital and blinded and need to be distracted. 00:29:00.309 --> 00:29:02.690 Not everyone even got told the story, they would 00:29:02.690 --> 00:29:05.309 just pick up in the silence with, oh by the way 00:29:05.309 --> 00:29:08.269 the television is playing HGTV, do you like that 00:29:08.269 --> 00:29:10.799 kind of thing? Yeah, me too, but could never 00:29:10.799 --> 00:29:13.079 quite get into those open floor plans, I'll tell 00:29:13.079 --> 00:29:15.220 you. By the time my brother is able to come back, 00:29:15.299 --> 00:29:17.359 the room is buzzing. We talk to each other like 00:29:17.359 --> 00:29:19.759 old friends, laughing, cracking jokes about, 00:29:20.319 --> 00:29:22.240 if you don't like hospital food, wait until you 00:29:22.240 --> 00:29:24.559 get on an airplane and can't believe I'm up past 00:29:24.559 --> 00:29:26.960 two in the morning. What a party animal mine 00:29:26.960 --> 00:29:29.380 becoming. I'm holding the hands of someone named 00:29:29.380 --> 00:29:32.200 Drew who likes my crow tattoo and making crochet 00:29:32.200 --> 00:29:34.819 snails. There are many dark moments full of pain 00:29:34.819 --> 00:29:37.680 in this world. This in the low of absolute dark, 00:29:37.920 --> 00:29:40.549 absolute pain. people find a way to paint in 00:29:40.549 --> 00:29:43.869 it anyway the color splash of their voices this 00:29:43.869 --> 00:29:46.410 triumphant radiating kindness of let's be here 00:29:46.410 --> 00:29:49.630 together let me help you let's keep going i never 00:29:49.630 --> 00:29:51.750 saw their faces i can't remember many of their 00:29:51.750 --> 00:29:54.190 names but i think about them often in the way 00:29:54.190 --> 00:29:56.529 we all took a deep breath and did something gentle 00:29:56.529 --> 00:30:00.069 amongst the pain oh i thought that was sweet 00:30:00.069 --> 00:30:04.529 that's really sweet i love that kudos to jess 00:30:04.529 --> 00:30:08.319 first of all like She understood the assignment 00:30:08.319 --> 00:30:11.960 right away. Putting her arm around OP, who can't 00:30:11.960 --> 00:30:14.779 see anything. That's a terrifying thought in 00:30:14.779 --> 00:30:18.160 and of itself. But she was like, yeah, I'll tell 00:30:18.160 --> 00:30:21.440 you everything. Describing the chairs, having 00:30:21.440 --> 00:30:24.140 a sense of humor. Oh yeah, lamp to your left, 00:30:24.420 --> 00:30:26.339 ugliest painting in the world on your right. 00:30:26.519 --> 00:30:30.519 Be glad you can't see it. I love that. And I 00:30:30.519 --> 00:30:34.519 think we as humans do more of that than we realize. 00:30:34.619 --> 00:30:36.900 And if we're not, I think that there's great 00:30:36.900 --> 00:30:39.460 value in looking for those opportunities. Yep, 00:30:39.460 --> 00:30:42.799 exactly. Looking for them, looking to do them, 00:30:43.039 --> 00:30:44.859 looking for when they come up in your life. When 00:30:44.859 --> 00:30:48.000 is somebody going out of their way to be kind 00:30:48.000 --> 00:30:50.579 to you? Probably happens more than we realize. 00:30:50.799 --> 00:30:53.920 It's all about perspective. Like yesterday, our 00:30:53.920 --> 00:30:56.500 buddy Joel, he knocked on our door and stopped 00:30:56.500 --> 00:30:59.880 by and he handed us homemade Oreos. They were 00:30:59.880 --> 00:31:02.180 delicious. His wife made them, so also shout 00:31:02.180 --> 00:31:05.750 out to Brie. They were so good. That was an act 00:31:05.750 --> 00:31:07.970 of kindness for sure. That's really cool. I was 00:31:07.970 --> 00:31:10.150 doing some work for a guy today and this guy 00:31:10.150 --> 00:31:11.950 that I just met for the first time taking care 00:31:11.950 --> 00:31:15.190 of his pool for months. He just gifted me because 00:31:15.190 --> 00:31:17.170 I was there working. He gifted me a brand new 00:31:17.170 --> 00:31:20.430 extension cord. It's like a very heavy duty extension 00:31:20.430 --> 00:31:23.150 cord. He told me it's 150 bucks. Still got the 00:31:23.150 --> 00:31:25.309 zip tie around it. It's brand new. Kind thing 00:31:25.309 --> 00:31:27.990 to do. Yeah, it's super nice. Didn't have to 00:31:27.990 --> 00:31:31.930 give me it. Like just looking for some way to 00:31:31.930 --> 00:31:35.079 express his appreciation for. the work I was 00:31:35.079 --> 00:31:37.839 doing. Yeah. You know, I mean, wasn't lost on 00:31:37.839 --> 00:31:39.799 me. Tried to do a really good job, leave his 00:31:39.799 --> 00:31:43.880 yard nice. So anyways. Something I really love, 00:31:44.220 --> 00:31:46.059 especially during like, I feel like it only really 00:31:46.059 --> 00:31:49.079 happens during like Christmas season. But it's 00:31:49.079 --> 00:31:51.839 when you're in like a drive through and so the 00:31:51.839 --> 00:31:54.460 person in front of you pays for yours. Oh my 00:31:54.460 --> 00:31:57.460 gosh. It's happened to me twice. And I cried 00:31:57.460 --> 00:31:59.119 full time because like I it's like something 00:31:59.119 --> 00:32:02.910 so simple, but like. Was so happy and excited 00:32:02.910 --> 00:32:04.609 and then you just pay it forward and I did the 00:32:04.609 --> 00:32:06.750 car behind me But there was one year where I 00:32:06.750 --> 00:32:09.230 was pretty broke and so I pulled up with a friend. 00:32:09.269 --> 00:32:13.650 I'm like, how much is the cars behind me? Oh, 00:32:13.690 --> 00:32:15.710 it's like 12 something like perfect. I'll do 00:32:15.710 --> 00:32:20.529 it. That's It's smart to track, you know, can 00:32:20.529 --> 00:32:23.910 you imagine like 64 bugs or uh, what about the 00:32:23.910 --> 00:32:27.990 car behind that car? Yeah, like Can you not tell 00:32:27.990 --> 00:32:31.940 them that this whole thing is good? I love hearing 00:32:31.940 --> 00:32:34.059 about stuff like that and it's motivating to 00:32:34.059 --> 00:32:36.720 me. It makes me want to do more of those types 00:32:36.720 --> 00:32:38.539 of things because it makes you feel good and 00:32:38.539 --> 00:32:40.599 you never know who really needs it. When was 00:32:40.599 --> 00:32:42.619 the last one? It was oh, yeah. Do you remember 00:32:42.619 --> 00:32:46.079 we were in Cafe Rio? Oh, yeah, and the guy just 00:32:46.079 --> 00:32:48.960 like and we were like financially like not great 00:32:48.960 --> 00:32:52.079 at that point and he literally we were me and 00:32:52.079 --> 00:32:55.359 Joe and our daughter and We go to check out and 00:32:55.359 --> 00:32:58.200 he's like, I got this. And he handed the girl 00:32:58.200 --> 00:32:59.920 the card. And that was our first time eating 00:32:59.920 --> 00:33:03.359 out in a long time because money was so, so tight. 00:33:03.400 --> 00:33:05.900 We were really struggling. So go out and do something 00:33:05.900 --> 00:33:08.400 for somebody. Somebody came to mind just even 00:33:08.400 --> 00:33:11.299 thinking about that story. Shoot him a text message. 00:33:11.779 --> 00:33:13.859 Buy him a sandwich. I don't know. Do something. 00:33:14.039 --> 00:33:16.880 No, really. It goes such a long way. It does. 00:33:16.880 --> 00:33:19.799 It goes a long way. And I've got a laundry list 00:33:19.799 --> 00:33:23.440 of people that I could reach out to. You know 00:33:23.440 --> 00:33:29.220 send a hundred bucks to or whatever. Oh Don't 00:33:29.220 --> 00:33:31.140 worry, you're on the very top of my list. Yeah, 00:33:31.140 --> 00:33:33.779 you can send me on their bikes honey. Yeah, I 00:33:33.779 --> 00:33:36.579 do that every time Oh my gosh. Okay. Well, here's 00:33:36.579 --> 00:33:39.000 my story and this is the last one So this is 00:33:39.000 --> 00:33:41.859 off true off my chest I hate Thanksgiving in 00:33:41.859 --> 00:33:43.440 three days a bunch of people are going to be 00:33:43.440 --> 00:33:45.900 at my house None of which I invited and some 00:33:45.900 --> 00:33:48.759 of which I don't even know Thanksgiving is my 00:33:48.759 --> 00:33:51.079 mom's favorite holiday because she's social and 00:33:51.079 --> 00:33:53.740 she loves doing things for others. For several 00:33:53.740 --> 00:33:56.099 years she's been disabled, which means that getting 00:33:56.099 --> 00:33:58.180 the groceries, cooking the food, cleaning the 00:33:58.180 --> 00:34:00.339 house, serving the guests, looking after everyone, 00:34:00.559 --> 00:34:03.619 and cleaning up afterwards falls on me. I am 00:34:03.619 --> 00:34:05.839 not a social person and while I'm good at faking 00:34:05.839 --> 00:34:09.340 it, doing so is very draining. Now add in other 00:34:09.340 --> 00:34:11.519 annoyances like having to lock my dogs up for 00:34:11.519 --> 00:34:13.320 the day because some of the people coming don't 00:34:13.320 --> 00:34:16.159 like dogs. Plus one of her former students is 00:34:16.159 --> 00:34:18.670 a smoker. And just being around someone who smokes 00:34:18.670 --> 00:34:21.909 instantly gives me a day long headache. My mom 00:34:21.909 --> 00:34:23.769 raised me by herself and was the best mother 00:34:23.769 --> 00:34:26.110 I could have asked for. So even giving a hint 00:34:26.110 --> 00:34:28.929 of my frustration would ruin her favorite holiday 00:34:28.929 --> 00:34:30.969 because she would never ask me to do this if 00:34:30.969 --> 00:34:33.230 she knew how much it bothered me. She's emotionally 00:34:33.230 --> 00:34:35.590 fragile as a result of needing other people to 00:34:35.590 --> 00:34:37.929 do things for her when she had always been the 00:34:37.929 --> 00:34:40.889 caregiver before. I can't and won't say anything 00:34:40.889 --> 00:34:43.190 about how I'm feeling because I want her to be 00:34:43.190 --> 00:34:46.260 happy. But I needed somewhere to vent because 00:34:46.260 --> 00:34:48.659 I've been cranky lately and it's affecting the 00:34:48.659 --> 00:34:52.539 people I'm around. Best wishes to other introverts 00:34:52.539 --> 00:34:55.079 going through the same struggle during the holiday 00:34:55.079 --> 00:34:59.400 season. Oh, is that you? I am not an introvert. 00:34:59.500 --> 00:35:02.000 I feel like I'm more of an extrovert, but I also 00:35:02.000 --> 00:35:04.719 feel like I am an introvert because I don't like 00:35:04.719 --> 00:35:07.619 going out. Like I don't like really being around 00:35:07.619 --> 00:35:10.699 people. I'd rather be by myself. Yeah. So what 00:35:10.699 --> 00:35:15.440 am I? Confusing. I'm a confused child. No, confusing. 00:35:16.360 --> 00:35:18.920 I don't know. I think you are more of an introvert 00:35:18.920 --> 00:35:21.559 just because when it comes to like when it comes 00:35:21.559 --> 00:35:25.139 to how you process going through life, you don't 00:35:25.139 --> 00:35:28.500 your battery doesn't get recharged by being extroverted 00:35:28.500 --> 00:35:31.280 or like, yeah, interacting with people. Somehow 00:35:31.280 --> 00:35:35.380 it's recharged by being alone. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. 00:35:35.900 --> 00:35:38.079 You would think I'm more extroverted because 00:35:38.079 --> 00:35:41.679 I am. So when I am around people, I'm like fun 00:35:41.679 --> 00:35:46.980 and loud and super funny. I was like, should 00:35:46.980 --> 00:35:50.920 I plug a laugh here? Yeah. Yeah, that would have 00:35:50.920 --> 00:35:52.739 helped. I think just like really kept the flow 00:35:52.739 --> 00:35:55.519 of this. But you know, you're never going to. 00:35:55.599 --> 00:35:57.659 Yeah, you're never going to give me one of those. 00:35:57.920 --> 00:35:59.980 No, you got to earn it. And then and then it 00:35:59.980 --> 00:36:02.239 always feels good. You make me laugh. It's the 00:36:02.239 --> 00:36:04.139 best feeling when you make your husband laugh 00:36:04.139 --> 00:36:06.460 once a year. Anyway, actually, it's even better 00:36:06.460 --> 00:36:09.860 making him cry. Just kidding all the time. So. 00:36:11.960 --> 00:36:14.519 In the spirit of like Thanksgiving and just kind 00:36:14.519 --> 00:36:17.099 of what we were just talking about The only way 00:36:17.099 --> 00:36:20.179 OP really gets through it is if she thinks about 00:36:20.179 --> 00:36:23.480 what she is Truly grateful for this is just my 00:36:23.480 --> 00:36:25.960 take and granted I could be just like her I could 00:36:25.960 --> 00:36:27.960 be the one that's like kind of Scrooge and bah 00:36:27.960 --> 00:36:31.440 humbug and like I hate this I'm doing too much 00:36:31.440 --> 00:36:34.079 and blah blah. Her poor disabled mother is still 00:36:34.079 --> 00:36:36.659 with her He still likes to celebrate Thanksgiving. 00:36:36.960 --> 00:36:39.139 Yeah. And if you have to keep reminding yourself 00:36:39.139 --> 00:36:41.260 that it's just about her and making sure she 00:36:41.260 --> 00:36:43.780 has a good day, I feel like that would be enough 00:36:43.780 --> 00:36:46.119 motivation for you to go to Costco and deal with 00:36:46.119 --> 00:36:48.539 the crowds or like do whatever things you have 00:36:48.539 --> 00:36:51.360 to do that nobody wants to do, but that are necessary 00:36:51.360 --> 00:36:53.400 for Thanksgiving. Like, yeah, I get what you're 00:36:53.400 --> 00:36:57.489 saying. Just do it. But this lady. Majestic jewels. 00:36:57.789 --> 00:37:00.630 She said I'm not social either but also end up 00:37:00.630 --> 00:37:03.230 hosting But a few things stand out that I would 00:37:03.230 --> 00:37:05.289 absolutely speak about the dogs live there. It's 00:37:05.289 --> 00:37:06.869 their house If someone doesn't like it, they 00:37:06.869 --> 00:37:09.369 don't have to come it isn't their house the second 00:37:09.369 --> 00:37:11.710 and it's the most important smokers smoke outside 00:37:11.710 --> 00:37:14.829 No exceptions cigarette smoke stinks and gives 00:37:14.829 --> 00:37:18.309 me a headache So basically your home your rules. 00:37:18.329 --> 00:37:21.409 That's what hotty pop just said yeah, and that's 00:37:21.409 --> 00:37:24.269 I mean, yeah your home your rules if people come 00:37:24.269 --> 00:37:26.860 over For a big gathering like that, I go dogs 00:37:26.860 --> 00:37:29.219 out personally. This poor lady, what does she 00:37:29.219 --> 00:37:31.760 have to look forward to? Give her, give her the 00:37:31.760 --> 00:37:34.960 best time. It's her favorite. Yeah. Go all out. 00:37:35.039 --> 00:37:38.000 Have all the people and just cherish. Yeah. That 00:37:38.000 --> 00:37:40.019 time that you get. And I think she will. She 00:37:40.019 --> 00:37:41.980 said she's got a faking it, but I think just 00:37:41.980 --> 00:37:44.360 ultimately she wanted to come on here and just 00:37:44.360 --> 00:37:49.639 vent. And there is science behind this. Just 00:37:49.639 --> 00:37:52.219 venting. doesn't make anyone feel better. We 00:37:52.219 --> 00:37:54.719 all think it does. Yeah. You're essentially just 00:37:54.719 --> 00:37:59.679 watering the plant. It's the very best thing 00:37:59.679 --> 00:38:01.699 that you can do is reframe it and tell yourself 00:38:01.699 --> 00:38:04.820 a different story. I think that but also I mean 00:38:04.820 --> 00:38:07.719 it is good to express how you feel and like what's 00:38:07.719 --> 00:38:10.119 actually going on because like in our therapy 00:38:10.119 --> 00:38:13.000 we do EFT therapy and we do need to talk about 00:38:13.000 --> 00:38:15.960 the good bad and ugly and this is one of the 00:38:15.960 --> 00:38:19.260 ugly things for her. I mean that's That is fair. 00:38:19.679 --> 00:38:23.639 And that would help her to connect. Like if she 00:38:23.639 --> 00:38:26.539 was lacking in connection, sharing the good, 00:38:26.559 --> 00:38:30.400 bad, and ugly would allow her walls to go down 00:38:30.400 --> 00:38:33.920 and draw her closer to another. But she's trying 00:38:33.920 --> 00:38:36.619 to vent to the whole entire internet. She's not 00:38:36.619 --> 00:38:39.139 going to feel much connection, probably, other 00:38:39.139 --> 00:38:41.860 than the connection of when you're feeling connected 00:38:41.860 --> 00:38:44.460 to someone. giving that same negative energy 00:38:44.460 --> 00:38:47.199 back, like validating your negative energy. Right. 00:38:47.380 --> 00:38:49.340 You know, and that's not the healthiest way to 00:38:49.340 --> 00:38:51.500 go about it. But anyways, those are the four 00:38:51.500 --> 00:38:53.880 stories. So now I really want to play a game 00:38:53.880 --> 00:38:56.199 with you until to end the episode. We're going 00:38:56.199 --> 00:39:01.119 to be doing the Mount Rushmore of Thanksgiving 00:39:01.119 --> 00:39:04.800 foods. So let's get started. Joe, I was first 00:39:04.800 --> 00:39:07.500 last week, so I will let you do the honors and 00:39:07.500 --> 00:39:10.510 be first this week. All right. Number one. So 00:39:10.510 --> 00:39:12.849 when I use it, you can't use it, sucka. Yeah. 00:39:12.869 --> 00:39:16.690 Candy dams, sweet potatoes, sweet potato casserole, 00:39:16.789 --> 00:39:19.150 whatever you want to call it. All right. Mine, 00:39:19.789 --> 00:39:23.469 green bean casserole. Damn it. Damn it. That 00:39:23.469 --> 00:39:28.090 was my next one. You better not say the rest 00:39:28.090 --> 00:39:32.090 of mine. OK, well, I'm if this is a contest, 00:39:32.190 --> 00:39:37.570 guys, one of us has to win. Next, I get homemade 00:39:37.570 --> 00:39:43.889 dinner rolls. Oh, that was my next one. Oh, that 00:39:43.889 --> 00:39:50.190 is so devastating. Oh, shoot. All right. That 00:39:50.190 --> 00:39:53.369 sucks. That sucks, Brad. I'm going to go deviled 00:39:53.369 --> 00:39:58.789 eggs. I like those, but you fumbled. No, I didn't. 00:39:58.929 --> 00:40:00.730 Yeah, I already know what you're saying next. 00:40:01.030 --> 00:40:04.690 What? Oh, really? Yeah, go. What are you? OK. 00:40:06.349 --> 00:40:10.670 Mashed potatoes and gravy. Wow, you fumbled I'm 00:40:10.670 --> 00:40:14.570 gonna go Creamed corn. Oh, that's that's fine. 00:40:14.570 --> 00:40:16.650 That's a good one. It's not a staple, but I love 00:40:16.650 --> 00:40:20.769 cream corn I love the cranberry sauce with turkey 00:40:20.769 --> 00:40:22.690 Like I don't even want turkey if I don't get 00:40:22.690 --> 00:40:24.869 some cranberry sauce. I'm going cranberry sauce 00:40:24.869 --> 00:40:29.829 All right. I Gotta go with something pasta ish. 00:40:29.829 --> 00:40:34.210 I'm gonna go mac and cheese Mac and cheese. Yeah, 00:40:34.210 --> 00:40:39.309 Tina's mac and cheese you Whoever, if that's 00:40:39.309 --> 00:40:42.010 all you get for Thanksgiving. No, it has nothing 00:40:42.010 --> 00:40:45.489 to do with a full meal. It's the top four best 00:40:45.489 --> 00:40:48.849 Thanksgiving foods. Which Mount Rushmore do you 00:40:48.849 --> 00:40:52.550 guys believe is the best Thanksgiving foods? 00:40:52.730 --> 00:40:54.849 We're like, let's say you only would eat two 00:40:54.849 --> 00:40:58.070 of the four of Joe's, but you would eat three 00:40:58.070 --> 00:41:01.260 of the four of mine. I win. That's like basically 00:41:01.260 --> 00:41:03.320 the version. Hey, you could just tell me. I won 00:41:03.320 --> 00:41:06.340 the last one. We did best candies. I won it. 00:41:06.599 --> 00:41:09.679 Everyone voted mine. You guys. So this one this 00:41:09.679 --> 00:41:12.400 year or this Thanksgiving food one. Let's see. 00:41:12.719 --> 00:41:15.219 Are you done? Yeah, I'm done. You're off your 00:41:15.219 --> 00:41:18.320 show box? Yeah, kind of. I can't believe you 00:41:18.320 --> 00:41:21.139 guys picked her. She put hot tamales on her freaking 00:41:21.139 --> 00:41:23.239 Mount Rush one of her candies. That's not candy. 00:41:23.559 --> 00:41:25.039 Don't even say anything else. No. Stop talking 00:41:25.039 --> 00:41:29.659 over me. Hot tamales are ass. They're disgusting. 00:41:30.300 --> 00:41:33.099 Have you ever put one up your ass? They're disgusting. 00:41:33.260 --> 00:41:37.900 They're not any. Sorry. You're all invalid. Suck 00:41:37.900 --> 00:41:41.340 my devil legs and let's end this episode. Cool. 00:41:41.460 --> 00:41:43.559 I'll see you guys next week if I'm still alive. 00:41:45.460 --> 00:41:47.460 Happy Thanksgiving, you guys. Joe, I'm thankful 00:41:47.460 --> 00:41:50.860 for you. Happy Thanksgiving, guys. Guys, I'm 00:41:50.860 --> 00:41:53.420 thankful for you. And I'm thankful for you too. 00:41:54.159 --> 00:41:58.039 Thanks, babe. love you guys internet frenzy on 00:41:58.039 --> 00:42:06.159 three one two three internet frenzy edit that 00:42:06.159 --> 00:42:06.460 out