WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.319 Hello, guys. Welcome back to Internet Frenzy. 00:00:02.399 --> 00:00:05.440 This is Whitney, your host. And my co -host is 00:00:05.440 --> 00:00:07.540 not here at the moment. He's literally outside 00:00:07.540 --> 00:00:11.060 cleaning our car. But that is Joe. And he'll 00:00:11.060 --> 00:00:13.560 be joining us in this episode, probably in about 00:00:13.560 --> 00:00:16.739 10 minutes or so. But our daughter is going to 00:00:16.739 --> 00:00:18.440 wake up from her nap. So I'm like, we need to 00:00:18.440 --> 00:00:21.559 get started on this episode. So here I am. Joe 00:00:21.559 --> 00:00:24.879 and I have been extremely sick the past, like, 00:00:24.879 --> 00:00:27.519 nine days. I don't know what the heck we got. 00:00:27.640 --> 00:00:32.890 It wasn't COVID. It was some like cold but on 00:00:32.890 --> 00:00:36.390 steroids and it was absolutely horrible. So if 00:00:36.390 --> 00:00:40.170 I sound a little sick, it's because I still am 00:00:40.170 --> 00:00:43.469 really. So sorry about that. But we're just gonna 00:00:43.469 --> 00:00:46.130 jump into it. So last week or two weeks ago, 00:00:46.130 --> 00:00:48.109 I should say happy Halloween. I'm sure everyone 00:00:48.109 --> 00:00:50.729 had a great Halloween. We did too. It was really, 00:00:50.729 --> 00:00:54.390 really fun. But that episode was Hallow's Eve 00:00:54.390 --> 00:00:58.570 and the stories were the red sweater story where 00:00:58.859 --> 00:01:01.359 The girls felt unsafe and they left and when 00:01:01.359 --> 00:01:03.479 they came back, there was like a burnt red sweater 00:01:03.479 --> 00:01:06.519 on the floor. And then there was the girl trick 00:01:06.519 --> 00:01:09.099 -or -treating alone and no one knew who this 00:01:09.099 --> 00:01:10.739 little girl was and she was trick -or -treating 00:01:10.739 --> 00:01:13.959 at like 10, 10 .30 at night. And then there's 00:01:13.959 --> 00:01:17.500 the creepy mailman where the mailman became obsessed 00:01:17.500 --> 00:01:21.319 with the girl, the tenant. And then there was 00:01:21.319 --> 00:01:23.849 the imaginary friend story. this little girl 00:01:23.849 --> 00:01:28.189 basically could see ghosts and she knew a lot 00:01:28.189 --> 00:01:30.129 of details about this girl that actually lived 00:01:30.129 --> 00:01:34.709 in that home and that had died. So those are 00:01:34.709 --> 00:01:38.989 the four stories. So the fake of that week's 00:01:38.989 --> 00:01:42.170 episode was the imaginary friend where the little 00:01:42.170 --> 00:01:45.510 girl claimed to see this friend that had died 00:01:45.510 --> 00:01:47.989 in that home originally and know that one was 00:01:47.989 --> 00:01:50.409 fake. But I have heard stories of this happening. 00:01:50.829 --> 00:01:54.980 So I mean, it's not that fake, right? Okay. Well, 00:01:54.980 --> 00:01:57.280 this week's episode, we actually did a poll on 00:01:57.280 --> 00:02:01.260 our Instagram story asking our followers which 00:02:01.260 --> 00:02:04.900 episode theme we should do. And the one that 00:02:04.900 --> 00:02:07.640 won it was the one that was the most voted for 00:02:07.640 --> 00:02:11.000 was family secrets uncovered. So that is going 00:02:11.000 --> 00:02:14.240 to be this week's theme. And I'm really excited. 00:02:14.259 --> 00:02:17.060 I've got really good stories for you. And we're 00:02:17.060 --> 00:02:20.259 going to start off with my story. So it was posted 00:02:20.259 --> 00:02:24.659 on the subreddit FamilySecrets. My aunt faked 00:02:24.659 --> 00:02:27.539 her death and I just found out why. A few months 00:02:27.539 --> 00:02:30.259 ago, my mom had me help clean out the adit. We 00:02:30.259 --> 00:02:32.599 pulled an envelope full of sympathy cards from 00:02:32.599 --> 00:02:36.039 2003 addressed to my grandma about Aunt Denise's 00:02:36.039 --> 00:02:38.300 death. I was six when everyone whispered and 00:02:38.300 --> 00:02:40.840 left the funeral crying. My mom always shut down 00:02:40.840 --> 00:02:43.699 if anyone asked. I grew up thinking Denise was 00:02:43.699 --> 00:02:46.159 gone. Then last week I saw a comma on Facebook. 00:02:46.599 --> 00:02:49.449 Same first name. same birthday, same tiny wrist 00:02:49.449 --> 00:02:52.050 tattoo she had. I clicked the profile and my 00:02:52.050 --> 00:02:55.210 mouth went dry. It was her, alive, running a 00:02:55.210 --> 00:02:58.289 thrift shop two states away. I messaged her under 00:02:58.289 --> 00:03:00.629 the pretense of asking about an item in her online 00:03:00.629 --> 00:03:02.789 shop and she signed off with the nickname she 00:03:02.789 --> 00:03:06.849 used to call me, Mece. Instant confirmation for 00:03:06.849 --> 00:03:09.330 me. So I started pulling public records and old 00:03:09.330 --> 00:03:11.830 local threads. There was no hospital record, 00:03:11.930 --> 00:03:14.789 no official death certificate in any county database 00:03:14.789 --> 00:03:18.030 and the only obituary was a printed one my grandma 00:03:18.030 --> 00:03:20.349 handed out at the funeral. Here's what makes 00:03:20.349 --> 00:03:22.550 the cover up make sense and why it was believable 00:03:22.550 --> 00:03:25.930 to everyone at the time. Denise was 19, pregnant, 00:03:26.050 --> 00:03:28.189 and my strict grandma threatened to disown her 00:03:28.189 --> 00:03:31.169 unless she gave the baby up. Denise refused and 00:03:31.169 --> 00:03:33.550 left town with a boyfriend that very night. There 00:03:33.550 --> 00:03:35.789 was no dramatic battle, she just walked away. 00:03:36.349 --> 00:03:38.250 Admitting that a granddaughter ran off with a 00:03:38.250 --> 00:03:40.250 boyfriend and refused family pressure would have 00:03:40.250 --> 00:03:42.590 been humiliating for my grandma and their community. 00:03:42.860 --> 00:03:46.099 so she chose a different story. But grandma quietly 00:03:46.099 --> 00:03:48.919 organized a funeral, told people Denise had passed 00:03:48.919 --> 00:03:51.919 away suddenly and insisted on a closed casket 00:03:51.919 --> 00:03:54.759 service. She paid for a small private ceremony 00:03:54.759 --> 00:03:56.900 and handed out printed sympathy cards she'd written 00:03:56.900 --> 00:03:59.639 herself. Because neighbors trusted grandma and 00:03:59.639 --> 00:04:01.620 there wasn't the internet noise there is now, 00:04:02.000 --> 00:04:04.580 people accepted it and moved on. No one demanded 00:04:04.580 --> 00:04:06.539 proof and the family stopped asking questions 00:04:06.539 --> 00:04:08.819 after grandma said it was too painful to talk 00:04:08.819 --> 00:04:11.319 about. Denise Maynwild changed her last name 00:04:11.520 --> 00:04:14.319 moved two states away and built a quiet life. 00:04:14.759 --> 00:04:17.100 She's married, had kids, and opened a thrift 00:04:17.100 --> 00:04:19.699 store. She avoided social media for years, then 00:04:19.699 --> 00:04:22.139 slowly reentered it under her new name, but kept 00:04:22.139 --> 00:04:24.939 her profile private enough that only a chance 00:04:24.939 --> 00:04:28.360 comment linked her back to my circle. I haven't 00:04:28.360 --> 00:04:30.120 told my mom or the rest of the family yet. I 00:04:30.120 --> 00:04:32.620 don't know if I should. Part of me wants to confront 00:04:32.620 --> 00:04:34.759 grandma, but part of me wonders if ripping the 00:04:34.759 --> 00:04:37.660 bandage off will only hurt more. Either way, 00:04:37.790 --> 00:04:40.310 I can't stop thinking about how many other truths 00:04:40.310 --> 00:04:42.410 in my childhood might have been convenient stories 00:04:42.410 --> 00:04:45.170 instead of reality. Has anyone else ever found 00:04:45.170 --> 00:04:47.430 out a relative was a race like this? How did 00:04:47.430 --> 00:04:52.050 you handle it? Whoa, I know. I know you are the 00:04:52.050 --> 00:04:55.029 mother of this child and you are going to literally 00:04:55.029 --> 00:04:57.470 fake their death because you are too prideful 00:04:57.470 --> 00:05:01.689 to have a 19 year old daughter give birth. Are 00:05:01.689 --> 00:05:05.290 we for real in 19? 19. That's not that I mean, 00:05:05.310 --> 00:05:07.350 it's young, obviously. But like, I mean, there's 00:05:07.350 --> 00:05:12.670 a whole TV show 16 and pregnant. Like do it a 00:05:12.670 --> 00:05:14.670 little bit earlier and you get famous apparently. 00:05:15.050 --> 00:05:18.370 Yeah, apparently. Don't do that kids. I cannot 00:05:18.370 --> 00:05:22.389 I it made me so sad for this girl. But also it's 00:05:22.389 --> 00:05:25.529 like good for her for knowing her worth and stepping 00:05:25.529 --> 00:05:29.410 away from that type of like, toxicity gets that 00:05:29.410 --> 00:05:32.319 made that mom probably would have just If not 00:05:32.319 --> 00:05:36.560 faked her death made her death real Yeah to avoid 00:05:36.560 --> 00:05:39.100 the shame. I think she saved her own life by 00:05:39.100 --> 00:05:41.360 leaving Yeah, she said I'm not gonna let mom 00:05:41.360 --> 00:05:44.639 take me out to save her reputation that lady's 00:05:44.639 --> 00:05:46.459 crazy And when people care that much about their 00:05:46.459 --> 00:05:48.980 reputation, I got nothing but bad feelings for 00:05:48.980 --> 00:05:52.259 them Legitimately, like I think that's like the 00:05:52.259 --> 00:05:54.620 scourge of society is like you'll be you're so 00:05:54.620 --> 00:05:56.279 concerned with how people are gonna perceive 00:05:56.279 --> 00:05:58.860 you and your Family that you would fake. Oh, 00:05:59.100 --> 00:06:02.110 it's insane. It's gross So some of the comments 00:06:02.110 --> 00:06:04.550 had me thinking. So this one's from you girl 00:06:04.550 --> 00:06:07.329 in love away. My family did something similar. 00:06:07.610 --> 00:06:10.269 My aunt ran away from an abusive husband and 00:06:10.269 --> 00:06:13.329 her mom told everyone she moved overseas. We 00:06:13.329 --> 00:06:15.410 didn't find out she was only one state away for 00:06:15.410 --> 00:06:19.750 15 years. Families can be wild. That is gnarly. 00:06:20.050 --> 00:06:22.709 I know. Here's another really good comment. You 00:06:22.709 --> 00:06:25.269 have to reach out to your aunt again. Imagine 00:06:25.269 --> 00:06:27.670 how she must feel knowing everyone thinks she's 00:06:27.670 --> 00:06:30.329 been dead for two decades. That poor woman. Do 00:06:30.329 --> 00:06:33.910 you think she knows that there was a fake funeral 00:06:33.910 --> 00:06:36.910 for her? I don't think so. Probably not. Yeah, 00:06:37.029 --> 00:06:38.810 I don't think she knows. But then again, how 00:06:38.810 --> 00:06:41.329 would she not like the whole social media thing? 00:06:41.850 --> 00:06:43.769 You think that she would see like, like, don't 00:06:43.769 --> 00:06:45.889 people create Facebook groups? Like, hey, come, 00:06:46.069 --> 00:06:48.790 come to the funeral for my aunt. I don't think 00:06:48.790 --> 00:06:52.350 social media at that time was like super crazy. 00:06:52.790 --> 00:06:55.430 And I don't know. I mean, she obviously the grandma 00:06:55.430 --> 00:06:58.509 probably blocked the daughter. But one thing 00:06:58.509 --> 00:07:01.470 I thought was like, do you think the mom, so 00:07:01.470 --> 00:07:03.350 obviously there's the grandma and then there's 00:07:03.350 --> 00:07:06.170 the girl, the OP that wrote this and OP has a 00:07:06.170 --> 00:07:09.089 mom, right? And that's her mom. Do you think 00:07:09.089 --> 00:07:12.029 the mom like actually knows what went down and 00:07:12.029 --> 00:07:14.810 she's just playing along with the fake funeral? 00:07:14.930 --> 00:07:16.850 Or does she actually genuinely think her daughter, 00:07:16.970 --> 00:07:19.910 her sister is dead? No, she's definitely playing 00:07:19.910 --> 00:07:25.529 along a hundred percent. Ew. I could never. There's 00:07:25.529 --> 00:07:29.339 got to be. There would have to be proof of the 00:07:29.339 --> 00:07:32.399 death. Like, I'm just saying, if sister leaves 00:07:32.399 --> 00:07:35.139 town because she's pissed off, mom knows that 00:07:35.139 --> 00:07:40.379 she's not dead. Dang. 100%. Dang. Because I was 00:07:40.379 --> 00:07:43.519 like, yeah, it's like a whole family -wide cover 00:07:43.519 --> 00:07:46.240 -up scheme kind of vibe. Yeah, but literally 00:07:46.240 --> 00:07:49.800 that's like normal family behavior, no? Yeah, 00:07:49.819 --> 00:07:53.009 that's true. I feel like that's like what families 00:07:53.009 --> 00:07:55.730 do when they've got their toxic like patterned 00:07:55.730 --> 00:07:58.949 behavior. Yeah. Dang, that's crazy. So anyways, 00:07:59.129 --> 00:08:01.230 that's my first story. I came out with a banger 00:08:01.230 --> 00:08:04.209 because this one just blew my fricking mind. 00:08:04.709 --> 00:08:07.670 I just yeah, you faking your daughter's funeral. 00:08:08.389 --> 00:08:12.410 Dirty. Dirty. Dirty dogs. Oh, is it your turn? 00:08:12.550 --> 00:08:15.790 It's my turn now. Okay. Story number two. This 00:08:15.790 --> 00:08:18.480 one comes from Today I F'd Up. Today, I effed 00:08:18.480 --> 00:08:21.079 up by talking about lies my mother told me as 00:08:21.079 --> 00:08:23.759 a child and accidentally exposing a family secret 00:08:23.759 --> 00:08:29.240 and tearing the family apart. OK, here we go. 00:08:29.639 --> 00:08:32.379 You sound so sick, by the way. It's fine. Hey, 00:08:32.620 --> 00:08:34.720 guys, if I sound if I sound sick, it's because 00:08:34.720 --> 00:08:37.899 I am. I know I've already given them the update. 00:08:38.059 --> 00:08:42.659 Day six, antibiotics, steroids. Deal with it. 00:08:43.360 --> 00:08:46.000 I went to a funeral for my great aunt recently. 00:08:46.200 --> 00:08:48.240 It was a bit triggered when I saw her daughters 00:08:48.240 --> 00:08:51.279 and grandkids mourning while my mother used the 00:08:51.279 --> 00:08:53.440 gathering as a place to show off her new teeth 00:08:53.440 --> 00:08:55.340 and tell everyone how good she's been doing in 00:08:55.340 --> 00:08:58.120 her life. But that new teeth life though? Yeah, 00:08:58.159 --> 00:09:00.440 it's got to feel good. Come on. You got to smile. 00:09:00.700 --> 00:09:02.639 Guys, I used to sell dental implants. I love 00:09:02.639 --> 00:09:04.159 when people get new teeth. It's my favorite. 00:09:04.320 --> 00:09:08.240 They're so excited. Life changing pain. Continuing. 00:09:08.620 --> 00:09:10.600 The next night, I got together with one of the 00:09:10.600 --> 00:09:12.740 daughters who I've always referred to as my cousin 00:09:12.740 --> 00:09:15.100 because we're closer in age than she is with 00:09:15.100 --> 00:09:17.740 my mom. So basically it's her aunt but they call 00:09:17.740 --> 00:09:20.139 each other cousins. And we drank a lot and started 00:09:20.139 --> 00:09:22.259 venting about my mother who has caused me a lot 00:09:22.259 --> 00:09:24.419 of pain and trauma and tells incredible lies 00:09:24.419 --> 00:09:26.799 for attention and everyone knows this about her. 00:09:27.080 --> 00:09:29.080 Of all the heinous stories I told, one stuck 00:09:29.080 --> 00:09:31.220 out to my cousin who proceeded to call her older 00:09:31.220 --> 00:09:34.320 sister very drunk and tell the story. The next 00:09:34.320 --> 00:09:36.460 morning I was getting texts and calls from my 00:09:36.460 --> 00:09:38.759 family saying that was not my story to tell and 00:09:38.759 --> 00:09:41.019 that I tore the family apart. Apparently my mom 00:09:41.019 --> 00:09:44.220 wasn't lying when she told me their father had 00:09:44.220 --> 00:09:47.740 essayed. women in the family. This was exposed 00:09:47.740 --> 00:09:50.720 days after their mother's funeral and I'm a complete 00:09:50.720 --> 00:09:54.039 selfish a -hole for saying anything. My grandmother, 00:09:54.100 --> 00:09:56.320 mother, and I have all been cut off from the 00:09:56.320 --> 00:09:58.919 oldest daughter's life and children who were 00:09:58.919 --> 00:10:01.360 a huge part of my grandma's life. The most shameful 00:10:01.360 --> 00:10:03.419 part for me is that I went to the funeral hoping 00:10:03.419 --> 00:10:05.559 I could show the family I'm not the person my 00:10:05.559 --> 00:10:08.080 mom has been painting me as and finally felt 00:10:08.080 --> 00:10:10.360 accepted by them. I accidentally proved her right 00:10:10.360 --> 00:10:12.500 and destroyed the family by trying to expose 00:10:12.500 --> 00:10:15.059 my mother's lies. I guess I thought it was another 00:10:15.059 --> 00:10:17.600 lie, but maybe drunkenly thought the family could 00:10:17.600 --> 00:10:20.620 heal if it was true now that their mother wasn't 00:10:20.620 --> 00:10:23.240 around to be hurt by the secret. Bad timing to 00:10:23.240 --> 00:10:25.940 say the least. We are being painted as liars 00:10:25.940 --> 00:10:28.279 by the oldest daughter because the women who 00:10:28.279 --> 00:10:30.620 were abused all admit it was the truth upon being 00:10:30.620 --> 00:10:32.860 asked about it. I had a feeling seeing my mom 00:10:32.860 --> 00:10:34.820 would be a bad experience for everyone because 00:10:34.820 --> 00:10:37.419 we've always been toxic together, but holy hell, 00:10:37.440 --> 00:10:39.899 I definitely outdid it this time. Self -fulfilling 00:10:39.899 --> 00:10:43.340 prophecy. TLDR? Days after my aunt's funeral, 00:10:43.460 --> 00:10:45.600 I vented to my cousin about all the lies my mother 00:10:45.600 --> 00:10:47.740 told me as a child, but the one about their father 00:10:47.740 --> 00:10:49.580 abusing women in the family turned out to be 00:10:49.580 --> 00:10:52.120 true and it devastated the family. That's a crazy 00:10:52.120 --> 00:10:56.159 story. Yeah, that's that's gnarly. Oh, really? 00:10:56.320 --> 00:10:58.840 You're just kidding. Could you imagine who like 00:10:58.840 --> 00:11:01.840 who are you? That's a crazy story. Could be fake. 00:11:02.320 --> 00:11:05.539 Could be fake because come on. Story number three. 00:11:05.720 --> 00:11:08.139 It was revealed that my dad has a secret other 00:11:08.139 --> 00:11:11.299 family and now there is drama. The story is that 00:11:11.299 --> 00:11:13.440 my dad had a child with another woman shortly 00:11:13.440 --> 00:11:15.639 after he married my mom but before I was born. 00:11:15.840 --> 00:11:18.539 My brother that I didn't know about is 32. I'm 00:11:18.539 --> 00:11:22.059 28F and my younger brothers are 26 and 24. My 00:11:22.059 --> 00:11:24.279 dad gave the other woman money over the years 00:11:24.279 --> 00:11:26.460 and her and my brother knew my dad was married 00:11:26.460 --> 00:11:28.980 and had a family but none of us knew about them. 00:11:29.500 --> 00:11:32.299 The only reason my brother 32M revealed that 00:11:32.299 --> 00:11:34.720 secret is because his son needs a bone marrow 00:11:34.720 --> 00:11:37.200 transplant. and they are looking for a match 00:11:37.200 --> 00:11:39.460 and anyone with a blood relation is the best 00:11:39.460 --> 00:11:42.080 chance for one. My mom feels betrayed obviously 00:11:42.080 --> 00:11:44.940 and I doubt their marriage will survive but I 00:11:44.940 --> 00:11:46.919 hate all the drama and gossiping that is happening 00:11:46.919 --> 00:11:49.919 in my family. I hate drama in general and this 00:11:49.919 --> 00:11:52.519 is like my worst nightmare and now we're all 00:11:52.519 --> 00:11:54.639 sitting here waiting for DNA results that can 00:11:54.639 --> 00:11:57.460 make things even more complicated because if 00:11:57.460 --> 00:12:00.860 one of us is a match for him then what? Do we 00:12:00.860 --> 00:12:02.759 just meet this whole other family and pretend 00:12:02.759 --> 00:12:08.309 we're not furious? Wow. I know, but terrible. 00:12:08.710 --> 00:12:12.309 But that's her. I mean, OK, I'll put myself at 00:12:12.309 --> 00:12:14.950 that point. Yeah, I'll put myself in that situation. 00:12:15.110 --> 00:12:17.429 What are you doing in my world? Hypothetically, 00:12:17.429 --> 00:12:20.169 that could happen to me at some point, right? 00:12:20.330 --> 00:12:23.330 Like with my family dynamic, yours, mine and 00:12:23.330 --> 00:12:25.669 ours, like there could be an extra sibling out 00:12:25.669 --> 00:12:28.289 there somewhere. I don't believe that's the case. 00:12:28.389 --> 00:12:31.070 But just because I can put myself in that situation, 00:12:31.190 --> 00:12:33.730 I would be mad, but I would definitely donate. 00:12:33.909 --> 00:12:38.919 There's no doubt. Your bone? Yes. Easily. Wow. 00:12:39.519 --> 00:12:42.019 I would not. Well, it doesn't cost me anything. 00:12:42.179 --> 00:12:43.820 It doesn't like, it's not like I'm like, hey, 00:12:43.940 --> 00:12:47.100 here's my arm. Yeah. Like I gave it to you. Now 00:12:47.100 --> 00:12:49.679 I don't have an arm. What do they do then? Is 00:12:49.679 --> 00:12:51.379 there surgery involved? Like I actually really 00:12:51.379 --> 00:12:55.000 don't know what feels of it. Don't ask me questions. 00:12:55.139 --> 00:12:57.759 I don't know. Wait, you really don't know? He 00:12:57.759 --> 00:13:00.840 needs a bone marrow transplant. I'm just imagining 00:13:00.840 --> 00:13:03.159 it's like a kidney transplant or something, but 00:13:03.159 --> 00:13:06.019 bone marrow. Well, here's what entails if you 00:13:06.019 --> 00:13:08.940 are a match and you are going to do this, you'll 00:13:08.940 --> 00:13:11.960 meet with the transplant team. You'll do a donor 00:13:11.960 --> 00:13:14.480 workup, blood work, physical exam, medical history 00:13:14.480 --> 00:13:17.700 review, a chest x -ray and ECG. And then there's 00:13:17.700 --> 00:13:20.779 two main ways to donate, which is the peripheral 00:13:20.779 --> 00:13:25.139 blood stem cell donation or the bone marrow harvest. 00:13:25.159 --> 00:13:27.830 And that's from the hip bone. but basically you'll 00:13:27.830 --> 00:13:30.289 get this injection for four or five days before 00:13:30.289 --> 00:13:33.090 donation and then your blood is drawn from one 00:13:33.090 --> 00:13:35.330 arm run through a machine that collects the stem 00:13:35.330 --> 00:13:37.389 cells and the rest of your blood goes back into 00:13:37.389 --> 00:13:39.750 your other arm. The procedure takes four to six 00:13:39.750 --> 00:13:42.159 hours and you usually go home the same day. Okay, 00:13:42.679 --> 00:13:45.320 so that's not bad. No, I would do that. But here's 00:13:45.320 --> 00:13:47.679 the other option is the bone marrow harvest. 00:13:47.899 --> 00:13:50.600 And you're under general anesthesia for that. 00:13:50.639 --> 00:13:52.919 And they draw marrow from your pelvic bone using 00:13:52.919 --> 00:13:55.059 a needle, no incisions. And that takes one to 00:13:55.059 --> 00:13:57.600 two hours and usually go home that day or the 00:13:57.600 --> 00:14:00.159 next day. Yeah, I would do it. Like that's gonna 00:14:00.159 --> 00:14:02.820 keep this person alive. I would be stoked too, 00:14:02.940 --> 00:14:04.740 by the way. To have like another half sibling. 00:14:04.879 --> 00:14:08.600 Like you could be mad like, dad, like, why didn't 00:14:08.600 --> 00:14:12.360 you tell me? so there's sibling blah blah like 00:14:12.360 --> 00:14:14.799 rage out all you want but you have a sibling 00:14:14.799 --> 00:14:18.419 now you share dna with another person out there 00:14:18.419 --> 00:14:21.159 in the world think about it let me let me just 00:14:21.159 --> 00:14:23.000 pose it to you hypothetically you don't want 00:14:23.000 --> 00:14:26.080 to imagine that that's possible for you but hypothetically 00:14:26.080 --> 00:14:29.440 it is if you knew yes you would be very mad at 00:14:29.440 --> 00:14:31.539 your dad but wouldn't you be like oh my gosh 00:14:31.539 --> 00:14:34.700 i have a sister that's 15 or whatever i don't 00:14:34.700 --> 00:14:38.240 know no yeah i I just I feel for the mom in this 00:14:38.240 --> 00:14:40.759 situation of course because she's also gonna 00:14:40.759 --> 00:14:43.080 be mama bear and want to protect her kids and 00:14:43.080 --> 00:14:46.320 be like F you Husband like I don't want my kids 00:14:46.320 --> 00:14:48.019 having to go through that crap. I just think 00:14:48.019 --> 00:14:51.200 it would affect the mom More than the children 00:14:51.200 --> 00:14:54.039 when it comes to like anger or hatred towards 00:14:54.039 --> 00:14:57.860 that situation Yeah, but that's a you're just 00:14:57.860 --> 00:15:00.799 talking if you're talking life and death of this 00:15:00.799 --> 00:15:03.460 human I don't think the mom's gonna give a crap 00:15:03.460 --> 00:15:07.090 about that kid She doesn't have to necessarily 00:15:07.090 --> 00:15:10.389 care to know the morally It'd be good for somebody 00:15:10.389 --> 00:15:13.370 that has the same Has the ability to step in 00:15:13.370 --> 00:15:16.549 to step in no because the I just feel like as 00:15:16.549 --> 00:15:21.149 the mom This other woman knew about her about 00:15:21.149 --> 00:15:25.029 her kids the entire time Maybe not it says in 00:15:25.029 --> 00:15:28.250 the post that the mom knew and the kid so they 00:15:28.250 --> 00:15:32.879 knew the whole time never friend and never revealed, 00:15:33.139 --> 00:15:35.480 never did anything, just let the husband pay 00:15:35.480 --> 00:15:38.279 their bills and went on about their day. Like 00:15:38.279 --> 00:15:40.820 I feel like as the other woman, I'd be like, 00:15:40.820 --> 00:15:43.539 F you. I'm not giving you a damn thing kind of 00:15:43.539 --> 00:15:45.480 thing. I mean, who knows? Maybe I would, but 00:15:45.480 --> 00:15:47.759 I do. Yeah. I feel like you always do this. You 00:15:47.759 --> 00:15:51.100 always go so far on the like one side when in 00:15:51.100 --> 00:15:54.360 reality you have a heart and that's a human that 00:15:54.360 --> 00:15:56.639 like if it's like going to keep the kid alive. 00:15:56.840 --> 00:15:59.500 He's not a kid. He's 32. It's going to keep the 00:15:59.500 --> 00:16:02.580 32 year old alive. You're just thinking of the 00:16:02.580 --> 00:16:05.019 betrayal, but just think of the fact that's a 00:16:05.019 --> 00:16:08.840 human, and your kids could save the other human's 00:16:08.840 --> 00:16:12.779 life. You can get a divorce from a guy, okay? 00:16:13.460 --> 00:16:17.220 It can ruin your whole world, but to save a life 00:16:17.220 --> 00:16:19.620 that didn't have anything to do with what's causing 00:16:19.620 --> 00:16:21.779 you pain, you would say, go ahead and do that, 00:16:21.960 --> 00:16:24.759 kids. No. Just say you would. No. Just say you 00:16:24.759 --> 00:16:27.179 would. No, I say, you should have told me you 00:16:27.179 --> 00:16:30.360 were a freaking lying mother and ... Good luck. 00:16:30.580 --> 00:16:32.200 No, I'm just kidding. But there's a comment. 00:16:32.720 --> 00:16:36.799 Okay. This is from IcyPlans5621. A full sibling 00:16:36.799 --> 00:16:39.379 is the best chance for a bone marrow match. The 00:16:39.379 --> 00:16:42.200 next most likely match is a complete stranger. 00:16:42.879 --> 00:16:45.779 Half siblings or half aunts are astronomically... 00:16:45.779 --> 00:16:49.360 Astronomically? Astronomically? Astronomically? 00:16:49.980 --> 00:16:54.159 Astronomically. Astronomically. Astrono... I 00:16:54.159 --> 00:16:57.519 don't... Astronomically, yes, that's the word. 00:16:57.559 --> 00:17:02.740 Okay. Oh my gosh. That is so embarrassing. Astronomically 00:17:02.740 --> 00:17:05.319 less likely to be a match. I'm sorry, but no 00:17:05.319 --> 00:17:07.200 one from your family will match with this child. 00:17:07.960 --> 00:17:09.279 I don't know why they keep calling him a child. 00:17:09.339 --> 00:17:12.200 He's 32, but okay. Source of my knowledge, my 00:17:12.200 --> 00:17:14.539 parent needed a bone marrow transplant and I 00:17:14.539 --> 00:17:17.240 was told I would be a 50 % match. Sorry about 00:17:17.240 --> 00:17:19.299 the sick child and your family turmoil. Your 00:17:19.299 --> 00:17:22.829 dad stinks. Kate. We hate dads, we hate cheating, 00:17:23.029 --> 00:17:26.210 okay? Guys, we hate them all. But guess what? 00:17:26.529 --> 00:17:29.809 What? Save the kid. Save the 32 -year -old kid's 00:17:29.809 --> 00:17:32.490 life. I'm 33. I hope people still refer to me 00:17:32.490 --> 00:17:34.750 as a kid. Call me a kid. I'm a kid. Save my life. 00:17:34.809 --> 00:17:36.470 You're a cute little kid. I'll save your life. 00:17:36.650 --> 00:17:38.549 Thanks. I would do a bone marrow transplant for 00:17:38.549 --> 00:17:41.309 you now that I know what it is. You wouldn't? 00:17:41.809 --> 00:17:45.690 I would. That's good. I'd give you my gold water 00:17:45.690 --> 00:17:49.089 if I could. Too soon. I miss wearing gold water 00:17:49.089 --> 00:17:52.750 so much. That's funny. So sad, you guys. I hate 00:17:52.750 --> 00:17:55.910 it. All right. Anyways, now we're on to Joe's 00:17:55.910 --> 00:17:58.650 story. And I'm so excited to hear it. This is 00:17:58.650 --> 00:18:01.849 story number four. This one's, this one's good. 00:18:02.029 --> 00:18:05.109 This one comes from M .I .D .A Hole. Oh, fun. 00:18:05.390 --> 00:18:09.410 M .I .D .A Hole. M .I .D .A Hole. For being upset 00:18:09.410 --> 00:18:11.950 and hurt that my best friend has been in a secret 00:18:11.950 --> 00:18:13.970 relationship with my little sister for almost 00:18:13.970 --> 00:18:17.329 two years. And I only found out after they got 00:18:17.329 --> 00:18:22.609 engaged on Instagram. No way this is real. Are 00:18:22.609 --> 00:18:25.829 you kidding? Oh, by the grammar you will know. 00:18:27.470 --> 00:18:31.269 Good one. Last week I was scrolling through Instagram 00:18:31.269 --> 00:18:33.769 like usual and my best friend since forever posted 00:18:33.769 --> 00:18:36.009 a story, which was weird because he almost never 00:18:36.009 --> 00:18:38.190 posts anything ever. So I opened it and it was 00:18:38.190 --> 00:18:40.130 a picture of him hugging and kissing my little 00:18:40.130 --> 00:18:43.769 sister with the she said yes caption. And I was 00:18:43.769 --> 00:18:46.529 like, what the actual F? and I called him multiple 00:18:46.529 --> 00:18:48.569 times but he didn't answer and I went home to 00:18:48.569 --> 00:18:50.509 see my sister and ask her what the hell is going 00:18:50.509 --> 00:18:52.369 on and he was sitting right there at my house 00:18:52.369 --> 00:18:54.269 hugging my little sister and my parents were 00:18:54.269 --> 00:18:57.069 there they were all clearly waiting for me I 00:18:57.069 --> 00:18:59.849 exploded and asked what the hell is going on 00:19:00.029 --> 00:19:02.369 and they just told me to calm down and they explained 00:19:02.369 --> 00:19:04.410 that they've been in a relationship for almost 00:19:04.410 --> 00:19:06.890 two years and their excuse for not telling me 00:19:06.890 --> 00:19:09.470 about it was that he was a huge f -boy in the 00:19:09.470 --> 00:19:11.869 past like he really loved my sister and they 00:19:11.869 --> 00:19:13.670 didn't want to tell me about it until they made 00:19:13.670 --> 00:19:16.309 it official. I was understandably angry and upset 00:19:16.309 --> 00:19:18.509 and just left. My parents had been leaving me 00:19:18.509 --> 00:19:21.009 messages and voice mails telling me to stop overreacting 00:19:21.009 --> 00:19:22.829 and being dramatic and that their relationship 00:19:22.829 --> 00:19:25.509 has nothing to do with me and to just be happy 00:19:25.509 --> 00:19:27.529 for them. He's been apologizing to me saying 00:19:27.529 --> 00:19:29.589 he never meant to hurt me and that he loves me 00:19:29.589 --> 00:19:31.730 but I just can't see or hear them right now. 00:19:31.950 --> 00:19:33.930 Sure he's a great guy and is pretty successful 00:19:33.930 --> 00:19:36.069 and I know he's gonna treat my little sister 00:19:36.069 --> 00:19:38.150 good and I'm happy for them honestly but I'm 00:19:38.150 --> 00:19:40.230 hurt about how they thought I was some controlling 00:19:40.230 --> 00:19:42.710 d -bag and kept something like this hidden from 00:19:42.710 --> 00:19:45.410 me for two damn years which included him probably 00:19:45.410 --> 00:19:48.130 lying to my face a ton of times to go with my 00:19:48.130 --> 00:19:50.250 sister. Am I the asshole here for being hurt 00:19:50.250 --> 00:19:52.130 and angry about them hiding their relationship 00:19:52.130 --> 00:19:54.130 from me and should I have just took it and moved 00:19:54.130 --> 00:19:59.359 on? This is weird to me. One, how do you hide 00:19:59.359 --> 00:20:02.920 a relationship from your own brother for two 00:20:02.920 --> 00:20:05.680 years? Did he live in the house the whole two 00:20:05.680 --> 00:20:09.059 years or was he gone? We don't know that much 00:20:09.059 --> 00:20:10.680 at all. Because I feel like if he didn't live 00:20:10.680 --> 00:20:12.660 there, let's say he's in college or whatever 00:20:12.660 --> 00:20:14.720 and she lives at home with her parents, that's 00:20:14.720 --> 00:20:16.619 a little different, that's a little easier. But 00:20:16.619 --> 00:20:18.980 if they live in the same house at the same time, 00:20:19.000 --> 00:20:22.299 that's very, very weird to me. I don't think 00:20:22.299 --> 00:20:24.910 that they're living in the same house, Yeah, 00:20:24.910 --> 00:20:27.210 we have no context, so I can't say for sure. 00:20:27.450 --> 00:20:29.549 Highest rated comment, and this is one of those 00:20:29.549 --> 00:20:32.170 ones that like, it did not go viral by any means 00:20:32.170 --> 00:20:36.569 on Reddit. So it's kind of a sleeper. This one 00:20:36.569 --> 00:20:38.430 says, there are two options here in this weird 00:20:38.430 --> 00:20:41.130 tale. One, everyone in your life is a raging 00:20:41.130 --> 00:20:43.450 asshole willing to lie to you for extended periods 00:20:43.450 --> 00:20:46.670 of time with no remorse. Or two, they didn't 00:20:46.670 --> 00:20:48.970 tell you for a reason beyond he was an f -boy 00:20:48.970 --> 00:20:51.069 that you're not sharing with us. There has to 00:20:51.069 --> 00:20:54.519 be more as to why they didn't tell him. 100%. 00:20:54.519 --> 00:20:58.740 It's one or the other. And OP responded. OP has 00:20:58.740 --> 00:21:01.119 since deleted their account, but OP responded. 00:21:01.859 --> 00:21:03.660 I once beat a guy that was trying to talk to 00:21:03.660 --> 00:21:06.200 my little sister when he was 21 and she was 16. 00:21:06.579 --> 00:21:08.680 He probably thought I'd beat him too, but he 00:21:08.680 --> 00:21:14.000 actually helped me beat that guy's ass. I don't 00:21:14.000 --> 00:21:16.339 know why I'm trying to censor stuff, but he actually 00:21:16.339 --> 00:21:18.599 helped me beat that guy's ass and it's not like 00:21:18.599 --> 00:21:21.440 my friend's a pedo. He's two years older than 00:21:21.440 --> 00:21:23.160 my sister, and they're both adults, so I don't 00:21:23.160 --> 00:21:26.619 see the problem here. Okay. Okay. So they did 00:21:26.619 --> 00:21:28.940 not live in the home then, I don't think. No. 00:21:29.640 --> 00:21:33.220 So that makes more sense how they were able to 00:21:33.220 --> 00:21:36.000 keep it a secret. Wow. They went and beat a kid 00:21:36.000 --> 00:21:39.279 up. Yeah, apparently. I think he's just got to 00:21:39.279 --> 00:21:41.740 move on, just accept they didn't tell him and 00:21:41.740 --> 00:21:45.900 just wish them the best. It would be sad like 00:21:45.900 --> 00:21:48.380 to feel like wow, I'm really like that out of 00:21:48.380 --> 00:21:51.000 touch with my siblings life Or like they didn't 00:21:51.000 --> 00:21:52.819 feel like they could tell me like that would 00:21:52.819 --> 00:21:55.160 hurt. I would see yeah, you you definitely want 00:21:55.160 --> 00:21:58.099 to feel Involved you feel like a violation of 00:21:58.099 --> 00:22:00.220 trust. Yeah, anyway, cuz you're close to both 00:22:00.220 --> 00:22:02.779 people and you're like, whoa Yeah, like I'm betrayed 00:22:02.779 --> 00:22:08.599 on both sides here And that's all the comments 00:22:08.599 --> 00:22:11.140 are basically saying something's not lining up 00:22:11.140 --> 00:22:13.700 here with your story. There has to be a reason 00:22:13.849 --> 00:22:15.430 If what you're saying is true, there has to be 00:22:15.430 --> 00:22:17.789 a reason they didn't tell you. Yeah, that's him. 00:22:18.049 --> 00:22:20.309 All right. You won best story of the episode. 00:22:20.329 --> 00:22:22.349 We should start doing that. Let's vote. Which 00:22:22.349 --> 00:22:25.789 one was the best story? I mean, you hate that. 00:22:25.789 --> 00:22:28.130 Sure. No, I'm down to do it. I just I want to 00:22:28.130 --> 00:22:31.230 get a trophy every single episode from you. I'll 00:22:31.230 --> 00:22:34.990 order some Amazon trophies. Yeah, that was a 00:22:34.990 --> 00:22:37.470 fun episode. But before we put a bow on it, we're 00:22:37.470 --> 00:22:39.250 going to play a little game. Yeah, I'm ready. 00:22:39.809 --> 00:22:41.829 All right. We're going to start doing this from 00:22:41.829 --> 00:22:44.779 time to time. I'm going to ask you for your Mount 00:22:44.779 --> 00:22:50.019 Rushmore. Your Mount Rushmore of any certain 00:22:50.019 --> 00:22:53.019 thing. Yep. Right? Well, your top four. Basically, 00:22:53.160 --> 00:22:54.900 it's just, it's just, I want to know your top 00:22:54.900 --> 00:22:57.420 four. It's going to be, it could be people, places, 00:22:57.759 --> 00:23:00.140 things, doesn't matter of any category. We'll 00:23:00.140 --> 00:23:02.099 just decide. And we feel like Mount Rushmore 00:23:02.099 --> 00:23:04.160 really represents like the best of the best, 00:23:04.160 --> 00:23:07.440 right? So you're looking up at them. You're admiring 00:23:07.440 --> 00:23:09.619 them. So that's what we're going to do is our 00:23:09.619 --> 00:23:12.140 Mount Rushmore and the categories candy. We're 00:23:12.140 --> 00:23:15.119 going to pick our top four favorite candies and 00:23:15.119 --> 00:23:18.220 you guys get to tell us which one you think is 00:23:18.220 --> 00:23:20.720 the better Mount Rushmore of the two. Oh, let's 00:23:20.720 --> 00:23:24.619 go. Okay. So I say our category today is candy. 00:23:24.740 --> 00:23:27.519 So I'll go first. All right. Okay. But here's 00:23:27.519 --> 00:23:31.140 my Mount Rushmore of candy nerds clusters. Now 00:23:31.140 --> 00:23:33.460 that means I can't include nerds clusters. Nope. 00:23:34.089 --> 00:23:36.470 That's F'd up, dude. That's why it's nice going 00:23:36.470 --> 00:23:39.170 first. Alright, fine. Then I'm gonna go with 00:23:39.170 --> 00:23:42.369 Sweet Tart Ropes. Okay, that's a good one. That's 00:23:42.369 --> 00:23:44.730 a good one. All the flavors. I really like the 00:23:44.730 --> 00:23:46.910 Jolly Rancher Ropes the best, but. Okay, this 00:23:46.910 --> 00:23:49.589 is like truly what I believe. That's all that 00:23:49.589 --> 00:23:52.609 matters. I'm gonna go with Hot Tamales. I said 00:23:52.609 --> 00:23:58.390 it. Okay, well. You just cemented me as the winner. 00:23:58.410 --> 00:24:00.549 No matter what else goes on my Mount Rush war. 00:24:00.769 --> 00:24:04.289 Oh No, hot tamales. They're like, okay. I'm gonna 00:24:04.289 --> 00:24:08.890 get York patties Can I get three musketeers, 00:24:08.890 --> 00:24:14.589 please? Ew Dude, they're so good. Okay. Go you 00:24:14.589 --> 00:24:17.910 want hot tamales too. I'm gonna go with mmm milk 00:24:17.910 --> 00:24:21.210 duds I'm gonna go gummy worms sour gummy worms 00:24:21.210 --> 00:24:24.170 just regular old sour gummy worms. Yeah, it's 00:24:24.170 --> 00:24:27.799 good pick next one for me I'm going to go with 00:24:27.799 --> 00:24:30.660 Sour Patch Watermelons. Lame. I don't like those. 00:24:31.660 --> 00:24:34.019 Last but not least, we're going Hershey's Cookies 00:24:34.019 --> 00:24:38.299 and Cream. Not bad. Mine's such a better melt 00:24:38.299 --> 00:24:40.380 rush more than yours. Yours is not even freaking 00:24:40.380 --> 00:24:45.759 close. Trader Joe's Marshmallows. Boom! Is that 00:24:45.759 --> 00:24:49.730 candy? it's a sweet it's it's going on my malrush 00:24:49.730 --> 00:24:52.670 more okay i don't think many i think people sleep 00:24:52.670 --> 00:24:54.130 on the trader joe's marshmallows i don't think 00:24:54.130 --> 00:24:56.509 they know how good they are if you guys have 00:24:56.509 --> 00:24:59.009 tried a trader joe's marshmallow you know if 00:24:59.009 --> 00:25:01.890 you haven't go get one yeah and you want to know 00:25:01.890 --> 00:25:04.230 what we do we literally dump them out into an 00:25:04.230 --> 00:25:07.150 empty container that's open so then they harden 00:25:07.150 --> 00:25:10.849 a little bit oh my gosh you guys they're so good 00:25:10.849 --> 00:25:13.589 don't tell people my it's my secrets oh well 00:25:13.589 --> 00:25:15.880 there it is okay Well, there's a Mount Marshmore 00:25:15.880 --> 00:25:18.180 and there's our episode for this week. You guys 00:25:18.180 --> 00:25:21.880 get to guess which one is the fake story of this 00:25:21.880 --> 00:25:23.960 week's episode. And next week's episode, we will 00:25:23.960 --> 00:25:26.539 release in the beginning, which one was the fake 00:25:26.539 --> 00:25:28.759 story. So like guys saying, we hope you get it 00:25:28.759 --> 00:25:30.599 right. You probably won't because we're really 00:25:30.599 --> 00:25:33.460 good at our jobs. And that's it, dude. Thanks 00:25:33.460 --> 00:25:49.509 for watching. Peace out. One click, no pretending