WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:04.019 Welcome back to internet frenzy Welcome back 00:00:04.019 --> 00:00:06.679 y 'all. We're so happy to be here We're gonna 00:00:06.679 --> 00:00:09.300 jump right into last week's theme was the I loved 00:00:09.300 --> 00:00:12.500 you then I googled you So we had four stories 00:00:12.500 --> 00:00:14.960 there. So the first story was my husband was 00:00:14.960 --> 00:00:19.739 arrested at the airport second one was OP discovers 00:00:19.739 --> 00:00:24.079 his wife is having an affair Third story was 00:00:24.079 --> 00:00:26.260 found arrest records for the man. I have been 00:00:26.260 --> 00:00:28.719 dating. How can I safely end things with him? 00:00:28.980 --> 00:00:31.980 And then the fourth story was I just found out 00:00:31.980 --> 00:00:34.119 my boyfriend's wife thinks he's dead and I don't 00:00:34.119 --> 00:00:38.020 know what to do Which one was the fake y 'all? 00:00:38.200 --> 00:00:40.119 They were so they're so good one like so many 00:00:40.119 --> 00:00:44.320 good ones Lord number four. What's that Shrek 00:00:44.320 --> 00:00:49.159 quote where it's like number four. Oh shiz I'm 00:00:49.159 --> 00:00:51.399 gonna get hated on so hard cuz that's like such 00:00:51.399 --> 00:00:55.490 a That's like such a classic. Have you never 00:00:55.490 --> 00:00:58.869 seen that? It's been a long time. I haven't seen 00:00:58.869 --> 00:01:02.630 Shrek in a very very long time. Oh, I have to 00:01:02.630 --> 00:01:04.609 look this up right now. No, you can't. We've 00:01:04.609 --> 00:01:06.950 got a way too many things to do. No, I will literally 00:01:06.950 --> 00:01:09.590 help you. No. Oh, it was pick number three, my 00:01:09.590 --> 00:01:25.680 lord. Was it that? Fiona. You're gonna kill me. 00:01:25.840 --> 00:01:27.920 There we go. That's really cool. I'm so glad 00:01:27.920 --> 00:01:31.579 that we went through that. And number three, 00:01:31.799 --> 00:01:35.000 my lord. Yeah, I know. Have you seen Shrek? Yeah, 00:01:35.040 --> 00:01:37.840 a long time ago. Okay, Shrek is literally the 00:01:37.840 --> 00:01:40.859 best ever. But yes, number four was the fake. 00:01:41.519 --> 00:01:45.219 Not number three. Doping number three. I don't 00:01:45.219 --> 00:01:50.859 know why Shrek is even involved. Oh, but. I'm 00:01:50.859 --> 00:01:52.680 really excited for this week's episode. It's 00:01:52.680 --> 00:01:55.319 going to be a freaking banger. So let's get to 00:01:55.319 --> 00:01:57.280 it, Joe. That's it. It's going to be essentially 00:01:57.280 --> 00:01:59.659 the best of the weeks, but the title is Hot Takes 00:01:59.659 --> 00:02:03.079 and Cold Feet. Oh, snap. So it's going to be 00:02:03.079 --> 00:02:05.200 some of the best stories posted this week on 00:02:05.719 --> 00:02:08.979 MIBA hole and relationship advice. Oh my gosh. 00:02:09.240 --> 00:02:11.020 Just bringing you the heat only, the stuff that 00:02:11.020 --> 00:02:13.780 you guys love. Yes, it's going to be a good episode. 00:02:14.060 --> 00:02:16.680 So strap in, let's get to it. Let's jump right 00:02:16.680 --> 00:02:18.919 freaking in. You mind if I bat lead off? I think 00:02:18.919 --> 00:02:21.020 you'd only be right. I think it's right because 00:02:21.020 --> 00:02:42.860 it's so wrong. OK, this one's good. Am I the 00:02:42.860 --> 00:02:45.860 a -hole? Boyfriend peed the bed and is mad at 00:02:45.860 --> 00:02:52.439 me for my response. That's just disgusting. My 00:02:52.439 --> 00:02:55.840 boyfriend M27 and I F23 just moved into a new 00:02:55.840 --> 00:02:59.840 house and bought a new mattress. Last night I 00:02:59.840 --> 00:03:02.759 woke up to a wet feeling under my arm and hand. 00:03:03.620 --> 00:03:05.719 My boyfriend was already up and in the bathroom. 00:03:05.840 --> 00:03:08.039 When he came back I asked him if he spilled something 00:03:08.039 --> 00:03:10.810 in the bed or knew why it was wet. He told me 00:03:10.810 --> 00:03:13.490 he thinks he peed the bed. I asked him again 00:03:13.490 --> 00:03:16.750 and said, wait, are you serious? He said, I think 00:03:16.750 --> 00:03:20.830 I peed in my dream and peed in real life. You 00:03:20.830 --> 00:03:24.289 think? Like bro, you know. We were both half 00:03:24.289 --> 00:03:26.150 awake at this point and I'm just surprised that 00:03:26.150 --> 00:03:29.090 he actually did wet the bed. I asked him to go 00:03:29.090 --> 00:03:30.930 grab stuff to clean it up and he told me that 00:03:30.930 --> 00:03:34.990 it was fine. I asked him what he meant by that 00:03:34.990 --> 00:03:38.030 and he grabbed a towel. laid it on the wet spot 00:03:38.030 --> 00:03:43.349 and got back into bed to go to sleep. No. No. 00:03:44.310 --> 00:03:46.530 I pulled the covers off him and told him that 00:03:46.530 --> 00:03:48.610 he needs to go grab stuff to clean it up because 00:03:48.610 --> 00:03:50.629 I don't want it to get stained and it's a new 00:03:50.629 --> 00:03:53.110 mattress and we don't have a mattress cover for 00:03:53.110 --> 00:03:56.330 it yet. He told me that it was fine and I'm overreacting. 00:03:56.770 --> 00:03:58.870 That statement naturally pissed me off and I 00:03:58.870 --> 00:04:01.169 told him I'm not going to sleep and his piss 00:04:01.169 --> 00:04:04.699 and that's not fair to me. He told me he'd clean 00:04:04.699 --> 00:04:06.400 it in the morning and that it's not a big deal 00:04:06.400 --> 00:04:08.360 and he doesn't it doesn't warrant the reaction 00:04:08.360 --> 00:04:11.300 I have. Ew. That was not the solution I wanted 00:04:11.300 --> 00:04:13.379 so I took all the sheets off the bed and threw 00:04:13.379 --> 00:04:15.319 them at him and told him to sleep on the couch. 00:04:15.659 --> 00:04:17.899 No. It was very irritating hearing him tell me 00:04:17.899 --> 00:04:19.980 that I'm overreacting because I asked him to 00:04:19.980 --> 00:04:22.660 clean up his peed in the bed we both slept in. 00:04:23.000 --> 00:04:25.439 Oh my gosh. He then knocked on the door ten minutes 00:04:25.439 --> 00:04:27.500 later asking for a new blanket because the one 00:04:27.500 --> 00:04:33.360 I gave him The one I gave him smelled like pee. 00:04:34.139 --> 00:04:36.639 So my VA hopefully overreacting to my boyfriend 00:04:36.639 --> 00:04:39.040 not cleaning up the pee in the bed right away. 00:04:39.500 --> 00:04:42.920 Oh my gosh. No, you're not overreacting. But 00:04:42.920 --> 00:04:46.339 I'm trying to think on like his perspective here 00:04:46.339 --> 00:04:48.180 because obviously the first thing you can say 00:04:48.180 --> 00:04:50.180 is like, no, he's an idiot. That's disgusting. 00:04:50.199 --> 00:04:52.339 And like she had every right to blow up or whatever. 00:04:53.600 --> 00:04:55.779 Maybe he was just really, really embarrassed. 00:04:56.519 --> 00:04:58.839 Well, naturally, he's going to be really, really 00:04:58.839 --> 00:05:02.079 embarrassed. but he also the way she described 00:05:02.079 --> 00:05:04.040 how he acted didn't sound like he was embarrassed 00:05:04.040 --> 00:05:06.379 he just didn't care like he was like nonchalant 00:05:06.379 --> 00:05:08.480 by like i'm just going back to bed it's fine 00:05:08.480 --> 00:05:13.360 it is a poly it is so bad he just places a towel 00:05:13.360 --> 00:05:16.199 over it it reminds me of it reminds me have you 00:05:16.199 --> 00:05:19.660 seen the movie big daddy for a long time okay 00:05:19.660 --> 00:05:22.459 the little boy pees the bed and he puts newspaper 00:05:22.459 --> 00:05:25.060 down on top of it and then the kid's just like 00:05:25.060 --> 00:05:27.019 rolling around it's just like making all this 00:05:27.019 --> 00:05:31.019 paper wrinkling noise It's like, oh yeah, just 00:05:31.019 --> 00:05:33.279 go to sleep on it. It's fine. Not a big deal. 00:05:34.720 --> 00:05:40.620 This poor guy. So this story. What? Do you not 00:05:40.620 --> 00:05:43.379 remember? I just did not know if you were going 00:05:43.379 --> 00:05:46.680 to talk about it. I'm going to talk about it. 00:05:47.300 --> 00:05:49.819 I'm going to talk about it. Are you sure? Yeah. 00:05:50.300 --> 00:05:53.259 OK. I think that it's probably not like a super 00:05:53.259 --> 00:05:57.000 common thing. Yeah. But. Listen, you guys, I've 00:05:57.000 --> 00:05:59.959 peed the bed in adulthood one time. Once. It 00:05:59.959 --> 00:06:02.379 was only one time. It's our first year married. 00:06:02.600 --> 00:06:05.040 Our first year married, and it was in an Airbnb. 00:06:06.120 --> 00:06:07.819 I thought it was at my house. It was at our house. 00:06:07.819 --> 00:06:11.139 It was in a bed. No, it wasn't. It was when we 00:06:11.139 --> 00:06:13.959 were on the trip of my family in California. 00:06:14.379 --> 00:06:18.019 California? Yes. Oh my gosh. That was horrible. 00:06:18.319 --> 00:06:22.500 So listen, here's the thing. I don't know what 00:06:22.500 --> 00:06:24.399 you could attribute it to. I know I had a ton 00:06:24.399 --> 00:06:27.689 of sugar. and I wasn't used to that and I had 00:06:27.689 --> 00:06:30.889 a dream and in my dream I was like trying to 00:06:30.889 --> 00:06:33.649 go hang out with Jordan Spieth who's a professional 00:06:33.649 --> 00:06:37.329 golfer and you guys I don't even care how much 00:06:37.329 --> 00:06:39.790 hate I get for this this it's hilarious to me 00:06:39.790 --> 00:06:42.810 thinking back on this in my dream I was like 00:06:42.810 --> 00:06:45.110 my neighbor is this professional golfer and I 00:06:45.110 --> 00:06:48.050 gotta pee so bad but I'm so I gotta go pee real 00:06:48.050 --> 00:06:50.569 fast and then I'm gonna go over and like meet 00:06:50.569 --> 00:06:55.819 Jordan Spieth and I literally woke up realizing 00:06:55.819 --> 00:06:58.699 that in my dream I was trying to hurry and I 00:06:58.699 --> 00:07:01.740 woke up I was face down just peeing on this bed 00:07:01.740 --> 00:07:07.160 I was just like there is no freaking way did 00:07:07.160 --> 00:07:10.519 you wake me up but it's just happened I I began 00:07:10.519 --> 00:07:13.439 the whole cleaning regimen like stripped everything 00:07:13.439 --> 00:07:15.959 back scrubbing the shiz out of it yeah but I 00:07:15.959 --> 00:07:19.240 was asleep so did you wake me up I remember well 00:07:19.240 --> 00:07:21.839 you were asleep on on your half and I was like 00:07:21.839 --> 00:07:24.389 trying to assess how like how much of a spot 00:07:24.389 --> 00:07:26.810 there was my first priority was the mattress 00:07:26.810 --> 00:07:30.110 yeah so like i pulled up the fitted sheet and 00:07:30.110 --> 00:07:31.930 was like scrubbing the mattress because i didn't 00:07:31.930 --> 00:07:41.529 want the stain but whoa are you all right whoa 00:07:41.529 --> 00:07:46.370 are you all right um i think you mean to say 00:07:46.370 --> 00:07:49.689 bless you yeah bless you god have you ever heard 00:07:49.689 --> 00:07:54.180 someone sneeze before never anyways Then we threw 00:07:54.180 --> 00:07:56.459 all the, all the sheets in the washing machine. 00:07:56.660 --> 00:07:59.660 We washed it all up proper. I felt like you were 00:07:59.660 --> 00:08:01.459 going to be like, wait, I just wet the bed. And 00:08:01.459 --> 00:08:04.560 I was like, what? I mean, I probably did. Yeah. 00:08:05.240 --> 00:08:12.879 I was just like, um, yeah, I, I just peed the 00:08:12.879 --> 00:08:16.139 bed, but I had to share that because that was 00:08:16.139 --> 00:08:19.620 crazy. But guess what else? An update was posted 00:08:19.620 --> 00:08:22.069 since I found this story. Thank you guys for 00:08:22.069 --> 00:08:24.050 the quick replies. This was my first post on 00:08:24.050 --> 00:08:25.930 Reddit and I don't use it very much, but after 00:08:25.930 --> 00:08:28.350 he left for work today, I really couldn't get 00:08:28.350 --> 00:08:30.370 the situation off my mind. I thought I'd see 00:08:30.370 --> 00:08:32.970 what y 'all had to say. I'll address a few comments 00:08:32.970 --> 00:08:35.389 from the first post. First off, I wish it was 00:08:35.389 --> 00:08:37.649 fake, but I really did wake up yesterday to piss 00:08:37.649 --> 00:08:40.769 in the bed and ended it arguing with my BF. My 00:08:40.769 --> 00:08:42.909 BF and I have only lived together in small stents 00:08:42.909 --> 00:08:45.850 here and there before, but this is the first 00:08:45.850 --> 00:08:49.809 time we have our own house, just us. No, he doesn't 00:08:49.809 --> 00:08:52.710 have a drug or alcohol problem, diabetes, take 00:08:52.710 --> 00:08:55.350 meds, and wasn't drinking that night. He just 00:08:55.350 --> 00:08:57.230 worked an overnight shift the previous night 00:08:57.230 --> 00:08:59.889 and was pretty tired. He's never done this before 00:08:59.889 --> 00:09:01.629 since we've been together, so that's why I didn't 00:09:01.629 --> 00:09:04.309 believe him at first. And we don't have a lot 00:09:04.309 --> 00:09:06.210 of money right now, so we got a mattress from 00:09:06.210 --> 00:09:09.350 Walmart for $300, for those of you bashing that 00:09:09.350 --> 00:09:12.309 detail, LOL. We both ended up cleaning the pee 00:09:12.309 --> 00:09:14.870 after I threw his sheets. and blankets to him 00:09:14.870 --> 00:09:17.250 and I took the bed because our couch isn't big 00:09:17.250 --> 00:09:19.370 and I really couldn't be bothered to move to 00:09:19.370 --> 00:09:21.669 the couch when I felt like I did nothing wrong 00:09:21.669 --> 00:09:24.570 I was tired and wasn't thinking that part through 00:09:24.570 --> 00:09:28.529 entirely also he is not a horrible abusive bf 00:09:28.529 --> 00:09:31.190 have a fetish etc like some of the comments have 00:09:31.190 --> 00:09:33.070 said and I didn't throw him out of the house 00:09:33.070 --> 00:09:35.889 he was truly half awake and was just not responsive 00:09:35.889 --> 00:09:38.590 the way he needed to be after peeing in our bed 00:09:38.590 --> 00:09:41.129 anyways he got back from work today with flowers 00:09:41.129 --> 00:09:45.389 and my He told me he was thinking about what 00:09:45.389 --> 00:09:47.429 happened last night all day and that he was sorry. 00:09:47.509 --> 00:09:50.990 He apologized for dismissing me that he was disrespectful. 00:09:51.250 --> 00:09:53.090 I called him and the only issue I had with the 00:09:53.090 --> 00:09:55.750 situation was him telling me I was overreacting 00:09:55.750 --> 00:09:58.429 from me wanting him to clean up the pee at the 00:09:58.429 --> 00:10:01.409 moment. That wasn't fair to me and expect me 00:10:01.409 --> 00:10:03.909 to be okay sleeping in his pee. Let me be clear, 00:10:03.929 --> 00:10:06.250 I understand accidents happen, but to sit there 00:10:06.250 --> 00:10:08.190 and tell me my response to needing it cleaned 00:10:08.190 --> 00:10:11.620 up ASAP is unwarranted is insane. I appreciated 00:10:11.620 --> 00:10:13.700 the gesture and I did read what you guys said. 00:10:13.799 --> 00:10:16.220 He doesn't have any underlying trauma or alcoholic 00:10:16.220 --> 00:10:19.159 issues. He just peed the bed. I was mad at his 00:10:19.159 --> 00:10:21.620 response. I am trying to be understanding that 00:10:21.620 --> 00:10:24.100 he was tired and wanted to go back to bed. At 00:10:24.100 --> 00:10:26.259 the same time, this affects both of us. I just 00:10:26.259 --> 00:10:27.960 needed him to be responsible and acknowledge 00:10:27.960 --> 00:10:30.000 that what I said was valid and he needs to grow 00:10:30.000 --> 00:10:32.320 up. He did order a mattress cover that will be 00:10:32.320 --> 00:10:34.259 here tomorrow. So until that's on the mattress, 00:10:34.379 --> 00:10:37.840 I don't want him in the bed with me. I think 00:10:37.840 --> 00:10:40.039 making him sleep with those sheets and blankets 00:10:40.039 --> 00:10:42.580 did jolt him awake to realizing the gravity of 00:10:42.580 --> 00:10:44.940 the situation. I'm still a bit hurt from how 00:10:44.940 --> 00:10:47.919 he handled the situation selfishly and was inconsiderate, 00:10:47.960 --> 00:10:50.919 but he seems pretty remorseful. So we'll see 00:10:50.919 --> 00:10:54.399 how we will feel later. That's it for now. Thank 00:10:54.399 --> 00:10:58.720 you guys for the advice. Oh my gosh. What a dramatic 00:10:58.720 --> 00:11:01.720 fight for a guy that just had a slip up. Like 00:11:01.720 --> 00:11:04.320 this poor guy just literally like - He's exhausted. 00:11:04.559 --> 00:11:06.779 Just let it go in the bedtime. Didn't even know. 00:11:07.930 --> 00:11:10.190 So they're like, we'll see we'll see how he handles 00:11:10.190 --> 00:11:12.509 the next few nights and if he's the bad it's 00:11:12.509 --> 00:11:16.049 over I'm not no bed wetters up in this feet. 00:11:17.169 --> 00:11:20.690 Hey, I Understand this somebody said one very 00:11:20.690 --> 00:11:23.190 important life lesson here. Never use the dream 00:11:23.190 --> 00:11:28.409 toilet Yeah, I I can attest that's where that's 00:11:28.409 --> 00:11:31.490 where I was at I was standing at the toilet in 00:11:31.490 --> 00:11:34.389 my dream and it happens That's funny. That's 00:11:34.389 --> 00:11:36.610 that. I don't like her response. I think she's 00:11:36.610 --> 00:11:38.950 like saying he's selfish and this and that dude 00:11:38.950 --> 00:11:42.690 was just embarrassed as heck like just blustered 00:11:42.690 --> 00:11:44.990 and i think i just think like a dude just tired 00:11:44.990 --> 00:11:47.610 like didn't really like think it through with 00:11:47.610 --> 00:11:50.509 like hygiene it is disgusting though i mean she 00:11:50.509 --> 00:11:53.169 woke up to a wet hand and floor whatever it was 00:11:53.169 --> 00:11:56.230 freaking nasty i mean that's nasty i could never 00:11:56.230 --> 00:11:59.269 just place a towel on it and be like back to 00:11:59.269 --> 00:12:04.169 bed like there's no way no yeah yeah she she's 00:12:04.169 --> 00:12:06.330 like I don't know if you understand the gravity 00:12:06.330 --> 00:12:08.769 of the situation like that's the thing It's like 00:12:08.769 --> 00:12:11.529 it's not like he's bedwetting every night So 00:12:11.529 --> 00:12:13.570 he brought you flowers in your favorite ice cream. 00:12:13.570 --> 00:12:15.570 So he'll have pint of ice cream. Then you're 00:12:15.570 --> 00:12:19.009 gonna be the one Let's go my guy. Oh, yeah, you're 00:12:19.009 --> 00:12:22.190 coming back right there. I told her didn't I? 00:12:22.429 --> 00:12:25.169 Tell her to comment. No, I'm not gonna comment. 00:12:25.409 --> 00:12:31.370 I'll save from here My husband insists on a foot 00:12:31.370 --> 00:12:34.200 washing ritual before intimacy and I don't know 00:12:34.200 --> 00:12:40.580 how to tell him it makes me uncomfortable. Hi 00:12:40.580 --> 00:12:43.419 everyone. I30F has been married to my husband 00:12:43.419 --> 00:12:46.639 33M for almost four years. He's a wonderful man, 00:12:46.860 --> 00:12:49.039 strong in his faith and a committed spiritual 00:12:49.039 --> 00:12:51.779 leader in our home. We both grew up in the church 00:12:51.779 --> 00:12:53.639 and our shared values were one of the biggest 00:12:53.639 --> 00:12:56.500 reasons we fell in love. Recently he introduced 00:12:56.500 --> 00:12:58.580 a new practice into our marriage that he says 00:12:58.580 --> 00:13:07.129 is inspired by John 13. When Jesus washed the 00:13:07.129 --> 00:13:09.690 disciples feet as a sign of humility and service, 00:13:10.029 --> 00:13:11.990 my husband explained that he feels this is a 00:13:11.990 --> 00:13:14.710 way for us to show mutual respect and spiritual 00:13:14.710 --> 00:13:17.429 connection before we share physical intimacy. 00:13:19.149 --> 00:13:21.110 The first time he suggested it, I went along 00:13:21.110 --> 00:13:23.730 because I could see it meant a lot to him. But 00:13:23.730 --> 00:13:25.730 over the past few months, it's become a routine 00:13:25.730 --> 00:13:28.669 that happens every time. We read scripture, pray, 00:13:28.669 --> 00:13:30.789 and then take turns washing each other's feet. 00:13:30.960 --> 00:13:33.539 I truly understand his heart behind it. He's 00:13:33.539 --> 00:13:35.179 trying to honor God in our marriage and keep 00:13:35.179 --> 00:13:37.340 our relationship grounded in service to one another, 00:13:37.720 --> 00:13:40.080 but to be honest, I find it awkward and even 00:13:40.080 --> 00:13:42.659 a little distracting. Instead of feeling close 00:13:42.659 --> 00:13:44.580 and relaxed, I feel like I'm participating in 00:13:44.580 --> 00:13:46.759 a small church service right before we're supposed 00:13:46.759 --> 00:13:49.059 to connect as husband and wife. I don't want 00:13:49.059 --> 00:13:50.879 to make him feel like his efforts to honor our 00:13:50.879 --> 00:13:53.240 marriage are silly or wrong, but I also can't 00:13:53.240 --> 00:13:55.259 ignore that this practice is making intimacy 00:13:55.259 --> 00:13:57.580 feel more like an obligation than something joyful. 00:13:57.929 --> 00:13:59.970 How could I bring this up in a way that respects 00:13:59.970 --> 00:14:02.490 his intentions and doesn't hurt him? Has anyone 00:14:02.490 --> 00:14:04.490 else experienced something like this in a faith 00:14:04.490 --> 00:14:11.590 -based marriage? Oh my goodness. That was from 00:14:11.590 --> 00:14:14.929 relationship advice? Yes. Oh, leave the cult. 00:14:17.169 --> 00:14:19.570 Okay, honestly, I think it's kind of beautiful. 00:14:20.610 --> 00:14:24.370 No, please don't. No, actually, is it like sacrilegious? 00:14:24.629 --> 00:14:27.330 I don't really know. I feel sacrilegious to me. 00:14:27.490 --> 00:14:31.049 Yeah, it may be. I don't know. What do you think 00:14:31.049 --> 00:14:35.049 the Lord would actually like? No, no, let's not 00:14:35.049 --> 00:14:38.110 go there. No, no, no. I'm saying like, no, really. 00:14:38.129 --> 00:14:41.169 Do you think the Lord would think that's sacrilegious 00:14:41.169 --> 00:14:42.870 or what do you think it's beautiful if they're 00:14:42.870 --> 00:14:47.830 like pure intentions? Okay. Let's take this back 00:14:47.830 --> 00:14:56.080 a step because When Jesus washed the disciples 00:14:56.080 --> 00:15:00.720 feet, it was like a sign of humility and respect 00:15:00.720 --> 00:15:03.440 and love and service. And like those are all 00:15:03.440 --> 00:15:05.419 great things for a relationship, absolutely. 00:15:06.039 --> 00:15:09.100 But for this to be a ritual before you share 00:15:09.100 --> 00:15:12.080 intimate moments, like we're talking about completely 00:15:12.080 --> 00:15:16.120 different things here. Like one moment with kind 00:15:16.120 --> 00:15:19.389 of the scriptural context of like It's Jesus 00:15:19.389 --> 00:15:22.830 doing it to the disciples. Yeah, that's one thing. 00:15:23.090 --> 00:15:25.070 This is how we're going to like feel close to 00:15:25.070 --> 00:15:29.090 each other. It feels feels wrong. It's like if 00:15:29.090 --> 00:15:31.649 you want me to rub your feet first. OK, well, 00:15:31.669 --> 00:15:33.789 I'll rub your feet, but I love I'm not going 00:15:33.789 --> 00:15:38.029 to like I'm not going to wash them. Like, yeah, 00:15:38.090 --> 00:15:41.529 it just there's blurred lines. I like in this 00:15:41.529 --> 00:15:44.830 poor wife, she's like, I married this spiritual 00:15:44.830 --> 00:15:47.919 giant, this great guy, and he's just like We 00:15:47.919 --> 00:15:50.460 will be washing each other's feet again tonight. 00:15:53.299 --> 00:15:56.360 But maybe he is just trying to show a level of 00:15:56.360 --> 00:15:59.019 like respect and intimacy and like, just like 00:15:59.019 --> 00:16:04.419 a, in a loving way. Am I so wrong to think this 00:16:04.419 --> 00:16:09.820 isn't like that insane? Well, I like feet. Oh 00:16:09.820 --> 00:16:17.200 no. me this isn't like I mean I this is wild 00:16:17.200 --> 00:16:21.179 it is but I'm trying not to think he's like the 00:16:21.179 --> 00:16:23.559 most psycho weirdest dude in the world no it's 00:16:23.559 --> 00:16:26.159 not that it's psycho and weird it's just no it 00:16:26.159 --> 00:16:30.299 is it's weird it's just weird it's like a it's 00:16:30.299 --> 00:16:32.980 not a it's not something that needs to be ritualistic 00:16:32.980 --> 00:16:35.159 at all if you want to give your wife a foot massage 00:16:35.159 --> 00:16:38.000 okay that's fine like you want to make sure that 00:16:38.000 --> 00:16:41.480 she gives you a foot massage too Make sure the 00:16:41.480 --> 00:16:44.600 plane killed his level. Okay, that's fine It's 00:16:44.600 --> 00:16:48.679 the washing that is like it just feels so not 00:16:48.679 --> 00:16:52.399 right really and it's even like let's just say 00:16:52.399 --> 00:16:56.740 there's two foot freaks, okay, like You you meet 00:16:56.740 --> 00:16:59.200 your match and somebody loves feet as much as 00:16:59.200 --> 00:17:03.480 you do. I Don't okay Joey from the Bachelor He 00:17:03.480 --> 00:17:05.980 also was on a podcast with Harry and I was I 00:17:05.980 --> 00:17:07.920 listened to a clip on tik -tok and he was like 00:17:08.109 --> 00:17:10.410 he said something about how he really likes feet 00:17:10.410 --> 00:17:12.470 and he was like I don't really want to talk about 00:17:12.470 --> 00:17:13.930 this because everyone's gonna think I have a 00:17:13.930 --> 00:17:16.490 foot fetish and blah blah blah but I just genuinely 00:17:16.490 --> 00:17:20.170 like like my significant other's feet like I 00:17:20.170 --> 00:17:22.730 think they're cute and that's how I feel I never 00:17:22.730 --> 00:17:24.990 cared about feet or anything until I met Joe 00:17:24.990 --> 00:17:27.809 and I just think Joe has really nice soft feet 00:17:27.809 --> 00:17:32.170 and I love his feet but I would never do anything 00:17:32.170 --> 00:17:37.519 with his feet and I never have okay guys so No, 00:17:37.559 --> 00:17:40.779 that's true, though. Never has. But I do like 00:17:40.779 --> 00:17:43.000 feet, but I don't have like this like weird kink 00:17:43.000 --> 00:17:45.240 for feet. That's what I'm trying to say. OK, 00:17:45.460 --> 00:17:51.119 well. Let's go back to her. Whereas she made 00:17:51.119 --> 00:17:54.380 a post saying, I'm not comfortable doing this 00:17:54.380 --> 00:17:57.160 every time. Like, yeah. She's like, OK, cool. 00:17:57.279 --> 00:17:59.259 Like, imagine she has to take off this dude's 00:17:59.259 --> 00:18:01.559 cowboy boots. Like, imagine there are these stinky 00:18:01.559 --> 00:18:06.080 freaking feet. Ew. And he's just like, yep. Service 00:18:06.080 --> 00:18:09.880 wash them like give him give him a good never 00:18:09.880 --> 00:18:13.299 mind You know what I was I was picturing when 00:18:13.299 --> 00:18:16.079 I'm you know kind of defending this guy I was 00:18:16.079 --> 00:18:20.279 picturing him washing hers I never really pictured 00:18:20.279 --> 00:18:24.259 her having to wash his and I don't like the idea 00:18:24.259 --> 00:18:31.220 of her washing his You care to elaborate he should 00:18:31.220 --> 00:18:34.299 wash hers he's just like yeah, no he needs to 00:18:34.440 --> 00:18:36.839 Just like the idea of it being like a respect 00:18:36.839 --> 00:18:39.960 thing but the fact he wants her to wash his that's 00:18:39.960 --> 00:18:43.180 like Manpower like back is a two -way street. 00:18:43.940 --> 00:18:51.619 Nah Okay, yeah, this is this is weird I I don't 00:18:51.619 --> 00:18:53.619 know let me tell you some of the comments Okay, 00:18:53.900 --> 00:18:56.500 so this comment said look I respect faith But 00:18:56.500 --> 00:18:58.700 if my partner pulled out a foot bath every time 00:18:58.700 --> 00:19:00.519 we were about to get intimate I'd start wearing 00:19:00.519 --> 00:19:05.500 steel toe boots just to slow them down Don't 00:19:05.500 --> 00:19:11.859 get it Like steel -toed boots are like big work 00:19:11.859 --> 00:19:15.799 boots you tie up to the top like so the person's 00:19:15.799 --> 00:19:18.740 saying like If this had to be a thing then like 00:19:18.740 --> 00:19:21.039 you're gonna be on your loose. You're working 00:19:21.039 --> 00:19:24.440 for it. Oh, okay. Okay Oh, I like this comment 00:19:24.440 --> 00:19:27.259 says not to be irreverent, but you can absolutely 00:19:27.259 --> 00:19:29.279 still be holy without clean feet every single 00:19:29.279 --> 00:19:31.829 time Maybe just keep it for anniversaries or 00:19:31.829 --> 00:19:34.309 special moments. I feel like that's a good compromise. 00:19:36.170 --> 00:19:38.569 Yeah, it just, you know, it is. It's a good compromise. 00:19:38.609 --> 00:19:41.250 I'm just thinking. You're crying? No, how's this 00:19:41.250 --> 00:19:44.410 dude gonna take it? She's like, hey, maybe we 00:19:44.410 --> 00:19:48.890 could just do the foot bath thing like once a 00:19:48.890 --> 00:19:54.289 year. Yeah. It's like, I love it. You have to 00:19:54.289 --> 00:19:57.410 respect me every single time. Like, I've led 00:19:57.410 --> 00:20:01.759 us to this ritual. It just feels freaking bizarre. 00:20:02.119 --> 00:20:04.779 Very interesting. Very, very interesting. Well, 00:20:05.259 --> 00:20:09.119 I would love to know. There's got to be more 00:20:09.119 --> 00:20:12.799 faith Christian people out there that do kind 00:20:12.799 --> 00:20:15.880 of crazy stuff like this. If there are, please, 00:20:15.940 --> 00:20:19.980 please. Write it in. Hit the comments here. Write 00:20:19.980 --> 00:20:22.900 it in. internetfrenzy at gmail .com Send this 00:20:22.900 --> 00:20:25.319 to their stories. We've got to know. Yeah, we'd 00:20:25.319 --> 00:20:27.279 love to know because there's got to be more out 00:20:27.279 --> 00:20:32.609 there like this. I hope there's not. Okay, well 00:20:32.609 --> 00:20:36.690 on to the next. Comes from mivahole. mivahole 00:20:36.690 --> 00:20:40.289 for vetoing my wife's car purchase in the dealership 00:20:40.289 --> 00:20:42.869 and walking her out of there without looking 00:20:42.869 --> 00:20:46.170 at the car she picked out. That's so sad because 00:20:46.170 --> 00:20:48.369 buying your car is a pain in the ass and if you 00:20:48.369 --> 00:20:51.710 finally find one you love. Well, that's so sad. 00:20:51.789 --> 00:20:55.730 Okay, I'm ready. So my 29M wife 27F is a stay 00:20:55.730 --> 00:20:58.049 -at -home mom by her choice until the kids are 00:20:58.049 --> 00:21:01.029 old enough to go to school. Her older Honda SUV 00:21:01.029 --> 00:21:03.170 recently bit the dust when it needed some major 00:21:03.170 --> 00:21:05.269 repairs that totaled more than the value of her 00:21:05.269 --> 00:21:07.990 car. This was right at the beginning of the work 00:21:07.990 --> 00:21:09.970 week for me, so I unfortunately didn't have the 00:21:09.970 --> 00:21:12.069 time to sit with her and look at cars immediately. 00:21:12.690 --> 00:21:14.750 I told her she can do some research first and 00:21:14.750 --> 00:21:17.690 she can hold off until my day's off. and we could 00:21:17.690 --> 00:21:20.210 do some research together. I gave her a max budget 00:21:20.210 --> 00:21:22.529 of $20 ,000, but it was flexible as she found 00:21:22.529 --> 00:21:24.829 something she really liked. In the meantime, 00:21:24.910 --> 00:21:27.990 I lent her my car, which is a Mustang Moth E, 00:21:28.210 --> 00:21:31.650 sick, an electric Mustang, and took public transit 00:21:31.650 --> 00:21:34.369 slash Uber to work during the week. Look, okay, 00:21:34.490 --> 00:21:36.809 salute to you, bro. Yeah. Good for you. You gave 00:21:36.809 --> 00:21:39.309 her your car and you're fluffing it. He says, 00:21:39.450 --> 00:21:41.609 on one of my half days, I get a call from my 00:21:41.609 --> 00:21:43.509 wife saying that I need to come to a dealership 00:21:43.509 --> 00:21:46.220 after work and look at a new car she wants. I 00:21:46.220 --> 00:21:49.140 get a sinking feeling knowing she went to a dealership 00:21:49.140 --> 00:21:52.140 without me knowing how creditory they can be. 00:21:52.240 --> 00:21:55.099 So I asked her for the address. It's a Lexus 00:21:55.099 --> 00:21:57.759 dealer. I asked her who recommended it and she 00:21:57.759 --> 00:21:59.400 said that one of her friends has a boyfriend 00:21:59.400 --> 00:22:01.799 who works there and that they work out a nice 00:22:01.799 --> 00:22:04.420 deal for her. That friend happens to drive a 00:22:04.420 --> 00:22:06.440 Lexus and managed to get my wife in love with 00:22:06.440 --> 00:22:09.019 her car. I get off work and drove over to the 00:22:09.019 --> 00:22:11.220 dealership. On the phone with my wife I locate 00:22:11.220 --> 00:22:14.410 her and this car sales professional. I asked 00:22:14.410 --> 00:22:16.549 if she's seen and driven the car. She says yes, 00:22:16.549 --> 00:22:19.150 and she likes it. I asked the salesman, how much 00:22:19.150 --> 00:22:21.650 is it out the door? He says, well, your wife 00:22:21.650 --> 00:22:23.569 and I were discussing some options. How much 00:22:23.569 --> 00:22:26.670 do you have down? I said, honey, we're not buying 00:22:26.670 --> 00:22:29.750 a car today. Let's go. She asks why. I say, because 00:22:29.750 --> 00:22:31.990 he can't give us a straight answer about how 00:22:31.990 --> 00:22:34.630 much the car costs. She says, hold on, prints 00:22:34.630 --> 00:22:39.509 out the sheet. The used 2020 Lexus GX460 she 00:22:39.509 --> 00:22:43.359 was looking at. was an eye -watering $56 ,000 00:22:43.359 --> 00:22:47.539 after taxes, fees, and add -ons. Oh. I said, 00:22:47.680 --> 00:22:49.779 no, honey, that's not what we agreed on. She 00:22:49.779 --> 00:22:51.779 asked if I could at least look at the car before 00:22:51.779 --> 00:22:54.180 I left, but I said no. Salesman tried to butter 00:22:54.180 --> 00:22:57.400 me up and sell me on the car and say they could 00:22:57.400 --> 00:22:59.500 work on the price, but I just took keys from 00:22:59.500 --> 00:23:02.380 my wife and left. Eventually, I was able to sit 00:23:02.380 --> 00:23:04.660 her down and show her some much more affordable 00:23:04.660 --> 00:23:06.900 options that wouldn't require us financing the 00:23:06.900 --> 00:23:09.630 car and going back into debt. She ended up purchasing 00:23:09.630 --> 00:23:12.170 a nice used Honda Pilot Touring she ended up 00:23:12.170 --> 00:23:16.509 liking. We have one of those. We love it. Pilot 00:23:16.509 --> 00:23:22.430 Elite. But she ended up likings. That car all 00:23:22.430 --> 00:23:24.910 told purchase price and then some overdue maintenance 00:23:24.910 --> 00:23:28.869 items came out to about $21 ,000. This incident 00:23:28.869 --> 00:23:31.089 in the grand scheme of marriage was a blip, but 00:23:31.089 --> 00:23:33.430 she did say I seemed cold and unreceptive to 00:23:33.430 --> 00:23:35.960 what she wanted at the dealership. But I defended 00:23:35.960 --> 00:23:38.119 myself by saying that the sales strategy in a 00:23:38.119 --> 00:23:40.259 dealership sometimes is to make one spouse love 00:23:40.259 --> 00:23:43.380 the car and make that spouse feel like the salesperson 00:23:43.380 --> 00:23:45.680 is on their side so that they might purchase 00:23:45.680 --> 00:23:47.700 a car from them even if it's not a good decision 00:23:47.700 --> 00:23:50.200 for the couple. Am I the a -hole for how I handle 00:23:50.200 --> 00:23:52.779 the dealership situation? Her friend is also 00:23:52.779 --> 00:23:54.660 a little upset I treated her boyfriend, Ruby, 00:23:54.680 --> 00:23:57.039 at the dealership. But from my perspective, that 00:23:57.039 --> 00:23:59.400 wasn't my wife's friend's partner. That was a 00:23:59.400 --> 00:24:02.000 car salesman trying to put us in $800 a month 00:24:02.000 --> 00:24:04.160 worth of debt for the next five years. Yeah. 00:24:04.509 --> 00:24:07.650 Oh my gosh. No, I think he handled it really 00:24:07.650 --> 00:24:11.089 well. Honestly, like I think it was really disrespectful 00:24:11.089 --> 00:24:13.630 for the wife to even like consider going into 00:24:13.630 --> 00:24:15.849 something like that when they agreed on the 20 00:24:15.849 --> 00:24:19.069 ,000. So that actually like frustrated me with 00:24:19.069 --> 00:24:23.130 the wife. 56 G's. Yeah. No, I'm just going to 00:24:23.130 --> 00:24:25.309 triple what you said. Yeah. Like, no, it's fine. 00:24:25.410 --> 00:24:27.029 I'm at the dealership. I already did it. Just 00:24:27.029 --> 00:24:29.349 sign the paper. Just like shut up and do it. 00:24:29.990 --> 00:24:33.799 That's wild. And he is so spot -on about car 00:24:33.799 --> 00:24:37.119 salesmen they are the worst I hate I hate them 00:24:37.119 --> 00:24:39.039 I'm sorry if you're a car salesman you're listening 00:24:39.039 --> 00:24:42.319 I don't like them and they have screwed me over 00:24:42.319 --> 00:24:44.819 every single time because I'm a sucker I am that 00:24:44.819 --> 00:24:47.940 freaking wife and they do use that tactic because 00:24:47.940 --> 00:24:50.920 our last our car right now our Honda pilot elite 00:24:50.920 --> 00:24:53.839 it's so embarrassing we're even saying that but 00:24:53.839 --> 00:24:56.440 anyways the trims it's cool it's got all the 00:24:56.440 --> 00:24:59.380 stuff it's pretty awesome we love it we got freaking 00:24:59.380 --> 00:25:02.559 swindled yeah we got swindled so hard because 00:25:02.559 --> 00:25:05.019 I fell in love with it and I showed my cards 00:25:05.019 --> 00:25:07.019 to earlier. Like I was like, Oh, I love this 00:25:07.019 --> 00:25:09.619 one. This is it. Like, and the salesman was obviously 00:25:09.619 --> 00:25:11.740 taking all this in. So then we go to sit down 00:25:11.740 --> 00:25:14.200 and he knew that I was obsessed with it. And 00:25:14.200 --> 00:25:17.059 by this point we had already been sales or we 00:25:17.059 --> 00:25:19.200 had been shopping for like three days at that 00:25:19.200 --> 00:25:21.400 point. So we were so done. We just wanted a fricking 00:25:21.400 --> 00:25:24.759 car. And he knew that he knew that we were like 00:25:24.759 --> 00:25:27.440 finally fun when we really liked. And yeah, they 00:25:27.440 --> 00:25:30.440 did not move a budge at all at the price. And 00:25:30.480 --> 00:25:33.759 The salesman was like on my side because I was 00:25:33.759 --> 00:25:36.160 like, team, let's just get it. And you were more 00:25:36.160 --> 00:25:39.240 like, no, we should talk about this. Yeah. I'm 00:25:39.240 --> 00:25:41.799 like, it was so stupid. We had to buy this car 00:25:41.799 --> 00:25:44.359 before our camping trip. Like we, we like had 00:25:44.359 --> 00:25:46.660 to pull the trigger before the holiday, before 00:25:46.660 --> 00:25:50.079 the fourth of July. Yeah. So dumb. Cause we wanted 00:25:50.079 --> 00:25:53.259 a new car for camping and our dogs could fit 00:25:53.259 --> 00:25:56.279 in all the things. But I literally, I, I told 00:25:56.279 --> 00:25:58.740 the guy, I'm like, dude, a thousand dollars off 00:25:58.740 --> 00:26:01.049 and I'll shake your hand right now. And he like 00:26:01.049 --> 00:26:03.549 goes to the manager, comes back, and he's like, 00:26:03.589 --> 00:26:06.230 I'd be losing money on that. I'd be losing money 00:26:06.230 --> 00:26:08.730 at that point. It's like, no, you're not. What 00:26:08.730 --> 00:26:10.289 are you talking about, bro? You're saying that 00:26:10.289 --> 00:26:13.170 you're going to make $500 on this deal? Like, 00:26:13.250 --> 00:26:15.829 you're such a liar. Yeah, it was ridiculous. 00:26:15.950 --> 00:26:21.250 He sucked, but it's fine. Shout out Baldy. Oh, 00:26:21.369 --> 00:26:25.390 shit. Go and see him. Go and see him and get 00:26:25.390 --> 00:26:29.880 swindled. That was great. Don't edit that out. 00:26:30.000 --> 00:26:31.819 I know, I've already been planning on beeping 00:26:31.819 --> 00:26:35.599 it out, honestly. No, no. Baldi, you're a jerk. 00:26:38.599 --> 00:26:41.099 The audacity of that guy, too. I can't even, 00:26:41.099 --> 00:26:44.059 I'm not even starved. Yeah, he is, yeah. Okay, 00:26:44.059 --> 00:26:46.720 but here's the best part. Okay. Best comment 00:26:46.720 --> 00:26:49.279 says, ex car salesman here, you are a thousand 00:26:49.279 --> 00:26:51.519 percent right, LOL. Every tactic you describe 00:26:51.519 --> 00:26:55.640 is exactly what they do. Yeah. Yeah, I'm right, 00:26:55.640 --> 00:26:57.660 he's right, we're all right. No, he was more 00:26:57.660 --> 00:27:01.190 right. you copied him no I never read that comment 00:27:01.190 --> 00:27:03.670 no but you copied him from before like you were 00:27:03.670 --> 00:27:07.589 like yeah no he's right because he said oh okay 00:27:07.589 --> 00:27:10.650 anyways anyway he said she said everyone's right 00:27:10.650 --> 00:27:12.650 somebody else said my favorite is when I ask 00:27:12.650 --> 00:27:14.369 what's the out -the -door price and they say 00:27:14.369 --> 00:27:17.490 well the monthly payment is nope thanks for your 00:27:17.490 --> 00:27:21.490 time that's not what I asked bye oh I honestly 00:27:21.490 --> 00:27:24.170 give me PTSD like I hate car shopping I hate 00:27:24.170 --> 00:27:28.660 it so much guys we bought that car And literally 00:27:28.660 --> 00:27:32.140 three days later, Trace, after buying that car, 00:27:32.359 --> 00:27:36.539 you guys, that was boss, unexpectedly and tragically 00:27:36.539 --> 00:27:42.039 died. And then he lost his job. So that honestly 00:27:42.039 --> 00:27:44.920 just car shopping in general, I'm good on it. 00:27:44.920 --> 00:27:47.160 I don't want to car shop for many, many years. 00:27:47.359 --> 00:27:51.319 Our PTSD is an onion. It's got layers. You guys 00:27:51.319 --> 00:27:53.500 don't even know what we have been through in 00:27:53.500 --> 00:27:57.619 life and slowly each episode we will share. You 00:27:57.619 --> 00:28:01.839 don't even wanna know. You don't. It's been fun. 00:28:02.420 --> 00:28:05.680 It's been really fun, you guys. Your turn to 00:28:05.680 --> 00:28:08.940 share the last story. Yes. So this is off our 00:28:08.940 --> 00:28:13.539 relationship advice. My 27M fiance and I25F just 00:28:13.539 --> 00:28:15.759 broke up. Suddenly he can do chores and spend 00:28:15.759 --> 00:28:18.680 money on household supplies. As the title reads, 00:28:18.680 --> 00:28:20.819 I just broke up with my fiance, my partner of 00:28:20.819 --> 00:28:23.299 seven years. One of the major problems in our 00:28:23.299 --> 00:28:25.240 relationship was that he didn't contribute to 00:28:25.240 --> 00:28:27.529 the household. This being, he didn't help with 00:28:27.529 --> 00:28:29.490 chores often, in his words, because he worked 00:28:29.490 --> 00:28:31.390 so much, and he didn't spend money on supplies 00:28:31.390 --> 00:28:33.849 for the house. New vacuum, toilet paper, or trash 00:28:33.849 --> 00:28:36.569 bags. However, after having broken up last week, 00:28:36.650 --> 00:28:38.849 he has miraculously resolved these issues with 00:28:38.849 --> 00:28:41.690 himself. Now he washes all of his dishes, he 00:28:41.690 --> 00:28:43.509 bought himself a ton of bathroom items, and new 00:28:43.509 --> 00:28:45.569 vacuum just for him. Ours is old and rickety, 00:28:45.710 --> 00:28:48.710 but gets the job done. Now I get that he is buying 00:28:48.710 --> 00:28:50.609 these items because he is going to move out, 00:28:50.930 --> 00:28:53.660 and he doesn't want to share items. It's just 00:28:53.660 --> 00:28:55.940 very anger -imbucing because I'm wondering where 00:28:55.940 --> 00:28:58.099 all this effort and money came from. He couldn't 00:28:58.099 --> 00:28:59.940 have helped me buy things and do chores before, 00:29:00.000 --> 00:29:02.259 but now that we're done, he can. My question 00:29:02.259 --> 00:29:04.180 is, how do I not flip the hell out that he's 00:29:04.180 --> 00:29:06.779 so selfish and manipulative? She's not over him. 00:29:07.099 --> 00:29:09.039 She's in love with him and she's so mad that 00:29:09.039 --> 00:29:11.440 he's gonna thrive without her. Yeah, he's gonna 00:29:11.440 --> 00:29:13.900 go have a nice clean living space and he's gonna 00:29:13.900 --> 00:29:17.960 pay for it. No, but for real, I understand where 00:29:17.960 --> 00:29:20.420 she's coming from this whole time. I think he's 00:29:20.420 --> 00:29:22.319 doing it out of spite. He's just trying to piss 00:29:22.319 --> 00:29:24.500 her off. Well, of course. Yeah, he's playing 00:29:24.500 --> 00:29:26.819 games. You're gonna break up with me over me 00:29:26.819 --> 00:29:31.079 not buying the ammonia? I didn't buy the pine 00:29:31.079 --> 00:29:34.220 saw. Sorry. Nah, she has probably mentioned it 00:29:34.220 --> 00:29:36.900 to him, knowing a girl on a man's relationship. 00:29:38.140 --> 00:29:41.839 She has definitely mentioned this many, many 00:29:41.839 --> 00:29:45.319 times and she's had enough. Well, if she's gonna... 00:29:45.390 --> 00:29:47.910 stop the relationship over it, then you're obviously 00:29:47.910 --> 00:29:52.950 right. Well, there is an edit and update. Talk 00:29:52.950 --> 00:29:55.569 to us. My profile has a previous post with more 00:29:55.569 --> 00:29:57.890 information for those interested. He is for sure 00:29:57.890 --> 00:29:59.650 moving out in September. At least that's what 00:29:59.650 --> 00:30:01.710 he told me today. Thank you to everyone who has 00:30:01.710 --> 00:30:03.410 interacted with this post. I'm still hurting 00:30:03.410 --> 00:30:05.509 and healing, but I'm just going to remain optimistic 00:30:05.509 --> 00:30:07.369 on what the future holds without someone selfish 00:30:07.369 --> 00:30:10.210 being unappreciative of me. Last update for a 00:30:10.210 --> 00:30:12.450 while. He's not able to move out in September 00:30:12.450 --> 00:30:15.140 as previously mentioned. He hasn't gotten approved 00:30:15.140 --> 00:30:17.480 for the apartments he applied to. I don't have 00:30:17.480 --> 00:30:19.559 the funds to move out, so I'm just stuck until 00:30:19.559 --> 00:30:22.880 the start of December at least. For those asking, 00:30:23.000 --> 00:30:25.359 we both work full -time jobs. I was able to get 00:30:25.359 --> 00:30:27.930 a friend to agree to move in once he's out. His 00:30:27.930 --> 00:30:30.009 job does pay significantly higher than mine, 00:30:30.089 --> 00:30:31.930 however, he does not pay more in bills because 00:30:31.930 --> 00:30:34.089 he screwed up his credit and bought a very expensive 00:30:34.089 --> 00:30:36.250 truck. I was also a student up until halfway 00:30:36.250 --> 00:30:38.549 through July when I graduated with my bachelor's. 00:30:38.549 --> 00:30:41.089 Not bragging, but I did receive honors as I was 00:30:41.089 --> 00:30:42.990 very dedicated, just to give you the perspective 00:30:42.990 --> 00:30:44.670 that I didn't have a lot of free time either 00:30:44.670 --> 00:30:47.490 to be cleaning up after everyone. She graduated 00:30:47.490 --> 00:30:50.650 with honors. Wow, you must not have had any time 00:30:50.650 --> 00:30:52.549 to cook and clean, but you still did it anyway. 00:30:53.379 --> 00:30:55.220 I personally think they're going to stay together. 00:30:55.539 --> 00:30:57.700 Yeah, they're probably still banging. Yeah, I 00:30:57.700 --> 00:31:00.059 think so. Like, yeah, you can't move out until 00:31:00.059 --> 00:31:01.779 September. Like, what are you guys going to do? 00:31:01.819 --> 00:31:03.539 You're just going to hang out? Have you imagined 00:31:03.539 --> 00:31:05.980 just, like, living together after breaking up? 00:31:06.700 --> 00:31:09.259 I'd buy a vacuum, and I'd start doing the chores 00:31:09.259 --> 00:31:11.519 that I wasn't doing that caused you to break 00:31:11.519 --> 00:31:13.819 up with me. I'd be so happy, and I would just 00:31:13.819 --> 00:31:15.779 want to stay with you after that. Yeah, and you'd 00:31:15.779 --> 00:31:18.940 be like, please stay. I would honestly bring 00:31:18.940 --> 00:31:21.920 up the foot washing ceremony. Yeah, you would. 00:31:24.210 --> 00:31:28.730 Again Like that was actually me as OP and I'm 00:31:28.730 --> 00:31:33.529 the girl and you're the guy Okay, well that was 00:31:33.529 --> 00:31:37.250 my story Well, I liked it. Thanks. That's pretty 00:31:37.250 --> 00:31:40.450 good. Thanks Joe. Oh Well, I like you and I like 00:31:40.450 --> 00:31:42.609 internet frenzy and I love everyone that listens 00:31:42.609 --> 00:31:45.190 and stay tuned for next week's because trust 00:31:45.190 --> 00:31:48.829 me I say this every freaking week, but it's so 00:31:48.829 --> 00:31:52.170 good. I cannot wait Which one you guys think 00:31:52.170 --> 00:31:54.569 is the fake though? Yeah, that's the real question 00:31:54.569 --> 00:31:56.549 here and stay tuned because next week in the 00:31:56.549 --> 00:31:59.890 beginning of the episode we will air which one 00:31:59.890 --> 00:32:04.589 Was the fake and we will reveal it He hates when 00:32:04.589 --> 00:32:08.210 I sing because it's like you're like coxing me 00:32:08.210 --> 00:32:11.609 you're like coxing you No, that sounds terrible. 00:32:11.609 --> 00:32:14.750 I'm funnier when I do it. That's I don't claim 00:32:14.750 --> 00:32:20.089 to be funny doing it Wow not you got me there 00:32:20.460 --> 00:32:22.539 He got me there, hey guys, there's a really funny 00:32:22.539 --> 00:32:24.980 story, just real fast. Joe went golfing today, 00:32:25.019 --> 00:32:27.420 of course he did, and shocker, and he was with 00:32:27.420 --> 00:32:29.240 his buddies. Once a month. No, no, no, no, no. 00:32:29.680 --> 00:32:31.579 And he was with his buddies, and one of the guys 00:32:31.579 --> 00:32:33.599 that was behind them in the tournament was like, 00:32:33.700 --> 00:32:36.180 Joe was going to swing, and the dude was giving 00:32:36.180 --> 00:32:38.039 Joe grief, and what did he say about your shirt? 00:32:38.259 --> 00:32:41.259 Oh my gosh. He just kept, he's like, dude, your 00:32:41.259 --> 00:32:43.579 shirt's too big, like, you had a great swing, 00:32:43.640 --> 00:32:45.759 you got a great move on the ball, but your shirt's 00:32:45.759 --> 00:32:49.400 way too big, bro. And he's like, one of the other 00:32:49.400 --> 00:32:52.220 guys in the group was like, yeah, my mom has 00:32:52.220 --> 00:32:55.720 a nightgown that looks just like that. What did 00:32:55.720 --> 00:32:58.299 you pop off and say? I was like, yeah, I know 00:32:58.299 --> 00:33:00.200 it looked really good on the floor last night. 00:33:02.579 --> 00:33:04.859 And all the dudes just died laughing. They were 00:33:04.859 --> 00:33:07.380 laughing forever. They were like, dude, he caught 00:33:07.380 --> 00:33:10.839 you so good. I roasted him. Yeah, his group was 00:33:10.839 --> 00:33:14.480 loving that. Yeah, it was so good. So hey, if 00:33:14.480 --> 00:33:17.099 they're listening. Yeah, if you guys are listening, 00:33:17.480 --> 00:33:19.700 congrats on winning the tournament, you douchebags. 00:33:19.839 --> 00:33:22.019 Oh, did they win it? They did. Oh, I hate that. 00:33:22.299 --> 00:33:24.299 I won the tournament in the playoffs. Oh, that 00:33:24.299 --> 00:33:27.640 was cool. Dang it. I'll wear your mom's shirt 00:33:27.640 --> 00:33:30.839 any time, bud. No, you won't. You are married 00:33:30.839 --> 00:33:34.220 to me. If she wants me to wear his mom's nightgown, 00:33:34.259 --> 00:33:38.420 I'll wear it to go to sleep with you. Yo, you're 00:33:38.420 --> 00:33:41.680 gonna wet the bed with that nightgown. And I'll 00:33:41.680 --> 00:33:48.220 use it and snap it up. Ew. I hate myself. Yeah. 00:33:48.259 --> 00:33:51.339 Well, you should. Well, thanks for listening, 00:33:51.420 --> 00:33:54.400 you guys. It's been a fun, wild episode. We will 00:33:54.400 --> 00:33:57.279 see you guys next week. And make sure you tune 00:33:57.279 --> 00:34:00.160 in on all the socials. Yes. Let us know who you 00:34:00.160 --> 00:34:04.079 think is fake. Yes. And also, one last thing. 00:34:04.400 --> 00:34:08.099 Happy one year to us. One full year of internet 00:34:08.099 --> 00:34:10.659 frenzy from all the podcasts, all social media 00:34:10.659 --> 00:34:14.199 posts. We are growing. It is so exciting to see. 00:34:14.480 --> 00:34:17.079 And hopefully one day we make millions. That 00:34:17.079 --> 00:34:23.920 would be cool. Edit that out. Hopefully you guys 00:34:23.920 --> 00:34:28.659 are enjoying it as much as we are. Thank you 00:34:28.659 --> 00:34:30.480 so much for being here. We'll catch you guys 00:34:30.480 --> 00:34:35.019 next week. Internet frenzy on three. One, two, 00:34:35.019 --> 00:34:39.500 three. Internet frenzy. Bye. Love you guys so 00:34:39.500 --> 00:34:55.739 much. Wash your feet. Bye. Click no pretending