WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.379 Welcome back to another episode of internet frenzy. 00:00:03.500 --> 00:00:05.820 I'm so excited I feel like it's been a minute 00:00:05.820 --> 00:00:07.820 since we've done an episode, but it hasn't been 00:00:07.820 --> 00:00:11.400 that long It hasn't been that long for the people 00:00:11.400 --> 00:00:14.279 been long for us Yeah, yeah, we filmed and then 00:00:14.279 --> 00:00:16.379 we didn't film and then here we're here. We're 00:00:16.379 --> 00:00:18.179 back, but we're gonna get back after it It's 00:00:18.179 --> 00:00:20.339 gonna be good. Everything's gonna be great. Yeah, 00:00:20.339 --> 00:00:23.420 I'm excited. I'm looking forward to tonight's 00:00:23.420 --> 00:00:25.640 Our episode we had to have it kind of on theme 00:00:25.640 --> 00:00:27.960 to what we've been going through the past week 00:00:27.960 --> 00:00:33.079 we had our anniversary nine years married guys 00:00:33.079 --> 00:00:36.600 so due to the fact that it was our ninth anniversary 00:00:36.600 --> 00:00:39.820 yesterday yes we got to keep it on brand absolutely 00:00:39.820 --> 00:00:44.140 so the theme for this week is tied in knots anniversary 00:00:44.140 --> 00:00:47.600 stories no tune in if you like anniversary stories 00:00:47.600 --> 00:00:50.500 some are good some are bad we could tell you 00:00:50.500 --> 00:00:53.320 our story from yesterday but we won't no actually 00:00:53.320 --> 00:00:55.369 was just a good day It was a really good day. 00:00:55.429 --> 00:00:57.630 We had a good time. Nine years doesn't come by 00:00:57.630 --> 00:01:00.189 accident. So something worth celebrating, which 00:01:00.189 --> 00:01:02.729 we did. So before we jump into this week's episode, 00:01:03.030 --> 00:01:04.629 we've got to talk about which one was the fake 00:01:04.629 --> 00:01:07.849 from last week. Yes. The dadliest catch. We had 00:01:07.849 --> 00:01:10.250 the story about the grandpa making obscene comments 00:01:10.250 --> 00:01:13.969 about the unborn baby. That one sucked. We have 00:01:13.969 --> 00:01:16.310 the husband that wouldn't change a diaper. Are 00:01:16.310 --> 00:01:18.849 we for real? That one was so annoying. Like, 00:01:18.969 --> 00:01:22.590 dude, grow up. Grow up. You're a dad now. So 00:01:22.590 --> 00:01:26.409 stupid. Then we have the girl, the story that 00:01:26.409 --> 00:01:28.829 we've used before, the girl that couldn't tell 00:01:28.829 --> 00:01:31.189 her boyfriend that her dad was actually alive. 00:01:32.230 --> 00:01:35.109 Real story, not a fake. And then we had my dad 00:01:35.109 --> 00:01:39.109 is marrying my ex's mom, which was the fake. 00:01:40.310 --> 00:01:42.090 So if you guys thought that was the fake, you 00:01:42.090 --> 00:01:44.609 were right. Good for you. If you didn't, keep 00:01:44.609 --> 00:01:47.250 practicing. And this week, we're going to jump 00:01:47.250 --> 00:02:08.639 right into it. Tied in knots. our first story 00:02:08.639 --> 00:02:12.159 comes from best of redditor updates which is 00:02:12.159 --> 00:02:15.080 quickly becoming my favorite sub it says my wife 00:02:15.080 --> 00:02:18.219 booked our anniversary trip without me and wife 00:02:18.219 --> 00:02:21.479 responds so we get to hear from both parties 00:02:21.479 --> 00:02:25.180 in this story oh dang okay okay my wife booked 00:02:25.180 --> 00:02:27.939 our anniversary trip without me my wife posted 00:02:27.939 --> 00:02:30.539 a question about this somewhere on reddit Maybe 00:02:30.539 --> 00:02:32.900 here, I don't know. And now I can't find it. 00:02:32.979 --> 00:02:35.080 This is my first time using Reddit. She posted 00:02:35.080 --> 00:02:37.020 about me not wanting to go on an anniversary 00:02:37.020 --> 00:02:39.219 trip that she had planned. She showed me the 00:02:39.219 --> 00:02:41.479 responses and some said I was checked out of 00:02:41.479 --> 00:02:43.960 the marriage. A lot of them also said just to 00:02:43.960 --> 00:02:46.310 book the trip anyways and I'd get over it. After 00:02:46.310 --> 00:02:48.229 she showed me the responses, we tried to talk 00:02:48.229 --> 00:02:50.250 it out, but she was mad that I couldn't give 00:02:50.250 --> 00:02:52.569 her a valid reason for not wanting to go. She 00:02:52.569 --> 00:02:54.590 said she hasn't traveled in over five years and 00:02:54.590 --> 00:02:56.669 she was going either way. I kind of thought she'd 00:02:56.669 --> 00:02:58.650 eventually get over it and forget about the trip. 00:02:58.810 --> 00:03:00.789 Well, she took Reddit's advice and booked the 00:03:00.789 --> 00:03:03.030 trip anyways, but instead of booking it for two 00:03:03.030 --> 00:03:07.270 of us, she booked it for her and a male coworker. 00:03:08.870 --> 00:03:12.189 Yes, a long weekend in the Caribbean with a coworker. 00:03:13.039 --> 00:03:15.219 I asked her if anything was going on between 00:03:15.219 --> 00:03:18.479 them and she said no. I had no reason to believe 00:03:18.479 --> 00:03:20.719 she would cheat on me until today, which she 00:03:20.719 --> 00:03:23.560 is clearly going to do if she goes to a resort 00:03:23.560 --> 00:03:26.340 with him. She's a good looking woman, but has 00:03:26.340 --> 00:03:29.240 been very loyal for the last 10 years. I am shocked. 00:03:29.560 --> 00:03:31.840 What should I do? How can I fix this? She thought 00:03:31.840 --> 00:03:33.740 I was checked out of the marriage, but it's clear 00:03:33.740 --> 00:03:38.580 she's the one giving up. Dude, no way. No freaking 00:03:38.580 --> 00:03:44.840 way. Is he gay? Whoa. Do you have a crystal ball? 00:03:46.319 --> 00:03:48.900 Okay, thank goodness. Is there more to this story? 00:03:49.699 --> 00:03:52.680 Best of Redditor updates. Oh shoot. Okay. Okay. 00:03:52.819 --> 00:03:55.039 First of all, he says editing my post to answer 00:03:55.039 --> 00:03:57.439 questions. This is our first little update. Okay. 00:03:57.500 --> 00:03:59.599 I don't want to go because it's a long weekend 00:03:59.599 --> 00:04:01.699 in Canada and I'd rather just hang out at my 00:04:01.699 --> 00:04:04.599 cabin. Also, she's arranged childcare, but this 00:04:04.599 --> 00:04:06.340 way we won't have to worry about having someone 00:04:06.340 --> 00:04:09.219 watch the kids. And then he says the coworker, 00:04:09.219 --> 00:04:11.539 I don't know anything about him. She never talks 00:04:11.539 --> 00:04:13.710 about work. she goes to work and comes right 00:04:13.710 --> 00:04:16.170 back home when she's not at work she's with the 00:04:16.170 --> 00:04:18.329 kids and is never on her phone so if she's having 00:04:18.329 --> 00:04:20.889 an affair she's really damn good at hiding it 00:04:20.889 --> 00:04:24.670 okay so the first comment says why would you 00:04:24.670 --> 00:04:27.689 not want to go on a romantic trip with your wife 00:04:27.689 --> 00:04:31.829 yeah like score bro he's like i don't want to 00:04:31.829 --> 00:04:34.550 go on a vacation i want to go to my cabin yeah 00:04:34.550 --> 00:04:38.230 such a freaking lumberjack such a such a paul 00:04:38.230 --> 00:04:42.009 bunyan He'd rather sit around his cabin doing 00:04:42.009 --> 00:04:44.250 nothing, apparently. Wow, I wonder why his wife 00:04:44.250 --> 00:04:47.670 is losing interest in this marriage. There's 00:04:47.670 --> 00:04:49.689 a ton of comments, so I'm not gonna read all 00:04:49.689 --> 00:04:51.509 of them, but that gives you just a little taste. 00:04:51.750 --> 00:04:53.670 Well, well, well, if it isn't the consequences 00:04:53.670 --> 00:04:56.050 of my own actions. Your wife is obviously in 00:04:56.050 --> 00:04:58.209 the wrong for taking another man on a trip. That's 00:04:58.209 --> 00:05:00.589 just a given. But sounds like you chose to not 00:05:00.589 --> 00:05:02.430 prioritize something that was important to your 00:05:02.430 --> 00:05:06.069 wife after she had expressed it. This does appear 00:05:06.069 --> 00:05:08.050 to be her throwing in the towel. Sounds like 00:05:08.050 --> 00:05:10.370 this was the last straw for her. People don't 00:05:10.370 --> 00:05:12.490 just do that kind of thing for no reason. I'm 00:05:12.490 --> 00:05:15.709 sorry, but seriously Okay, we'll keep going because 00:05:15.709 --> 00:05:18.509 if he's gay then it is different But if he's 00:05:18.509 --> 00:05:20.990 not what she's doing, she's still the a -hole 00:05:20.990 --> 00:05:25.970 on this. So The sexuality of the male co -worker 00:05:25.970 --> 00:05:29.589 is what everything hinges on. Yes. Okay. Yeah 00:05:29.589 --> 00:05:32.709 Well, let's see. Hi. I'm the wife who booked 00:05:32.709 --> 00:05:35.170 a trip with her co -worker and this was posted 00:05:35.170 --> 00:05:41.139 one day later. Oh shoot so This is why best redditor 00:05:41.139 --> 00:05:43.459 updates is the best. Somebody compiled all of 00:05:43.459 --> 00:05:45.360 this for us and made it really easy for us to 00:05:45.360 --> 00:05:47.819 follow. Oh, that's amazing. So she says, I'm 00:05:47.819 --> 00:05:49.459 really embarrassed about all of this. Here's 00:05:49.459 --> 00:05:51.779 a few things. Number one, my husband doesn't 00:05:51.779 --> 00:05:53.959 use social media. I'm surprised he made a Reddit 00:05:53.959 --> 00:05:56.240 account at all. When I saw the post, I confronted 00:05:56.240 --> 00:05:58.740 him about it. He said he made the post to prove 00:05:58.740 --> 00:06:01.139 a point, but clearly stopped reading the responses 00:06:01.139 --> 00:06:03.959 early on. Two, I only made my initial post to 00:06:03.959 --> 00:06:06.639 try to show him that wanting to go on a 10 -year 00:06:06.639 --> 00:06:09.699 anniversary trip wasn't asking a lot. I deleted 00:06:09.699 --> 00:06:11.500 the post because I was embarrassed he didn't 00:06:11.500 --> 00:06:14.040 want to travel with me. I know not to get marriage 00:06:14.040 --> 00:06:16.319 advice from Reddit, of all places, but I always 00:06:16.319 --> 00:06:18.620 like to hear other people's point of view. Three, 00:06:18.879 --> 00:06:23.839 my coworker is gay. My husband knows that I've 00:06:23.839 --> 00:06:26.459 known him for four years and talk about him all 00:06:26.459 --> 00:06:30.399 the time He knows that he paid his own way and 00:06:30.399 --> 00:06:32.399 is only going because none of my friends could 00:06:32.399 --> 00:06:36.120 go Brent sees mom life He wanted to check out 00:06:36.120 --> 00:06:38.120 the island as he's getting married there next 00:06:38.120 --> 00:06:40.519 fall My husband doesn't want me traveling with 00:06:40.519 --> 00:06:43.199 some guy He's never met but none of my girlfriends 00:06:43.199 --> 00:06:56.240 could go and I didn't want to go alone for Yeah, 00:07:07.879 --> 00:07:15.300 girl, get out. He never told me that plus he 00:07:15.300 --> 00:07:17.459 goes there at least eight times a year I asked 00:07:17.459 --> 00:07:19.199 him about that and he said that it's because 00:07:19.199 --> 00:07:21.439 it's what he enjoys doing and he didn't want 00:07:21.439 --> 00:07:24.439 to tell me because I would make him feel bad 00:07:24.439 --> 00:07:27.699 Anyways, this whole thing is embarrassing. We'll 00:07:27.699 --> 00:07:30.259 probably delete this post later It's obvious 00:07:30.259 --> 00:07:32.160 that the husband was really trying to make the 00:07:32.160 --> 00:07:34.439 wife out to be like the worst person in the world 00:07:34.439 --> 00:07:36.500 so he could get a bunch of feedback of like, 00:07:36.720 --> 00:07:39.040 your wife sucks, how can she do that, she's cheating 00:07:39.040 --> 00:07:42.199 on you. She's going with another guy? Like bro, 00:07:43.100 --> 00:07:45.819 what are you gonna do? Dude, don't let him take 00:07:45.819 --> 00:07:50.579 your wife. Here's why I feel okay about it though. 00:07:50.860 --> 00:07:53.660 Okay. Well first would I personally be okay with 00:07:53.660 --> 00:07:56.379 you going with? Let's say someone that likes 00:07:56.379 --> 00:07:59.699 girls, but she's a girl on a cruise or trip. 00:07:59.819 --> 00:08:02.500 Whatever. No, I would still not be okay with 00:08:02.500 --> 00:08:06.279 it At all, but if it was a gay guy going with 00:08:06.279 --> 00:08:08.839 me, would you be okay with it? Yeah, I wouldn't 00:08:08.839 --> 00:08:13.579 care really. Yeah Wow Love that. This is their 00:08:13.579 --> 00:08:16.500 10 year anniversary. That's us next year. I'm 00:08:16.500 --> 00:08:20.319 I'm not not celebrating my 10 year I know no 00:08:20.319 --> 00:08:22.379 you have to celebrate our 10 year anniversary 00:08:22.379 --> 00:08:26.319 on your own while I go to our cabin Like I'm 00:08:26.319 --> 00:08:29.519 gonna go Sit out there and like birdwatch on 00:08:29.519 --> 00:08:32.320 the on the patio and you have to go be in the 00:08:32.320 --> 00:08:36.120 Caribbean with your gay friend well That would 00:08:36.120 --> 00:08:38.720 be a good time. You would have so much fun. She's 00:08:38.720 --> 00:08:42.519 gonna have the best time And it's cool that her 00:08:42.519 --> 00:08:45.299 friend, coworker, wants to go because he's gonna 00:08:45.299 --> 00:08:48.440 get married there the next year or whatever. 00:08:48.559 --> 00:08:50.559 And I just love that, like that. I feel like 00:08:50.559 --> 00:08:52.559 that made me even feel even more comfortable 00:08:52.559 --> 00:08:55.320 with it. Yeah, like he's scoping it out. Yeah. 00:08:55.620 --> 00:08:58.440 He's the a -hole. The husband, 100%. The husband 00:08:58.440 --> 00:09:00.720 is 100 % the a -hole. Yeah, why wouldn't he want 00:09:00.720 --> 00:09:03.019 to go? Go on the trip, dude. Go on the trip. 00:09:03.059 --> 00:09:06.039 It's your anniversary. It's not, yeah. I still 00:09:06.039 --> 00:09:07.740 can't figure out why he wouldn't want to go. 00:09:07.940 --> 00:09:10.519 Yeah, same. So that's basically what everybody 00:09:10.519 --> 00:09:13.940 says. Even his post from his perspective made 00:09:13.940 --> 00:09:16.039 him look lazy and selfish. I hope you have a 00:09:16.039 --> 00:09:18.500 pleasant vacation, OP. Another one. This is the 00:09:18.500 --> 00:09:20.519 update I've been looking forward to here. Thank 00:09:20.519 --> 00:09:22.399 you. I hope you have a really enjoyable solo 00:09:22.399 --> 00:09:24.480 anniversary trip, which is such an odd thing 00:09:24.480 --> 00:09:28.100 to say. And then it says, edit my favorite line. 00:09:28.559 --> 00:09:31.179 WTF is that about him wanting to go to his cabin? 00:09:31.659 --> 00:09:34.360 Like he didn't even say to her that he wanted 00:09:34.360 --> 00:09:38.370 to go to his cabin. made put that in the post. 00:09:38.409 --> 00:09:42.470 Yeah. He sounds kind of like a child honestly 00:09:42.470 --> 00:09:45.269 like he doesn't communicate very well and he 00:09:45.269 --> 00:09:47.289 wants to like point the finger at her and make 00:09:47.289 --> 00:09:50.029 her seem like she's the bad one. It's all just 00:09:50.029 --> 00:09:52.809 like projecting guilt. Yeah he's he's clearly 00:09:52.809 --> 00:09:55.450 very detached. Somebody else said laughing with 00:09:55.450 --> 00:09:57.409 the dude is not only gay but she talks about 00:09:57.409 --> 00:09:59.590 him all the time. Husband obviously doesn't pay 00:09:59.590 --> 00:10:03.230 any attention to his wife. Yeah no. Am I the 00:10:03.230 --> 00:10:05.919 a -hole? forgetting that at my husband for forgetting 00:10:05.919 --> 00:10:08.340 our 10th anniversary even though he's been the 00:10:08.340 --> 00:10:11.500 sole provider for the past eight months. I feel 00:10:11.500 --> 00:10:14.240 like crap right now. I felt so ignored so I lashed 00:10:14.240 --> 00:10:16.539 out and now I feel like I messed up big time. 00:10:16.879 --> 00:10:19.139 Backstory. Eight months ago I walked into work 00:10:19.139 --> 00:10:21.779 to learn the company had decided to seize operations 00:10:21.779 --> 00:10:25.480 entirely. The field I work in is insanely competitive 00:10:25.480 --> 00:10:27.759 and was seeing massive rounds of layoffs across 00:10:27.759 --> 00:10:30.139 the board. I basically started day one since 00:10:30.139 --> 00:10:32.539 being laid off trying to find a job. trying to 00:10:32.539 --> 00:10:34.860 find a job and have not gotten a single offer 00:10:34.860 --> 00:10:37.820 despite having six years of experience. The area 00:10:37.820 --> 00:10:39.940 where we live is just so insanely competitive 00:10:39.940 --> 00:10:42.899 I have no chance right now. Unlike most tech 00:10:42.899 --> 00:10:45.799 jobs my area of expertise cannot be done remotely 00:10:45.799 --> 00:10:49.259 either. My best bet and the course me and my 00:10:49.259 --> 00:10:51.919 husband have decided is it's probably best I 00:10:51.919 --> 00:10:54.379 pack up and move to find a new job and he sees 00:10:54.379 --> 00:10:57.279 if he can move remotely with his. So far this 00:10:57.279 --> 00:10:59.700 has been slow moving as well. My husband has 00:10:59.700 --> 00:11:01.860 been the sole earner since my unemployment ended. 00:11:02.200 --> 00:11:04.580 The loss of my income was a massive hit. We live 00:11:04.580 --> 00:11:07.960 in a high COL area and we drain our savings in 00:11:07.960 --> 00:11:10.620 three months trying to get by. He's had to work 00:11:10.620 --> 00:11:13.440 60 hour weeks for the past four months or so 00:11:13.440 --> 00:11:16.580 for us to even get by. I know it's insanely hard 00:11:16.580 --> 00:11:19.120 on him as it is me. I have felt like I've lived 00:11:19.120 --> 00:11:21.759 alone since he started working this much. I never 00:11:21.759 --> 00:11:24.120 see him and he's just been a ghost. I won't lie, 00:11:24.120 --> 00:11:27.129 I felt neglected so much. He forgot my birthday 00:11:27.129 --> 00:11:29.590 last month and it crushed me. I could tell he 00:11:29.590 --> 00:11:31.649 felt incredibly bad when he realized what happened, 00:11:31.710 --> 00:11:33.690 but he didn't do anything to make up for it. 00:11:33.990 --> 00:11:36.730 Just an apology and then he moved on. That hurt 00:11:36.730 --> 00:11:39.629 me a lot. Well, our 10th anniversary was last 00:11:39.629 --> 00:11:41.990 week. I planned an amazing night together getting 00:11:41.990 --> 00:11:44.129 him a bottle of his favorite wine and a reservation 00:11:44.129 --> 00:11:46.330 for an amazing restaurant. We had made these 00:11:46.330 --> 00:11:49.250 plans weeks ago and he knew about them. yet somehow 00:11:49.250 --> 00:11:51.690 he completely forgot about our anniversary when 00:11:51.690 --> 00:11:54.389 the day came. I waited at home for over two hours 00:11:54.389 --> 00:11:56.649 while texting him furiously. He had left his 00:11:56.649 --> 00:11:58.809 phone in his car that morning and just didn't 00:11:58.809 --> 00:12:00.950 go to check it until he left work. I learned 00:12:00.950 --> 00:12:03.129 he didn't even ask his boss to keep his schedule 00:12:03.129 --> 00:12:05.649 and booked for that time, so he was booked for 00:12:05.649 --> 00:12:08.509 a job a week in advance and couldn't even come 00:12:08.509 --> 00:12:10.970 if he had his phone. When he came home, I was 00:12:10.970 --> 00:12:13.850 furious. He's already been a ghost these last 00:12:13.850 --> 00:12:16.370 few months and is now neglecting our relationship. 00:12:16.570 --> 00:12:18.809 He didn't even apologize. He just said we could 00:12:18.809 --> 00:12:21.210 reschedule and celebrate when he's less busy. 00:12:21.389 --> 00:12:24.629 I just lost it. I screamed that I knew he was 00:12:24.629 --> 00:12:26.610 stressed with work, but it would kill him. But 00:12:26.610 --> 00:12:28.529 would it kill him to actually spend a single 00:12:28.529 --> 00:12:31.009 second showing he cared about me? He didn't even 00:12:31.009 --> 00:12:33.070 respond at first. He just stared at me before 00:12:33.070 --> 00:12:35.470 saying, Do you really not consider me working 00:12:35.470 --> 00:12:38.470 this hard to support your unemployed ass showing 00:12:38.470 --> 00:12:41.409 how much I care? He just went to our room and 00:12:41.409 --> 00:12:43.480 locked the door after that. We haven't talked 00:12:43.480 --> 00:12:45.740 at all since then. I've cooled off and I feel 00:12:45.740 --> 00:12:48.240 like I may have effed up big time. I tried to 00:12:48.240 --> 00:12:50.299 talk to him last night, but he stonewalled me 00:12:50.299 --> 00:12:52.320 and said he's not interested in talking about 00:12:52.320 --> 00:12:54.940 it right now. I feel like I'm at least partially 00:12:54.940 --> 00:12:58.720 to blame for this, but on the other hand, he's 00:12:58.720 --> 00:13:01.440 simply not engaging with me anymore. I feel like 00:13:01.440 --> 00:13:04.000 he hasn't been for a while now. I feel like we're 00:13:04.000 --> 00:13:06.419 both to blame here, but I could be wrong. This 00:13:06.419 --> 00:13:10.419 is a toughie, because this dude is grinding. 00:13:10.809 --> 00:13:14.789 Is it for her? Is it just for their life? Well, 00:13:14.889 --> 00:13:17.730 yes, it is. No, it's both because because it's 00:13:17.730 --> 00:13:20.669 not just for her. He's he needs to do it for 00:13:20.669 --> 00:13:23.610 himself, too. Yeah. But they live they live in 00:13:23.610 --> 00:13:26.190 a high cost of living area. They decided together 00:13:26.190 --> 00:13:28.389 that she's going to move somewhere else so that 00:13:28.389 --> 00:13:32.009 she can stay within her line of work. Yeah. So 00:13:32.009 --> 00:13:35.570 he's he's having to work 60 hour weeks. He's 00:13:35.570 --> 00:13:39.350 stressed out of his mind. And she went on unemployment. 00:13:39.350 --> 00:13:42.720 And now it's just Unemployed yeah, how is she 00:13:42.720 --> 00:13:46.820 not getting another job? Yeah, I I don't understand 00:13:46.820 --> 00:13:49.340 that how she's not able to find one It's been 00:13:49.340 --> 00:13:52.620 eight months and the point is is do something 00:13:52.620 --> 00:13:55.399 you don't maybe you can't get yeah Fill a role 00:13:55.399 --> 00:13:58.159 like what you want for your perfect job Get a 00:13:58.159 --> 00:14:01.159 job do something else. Just make some income 00:14:01.159 --> 00:14:04.340 so that this guy's not that stressed Well, you 00:14:04.340 --> 00:14:08.070 don't realize 60 -hour work weeks Take a 40 -hour 00:14:08.070 --> 00:14:11.610 work week add another 50 % Oh, that would be 00:14:11.610 --> 00:14:14.570 so so exhausting a full -time job and a part 00:14:14.570 --> 00:14:18.169 -time job together Yeah, so I think that she 00:14:18.169 --> 00:14:20.590 is a problem. It just in the sense that like 00:14:20.590 --> 00:14:23.149 you're out of touch What's cool though is when 00:14:23.149 --> 00:14:25.549 she does that and takes that some of that burden 00:14:25.549 --> 00:14:29.259 off of him. She's gonna find More caring loving 00:14:29.259 --> 00:14:32.299 attentive husband. I think of course as he's 00:14:32.299 --> 00:14:34.799 gonna be able to like unwind a little bit cuz 00:14:34.799 --> 00:14:37.639 60 hours That's pretty that's harsh. That's hard. 00:14:37.779 --> 00:14:41.559 So here's a marvel. Okay, okay picture a world 00:14:41.559 --> 00:14:45.580 where She's aware enough to think like I know 00:14:45.580 --> 00:14:49.080 this guy is working his tail off. Yeah I'm not 00:14:49.080 --> 00:14:51.559 gonna give him grief about this. It hurt my feelings 00:14:51.559 --> 00:14:54.159 that he blew off dinner or whatever I'm just 00:14:54.159 --> 00:14:57.080 gonna decide not to do that because I can see 00:14:57.340 --> 00:14:59.639 that he's having a hard time. He's been working 00:14:59.639 --> 00:15:02.620 so hard. She's not wrong for wanting to connect 00:15:02.620 --> 00:15:04.360 with him. I don't think anybody would find fault 00:15:04.360 --> 00:15:06.679 with her for being like, yeah, I want to celebrate 00:15:06.679 --> 00:15:09.399 our anniversary. It's just the context. This 00:15:09.399 --> 00:15:11.639 guy works a job that's so intense that he could 00:15:11.639 --> 00:15:14.600 not bring his phone into the office and not see 00:15:14.600 --> 00:15:17.639 anything until after it's over. I can see his 00:15:17.639 --> 00:15:19.379 faults. I can see why she would be upset, but 00:15:19.379 --> 00:15:23.480 I'm taking his side because I just know, I know 00:15:23.480 --> 00:15:26.279 what it's like to be like depleted just with 00:15:26.279 --> 00:15:29.860 like trying super hard. Yeah. And so like, it's 00:15:29.860 --> 00:15:31.399 hard and it doesn't even have to just be the 00:15:31.399 --> 00:15:33.000 fact that he's working hard, right? He could 00:15:33.000 --> 00:15:36.039 be working on work stuff and then home stuff. 00:15:36.179 --> 00:15:38.720 Be like, he's exhausted with taking care of the 00:15:38.720 --> 00:15:41.840 kid or whatever. Yeah. And if it's like, hey, 00:15:41.940 --> 00:15:43.559 I know that you're working and you're taking 00:15:43.559 --> 00:15:46.519 care of a kid, but you didn't do the dishes. 00:15:46.720 --> 00:15:48.919 Yeah. It's just like that vibe of like, you're 00:15:48.919 --> 00:15:52.200 not doing enough. I don't like that. I don't 00:15:52.200 --> 00:15:58.210 think most men do. And we never do enough. We 00:15:58.210 --> 00:16:02.909 don't. Hey you, do more. Do more. Hey you, lady, 00:16:03.070 --> 00:16:04.929 send this to your husband. Tell him to do more. 00:16:05.169 --> 00:16:08.789 And ladies, do less. All right, on to your story. 00:16:10.750 --> 00:16:12.649 All right, this one also comes from best of Redditor 00:16:12.649 --> 00:16:18.330 updates. My niece, 4F, ruined my 19M anniversary 00:16:18.330 --> 00:16:22.809 present from my GF, 19F. Oh, shoot. My GF and 00:16:22.809 --> 00:16:25.240 I. are celebrating our five -year anniversary 00:16:25.240 --> 00:16:27.419 this Halloween. Every anniversary, she always 00:16:27.419 --> 00:16:29.759 makes me these impressive figurines that she 00:16:29.759 --> 00:16:32.740 makes, and it always blows me away. I always 00:16:32.740 --> 00:16:35.299 feel like my presents are way lamer than her 00:16:35.299 --> 00:16:37.179 presents, so I decided to make her something 00:16:37.179 --> 00:16:39.019 this year. With guidance from her friends, I 00:16:39.019 --> 00:16:41.759 printed pictures of us onto a large canvas, and 00:16:41.759 --> 00:16:44.620 I used white tape to make cute frames. I know 00:16:44.620 --> 00:16:46.659 it may not seem that impressive, but I'm not 00:16:46.659 --> 00:16:49.220 artistic, but she is, and I wanted to make her 00:16:49.220 --> 00:16:51.039 something that I thought she would like. I had 00:16:51.039 --> 00:16:53.389 the gift hidden in a closet. The problem came 00:16:53.389 --> 00:16:56.629 whenever I looked after my sister's kids, 4F 00:16:56.629 --> 00:16:59.110 and 5M. I took them down to the basement to do 00:16:59.110 --> 00:17:01.289 some painting. My niece walked away from the 00:17:01.289 --> 00:17:03.610 table to what I thought was the drawer with the 00:17:03.610 --> 00:17:05.750 art supplies, so I didn't think much of it. So 00:17:05.750 --> 00:17:07.789 while I was focused on my nephew and gushing 00:17:07.789 --> 00:17:10.410 over how he and his sister are the best artists 00:17:10.410 --> 00:17:12.630 in the world, my niece went into the closet where 00:17:12.630 --> 00:17:15.490 my GF's present was and with her paintbrush painted 00:17:15.490 --> 00:17:19.309 all over it. The second I heard the door, my 00:17:19.309 --> 00:17:22.049 head shot up. When I saw my niece over the canvas 00:17:22.049 --> 00:17:25.130 smudging paint all over it, my heart sank. I 00:17:25.130 --> 00:17:27.470 took my niece out of the closet, shoved the canvas 00:17:27.470 --> 00:17:29.710 back into the closet, slammed the door shut, 00:17:29.809 --> 00:17:32.069 and carried her back to the table. I felt dead 00:17:32.069 --> 00:17:34.589 inside. My niece and nephew kept asking me if 00:17:34.589 --> 00:17:37.269 I was okay. I reassured them that I was fine 00:17:37.269 --> 00:17:39.309 and ended up bringing them ice cream to convince 00:17:39.309 --> 00:17:41.690 them that everything was okay. When my GF came 00:17:41.690 --> 00:17:44.349 home, after I gave my nephew a bath, I asked 00:17:44.349 --> 00:17:46.789 her if she could give my niece a bath. She laughed 00:17:46.789 --> 00:17:48.950 at how she was covered in paint and I joked that 00:17:48.950 --> 00:17:51.329 she went to town painting. While I was waiting 00:17:51.329 --> 00:17:53.769 for my GF and niece to finish, I watched cartoons 00:17:53.769 --> 00:17:55.470 with my nephew and started thinking about what 00:17:55.470 --> 00:17:57.769 I was going to do. There's nothing I could get 00:17:57.769 --> 00:18:00.509 her could possibly be good enough for our five 00:18:00.509 --> 00:18:03.069 year. What I was going to give her was completely 00:18:03.069 --> 00:18:06.069 ruined. She deserves an amazing present and I 00:18:06.069 --> 00:18:08.730 do not know what to do. I'm screwed. First, my 00:18:08.730 --> 00:18:12.289 own comment first is welcome to the wild world 00:18:12.289 --> 00:18:15.200 of being a parent. Things happen quickly. Dan, 00:18:15.200 --> 00:18:16.900 don't we know it with the four -year -old right 00:18:16.900 --> 00:18:20.460 now? Oh, yeah. Blink twice, and the whole freaking 00:18:20.460 --> 00:18:23.000 house looks like a tornado came through it. Yep, 00:18:23.119 --> 00:18:25.940 pretty much. So somebody said, so what have you 00:18:25.940 --> 00:18:29.460 learned? And OP's response was, if a kid wanders, 00:18:29.519 --> 00:18:32.759 follow them, even if it's in the same room. He 00:18:32.759 --> 00:18:35.180 also learned, my niece really loves to paint. 00:18:35.440 --> 00:18:37.519 And the third thing is hide the canvas somewhere 00:18:37.519 --> 00:18:40.420 else, maybe in my GF's brother's closet. I told 00:18:40.420 --> 00:18:42.339 my girlfriend, as the few of y 'all suggested, 00:18:42.589 --> 00:18:44.869 Later that day when my sister picked up her kids, 00:18:45.009 --> 00:18:47.269 I took her to the basement and to the closet 00:18:47.269 --> 00:18:49.569 to show her what my niece did. I explained that 00:18:49.569 --> 00:18:51.829 I've always felt like while she does like the 00:18:51.829 --> 00:18:54.170 presents I give her, I feel bad because she puts 00:18:54.170 --> 00:18:56.630 so much effort into my presents. I explained 00:18:56.630 --> 00:18:58.930 to her what exactly I was trying to make. Luckily, 00:18:58.990 --> 00:19:01.089 my niece didn't cover the entirety of the canvas. 00:19:01.569 --> 00:19:04.250 My girlfriend saw bits of the canvas. In particular, 00:19:04.509 --> 00:19:07.690 a picture of her friend took of us in the cafeteria 00:19:07.690 --> 00:19:10.240 and high school. with her head on my shoulder. 00:19:10.420 --> 00:19:12.900 She gushed about how sweet it was and she suggested 00:19:12.900 --> 00:19:15.299 that we could turn this into an anniversary project. 00:19:15.700 --> 00:19:18.140 We could make another canvas and maybe include 00:19:18.140 --> 00:19:20.500 some of her pictures. I told her how much of 00:19:20.500 --> 00:19:22.539 a great idea it was and she was jumping with 00:19:22.539 --> 00:19:25.119 joy and excitement. Maybe I'll give y 'all an 00:19:25.119 --> 00:19:27.180 update when my anniversary comes around, but 00:19:27.180 --> 00:19:29.640 for now I'm excited for our little project. Let's 00:19:29.640 --> 00:19:31.519 be honest here, it's gonna turn out better with 00:19:31.519 --> 00:19:35.740 your help. That's really cute. Happy little story, 00:19:35.839 --> 00:19:39.299 a little plot twist. I know, I like it. So I 00:19:39.299 --> 00:19:41.279 like that this kid, I mean, he's young. They're 00:19:41.279 --> 00:19:44.500 both 19. I know. And he's like all sentimental 00:19:44.500 --> 00:19:46.720 about their five year anniversary. They started 00:19:46.720 --> 00:19:49.839 dating when they were 14. Yeah, that's there. 00:19:49.980 --> 00:19:53.299 Yeah. Wow. Like good for them for being that 00:19:53.299 --> 00:19:56.420 solid. But like when I was that age, I couldn't 00:19:56.420 --> 00:19:59.099 take any dating seriously whatsoever. Yeah. So 00:19:59.099 --> 00:20:01.660 it's hard for me to like look at that and be 00:20:01.660 --> 00:20:05.519 like, wow, what a mature, what a mature guy. 00:20:05.759 --> 00:20:08.599 I'm also imagining him being like watching the 00:20:08.599 --> 00:20:12.400 kids, the kids paint on his precious artwork 00:20:12.400 --> 00:20:16.140 and he's like kind of throws a mini temper tantrum. 00:20:16.240 --> 00:20:18.940 He doesn't do anything bad. He like slams everything 00:20:18.940 --> 00:20:21.000 in there. And then the kids are like, uncle, 00:20:21.059 --> 00:20:26.480 are you okay? Like, like, are you mad? It's like, 00:20:26.819 --> 00:20:28.980 dude, you had the thing within reach of a kid 00:20:28.980 --> 00:20:31.559 and you're babysitting. So figure it out next 00:20:31.559 --> 00:20:34.630 time. Oh, that does suck though. It's funny you 00:20:34.630 --> 00:20:36.849 mentioned that you like didn't take dating seriously 00:20:36.849 --> 00:20:39.829 growing up because I feel like I totally did 00:20:39.829 --> 00:20:43.210 Like I feel like I don't know going in high school 00:20:43.210 --> 00:20:45.650 like thinking like I can meet my future husband 00:20:45.650 --> 00:20:48.950 here Like every guy dated being like wonder if 00:20:48.950 --> 00:20:51.470 I could fall in love with this guy Yeah, you're 00:20:51.470 --> 00:20:54.470 just a hopeless romantic. I was I was you would 00:20:54.470 --> 00:20:58.859 have broken my heart I literally looked at any 00:20:58.859 --> 00:21:01.400 relationship, any crush, any fling, and it was 00:21:01.400 --> 00:21:04.079 like, well, I know this is gonna go nowhere, 00:21:04.400 --> 00:21:06.660 because we're high school students, so like, 00:21:06.859 --> 00:21:10.500 who cares? Yeah, I always thought he could be 00:21:10.500 --> 00:21:13.660 the one. This could go somewhere. I was like, 00:21:13.720 --> 00:21:17.319 nope. I'll wait for you on your mission. Yeah, 00:21:17.319 --> 00:21:19.960 no. Yeah, you're the only person that I've dated 00:21:19.960 --> 00:21:23.359 for more than like two months. That's so mind 00:21:23.359 --> 00:21:26.359 -boggling to me. that's so crazy i don't feel 00:21:26.359 --> 00:21:28.880 like i ever had like a real serious relationship 00:21:28.880 --> 00:21:32.420 though either so i mean who knows you've been 00:21:32.420 --> 00:21:34.779 having boyfriends since you were five that's 00:21:34.779 --> 00:21:37.400 my story though i'm just happy i'm happy they're 00:21:37.400 --> 00:21:40.900 happy happy fifth anniversary sorry your project 00:21:40.900 --> 00:21:45.119 got ruined go do a paint class yeah i like the 00:21:45.119 --> 00:21:47.259 ending of that story it just kind of shows the 00:21:47.259 --> 00:21:49.720 young puppy love like the way he was like it's 00:21:49.720 --> 00:21:52.799 okay we're gonna do this so it was cute i like 00:21:52.799 --> 00:21:57.210 that her like she she's like makes these impressive 00:21:57.210 --> 00:22:00.490 figurines and that's what she gives him every 00:22:00.490 --> 00:22:03.829 year is like some little handmade thing they're 00:22:03.829 --> 00:22:11.069 nerds we would never do that for each other I 00:22:11.069 --> 00:22:13.430 was going through my camera roll like within 00:22:13.430 --> 00:22:16.910 the last couple days yeah and like we did our 00:22:16.910 --> 00:22:19.250 pumpkin carving you remember that oh yeah we 00:22:19.250 --> 00:22:21.920 were dating I carved the Utes logo into the pumpkin. 00:22:22.420 --> 00:22:25.140 We want to be artistic, but we're not artistic. 00:22:25.500 --> 00:22:29.200 Right. Exactly. But you're more artistic than 00:22:29.200 --> 00:22:31.640 me, though. But anyways, that's true. I'm just 00:22:31.640 --> 00:22:33.940 a sensitive person and like, you know, you got 00:22:33.940 --> 00:22:39.700 to let it out. OK, well, let's let this story 00:22:39.700 --> 00:22:43.599 out. Get it? Anyways, what I thought our 17th 00:22:43.599 --> 00:22:46.359 anniversary dinner would be unforgettable, but 00:22:46.359 --> 00:22:49.789 not like this. After 17 years married, we booked 00:22:49.789 --> 00:22:52.369 a fancy rooftop dinner to celebrate, trying to 00:22:52.369 --> 00:22:54.990 keep things fun and spicy. I wore a new dress. 00:22:55.130 --> 00:22:57.730 He booked a private table with a view. It was 00:22:57.730 --> 00:22:59.849 supposed to be perfect. Halfway through dinner, 00:22:59.890 --> 00:23:01.930 he excused himself to the bathroom and didn't 00:23:01.930 --> 00:23:04.430 come back for 20 minutes. I thought maybe he 00:23:04.430 --> 00:23:06.910 was sick, but when I went to check, he was gone. 00:23:07.069 --> 00:23:09.230 I started freaking out thinking he was kidnapped, 00:23:09.670 --> 00:23:11.289 had a heart attack, or fell down the stairs. 00:23:11.569 --> 00:23:13.670 I had the waiter check the bathrooms, the stairwell, 00:23:13.769 --> 00:23:16.900 even the parking lot. Nothing. 15 minutes later, 00:23:16.960 --> 00:23:19.779 I'm on the phone with his mom and 911 on standby 00:23:19.779 --> 00:23:22.740 when I hear screaming outside. He had tried to 00:23:22.740 --> 00:23:25.039 surprise me with a private fireworks moment, 00:23:25.440 --> 00:23:28.200 except when you lit them, they misfired. Sparks 00:23:28.200 --> 00:23:30.539 flew everywhere and one shot straight at him, 00:23:30.779 --> 00:23:33.720 catching his sleeve on fire. He was literally 00:23:33.720 --> 00:23:36.539 on fire. He was outside rolling in the ground 00:23:36.539 --> 00:23:39.099 screaming, put it out, while trying to smother 00:23:39.099 --> 00:23:42.359 the flames. We spent the rest of our 17th anniversary 00:23:42.359 --> 00:23:45.130 in the ER. him with bandaged burns and ripped 00:23:45.130 --> 00:23:48.029 pants neither of us said a word for a while then 00:23:48.029 --> 00:23:50.650 he looked at me and goes next year let's just 00:23:50.650 --> 00:23:53.769 get tacos like honestly there's that probably 00:23:53.769 --> 00:23:55.809 sounds a little better it's like getting tacos 00:23:55.809 --> 00:23:58.890 and like this dude went for the student for fireworks 00:23:58.890 --> 00:24:03.869 at year 17 yeah that's so cute i feel like 17 00:24:03.869 --> 00:24:06.490 to me that sounds like when you're just in the 00:24:06.490 --> 00:24:10.400 absolute trenches of life Like I've never heard 00:24:10.400 --> 00:24:13.480 anybody be like yeah for our 17th. We did X Y 00:24:13.480 --> 00:24:15.839 and Z It's like I know probably got like an 11 00:24:15.839 --> 00:24:18.539 year old and a 12 year old and no, I'm sorry 00:24:18.539 --> 00:24:20.779 You've probably got like a I don't know like 00:24:20.779 --> 00:24:24.460 a 12 year old and a 9 year old and a 5 year old 00:24:24.460 --> 00:24:27.940 like your life is just clipping by Your 17 year 00:24:27.940 --> 00:24:29.640 anniversary. This dude's like now I'm gonna do 00:24:29.640 --> 00:24:32.910 a fireworks show and catch myself on fire That 00:24:32.910 --> 00:24:36.029 sucks. And forget that number one thing that 00:24:36.029 --> 00:24:38.829 you learn as a child. Stop, drop, and frickin' 00:24:38.930 --> 00:24:41.089 roll, dog. He does stop, drop, and roll, though, 00:24:41.250 --> 00:24:43.390 because it says he was outside rolling on the 00:24:43.390 --> 00:24:45.410 ground screaming, put it out, while trying to 00:24:45.410 --> 00:24:47.990 smother the flames. So good listening there, 00:24:48.190 --> 00:24:50.759 bud. Where I thought was hilarious is that. He's 00:24:50.759 --> 00:24:52.180 like, I'll be right back. I'm going to go to 00:24:52.180 --> 00:24:54.839 the bathroom or whatever. And he leaves and he 00:24:54.839 --> 00:24:58.319 just ghosts her for 15 minutes. And she just 00:24:58.319 --> 00:25:00.200 starts panicking. She literally thinks this old 00:25:00.200 --> 00:25:02.180 guy is having a heart attack somewhere. This 00:25:02.180 --> 00:25:04.700 old guy, they've been married 17 years. This 00:25:04.700 --> 00:25:07.660 guy's like 40. I know. That's what's funny though. 00:25:08.240 --> 00:25:10.140 Like if you went missing, my first thought's 00:25:10.140 --> 00:25:14.220 not. What if he's having a heart attack? Well, 00:25:14.839 --> 00:25:18.220 you never know. You never know what if what if 00:25:18.220 --> 00:25:21.359 I was you'd never what would you do? Oh my gosh? 00:25:21.940 --> 00:25:23.680 I don't even know what you're supposed to I mean 00:25:23.680 --> 00:25:27.299 I would call 911 I would put you on a couch or 00:25:27.299 --> 00:25:30.680 somewhere safe You can't find me. Oh, I can't 00:25:30.680 --> 00:25:33.269 I'm gone Okay, if you're just, you dipped and 00:25:33.269 --> 00:25:35.289 I'm like, I have no idea where he is. You ask 00:25:35.289 --> 00:25:38.890 the restaurant staff, hey, is my husband in the 00:25:38.890 --> 00:25:41.930 bathroom? And they go in there and I'm not. I'd 00:25:41.930 --> 00:25:44.470 be so, I'd start panicking. I would definitely, 00:25:44.650 --> 00:25:47.529 I'd be blowing up your phone, first of all. Sorry, 00:25:47.650 --> 00:25:52.089 can't answer it. I'm on fire. My first would 00:25:52.089 --> 00:25:54.069 probably be to see if the car is still there. 00:25:54.130 --> 00:25:57.730 I would check the car and then if I see the car, 00:25:58.190 --> 00:26:00.710 no one's seeing you. You're not in the bathroom. 00:26:00.970 --> 00:26:03.589 I'm calling 911. Is that a good answer for you? 00:26:03.789 --> 00:26:06.349 That's good enough for me. It made me think of 00:26:06.349 --> 00:26:08.269 one other time. Can you ever think of a time 00:26:08.269 --> 00:26:11.069 where I just like I'll be right back and I just 00:26:11.069 --> 00:26:15.650 like stood up and then walked away from you closed 00:26:15.650 --> 00:26:17.849 the door and just waited for you to figure out 00:26:17.849 --> 00:26:21.470 where I was? Oh my gosh. Yeah, I do. And I was 00:26:21.529 --> 00:26:23.950 I didn't want to go outside and see what you 00:26:23.950 --> 00:26:25.869 were doing because I knew you were proposing 00:26:25.869 --> 00:26:28.009 to me in the place I didn't want to be proposed 00:26:28.009 --> 00:26:30.990 at. Guys, she didn't want me to propose in my 00:26:30.990 --> 00:26:32.789 brother's backyard, but that's where I lived. 00:26:33.009 --> 00:26:35.289 I was balling on a budget and she was pushing 00:26:35.289 --> 00:26:38.029 me. She was like, dude, you have to you have 00:26:38.029 --> 00:26:42.990 to propose to me by this date. Well, I guess 00:26:42.990 --> 00:26:44.670 you don't want me to do it at the Diamondbacks 00:26:44.670 --> 00:26:46.750 game then because that was my original plan. 00:26:46.950 --> 00:26:49.029 That would have been my dream. That would have 00:26:49.029 --> 00:26:52.220 been my dream. But instead she's like you gotta 00:26:52.220 --> 00:26:54.420 hurry, you know my cable. What do I do? We got 00:26:54.420 --> 00:26:56.839 these busy lives Where should I do it and then 00:26:56.839 --> 00:26:59.180 I asked your friend for help realize what we 00:26:59.180 --> 00:27:01.660 were gonna do and guys. That's what I did I we 00:27:01.660 --> 00:27:04.160 were sitting at the house I was nervous and I 00:27:04.160 --> 00:27:06.380 just like stand up after we're watching a show 00:27:06.380 --> 00:27:08.859 for a little bit walk out into the backyard I 00:27:08.859 --> 00:27:12.180 don't know what else to do Close the door. There's 00:27:12.180 --> 00:27:14.759 like candles in the pool floating. It's like 00:27:14.759 --> 00:27:17.380 it's it's all decorated. It was nice Yeah, it 00:27:17.380 --> 00:27:19.579 did look nice. It looks nice. Shout out Amber. 00:27:19.940 --> 00:27:22.359 Yes I just went out and stood there and waited 00:27:22.359 --> 00:27:25.200 and it was hot Standing out there standing out 00:27:25.200 --> 00:27:27.240 there standing out there and I'm like, are you 00:27:27.240 --> 00:27:29.599 ever gonna come outside? I would did not want 00:27:29.599 --> 00:27:31.559 to go out there I just remember being like he 00:27:31.559 --> 00:27:33.950 did not do it He's not doing it in the place 00:27:33.950 --> 00:27:36.190 that I told him not to do it. I think I gave 00:27:36.190 --> 00:27:40.430 you like three idea locations. This 19 year old 00:27:40.430 --> 00:27:43.049 girl's like, don't do it here, don't do it here, 00:27:43.069 --> 00:27:46.170 don't do it here. And what'd you do? Didn't listen. 00:27:47.450 --> 00:27:49.289 So anyways, yeah, I was like, I do not want to 00:27:49.289 --> 00:27:51.769 go out there. And then finally I was like, this 00:27:51.769 --> 00:27:54.009 guy's not coming back in. I have to go out there. 00:27:54.329 --> 00:27:56.890 So I looked in the mirror, put on some milk gloss 00:27:56.890 --> 00:28:00.809 and walked out. I was nervous though. Yeah, of 00:28:00.809 --> 00:28:02.190 course you are. You're probably just in there 00:28:02.190 --> 00:28:03.710 shitting your pants and that's why you weren't 00:28:03.710 --> 00:28:06.950 coming out. You're so concerned Like no, you're 00:28:06.950 --> 00:28:08.910 not doing it here. No, you're in there, you know 00:28:08.910 --> 00:28:12.410 pampered up for the photos Oh, no, but yeah, 00:28:12.410 --> 00:28:14.430 I was not worried you were having a heart attack 00:28:14.430 --> 00:28:16.549 or that you were on fire Thoughts good cuz I 00:28:16.549 --> 00:28:20.269 was 22 days old you guys have any crazy anniversary 00:28:20.269 --> 00:28:23.650 stories your own email them to us internet frenzy 00:28:23.650 --> 00:28:25.930 at gmail .com We'll share them if they're any 00:28:25.930 --> 00:28:29.200 good. Mm -hmm. And other than that We just appreciate 00:28:29.200 --> 00:28:31.779 you hanging out. Thank you for listening. We'll 00:28:31.779 --> 00:28:34.359 see you again real soon. 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