Welcome back, internet frenzy. Welcome freaking
back. I am so excited about tonight. We have
a couple of very special guests on the pod with
us tonight. This is like, it's iconic, you guys.
Oh, I can't wait to introduce you guys. Tell
them. Oh, yeah. My name is Ryan. Hi, I'm Ashlyn.
Ashlyn. So I also a little boxer and how I know
Ashlyn. So Ashlyn was actually my first, I don't
know if it was my first year coaching. I think
it was my second year coaching. Yeah, it was
your first year. Was it my first year? First.
first fresh year straight out of my father's
volleyball and i was like i'm gonna kill all
these little kids let's get it not literally
and lucky ashlyn was able to be on my team anyway
she was my libero and she started and she played
the whole time and it was great i wasn't sure
if you remember that i will never forget my first
libero like liberos are very dear to my heart
i was a libero so that's probably why i bet i
love coaching liberos, especially when I just
can really vibe with them. It's really cool,
actually. Every year I've coached, I have had
a libero that I've really loved. So I've been
very blessed with liberos. Like so much. So anyways,
I'm super excited you guys are here. This is
like a crazy throwback. I feel old. Ashlyn's
now married. First of all, you are super old.
And second of all, yes, full circle moment. Full
circle moment. Yeah, for reals though. It's crazy.
So you said it was nine years. It's been nine
years since I coached you. Was I off? No, but
like, I've never been good at math, y 'all, but
it's been nine years. You said you were 13. Yeah,
I was. I just thought I said the math's totally
wrong. So it's like, what's 13 plus nine? Everyone
help me. 22. Oh, 22. Okay. So how old is she?
22. Oh, okay. It has some full circle there.
And guess what? Guess who turns 29 years old
tomorrow. This is Mr. Whitney. This girl right
here. This girl right here. There you go. Everyone
leave your birthday wishes in the comments for
us. That's right. I need all the love. I'm turning
29. Last birthday in the 20s. I don't, y 'all
is crazy. RIP honestly. Thank you, Joe. Yeah.
Well, Joe's old. He's in his thirties. How are
you? I'm 23. Oh, okay. It's actually just my
birthday as well. Today? I was, what, two Fridays
ago? Two weeks ago. Two Fridays ago, yeah. I
literally, you said today's your birthday. Oh,
no. I was like, oh. And we didn't get him a cake.
Come on, guys. What are you guys doing? I literally
was passed out. I'm like, you came to our podcast
on your birthday. Committed. Yeah, I was like,
you really love your wife. I will do this. Workdays
are every year, okay? Hogcats, who knows? Oh,
it's true. Workdays come and go. He thinks it's
all right tomorrow. It's fine. Oh my gosh. Okay.
Well, happy birthday. Happy 23rd birthday. Thank
you. But we're here. It's all in my eyes, right?
We're here. You're still here. You're still on
Earth. Good for you. Survived this long. Who
knows what the future holds, I guess, at this
point. Oh my gosh. Can you imagine the things
that are in store for us, y 'all? I'm scared,
but also excited. So it's it's gonna be it's
gonna be different for them. We think we have
it bad For our generation because they're even
younger than us. They're starting their lives.
Oh money. I'm just in general like yeah, it's
a money life Leslie money Just money Living by
how some 50. I don't be honestly. I'm it's crazy.
It's so depressing. Yeah, let's all just remember
us Well, you know, if we do, if we do get depressed
or anxious, I know a guy. That's so true. Oh,
I love that. So, yeah, Ryan just told us that
he works for a psychiatric clinic. Is that what
it is? Yeah. So yeah, I'm a medical assistant
there. Pretty cool. There you go. Helping people
with depression and anxiety and other fun things.
Our listeners will be lining up at the door.
There you go. Let's plug it right here. Let's
get it to line up the door. Oh my gosh. Because
if we're spending too much time on Reddit, we
probably got problems. Hey. Guilty. Hot girls
read Reddit. That's all I know. So here's the
real quiz question. Have you listened to the
episode for this week yet? It was only posted
yesterday. Oh, OK. I'll give you grace. And if
you haven't, we forgive. We forgive. How easily
are we forgive? It's good, because we have to
spend a lot of time together tonight, so I'm
not going to make it awkward right off the bat.
The reason that I asked is because we're just
going to do a quick recap before we jump into
this episode. Recap the Mother's Day fiasco.
It was Whose Mother is the A -hole? It's the
title. That was it. So that's how we celebrated
Mother's Day. We looked at all the crazy mom
stories on Reddit. We have a story about the
husband. who told his wife, I don't need to celebrate
your Mother's Day because you're not my mom.
Oh, I did watch that one. That's messed up. Real
or fake? Real. I think it's real too. That sounds
like something that could happen for sure. Very
real, very douchey husband. Then there was the
the OP posting about her soon -to -be mother
-in -law calling her a R -word gold digger. R
-word. Remember what that means? Why are you
laughing so hard? Were you trying to figure out
what R word meant? I thought that too when you
break down the story as it - I thought it meant
the other R word, I was like, what? I was like
- Give context, because assuming he does - Yeah,
I know exactly what it means. OP is very high
-functioning autistic. So the person that posted
the story is autistic. Her fiance's mom called
her an R -word gold digger. That's a bad deal.
It's so sad, but it's just that when someone
says R -word, you're like, what? It's an R -word.
You just don't get it. My mind did not got it.
Oh, same. Same. It's at least three R words I
could think of. You think that's a fake? Okay.
I'll take it. I'll take it in stride. It's not.
Hi, Nia. That's why I didn't say anything. Right?
If I'm just quiet... I'll be... No, I knew it.
That's what I was thinking. Well, I love it.
I'll make you answer the next one. Oh, no. Take
them, plan your own. Right? It's okay. See, he's
already maffin' over here. He's already just
crunching the numbers. He let me take the fall
for it. Yeah, I was like, I've placed her and
I have a better chance of getting her right in
the house. He's like, what do you think? You're
shootin'. All right, and the next one was the
story about the mother -in -law who offered to
come over and help clean the house for a mom
that's only a week postpartum. And she shows
up and she just wants to hold the brand new baby
and let... this one week postpartum mom do all
the cleaning. She's like, your house is a wreck.
You should really get to cleaning. I'll take
the baby. Then it comes to like lunchtime and
she's like, and I'm getting hungry. Can you make
me a sandwich? Yeah, that story really pissed
me off. Yeah, that mother -in -law was the worst.
Actually not worse than the previous mother -in
-law, now that I think about it. Oh, yeah, true.
Sound real? Sound plausible? That one sounds
like the fake one to me. I don't know. Getting
the vibe. You had a coin flip. I was financing
about one of the two. And you're just like, yeah,
I mean, would they say the fake would be the
last one? And this time we did. So that was a
real story. That was real. Oh, wow. That's horrible.
Do you imagine? She came over and was like, oh,
I'll just hold the baby. And you can get to cleaning.
And Oprah was like, what? Pardon me. I have no
words. I would literally die. Like I would be
in jail. Oh, yeah. Are you serious? Yes someone
like on the one of the commenters was saying
like Opie you stick up for yourself next and
say no, I'm gonna sit with my baby I just gave
birth but if you thought to clean you can mm
-hmm and I'm like would I have the guts to do
that? I don't know But I definitely would say
oh, no, I'm not feeling great. I'm gonna stay
sitting right, you know I don't know. Crazy.
Your mom's too nice. Like, I can't even imagine
her. She's like a saintly woman. I could not
even... Dude, there's mother -in -laws out there
that would... I could definitely see mother -in
-laws seeing that. They're all over Reddit. Mm
-hmm. Yeah, true. First place to look. Yeah.
You wanna... You wanna find crappy people? Reddit.
Reddit, man. That's where it's at. All right.
You guys ready for the fake? This was a story
about the woman that was not yet a mother. Remember?
Do you remember? She's not a mom yet, but she
was mad that her husband's Mother's Day gifts
were not satisfactory. Like he wasn't putting
enough effort into giving her gifts, but she's
not a mom yet. I still feel like every woman
should be so pregnant even if you're not a mom
yet. You could be a dog mom, you could be an
aunt, you could be like a friend that like helps
with kids. So honestly, I like Okie and I agree.
If she expressed she wanted lavender flowers.
colored flowers, then she should have gotten
them. So I'm going to let you in on a little
secret. What? I'm OP. I wrote the story. It was
fake. Did you? Did you? Yeah. Did you get her
flowers on Mother's Day? I did. I did. Good job.
I didn't think it was like, no, I did. I just,
I've gotten the flowers. And they were lavender
colored too. Were you OP? I have a story for
you. Oh my gosh, that's crazy. That kid's so
cute. The dog ran. So she was complaining that
he didn't get her enough or that he wasn't thoughtful
enough. He got her flowers and a card, but he
was like, he was lazy about it. Like it was,
he got her a bouquet from Safeway instead of
the good stuff, et cetera, et cetera. That was
the fake listeners. If you guessed that was the
fake, I would be impressed, first of all. Yeah.
good for you because it's not outrageous like
that's not even far out to be like yeah he didn't
put in enough effort whereas like your mother
-in -law coming over and like thing like go clean
while i hold your baby is like outrageous it's
like that's insane yeah so yeah all the so there's
always it's your new listening to the podcast
one of four of our stories is fake and it's generated
by chad gbt and our little brains so this whole
episode is going to be so Good. We have some
fire stories for you guys tonight. Like, fire.
Only the best for you two. Oh, great. We had
to bring the heat. We got a silver in this, literally.
We had to bring the heat. We had to bring the
heat. I was like, we got to bring the heat. I'm
not, I'm 0 for 0 right now. Yeah, nowhere to
go but up. You still can guess this week's episodes,
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no pretending Let's go. So the theme for this
week is secret lives revealed. Oh boy. It's gonna
be fire. It's gonna be hard to tell the difference
between what's real and fake, to be honest. Oh
yeah, some crazy secret lives. I will just say
there are certain categories wherein I go like
hunting for stories. I just fall into the deepest
rabbit holes. This was one of them. I was like
looking at stories yesterday. during my lunch
hour. There was a story that I found. I'm not
going to share it because it was too long. But
you can find things on Reddit. Jill found a story
that was literally just the updates alone. It
took him 30 minutes to read. And normally, there's
been times where we have read really, really
long stories before, but it takes like three
hours. And we're like, we're not doing that.
Yeah, we found the good ones. But anyway, the
point is that, yeah. You could go for days finding
all the times that people just are secretive,
shady characters and they just live their lives
that way until somebody finds out. I am so excited.
Yeah, this is going to be great. It's going to
be so good. Do you want to go first? No, you
go first. OK, so I'm going to start us out. So
this is from the subreddit confession. This was
posted 13 days ago. I, 34M, house it for other
people with the specific goal of going through
their things. What? That's crazy. It's nosy.
34M, so 34 -year -old dude. Someone's not getting
paid, so I just say that by the way. Don't hold
her, you're getting just... Yeah. He thought
he was right. That's right. So I've been a house
sitter dog watcher for a number of years. It's
truly easy money. I'm excellent at what I do.
Odds are your place will be cleaner than when
you left for your vacation or work trip. I'll
collect your mail and organize it by the day
it was delivered, wash all the towels and bed
sheets, never have guests over, et cetera, et
cetera. However, unknown to you and every person
who has let me house sit, I am going to go through
your things, specifically your clothes. Mainly
just your clothes. I'll open and go through every
closet and open and go through all your drawers.
Dresses, suits, bathing suits, sweaters, pants,
skirts, underwear, scarves, jackets, hats. You
own it. I'm going to take a look. If I really
like something, if it really catches my eye or
gets my heart going, I'll try it on. I'll stand
in front of your mirror and see how it fits me.
I'll wear it around the house and see how it
feels, especially if you're married women. For
some reason, you're things of particular I love
to look through and wear. Yes, the thrill is
doing something I'm not supposed to be doing.
And the thrill of possibly getting caught in
your sexiest outfit. But mainly, if you thought
it was nice enough to buy and wear, I want to
see why. When I'm done, I'll fold it back up
or hang it exactly how I found it. You'll never
know. How do I know? Because you've asked me
to house it again and again and again. It started
when I was back in high school. My friends would
have a party when everyone was outside. I'd go
upstairs and see what their mom had tucked away.
Then I'd try it on to see how it looked, then
fold it back and put away like nothing ever happened.
Then I started house -sitting and found out I
could have free rein and not have to sneak around.
I'm sure this all sounds incredibly creepy and
like a breach of trust. I'm not looking for advice,
just wanted to get it off my chest. Looking back,
it does feel wrong, so I regret it now. Like
imagine you're like you like forgot something
at home and he like you like come in and he's
just like oh he's like how did that get there
it's like that toby maguire beer he's like yes
how did that get there I would literally have
a panic attack if I walked in and saw my house
sitter who's a male in my underwear in my bra
in heels in front of my mirror could you imagine
Like think Isaiah, he house sits for us all the
time. You come back and he's just like in like
one of your like slip things. How old is Isaiah
again? Is he 30? So why post it to Reddit? Like
what, what in the world? That was a, the subreddit
was just confession. So it's like some people
post just to clear the air. Yeah. To put it out
there into the world. I have two things. The
first one is like, some people have cameras in
their house. I see like whether for their dog,
whether for their baby or just like they have
a camera system inside here. Like 20 bucks. Like
a lot of them are so cheap. We have one for our
dog. And it's like $18 is super easy. Like you
can hear sound. Like even if it's in like a different
room, they can hear them opening drawers. It's
like, like they, you will get caught doing this
eventually. And number two is that like Sometimes
you're gonna wear the wife's gonna wear their
clothes and stuff. Why does it smell like a man?
That's like it's almost like someone else's cologne
or something like that I don't know and then
I guess a third thing too. I'll probably be seeing
this guy at my work at some point, so You probably
already is there you should ask do you post on
reddit? Yeah, that's crazy you mentioned the
first option was the cameras because literally
the first comma is Dude, cameras are like $20.
You're 100 % getting caught one of these days.
That's literally worth it. Is this you? Is this
Ryan? Are you Agador Spartacus? Dang it, we found
your burner. It's my stupid life, actually. It's
my confession, is it? We're addicted to common
take -up. Yeah. Hey, well, there's worse addictions,
so I'm okay with that one. Facts. I like the
guy in this story. That was way worse. Yeah,
this is terrifying. And like, just think about...
Think about somebody that's in their early 30s
that you know. Like, what if they're secretly
a creep like that? This guy has to be single,
right? Oh, yeah. I mean, yes, but no. Like, if
you watch enough 2020, you see there's the guys
that seem normal that are actually, like, not
normal. That's true. There's like a lot of married
men out there that are like serial killers and
the wife had no idea. Or, dude, what about the
one where, I'm so sorry, I'm blinging on her
name, but... The dad kidnapped his own daughter
right before she turned 18, had her in her basement,
and he tortured her and had children with his
daughter, and the mom never knew. She was right
upstairs the entire time that her daughter got
abducted. Did you nestle this? She did. Have
I ever seen this? She escaped because she pretended
that one of her kids was dead and rolled him
up into a carpet and said, take him out. He never
listened to her, but this one time he did. And
she trained that little boy that when you get
into the truck and he drives off, you're going
to roll out of the carpet and jump out. This
was a movie, right? Yeah. It's called Room or
something. I don't know, but it's a true story.
I haven't seen it, but I've seen that scene where
she rolls him up into the carpet. Yes. And tells
him to do that, but that's terrifying. That's
the story based on a true story. That's the movie
based on a true story. I know it's so sad, but
anyways, it's like you never know. Yeah. You
never know. I do get the vibe that this is a
single male, though. I do get that. Giving me
chicken man vibes from Toy Story 2. Chicken me
a vibe. You know the guy that dresses up in the
chicken? But he's giving me that, like, that's
obsessed with these toys. He's like, yeah, I
need to take him to Japan. Like, just super,
like, creepy off the whole time. Oh, I see that.
I so see that. That dude was really gross in
the movie. If this person is dating someone,
you know they're trying on their clothes too.
I don't know what I would do. And that's why
I never told you. Yeah, I was like, if I saw
that, it would be over. Would it be over? Yeah,
that's degree B. Yeah, it would have to be. It's
not weird when like a girl tries on like a man.
I was gonna say, that's called life. I wear his
clothes all the time and I look hot. He... Looks
hot in Michaels, too, but... You've never seen
me. I have. Halloween. We don't have cameras.
Actually, Ashlyn's shirt right here. No, it's
like, we're in right now. Okay, well, that was
my story. This one comes from True Off My Chest.
Throw away for obvious reasons. I'm a C -level
exec at a major company, live in a house most
people would call a dream. From the outside everything
looks fine, and in most ways it is, but I've
been carrying this secret for most of my life
and I honestly don't know what to do with it
anymore. I shoplift, regularly. It started when
I was a kid, we were extremely poor, sometimes
no dinner poor. I stole because I had to. A box
of pasta here, a loaf of bread there, at some
point it becomes second nature. I got good at
it and that made it easier to justify. But now,
I don't need to steal anything. I haven't in
decades. I could buy anything I take a hundred
times over. And still I do it. It's become something
I do without really thinking. Kind of a compulsion.
If I see an easy opportunity, something small
enough to go unnoticed, I take it. Carmelo bars,
socks, a kitchen thermometer, a pair of sunglasses.
Sometimes bigger things like cologne or tech
accessories if I feel like it's low risk. It's
not about thrill or rebellion I don't get a rush
from it like I used to it's more like scratching
an itch I can't seem to get rid of I tell myself
I'll stop but I never do I'll go a few weeks
and then find myself slipping something into
my jacket pocket without even fully realizing
I've decided to do it and afterward I feel disgusted
embarrassed not because of what I took it's never
about the item but because I don't know why I
can't stop I have so much to lose. My wife would
be devastated, my career would be over, and yet
the behavior continues. I haven't told anyone,
not a friend, not a therapist, not even my wife.
I've thought about it a hundred times, but I
can't bring myself to say it out loud. It sounds
so pathetic and so small, like something a teenager
does for attention. But for me, it's a real problem,
one I've never dealt with because on paper my
life is successful. I don't know why I'm writing
this now. Maybe I'm hoping someone out there
understands, or maybe I just needed to get it
out of my head. Anyway, that's it. Wow. Man.
I feel bad for this guy, Loki. Like, that's crazy.
Oh. He needs to tell someone, and he needs to
go to therapy. You can't just keep stealing.
Well, it sounds like it's an addiction at this
point. 100%. Like, I feel like... he's judging
himself more harshly than like his wife would
because like he explained this to his wife she
might be like okay that's crazy and that's like
obviously she would be hurt by it I think yes
and concerned but I think after all the like
years you've built together like she would be
understanding she'd understand that like that's
a you problem like you have an addiction you
need help yeah for it I don't know. She could
logically reason with him, I think, because she's
outside of it. And he definitely, like he said,
I just feel like there's a lot of shame associated
with it for him right now. Well, 100%. So he
said he's a C -level executive at a major company.
So this is a guy that's got like a 500 Gs a year
salary plus. C -level executive. He's got it
made in the shade. And he's out here, where do
you say? Socks? a Carmelo candy bar. It's getting
expensive. Like, he's like, it's like, that's
it. It just sounds so asinine that like, these
are things that he buys without even thinking.
Like, yeah, without a second thought, but he
steals them impulsively. I feel bad though too,
cause like, I feel like part of it's a little
bit of trauma from his childhood. That's where
like he developed a habit and it doesn't sound
like he like wants to necessarily or he doesn't...
and he's stealing socks and he sounds like he's
like a millionaire. It is humongous branching,
you know, like kids, wife, all the good things
that, you know, people want in a successful life.
And so it sounds like it's kind of like just
a straight impulse feeling that he had taught
his brain long ago that he can't unteach as easily
without therapy or something like that. And second
of all, I just think of like the embarrassment
that would happen. Like I say, if he gets arrested
for stealing, you know, two packs of socks or
something like that, he's a millionaire, like
executive of some company, something like that,
getting arrested for stealing. $10 worth of stuff.
It just seems weird. It's just such a backwards
thing. And his family finding out in that way
would be horrible. It'd be like, Dad's arrested
for stealing this. We got money. What the heck?
Yes. He could make restitution for everything
that he's ever stolen in his life and be just
fine. What were you going to say? Well, I was
just thinking, do you think that his kids have
ever seen him steal growing up on the store?
Sorry. I don't think so. You don't think so?
I don't know because I want my thought was like
what I wonder if one of his little boys or whatever
growing up saw him do like little things like
that every once in a while and I wonder if he's
like kind of the kids are carrying on the tradition
kind of thing or at least one of them like do
you think one of them has a similar addiction
this is like me really jumping through hoops
but yeah but why I'm just curious. I'd say the
kids are less likely because they grew up with
money, I think. He did it out of necessity. They
would just do it just copying. I think it's less
likely, but it's sort of impossible, though.
That's a good point. But I'm going to have everything
they need and they can never want. Yeah, they're
not going hungry. That's literally what he says
is at some point he became second nature because
he started with a box of pasta or a loaf of bread.
OK. I mean, this guy growing up in poverty, walks
into the store and is like, I'm freaking starving.
He's like looking at a pack of Twinkies. He's
like, I need that. I'm too hungry. Twinkies,
I'm just gonna take that out back. I'm gonna
kill that right now. And yeah, so it comes from
a place of like almost human instinct. Like I
need to stay alive. I need food to eat. So that's
where like the compulsiveness came from, but
he never got rid of it. And I cannot fathom,
like, being in that position and trying to explain
that to someone. Like talk about feeling misunderstood.
They'd be like, dude, you have to be very vulnerable.
Yeah. What is your malfunction by the socks?
Yeah, that's true. I mean, and the wife may understand
more just because she's going to know is like
back story and stuff. But yeah, that's that's
basically what the comments are saying is like,
dude, get help. Mmhmm. opened up about it. I
love that. That's beautiful. I'm pretty sure
I just, you know, I'm going to take that from
your dad. I'm pretty sure I'm going to use that
for the rest of my life. Every light is the best
antiseptic. Yeah. That's cool. Joe's super into
like light. What's your favorite scripture here?
Yeah. Well, it's in Doctrine and Covenants 88.
Therefore sanctify yourselves so your minds become
single to God for the day shall come when you
shall see him and God will face him to you. And
essentially it's The next verse talks about how
if your mind is single to the glory of God, your
whole body will be filled with light. There shall
be no darkness in you. And that body will just
fill with light, comprehendeth all things. Yeah.
Same. That's so good. Super cool stuff. I love
all of that, like the symbolism in the scriptures
of like light and dark can't coexist. Like light
is like the only silver bullet, the only answer.
So super fitting. Love it. I don't know, I feel
like he's kind of been trying the same strategy
to get over his entire life. Yes. And my thing
is like, It's kind of like, I believe it's identical.
It's like, you know, the definition of insanity
is doing the same thing and hoping for different
results. And I think that's kind of what he's
doing. I think he's just like a willpower and
this will go away. And really it's like, it's
not like, obviously it's very clearly not working.
That's not what your body needs or something.
I know what your mind needs. So I think just
don't do some change. Like a therapist, that'd
be the number one thing probably. It's like they,
they'd probably think you're like less crazy
than anyone else. You could tell, to be completely
honest, they've heard everything, but, or just
make some sort of change, like some big change
to be able to get a different result. So they're
actually just doing the willpower thing. I think
a lot of people do that, whether it's addiction
or just things like that. They hope that with
time it'll go away, but I'm like, it hasn't gone
away yet with time. So it's just kind of, I don't
have a false hope at that point, but. So true.
Big facts. That's, that's a big theme of our
household. Willpower, not a thing. You gotta
be mindful. And exactly, you gotta process through
kind of what's going on on the inside. And that's
taken us years of therapy and stuff, so. Yeah.
I dig that. This is a good comment. It says,
I appreciate the honesty here. It takes guts
to admit something like this. You're not a bad
person. You're someone with a deeply ingrained
coping mechanism. Doesn't excuse it, but it explains
it. If you ever do decide to tell someone, pick
someone safe who won't judge, you deserve to
find peace from this. Wow. Internet's not prone
to being understanding. So I'm glad that there's
some I know there that are like thanks for your
honesty Yeah, I was I was imagining a him just
being fooled by everyone. Yeah, I mean, of course
There's there's people are like, dude, no sense.
Well, then there's this comment like dude during
you're an R word. Oh There's the wolf in our
loop I can't imagine the compulsion to do something
like that. I'm such a rule follower like I I
Actually, I tried to shoplift one time, and I
learned my lessons so intensely. What? I didn't
know that. I think I told you this story. I forgot.
Look, it's going to be a short one. Okay, let's
hear it. So, what I was going to steal, I'll
give you a hint, see if you can guess. Carly
Bar. No. It's one of Isla's favorite things in
the world. So when I was, I was probably like
her age, four or five. Oh, you were young. No,
I was. I was just a little guy. I wanted some
Ninja Turtle Band -Aids. Oh, she loves Band -Aids,
not Ninja Turtle, Band -Aids. Yeah. I wanted
these Ninja Turtle Band -Aids so bad, and my
dad said no, and he usually said yes to everything.
He said no this time, and I was like, I remember
looking at them, and just like, I want these,
and trying to put them in my pants. And he turned
around in the aisle, and he saw me trying to
put them in my pants, and he came up to me, and
I was, you guys wouldn't know this, but. I was
raised by just my dad, just him and I, very bachelor
pad style. He came up to me and he was like,
but you're going to go to jail. You tried to
steal these, you're going to go to jail and be
really scared. It's going to be cold and dark.
And I just started crying, took them out, learned
my lesson. Never going to try to take something
that doesn't belong to me. I've never shoplifted
since. Wow. It was one of those things where
seeing the story, I was just like... That is
insane to think somebody that's got it made It's
like I have to I just have to take it. I'd love
to have a conversation with them, too Like yeah,
I wonder if it is the same thing if he goes to
somebody's house and they have stuff like he
would be trying to take their stuff or is it
just like Commercialism big business capitalism
the hates. I don't know if it's not wearing their
clothes Still my freaking whatever just don't
wear my panties I'm ready for my sir. If you're
ready, I've been ready So this is from True off
my chest. My late husband's best friend confessed
he's been waiting for me. I feel confused, not
flattered. I'm a 38 year old widow and mother
of an 11 year old boy. My husband passed away
three years ago in a car accident. His best friend,
let's call him Jay, has always stayed around
helping with errands and occasionally checking
in, even helping my son with his homework when
I couldn't. A few nights ago I have to be at
a glass of wine in the kitchen while my son was
asleep. He confessed he's been in love with me
for years. He said he didn't speak when my husband
was alive out of respect, but now believes maybe
we're meant to be. I was stunned. This is someone
I trusted like a brother. I didn't know how to
respond. A part of me feels guilty for not immediately
pushing him away and another part of me feels
even guiltier for wondering what if. I feel emotionally
overwhelmed. I don't think I'm ready for anything,
but I also haven't felt desired or emotionally
supported in so long. I don't know what to think.
I guess I just needed to share this somewhere
anonymously. Thanks for reading if you made it
this far. Okay. Okay. Well, the dude's into you.
So let's say she called him like a brother and
that I'm like, it's getting overdue. Like, don't
stop trying. Like, that's the word brother is
worse than a friend. Like you're like a friend
to me. It's like you were like a brother to me.
That's like, I know that's like even worse. Can
you imagine how you feel? You're like your husband
said, and then he comes to you and you think
that you have this great relationship and you're
so grateful. Then he's like I've been in love
with you like that's just trust broken. I don't
yeah, that's horrible. Oh She said three years
three, but I mean like she says I'm not ready
Three years, would you be ready in three years
if I die? I we don't have to think about that
So I died or if I died and you weren't remarried
in three years. I'd be like haunting you I'd
be like Let's literally go go. What are you doing
by yourself? We have money go to him Do we feel
like she's low -key like egging him on it all
though? Yes Like they're having wine together
at night, right? That's not is that is that like
a brother -sister theme view? I don't think so.
I know he's not seeing it that way, which yeah,
that's the thing Maybe it wasn't a wine that
invited him. There's a little feeling. Yes. Here's
the thing though is we're talking three years
after it's not like he's like a month after the
guy's buried and he's like hey so me and you
yeah right like three years is a long enough
time he's involved with the family yeah maybe
she's giving him the googly eyes sometimes after
she drinks the wine too like that's true yeah
you just you never know but like when is she
gonna be ready and who's a who's the right person
yeah because i don't know if it's him no i agree
though i just like it would have been different
if he if Feelings like grew over time. Like three
years is kind of a long time to like process
grief and move on. It would have been different,
but the fact that he was like, I've loved you
when you were married. That's a little red flag
is true. I don't know if that's a little creepy.
He should have just left that out. I would not
have said that. Brother now. Then just make sure
question his intentions. Even when you come over,
what is this husband like? Why do you tell my
husband's funeral is it because your best friend
or is it because me or something like that just
to like clean up crew here or something but oh
that's icky like this swooped me away and like
the only reason to tell me is out of respect
and i'm just like that doesn't sit right with
me you know just like i didn't tell you i loved
you because of respect i'm like but that's just
something you don't do at all like yeah you shouldn't
be with someone don't confess your love to that
just like i'll play anything you don't do not
just like uh you know i respect your husband
so i won't do that just kind of sounds like he's
being held back by her but i'm like that's not
how my other question is has he been single this
whole time Like, that's a good question. I feel
like, yeah, I'm feeling like he's like a divorced
guy. Okay. That's what I'm feeling. And he's
been divorced for like 10 years. Or he's perma
-single. Maybe he's the guy that's never been
married and just like finally shooting a shot
because his best friend died and the girl of
his dreams is finally single for three years.
Yeah. Okay. No, I'm just kidding. No, no. Just
based on the comments and her response to all
the comments, I don't think, one, she's ever
gonna take him, and two, she just is like, I
just need time, I need time, I don't know how
I feel about this. And it's kinda like, if you
don't know how you feel about it, that's kinda
your answer. Yeah. I think you're just wrongly,
and I think he's the only guy that's shown interest
in the past three years, and it's comfortable.
Like, he's someone that's been comfortable, and
now it's uncomfortable, but. So. This one has
to do with the secret life being exposed, but
the guy with the secret, he dies. So that's my
little, that's my little plug, but just, so this
one comes from, am I the asshole? The title is,
would I be the asshole for refusing to raise
my husband's affair children now that he and
the woman he cheated with passed away. Literally
though, so there's this is layers. There's updates.
So we're diving in. I beg your finest pardon.
Yes. Excuse me. What's it called? An orphanage?
You going to an orphanage? See, what's it called
child objective sir? Yes, yes. Look at me. I'm
your lifeline. I will help you. I will not. No,
I'm just kidding. Okay. Sorry for using a new
account. I know that's a red flag, but I don't
want to risk my old Reddit account. My 45F husband,
49M of 23 years, had an affair with a 20 year
old girl since 2020. I found out this year when
his affair partner gave birth to twin boys in
March. Obviously we were going to divorce. We've
been hashing things out since. It's been a lengthy
process due to some properties in common and
we needed to get an accountant since he used
the shared account for his affair. Finally, things
seem to be getting close to the end when both
my husband and the woman he cheated with were
killed in a car crash. By some miracle the twin
babies were not harmed in the crash. Now they
are orphaned and neither set of grandparents
can take them in permanently. My husband's parents
are both in assisted living, he has no siblings
and the only aunt that could take them refuses.
She's been child free her whole life. On the
woman's side, I'm not sure the details in full,
but her parents are also not able to be involved
long term, and the one sister she has lives overseas.
Since we were still married and he had not updated
his will, all his assets are set to pass to me
and our two children. I'm not callous enough
to leave those babies with nothing, so I agreed
to let whoever is their legal guardian have the
remaining balance in the shared account. About
$25 ,000 in savings. The issue is no one wants
to take them in. Now my in -laws are pressuring
me to take them in and raise them. The issue
is I don't want to at all. I wouldn't love them
and I don't want to be the evil stepmother. But
I know a big part of me will always have a level
of resentment towards them. I'll probably favor
my own children. Yes. Makes sense. Understandable.
Yeah. It's not their fault, but I truly love
my husband and I thought we were happy before
I found out about the affair. We have two daughters.
14 and 16. Obviously we had disagreements but
never insulted each other before. Then I found
out about the affair and he began calling me
names and blaming me for his cheating. He became
abusive and even tried to kick me out of the
house, my childhood home that is not shared property
for the record. I'm also raising teenagers alone
now. I don't have the energy to raise babies
anymore. My daughters hate their baby brothers.
I tried to get them to spend time with their
dad as we were divorcing, but they refused. Since
this was all found out because of the babies,
there wasn't really a way to sugarcoat the situation.
They are also too old to really get away with
it. Most of my friends agree it's not my place
to care for those children, but my in -laws,
the affair woman's parents, and my mother want
me to raise them. I know my mom is just having
grandkids fever, but it hurts to not have her
support. I have to make a decision by next week
or the boys would be going into foster care.
At the moment, they are temporarily placed with
their maternal grandparents. I feel horrible,
but I'm very sure I can't take them in. Would
I be the a -hole if I refused to take them in?
I am so upset with the maternal grandparents.
Yeah, that is a lot of nerve. Like, okay, in
-laws, you can take your freaking great kids.
You're taking care of them right now. Keep them.
They're yours. That is your blood. It's not hers.
At all. Mm -hmm. But, and you know, when they
say maternal, you know who they're talking about.
The mom's parents. No, the fail - The fail moment
parents. Yeah. Yeah. No, the mom of the two boys'
parents. That's what I'm saying. The dead 20
-something. The mom. The mom's parents. That's
what I'm saying. Yes. Mom's parents of the children.
Of the cheaters. The cheater kids is what they
are. That's hard. I just, being completely honest,
she does have no obligation to take care of them.
You just not related to them in any way. They
were done behind her back. I've heard stories
of wives that do take care of them, and I have
massive respect for them, but also it's like
her other children hate them, her own children
hate them, she would hate them, things like that,
not because she's a bad person, but just because
there's no way to disassociate her horrible husband
verbally and threaten things, abuse her and stuff,
but I think if you would remind her of that and
remind... her own kids and how much they hate
their own dad. And just like, don't take them
in. Like, you'd be much happier in a different
home. 100%. He has hurt her enough and her family.
There has been enough there. And to add on to
that, he died. And so now her own children don't
have a father anymore. So it's like, that is
way too much that in -laws need to take the kids.
And if they can't, I 1000 % believe those kids
would have a better life with a different family.
I would hope. I have heard horror stories about
child protective services and they go in for
heritable families. So like, I don't know. All
I know is this woman needs to heal. Yeah. Here's
my pick. It's not these babies' fault that their
parents, that their dad was a jackass and that
literally that, you know, and their 20 year old
mom was also responsible, obviously, but like
really young. I don't know. It's just, it makes
me sad because it's not these babies fault the
sins of the father, not their trumes. And so,
or like, you know, the mistakes of their father,
not their mistakes. Yeah. And so I, I don't know.
I, I feel bad. I understand if you can't take
them. There's so many people, Ren and I talk
about this all the time. There's so many people
wanting to adopt babies. Yeah. You know, and
like, I understand it, but I just, I don't, I
don't know how I feel about little girls like
hating their baby brothers. I'm like, it's not,
they're innocent. Yeah. Innocent. That's, I was
going to make a comment on that, but they are
also 14 and 16 year old girls who just had their
dad die. Yeah, and so yeah, so they hated him
before anyway They were super mad at the dad.
They was they didn't want anything to do with
him when they found out about the affair But
then he died so 14 to 16 year old girls hate
anyone and everything That's true So it's not
like they need an excuse any other I mean the
babies will find out in one of the updates which
I was going to brace you guys. There's, there's
a lot. Oh man. Okay. So obviously if, if, if
something just, if you need to say it, say it,
but there's a lot. So small update. where it
starts. This is update number one. adoptions
or fostering. but my daughters are my top priority.
It'll be up to the twins' grandparents to decide
if they'll proceed with adoption, keep them,
or turn them to the state. I wish I had the mental
capacity to be the person to do this, but I have
two girls that are going through a lot and they
need my full attention. I'll also be talking
to the lawyers to figure out if the boys have
any inheritance claim properly. If they do, I'll
separate it and leave it to the lawyers to do
what they need to do for them to have access
when it's best. If they don't, I'll find a way
to ensure they have access to the $25 ,000 I
was going to give them since the beginning. I
won't do more, however. My moral compass might
be biased, but I don't believe I'm obligated,
neither morally nor legally, to do more than
what the word of the law says. I can't help everyone,
and I shouldn't have to. I have two girls that
lost their father, two girls that need therapy,
two girls just about to get to college. They've
gone through enough without seeing their mother
favor the children of their father's mistress.
Big facts. I'm liking where this update's going,
so I'm okay so far. So here's the second update.
Hey everyone, so as I said two nights ago, I
went yesterday to speak to the twins' grandparents.
I explained my position and refused to take guardianship
of the boys. My mother -in -law almost slapped
me when I said that, but thankfully this was
all done in a public place and my father -in
-law stopped her. The maternal grandparents kept
pleading for me to raise them since they didn't
want to lose them. I kept saying no and when
they called me selfish, I lost it. I told them
to their face that the only selfish people in
this mess were them and their son and daughter.
Their son, my husband, for cheating and then
making the divorce hell on me and my girls and
their daughter because she was a beep that went
after a married man twice her age. I told them
if I heard from them again, I would request a
cease and desist. I also informed my parents
-in -law that they won't have access to my daughters
for the foreseeable future. I'll explain why
in a bit. We were at a restaurant, but I didn't
stay for the meal. I also sent an email to my
lawyer so we can ensure CPS that any agency involved
in the welfare of the twins is aware I'm not
going to be their guardian or be involved. Then
I sent an email to my in -laws with all the usernames
and websites from people here in Reddit that
have offered to do interviews for the twins'
adoption. I won't be involved beyond this point,
so please As lovely as it is, I can't help you
if you were interested in the boys. Yesterday
was the end of my involvement. As for why my
in -laws won't see my girls, I spoke to my daughters
and decided to find out more about their thoughts
before I went to meet the grandparents. My youngest
refused to speak to me, which I found very out
of place for her. My oldest then asked for just
the two of us to speak. That's when she explained
that my in -laws had been going on about how
the girls need to get ready to go to public school
instead of their private school and get jobs
right out of high school since I will have to
provide the twins with private schooling and
college money. Apparently they also were told
to start moving their stuff to a shared room.
My girls have separate rooms since the twins
need more space. This was not known to me, mostly
because that would never happen. Apparently my
in -laws have been basically bullying the girls
because the babies take priority. Yeah, that's
not happening. I told the girls that their grandparents
have no say in where they go to school, their
college funds, or how the rooms are set in our
house. Also that I do agree they could use a
part -time job during college and maybe a scholarship.
but their tuition will be paid. I told them not
to blame the babies for the stupidity of the
adults. They told me they understand, but they
still don't want to interact with their brothers
for now. That for now part gives me hope they'll
get through things. For now, we're gonna do some
changes in the house. The girls and I both don't
like there's still an office space that my husband
used. We're gonna make it into a gaming room
for all of us. I plan to take down some pictures
that have my husband in them and put them in
albums for the girls. We just want to make the
house more ours. I have to just quickly say,
a mom and a 14 -year -old and a 16 -year -old
daughter, not the prototype for changing an office
into a gaming station. Oh, well, for sure. I
know. I was thinking, like, beauty spa or something
along those lines. Yeah, good for them. They're
like, Rowlite, we're going to play Fortnite,
the three of us. As for people wondering why
my girls wanted nothing to do with their father,
my daughters were the ones that discovered the
affair and told me when my husband took them
to meet the twins at the hospital. He had asked
them to keep it a secret, but my girls told me.
After that, my husband began treating them horribly
too. He burnt all bridges with the girls. They
are fascinating. Trying to blame them? Yeah.
Like, so the mom didn't know he was having an
affair. He told it to the girls first. He was
like, hey, here's your baby brothers, by the
way. Oh, don't tell your mom. Yeah. Are you kidding
me right now? He's like, come meet your baby
brothers. This is so exciting. And there's just
like some other lady just like laying in the
hospital bed. Hey. That would be so traumatic.
So traumatic. So confusing. So wrong. That provides
a little bit of context as to why they don't
want any interaction with their brothers. I understand
that now because that was like that's a traumatizing
like memory. Just your dad being like, oh, by
the way, here's your brothers with not your mother,
like, you know. And like giving birth like that
type of intimacy. It's so that's like the big
like that's that's how they find out their husband's
cheating. Is that that's like kids are like,
hey, mom, dad just picked us up from school.
And then we went and found out that we have two
little brothers. Did you know he was cheating
on you? Oh, yeah. How do you even bring it here?
Crazy. Mom, I got some bad news. Yeah. Dad got
another girl pregnant and they just had twin
boys together. We just met them. I went to let
her know. Like a prank almost. Like that's crazy.
Literally. Like man dude's 40 years old while
dude's really 10 years old. Like acting like
that in my opinion. Yeah and I think he probably
gets it from his parents. Like they see it. I
bet they knew. I bet they knew the whole time.
Or he was having an affair because the way that...
Like, when would I have time to talk to his daughters?
They're like, oh, by the way, you need to get
ready so your brothers can move in and go out.
Like, how? I can't even imagine my grandparents
saying that to me. Like, to being like, um, by
the way, you're, you're less important than your
brothers. Yeah. That's crazy to me. That's like
so heartbreaking. I don't know. This is so heartbreaking.
It's just a, it's a case of - Such an effect
to the woman. Yes. And it just is so obvious
that people are like - they can only see the
world from their perspective. Like grandma and
grandpa, they just got two new grandchildren,
right? So in their mind, how do they even separate
this 16 -year -old, 14 -year -old girl that are
their grandchildren from their son and their
other grandchildren from their son that are now
brand new? In their mind, they're thinking, these
kids could get just thrown to the wolves. You
could understand why they would be like, no,
don't let that happen. They also live in assisted
living, so they're not capable of taking care
of themselves. let alone taking care of the two
new babies. But it is still left up. I forgot
about that. It's not cool that they're like,
yeah, you guys move your rooms in together. Your
guys' lives are going to change because these
babies, it just is glaringly obvious that they're
just seeing it from their own perspective. Right.
Well, I even get like sitting down and discussing
it and being like here's our point of view we
understand your point of view these aren't your
kids these aren't but like please these are our
grandchildren they're brand new babies please
we want we don't want to be separated from them
but at the end of the day we recognize it's not
our call to make like that's a situation like
that conversation like that so the one to be
like you know i really appreciate you giving
me like the benefit of the doubt and seeing things
from my point of view i'm not going to do that
i'm really sorry but Like if it could have been
a conversation like that, they probably would
have still had contact with their two girl grandchildren.
Yeah. But it's not in the, like, I don't know.
They made it all about themselves because they
weren't thinking about like, like the thought
of like, why would, you know, my daughter -in
-law want to take care of these babies? Yeah.
Why wouldn't like, oh, why are the, my two granddaughters
like, why are they so opposed to something? Like,
what do you mean? Like their father had just
died there as he was aggressively divorcing my
mom and taking it out on all of us. And your
only thought is, oh, we got new brain kids, though.
It's just like, they're grieving. They're in
a horrible state of mind. They were before the
death and even more after. Yeah. And your only
thought process is, well, I just want brain kids.
And the grandparents are also not thinking of
these twins as well, because their life would
be horrible. Like, I don't think the mom's not
a bad person, but also it makes sense why she
would not give them favorable treatment or anything
like that, because she didn't want to take them
in the first place. Yeah. A new home. with like
the people that want to adopt them, you know,
people that want to like, yeah, we're gonna be
good people. Like she should just send them the
Reddit post, Mick, here's all the comments that
said, I'll take the babies. Literally, yeah,
and they post them. She brought receipts to her
lawyer. Every couple I know that want to adopt
a baby are just the most loving people and they
want a baby. And yeah, it's like if I had to
like give up my child or whatever, my grandkids,
whatever it may be. Would want I mean I definitely
would be so grateful for someone that would want
to adopt them I tried to put myself in the shoes
of OP Like I imagine if you got pregnant It's
different because obviously you wouldn't be able
to hide it like I'd find out when you're pregnant
Why it's not like you just surprised me with
twins But there's a part of me that thinks the
good person in me would want to take care of
that child But I know on my bad days. I would
look at that child and just be like whoa Like,
my wife violated me in the worst way. It's like,
it's good. It's a good thing that she's not willing
to take those kids. Yeah, no. Twins, by the way.
Yes. That's way worse. Yeah. I can't imagine
having a 16 -year -old and a 14 -year -old daughter
at the same time, let alone adding two children
who, we find out, are five months old. Those
poor children, even if they get adopted into
the very best home, Their family history they're
gonna come to find out one day when they get
curious they find out they're adopted that they
were born out of a adulterous relationship Both
of their parents died in a car accident when
they were babies like that's brutal last update
There's some good news and some annoying news
The good news is the boys were safely retrieved
by CPS from their maternal grandparents and will
be placed in foster care until a permanent arrangement
is made. I found out when it happened since their
grandparents and my mother came to scream at
me at work. In all honesty, I'm glad this happened
at work and not at home. It made me consider
moving since I don't want my daughters exposed
to any of this. An annoyance I had very soon
after was getting a call about my inquiries into
fostering and adopting. Apparently my information
was sent to CPS as someone interested in fostering
the twins and eventually adopting. I immediately
explained the situation between the grandparents
and me, and the operator was speechless at first.
She apologized for the situation and told me
she would make sure I wasn't bothered about the
process. I also got served this morning. My in
-laws are suing for grandparents' rights. They
are also suing for custody. Apparently they are
planning to leave their assisted living, which
they really shouldn't, to buy a house that allows
kids to get the twins back and now also want
custody of my daughters. What? Like that's a
thing you old people need to just stay in the
home and play checkers. Yeah, you're gonna car
crashes. I think I'm the auto Zoya That is gonna
be the first thing we do like what selfish grandparents
this worry Nah, no way no chance and hell that
goes through That's what these granddaughters
need, right? Just be fought over again. It's
like yeah, those girls are just gonna get in
there and go full crazy mode and just stab the
grandparents and I mean like really though 14
and 16 year old grandkids they get ripped away
from their from their not grandkids daughters.
I might keep going Yeah, they also want custody
of my daughters my personal lawyer immediately
gave me some instructions I won't share to safeguard
myself and my daughters for some risks during
a possible custody battle I just cannot imagine
that she's gonna have to go through a custody
battle with her dead Cheating ex -husband's parents
that have to leave assisted living Be so serious
the judge just has to like see this case and
just like die laughing right like you're joking
like what I have no words. It's like the words
are coming out because I'm so like baffled by
this situation. Like she had handled it as best
as she could. Grandparents come in. They're like,
we're going to destroy your piece. We're going
to destroy everything that you've tried to work
for. Like that's crazy to me. So suddenly they
could take care of the kids suddenly. Wow. I'm
just like amazing. And just like, Oh, wow. When
you put in forth the littlest effort, you're
able to take care of these kids. Wow. Why is
she going after hers now? I'm just like, leave
her alone. It's just... It's just leaving the
assisted living for a few months, so... Assisted
living, that means they need help with going
to the bathroom. You're gonna go change diapers
for the next three years for two kids? The door
is for kids, yeah, you got this. My lawyer and
I both suspect my in -laws want the girls to
parentify them as caretakers for the twins. since
my in -laws have mobility limitations. It will
be a cold day in hell before that happens. I
don't see CPS placing the boys with them to begin
with. So that's not super clear to me, but I
think that the grandparents think that the daughters
will become the caretakers for the children.
That's what I was going to say is their plan
to, because they clearly value their new grandbabies
more than their old grandchildren. That was their
plan. That's why they're suing for custody. over
them is so that they can take care of his baby
because they can't they do is there's disgusting
yeah the price to take care of the grandparents
as well think with the honest it's not under
pressure i see you feel what i said about the
the girls just it's not that unlikely at this
point there's no way that case goes through like
that no way do not you know i'm just going to
keep reading the same update oh my gosh okay
so they got custody update my daughters are gone
Yeah. Not all is bad news. I'm starting therapy
next week and my oldest daughter is once again
speaking about the colleges she wants to go to.
We still haven't really talked about their father
or have them agree to visit his grave. I myself
haven't gone there and I'm trying really hard
to get used to not calling him my husband anymore.
I had nothing to do with the funeral plans aside
from paying bills and from what I heard his parents
had the epitaph, devoted and beloved husband,
father and son written on it. Are you kidding?
I find it a joke. I know it's bad to hold so
much anger and resent, but as soon as I have
time, I plan to change his tombstone to remove
husband and father. It might sound petty, but
I refuse to speak well of a cheater and abuser
just because he's dead. My daughters deserve
better and so did I. And for anyone complaining
about me changing the tombstone, I paid for everything
at the end. So stick your complaints you know
where. I don't think I'll post another update
until the whole mess with the grandparents right
lawsuit is resolved. So to the kind people that
have sent support to me and my daughters, thank
you so much. Maybe I'll have good news in the
future, but for now I'm going back to my old
Reddit account. Well... I know that I have been
looking forward to hearing which one you guys
think was the fake, so I'm gonna have you guys
guess now. So first story we had... The guy that
wore their clothes, right? Yep, first one was
wear the clothes. My second one was my late husband's
best friend convinced he's been waiting for me,
confessed he's been waiting for me. And then
Joe's was that last story and... The guy that
steals. The guy that steals all the time. If
I were to guess one, I would say the one with
the best friend and the... the dad dying. That's
the one I would guess. The best friend and the
dad dying. That would be my guess. Okay, so my
second story. Yeah, that would be my guess. I
thought it was maybe the pathological... Stealer?
Stealer, yeah. Okay, stay tuned for next week
to hear which one was the fake. Super excited
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