Welcome back to internet frenzy. Welcome back
guys. What's up frenzy gang? What's good? What's
happening? Today's kind of a big deal. I don't
think a today's a Almost the most important day
my break days next week. So that's more important.
But today is pretty important What is today today's
Mother's Day? And I'm a mom. That's a big deal.
It's a huge deal Well before we get into the
episode this week. Yeah Let's uh, let's recap
the fake from last week. Oh, I'm so excited to
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This is heavy material, by the way. This is not
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that's right i love this brand last week was
celebrity time you remember yeah you you might
not remember all the stories because we did 150
000 of them but they were fun here's a quick
quick overview so we had We started the podcast
with your most painfully cringy moment of your
entire life with SOMO. Was that true? Yeah, that
is 100 % true. That actually happened. Yeah,
thank you. He probably would remember too. Oh,
he probably does. He's like, oh, Arizona. I don't
know if I want to go back there. Probably hasn't
been back since. You'd probably know. Yeah. That'd
make you feel some type of way if you came back.
You got me there, oh my god. Got ya. Then we
have Adam Sandler, the contractor at Adam Sandler's
house. True or fake? True. That's right, that
really happened. Then we have Abby Lee Miller
in the movie theater, remember that one? Yeah,
true. Cursed the girls with diarrhea? We don't
know for sure. She obviously shouldn't really
curse them, but that was a real story, real post.
That's embarrassing, she posted that. And we
have Justin Timberlake and Jessica Beale keeping
a low key at the Grizzlies game. It's obviously
real. Obviously. Obviously. We had my experience
with Donovan and McNabb. That was pretty embarrassing
and real. Then we had Kris Jenner checking the
vibes. Fake. Big fake. Big fake. I would love
to know if you guys listening, if you guys picked
that out or if you thought something different,
let us know on the socials. That was the fake.
Then we had the Elon Musk story. Really short,
fun one. Apparently that happened according to
Reddit. And then Action Kutcher, the murder thing
that happened. Yes. I had a few people message
me screenshots because they were like, I had
to go look to see if this one was real. Super
real. And so they went and looked and it was
real. That is a fact. So it was kind of a fun
episode, something different. But this week,
we're going to get back to the basics. Lots of
M .I .B .A. hole with some other stuff maybe
mixed in there. Love. So the title for this week
is Whose Mom is the A .H.? I'm ready. Are you?
Perfect for Mother's Day. Perfect for Mother's
Day. We could just be like singing all the mom's
praises. That's what you all deserve. You all
deal with a lot. But instead we're gonna find
the times where maybe we're not so proud. Fair.
Alright, can I start? Yes, please start. Dibs
first. This one comes from Rant, from the subreddit
Rant. He got me flowers and a card for Mother's
Day and I still feel like crap. I'm not trying
to be that wife, but seriously, I've been sitting
with this all day and I need to vent. I, 24F,
have been married to my husband, 26M, for two
years. We're not trying for kids yet, probably
not for another couple years, but I still thought
Mother's Day would be a thing. I'm a dog mom.
I do all the emotional labor in our household.
I keep his life on track. So yeah, I thought
maybe he'd want to make me feel special today.
Instead, I got a last minute bouquet from the
grocery store. Still had the price sticker on
it, LOL. And a Hallmark card with some generic,
you're going to be a great mom someday message
inside. That's it. No breakfast in bed, no little
gift, not even coffee. I had to ask her to unload
the dishwasher because I was being moody. I know
some of you are gonna say, he got you flowers
in a car, what more do you want? But like, I
always go above and beyond for him. For Valentine's
Day, I made a whole scavenger hunt with inside
jokes, his favorite snacks, and a message at
the end. For his birthday, I booked a weekend
trip and handled everything. Meanwhile, I get
daisies from Safeway and a half -hearted, you'll
be a great mom one day. That's cool. It's not
even just about today, it's like, he never thinks.
I told him a week ago that Mother's Day was kind
of hard for me because my mom and I are estranged
and I wanted to feel a little love. He nodded,
said he understood. Then today rolls around and
it's like bare minimum vibes. Also, I'm sorry,
but is it that hard to listen when I say I like
lavender and punies? I've told him a dozen times,
but he always just grabs whatever bouquet is
cheapest or closest. It's not the money. I don't
need luxury, but like effort. Anyway, he's now
sulking because I wasn't grateful and I'm the
bad guy because I said this just made me feel
forgotten. I'm tired of being the one who has
to make everything special. It's exhausting.
Whatever. Happy Mother's Day to all the moms
and almost moms out there. Some of us are just
out here emotionally mothering grown men, I guess.
I think he's the asshole. Really? Yeah, he didn't
even write in the card. No, I think he did. I
think he wrote. That you're gonna be a great
mom someday. Oh, she can't really tell but yeah,
it sounded like he just gave her one that already
had something in it then that was it and Then
flowers that she's new light. She's also not
a mom So I wasn't a mom for many years and it
was really hard and she already has mommy issues
So it's already a harder day. So the fact that
she has mommy issues is understandable. Like
that would make it more difficult for sure, but
she didn't say that she's trying for kids. She
said they're waiting a couple years. Yeah, but
when you don't want children Mother's Day, you're
celebrating your mom. And so like growing up,
that's all I thought about was like my mom celebrating
her. Yeah. And then when I did start to try to
have kids, that's when I became like sad because
the Mother's Days were depressing because I wasn't
a mom yet. Especially she communicated with him
what she wanted and he still didn't do it. I
think the breakfast in bed, like, she doesn't
need to get that, but you should have put more
thought into it. And if she's told him, these
are my favorite flowers, and this is what I want,
go get her what she wants. Like, some of us don't
know different types of flowers. There's workers
that do. Like, when I go to Trader Joe's, I'm
not like, hey, where's the punies? But you know
what calls are. I might know them if I saw them.
Really? Depending on what they are by title.
Joe got me flowers. They're the ones on the left.
He did. Snow white colors. That was so cute.
Our daughter is obsessed with snow white. Here's
the thing. Okay, so Joe got me flowers. They're
red and yellow with some like white, what are
those flowers called? I don't know. It shows
me and I'm like, oh my gosh, snow white colors.
He was like, what? No, these are Mother's Day
colors. I'm like, what? I didn't know Mother's
Day colors were red and yellow. I mean, that's
in my mind. If you were looking at a calendar
of all the months of the year and it was color
coordinated, like they used to do in school,
May is going to be red. No. Or yellow. Yeah.
Ask anyone. Like a dark red like those. I swear.
If I'm wrong about this. Really? And I'll admit
that I was wrong. But I feel like May is like
a reddish month. April is like light pink. Yeah,
it's always like pastel. June is blue. Really?
Yep. And then July is like darker blue, maybe.
I don't know. Maybe this was just one calendar
I had one time when I was a kid, but it's like
it's in there. Wow. And you say Snow White colors.
Snow White's dress. Is it blue? Is all blue.
And it has like accents that are red and yellow.
Stop. Okay, but there is red and yellow on there.
Yeah, but that's like, look, that's Mother's
Day. Oh, well, I would love to hear you guys'
thoughts on that. You didn't tell them what else
you said. What'd I say? You said, oh, you didn't
give me a bouquet? I was just surprised the church
was having them already made. So you handed me
three different bags and I'm like, oh, I got
to assemble it now. I just was confused. I'm
surprised you didn't just get a bouquet. It's
cheaper. That's like literally what I thought.
Yeah, they were, they were just out. Yeah. They
were out of the bouquets. Yes, last minute. The
individual ones. I'm like, hmm, grabbing different
ones. I'm like, oh, this would look sick. Not,
not thoughtless. No, of course not. Well, thank
you for my Mother's Day flowers. You're welcome.
We got them on the way home from your Mother's
Day photoshoot. Yeah, we took a photo shoot last
night. It was so fun. Okay, so here's a comment.
Okay. So wait, you're mad he got you flowers
and a card for a day that's not really for you
yet? Like, yeah, maybe it wasn't perfect, but
he did do something. This kind of just sounds
like you're mad no matter what he does. IDK,
it's giving nothing is ever good enough vibes.
I disagree. That's crazy. I just know a woman
and I just feel like she has expressed what she
needs from him and wants from him. I just can
feel it. And he's still not giving. And so that's
frustrating. So yeah, you might lash out and
be like, oh my gosh, she only got me one drink
when I literally asked him yesterday for two.
It's like, very well you asked. Or we didn't
ask and you still pulled us anyway. Here's somebody
that was supporting her request. Maybe more voices
to echo you. I know the people that listen to
our podcast, they're all going to be supporting
you, so that's fine. You think so? I don't think
so. I think most of them. I feel like I might
be the odd man out here. Doubt it. So somebody
else said, nah, I get it. It's not about the
flowers. It's about the thought. Like, yeah,
he checked the box. But if you've told him lavender
is your fave and he's out here grabbing daisies
with the price tag still on it, it just screams,
I remembered this 12 minutes ago. Yeah. You're
not ungrateful. You're just tired of carrying
the mental load. Box. It's so true, though. Do
we all experience this? Yeah, apparently. Gosh,
I didn't get the fricking bouquet. Okay, I'm
sorry you had to assemble the flowers yourself.
It's okay. No, I just didn't get breakfast in
bed. Well, and that's because every time I make
you breakfast, it just gets cold. In bed? Well,
I don't bring it up to your bed because I don't
know when you're going to wake up. It's like
I'm cooking breakfast at 8 a .m. and you're like,
I wanted to wake up at 10. Okay, well. Am I the
asshole for telling my husband what his mother
has been doing? So yesterday was Mother's Day
in Sweden and it was my first ever Mother Mother's
Day. My daughter just turned one week this Saturday
and unfortunately my husband worked this Sunday
so his mother texted me telling me she would
love to come over and help me to get the house
in order and cook some food. I told her that
she didn't have to but she insisted and I told
her that I was so grateful. So she came around
seven in the morning and immediately talked about
how messy it was and that we would have to do
something about it. I said that I know, and I
was again so thankful that she came. She said
that it was the least she could do and asked
to hold the baby. I handed her over and thought
she just wanted to be with her before she got
going, but immediately she told me that she got
it and I could go on and do what I needed in
the house. I was confused, and I guess she saw
that because she said to clean. That's why I'm
here, right? I did not want to say anything and
just started with it. At about 12, she asked
if I was done soon because she was hungry. I
said that I could take the baby so that she could
go make herself something, to which she said
that she would just wait until I thought that
it was an appropriate time to eat. I was done
at about 15, 3 in the afternoon, and she said
that I shouldn't hesitate if I need help again
and that she was glad she could help me with
everything. My husband got home at about 5, and
he said something like, I'm glad she was such
a help to you. I hope you got some rest this
day. I told him that I didn't and that I cleaned
everything while his mother spent time on our
sofa watching the baby. He told me that I couldn't
be serious, but I assured him I was. He went
out in the kitchen and called his mom. I don't
know what was said, but she texted me later.
She basically told me that this was the last
time that she would ever help me and that I was
ungrateful and sick if I thought she would clean
someone else's house. She told me that she cleaned
every day while my husband was a newborn and
you didn't hear her complain. I feel like an
ass and wonder if I should have just lied to
my husband and if I'm ungrateful. Dot, dot, dot.
Oh my goodness. I know. Mother -in -law. Monster
-in -law. You don't offer to come over to clean
someone's house. And then not? All the issues
with this. So I want to make sure we're clear
here. So mother -in -law said I can come over
and I can help clean. Yeah, that's the way that
she said it was my mother -in -law offered to
come over to get the house in order. So like,
yeah, sure. I mean, yeah, I just don't see a
world where being one week postpartum. Like this
poor woman just barely gave birth. And all she
should be doing is sitting on a couch, shatting
in her bed with that baby. Like if you want to
offer help, the help is not to hold and get grandma
time with your precious newborn while the postpartum
mom is working like a busy bee cleaning the house.
Sorry, but you're not actually helping. That's
close. It's horrible. Yeah. Because guess what?
She can, the mom when she wants to. She can feed
the baby and then set the baby down on a swaddle
and a bassinet, do a little chores here and there.
The whole point is that the mom is exhausted.
That those first couple of weeks after a baby
is born in months, really, you look like that.
It is a it is a level of exhaustion is truly
if you're not a parent, it's just it's something
that you will only ever understand when it's
three forty five a .m. and you're Beating a baby
or rocking a hungry sad baby like you just yeah,
you have no idea like everything is just blah
It's just survival. It's horrible. It's so brutal.
It really is so brutal and it's so exhausting
It's amazing and you look back and it's like
I remember those days of like Rocking Isla to
sleep on our little rocking chair in the in the
front room. Yeah Just being so glad that she
was just peaceful This is the freaking best thing
ever. Like, I just love her so much. Yeah, I
just pass out. Like, on her so quick. Yeah, you
could fall asleep standing up. Pretty much. Yeah.
Pretty much. And I've gotten less like that as
I've gotten older. When I was a kid, I would
sleep anywhere. It's one thing to come for a
visit, but if you're offering help... Yeah. Be
helpful. It's so crazy to me. And then to have
it be a point of animosity. This poor Ma. I know.
Like, she's like family drama. one week postpartum.
And it's her first Mother's Day. Oh, no. I didn't
even think about that. I don't know if it was
if it was Mother's Day or she just became a mom.
Yeah, but hey, it was her first Mother's Day
some time. Maybe today. This party today. Happy
Mother's Day. I hope things are well. Someone
said not the asshole, of course, but practice
standing up for yourself, OP. It's not rude at
all. I think there's been a misunderstanding.
I thought you were offering to tidy up the house.
I won't be cleaning today as I don't feel up
to it. It's like, yeah, I'm sorry, but I'm just
going to rest. All right, this one comes from
M .I. the A -hole. Mm. M .I. the A -hole for
forcing my husband to choose between me and his
mother. OK. We just love a good story like this.
I, 31F, and my fiance, 36M, are set to get married
in July this year. We met through a mutual friend
earlier years ago, and our relationship progressed.
He's literally the perfect guy, but the problem
is his mother, Katie, in parentheses fake name.
Katie has been critical of me from day one. She
often tells my husband that he could do better.
I'm just an uneducated slum. I could usually
disregard her, but when he proposed, she went
to a whole new level. The main incident occurred
when we went to visit her a few days ago to announce
our engagement. My future husband excitedly showed
her the ring, but she just grimaced. She looked
at him and I repeat said, are you really going
to marry that blank gold digger? The word in
blink is a politically incorrect way to say it's
a word that starts with an R. A little context,
I have high functioning autism. It doesn't affect
me too much on a daily basis, but I have trouble
interpreting emotion. After we got home, I sobbed
and asked my husband to tell his mom this needs
to stop. He didn't say much, just that he loves
me and he will get better. But he can't say anything
to his mom. When I pushed for answers, he said
he can't do anything about it and left. His sister
sent me a text later telling me I can't make
him choose between me and his mother. I'm so
confused because I literally didn't even ask
him to do that. Is there something I'm missing?
The freaking guy is stupid. Is it over? No. Oh
my gosh. I'm like I okay keep going. So there's
there's two updates. Oh my gosh First update.
Hey y 'all. Thanks so much for all your reply.
Sorry. I didn't respond to any comments I'm just
in a really dark place right now for the update
My fiance came home the next morning two days
ago and started acting like everything was normal.
He didn't even mention the fight we had Finally
that night I sat him down and asked him why he
was acting normally He responded that it was
a minor fight and we shouldn't dwell on it This
made me mad because it was a big deal for me
and that fight made me question our relationship.
I told him this and he scoffed. In that moment
I looked at him and asked him, is it really not
a big deal that your mother called me an R word
gold digger? He just scoffed again and said something
about her getting older and not knowing what
that meant. I was done at that point. His mother
is 63 years old and acts the same way she did
when I met her years ago. I packed the bag, called
my friend to pick me up and left. I've been staying
at her place since then. Not sure where my life
is headed now. Oh, hun. I'm so sad for her. Please
don't marry him. Swerve, girl. It's like swerve
so hard. I am shook. Ready for update dose? Hey
everyone, thanks so much for all your support.
I'm so tired of everything right now. Here's
the final update, I hope. As some of you may
have seen, my fiance posted an A .I .T .A. post
earlier today. I haven't seen him since our last
fight. He was pretty much getting destroyed in
the comments, so that made me feel a little better.
Hell yeah. Here's a link to his post. No way.
Open that in a new tab. Already did. So we'll
finish this one and then we'll go and read his.
Or should we read his now? Let's read his now.
Okay. I'm dying to know his side. So his post
says, am I be a hole for choosing my mom over
my fiance? Hey Reddit, yesterday my friend sent
me a post on this sub that was made by my fiance.
She totally makes me look like the villain so
I just have to say my side. We've been dating
for a while now and it's been great aside from
the past few days. My mother, 63F, is a single
mother that raised me and my sister alone. She
has always been the most supportive mother ever
and I love her to the end of the world. She is
getting on in her years now and is not the same
person she was. She has always been a little
overprotective of me and so she has never fully
accepted my fiance. I didn't think it was that
big of a deal since she doesn't say anything
directly to my fiance. Then last weekend when
we were announcing our engagement at her house,
my mom wasn't too thrilled and I admit made a
rude remark regarding my fiance's autism. We
left quickly after and I comforted my fiance
for over an hour. I ordered her takeout, made
a bath for her and put on a movie. I explained
to her that my mom is getting older and doesn't
have full control over what she says. My fiance
kept pushing and I eventually snapped and told
her I can't do anything about it. I'm not sure
my fiance understands because she doesn't have
a close bond with her mom. I stayed at my mom's
house, went back in the morning. Long argument
short, my fiance started blowing the comments
my mother made way out of proportion, not even
bothering to mention her age. Are we? Oh, her
age. Like she's just some dementia ridden...
She's in her early 60s. Sorry, but that's not
quite old enough to be like, say whatever I want
and get away with it. Yeah, no. Like I said,
my mom is old now. She doesn't understand this
fully. She left and I haven't seen her since.
Her friend contacted me and said, I'm the AH
for choosing my mom over her. I'm not choosing
my mom over her though, and we are still getting
married, so it might be a hole. I don't... What
are the comments? Oh, you're right. I just think
exactly... Oh, they're exactly what you would
think. This is so funny. Age is not an excuse
to be a crappy person. After 63 years, your mother
doesn't have the self -control to keep rude comments
to herself. You absolutely could have done something.
You chose to not defend your fiance because you're
too busy hanging on mom's teat. Sorry, I didn't
know what that was gonna say. They'd literally
spelled T -E -A -T -Y -T -A and your fiance dodged
an effing nuke. Yes. Creak. It's big time. Somebody
else said, my husband is gonna be 62 in July.
I didn't realize he is old and should no longer
be accountable for what he says. I love it. Here's
another good one. This one's got some colorful
language in it, but I won't say it even one time.
Y -T -F -ing -A. Oh, wow. Your mom called your
autistic fiance a R -word gold digger. How is
that not a big deal? There is no good flippin'
excuse for your mom to call her that. I'm not
buying the whole age excuse because my mom is
five years younger than yours, and she's very
much alert and aware of what is and isn't okay
to say to other people. Unless your mom has early
onset dementia, she knows exactly what the flip
she's doing. You're a flippin' mommy's boy. You
can't stand up for your fiance's dignity. That's
flippin' pathetic. Shame on you. Good. Tell him.
He's getting ripped. Oh, yeah. You know what?
Shout out to him for one, not deleting the post
and not deleting his account. Yeah, true. Most
people that get that eviscerated, they just disappear.
They say that never happened. You're right. Somebody
else said, perhaps you should have remained quiet
and let us think you're an ass instead of posting
and removing all doubt. Like you, we already
thought you were a piece of junk. That's so true.
And then you're just like, no, no, let me tell
you why I'm right about being a piece of junk.
It's because she's 63. She's so old and decrepit
and like, she's my mom, I love her. So back to
OP's final update. Oh gosh. So anyway, after
he posts this, he calls me and like an idiot,
I pick up. And let me tell you, this man did
not sound stable. First, he was crying, begging
for me back and then he was screaming at me to
get the eff back here. It was heartbreaking to
hear the man I thought I was going to marry sound
so psycho. I reported the call just in case I
needed evidence and then I hung up and blocked
him everywhere. About an hour later he shows
up to my friend's house acting crazy and saying
some things I can't repeat here. I called the
police and they took him away. I left to stay
at a hotel. My friend has been really supportive
but I can't put her in danger. I hope this is
the final update but if anything else happens
is there a different sub I can post in? I feel
like I'm deviating from AITA. Sorry if this isn't
edited properly I just can't with life today.
Again, thanks for all the support. It truly means
more than I can ever say. Oh my gosh. Kind of
sounds like you dodged the crazy bullet. Yes,
for sure. Mm -hmm, mm -hmm. Okay, I'm not gonna
lie, your story was absolutely insane and I just
could not with that one. I'm telling you, some
people's moms out there just be acting crazy.
And they think they can get away with it. It's
so ridiculous. That one especially, like, using
the R word. Are we so serious? Yeah, that's ridiculous.
High functioning. No excuse. No excuse. Doesn't
matter. Husband said you weren't my mother, so
I don't have to celebrate you on Mother's Day.
Background. Been married to my husband for two
and a half years. I have three children and three
stepchildren. Not only is it Mother's Day, but
also my mother's birthday. His mother's birthday
was last week. I thought of the present, bought
it, planned a dinner for her, ordered and bought
the cake. She wanted to celebrate with her 98
year old mother today. I did the same things
for my mother today. He vacuumed before my parents
came over. He grilled the steaks and salmon and
helped clean up after dinner. That is it. I show
up for all my stepkids' performances, games,
school events. I plan their birthday parties
and buy all their presents. Same with Christmas.
I remind him of all these events. He rarely even
knows what I get them. I do the same on any important
holidays for him. Birthday, anniversary, Valentine's,
Father's Day, and Christmas. Hardly anything
happened for me today. Two of my kids said happy
Mother's Day. My 11 -year -old stepdaughter also
said it and gave me a very cute jar of all the
things she loves about me. That's sweet. My 16
-year -old son told me the present he bought
me doesn't come until tomorrow. My 13 -year -old
daughter told me that she asked my husband to
buy text to help her with several things and
he never responded. When she had asked me what
I wanted, I told her updated pictures from my
office, knowing it wouldn't be expensive to just
print some of her favorite photos and it would
mean a lot to me. I was disappointed that all
I asked of my 18 year old son was to take a new
picture with me and he couldn't be bothered.
I was disappointed that my husband told me that
you are not my mother and I didn't do anything
for my kid's mother so why would I do something
for you? I am hurt and I feel bad for feeling
hurt. I feel selfish. He did help with dinner
but all I would have liked would be a happy Mother's
Day from him and maybe a card. Bonus points if
you could understand that helping the 13 year
old print some pictures would mean a lot to her
and to me. That would have made me feel valued
and special. I don't need the spa day, breakfast
in bed, being celebrated every moment like my
brother does for his wife, and I'm so happy for
her that he does that. That isn't my husband's
personality, I would never expect that. But is
he too, as holy, to just want a little understanding
for all the things that I do? for all of our
kids, even if it is a commercial holiday. He
says that I'm mean and an asshole for being upset.
I didn't yell and scream, just cried and didn't
want him to cuddle me to ease his own anxiety.
I can't even believe that guys get a holiday
too. Guys just, guys are just the worst. You
feel? I'm nodding my head very aggressively.
No, this guy was a piece of work for sure. Here's
the thing though. My mind goes to a million different
places. Let's just say men are men. Men are simpletons
a lot of the time. Yeah. And most men, most of
our brains like to take the path of least resistance.
So like, whatever is the easier thing, a lot
of times that's what gets done. And this is tough.
I heard the part about him. cooking and grilling
food for everybody. Yeah. And that is it. It's
like, you have to just, you have to really look
at what the expectations would be. What does
she want? And then I need to do 25 % more than
that to make sure that you stay in happy range
for the woman. The happy wife, happy life type
stuff. So there's a funny comment, garlic cheese
bread said, you can kindly repay the favor on
Father's Day by not doing a beep. sing for him
and remind him he's not your father so there's
nothing to celebrate and then they said yes op
should take the day for herself on father's day
and her husband can spend the day with the kids
seriously op is crazy if she does a thing for
that a -hole on father's day there you go yeah
it's like okay well if you're not gonna celebrate
me i'm not gonna celebrate you but it's sad because
she seems like the type that she wants to celebrate
him she wants to like make it special and she
wants The favor returned, or what's the saying?
Yeah, she wants to feel special on Mother's Day.
Yeah. For sure. Well, this was one year ago,
so who knows? Maybe this year he stepped up or
they're divorced. It's one or the other. Facts.
And I bet he had a bang -up Father's Day last
year. I bet it was nothing. I bet she stuck it
to him. Yes, definitely. Here's the thing. that
their father's day and mother's day are so different.
Really? Well, I look at your first couple of
mother's days and like what you had expressed
to me at the time was that you didn't want to
have to like grind over the kids stuff. So it
was like like I was going to change diapers.
I was going to put her down and you were going
to rest from your motherly labors and just be
celebrated. Yeah. Which is fine. Like that's
that's good. That's fine. That's not the case
on Father's Day. Really? I feel like golfing
is like the big thing for Father's Day. When
have I ever golfed on Father's Day? I don't know.
I just meant like in general. I'm not saying
it's just you. So you feel like Father's Day,
it's more like the father being around the kids.
Yeah, it's like I'm still just doing dad things.
Oh, okay. And usually like we might be watching
golf on Father's Day because that is usually
the US Open falls on Father's Day. But like outside
of that, it's kind of the same thing. I made
us breakfast on Father's Day. No way. What did
I do for you on Father's Day? But my whole point
with all this was that it's not the same, like,
there's not this bar. And I think a lot of it
has to do with the fact that moms, you guys are
obviously way more hands on with the kids. You're
way more like, your whole life is tied to the
title of being a mother. And so to be able to
recs from that for a day is warranted and I'm
all for that. I'm not like begrudging about that.
I just think it is interesting that it is not
the same for fathers. I thought about that last
Father's Day quite a bit, actually. Okay, well
noted for this year. No, but the roles are just
different and the moral of the story is men,
get your shiz together. Do what the wife wants,
but do it better than she wants it. Yes. Do the
chores. Don't complain. Have a good attitude.
Don't breathe. Buy the nice things. Give me a
foot massage. Give her a foot massage. If she
gets moody, let it happen. It's Mother's Day.
This day only comes around once a year, but somehow
it feels like every day is Mother's Day, you
know? Oh my gosh. I'm just kidding. Men have
to step their game up because we just fall short.
And there's some crazy mamas out there, so stay
safe. Yeah, so watch out for the crazy moms.
Watch out for the crazy mother -in -laws. If
they're offering to help, maybe make sure that
they're not just expecting you to make the meal
for them. That, I just, I can't. Thankfully,
I never had that experience, but I cannot with
that one. I hope that was the fake. I hope so
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