Hell come back. And this is my hell come back.
Yes, exactly. And then hell come back. Well,
home not home. Oh, my goodness gracious. Welcome
back, friends. Friendsies, what is up? Guess
who's back? Guess who's back, baby? Guess who's
back. I'm back. Back again. No, I'm mostly in
back. No, I'm back. Which one of you is shady?
Shady's back, telephone? There you go, yellow
shirt. Oh, yeah. He's here. Blonde hair. Shaved
piercings. It's just which one you use a better
rapper most. Yeah. Oh totally me 1000 percent
me. Okay. Well, it depends who comes up with
random songs all the times about random topics.
They're not raps though. If you put on Usher
or a little bit of Akon. Okay. All right. I'm
your gal. Okay. I love it. I love it. Well, welcome
back everyone. I'm Whitney and I'm Joe. I'm Noelle.
I'm Dallas. He just stuffed his face with candy.
The Yar bros are back at it again. Yes, we're
having them guess. Guys, we just can't express
enough how much we love having you guys on. Thanks
for coming. It's just our honor every single
time. This may or may not have gotten me through
this week. I'm looking forward to it. It did.
It did. Oh, that makes me so happy. We're going.
We're going. We don't need a babysitter. We'll
leave the kids. Posey will watch the boys. They'll
be fine. Or eat them. Who knows? Guys, did you
see Sean from The Bachelor? Their dog, which
was a bulldog, bulldog. Attacked him. Attacked
him. That was wild. Insane. That was the video
I wanted to show you. Tell me more. And you didn't
send this to me. I didn't. I didn't. The one
time you were ahead of pop culture. I know. Wow.
I know. Crazy. We'll watch the video later. We'll
watch it. Well, what is it called? Screenplay?
Yeah, no, but he had guys. He got stitched all
up on his arm, went to the ER, got it all stitched.
Well, guess what? He came back home and the wife
or something happened with the doors actually
let the dog back out again hours later. And this
bulldog would be lined for Shawn again. And the
wife was screaming and he just got back from
the ER getting his whole arm stitched up. The
dog went for the other arm because of course
he's going to use the other one. And this dude
got destroyed by this dog again for the second
time hours later. And he was literally laying
on top of the bulldog until cops could come for
ever. And Sean's like 220 pounds and he had a
full on lay. I'll show you the footage. He is
like his whole entire weight is on this dog.
What kind of bulldog is this? It was a rescue.
And what happened was basically they believe
that Sean had friends over and they were doing
like a barbecue and things like that. And He
was outside and something happened inside where
the smoke alarm went off and they believe that
the alarm is what triggered the bulldog and Scared
him and then he attacked Sean because due to
the alarm that's what he's saying But before
that like literally hours before that I believe
he was posting stories of his dog like licking
and kissing him and like loving him That's freaking
sad because that dog's gone now Yeah, it's gone
and they had little kids. They have a lot of
little kids, but those kids thankfully weren't
home But they were home and they were outside
with Shawn at the second attack And so everyone
was screaming telling the kids to get in the
car Mm -hmm. I knew it. I knew it. I had to Google
it what to help you? Oh, it was not a freaking
bulldog. Oh, what was it? No, it's a boxer Oh,
that's, oh I'm so sorry. Which makes more sense,
makes more sense. When you say bulldog, I'm thinking
okay. Bulldog's like so slow. English. Yeah.
On their four inch legs. English or French, it
doesn't matter. Neither one of them are the type
that wanna fight. We gotta start this whole thing
over. No. I know. There's no going back. There's
no going back. That's so embarrassing. And that
is the fake story for this week. Guys it was
a wiener dog it kicked his ass like he was crazy
right out He was bleeding out trying to wrestle
this wiener dog man like this like it was an
alligator He couldn't control him it was insane
Dude I was crying watching the video is crazy.
Anyways, we'll have to watch it later after this
but absolutely insane What were we talking about
before that? How my dog was watching the boys
So he can be here tonight. Let's pray for Ziya.
Ziya does nothing, which she won't. She's a saint.
All she can do is lick. Yeah, she'll just lick
the skin right off your bones. Oh, but don't
test her. Yeah, don't test her. She will lick
the bones off of your face and chase after the
cats and won't even know what to do. She did
protect Davey. We had her attached to Davey's
tricycle. And so she just kind of walks along
and pulls him along. And there's a neighbor dog
who comes out and because she was attached to
Davey, this dog tried to will always bark at
her. She never barks back. She'll just keep walking.
But she was attached to Davey. So she barked
back at him. I was like, don't don't come at
me or my boy. I got my Davey. Yeah, I got I got
my boy on the back of me. Don't even test me.
So, oh, he's a sweet girl. But our friends are
watching. Yeah. Yeah. pocket pit bull. She's
like so freaking cute. Not even medium. She's
so beautiful. She's a cute girl. She's driving
us crazy. Maybe we need a guest appearance of
little Posey. Yes. 100%. We'll film an episode.
We'll film an episode when we go camping or something.
Oh, yes. Pose Malone. Welcome to the pod. Oh,
I love it. She's so cute. Well, speaking of cute,
just kidding. That was a terrible transition,
but Speaking of cute, your mom. My mom is so
cute and she will be here next week. So stay
tuned. Anyways, we had some crazy stories last
week. Episode was the dumbest hill to die on.
Yes. Thank you, Joseph. And just a little quick
recap, y 'all. Yep. First story was one of mine.
Am I the asshole for locking my cousin out of
my house? Story number two. Am I the asshole
for keeping no contact with my sister after her
husband, my ex, died? And then Joe, what were
your stories? Dumbest hill to die on ever. Am
I the asshole for not letting a neighbor borrow
my tile saw because he assumed it belonged to
my boyfriend? The story about the girl, she was,
oh, he was offended because the neighbor came
over wanting to borrow a tool and he just assumed
that it was her boyfriend's, not hers. Yeah.
So she was like bugged by that like why do you
think it's his these are mine and no you can't
borrow it Yeah, we gotta be spiteful now. Yeah,
not gonna not gonna be able to do it's like whoa,
bro. Chill like I'm sorry the last one Was am
I the asshole for telling my mom her tractor
parking rules make no sense and refusing to move
it Oh, yeah, that one was so funny. That one
had me dying when I was riding it Yeah This you
know what spoiler alert you guys you guys haven't
heard the episode hasn't aired yet, which is
fine, but So you're gonna be? The the fake is
gonna be spoiled for you. Sorry about it. That's
okay. I'll be okay I still be on the edge of
my seat. Yeah say yes Yeah, and you can attest
to this when I was writing the story. I was dying
laughing Like I couldn't stop I was dying because
it was so stupid like I had the had the concept
come to my head and I just was like, okay I'm
gonna go with this and I like read it is mostly
like Educated people. Yeah, and I wanted it to
write the story. Like it was some like somebody
that was like a hillbilly So that like I was
just refining the prompt in any case Oh, that's
what you have to look forward to. I'm excited
to hear it. Yes. I don't know if everyone is
going to know right away that it was fake. They
might, but I don't think so. It was fun. However,
I have been, this is what I've been looking forward
to all week is telling you guys what the theme
of this week's episode is. I'm so excited. I
thought about it all week. I have no idea, but
I can't wait. What are they going to come up
with this week? Is it going to be this? Is it
going to be that? Is it going to be this? Is
it going to be that? I don't think you guessed
it. I'll tell you that much. I think it's gonna
shock ya. I think you might poop your pants.
Is your diaper on? Did you wear your pull -ups?
Today. But I can make an exception. Yeah, so
sorry. It's okay. The theme is, the lies my parents
told me. I love this. Oh, heck yeah! Talk today,
baby! Oh, I'm a parent. I talk and I lie. Oh,
sweet. I can't wait to hear about it. I can't
wait to hear about it. All right. Who's who's
going to go first this week? Because I have to
just plug my own story. Yeah. First one. She's
long. She's long. Oh, I get it. The story's long.
Not like she the character is along. Yeah, I
didn't know what that meant because she's a girl
and you can't like what's long about her, you
know, my kid calls me long He's like no you look
so long. That's actually like such a compliment.
What does that mean her hair? Are you ready?
My hair could be long. It just says oh, yeah
my beard hair You mean that sneeze was long.
Yeah, so sorry. Okay. Keep going. Does you need
an allergy medicine? Yeah. She needs more than
that. Yeah, I need a lot of things. It's okay.
I'll be okay. Do you need a spanking? Whoa. Yes.
I'm sorry. That was out of line. Better delete
that. Teresa's gonna get pissed. That was directly,
that was not out of line. That was behind the
line. That was behind the scenes. Oh my gosh.
You guys. You guys need to chill and freak out,
honestly. If you pooped your pants, I will not
give you a spanking. Well. then we'll put that
on the back burner save that one for next time
then i guess fair fair fair so i think you should
start with the along the story Okay, this one
comes from best of redditor updates, which if
you ever just are like trying to burn time on
reddit Okay, there's some rabbit holes best of
redditor updates. So that's all it's all the
stories where There's an update. So they're the
stories and the gifts. They just keep on giving
This one is one of those so worth noting this
story was originally posted in entitled parents
and insane parents so it's on best of redditor
updates because yeah the whole thing the whole
thing so the title is my parents are stalking
me because god told them to i love it when god's
involved with it and he never tells you this
one's good god is like he is with the dad this
time you guys oh okay i'm listening we're talking
we're talking lowercase g too i should say like
this is Not the one I know. Yeah. Double D? No.
Dallas. Hi. I'm a 24F and I live on my own out
of my parents' house. I have a bit of a situationship
going on with my friend. We'll call him David.
He's also 24M. We had a fling a few months ago
and now it's kind of happening again. It started
out just hanging out and enjoying David's company
then it slowly turned into more again. The thing
is my parents knew about the first fling. David
used to be inseparable from my dad. They were
like father and son in a way. Until David and
I had our fling. Now my dad is trying to control
him. Hmm. Telling him he has to have no contact
with me outside of a group chat we are all in.
We both think this is stupid. Naturally. She's
24. 24. Not living at home. A group chat with
the mom and dad and her and her situation. Okay.
And I have to, I just have to add this like.
We don't get very much more context as to why
David is close with the doubt. So don't look
for it. Don't expect it. It doesn't come. Which
bothered me, but it's fine. A few weeks ago we
were hanging out and we went to Five Below to
get snacks and just hang out. While we were there,
my parents walked in. They don't live in the
same city as me. I live about 20 minutes away
from them. And they just randomly showed up at
the store right by my house. They claimed it
was to find batteries. And at that point, my
dad confronted David and said that he told him
not to be around me. And he told me he isn't
going to care anymore and not and not to go crying
to him when I get heartbroken. Oh, it's like
Dad lost his bestie kind of thing for what I
thought. My mom texted me later saying it was
totally the Holy Spirit revealing that something
was happening so that they could intervene. I'm
kinda glad that that happened because after David
and I left, that opened up a conversation about
what's going on between us. We both enjoy our
company and we both have feelings for each other,
but we're taking it slow. While we were talking,
my dad is texting me three page essays on why
I'm stupid for not doing as he says and that
he is no longer invested. He told me David only
wants me for one thing and doesn't care about
me as much as he does. And that if David is in
love with me, he'd ask him for permission to
date his daughter and play by his rules. David
told me he does really care about me and that
it's a lie that he doesn't. I just, OP. Just
tender. Anyways, we decided to continue hanging
out, especially since my dad said he no longer
cares. We both have annual passes to Disneyland,
so we decided to go together after work. While
we were there, my mom and dad texted me asking
if I was at Disneyland. I ignored their texts.
We were there till closing, and as we were walking
out, my dad walked up to us with a Starbucks
bag and asked to talk. No. Nope. Uh -uh. David
kept walking and said no, and of course me wanting
to keep the peace begged David to beg David to,
and he said no, so she's begging him to stop.
I told him I'm his ride, and he said he'd just
get an Uber, and I told him no, so I just left
my parents there and left. I cried in the car,
and David told me it's not my fault. While I
was in the car, I texted my mom. how she knew
I was there and she said God is watching and
I asked again how she knew and she said she'd
meet me at my house and tell me and I said no
you will not meet me at my house that's weird
mom how did you know I was at Disneyland she
stopped messaging me and then my dad messaged
me this and it's in quotations and so it says
If you want to know how we knew you were there,
you can talk to us in person. We brought peace
and we tried to be loving even though I knew
David was doing stuff that he said he wouldn't
do. I just want him to care for you as much as
I do and your mother does, but you're gonna find
out honey and it's really sad. He had every opportunity
right there to confess his love for you and to
ask us for space. We could have had a good discussion,
but instead he was a coward and ran away. From
here on out, you are not to come to my home.
We can meet in public to talk about how we knew
you were at Disneyland because we had every intention
of telling you and That was gonna be a part of
the conversation. I've never lied to you and
I never will I do not have anything to hide That's
sketch except How you knew okay? All right. All
right guys. This is like the tip of the first
sentence of a 12 -page book It's yeah, I mean,
it's good. Let me just wait. Oh That conversation
could have been great and we're still willing
to have it, but David sadly is not. I did nothing
to him to deserve the treatment that we got from
him and I've never treated him any way other
than I would treat a good son. I hope and pray
that he doesn't do what I know he's going to
do. Wolves come into the sheep and they separate
the sheep from the flock and then they devour
the sheep. But the Good Shepherd will protect
you, and if David ever was a sheep, he will listen
to the voice of God, the people that loved him
and cherished him. I love you, and I wish nothing
but the best for you. If you want to talk, we
are willing to talk to you about anything you
want to know." So that was obviously Dad's message
to her. And she says, I responded with... Dad,
I don't expect him to be in love with me. That's
way too soon. And if you don't want to hide the
truth, just explain how you knew I was there.
I will not be meeting in person for a conversation
that can be had over text. He then responded
with, then don't meet with me. That's how it's
going to come out because you need to see my
demeanor and everything. And shame on you guys
for trying to point the finger back at us. You
guys are the ones that are not doing right and
hiding. Literally every box that was checked
for you to like To like David was erased by David.
All the things that you liked about him are now
gone and it was by David's own hand. From now
on, do whatever you want, I'm cutting this pain
off. I mean it. We're gonna cut her, oh. Don't
come by my house because we will not be able
to support your drama any longer. True. You're
gonna have to learn the hard way again. The only
difference is now your mother and I are numb
and we don't feel anything. God will show the
truth, but I wanted to make sure you weren't
hurt in the process. Oh. Yeah, the biggest eye
roll So here's the thing OP in this story and
both of the like where she posted both of these
she posted screenshots of the whole conversation
Thank you. So you literally can go back and you
can look at everything that like the whole thing.
She has the whole thing outlined So that's just
for context for anybody that wants to follow
along feel free And so after that, she says,
I don't care if I don't meet with them or not,
I can't handle the helicopter parenting anymore.
And I feel that anytime I've ever brought a boy
around, my dad has to place himself in the middle,
forcing the guy out. The guys that have been
okay with it in the past end up not working out
because of my fear that if my dad can control
him, now my whole future will still be controlled
by him. Which, valid. If I don't do it their
way, then I'm doing it wrong. I really like David
and he likes me. I'm 24 years old and for once
I have a guy that doesn't run away from me because
of a crazily super involved parent. Because of
my crazily super involved parents. I don't know
what to do. What I'm concerned about is how my
parents followed me there and why. I just don't
know what to do. Any advice is greatly appreciated.
Thank you for reading as much as you did and
please any suggestions would help because I feel
alone right now. I bet she could call her parents
and she wouldn't be alone but I'm sure they already
know. Exactly worse. Yeah, don't worry dude open
your closet dad's in there Dad's creating the
drama. He is pure drama. This is this is where
religion sometimes just has such a It's just
sad to see the negative effects. It can have
on someone if they are not Well, well, yes like
So I think with David case David and daddy Daddy
and David. They obviously had a relationship.
A fling. A fling, yeah. They were hooking up,
for sure. Absolutely. This reminds me of, you
know the movie with, oh, what's his freaking
name? So it's Ryan Gosling, I knew his name.
Yes, Crazy Stupid Love. Yes, it kind of gives
me those vibes a little bit. They're all connected.
Yes. He knows how much of this player David is.
And then he finds out that like, my freaking
daughter is dating him. Like, no. So, I don't
know. And like, does dad know something? Some
deep secret? Well, it's like, yeah, did they
make an inappropriate trip somewhere together?
That's where my mind went. It was like, do you
like really know that this guy is like, not a
good guy? And how? Okay, what's the update? Are
you guys ready for it yet? I I mean I have guessed
what I could so here's a couple of the good couple
of the good comments First commenter check your
car for a tracking device if they have keys to
your place change the locks There's something
very wrong with them. This level of stalking
and harassment is concerning adding it Adding
in to the religious aspect of it. They sound
unhinged Yeah, it's creepy To say the least unhinged
is the best word for these psychotic freaks.
Mm -hmm This all happened last so this is op
responding This all happened last night. So i'm
going to be spending the day looking for anything
like that They don't have any keys to my place.
Thankfully Somebody else said are you 100 absolutely
positively sure that they don't have keys to
your house? Is there any opportunity for them
to get keys long enough to have a copy made?
I would change the locks as a precaution people
are like Something here is not right. They don't
they're not just naturally knowing where you're
at. Sorry like Even if you are a deeply spiritual
deeply religious person You don't get flashing
lights that are like your daughter's at Disneyland
with the guy that you're concerned about well
not only that but like oh we went to five blow
to like find batteries 20 minutes away from like
any other store like there's no way like that's
too many coincident like They're way too many.
Yeah. Mom and dad, you guys are dumb. Okay, pause.
Let me find the right thing because it's all
in one thread. So here's the first edit that
came on OP's post. So this happened the same
day. Thank you everyone who gave advice and suggestions.
I decided I'm going to let myself settle for
a few days. I'm going to agree to hear my parents
out just to know how they got my location. As
controlling as they are, I still love them and
I can say with certainty they have always been
honest. My dad said he will tell me how they
found out I was there in person. I'm going to
give myself a few days to get my own nerves and
emotions down. I'll post an update when that
happens. Honestly, thank you everyone. It's nice
to see I'm not crazy. I'm not a terrible person.
It's reassuring to see that this isn't normal
behavior and I can't thank you all enough for
that. It gave me a bit of a peace of mind to
be honest. Thank you all for giving advice to
a no name person on Reddit who writes like they're
having a stroke. Edit 2. I texted my dad and
told him I'd be willing to talk within the next
few days. He then told me I need to find a new
phone provider. This is the last bill I have
connected with my folks. They pay for it in their
account. I just pay them back for my line every
month. No one does that. I think that cancels
out. them tracking me via phone provider, especially
now, since this is another attempt to control
by using fear of cutting off a service I can
very easily get on my own. I looked for any air
tags. I couldn't find anything. He still refuses
to tell me how he tracked me unless I meet with
him, my mother and our pastor, unless I meet
with him, my mother and our pastor at our church.
That is so manipulative. Is he like a police
officer or something? He sounds like it, right?
He's got to be Liam Neeson from Taken. Yes, he's
gonna have like I will find a connection somewhere
and I will kill you Like if he's not an officer
like a buddy of his has to be an officer like
who knows this guy or like Something like that
if he's going through these lines, that's yeah,
that's just a little bit on Behavior to say the
least. Yeah. Okay. Okay. I'm ready. I'm ready
OP clarifies, I've known this church for 16 years.
My pastor has stuck up for me when I needed him.
He stuck up for me when I was being physically
abused and brought that to a stop. My dad is
the uber religious person. My pastor has always
put him in his place. Just to clarify that aspect
a bit more. It's people I trust to look out for
my well -being. Abused by who? The dad physically
abused her. Okay, so update. Same post. Yeah,
no because it's there's there's more Update from
to the same post so it's late the very next day
She didn't give herself days. She met with them
the next day update I met with them today my
pastor and his wife had my back 100 % My dad
told me how they found me. I guess I was still
sharing my location with him on my phone through
messages Wow, why isn't that the first place
you look and that was everyone is like are you
Well, you look with your eyes. Did you did you
if you think somebody knows where you're at?
You're like whole am I sharing my looks? Yeah,
I I'm doing that and the next thing I'm doing
is I'm checking the tracker on my car. Mm -hmm.
Yeah, what's check my phone? Yeah, you guys know
Shout out to Apple because you can't have an
Apple device traveling with you without it notifying.
Yeah So that they did that update so air tags
will not allow somebody to track you unless it's
your air tag but now you do but yeah other trackers
who knows there's other gps and stuff out there
that's why it didn't work when i tried to stalk
you all right so here's here's dad he said god
revealed that he still had my location thank
you i cannot right now my parents then drove
to my house to see if my car was there they saw
david's car there we carpooled to disney then
they waited outside of disneyland until we left
I told them that's freaking weird and that makes
me uncomfortable and they said they did it out
of love because they were concerned. And but
they're not sharing the concern just that David's
gonna do something. No, it's we're not gonna
be there for you when David breaks your heart
and we're just we're just generally concerned
about you dating him. Like they're not banging
and dishing out like everything's fine. I don't
know. Have you ever wrote it's a small world?
You guys would know. You guys did that. We didn't
ride with the small world actually. Or with the
poop ride that we always go on that's trippy.
Poo? Winnie the Pooh? Oh, you guys got crazy
in that ride? You're gonna get kicked out if
you announce that. I've never done anything inappropriate
at Disneyland. Is there any one ride that lasts
more than two minutes? Yes. Pirates. You better
be quick. Oh yeah, Pirates is long. Indiana Jones
is fun, by the way. It was close You know, it's
freaking sick dude that was literally supporting
my leftward love handle and you just tugged it
out The lower or the upper half the literally
the whole kit and caboodle Yeah, I was it was
nice like all that warmth and support just it
just flopped and just went right out That kind
of jiggle when it dropped obviously, that's All
right basically But but basically my pastor and
his wife are 100 % behind my back regarding dating
which is a weird way of saying have my back Dating
who I want not letting my parents decide I should
have the opportunity to decide if I like the
guy first One -on -one then bring him to meet
my parents. It's a little different because we
have all known David for years But still I have
the right to decide when my parents will be involved.
My dad did not like this He said he'd leave the
church and then blocked me on all of his social
medias He said he can't stand around and wait
for my heart to get broken and the whole time
he was trashing on David He called me a few names
that were extremely hurtful and I was glad to
see the pastor had my back They told me I am
no longer under his roof and I'm not doing anything
wrong The conversation ended with my dad claiming
he wants to go no contact, which I'm sure he
won't follow through on. It sucks, I love my
parents, but in my dad's eyes, if he can't have
control over this aspect, I don't get him at
all. And that's probably how it's gonna be for
a while. Thank you guys. daughter issues. Dad
has daddy issues and daughter issues of himself.
Yes. Dad has issues. Dad's not okay. There's
some really good stuff. I'm just going to recommend
all the listeners go and go and find this on
best of redditor updates so you can read all
the context. There's lots. Lots. But we're going
to keep it merving and we're going to read the
last of the updates. Oh my gosh. Oh, is that
okay with you? He is scrolling down, y 'all.
It's because the best of Redditor updates compiles
everything. So it makes it really easy for you
to get the full thing without having to navigate
all around. But in this case... We just need
you, Joe. So this is update post number two.
And let me just make sure, because this is a
lengthy back and forth of text between... The
daddy and the daughter Okay update post two so
this is three months later From the og post three
months after well I didn't think I'd be here
again if anyone saw my original post near like
November I think that has the whole context backstory
to it But long story short the guy was seeing
we decided to just be friends, and he is honestly
my best friend was sad about it though and I
told my dad that me and him were done in that
regard and he actually acted like a dad and comforted
me it was nice my dad he's literally just just
having a freaking bodygasm just rolling around
he he will roll roll on the ground and like run
his body into the couch well he's yeah anyway
Yes, feed her in the air. He's pretending he's
dead. It's cool So my dad slowly came back into
contact with me and him Slowly came back into
contact with me and him and things felt like
they were going back to normal Until I got a
text from my friend telling me my dad was blowing
up his phone saying he hated him for stealing
his daughter's virginity Which is not what happened
I'm a 24 year old female living completely independently
with no help from my family I mean, I don't need
to tell my dad about my sex life. It isn't his
business I already lost my V card, but he doesn't
need to know that again not his business I said
something though because he kept accusing my
friend of stealing it. So I texted my dad and
this was the text exchange I am now completely
no contact that was his second chance and after
everything I've been through he will not be getting
another chance I'm about to read the text conversation.
So this is literally them going back and forth.
It is yugly. So the original poster OOP, she
says, and this is where it's weird because at
some point they insert that the guy's name that
they've been calling David, his real name is
Daniel. And so he's just Daniel in the rest of
this post because she forgot to edit it in one
of the screenshots. And so everyone knew it was
Daniel. Of course, of course you call him David,
but his real name is Daniel. It happens to everyone.
My friend didn't take my virginity. What the
hell is wrong with you? I never told you I slept
with him. I never told you I had any sex with
him. All I said was it could lead to a pregnancy
the way things were going. First of all, the
way that she - Why would you say that to your
dad? Like, I'm sorry, OP. Don't say that. Like
- That's weird. Especially when you know your
parents are helicopter parents. Yeah. How do
you not know the line not to - of things not
to say she's like we didn't have sex but it could
have led to pregnancy like all i said was it
could lead to a pregnancy the way things were
going i never once said i slept with him stop
whatever crazy tirade you're going you're whatever
tirade you're doing because you hate him for
taking my virginity when you don't even know
This is disrespectful to me that you are speaking
like this about me. You are hurt. This is hurting
my feelings a lot more thinking my dad thinks
that I'm a whore. Oh, this is making me uncomfortable.
This dad... New text. And going off more on my
friend is by no means going to help the situation.
Ignore him and leave him alone. Imagine how my
dad is now that while I'm at work, I randomly
get a text that my dad thinks my friend stole
my virginity. It makes me feel dirty that you
are even speaking to somebody about my virginity
is none of your concern It's between me and God
you don't know nor will you ever know who takes
my virginity Like she's acting like it hasn't
happened yet Or not and that is not for you to
decide other than me when I am ready and married
you already New text. Talking to my friend about
this stuff isn't going to make him magically
want me. It's going to push him away even more
from me. You need to literally stop and just
vent your feelings somewhere else. I don't want
to be in a position again where I'm choosing
between people. Stop being like this. And now
he responds. The conversation I'm having with
him is between us. I'm only saying what hurt
me and your mother and we should be able to share
that with your friend. This part is none of your
business. That is not... He's an idiot. Like,
dude, are you not an adult? Wow, you caught that?
That was sick. You threw that four inches above
your mouth. Wow. How'd you do that? You should
show that at parties, Whit. Please do like a
slow -mo of you being like... The podcasters
are gonna be confused and if you cut this out
of the YouTube you're literally missing the best
content Better not podcasters watch this YouTube
So Should we just hang out like shit and this
is story one of three so Okay, that part is none
of your business. If you don't like it, you don't
have to be around me or your mom, trying to make
things right with a friend to restore everything
and that involves truth. Otherwise, I will go
back right where we were, which is not having
a relationship with you guys until you are ready
to get right. You threatened me and your mom
acting like we were begging you to come back
to church. That is not the truth. The truth is
we were letting you guys cook. From your responses
to me, clearly you are not done. The truth is
we were letting you guys cook. From your responses
to me, clearly you were not done, so I'm gonna
just leave you in the cooker. He didn't say that,
I said that. If you wanna run off and do what
you wanna do, go for it. It's gonna be hurtful
and painful out there. It's literally none of
my concern at this point and everything I said
to the friend was supposed to be between him
and I and it was solely focused on how he hurt
me and your mother and how to get back to where
he was with us. Nothing to do with you, you're
an idiot brother. Only read your first text and
I will read the rest when I have time So that's
just an additional text that he sent to her and
then she says do not discuss my virginity He
didn't take my virginity. I don't care what you
think or assume. He didn't take my virginity
and don't claim that he did dad Do not tell me
what to discuss. My assumption was he did take
it, and that hurt me as a father, especially
from him who I trusted. Believe it or not, I
have my own feelings, and in order for me to
get right with him, I have to express the feelings
that I have. Don't tell me to stuff my feelings.
I hate you. I think he should, at this point.
I think he's having too many feelings and he
needs to just shut up. Dude, somebody needs to
tell him to like, bruh, no, you're done. Talk
to a therapist if you are so hurt that you have
to go to the boy and also that's, she had no
control over the situation. He can only talk
to the friend and be like, well, you did this.
Yeah. Got it. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, like dude
naturally. You're my little friend It's the same
age as my daughter and I'm mad at you because
you stole her virginity from her Meanwhile, she's
banged other dudes and like this guy just happens
to be someone that dated her I think Daniel David
whatever he is the D Worked for the dad. I think
there was something there where maybe he worked
on their land or something. I'm this is what
I'm thinking I'm getting like Like the dad got
somebody pregnant in high school and like this
is like a long -lost son or something like that.
Oh He's freaking out yo, they would be siblings,
holy yes, and that's why Like you're at Disneyland
with your your brother actually low -key that's
crazy like that That's what I'm getting is like
Yeah. Because it's like, why do you care so much?
Also, I thought another thing could be, and this
is, I mean, everyone's probably thought this
at one point. Maybe the dad has a crush on him.
Maybe the dad fell in love with him. Well, we
are certainly covering our bases here. But I
like Dallas is way better. Is he the son or is
it his love interest? Daddy, I love him. If that's
real, if that's true, that was a snag. You pulled
that one down. Yeah. And this doesn't say, so
we might have to order a paternity test or something.
That was the noise I made giving birth. That
was like right on it. Don't you think? Pretty
close. Yeah, you do it. And I pushed for three
hours. That was the sounds. That's so fun. And
I remember, sorry, so off topic, Joe. I'm so
sorry. Don't apologize to me. You edit this shit.
I remember coming out of my mouth and literally
being like, I want to laugh because I can't control
it. This is what's just coming out. But I was
in so much pain. I was so pissed the baby wasn't
coming out for that long that it was like, if
anyone f -ing laughs in this room, I will kill
you. I remember just looking around after I would
make the noise. You'll try. Did you and the nurse
ever look at each other in the lap? Marnie? I
think I don't remember who I was enduring that
with. Harder! Push, push harder! I was like,
you say that one more freaking time. The first
time you let it out, like the way you let it
out, it was like to the top of the range and
like the the yodely part that was like long lasting
and like her and I holding your legs were like...
I'm just gonna put the blanket up a little bit
more so you can't see and kill us Like that sounded
helpful. That sounded like you just baby's just
sliding on out and you make that noise I'm nervous
to get birth again because I'm so scared Don't
worry about it then I'm gonna make that noise
and it's like it's such a known thing now that
if it did come out just a little peep would immediately
like I I I don't know I think I would laugh even
if I was in so much pain because I would certainly
laugh my birth noise I would have to take a seat
at that point and then you're gonna be really
pissed Okay after he said don't tell me to stuff
my feelings She says you don't have any right
to discuss my virginity my body anything. That
is me He says, when you're ready to talk to me
as your father, then we will talk. Otherwise,
don't text me no more. Wait, text me no more,
girl? What you finna mean, though, brother? Okay,
you can talk about me as a daughter, not as someone's
sex toy. Ew. True. She's laying it on thick.
She's like, dude, I'm sick of this. This is not
chill. That's gross, though. And I get why she
feels like that, because the... The dad doesn't
know her situation and he's talking to this person
offending her deeply Like assuming this person
took her virginity and she's like do this. You
don't know anything about my life Yeah, it's
not his to talk about yeah at all. And even if
it was a fact even if it was like dude, you still
have nothing to do with this and Dad says the
reason why I'm saying that is because you're
bringing fire instead of actually trying to understand
my perspective You can talk about me as a daughter,
not as someone sex toy. Then he says, the reason
why I'm saying that is because you're bringing
fire instead of actually trying to understand
my perspective. Then his next text says, that's
not what I was doing if you read my text. So
he's defending himself. And then OOP says, you
were telling my friend that you hated him in
the moment because he stole my virginity. Forgive
and forget and move on. He didn't steal my virginity.
He didn't take my virginity. I didn't give him
my virginity. Your perspective is wrong. These
are all separate text messages. And then he says,
these are my exact words. And this is the last
time I will share with you what I am speaking
to him in private. And she says, I don't care
what the rest of your stuff you think. That part
of you is very wrong. I am struggling to read
the way she writes because she is struggling.
Okay, OOP's dad attaches screenshots of his messages
with the friend transcribed below. Okay, so then
the dad sends her screenshots Of what he said
to Daniel David. Yes So dad says this to David
Proverbs 28 13 he who covers his sins will not
prosper but whoever confesses and forsakes them
will have mercy New text I hated you after you
turned your back on my My peace that I offered
you at Disneyland and I hated you even more when
you took my daughter's virginity without committing
to her The Bible says that if I hate another
I've committed murder And so I confess to the
Lord my sins and he forgave me and encouraged
me to love you Even though you took something
from me That was one of the most important things
that my daughter had and that I wanted to give
I wanted her to give to her husband You also
did it under my nose and I called you my son.
I'm sorry that I hated you I also called you
a coward, but you're not a coward I choose to
believe that you were just afraid and you were
still afraid to make things right with me. There's
a big difference between cowards and being afraid.
I feel sorry for you and your fear takes over
and cripples you. You must through Christ overcome
this giant because it has the... OP writes a
note here that is all I'll show because it drones
on. OP says, I don't need to see anything else.
Then OOP says, Accusing someone of taking my
virginity is a big thing dad and reply to dad's
last text I do care meaning I don't need to see
the rest of the private conversation between
you and him Dad says I mean it don't come around
me and don't speak with me anymore. I'm done
with you You are partially to blame for the loss
of my friend Meaning Daniel in my life, and he
is the other half of it I don't want to see you
or him and I'm done being kind to your stupid
ways. You can come back with me Right now with
fire, but just know that I don't care anymore
and that was the last straw he cares so much
That's why he's doing all of this You can't disregard
you can't disregard Dallas's theory so like no
good I was thinking oh like before you said that
okay What if Daniel or David or whoever? Was
the abuser and like the dad is truly trying to
watch out and like that but like now knowing
that it's like No, he's no he's that's That the
daughter's virginity That you took something
from me So did it just end with another did the
ties are cut because I feel like she's gonna
go back Yeah, so that's gonna keep fighting.
No, I meant it. Yeah, I meant it. I'm not talking
to you anymore Okay, that's fine. No, I said
I'm not going to talk to you anymore She's like,
okay. Yeah, of course. She tried to clarify.
She's like I'm dad. I'm not saying like we need
to be done or you need to keep sending me the
messages Like I want this to be over. I just
don't want you to slander me anymore. Yeah, and
then he just is like it's like he's like, no,
I said I'm banishing you Yeah, no, you cannot
come to the house anymore the princess of my
small castle any longer. Yeah So here's what
one commenter said Okay. You're responding way
too much to this. Your father is disgusting and
the fact you have 10 pages of screenshots defending
your virginity to him is too much. Yeah. And
she replied and said, it was more so trying to
defend my friend in the best way that I could
think of. And at the time I was emotional. So
yeah, I did respond way too much. I agree. I'm
completely no contact now. No, that poor girl.
She's just getting bullied by some other commenter
and she's like trying to... But they're trying
to say I mean because it is it's so much back
and forth and the dad is not here How do you
not exit the insanity? How do you not be like,
okay? She was raised by insanity. So she's like
trying to break out of that mold Oh, but she
probably got it in her tail. What would you say
to her? Just say it right now. I would say God
is with her We may have missed some of the meat
and potatoes, but we didn't we got all the stuff
that we did great, babe We do need to go to the
next story though Joe great story, but now we're
on to mine. That's even better. Don't worry This
is from our relationship advice. My mom lied
to make me dislike my dad. Oh Yeah, edit am I
sorry? I'll just skip that. Yeah. Okay, here
we go. My F -22 mom, F -50 and dad M -52 divorced
when I was young and I stayed with my mom most
of the time but had regular well scheduled visitation
with my dad too. Custody always followed a plan
and they both knew when I was scheduled where
so did I. They shared long school holidays 50
-50 and alternated the shorter holidays. I'm
an adult now and I've just found out through
a mutual friend of theirs that a lot of what
my mom told me about what happened between her
and my dad was in fact BS. She would often discuss
things in detail with me when I was growing up
and I always obviously believed her. My dad on
the other hand didn't discuss issues with me
and in hindsight he was clearly trying to protect
me from the adult drama. For example, My dad
worked away sometimes and my mom would be invited
out with her friends and would ask my dad to
have me on a specific night while I was in her
custody. He'd be away for work and tell her he
couldn't, but she'd tell me dad has plans with
his girlfriend and doesn't want me there. I wouldn't
bring this up with my dad because I was hurt
by it and my mom would rearrange a babysitter
for me. He actually wasn't the asshole for not
looking after me. She was for making plans with
her friends. There's lots more and I'm thinking
the only way forward is to sit down and talk
to my dad, getting his side of it all. That would
give me more info. And yes, I know there's three
sides to every story, but how do I deal with
this as far as my mom is concerned? She blatantly
lied and made out my dad was an idiot and didn't
have a clue how to be a father. But I'm learning
now just how much nonsense that was to make her
look like an awesome mom to her friends and also
the victim where her relationship with my dad
was concerned. That happens all the time. Honest
answer is not honest answer. Honest answer, too
close to home. Yeah. yeah i know somebody who
a situation like that has happened and it wasn't
until the person was in like their 30s that they
finally reconnected with one of their parents
to like get their side of the story of what happened
after like becoming a teenager and like hearing
all the past drama that like the one parent did
and recognizing like All the lies that the one
parent said and it was like multiple marriages
that happened to how do you have conversation
like hard conversations are like give perspective
to your kids without being too overbearing or
like. I don't know it's just it's hard to find
that balance of like I'm still the parent but
also like I can relate and I understand where
you're coming from totally I will say I I grew
up in a divorced. family my parents got divorced
when I was three months old and I was really
grateful after hearing that story because that
was not my experience whatsoever in the sense
that like My parents did not tell me anything
about the other My whole growing up and all of
a sudden I was an adult and I started asking
like random questions And I would get their perspective
on things and I would be like, oh my gosh I didn't
even know they're like, you know that was being
yeah, so like felt gratitude that that was not
my situation, because especially before you have
the perspective and the understanding, what do
you do with any of that information? I was going
to ask, were you glad that you didn't know as
a like a teen, as a like growing up? Yes. I mean,
maybe it's a double edged sword, right? Because
you grow up thinking that your life and your
family is perfect. And like even as a kid, like
I was a single or only child. Single parent household
like I didn't I didn't foster any animosity towards
the other parent right and like still had a good
relationship with them and Who's to say what
could have been different if it they were like,
you know Yeah Soiling the water on both sides
or like trying to make me pick a side or any
of that stuff Like there was not something I
had to deal with at all. Yeah, that's really
good That was it was good and then I grew up
and I learned things. Yeah, but all parents are
not Perfect humans and I'm not a perfect human
I'm pretty but I'm married to a perfect human.
Yeah. Thank you. I was like I was waiting for
it. Yeah. No job was following right behind That's
one of the work like one of probably the most
prototypical Stories about parents lying to kids,
you know that happens in divorced households
all the time This one's good. If you guys like
the first one. Yes Is this steam here? Is it
longer, shorter? Way shorter. Deeper in detail.
You be the judge. Okay, I'm ready. Hit me. Am
I the brown starfish for not telling my kids
about a massive inheritance for 15 years? Whoa.
Initial thoughts? No. Throw away because my son
and daughter are absolutely furious. So some
background. I grew up dirt poor. Not broke for
a little while poor. I mean actual poor. Food
stamps, eviction notices. Heat getting shut off
in the middle of winter. My mom did her best
but money was always a stressor and it stuck
with me. So when I became a dad, I swore that
my kids would never feel that kind of insecurity.
I worked in sales. Didn't have a bad job but
it was commission based so nothing is ever guaranteed.
I always had this nagging fear that one bad year
or month or anything like that and I would be
screwed. So I lived frugally as hell. clipped
coupons, drove my car into the ground, always
bought things on sale. My wife, who had a much
more stable upbringing, used to joke that I was
preparing for an apocalypse that wasn't coming.
But to me, it really was just paranoia from having
to be in survival all those years. Then when
I was 38, my biological father died. Now this
man was a total stranger to me. He walked out
before I was old enough to remember him. Never
called, never sent a birthday card, nothing.
I didn't even really think about him. Didn't
even know if he was alive, honestly. So, some
lawyer ended up calling me and says that he left
everything to me. I thought it was a scam. Turns
out he never had any other kids, barely spent
any of his money, and for some reason decided
to drop it all in my lap. And we're not talking
a nice little inheritance. We're talking millions.
Like life -changing, never -have -to -work -again
kind of money. Where's that for us? Do you have
a biological dad anywhere somewhere? Yeah, I
do. You've met him. I mean, I met like a second
one. Yeah, I... Nope. I don't have one of those.
Only one biological dad. That sucks for you.
You think that would be a relief, right? Yes,
obviously. That I'd feel secure for the first
time in my life? No. If anything, it made me
more paranoid. My whole life has been about saving,
planning for worst case scenarios, cutting every
unnecessary cost. That mindset doesn't just disappear
overnight. So my wife and I sat down. We agreed.
First thing, we pay off our mortgage and any
other debt. Then we would set up a will and put
everything in order so the kids would be taken
care of eventually. And we just left the rest
untouched. We figured we'd wait until I retired
to do anything big like buying a place somewhere
warm. But beyond that, we weren't gonna start
living differently and we sure as hell were not
going to tell our kids. Whoa. At the time, they
were 12 and 15. They were good kids but still
just kids i didn't want them growing up thinking
they had. A safety net so big that they never
have to worry about money i wanted them to work
to struggle a little bit to learn how to budget
and earn their own way in life. We figured we
tell them when they were older maybe twenty five
or thirty once they've gotten some real world
experience under their belts wall but then time
just kept passing. So when my son turned 18,
we thought maybe now's the time. But beyond that,
we weren't gonna start living differently and
we sure as hell aren't gonna start telling the
kids. At the time, they were 12 and 15. Good
kids, but still kids. I didn't want them growing
up thinking they had a safety net so big that
they'd never have to work or worry about money.
I wanted them to work, to struggle a little bit,
to learn how to budget and earn their way in
life. When my son turned 18, we thought maybe
now's the time. But he was heading off to college
and we worried it might mess with his motivation.
So we said, let's wait until after he graduates.
Then our daughter hit 18 and by then we still
hadn't told our son. So telling her first felt
weird. So he said, we'll just wait a little longer.
And before we knew it, 15 years had passed. I
guess we just got comfortable with them not knowing.
They worked minimum wage jobs, took out student
loans, lived on a budget just like I had to.
And in my mind that was a good thing. They were
learning responsibility. They weren't growing
up entitled. Oh, but the interest. That's like,
all I know is if I was OP dude, there's no possible
way I would let my kids take out student loans.
Yeah, that's where I that's where I'm kind of
drawing the line in my mind right now. But I
want I want to keep hearing what happens. So
last month, my son, who is now 27, and his wife
started looking into buying their first house.
He was going over finances, trying to see what
kind of loan he could get, and at some point
he pulled my credit report to check if I could
co -sign if needed. That's when he saw something
weird, an account in my name with way too much
money in it. He came to me confused, asking what
it was, and like an idiot, I panicked. I tried
to brush it off, told him it was an old investment
account I forgot about, but he wasn't buying
it. Started asking more questions, I kept fumbling,
throwing out half -truths, hoping he would drop
it. But my son's not dumb, he knows when I'm
full of it. Next thing I know he's pulling up
public records looking into my dad's estate and
putting the pieces together himself At that point
I had no choice but to come clean and of course
he told his sister right away. Oh Now they're
both livid They feel like we straight -up lied
to them like we let them struggle for no reason
My daughter is especially pissed because she
skipped a study abroad program in college thinking
she couldn't afford it. My son says he might
have taken a different career path if he knew
he had a financial cushion. They keep turning
around words like betrayal and manipulation.
And I get it. I really do. But I still believe
we did the right thing. If they had known at
15 and 12 that they'd never have to worry about
money, they would have made different choices.
Maybe worse ones. Now my wife's feeling guilty
wondering if we should have told them years ago.
I don't know. I still think we did what was best.
But now my kids barely want to talk to me. Am
I the asshole? I take it back. Yeah, yeah, I
think he is I I think they could have said something
Like hey, we have you don't have to say hey we
have millions in the bank for you but like when
your kid is going to college say like Like if
you need something, please let us know or like
we can help you figure out And they don't even
have to say where the money came from but they
can say oh hey you wanted to go to that study
abroad trip like Why don't you pay for half of
it and we'll pay for half of it? Yeah, and like
I don't know I feel like you could be more collaborative
See that's to me. That seems logical. That seems
like the right thing to do I don't know I like
coming from like a poor family that like I didn't
have any assistance when I started in college
and anything and I had to work in college if
he was as poor as he says he was all growing
up and like had to budget and make things work
like kind of field your kids by not teaching
them better like different routes and having
to take out loans and things like that I guess
for me like the attitude I've had is If you ask
your parents for money once, then you're just
going to keep asking your parents for money.
If you did it once and then you're not going
to do it again. Like, I know for me, I'd be like,
well, you did it this one time. Why aren't you
willing to do it now? Like why? I don't know.
Cause. And you see it's easier to like, Hey,
mom and dad, can I have this? Yeah. It's like,
why wouldn't you go back and ask again? You're
taking like more of the easier route. Yeah. Like.
And that's why I'm saying don't be. You don't
have to say he's you got millions. But if you
say like, hey, your grandfather left you some
money that will can help pay for college or help
pay for like, I've met people that have had an
inheritance and they're like, well, I'm, I'm
going to keep it in there. And then like, something
comes up and they're like, Oh, well, I've got
the inheritance, I can just pull the money out
and then I'll put more back in and then they
never do. And also the fact that he was like,
uh, I would feel secure and safe and like, no,
with all that money, you're going to feel more
insecure, more unsafe, unless you have therapy
to like work through all of those feelings of
like scarcity and like fear of what's going to
happen next. So like, well, I feel like your
childhood ruined that for your kids now. I just
can't relate. Let's put it that way. Yep. because
if i if i got a big lump sum like that and i
didn't i my dad was very generous growing up
and he like he did fine but it was just me and
him i didn't have i definitely didn't have a
scarcity mindset but in adulthood have definitely
had financial struggles and so i like i relate
to that feeling of like frick i can't spend a
dime right now but if i got a fatty sum of money
i'd be like who wants to go on a golf trip like
who's like let's go Freaking have fun, especially
my kids like dude I would be pissed at my parents
if I find out after they're dead that they've
had it since I was 15 And I'm like it was mine.
I could have been living a much different life
much different life Yeah, I don't know that would
be hard, but I get the whole like him wanting
them to work hard and how do you if you're listening
and if you have Money in an account for me that
you're just waiting now is the freaking time
He's just reloading it. Please phone mommy. That's
a crazy story, but you're not ready for mine.
This was posted off two hot takes. Mother -in
-law lied to my husband about his bio dad his
whole life, and now he doesn't want her around
our child. So I 21F met my husband 21M almost
a year and a half ago. We are getting ready to
welcome our baby girl in June, but we are in
a predicament. My husband, let's call him A.
was told his entire childhood and up until this
point that his bio dad signed over his rights
almost as soon as he was born verbally abused
his mom while she was pregnant and so quote -for
-quote that he didn't claim him as his baby.
It was something that has always bothered A.
He hated his bio dad and said he would never
reach out to him but didn't understand why his
bio father would do that to him. His stepdad
wasn't a huge influence on him his entire life
from what he said and doesn't have a wonderful
connection with him. When A met my dad he clung
to him and still does. It made me so sad seeing
this because all A wanted was a father figure
that he could connect with. I think the relationship
he has built with my father and talking with
me had given him some push. to reach out to his
dad because my dad has two other kids he wasn't
involved a whole lot with due to their mothers
not wanting him around and he worked in the pipeline
so he wasn't around a whole lot anyways. A talked
to his mom about reaching out to his dad and
at first she said she would give him the documents
she had from court and so on but as time came
closer and he pushed more she started getting
aggravated and condescending about it. Before
she gave A any paperwork she pulled me to a room
alone and asked me very possibly aggressively
why he needs to talk to him and what pushed him
to this. She started crying and showing me paperwork,
saying how horrible he was that she was not okay
with him reaching out. This was kind of a red
flag for me, but I just wanted to keep the peace
in that moment. I explained everything when A
and I had left their home. After that incident,
he desperately wanted to reach out, and so he
forced his mom to hand over the paperwork, and
when he read all the letters and court documents,
he sobbed for hours. He finally made contact
with his bio dad. We will call him B. We call
him B. B wasn't anything that A expected, and
B explained his side of the story. B didn't know
about A until he was around three, and the only
reason why he was notified was because he was
served with a paternity test, along with three
other men. We looked at papers, and this checked
out because paternity was established in 2005.
A was born in 2002. His mom had went after B
for child support and back. Child support. B
was unprepared, but still paid and fought for
custody for three years. Also, to give context,
B lived nine hours away. He would send A letters,
emails, try to call, and even would try to visit,
but his mom was the one who made it difficult.
B didn't have a reliable car and only worked
in an auto parts store. We looked into all of
this and everything checked out. Even the letters
were sent with an old Riley stamp. B sent A screenshots
of her conversations with his mom, and he was
civil. while his mother was very nasty towards
him. This went on for three years before his
mom's lawyer told him that he needs to just sign
over his rights because all of these money was
going towards rent and attorney fees. He said
he regrets it and has never been able to get
over it. He tried making contact with A up until
2016, then officially decided he would wait until
A turned 18 and let A decide when he and if he
ever wanted to try. B is almost exactly like
A and A grieves the father relationship he could
have had. They are already planning to meet up
and have lunch and share more documents. about
the situation. The real kicker though is that
as mom impersonated him talking to B's mom, his
bio grandma, she did that for months until grandma
caught on and quit replying. The real kicker
though is that as mom impersonated him talking
to B's mom, his bio grandma, she did that for
months until grandma caught on and quit replying.
A has been in contact with his bio dad for two
months now and won't go see his mom or talk to
her. She doesn't know what... She doesn't know
that he is in contact with his bio dad and that's
where we are stuck. He wants his bio dad to come
down for the birth of our daughter. A's mom has
approached me multiple times asking if he reached
out. It's not my business to tell so I always
say no. But the last thing she said to me kind
of stuck. She said he was very happy he never
reached out and that he would never disrespect
her like that. She even said she knows he respects
her for even giving him the opportunity to reach
out. Yikes. We both know his mom is going to
spiral when she sees him. He doesn't know how
to approach his mom about this but refuses to
not include his bio dad simply because his mom
would be angry. He doesn't trust his mom anymore
and he told and told he would prefer to stay
low contact with her until further notice even
when our baby gets here. We also know there are
always two sides to a story but B's matches the
timeline and he has actual court documents emails
and messages to back everything he has expressed.
What do you guys think? I've heard of stuff like
that happening. And it is like that's trauma.
Yeah, that's so much trauma. Like being lied
to about your parent that is not there to defend
themselves. Oh, I just I hate that. I hate that.
And he is constantly being lied to by he got
stuck with the worst parent like true. She was
a bad she was a a bad person like had to have
a paternity test or have four or five different
guys take paternity tests to determine who the
dad was yet she wanted to trash the dad to the
son it's like did she even know who the dad was
when did she find out you know but wanted child
support but didn't want him in the child's life
oh yeah and how it's so backwards it's like what
are you even trying to accomplish the dad wants
to be in the child's life reached out multiple
times The child only knows what she's saying
like that Only gets the information from the
mom who's batshit. This is she's got a first
-class ticket. Actually a coach take it Oh Definitely
not first class. I think I think that's maybe
a little too good for her That's pretty cargo
hold she's like she's she's going she she is
gonna be like Hanging on the door as it's taken
off and then like falls off the shoelace is caught
in it. And so she's Dang but is she taking a
plane to hell? Oh Jet Does she get on a submarine?
I mean, it's a legion Sorry, Oh plastics plastic
seats a legion. Have you guys ever written one
of those? No Flew from here to Billings a hundred
years ago not padded seats. They were plastic.
Oh I Was like you're not dumb the story she interrupts
something weird. What do I do with that? Two
and a half hour flight. Oh We get up to cruising
altitude captain comes on. He's like, sorry ladies
and gentlemen the back lavatory It's no longer
operational You're gonna have to use the front
lavatory Everyone starts making a line to the
front, not 10 minutes later. Ladies and gentlemen,
the front lavatory has gone out. We have no place
for you to use the restroom on this flight. There's
only two hours remaining. Do what you gotta do.
And it was the worst. It was so hot. It was so
uncomfortable. And everyone was so irritable
because everyone had to pee and poop and throw
up. I just said it so you could felt like you
could chime in. Are there any updates? No updates.
Comments were kind of lame. Sorry commenters.
I wasn't impressed. I want that one to be the
fake because I hate that so much. I think it
is a fake. I think it's not. I think it couldn't
be what it isn't. Couldn't be what it is when
it isn't. It's not. Well, what do you guys think?
Which one do you guys think is the fake? We had
a few, so I don't know if you remember them all.
Final answer. D, I mean, the last one. My story.
Yes. Okay, what about you? Your first story.
My first story, okay. Well, stay tuned for next
week to hear if they're right. Can't wait to
find out. Don't you just freaking hate it though
when your parents lie to you? Yes. No. Never
happened. No. They're perfect. If they did, I
don't know yet. I love it. My mom makes me spend
thousands in therapy. It makes me feel good.
You don't have to go to bed. We're going to go
home and eat ice cream. What a great episode.
Yes. Thank you. Thank you guys for joining us.
I'm going to try to wrap this up. No, I just
want to keep talking. We have all night. We have
all night. Is Posey okay? I don't know. I got
to check the cameras. The lies our parents tell
us. Go on our social media, let us know which
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Yes. Please, we love you. Thank you guys for
listening. This one you're going to want to see
on YouTube. If you're a podcaster, like watch
it again on YouTube, okay? That's so fun. It's
different. And you'll like it. And Whit caught
a gummy in her mouth and it was next level. And
then I replicated it and it was way sicker. Kate,
thank you guys for the support. We love you so
much. Internet Frenzy on three. One, two, three.
Internet Frenzy! Love you guys. Bye. Bye, Mom.
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