Welcome back to Internet Frenzy. Welcome back,
baby. What's good with it? It's been a good week.
I'm feeling good. Have I had any stalkers lately?
Or ever? That I know of? Have you been as observant
as you should be is the question. I'm gonna say
yes just to... Just to make yourself sleep at
night. Yes. Yes. Yeah that last episode was insane
So heartbreaking stock market crash, which one
do you guys think was the fake? Let's talk about
him. Well, we'll recap a roof. Shall we first
of all, we had my story Poor OP. Hope she's okay
very very Intense experience she had just being
a daycare worker and getting hit on by a dad
turned stalker turned like essay Real -life creep
stalker. Yeah scary scary scary fully ruined
her life So that really sucks and I mean based
on the last update she seems like she's in good
spirits So yeah, hopefully she's good and not
on an episode of 2020. Oh And then my stories
were you had the one about It was the today I
effed up about about seeing seeing his stalker
and then the stock I mean Seeing the girl that
he was stalking and then she like blocked him
or whatever went on private Yes, he thought it
was because of him and he was a creep Yeah creep
and it's funny because both my stories had to
do with like the library So like and then you
the show you it's the library. I'm like guys.
Maybe we just stay away from the library Mean
I've been doing it my whole life. It's worked
out pretty well That's hilarious So yeah, so
your second one was about the guy that the girl
got his number the librarian He was all sketched
out about it. Yeah Over dramatic, but so which
one do you guys think is the fake? Let's talk
about it. It's one of hers She is correct. It
is one of mine. Mine's real AF. Yours is so real.
I tried to BT couldn't do something like that
I mean it could lots and lots of help. Are you
ready? Which one of yours was fake? Okay, the
fake story was the guy that saw her at the library
and then was like slowly became obsessed with
her but he like was fighting it, fighting these
demons and then he sees her at a coffee shop
and boom he goes to look at her Instagram and
she put her Instagram on print it so that was
the fake That's pretty good the part the part
that jacked me up was where he was like, yeah
I want to see what her room looks like or what
it was. Oh, yeah I want to see what the inside
looks like Watching her open her door or something.
So creepy sketch ball Yeah, but now we're on
to bigger and better this week's episodes gnarly
but first to start I'm Whitney and I'm Joe and
we are internet frenzy. Thanks for coming back
for another week This week's episode is gonna
be lit Yeah, this is a fun one. So last week
was like it was a little was a little heavy little
little intense Yeah, this one is going to be
maybe a little bit lighter in nature. It's it's
called the dumbest hill to die on So cue cue
the crazy dumb arguments that take place in your
own life or on the internet We're gonna dive
into a couple of them. Yeah Who should go first
you or I? Oh, I think you cuz the cameras on
you So the first story might be my favorite one.
Oh, I'm excited. This one comes from AITAH. Love,
love, love. AITAH for telling my mom her tractor
parking rules make no sense and refusing to move
it. Oh my gosh. Okay, I'm ready. This is so great.
This dude's a winner. Alright, so I -37M worked
for my mom, 64F, on her property. She's got a
big spread, like 100 acres, mostly hay and some
cattle. I've been working for her full time since
my dad passed seven years ago, and before that
I helped out since I was a kid. So anyway, she's
got this thing about where the tractor gets parked.
We got a main barn, equipment shed, a gravel
patch out back. If I park it in the shed, she
says it's blocking stuff in. If I park it in
the barn, she says it tracks in too much mud
and dust. Park it out back, she says it's going
to get rained on and she don't want it to rust.
So where the hell is it supposed to go? Few days
ago I was bailing and I pulled the tractor up
next to the barn to check something on the baler
before quitting for the day. Was going to be
a quick job but ended up taking longer, so I
left the tractor there overnight. Next morning
she comes out raising hell about how it looks
trashy sitting by the barn, how I ain't got no
respect for the place. I told her straight up,
where do you actually want it then? Because every
spot I put it in you got a problem with it. She
kept saying I should have put it where it goes,
but she won't say where that is We got in it
pretty bad her saying I got no pride in my work
me saying she's impossible to please I told her
if she wants to move so bad. She can move it
herself. She doesn't even drive the thing She
told me if I don't like the way she runs things
I can go find work somewhere else, but we we
both know she's not hiring anyone else for this
pay My sister says I should have moved it to
keep the peace, but I'm sick of getting yelled
at no matter what I do. A -I -T -A -H. Well,
no, because she's not giving clear communication
on where she wants it. I mean, she's just, you
could tell she's just one of those ladies that
like, she just, she just is going to gripe at
you, bro. Just, just live with it. She's going
to gripe. And also it's like, okay, I'm not going
to lie. I get this way sometimes. Like if I'm
overstimulated or like, I have like a raspy or
voice, I feel like it takes energy for me to
talk, which is hilarious. We have a podcast,
but. when you ask me something and if I'm just
like not in the mood to talk or like help you
think through things I'm like dude just figure
it out like go like like I have something set
in mind like if you're like where do you want
me to put this it's like dude just put it away
where it belongs I don't need to tell you where
it belongs you should know so I don't know maybe
like that's like a woman thing that's there must
be And I'm trying to give this grandma a little
bit of a benefit of the doubt, but she does need
to have clear communication. If she wants it
a certain way, she's got to communicate that
with him. Yeah. And it's just one of those things
where she's just going to complain about it no
matter what. He could have worked so hard the
whole day and like, it's not just going to be
about the tractor. There's going to be something
because that's just how it works. And I'm glad
you said like overstimulated or whatever. There's
things that make a person Act that way. Yeah,
that's definitely the case for this one It doesn't
she obviously doesn't matter park the tractor
wherever it's supposed to go. Yeah, like who
cares But I love it like that's that's what made
this guy who obviously doesn't spend you wouldn't
think this guy spends very much time on reddit
Like he came to read it to find out Who's who's
right in this situation? Tell my mom her tractor
parking rules make no sense and refusing to move
it Like and he's what three something 37. Oh
my god 37 Wow still working for the mama on her
property. She got a big spread. Hallelujah Honestly,
amen to that. There's a there's dumb things to
argue about and then there's you parked a tractor
in the wrong spot I mean, would we think that's
actually dumb though? Like if that's like your
livelihood, that's your farm, that's like, there's
got to be structure and order to that or else
it's just going to be pure chaos. Well, and if
it was like, if it was something regimented,
something that actually mattered, don't you think
she'd be like, hey, let's clear a spot here for
the tractor? She's obviously not that concerned
about it. And I don't live that life, so I don't
freaking know. Yeah, yeah, yeah, true thing.
Well, that's funny. Nice job. I mean good story.
It's just it just you know, are you gonna you're
gonna argue about that? Yes things. That's the
thing is like even talking about the story. It's
like yeah, that that is what it is. Okay, like
I don't know you're both wrong and you're both
right and who cares where the tractors parked
and Just move it. It might just be my nature.
But I I definitely think I'm gonna keep the peace
guy. I'm not I would hate that if she was like
Just move it. I already told you to move it.
Yeah, like I'm the type of person that's like,
okay, I'm just gonna move it and I'm gonna like
move it around the corner just to like do what
you wanted me to do. But like, still don't understand
why doesn't make sense. But I'm not gonna battle
you on it. I'm not gonna like put my foot down
and say, no tractor staying where I parked it.
So that's all I got for that one. What do you
think? Should you go now? I think I should go.
Okay, so for my story, this first one comes from
AITAH, for keeping no contact with my sister
after her husband, my ex, died. When I22F was
14, I started dating Jace, who was 15 at the
time. We were together for three years. We'd
known each other for years and I always had the
biggest crush on him. My sister Lauren23F now
knew. She was one of my best friends and I thought
we told each other everything. But Lauren and
Jace were cheating behind my back and Lauren
got pregnant. I didn't know at first and was
the first person she told and I supported her.
It was only after she told our parents and they
pushed her to say who the father was that she
confessed. I broke up with Jace, who didn't care.
He was done with me and wanted Lauren anyway.
While Lauren kept begging me to forgive her for
hurting me, and begging me to still be close
to her, I refused, and when Lauren moved in with
Jason's family, it was a relief. My parents attempted
to force forgiveness on me. They took me to a
church therapist, and they had a number of talks
with me about Lauren being my sister for life
and Jason being just a high school boyfriend.
All it did was push me away from my parents,
and when I turned 18, I moved in with my grandma.
I had very low contact with my parents and no
contact with Lauren and Jason. They got married
just before the baby was born, and I ignored
the invite. they had their first and then second
kid. Lauren made several attempts to speak to
me and apologize more, but I ignored them and
I told extended family that I wasn't going to
change my mind. Some were quick to say I was
a silly child and I'd regret throwing my sister
away. Others said I was so young and we both
were and hurting people's feelings when you're
young happens. And why couldn't I hate Jason
and forgive Lauren? My grandma always said nobody
was making a better by pushing. Grandma stood
by me through all of this. When Lauren asked
her to help pull off a surprise reunion so she
could speak to me, Grandma turned it down. She
told Lauren that she wasn't coming to the house
as long as I lived here, and she told her she
would not help her trick me or anything crazy
like that. Wow, goes grandma. Some of the wider
family, my parents included, are mad at grandma,
but she said if Lauren can have her mistakes
forgiven by everyone else and be allowed to feel
and do what she wants, then I should be giving
the same race snaps for grandma. But it was argued
always that the difference was I was ending a
relationship for good while Lauren made a single
mistake. Last month, Jace died suddenly. I don't
know what happened exactly, but grandma got the
call about it. The more calls came and asked
me to finally move on and speak to Lauren and
support her as a sister should. I didn't. I didn't
go to the funeral and neither did grandma, actually.
She even said if she had wanted to, she knew
the time would be spent trying to brow beat her
into forcing me to reconcile with Lauren. And
a funeral is not the place for that. So she was
removing herself from that. Grandma's been getting
shit from so many people in the family who think
I should have let go of the no contact now that
Jace is dead. Since I never answer to any family
members who think I need to forgive Lauren, they
go through her. I hate that she deals with it,
but she doesn't block them because she just once,
because she wants to see just how far they'll
go with her. She said they're helping her trim
her will, which I find funny and I love grandma's
humor. But I feel awful that she's getting the
abuse that the rest of the family can't give
me. It made me want to ask if I'm the asshole
for keeping the no contact going with Lauren
and if people outside of my family think I'm
a monster. I have a supportive friends and also
some family. It's just I know we were really
young when this all happened. I know once Jace
cheated with Lauren, he would have done it with
anyone. So I know it's not like we'd have lasted
like I imagined. But Lauren doing it to me just
makes it worse because I loved and trusted and
was there for her. So she betrayed me. and even
leaned on me when they're cheating led to a pregnancy.
Ever since I found out, I wish she wasn't my
sister. I could never even see a civil relationship
for us in the future, but I'm aware that it might
make people think I'm the asshole and not her,
especially now that Jason's died. So am I the
asshole? This is a, everyone sucks here but grandma,
in my opinion. Because I like, look, getting
cheated on, that sucks. Right like that's terrible,
but what a crazy freaking story that this guy
dies and she doesn't even say how which Whatever
maybe she didn't know maybe she didn't read the
obituary Yeah, but this dude dies your sister
is now a single mother with two children Yeah,
and you're you're like still going die -hard
no contact because she stole your boyfriend when
you were 15. It's a big violation of trust. I
don't fault her for being upset. It just feels
different because he's dead. It feels different
because he passed away and now she's in need
of a ton more support. No contact seems like
asshole behavior to me. It seems like at some
point you have to be able to let things go. Yeah,
I agree to an extent one first thing you said
was everyone sucks in this story except for grandma
However, I feel like that's contradicting due
to like grandma's backing up the OP but she's
not Grandma's not saying hey, this is warranted
behavior. This is the right thing to do She's
saying Lauren has gotten all the support and
respect in the world Yeah, and like in her situation
like I'm all I'm trying to do is allow for this
other girl to have the same space and freedom
to process what she's going through. I don't
think she's saying like, you can be mad as long
as you want. I think she's definitely taking
a side. I mean, her granddaughter's husband died
and she didn't go to the funeral. That's pretty
wild. I mean, yeah, that's true. That is pretty,
pretty wild. I don't love that at all. But grandma
is an OG. I do love that. She was like look you
had feelings and everyone's respecting those
so let's respect hers like I I do love that grandma's
like Someone's got to be on this girl's side.
Well, yeah and like Maybe it's not even about
sides. Well, they wanted to ambush her too. And
grandma was like absolutely not You're not coming
to my home as long as she lives here, right?
So that was kind of cool, but also like poor
Poor uh, so she stole the boyfriend, but she
lost her grandma So that kind of sucks and then
her boyfriend became her husband and then he
died and then now she's a widow And she doesn't
have her little sister. That's so sad, but I
mean, yeah Okay, but I gotta take it back to
the fact that like she was dating him and then
three years sister three years Three years her
sister is going behind her back and sleeping
with him and she gets pregnant. That's oh That
would be so Could you even actually imagine that
happening to you? I would I would definitely
cut ties I'm not like faulting OP at all for
doing that. I would say you're you're gone. You're
gone forever You're gone forever seeing that's
I have a hard time with that just as a dude because
I'm like Blood is blood family is family everybody
like people make Mistakes and they will backstab
you and my gosh Going no contact with family
over somebody that came into your life and that
may or may not have worked out She even said
like if it wasn't Lauren, he was gonna cheat
with somebody else Well, it's her just trying
to make herself feel better, but isn't actually
no but If she does he's the type of guy that
was willing to cheat. So is he gonna do it again?
He probably would have done it with someone else
You think that Lauren and this guy were just
storybook like they were just meant to be together.
No, I don't know Do you know how long they were
married before he died? We know it wasn't very
long because they had two kids, but it was They're
22 and 23 now Op is 22. She's 23. Okay. Yeah
So it was not very long. Yeah, it's like they're
And regardless your high school boyfriend your
high school crush Like and then he dies like
you have to have feelings of him dying You have
to be sad about that. Even if you don't want
to admit it I'm I'm just a big advocate of get
to frick over it because Especially when it comes
to family you don't have to be super close with
them But making everything this big dramatic
like not gonna talk to them ever again Yeah,
like I don't know. I have a hard time, too, with
how much grief Lauren would be in. No sister,
dead husband, two little tiny kids. That's so
hard. And yeah, that's why everyone sucks there.
I don't know if there's a way for her to regain
her sister's trust or to genuinely apologize,
but... It's sad, too, because, like, Opie, could
you imagine the amount of guilt she felt when
she found out Jace was dead? Just being like,
oh... Dang. OP? Yeah. What would she feel guilty
about? I mean, at least that would be my brain.
Like I cut someone out and then something really
tragic happens to them. It's like there's not
much I can... That's a lot though. That's heavy.
That's her boyfriend of three years that like
she had this debacle that she lost her sister
because of this guy. Yeah. So like, I think she
would have been way more sad than she leads on.
She acts like, oh yeah, he died the day that
I found out. Yeah, I don't think so. I think
that it's still very hard for her and it doesn't
sound like she's dating. She lives with grandma.
That's what I mean. It's just her and grandma.
That's a slippery slope. We all know one of those
that lives with grandma until they're grandma,
no kids, no wife, no nothing. Yep. We all got
one of those. Well, that's my story. Love it.
And I'm excited to hear yours. Am I the a -hole
for not letting a neighbor borrow my tile saw
because he assumed it belonged to my boyfriend?
My boyfriend and I have a bit of an untraditional
relationship. I, female, am the builder slash
fixture, etc. And my boyfriend isn't really good
at that type of stuff. My garage is filled with
tools that I've collected over the years and
a lot of expensive tools at that. A young couple
just bought the house across the street from
us. The houses aren't too far apart and I guess
our new neighbors have seen into our garage.
when my boyfriend and I are hanging out in there.
The husband came over to introduce himself and
he briefly nodded at me, yet he shook my boyfriend's
hand and was friendly to him while introducing
himself. Made me feel very dismissed TBH, like
I'm not his equal. He mentioned that they're
having to retile the kitchen and do a bunch of
repairs as the house was a bit of a fixer -upper.
The elderly lady that lived there for 55 years
before dying recently. The elderly lady had lived
there for 55 years before dying recently. He
said that they were a bit broke after buying
the house and he is having to do the repairs
himself and learn how to do a lot of this stuff.
My boyfriend kind of just smiled and nodded his
head because he hates DIY. He finally asked my
boyfriend if he could borrow his tile saw and
maybe a few other tools and maybe my boyfriend
could give him some YouTube suggestions. He offered
to give it back like he borrowed it and said
he'd buy him a case of beer for the trouble.
This was the point where my boyfriend mentioned
that all the tools in the garage belonged to
me. and that he has no clue how to build or fix
anything. The guy was surprised, but he gave
me half a smile and said, Oh, I guess I should
have asked you then. What do you say? Offer still
stands. I was kind of annoyed and I told him
that maybe another man in the neighborhood can
help him and I'm just a woman. So what do I know?
I was admittedly very snarky. My boyfriend kind
of thinks I was needlessly an asshole to our
new neighbor. I think the guy should have apologized
for his incorrect assumption before asking me
to borrow my tools. I hate when men assume my
boyfriend does man stuff and I'm supposed to
do woman stuff. It happens occasionally. Which,
by the way, who asks someone they don't even
know to borrow a tile saw? Tilesaws aren't cheap,
especially not the one I own. Am I the asshole?
My boyfriend and I aren't really stressing over
it, but I just wanted an unbiased outside opinion.
Um, yeah, I think she is. Talk about it. No,
I just it's like you you can't just think he's
gonna know That's like someone looking at me
and be like, oh you played college volleyball
Like no one is gonna look at me and think that
because i'm 5 '4 That's not gonna happen. Just
like a soft flex for a second, you know Wow I
played volleyball guys. She played college volleyball
Started as a freshman That was a big deal. But
that's the thing. You're not gonna look at me
and think that you know i'm saying so I'm embarrassed
I literally just said any of that. But it's here
to say. Well, obviously you get the final say
on what makes the cut. No, that's making the
cut, it has to, but please everyone just love
me for me, okay? Yeah. Back to what I'm saying
though. I don't know, what do you think? Do you
think he's that asshole? So again, I think it's
a little bit of an everybody sucks here, and
only because I just justify the behavior of the
neighbor to start. Because I know for a fact...
If I met somebody and they had a garage full
of tools, first of all, I would not be asking
to borrow somebody's tools because that makes
me uncomfortable unless it's somebody I know
really well. Really? Is that like just a no?
Well, yeah. They point out a little bit, a tile
saw is expensive. It's not something that you
would just ask a neighbor to borrow the first
time. There's good comments that I'll read in
a second, but what I wanted to point out is what
you said. Certainly not expect a garage full
of tools to be to belong to the girl I just you
just wouldn't expect it you were trained whether
we want to believe it or not We are trained to
believe certain things think certain things and
like if you walked into somebody's garage and
there's a couple standing there Yeah, and it's
full of tools. You're not gonna be like I'm not
gonna I'm not gonna assume anything because all
these tools could be the wife's tools like you
just in reality We have these this conditioning
that takes place and it's not important there
there are There are times when it's absolutely
important, right? Whether or not the girl is
the like the fixer of the house. That's just
Sorry, this is not major importance It's just
like if a guy was to be offended if he was a
stay -at -home dad and he cooked all the dinners
and somebody made some type of like assumption
that the wife does the cooking why is the guy
going to be offended by that exactly like it's
there's there is a reason to take offense to
certain things and then there's things that are
like not that big of a deal yeah i agree i'm
glad we're agreeing me too it's refreshing what's
the comments so there's a couple but the first
one says i wouldn't lend a total stranger my
expensive tools no matter the first impression
which was bad Not the asshole. I don't lend out
my, or in quotations, I don't lend out my tools.
So instead of it being like, hey, you should
go ask a man in the neighborhood. You could just
say, hey, I'm sorry, but it's a no. Like I just,
I just don't lend my tools cause they're expensive.
Which is appropriate. They are expensive. It's
like, you don't have to let somebody borrow a
freaking tile saw. It's pretty wild. He asked
for it. Yeah. It's like, Hey, I saw that you
had this garage full of tools. I need to do a
bunch of stuff. This is this is my favorite so
it's responding to another one So I'll read both
first one not the asshole pretty ballsy of this
sexist AH to wander over for the first time to
Introduce and then proceed to ask to borrow anything
in the next breath I too am the handy one and
it's super annoying when dudes don't think it's
possible Don't lend your tools especially to
someone you don't know especially to someone
who doesn't know how to use them While your comment
was snarky. He started it with his dismissive
ways And I that's the other thing is like if
I if I was in this situation and I found out
that the The girl was like kind of the handyman
fix -it -type my response would be different
than the neighbors I would be like, oh for real
like that's actually that's super cool. I don't
hear of that very often You actually get in you
do all this stuff. That's like why how? Like
why do you do that? Yeah, this comment made me
laugh. I wasn't even thinking about that part
The speed of the request. Hi, I'm your neighbor.
I can has tools. And I think that's one of the
red flags. How minimally friendly slash polite
slash chatty do I have to be to get what I want
from you? Yeah. That's the best point of the
whole thing is like the neighbors not very neighborly
comes over and is like, hi. Yeah. Hello. Hello.
Nice to meet you neighbors. Can I borrow your
items? That's hilarious. Oh man, that's crazy.
A lot of the comments are talking about how you
never get your tools back in the same condition
as when you lent them to somebody. So true. Like,
no matter what, the only thing you can lend to
somebody is your tool bag. Yeah, it's just all
freaking screwdrivers. Yeah, the hodgepodge of
stuff. And that's the level of handyman that
I am. Yeah. Around these parts, everybody around
here, nobody's really a... like a Mr. Fix -It
type. I'm as handy as it gets, and I'm like not
that handy. Yeah, that's very true. Everyone
calls you to like help with stuff. Yeah, it's
like, hey, we need to disassemble a bed frame
or something. And I'm like, well, yeah, I have
a screwdriver and like a whatever, you know?
Oh, that's so funny. Well, good story, Joe. Mine's
about to be better. Oh, well, I bet so. Okay,
here we go. So this one is from AITA for locking
my cousin out of my house. My cousin James, 25M,
came to visit me 25F and my husband 26M last
weekend for his birthday. We celebrated James'
birthday Friday night and on Saturday he said
he was going to have to go to dinner with a few
of his friends in town. He specifically told
me his plans were to go have dinner with them
and come back to my place afterwards to stay
in and watch movies. He left my house at around
4pm. He texted me around 7, asking when would
be a respectful time to come back as he was spending
the night at my house. I told him that I know
it's his birthday and he is with his friends
so he does not... get to see often, and he is
an adult, so I am not going to give him a curfew.
I just told him to call me and let me know when
he is on his way back so we can avoid him ringing
the doorbell and waking up my son. At 2 a .m.,
when bars typically close, I texted him when
he was going to be back. I didn't get a reply.
By three, I figured he was sleeping at his friend's
place, so I went to bed. Before going to sleep,
I texted him to let him know that in case he
was still coming back where the spare key was,
I then went to bed. At around 4 a .m., I woke
up to someone ringing our doorbell. This woke
up my son, and he was scared and crying. My husband
and I woke up irritated. I looked at our camera
and James was outside ringing our doorbell. When
I opened the door, James was fuming. He was mad
that I locked him out of the house and I said
I would be there to let him in. I asked him why
he ignored my texts as I told him where the spare
keys were and he said his phone died and I should
have just given him the keys before he left.
James was getting very loud so I told him that
he either had to calm down or go to sleep or
he had to find somewhere else to sleep. James
went to our guest room, grabbed his things and
slept in his car. Earlier this week, I was talking
to my sister about the situation and she called
me the asshole because because I told James that
I would wait up for him, and that I made a drunk
person sleep in the car. I feel justified, but
James is also still not talking to me, so read
it. Am I the asshole? That's so annoying. That's
so annoying. What is annoying? So she should
have given him a key, yes, but you know that
she was hoping he was gonna come back at a decent
hour and they could still celebrate some birthday
stuff. So the fact that she waited up. Until
2 a .m. And even texted him at 2 and said hey
like you're I know the bars are closing I'm you're
probably coming home soon, but I'm gonna go to
bed now Haven't heard from you. Yeah, so here's
where the spare key is She even put a spare key
and like made sure that he could have gotten
in Don't ring the doorbell and then drunk dumb
dumb just shows up at 4 4 a .m He left at 7 and
very grateful like you do you're staying at their
place for free? Obviously the fact that he was
drunk is one thing and he's obviously very stubborn
because he grabbed his stuff after she let him
in He's already caused the whole Fiasco the kid
waking up then still is gonna go out to his car
and sleep in the car. Yeah dog Dog your they
let you stay in their house They were gonna host
you the only place where I can I can understand
it being like a little bit frustrating Is that
she did say like be out as long as you want?
Yeah, do whatever you want. Yeah, she had to
lock the door, but it's common sense If I just
would never be that inconsiderate, I would not
expect somebody to leave their door unlocked
until 4 a .m That's so stupid mom like she's
not used to staying up till 4 a .m. Partying
no No, probably not. I don't know but and it's
it's hard because yeah He's having a he's having
a good time with his friends Like he's not necessarily
a bad guy for going out and having a night and
maybe losing track of time But also your phone
died. I Think she is not the asshole. I think
he's more of the asshole. He's definitely more
of the asshole. Yeah hundred percent and She's
like, yeah, she's not an asshole. She's just
a little bit of a misstep. She should have either
clarified ahead of time. That just is a crappy
situation. Well, this crappy situation has an
edit. The reason I didn't give him the spare
key right away was honestly I didn't think about
it. The original plan was for him to go out to
eat with his friends and then come back to watch
some movies with us and have a night in. When
he texted me to see when a respectful time would
be to come back, I figured respectful would have
meant like midnight, but I guess it didn't communicate
that with him either. Yeah, so she's obviously
her feelings were a little bit hurt that he stayed
out with his friends instead of came to hang
out with them. Yeah, for sure. That part is a
little like I maybe she exaggerated the times
or something I don't know I just I think you
don't stay out that late when you're staying
with staying over at somebody's house And if
you do it's because you have the spare keys because
you're not gonna be a pain in the butt You'd
have to know that going to someone's house at
4 a .m. The door is not gonna be unlocked Yeah,
I'm glad we're on the same page with that one,
too. You think you think James is the asshole?
Yeah, oh yeah, 100%. What would you do if you
were James? If I was James, what I would have
done differently or what I would do now? No,
what would you do differently if you were James?
You go into town and you're out with your friends.
You get absolutely tossed. I'm not saying what
he did was like asshole behavior. I'm saying
when he came back and being all pissed off at
her, it's like, bro, I just think he should have
been a lot kinder about it. He's being a brat.
He's definitely being a brat. So if you were
in his situation, what would you do? I would
have come home and she obviously answered the
door So like yeah you if you have to ring the
doorbell you have to ring the doorbell, but you
say I'm so sorry Like I feel so bad. I woke him
up. I didn't know what to do. My phone died You
just explained the situation. She'd be like,
yeah that sucks that freaking happened. But like
yeah come inside I'm glad you're inside go to
bed. That's what I've done So you you would have
just rang the doorbell too What else are you
going to do? You got to get in. Blow her phone
up. It didn't say anything about calling. His
phone is dead, bro. Oh, yeah. You. I see. I could
say how do you live and be an adult and not charge
your phone? Yeah. How do you not keep your phone
charged? It can't die. That's bad. He's talking
to our dog right now for the podcast listeners.
Yeah. Well, that's my story. Charge your freaking
phone and your turn. Just be a responsible adult.
I've already read two stories. So we're done.
Oh, it's over. It's over. Oh my gosh. Okay. Well,
I'm excited to hear who you guys thinks the fake
I think this one's gonna be harder sniff out.
I think it's gonna be tough. Yeah, this I will
be shocked if anyone gets it So that's that's
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Oh My gosh, that's terrible internet frenzy on
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noticed how that's so good It was so good. I
was so glad we cut it off internet frenzy on
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