WEBVTT 00:00:00.619 --> 00:00:03.600 Welcome back to Internet Frenzy. Welcome back, 00:00:03.819 --> 00:00:06.160 baby. What's good with it? It's been a good week. 00:00:06.339 --> 00:00:09.080 I'm feeling good. Have I had any stalkers lately? 00:00:09.880 --> 00:00:13.439 Or ever? That I know of? Have you been as observant 00:00:13.439 --> 00:00:17.079 as you should be is the question. I'm gonna say 00:00:17.079 --> 00:00:20.079 yes just to... Just to make yourself sleep at 00:00:20.079 --> 00:00:23.579 night. Yes. Yes. Yeah that last episode was insane 00:00:23.579 --> 00:00:27.140 So heartbreaking stock market crash, which one 00:00:27.140 --> 00:00:30.320 do you guys think was the fake? Let's talk about 00:00:30.320 --> 00:00:33.439 him. Well, we'll recap a roof. Shall we first 00:00:33.439 --> 00:00:37.780 of all, we had my story Poor OP. Hope she's okay 00:00:37.780 --> 00:00:43.020 very very Intense experience she had just being 00:00:43.020 --> 00:00:45.179 a daycare worker and getting hit on by a dad 00:00:45.179 --> 00:00:50.200 turned stalker turned like essay Real -life creep 00:00:50.200 --> 00:00:53.140 stalker. Yeah scary scary scary fully ruined 00:00:53.140 --> 00:00:56.299 her life So that really sucks and I mean based 00:00:56.299 --> 00:00:58.920 on the last update she seems like she's in good 00:00:58.920 --> 00:01:02.500 spirits So yeah, hopefully she's good and not 00:01:02.500 --> 00:01:07.599 on an episode of 2020. Oh And then my stories 00:01:07.599 --> 00:01:11.400 were you had the one about It was the today I 00:01:11.400 --> 00:01:16.980 effed up about about seeing seeing his stalker 00:01:16.980 --> 00:01:19.299 and then the stock I mean Seeing the girl that 00:01:19.299 --> 00:01:22.420 he was stalking and then she like blocked him 00:01:22.420 --> 00:01:24.700 or whatever went on private Yes, he thought it 00:01:24.700 --> 00:01:27.719 was because of him and he was a creep Yeah creep 00:01:27.719 --> 00:01:30.420 and it's funny because both my stories had to 00:01:30.420 --> 00:01:33.340 do with like the library So like and then you 00:01:33.340 --> 00:01:36.359 the show you it's the library. I'm like guys. 00:01:36.359 --> 00:01:38.780 Maybe we just stay away from the library Mean 00:01:38.780 --> 00:01:40.319 I've been doing it my whole life. It's worked 00:01:40.319 --> 00:01:56.739 out pretty well That's hilarious So yeah, so 00:01:56.739 --> 00:01:59.659 your second one was about the guy that the girl 00:01:59.659 --> 00:02:03.939 got his number the librarian He was all sketched 00:02:03.939 --> 00:02:09.139 out about it. Yeah Over dramatic, but so which 00:02:09.139 --> 00:02:11.639 one do you guys think is the fake? Let's talk 00:02:11.639 --> 00:02:15.180 about it. It's one of hers She is correct. It 00:02:15.180 --> 00:02:18.879 is one of mine. Mine's real AF. Yours is so real. 00:02:18.879 --> 00:02:21.500 I tried to BT couldn't do something like that 00:02:21.500 --> 00:02:23.699 I mean it could lots and lots of help. Are you 00:02:23.699 --> 00:02:26.199 ready? Which one of yours was fake? Okay, the 00:02:26.199 --> 00:02:31.449 fake story was the guy that saw her at the library 00:02:31.449 --> 00:02:33.729 and then was like slowly became obsessed with 00:02:33.729 --> 00:02:36.430 her but he like was fighting it, fighting these 00:02:36.430 --> 00:02:39.349 demons and then he sees her at a coffee shop 00:02:39.349 --> 00:02:43.750 and boom he goes to look at her Instagram and 00:02:43.750 --> 00:02:46.889 she put her Instagram on print it so that was 00:02:46.889 --> 00:02:49.879 the fake That's pretty good the part the part 00:02:49.879 --> 00:02:51.680 that jacked me up was where he was like, yeah 00:02:51.680 --> 00:02:53.680 I want to see what her room looks like or what 00:02:53.680 --> 00:02:55.539 it was. Oh, yeah I want to see what the inside 00:02:55.539 --> 00:02:58.539 looks like Watching her open her door or something. 00:02:58.539 --> 00:03:02.819 So creepy sketch ball Yeah, but now we're on 00:03:02.819 --> 00:03:05.879 to bigger and better this week's episodes gnarly 00:03:05.879 --> 00:03:08.819 but first to start I'm Whitney and I'm Joe and 00:03:08.819 --> 00:03:10.800 we are internet frenzy. Thanks for coming back 00:03:10.800 --> 00:03:13.419 for another week This week's episode is gonna 00:03:13.419 --> 00:03:17.189 be lit Yeah, this is a fun one. So last week 00:03:17.189 --> 00:03:19.689 was like it was a little was a little heavy little 00:03:19.689 --> 00:03:23.750 little intense Yeah, this one is going to be 00:03:23.750 --> 00:03:26.590 maybe a little bit lighter in nature. It's it's 00:03:26.590 --> 00:03:31.650 called the dumbest hill to die on So cue cue 00:03:31.650 --> 00:03:34.169 the crazy dumb arguments that take place in your 00:03:34.169 --> 00:03:36.289 own life or on the internet We're gonna dive 00:03:36.289 --> 00:03:39.469 into a couple of them. Yeah Who should go first 00:03:39.469 --> 00:03:42.629 you or I? Oh, I think you cuz the cameras on 00:03:42.629 --> 00:04:05.650 you So the first story might be my favorite one. 00:04:05.810 --> 00:04:09.750 Oh, I'm excited. This one comes from AITAH. Love, 00:04:09.870 --> 00:04:14.009 love, love. AITAH for telling my mom her tractor 00:04:14.009 --> 00:04:16.930 parking rules make no sense and refusing to move 00:04:16.930 --> 00:04:21.730 it. Oh my gosh. Okay, I'm ready. This is so great. 00:04:21.750 --> 00:04:24.829 This dude's a winner. Alright, so I -37M worked 00:04:24.829 --> 00:04:28.730 for my mom, 64F, on her property. She's got a 00:04:28.730 --> 00:04:31.230 big spread, like 100 acres, mostly hay and some 00:04:31.230 --> 00:04:33.529 cattle. I've been working for her full time since 00:04:33.529 --> 00:04:35.769 my dad passed seven years ago, and before that 00:04:35.769 --> 00:04:38.170 I helped out since I was a kid. So anyway, she's 00:04:38.170 --> 00:04:40.170 got this thing about where the tractor gets parked. 00:04:40.370 --> 00:04:43.189 We got a main barn, equipment shed, a gravel 00:04:43.189 --> 00:04:45.889 patch out back. If I park it in the shed, she 00:04:45.889 --> 00:04:48.149 says it's blocking stuff in. If I park it in 00:04:48.149 --> 00:04:50.250 the barn, she says it tracks in too much mud 00:04:50.250 --> 00:04:52.269 and dust. Park it out back, she says it's going 00:04:52.269 --> 00:04:54.209 to get rained on and she don't want it to rust. 00:04:54.870 --> 00:04:57.850 So where the hell is it supposed to go? Few days 00:04:57.850 --> 00:05:00.230 ago I was bailing and I pulled the tractor up 00:05:00.230 --> 00:05:02.129 next to the barn to check something on the baler 00:05:02.129 --> 00:05:04.449 before quitting for the day. Was going to be 00:05:04.449 --> 00:05:06.709 a quick job but ended up taking longer, so I 00:05:06.709 --> 00:05:08.910 left the tractor there overnight. Next morning 00:05:08.910 --> 00:05:11.009 she comes out raising hell about how it looks 00:05:11.009 --> 00:05:13.870 trashy sitting by the barn, how I ain't got no 00:05:13.870 --> 00:05:17.050 respect for the place. I told her straight up, 00:05:17.170 --> 00:05:19.569 where do you actually want it then? Because every 00:05:19.569 --> 00:05:22.110 spot I put it in you got a problem with it. She 00:05:22.110 --> 00:05:24.149 kept saying I should have put it where it goes, 00:05:24.149 --> 00:05:26.970 but she won't say where that is We got in it 00:05:26.970 --> 00:05:29.410 pretty bad her saying I got no pride in my work 00:05:29.410 --> 00:05:32.329 me saying she's impossible to please I told her 00:05:32.329 --> 00:05:34.389 if she wants to move so bad. She can move it 00:05:34.389 --> 00:05:36.889 herself. She doesn't even drive the thing She 00:05:36.889 --> 00:05:38.870 told me if I don't like the way she runs things 00:05:38.870 --> 00:05:41.290 I can go find work somewhere else, but we we 00:05:41.290 --> 00:05:43.810 both know she's not hiring anyone else for this 00:05:43.810 --> 00:05:47.350 pay My sister says I should have moved it to 00:05:47.350 --> 00:05:49.009 keep the peace, but I'm sick of getting yelled 00:05:49.009 --> 00:05:52.370 at no matter what I do. A -I -T -A -H. Well, 00:05:52.370 --> 00:05:54.550 no, because she's not giving clear communication 00:05:54.550 --> 00:05:56.509 on where she wants it. I mean, she's just, you 00:05:56.509 --> 00:05:58.529 could tell she's just one of those ladies that 00:05:58.529 --> 00:06:01.110 like, she just, she just is going to gripe at 00:06:01.110 --> 00:06:03.170 you, bro. Just, just live with it. She's going 00:06:03.170 --> 00:06:05.269 to gripe. And also it's like, okay, I'm not going 00:06:05.269 --> 00:06:07.089 to lie. I get this way sometimes. Like if I'm 00:06:07.089 --> 00:06:09.750 overstimulated or like, I have like a raspy or 00:06:09.750 --> 00:06:12.550 voice, I feel like it takes energy for me to 00:06:12.550 --> 00:06:14.250 talk, which is hilarious. We have a podcast, 00:06:14.410 --> 00:06:18.750 but. when you ask me something and if I'm just 00:06:18.750 --> 00:06:21.029 like not in the mood to talk or like help you 00:06:21.029 --> 00:06:23.910 think through things I'm like dude just figure 00:06:23.910 --> 00:06:26.930 it out like go like like I have something set 00:06:26.930 --> 00:06:27.949 in mind like if you're like where do you want 00:06:27.949 --> 00:06:30.769 me to put this it's like dude just put it away 00:06:30.769 --> 00:06:32.649 where it belongs I don't need to tell you where 00:06:32.649 --> 00:06:35.509 it belongs you should know so I don't know maybe 00:06:35.509 --> 00:06:38.050 like that's like a woman thing that's there must 00:06:38.050 --> 00:06:40.800 be And I'm trying to give this grandma a little 00:06:40.800 --> 00:06:42.680 bit of a benefit of the doubt, but she does need 00:06:42.680 --> 00:06:44.519 to have clear communication. If she wants it 00:06:44.519 --> 00:06:47.339 a certain way, she's got to communicate that 00:06:47.339 --> 00:06:50.680 with him. Yeah. And it's just one of those things 00:06:50.680 --> 00:06:52.839 where she's just going to complain about it no 00:06:52.839 --> 00:06:55.319 matter what. He could have worked so hard the 00:06:55.319 --> 00:06:57.480 whole day and like, it's not just going to be 00:06:57.480 --> 00:06:59.160 about the tractor. There's going to be something 00:06:59.160 --> 00:07:02.540 because that's just how it works. And I'm glad 00:07:02.540 --> 00:07:06.720 you said like overstimulated or whatever. There's 00:07:06.720 --> 00:07:10.139 things that make a person Act that way. Yeah, 00:07:10.379 --> 00:07:13.500 that's definitely the case for this one It doesn't 00:07:13.500 --> 00:07:15.620 she obviously doesn't matter park the tractor 00:07:15.620 --> 00:07:18.259 wherever it's supposed to go. Yeah, like who 00:07:18.259 --> 00:07:22.480 cares But I love it like that's that's what made 00:07:22.480 --> 00:07:25.459 this guy who obviously doesn't spend you wouldn't 00:07:25.459 --> 00:07:28.000 think this guy spends very much time on reddit 00:07:28.000 --> 00:07:32.600 Like he came to read it to find out Who's who's 00:07:32.600 --> 00:07:39.120 right in this situation? Tell my mom her tractor 00:07:39.120 --> 00:07:41.839 parking rules make no sense and refusing to move 00:07:41.839 --> 00:07:47.279 it Like and he's what three something 37. Oh 00:07:47.279 --> 00:07:51.920 my god 37 Wow still working for the mama on her 00:07:51.920 --> 00:07:55.459 property. She got a big spread. Hallelujah Honestly, 00:07:55.459 --> 00:07:58.699 amen to that. There's a there's dumb things to 00:07:58.699 --> 00:08:01.220 argue about and then there's you parked a tractor 00:08:01.220 --> 00:08:04.079 in the wrong spot I mean, would we think that's 00:08:04.079 --> 00:08:06.540 actually dumb though? Like if that's like your 00:08:06.540 --> 00:08:09.600 livelihood, that's your farm, that's like, there's 00:08:09.600 --> 00:08:11.740 got to be structure and order to that or else 00:08:11.740 --> 00:08:15.680 it's just going to be pure chaos. Well, and if 00:08:15.680 --> 00:08:17.839 it was like, if it was something regimented, 00:08:17.899 --> 00:08:19.420 something that actually mattered, don't you think 00:08:19.420 --> 00:08:23.699 she'd be like, hey, let's clear a spot here for 00:08:23.699 --> 00:08:25.939 the tractor? She's obviously not that concerned 00:08:25.939 --> 00:08:28.100 about it. And I don't live that life, so I don't 00:08:28.100 --> 00:08:30.899 freaking know. Yeah, yeah, yeah, true thing. 00:08:30.899 --> 00:08:35.000 Well, that's funny. Nice job. I mean good story. 00:08:35.080 --> 00:08:37.480 It's just it just you know, are you gonna you're 00:08:37.480 --> 00:08:40.100 gonna argue about that? Yes things. That's the 00:08:40.100 --> 00:08:42.340 thing is like even talking about the story. It's 00:08:42.340 --> 00:08:45.740 like yeah, that that is what it is. Okay, like 00:08:45.740 --> 00:08:48.559 I don't know you're both wrong and you're both 00:08:48.559 --> 00:08:50.399 right and who cares where the tractors parked 00:08:50.399 --> 00:08:53.620 and Just move it. It might just be my nature. 00:08:53.639 --> 00:08:57.440 But I I definitely think I'm gonna keep the peace 00:08:57.440 --> 00:08:59.580 guy. I'm not I would hate that if she was like 00:08:59.629 --> 00:09:01.750 Just move it. I already told you to move it. 00:09:01.750 --> 00:09:04.009 Yeah, like I'm the type of person that's like, 00:09:04.409 --> 00:09:06.549 okay, I'm just gonna move it and I'm gonna like 00:09:06.549 --> 00:09:09.590 move it around the corner just to like do what 00:09:09.590 --> 00:09:12.250 you wanted me to do. But like, still don't understand 00:09:12.250 --> 00:09:14.690 why doesn't make sense. But I'm not gonna battle 00:09:14.690 --> 00:09:16.870 you on it. I'm not gonna like put my foot down 00:09:16.870 --> 00:09:21.210 and say, no tractor staying where I parked it. 00:09:21.350 --> 00:09:24.169 So that's all I got for that one. What do you 00:09:24.169 --> 00:09:27.149 think? Should you go now? I think I should go. 00:09:27.360 --> 00:09:30.799 Okay, so for my story, this first one comes from 00:09:30.799 --> 00:09:34.980 AITAH, for keeping no contact with my sister 00:09:34.980 --> 00:09:38.370 after her husband, my ex, died. When I22F was 00:09:38.370 --> 00:09:40.909 14, I started dating Jace, who was 15 at the 00:09:40.909 --> 00:09:42.750 time. We were together for three years. We'd 00:09:42.750 --> 00:09:44.629 known each other for years and I always had the 00:09:44.629 --> 00:09:47.450 biggest crush on him. My sister Lauren23F now 00:09:47.450 --> 00:09:49.450 knew. She was one of my best friends and I thought 00:09:49.450 --> 00:09:51.490 we told each other everything. But Lauren and 00:09:51.490 --> 00:09:53.470 Jace were cheating behind my back and Lauren 00:09:53.470 --> 00:09:55.590 got pregnant. I didn't know at first and was 00:09:55.590 --> 00:09:57.590 the first person she told and I supported her. 00:09:57.649 --> 00:09:59.769 It was only after she told our parents and they 00:09:59.769 --> 00:10:01.789 pushed her to say who the father was that she 00:10:01.789 --> 00:10:04.330 confessed. I broke up with Jace, who didn't care. 00:10:04.409 --> 00:10:06.470 He was done with me and wanted Lauren anyway. 00:10:06.590 --> 00:10:08.509 While Lauren kept begging me to forgive her for 00:10:08.509 --> 00:10:10.610 hurting me, and begging me to still be close 00:10:10.610 --> 00:10:12.509 to her, I refused, and when Lauren moved in with 00:10:12.509 --> 00:10:15.169 Jason's family, it was a relief. My parents attempted 00:10:15.169 --> 00:10:17.730 to force forgiveness on me. They took me to a 00:10:17.730 --> 00:10:19.730 church therapist, and they had a number of talks 00:10:19.730 --> 00:10:21.809 with me about Lauren being my sister for life 00:10:21.809 --> 00:10:23.929 and Jason being just a high school boyfriend. 00:10:24.169 --> 00:10:26.009 All it did was push me away from my parents, 00:10:26.029 --> 00:10:28.070 and when I turned 18, I moved in with my grandma. 00:10:28.149 --> 00:10:30.549 I had very low contact with my parents and no 00:10:30.549 --> 00:10:32.429 contact with Lauren and Jason. They got married 00:10:32.429 --> 00:10:34.570 just before the baby was born, and I ignored 00:10:34.570 --> 00:10:37.740 the invite. they had their first and then second 00:10:37.740 --> 00:10:39.840 kid. Lauren made several attempts to speak to 00:10:39.840 --> 00:10:41.639 me and apologize more, but I ignored them and 00:10:41.639 --> 00:10:43.559 I told extended family that I wasn't going to 00:10:43.559 --> 00:10:45.399 change my mind. Some were quick to say I was 00:10:45.399 --> 00:10:47.500 a silly child and I'd regret throwing my sister 00:10:47.500 --> 00:10:49.899 away. Others said I was so young and we both 00:10:49.899 --> 00:10:51.799 were and hurting people's feelings when you're 00:10:51.799 --> 00:10:54.139 young happens. And why couldn't I hate Jason 00:10:54.139 --> 00:10:56.580 and forgive Lauren? My grandma always said nobody 00:10:56.580 --> 00:10:58.740 was making a better by pushing. Grandma stood 00:10:58.740 --> 00:11:00.700 by me through all of this. When Lauren asked 00:11:00.700 --> 00:11:03.080 her to help pull off a surprise reunion so she 00:11:03.080 --> 00:11:06.049 could speak to me, Grandma turned it down. She 00:11:06.049 --> 00:11:07.809 told Lauren that she wasn't coming to the house 00:11:07.809 --> 00:11:09.730 as long as I lived here, and she told her she 00:11:09.730 --> 00:11:11.789 would not help her trick me or anything crazy 00:11:11.789 --> 00:11:15.049 like that. Wow, goes grandma. Some of the wider 00:11:15.049 --> 00:11:17.370 family, my parents included, are mad at grandma, 00:11:17.409 --> 00:11:19.210 but she said if Lauren can have her mistakes 00:11:19.210 --> 00:11:21.250 forgiven by everyone else and be allowed to feel 00:11:21.250 --> 00:11:23.289 and do what she wants, then I should be giving 00:11:23.289 --> 00:11:28.490 the same race snaps for grandma. But it was argued 00:11:28.490 --> 00:11:30.330 always that the difference was I was ending a 00:11:30.330 --> 00:11:32.870 relationship for good while Lauren made a single 00:11:32.870 --> 00:11:36.600 mistake. Last month, Jace died suddenly. I don't 00:11:36.600 --> 00:11:38.580 know what happened exactly, but grandma got the 00:11:38.580 --> 00:11:40.639 call about it. The more calls came and asked 00:11:40.639 --> 00:11:42.559 me to finally move on and speak to Lauren and 00:11:42.559 --> 00:11:45.629 support her as a sister should. I didn't. I didn't 00:11:45.629 --> 00:11:47.809 go to the funeral and neither did grandma, actually. 00:11:47.909 --> 00:11:50.570 She even said if she had wanted to, she knew 00:11:50.570 --> 00:11:53.649 the time would be spent trying to brow beat her 00:11:53.649 --> 00:11:56.169 into forcing me to reconcile with Lauren. And 00:11:56.169 --> 00:11:58.190 a funeral is not the place for that. So she was 00:11:58.190 --> 00:12:00.529 removing herself from that. Grandma's been getting 00:12:00.529 --> 00:12:02.470 shit from so many people in the family who think 00:12:02.470 --> 00:12:04.710 I should have let go of the no contact now that 00:12:04.710 --> 00:12:07.429 Jace is dead. Since I never answer to any family 00:12:07.429 --> 00:12:09.610 members who think I need to forgive Lauren, they 00:12:09.610 --> 00:12:11.730 go through her. I hate that she deals with it, 00:12:11.730 --> 00:12:13.879 but she doesn't block them because she just once, 00:12:14.019 --> 00:12:15.960 because she wants to see just how far they'll 00:12:15.960 --> 00:12:18.139 go with her. She said they're helping her trim 00:12:18.139 --> 00:12:20.799 her will, which I find funny and I love grandma's 00:12:20.799 --> 00:12:23.080 humor. But I feel awful that she's getting the 00:12:23.080 --> 00:12:24.659 abuse that the rest of the family can't give 00:12:24.659 --> 00:12:27.019 me. It made me want to ask if I'm the asshole 00:12:27.019 --> 00:12:29.500 for keeping the no contact going with Lauren 00:12:29.500 --> 00:12:31.700 and if people outside of my family think I'm 00:12:31.700 --> 00:12:34.019 a monster. I have a supportive friends and also 00:12:34.019 --> 00:12:36.340 some family. It's just I know we were really 00:12:36.340 --> 00:12:39.000 young when this all happened. I know once Jace 00:12:39.000 --> 00:12:40.980 cheated with Lauren, he would have done it with 00:12:40.980 --> 00:12:43.480 anyone. So I know it's not like we'd have lasted 00:12:43.480 --> 00:12:46.039 like I imagined. But Lauren doing it to me just 00:12:46.039 --> 00:12:48.259 makes it worse because I loved and trusted and 00:12:48.259 --> 00:12:50.980 was there for her. So she betrayed me. and even 00:12:50.980 --> 00:12:53.639 leaned on me when they're cheating led to a pregnancy. 00:12:53.919 --> 00:12:55.899 Ever since I found out, I wish she wasn't my 00:12:55.899 --> 00:12:59.139 sister. I could never even see a civil relationship 00:12:59.139 --> 00:13:01.539 for us in the future, but I'm aware that it might 00:13:01.539 --> 00:13:04.299 make people think I'm the asshole and not her, 00:13:04.399 --> 00:13:07.559 especially now that Jason's died. So am I the 00:13:07.559 --> 00:13:11.039 asshole? This is a, everyone sucks here but grandma, 00:13:11.120 --> 00:13:17.340 in my opinion. Because I like, look, getting 00:13:17.340 --> 00:13:20.559 cheated on, that sucks. Right like that's terrible, 00:13:20.559 --> 00:13:24.700 but what a crazy freaking story that this guy 00:13:24.700 --> 00:13:29.679 dies and she doesn't even say how which Whatever 00:13:29.679 --> 00:13:31.639 maybe she didn't know maybe she didn't read the 00:13:31.639 --> 00:13:35.220 obituary Yeah, but this dude dies your sister 00:13:35.220 --> 00:13:38.120 is now a single mother with two children Yeah, 00:13:38.120 --> 00:13:41.159 and you're you're like still going die -hard 00:13:41.159 --> 00:13:44.419 no contact because she stole your boyfriend when 00:13:44.419 --> 00:13:48.940 you were 15. It's a big violation of trust. I 00:13:48.940 --> 00:13:53.059 don't fault her for being upset. It just feels 00:13:53.059 --> 00:13:55.220 different because he's dead. It feels different 00:13:55.220 --> 00:13:57.899 because he passed away and now she's in need 00:13:57.899 --> 00:14:02.340 of a ton more support. No contact seems like 00:14:02.340 --> 00:14:04.759 asshole behavior to me. It seems like at some 00:14:04.759 --> 00:14:10.250 point you have to be able to let things go. Yeah, 00:14:11.070 --> 00:14:13.190 I agree to an extent one first thing you said 00:14:13.190 --> 00:14:15.570 was everyone sucks in this story except for grandma 00:14:15.570 --> 00:14:18.429 However, I feel like that's contradicting due 00:14:18.429 --> 00:14:21.710 to like grandma's backing up the OP but she's 00:14:21.710 --> 00:14:24.470 not Grandma's not saying hey, this is warranted 00:14:24.470 --> 00:14:26.750 behavior. This is the right thing to do She's 00:14:26.750 --> 00:14:29.529 saying Lauren has gotten all the support and 00:14:29.529 --> 00:14:32.909 respect in the world Yeah, and like in her situation 00:14:32.909 --> 00:14:36.429 like I'm all I'm trying to do is allow for this 00:14:36.429 --> 00:14:38.870 other girl to have the same space and freedom 00:14:38.870 --> 00:14:41.110 to process what she's going through. I don't 00:14:41.110 --> 00:14:43.690 think she's saying like, you can be mad as long 00:14:43.690 --> 00:14:46.070 as you want. I think she's definitely taking 00:14:46.070 --> 00:14:49.529 a side. I mean, her granddaughter's husband died 00:14:49.529 --> 00:14:52.350 and she didn't go to the funeral. That's pretty 00:14:52.350 --> 00:14:55.049 wild. I mean, yeah, that's true. That is pretty, 00:14:55.049 --> 00:15:01.159 pretty wild. I don't love that at all. But grandma 00:15:01.159 --> 00:15:04.019 is an OG. I do love that. She was like look you 00:15:04.019 --> 00:15:06.399 had feelings and everyone's respecting those 00:15:06.399 --> 00:15:11.019 so let's respect hers like I I do love that grandma's 00:15:11.019 --> 00:15:13.620 like Someone's got to be on this girl's side. 00:15:13.620 --> 00:15:17.259 Well, yeah and like Maybe it's not even about 00:15:17.259 --> 00:15:20.500 sides. Well, they wanted to ambush her too. And 00:15:20.500 --> 00:15:22.120 grandma was like absolutely not You're not coming 00:15:22.120 --> 00:15:24.139 to my home as long as she lives here, right? 00:15:24.340 --> 00:15:27.460 So that was kind of cool, but also like poor 00:15:28.029 --> 00:15:30.610 Poor uh, so she stole the boyfriend, but she 00:15:30.610 --> 00:15:33.549 lost her grandma So that kind of sucks and then 00:15:33.549 --> 00:15:35.450 her boyfriend became her husband and then he 00:15:35.450 --> 00:15:38.490 died and then now she's a widow And she doesn't 00:15:38.490 --> 00:15:43.610 have her little sister. That's so sad, but I 00:15:43.610 --> 00:15:46.090 mean, yeah Okay, but I gotta take it back to 00:15:46.090 --> 00:15:49.570 the fact that like she was dating him and then 00:15:49.570 --> 00:15:54.090 three years sister three years Three years her 00:15:54.090 --> 00:15:56.990 sister is going behind her back and sleeping 00:15:56.990 --> 00:16:01.730 with him and she gets pregnant. That's oh That 00:16:01.730 --> 00:16:06.490 would be so Could you even actually imagine that 00:16:06.490 --> 00:16:08.789 happening to you? I would I would definitely 00:16:08.789 --> 00:16:11.450 cut ties I'm not like faulting OP at all for 00:16:11.450 --> 00:16:14.070 doing that. I would say you're you're gone. You're 00:16:14.070 --> 00:16:16.549 gone forever You're gone forever seeing that's 00:16:16.549 --> 00:16:18.769 I have a hard time with that just as a dude because 00:16:18.769 --> 00:16:23.110 I'm like Blood is blood family is family everybody 00:16:23.110 --> 00:16:26.629 like people make Mistakes and they will backstab 00:16:26.629 --> 00:16:31.370 you and my gosh Going no contact with family 00:16:31.370 --> 00:16:34.049 over somebody that came into your life and that 00:16:34.049 --> 00:16:35.850 may or may not have worked out She even said 00:16:35.850 --> 00:16:37.330 like if it wasn't Lauren, he was gonna cheat 00:16:37.330 --> 00:16:39.809 with somebody else Well, it's her just trying 00:16:39.809 --> 00:16:41.909 to make herself feel better, but isn't actually 00:16:41.909 --> 00:16:45.429 no but If she does he's the type of guy that 00:16:45.429 --> 00:16:47.769 was willing to cheat. So is he gonna do it again? 00:16:47.789 --> 00:16:49.610 He probably would have done it with someone else 00:16:49.610 --> 00:16:52.350 You think that Lauren and this guy were just 00:16:52.350 --> 00:16:54.529 storybook like they were just meant to be together. 00:16:54.590 --> 00:16:56.929 No, I don't know Do you know how long they were 00:16:56.929 --> 00:16:58.990 married before he died? We know it wasn't very 00:16:58.990 --> 00:17:03.049 long because they had two kids, but it was They're 00:17:03.049 --> 00:17:08.890 22 and 23 now Op is 22. She's 23. Okay. Yeah 00:17:08.890 --> 00:17:11.730 So it was not very long. Yeah, it's like they're 00:17:12.319 --> 00:17:16.259 And regardless your high school boyfriend your 00:17:16.259 --> 00:17:20.400 high school crush Like and then he dies like 00:17:20.400 --> 00:17:22.740 you have to have feelings of him dying You have 00:17:22.740 --> 00:17:24.400 to be sad about that. Even if you don't want 00:17:24.400 --> 00:17:27.900 to admit it I'm I'm just a big advocate of get 00:17:27.900 --> 00:17:32.180 to frick over it because Especially when it comes 00:17:32.180 --> 00:17:34.599 to family you don't have to be super close with 00:17:34.599 --> 00:17:37.039 them But making everything this big dramatic 00:17:37.039 --> 00:17:40.420 like not gonna talk to them ever again Yeah, 00:17:40.640 --> 00:17:43.920 like I don't know. I have a hard time, too, with 00:17:43.920 --> 00:17:47.720 how much grief Lauren would be in. No sister, 00:17:48.319 --> 00:17:51.359 dead husband, two little tiny kids. That's so 00:17:51.359 --> 00:17:55.460 hard. And yeah, that's why everyone sucks there. 00:17:55.720 --> 00:17:57.880 I don't know if there's a way for her to regain 00:17:57.880 --> 00:18:00.359 her sister's trust or to genuinely apologize, 00:18:00.579 --> 00:18:03.599 but... It's sad, too, because, like, Opie, could 00:18:03.599 --> 00:18:06.700 you imagine the amount of guilt she felt when 00:18:06.700 --> 00:18:09.680 she found out Jace was dead? Just being like, 00:18:09.680 --> 00:18:13.619 oh... Dang. OP? Yeah. What would she feel guilty 00:18:13.619 --> 00:18:15.720 about? I mean, at least that would be my brain. 00:18:15.740 --> 00:18:18.059 Like I cut someone out and then something really 00:18:18.059 --> 00:18:21.539 tragic happens to them. It's like there's not 00:18:21.539 --> 00:18:23.960 much I can... That's a lot though. That's heavy. 00:18:24.200 --> 00:18:26.299 That's her boyfriend of three years that like 00:18:26.299 --> 00:18:28.259 she had this debacle that she lost her sister 00:18:28.259 --> 00:18:31.240 because of this guy. Yeah. So like, I think she 00:18:31.240 --> 00:18:34.119 would have been way more sad than she leads on. 00:18:34.299 --> 00:18:36.720 She acts like, oh yeah, he died the day that 00:18:36.720 --> 00:18:39.779 I found out. Yeah, I don't think so. I think 00:18:39.779 --> 00:18:42.019 that it's still very hard for her and it doesn't 00:18:42.019 --> 00:18:44.180 sound like she's dating. She lives with grandma. 00:18:44.440 --> 00:18:46.140 That's what I mean. It's just her and grandma. 00:18:46.279 --> 00:18:49.740 That's a slippery slope. We all know one of those 00:18:49.740 --> 00:18:51.980 that lives with grandma until they're grandma, 00:18:52.200 --> 00:18:55.160 no kids, no wife, no nothing. Yep. We all got 00:18:55.160 --> 00:19:01.680 one of those. Well, that's my story. Love it. 00:19:01.789 --> 00:19:04.269 And I'm excited to hear yours. Am I the a -hole 00:19:04.269 --> 00:19:06.509 for not letting a neighbor borrow my tile saw 00:19:06.509 --> 00:19:08.769 because he assumed it belonged to my boyfriend? 00:19:09.049 --> 00:19:11.250 My boyfriend and I have a bit of an untraditional 00:19:11.250 --> 00:19:13.970 relationship. I, female, am the builder slash 00:19:13.970 --> 00:19:17.089 fixture, etc. And my boyfriend isn't really good 00:19:17.089 --> 00:19:19.450 at that type of stuff. My garage is filled with 00:19:19.450 --> 00:19:21.329 tools that I've collected over the years and 00:19:21.329 --> 00:19:23.450 a lot of expensive tools at that. A young couple 00:19:23.450 --> 00:19:25.089 just bought the house across the street from 00:19:25.089 --> 00:19:27.210 us. The houses aren't too far apart and I guess 00:19:27.210 --> 00:19:29.309 our new neighbors have seen into our garage. 00:19:29.640 --> 00:19:31.539 when my boyfriend and I are hanging out in there. 00:19:31.700 --> 00:19:33.640 The husband came over to introduce himself and 00:19:33.640 --> 00:19:36.220 he briefly nodded at me, yet he shook my boyfriend's 00:19:36.220 --> 00:19:38.640 hand and was friendly to him while introducing 00:19:38.640 --> 00:19:41.720 himself. Made me feel very dismissed TBH, like 00:19:41.720 --> 00:19:43.759 I'm not his equal. He mentioned that they're 00:19:43.759 --> 00:19:45.960 having to retile the kitchen and do a bunch of 00:19:45.960 --> 00:19:48.079 repairs as the house was a bit of a fixer -upper. 00:19:48.279 --> 00:19:50.660 The elderly lady that lived there for 55 years 00:19:50.660 --> 00:19:53.420 before dying recently. The elderly lady had lived 00:19:53.420 --> 00:19:56.299 there for 55 years before dying recently. He 00:19:56.299 --> 00:19:58.220 said that they were a bit broke after buying 00:19:58.220 --> 00:20:00.119 the house and he is having to do the repairs 00:20:00.119 --> 00:20:02.140 himself and learn how to do a lot of this stuff. 00:20:02.359 --> 00:20:04.299 My boyfriend kind of just smiled and nodded his 00:20:04.299 --> 00:20:06.940 head because he hates DIY. He finally asked my 00:20:06.940 --> 00:20:08.980 boyfriend if he could borrow his tile saw and 00:20:08.980 --> 00:20:11.299 maybe a few other tools and maybe my boyfriend 00:20:11.299 --> 00:20:14.039 could give him some YouTube suggestions. He offered 00:20:14.039 --> 00:20:16.019 to give it back like he borrowed it and said 00:20:16.019 --> 00:20:17.839 he'd buy him a case of beer for the trouble. 00:20:18.039 --> 00:20:19.740 This was the point where my boyfriend mentioned 00:20:19.740 --> 00:20:21.599 that all the tools in the garage belonged to 00:20:21.599 --> 00:20:23.869 me. and that he has no clue how to build or fix 00:20:23.869 --> 00:20:25.869 anything. The guy was surprised, but he gave 00:20:25.869 --> 00:20:27.730 me half a smile and said, Oh, I guess I should 00:20:27.730 --> 00:20:30.109 have asked you then. What do you say? Offer still 00:20:30.109 --> 00:20:32.269 stands. I was kind of annoyed and I told him 00:20:32.269 --> 00:20:34.069 that maybe another man in the neighborhood can 00:20:34.069 --> 00:20:36.269 help him and I'm just a woman. So what do I know? 00:20:36.490 --> 00:20:39.069 I was admittedly very snarky. My boyfriend kind 00:20:39.069 --> 00:20:41.529 of thinks I was needlessly an asshole to our 00:20:41.529 --> 00:20:44.029 new neighbor. I think the guy should have apologized 00:20:44.029 --> 00:20:46.109 for his incorrect assumption before asking me 00:20:46.109 --> 00:20:48.309 to borrow my tools. I hate when men assume my 00:20:48.309 --> 00:20:50.230 boyfriend does man stuff and I'm supposed to 00:20:50.230 --> 00:20:52.950 do woman stuff. It happens occasionally. Which, 00:20:53.029 --> 00:20:55.130 by the way, who asks someone they don't even 00:20:55.130 --> 00:20:57.670 know to borrow a tile saw? Tilesaws aren't cheap, 00:20:58.009 --> 00:21:00.390 especially not the one I own. Am I the asshole? 00:21:00.490 --> 00:21:02.430 My boyfriend and I aren't really stressing over 00:21:02.430 --> 00:21:05.069 it, but I just wanted an unbiased outside opinion. 00:21:05.230 --> 00:21:09.859 Um, yeah, I think she is. Talk about it. No, 00:21:09.859 --> 00:21:13.559 I just it's like you you can't just think he's 00:21:13.559 --> 00:21:16.319 gonna know That's like someone looking at me 00:21:16.319 --> 00:21:17.839 and be like, oh you played college volleyball 00:21:17.839 --> 00:21:20.000 Like no one is gonna look at me and think that 00:21:20.000 --> 00:21:23.720 because i'm 5 '4 That's not gonna happen. Just 00:21:23.720 --> 00:21:28.200 like a soft flex for a second, you know Wow I 00:21:28.200 --> 00:21:30.660 played volleyball guys. She played college volleyball 00:21:30.660 --> 00:21:35.619 Started as a freshman That was a big deal. But 00:21:35.619 --> 00:21:37.480 that's the thing. You're not gonna look at me 00:21:37.480 --> 00:21:40.839 and think that you know i'm saying so I'm embarrassed 00:21:40.839 --> 00:21:45.160 I literally just said any of that. But it's here 00:21:45.160 --> 00:21:46.599 to say. Well, obviously you get the final say 00:21:46.599 --> 00:21:49.140 on what makes the cut. No, that's making the 00:21:49.140 --> 00:21:52.119 cut, it has to, but please everyone just love 00:21:52.119 --> 00:21:55.140 me for me, okay? Yeah. Back to what I'm saying 00:21:55.140 --> 00:21:56.900 though. I don't know, what do you think? Do you 00:21:56.900 --> 00:22:00.599 think he's that asshole? So again, I think it's 00:22:00.599 --> 00:22:02.440 a little bit of an everybody sucks here, and 00:22:02.440 --> 00:22:05.500 only because I just justify the behavior of the 00:22:05.500 --> 00:22:08.539 neighbor to start. Because I know for a fact... 00:22:08.599 --> 00:22:11.299 If I met somebody and they had a garage full 00:22:11.299 --> 00:22:13.599 of tools, first of all, I would not be asking 00:22:13.599 --> 00:22:15.839 to borrow somebody's tools because that makes 00:22:15.839 --> 00:22:17.579 me uncomfortable unless it's somebody I know 00:22:17.579 --> 00:22:20.240 really well. Really? Is that like just a no? 00:22:21.000 --> 00:22:25.180 Well, yeah. They point out a little bit, a tile 00:22:25.180 --> 00:22:28.779 saw is expensive. It's not something that you 00:22:28.779 --> 00:22:30.640 would just ask a neighbor to borrow the first 00:22:30.640 --> 00:22:32.440 time. There's good comments that I'll read in 00:22:32.440 --> 00:22:35.640 a second, but what I wanted to point out is what 00:22:35.640 --> 00:22:41.059 you said. Certainly not expect a garage full 00:22:41.059 --> 00:22:43.799 of tools to be to belong to the girl I just you 00:22:43.799 --> 00:22:46.920 just wouldn't expect it you were trained whether 00:22:46.920 --> 00:22:49.220 we want to believe it or not We are trained to 00:22:49.220 --> 00:22:51.880 believe certain things think certain things and 00:22:51.880 --> 00:22:54.640 like if you walked into somebody's garage and 00:22:54.640 --> 00:22:56.960 there's a couple standing there Yeah, and it's 00:22:56.960 --> 00:23:00.079 full of tools. You're not gonna be like I'm not 00:23:00.079 --> 00:23:02.480 gonna I'm not gonna assume anything because all 00:23:02.480 --> 00:23:05.039 these tools could be the wife's tools like you 00:23:05.039 --> 00:23:09.019 just in reality We have these this conditioning 00:23:09.019 --> 00:23:12.680 that takes place and it's not important there 00:23:12.680 --> 00:23:16.740 there are There are times when it's absolutely 00:23:16.740 --> 00:23:20.180 important, right? Whether or not the girl is 00:23:20.180 --> 00:23:22.579 the like the fixer of the house. That's just 00:23:22.579 --> 00:23:25.700 Sorry, this is not major importance It's just 00:23:25.700 --> 00:23:28.579 like if a guy was to be offended if he was a 00:23:28.579 --> 00:23:31.200 stay -at -home dad and he cooked all the dinners 00:23:31.200 --> 00:23:35.640 and somebody made some type of like assumption 00:23:35.950 --> 00:23:38.910 that the wife does the cooking why is the guy 00:23:38.910 --> 00:23:41.990 going to be offended by that exactly like it's 00:23:41.990 --> 00:23:44.849 there's there is a reason to take offense to 00:23:44.849 --> 00:23:46.390 certain things and then there's things that are 00:23:46.390 --> 00:23:51.349 like not that big of a deal yeah i agree i'm 00:23:51.349 --> 00:23:55.670 glad we're agreeing me too it's refreshing what's 00:23:55.670 --> 00:23:59.349 the comments so there's a couple but the first 00:23:59.349 --> 00:24:01.369 one says i wouldn't lend a total stranger my 00:24:01.369 --> 00:24:03.670 expensive tools no matter the first impression 00:24:03.670 --> 00:24:06.569 which was bad Not the asshole. I don't lend out 00:24:06.569 --> 00:24:08.890 my, or in quotations, I don't lend out my tools. 00:24:09.210 --> 00:24:11.950 So instead of it being like, hey, you should 00:24:11.950 --> 00:24:13.970 go ask a man in the neighborhood. You could just 00:24:13.970 --> 00:24:16.529 say, hey, I'm sorry, but it's a no. Like I just, 00:24:16.529 --> 00:24:18.630 I just don't lend my tools cause they're expensive. 00:24:19.529 --> 00:24:21.829 Which is appropriate. They are expensive. It's 00:24:21.829 --> 00:24:24.650 like, you don't have to let somebody borrow a 00:24:24.650 --> 00:24:27.089 freaking tile saw. It's pretty wild. He asked 00:24:27.089 --> 00:24:30.150 for it. Yeah. It's like, Hey, I saw that you 00:24:30.150 --> 00:24:32.650 had this garage full of tools. I need to do a 00:24:32.650 --> 00:24:35.859 bunch of stuff. This is this is my favorite so 00:24:35.859 --> 00:24:38.279 it's responding to another one So I'll read both 00:24:38.279 --> 00:24:41.259 first one not the asshole pretty ballsy of this 00:24:41.259 --> 00:24:44.319 sexist AH to wander over for the first time to 00:24:44.319 --> 00:24:46.480 Introduce and then proceed to ask to borrow anything 00:24:46.480 --> 00:24:49.380 in the next breath I too am the handy one and 00:24:49.380 --> 00:24:51.299 it's super annoying when dudes don't think it's 00:24:51.299 --> 00:24:53.779 possible Don't lend your tools especially to 00:24:53.779 --> 00:24:55.579 someone you don't know especially to someone 00:24:55.579 --> 00:24:58.019 who doesn't know how to use them While your comment 00:24:58.019 --> 00:25:00.720 was snarky. He started it with his dismissive 00:25:00.720 --> 00:25:04.240 ways And I that's the other thing is like if 00:25:04.240 --> 00:25:06.539 I if I was in this situation and I found out 00:25:06.539 --> 00:25:09.799 that the The girl was like kind of the handyman 00:25:09.799 --> 00:25:12.400 fix -it -type my response would be different 00:25:12.400 --> 00:25:15.619 than the neighbors I would be like, oh for real 00:25:15.619 --> 00:25:17.559 like that's actually that's super cool. I don't 00:25:17.559 --> 00:25:20.619 hear of that very often You actually get in you 00:25:20.619 --> 00:25:24.579 do all this stuff. That's like why how? Like 00:25:24.579 --> 00:25:27.200 why do you do that? Yeah, this comment made me 00:25:27.200 --> 00:25:29.740 laugh. I wasn't even thinking about that part 00:25:29.920 --> 00:25:32.859 The speed of the request. Hi, I'm your neighbor. 00:25:33.119 --> 00:25:38.400 I can has tools. And I think that's one of the 00:25:38.400 --> 00:25:41.039 red flags. How minimally friendly slash polite 00:25:41.039 --> 00:25:43.440 slash chatty do I have to be to get what I want 00:25:43.440 --> 00:25:45.940 from you? Yeah. That's the best point of the 00:25:45.940 --> 00:25:48.839 whole thing is like the neighbors not very neighborly 00:25:48.839 --> 00:25:51.279 comes over and is like, hi. Yeah. Hello. Hello. 00:25:51.380 --> 00:25:54.599 Nice to meet you neighbors. Can I borrow your 00:25:54.599 --> 00:25:59.470 items? That's hilarious. Oh man, that's crazy. 00:25:59.789 --> 00:26:02.089 A lot of the comments are talking about how you 00:26:02.089 --> 00:26:04.150 never get your tools back in the same condition 00:26:04.150 --> 00:26:07.589 as when you lent them to somebody. So true. Like, 00:26:07.849 --> 00:26:10.529 no matter what, the only thing you can lend to 00:26:10.529 --> 00:26:15.029 somebody is your tool bag. Yeah, it's just all 00:26:15.029 --> 00:26:18.049 freaking screwdrivers. Yeah, the hodgepodge of 00:26:18.049 --> 00:26:20.650 stuff. And that's the level of handyman that 00:26:20.650 --> 00:26:23.390 I am. Yeah. Around these parts, everybody around 00:26:23.390 --> 00:26:26.349 here, nobody's really a... like a Mr. Fix -It 00:26:26.349 --> 00:26:28.890 type. I'm as handy as it gets, and I'm like not 00:26:28.890 --> 00:26:31.150 that handy. Yeah, that's very true. Everyone 00:26:31.150 --> 00:26:33.369 calls you to like help with stuff. Yeah, it's 00:26:33.369 --> 00:26:35.430 like, hey, we need to disassemble a bed frame 00:26:35.430 --> 00:26:37.349 or something. And I'm like, well, yeah, I have 00:26:37.349 --> 00:26:39.809 a screwdriver and like a whatever, you know? 00:26:40.210 --> 00:26:42.789 Oh, that's so funny. Well, good story, Joe. Mine's 00:26:42.789 --> 00:26:45.630 about to be better. Oh, well, I bet so. Okay, 00:26:45.910 --> 00:26:49.890 here we go. So this one is from AITA for locking 00:26:49.890 --> 00:26:54.599 my cousin out of my house. My cousin James, 25M, 00:26:54.680 --> 00:26:57.859 came to visit me 25F and my husband 26M last 00:26:57.859 --> 00:26:59.940 weekend for his birthday. We celebrated James' 00:26:59.940 --> 00:27:01.900 birthday Friday night and on Saturday he said 00:27:01.900 --> 00:27:04.319 he was going to have to go to dinner with a few 00:27:04.319 --> 00:27:06.119 of his friends in town. He specifically told 00:27:06.119 --> 00:27:07.980 me his plans were to go have dinner with them 00:27:07.980 --> 00:27:09.839 and come back to my place afterwards to stay 00:27:09.839 --> 00:27:11.759 in and watch movies. He left my house at around 00:27:11.759 --> 00:27:14.559 4pm. He texted me around 7, asking when would 00:27:14.559 --> 00:27:16.960 be a respectful time to come back as he was spending 00:27:16.960 --> 00:27:18.880 the night at my house. I told him that I know 00:27:18.880 --> 00:27:20.440 it's his birthday and he is with his friends 00:27:20.440 --> 00:27:22.940 so he does not... get to see often, and he is 00:27:22.940 --> 00:27:24.920 an adult, so I am not going to give him a curfew. 00:27:24.980 --> 00:27:26.880 I just told him to call me and let me know when 00:27:26.880 --> 00:27:29.880 he is on his way back so we can avoid him ringing 00:27:29.880 --> 00:27:32.259 the doorbell and waking up my son. At 2 a .m., 00:27:32.259 --> 00:27:34.240 when bars typically close, I texted him when 00:27:34.240 --> 00:27:36.200 he was going to be back. I didn't get a reply. 00:27:36.319 --> 00:27:38.299 By three, I figured he was sleeping at his friend's 00:27:38.299 --> 00:27:40.240 place, so I went to bed. Before going to sleep, 00:27:40.259 --> 00:27:42.400 I texted him to let him know that in case he 00:27:42.400 --> 00:27:44.339 was still coming back where the spare key was, 00:27:44.400 --> 00:27:46.660 I then went to bed. At around 4 a .m., I woke 00:27:46.660 --> 00:27:48.480 up to someone ringing our doorbell. This woke 00:27:48.480 --> 00:27:50.920 up my son, and he was scared and crying. My husband 00:27:50.920 --> 00:27:53.059 and I woke up irritated. I looked at our camera 00:27:53.059 --> 00:27:55.079 and James was outside ringing our doorbell. When 00:27:55.079 --> 00:27:57.519 I opened the door, James was fuming. He was mad 00:27:57.519 --> 00:27:59.160 that I locked him out of the house and I said 00:27:59.160 --> 00:28:01.019 I would be there to let him in. I asked him why 00:28:01.019 --> 00:28:02.960 he ignored my texts as I told him where the spare 00:28:02.960 --> 00:28:04.960 keys were and he said his phone died and I should 00:28:04.960 --> 00:28:06.740 have just given him the keys before he left. 00:28:06.819 --> 00:28:08.720 James was getting very loud so I told him that 00:28:08.720 --> 00:28:10.880 he either had to calm down or go to sleep or 00:28:10.880 --> 00:28:12.700 he had to find somewhere else to sleep. James 00:28:12.700 --> 00:28:14.559 went to our guest room, grabbed his things and 00:28:14.559 --> 00:28:17.279 slept in his car. Earlier this week, I was talking 00:28:17.279 --> 00:28:19.059 to my sister about the situation and she called 00:28:19.059 --> 00:28:20.890 me the asshole because because I told James that 00:28:20.890 --> 00:28:22.849 I would wait up for him, and that I made a drunk 00:28:22.849 --> 00:28:25.349 person sleep in the car. I feel justified, but 00:28:25.349 --> 00:28:27.670 James is also still not talking to me, so read 00:28:27.670 --> 00:28:31.589 it. Am I the asshole? That's so annoying. That's 00:28:31.589 --> 00:28:35.289 so annoying. What is annoying? So she should 00:28:35.289 --> 00:28:38.509 have given him a key, yes, but you know that 00:28:38.509 --> 00:28:40.410 she was hoping he was gonna come back at a decent 00:28:40.410 --> 00:28:42.730 hour and they could still celebrate some birthday 00:28:42.730 --> 00:28:45.410 stuff. So the fact that she waited up. Until 00:28:45.410 --> 00:28:48.529 2 a .m. And even texted him at 2 and said hey 00:28:48.529 --> 00:28:51.470 like you're I know the bars are closing I'm you're 00:28:51.470 --> 00:28:53.670 probably coming home soon, but I'm gonna go to 00:28:53.670 --> 00:28:56.609 bed now Haven't heard from you. Yeah, so here's 00:28:56.609 --> 00:28:58.789 where the spare key is She even put a spare key 00:28:58.789 --> 00:29:00.309 and like made sure that he could have gotten 00:29:00.309 --> 00:29:03.549 in Don't ring the doorbell and then drunk dumb 00:29:03.549 --> 00:29:09.049 dumb just shows up at 4 4 a .m He left at 7 and 00:29:09.049 --> 00:29:11.130 very grateful like you do you're staying at their 00:29:11.130 --> 00:29:14.180 place for free? Obviously the fact that he was 00:29:14.180 --> 00:29:16.759 drunk is one thing and he's obviously very stubborn 00:29:16.759 --> 00:29:18.819 because he grabbed his stuff after she let him 00:29:18.819 --> 00:29:21.799 in He's already caused the whole Fiasco the kid 00:29:21.799 --> 00:29:24.660 waking up then still is gonna go out to his car 00:29:24.660 --> 00:29:29.500 and sleep in the car. Yeah dog Dog your they 00:29:29.500 --> 00:29:33.640 let you stay in their house They were gonna host 00:29:33.640 --> 00:29:36.420 you the only place where I can I can understand 00:29:36.420 --> 00:29:38.299 it being like a little bit frustrating Is that 00:29:38.299 --> 00:29:40.400 she did say like be out as long as you want? 00:29:40.539 --> 00:29:42.980 Yeah, do whatever you want. Yeah, she had to 00:29:42.980 --> 00:29:46.579 lock the door, but it's common sense If I just 00:29:46.579 --> 00:29:48.720 would never be that inconsiderate, I would not 00:29:48.720 --> 00:29:50.519 expect somebody to leave their door unlocked 00:29:50.519 --> 00:29:55.839 until 4 a .m That's so stupid mom like she's 00:29:55.839 --> 00:29:59.400 not used to staying up till 4 a .m. Partying 00:29:59.400 --> 00:30:03.529 no No, probably not. I don't know but and it's 00:30:03.529 --> 00:30:06.029 it's hard because yeah He's having a he's having 00:30:06.029 --> 00:30:08.890 a good time with his friends Like he's not necessarily 00:30:08.890 --> 00:30:11.089 a bad guy for going out and having a night and 00:30:11.089 --> 00:30:14.289 maybe losing track of time But also your phone 00:30:14.289 --> 00:30:19.990 died. I Think she is not the asshole. I think 00:30:19.990 --> 00:30:22.430 he's more of the asshole. He's definitely more 00:30:22.430 --> 00:30:25.740 of the asshole. Yeah hundred percent and She's 00:30:25.740 --> 00:30:28.180 like, yeah, she's not an asshole. She's just 00:30:28.180 --> 00:30:31.160 a little bit of a misstep. She should have either 00:30:31.160 --> 00:30:33.539 clarified ahead of time. That just is a crappy 00:30:33.539 --> 00:30:36.759 situation. Well, this crappy situation has an 00:30:36.759 --> 00:30:39.759 edit. The reason I didn't give him the spare 00:30:39.759 --> 00:30:42.119 key right away was honestly I didn't think about 00:30:42.119 --> 00:30:44.339 it. The original plan was for him to go out to 00:30:44.339 --> 00:30:46.119 eat with his friends and then come back to watch 00:30:46.119 --> 00:30:48.099 some movies with us and have a night in. When 00:30:48.099 --> 00:30:50.140 he texted me to see when a respectful time would 00:30:50.140 --> 00:30:52.799 be to come back, I figured respectful would have 00:30:52.799 --> 00:30:55.299 meant like midnight, but I guess it didn't communicate 00:30:55.299 --> 00:30:57.519 that with him either. Yeah, so she's obviously 00:30:57.519 --> 00:30:59.759 her feelings were a little bit hurt that he stayed 00:30:59.759 --> 00:31:01.359 out with his friends instead of came to hang 00:31:01.359 --> 00:31:05.119 out with them. Yeah, for sure. That part is a 00:31:05.119 --> 00:31:07.799 little like I maybe she exaggerated the times 00:31:07.799 --> 00:31:11.240 or something I don't know I just I think you 00:31:11.240 --> 00:31:12.759 don't stay out that late when you're staying 00:31:12.759 --> 00:31:14.819 with staying over at somebody's house And if 00:31:14.819 --> 00:31:17.720 you do it's because you have the spare keys because 00:31:17.720 --> 00:31:20.200 you're not gonna be a pain in the butt You'd 00:31:20.200 --> 00:31:22.539 have to know that going to someone's house at 00:31:22.539 --> 00:31:25.460 4 a .m. The door is not gonna be unlocked Yeah, 00:31:25.539 --> 00:31:27.839 I'm glad we're on the same page with that one, 00:31:27.839 --> 00:31:30.420 too. You think you think James is the asshole? 00:31:30.650 --> 00:31:33.809 Yeah, oh yeah, 100%. What would you do if you 00:31:33.809 --> 00:31:35.769 were James? If I was James, what I would have 00:31:35.769 --> 00:31:37.609 done differently or what I would do now? No, 00:31:37.609 --> 00:31:39.309 what would you do differently if you were James? 00:31:39.730 --> 00:31:42.730 You go into town and you're out with your friends. 00:31:42.970 --> 00:31:47.490 You get absolutely tossed. I'm not saying what 00:31:47.490 --> 00:31:50.049 he did was like asshole behavior. I'm saying 00:31:50.049 --> 00:31:52.589 when he came back and being all pissed off at 00:31:52.589 --> 00:31:55.750 her, it's like, bro, I just think he should have 00:31:55.750 --> 00:31:58.190 been a lot kinder about it. He's being a brat. 00:31:58.410 --> 00:32:00.869 He's definitely being a brat. So if you were 00:32:00.869 --> 00:32:03.670 in his situation, what would you do? I would 00:32:03.670 --> 00:32:06.069 have come home and she obviously answered the 00:32:06.069 --> 00:32:08.190 door So like yeah you if you have to ring the 00:32:08.190 --> 00:32:10.230 doorbell you have to ring the doorbell, but you 00:32:10.230 --> 00:32:13.670 say I'm so sorry Like I feel so bad. I woke him 00:32:13.670 --> 00:32:16.230 up. I didn't know what to do. My phone died You 00:32:16.230 --> 00:32:18.430 just explained the situation. She'd be like, 00:32:18.470 --> 00:32:20.910 yeah that sucks that freaking happened. But like 00:32:20.910 --> 00:32:23.269 yeah come inside I'm glad you're inside go to 00:32:23.269 --> 00:32:26.490 bed. That's what I've done So you you would have 00:32:26.490 --> 00:32:28.430 just rang the doorbell too What else are you 00:32:28.430 --> 00:32:30.250 going to do? You got to get in. Blow her phone 00:32:30.250 --> 00:32:33.089 up. It didn't say anything about calling. His 00:32:33.089 --> 00:32:39.069 phone is dead, bro. Oh, yeah. You. I see. I could 00:32:39.069 --> 00:32:42.369 say how do you live and be an adult and not charge 00:32:42.369 --> 00:32:45.089 your phone? Yeah. How do you not keep your phone 00:32:45.089 --> 00:32:48.730 charged? It can't die. That's bad. He's talking 00:32:48.730 --> 00:32:51.190 to our dog right now for the podcast listeners. 00:32:51.549 --> 00:32:55.450 Yeah. Well, that's my story. Charge your freaking 00:32:55.450 --> 00:32:59.299 phone and your turn. Just be a responsible adult. 00:32:59.460 --> 00:33:01.440 I've already read two stories. So we're done. 00:33:01.579 --> 00:33:05.059 Oh, it's over. It's over. Oh my gosh. Okay. Well, 00:33:05.059 --> 00:33:07.200 I'm excited to hear who you guys thinks the fake 00:33:07.200 --> 00:33:08.980 I think this one's gonna be harder sniff out. 00:33:09.160 --> 00:33:11.680 I think it's gonna be tough. 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Hope you all have a fantastic week 00:33:45.940 --> 00:33:52.259 in life Love you guys peace and blessings. Well, 00:33:52.259 --> 00:34:04.420 mine was even cringer Why are we doing this? 00:34:08.500 --> 00:34:12.199 Oh My gosh, that's terrible internet frenzy on 00:34:12.199 --> 00:34:14.719 three. Oh, I didn't do that love so that's I 00:34:14.719 --> 00:34:17.300 noticed how that's so good It was so good. I 00:34:17.300 --> 00:34:21.000 was so glad we cut it off internet frenzy on 00:34:21.000 --> 00:34:27.230 three one two three Our dog just did it with 00:34:27.230 --> 00:34:29.610 me. Okay, love you guys. Bye!