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Welcome back to internet frenzy. Hey guys. I'm Whitney and I'm Joe and we are so excited for this episode

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But first we got to talk about last week's episode. I

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Was one of my favorite episodes. I think we have done just when it comes to stories. I thought they were

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Absolutely insane. They were they were nutty. They were absolutely there were some heaters for sure

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Yeah loose lip-sync ships and who had the fake oh

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Oh

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Well, just a little

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Recap the first one was opi grip isolated in a strict Catholic household until she found reddit

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Second one opi's night takes a sharp turn when in the heat of the moment

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His wife moans another man's name yikes

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Then opi catches a ride home with his friend's mom only new experience the most terrifying car ride of his life

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And finally a wedding dress shopping trip takes a dark turn when opi runs into her soon-to-be brother-in-law

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Which one was the fake? I know which one was the fake. I know which one was the fake and it was absolutely

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my story

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My story was when opi catches a ride home with his friend's mom

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And it was the hit and run basically so fake crazy story fake fake fake that mama is not real

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Judge ept for life for life for life for sure. Well this week's gonna be really good

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We're doing three stories and you guys got to figure out which one's the fake generated by chat dbt

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And the other two ones are absolutely real

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Found on reddit or online on the internet. We're excited. We're gonna jump right in so what's the topic for this week?

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This this week is

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Oh, hold on

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I remember this week is elite deceit. Oh

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Stories about crazy lies. Oh, I love it

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So it's open-ended but like not and this the stories are bringing the heat again. So you're not ready for mine

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I'm I'm probably not ready for yours

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We'll get ready. I guess I'll just go first as you should king. That's right

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Attending

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This one comes from best of redditor updates. Am I the asshole for telling my boyfriend? My dad was dead

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I asked for

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For telling my boyfriend

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My dad was dead when he wasn't dead

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Oh my gosh, you ready? Psycho. Yeah, I'm ready. This is pretty recent too. This was just this month

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Oh, I 26 f lost my mother to cancer when I was eight and have always had an absent father

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I only found out who he was when I was 13 and even then he did not want custody of me forcing me to stay in the

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foster care system until I was 18 over my whole life

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I've had about five conversations with him give or take. He's kind of a stranger to me

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He appears once in a blue moon to ask for money or something along those lines doesn't really bother me anymore

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I've just learned to accept it now, but I don't like talking about it

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So to avoid that conversation with people. I usually just say both my parents are dead

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This leads me to a year and a half ago when I had just started dating my boyfriend 25m and like usual

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I had just told him my parents were dead, but the other day my dad showed up at my door

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I still don't know how he knows where I live and asked for a hundred dollars

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Except my boyfriend was there and he obviously found out my dad was not dead

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This led to a long conversation with him that night where I explained the whole situation

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He said this was a breach of trust between us since I lied about my dad and that he needed some space to rethink our relationship

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But he doesn't think he will leave me. I feel so crappy and that I should have told him earlier

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But I'm going to be honest. I just didn't think so. Am I the asshole?

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Oh my gosh

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I'm gonna go with y'all. You are that's a year and a half dating someone and they believe your dad is dead

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I mean for me, it just shows how much therapy that girl needs like she's has so much trauma

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She needs to heal from and like sort through but you know

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Like she's telling him when they first meet like, oh, yeah, both my parents are dead

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You know the past year and a half talking like dating

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That conversation has come up again a hundred percent and so she's just still lying to her being like I forgot like I

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Or like I said that and then we just moved on. We just never revisited it. Yeah, there's no way dang

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That's crazy. So there's a couple updates. So we'll read them

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But before we do I will just say it's unfortunate because

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You can you can bond with somebody over that like over sharing stuff. It's like, hey, even if it's not ideal

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It's like, hey, I have to tell you I lied about something and like here's why

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Yeah, you know, like I I hate talking about this because

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Like my dad let me stay in foster care like that's yeah, that's brutal. Yeah, I feel bad for her but

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She obviously made the wrong choice. Yes. So the first update short my boyfriend texted me five minutes ago asking me to talk

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So we are going to have a full in depth conversation tomorrow after work and I'll update again then with the smiley face feeling good

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The Lulu now onto the update my boyfriend told me that all the sudden information

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Along with the knowledge. I hadn't told him the truth was very overwhelming

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And he just needed some space to not say the wrong thing

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He also said that he got why I lied initially and he wasn't mad that I lied more hurt that I felt like I couldn't tell him about it

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He also mentioned that he couldn't be there for me if he didn't know what was going on

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The conversation ended in tears and it is the most vulnerable I have been in front of someone

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He was very understanding and we have decided to draw a line in the sand and start again if that makes sense

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I've also looked into therapy for my childhood trauma and all in all I'm using this as an opportunity to better myself and heal fully

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Thank you all for your kind comments. Oh

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Wow, that was actually a reddest story that like ended like that's exactly what you should do

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100% because I don't think that boyfriend should just break up with her and be done with her like I don't feel like that

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So I'm glad they're gonna stay together. I'm glad she's getting therapy

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That's a good. I like it. It was good. I feel good about that. Yeah, like I'm glad that she

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She recognized that it wasn't right. Yeah, and yeah and moving in the right direction with boyfriend who's supporting her

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This is the part that I wasn't sure when I should read it, but

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She basically she gives kind of two main points to give context to what she said before

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The first thing and this is in response to some comments said I've only given money to my dad once

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When I was still desperate for his love and acceptance

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But he did not get any money from me this time and then the second point she makes is despite his confusion

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My bf stepped in to defend me and get my dad to leave and it was only after my dad left. He asked me about it

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Oh, wow, that's pretty cool. Yeah, like to think that he was like

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You're back from the grave asking for money like he's obviously thinking like what?

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The heck is going on right now? Yeah, and he still was willing to be like nah, buddy. You got to go

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Then he started asking questions like okay, what is going on? Why did you lie about this?

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So he's a good dude. He has a good dude

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Shout out to him and op learning from the mistakes. Yeah, that's a I just feel like that's a big deal

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You got to be honest about this personal stuff early on in a relationship. Don't don't build a relationship

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On falsehood. No, definitely not. That's a bad thing to do

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Yeah, I've heard I've heard too. No, but for real. I really like that. I think that's a great ending

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I can see her side as to why she didn't want to say anything because yeah, like she doesn't ever really see him anyway

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And it's hard to talk about but it's time to talk about it open up be vulnerable

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Just that's relationships are made on that

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Life is hard life is so hard. It's way better if you can go through hard things with your person

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And you have that trust and that like full transparency and just like vulnerability

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There's nothing more like better than that like that's really where you truly connect

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We've both brought trauma into our relationship and learned and grown together and been vulnerable and we're both

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All right, listen that one was a good one

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All right, listen that one was a little bit like

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You know kind of happy ashen ding. Yeah, I feel good flowers. Yeah

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Not this one. Okay. Here we go

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This one is going to trigger you

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It triggered me. Oh, no, it's going to trigger the listeners. This one's going to rattle some cages. Okay. I'm ready. All right

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Best of red editor updates as well. My husband and son both lied to me. I 34 f

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My husband 36 m been married for 12 years

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My husband said that he has seen another woman handle situations that he didn't think I would be able to handle

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I tried to talk to him about why it bothered me

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I tried to talk to him about why it bothered me and he just told me it was a passing comment

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And I shouldn't take it so seriously that he had meant to simply compliment her by saying she was handling so much on her own

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And he was impressed by it. I told him it was completely unnecessary and hurtful to compare her to me to compliment her

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He told me I was being unreasonable and jealous and that he didn't mean anything by it after that

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He didn't say anything else about it. So I dropped it then yesterday when I came home from work

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I saw a pair of women's fendi sunglasses on our kitchen island kind of hidden by our fruit bowl

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I picked them up and asked my husband who's they were he looked confused and was like aren't they yours?

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And I said no our older son who's 11 is sitting at the kitchen table and goes. Oh, those are my friend, alicens

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I took them home on accident. I was immediately suspicious. These are very expensive sunglasses

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I know alicens mother and she doesn't seem like the type to let her child bring something worth that much money into school

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My son kept insisting they were hers and he had just taken them home accidentally on the bus and he'd return them to her tomorrow

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But I said no and that I'd return them to her mother and person so I could make sure they got to them safely

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When I spoke to Allison's mother she confirmed that they weren't alicens and that neither she nor her daughter owned sunglasses like that

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When I told my son and my husband this they both feigned ignorance

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My son went from saying that he could have sworn they were alicens to well, maybe not

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Maybe I don't know who's they are and then my husband said that he does remember taking the sunglasses out of our son's backpack

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He was getting out his lunch stuff. My younger son who's nine just came home and recognized the sunglasses

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You're not ready for the name. I'm ready. They are no elves

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I was gonna preface this story by saying like

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Shout out in advance to a listener

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Like you guys might think this is fake because no else name is in it

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I'm not gonna say anything else. They are no elves the woman my husband helps out sometimes

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The one who had told me to not be upset over comparing me to her

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I'm going to confront him when he gets home. I don't know what to say to him

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I feel as though I'm going to immediately burst into tears. Can someone please give me advice on what to say

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And also just general advice, please. I never thought I would be in this situation. Oh my gosh

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So, okay, these glasses are no elves shout out and the nine year olds the one that out of it

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The nine year olds like oh, I know whose glasses those are those are no elves dad helps no elves sometimes

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So what what is he exactly helping with that's what I'm a little confused like so she's over there

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Yeah, he'd be just helping her. Yeah, I was like there's no way

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This 11 year old boy dad is already instilling in him this like character flaw of lying

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Massive and he's doing it to protect his dad

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But also it's like he was a little too good at it, you know, all I had to do was say oh, yeah

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Those are my friends. It wasn't planned like it's obviously it's not like we're gonna leave these on the counter

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For mom to find it was like the kid literally like

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Unprompted lied. Yeah, that's obviously that's a huge deal. That's a big issue

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Yeah, that's a huge issue and it's sad because an 11 year old should not be in a situation to do that ever ever

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And therapy therapy therapy therapy therapy

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Not only is this dad ruining their marriage by doing the choice like the choice making the decisions that he's making

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But he's also like really damaging his son. Well, that's yeah huge

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That's really sad. I wonder like what type of

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We love therapy. So I always talk about but I wonder I really wonder what type of

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Experience and like have to work through later on in life because of this, you know, witnessing your dad cheating on your mom

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Well, how about taking your parents problems upon yourself? Yeah, like he's

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There's no doubt that like there has to be fear you're 11

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So you can't fully comprehend all of it. But like you have to think that if you don't lie

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You're gonna see your parents get divorced. Yeah

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trauma feeling responsible for their issues and like you're just literally you're just along for the ride bud

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You didn't do anything

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Upset with the kid like she's like dude, how the frick could you lie to me? I'm your mom

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Yeah, but the dude's just too little. Yeah, he's just a kid even honestly even 16. It's like they're just kids

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Any way you slice that that's trauma. Yeah, that's the unfortunate reality

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I hope neither parent leans on the kids though for like comfort and things like that. That's something that I think is just so wrong

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It's and it goes both ways whether it's comfort whether it's anger like don't involve the kids. Yeah kids are kids

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They are bystanders that

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Yes, there's picking sides or whatever. Yeah, there's not it's like they're just in a crappy situation

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She needs time to like sort through things because that is like a massive blow

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She's obviously not going to be a best version of herself for her children in that moment

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She just needs to drop them off at noelle's house for a couple days and then yes

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Like hey noelle, can you be the mom I can't be my husband thinks that you're better than me

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That's brutal. No, but that comment that would piss me off like and I liked how she worded that

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Don't compare me to her just like in your putting me down throughout it

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Just to compliment her that no that's some some women can do the stuff that you're not doing

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Like it's like it's crazy. It's like the floors are green on the other side

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The floors aren't mopped when you get home like some women can have kids and clean the entire house by the time

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Like that. Yeah, it's just I don't know what the context could have been obviously not I think it has to do with like

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Work like she's like a boss babe or something. Maybe I don't know. That's what I'm picturing but possibly

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Maybe the update will tell us shut up. Tell me right now. I am so glad there's an update

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Yeah, I 34 f and I think this was posted to a different sub and then combined

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Don't yawn. Sorry

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Look who's yawning. Don't compare me and your yawn is 20 times longer. It's because it's real

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I 34 f found a pair of sunglasses on my kitchen table

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My son who's 11 immediately claimed they were his friends even though it was pretty obvious

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They were an adult woman's even after the story began to fall apart

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My husband admitted they were noelle's she's been over there while I was at work

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My husband does not realize they were hers. He thought they were mine, which is why he didn't move them

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Just sad that's like that really is heartbreaking to me because that kid should not have to do that

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No, my younger son recognized them because apparently they have gone with noelle numerous places on my husband's days off while I was at work

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So she's a boss, babe

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I don't know what he told my older son

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But he told my youngest not to tell me about noelle and her son hanging out with them

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Because I would feel bad about being left out because I was at work

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I hate this dad bad guy. He is literally not a good person

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I returned the glasses to noelle who seemed horrified. She was under the assumption. I knew about their hangouts

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I asked her why did she think I would be okay with this? She looked really confused and told me why would I care if we were separated?

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Anyway, I told her we absolutely were not separated. We were very much still together

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Apparently my husband told her we had not been together except for co-habitating and co-parenting for months now

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I confronted my husband with this information and he didn't deny it

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He apologized but said he had developed feelings for noelle

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But didn't want to risk our marriage until he knew if they were true feelings or just attraction

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He left the house noelle wants nothing to do with him because now she knows the truth

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He lied to her as well and she's furious. I'm speaking to a lawyer today

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Not going to speak to him again except through lawyers since I don't have anything else to say to him

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Wow

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That is it. Oh my gosh

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Okay, but I am relieved to hear that she works because it's like

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Because like I just always like feel fearful and bad for people that

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Don't they get a divorce and then it's a cam a single mom and I don't have a job

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It's way harder to leave if you can't sustain your own life

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100%

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Yes, no, that's not like it's uh, I'm just glad she works

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It makes me feel a little bit better for her

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I'm rooting for her and also I'm so glad she dipped

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Yeah, she was like not a second thought. Yeah, and I mean there's a lot there, but to me equal to

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Like I mean, I don't know you can't really put a weight on it

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But it just feels really insidious to me that the kids had to be involved in the lying

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It's one thing to have an affair. That's horrible

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Yeah, but to to involve the kids and have an 11 year old covering for you and like spend the day

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Mad at you, bro

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And spend the day with an awel and like you have a relationship with this mistress. Well, yeah, and it's like what are they doing?

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They're out going to chuck a cheese like it's so confusing for a kid seeing your dad like putting his armor on another lady

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They probably kissed in front of them like I mean, we're just we're grasping at straws

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But maybe we're grasping at freaking nothing

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And what we know is that what we know is that the dad asked them not to tell the mom which is so effed

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That's so messed up. Yeah, that's and he put like a guilt trip on them saying that mom would feel left out

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That's crazy. Look don't make mom have FOMO. It's better off. She doesn't know

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Like mom loves going to peter piper pizza if she finds out we're here. She's gonna be sad

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She's gonna cry all night long. I feel like that part feels worse

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Yeah, it definitely feels worse than like just the affair in general, but maybe I think too

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Reddit has us desensitized to all of that stuff. We've read so many stories. That's like

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Childhood trauma hits close to home

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But we all have it. We all have our issues and this one in particular for me was like, dude, don't do that

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Yeah, don't involve the kid because kid will have to talk about that in therapy when they're 32

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Don't take that out. I'm not

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Oh my gosh

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I bet they would have to say talk about it in therapy when they're 32 if this happened to them

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Yeah, but I just I I wouldn't know but I would put money on like a million dollars just sounds believable

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That's it. Okay. Well, I

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I am ready for line. This one comes from true off my chest. You are not ready

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Okay, I've been keeping a murder secret for almost 10 years and it's eating me alive

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I don't know why I'm posting this maybe just to get it out of my head for a second

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I can't tell anyone in real life and it's been sitting in my chest like a brick for years back in 2015

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I was living in a pretty bad part of town. I had just turned 20 working a dead-end job

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But barely scraping by my apartment was in this old complex where the walls were thin and everyone just kind of minded their business

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It wasn't a bad place, but definitely had some sketchy people one night. I was walking on from work around 11 30 p.m

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I took the back way through the parking lot like I always did as I was getting close to my building

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I saw two guys arguing near one of the dumpsters nothing crazy at first just loud and aggressive

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I remember thinking not my problem and kept walking

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Then one of them pulled a gun. It happened so fast. I barely had time to process the guy with the gun

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Let's call him T was someone I'd seen around before just one of those dudes who's always outside always seems to know everybody

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The other guy no idea, but he was begging. I mean straight up fleeting for his life

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I remember the way his voice cracked that part still haunts me and then

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Bang it wasn't like in the movies no dramatic collapse. No final words just a weird jerky movement

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Then he hit the ground. I remember the smell too burnt gunpowder and something else something warm

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I should have run I should have screamed but I just froze and then T turned his head and looked right at me

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Like that

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I don't even know if he knew me but in that moment it didn't matter

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We locked eyes and he just stood there for a second staring me down then clear his day. He said you didn't see shit

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I nodded and then I walked inside my building like nothing happened. I'm shocked. He didn't shoot him

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I barely slept that night. I kept waiting for sirens for cops to knock on my door for something

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But nothing came I checked the news obsessively the next day nothing a few days later

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I heard some neighbors talking about a gang thing that happened near the dumpsters

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But nobody seemed to know details. It was like it barely even registered and I just

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let it go

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I told myself it wasn't my business that calling the cops wouldn't bring the guy back and honestly I was scared

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I knew what would happen if word got out that I snitched

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I kept my mouth shut moved out six months later and tried to pretend it never happened

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But I still see that guy's face sometimes when I close my eyes

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I still hear his voice that panic that fear and I have no idea who he was

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No idea if he had family looking for answers in the worst part

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I still don't know if I'd do anything differently if I could go back

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I just love with it

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Oh my goodness that is not chill. I don't know. Maybe it's because I watched too much 2020

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How do you not say something? How do you not like I'm shook?

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I get in that moment. You were terrified. I even get sleeping through the night scared someone's gonna come to your house

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and yeah, keeping your mouth shut

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But when life continues to go on in one or two days past

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You should be absolutely going to the police station at that point

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Well, it's like I've so many questions like did they find a body? Did tea or whatever? Did he like

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Take him somewhere. There's no update yet. This was posted yesterday. Oh my goodness

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And I don't even know if this guy's gonna even do like an update after he hears all the comments because like

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You know all the comments are saying you need to go to the cops. Yeah, like go safe. I'm sure

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something

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So it's like to him. He's never gonna do it. He even admitted like he probably wouldn't do it differently

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If he could go back, which is like the craziest part. I believe of his story

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But and so it just makes me think like I wonder I've never lived in like an area like that

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I've never lived in like a bad like a bad bad area

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Yeah, there's places in the united states even where

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Like gun violence is super high like obviously you hear stories of people seeing gang activity stuff like that

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There are people out there that have to carry it around like they see things happen

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Yeah, and they do carry it because they there would be repercussions if they marked on somebody

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That's a pretty scary. That's a good. That's a very real thing. This doesn't sound so much like that

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I mean, he's in a bad part of town, but he's not like it's not some gang initiation or something

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Yeah, very true. And also it's like he sees tea

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around but it's not like he's like homies with him or like he's even in the same crowd as like tea

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It's just that

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And I don't know why tea would trust him not to say anything

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I know

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That was one thing when I did read this story yesterday when I was looking for one like when he does say like you didn't see

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Shit, I was like, wow. I'm very surprised. That was like his

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Reaction to someone witnessing him

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Blast some dude. Yeah, I mean, obviously he blasted him and like it's got to be what gang related like

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He owed him money or it's

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I don't even know but

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I mean at this point it could be any freaking thing. Yeah, maybe the killer is like he has a conscious enough to like

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He's not going to just murder some like innocent bystander on the street. Obviously or it's he would have just shot him

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Blown OP up before OP even got to read it

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Yeah

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This was what it was 10 years ago any witnesses to oh, that's what I said, right? Yeah 10 years

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So it's almost 10 years in this day and age 2020 is going to be doing an episode on this they're gonna

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The the guy that died his family's been looking for him the whole time

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They just barely found a body somewhere and like they're gonna draw this whole big picture and somehow OP's gonna get in trouble for this

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I could just tell

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OP's gonna get like

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linked in

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Like

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Brought in somehow. I don't know that was nar. I'm sure tea has killed many other people

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In like in the past 10 years. I I want to know from the people that live in those types of hoods or have lived

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There before like is this normal?

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Is there people in parts of the world that just see things and they just keep their head down and walk away?

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Yeah, like they just they just don't want to be a snitch

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So they let things slide and it could be something along the lines of like, yeah, I don't want to be a snitch

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But also it's like I don't want to

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Get killed or my family, but it's it's all of that right like if you snitch

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There's repercussions for that. It's not just the not wanting well. There is that type of like vibe of like I'm no

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I'm no snitch like I'm not gonna ever snitch someone else out. Yeah if you're a gang banger

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Oh, well, I part of me thought maybe this guy is like since he is around that town like that side of town and

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he like

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When the dude was like you didn't see shit

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He nodded and then walked inside his building like nothing happened that night. So he like played it cool obviously, but

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He obviously knows tea to an extent. Yeah, well you've seen him around

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So that means that he probably is around similar types of people

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Oh, what would you do if you saw it? I hit him with one of these. He's like you didn't see

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like

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zip

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Block it

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It's going in my pocket dog. Then you would walk away and turn around and there's shit coming down your pants. Yeah

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Yeah, yeah, no me. I would probably look at him and say I saw the whole thing bro. He's murdered him

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Oh, really? That's what I'd say and I'd say give me the gun

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Give me a tea

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Give me that hand it over. I'm taking you to your mom and then I just put the gun on him. No, I'm just kidding

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That's horrible. Wow. I hate myself

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um

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No, but I would tell him give me the gun

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No, you wouldn't bring my mom voice out. Give me the gun right now

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And then I would grab it, but then all the fingerprints are on my hand and then I could get arrested

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I'll say I'll take the fall

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Just go away tea

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Like tea. I ain't no snitch

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I'll take it. I'll take one for the team bro. I was here. I shouldn't have been here

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You go I did it

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That took a turn. I don't know where in your mind you're like I'm fixing this situation

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That's my trauma guys. I go to fix it mode

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Oh, that's so funny tea

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Give me the gun bro. Give me the gun. You didn't even shoot him properly. Still alive. See

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Okay, no, this is actually really sad

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I mean, there's a dead guy up there that has never been found or noticed and we're over here just like

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We're terrible, but no, no, no, here's the thing. There's a lot of those right like there's

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There's more of those than we can even count. It's fine. We're not gonna get all all tripped up on that

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but the reality is

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A vast majority of people would have too much conscience do what OP is done

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Like I cannot imagine witnessing something like that and I'm just soft like I'm just like

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Not built for it. If I was a witness to something that gnarly. I'm snitching. I'm gnarling. I'm going to the cops

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I don't care what it is if my friends tried to get me to like keep a secret any of it like sorry

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I can't I won't yeah

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I'm glad I'm glad you have a conscience. Yeah, I'm not tolerating that like I would I would snitch that's terrifying

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If you killed someone and I saw you do it not me them

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Tee tea

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Tee, I'm turning you in T's return

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Turning you

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in on

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That's what I would do. He'd like you didn't see shit. I think oh T

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He'd like you want to see some shit? I saw and I liked it. That's what I do

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cringe you would shoot me for sure

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What you're gross hold on

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I'd be like what sick human being gets turned on by that you're done

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I'm yeah that I mean, you know you want to know what I would actually do though for real for real for real

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Tell me I'll tell you didn't see shit. No you do it. Tell me you didn't see shit

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Oh, if you're listening to the pod she just was she just was the blind person with the cane

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like

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Be imaginary cane. I simply could not have seen shit sir because I'm blind

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It works every time see what way

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Gosh

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That's so terrible. How do you know I'm mr. T

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I miss now he's mr. T

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Oh my gosh

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Well, my moral of the story is nobody nobody tried to get me to keep a real secret because I will narc so fast

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I'd keep the secret you would I'm that dog you'd like

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To see what bro, bro. I don't even care about that bro. See what no we straight

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Mr. T. Damn me up. Stop calling you mr. T

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He's mr. T. He's not mr. T. You don't even know who mr. T is. No, I'm just kidding

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You should go do a google search for mr. T. That's how young she is everyone. Who's mr. T? Yeah, just look it up

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I'm scared. Mm-hmm. I'm scared scarred

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Well, how about that first some deceit? Oh, I love it. I love it. I love it

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I'm so excited to see who you guys think is the fake

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Go to our instagram or our youtube channel and comment who thinks the fake this week's episode and then next week

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We air on the podcast who is the fake of these three stories that we just told

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Maybe they're all fake. Let us know also

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Shout out to our listeners all over the world on the podcast podcast is growing. Yes. It's lots of fun

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Most recently I saw like a big uptick in like Sweden

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So shout out to you guys in Sweden drop us a rating on Spotify on apple podcast

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Help us help us get out there to a few more peeps. We really appreciate it

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Tell your mom about this podcast and we'll see you guys next week loves

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We love you guys internet frenzy on three one two three internet frenzy. No

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No, love you. Bye