1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:06,800 Welcome back to Internet frenzy. Oh, what's happening? We have missed you internet frenzy so much miss the gang 2 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:13,300 Seriously, though. It's been a minute. We've took a week off. We're back. Don't worry. There's never gonna be a week off again 3 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:15,600 Unless I'm in the hospital 4 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:20,720 Knock on wood. Yeah, the heartbeat behind internet frenzy. That's you. That's me 5 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:25,260 You are you you keep the dream alive, baby. I do and our fans 6 00:00:25,260 --> 00:00:32,560 Oh, of course the listeners the listeners shout out to all y'all. They're not fans, but they are listening and we love you guys 7 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:35,840 Hey, they so much you guys don't have to decide what you are yet 8 00:00:36,340 --> 00:00:38,940 You don't have to you don't have to make a distinguished 9 00:00:39,500 --> 00:00:46,700 Choice. Yeah, just keep listening and see how you feel. That's right fair enough fair enough. All right. So who had the fake last week? Oh 10 00:00:48,820 --> 00:00:51,780 It was me I thought it might have been you yeah 11 00:00:51,780 --> 00:00:56,980 I had a few people reach out and they all guessed me so I don't think my chat GBT story was good enough 12 00:00:57,220 --> 00:01:00,300 Hey, you got caught me. You got a finesse the prompt sometimes 13 00:01:00,340 --> 00:01:06,540 I will next time if it is me tonight. You'll never know because it's really freaking good. Oh, so might be you tonight 14 00:01:06,540 --> 00:01:12,940 It's not 50% chance. Yeah, you guys all have a 50% chance tonight because it's me and Joe 15 00:01:13,580 --> 00:01:15,580 I'm gonna read two stories. Oh 16 00:01:16,620 --> 00:01:20,900 It's gonna my throw them off a little bit my throw them off your scent because we all know you have the fake 17 00:01:20,900 --> 00:01:26,940 Or maybe I do maybe I don't guess guess we'll find out. Yes, we will but it is Valentine's Day Eve 18 00:01:26,940 --> 00:01:29,740 We gave you a little Valentine's Day story last week 19 00:01:29,740 --> 00:01:34,860 We're gonna hit you with another one the theme for this week is Cupid's biggest misses 20 00:01:35,540 --> 00:01:37,300 I 21 00:01:37,300 --> 00:01:44,700 Missed just missed just went right by I was shooting for the butt cheek straight matrix that she is you just got a small booty 22 00:01:44,700 --> 00:01:51,140 Oh, well, it's a small target. I don't know. I've been I've been hitting the squats. Oh, I know. Oh my gosh 23 00:01:52,340 --> 00:01:58,180 All right, well dips going first. Oh, it's my like I deserve it. You've been going first every single time 24 00:01:58,180 --> 00:02:03,860 Okay, you're right. You're right. All right, everyone get your popcorn. Let's do this buckle up 25 00:02:05,620 --> 00:02:10,400 That was terrible this one's this one's good. I'm excited you always have such good stories 26 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:15,200 You're gonna like this one. All righty 27 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:37,760 Here we go, this one is from am I the asshole am I the asshole for kicking my best man out of my wedding after his speech 28 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:44,240 Whoa, he gives his speech and he kicks him out. You're gonna love this just wait 29 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:50,040 Oh, I wish I was so I'm a videographer for those that don't know and I would love to be able to film this type of wedding 30 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:57,360 Oh my gosh, that is the juice right there. I would zoom in on that so far so far too hard so far so far 31 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,080 Yeah 32 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:06,460 All right, so I 32 am just got married this past weekend. Everything was going great venue is beautiful food was good 33 00:03:06,460 --> 00:03:12,660 My wife 28 f looked amazing and then we got to the speeches my best man 34 00:03:12,740 --> 00:03:17,140 Let's call him Jeremy 30m has been my best friend since college 35 00:03:17,460 --> 00:03:24,460 Solid dude never had any issues so I figured his speech would be the usual best man stuff how we met couple embarrassing stories 36 00:03:24,500 --> 00:03:32,260 Maybe a toast nope Jake gets up there clears his throat and immediately starts talking about how he and my wife used to date in high school 37 00:03:32,260 --> 00:03:34,740 Oh 38 00:03:34,740 --> 00:03:39,620 News to me my wife and I have been together for five years and she never mentioned this 39 00:03:39,620 --> 00:03:40,620 No 40 00:03:40,620 --> 00:03:47,620 But I kept my cool because whatever high school was a long time ago then he keeps going he starts talking about how they always had a connection 41 00:03:47,620 --> 00:03:54,500 And how he never stopped caring about her at this point you can feel the room tense up my wife is staring at him like he's a grown 42 00:03:54,500 --> 00:03:58,620 Sorry, my wife is staring at him like he's grown a second head 43 00:03:58,620 --> 00:04:05,340 I'm just sitting there like where is this going then this dude actually says quote if things had gone differently 44 00:04:05,380 --> 00:04:07,380 Maybe I'd be the one up here today 45 00:04:09,220 --> 00:04:11,460 No way this is real oh 46 00:04:13,500 --> 00:04:19,180 Straight up I swear you could hear a pin drop my wife looks mortified her mom gasps 47 00:04:19,180 --> 00:04:22,940 And then everyone can hear my dad mutter JC 48 00:04:22,940 --> 00:04:28,900 I'll never say that Jeremy then awkwardly tries to pivot into the but I'm happy for you guys thing 49 00:04:28,900 --> 00:04:33,340 But the damage is done. I stand up and say yeah, that's enough man and just stared him 50 00:04:33,340 --> 00:04:37,620 He stammered something about meaning well, but I tell him to leave tries to laugh it off 51 00:04:37,620 --> 00:04:42,020 But no one's laughing and eventually he gets the idea and leaves the reception. Oh 52 00:04:43,140 --> 00:04:44,980 Naturally the vibe is shot later 53 00:04:44,980 --> 00:04:48,380 He texts me saying I overreacted and it was just an honest moment 54 00:04:48,380 --> 00:04:54,520 Some of my friends think I should have just let it slide. So am I the asshole for kicking my best man out for his speech? 55 00:04:55,140 --> 00:04:56,820 Was he like 56 00:04:56,820 --> 00:05:02,660 Sloshing like was he so drunk doesn't say just says that he got up there like to give the toast and like 57 00:05:03,260 --> 00:05:05,500 maybe just got carried away in the moment and 58 00:05:06,380 --> 00:05:08,380 Just be saying the things but 59 00:05:09,140 --> 00:05:14,220 It is insane to me that the wife also didn't tell 60 00:05:14,220 --> 00:05:19,500 Didn't tell her husband that she had a fling with this guy in high school, right? 61 00:05:19,500 --> 00:05:23,860 That's a red flag because they're like running in the same circle still I 62 00:05:25,620 --> 00:05:31,460 Really would be a little bit if I found out could you imagine no an expression on your wedding day 63 00:05:31,460 --> 00:05:36,940 And it's like a speech and it's like one of your bridesmaids just gets up and it's like so oh 64 00:05:38,020 --> 00:05:39,340 I 65 00:05:39,340 --> 00:05:42,320 Would be so furious that is 66 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:48,080 Madness to me so it doesn't say if he was drunk or not. No, okay. Nope. I 67 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:50,160 mean 68 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:56,160 Have to assume he's probably a little bit a little bit loosened up gotta be but yeah, it's like 69 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:59,840 But also with the speech you have it prepared when you go 70 00:05:59,840 --> 00:06:04,960 So like he probably wrote it beforehand or at least thought about what he was going to say 71 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:11,200 Before the speed top it before he was drinking before he was not in his right mind headspace 72 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:18,440 I would be I'd be curious if you're listening right now. Give us your thoughts. Would you write the speech or would you riff? 73 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:24,320 There's definitely the demographic that would riff as a videographer. Please do not riff 74 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:27,960 Just write it it sounds so much better 75 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:32,360 And then you can add it to a wedding film and it's so seamless and pretty and it tells their story 76 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:35,760 But if you're just riffing it doesn't work, but also like 77 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:43,320 If you're being asked to speak at a wedding, yeah, and you have the guts to just stand up there and like shoot from the hip 78 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:49,340 Shout out to you. I could never do that. That's lazy. I mean lazy or confident 79 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:57,320 But this yeah, obviously this Jeremy fellow he wrong wrong place wrong time 80 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:03,800 Poor poor OP poor OP like that is the worst way to start off your marriage 81 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:07,840 I know they weren't having a good time on their honeymoon. No, yeah, we 82 00:07:08,760 --> 00:07:13,800 To have that be the way that like you kick things off. There's just like trust issues immediately hundred percent 83 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:16,320 so so bad that's 84 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:22,800 Horrible, is there an update or anything? No, but worth noting is that he's like he's like yeah 85 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:27,400 It was high school like he's like already trying to hedge like oh, it's not the most important thing in the world 86 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:32,440 Like whatever it's in the past. She married me blah blah blah. I wonder 87 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:36,000 It's like I wonder if he's truly doubting her or 88 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:41,400 He's chilling. He's like, okay, whatever. It's in the past. But my friends an idiot. No way 89 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:47,960 That's his best man, but people were texting him and saying like bro you overreacted you should I overreacted? 90 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:55,000 Yeah, he says it was just an honest moment. Well, no, he texted that some of my friends some of my friends think I should have 91 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:58,680 Just let us slide. Maybe he was just boozing and just like kind of loose 92 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:03,720 No, doesn't like quote the whole speech. He just says that they used to date in high school 93 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:06,000 He wishes it could have been him 94 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:11,200 Start talking about how they always had a connection and how he never stopped caring about her 95 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:18,760 Then you can't make that sound good you can't you absolutely can't I don't think his intentions were in the right place 96 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:25,200 He still wants to bang her a hundred percent and yeah, who knows who knows if he has I don't like this wifey either 97 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:33,160 But who knows maybe to her it was like nothing like high school fling. Yeah, they've been together for five years 98 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:36,560 Yeah, obviously, I mean she's 28. He's 32. Yeah 99 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:40,320 so she would have been five years removed at least from 100 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:45,600 The fling when they met, but it's not like that's just gonna come up in conversation like oh 101 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:51,280 By the way, oh, like since since so and so is your roommate since so and so is your friend 102 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:55,320 I should tell you that like I made out with him in high school. That should absolutely 103 00:08:55,680 --> 00:09:02,280 Come up as soon as that name is dropped like think about me whenever anyone's name is dropped. What's the first thing I say? 104 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:05,040 Like oh, yeah hooked up with him 105 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:09,120 Okay, not everyone everyone every single person 106 00:09:09,560 --> 00:09:13,800 Okay, so myself up for that. I'm just saying if that name comes up. I'm like, oh, yeah, I dated him 107 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:18,840 Well, yeah, but it's because we're like oh, yeah Channing Tatum. Oh, yeah, I dated him in high school 108 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:25,240 I wish yeah, that's type of stuff. No, but it's not like hard to compare 109 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:32,280 Just different but that's a wild story. He's obviously not the asshole for kicking his friend out because 110 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:34,120 buddy 111 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:38,760 Like at least tell something good about your about you your guy your homie 112 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:45,120 Oh, like stoke for you, man. Hope hope you have a good life with the girl that I dated in high school 113 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:50,080 She's a great kisser and joy. I thought everything she knows. Yeah, exactly 114 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:53,240 Why not gave her the tutoring in high school? 115 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:58,920 Good old tutoring so there we go. That's my story story 116 00:09:58,920 --> 00:10:02,160 I feel like that was fake because of how crazy that was but 117 00:10:02,560 --> 00:10:07,360 Straight on you can't like you just never know because read it. There are so many 118 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:12,360 Crazy stories and honestly, I've had some crazy stories as well happened in my life 119 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:17,040 That if I wrote them on Reddit people would be like, oh, that's fake. It's like no, that's that's my life 120 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:22,000 Yeah, I mean hey things happen speaking of a best man speech 121 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:24,440 Would you be comfortable sharing? Oh 122 00:10:26,560 --> 00:10:28,200 My gosh 123 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:31,360 This is let's just say this is anonymous. I'm gonna make this non-specific 124 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:37,200 So you can edit out the name sure this happened to somebody I know there you go 125 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:43,600 I'm just gonna try to keep it anonymous. Yeah, this individual got up at his siblings wedding 126 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:48,800 Was just gushing about how much he loved his sisters now husband 127 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:49,520 Mm-hmm 128 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:55,720 Just you know really excited for the sister because she found just the best guy ever and 129 00:10:56,080 --> 00:11:00,960 He just repeated over and over how awesome his new brother-in-law was 130 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:05,200 something to the effect of he never thought that this would happen for his sister and 131 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:11,120 How much he loves this guy and loves him and loves him and loves him all he said positive about this 132 00:11:11,560 --> 00:11:17,120 About his sister was he would have never expected his sister to marry somebody like this guy 133 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:23,680 He's so grateful that this guy was able to tame her and he was able to put up with her. Oh my gosh 134 00:11:23,680 --> 00:11:30,240 I love him. I love him. I love him and he was he was feeling it and was he drunk 135 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:34,640 Is that what feeling it means? Uh-huh. Okay. Okay, and the bride? 136 00:11:35,560 --> 00:11:37,560 Stormed out of the reception 137 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:42,360 Area that is so sad and you just hear him 138 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:48,920 Oh, what the groom do after and like just like sat there for a second was obviously loving the speech to solve about how 139 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:53,000 Awesome he is and then all of a sudden the brides walking out and 140 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:55,800 Person giving the speech is like oh 141 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:58,400 shit 142 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:00,400 She's walking out of their room 143 00:12:01,160 --> 00:12:05,860 Was it a big wedding? Oh, it was big enough. No, I was big enough 144 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:13,000 For some reason I pictured that wedding to be like more intimate. It was it was not small. Oh, wow, that's 145 00:12:13,640 --> 00:12:15,640 wasn't massive, but it was like oh 146 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:22,680 It was a solid reception. Maybe I mean this is a truly just a ballpark 60 to 100 people as my guess 147 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:27,520 That's so sad. Did she come back in and enjoy the rest of the night? Um, I 148 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:29,920 Don't remember because the vibe was shot 149 00:12:30,680 --> 00:12:36,480 No, I she did she did end up coming back in and like the the night continued, but oh 150 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:39,160 How old were you? 151 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:41,480 15 you're young 152 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:50,240 High school kiddo. Mm-hmm. Wow. Yeah, that that was crazy. That's crazy. Oh, see that's a thing like these stories 153 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:51,880 You just never know 154 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:55,280 All right, are we ready for mine fire away? 155 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:59,560 Am I the asshole for telling my friend the rule reason I rejected her I 156 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:05,320 25 male I've been friends with Denise 24 female for about 12 years. You probably know where this is going 157 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:07,040 I had a crush on her until last year 158 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:13,000 I asked her out and she said no, but her actual response was you'll be my backup plan when things don't work out ouch 159 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:14,600 Oh, heck no 160 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:20,040 I mean was I hurt when she said that but I moved on and focused on me even though me and her so cold each other 161 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:22,320 I separated myself from the equation now 162 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:25,080 Fast forward yesterday and you can probably guess what happened 163 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:29,840 She wants to date and I point blank said no and she got pissed and I asked why my response 164 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:33,960 Denise you point blank call me your backup plan as in if I can't get a man 165 00:13:33,960 --> 00:13:38,800 I like I'll give you a chance calling any man your backup plan to his face will get you ignored 166 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:44,160 I was taught to not be anyone's backup plan now I'm blocked so am I the asshole dang 167 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:48,440 Really Denise what are you doing? 168 00:13:48,440 --> 00:13:55,040 How are you gonna do my guy like that that ain't right? I feel so bad for him because he obviously has had a crush on her 169 00:13:55,680 --> 00:14:00,160 For a year now. He like has the courage to finally tell her and she's like 170 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:05,600 You'll be my backup plan if I can't find someone else. That's like she actually said those words 171 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:12,520 She's like if I can't find someone. Oh, what did she say? Yeah, you'll be my backup plan when things don't work out 172 00:14:12,520 --> 00:14:16,080 I wonder why he doesn't want to date you Denise first of all 173 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:20,800 I don't know why Denise is surprised. Yeah, she should not be surprised 174 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:26,880 Don't ever tell a dude that he's the backup plan talk about Cupid missing. Yeah, like girl 175 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:33,640 If he was gonna be good enough to be your backup plan like give it an honest go and if he's not then don't 176 00:14:34,360 --> 00:14:37,240 But don't don't do my guy like that. That's messed up 177 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:40,040 I'm proud of him for being like yeah, nah, I'm not doing that 178 00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:44,920 But she blocked him so he's obviously frustrated and not like he still like wants her low key 179 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:51,800 Well, yeah, it's like the feelings don't just go away. You're not just like oh, I know I don't like you anymore 180 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:55,440 Yeah, it's like he just is hurt by the fact that he was the backup plan 181 00:14:55,440 --> 00:15:01,380 Yeah, if he's smart he already knows that there's no way that relationship is gonna go anywhere because she wasn't down to date him 182 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:07,640 So it's like a pastime something to do now. I have another story the year is 2004 183 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:15,120 Ish, I'm in sixth grade. You know where this is going his OP said there was this popular kid in the school all the girls loved him 184 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:17,400 Very athletic kid then there was me 185 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:20,560 I was like kind of athletic, but I was not as cool as this guy 186 00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:26,160 This kid was like wearing under armor before it was cool or when it first became cool 187 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:30,240 blue skin tight under armor with red armbands 188 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:36,720 Like this dude was ready for anything. Okay, he was he was in it to win it 189 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:38,720 I can just see it already. Oh 190 00:15:39,120 --> 00:15:41,600 You don't even know he could jump high 191 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:47,440 No, but anyways, so he's kind of like king of this king of the school. We're in sixth grade 192 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:52,160 I mustered up the courage to ask this girl to be my girlfriend in sixth grade 193 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:55,640 Whoa, and she was new to our school 194 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:59,360 So it's kind of a big deal and she said yes like she was like down 195 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:03,880 So I'm like cool, you know, I'm excited and this is in the days where like you get a girlfriend 196 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:07,560 But you don't talk to him. You don't even look at him. You're too scared 197 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:14,200 This kid finds out that I'm dating her dating and he's like oh dude like let me just let me show you something 198 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:16,680 And I don't remember exactly how it happened 199 00:16:16,680 --> 00:16:22,760 But he walked up to her and basically said like hey, I like I want to date you you should date me instead 200 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:27,800 And she turned around she turned to him. It was like oh, absolutely. Let me go and dump Joe now 201 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:30,800 Yeah 202 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:36,680 So he then tells her I'm actually not interested comes to tell me and says hey 203 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:41,920 This is what just happened. Just so you know did you dump her talk about being the backup plan or did you stay with her? 204 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:46,680 Oh, no, I I dumped her ass good. Yeah, I was like absolutely not. Oh 205 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:53,680 Did you tell her that or you just knew it was over and didn't ever say anything to her? Oh, no, I was I was I was 206 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:59,800 Devastated. Oh, yeah, I don't remember how I told her but I was like, yeah, no like that's that's not gonna be a thing 207 00:16:59,800 --> 00:17:03,360 That's so sad. Yeah, I remember sitting in the back of the classroom 208 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:07,760 And I mean sixth grade you're like old enough, but you're still just a kid, you know 209 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:14,120 Yeah, 11 or 12 or whatever. Yeah, like I remember sitting in the back of the class and we had a m and p.m 210 00:17:14,120 --> 00:17:20,400 So like half the kids would go in at 7 30 leave at 2 30 half the kids would go in at 9 and leave it whatever 211 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:23,280 3 30 whatever it is so she was part of the a.m 212 00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:28,080 So she like left for the day with her class and then like the half of my class stayed 213 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:31,760 There's like less kids and I remember just sitting in the back of the class and I was like 214 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:35,320 I don't know what we were supposed to be doing, but I was just all sad and like you know 215 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:39,600 Yeah, yeah, I literally like head down like just bummed out in the back 216 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:42,720 And my teacher came up to me and like tried to console me 217 00:17:43,440 --> 00:17:47,600 She was gross like everyone hated her and she was like not very nice 218 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:54,320 But she came back and was like trying to check on me. Oh, that's sweet. Yeah. Yeah, I wonder where he's at now 219 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:57,160 Do you know? Oh, I definitely do shut up 220 00:17:57,160 --> 00:18:03,280 Does it make you feel better or worse way worse? No, he's rich. Oh, so rich 221 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:06,400 So frickin rich. Oh 222 00:18:07,120 --> 00:18:13,680 Yeah, like made it out the mud. No, I mean good for him, but also no 223 00:18:14,360 --> 00:18:16,360 Is he married? 224 00:18:16,360 --> 00:18:19,160 Last I saw okay. Yeah, all right 225 00:18:19,760 --> 00:18:22,560 Who's high school high school sweetheart actually wow 226 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:26,600 Okay, so he changed things around he stayed with one girl and no, yeah, no 227 00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:30,720 He wasn't like a playboy type guy like he wasn't like he's just a wasn't like that 228 00:18:30,720 --> 00:18:34,940 He's like he was king dingling in school. So he like I wanted to flaunt it off 229 00:18:34,940 --> 00:18:39,120 Yeah, and you get to you know when you're an alpha like that you get to and now look at him 230 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:44,680 Crazy crazy crazy. Yeah, no, that's what if you got married to that girl? 231 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:47,440 That would have been crazy 232 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:49,040 Yeah 233 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:54,640 But hey, you know, we've all been there adds character. Yeah, oh P. You're gonna be fine 234 00:18:54,800 --> 00:19:00,560 Don't don't give in we need to do a storyline of worse rejections ever like something crazy 235 00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:04,240 That could be there's no law everyone gets rejected at one point in their life 236 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:07,800 I could I could have our producer add that to the list. Yeah 237 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:16,680 This one also comes from am I the asshole Cupid's biggest misses am I the asshole for rejecting my boyfriend's proposal? 238 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:19,440 Even though I've been dropping hints that I want to be married 239 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:26,600 Girls shut the frick up y'all be so 240 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:33,320 Exhausting just wait me 26f and boyfriend 30m have been dating for three years 241 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:39,880 We don't live together because we both want to get married first because our parents wouldn't agree to cohabitating before marriage 242 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:44,280 I've been fairly obvious about wanting to get married and my boyfriend has picked up on it last week 243 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:47,200 We went to my great-aunt's funeral although. I didn't know her very well 244 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:50,640 I was still upset and it was really hard to see how much it hurt my mother 245 00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:57,440 So after the funeral we went to a hall that we rented to cater to the other mourners and to remember her my boyfriend saw 246 00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:59,440 This as a chance to propose. Oh 247 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,000 Okay, I don't feel bad for him anymore 248 00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:08,880 This left me mortified and everyone was staring at us for using this to make it about ourselves. Oh, I 249 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:14,520 I said no he got angry and walked off saying that I'm the one who wants to get married 250 00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:19,200 So I shouldn't care where he proposes. He also said that if I truly loved him. I would say yes 251 00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:23,520 He's ignoring me right now and won't give me a chance to explain in any other scenario 252 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:26,680 I would say yes, but I didn't think it was the right place or time 253 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:31,760 I'm wondering if I'm the asshole because I rejected him even though I want to get married when I asked my co-worker 254 00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:37,580 She agreed that what I did was wrong, but wants more opinions from other people who don't know me 255 00:20:37,580 --> 00:20:39,580 So am I the asshole? 256 00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:43,220 No, I don't think she's the asshole. I 257 00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:50,280 Think he should have not taken that time to do that. It's not about them. I would feel so uncomfortable 258 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:57,240 You're like I was celebrating in the happiest moment. You thought my proposal was bad. Yeah 259 00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:00,920 That yeah, yeah, you're way better than that. Yeah 260 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:09,120 Like come on. Oh my god, dude's like yeah, we're all just mourning this dead lady, but like we made since we're all together 261 00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:14,520 What do you think do you think like his speech level four was like right for sure? 262 00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:20,960 We don't know how much longer we have we need to get married like made it about that like life or death kind of stuff 263 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:26,680 This dude this dude crushed a mound of funeral potatoes drank some fruit punch 264 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:31,740 And then walked up behind her when she's talking to aunt Susie and just got down on one knee 265 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:38,760 See, I'm picturing more of like they're like putting griffin the great what is a great grandma the yeah great aunt great 266 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:46,280 Aunt down into the hole and they're all standing around and he's great. Thank you turn sir and just proposes like it's all green 267 00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:49,760 There's flowers like feel like they make the cemetery is really pretty 268 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:52,560 that would work if 269 00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:55,000 It didn't say that they were in a hall 270 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:59,080 meaning it's like they're in like a funeral home or like a 271 00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:01,760 church kind of a thing 272 00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:05,360 Like where they're all there. They're gathered to mourn. It's like the 273 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:08,400 It's the funeral 274 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:15,000 It's all good that and it smells I'm just picturing sight smell and 275 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:21,320 Hear all the things. Why are you people crying? Why is it? I don't know why it would smell, but maybe it does 276 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:25,000 Well, it's not the morgue I 277 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:31,040 Know have you ever been in a funeral home? I have been to a funeral in a church 278 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:38,080 No, that's different than a factual going into like a funeral home. Are you thinking like a nursing home? 279 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:45,080 No, no where people hold funerals in a funeral home. What does it smell like stale? 280 00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:48,120 Yeah, you're thinking you're thinking of a nursing home 281 00:22:48,120 --> 00:22:53,560 No, I've been to a few two funerals in a funeral home and it wasn't at the church 282 00:22:54,120 --> 00:22:56,120 on BS 283 00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:58,040 Well, maybe 284 00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:03,560 Okay, so the smell is significant. Yeah, I'm just I'm just getting a visualization like you know, I'm just really 285 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,680 I'm just there trying to understand why this boyfriend 286 00:23:07,360 --> 00:23:12,040 Would do it then other than the fact that he thinks family's there. So why not do it? 287 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:17,360 Yeah, well, he knows family's there and it's he's just like this guy has to be so aloof 288 00:23:17,360 --> 00:23:25,120 He has to just be such a dummy. That's so bad. Hmm sitting there. He's full. He's bored. He's like, oh, I 289 00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:27,960 Got the ring on me 290 00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:32,200 Let's get this over with no, it was so planned. There was no just like 291 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:37,520 Random all of a sudden doing it. You're not bringing a ring unless you're planning 292 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:43,800 But getting his head out like what is he thinking? He's like, yeah, family's around. So let's just do it 293 00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:49,280 I think maybe he's seeing everyone really sad. He wants to make everyone happy things would cheer up the moment 294 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:54,600 I think it could be one of those like life short. I can't wait another second before 295 00:23:55,360 --> 00:23:57,920 Like I propose like I can't wait any longer 296 00:23:58,360 --> 00:24:01,200 You could die tomorrow. Like I'm just I don't know 297 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:05,760 I just he's an idiot and I feel like if I was me and you did that 298 00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:12,800 I would probably be like, okay, yes, but you're gonna redo this get the freak up hide the ring and let's redo that later 299 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:14,800 Yeah, you'd be like I didn't do my nails 300 00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:18,300 This no, this is the wrong day. Yeah 301 00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:24,800 No, but I think I was just like man this lady died vibes in here sus 302 00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:32,400 I'm alive in this up. I can't believe he did that. That's so wild so wild. So how did it end again remind me? 303 00:24:33,360 --> 00:24:37,040 She said I would say yes, but I didn't think it was the right place or time 304 00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:41,360 I'm wondering if I'm the asshole because I rejected him even though I want to get married 305 00:24:41,360 --> 00:24:47,720 When I asked my co-worker she agreed that what I did was wrong, but I just want some more opinions from people who don't know me 306 00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:54,000 Is there an update or anything like is the husband or if you're out today or boyfriend or ex boyfriend at this point 307 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:59,560 Is he pissed so there is an edit? Oh full disclosure. This is my first time reading it edit 308 00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:03,440 I'm seeing a lot of comments talking about how we let our parents dictate our lives 309 00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:09,320 So I just want to clarify that we both live on our own and have spent long periods of time at each other's apartments 310 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:13,080 The only reason we don't live together is out of respect to our parents views 311 00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:18,640 I have a roommate and he doesn't so I spend most of my time at his place. We just don't officially live together 312 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:22,480 Thank you for all your responses. We're both speaking to each other about everything 313 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:27,400 We both agree that we should have communicated more about our future together. The situation is progressing 314 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:32,160 However, I'm reevaluating our relationship and things that have happened recently and in the past 315 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:38,080 He's adamant about being in the right because he believes that he was trying to cheer everyone up by giving us something to celebrate 316 00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:45,200 Instead of more I do it. I didn't realize how emotionally immature he really is. Yeah, that's such an egg 317 00:25:47,120 --> 00:25:53,000 It's literally what I said, he's like good vibes in here bad like why is everyone so sad? 318 00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:58,960 Like I'm about to turn this be around. Yeah, watch this. Are you watching? I'll make this better 319 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:03,760 I mean if she's having second thoughts, there's a reason why dump him 320 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:11,240 That's yeah, this whole thing is like this guy has the emotional intelligence of a peanut and you do not want to marry someone like that 321 00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:18,680 I mean, that's really hard. Yeah, look at I mean you did and look at us. You're right. You're very emotionally intelligent 322 00:26:19,120 --> 00:26:24,320 Jokes she she should probably move on to somebody that's not emotionally like 11 323 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:25,920 I love that. He's just like yep 324 00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:30,800 The funeral is the time rest in peace Aunt Edna, but we got lives to live 325 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:37,360 It's crazy. Yeah, talk about missing. Yeah. Yeah, that that was by that's by far the best story of the night 326 00:26:37,360 --> 00:26:43,240 That is keep it missing. I for sure. I would have to agree with you, but you know, the other ones are pretty good, too 327 00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:48,360 I'm impressed Joe. I have no idea which ones to fake. Yeah, you do not I bet you don't 328 00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:55,680 You guys let us know follow us on socials. Yeah, you know what to do YouTube Instagram 329 00:26:55,680 --> 00:27:05,280 Tiktok Facebook hit us up on all of it internet frenzy if you're a regular podcast listener shout out to you guys the social media like 330 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:10,920 The Instagram the tiktok we've we've kind of hit these like spikes where we get lots of interaction lots of views 331 00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:15,540 Which is awesome, but the podcasters we rock for you guys because you guys listen every week 332 00:27:15,540 --> 00:27:24,040 We appreciate that support. 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