What's up gang?
What up?
What's up?
Oh no.
Back for another one.
Gosh, we sound exhausted.
Already.
It's been a long week, but it's been a fun week full of lots of adventures, you know.
Period. What have yours been? Because I don't know.
I don't know that my week is adventurous.
As soon as I said adventures, I was thinking,
what could I make up right now to talk about adventure-wise?
I've had zero.
I don't even remember my week, so...
So, last week was the Petty Olympics.
Personally, really enjoyed that one. That was fun.
Really good.
And like, I don't know who had the fake, but there's one story that I remember vividly
that could have been fake.
So, let's see if I'm right.
If you had the fake, raise your hand.
Yeah, yeah.
Isaiah, raise his hand if you're listening to the podcast.
This is true.
Mr. Programmer.
Mr. Say No to Apps.
Oh my goodness, that was petty as can be.
Here's the thing though.
I feel like if I would have known that was fake ahead of time, I would have reacted differently.
Joe was so into it.
I was like, I was in it to win it.
I was like, what a nerd.
What a weirdie that would take the time to write this book.
It was you.
It was you. You're the nerd.
You did.
You are.
So, well, that's crazy.
And in retrospect, like, might have been obvious.
You guys let us know what you think.
Yeah, I would love to know if everyone got it or not.
Sometimes, it's crazy.
Sometimes people get it, and then other times it's like, it was very random.
Like, the guesses would be all across the board from the listeners.
Yeah.
I feel like people wouldn't because it was just something like, yeah, I do that too.
It was really unboreable.
People do it.
You know?
I mean, yeah, like, but to take the time to write the post.
That's the same thing.
It was like, I was like, who is the nerd behind the keyboard that's like, wanting to make sure
that he gets this guilt off his chest.
We need to look that up and see if there's any people that actually do write stuff about that.
I'm sure there is.
I'm sure.
There are people for everything.
Yeah, the internet's a vast place.
So I'm sure there's posts out there, but yours would have been one of them now.
That was something special.
Nice.
Well, this one should be fun too.
Yeah.
This should be a good episode.
It is, but wait, you're not the main character.
Period.
So probably going to be some, some main character vibes one way or the other.
100%.
But let's, let's jump in.
I'm going to guess that we're going to start with you.
Wow.
That's me.
That's always me.
It's crazy.
That's crazy.
It's crazy.
We start with me.
Internet fancy, electric love so trendy, right in this world blending, one click, no pretending.
But the mic's going to be really good.
Why am I in my 30th plant because I'm quite passionate about my wedding.
Not by being sorts.
準備, make my birthday certain.
I was thinking.
This would be perfect for me.
girlfriend 26f has been on my case about this wedding her sister has been
planning for like two years. I get it's a big deal to her family or whatever but
it's not like I'm even close to her sister. I've met her what five times and
three of those were at like family barbecue is where I was basically just
there to bring beer and hang with her dad. We don't vibe and I don't feel like
I should have to take an entire weekend out of my life for a wedding when I
could be relaxing. The wedding was last Saturday and yeah I said I'd go months
ago because my girlfriend was nagging me about it non-stop but the thing is I had
a long week at work and my boys hit me up at Friday night saying they were
having a little get-together. Just a chill night, poker, some beers, the usual. I
figured what's one night to unwind so I went. I thought I'd leave early but then
the game got intense and before I knew it it was 3 a.m. my girlfriend was blowing
up my phone but I figured she'd get over it. She always does. I wake up Saturday
hungover as hell and she's furious because I wasn't answering her texts
and now we're late for the wedding. She's screaming about how I promised her I'd
go and how this day is so important for her family and blah blah blah but I'm
sitting there thinking why is everyone making such a big deal out of one day?
It's just a wedding. Like am I supposed to ruin my weekend for a free meal and
some bad DJ music? Plus I wasn't feeling great and honestly didn't feel like
going so I told her to go without me and I'd stay home to recover. She went but
now she's saying I embarrassed her in front of her entire family. Her mom even
texted me which I think is insane because what grown man gets scolded by his
girlfriend's mom. She's saying I let her down and made it all about me but
honestly what was I supposed to do? Go there looking like death and be miserable
the whole time? I feel like it's better for everyone that I stayed home. To add to
it she's bringing up other stuff now like the fact that I build on her work
holiday party last month because the Eagles were playing or that time she
asked me to pick her up from the airport and I told her to Uber because I was in
the middle of a FIFA match with my buddy. I don't think those things are
comparable but she's making it sound like I'm some kind of terrible boyfriend. I
don't think I'm the bad guy here. I just bug in my time and don't see why I need
to bend over backward for every little thing. Like I treat her well most of the
time so isn't that enough? Am I the asshole? Oh my gosh so is he the like is
he trying to ask just about the wedding situation or all? Just the just the
wedding situation? We'll start with the wedding. Just asking what we could talk about all the other things.
Just the wedding then. He definitely made himself the main character here like he
doesn't care about anything else but him as his boys. No very self-centered. Very
clearly that's the way that he lives his entire existence. He is the he is the
center of the world. I can't believe it. And he's like shocked that it got blown up.
I'm like bro it definitely got blown up. You sound like an asshole. Yeah exactly.
People love hearing this. Exactly. They want to destroy you. Yeah. That's so funny
because he like hearing you read it he's such a bro. He's such like a frat boy
like bro. I don't even know how he has a girlfriend honestly. Yeah she must not
like herself. She loves the attention. Like not getting the attention and then
like the asshole. Yeah she loves that. She's in fact. A lot of girls like that.
They do. They love that they love the d-bags. Yeah. Yeah we do. Oh please. They're two assholes.
That must be your boyfriend because not me. I will say I get a little bit where
he's coming from of like there's there's weddings that I've not wanted to go to.
Yeah. The difference to you what you have to consider is like obviously we're all
married so it is a little bit of a different vibe when they're just dating.
Yeah. So like he's not he's not invested to the point where like yeah your whole
family is my family already. Yeah. So it's like. And also like what's up with planning a
wedding for two years. That's normal. I've had weddings that a lot of people do that.
Yeah. Some some people do take more than 15 minutes. I just filmed a wedding a couple
of November where they booked with me two years ago. Actually too. Because we got married
in three months. Yeah. But like. But still like that's just yeah. Okay. That's crazy to me.
But like I just I don't know. I honestly don't think he is. The asshole. I don't.
But you don't think she's the asshole though right either. It's just kind of like a crappy
situation. I just think it's like. Like get over it. Don't really want to go to the wedding.
But it's really not about that. It's about showing up for your girlfriend and like she
wants to take a plus one to the date like to the to like the wedding that I feel like he
should care about that like oh like I'm going to be here. I mean because then she's just at
this wedding alone. But what if he doesn't vibe like he said with her family. I think he can
suck it up. It's one night. Drink a couple beers and just show up. Don't remember it.
He's just one of the dudes just just a dude being a bro bro. Hey shout out to our videographer
and DJ. Hey they're right there. They're right there. I know I'm saying I don't want to go
to some shitty DJ. I know I was like not ours. You weren't at my wedding. That's hilarious
because I was thinking like yeah that that like hype music to dance to at a wedding is
like a must. Yeah but it's not. I'm kind of with him on that like the music just is kind
of like don't give me like techno or the cha cha slide. And like that's the same type
of vibe the entire dance. I'm like I'm going to die. Give me like shake down the little
you know what I get out of your mind. Get out of your mind.
To the window. To the wall.
I was just like she's getting down to my legs. Yes she was. Oh man. Well great story. Love
that. Love you guys. Next story. Am I the devil. This one after the title you're not
going to need much more but it's just this is the story that keeps on giving. So brace
yourselves and for real trigger warning maybe cheated for years on GF slash wife. I'm triggered.
Well buckle up buttercup. Say it again. Like cheated for years on GF slash wife. Meaning
from the time. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Here I am 27 started dating my wife F 25 and summer
2017 around that time an old friend F 26 from high school reached out and was also interested
in dating me at the time my wife had a very rough home life filled with abuse and poverty
and I felt incredibly bad for her. I let her move in with me by early 2018 and things were
pretty okay the first few months but I soon learned her and I were not compatible in this
relationship wouldn't last over this time. I still occasionally talked to my high school
friend. She was aware that I had a GF living with me but I assured her things weren't
that serious yet and things were only like this to help my GF get out of a bad home life.
My plan was to help my girlfriend find a decent job and support her for a bit until she was
on her feet and then break up with her and start dating the high school friend. Well
weeks turned to months and no changes had been made. Girlfriend had trouble finding
a steady job and had no aspirations of education but I couldn't find it in my gut to break
it off knowing if I did she could possibly be homeless so I just smiled and pretended
to be happy with her. Every chance I got I would text and call my high school friend
we talked for hours nearly every day. I worked a job where I was alone at an office for most
of my days so it worked out. We video called talked about our dreams and planned out lives
together given I could get the guts to leave my girlfriend and shamefully even sexted quite
a bit. We met up in person a few times as well but this was a pretty hard thing to pull
off due to many reasons so it didn't happen much. This girl was my soulmate and I was
just waiting for the right time to make my move. This freaking guy. I hate him. Same
but I never did. Nothing ever happened. I folded under the pressure of family and friends
and married my girlfriend in 2022. I'm pretty tech savvy and my wife is not so it wasn't
hard to hide the messages and call logs. My mistress learned my schedule and knew exactly
when I would be at work every day so we could talk. Neither one of us told another soul.
She dated a few guys during all this time and always kept our secret and let it continue.
We were 1000% in love but I just couldn't throw my gf slash wife out on the streets
even if I knew her and I weren't meant to be. This went on from 2017 all the way until
summer of 2023. My mistress and I finally decided that had went on long enough and ripped the
bandaid off. We both knew I didn't have the heart to ever do what needed to be done so
that was it. I haven't heard from her in over a year now and I'm still heartbroken. Worst
part is that I can't tell anyone that I'm heartbroken but that's what I get for not
having the guts to do the right thing. Let's pray right now. I'll take my hat off. For
me because I'm about to blow. Okay you better step up to the plate here because you teed that up.
This guy is the worst human. I hate him and him saying this poor girl. This poor
poor girl. She's better off homeless you little fetcher like a dumb harass. Like the pity.
The pity part. The condescending little vibe. Condescending little vibe. Yeah enough said.
I'm so mad. No for real. Oh that poor girl. I can't stand the end where he says we have not
spoken in over a year and I'm so heartbroken. I'm just picturing how horrible he is in that
marriage and she's like what's wrong honey what's wrong what's wrong. Like why are you so
distant why are you so mad and he's just so like he can't tell her he's shut off he's pissed off at her
for his own shit. Yeah oh I just feel like that's terrible. Could you imagine no like like honey open
up like could you tell me what's going on. It's like okay well if you really want to know like I
only dated you because you were about to be homeless and you were traumatized as a child and I was
really in love with this other girl and cheated on you all this time and then we decided to break
it off a little while ago and I've never had the balls to tell you. And I miss her. And I miss her.
And I'm heartbroken that I've lived like this. And I wanted to be with her. And I still do. Yeah.
She would say goodbye. Of course she would and she would say thanks for the memories even though
they weren't that great. She'd say in your name the song. It's fine you guys are children. It's
John Mayer. No. Bob Ross. No.
And it's like he's really just torturing himself. It's like yeah he really just has zero guts
whatsoever. All right here's a good one. I totally cheated on my wife because I didn't want to hurt
her. I feel like we've had a few of those. Yeah. Just insane. Just trying to protect her feelings.
Someone else said fake. There's no way two women would fall in love with this loser. Oh I'd be surprised.
The top one says you're a coward and deserve to be heartbroken and somebody responded and said
this may he forever step on Lego's barefoot. You guys ready. Sounds good. This sounds really good
guys. Am I the asshole for calling my girlfriend selfish for refusing to learn sign language for
my daughter. My daughter Ruby was born mute. She can understand words but we use sign language to
communicate. While she can use her phone or write obviously she prefers to sign. The issue is my
girlfriend Amanda. We've been dating for around nine months and introduced our children around
three months ago. They don't know sign language so communication with Ruby was awkward at first.
She hates having to write or use her phone at home. So I taught Amanda some basic signs beforehand
and I've continued teaching her and Mia more and this time. Mia is getting a lot better actually.
So Mia is the daughter of the girlfriend. But Amanda has apparently decided it's too hard and
refuses to learn anymore. She says that it's unnecessary since Ruby can understand her
and communicate other ways. While Ruby is usually willing to do that for them. She doesn't enjoy it
and finds it frustrating. I told Amanda she's being selfish and lazy. That it's not fair to put all
the effort on Ruby. It's one thing if she doesn't get it after years but it's only been a few months.
It's just ridiculous. We got into a fight over it and she basically called me an asshole and said
it's not her fault she struggles with it. But that doesn't mean just give up. If she wants to be in
our life it's the bare minimum effort to put in. I clearly think she's just being selfish. While she
thinks I'm an asshole and unfair. I vented to my brother and he agreed with Amanda that I can't
force her to learn and not everyone is good with language. And that Ruby doesn't need it and I'm
coddling her. I'm honestly still pissed off but I do love Amanda. She's normally thoughtful and kind
and I guess it's possible it's just me being overprotective of Ruby. I think it's a reasonable
expectation but I'm starting to doubt myself. Yo. Yo. No. Goodbye Amanda. Literally goodbye.
Like I'm putting my daughter over anything at that point especially if you're just dating.
You're not married to that person. Right. Like no one red flag is over. My kid before anything
else. Well that's a big one. That's a huge one. That is so wrong. And it really is the bare minimum
for her to just figure it out. You gotta just learn. It takes time. It could take years but
that's okay as long as you're willing to try. Right. She's a b****. I know when I read this I was
sorry. Sign language for anyone honestly is like I think if I put two months of like wanting to learn
and actually trying. Yeah. Like that's like any language when you actually are like trying to
do it with someone. Yeah. You learn it. You're going to learn it. Yeah. Like you will no matter
how terrible you are if you don't have a gift for it at all. You will learn it. I love sign language.
I mean I'm definitely not fluent in sign language but I really enjoy sign language. I feel like
you could absolutely learn it. It's not impossible and it is the bare minimum like you said. I feel
so sad. I like want to cry for it. That one is really sad. He cannot be like he can't overlook
that one thing because I promise you if he did that he's going to regret it for the rest of his
life. He's going to get married to her and he's going to get a divorce. You 100% off. Yeah.
Because there's going to be more things down the road where she's going to push more and more of
certain things. Here's the other thing. How hard is it to learn the alphabet and sign language?
Not freaking hard. That's like a day. Yeah. And then you can just spell of things. You can just
communicate that way and then like learn. Yeah. I mean it goes without saying that there's literally
there's no excuse for not being willing to learn how to communicate with his daughter. Yeah. It's
like what are we even talking about here? You're dating. Are you going to blend families or are you
not going to do what's required for that? Well and her daughter seems just fine with it. She
loves it and she's learning fast and the thing is about like sign language it's like and lots of
like every other language it's like there's English is so hard. Like there's different
conjugations. There's all like one word could mean 12 different things you know and like spell
the same way but like really like sign language is pretty straightforward and the signs most of the
time like make sense and look like what you're trying to say and so it's like it's really not I
mean I don't want to say it's not that hard because I mean I'm sure it is for some people but she can
do it. She can handle it. She's a grown woman. Yeah it's like she's not she doesn't have to learn
Mandarin. No. Like it's not you don't have to learn some crazy language. That's okay honey. Yeah.
She's gonna have that's literally the type of stuff that would have to be unpacked in therapy
right years down the road because nobody's even gonna have the conversation with her like hey
it's not your fault that Amanda got kicked to the curb like that you know this didn't work out.
What do you think of the brother deciding with the girlfriend? He's the brother from
the couple weeks ago that was going through the phone for the nudes. Yeah same guy. Yeah.
Same guy. That's the brother that has a crush on the brother's girlfriend. What about that one?
Yeah he's sucking up to her for sure. Ten years later he's like dude I need your insight.
Oh yeah dude. You're wrong. Like bad idea like don't do that. Yeah. All right you guys are
gonna hear some comments. Pepper90210 said this should be a deal breaker for you.
Yeah. Yeah. No I agree. Little Ilean said your brother is an asshole too asking for someone
that I'm guessing you might see a future with to learn how to best communicate with your daughter
is not coddling her and she does in fact need to be able to communicate but more importantly
in a manner she feels most comfortable with asking a child to accommodate an adult is honestly one
of the most entitled things I've ever heard. The fact that adult is saying this is too hard for me
do it how I want to is troubling and something you should really consider before taking any
further steps with Amanda. That sums it up. Amanda's gotta go. She's gotta go. I literally
started tearing up. I've never done that in any store we have ever had on this show podcast
because that is so sad. Like he needs to hear my voice right now. You need to leave. Dude like
are you listening? You son of a bitch. She's talking to you. Guys I'm gonna start crying.
You just relax. Let's okay. Let's move on. I love you Ruby. My fiance 29 and I 31M just found out
that we're pregnant. My fiance mentioned that she wanted to wait to announce it at her cousin's
wedding which will be taking place on Sunday. Her cousin and her husband have been struggling
getting pregnant even with IVF or tons of others. Recently they just got some news that their insurance
has stopped funding IVF and not to mention the heartbreak of a recent miscarriage on Mother's Day.
They almost understandably held off on the wedding so my fiance brought it up to me. I told her it's
not at all a good idea. This just seems so wrong especially it being at their wedding. I asked if
she was going to at least ask her cousin for permission and she said no because she wanted it
to be a surprise for everyone. I told her it's not the time nor the place for that and they would
take the spotlight off the couple. In their family there hasn't been a baby in three years so we'd
be the first in that time. My fiance feels that the that it's the perfect time because it's such a
joy and it's not like she can keep it away forever and their problems shouldn't keep her from telling
something so positive. So it's on them and they turn it negative. I told her that's not the point.
She knows what they've been struggling with and she's being selfish if she actually goes through
with that. She cried and claimed I wasn't being supportive and I shouldn't be calling my
pregnant fiance selfish. She doesn't want me to come to come with her to the wedding anymore either
feeling as if I would kill the mood and she hasn't been talking to me either and then this is like
an edit it says so about my fiance and her cousin's relationship. My fiance always saw competition
in her cousin because her cousin would be better at things than her grades dancing cosmetics.
Since they were kids they and she hates that. Last year they hadn't argument about it because my
fiance felt her cousin bragged too much whereas my fiance also mentioned there was one thing her
cousin wasn't good at but never said what it was. So in shorter terms the relationship is in between
good and bad but her cousin wanted to invite her to the wedding. I'm guessing to rekindle that.
If anyone is reading this update coming soon just been going through some stuff for a long
wait. Oh please tell me there's an update. What was one year ago. Oh oh dude that girl sucks.
The worst. So bad. Just be the fact that you could be insensitive enough to want to announce it
in front of the couple. Right. That's been going through the infertility. That's crazy but then
to do it at their wedding on top of that. And then we're going to cancel it because of the
miscarriage and all of the stuff. That's heartbreaking. They're just like hey we're so glad this worked
out for you guys and we're expecting and we didn't have to spend thousands of dollars and it happened
for us naturally and everything's great and like why aren't you guys happy for us. Oh congrats on
your wedding. That's on you. That is grade A the worst. Like this fits in all the categories.
This is like worst person of the year. This is like literally in all the things. Definitely main
character vibes but oh my gosh. Yeah. And not to mention that their relationship has been strained
basically their the whole life now too. So it's like you really care that much about like one
up in your cousin that you're going to like do that at her wedding. I hope her cousin does something
shitty at her wedding if she actually does that because they're not married. She won't survive.
Her cousin's going to pop her one. That's like the level of the level of like what's the word.
Like the way that that would hurt for the cousin to have them announce it at her wedding.
Like oh just that infertility stuff too. Like not to beat the dead horse. That is like
it's so hard to explain what that feels like for those people and like you start to want to just
wrap yourself in bubble wrap. Yeah. Because it's like you're it's so emotional. You can't avoid it.
You see it everywhere and then like you have to think that somebody would like make a competition
out of it. That person's such a bad person. Yeah. They weren't having that problem. Yeah.
It doesn't matter. Like when someone's wedding like it's like wearing a white dress but worse
getting proposed to at a wedding. Yeah. That is I think that you want to hear if you want to hear
crazy story. Yes. At someone's baptism in South Africa. Someone got baptized right as soon as they
got dunked and were walking out of the font. Literally someone announced now look behind you
and the guy was on his mean proposing. No. Just just people in the ward. A guy and a girl.
They both got from their missions and he was proposing.
How messed up is that right as soon as the girl the girl gets dunked at the baptism.
And then they close it. They close it and then one of the person's announces like
now look behind there. Everyone's everyone turns around and then like freaking out.
They just do it because all their family was there at that point. No clue. Who cares. Yeah.
We're this committed. We're this committed to the gospel like our life which we're started on the
right foot. Like it was really weird. You're getting baptized and literally someone's getting
engaged right in front of you after you come out of the water and everyone's like you look and
everyone's turned around looking at someone else and you're just like oh okay. That's your day.
So I just want to clarify like how it ended. So the wedding hasn't happened yet.
It's happening Sunday. So he probably wrote this like
Tuesday and it's happening that weekend. She's like don't come with me. He has no idea if she's
going to do it or not but she probably will do it because there's nothing stopping her.
Yeah. She's just her world. Yep. Everybody's living in it. Can you imagine that couple's face
at their wedding and hearing it? Yeah. It's like how and the family's probably like this is so
awkward. Like we want to be happy for you but we don't want to do it here. Like that's weird.
Yeah. That makes sense. That's the whole that's so tone deaf. Like that's the other thing is
you have to consider the fact that there's you're affecting a lot of people because yeah.
Like a lot of people would want to celebrate that moment for them but you putting them
between the couple that just got married it's just a horrible thing. And she's actually the
cousin the bad cousin. She's actually selling herself short air to you because she could get
a way better reaction and a way better experience and memory with her family and loved ones if she
did it outside of the couple that's struggling with infertility like a completely different day time.
It could be such a beautiful moment but like you said it's she's not going to get that out of them.
No. No. They're just all gonna she's rude and I hope so. Well and the thing is too is she
is just gonna like how is she gonna she's just gonna stand up and like without her husband there too.
She's like I'm praying like what like how is that gonna go down like but my baby dad is not here.
She's gonna give a toast. I'm telling you right now. Yeah like goes up to the microphone.
Like me and Sally have been competing our entire lives and like Sally I'm really happy for you
and for everyone else like I I just want to let you know I'm pregnant. Sorry about your guys
it's results but I'm pregnant. Oh my god. It's so bad. This is like it's like the scene of like a
Steve Carell movie where it's so cringy. Yeah. And you literally just want to exit your skin like
you just want to not exist anymore. That's what it feels like like the office. It's the office.
It's like dinner for schmucks. That whole movie is like the most uncomfortable thing. We found the
update. Isaiah found the update everybody. Yeah I found it. Okay you read it. Okay holy shit.
Oh wait this is really good guys. Whoa. Sorry for the long wait as I have been working through
some things. Me and my fiance breaking up working death of my grandfather etc. Oh RIP granddad.
You know so I didn't expect to get a bunch of replies to my posts but a lot of them are helpful.
My ex has determined to go to the wedding despite my protest and even planned out how she was going
to refuse alcohol when offered. I did tell my ex's parents about what she was planning on doing.
I didn't want to tell the groom or the bride because I wouldn't know how to put into words
that they were making the whole situation any less awful. Ex's parents did end up telling the
bride's parents and then they told the bride. The bride was so upset that she unfortunately
called off the wedding. Oh my gosh. Everyone wanted her to continue it and invite my ex
for a couple of plans. Guess thought of. Oh couple of plans like basically they were going to bomb
her thing. Like they were going to like destroy her. Oh yeah this is an example when my ex announced
it everyone would just say nonchalant and not give her excitement reaction she was hoping for
and the classic just don't invite her plan. Oh my gosh. The bride was just understandably
wanting to be left alone and she just texted my fiance a very long paragraph telling her what a
horrible person she was. She just decided not to do the wedding anymore and her fiance was very
heartbroken but all in all they were both grateful to me. My ex instantly knew that I was the cause
of this and that she was furious with me even more because I posted about it on here but I
also said a pretty sick thing about how she was still pretty much one anyways. I just decided to
break up with her myself after that. Some of her family members are kind of upset at me as they
believed I just caused a bunch of drama. Now I'm currently in the works of talking to an attorney
as my ex told me I will not be seeing the baby after they are born. Oh yeah that sucks. I was
already thinking that. I wasn't I didn't even think about that. So all that on top of grief working
breakup being called a messy a mess starter by some of her family and still feeling like shit
because either way the bride and groom were heartbroken. It's just a bunch of anxiety and
stress on me. Anyway here's a long awaited update. Any questions I'll answer and then he has an edit
and he says so they are pretty much already contemplating on canceling the wedding. They were
already family members did stress her out over her miscarriage and canceling. Her fiance's family
were excessive about oh she couldn't carry a baby to full term like a real woman. No way.
Her fiance's family was saying that to her. Wow. Not to mention her own family went around
spreading her miscarriage like wildfire which is how my ex and I found out. They told it to
co-workers even. It's not the first time my ex has also interrupted her cousin's big events.
Example when they turn when turning 17 my ex cake smashed her which wasn't fun for her cousin.
Her their first pregnancy announcement which was the miscarriage was ruined because my ex
blurted the news out but her cousins told her to go to get over that because it was a miscarriage
anyways. So she told my family members. So she's told my family members. This is what I was told
when asking about. So she's been at a breaking point for a while. She was considering just
still continuing the wedding but wanted to be left alone. They didn't call off the wedding
permanently just until the bride has cooled herself down. That's good. That's why. Well good for him
that he did. Yes. That whole family sounds like a shit show. Right. Even her even the bride's
fiance like hurt his family. Like who says that. Seriously. She's not a real woman because she
can't carry a baby. That is ridiculous. That's so gross. On the update it says I'm concerned
about this baby. The timing of it almost makes it seem like the ex got pregnant just to show
up her cousin. I'm glad they're getting a lawyer early. Even think about that. Like maybe she was
like oh my gosh like her wedding is coming up. Like I'm not married yet. So I'm pregnant.
And if that is where she's coming from that is absolutely terrible. Oh my gosh. Can you imagine
caring that much about like your cousin. That's embarrassing. Like how do you not just root for
each other in life. I don't give a shit about mine. I'm just kidding. Well that that was that was
crazy. There were some there were some triggering things in this episode. I'm feeling a little a
little stirred up emotionally. Good thing I have therapy tomorrow. Shit. Yeah. Good to be back.
I started school. That was so awesome. I love that for you. Nice. Call your therapist. Well let
us know you guys. Let us know who you think is the fake this week. There's potential for any one
of us to be the fake. These stories were crazy. I think it was possible. My least was the fake.
If I could write the most toxic story I could think of like the most inflammatory thing.
That's like kind of what it would have been about literally like I just can't think of anything. It
would be more sinister. That's like yeah just one of those things. But anyways let us know who you
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