1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:01,200 And we're back. 2 00:00:01,200 --> 00:00:02,200 We're back, baby. 3 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:03,200 We are very back. 4 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:04,200 Come on now. 5 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:05,200 We're way back. 6 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:06,200 We're back. 7 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:07,200 We're forward. 8 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:08,200 We're here. 9 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:09,200 We're present. 10 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:10,200 We're ready. 11 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:11,200 We're on an incline. 12 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:12,200 Yeah. 13 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:15,200 We're just doing something. 14 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:16,200 Happy New Year. 15 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:19,200 Guys, happy New Year. 16 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:20,200 2025. 17 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:23,840 This is our first episode in 2025. 18 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:27,920 We are recording on January 1st, 2025. 19 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:28,920 New Year's Day. 20 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:29,920 Very first day. 21 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:32,240 Very first day, baby. 22 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:36,400 And this episode's going to be fun because we're going to take a look at the very worst 23 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:40,520 human beings to exist in 2024. 24 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:43,000 Hopefully they're not in this room. 25 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:44,000 Ooh. 26 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:45,000 Definitely not. 27 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:47,600 That's my step, Joe. 28 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:48,600 Just right here. 29 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:50,000 Got him on the phone. 30 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:51,000 Oh. 31 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:52,000 Oh. 32 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:53,000 On speed dial. 33 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:54,000 Oh. 34 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:55,000 Yeah. 35 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:56,000 So last week was fun. 36 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:58,600 We had the Goodman fam come through. 37 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:02,080 Dr. Goodman and Danielle Goodman. 38 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:03,080 Good girl aesthetics. 39 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:04,080 Follow all them. 40 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:05,080 Yes. 41 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:06,080 They'll join us again. 42 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:07,080 They're family. 43 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:08,080 All right. 44 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:20,120 Well, this is going to be a fun episode. 45 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:21,120 2024. 46 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:22,120 Worst of 2024. 47 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:29,120 Let's jump right in. 48 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:32,320 Who wants to lead us off, you? 49 00:01:32,320 --> 00:01:33,320 Sure. 50 00:01:33,320 --> 00:01:34,320 Let's do it. 51 00:01:34,320 --> 00:01:39,800 Struggling to stay faithful and remain attracted to my wife, 28F, after we experienced a violent 52 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:41,320 attack together. 53 00:01:41,320 --> 00:01:42,320 Not sure what to do. 54 00:01:42,320 --> 00:01:45,000 I can't talk to anyone about this for obvious reasons. 55 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:49,640 I've even tried speaking to a therapist and they make me feel so low I haven't gone back 56 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:50,640 since. 57 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:53,360 My wife and I have been together for six years, married for three. 58 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:57,200 We currently have a bundle of joy on the way and she's about five months along. 59 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:01,480 My wife was always on the fence about kids, but I was adamant about wanting them. 60 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:05,040 And now that it's becoming so real, I'm not sure anymore. 61 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:08,600 I feel like I've just been on autopilot and after spending this whole week buying baby 62 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:10,600 stuff, I need to figure it out. 63 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:14,320 Last year, my wife and I were at the park relaxing like we do almost every weekend and 64 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:18,120 someone yelled at us for speaking in my native language, Korean. 65 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:22,760 My wife is trying to learn too because she's not Korean or Asian at all, but wants to only 66 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:27,200 speak Korean at home to make sure our family is fully bilingual and they don't lose their 67 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:28,200 culture. 68 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:31,760 We were practicing out loud and sharing a snack and this guy just walks up to us out 69 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:34,520 of nowhere with wild racist BS. 70 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:38,000 He kicked our food and there was some arguing and while I was calling the police with my 71 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:41,120 back turned, he tried to hit me with a pretty large rock. 72 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:45,880 My wife jumped in between and ended up taking the full force of the hit, which literally 73 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:49,680 busted her forehead open and knocked her out cold for almost a minute. 74 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:54,120 I rushed my wife to the hospital and the guy ran off and was eventually caught by police 75 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:55,280 a few weeks later. 76 00:02:55,280 --> 00:03:00,480 My wife needed 14 stitches right across her face and had two black eyes and blood in them. 77 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:04,800 Her face was swollen beyond recognition for a few days too and when she fell, messed up 78 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:08,520 an old knee injury so when she got out of the hospital the next day half her face was 79 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:10,720 covered in bandages and she was limping. 80 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:12,920 But she was still cracking jokes in the ER. 81 00:03:12,920 --> 00:03:16,720 After the bandages and stitches came out, she was told she would need to wait at least 82 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:20,360 a year before having her scar surgically fixed or whatever treatments. 83 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:24,120 But now that the year has almost passed, I've started handing out her scheduling appointments 84 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:25,120 and such. 85 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:29,000 This entire time I've been struggling with remaining attracted to her, despite it but 86 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:31,480 didn't tell her, since I didn't want to be cruel. 87 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:35,000 She's now saying she doesn't think she wants to get anything done because she wants to 88 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:36,560 save the money for the baby. 89 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:39,840 I've offered to pay for half of it and she still hasn't really looked into having it 90 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:40,840 done. 91 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:44,400 I've pushed her back, meeting my parents again because of this. 92 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:46,960 They live outside of our country hence why they haven't met yet. 93 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:49,680 I'm bringing her around my friends since it happened. 94 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:52,280 Another part of me is also just sorta mad she even did it. 95 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:56,720 I feel like half a man now and I've had to delete myself off dating apps before making 96 00:03:56,720 --> 00:03:57,720 a mistake. 97 00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:01,960 I've been channeling it all at the gym but every time I look at her I'm reminded of all 98 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:03,060 those feelings. 99 00:04:03,060 --> 00:04:05,320 She hasn't changed a bit besides the scar. 100 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:10,240 She's obviously handled it better than I did and somehow it's making me love her less. 101 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:11,480 This plus the pregnancy. 102 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:12,680 I don't even know what to do. 103 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:16,600 I thought about asking for a hall pass but I know without a doubt she will leave me. 104 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:20,040 I thought about taking care of my needs on the side so I could be the man she needs me 105 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:23,800 to be but I know she will eventually find out and she will hate me and make my life 106 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:27,600 hell or leave me a single father and I will never hear from her again. 107 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:31,640 I just wish it had never happened but I really need some other perspective or opinion on 108 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:32,640 this. 109 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:33,640 Bruh. 110 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:34,640 Wow. 111 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:35,640 Oh my gosh. 112 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:46,800 I was like oh and then he just starts so casually like oh I just like bore me. 113 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:49,080 She's like a blow for you dude. 114 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:52,080 Literally he could have been the freaking nasty face man. 115 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:55,800 If only she knew she's like oh I would have let him just hit you upside the head. 116 00:04:55,800 --> 00:05:00,240 She sounds like a fantastic wife and she's pregnant with his child. 117 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:04,640 She's literally pregnant and gotten the way of a rock hitting this dude. 118 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:05,640 Right. 119 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:08,480 Even if she wasn't pregnant it's like he's the worst. 120 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:09,480 He's the worst. 121 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:15,000 And I'm like I'm a little mad at her for getting in the way because that dude obviously had 122 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:16,000 it coming. 123 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:17,880 It gets just smoked. 124 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:19,200 Wow. 125 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:20,200 What a piece of work. 126 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:21,200 Yes. 127 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:23,160 And that poor woman. 128 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:24,520 One thing didn't make sense. 129 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:28,800 He said that it's been almost a year but she still wants to save the money for when the 130 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:31,800 baby gets there and she was five months long when it happened. 131 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:33,440 Maybe they had another baby. 132 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:37,560 When she got clubbed by the stranger she was five months pregnant and then it's a year 133 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:43,080 later he's like and now it's almost time for her to start looking at getting her face fixed 134 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:47,040 but she says she still wants to save the money that she would spend on the baby. 135 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:51,480 Do we know for sure that she was pregnant during the attack? 136 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:54,000 She was for sure. 137 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:57,280 Or is that just what she is now? 138 00:05:57,280 --> 00:06:01,600 She might maybe that's yeah maybe she wasn't pregnant when they got attacked. 139 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:02,600 That makes more sense. 140 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:04,480 Okay well that's a little bit better. 141 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:08,840 I took it she was five months pregnant when she got when she just dove in front to save 142 00:06:08,840 --> 00:06:09,840 her husband. 143 00:06:09,840 --> 00:06:13,480 And he's been like on dating apps and stuff and then he'll just delete it when he gets 144 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:14,480 too close to like actually. 145 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:16,600 I've had to constrain my soul. 146 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:20,520 I don't get why he says that he'll only pay for half of it. 147 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:25,960 If he's married just and you want it done pay for the whole thing. 148 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:31,760 So obviously it kind of seems like maybe he kind of doesn't want her to do it so that 149 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:33,600 he can leave her. 150 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:37,800 Or he's just like they have this split money thing even though they're married. 151 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:42,440 I also think if you're not attracted to your wife you should try to find a way to either 152 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:47,480 overcome that or maybe separate because that you know that'd be really hard but the way 153 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:49,760 he's doing it is very terrible. 154 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:50,760 Is like terrible. 155 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:51,760 Yeah. 156 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:52,760 Like you can't just cheat on them. 157 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:57,680 Like you got to separate before you like are looking at other options. 158 00:06:57,680 --> 00:07:02,920 But he's even like poor me I can't do anything because he's saying he doesn't want to leave 159 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:03,920 her. 160 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:05,680 He doesn't want to be a single father. 161 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:10,280 So it's like what he's like she will hate me and make my life hell or leave me a single 162 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:13,840 father and I will never hear from her again. 163 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:20,240 And he's saying I just wish it had never happened which is he wished she never got the scar. 164 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:25,000 And there's a comment by just some kind of thing that says imagine being that badly repulsed 165 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:27,840 by your partner because they got a scar defending you. 166 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:29,520 I'm like that's so bad. 167 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:30,520 It's terrible. 168 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:35,000 Like how bad is this scar going to be like that it really just ruined her whole appearance. 169 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:36,640 I'll tell you this. 170 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:39,080 It sounds to me like it's just a scapegoat. 171 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:43,240 Like he's probably the attraction issue probably goes way beyond the scar. 172 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:45,360 And that's just he's just blaming it on that. 173 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:48,240 Because this guy sounds like a piece of trash anyway. 174 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:49,240 Yeah. 175 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:52,160 And to go back to your timeline you were kind of questioning. 176 00:07:52,160 --> 00:08:00,560 P.M. me fancy beer said but five months ago in parentheses seven months post attack she 177 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:04,800 was attractive enough to make a baby with dot dot dot dot. 178 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:06,880 So it's like okay. 179 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:07,880 So now you're not it. 180 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:13,320 So I think it has more to do with like she's pregnant and big and he probably is not she 181 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:18,240 her body's changing and maybe she's not filling it in the bedroom and like so he's being all 182 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:22,040 like yeah yeah I don't know. 183 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:23,040 There's probably a lot of factors. 184 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:24,040 There's probably so much. 185 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:25,040 Yeah. 186 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:26,040 Just that. 187 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:27,040 Yeah. 188 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:30,500 But I get where Joe's coming from like it is kind of his like okay have a good escape 189 00:08:30,500 --> 00:08:31,500 code. 190 00:08:31,500 --> 00:08:32,500 Yeah. 191 00:08:32,500 --> 00:08:35,480 Like I'll just I'll just yeah I'll just blame this whole experience. 192 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:39,400 He's just a terrible person and wants to cheat. 193 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:42,480 That is going to be tough to beat in terms of stories. 194 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:44,480 That guy is a piece of work. 195 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:45,480 That was good. 196 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:46,480 Mine's pretty good. 197 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:47,480 That was good. 198 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:48,480 Love it. 199 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:49,480 That was great. 200 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:50,480 Thank you. 201 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:53,240 That could that could be an AI find though. 202 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:54,240 All right. 203 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:56,200 That's kind of what I was thinking with the whole timeline thing. 204 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:57,200 That got straightened out. 205 00:08:57,200 --> 00:08:59,000 It's from am I the devil. 206 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:00,760 I'm just going to plug this now. 207 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:03,360 I could not decide between two stories. 208 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:05,720 So I'm giving you guys two this week. 209 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:09,560 Well it's just I just had to time for everything. 210 00:09:09,560 --> 00:09:14,520 I just had to I'm going to I'm going to do the slightly longer one now. 211 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:16,480 The shorter one's going to be later. 212 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:19,280 This was three days ago. 213 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:21,520 So almost into 2025. 214 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:22,720 Dang. 215 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:27,640 Am I overreacting after I found out my boyfriend's online friend group I became part of two 216 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:30,280 years ago has been just him the whole time. 217 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:31,280 Oh no. 218 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:32,280 That's weird. 219 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:39,000 So I'll read the story and I'm going to read their text conversation. 220 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:40,080 That's how this sub works. 221 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:41,080 It's okay. 222 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:42,080 Yeah. 223 00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:43,080 It's crazy. 224 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:45,560 I guess it should have been less oblivious but since a little before we started dating 225 00:09:45,560 --> 00:09:51,080 in 2022 I was added to my boyfriend's three person Instagram group chat with what he explained 226 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:53,000 were some of his closest online friends. 227 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:56,560 The two other accounts seemed like real people because they had real followers and comments 228 00:09:56,560 --> 00:10:00,080 on their posts and drastically different aesthetics slash looks to them. 229 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:03,720 We eventually made a discord server for us and that alone was convincing enough since 230 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:06,280 multiple times we'd all be active at the same time. 231 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:10,000 We never voice chatted but I used to never voice chat either so I didn't think twice. 232 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:14,200 The group got closer though as more and more time passed since I was first added to their 233 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:15,200 group chat. 234 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:19,120 In the last month we got together and planned a research trip to Hawaii for August. 235 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:23,080 In parentheses we live on the east coast of the US and we booked everything. 236 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:27,000 So imagine my surprise when I'm over at his house tonight and his computer is open and 237 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:30,920 I just want to log into my Google Docs when I accidentally stumble across first of all 238 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:35,320 follower bot sites and also him logged in and chatting with me as one of the individuals 239 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:36,800 I thought I'd become close with. 240 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:38,840 I just got this sinking feeling. 241 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:41,440 I didn't jump to the idea that they could be fake either. 242 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:46,200 I was like maybe he just has their log in since they're all like so close and is way 243 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:47,800 too interested in their messages. 244 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:52,480 But then I noticed their only chats were the group chats and the server and the real kicker 245 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:58,720 was the email address it was signed up under was his backup email with his full name. 246 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:02,360 I quite literally snooped until he got out of the shower and caught me which I'm not 247 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:05,120 saying was right of me but I couldn't help myself. 248 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:09,800 During my snooping I gradually became devastatingly confident he wasn't behind just one but both 249 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:10,800 accounts. 250 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:14,280 I've never seen his face so red and he just absolutely panicked and started shouting at 251 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:15,520 me to get out of his business. 252 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:18,040 I couldn't even form the right words to say to him. 253 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:20,360 In the end I just walked out of his apartment sobbing. 254 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:23,800 It's very early in the morning I get that but this screenshot is what he has to say 255 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:25,360 and I'm starting to feel crazy. 256 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:27,480 Am I overreacting about my discovery? 257 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:28,800 So this is her. 258 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:30,880 She says I just want to know why. 259 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:34,280 When it finally came time for the Hawaii trip how are you going to explain that? 260 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:35,360 What were you thinking? 261 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:37,880 He says you know something I've noticed about you? 262 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:41,360 You can never just be calm and there always has to be an issue. 263 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:45,760 I know you were raised in a volatile environment and still have to relearn a lot about healthy 264 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:50,720 relationship dynamics but it's like you thrive on chaos only. 265 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:52,440 And we were going to see Wicked tonight. 266 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:54,920 I guess there that goes. 267 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:58,560 Oh you cancelled our movie date. 268 00:11:58,560 --> 00:12:00,480 And she says you can't be serious. 269 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:03,640 I deserve answers and I'm honestly so creeped out. 270 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:07,000 Basically half of my life for the past two years has been a complete and total lie and 271 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:08,320 you were behind all of it. 272 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:10,720 He says and this is the end of the thread that we have. 273 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:12,320 Okay don't be dramatic. 274 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:13,480 You know this isn't a big deal. 275 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:17,400 You're just getting to harp on this and make a bigger issue. 276 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:20,000 That's crazy. 277 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:21,000 What a psycho. 278 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:26,120 Like that is the biggest narcissist. 279 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:27,120 That is like. 280 00:12:27,120 --> 00:12:28,840 Dude that's creepy. 281 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:30,200 Like what was she doing? 282 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:31,200 But what's the point? 283 00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:33,520 Yeah like what did he get out of that? 284 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:37,240 He wanted her to maybe emotionally cheat on? 285 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:39,200 Like see if she would cheat on him. 286 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:40,200 But for two years? 287 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:42,000 Literally what is he getting out of that? 288 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:44,000 Is it like some weird kink that he's just like. 289 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:45,720 Yeah he's a catfish guy for sure. 290 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:48,040 He gets a adrenaline rush out of him. 291 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:50,400 Imagine what other weird stuff he's doing on the internet. 292 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:52,040 Yeah exactly I was thinking that. 293 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:54,640 Like I wonder if he has any other catfish girlfriends. 294 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:56,640 I don't even know. 295 00:12:56,640 --> 00:12:58,360 Like literally crazy. 296 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:00,360 Like did she break up with him? 297 00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:02,240 So this is the most frustrating part. 298 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:04,000 This is three days ago. 299 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:09,280 So we may be able to revisit this but it's literally like everyone is just like. 300 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:12,440 Everyone's just like leave this is crazy. 301 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:14,960 Like all this different stuff. 302 00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:17,640 Showing up to Hawaii you're like what's up? 303 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:18,640 Yeah. 304 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:19,640 Yeah like. 305 00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:20,640 Jose it's just you. 306 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:21,640 Hey what's up dude. 307 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:23,520 Oh yeah they're like yeah they both know showed us. 308 00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:24,520 That's crazy. 309 00:13:24,520 --> 00:13:26,440 I mean like I booked their flights for them too. 310 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:28,880 I thought I was being nice but like they're not even here. 311 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:32,400 And we would probably still buy a ticket for these fake people. 312 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:33,400 He did. 313 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:34,400 He did. 314 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:35,400 No he didn't. 315 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:37,840 To a client that's what they were saying is that they booked I mean at least they had 316 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:39,000 everything planned. 317 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:40,920 We don't know that he did. 318 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:43,560 That would be like actually insane if he spent money. 319 00:13:43,560 --> 00:13:45,360 Bro I'll be your friend. 320 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:47,640 Yeah like this poor girl. 321 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:51,080 I can't even fathom what this guy was trying to accomplish with this. 322 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:55,760 And they were on a discord server where apparently you can see who's online or not. 323 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:59,520 And she said that I never thought more about this because we were all online at the same 324 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:00,520 time. 325 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:02,600 So this dude's like what multiple devices like. 326 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:03,600 Yeah. 327 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:04,600 Like what is he. 328 00:14:04,600 --> 00:14:05,600 He's like. 329 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:06,600 Yeah really though. 330 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:09,120 Phone iPad computer. 331 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:11,240 But if they're together it's that's just crazy. 332 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:13,480 It's just a different level of like. 333 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:15,360 That's what you're doing bro. 334 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:18,120 Well the fact that like the motive is not. 335 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:19,120 We don't know. 336 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:20,760 It's that we don't know the motive. 337 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:26,320 It is got to be something so dark so creepy and weird that like it's got to be something 338 00:14:26,320 --> 00:14:29,080 bad that he like wants it. 339 00:14:29,080 --> 00:14:33,920 What if he was planning the trip and he was like going to kill her or do something to 340 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:37,160 her and blame the two users. 341 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:38,480 He's a imaginary friend. 342 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:39,480 Yeah. 343 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:43,880 The guy that it's just like roots back to his burner email address. 344 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:47,600 Which he's probably an idiot but like someone that does that is already an idiot. 345 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:49,600 No yeah that guy's sketch. 346 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:50,600 Yeah. 347 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:52,880 Like where were there any other red flags. 348 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:56,320 I mean if you're going to die but it's nice it might be in Hawaii. 349 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:58,360 Yeah murder me in Hawaii any day of the week. 350 00:14:58,360 --> 00:14:59,720 Oh my gosh. 351 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:01,440 Not like not immediately but like. 352 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:02,440 If I get to. 353 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:04,160 Let me live there for a week. 354 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:06,000 If I get to pick one of the 50 stays. 355 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:07,000 It's a good one. 356 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:08,000 Yeah. 357 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:09,000 That's poor girl. 358 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:10,000 He's so gaslighting. 359 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:11,000 Yeah he's just like. 360 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:14,440 Like you know the thing about you is. 361 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:15,440 I'm like. 362 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:16,440 Yeah. 363 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:17,440 The thing about me. 364 00:15:17,440 --> 00:15:18,440 You want. 365 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:19,440 Me. 366 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:22,520 The thing about you. 367 00:15:22,520 --> 00:15:23,520 Well here's the problem. 368 00:15:23,520 --> 00:15:25,400 We were going to see Wicked tonight so. 369 00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:26,400 Like I'm pissed. 370 00:15:26,400 --> 00:15:27,400 Yeah I'm pissed about that. 371 00:15:27,400 --> 00:15:28,400 Yeah. 372 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:29,400 No I have to go by myself. 373 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:30,400 Because I don't want to. 374 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:32,280 I thought the four tickets already. 375 00:15:32,280 --> 00:15:35,280 I literally like we already have our seats chosen. 376 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:36,280 Like. 377 00:15:36,280 --> 00:15:38,880 And you're sitting next to Bobby. 378 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:39,880 Wait what did he say. 379 00:15:39,880 --> 00:15:40,880 We already. 380 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:45,040 Guess guess guess guess that's out the window. 381 00:15:45,040 --> 00:15:46,040 Well fine. 382 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:48,920 Have you got another thing Wicked with you now. 383 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:49,920 No. 384 00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:53,640 Why don't you hit up like Tom and Derek that are on the forum. 385 00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:57,200 Yeah like yes are these friends men women. 386 00:15:57,200 --> 00:15:58,200 So that was the other thing. 387 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:02,000 So she was getting close to one of the ones like it had to have been a woman. 388 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:06,160 That was my thought was that it said like I over the last six months or whatever like 389 00:16:06,160 --> 00:16:08,480 I've been getting closer with this one. 390 00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:09,480 It's like. 391 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:11,880 Why did she say a girl though. 392 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:17,120 Then that's the other thing is like maybe maybe it was like this whole like major insecurity 393 00:16:17,120 --> 00:16:21,000 thing where he was like trying to test her limits of like. 394 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:22,000 Yeah. 395 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:23,000 Where she would go. 396 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:24,000 Yeah. 397 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:25,000 Like kind of knew what buttons to press. 398 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:30,880 I mean obviously there's there's like seeds of trauma therapies type stuff in here because 399 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:35,040 he was like yeah all your childhood trauma like you had a rough upbringing. 400 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:36,040 I don't know. 401 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:40,600 I wish we would have found out why he actually did it though rather than just flip it on 402 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:44,320 her because I would love to know like why would he do that. 403 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:46,640 No there's there's no. 404 00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:49,720 What could anyone possibly say. 405 00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:54,640 I don't think I would want to make make up friends and like text myself through. 406 00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:56,640 No it sounds terrible. 407 00:16:56,640 --> 00:16:58,120 Yeah because you're normal. 408 00:16:58,120 --> 00:16:59,120 Yeah. 409 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:00,680 He's not normal. 410 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:07,720 Should I 21 and go for it with my brother's 19 and girlfriend 19 F if she's giving me 411 00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:10,240 all the signs. 412 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:12,240 Yeah. 413 00:17:12,240 --> 00:17:14,000 It's a big no. 414 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:15,000 I'm on mobile. 415 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:16,560 So sorry for the formatting. 416 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:17,960 This is a throwaway account. 417 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:22,400 I will call my brother C and my brother's girlfriend S. This is so messy. 418 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:26,680 I am pretty close with my brother but I honestly feel he doesn't deserve his girlfriend. 419 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:30,720 So my brother and his girlfriend have come to our grandma's for a week they have off. 420 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:32,320 They have been here for five days. 421 00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:34,800 They won't leave for three more and it's killing me. 422 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:37,760 My little brother is not the best looking in the family. 423 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:42,480 He's just not since he started seeing S. He's gone to the gym and bulked up a bit and changed 424 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:44,400 his hair and his eating habits. 425 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:48,360 Not because she forced him she loved him even when he was chubby. 426 00:17:48,360 --> 00:17:51,880 He said he wanted to start working out and eating better to get into the same level of 427 00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:53,320 attractiveness as her. 428 00:17:53,320 --> 00:17:58,720 My best friend and I she is a girl and I both agreed beforehand that she is very good looking 429 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:02,440 just from her pictures with my brother on social media and stuff. 430 00:18:02,440 --> 00:18:07,300 S&C came to visit my grandmother and I was there because I'm currently living with her. 431 00:18:07,300 --> 00:18:09,760 Not only is she ridiculously hot. 432 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:11,480 She's funny and smart too. 433 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:16,400 She's pre-med and is taking a lot of hard classes that S&C says she's breezing through. 434 00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:18,600 She's the world's easiest person to talk to. 435 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:23,200 The first night she came to visit she was quiet as this was the first time meeting extended 436 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:24,520 family for her. 437 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:28,520 The next day S&C had a mind grain and she wanted to stay home with him and take care 438 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:32,440 of him but I convinced her to go to the mall with me and S&C encouraged her to. 439 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:34,480 We spent the day at the mall together. 440 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:37,800 We played with puppies at a store and shopped a bit and got lunch. 441 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:42,320 I don't think I've ever gotten along with someone as well as I've gone along with 442 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:46,560 S. She is beautiful, witty and basically my ideal partner. 443 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:50,720 I have quickly developed strong feelings for her. 444 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:53,840 Okay now this is where it gets really messy. 445 00:18:53,840 --> 00:19:01,720 S&C was showing me some memes on his phone and accidentally swiped by a nude of hers. 446 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:05,800 He thought I wasn't looking at his phone but he did manage to see it. 447 00:19:05,800 --> 00:19:09,960 I know this is really bad but when he got up to the go to the bathroom I unlocked his 448 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:12,840 phone and went to look at it. 449 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:17,280 I couldn't help myself I've already mentioned that I think she's hot so I won't go into 450 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:21,880 detail about how I felt about the picture because it's probably obvious I felt so guilty 451 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:22,880 about it. 452 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:25,880 After this thing I was gonna say that was not obvious. 453 00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:29,400 He's like oh my gosh the devil's making me on his phone. 454 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:31,400 I'm looking at his picture. 455 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:33,400 I can't stop looking. 456 00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:35,760 I feel so guilty. 457 00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:40,360 After this incident I think people started noticing me becoming uncomfortable near her. 458 00:19:40,360 --> 00:19:43,160 My brother, my mom and my grandma asked me about it. 459 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:46,560 Eventually S asked me if she had done anything to offend me and I said no. 460 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:49,360 I came to my senses and stopped acting like a douche. 461 00:19:49,360 --> 00:19:52,040 I asked if she wanted to go to the grocery store with me. 462 00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:53,040 She said sure. 463 00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:58,000 I thought it would just be the two of us but C tagged along as well. 464 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:02,160 We went to the grocery store together, went back and ended up driving to the city in the 465 00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:03,160 afternoon. 466 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:07,040 She wanted to give away anything that might identify me, which is an hour from where we 467 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:08,040 live. 468 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:11,560 C fell asleep in the car and again it was S and me talking. 469 00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:14,880 She ended up climbing from the back seat to the front to talk to me. 470 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:18,960 We talked and joked the whole way into the city and I just knew something was there. 471 00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:22,920 I did something stupid and I told her that I wished we'd met in high school. 472 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:26,240 And she replied that she thinks we would have been best friends. 473 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:27,240 Ouch. 474 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:30,960 However once we reached the city she was back being lovey-dovey with C. It sucked because 475 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:34,120 I wanted to hold her hand so bad. 476 00:20:34,120 --> 00:20:38,560 I think they felt bad for me because yesterday was Valentine's Day and I don't have a girlfriend 477 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:40,080 so they didn't kiss or anything. 478 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:42,280 They just looked at each other like they're in love. 479 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:43,720 My questions are the following. 480 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:46,740 I know she can tell that we have a good connection. 481 00:20:46,740 --> 00:20:48,200 So should I go for it? 482 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:50,880 I really want to tell her my feelings this evening. 483 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:52,520 What's the best way to do that? 484 00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:53,520 Thanks. 485 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:55,520 Oh my gosh. 486 00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:56,520 Oh. 487 00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:57,520 Yeah. 488 00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:58,520 No. 489 00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:02,200 That's my story. 490 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:03,200 That I would. 491 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:07,480 It is different if it is like a best friend because you can cut them out of your life 492 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:08,480 forever. 493 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:09,480 Right. 494 00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:13,360 When it's a sibling there is nothing you can do at that point. 495 00:21:13,360 --> 00:21:17,360 Like that is ruining families for the rest of time. 496 00:21:17,360 --> 00:21:19,120 At least for at least 10 years. 497 00:21:19,120 --> 00:21:22,160 Just to throw an arbitrary number on it. 498 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:28,040 Like if it's love, if it's real love you're talking 10 years, men. 499 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:29,040 Pretty bad. 500 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:30,040 Dude. 501 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:31,040 That's bad. 502 00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:32,040 It's just scumbag. 503 00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:33,040 He asked for advice. 504 00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:34,040 What was the second question? 505 00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:35,040 What should I do? 506 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,160 I really want to tell her my feelings this evening. 507 00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:38,320 What's the best way to do that? 508 00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:39,320 All right. 509 00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:40,320 So here's what you're going to do. 510 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:42,880 You're going to let everyone get out of your car. 511 00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:46,160 You're going to drive to the tallest cliff you can find and you're just going to go right 512 00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:47,160 off it. 513 00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:51,160 That's all I got. 514 00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:53,360 With a bear shoe? 515 00:21:53,360 --> 00:21:54,360 No bear shoe? 516 00:21:54,360 --> 00:21:55,360 Okay. 517 00:21:55,360 --> 00:21:56,360 No prep. 518 00:21:56,360 --> 00:22:00,400 You're going to get out all the ways that you messed up in the time you have. 519 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:01,400 Pretty bad. 520 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:03,600 That's bad. 521 00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:06,520 She said we would have been best friends in high school. 522 00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:08,440 So that's friend zoning immediately. 523 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:10,400 She did the right thing. 524 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:12,160 She probably is thinking nothing of it. 525 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:13,160 Yeah. 526 00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:15,960 She's like, oh, she's giving me all the signs, bruh. 527 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:18,480 She's just a good girl. 528 00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:19,480 She's funny. 529 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:20,480 She just has a bunch of good qualities. 530 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:22,560 She wants to get along with a brother or mom. 531 00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:23,560 Brother or mom. 532 00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:24,560 Yeah. 533 00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:25,560 Right. 534 00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:27,040 Like, he would be vibing with them. 535 00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:30,120 Like, I would not think anything of it. 536 00:22:30,120 --> 00:22:31,800 She makes me feel special. 537 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:34,720 Like, okay, so that's not her telling you. 538 00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:35,840 I think you're a lot. 539 00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:39,040 And I love that he's trying to say he's hotter than his brother. 540 00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:42,320 Like, such older brother behavior. 541 00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:43,320 Literally. 542 00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:44,320 Literally. 543 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:45,320 It really is. 544 00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:46,320 All right. 545 00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:47,480 There's some whoop-de-doodle. 546 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:50,120 You're a creep. 547 00:22:50,120 --> 00:22:51,200 That's the name. 548 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:52,800 You're a creep and need to back off. 549 00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:56,320 Do not ever go look at someone's nudes without permission. 550 00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:57,960 She's your brother's girlfriend. 551 00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:05,000 She hasn't said anything about liking you as anything more than a friend. 552 00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:10,160 I dare you to tell her and your brother that you went through his phone to find that nude 553 00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:11,160 pic of her. 554 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:12,160 Did dare. 555 00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:13,160 Double dog dare. 556 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:14,160 Triple dog dare you did. 557 00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:15,160 That hillbilly is going off a cliff. 558 00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:16,160 I totally forgot I got to freaking nude. 559 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:17,160 That was so out of line. 560 00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:18,160 That sucks. 561 00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:29,000 Like goes through the phone like I feel so violated and creeped out by the little brother. 562 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:30,000 Older brother. 563 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:31,000 Older brother. 564 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:36,440 I feel like makes it worse and like oh the little brother like oh he's just romanticizing 565 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,720 this whole but like it's older. 566 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:39,720 Man. 567 00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:40,720 Yeah. 568 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:41,720 Like you know better. 569 00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:42,720 How old is the older brother? 570 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:43,720 It's like 24. 571 00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:45,040 23 and the 19th of the younger. 572 00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:47,400 The two young the girl and the younger brother. 573 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:51,920 He's he's a lowlife loser and he's to find a girl on his own. 574 00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:54,880 And what's funny is like this guy's dumb. 575 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:59,400 He's ugly little brother and dude you're living with your grandma. 576 00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:00,400 I was gonna say. 577 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:04,400 Digging for your little brother's girlfriend's nudes. 578 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:05,400 You're disgusted. 579 00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:06,400 You are trash. 580 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:07,400 You're trash. 581 00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:11,600 Oh that's so gross and that girlfriend finds out. 582 00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:17,120 I love he was like he said something about like I was super uncomfortable. 583 00:24:17,120 --> 00:24:21,640 Like I was around and I was very not talking about super uncomfortable like when I was with 584 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:22,640 everyone. 585 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:25,200 It's like he's just dying inside like. 586 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:26,200 Right. 587 00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:28,040 Nobody knows his pain. 588 00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:31,200 I've seen your nude and I'm in love with you and I think we should get married. 589 00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:33,280 He's known her for what five days at this point. 590 00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:35,400 Literally bursting up the seams. 591 00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:36,720 Dude's a trip. 592 00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:38,840 He's a terrible brother. 593 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:40,640 There's another funny. 594 00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:45,360 What signs exactly from what you have written she's just trying to be nice to her boyfriend's 595 00:24:45,360 --> 00:24:46,360 brother. 596 00:24:46,360 --> 00:24:47,880 Don't be a creep back off. 597 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:49,360 You're misinterpreting everything. 598 00:24:49,360 --> 00:24:50,360 Yeah. 599 00:24:50,360 --> 00:24:51,360 Amen. 600 00:24:51,360 --> 00:24:52,360 Amen. 601 00:24:52,360 --> 00:24:57,320 I like this girlfriend and I love it's just so sad like the younger brother has so much 602 00:24:57,320 --> 00:25:00,480 trust in the older brother like yeah go with him to the mall. 603 00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:01,480 Go ahead. 604 00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:02,720 Sorry I don't feel good honey. 605 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:04,800 Like I don't want to keep you from having fun. 606 00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:07,080 This guy seems like a gem. 607 00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:08,960 He probably has the best personality. 608 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:11,960 He's like wanting to like do better for his girlfriend. 609 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:12,960 Yes. 610 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:13,960 It's like so sweet. 611 00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:15,320 He sounds amazing. 612 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:17,720 So that was the very first story. 613 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:22,800 Now he went against everybody's advice about I haven't even read it yet. 614 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:27,280 He went against everybody's advice about not telling them and there's a whole another story 615 00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:31,280 about how I think he did confess his love to her. 616 00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:34,040 So I need to find it again because I just screen shot of it. 617 00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:35,040 I didn't save her anything. 618 00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:36,040 I'm going to look right now. 619 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:37,040 So we need to find it. 620 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:38,040 Yeah just research the title. 621 00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:41,440 Yeah what's the title of Alan. 622 00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:47,280 And read like should I 21 and go for it with my brother's 19 and girlfriend 19 if she's 623 00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:48,640 giving me all the signs. 624 00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:50,200 OK so we have an update. 625 00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:51,520 We have the update of this story. 626 00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:52,880 We have to we have to go with it. 627 00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:54,440 It's doing such a douche. 628 00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:55,440 OK. 629 00:25:55,440 --> 00:26:00,600 My brother is C and his girlfriend is S. So against Reddit and my better judgment I spoke 630 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:03,800 to my brother as you can imagine all hell broke loose. 631 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:07,360 The guilt was eating me up and I told him about the feelings I had for his girlfriend. 632 00:26:07,360 --> 00:26:11,680 I also came clean about looking at her nudes and apologized. 633 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:13,600 Wow. 634 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:15,880 This was about three years three hours ago. 635 00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:18,400 My brother punched me in the face and busted my lip. 636 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:22,720 He went to our grandma and told her that he didn't feel comfortable with me in the house. 637 00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:28,800 My poor grandma was so confused and C told her vaguely vaguely that I acted inappropriately 638 00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:31,320 with S and violated her boundaries. 639 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:36,080 He went into S's room and asked her to pack her things so they could leave and find a hotel 640 00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:37,080 to stay in. 641 00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:39,760 All I could hear was her saying what why what's wrong. 642 00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:44,160 He took her and left to stay in Atlanta promising my grandma he'd call and explain when he 643 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:45,160 got there. 644 00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:48,920 He just called her landline and they will be getting lunch tomorrow. 645 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:52,160 I received a text from S about a half hour ago. 646 00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:53,680 I copy pasted it. 647 00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:56,680 Honestly this is ridiculous that I even have to say this. 648 00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:58,960 You violated C's trust in my trust. 649 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:00,600 The pics weren't meant for your eyes. 650 00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:02,200 I love your brother not you. 651 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:03,400 It's never going to happen. 652 00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:06,240 You've ruined any possible friendship we could have had. 653 00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:10,840 I'm not angry but I can't forgive this and I believe you need therapy. 654 00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:11,840 Good luck. 655 00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:13,120 I hope you get the help you need. 656 00:27:13,120 --> 00:27:19,800 I am sitting here bawling in bed while my grandma knocks on the door. 657 00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:24,240 I'm sitting here bawling in bed while my grandma knocks on the door to ask what's wrong. 658 00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:25,720 Reddit what do I do. 659 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:28,280 What are the steps to take to fix things with my brother. 660 00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:29,640 You're not going to listen to us buddy. 661 00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:33,520 How do I apologize to S. What do I tell my poor grandmother. 662 00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:34,520 Thanks in advance. 663 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:36,120 I should have listened to your advice. 664 00:27:36,120 --> 00:27:37,120 Wow. 665 00:27:37,120 --> 00:27:38,120 That's pretty awesome. 666 00:27:38,120 --> 00:27:39,120 What's wrong honey. 667 00:27:39,120 --> 00:27:40,120 Grab a bat now. 668 00:27:40,120 --> 00:27:41,120 No. 669 00:27:41,120 --> 00:27:42,120 No. 670 00:27:42,120 --> 00:27:43,120 She broke my heart. 671 00:27:43,120 --> 00:27:48,120 Slide the cookies under the door. 672 00:27:48,120 --> 00:27:49,120 I love that. 673 00:27:49,120 --> 00:27:50,120 I'm sitting here bawling. 674 00:27:50,120 --> 00:27:51,120 I'm sitting here bawling. 675 00:27:51,120 --> 00:27:54,360 You guys don't even know how sad I am. 676 00:27:54,360 --> 00:27:55,680 So I didn't listen and. 677 00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:56,680 What do I do. 678 00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:58,680 I got punched in the face. 679 00:27:58,680 --> 00:27:59,680 Update. 680 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:00,680 He hurt me. 681 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:01,680 She's gone. 682 00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:02,680 I'm sad. 683 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:03,680 No bokeh. 684 00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:06,960 No bokeh but think about her like she that's so violating. 685 00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:10,520 She's like I know you for four days and you're just like checking me out. 686 00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:12,000 She's still handling it like a champ. 687 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:13,120 She's like I'm not even mad at you. 688 00:28:13,120 --> 00:28:15,760 I just think you're like a disappointing loser. 689 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:16,760 Yeah. 690 00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:17,760 Go get therapy. 691 00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:18,760 Dude. 692 00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:21,840 But honestly I'm so glad I thought it. 693 00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:27,400 I thought there was a small small possibility of like she. 694 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:28,400 Like it. 695 00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:29,400 Was into it. 696 00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:30,400 Was like it a little bit you know. 697 00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:31,400 So I love this girl. 698 00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:32,400 I love it. 699 00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:34,960 I'm like all for the little brother. 700 00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:39,520 You're disgusting and you're she's seeing it for what it clearly is like you need help 701 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:40,520 bro. 702 00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:44,280 Okay but just to be devil's advocate the way this all played out was there even a way 703 00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:48,280 for her to be like not giving those vibes like you think that she would message him 704 00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:53,200 and be like hey just so you know like I'm really sorry this all blew up this way. 705 00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:57,480 Like you get what I'm saying like if she was giving him a little bit more of a green light 706 00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:59,600 than we're saying she did. 707 00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:01,240 Is there a possibility. 708 00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:06,840 Like I feel like she's reacting the way that she has to no matter what I'm just and again 709 00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:07,840 she sounds awesome. 710 00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:13,560 She I'm sure she is all about the little brother but if she was like a little flirtier with 711 00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:19,280 him or like was maybe just crossing a little bit of those blurred lines would we know that 712 00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:20,600 from her response. 713 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:27,440 I think she would have thought a little more to not stay in a hotel you know like I think 714 00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:32,920 the fact that she wants to distance and not see him anymore like like let's go stay in 715 00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,240 a hotel let's not see your brother anymore. 716 00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:39,840 It's just such a start it's such a violating thing it's like yeah I think the answer just 717 00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:45,080 shows clearly on that older brother's reaction to everything though because he is not saying 718 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:49,760 like I thought she was giving me vibes like I thought she said this she said this if there 719 00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:53,160 was evidence to back up. 720 00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:55,160 He knew he screwed up. 721 00:29:55,160 --> 00:30:01,480 There's no question that he screwed up like yeah I don't think she crossed lines because 722 00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:06,080 he would have been giving us every little thing like oh she like brushed my leg you 723 00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:10,760 know like even if but like he was reading into stuff that wasn't there and so there 724 00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:14,920 would be more in what he said because he's trying to convince us like oh she wants it 725 00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:19,200 too you know so I feel like he would have been like but there was nothing there so it 726 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:23,200 wasn't even like he couldn't even read into anything because there literally was nothing. 727 00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:28,480 On the first post he did comment back just a little bit to some of those comments he 728 00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:33,080 just said like because someone asked what were the signs exactly and he just said like when 729 00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:38,640 we would talk sometimes she would like nudge it like nudge him or like like touch his arm 730 00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:45,520 or something and that's but that was it that's all it was that's a that's like mannerism 731 00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:56,360 so it's like some people are just more like that yeah yeah like if Joe says oh whoa think 732 00:30:56,360 --> 00:31:01,640 you know like in the doctors and they hit your knee and you go like that yeah reflex test 733 00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:07,040 I know that's what you're thinking of so this is from the subreddit entitled people it says 734 00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:14,440 my mom stole my college fund to pay for my sister's wedding oh I 18m just found out my 735 00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:19,480 mom drained the entire college fund my late dad left me to pay for my sister's wedding 736 00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:23,760 and honeymoon my dad passed away when I was 10 and one of the last things he did before 737 00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:28,160 he died was set up a savings account for my college he always told me how important my 738 00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:32,920 education was to him and my mom promised that she would honor his wishes growing up I worked 739 00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:37,880 hard in school because I knew I had that safety net I got into my dream school last week and 740 00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:43,520 I told my mom I needed access to the account for enrollment fees she froze she kept dodging 741 00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:47,760 the conversation and eventually I forced her to sit down and tell me what was going on 742 00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:51,720 that's when she admitted she spent all the money over the last year to pay for my older 743 00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:57,240 sister's extravagant wedding and her month long honeymoon in Europe when I asked her 744 00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:02,000 why she said my sister deserved it because she'd gone through a rough divorce a few years 745 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:07,000 ago and this wedding was a fresh start I couldn't believe what I was hearing I asked her why 746 00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:11,840 she didn't talk to me first and her excuse was you're young you'll have time to figure 747 00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:16,440 it out I thought maybe my sister didn't know where the money came from but when I confronted 748 00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:21,240 her she admitted that she knew the entire time her response it's not like I forced her 749 00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:26,200 to do it mom wanted to help me now I have no way to afford college my mom's solution is 750 00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:30,360 for me to just take out loans like everyone else but that's not the point my dad worked 751 00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:35,040 hard and to set the money aside so I wouldn't have to worry about debt I feel completely 752 00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:38,960 betrayed when I told some of my relatives about what happened my mom flipped out and 753 00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:43,120 accused me of airing out family business to make her look bad she said I was being selfish 754 00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:47,680 and that family helps family apparently I'm ruining the family by being upset but how 755 00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:52,200 is it not selfish to take money meant for my education without asking me I don't even 756 00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:56,000 know what to do now my mom says I should just get over it but I can't look at her or my 757 00:32:56,000 --> 00:33:04,760 sister the same way anymore that mom sucks she's not a mom that's not a mom she's a 758 00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:13,480 great mom for the divorce remarried daughter right yeah awesome mom oh I'm livid I know 759 00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:19,640 that sucks you get into your dream school and just everything falls apart can you imagine 760 00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:25,920 having a dream school I never had one okay wait this is okay this is just now reminding 761 00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:33,880 me of that office episode where Michael Scott when he like talks for Scott or Scott's thoughts 762 00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:38,480 yeah and he promises those promises these kids in like kindergarten that he would pay 763 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:43,600 for their college and then it gets to that point and he's like I can't he's like I hear 764 00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:47,720 some bucks I think I'm sorry for the books or something he paid for one kid's books but 765 00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:52,160 he didn't write I don't think you wrote the checks correctly it's like a thousand dollars 766 00:33:52,160 --> 00:34:01,640 and he's like over the whole time and he's like no like per semester and he's like I 767 00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:12,960 thought I'd be a millionaire by this time in my life his dad passed away at 10 and like 768 00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:19,240 he was so grateful and so excited for his dream school he knew he had the account hey mom 769 00:34:19,240 --> 00:34:25,200 I'm ready I'm ready to get enrolled can I get it like hello I did all of this no honey 770 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:29,640 and that's probably like kind of like his connection with his dad a little bit yeah for sure you 771 00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:35,880 know to like feel like that's like he's still being it together yeah that's that makes me 772 00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:41,960 sad oh I'm so that mom sucks I know I'm not the fake you better be the fake cuz if you're 773 00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:51,280 not I'm gonna cry that is horrible there is an update just like what he did or whatever 774 00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:55,640 but says after my original post I confronted my mom again but she doubled down saying that 775 00:34:55,640 --> 00:35:00,200 she did what was best for the family that my dad would have wanted it I couldn't argue 776 00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:03,880 anymore so I reached out to my dad's side of the family they were furious and now are 777 00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:08,280 helping me explore legal options as my aunt thinks my mom might have violated a trust 778 00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:13,520 agreement by using the money for anything other than my education oh as for my sister 779 00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:18,600 she admitted she knew where the money came from but claimed it wasn't her fault that 780 00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:22,600 she didn't ask for it she offered to help pay for my college but I don't trust her to 781 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:27,680 follow through especially since she's still flaunting her dream wedding online now I'm 782 00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:32,080 focused on scholarships part-time jobs and moving out as soon as I can while it hurts 783 00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:36,480 I'm learning to rely on myself and my dad's side of the family who's been incredibly supportive 784 00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:43,080 oh I literally have had the chills that whole story so sad it's so sad I'm trying to get 785 00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:51,080 like multiple part-time jobs and oh he's a stud don't move out stay stay where you 786 00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:54,920 can live for free everything I don't know I'd want to get the frick out too I would not 787 00:35:54,920 --> 00:36:02,080 forgive my mom for that I know that yeah it's hard eat her food though oh like cuz what 788 00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:08,360 sucks is like it's like they were like going down and like something bad was happening 789 00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:12,240 and they had to spend the money yes because it was like a crisis she's going bankrupt 790 00:36:12,240 --> 00:36:17,040 or something I have cancer yeah I have to pay like you know like some just something crazy 791 00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:22,520 but like it's for something that does not matter no you don't even remember it's your 792 00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:27,680 second marriage I don't know I don't remember mine and Marley's like there's a lot of things 793 00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:33,280 I forgot yeah I'm glad our wedding was chill yeah you know yeah I don't know I just think 794 00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:38,000 that's something that's not a necessity it's really well and it's your second one like 795 00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:42,640 this one's probably not gonna last either girl sorry and if you're gonna want to go to here's 796 00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:47,240 the thing it's your second marriage at this point you're a full-blown adult yeah you want 797 00:36:47,240 --> 00:36:52,240 to go to Europe for a month you better be freaking paying for it hopefully the the daughter's 798 00:36:52,240 --> 00:36:56,080 new husband is gonna be able to pay to put her in a home and all that stuff cuz cuz 799 00:36:56,080 --> 00:37:01,560 OP is not gonna be taking care her let's go change your diapers yeah karma's coming for 800 00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:08,120 her for sure story number two I couldn't leave this one alone this guy this came from relationship 801 00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:13,840 advice but more recently it was on am I the devil quote manipulated unquote into cheating 802 00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:22,760 on my wife I 28m was manipulated into cheating on my wife 28f how do we move forward through 803 00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:27,120 our marriage hey reddit I'm going through a tough time in my marriage it all started 804 00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:32,320 because recently I entered a depression my wife and I both have very demanding jobs recently 805 00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:36,480 I had a new project that had me working longer hours and that is what started my depression 806 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:40,760 now going through my depression I started confiding in my coworker about how I was feeling 807 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:44,680 I thought I could trust her as a friend but she knew I was in a vulnerable state she took 808 00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:53,560 advantage of my state and this led to an affair my wife found out and we are going 809 00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:57,600 to counseling Monday but this month our marriage is on the ropes I've been trying to get her 810 00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:07,840 to understand my depression I've been trying to get her to understand my depression and 811 00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:22,440 how low my mental health was but she doesn't want to hear it she's the one to hear it I 812 00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:30,400 was crying the next minute she was going to say it's not my fault oh it was so good 813 00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:39,520 she could manage with me is that it that's the whole that's literally there's no update 814 00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:46,880 I'm depressed yeah I mean needless to say he gets obliterated in the conference oh yeah 815 00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:53,720 no kidding I hope so yeah this one's good ah yes the harlot coworker was secretly a 816 00:38:53,720 --> 00:39:00,360 witch who brainwashed OOP into having an affair it's all that home wreckers fault it's that's 817 00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:05,320 the most embarrassing thing that this guy is like yeah I'm just I'm just so sad and like 818 00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:15,160 she forced me this therapist when they go in this therapist is gonna be like okay so you're 819 00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:23,200 you you did you did you you had sex with another person because you're sad and it's her fault 820 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:30,640 yeah okay perfect that makes perfect sense and she's like she's like wife if you want 821 00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:38,880 to go ahead go through this door they'll help you but my wife made me so sad that I felt 822 00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:42,800 like I had no other option but to go somewhere else so let's talk about the fact that you 823 00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:47,040 have no other option what does that really mean yeah I don't know you ever tried to go 824 00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:53,960 for a run yeah have you ever gotten some vitamin D okay last comment on this please please 825 00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:58,640 please as someone who's dealt with depression for 20 years I've never once had the symptom 826 00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:09,560 of checks notes cheating on my spouse yes that's wild like that's not a I hope she dips 827 00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:16,600 I feel bad for people that are stuck in relationships with someone that's like all victim mentality 828 00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:21,360 like it kind of sounds like she or she's like had a problem with him before though it's like 829 00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:26,280 I don't want to hear it they just I don't know I'm sure there's been other things no 830 00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:31,320 well yeah she's just like dude I don't have time you're a wet blanket dude I don't have 831 00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:36,280 time to like coddle you while you're telling me that you just ruined my heart like I wonder 832 00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,560 what what the co-workers thinking I wonder if she's heartbroken like do you think she 833 00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:45,560 fell in love with the guy probably not yeah she's just a hoe it was just sex it was literally 834 00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:54,280 just sex for her but he's like crying so she actually did take advantage of it she's like 835 00:40:54,280 --> 00:41:13,320 oh so you're feeling really sad right now oh yes I am sad whoa that's all it works you 836 00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:25,000 can do that to me yeah you can touch me I'm sad tell me more wait you guys aren't ready 837 00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:32,840 for this please please brace yourself I got depressed in my I don't think that's gonna 838 00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:37,240 fly as an excuse OOP chose to have an affair depression doesn't make you do things the marriage 839 00:41:37,240 --> 00:41:42,440 may well be over and it's all OOPs fall if that's what happens oh no he's like she's 840 00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:48,040 totally trying to come up with anything to like get him off the hook yeah guys so who do we think 841 00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:54,520 now that we've heard all the stories who do we feel like is the worst person of 2024 let's vote 842 00:41:55,160 --> 00:42:03,160 mine which one well both of them okay well the the catfishing his girlfriend was pretty bad 843 00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:07,800 because he instantly hit her with like childhood trauma like you're traumatized little kid you 844 00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:15,640 don't even understand I think mine is the worst person of 2024 the wife literally protects him 845 00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:23,640 she also did never wanted kids and he convinced her to do it and now he wants to cheat on her 846 00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:30,360 and he's like feeling sorry for himself because he wants to do it so bad but if he does she'll leave 847 00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:39,160 him yeah it's like what he's the worst yeah he is horrible yeah you win you are marley but yeah 848 00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:45,720 marley's was really good too I think because I can see myself more I'm not that I can relate to this 849 00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:53,720 but because I am married and I am the girl I feel like more upset about the husband with yours I'm 850 00:42:53,720 --> 00:42:58,120 like my mom would never do that but you that mom is horrible right she's terrible love is more 851 00:42:58,120 --> 00:43:04,280 important than money true I'll give you I'll give it to you pregnant yeah she's just like that she's 852 00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:08,600 just a bullet she probably has no idea that he's thinking any of these things oh yeah she just 853 00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:15,960 hasn't caught him yet all the dating apps no oh worst person of 2024 yeah and he's so casually 854 00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:22,360 was just like yeah I'm like I'm even deleting like tinder like what did he say he was like yeah 855 00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:27,400 yeah we're not getting this close to cheating like she's so lucky that I'm deleting it but before I 856 00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:35,480 do some she's so ugly she took that bullet that was shaped like a rock for me but she's so ugly 857 00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:43,160 that was fun 2024 was a year full of chaos full of freaks we found the best one this week so 858 00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:51,720 let us know which one you think is the fake and the worst and the worst 2024 and the best reader of 859 00:43:51,720 --> 00:43:57,000 stories just kidding don't make them feel bad I don't you know I don't even need to hear that so 860 00:43:58,280 --> 00:44:04,760 just kidding guys well 2024 was fun thank you all for the support we're we're just gonna keep 861 00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:09,960 making the content it's been it's been how long it's been five months six months yeah just just 862 00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:15,160 plugging along we really appreciate all of you the podcast listeners the socials it's amazing 863 00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:20,840 you guys we are so grateful last thing because we forgot to do it in the beginning the fake of last 864 00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:30,680 week which was our ho ho hold my bear was drum roll please was why why are you pointing at me 865 00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:37,880 because it was Santa oh it was it was Preston you guys remember Preston oh climbing on the roof 866 00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:46,920 is Santa oh yes he was so glad yours was fake so weird he's so fake yeah it was it was fake 867 00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:52,120 Tanner knew right away shout out yeah he called you so fast on it that's all right he won't get us 868 00:44:52,120 --> 00:45:00,680 next time maybe all right love you guys happy new year see you next week see you on three one two three 869 00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:23,160 grinsies love you guys see you next week bye one click no pretending