1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,480 Welcome back to internet frenzy. What's up? 2 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:12,360 You don't want to know what happens when she chokes on stuff 3 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:23,600 Readers readers digest version at Texas Roadhouse for his birthday and 4 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:30,240 And luckily we're all done eating but she got a little something stuck in the throat and just she just made sure it all came out 5 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:35,440 It wasn't even all it wasn't even the meat. It was chicken fried steak and 6 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:40,600 It wasn't going down and I could breathe until I put the water in my mouth 7 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:45,320 So try and push it down and then that's when I couldn't breathe and so the water had to come up 8 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:48,700 Maybe there were some charm and through her nose 9 00:00:48,700 --> 00:00:56,540 I just I just like heard a mild noise and like looked out of my peripherals and like this one thing 10 00:00:56,540 --> 00:01:01,260 You don't know about me like without a nose. No, and it's okay because like obviously glad you're safe 11 00:01:01,260 --> 00:01:04,180 Glad you didn't choke and die, but like that happens 12 00:01:04,180 --> 00:01:10,620 But I I just saw like out of my peripheral and I was already way too full eating too much food at Texas Roadhouse 13 00:01:10,620 --> 00:01:12,620 But I like just saw the drip 14 00:01:12,620 --> 00:01:20,540 Like oh, that's like one of the things that I could not look at me. I watched the whole thing 15 00:01:21,140 --> 00:01:26,080 Did you see me like trying to swallow my water? Yeah, and I see you just like 16 00:01:27,420 --> 00:01:29,420 On the food 17 00:01:32,820 --> 00:01:35,880 I looked quick and I looked away cuz I was like oh shoot 18 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:42,320 Oh my apologies it ended my meal like 19 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:47,840 Like at the right time because they should have ended earlier by my own it should have ended on the appetizers 20 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:50,880 Texas Roadhouse man. Whoop those rolls. Do you dirty? 21 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:56,360 I don't I shouldn't even order a meal quick little recap last week feminine rage 22 00:01:56,760 --> 00:02:00,120 One of these weeks. Maybe we'll do a story or like we'll do a theme of 23 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:05,440 Guys being stupid, but I feel like it's woven into every masculinity 24 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:15,800 Perfect that's I like it who had the fake last week. I did it whoever makes this pop going in their mouth was the fake 25 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:20,240 Wasn't me 26 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:25,320 I made it on my mouth that first 27 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:27,840 Yeah 28 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:34,800 Edited yeah the story about the girl getting trying to win her boyfriend back. That was great. Yeah 29 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:38,160 She is spicy little fake character 30 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:40,920 Completely fake 31 00:02:40,920 --> 00:02:47,460 Created her you guys know I was honestly kind of fooled just cuz I thought I don't know I feel like I'm really bad at spotting 32 00:02:47,460 --> 00:02:50,920 The thing that's okay. There's a lot of people that are really though 33 00:02:50,920 --> 00:02:55,360 It's I think it's actually pretty difficult to do especially with some of the stuff that people post on a reddit 34 00:02:55,360 --> 00:03:01,120 It's crazy. I know right? I'm like any of these could be real cuz people are all whack. Yeah, so 35 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:04,080 Dude, I have some crazy stories in my life 36 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:08,720 Yeah, that I should honestly talk about on this podcast someday 37 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:13,320 Oh, I have a I have a Rolodex just waiting for the time we can open up a personal story 38 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:16,800 Yeah, we should that should be one of our episodes the next one personal 39 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:22,320 No, let's do it personal story and it better be like your craziest experience. You've ever had I don't know that 40 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:25,560 I really have one. You know what's a really crazy one. What? 41 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:29,120 Being like three months like married 42 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:33,560 More than that and pregnant 43 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:39,080 If you four months pregnant wait 44 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:48,680 We are almost five months almost five months and 45 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:51,000 Marley's pregnant 46 00:03:53,960 --> 00:04:01,000 Yep five weeks five days for YouTube viewers. It's a little it's just a little guy for you now 47 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:09,240 It's going to be a boy we already know I say it's convinced saying the comments if you think it's boy or girl 48 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:12,320 I think it's a boy. I honestly kind of think it's a boy. No, it's a girl 49 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:16,200 I'm speaking in the only person that thinks it's a girl 50 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:21,480 If I make this in my mouth right now with my eyes closed, it's a girl. Okay doing the popcorn thing 51 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:34,400 There you go ladies and gents I missed if anyone so yeah leave your 52 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:46,160 Your guesses in the comments and that leads us into the topic of this week 53 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:59,920 Because you guys you guys are gonna need this the topic is how not to be a parent 54 00:04:59,920 --> 00:05:05,720 We could try to tell you how to be a parent, but no one can it turns out it's pretty hard 55 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:12,400 So this is just what not to do. Yeah, I think that's a little easier. Yeah, let's just talk crap about people 56 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:14,080 That's way easier 57 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:16,080 Let's make a podcast about it. Yeah 58 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:24,560 And we're killing it am I the asshole for forcing my son to quit basketball because he didn't get a scholarship offer. Oh 59 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:27,840 Yeah, I 60 00:05:27,840 --> 00:05:32,640 38 male have a 17 year old son who has been playing basketball since he was a kid 61 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:37,040 He has always been really passionate about it and I've always supported him every step of the way 62 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:41,680 I spent thousands on private coaching camps and travel teams and I've always told him 63 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:44,840 He has potential to play at the next level if he works hard enough 64 00:05:44,840 --> 00:05:48,800 He's been working for a scholarship to a division one school for the last couple of years 65 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:51,840 And I've been pushing him to do whatever it takes to make that happen 66 00:05:51,840 --> 00:05:54,840 We've had some pretty intense conversations about his future 67 00:05:54,840 --> 00:05:59,840 And I've made it clear to him that basketball is his ticket to a good education and a better future 68 00:05:59,840 --> 00:06:04,920 His mom has been supportive, but she's a bit more lenient when it comes to how much pressure we put on it 69 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:11,840 This year was the big year. He had a great season and we were hoping for some scholarship offers or at least some solid interest from college scouts 70 00:06:11,840 --> 00:06:17,640 I kept reminding him that he that the more he put into the game the better his chances were but after all the tournament 71 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:23,480 Showcases and recruitments. He didn't even get a single scholarship offer not even a letter of interest 72 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:28,200 He was obviously disappointed and so was I but I tried to stay calm and happy at first 73 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:32,920 I told him we still had time and he could keep working hard and maybe get an offer before the end of the year 74 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:39,240 But deep down I was pissed and angry at him for not playing at his potential and angry at myself for not pushing him harder 75 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:44,320 And upset at the system for not recognizing his potential. Here's where I might have messed up though 76 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:49,080 I told him that if he wasn't going to get a scholarship, he should quit basketball entirely 77 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:53,600 I told him that if college wasn't in the future, there was no point in continuing with the sport 78 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:58,200 I said he had been wasting time money and effort on something that wasn't going to get him anywhere 79 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:04,000 I told him he should focus on his grades and think about a real future instead of chasing a dream that probably wouldn't work out 80 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:05,840 He was so sad and also pissed 81 00:07:05,840 --> 00:07:10,080 He didn't want to quit and he felt like he still had a chance if he kept working at it 82 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:14,200 But I told him that he wouldn't get anywhere without a scholarship and that basketball was over 83 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:18,040 I said we couldn't afford to keep throwing money at something that wasn't going to happen 84 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:21,360 He tried to argue with me saying he still loved the game and didn't want to give up 85 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:22,400 But I didn't listen 86 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:28,720 I told him that he could either be realistic about his future or continue to chase a dream that wasn't coming true 87 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:32,360 So later on he then quit the team and here we are now 88 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:37,960 So am I the household for forcing my son to quit basketball because he didn't get a scholarship offer? 89 00:07:37,960 --> 00:07:39,960 I am heeded 90 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:46,720 Maybe it's the coach's fault that he's not getting any offers like are we what is it called scouting like what? 91 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:50,600 Not scouting like basically like I had coaches growing up 92 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:56,040 They were like helping me get seen by like sending videos and like even like you got an email like 93 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:59,880 My parents or my mom helped me with that and my coaches 94 00:07:59,920 --> 00:08:07,800 The thing is though is that he was going to like camps where there was recruiters and things and like still wasn't getting anything 95 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:09,800 But here's here's my thought too 96 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:17,800 If you are pushing for D1 school and there they were expecting D1 schools to be looking at him and interested 97 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:23,560 I'm sorry, but if you're thinking that D1 schools are gonna be interested in you and no one's reaching out 98 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:28,040 You're obviously out of caliber where you feel like you are good enough for D1 99 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:32,240 That's what I'm trying to say which means D2 schools D3 100 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:37,360 Community colleges they should absolutely be reaching out to you. So the fact that he's not getting anything 101 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:42,880 That's weird. Why Joe? I know why and it's actually dad's fault 102 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:48,400 It's because he's five foot five and he got bad genetics from his dad 103 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:56,000 Is this you or we're talking about or oh, yeah, yeah, this is me. Yeah, except for I haven't quit basketball 104 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:59,000 I can still go to the church and play my dad didn't say hey 105 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:04,080 You can't play anymore. You have to give to take your ball and go home and pop it 106 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:10,080 Yeah, it's yeah that guy's a douchebag for that and I've I have questions. I have many questions 107 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:25,080 Well, I would like to say is honestly like 108 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:30,480 Did the kid really think but honestly like that's kind of right like if you don't have a scholarship 109 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:32,480 Then like what is there to do 110 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:37,960 With basketball after like I am are you are you like being sad about you? No 111 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:44,280 No, I know I know but like you're like still pursuing 112 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:52,560 Golf like after high school, you know, I mean, yeah, but like I don't get how basketball work like that's easy 113 00:09:52,560 --> 00:09:54,560 I feel like that's like okay 114 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:57,600 But also he's 17 115 00:09:57,600 --> 00:10:04,400 Yeah, he's a junior like what was no it's it's a senior but like but he could walk on and get a scholarship 116 00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:09,600 Well, not even that's like the season doesn't seem like it's over. He's like you need to quit the team 117 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:16,400 Unless the only thing I could think of is he might be playing club ball. Yeah, dad. Yeah of high school 118 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:18,400 Well, or both it's not the same time 119 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:23,960 No, but sometimes kids will just play club ball and not because that you can get more recognition 120 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:27,320 Mission especially if you're any good. Yeah, that's what they do now 121 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:32,640 They just play a you and now you can like as soon as you're of age you can just enter the league 122 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:36,960 But he obviously was good enough to where they were reaching for a D1 123 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:42,120 You're not you're not gonna be a super crappy player and think you're getting a D1 scholarship 124 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:43,840 You're just not well not super crappy 125 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:51,640 But like you you could very much miss like you could miss important elements of being a D1 athlete and like 126 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:57,960 Yeah, dad wasn't a wasn't a college athlete. He doesn't freaking know like just trying hard and just spending money on it 127 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:02,840 Doesn't mean you're gonna be a D1 athlete. I'm so heated right now. You look so heated. I mean 128 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:05,280 furious 129 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:10,800 There's that feminine rage coming out. He probably did does have offers to smaller schools 130 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:13,240 But they said that 131 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:22,640 Well, yeah, no, he said that they want D1 schools. Oh, they're not even looking at like they want division one for your college 132 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:27,560 Like big like they want a big school. Hey, this is a message to all parents 133 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:32,800 Don't be an idiot if you can get your school paid for it doesn't have to be D1 134 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:36,640 D2 D3 and a I a all great kids kids 135 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:41,060 Like me as an athlete with all my friends everyone wanted D1 136 00:11:41,060 --> 00:11:45,680 But it's like take what you can get if you are wanted at that school that is the place you should go 137 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:47,720 Go where you are wanted 138 00:11:48,080 --> 00:11:55,400 If if you want if you want to play your sport you can walk on you could walk on to the Juco and get better 139 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:59,000 Because guess what when you're 17 your body's not even fully developed 140 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:00,760 What if he's 115 pounds? 141 00:12:00,760 --> 00:12:04,600 Like you need to you need to have a little more meat on your bones if you were gonna play D1 142 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:08,520 Nobody's gonna look at you if you're a toothpick like that's there's just things 143 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:11,540 So well, yeah, unless you're seven foot six 144 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:15,360 And you have handles like a guard 145 00:12:16,560 --> 00:12:18,560 Dad's a dewy dad doesn't know 146 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:22,600 Yes, yeah 147 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:29,120 You don't make your kid quit like you should just be proud of them that they worked this hard and you obviously the kid pushed like 148 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:32,360 The dad never was like I had to push him to work 149 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:34,760 He didn't want you ever and blah blah blah 150 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:41,040 Well, it's probably such a slap in the face of the kid like when it like all these years his dad has been like so 151 00:12:41,040 --> 00:12:45,920 Gung-ho about it has been like wanting to do everything that he can to like support his kid and then 152 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:49,240 Soon as he doesn't get a scholarship. It's like, okay. Bye 153 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:56,840 Like that sucks. So this is from Emma the asshole for telling my wife that it was bad parenting for her to take a pregnancy test 154 00:12:56,840 --> 00:12:58,840 With our daughter in the bathroom with her 155 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:03,480 Yes 156 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:08,560 No, this listen my wife had already taken one test and gotten a faint positive 157 00:13:08,560 --> 00:13:12,600 She was fairly sure she was pregnant because of that and the symptoms she had been experiencing 158 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:16,680 So when she tested a few days later, she asked our daughter if she wanted to do it with her 159 00:13:16,680 --> 00:13:18,680 Our daughter did so they took the test together 160 00:13:18,680 --> 00:13:24,720 I found out later when the test confirmed my wife was pregnant and she told me I let my wife know that I thought it was bad 161 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:30,120 Pantene our daughter 10 is still too young and to be exposed to things like that and certainly up close 162 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:36,040 There's no reason or justification for it. I have never heard of a mother doing a pregnancy test together with her daughter 163 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:41,880 And even if it was a thing it would be so wrong in my view. She also should have asked me before 164 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:46,080 She did something like this. I don't think this decision should have been made 165 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:51,280 Unilaterally all of this makes it a really poor decision in my opinion. My wife doesn't agree 166 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:55,520 She felt it was a bonding experience and an opportunity for her and our daughter to talk 167 00:13:55,520 --> 00:14:00,280 To talk more about their bodies and educate her more on pregnancy in the reproductive 168 00:14:00,680 --> 00:14:05,360 System she thinks I owe her an apology for saying that she acted like a bad parent in that situation 169 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:10,720 I disagree not sure if either of us are being the asshole. Oh, and then he has edit 170 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:16,400 I can't read all these comments and I'm not going to try most aren't even worth responding to since they're downright nasty and rude 171 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:21,360 What do you think? Well, I'm kind of curious here the calm aspect. Let's read. Let's go back to that in a second 172 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:26,320 Um, first thing is I'm me and my guy are on the same page here. We're both just like, huh? 173 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:28,040 What? 174 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:33,160 Ridiculous. It's the weirdest thing like I and I found myself even teetering because I'm like, yeah, okay 175 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:39,880 He's obviously like mad about it. He's like he's like that was foul. That was a wrong thing to do 176 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:43,840 In my mind where I went was just like it's weird 177 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:47,560 Like I don't understand why the 10 year old has to be in the bathroom 178 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:51,680 I mean, that's that's like not really like a birds-in-the-bees type of situation 179 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:56,640 You're not like and when a mommy and a daddy love each other really much. It's positive 180 00:14:57,200 --> 00:15:01,080 Like piffing the cup and you it doesn't it's like sticking there 181 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:05,160 Yeah, I don't understand the mom being like like hey ten-year-old 182 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:07,800 Do you want to come in here while I find out if I'm pregnant? 183 00:15:07,920 --> 00:15:10,400 There's just there's questions all over at first 184 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:14,280 I was picturing like a 45 year old mom and like a teenage daughter 185 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:20,040 Like that's like where my mind went and I was just like no weird. I don't okay 186 00:15:20,040 --> 00:15:25,520 I'm gonna I'm gonna make my piece and that's I don't think I wouldn't be mad, but I would think it was weird 187 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:29,080 I just don't I don't see a need for that. It's not like a 188 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:35,160 It's not like a if you do that with our daughter. I'm gonna be pissed. It's just I don't understand 189 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:37,520 Why she would need to be in there. That's where I stand 190 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:41,640 I think what kind of got me like oh like this is a good thing is like when he was like 191 00:15:41,640 --> 00:15:47,800 She felt that this was a bonding experience and an opportunity for her and our daughter to talk more about their bodies and educate her more 192 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:51,000 On pregnancy and the reproductive system. She's an FN 193 00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:57,800 No, but it's not that crazy like kids are learning more like sooner about 194 00:15:59,280 --> 00:16:04,600 All of these things they're learning more about their bodies like girls are having periods earlier, which is sad 195 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:10,580 You know and it's like I don't think it's super crazy for her mom to like want to educate her on those things or like 196 00:16:10,580 --> 00:16:12,580 know like what 197 00:16:13,220 --> 00:16:17,860 Things are and like what they're called like I think that's really important because if you don't 198 00:16:18,620 --> 00:16:23,320 If you don't know then I think it's just like I think it's not crazy 199 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:27,260 I think it's a really special moment and I totally would do that with my daughter 200 00:16:27,260 --> 00:16:31,820 Like I actually think it's such a bonding experience. I think it's so special and 201 00:16:32,420 --> 00:16:36,860 Like men will never understand. Sorry boys, but yeah, you won't 202 00:16:36,860 --> 00:16:42,660 You won't have so much as mama's hair. Yeah, we're just the inferior 203 00:16:42,860 --> 00:16:46,140 Yes, one's yes, right exactly 204 00:16:46,780 --> 00:16:50,740 No, but like a good learning experience. I think it's beautiful 205 00:16:50,740 --> 00:16:55,860 I would love to have I love be like I love look like if it's positive and then kind of show her all the things 206 00:16:56,100 --> 00:17:00,180 I'm not gonna have her watch me pee, but like yeah, I'm like, I don't think she needs to see me pee 207 00:17:00,180 --> 00:17:05,660 And I doubt the mom did that it but that's what probably happen come into the bathroom with me while I 208 00:17:05,660 --> 00:17:13,140 What you do is you pee on this stick and then this line pops up and that's what tells you if you're pregnant and the kids like 209 00:17:13,660 --> 00:17:16,340 Okay, you're just peeing on a stick 210 00:17:16,340 --> 00:17:23,220 But there was obviously more to that conversation than just that if her the mom was like explaining the reproductive system and like how all works 211 00:17:24,140 --> 00:17:28,980 But that's what I mean is I'm sure she wasn't like yeah, here's how the reproductive system works 212 00:17:28,980 --> 00:17:33,620 It's more of like a this is how you find out if you're pregnant when that time comes like I 213 00:17:33,620 --> 00:17:35,420 I 214 00:17:35,420 --> 00:17:40,940 Honestly think she's a great parent. I think it's a beautiful moment and I'm in support of it 215 00:17:40,940 --> 00:17:44,980 So what do you think about the guy the dad being upset about it? You think the dad's just a 216 00:17:45,540 --> 00:17:49,500 Dumb just a bad guy. No, he's just a guy. He doesn't understand 217 00:17:49,580 --> 00:17:54,220 There's something so special about being pregnant and carrying your own child and like 218 00:17:55,220 --> 00:17:58,660 Being your my daughter will one day experience that as well 219 00:17:58,660 --> 00:18:04,860 And like I just think it's a really cool moment to like show her and teach her and like include her in those things 220 00:18:04,860 --> 00:18:09,700 I don't know. I think it's special. This is the best is a perfect example of like yeah 221 00:18:09,700 --> 00:18:15,660 Just how different men and women think because when we think that you took your ten-year-old into the bathroom 222 00:18:15,660 --> 00:18:21,340 And you took a pregnancy test together like we're not thinking that the ten-year-old took the pregnancy test to it's just like 223 00:18:21,500 --> 00:18:24,220 Why does she have to be in there at the same time? 224 00:18:24,220 --> 00:18:30,540 Like why does she have to be in there while you're all you're doing is peeing you're peeing on a stick and it's amazing, right? 225 00:18:30,540 --> 00:18:33,860 Like it's very cool that like the HCG and your pee 226 00:18:34,540 --> 00:18:37,680 Makes like changes it on a test like I seriously like I think that's cool 227 00:18:37,760 --> 00:18:44,980 But I just don't understand why she had to be in the bathroom while you peed. Yeah, I think it's just I think she's just weird 228 00:18:45,540 --> 00:18:49,720 Like that's hella weird like would it be weird if like really weird 229 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:55,200 Look imagine if I bring Isaiah junior into the bathroom while I piss hey come hold my dong 230 00:18:57,120 --> 00:18:59,120 My piss 231 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:07,200 No, that is so weird she's weird there's weird human being 232 00:19:08,440 --> 00:19:12,880 That is weird when you you don't pee in front of a child 233 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:22,180 I don't give it to your kid. You don't sit down and just be like see that see that cross 234 00:19:22,180 --> 00:19:28,840 That's positive as shit. There you go. I thought your dad. I told him that we were pregnant. What do you think? 235 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:31,760 Do you see a line? 236 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:38,200 Especially at being a daughter because one day she's gonna experience it as well 237 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:44,840 Oh, hopefully yeah, is there any discussion to be had about 10 not being the right age? 238 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:50,520 What is the right age? Never just have the conversation outside of the bathroom have the real 239 00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:57,240 Conversation about what it's like if you're mom. Let's just if you're mom right now 240 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:01,680 Okay, and she was younger. Let's say she was in there. It was like I think I'm pregnant 241 00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:08,320 Like come in the bathroom watch me pee and let's see if I let's see if I'm like hold on sorry 242 00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:12,280 Like are you gonna go watch your mom pee? I've seen my mom pee, but are 243 00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:18,680 The women are women are built different. I've seen every inch of all of my sisters and my mom 244 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:25,580 So I see no problem. It's but just think about girls all go into the bathroom together. They do that 245 00:20:25,580 --> 00:20:29,080 Oh, yeah, we grew up doing that. That's like stall 246 00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:35,120 Uh, yes, you don't even want to know the things that us girls do in the stall. Yeah, y'all weird 247 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:39,160 Yeah, like weird. I don't know. I just see I yeah 248 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:43,360 I just I think it's just the difference between men and women and you guys can think it's weird 249 00:20:43,360 --> 00:20:48,360 But we can think that it's not so weird. I think I'd be upset. Well, everybody thinks it's an asshole 250 00:20:48,360 --> 00:20:51,120 So like you don't need to show our daughter 251 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:55,120 You don't need to show our daughter you pissing 252 00:20:55,120 --> 00:21:01,200 Even if it is to like see if you're pregnant or not, they don't need to watch you pee shut the door 253 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:07,320 When you are doing that what you're supposed to do, which I'm figured this is what she did is you're supposed to pee in like a 254 00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:09,600 Clean like cup or things like that first 255 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:15,960 So it's not like she's just paying on a stick her legs are like she's you have to be very 256 00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:18,520 like 257 00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:26,360 Positioned correctly to get it in the cup. Okay, and then that's a fact by the way because since potty training 258 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:30,240 I'm like, hey, you got to get in here and teach this girl how to aim this thing 259 00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:34,560 Like it just goes wherever it wants like there's no way to 260 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,120 Like you can't use your hand to move it 261 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:40,760 anyway 262 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:46,880 So she's like so it's not like she's overly exposed to her 10 year old daughter 263 00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:51,080 That's not but I still think she's hanging in a cup and then you take it out 264 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:57,580 Then you get the stick and then you put in them. So you literally you're just in there doing doing the lab experiment like 265 00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:02,720 Yeah, I don't know I'm with you. I it feels it feels a little weird 266 00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:06,240 It's a little weird. I'm not mad about it. It's just weird 267 00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:10,000 It she said I probably would do it with Ila 268 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:13,000 I'm sure you good and I would just hear about it and be like cool 269 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:16,680 You guys you guys have your bond and I'm just the dad. I'm 270 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:21,200 So glad that she was in there for that. Let me know if I'm needed for anything 271 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,000 Nope, you did your job 272 00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:28,000 Then I'll just steer clear you're relieved of your duty 273 00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:33,720 There's this one comment that says you do realize your daughter could start her period any day now or any time in the next two years 274 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:37,880 And all your wife did was pee on a stick and talk about hormones and fertility cycles 275 00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:43,640 I'm Betty you're the asshole 10 is not too young my oldest started sex ed and puberty talks at 10 in school 276 00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:50,280 Yeah, I remember that like fifth grade. We literally had the sex talk. Okay, so one part of this way different 277 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:59,520 Okay, I have I have a thing this is important girls have to figure out how to do like tampons and stuff when a 10 year old or 11 12 year old 278 00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:05,440 Yeah, this is revelatory. This is why we don't understand your guys is weirdness 279 00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:12,400 Is because that think about they have to go into much more like anatomy stuff than we ever do like for us 280 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:17,560 It's when we're little kids like your balls drop just aiming and get it in the toilet and wipe the sea if you miss 281 00:23:18,120 --> 00:23:20,120 That's the only that's the only 282 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:24,800 Okay, so that just occurred to me because I'm a dude of dudes so like 283 00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:30,900 The whole period thing that changes the whole game and now all of a sudden it's a little bit less weird 284 00:23:30,900 --> 00:23:36,700 Thanks to the comment. Yeah, but it's not like she's showing her like that you think she's showing her her period 285 00:23:36,700 --> 00:23:38,980 Like this is what it looks like when I period now 286 00:23:38,980 --> 00:23:43,900 You are taking this like so like you're acting like this mom is just a nasty now 287 00:23:43,900 --> 00:23:47,300 I think she's just I think it's just really weird. It's but think about it 288 00:23:47,300 --> 00:23:52,220 What do you think the Congress just don't answer this but think what do you think the conversation is like when a mom has to 289 00:23:52,220 --> 00:23:57,460 Teach a daughter how to use a tampon that's way different than like here come watch me piss 290 00:23:57,460 --> 00:24:01,140 That's the thing is it's actually not that different if you think about it 291 00:24:01,140 --> 00:24:06,500 It's just like it's not the mom is not her intention was not to show her daughter how she pees 292 00:24:06,500 --> 00:24:11,260 So why didn't the mom just go pee put in the cup and then say we don't know that that's not what she did 293 00:24:11,260 --> 00:24:13,460 We don't know that that's not what she did that guy 294 00:24:14,500 --> 00:24:17,900 But he wouldn't be that upset then if that was the case 295 00:24:19,180 --> 00:24:25,580 He's thinking of it the way that we were thinking of it like not thinking that girls are freaking different and weird 296 00:24:25,580 --> 00:24:32,140 Maybe he's jealous of their bond and that he's projecting. No, that's crazy. I've never heard that before 297 00:24:32,380 --> 00:24:35,260 This one comes from a new subreddit to the pod 298 00:24:35,500 --> 00:24:41,100 I'm actually excited because I found this and I read so many crazy freaking stories from it 299 00:24:41,100 --> 00:24:49,100 But for the sake of this the subreddit is called am I overreacting am I overreacting for not getting over my wife threatening our children's lives 300 00:24:49,100 --> 00:24:52,740 This happened about nine months ago, and I'm still struggling to move past it 301 00:24:52,740 --> 00:24:57,700 My wife has a temper when she gets angry she tends to scream yell and say deeply hurtful things 302 00:24:57,940 --> 00:24:59,860 These outbursts don't happen all the time 303 00:24:59,860 --> 00:25:05,180 But when they do she often ends up not speaking to friends or family for months due to the fallout during this particular 304 00:25:05,420 --> 00:25:10,700 Incident she was going through intense withdrawals from heavy marijuana use. She's experienced this a few times before 305 00:25:10,740 --> 00:25:14,900 It's quite severe with vomiting sweating and more at this time 306 00:25:14,900 --> 00:25:19,740 She's extremely difficult to be around angry about everything and trying to control everyone around her 307 00:25:19,740 --> 00:25:25,700 We were discussing her situation and it quickly escalated. She mentioned feeling suicidal and unable to keep living 308 00:25:25,700 --> 00:25:31,220 Then she said this sentence that changed everything for me, and this is in quotations. Don't worry if I kill myself 309 00:25:31,220 --> 00:25:34,220 I'm taking the kids with me, then you will be all alone 310 00:25:35,020 --> 00:25:40,020 She said this with a sinister sneer and was very lucid at that moment. I disassociated 311 00:25:40,020 --> 00:25:43,620 I tried to get her to stop yelling but couldn't I don't remember much of the rest of the day 312 00:25:43,620 --> 00:25:51,060 I've previously confided in her that my biggest fear growing up was my psychotic stepdad losing it and killing my entire family 313 00:25:51,060 --> 00:25:52,580 So this hit me especially hard 314 00:25:52,580 --> 00:25:57,340 I'm terrified of not protecting my kids from abuse like my mom couldn't protect me nine months later 315 00:25:57,340 --> 00:26:02,860 If I try to bring up what she said she explodes and calls me a liar. She adamantly claims she never felt that way 316 00:26:02,860 --> 00:26:05,900 I'm not sure if she was just trying to hurt me or what I understand 317 00:26:05,900 --> 00:26:10,180 She was in a bad place when she said it but now I worry she won't tell me if she feels that way again 318 00:26:10,180 --> 00:26:14,940 There have been other troubling conversations. She's convinced that if an apocalypse happens 319 00:26:14,940 --> 00:26:18,340 She'll kill herself and the kids. This was a huge wake-up call for me 320 00:26:18,340 --> 00:26:21,820 I started going to therapy and convinced her to go to marriage counseling 321 00:26:21,820 --> 00:26:26,020 We've gone through two counselors since then she blew up at both and refused to go back 322 00:26:26,020 --> 00:26:30,460 I didn't bring up the specific threat and counseling because she made a huge deal about me not mentioning it 323 00:26:30,460 --> 00:26:34,940 Our sessions were generally miserable as we couldn't agree on basic facts of our daily life either 324 00:26:34,940 --> 00:26:40,980 She's manipulative can't remember things said when she's angry or I'm an unreliable narrator of my own life 325 00:26:40,980 --> 00:26:44,500 Since then I've seen a lot of self-improvement. My anxiety is much lower 326 00:26:44,500 --> 00:26:49,040 I'm better at standing up for myself and my children and I'm getting out more to see friends something 327 00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:55,340 I was too nervous to do before my wife has improved to her explosions happen less often the threats are less severe and she's been 328 00:26:55,340 --> 00:26:58,660 On better behavior. I've made it clear that I'm unsure if we can make things work 329 00:26:58,980 --> 00:27:01,500 My wife wants me to forgive forget and move on 330 00:27:01,500 --> 00:27:06,380 She has a point the only thing stopping us from getting along now is my hesitation to fully commit 331 00:27:06,380 --> 00:27:10,260 But I'm scared she broke my trust and getting close again risks more hurt 332 00:27:10,300 --> 00:27:14,340 This wasn't the only incident just the one that opened my eyes if it weren't for the kids 333 00:27:14,340 --> 00:27:19,140 I would have left long ago, but I don't want to see them less. I think I trust her with them 334 00:27:19,140 --> 00:27:23,460 She's a good mom despite her anger issues. The last thing I want is a court battle 335 00:27:23,460 --> 00:27:31,820 My dad lost custody of me in one of those. I feel pretty stuck. Am I overreacting? No, no, no, no, no 336 00:27:31,820 --> 00:27:38,020 She on met like he you cannot be he said I'm sorry. That's bad parenting like that 337 00:27:38,460 --> 00:27:39,620 his 338 00:27:39,620 --> 00:27:45,700 Those children are unsafe with her around. She needs to be on medication. She needs to be in therapy 339 00:27:45,700 --> 00:27:47,700 She needs to get like evaluated 340 00:27:48,100 --> 00:27:51,020 No one is saying something like that unless they mean it 341 00:27:51,020 --> 00:27:54,340 More than once and he needs to tell someone 342 00:27:54,860 --> 00:28:00,260 The fact that she said I'll go but you can't talk about that to a therapist 343 00:28:00,260 --> 00:28:05,340 That's yeah, she you know that's been on the back of her mind today. Yeah, that's not okay 344 00:28:05,340 --> 00:28:08,860 I felt sick reading like listening to that honestly 345 00:28:08,940 --> 00:28:13,940 It's like that one story of the lady that like took each kid to the bathroom and like kill them all 346 00:28:14,740 --> 00:28:18,820 Remember that or the mom that drove her kids into the lake. Yeah, like 347 00:28:18,820 --> 00:28:22,380 Stuff like that's what that reminded me of that's creepy 348 00:28:22,420 --> 00:28:26,580 Well, that's funny that he says that that he's hung up on like these comments 349 00:28:26,580 --> 00:28:29,660 But then he's like but I trust her with them and she's a good mom 350 00:28:29,660 --> 00:28:35,380 I'm like you obviously do not trust her with them if you're still really hung up on this comment 351 00:28:35,380 --> 00:28:39,020 And you think that like oh like maybe she would do that. So I don't know 352 00:28:39,020 --> 00:28:44,980 I think he's but obviously you want to see the best in like your spouse and I think he's just scared to leave her 353 00:28:44,980 --> 00:28:51,740 Oh, yeah, he has no backbone. He's like I'm starting to get a backbone. No, it's like what it what like is she the breadwinner? 354 00:28:51,740 --> 00:28:56,140 Like what is it that you're like afraid to leave? Well, I don't want to see the kids in a left 355 00:28:56,140 --> 00:29:01,060 It doesn't have to have anything to do with money. It can literally just be like personality type 356 00:29:01,060 --> 00:29:06,660 She's obviously a much more dominant like headstrong personality and that's like opposite to track 357 00:29:06,660 --> 00:29:12,660 That's probably why they got together to begin with he absolutely your eyes. I say you're right 358 00:29:12,660 --> 00:29:19,380 He needs to tell someone because and by someone a professional. I mean dog told the whole internet. So 359 00:29:19,860 --> 00:29:25,700 Anonymously doesn't count. I also think he needs to if he did divorce her though 360 00:29:25,700 --> 00:29:32,660 The problem is is that she's gonna have the kids alone and she would for 50% of the time and she'd say if you leave me 361 00:29:32,660 --> 00:29:36,540 I'm gonna blah blah like that sucks. Yeah, so what is he actually supposed to do? 362 00:29:36,540 --> 00:29:42,360 He's got to tell a professional like so we're saying that's the best option is he needs to to take her to 363 00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:44,360 inpatient like 364 00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:51,600 Mental hospital she would spy on you imagine. Yeah, she'd lose her shit. She'd have to go in there and handcuffs like perfect 365 00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:58,280 Yeah, I just think you would have to tell a cops that like this is what she said because then they have to like investigate 366 00:29:58,280 --> 00:29:59,480 That's the problem though 367 00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:04,120 You have to do it at the time because in nine months after the fact is not the time to be like hey 368 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:08,800 Police officers my wife said this a long time ago and she was depressed and in a fit of rage 369 00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:13,880 And I can't get over it and we still fight and she wears the pants in our relationship 370 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:18,680 So yeah, she's doing a little better now. You should have weed just try to fire her up one more time 371 00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:21,160 Yeah, see that's manipulative 372 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:25,400 Get her fired up one more time and then have the cops on speed dial. Yeah 373 00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:32,440 It's really sad like here's the thing but if you're that stressed do it 374 00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:36,840 Do it takes it's crazy because not being in the situation 375 00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:40,400 It's easy for us to be like oh dude like you should have done this 376 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:43,920 But if you really try to put yourself in his shoes, yeah, that sucks 377 00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:49,520 That's a hard freakin situation to be in where like obviously he's built a life with this woman 378 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:53,320 He loves her and like he wants to see her be at her best like you 379 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:57,920 When she said that horrible thing she was at her very worst with her mental health, so 380 00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:04,080 That's obviously no excuse and I think the right thing would have been for him to consult authorities 381 00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:10,520 Immediately because you can't risk it. You can't risk your kids life. It's like that's too important and we I mean 382 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:14,560 We all watch 2020 we see the dark stuff that happens in the world that sucks 383 00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:20,960 I just I feel so bad for this dude and I really I think he needs to get out of this relationship, but 384 00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:27,320 But he can't right. No, it's like it. I think that the move is at this point nine months in 385 00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:33,560 Right now. I think the move is is to leave and to try to do it as healthily as possible 386 00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:39,600 That's what I think right now. There's I think nine months or not. He still needs to tell authorities better 387 00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:46,640 Now than ever, but yeah again, it's like if you tell the authorities all it's gonna do is make rage monster lady mad because 388 00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:53,480 They're not gonna do anything. What are they gonna do about something that happened nine months ago that there's no proof of he needs to look at her 389 00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:59,840 Google search history there could be some crazy stuff in there or she she covers her tracks 390 00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:05,720 Well, and she's she's planning the end of everything and no one's gonna know probably doesn't though cover her tracks 391 00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:07,720 If she wears the pants in the relationship 392 00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:12,000 She's like I can walk all over and he's never gonna look at anything 393 00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:18,320 Yeah, she'll just steamroll him if you're gonna want to try yeah, so he's got to like figure a way to like make her sleep a little longer 394 00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:21,000 Dude, she oh drug her good good idea 395 00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:27,000 Hi, babe 396 00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:33,360 Listen Michael I really feel bad for this dude. This is my favorite comment. This woman is insanely abusive 397 00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:39,440 You need to bring up the repeated threats in therapy the fact that she doesn't want you mentioning it means she knows exactly what she said and she 398 00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:44,360 Refuses to take accountability for it. She's trying to make you feel responsible for protecting her reputation 399 00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:48,920 When she's making horrific threats specifically to hurt you knowing your trauma 400 00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:52,280 I hope you get out of this situation soon. You deserve better 401 00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:59,960 Side note. I smoked marijuana heavily daily for 20 years and have been on and off of it several times in the past four years 402 00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:05,680 Withdrawal does not make you abusive. She chooses to be like this. I'm so sorry for what you're going through 403 00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:08,120 I wouldn't wish this level of abuse on anyone 404 00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:14,920 She thought that was an important little that's really good. That's a good comment. Yeah, she's just sucks. She's the worst 405 00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:18,280 I like really him. He needs to get out 406 00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:26,360 Yes, it just sucks because she could get 50% and then what think about how the world is effed 407 00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:30,360 Like not to be a doomsday or but like what is the actual right answer? 408 00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:37,160 Because if he just leaves her then like you said the judicial system is gonna make it so that she has those kids 50% of the 409 00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:38,280 Time in a weird way 410 00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:43,120 He has to stay to try to protect his kids because he's in such a bad situation otherwise 411 00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:46,800 Yeah, he's really those right now because then there would be her alone 412 00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:50,480 And she could just do anything because he's not gonna get full custody 413 00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:54,800 He's literally his life is gonna be trying to make her happy 414 00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:59,120 So she doesn't kill herself and the kids that is a horrible life to live 415 00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:01,840 That's but do again. What what can you even do? 416 00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:07,600 Am I the asshole for making my daughter take a break from going to her best friend's house because the mom purposely 417 00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:11,920 Bought her a smaller size dress about two weeks ago 418 00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:17,120 My 14-year-old daughter Bonnie was out shopping with her best friend Gigi and Gigi's mom Lauren while they were out 419 00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:22,920 Lauren bought them both dresses. She thought were cute except she bought Bonnie a size three Bonnie said she picked out one 420 00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:27,080 That was her size but Lauren put it back and said that the size three one would be her 421 00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:32,360 Aspirational dress to work towards fitting into when she came home. She gave it to me and was upset 422 00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:38,480 But also didn't want to say anything bad about Gigi's mom which I get first off Bonnie is a healthy girl 423 00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:45,520 Gymnastics until she was about 11 and grew several inches dance in the fall and track in the spring all her choices 424 00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:47,560 She's got an athletic build 425 00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:51,640 Gigi is a small girl barely five feet and so I thought at first she got them mixed up 426 00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:56,600 She told me that Gigi's mom got it for her to aspire to try to get into by working hard 427 00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:59,320 I said I take care of it and get her the right size the next day 428 00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:01,520 I called Gigi's mom Lauren and asked her why she would do that 429 00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:07,400 She explained that she thought it would give Bonnie something to work towards because she heard Bonnie saying she didn't get asked out last year 430 00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:10,920 But Gigi had several boys after her and then it seemed like it upset her 431 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:13,840 I told her it was inappropriate and asked her why she would tell a kid 432 00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:16,000 She needed to lose weight in order to get attention from boys 433 00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:21,800 She got defensive and said that it was obviously embarrassing for Bonnie to not have boys into her when all her friends do 434 00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:27,160 She basically said I'm holding Bonnie back from growing up like I won't help her with boys won't drop hundreds at Sephora 435 00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,160 They'll dress her like a kid and buy 436 00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:35,600 B&BW sprays instead of fancy perfumes said it's messing with Bonnie socially and that she's the only one in her friend group 437 00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:40,760 Who hasn't had a boyfriend then she got personal and said just because I've given up and stopped trying 438 00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:46,560 Doesn't mean I have to turn Bonnie into a nun for the record that is partially true 439 00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:49,640 But it's also because Bonnie doesn't want that stuff 440 00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:53,600 I have offered to get her more instead of fill skincare and she doesn't want it 441 00:35:53,600 --> 00:36:00,960 She got straight A's last year and I took her to Ulta for a spree and all she wanted was some lip gloss and then asked for the body spray instead 442 00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:03,640 I said that it's time for a break the girls can still hang out 443 00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:08,720 But I don't want Bonnie at Gigi's house Bonnie got upset over it and I can deal with that Gigi's mom 444 00:36:08,720 --> 00:36:16,520 However has gotten nuclear over it spreading poison everywhere she can about me being psycho and doubling down on Hall it's all because I don't want my 445 00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:20,000 Daughter to be happy with a boyfriend when I'm single and no man would touch me 446 00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:24,240 Which is just childish and I've been shocked to see how other people have reacted to this 447 00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:29,100 So now I'm questioning my own parenting which I never do am I the asshole? 448 00:36:29,100 --> 00:36:35,940 Oh my gosh, yeah, Lauren is a bad mom. That's how you don't be a parent 449 00:36:36,300 --> 00:36:41,940 Got it noted don't buy a dress. That's too small for a girl is a nice gesture like 450 00:36:44,540 --> 00:36:50,580 Try a little harder in your own kid either. No, it's like it'd be yeah, there's no good way 451 00:36:50,580 --> 00:36:58,340 If you want not mine don't fat shame don't fat shame any kid, but definitely okay unless it's really bad 452 00:36:58,340 --> 00:37:01,100 Then I'm not gonna shame them, but like I definitely am gonna like 453 00:37:02,140 --> 00:37:06,500 Make them work out. This is like do five ten push ups 454 00:37:06,780 --> 00:37:12,580 Dude just wait bro. You're you're gonna put on some dad weight in no time and like I know but my kids 455 00:37:16,740 --> 00:37:19,140 Listen bro, all right, how about you just 456 00:37:19,140 --> 00:37:25,580 Actions speak louder than words. There's more to life. Here's the thing get them interested in sports and then it all takes care of itself 457 00:37:25,580 --> 00:37:28,900 Yeah, exactly. Yeah, but then again, it's like what if they are a little bit thicker? 458 00:37:28,900 --> 00:37:34,500 What if your son's alignment? It's fine. Oh, they're perfect be alignment, but it's like I want them to be healthy 459 00:37:35,100 --> 00:37:37,100 Yeah, but 460 00:37:37,100 --> 00:37:41,660 Lawrence a hoe good episode guys. I'm loving it how not to be a parent 461 00:37:42,500 --> 00:37:44,500 Like people are gonna get heated 462 00:37:44,500 --> 00:37:50,620 About what just like listening to other stories. Oh, we had to say that was a fun episode 463 00:37:50,980 --> 00:37:55,940 Thanks for listening. Give us a rate on your favorite podcasting app watch us on YouTube 464 00:37:56,620 --> 00:37:58,780 Drop a comment on socials. We love you 465 00:37:59,620 --> 00:38:01,620 Love you 466 00:38:01,620 --> 00:38:15,260 Francis on 3123 please don't say